1 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:06,600 Speaker 1: I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the 2 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:09,480 Speaker 1: Frend Show. Hey Manny, good morning, welcome to the program. 3 00:00:09,640 --> 00:00:10,120 Speaker 2: How are you. 4 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:12,160 Speaker 3: I'm good morning. I'm doing good. 5 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 1: Okay, everyone says they're doing good when we ask them, 6 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:18,080 Speaker 1: But I mean, the truth of the matter is you 7 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:19,840 Speaker 1: feel like this woman who you met on Bumble named 8 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:22,760 Speaker 1: Sarah has ghosted you. So I need you to tell 9 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 1: us kind of how everything happened, Like we know you 10 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 1: met on the dating app, but then tell us about 11 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 1: kind of setup for the date, whatever date you went on, 12 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 1: and then where things are now. 13 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I am confused. I will say that, 14 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:37,640 Speaker 3: but like, yeah, I met this girl Sarah, and we 15 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:40,199 Speaker 3: met on Bumble and we went out. We had a 16 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:42,360 Speaker 3: few drinks and you know, we've learned a lot and 17 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:44,479 Speaker 3: I thought we had a really good time, but she 18 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 3: just like ghosted me afterwards. And afterwards like once you 19 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 3: say goodbye and was like I haven't heard from the 20 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:50,560 Speaker 3: says huh. 21 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 1: And again I always asked this question and most people lie, 22 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 1: But you look back on the date and you were like, hey, 23 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 1: this this went well. I mean the conversation was good 24 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 1: and there was you know, a vibe chemistry. I mean 25 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 1: you really you left a date, You left dinner and 26 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 1: drink thinking that you guys would see each other again. Yeah, 27 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: and then your email says that you said the text 28 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 1: themselves weren't being delivered, because that's a I think that's 29 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 1: an iPhone thing. I don't know about Android, but like 30 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 1: it will say if the text got delivered, it will 31 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: say that, right. 32 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. I actually am kind of wondering if maybe she 33 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 3: just like has a phone issue. 34 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:25,680 Speaker 2: That would explain everything a phone issue. 35 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:30,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe maybe her phone was destroyed in uh, some 36 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 1: sort of earthquake, and that's why they're just not they're 37 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 1: not even getting there, you know what I mean. 38 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 3: That's as long as she is not destroyed in an earthquake, that's. 39 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, yeah, no, definitely that's the only reason that 40 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 1: the text wouldn't be delivered, right, It's not like you 41 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 1: know that, no other way that happens. 42 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 3: Right, Oh, I mean, you know, as far as I know, 43 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 3: I don't think I did anything wrong. 44 00:01:52,960 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, well let's find out. We're gonna call Sarah. You'll 45 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 1: be on the phone, we'll ask some questions. Well, see 46 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 1: if we can figure out what's going on, and you know, 47 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 1: Hopefully we can straighten things out and set you guys 48 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 1: up on another date that we pay for. 49 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 2: Sound good, I'm good. 50 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 1: Let's figure out what's going on, Part two of Waiting 51 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 1: by the phone after Miguel. In two minutes, Fred Show's on, Miguel. 52 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show commercial free for the next thirty minutes. 53 00:02:12,600 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 1: You don't have to go anywhere. Hey, Manny, Yeah, all right, 54 00:02:15,360 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call Sarah. You met on bumble, you 55 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:19,960 Speaker 1: had dinner, you had drinks. You thought everything went really well, 56 00:02:20,320 --> 00:02:22,799 Speaker 1: except now you can't get a hold of her. You've 57 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:24,799 Speaker 1: texted her, and not only that, but the texts are 58 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 1: not being delivered. You can see on the iPhone if 59 00:02:27,520 --> 00:02:29,919 Speaker 1: they get delivered and then they're not, So it's like 60 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 1: maybe she lost her phone or it's broken or you 61 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 1: know who knows. 62 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that's that's what I'm thinking. 