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Speaker 2: Wow, we're here. Woo, we're here. We're queer.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, one day we will have a theme song. One

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Speaker 1: day it's gonna happen. I have it in the cards.

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Speaker 1: I've yelled it out to the universe. It's coming.

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Speaker 3: You yelled at to That's why the universe not listening.

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Speaker 3: You're yelling at the universe.

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Speaker 1: I'm yelling at the universe because it's got a bummier.

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Speaker 1: And I know that because I have a bummer as well,

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Speaker 1: so you got a bummy. It's just like you know,

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Speaker 1: they're like, huh, you got to hear from one your

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Speaker 1: good ear and then the other ear.

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Speaker 2: You're like not holding it.

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Speaker 1: I see it's my left My left ear is the

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Speaker 4: It's like, eh, sketchy.

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Speaker 5: Really mm hmm.

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Speaker 3: The this week, I caught myself saying what a huh

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Speaker 3: but I know.

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Speaker 1: So I mean, but my ears are good. That i't

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Speaker 1: mean not a good person. I definitely didn't hear you.

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Speaker 1: And if you thought I heard you, I definitely.

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Speaker 2: Didn't hear you. You thought wrong.

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Speaker 1: Yeah I wasn't listening. That's really what it is.

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Speaker 4: It's like, what what'd you say?

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Speaker 2: AnyWho? This mean? Sidney? You look like a child today? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm all swollen in the mouth. Her face

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Speaker 1: is what that mouth do? Uh?

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Speaker 2: To root canal? That's what the mouth do.

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Speaker 1: That's what I got. Uh, it is the worst last night. Immediately,

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Speaker 1: I want a candy, I want a popcorn.

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Speaker 2: I wanted anything, all the things that we've been telling

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Speaker 2: you not to eat.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I wanted anything that can like fuck up the

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Speaker 2: You know, did you have candy? Popcorn?

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Speaker 1: No? I After my root canal, I went to a

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Speaker 1: Japanese restaurant, sat down, had some muso soup and sushi

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Speaker 1: And I felt like Miranda. That's the stunt that Miranda

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Speaker 1: sushi splace with a root canal, looking all crazy.

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Speaker 2: I had the ice pack on my mouth.

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Speaker 1: It was did you have alf I was, I do

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Speaker 2: It's fine, it was great.

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Speaker 1: She do her?

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Speaker 2: Okay, well what about you? You you look wonderful fresh face.

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Speaker 1: Oh mean she got a job now, job, so I

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Speaker 1: can't stab it. I have to go to work after this.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god. But uh, the toop's cool. They got

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Speaker 2: you working during the day. Yeah, like shooting stuff. You

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Speaker 2: just cash things. Friend. It's like, and I'm getting paid

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I can't.

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Speaker 3: They had us talk to all the legal people yesterday

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Speaker 3: And I was like, oh, am I allowed to sing

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Speaker 3: waiting for tonight and then I go, oh, waiting for tonight?

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Speaker 2: And they were like, no, that we're gonna.

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Speaker 3: Have to pay like fifty thousand dollars for that, and

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Speaker 3: I'm just gonna have to work on not singing anymore,

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Speaker 1: I don't know about that friend, but you know, wow,

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Speaker 1: that's pretty much our brand is saying.

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Speaker 2: That my voice is just like asmr Hi guys.

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Speaker 1: Not thank you, Hey, big boy, Hey, Daddy.

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Speaker 2: Little ill gross, Hey Bobby, thank you. Anyway, Sidney, what

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Speaker 2: were you an expert in this week?

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Speaker 1: Uh? Being a Danzel in distress? Yesterday my phone died.

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Speaker 1: Something's fucking wrong with my phone. So shout out to

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Speaker 1: refurbish this bitch. It's a mess. It's like dying left

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Speaker 1: and right. It's my fault. I had a Bodego charger

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Speaker 1: the hood red that I am. I'm charging my phone

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Speaker 1: on the Canal Street platform, just like a person just

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Speaker 2: You know who your mother is? Do you have a father?

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Speaker 4: Do you living a home?

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Speaker 2: No? Just just trash.

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Speaker 1: So I'm there but looking stunning. So like this man

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Speaker 1: I'm like, of course fans, you know, because I have a.

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Speaker 2: Body before the root Canal after because.

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Speaker 1: After the he was like he was like, sir, no, no,

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Speaker 2: What I mean?

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Speaker 1: I had my sushi. I was like, you know, rejuvenated.

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Speaker 1: I felt good. So I get on the train. Well, no,

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Speaker 2: To the J because the J is weird. The poor

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Speaker 1: He pulls up on me and he's like, here, take this,

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Speaker 1: and he gave me money. No, I wish he gave

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Speaker 1: me external dry battery.

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Speaker 2: Oh say, this's a tiny camera in there. He's watching you.

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Speaker 2: He's watching you right now.

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Speaker 1: Well, this ship has been in my pocket ever since.

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Speaker 2: Close to your butt.

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Speaker 3: You could tell that you're the type of person that

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Speaker 2: He's gonna watch you Pete this week. Shut up. He

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Speaker 1: He's like, I don't I don't ever want to see

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Speaker 1: you charging your phone in the platform. I said, yeah,

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Speaker 1: talk dirty to me, Okay, tell me what you want,

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Speaker 1: tell me what you want.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 1: And he gave me this, and then he gave me

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Speaker 1: some business cards.

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Speaker 2: He's a hater or whatever. And I was like OK.

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Speaker 1: And then he gave me his number and I was like, well, no,

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Speaker 1: I gave him my number, and I was like, well,

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Speaker 1: I guess I'll.

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Speaker 2: Be straight for this battery.

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Speaker 4: You gave him your real phone.

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Speaker 2: I give you know, you can just change the last

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Speaker 2: digit and it'll be somebody else's.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because he was one of those people who had

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Speaker 1: the fucking ridic is dead.

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Speaker 3: You could have been like, oh, it's not gonna ring obviously.

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Speaker 3: You see I'm charging my phone.

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Speaker 1: Foolish fifty thousan dollars.

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Speaker 2: But look at this.

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Speaker 1: But no, that's not a song that was just like original.

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Speaker 1: Ashanti really needs money, so she.

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Speaker 4: Went foolish.

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Speaker 2: That's I coined that, that term foolish.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I am a Dansel in distress.

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Speaker 2: Gotta give you a charger for the external charger. No,

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Speaker 2: he's like, you gotta get done yourself.

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Speaker 1: He stole that from somebody. He stole that from somebody

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Speaker 1: at his catering job. Probably he was like, He's like,

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Speaker 1: I can't wait to cook you some food.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, I can't wait to eat it.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: We should go to his house. No, me, you and

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Speaker 1: Andrew at the studio. Absolutely, well, we should have him

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Speaker 1: come to the studio. We'll go to his catering place.

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Speaker 1: My man, I helped my friends out.

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Speaker 2: You know, is it him at work? We'll just pull up, Hey,

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Speaker 2: is Cody here? Oh my god?

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Speaker 1: I don't even remember his name. It's on the business

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Speaker 1: card he sent it to me.

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Speaker 2: He sent me his Uh. I probably threw the card away.

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Speaker 1: I'm so.

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Speaker 3: Probably went on the platform while you were talking about Oh, absolutely,

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Speaker 1: The He was like, I'm on the last stop. I

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Speaker 1: was like, oh, that's so poor. You know that's poorer

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Speaker 4: Yuck.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, end of the line. Don't nobody want that? Dude?

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Speaker 2: What were your next for memory? Oh? Living my best life?

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Speaker 3: Fifty thousand more dollars. I was home minding my business

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Speaker 3: the other day. I didn't have anything to do, and

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Speaker 1: Why?

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Speaker 2: He was like, do you want to come to a

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Speaker 1: And I was like, only if the seats are cute?

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Speaker 3: So I get to that. He was like, he was like,

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Speaker 3: up at two fifty and I'm like I don't see you.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my god, I missed missed it. And

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Speaker 3: he's like, meet me at the vip entrance.

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Speaker 1: I was like the the fip Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know where that is and

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Speaker 2: he was like, it's so anyway, I found it.

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Speaker 3: And so you know, we make fun of Hillsong and

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Speaker 3: like that couldiash church? But one of the Hillsong pastors

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Speaker 3: is the chaplain for the Nets and that's the church

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Speaker 3: that my cousin goes to. So he got us like

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Speaker 3: literally fourth th row seats. We went into the vip entrance,

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Speaker 3: so before you go into the stadium.

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Speaker 4: There's all this food.

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Speaker 3: So we're hanging out with all like the wives and

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Speaker 3: the families and the side chicks of the basketball players.

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Speaker 3: I'm eating sushi, I'm eating chicken wings. I'm eating like

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Speaker 3: I'm drinking charcoal water. Like all this food, like everything

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Speaker 3: that you could think burgers. There was like Mediterranean food.

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Speaker 3: There was like eggplant thing. All this food went up

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Speaker 3: and got seconds thirds then walk in set didn't even

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Speaker 3: and I was like, you know what, I want some

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Speaker 4: That's why I'm here.

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Speaker 2: It's Brindan.

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Speaker 4: It's a fridge you can get water from.

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Speaker 2: Bitch. That's where I want to be.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's where I feel like success to take me.

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Speaker 3: Yes, because only poor people's toilets are loud, like slams

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Speaker 2: I don't be on the seat a little bit. No,

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Speaker 6: If you just take a ship and then you put

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I never It's like a color.

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Speaker 2: You never had an animal. I've never had an animal. God, Marie,

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Speaker 1: Wait till the money starts rolling in. You're gonna be

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Speaker 1: So no, no, no, honey, that's for something else. You know,

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Speaker 4: That's amazing.

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Speaker 1: Okay, pretty woman, Bill's gotta get paid. You think it's paid,

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Speaker 2: So you know, I go from water water fridge to

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Speaker 6: I like to start strong, Okay, So anyway, so I

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Speaker 4: All I need is a washer and dryer.

