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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Keyon and this is Carly, your favorite Okay

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Speaker 1: storytime host and we've got some great stories coming up.

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Speaker 2: But before that, we have a quick two minute break

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Speaker 2: from the sponsors that keep the show alive. My husband's

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Speaker 2: mistress keeps showing up everywhere I go. I think she's

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Speaker 2: stalking me.

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Speaker 3: It's time to put it into this.

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Speaker 2: We're currently separated after I, thirty two female, found out

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Speaker 2: my husband forty male, has been having an affair with

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Speaker 2: the same person for years.

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Speaker 3: Ah.

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Speaker 2: No, that better or worse than different people for years?

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Speaker 3: Debatable? Debatable? I could see both points.

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Speaker 2: It's like you stay safe, stay for you know. I

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Speaker 2: first found out five years ago and we worked things out.

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Speaker 2: He swore he'd ended things with her, and I believed him.

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Speaker 2: We had our last child, four male, during that period.

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Speaker 3: This children fixed problems.

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Speaker 2: Since the year started, I've been getting messages on Facebook

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Speaker 2: and Instagram from accounts with no followers telling me my

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Speaker 2: husband was having an affair.

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Speaker 3: We can't listen to him. They have no followers.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they're not even verified, dude, How I even know

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Speaker 2: you're telling the truth. The dms had details about the

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Speaker 2: trips he'd taken with her and how they'd go on

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Speaker 2: dates and have a child together, and all his friends,

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Speaker 2: mom and siblings knew her. Oh, yes, he's a child

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Speaker 2: another one. What does this guy do for work? I

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Speaker 2: asked him often if he was still seeing her, and

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Speaker 2: he denied it. What pushed me over the edge was

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Speaker 2: when I saw ear rings in a scrungeet that weren't

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Speaker 2: mine in my car after he'd borrowed it for the day.

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Speaker 2: I went through his phone and saw that he was

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Speaker 2: still with her. They even had spicy tapes, and he

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Speaker 2: was constantly telling her how much better it was with her,

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Speaker 2: how he loved her and wanted to be with her.

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Speaker 2: It's obvious he's gotten very strong feelings for her. He

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Speaker 2: admitted everything, including the child they have together.

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Speaker 3: Are you trying to get caught? What has happened?

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Speaker 2: I don't know what to do now. I don't know

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Speaker 2: what to do.

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Speaker 3: We've got what much proof do you need to put

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Speaker 3: out there? No, that was him, admit into it. He

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Speaker 3: just said, yep, I got tapes, I got a text

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Speaker 3: and I got a kid to prove it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: He just pulls him out of a bag. Yeah, this

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Speaker 2: is him. I take him with me wherever I go. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: he has a new relationship. He's just in one. He

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Speaker 2: hasn't ended with with you too. Yeah, imagine now he's

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Speaker 2: having the affair with you, and he told the affair

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Speaker 2: partner that he had left you for her. Now he's

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Speaker 2: like an affair within an affair. I left my house

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Speaker 2: and went to my mom's to take a break. We've

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Speaker 2: been officially separated for a month. By the way, this

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Speaker 2: comes from Hefty Sprinkles fifty seven to twenty three. If

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Speaker 2: slash Okay story. I'm Subredded, I'm Dakota, I'm Riley, I'm Sophia,

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Speaker 2: and we're gonna read this insane story and we're gonna

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Speaker 2: have our own thoughts and feelings about it. And uh,

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Speaker 2: you can have yours too in the comments when you

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Speaker 2: write them, and then we can read them.

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Speaker 3: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: I love reading op SA. The problem now is that

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Speaker 2: his mistress keeps showing up to places I go to often.

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Speaker 2: The playground I take the kids too, the book shop

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Speaker 2: where I buy their school supplies, where I take the

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Speaker 2: girls to get their hair done. We went to get

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Speaker 2: ice cream once and I could have sworn I saw her.

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Speaker 2: I know what she looks like from the pictures and

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Speaker 2: videos they have together. I feel like I'm going crazy.

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Speaker 2: These are all public places, so there's nothing I can

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Speaker 2: do about it. She's replacing you, Honestly, girl, there is

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Speaker 2: something you can do about it.

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Speaker 3: Well, she could leave the town, but since they're separated,

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Speaker 3: it would be weird with the kids and everything, like

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Speaker 3: the government and the kids. It's like, oh, you took

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I'm not talking about that. Oh oh, I'm

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Speaker 2: talking about some other ways that you could hear.

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Speaker 3: Miss I was thinking about that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she just sits there and stares at us to

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Speaker 2: making me very uneasy. What is the best way to

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Speaker 2: address this situation. I can't ask for her to be

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Speaker 2: booted out of a public place. She's always with her

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Speaker 2: and her child are in the same place I go

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Speaker 2: to with my kids. I'm not speaking to my husband

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Speaker 2: unless it's about the kids, and don't want to ask

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Speaker 2: him yet. And there are some comments.

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Speaker 3: M all right, but you get creative everyone, we get

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Speaker 3: rid of the woman she's trying to replace you. Should

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Speaker 3: you replace her? First?

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Speaker 2: Here we go, you go to the local high school. Yes, okay,

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Speaker 2: you recruit some local teenagers under the age of eighteen

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Speaker 2: so that they don't have a permanent criminal record, and

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Speaker 2: you give them some nice big rocks, and you say,

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Speaker 2: she drives a two thousand and nine Pontiac Vibe or

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Speaker 2: whatever she drives. You go when you see that car

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Speaker 2: park around the yogurt shop, wants you to throw these

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Speaker 2: rocks through the windshield.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, is this in person?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, okay, not over text, No, okay, No, this

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Speaker 2: is happening physically.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 2: You just keep these teenagers with you wherever you go,

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Speaker 2: you know, and eventually she'll get the picture. Oh I

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Speaker 2: stock op rocks through my windshield. The kid being present

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Speaker 2: in the car does complicate the situation a bit.

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Speaker 3: We could find a way where they're picking the kid

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Speaker 3: up somewhere. Let the kid takes dance classes or something,

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Speaker 3: and they're picking up the yogurt right before dance classes,

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Speaker 3: and the kids on in there because they're in the

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Speaker 3: dance class. The mom's getting the stuff.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: The other part I don't like to.

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Speaker 2: Stalk her back and get her kids schedule exactly to

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Speaker 2: keep the kids safe.

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Speaker 3: The thing I don't like about this though, is that

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Speaker 3: these teenagers only have a one time experience and they

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Speaker 3: don't like they have a chance to be performing a

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Speaker 3: gang or something like a foot clan, remember the foot clan.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean they could go back into their class

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Speaker 2: and be like, did do this? Crazy lady gave me

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Speaker 2: twenty five bucks to throw a rock through someone's windshield?

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Speaker 2: Do you want to in now you've got? But this

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Speaker 2: is just one you got the entire What I'm saying

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Speaker 2: is this is just one drop.

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Speaker 3: I feel like they've wanted to keep doing it.

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Speaker 2: Well, no, it's a repeat because when you come back,

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Speaker 2: Oh she got to learn. Oh I see saying not forever.

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Speaker 2: It's probably only like three times four times.

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Speaker 3: But then after that, what happens those kids?

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Speaker 2: You know, they've got life, they've got job experience. Now

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Speaker 2: they can put that on a resume, put that on

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Speaker 2: a resume. Yeah, I was actually the lead smasher. Yeah

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Speaker 2: I was your freelancer time. But I was lead smashing

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Speaker 2: on a very high, high profile project. They called me

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Speaker 2: the big smashy. Well, bed Frog has comments you should

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Speaker 2: make a police report. Oh that's a good idea, Opie says.

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Speaker 2: I can't easily get a police report since she's not trespassing,

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Speaker 2: they are all public spaces. I don't think that matters.

