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Speaker 1: No way in hell did I ever think that they

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Speaker 2: It is wild.

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Speaker 1: All right, Your second Day Update update is happening right now.

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Speaker 1: It is brand new. We are going to play you

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Speaker 1: the original second date so you know what's up, and

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Speaker 1: when we get them back on the phone to see

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Speaker 1: what's happened since yes, all right, comments, Yeah, queen A

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Speaker 1: Leah said, listening to y'all while waiting for a coolon OSCOVI.

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Speaker 1: But y'all are making me feel better. My girlfriend told

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Speaker 1: me it's the best cleanse of your life. Oh wow,

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Speaker 3: Ye wait.

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Speaker 1: For you, there's a positive spin for you. Always get

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Speaker 4: Now.

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Speaker 2: We've all heard the phrase size matters.

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Speaker 1: Like you guys have heard it more than us.

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Speaker 2: Brooks got it as a bumper sticker on her keep.

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Speaker 1: But about the size of the car job, Oh, sure, but.

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Speaker 5: What about duration matters? That should count for something.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna do it next Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: Second date update.

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Speaker 5: What's the optimal amount of time you should spend with

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Speaker 5: If it's best case scenario, how long should that hangout?

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Speaker 5: Best case scenario means we never leave and we get married.

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Speaker 1: Three to four.

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Speaker 1: Oh cute, it's cute.

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Speaker 1: Maybe they're lost in the woods. A lot of people

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Speaker 2: Okay, but we all agree this is something wrong.

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Speaker 4: She wanted to go to the wine bar.

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Speaker 4: Well, things are going pretty well. She kept asking like

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Speaker 5: How many signs can you get from one person that

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Speaker 5: It's weird that she pulled away from the kiss though,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she didn't want your first kiss to be a

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, she was perfect until he tried to

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Speaker 2: He was just relieved that it was over. He can

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Speaker 5: A nap, probably, but let's come back. We will call

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Speaker 2: We'll do it right after this.

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Speaker 1: Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: You're in the middle of a second date update update,

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Speaker 1: right after you here part two.

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for the second date update.

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Speaker 5: Our listener, Chad went on a first date that lasted

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Speaker 5: longer than most relationships happen, ten full hours. Yeah, it

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but just to be.

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Speaker 5: Clear, Chad, you still want to try to get another

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Speaker 1: But it's interesting too because every new activity you guys

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Speaker 2: He left that morning that but I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Let's call her. We'll see if she picks up. And

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Speaker 5: I'm dying to know what she has to say about.

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Speaker 1: This, because there's just remember when we get her on

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, we'll do it. Gosh, what if that's it.

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Speaker 2: She just doesn't stop talking. We might need some help

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Speaker 2: with it. But I'm calling her right now. Here we go? Oho,

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Speaker 2: Hi is this Samantha?

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Speaker 3: Who's calling? Please?

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Speaker 5: This is a radio show calling you called Brook and

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Speaker 5: Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: Can I win something?

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Speaker 3: Oh I think I've heard this before.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's pretty popular.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's go viral and TikTok and stuff.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you're calling me, so who is the person

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Speaker 3: Incredible, incredible.

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Speaker 2: Wow do you think he's incredible?

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Speaker 3: I think it's incredible. You're calling me about him?

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Speaker 1: Wow, this is so unbelievable. It sounds like you had

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Speaker 3: Yeah ye yeah yeah.

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Speaker 5: How do you spend ten hours ongoing with somebody if

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Speaker 2: If there's no, I'll tell you.

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Speaker 3: I'll tell you. So he went out with my best girlfriend?

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Speaker 1: Wait wait wait wait wait wait when after you went

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Speaker 3: Yeah? No, no, before months ago he went out with

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Speaker 1: Okay, wait, did you know this before you went on

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Speaker 3: Or I short, did.

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Speaker 5: You knew Chad but before you went out with him?

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Speaker 5: As having dated your friend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh that's weird. He didn't mention that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well he didn't know this, but he spent many,

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Speaker 1: Wait, ohoy, he took your best friend to spend time

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Speaker 3: Yeah, introduced her, He spent all this time with her, basically,

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Speaker 3: never replied to her, never called her nothing. I know,

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Speaker 3: she didn't do anything wrong. She's adorable, she's sweet. He

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Speaker 3: you got to go out with him and get him back.