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Speaker 6: This is what I need, a washer and dry and

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Speaker 4: Just laundry is just constant. And I was like, I can't.

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Speaker 6: Keep dragging this ship down the street up the stairs.

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Speaker 4: Well, she's thirteen, now, she has grown.

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Speaker 2: She should have her own apartment.

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Speaker 4: To be honest, she should be.

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Speaker 2: That's where her allowance should be going. I'm allowing you

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Speaker 4: I do have to teach her.

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Speaker 6: I've been slowly teaching her, Like I taught her how

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Speaker 4: I need to let her live.

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Speaker 2: She shrinks some jeans. I know, you shrink some jeans,

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Speaker 4: She's tall, and she's.

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Speaker 4: No I do jeans. No, she wears like fitted clothes.

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Speaker 6: Bit it's amazing because teenagers also grow like nine feet overnight.

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Speaker 1: Careful, very well, so you gotta wash itroon dryer so well.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, so that was the mantra getta washing and drive.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Washington Dryer is gals.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, doing great, count thank you. It's an LG.

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Speaker 2: I feel that's the only other brand. It's another brand

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: It's a large girl. It's gotta fit my plus size.

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Speaker 2: Shit.

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Speaker 4: So anyway, so.

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Speaker 6: So I'm like want this apartment to be beautiful because

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Speaker 2: It is beautiful.

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Speaker 6: And so I've been I've been into Marie Condo since

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Speaker 3: Okay, so I feel like she came out of nowhere.

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Speaker 3: Do you know who this Mariekondo?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely not the only Marie I know?

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Speaker 4: Is you?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Okay, to eat cake.

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Speaker 4: Merch.

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Speaker 3: So I went to my friend's house the other day

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Speaker 3: it looked like this. She just like alphabetized. It looks

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Speaker 1: Carolyn is real queer eye for the stray guy.

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Speaker 2: It's just like it totally is yeah, the same shit.

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Speaker 6: Yeah. So the show on Netflix is Tidying Up with

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Speaker 6: Marie Kondo. The book is I forget the exact title.

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Speaker 6: It's The Amazing, Magical Transformative Lifestyle Change of Marie Condo.

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Speaker 4: Bullshit, but it's amazing.

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Speaker 6: Her thing is like she she divides the house up

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Speaker 4: The first category is closed.

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Speaker 6: Okay, okay, you hold up all your clothes one by

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Speaker 3: But you know, sometimes you feel like, oh, I should

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Speaker 2: This exactly, And she's artists.

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Speaker 1: We always it's gotta be like, oh no, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: need this swore shoot.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah. For me, I'm always like, oh no, these

450
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Speaker 6: pleasant leopard pants have to stay right, like, but you

451
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Speaker 6: haven't worn them in two years never, So it's like,

452
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Speaker 6: you know, but like, for example, this sweater that I

453
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Speaker 6: have on has this cute little boom cut out.

454
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Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's I was like, oh, that's a peaka boo.

455
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Speaker 4: That's joyful. Yeah, you know, so I kept it.

456
00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:21,360
Speaker 2: That is joyful, joyful for me and for.

457
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Speaker 4: Those around me jo joyful. That's two and fifty.

458
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Speaker 2: At all.

459
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Speaker 3: And lon Hill is probably not even aware that that's

460
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Speaker 3: her soft.

461
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Speaker 6: So you know, but like for me, like, that's that's

462
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Speaker 6: I'm already stuck at the clothes. I moved in three

463
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Speaker 6: months ago and all my clothes are still in boxes.

464
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Speaker 1: Okay, let's talk about that. How long does it take

465
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Speaker 1: people to unpack? Because if you're busy, if you work

466
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Speaker 1: during the day.

467
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Speaker 2: But three months is a long time.

468
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Speaker 6: Torn on this, Marie, because some people say, oh took

469
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Speaker 6: me a year to unpack.

470
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Speaker 2: That means because you you.

471
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Speaker 3: You have gone through some of those boxes to find

472
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Speaker 3: stuff that you need.

473
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Speaker 6: I take the clothes out of the boxes, I wear them,

474
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Speaker 6: I wash them, and I put them back in the box.

475
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Speaker 4: See that's why I.

476
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Speaker 2: Know I'm I don't want to.

477
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Speaker 6: This is you have to be if you want to

478
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Speaker 6: be expertly disorganized, right, you got to keep your ship

479
00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:25,359
Speaker 6: at such a sad level.

480
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Speaker 4: Right.

481
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Speaker 6: Since what I'm trying to do, I really think you

482
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Speaker 6: know everybody knows, like when you clean your room, you're

483
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Speaker 6: just inviting in Dick, okay, and.

484
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Speaker 2: You're not ready for that.

485
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Speaker 6: I don't want that, dead Nay, you're not ready for

486
00:21:40,200 --> 00:21:43,440
Speaker 6: In fact, I'm trying to cultivate more box. So this

487
00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:49,240
Speaker 6: is my strategy. Believe all the boxes around the bed.

488
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Speaker 2: You may turn into a hoarder because you don't want to.

489
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Speaker 1: But Carolyn, the thing is is that Dick will come.

490
00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:57,400
Speaker 1: You don't even need a bed, Dick wi.

491
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Speaker 6: Room.

492
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Speaker 1: You don't even need a roof for a nigga to

493
00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:04,920
Speaker 1: come through and have sex with you. That's a fast

494
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:06,520
Speaker 1: and that you don't have to do it at your house.

495
00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:08,560
Speaker 1: You don't dick outside.

496
00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:10,360
Speaker 4: You can get dick on the ground, dick.

497
00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:12,600
Speaker 2: In the hallway. You can literally be in a box

498
00:22:12,640 --> 00:22:14,840
Speaker 2: outside and get the dick. You can get dick against

499
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Speaker 2: the washer and drive.

500
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Speaker 6: I know this is the problem, so I've been trying

501
00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:21,320
Speaker 6: to shield myself against dick. I think you're using an excuse,

502
00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:24,840
Speaker 6: my friend. Yeah, I know, because I want my own happiness.

503
00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:26,480
Speaker 6: This is the problem, is that I want to be

504
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Speaker 6: happy in my space by myself, you know.

505
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Speaker 2: But I never are you quivering? What's going on?

506
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:35,960
Speaker 4: I'm quivering. I'm going to cry.

507
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Speaker 2: Cot me river. Now we don't sing justin Timberlake.

508
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:42,480
Speaker 1: That's true, You're right, so that yeah, no, but this

509
00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:43,280
Speaker 1: is this is.

510
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Speaker 6: How hoarding shit begins, right because when people can't organize

511
00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:50,000
Speaker 6: their ship at home, right, a lot of times, it's

512
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:54,679
Speaker 6: not just that you are disorganized, it's like some fucking

513
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Speaker 6: trauma ship.

514
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Speaker 1: It's definitely the way your mind is. That's your room

515
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Speaker 1: is a reflection of that. And I remember when I

516
00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 1: lived in Harlem, I had a washing on dryer, was

517
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:06,480
Speaker 1: doing well. I was taking the money work, but doing

518
00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:10,760
Speaker 1: drug drug drugs and drinking my room look like, wow,

519
00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:13,640
Speaker 1: you're not the same person, like A yeah, I would

520
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:15,639
Speaker 1: go out and I would look great, and then you

521
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:18,000
Speaker 1: come back and you're like, wait, you live in this.

522
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:22,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I believe that your house was in shambles even

523
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:26,160
Speaker 3: though you looked great going outside, Like, wait, you disorganized?

524
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 2: Friend, I see it like I feel it.

525
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Speaker 4: Are you also a disorganization expert?

526
00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:31,200
Speaker 2: Absolutely?

527
00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:33,440
Speaker 4: Even still yes, yeah, So what's your room like now?

528
00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:36,280
Speaker 2: Well?

529
00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:41,280
Speaker 1: M M, yeah, okay, it is.

530
00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:42,920
Speaker 2: I break it down.

531
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Speaker 1: I love I love shoes, so there's a lot of shoes,

532
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:49,000
Speaker 1: and I love Rainbow, so there's a lot of clothes

533
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 1: from Rainbow.

534
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Speaker 2: And I have a bench.

535
00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 1: So there's clothes on the bench, and then there's a

536
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Speaker 1: bed and there's clothes.

537
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Speaker 4: Let me tell you the bench is death.

538
00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:00,359
Speaker 2: Oh I love the bench your door, the bench at

539
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:00,880
Speaker 2: the end of the bed.

540
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Speaker 4: Do you have an empty bench at the end?

541
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:07,359
Speaker 3: I put laundry on it, you know, And I'm one

542
00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:09,679
Speaker 3: of these people that like, I'll sleep next to my

543
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:11,960
Speaker 3: folded laundry on the bed.

544
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:18,120
Speaker 4: Oh, your husband is Oh.

545
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:21,359
Speaker 1: My husband smells good though, and he's warm for the

546
00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 1: first two days he's called I don't try none of

547
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Speaker 1: my clothes, So we all got this problem.

548
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Speaker 6: See that's why I wanted to talk about this, because

549
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:32,080
Speaker 6: when you've got this world of Marie condos out there

550
00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:34,920
Speaker 6: trying to make it seem like it's so easy, nobody's

551
00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:37,439
Speaker 6: talking about how most of us are running around like

552
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 6: crazy trying to work on our careers, and then by

553
00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:42,879
Speaker 6: the time you get home, you just it's a disorganized mess.

554
00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,480
Speaker 2: What are the other categories? So close? So close?

555
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:46,680
Speaker 4: So then books?

556
00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:51,760
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, how many people got that many books that

557
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 1: they got to put together? Well, you know there are

558
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:58,520
Speaker 1: people that writers of books and serial killers.