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Speaker 2: I think it's still like harassment of you. Right, Sweet

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Speaker 2: Lobster ninety ninety seventy seven says, is it possible she

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Speaker 2: planted an air tag in your car? Says? Ope, I

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Speaker 2: doubt it. My phone would have picked up on it.

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Speaker 3: That's what you think?

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Speaker 2: What you thought?

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Speaker 3: Little did you know that your husband, when you were

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Speaker 3: still together, added that air attack to your phone?

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Speaker 2: Uh? Oh, little dog Lover one one three says, totally

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Speaker 2: on your side here, But I'm just thinking, if these

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Speaker 2: to meet her there, could she be thinking or feeling

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Speaker 2: the same way you are? Opie says That might have

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Speaker 2: initially been the case, but now that she's intentionally switched

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Speaker 2: upper routine, it's no longer a coincidence. And there's an update.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, So the real problem is the husband, the

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Speaker 3: ex husband, because he created this. Should we take him

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Speaker 3: out first? Because dude, I can't blame you. Every time

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Speaker 3: someone gets cheated on, they always go for the pair partner,

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Speaker 3: but not the actual source of the problem. Because if

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Speaker 3: we eliminate him, there's no reason for this woman to

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Speaker 3: be at these parks, at these bookstores, at these ice

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Speaker 2: I mean, maybe you know, because she doesn't want to

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Speaker 2: file police support. I think if you actually notice this person,

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Speaker 2: regardless of her daughter being in the car, you walk

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Speaker 2: up right to the window, you go knock, knock, knock,

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Speaker 2: legal action. She's probably too dumb to know that she

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Speaker 2: can't get away with it, or that she could. I mean,

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Speaker 2: you just go. If you keep following me, I'm like

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Speaker 2: my dad is the sheriff in these parts, or you

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Speaker 2: know whatever. I will weaponize police corruption to throw you

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, yeah, hold the count. Yeah why not the

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Speaker 3: he's just gonna throw them in the side.

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Speaker 2: Yeah whatever you get arrest the teenagers, there's you know,

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Speaker 2: they're sixteen. The their record goes away when they turn eighteen,

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Speaker 2: as long as they can't do anything crazy.

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Speaker 3: Like throw a wrong through a window.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, come on. Anyway, there's an update. Yes, Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 2: thank you for all your advice. I confronted my husband

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Speaker 2: about it. Oh, he said, she's not showing up at

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Speaker 2: places I go to. I'm the one going to places

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Speaker 3: Ah, I was here first.

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Speaker 2: I was here first. Yeah, that's that's a hard battle

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Speaker 3: Guy's lulu. He I mean, he had an affair with

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Speaker 3: you and lied about you for years. So not not shocking.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, pretty on brand for this guy. Brandly call this

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Speaker 2: guy Brandley Cooper the way he's on brand. My husband

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Speaker 2: used to be the one who took the kids out

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Speaker 2: on weekends since he's virtually never at home on weekdays.

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Speaker 2: I do school pick up and drop off and he

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Speaker 2: does the fun stuff.

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Speaker 3: Ah, fun dad.

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Speaker 2: All the places he used to take the kids to,

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Speaker 2: which I'm doing now since they're with me, were suggested

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Speaker 2: by her. That's where she buys her books.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so husband's the lulu woman is trying to replace us.

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Speaker 3: Seems like we're limited on options.

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Speaker 2: I mean, could you theoretically carry around like a paintball,

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Speaker 2: a paintball, a paintball, a paintball just like one paintball,

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Speaker 2: a paintball launcher.

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Speaker 3: Oh, like a potato launcher, like a T shirt launcher.

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Speaker 2: More like just I just can't say the normal word,

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Speaker 2: or maybe yeah, I get a paintball launcher so you

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Speaker 2: can launch like one hundred of them at the same time.

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Speaker 2: Whoa and just like like just right at her window.

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Speaker 2: M as long as you know, as long as just

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Speaker 2: rolled up, because a hundred paintballs to the face might

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Speaker 2: send someone to the hospital. But yeah, it's just like

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Speaker 2: a fun little thing. She stalks you, and then you

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Speaker 3: But that's like that's she's still gonna show up at

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Speaker 2: You know, he did it.

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Speaker 3: He did everything. He's the best for weapons. Daddy Pill. Yes, no,

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Speaker 2: The playground is where she used to take her nieces

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Speaker 3: Wait, she goes to church and she hasn't have an affair.

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Speaker 3: It's one of the ten commandments.

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Speaker 2: my genius of a husband had been taking our kids

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Speaker 3: Don't know, do a dog's doing pee everywhere?

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Speaker 3: There's nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 2: Well, not do it in the schools, all right, let

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Speaker 2: Frum must remember this seventy nine says, So if he

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Speaker 3: True. True, that's sad you have to explore, but yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's a it's a silver lining to go out and

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Speaker 2: Maybe you can start a business. What start her own business?

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Speaker 2: What it's her own yogurt stop?

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Speaker 3: Oh, I see you know of all our favorite places.

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Speaker 2: Petition the city to build a park over there. Call

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Speaker 2: it stupid ex husband, stupid hate you park. Anyways, my

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Speaker 2: Ecstatic Unit nine four four nine says the fact she

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is all on him. This is crazy, Like

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Speaker 2: I think he's a fair partner. Wanted him to get caught.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't think it was him sending

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Speaker 2: I'm the real he loves me and I am the wife.

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Speaker 3: Probably gonna get an update three months from now, and

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Speaker 2: OP says, maybe she got tired of waiting for our

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Speaker 3: Mm mm hmmm mmmmmm. You're right, you called it.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I use it how I say use it.

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Speaker 3: The most emotionally EQ person on the team.

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Speaker 2: I got big EQ dude.

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Speaker 3: They call me BIGGIEQ, BIGGYQ.

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Speaker 2: There's no way of knowing if it was actually her

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Speaker 3: Damn, that's crazy.

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Speaker 2: Your husband's sort. My wife thought I got laid off,

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Speaker 2: My wife doesn't follow or know anything about Twitch or

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Speaker 3: No, dude, no stop stop. No, I'm gonna go on

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Speaker 2: I'm not going to tell anyone until I'm bringing in

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Speaker 3: That's the whole point.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, it's so funny.

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Speaker 2: I have never been happier and not stressed as I

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Speaker 3: Ay Man, let him live his life. She can cover

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Speaker 2: It's easy for me to lock myself in my home

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Speaker 2: they're all I just lie.

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Speaker 3: To them, Dude, this is wild. You better make a

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Speaker 2: And you know, he just silently streams like it's not

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Speaker 3: It's not even good. If you're not engaged, you have

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Speaker 2: He's just silently playing Ah dang it. And then his

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Speaker 3: Are you doing in there? He goes, ah, job hunting.

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Speaker 3: These freaking sweats they're getting all over my blood. They

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Speaker 2: Honestly, if he leaned into that, he might gain a

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Speaker 2: massive following. Maybe if he leaned into guys, so welcome

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Speaker 3: In raven run has it streaming. He's not a career

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Speaker 3: If they only mentioned one platformance Twitch and that is

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Speaker 3: I'm Dakota, I'm streamer Riley, I'm streamer Sophia.

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Speaker 2: I mean, we are streamers here. Just talk about this

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Speaker 2: But we, you know, we also want to hear what

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Speaker 3: Immediately he better have made so much money, it was

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Speaker 3: Oh it's a dinner work. Yeah, it didn't, did it.

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Speaker 2: My divorce was finalized a year ago. She found out

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Speaker 2: and that was it. Don't be stupid like me.

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Speaker 3: This is the end of the story.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh my gosh. Yeah, so let it be known.

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Speaker 2: Don't quit your job and then lie to your wife

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Speaker 2: who's working as a paramedic, that you're actually looking for

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Speaker 2: a job while you're just losing at fortnite. Dude.