63 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 1: It's gonna be real bad though, if we call right 64 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 1: now and she picks up the phone, because I guess 65 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 1: we indicate that her phone works just fine. But let's 66 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 1: see what happens. Okay, Okay, don's good. 67 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 2: Heh, Well, it. 68 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: Solves that problem, Hi, Sarah, how you doing? It's is 69 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:58,119 Speaker 1: this Sarah, I assume yeah, Sarah. 70 00:02:58,000 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 2: Hi, good morning. 71 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:00,079 Speaker 1: My name is Fredam calling from the Fred's Show, the 72 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 1: morning radio program. I do have to tell you that 73 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:04,679 Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now and I need 74 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 1: your permission to continue with the call. Can we chat 75 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 1: for just a couple of minutes please on the show? 76 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:09,800 Speaker 3: Okay? 77 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 1: Sure, well, thank you very much. Your phone works just fine. 78 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 1: On behalf of a guy named Manny. I guess you 79 00:03:16,919 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 1: recently went out with him. Do you remember having dinner 80 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 1: with him? 81 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 4: Yeah? 82 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:21,679 Speaker 3: I sure do. 83 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, Well, he reached out to us and he 84 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 1: said he liked you and had a great time on 85 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 1: the date. But he's having a tough time getting a 86 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 1: hold of He says, his texts aren't being delivered. He 87 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:32,520 Speaker 1: was thinking your phone was destroyed in some sort of 88 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 1: a volcanic eruption. But I doesn't sound like that happened. 89 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 1: So what's going on with you and Manny? 90 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 4: No, he can't get a hold of me because I 91 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 4: don't want him. 92 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 3: To get ahold of me. 93 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 2: Oh so you blocked him? 94 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 3: Dang? Yeah? 95 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 2: Okay, why? 96 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 4: Well, to be honest, he was pretty creepy on this date, 97 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 4: a first date, you know, first time meeting in person, 98 00:03:55,040 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 4: and it just it just didn't seem like a good situation. 99 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 2: What does that mean though? Creepy? What did he do? 100 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 3: Okay? 101 00:04:04,440 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 4: Well, so at first I thought I wasn't understanding, kind 102 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 4: of brushed off because I heard him like at the 103 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 4: beginning night, I thought he mumbled this is so embarrassing. 104 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:21,160 Speaker 2: Like good girl at me under his breast, right. 105 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:23,160 Speaker 4: But it was I just kind of shrug it off 106 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:23,840 Speaker 4: because I thought, oh. 107 00:04:23,760 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 1: I just met this guy, must have like in what 108 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 1: context You're like, I'll have the wed salad and he's like, 109 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:31,720 Speaker 1: you're a good girl, Like I don't know. 110 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 3: That kind of thing. 111 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 4: Well, that sort of became more clear the night went on, 112 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:41,160 Speaker 4: and like we had a few drinks, he started saying 113 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 4: it more and it was like, oh no, I hadn't misheard, 114 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:47,599 Speaker 4: and he was doing it like I would uh say 115 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 4: thank you to the waiter and he'd be like. 116 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 1: Good girl, what Yeah, that's weird, that's weird. So he 117 00:04:58,440 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 1: wasn't even saying it to you. He was saying it's like. 118 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 4: Everybody, right, even the weird was starting to get uncomfortable. 119 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 1: I think, you know, okay, this is weird. Let me 120 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:08,040 Speaker 1: up bring Manny in, Hey, Manny you got block bro. 121 00:05:08,520 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 3: I mean yeah, I could tell him now. 122 00:05:10,920 --> 00:05:13,320 Speaker 1: A girl good girl for black guy. Yeah right right, 123 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 1: happy daddy likes it. It just makes me feel weird 124 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:28,120 Speaker 1: to even say that. Dude, what is it with the 125 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:29,040 Speaker 1: good girl stuff? 126 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:32,719 Speaker 3: I mean I was I really was just trying to 127 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:35,840 Speaker 3: be nice. I thought she was genuinely like a good person. 