559
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Speaker 3: You know, they say, don't sleep it with a man

560
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:02,360
Speaker 3: if he doesn't have any books. But if the guy

561
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:03,760
Speaker 3: has too many books.

562
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Speaker 2: He might kill you. Yeah. Did you watch you on

563
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,120
Speaker 2: Netflix to do work the library?

564
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:10,919
Speaker 4: Yeah, he worked in the bookstar Ship Books.

565
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Speaker 2: If he got too many books, he gonna kill you.

566
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Speaker 7: Yeah.

567
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Speaker 6: I feel like a dude librarian is just inherently terrifying.

568
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 1: Yoh, that little squeaky cart. I think a man wearing

569
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:25,120
Speaker 1: a green apron is weird. I'm like, so you're not here,

570
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:29,879
Speaker 1: Like I don't trust him. Nope, that's funny.

571
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 2: They can't spell name rights.

572
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:34,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, they're always asking your name and then they's spelling

573
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Speaker 6: it wrong.

574
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 2: Anyway.

575
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, Potato Lane said he went to Starbucks and they

576
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Speaker 3: put potato.

577
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Speaker 2: On his coat.

578
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Speaker 4: Potato Like, what the fuck.

579
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Speaker 3: My name was potato when? Yeah, didn't have any type

580
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Speaker 3: of reaction to the questions. Nothing, Potato Lane.

581
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Speaker 4: It's New York. There's at least five thousand potatoes here.

582
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Speaker 1: That's a cartoon character, though, Potato Lane.

583
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:56,360
Speaker 2: That should have him dry. Yeah, we should eat executive

584
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Speaker 2: produce it. I feel like we should, Potato Lane.

585
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Speaker 6: So with the books, you know, if you don't have

586
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 6: that many books, that's an easy category to handle it.

587
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:06,160
Speaker 3: So how hard is it to get a bookshelf and

588
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 3: just throw them all on the shelf.

589
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's right that I can see where that's the

590
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Speaker 6: easiest one, right, But here's the here's.

591
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Speaker 4: A super hard one, at least for me. Papers.

592
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Speaker 1: Okay, yes, now let me tell you get real about

593
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Speaker 1: and I'm really funny about papers because that's how my

594
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Speaker 1: house when I was a kid, when it in flames

595
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Speaker 1: because yeah, we were ordering newspaper.

596
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Speaker 2: I also set it on fire, but whatever it was,

597
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 2: mainly it was it was because of the papers.

598
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Speaker 1: Yes, the papers is what jump started the fire.

599
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Speaker 6: Okay, after she wait wait wait, wait wait wait did

600
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Speaker 6: you really cause the fire?

601
00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:51,359
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, allegedly. Do you not know the story?

602
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Speaker 3: Just recap it real quick for the new listeners, new network,

603
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 3: same story.

604
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Speaker 1: Okay, used to play with fire, but like very responsible,

605
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Speaker 1: I would have I would just have it in like

606
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Speaker 1: a cup. I would put hair in the cup and

607
00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:06,240
Speaker 1: then set it on fire and then have another cup

608
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Speaker 1: of water and I.

609
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Speaker 4: Would So she was doing.

610
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Speaker 1: Braiding, you will cut your kick along along Foxy Brown

611
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Speaker 1: Poetic Justice braids. Yes, anyway, I would do that, and

612
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Speaker 1: then you know, you get bored with that. You're like,

613
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Speaker 1: I got to set something else on fire.

614
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:25,240
Speaker 2: But where would you be doing this? I would do

615
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Speaker 2: it in the living room.

616
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 3: See, I used to burn stuff in my sink. You're

617
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Speaker 3: so smart, right, damn listen, does.

618
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Speaker 1: Anybody else Where's your place on the recliner?

619
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Speaker 2: I'd be on the lazy boy with a cup of

620
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Speaker 2: water and hair. Yeah, just doing vas fabrics. Yeah.

621
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Speaker 1: So then I got this cigarette that was all plastic

622
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Speaker 1: and lit the bottom of it and I was like, oh,

623
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:53,720
Speaker 1: you know, just pretending to smoke, and then it obviously

624
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:57,159
Speaker 1: plastic melts and the plastic fell into a bag of

625
00:27:57,240 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 1: newspapers that been that my aunt had been hoarding for years.

626
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 2: Holy shit. And then it all went up in flames

627
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:08,919
Speaker 2: after that. And who was in the house everybody?

628
00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 1: Everybody, everybody, everybody, every everybody.

629
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Speaker 2: Yeah, everybody died. Everybody died.

630
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Speaker 1: Oh god, everybody died.

631
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Speaker 2: Everybody died but died.

632
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Speaker 4: Okay, this is an amazing story. Holy shit.

633
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Speaker 3: Thanks yeah, go ahead and throw it on papers.

634
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 4: The pile of New York Times.

635
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Speaker 2: And you don't have them.

636
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Speaker 4: They're yellow at the top of my cat's little house.

637
00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 4: I don't want them to cat anyway.

638
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Speaker 1: I feel like that's step one a beanle hoarder is

639
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Speaker 1: having a cat, because anytime I watch hoarders, they have

640
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:55,360
Speaker 1: a cat. The cats get crushed behind the couch. Looks

641
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 1: like it was a kitten. Wait wait, wait, it was

642
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Speaker 1: one cat, and then all of a sudden, another one

643
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Speaker 1: cat cat. It's like you came in with one cat.

644
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:03,360
Speaker 1: But how is there fifty cats here?

645
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 2: Now?

646
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 4: Actually, I just write a story somewhere.

647
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Speaker 6: I forgot where it was, but basically somebody said they

648
00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 6: went to clean out a house and there was a

649
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 6: dead cat. Oh.

650
00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:14,400
Speaker 1: Absolutely, cats like to climb. The newspapers be slippery when

651
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 1: they're old. They were like, and then you know you're old.

652
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:21,400
Speaker 1: You're old, and you're thinking, well, you know, Freddy just

653
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 1: feeds himself. He shows in the cabinet and gets the food.

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Speaker 3: I was watching an episode of Hoarders once because this

655
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 3: is what I do when im at my mom's house.

656
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:31,200
Speaker 2: This or my six hundred pound life. Those are the

657
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Speaker 2: shows that I watch at home.

658
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Speaker 3: And this guy was a hoarder and he went on

659
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Speaker 3: a date and bought somebody home and she had to

660
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Speaker 3: climb over a bunch of crap to get into the house.

661
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Speaker 3: And I was like, how bad do you want? Dix's

662
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Speaker 3: climbing over junk to get some trash penis.

663
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Speaker 2: Ha ha ha. Men.

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Speaker 3: All that to say that men have no shame and

665
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Speaker 3: they will bring you home to their hoarder house.

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Speaker 1: own feelings at roadblock preventing you from achieving your goals.

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Speaker 6: And that actually that's a good thing to talk about,

687
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 6: because it's like women are the only ones who feel

688
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Speaker 6: this pressure to be super organized and present this gorgeous home.

689
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 4: Dudes, we'll we'll fuck on a floor on a yoga mat.

690
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 2: Next to some eggshelles from and that they made it

691
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Speaker 2: two weeks ago, you know.

692
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Speaker 1: Yeah, And then when you watch animal precinct. A lot

693
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Speaker 1: of the hoarders be older women. But it's like that's

694
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Speaker 1: not real life, Like yes, in that show, but it's

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Speaker 1: men that's ordering.

696
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Speaker 2: Too, ordering quartering. I don't know ordering quarterings. Okay, So

697
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 2: papers are a hard category for people.

698
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Speaker 4: So what you aside from fires?

699
00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 2: Because what papers do you hold on to?

700
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Speaker 4: So like, I, you know, have all this tax crap.

701
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:01,360
Speaker 3: Yep, you're like, I'm gonna need this if I get

702
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 3: ordered in till nineteen ninety.

703
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Speaker 6: Six and then like, you know, just stupid cards people

704
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Speaker 6: wrote me and stupid that.

705
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Speaker 4: I'm like, is it pretty with your baby again?

706
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 3: My stuff on the fridge and as they start to

707
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:22,440
Speaker 3: fall off, Yeah, that's good, that's God saying I don't

708
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Speaker 3: need this.

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Speaker 1: I know, refrigerator is nothing but white people. It's crazy,

710
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:30,800
Speaker 1: so many whites. It's like, wow, I'm on the fridge too, though, No, no,

711
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Speaker 1: no you are. But but I'm talking about the cards,

712
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:38,800
Speaker 1: the people, people, people who sit in like Christmas cards,

713
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Speaker 1: photo photo, booth strips.

714
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Speaker 4: I've got a promotion this year.

715
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Speaker 2: Happy holidays.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, look at us with a new puppy. Yeah, girl,

717
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Speaker 1: you got to send a card for the puppy.

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Speaker 4: No, you see, I don't want to be that organized.

719
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Speaker 6: I don't want to be taking pictures in sweaters in August.

720
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Speaker 4: To send out to brag in December.

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean. That's that's very organized.

722
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Speaker 4: That's too fucking organized.

723
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Speaker 3: But people who do Christmas cars like that, their lives

724
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Speaker 3: are really terrible.

725
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Speaker 1: That's why they're thinking about, oh well, if we take

726
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Speaker 1: these photos.

727
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:08,960
Speaker 2: This will fix them. People.

728
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Speaker 4: Everybody, we're happy.

729
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Speaker 1: Yeah, get the dog in here, Yeah, let's get bow ties.

730
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

731
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Speaker 6: Meanwhile, my pictures me and Adriana the New York Times

732
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Speaker 6: and a dead cat.

733
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Speaker 4: That's how we know you're doing well. Yeah, because the

734
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Speaker 4: water fridge.

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Speaker 3: You got her holding a copy of the newspaper, so

736
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Speaker 3: they know the date. We took these on December twenty fourth.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god.