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Speaker 3: I have so many thoughts on this. He did everything wrong.

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Speaker 3: Everything's so wrong.

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Speaker 2: It's true, It's very true.

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Speaker 3: Not how you go about things, No.

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Speaker 2: It is not.

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Speaker 4: One time I met the minecraft YouTubers that I watched

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Speaker 2: I was like, it's their fault. I see their fault

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Speaker 3: Well, they were also talking to a girl. They don't

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Speaker 4: I'm like, yeah, makes sense.

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Speaker 3: If your name was Alex, they would have been able

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Speaker 3: to talk to you. All right, here's how you get

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Speaker 3: we did. That's how you do it. You don't just

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Speaker 3: We figured it out. Oh man, I could go on

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Speaker 3: for days.

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Speaker 2: We've been divorced for a year and I found out

441
00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:50,520
Speaker 2: she just started dating again.

442
00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:51,520
Speaker 3: I'm gutted.

443
00:19:51,760 --> 00:19:55,239
Speaker 2: Wow, imagine how gutted she was when she realized your

444
00:19:55,320 --> 00:19:57,359
Speaker 2: husband lied to her for six months while she was

445
00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:59,440
Speaker 2: making all the money being a paramedic maybe one of

446
00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:01,359
Speaker 2: the worst mo stressful jobs on the planet, and.

447
00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:03,800
Speaker 3: You could even get a donation off a twitch. Think

448
00:20:03,840 --> 00:20:04,159
Speaker 3: about that.

449
00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:09,040
Speaker 2: I miss her, Oh do you? I miss my daughter

450
00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:12,639
Speaker 2: because she only lives with me half the time. Whenever

451
00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:14,960
Speaker 2: I see my wife's sister or other members of her family.

452
00:20:15,000 --> 00:20:18,480
Speaker 2: They give me the stinky justifiably. So I can't believe

453
00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:21,160
Speaker 2: I was such a lazy f while she was out

454
00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:24,280
Speaker 2: there busting her butt as a paramedic. I understand why

455
00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:26,000
Speaker 2: everyone hates me and sided with her.

456
00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:27,760
Speaker 3: Wait so you wait?

457
00:20:28,040 --> 00:20:31,480
Speaker 2: Wait, so you posted that first post and the whole

458
00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:33,720
Speaker 2: internet told you were an idiot, and then you did

459
00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:37,000
Speaker 2: it for six months. Mm hmm, I hate you. I'm

460
00:20:37,080 --> 00:20:37,480
Speaker 2: with them.

461
00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:39,359
Speaker 3: Hey, he was trying to do his career as a

462
00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:42,239
Speaker 3: streamer man. Can't blame him following his dreams. I mean,

463
00:20:42,240 --> 00:20:44,200
Speaker 3: you got to follow the dreams for six months, that's something.

464
00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:48,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was all it cost you was everything. I

465
00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:51,560
Speaker 2: know I'll get judged either way, but I'm posting in

466
00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:54,560
Speaker 2: case anyone understands what I'm going through and being gutted

467
00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:56,000
Speaker 2: when your X starts dating again.

468
00:20:56,400 --> 00:20:59,879
Speaker 3: Wow, enjoy your basement that you live in with your mom, buddy.

469
00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:02,920
Speaker 2: I don't even think you understand what you're going through. Yeah,

470
00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:05,639
Speaker 2: I know you're like, does anybody have any advice on

471
00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:08,200
Speaker 2: how to deal with this thing? I did entirely myself.

472
00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:10,960
Speaker 2: You stop smashing your hand with the hammer.

473
00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:13,560
Speaker 3: Maybe move on which one was you rather have this

474
00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:18,680
Speaker 3: or a parton that she did on you? Hum, you

475
00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:20,440
Speaker 3: find out about the cheating two months in and you

476
00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:22,200
Speaker 3: don't find out about this one until six months in.

477
00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:25,200
Speaker 3: I say the cheating, yeah, because it saves you a

478
00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:28,639
Speaker 3: lot more money. Yeah, and you get the process rolling faster.

479
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Speaker 5: Yeah.

480
00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:32,040
Speaker 2: I'd rather do cheating because it's easier to like comprehend.

481
00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:34,760
Speaker 2: It's just like, oh, okay, you cheated on me, like,

482
00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:38,960
Speaker 2: well this is done, goodbye, instead of like you did what?

483
00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:39,600
Speaker 1: Yeah?

484
00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:42,520
Speaker 3: And you let me work and take care of the child.

485
00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:44,720
Speaker 2: And be the only provider and you lied to me

486
00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:45,919
Speaker 2: the whole time about what.

487
00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:47,639
Speaker 3: And take care of my three year old and you

488
00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:49,520
Speaker 3: were too lazy to take care of the yearld because

489
00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:50,719
Speaker 3: you were't playing video games all the time.

490
00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd say there's a higher probability I go to

491
00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:56,639
Speaker 2: jail with that situation firstus just getting cheated on, getting

492
00:21:56,680 --> 00:22:00,640
Speaker 2: cheated on. I'll immediately like like I sever the tie

493
00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:03,560
Speaker 2: and I'm going, okay, it's done. But with that, I'd

494
00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:05,879
Speaker 2: be like I might I don't know, I might just

495
00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:08,280
Speaker 2: like blackout and wake up and be like what have

496
00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:08,800
Speaker 2: I done?

497
00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:09,080
Speaker 1: What?

498
00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:15,520
Speaker 3: A wild Wild Wild Story The Wild Wild it's even

499
00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:18,440
Speaker 3: like more disappointing because he didn't even give us that much.

500
00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:20,480
Speaker 3: He just gave us five hundred words worth of this.

501
00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:22,720
Speaker 3: It could have been a better story, It could have

502
00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:24,720
Speaker 3: been more entertaining. He doesn't even know how to be entertaining.

503
00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:26,400
Speaker 4: That's why he never made it as a streamer.

504
00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:30,119
Speaker 3: My ex husband is sleeping with my little sister and

505
00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:33,960
Speaker 3: they think nothing's wrong. I don't like any of that

506
00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:37,439
Speaker 3: at all, So I, forty six female, needed to get

507
00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:40,280
Speaker 3: this off my chest. It's thrown me for a loop.

508
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:43,320
Speaker 3: I was with my husband forty seven mile since I

509
00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:46,040
Speaker 3: was twenty one. We got divorced two and a half

510
00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:49,159
Speaker 3: years ago. We just screw apart and mutually agreed that

511
00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:51,720
Speaker 3: the best thing for us was to go our separate ways.

512
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:55,960
Speaker 3: It was relatively amicable as these things go. We have

513
00:22:56,119 --> 00:23:00,800
Speaker 3: three boys, twenty two, nineteen, and sixteen. They all can drive.

514
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:04,480
Speaker 3: My sister, thirty five female, is also in the process

515
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:07,200
Speaker 3: of a divorce. Her soon to be acts was cheating

516
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:11,120
Speaker 3: on her with a coworker of his nice the classic.

517
00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:13,480
Speaker 2: He keeps it classy, that guy.

518
00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:17,080
Speaker 3: My sister has two kids, ten male and six female.

519
00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:20,639
Speaker 3: They can't drive. Apparently, one night last year, after my

520
00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:23,920
Speaker 3: cousin's birthday party, the two of them ended up having

521
00:23:24,160 --> 00:23:27,680
Speaker 3: spicy sleep. I remember the night because my sister showed

522
00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 3: up in a very revealing outfit and was turning heads

523
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:35,840
Speaker 3: all night. Little I know, one of the heads she

524
00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:38,560
Speaker 3: turned belonged to my ex husband.

525
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:42,560
Speaker 2: Mmm. The upstairs and the downstairs.