128 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 2: I guess I just added girl, you know, man, you 129 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 2: are a quality human being. Girl. 130 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 1: I mean, come on, man, you guys some kind of 131 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:44,359 Speaker 1: like daddy finish going on? 132 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:46,040 Speaker 2: What is the deal with the good girl thing? 133 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:48,599 Speaker 1: Is it like a subservience thing, domb sub Like, what's 134 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:50,039 Speaker 1: the I don't explain. 135 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 3: It to me. I mean, you know, I just thought 136 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:54,279 Speaker 3: it would It's like a term of endearment, you know, 137 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 3: like to me. I didn't know she would take it 138 00:05:57,320 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 3: that way. 139 00:05:57,720 --> 00:05:58,479 Speaker 2: You were being naughty? 140 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:03,359 Speaker 4: No, yeah, had sexual connotations. And if you don't have 141 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:05,839 Speaker 4: permission to call someone that, you shouldn't, right. 142 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:07,479 Speaker 1: That's why I say to my niece, like when she 143 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 1: eats all of her bananas or whatever, like, I mean, 144 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 1: I don't actually I don't even say it then, but 145 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: I mean it's the thing that you'd say to children, 146 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 1: good good, yeah, or I know it's a kink or whatever, 147 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 1: but I don't know about the first date, right right, right, And. 148 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 4: It's fine like some some people into that. But again, 149 00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 4: like gave that permission, like it's all you know, And 150 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 4: so I just worried that, like you know, if you 151 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 4: would call he call me things without my consent, you know, 152 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:39,360 Speaker 4: it's a red flag that that he might do other 153 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:40,360 Speaker 4: things without my consent. 154 00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:42,479 Speaker 2: So I was like, Nope, not going down that road. 155 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 3: No second date. 156 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:45,160 Speaker 1: Do I have to ask you over the soup course? 157 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:46,680 Speaker 1: If I can call you a good girl on the 158 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:49,080 Speaker 1: first I mean, like I don't. The whole thing is weird, 159 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 1: Like I feel like that's something that you figure out 160 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:54,840 Speaker 1: over time, if that's a kink that people like her 161 00:06:55,320 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 1: right right exactly? Manny, dude, you're a naughty boy. 162 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:04,400 Speaker 3: I really I didn't mean I wish you would have 163 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:06,680 Speaker 3: told me because I really didn't mean it that way. 164 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 3: But you do sound like a good girl. 165 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 1: She's anyway, I'm sorry, Manny won't work out for you, 166 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 1: and she just blocked you too. So look, Sarah, I'll 167 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 1: ask again. If he cuts out the whatever that is, 168 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 1: would you go on another date with him? We'll pay 169 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 1: for it. 170 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:30,160 Speaker 3: No, I just think I just think this this. 171 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 4: You know, it's twenty twenty three, and if if you're 172 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:38,800 Speaker 4: you're not understanding base level consent issues, I'm gonna move on. 173 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:40,680 Speaker 4: I mean, when you when I picked up the phone, 174 00:07:40,720 --> 00:07:42,800 Speaker 4: the first thing you did was ask me if it 175 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 4: was okay to be on the radio, right you. 176 00:07:44,560 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 1: Got, well, I'm legally required to do that, but yes, no, 177 00:07:46,960 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 1: you're right, I'm a big boy. Good as my permission. 178 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 1: But yeah, I understand you were uncomfortable with it. And 179 00:07:54,320 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 1: it's like, come on, I hear you. So no second date, manny? 180 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 1: I yeah, I don't know to say. 181 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:01,239 Speaker 2: That being weird. 182 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, like maybe he pumped the brakes on the on 183 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 1: the daddy issue stuff or what. I don't I don't 184 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:09,119 Speaker 1: know what it is. I'm not criticizing it, but maybe 185 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:10,119 Speaker 1: not right up front. 186 00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 3: I mean, next time, I'll just say you're a bad girl. 187 00:08:12,520 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 188 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:17,160 Speaker 1: Maybe that clearly he's been paying attention, totally absorbed this one. 189 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 1: All right, thank you for your time, Best of luck 190 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 1: to both of you.