738
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Speaker 1: So then so we got the papers this, what's the next?

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Speaker 5: So?

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Speaker 6: And then I don't know all the categories, but basically

741
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Speaker 6: the biggest one is Coomono I think it's called, and

742
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 6: it's bathroom.

743
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:53,200
Speaker 2: Like random stuff and garage, miscellaneous miscellaneous's junctual jump bathroom

744
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 2: is thrown in.

745
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Speaker 4: Isn't that weird?

746
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Speaker 2: Yeah?

747
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 1: Because the thing is is that like bathrooms, I feel like,

748
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:01,680
Speaker 1: are pretty simple, but sometimes people complicate that ship.

749
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Speaker 4: How much makeup do you have?

750
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Speaker 2: Not a lot natural beauty?

751
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 4: Do you have a lot of makeup and stuff?

752
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Speaker 1: I mean I used to have a lot of makeup.

753
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:15,080
Speaker 1: I don't have a lot of makeups now. But you know,

754
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:16,320
Speaker 1: when the brands come.

755
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Speaker 4: In, we want max five hundred thousand dollars.

756
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Speaker 2: Yeah, so for do do the work. Come on, do

757
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:29,200
Speaker 2: the work. But it's just all so.

758
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Speaker 6: She says, you basically have to collect all this ship

759
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Speaker 6: from around the house. And that's what starts to kill

760
00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:35,279
Speaker 6: me is that I realize, like, oh, my makeup is

761
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Speaker 6: on the counter in the kitchen, the wet wipes are

762
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Speaker 6: over here, everything, you know, and like so basically all

763
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Speaker 6: the right things are supposed to be in the right place.

764
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Speaker 4: That's her philosophy.

765
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Speaker 2: Okay, but I just you said you've been reading the

766
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Speaker 2: books since twenty fourteen. I know, I still haven't got many.

767
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:57,440
Speaker 4: Disorganization expert five years in to this ship? Is your

768
00:34:57,520 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 4: daughter messy?

769
00:34:59,360 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I mean in the thing is it's not like tragically messy,

771
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:05,360
Speaker 6: Like I'm really good at if somebody's coming.

772
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 4: Over, just like making the piles neat to just make

773
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:09,240
Speaker 4: it look perfect.

774
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:11,319
Speaker 2: Well, I want to let you know my mother.

775
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:14,719
Speaker 1: It was such a mess growing up, and I think

776
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Speaker 1: that I learned all those bad.

777
00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:16,799
Speaker 2: Habits from her.

778
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:20,920
Speaker 1: So it's just like, as I'm like your daughter adjacent, uh,

779
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:24,279
Speaker 1: you know, just just give her as many tools that

780
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Speaker 1: she can to like be as neat as possible, because

781
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:30,319
Speaker 1: I really think that a lot of my habits are

782
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Speaker 1: from Ramona. Ramona Marie her middle name.

783
00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:38,799
Speaker 4: Look at god, how's how's Ramona doing now?

784
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:41,440
Speaker 1: Shambles, shambles, shambles.

785
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 2: It's a mess.

786
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Speaker 1: What I mean, It's just like after a while, you know,

787
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Speaker 1: if you don't stop your shit at a certain age,

788
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 1: you just go keep it going, yep, because you'll get

789
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:54,600
Speaker 1: old and get real comfortable and be like I like

790
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:55,280
Speaker 1: my things.

791
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 4: You'll never throw things away. Yeah Doeshiela by herself.

792
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:01,880
Speaker 1: That's a tough topic, but no she does not.

793
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:04,879
Speaker 2: Oh okay, she got she got a six cats. No,

794
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:06,720
Speaker 2: she got two lovers, six cats.

795
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Speaker 1: No. After Albert died, Yeah, she never got Who's Albert?

796
00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:13,400
Speaker 1: That was my that was my kid, that was my

797
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:14,840
Speaker 1: cat when I when I was a baby.

798
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 2: Albert is an old man name. I was like, is

799
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 2: that her man?

800
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:17,920
Speaker 1: I know?

801
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:19,840
Speaker 2: Albert? And Ramona Marie?

802
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:24,400
Speaker 1: You know, no, Fred her Albert passed. Fred was her man.

803
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:26,360
Speaker 2: Fred could be the cat.

804
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:31,239
Speaker 3: Albert sounds like the man. Fred sounds like the cat.

805
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 3: But you know that's none of my business.

806
00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 2: AnyWho.

807
00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:37,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, so just make sure you, you know, get those

808
00:36:37,480 --> 00:36:38,439
Speaker 1: things together with your daughter.

809
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:41,279
Speaker 4: No, it's true. I'm trying, like, but kids don't want

810
00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 4: to let shit go.

811
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Speaker 6: You know, she's got all these stuffed animals, Like do

812
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 6: you remember when you got rid of that stuff?

813
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:48,879
Speaker 2: No?

814
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:51,360
Speaker 3: I think my mother was just slowly throwing it away.

815
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:52,879
Speaker 3: Like today, I woke up and I was thinking about

816
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 3: how I used to have all the babysitters clubs, club books.

817
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:56,279
Speaker 2: Do y'all remember them?

818
00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 3: And I was like, what happened to those? Because I

819
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 3: know I didn't throw them away? I think my mom

820
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 3: she's good at throwing away our stuff. But my mother

821
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:06,440
Speaker 3: holds onto all of her things, like everything, like her

822
00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:08,800
Speaker 3: kitchen is cluttered, her living room cluttered.

823
00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:11,040
Speaker 4: Like she holds onto everything. Ye see, I'm not alone

824
00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 4: in this. I feel very vindicated right now.

825
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 2: No, you're not alone.

826
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 1: But people don't really want to talk about that. That's

827
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:20,359
Speaker 1: right because it is a little embarrassing, which.

828
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:22,960
Speaker 6: Shouldn't be embarrassing because if everyone, if the majority of

829
00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 6: people are living this way.

830
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:26,239
Speaker 3: It is embarrassing when you go to people's houses and

831
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 3: you see what they're holding onto. Yes, yes, Like my

832
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:32,200
Speaker 3: mom and dad came to this country from Europe and

833
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:34,440
Speaker 3: my mother used to wear all this cool clothes. She

834
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 3: threw all that away because she was like, I couldn't

835
00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:37,280
Speaker 3: bring that to the United States.

836
00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:38,880
Speaker 2: And I'm like, but you want to get that.

837
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 3: So yeah, yeah yeah, and then I'll meet Like we

838
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:44,600
Speaker 3: have a friend Mally Austin, our Sex State expert. She

839
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:48,840
Speaker 3: her like, family will pass down like furniture, like nice

840
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:53,920
Speaker 3: like teak tables and like mirrors and like stuff like

841
00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:56,319
Speaker 3: that that they hold onto that she now has, and

842
00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:57,280
Speaker 3: that's air looms.

843
00:37:57,480 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 2: Cool to me.

844
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:00,640
Speaker 3: They didn't throw that stuff away, but they didn't hold

845
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 3: on to stuff to animals and books yeah stupid.

846
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:05,759
Speaker 4: Shit right yeah and papers. Yeah see.

847
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:10,120
Speaker 6: I used to just stealthily throw Adriana stuff away every

848
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:10,719
Speaker 6: August when she.

849
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:12,280
Speaker 2: Would go to her dad's house boom.

850
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:14,520
Speaker 6: But then she would come home and she would be like,

851
00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:17,320
Speaker 6: where's my thing, you know, and she'd be all pissed.

852
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:19,879
Speaker 6: So then I stopped doing child.

853
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:22,279
Speaker 1: If it happened, if the purge happens every August, she

854
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 1: would know to take what she needed to her dad's house.

855
00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 6: I know, I see, I'm I'm too soft because my

856
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 6: mom was such a bitch, you know, talk about it. Yes,

857
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:38,520
Speaker 6: that's why I'm and yes, unpack that. Unpacked the boxes,

858
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:40,719
Speaker 6: Carolyn finally put the clothes away.

859
00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:41,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

860
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:44,600
Speaker 6: Basically, it's funny that you say, oh, you got these

861
00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:47,400
Speaker 6: bad habits from your mom, who was messy. My mom

862
00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:53,560
Speaker 6: was Mommy Dearest level psycho clean, and I didn't.

863
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:54,839
Speaker 2: Want to be like yeah, so.

864
00:38:56,280 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 6: Yes, So that's why, in fact, interesting story that you know,

865
00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:06,440
Speaker 6: I've had this complicated relationship with my mom and I

866
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:09,759
Speaker 6: finally told her one day, I'm like, I need you

867
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:13,400
Speaker 6: to know that I have PTSD so bad from the

868
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:15,799
Speaker 6: ship that you did to me that I can't even

869
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 6: do my laundry.

870
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:18,839
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it.

871
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:22,880
Speaker 4: Got dark force for that dark for a minute.

872
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:33,359
Speaker 7: Amazing silence, Marie, Wait, what did your mom say when

873
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:33,920
Speaker 7: you said that?

874
00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:36,880
Speaker 6: So weirdly, that was the moment that got her to

875
00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 6: like finally understand the whole thing because she used to

876
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 6: be like, if you if you've seen the movie Mommy Dearest,

877
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:47,640
Speaker 6: you know it's all about like just beating you when

878
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:49,120
Speaker 6: you failed at cleaning.

879
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 1: Right, that was like a core I did not see

880
00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:54,240
Speaker 1: that I didn't watch. Is that the one with Jennifer Lawrence?

881
00:39:56,400 --> 00:40:00,359
Speaker 3: That's O Mother? Okay, but Michelle Pfeiffer was in it. Yeah,

882
00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:02,319
Speaker 3: she played a crazy mom.

883
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:08,040
Speaker 6: It's Joan Crawford and it's basically, you know, the real

884
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:15,920
Speaker 6: life story of her beating her daughter, Christina Crawford, because

885
00:40:16,120 --> 00:40:19,520
Speaker 6: like she was a crazy narcissist and she was obsessed

886
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:20,720
Speaker 6: with having a clean house.