526
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:46,200
Speaker 3: They've been sleeping together on and off ever since. I

527
00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:49,280
Speaker 3: know they're both adults and neither is in a relationship,

528
00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 3: but still it seems weird to me, and I don't

529
00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 3: understand why my sister would go there. It's because of

530
00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:58,680
Speaker 3: that thing you did whenever you guys were children. It's

531
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:02,720
Speaker 3: called revenge monica. For that matter, I don't understand why

532
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:05,880
Speaker 3: my ex would do this too. He's a really attractive man,

533
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:09,159
Speaker 3: he's always been. He shouldn't have much trouble finding a

534
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 3: woman today, but he chose my sister. Perhaps he's more

535
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 3: angry about a divorce than I thought. By the way,

536
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Speaker 3: this comes from Throwaway three three four four five five

537
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Speaker 3: and throw Away two three four three four and if

538
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Speaker 3: you wants to me your own stories or the art

539
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Speaker 3: slash Okay stories. I'm Subert, I'm Riley, I'm Dakota, I'm sovia,

540
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Speaker 3: and it looks like we got this a double story

541
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Speaker 3: from two perspectives. We're gonna read this goofy. If you

542
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Speaker 3: have any comments, please put them down below. Oh, he says.

543
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:37,040
Speaker 3: My niece mentioned to me that he has been around

544
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:40,320
Speaker 3: with mommy a lot. Would you rather have your uncle

545
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:44,720
Speaker 3: around your niece and nephew or a random stranger kind of?

546
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Speaker 2: I mean that's fair.

547
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:48,520
Speaker 3: So I asked about it and he just flat out

548
00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:51,640
Speaker 3: admitted what's been going on. When I apted my sister,

549
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 3: she didn't even try to deny it, and they said

550
00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:58,439
Speaker 3: they're both adults and they're not hurting anyone. According to her,

551
00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:01,840
Speaker 3: it's just spicy related and there's no intentions of them

552
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 3: being an actual couple.

553
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 2: I think that still feels weird to me. As if

554
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 2: I'm your sister and you're you know, yeah, and you're

555
00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:14,160
Speaker 2: freaking yeeha and all over my freaking ex husband, I'd

556
00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:16,880
Speaker 2: be like, hey, could you do that with literally any

557
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 2: other human being on earth?

558
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 3: Please? This is weird and I don't like it. I

559
00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:22,760
Speaker 3: don't like any little bit of this.

560
00:25:23,119 --> 00:25:27,360
Speaker 2: It's like you're technically not doing anything wrong, but it's

561
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:29,240
Speaker 2: like you're doing something.

562
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, dude, I don't know why this has bothered

563
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:35,159
Speaker 3: me so much. Maybe because when I met my husband,

564
00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:40,359
Speaker 3: we were in college and my sister was in elementary school. Wow, okay,

565
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:42,000
Speaker 3: that is the way to look at it. Were they

566
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:45,080
Speaker 3: looking at each other while we were both married? I

567
00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 3: asked them both if they ever messed around while we

568
00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 3: were married, and they both denied it. Maybe I'm foolish,

569
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:55,119
Speaker 3: but I believe them comments. Hmm, would you believe it?

570
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 2: I'd have a pretty hard time.

571
00:25:56,920 --> 00:25:59,920
Speaker 3: I think. Yeah. They've only been divorced for like two years.

572
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:04,159
Speaker 3: There hasn't been anything happening beforehand. There's probably been like

573
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:07,959
Speaker 3: passes at least, like why did she have a divorce? Oh,

574
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:10,680
Speaker 3: I know she got the sister got cheated on. Okay,

575
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 3: I mean it lines up. It's a perfect crime.

576
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 4: I don't think it's like that crazy. But it is

577
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 4: weirder because we've known Because we know that they've known

578
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 4: each other since she was an elementary school and he

579
00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 4: was twenty one.

580
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, there's history, a lot of history there.

581
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 3: He's playing the long game of brushing someone's air. Oh

582
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:36,359
Speaker 3: my god, Oh my god, Oh my god. Think eight

583
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:39,480
Speaker 3: says that's weird. He knew her at such a young age.

584
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 3: Even if they got together after the split, you just

585
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:45,320
Speaker 3: don't do that. A lot of history there, dude, pick

586
00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 3: someone else, Pick someone else the job. Ronnie says, sounds

587
00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:52,400
Speaker 3: terrible for you having crappy siblings. Is are good luck?

588
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 3: He says things. We were never super close because of

589
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:58,720
Speaker 3: the age difference, but this is something I never expected

590
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 3: could happen. Disappointed to my ex. To be honest, my

591
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:05,120
Speaker 3: sister always was a spoiled brat who wanted her way

592
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 3: no matter what. I don't know what's going on or

593
00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 3: what's going through his mind. Fruity Cotton Candy says, this

594
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:14,879
Speaker 3: is disturbing that one your sister is sleeping with the

595
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:18,159
Speaker 3: father of your children, and two your sister is sleeping

596
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:22,040
Speaker 3: with the uncle of her children. That's not okay in

597
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 3: my opinion. Away says, Uugh, her kids are so young,

598
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:28,560
Speaker 3: I doubt they even have any idea what's going on.

599
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,440
Speaker 3: All they seem to know is their uncle comes around

600
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:34,520
Speaker 3: from time to time. What a great easter. This turns

601
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:37,400
Speaker 3: out to be altruistic. Pay thirty four to fourteen says,

602
00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:39,359
Speaker 3: it must be weird for your kids to have their

603
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:42,000
Speaker 3: dad hooking up with their aunt. Away says, I'm pretty

604
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:46,240
Speaker 3: sure none of my boys are aware yet. And more

605
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:48,959
Speaker 3: from op One reason I really don't believe they did

606
00:27:49,040 --> 00:27:51,920
Speaker 3: anything while my husband and I were still married is

607
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:54,720
Speaker 3: because while we were married, we both had access to

608
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 3: each other phones, computer and other electronics. It would have

609
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:01,639
Speaker 3: been nearly impossible for them to hide something like this

610
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 3: while he and I were still living together. As I posted,

611
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 3: our divorce was basically because the two people who had

612
00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:12,280
Speaker 3: grown apart, and to be honest, we were in love anymore.

613
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 3: There was no anger or anything like that. We just

614
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:17,920
Speaker 3: agreed to go our separate ways. Update five point five

615
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Speaker 3: months later.

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Speaker 3: So I'm a limited of the possibility that they cheated

620
00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 3: on each other while married.

621
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:36,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, that didn't happen. This guy should be in jail. Really, dude,

622
00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 2: he was twenty one and she was nine.

623
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:42,840
Speaker 3: But like twenty years have passed, like nineteen eighteen years

624
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 3: of past.

625
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that doesn't change the fact that you knew

626
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 2: where she was nine. It's like that that's freaking crazy.

627
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 4: It's the Monica Richard Relationship and Friends.

628
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah with Tom Selick. Beautiful man Tom Selik, who's

629
00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 2: gross with this guy's doing his gross and he should

630
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 2: be thrown to a p oh I see and not

631
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 2: let out of it. He's disgusting.

632
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 3: Can we get a poll? Is this really gross to

633
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 3: you guys too?

634
00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 2: It's insane, It's insanely gross. I'm just not assuming that

635
00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 2: that was what was happening at that at that time.

636
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 2: It's not what was happening at that time. It doesn't

637
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 2: matter if it was not. He was twenty one, she

638
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 2: was nine. He knew her as a nine year old,

639
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 2: and then she grew up and then he did this.

640
00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 2: It's freaking insane, like jail. That person should be in jail.

641
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:25,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.

642
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:28,080
Speaker 2: That's just insane. It's freaking weird, all right.

643
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 3: Update five and a half months later, I took some

644
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 3: of the advice from the comments and have decided to

645
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:36,880
Speaker 3: go no contact with sister and low contact with my

646
00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 3: ex for the sake for our youngest son, sixteen. Mel.