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Speaker 1: What Oh, so this whole thing, your whole ten hour

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we girls got to stick together. Yeah, so give

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Speaker 2: Well, oh, you know, I.

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Speaker 5: Don't have to tell him that, because he's actually been

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Speaker 3: It's great. It's even better.

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Speaker 1: I love get you're enjoying that.

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Speaker 2: I feel bad about it. It's gloating now, I mean, chat,

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Speaker 2: are you there?

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Speaker 4: I don't even know what to say right now. That's

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not interested in you.

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Speaker 4: Oh wait, wait, wait, wait, wait wait, I heard everything

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Speaker 4: you said. But we spent ten hours. You mean an hour,

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Speaker 4: eight hour, nine when we've had shardonay, coffee, all types

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Speaker 4: of We've had the most fun all day. You mean

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Speaker 4: and I'm pretty sure you felt five hours.

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Speaker 3: With you and then you you ghost her, so now

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Speaker 1: So you doubled it. Okay, Tad, No, there wasn't even

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Speaker 2: Be a decent guy, litle bit.

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Speaker 3: I was enjoying myself so much, and to pop it off.

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Speaker 3: You know who else had a great time, Sarah? We

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Speaker 5: Oh, I don't even want to tell you that Chad

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Speaker 2: Order to date with you.

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Speaker 3: I Sarah, he really needed that day. I'll tell you what.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Oh, Chad, I mean, do you feel bad about

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Speaker 1: ghosting Sarah? I guess that's what she wanted.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it was just a tough time, you know,

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Speaker 5: I am curious, Chad, why did you introduce the other

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Speaker 4: I was honestly just dropping off medication. It was just

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Speaker 2: Why you monster?

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Speaker 1: I mean, okay, I know that your friend Sarah was

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Speaker 3: Guys are just playing us all the time, and they're

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Speaker 1: But I'm also interested Chad just happened to be the

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I can kind of see what Samantha is saying here,

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Speaker 2: You like to go out with Chad one more time?

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Speaker 3: I would rather I would rather split my eyelids with

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Speaker 2: That's so dark.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, honestly, it just seems like she's so really angry

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Speaker 4: I just it doesn't seem like a going to work out.

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Speaker 3: Okay, man, Oh you think you think.

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Speaker 2: He didn't answer like he's the one being asked?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we never know who you're ghosting too, I guess.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, seriously, Chad, Now you know, if a girl in

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Speaker 2: Someone's trying to get three of this date. It must be.

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Speaker 3: And you know what else? Say you're going to call

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Speaker 5: She's trying to drag us into our ten of this

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Speaker 2: We'll let you go, thank you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what's going on here either.

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Speaker 5: Either a mistake has happened or some kind of miracle,

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Speaker 1: Update and Samantha, are you still seeking revenge.

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Speaker 5: On because a lot of time, Samantha made it pretty

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, I think I said I'd rather scratch

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Speaker 2: He was a little darker. But what's going on with

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Speaker 3: Well, after we were on it was like a couple

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Speaker 3: all of a sudden he sent me an apology text.

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Speaker 1: Wow, Chad, you actually apologized after taking that verbal beating.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 3: Well, he said, like, you know again, I'm really sorry,

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Speaker 4: Time with you.

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Speaker 3: And oh, I was like, oh my god, he's so pathetic.

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Speaker 3: He's still trying.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that wasn't changing your mind?

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Speaker 3: That same day, I had had a pretty big falling

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Speaker 3: out with her. My friend had not been seeing Eyda

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Speaker 3: I for a long time, so I thought in my head, well,

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Speaker 3: let me just chat to get back at her.

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Speaker 1: Oh, Chad on the phone right now? Is he hearing this?

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, yeah, I'm not gonna lie. I definitely thought

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Speaker 1: You're being used twice.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I sent her a sex and that

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, okay, yeah, And so what happened?

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Speaker 4: I mean we went on a date in one day

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Speaker 4: we've honestly we've been hanging out ever since.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, I didn't mean for that to happen, but

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Speaker 3: there was chemistry. It's undeniable.

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Speaker 1: Wow, Why do I feel like she's still in this

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Speaker 1: for the long game? In your old best friend on Instagram,

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Speaker 1: I'm in posts of you and Chad no wedding.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna lure him into a marriage and then we're

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Speaker 5: gonna get a divorce and be like that's why.

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Speaker 4: Actually I like I like her vices, I like it

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Speaker 5: Sleep would not open yet beautiful story