887
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Speaker 2: Lifetime Channels, it's a Lifetime Mom sounds probably.

888
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Speaker 6: I mean it's it's like a classic you could you

889
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:27,960
Speaker 6: could maybe find it on what year did it come out?

890
00:40:28,520 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 4: Nineteen? No, it was like in the seventies. I think

891
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:35,680
Speaker 4: CBA filtered.

892
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:38,799
Speaker 2: It's a rainy, it's a little soft. Yeah. Yeah.

893
00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:41,600
Speaker 6: So but anyway, so, like there's this famous scene where

894
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:46,239
Speaker 6: she goes into Christina's closet and she sees wire hangers

895
00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:47,520
Speaker 6: and there's not supposed to.

896
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 4: Be no wire hanger?

897
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:53,800
Speaker 1: Is that from Tyler Perry that they make a reference

898
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:53,960
Speaker 1: in that?

899
00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:55,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, probably.

900
00:40:56,360 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 2: Tyler. Joan didn't get that from Tyler Perry. No, no, no,

901
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:01,400
Speaker 2: I'm saying I think Tyler Perry referenced it.

902
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 1: Well, I've never seen a Tyler Perry anything. But that's

903
00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 1: why hang us shut up such a bitch throwing me

904
00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:12,239
Speaker 1: under the bus.

905
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:13,879
Speaker 4: You do yourself under the book.

906
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 1: You Watchyler Perry, so you're just go and rose me

907
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:21,880
Speaker 1: from the Titanic. You don't fit on the door, the

908
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 1: door for your friend.

909
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 2: You and Tyler Perry can't fit on this door.

910
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:30,359
Speaker 6: So so so basically, she was like yeah, and she

911
00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:32,440
Speaker 6: she beats her can and it's it's just all about like,

912
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:35,319
Speaker 6: no matter how perfect you try to be, you'll never

913
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:36,240
Speaker 6: be good enough.

914
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:38,440
Speaker 4: For your mom, for your mom, for your crazy.

915
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:40,720
Speaker 2: Mom and some therapy right there. Oh totally.

916
00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:42,520
Speaker 1: I feel like we should charge you one hundred dollars

917
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:48,600
Speaker 1: twenty five we're talking, okay, imagine if we charge your

918
00:41:48,640 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 1: I guess one hundred and twenty five dollars to chat

919
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:53,560
Speaker 1: for an hour so you can pay for the song.

920
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:55,880
Speaker 2: Our receptionists will give.

921
00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:59,799
Speaker 1: You the bill or the next date you need to

922
00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:00,120
Speaker 1: come in.

923
00:42:00,800 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 6: So basically, I told my mom this thing, you know,

924
00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 6: and she goes Carolyn, you know, you said PTSD, and

925
00:42:09,239 --> 00:42:12,719
Speaker 6: I thought, how could she have that?

926
00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 4: That's just for war people, you know. But then I

927
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:18,759
Speaker 4: looked it up online and it turns out that's an epidemic.

928
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 4: Everybody in your generation.

929
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:26,600
Speaker 6: He has that from what we did to you, Terry, Terry,

930
00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:27,839
Speaker 6: that sounds like.

931
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:33,359
Speaker 2: She got a short haircut. Yeah yeah, Terry.

932
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:36,319
Speaker 4: So but that was her awakening, right, and then she

933
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:38,719
Speaker 4: started to do all this reading. She had to google it.

934
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:41,000
Speaker 2: Shout out to Google, shout out to Google.

935
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:43,239
Speaker 1: So yeah, but I feel like that's the type of

936
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:46,799
Speaker 1: relationship you got with your with your Terry. That's not

937
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:49,200
Speaker 1: happening with Ramona, like to tell her.

938
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 2: Like you were a mess.

939
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 1: I did the.

940
00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:52,280
Speaker 4: Best I could.

941
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:58,440
Speaker 3: You know, I worked every day, okay, same have a

942
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 3: good relationship with my mom. But I can't ever say

943
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:03,719
Speaker 3: if I said you ve me PTSD, my mother would

944
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 3: be like, I didn't go to no PTSD.

945
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:07,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I'd be like, no.

946
00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:11,319
Speaker 3: PTSD and she'd be like stdes. She like you dirt

947
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:13,919
Speaker 3: like she would that's a language thing.

948
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 4: She wouldn't get it.

949
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:16,640
Speaker 2: And my mother's not jumping on Google to google anything.

950
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:16,839
Speaker 1: Yeah.

951
00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:19,279
Speaker 6: Yeah, Well my mother was the same way forever, you know,

952
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 6: like she would just go you trying to see him

953
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:25,640
Speaker 6: a bead mother, you know, and she couldn't handle it.

954
00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:28,880
Speaker 6: But there was something about me saying two jobs would

955
00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:29,480
Speaker 6: I hurt.

956
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:32,880
Speaker 1: You, okay, right, yeah, my mom, I've been in this

957
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:33,879
Speaker 1: good for thirty year.

958
00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:35,520
Speaker 2: Well, my mother also wouldn't cry. You would just yell.

959
00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:37,759
Speaker 2: I've been for thirty years old. My mother would cry.

960
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 2: I don't speak the language. I didn't kill you. I

961
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:41,880
Speaker 2: fed you every day. I put clothes on you, and

962
00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:43,759
Speaker 2: you were clean when you went to school. Yeah, and

963
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:47,279
Speaker 2: it'd be like, yeah, but you never hugged me. Okay,

964
00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:49,040
Speaker 2: I have my fucking room.

965
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:51,360
Speaker 4: Who did you have to sleep.

966
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:51,839
Speaker 2: With my mother?

967
00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:55,439
Speaker 4: Oh shit, my mona.

968
00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:56,560
Speaker 2: I think we're gonna charge.

969
00:43:58,080 --> 00:43:59,360
Speaker 1: To my mother.

970
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 2: That's what you get.

971
00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:08,399
Speaker 1: I feel a tats and it's triggered, and I don't

972
00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:11,200
Speaker 1: think I could work with you anymore. Did your mom

973
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:14,040
Speaker 1: make you watch Tyler Perry thing with her? She would

974
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 1: make me watch the Lifetime channel.

975
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 4: You were just in bed with her watching women.

976
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:20,160
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no.

977
00:44:20,880 --> 00:44:25,080
Speaker 1: In the living room for that okay, very family oriented

978
00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:27,920
Speaker 1: family room because that room was also the family room.

979
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 6: Yeah.

980
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:29,759
Speaker 4: Was it just see of you growing up?

981
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:30,839
Speaker 1: No?

982
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:31,360
Speaker 4: Okay?

983
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:36,480
Speaker 1: But she loved Daniel Steele movies that they had the

984
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 1: book and then they would make the movies on Lifetime

985
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 1: channel and she would make the wrong just like drama

986
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:48,759
Speaker 1: like white women center of everything, Yes, yes, no Roberts.

987
00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 2: Yes.

988
00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:51,280
Speaker 1: So like I didn't have my own room, so whatever Ramon,

989
00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:54,920
Speaker 1: I had to watch whatever Ramona was dealing with at

990
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:55,319
Speaker 1: the time.

991
00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:58,320
Speaker 2: And it's like I always felt older because.

992
00:44:58,239 --> 00:45:01,440
Speaker 6: Yes, I'm sure my daughter feels that, just you know,

993
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 6: it's just two of us.

994
00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:03,359
Speaker 5: Yea.

995
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:04,640
Speaker 4: And so it's like.

996
00:45:05,160 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 6: She she she's watching me have this relationship with my mother.

997
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:12,080
Speaker 6: You know, she makes fun of me now that she's

998
00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:15,080
Speaker 6: a teenager, and she goes, this is you my mother.

999
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:18,320
Speaker 1: One day you and your your daughter are going to

1000
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:23,719
Speaker 1: get into She's like, mom, you're not my friend. Your

1001
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 1: mom my mom would slap the ship out of him there.

1002
00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:29,719
Speaker 1: Who yeah, my mother.

1003
00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:30,759
Speaker 2: No, she's not my friend.

1004
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:33,680
Speaker 1: She didn't be like Carolyn, we're not friends anymore.

1005
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:39,080
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I would die. I would see breakdown.

1006
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:39,839
Speaker 2: I would die.

1007
00:45:40,160 --> 00:45:41,360
Speaker 4: She still calls me mommy.

1008
00:45:41,880 --> 00:45:44,800
Speaker 2: So if she ever, she better not call you ever, Carolyn.

1009
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:47,600
Speaker 2: That's Marie.

1010
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:49,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's how you know ship went down?

1011
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:54,520
Speaker 2: Relationship whoa. So anyway, so that's why you know, does

1012
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:55,359
Speaker 2: she have her own room?

1013
00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:56,520
Speaker 4: She has her own room.

1014
00:45:56,640 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 2: She's not sleeping.

1015
00:45:57,200 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 1: They gotta wash her and dryer and water fridge.

1016
00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 4: That would be creepy as fuck if we had all that.

1017
00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 1: And I was like, she sleeps with me, you know, yeah, yeah, definitely.

1018
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:10,560
Speaker 4: No, she's got her own room and we were just

1019
00:46:10,600 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 4: trying to work on it. She's doing pretty.

1020
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:14,719
Speaker 6: Good putting the stuff away, but I feel like what

1021
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:18,319
Speaker 6: always happens is we get like almost done and then

1022
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:19,799
Speaker 6: don't fucking finish.

1023
00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 2: Never finish.

1024
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:23,240
Speaker 1: That is my thing. It's like start it never finished.

1025
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:25,279
Speaker 1: Oh that's how I am, not just with cleaning, but

1026
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:25,880
Speaker 1: with everything.