647
00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 3: I called both of them over to my house and

648
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:46,920
Speaker 3: informed them of this and that even though they thought

649
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 3: that what they were doing would hurt anyone, that they

650
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 3: were hurting me, and it genuinely made me feel disgusted

651
00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 3: to think that they would choose each other out of

652
00:29:57,360 --> 00:30:01,440
Speaker 3: everyone else in the world, especially being pride month. I said,

653
00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 3: while I believe they never slept together while we were married,

654
00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 3: as they said, I don't believe that the thought was

655
00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:12,000
Speaker 3: never there, and two people who claimed to love me

656
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 3: would never do this to me. I explained to my

657
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:17,960
Speaker 3: sister that even though they didn't plan for things to

658
00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 3: go beyond spicy sleep, but the fact that she would

659
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:25,200
Speaker 3: do this to me meant that I would no longer

660
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 3: have contact with her or her children, because ever became

661
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:34,280
Speaker 3: something more, I would be even more hurt that what

662
00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:36,960
Speaker 3: she was doing to me. I told my ex that

663
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:40,040
Speaker 3: I would like to only communicate through a parenting app,

664
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:44,120
Speaker 3: which some of you suggested, until our youngest was of age.

665
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 3: Then it would be minimal contact as if possible from

666
00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:50,600
Speaker 3: then on. I asked him if he was doing this

667
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 3: to hurt me, which he denied. I asked how long

668
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 3: he had these feelings for my sister, and he said

669
00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 3: it just happened. I talked to my kids about this,

670
00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:01,719
Speaker 3: not to turn them against their father, but to inform

671
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 3: them of the reasons for going no contact and low

672
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 3: contact with their aunt and father, and so they can

673
00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:11,240
Speaker 3: make their own decision and talk about how they feel.

674
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:14,480
Speaker 3: All three were livid and have talked about going no

675
00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 3: contact with their father as well. But I encouraged them

676
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 3: to take the time and think about it and not

677
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 3: to think they needed to do this because I was. Yeah,

678
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:26,800
Speaker 3: as you can imagine, a nineteen year old and a

679
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 3: sixteen year old are not the best at keeping secrets.

680
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 3: So word got around the family and the town we

681
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 3: live in, which is fairly small.

682
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:38,680
Speaker 2: Are they related? They didn't this whole time.

683
00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:41,440
Speaker 3: I don't think they did it though it's a small town.

684
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 3: It is a small town. H good point. Apparently a

685
00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 3: lot of other people thought that this relationship was wrong

686
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 3: as well. Something I never expected was the reaction from

687
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:54,080
Speaker 3: my parents that my father went off with my sister,

688
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:57,560
Speaker 3: asking how she could do this? Why would she do this?

689
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:01,520
Speaker 3: My mother was more concerned about the age gap, As

690
00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:04,200
Speaker 3: I said, when my ex and I were in college,

691
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 3: my sister was in elementary school. They informed her as

692
00:32:08,040 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 3: long as she continued this relationship with my ex, he

693
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 3: nor she were welcome in their home.

694
00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:16,360
Speaker 2: Yes, you know, that's the the thing isn't just the

695
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 2: age gap. You can have that age gap thirty five,

696
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:23,560
Speaker 2: forty seven, whatever. It's if you have that age gap

697
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:28,320
Speaker 2: and you knew them when they were a literal child. Yeah,

698
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:31,160
Speaker 2: and you were in your early twenties. You're a freak.

699
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 2: You're a weirdo, and I don't like you.

700
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 3: It is weird. This is weird.

701
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 2: You're freak weirdo. Be like, if I dated like my

702
00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:41,280
Speaker 2: childhood friend's little sisters, it'd be insane. It would be

703
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:42,960
Speaker 2: absurd because I knew the when they were six.

704
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:47,320
Speaker 3: Be crazy, it would be crazy. Also, people have started

705
00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:51,280
Speaker 3: to speculate that they were sleeping together way before either

706
00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 3: of our divorces, and saying that the reason her husband

707
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 3: was cheating on her and may have been the reason

708
00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 3: for mine in my ex. Well, like I said, I

709
00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 3: choose to believe them when they said they didn't, but

710
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 3: I guess you never know. They attempted to defend themselves

711
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 3: for a while, but eventually they cut contact and began

712
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 3: avoiding each other like the plague, I guess, in an

713
00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:18,280
Speaker 3: attempt to curb any weird looks or snide comments about

714
00:33:18,360 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 3: them being a home record and a creep. My sister

715
00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:24,880
Speaker 3: did give me somewhat of an apology, saying she really

716
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:28,480
Speaker 3: didn't think that I would have minded since we ended

717
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:32,080
Speaker 3: on okay terms, which I don't fully believe because they

718
00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 3: went out of their way to keep it a secret.

719
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 3: But I informed her that I am still stinking to

720
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 3: be no contact with her for the time being. Yeah,

721
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 3: I mean she deliberately went against you and tried to

722
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 3: do this to Yeah.

723
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 2: She literally went up to H and was like, actually,

724
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:49,840
Speaker 2: there's nothing wrong with this because we're both adults and

725
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 2: we could do whatever we want. And he's and you

726
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:53,960
Speaker 2: guys have been split up. It's like she knew exactly

727
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 2: what she was doing. You know me, she can go, oh, no,

728
00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:58,680
Speaker 2: that there's consequences, and everyone knows that I'm a bit

729
00:33:58,840 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 2: terrible person.

730
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 3: I I just didn't know.

731
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 2: This is just a misunderstanding, and I just didn't I

732
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 2: didn't think it would affect you that much. Shut up,

733
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 2: get out of here.

734
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, my excess relationship with our son is still strained.

735
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 3: He asked if I could speak to them, but seeing

736
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 3: as the oldest is an adult, there's nothing much I

737
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:18,640
Speaker 3: can do. Our sixteen year old still visits with his

738
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 3: father once a month, but most of the time he doesn't,

739
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:25,640
Speaker 3: and he agreed he's old enough to make the choice himself.

740
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:27,440
Speaker 3: We got a little bit left here. I mean, I

741
00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:28,360
Speaker 3: like this execution.

742
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:31,400
Speaker 2: If I'm the sixteen year old, I'm definitely going over

743
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:35,279
Speaker 2: to Dad's house every month, and I'm definitely making him

744
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:38,920
Speaker 2: as uncomfortable as possible. Wow, I'm not letting him go

745
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:40,480
Speaker 2: quietly into that good night.

746
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:41,520
Speaker 3: This is what I would do.

747
00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:43,359
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be like, hey, do you find any more

748
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 2: sisters and moms to bang? You find any more ants

749
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:49,279
Speaker 2: in the family tree to copulate with you? Sick?

750
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:49,480
Speaker 1: Oh?

751
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:52,879
Speaker 3: Dad, Look, it's a picture of us at a baseball game.

752
00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:58,000
Speaker 3: I was nine. So when you met, uh met mom's

753
00:34:58,000 --> 00:34:59,919
Speaker 3: sister for the first time, right, she was nine?

754
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:06,760
Speaker 2: And then you just go, yeah, no, I'm gonna go home.

755
00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 3: Say that.

756
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:15,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, fuh weirdo, dude, weirdo, weirdo, weirdo, weirdo.

757
00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:18,640
Speaker 3: That's pretty much it. I still don't know how I

758
00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 3: feel about all this, and it sucks that I can

759
00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 3: no longer see my sister the same way that I

760
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:26,799
Speaker 3: used to, and that my children's relationship with their father

761
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:30,200
Speaker 3: has come to this, But I guess this is life now.

762
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:32,920
Speaker 3: There's still so much more to the situation than I

763
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:36,439
Speaker 3: never want to but may never know, and maybe that's

764
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:38,840
Speaker 3: for the best. Thank you for all those who commented

765
00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:41,600
Speaker 3: on the original post and all the words of encouragement.