1027
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 4: And that's why it's stayed.

1028
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 2: Everything days away a day to cleaning.

1029
00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:32,239
Speaker 4: But a day is not enough.

1030
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 3: Saturday morning, get up early, you know, put some old

1031
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:36,520
Speaker 3: school jams on.

1032
00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:38,360
Speaker 2: Clean your house. Do you do that?

1033
00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:41,920
Speaker 3: I mean not every week? But I don't have a

1034
00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:45,439
Speaker 3: I don't have a junkie. I mean it's messy my room,

1035
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 3: but once I clean it, like I get tired of

1036
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 3: stepping over things and refolding and unfolding things, and I

1037
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 3: clean eventually, but.

1038
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:55,880
Speaker 2: Like you just got to devote a day to do

1039
00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:57,240
Speaker 2: it because you clean your baptom.

1040
00:46:57,560 --> 00:47:00,439
Speaker 4: Well, my kitchen is always spotless, right you know.

1041
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:02,080
Speaker 2: So when you do that, I need to work on that.

1042
00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:02,479
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1043
00:47:02,520 --> 00:47:04,440
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, well you gotta get rid of those cats.

1044
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:06,720
Speaker 2: Is tough tough one. Well, no, the cats.

1045
00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:09,319
Speaker 1: The cats are actually not a mess. Like they got

1046
00:47:09,320 --> 00:47:12,040
Speaker 1: their little taj mahal little scratch room posts.

1047
00:47:12,080 --> 00:47:15,320
Speaker 2: That's like a little little it's like a nine foot tower.

1048
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:17,800
Speaker 4: It's huge.

1049
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love.

1050
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 1: And they have an automatic uh feed feeder and kitty litter.

1051
00:47:23,800 --> 00:47:24,240
Speaker 4: Wow.

1052
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 2: So there, And then they got like cat jungle gym

1053
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 2: like toy things.

1054
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:30,120
Speaker 1: Why organize these cats?

1055
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:31,240
Speaker 4: You live in a cat palace.

1056
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:34,360
Speaker 1: I do live in a cat palace. Wow, Jelly and jam,

1057
00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 1: they probably live better than all of us.

1058
00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:38,719
Speaker 2: They don't pen no bills. They don't need to buy

1059
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 2: metro cars.

1060
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 1: No, they don't. And they have really good food like

1061
00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:44,600
Speaker 1: organic organic.

1062
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:47,439
Speaker 2: They don't organic. I don't.

1063
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:50,959
Speaker 4: So funny. Do you guys cook or no? I cook?

1064
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:51,480
Speaker 2: Sometimes?

1065
00:47:51,520 --> 00:47:56,160
Speaker 1: I cooked last night? Yeah, I had like curry noodles

1066
00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:59,439
Speaker 1: with string beans. Okay, that's why that's why you're talking

1067
00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:00,840
Speaker 1: about bidets today.

1068
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:02,440
Speaker 2: That curry went through you.

1069
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:05,040
Speaker 1: No, I could actually couldn't eat it because of my

1070
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:09,279
Speaker 1: mouth and my root canal. Oh yeah, I'll have it

1071
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:12,719
Speaker 1: eventually so I can take food to go.

1072
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:14,719
Speaker 2: I notice you didn't enough to bring to the studios.

1073
00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:18,000
Speaker 2: I know I should have brought some to this for money.

1074
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:20,520
Speaker 4: Here, but that's I hate people that are like that.

1075
00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:21,520
Speaker 4: I need cookies.

1076
00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:23,839
Speaker 3: I went to a meeting yesterday at a s girl's

1077
00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 3: dad made cookies. We told them cookies up. You don't

1078
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:32,280
Speaker 3: like that, you know, only people who bring some sugar.

1079
00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:35,279
Speaker 6: No, I mean I do, but I just, damn mom,

1080
00:48:37,239 --> 00:48:39,239
Speaker 6: it just it makes me feel like shit because like

1081
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:41,799
Speaker 6: I can't get there, you know what I mean? I

1082
00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 6: can't because the thing is is like if you're going

1083
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:45,920
Speaker 6: to be disorganized at home, you got to.

1084
00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:48,800
Speaker 4: Be super organized at work, yes, right, because that's.

1085
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 1: How you make your money to you don't want to

1086
00:48:50,760 --> 00:48:51,360
Speaker 1: get shired.

1087
00:48:51,440 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's right.

1088
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:56,520
Speaker 6: So all my I'm I'm like super graded organization. But

1089
00:48:56,600 --> 00:48:58,640
Speaker 6: I put all the energy into work.

1090
00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:05,440
Speaker 2: And some cookies and them in some troubleware and they

1091
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:06,360
Speaker 2: may put it in the tule.

1092
00:49:06,440 --> 00:49:07,720
Speaker 1: Just bring the container.

1093
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 4: Could toll house cookie it?

1094
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:14,400
Speaker 2: You know, bake you were talking about like the actual

1095
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:16,239
Speaker 2: store like an intimates.

1096
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:19,960
Speaker 3: That's rude, right, those some some chips and hoy cookies

1097
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 3: on a plate and be like I baked these.

1098
00:49:21,680 --> 00:49:24,319
Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, Well in the mom world ship like that

1099
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:27,200
Speaker 6: gets very competitive, right, So it's like did you buy

1100
00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 6: it or did you bake it?

1101
00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:30,600
Speaker 2: Tell those other moms to mind their business.

1102
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:33,359
Speaker 1: No, yeah, I would be the mom like, no, no,

1103
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:35,040
Speaker 1: I'm my daughter can't Yeah, no.

1104
00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:37,880
Speaker 2: I just buy It'd be like, your daughter also can't read?

1105
00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:44,239
Speaker 2: My daughter read? My hypothetical daughter can fucking read.

1106
00:49:44,800 --> 00:49:47,279
Speaker 3: I'm not going back and forth with these moms at

1107
00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:48,480
Speaker 3: an elementary school.

1108
00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 2: Your daughter can't readies are not storeboard. I made these.

1109
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:53,399
Speaker 2: I'm a working mom.

1110
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:56,759
Speaker 6: That's right, and your kid learns like where your limits are?

1111
00:49:56,880 --> 00:49:59,440
Speaker 6: Because my daughter was like, can we participate in the

1112
00:49:59,440 --> 00:49:59,959
Speaker 6: bake sale?

1113
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:02,560
Speaker 4: Don't worry, I'll just bring a bag of candy.

1114
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:04,120
Speaker 7: Oh.

1115
00:50:04,200 --> 00:50:05,800
Speaker 2: I never asked my mom to do anything for the

1116
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:10,319
Speaker 2: big silly. I knew she was not. Absolutely not.

1117
00:50:10,880 --> 00:50:13,600
Speaker 1: They wanted us to make cupcakes in middle school. My

1118
00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:15,279
Speaker 1: mother was like, I don't even have that thing to

1119
00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:17,480
Speaker 1: make the cupcakes. No, I don't even have that thing,

1120
00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:18,520
Speaker 1: the cupcake trap.

1121
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:20,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, we don't have that. We didn't have that at

1122
00:50:20,160 --> 00:50:20,719
Speaker 2: my house either.

1123
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:23,600
Speaker 1: Tell them it's unfortunate, but we won't.

1124
00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:25,319
Speaker 2: We can that.

1125
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:26,160
Speaker 4: It's true.

1126
00:50:26,640 --> 00:50:28,520
Speaker 3: No, but for your birthday, did you used to bring

1127
00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:31,840
Speaker 3: like munchkins or whatever cupcakes for your class?

1128
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:34,400
Speaker 2: No? We would get. We would go to Dunkin Donuts

1129
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 2: and get munchkins like the little mines.

1130
00:50:36,560 --> 00:50:39,439
Speaker 4: That's what the kids want anyway. Yeah, you're better off

1131
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:43,120
Speaker 4: being the cool mom. This organization has its benefits, you know.

1132
00:50:43,360 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 6: You're like, hey, everybody, I brought McDonald's to the feast.

1133
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:50,600
Speaker 1: You know wait, wait, people are bringing cupcakes for their birthday.

1134
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:53,880
Speaker 3: You know one in you like when you were in school,

1135
00:50:54,040 --> 00:50:57,760
Speaker 3: no one ever bought cupcakes or donuts on their birthday

1136
00:50:58,000 --> 00:50:59,200
Speaker 3: to share with the class.

1137
00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:02,280
Speaker 2: Andrew did they do that? Oh?

1138
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:05,560
Speaker 3: Wow, they didn't do that in Oakland. They did that

1139
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:07,120
Speaker 3: in like we did that.

1140
00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:09,440
Speaker 4: No, Oh Sydney.

1141
00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:14,720
Speaker 1: Wow, well city's birthday is on I want to February second,

1142
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:15,839
Speaker 1: So will you'll bring her?

1143
00:51:15,880 --> 00:51:18,640
Speaker 2: So much? I will bring You're supposed to bring them

1144
00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 2: for us?

1145
00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:22,920
Speaker 4: No, I'm going to bring munchkins to your birthday party.

1146
00:51:23,800 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 1: And wow, you're more upset about this than the fact

1147
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:37,280
Speaker 1: that slept with my mom with your Albert and friend.

1148
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:38,600
Speaker 4: What is life?

1149
00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:39,040
Speaker 2: See?

1150
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:41,840
Speaker 4: I knew it would dig a little deeping's too much? No,

1151
00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:42,560
Speaker 4: I love it.

1152
00:51:42,840 --> 00:51:47,040
Speaker 1: You need to Carolyn, They need the Marie kdo you

1153
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:51,200
Speaker 1: out get the hell out? What are some things that

1154
00:51:51,239 --> 00:51:53,360
Speaker 1: you know you need to get rid of Okay, you

1155
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:55,120
Speaker 1: see them, you know you need to get rid of them.

1156
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:57,520
Speaker 4: But you're like, I's so hard for me to even

1157
00:51:57,600 --> 00:52:02,440
Speaker 4: admit this ship newspaper like an entire step, the New

1158
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:05,960
Speaker 4: York Times, because I keep telling myself I'm gonna read.

1159
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:06,880
Speaker 2: It, but you never read it.

1160
00:52:06,840 --> 00:52:09,239
Speaker 4: When you just keep a kid, she goes, we need

1161
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:12,440
Speaker 4: just the digital version. Stop it.

1162
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:15,000
Speaker 2: You know, you know the newspaper comes out every day.

1163
00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:17,479
Speaker 4: No, I know, but I'm such an asshole and.

1164
00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:21,200
Speaker 1: Like the status thing, it's a static things. When growing

1165
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:24,319
Speaker 1: up middle school, the New York Times, people who would

1166
00:52:24,360 --> 00:52:24,960
Speaker 1: come to school with.

1167
00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:27,680
Speaker 2: That, You're like, oh, they are doing so well. Try

1168
00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:30,240
Speaker 2: what school did you go through? They didn't bring stuff

1169
00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:32,120
Speaker 2: for birth their birthday, but they bought the news.

1170
00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:35,800
Speaker 1: I came in with the Daily News and people gas.

1171
00:52:36,239 --> 00:52:40,080
Speaker 2: They were like, you read the Daily News. I was like, yeah,

1172
00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:40,919
Speaker 2: this is what my mom.

1173
00:52:43,040 --> 00:52:46,640
Speaker 1: Wow they felt so they laid hands on my shoulders.

1174
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:49,560
Speaker 1: Jesus Christ as well came in with a Time magazine

1175
00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:52,200
Speaker 1: for kids that's exactlight right magazine.

1176
00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:56,440
Speaker 6: I'm just trying to overcome my childhood with this fucking newspaper.

1177
00:52:56,560 --> 00:52:59,200
Speaker 4: But you know, the newspapers it's not the answer. You

1178
00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:02,480
Speaker 4: gotta throw those papers, the papers away, and then.

1179
00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:04,359
Speaker 2: Can you do that today? Can you do that for us?

1180
00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:09,360
Speaker 1: Can you before you throwing the new papers away so

1181
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:10,080
Speaker 1: we can post it?

1182
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:13,240
Speaker 4: Will We're gonna hold I will do it. The viewers,

1183
00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:13,920
Speaker 4: I mean the.

1184
00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:18,319
Speaker 1: Listeners, the viewers on the Instagram, they want to see it.

1185
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:20,360
Speaker 6: All right, I'll do it. I'll do the papers, I promise,

1186
00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:23,600
Speaker 6: and then other stuff. I gotta go through the clothes.

1187
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:26,120
Speaker 6: I gotta go through the clothes because I really do

1188
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:28,040
Speaker 6: have like four pairs of pleather pants.

1189
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:30,720
Speaker 4: And that's too much pleather. That's not too much.

1190
00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:37,480
Speaker 2: Like a latex pant. Yeah, I got two pairs of those. Yeah,

1191
00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:39,160
Speaker 2: so recent recent pair.

1192
00:53:39,239 --> 00:53:40,040
Speaker 4: Oh that's nice.

1193
00:53:40,400 --> 00:53:46,160
Speaker 1: She looks like a superhero. I don't know what song

1194
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:47,879
Speaker 1: that is. So I don't think we have to pay

1195
00:53:47,880 --> 00:53:48,120
Speaker 1: for it.

1196
00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:51,880
Speaker 4: But like I have, like you know, sad underwear that

1197
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:52,560
Speaker 4: has to go.

1198
00:53:52,880 --> 00:53:54,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, the wait a set, Well you're not You're not

1199
00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:57,680
Speaker 2: gonna get no dig so girl, I got a hole

1200
00:53:57,760 --> 00:54:04,880
Speaker 2: in the front. Okay, Hell, you don't show us. We

1201
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:08,200
Speaker 2: don't want to see Sydney. She's about to show us.

1202
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:10,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna look at because Instagram, because you

1203
00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:17,520
Speaker 1: want to see Sydney.

1204
00:54:17,560 --> 00:54:21,160
Speaker 2: You got to get left together. God so much.

1205
00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:24,880
Speaker 1: Sydney pulled her pants down in the studio hole in

1206
00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:25,360
Speaker 1: the front.

1207
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:27,800
Speaker 2: Friends, I didn't even know. I went to the bathroom.

1208
00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:29,360
Speaker 4: I was like, what happened?

1209
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:31,120
Speaker 2: And then I was like, oh, that's a hole, like

1210
00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:34,920
Speaker 2: you had a real sharp bed.

1211
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:37,239
Speaker 1: I was like, is that a stain? I was like, what,

1212
00:54:37,600 --> 00:54:39,040
Speaker 1: Like what happened to the coachin?

1213
00:54:39,160 --> 00:54:40,640
Speaker 2: It's just it's just a whole.

1214
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:42,240
Speaker 4: The juices are acidic.

1215
00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:47,960
Speaker 2: pH and it's off. It's very off. You know that curry.

1216
00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:51,520
Speaker 4: That curry is a shut up Sydney. Okay.

1217
00:54:51,600 --> 00:54:54,239
Speaker 6: And then just all the random the random ship like

1218
00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:56,839
Speaker 6: all like all the shoes. No, I don't have tons

1219
00:54:56,840 --> 00:55:00,160
Speaker 6: of shoes at all, but it's more like choch keys.

1220
00:55:00,560 --> 00:55:03,920
Speaker 1: Candles, candles. You can't have candles if you got all

1221
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:05,040
Speaker 1: those newspapers.

1222
00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:06,400
Speaker 4: Though, I know, so I've learned.

1223
00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:07,839
Speaker 2: Hold on.

1224
00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:11,000
Speaker 1: We did not have candles like that. It was just

1225
00:55:11,200 --> 00:55:12,400
Speaker 1: it was just.

1226
00:55:13,880 --> 00:55:16,680
Speaker 2: Had Sydney. Yeah. Yeah, they had matches. That's all I needed.

1227
00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:20,279
Speaker 6: Yeah, so and and and the papers I have to

1228
00:55:20,320 --> 00:55:21,959
Speaker 6: go through like.

1229
00:55:22,000 --> 00:55:23,839
Speaker 2: No, you don't go through them, just throw them all

1230
00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:25,960
Speaker 2: the way newspapers.

1231
00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:29,439
Speaker 1: No, if you have like your it's like personal on there,

1232
00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:32,520
Speaker 1: get a shredder, call it a day.

1233
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:36,040
Speaker 2: I got to shred. Do you want to shudder? Yeah,

1234
00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:39,799
Speaker 2: that's yes, Yes you want to shutter. I'll let your borrow.

1235
00:55:39,880 --> 00:55:41,520
Speaker 4: Let's redd it together together.

1236
00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:45,759
Speaker 1: I don't have anything to shred, but i'll put I

1237
00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:47,280
Speaker 1: bring some of my roommate's papers.

1238
00:55:49,880 --> 00:55:51,920
Speaker 4: And I think I just got to get my kid

1239
00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:53,960
Speaker 4: to like just pick up.

1240
00:55:54,280 --> 00:56:00,240
Speaker 2: You know, it's just get kid. You gotta.

1241
00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:04,239
Speaker 1: Shut up what you want to do when she get

1242
00:56:04,280 --> 00:56:05,120
Speaker 1: when she leaves.

1243
00:56:04,920 --> 00:56:06,399
Speaker 4: Due, I don't fucking know for real.

1244
00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:08,120
Speaker 1: She's thirteen, so you got some time.

1245
00:56:08,200 --> 00:56:10,560
Speaker 4: No, I know, but that's I see.

1246
00:56:10,880 --> 00:56:13,080
Speaker 6: There is a future in which we are gray gardens

1247
00:56:13,080 --> 00:56:17,920
Speaker 6: in it forever. Just in the you guys, all right,

1248
00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 6: it's uh. These two ladies out in Long Island and

1249
00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:25,000
Speaker 6: the Hampton's they basically let their house completely fall apart.

1250
00:56:25,000 --> 00:56:27,480
Speaker 6: It was a mother and daughter and by the end

1251
00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:29,239
Speaker 6: they were like eating.

1252
00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:30,279
Speaker 4: Cat food out of tins and ship.

1253
00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:31,279
Speaker 2: That's what you're gonna do.

1254
00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:34,440
Speaker 1: I'll the cops now.

1255
00:56:35,320 --> 00:56:38,680
Speaker 4: No, I'm saying that if it all goes wrong, that's

1256
00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:39,560
Speaker 4: how it could end up.

1257
00:56:39,600 --> 00:56:41,759
Speaker 1: But it's sounding like you were trying to say, if

1258
00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:44,440
Speaker 1: they set up where it's gonna.

1259
00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:46,799
Speaker 6: Go no, no, But then the positive version is like

1260
00:56:46,920 --> 00:56:48,080
Speaker 6: the Gilmore Girls.

1261
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:52,000
Speaker 2: You know, oh she they lived.

1262
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:54,520
Speaker 1: Where we're like rich, the Golden Girls. But the guilt,

1263
00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:57,640
Speaker 1: I think that's messy. I think there needs to be

1264
00:56:57,680 --> 00:57:00,480
Speaker 1: some separation. I don't want to be like Green Leave,

1265
00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:03,000
Speaker 1: where the whole family lives in this mansion. I don't

1266
00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:03,960
Speaker 1: want none of that.

1267
00:57:04,360 --> 00:57:06,320
Speaker 2: I don't want the ship's creek.

1268
00:57:06,400 --> 00:57:08,799
Speaker 1: I don't like these families that live in a house

1269
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:12,440
Speaker 1: to get no, none of that should get out. Like everybody,

1270
00:57:12,760 --> 00:57:17,680
Speaker 1: these were children, children, children's gotta pay. The crazy thing

1271
00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:20,120
Speaker 1: is that they lived in Brooklyn. Them kids gotta work.