766
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:44,879
Speaker 3: You guys really helped me realize that what they were

767
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 3: doing was wrong and for myself that I didn't even

768
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:50,400
Speaker 3: need them in my life. That's it, everyone, that's it

769
00:35:50,520 --> 00:35:53,720
Speaker 3: for that story. That was a wild one. Don't don't

770
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:58,040
Speaker 3: pet people's hair while they're very young. Don't do it.

771
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, to be clear, I don't think that it did happen.

772
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 2: I don't even think that's what that was. It's not

773
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:03,840
Speaker 2: even what it is.

774
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 3: It's just like the fact that they knew each other.

775
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 2: You, Yeah, that you were twenty one and she was

776
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 2: nine and you knew her is freaking weird. It's like

777
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:15,759
Speaker 2: that weird thing with the Indian Jones where it's like

778
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:18,200
Speaker 2: the girl from the first movie is like, he's like,

779
00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:19,960
Speaker 2: youre sure grew up to be hot, and it's like,

780
00:36:20,120 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 2: wasn't she eight last time you saw her? Like why

781
00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 2: are you saying that? Like it's just weird, Yeah, very weird.

782
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:29,640
Speaker 3: To say, it would have been more interesting if she

783
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:32,279
Speaker 3: was twelve instead of sixteen or eighteen.

784
00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:34,799
Speaker 2: Big old George said that think so was it? George

785
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:36,879
Speaker 2: Lucas who or Steven Spielberger directed those?

786
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 4: George Lucas said it would be amusing if Indy had

787
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:42,839
Speaker 4: been twenty five and Marian was eleven or twelve when

788
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:45,800
Speaker 4: they first had their affair. Lucas felt that making the

789
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 4: girl slightly young made their relationship interesting, though Spielberg immediately

790
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 4: pushed back, insisting that the character had to be older.

791
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, I didn't see that.

792
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:02,760
Speaker 6: I can see that conversation in the boardroom. George Lucas

793
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:05,879
Speaker 6: is just like, yeah, so what if we something really

794
00:37:05,920 --> 00:37:08,320
Speaker 6: interesting we could do? I was like, she was literally

795
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:12,440
Speaker 6: a baby, and we had we had Indiana Jones to

796
00:37:12,480 --> 00:37:15,040
Speaker 6: have a relationship with this baby, and I think that

797
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 6: would add a really interesting wrinkle to.

798
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 3: No, George Georgia gout.

799
00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:20,920
Speaker 5: No, we're not doing that at all.

800
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:22,319
Speaker 2: I don't care if you made Star Wars.

801
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:22,840
Speaker 1: We are not.

802
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:27,319
Speaker 3: We're not doing that. It's off the table. Stick to music, man,

803
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:30,040
Speaker 3: you know, we're done with that freaking weird story.

804
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:32,960
Speaker 2: Hey, it's key on your favorite short King. We're going

805
00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:34,759
Speaker 2: to get back to the stories. But here's three minutes

806
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:37,719
Speaker 2: of ads from our sponsors. I think I made a

807
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:40,480
Speaker 2: mistake getting married to my husband.

808
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:41,560
Speaker 3: Well why is that?

809
00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:46,279
Speaker 2: I am new, so please bear with me, you have

810
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:49,719
Speaker 2: a bear with you. A little backstory. I'm twenty nine,

811
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:51,120
Speaker 2: my husband's forty one.

812
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:51,760
Speaker 3: Okay.

813
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:55,759
Speaker 2: We met in my home country. I'm from the Caribbean.

814
00:37:56,600 --> 00:38:00,839
Speaker 2: Originally my husband came there on a guy's trip. At

815
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:03,840
Speaker 2: the time, I was a bartender.

816
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:08,840
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, well who I'm scary?

817
00:38:09,000 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 1: Ooh.

818
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:10,520
Speaker 2: We exchanged numbers.

819
00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 3: Numbers were mentioned.

820
00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:16,879
Speaker 2: We talked for three months long distance before I went

821
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 2: up to visit him in the US. At that time,

822
00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:22,680
Speaker 2: everything felt great. I really liked him and enjoyed spending

823
00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 2: time with him. He really seemed like a great man.

824
00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:29,759
Speaker 2: My first visit was for two months, then I went

825
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:32,320
Speaker 2: back to my country and back to my job. He

826
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:34,880
Speaker 2: would call me every day telling me he loved and

827
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 2: missed me so much. One month later, I visited him

828
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:41,399
Speaker 2: again and I spent a month with him. In that time,

829
00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:44,279
Speaker 2: he asked me to marry him, and of course I

830
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:47,440
Speaker 2: said yes. I was in love. He got married in

831
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:51,319
Speaker 2: my country and honeymoon in Jamaica. Oh cute that close

832
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 2: to the Caribbean, right, Jamaica Queens or Jamaica, Jamaica, Jamaica, Jamaica, Jamaica.

833
00:38:56,600 --> 00:39:00,879
Speaker 3: How close was the Caribbean from Jamaica, Aruba, Jamic It's

834
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:05,480
Speaker 3: in what do you mean really close? On our honeymoon.

835
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:08,320
Speaker 2: It is when I really saw how jealous and insecure

836
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:08,640
Speaker 2: he was.

837
00:39:08,800 --> 00:39:11,120
Speaker 3: Oh no, he met you. He's a passport bro.

838
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:13,239
Speaker 2: What do you think you didn't know everything about this guy?

839
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:15,400
Speaker 2: You're only hung out with them for like two months

840
00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 2: and they got married. What he's a passport bro. I'm

841
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 2: sorry she said to be nice. Be nice. By the way,

842
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:24,960
Speaker 2: this comesry' is ver interesting Plate ninety seven four. And

843
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 2: if you want to submit your own stories, go to

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Speaker 2: the our slash Okay story time subrend it. I'm Dakota,

845
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:31,920
Speaker 2: I'm Riley, I'm Sophia. We have this story in our

846
00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:33,600
Speaker 2: hands here. We're gonna read it. We're gonna have our

847
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:35,319
Speaker 2: own thoughts about it. You can have your own thoughts

848
00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:37,320
Speaker 2: about it as well. We're gonna tell you and you

849
00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:41,239
Speaker 2: can tell us in the comments what you think. And

850
00:39:41,360 --> 00:39:44,719
Speaker 2: No P says the first instance of this jealous in

851
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:47,480
Speaker 2: security was we were in the pool at the hotel.

852
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:50,240
Speaker 2: A guy told him that he had a beautiful wife.

853
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 3: Oh, flex awesome.

854
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:55,640
Speaker 2: Later on in our room, my husband said he thought

855
00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:58,719
Speaker 2: it was inappropriate what that guy said to me. I

856
00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 2: said it was a couple of men that night while

857
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:06,440
Speaker 2: we were intimate. He said, you're mine, this is my kitty.

858
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:10,080
Speaker 2: Gross tell me your mind, you gross. Gross unless you're

859
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 2: into that, but gross that it comes from a place

860
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:15,440
Speaker 2: of deep insecurity. That's crazy. He had never said any

861
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:16,280
Speaker 2: of those things before.

862
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:20,360
Speaker 3: When we had zaspicitango, I just say auto parts whenever

863
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 3: I have the spicy tango, ah load bearing, say my

864
00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:25,239
Speaker 3: name with a.

865
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 2: Oh control arm, Oh oh oh O'Reilly, oh O'Reilly?

866
00:40:31,120 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 3: Auto parts? Youch Now it's out out?

867
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:38,760
Speaker 2: Who's calling my phone? Who's calling my phone?

868
00:40:38,920 --> 00:40:39,879
Speaker 3: Last good Drake song.

869
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 2: The next day we went on an excursion.

870
00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:43,879
Speaker 1: Yay.

871
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:45,800
Speaker 2: It was bamboo rafting.

872
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:49,279
Speaker 3: Oh is that like rafting but with bamboo? I doubt it, dude,

873
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:50,480
Speaker 3: sounds like it hurts.

874
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 2: In our tour, we had a massage fun. It was

875
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:57,560
Speaker 2: guys doing the tours. One of them did my massage

876
00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 2: and my husband was mad. He stopped. The guy told

877
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:05,400
Speaker 2: him he was touching me inappropriately, and he even reported

878
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:06,120
Speaker 2: him to his boss.

879
00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:07,879
Speaker 3: What doing his job?

880
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 2: Hey, this guy's missage? This massuse. So for years massage

881
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:14,400
Speaker 2: my wife and we that we paid for. We paid

882
00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:16,680
Speaker 2: to have this man massage my wife and he's doing

883
00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 2: his job.

884
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:19,800
Speaker 3: Well. This man was so insecure he had to go

885
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:22,480
Speaker 3: from the United States to the Caribbean to get a

886
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:25,640
Speaker 3: beautiful wife because he couldn't have a secure enough relationship

887
00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:28,040
Speaker 3: with one of the United States that should who this

888
00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:31,920
Speaker 3: man is forty one. He gets jealous over people complimenting you, girl.

889
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:36,440
Speaker 3: Yeah he's forty one. Gurney frontal four text frontal cortex.

890
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:37,480
Speaker 3: Is this not?

891
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:37,680
Speaker 1: This?

892
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 2: This brains Sadly, I think he must have lost his

893
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:45,359
Speaker 2: job being from the Caribbean, I know how it goes.

894
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:47,839
Speaker 2: Usually the guests are always right, and any claims made

895
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,399
Speaker 2: against you, whether it's true or false, you most likely

896
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:50,960
Speaker 2: get fired.

897
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:53,680
Speaker 3: Dang, this is really weird.

898
00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:56,879
Speaker 2: I was so upset, and this was our first time

899
00:41:57,040 --> 00:42:00,360
Speaker 2: actually arguing. I kept thinking to myself, he made a

900
00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:02,640
Speaker 2: huge mistake. I also love how you're like and this

901
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:05,239
Speaker 2: was our first time actually arguing. When it's like, y'all

902
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:07,160
Speaker 2: have only been dating for the amount of time it

903
00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:08,520
Speaker 2: takes to have an argument.

904
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 1: Like.

905
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:10,960
Speaker 3: We talked it out.

906
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 2: He apologized and he admitted to being insecure, sometimes sometimes

907
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 2: only sometimes though well, it never got better. We're currently

908
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 2: together in the US. I just received my work permit

909
00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:27,160
Speaker 2: and we've been arguing for the past two weeks because

910
00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 2: he doesn't want me to work. His reasoning is I

911
00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 2: don't need to. He's completely disregarding what I want. Yesterday,

912
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:36,759
Speaker 2: I was on the phone with one of my close

913
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 2: friends from back home, a guy. He's now accusing me

914
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:43,480
Speaker 2: of having an affair with this guy and demanding that

915
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:44,279
Speaker 2: I block him.

916
00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 3: How how do we do it so long distance?

917
00:42:47,520 --> 00:42:50,279
Speaker 2: I think you should have an affair by divorcing your

918
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 2: husband going back to the Caribbean.

919
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:54,680
Speaker 4: I think you should get your affairs in order.

920
00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:57,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's get out of here. Who I was thinking

921
00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 3: of something along those lines, I agree with Sophia.

922
00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:01,800
Speaker 2: Or maybe let the citizenship kick in so then you

923
00:43:01,880 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 2: can have like dual citizenship.

924
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:03,560
Speaker 3: Maybe.

925
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 2: I don't know if that works like that. I have

926
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:07,279
Speaker 2: no idea how any of that works. I told him

927
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 2: I'm not blocking my friend. This morning I found out

928
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:11,879
Speaker 2: he called my mom and told her that I've been

929
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:12,799
Speaker 2: disrespecting him.

930
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:13,359
Speaker 1: Huh.

931
00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:16,759
Speaker 2: It's making me even more angry and helpless. Is even

932
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 2: when I told my mom what happened. She said to me,

933
00:43:19,440 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 2: just block your friend to keep the peace. Oh boy, mother,

934
00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:25,800
Speaker 2: Mom's like, you got a nice, rich American husband. What

935
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:27,440
Speaker 2: are you talking about? Keep him?

936
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:29,279
Speaker 3: Yeah. He also doesn't want you to work because you

937
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:30,319
Speaker 3: might talk to other men.

938
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:31,840
Speaker 2: Crazy. Yeah, the passport.

939
00:43:32,120 --> 00:43:36,239
Speaker 5: I found this nice, submissive, breedable Caribbean woman. I'm making

940
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:39,879
Speaker 5: her my wife. Oh my god, excuse me, mother in law,

941
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:42,120
Speaker 5: your daughter is really talking back to me.

942
00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:43,320
Speaker 3: I need her stop.

943
00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:45,759
Speaker 2: I feel like I made a mistake. But then there's

944
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:49,200
Speaker 2: another side of me that still loves him and thinks

945
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:50,200
Speaker 2: we can work it out.

946
00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:52,400
Speaker 3: All right, we got we got a one month update.

947
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:55,720
Speaker 3: I think they might figure it out. I'm hopeful figure

948
00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:58,560
Speaker 3: out that you gotta leave baby. Oh, here me go.

949
00:43:58,840 --> 00:44:01,440
Speaker 3: Why would you go away from the Caribbean, I mean

950
00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:02,120
Speaker 3: for there.

951
00:44:02,960 --> 00:44:06,440
Speaker 2: The hurricanes make me scared. Ah, yes, yes, Island Island

952
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:07,600
Speaker 2: hurricanes are horrific.

953
00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:09,880
Speaker 3: A hurricane horrific?

954
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 2: I don't know.

955
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:14,920
Speaker 3: No, I was confused because the sometimes they name the

956
00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:17,360
Speaker 3: hurricanes male or female.

957
00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:20,759
Speaker 2: We should see how many Hurricane Riley's there were and

958
00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:23,279
Speaker 2: figure out what the worst one was. There had to

959
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:27,879
Speaker 2: have been a hurricanee oh category three ooh Okay, okay,

960
00:44:28,040 --> 00:44:32,319
Speaker 2: you're in the league DA No Hurricane Dakota, which means

961
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 2: theoretically mine could be so big the mind doesn't exist.

962
00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:41,440
Speaker 4: Hurricane Riley hypothetical hurricanes wiki fandom.

963
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 2: You know you look up yours? Look up yours? Because

964
00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 2: Riley has category three? Is yours gonna be higher or lower?

965
00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 3: I'm harder Hypercanes Sophia.

966
00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:54,360
Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, but it's in twenty fifty. Oh oh,

967
00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:58,800
Speaker 2: it's like predictive models. That's horrifying. Let's get off of there. Okay,

968
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 2: let's get into the update. Oh one month, Lada, my

969
00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:05,560
Speaker 2: husband and I found a marriage counselor after having a

970
00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:10,440
Speaker 2: conversation about his insecurities. Things were going well until earlier. Today.

971
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:13,360
Speaker 2: I went for a walk in our neighborhood. Should have

972
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:15,560
Speaker 2: known better. On my way back to our house, I

973
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 2: caught up with my neighbor. We ended up walking back together.

974
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:21,359
Speaker 2: When I walked in the house, my husband asked why

975
00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:23,799
Speaker 2: was our neighbor with me. I told him I met

976
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 2: him on my way back home out of nowhere. He

977
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:28,840
Speaker 2: started accusing me of having an affair and asked me

978
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 2: how long it's been going on. I ignored and walked

979
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 2: off because I felt highly disrespected the craziest part of

980
00:45:35,239 --> 00:45:37,320
Speaker 2: this story is he went to our neighbor's house and

981
00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:39,400
Speaker 2: told him not to speak to me anymore.

982
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:42,719
Speaker 3: Wow, find an exit plants, exit strategy.

983
00:45:42,960 --> 00:45:46,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, just like like I would just disappear.

984
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 3: In the night. I'd hurricane away, I'd hypercane hype.

985
00:45:50,160 --> 00:45:53,480
Speaker 2: Okay, oh my god. I feel so embarrassed and disrespected.

986
00:45:53,800 --> 00:45:57,120
Speaker 2: I truly thought counseling was working, but it's clearly not. Yes,

987
00:45:57,239 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 2: vanish in the the night, never talked to this guy again.

988
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 2: Leave the country, go back to the Caribbean. Do whatever

989
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:05,040
Speaker 2: you want to do except be married to this Guy's

990
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:05,760
Speaker 2: guy's terrible.

991
00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:06,200
Speaker 1: Yeah.

992
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:09,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you're realizing it and you're not sting put.

993
00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:10,400
Speaker 3: That's the most important.

994
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 2: He's treating you like a souvenir he picked up in

995
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 2: the Caribbean.

996
00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:15,600
Speaker 3: He is. He doesn't want anyone else to touch it.

997
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:18,239
Speaker 3: He'll touch it. It's mine mine, I found it first.

998
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:21,400
Speaker 2: It's the absolute little boy energy of like, how long

999
00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:22,320
Speaker 2: suffare'd be going on?

1000
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:25,560
Speaker 3: I saw you walking with another man. I saw you walking.

1001
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:28,560
Speaker 3: I know, I know, I know everything. Just just go

1002
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:29,320
Speaker 3: ahead and say it.

1003
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 1: Here's not it.

1004
00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:33,239
Speaker 2: Someone in the comments, asked what's his story. In one

1005
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 2: of our counseling sessions, he said that his ex was

1006
00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:40,200
Speaker 2: talking to other men, sending them nudies, et cetera in

1007
00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:43,279
Speaker 2: her cottons. I an't know about it until that day.

1008
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:46,239
Speaker 2: He told our counselor. It made him feel like he

1009
00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:49,440
Speaker 2: wasn't enough. After that conversation with our counselor, I made

1010
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 2: sure to give him extra reassurance. He even told me

1011
00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 2: that he trusts me. Well, I guess that was short lived.

1012
00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 2: Last night, after the crazy accusations from him, I went

1013
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:02,840
Speaker 2: to sleep in our guests. He apologized to me, admitted

1014
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:06,040
Speaker 2: he overreacted, and made a promise that he would stop

1015
00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:09,040
Speaker 2: accusing me of cheating. I've heard all this before, and

1016
00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:11,560
Speaker 2: I'm just so over it. I had some time to

1017
00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:13,759
Speaker 2: myself last night and thought, do I really want to

1018
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 2: stay in a marriage like this. It's so exhausting being

1019
00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 2: constantly accused, and it feels like I have to prove

1020
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:22,920
Speaker 2: myself every time to show that I'm not cheating. And

1021
00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 2: that is the end of that story.

1022
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:27,399
Speaker 4: It's not what love is boy got comments from the video.

1023
00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:31,640
Speaker 4: My coworker celebrated her mother in law's passing. I told

1024
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:32,880
Speaker 4: her grieving husband.

1025
00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:35,320
Speaker 3: Oh my god, Oh my goodness.

1026
00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:38,880
Speaker 4: And this was posted May thirtieth, twenty twenty six. TLDR

1027
00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 4: comes from story one. Opie watched his co worker Jenny

1028
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:44,239
Speaker 4: head to a bar with the other girls from work

1029
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:47,879
Speaker 4: to celebrate her mother in law's passing. Her husband, Mark,

1030
00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:51,000
Speaker 4: who was Opie's friend, was at home completely wrecked with grief.

1031
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:53,400
Speaker 4: Opie thought it was the most disgusting thing he had

1032
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:55,720
Speaker 4: ever seen, and he wanted to tell Mark the truth

1033
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:59,000
Speaker 4: so bad. But when he finally got Mark alone over

1034
00:47:59,080 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 4: a few beers is something stopped him. And if you're

1035
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:05,919
Speaker 4: curious to know the full story, you can go watch

1036
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:06,720
Speaker 4: the full video.

1037
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:08,799
Speaker 2: But we've got comments, yay.

1038
00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 3: I love listening to comments from you guys, as will

1039
00:48:13,160 --> 00:48:16,680
Speaker 3: my daily things. If you comment Riley and then say something,

1040
00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:17,440
Speaker 3: I will read it.

1041
00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 4: We'll definitely read it. Cass says, there is one person's

1042
00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:24,160
Speaker 4: passing I've celebrated and a few more on the list

1043
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:27,319
Speaker 4: for when they pass. These people are specifically the ones

1044
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:30,200
Speaker 4: who brutalized my childhood and did a lot of bad

1045
00:48:30,239 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 4: things to me and my siblings. It is not anyone

1046
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:35,760
Speaker 4: else's place to tell someone how to feel after someone's passing.

1047
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:38,400
Speaker 4: Who gives an f if you celebrate a passing or

1048
00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:41,280
Speaker 4: if you mourn it, especially when ope has no context

1049
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:43,520
Speaker 4: as to why the dude's wife may feel this way

1050
00:48:43,520 --> 00:48:45,719
Speaker 4: about his mom. Mother in law has got to suck

1051
00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:49,719
Speaker 4: if her passing is being celebrated. I don't know if

1052
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:50,840
Speaker 4: I fully agree with that.

1053
00:48:51,360 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 2: I think that's got a little bit of confirmation bias

1054
00:48:53,560 --> 00:48:56,279
Speaker 2: in there. But no, it's not entirely wrong.

1055
00:48:56,800 --> 00:48:59,719
Speaker 4: Calli Tag says Story one. Her going out with friends

1056
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:02,560
Speaker 4: to the passing of her mother in law, celebratory or otherwise,

1057
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:04,719
Speaker 4: is not doing something to her husband or her mother

1058
00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:07,080
Speaker 4: in law. It affects nothing if she's dealing with her

1059
00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:09,680
Speaker 4: feelings outside the scope of her husband's grief.

1060
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:13,359
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm sure this event will in no way ever

1061
00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:15,680
Speaker 2: loop back around to the husband.

1062
00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:18,840
Speaker 4: Anna Westill says, my dad always said that when my

1063
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:21,080
Speaker 4: granny passed his mother in law, he wanted them to

1064
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:24,640
Speaker 4: play Ding Dong the witches passed. She was very opinionated,

1065
00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:27,200
Speaker 4: and there was no love lost between them. The song

1066
00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 4: wasn't played. But when another one bites the dust was

1067
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:33,200
Speaker 4: being blaired by a passing car as her coffin was lowered,

1068
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:35,759
Speaker 4: we were all bursting out laughing, Oh my God, which

1069
00:49:35,800 --> 00:49:39,040
Speaker 4: I do feel is a different situation when it's your

1070
00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:40,360
Speaker 4: own grandmother.

1071
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:43,359
Speaker 3: She loved Queen versus your husband's mom.

1072
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:47,839
Speaker 4: Kelly Patterson says, what makes Ope think that she's keeping

1073
00:49:47,920 --> 00:49:50,000
Speaker 4: her loathing of his mother a secret from her husband?

1074
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:52,640
Speaker 4: I bet he knows just how much she dislikes his mother.

1075
00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:55,920
Speaker 4: Well he did, He did know that he was aware.

1076
00:49:56,160 --> 00:49:58,600
Speaker 4: But that's the end of those comments and the end

1077
00:49:58,640 --> 00:49:59,320
Speaker 4: of this episode.

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Speaker 3: So if you love us, make sure to subscribe.

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Speaker 2: We love you and see you tomorrow.