1272
00:57:20,440 --> 00:57:22,160
Speaker 1: They gotta work, and you gotta get your own place.

1273
00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:26,520
Speaker 4: She already works, she babysits. Yeah, she's she's building her

1274
00:57:26,640 --> 00:57:27,200
Speaker 4: escape plan.

1275
00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:29,280
Speaker 2: How much money you got safe?

1276
00:57:29,800 --> 00:57:32,600
Speaker 4: Oh tell me, actually you should.

1277
00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:35,440
Speaker 2: Does she have a bank account? She does, so you

1278
00:57:35,480 --> 00:57:37,080
Speaker 2: should know what she has on her bank account.

1279
00:57:37,080 --> 00:57:39,400
Speaker 4: Well, she her dad started a bank account.

1280
00:57:39,400 --> 00:57:40,160
Speaker 2: Oh so you know.

1281
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:47,880
Speaker 6: Yeah, but then she's got her babysitting money, and you

1282
00:57:47,920 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 6: know yeah, I mean she's gonna go to college, she's

1283
00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:52,880
Speaker 6: gonna live her life.

1284
00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:54,000
Speaker 2: You're gonna be devastated.

1285
00:57:54,160 --> 00:57:54,520
Speaker 4: I am.

1286
00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:57,000
Speaker 2: But you're gonna have an extra room. Though. What we're

1287
00:57:57,040 --> 00:57:59,080
Speaker 2: gonna do with that room? What we gonna do with

1288
00:57:59,160 --> 00:57:59,520
Speaker 2: that room?

1289
00:57:59,760 --> 00:58:02,400
Speaker 1: Are you gonna get another apartment with just one bedroom? Like?

1290
00:58:02,720 --> 00:58:03,920
Speaker 4: Turn it into an office.

1291
00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:07,280
Speaker 1: Now, that's more that's more junk, that's more papers, that's.

1292
00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:10,400
Speaker 2: More papers, more books. See, turn it into like a

1293
00:58:10,520 --> 00:58:11,280
Speaker 2: craft room.

1294
00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 1: Ew I like like making, like knitting things.

1295
00:58:18,200 --> 00:58:19,680
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, Carolyn, you're better than that.

1296
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 1: You got your out for the podcast sweaters, because then

1297
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:28,120
Speaker 1: you got to shift to grandma mode.

1298
00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:31,600
Speaker 4: You got no fuck No. They want to be a grandma.

1299
00:58:31,680 --> 00:58:33,400
Speaker 4: But by the time I'm a grandma, I want to

1300
00:58:33,440 --> 00:58:35,560
Speaker 4: be like rich. I want to be rich grandma.

1301
00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:38,000
Speaker 2: I see it. You don't be another Stewart And it's

1302
00:58:38,000 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 2: for our grandkids. No, I mean she went to jail.

1303
00:58:42,160 --> 00:58:46,080
Speaker 1: She's a cool grandma exactly my grandma ex convict?

1304
00:58:46,160 --> 00:58:49,800
Speaker 2: What up she's supposed to? Yeah? I know that's so.

1305
00:58:49,960 --> 00:58:54,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, we grandma. That's goals? Is that you maybe do

1306
00:58:54,280 --> 00:58:56,720
Speaker 4: you smoke once it's legal?

1307
00:58:57,720 --> 00:59:00,120
Speaker 2: Allegedly? Oh I hear, I see what you're doing? What

1308
00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:01,320
Speaker 2: you doing? Yeah?

1309
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:02,760
Speaker 4: The feds are not listening to the podcast.

1310
00:59:03,440 --> 00:59:08,640
Speaker 1: I mean, they might say they I think Sydney this tape,

1311
00:59:09,840 --> 00:59:11,320
Speaker 1: that's what the charger is.

1312
00:59:14,400 --> 00:59:16,880
Speaker 2: Exactly. Doom Doom, Doom doom.

1313
00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:21,680
Speaker 3: So we had a cool mom expert on a couple

1314
00:59:22,160 --> 00:59:25,280
Speaker 3: months ago. Do you think that you're a cool mom too?

1315
00:59:25,360 --> 00:59:27,360
Speaker 4: I am cool as hell for sure.

1316
00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:28,880
Speaker 2: I mean, you had a podcast with your daughter.

1317
00:59:29,600 --> 00:59:31,800
Speaker 6: I mean, what makes me a cool mom is I'm

1318
00:59:31,840 --> 00:59:34,560
Speaker 6: not cool on the I questioned on the bakes El Ship.

1319
00:59:35,080 --> 00:59:39,080
Speaker 6: I'm cool because she can talk and it's so real.

1320
00:59:40,440 --> 00:59:42,200
Speaker 2: They talk.

1321
00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:43,760
Speaker 4: That's not a credit.

1322
00:59:45,280 --> 00:59:47,600
Speaker 6: So talk to us about the podcast and and so

1323
00:59:47,640 --> 00:59:49,840
Speaker 6: it's called Daughter Knows Best and we just have real

1324
00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:53,600
Speaker 6: conversations about all kinds of different things. The last one

1325
00:59:53,640 --> 00:59:59,760
Speaker 6: she brought me her conspiracy theories about Britney Spears. She

1326
01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:03,200
Speaker 6: thinks that Britney Spears was a tool of the US

1327
01:00:03,320 --> 01:00:09,520
Speaker 6: government during the George Bush administration. It's it's very interesting listens.

1328
01:00:09,240 --> 01:00:10,760
Speaker 2: Around the George Bush administration.

1329
01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:17,640
Speaker 1: I don't think of the dad that died, Yeah, because

1330
01:00:17,640 --> 01:00:17,960
Speaker 1: I don't.

1331
01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:19,160
Speaker 2: I wasn't around for that.

1332
01:00:19,520 --> 01:00:22,840
Speaker 1: Yeah. Okay, So she thinks people are saying that they

1333
01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:27,920
Speaker 1: think the Kardashians are a government like plant to distract

1334
01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:29,200
Speaker 1: us from like what's happening.

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Speaker 6: That's the theory is that certain celebrities are tapped to

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Speaker 6: distract us from the reality because they ain't got no skills,

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Speaker 6: they can't even they don't have no albums.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, but the reality is here, we see it.

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Speaker 2: It's fine.

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Speaker 1: Like even the Kardashians don't deflect me from anything.

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Speaker 4: No, I've never watched a single episode of Single one.

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Speaker 1: Yes, we are all pure Sidney, have you. I feel

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01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:57,360
Speaker 1: like Sidney scene an episode but late late night, like

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01:00:57,440 --> 01:00:59,600
Speaker 1: you know, like two am, and I'm just like, I

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01:00:59,640 --> 01:01:00,600
Speaker 1: can't go to sleep.

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01:01:00,760 --> 01:01:01,880
Speaker 2: This will put me to sleep.

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01:01:02,240 --> 01:01:05,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know Kindle Jenner talking, it's like all of.

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01:01:05,760 --> 01:01:10,080
Speaker 2: Them so like I'm so, I'm like, you know.

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01:01:12,040 --> 01:01:13,640
Speaker 4: They don't have to organize their house.

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01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:16,280
Speaker 3: They can pay people to do that. Would you would

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Speaker 3: you pay somebody to organize your house that you could

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Speaker 3: afford it?

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01:01:18,280 --> 01:01:21,240
Speaker 4: This is my problem is that I wouldn't witch what.

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01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:25,400
Speaker 1: I can't wait till I get some fucking weird ass

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01:01:25,480 --> 01:01:26,479
Speaker 1: like white dude.

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01:01:26,480 --> 01:01:29,640
Speaker 2: I'm getting a white dude come in here. Don't murder

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01:01:29,680 --> 01:01:30,000
Speaker 2: you though.

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01:01:30,520 --> 01:01:33,200
Speaker 1: Now, all those Lifetime movies that you watched and you

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01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:35,760
Speaker 1: don't think you you just watched you on Netflix and

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01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:38,439
Speaker 1: you want to get some creepy waymn and you being

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01:01:38,520 --> 01:01:41,360
Speaker 1: a choker, I'm ball and chain.

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01:01:43,560 --> 01:01:46,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, Caucasian slaves.

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Speaker 4: I'm all for that. Yeah, I think that's great.

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01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:55,840
Speaker 2: Twelve years of bige, that's what I do. Love that. Ah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I do love that. Let's let's put that on some

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01:01:59,200 --> 01:02:05,560
Speaker 2: bad twelve years of beige. I don't know if I.

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Speaker 3: I don't think that I would want somebody in my

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01:02:08,720 --> 01:02:11,560
Speaker 3: house like organizing my stuff, but like definitely like.

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Speaker 4: A clean yes I would.

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01:02:13,600 --> 01:02:17,280
Speaker 6: I would let a cleaning person come. But organizing my ship, no,

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01:02:17,640 --> 01:02:18,320
Speaker 6: I gotta do it.

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01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:19,000
Speaker 4: I gotta do it.

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01:02:19,400 --> 01:02:21,960
Speaker 2: It's the breakthrough that I need. You got, yo, you

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01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:23,480
Speaker 2: gotta do those newspapers away.

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01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:25,040
Speaker 4: I will How.

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01:02:24,920 --> 01:02:25,960
Speaker 2: Long do you hold onto them?

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01:02:26,000 --> 01:02:26,240
Speaker 1: Phone?

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01:02:26,280 --> 01:02:26,440
Speaker 2: No?

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01:02:26,480 --> 01:02:27,760
Speaker 4: Not long, like a week or two.

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01:02:27,960 --> 01:02:31,200
Speaker 1: Send us a picture of your piles of newspapers, she goes.

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01:02:31,080 --> 01:02:33,400
Speaker 2: Send us a tiny cropped photo.

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01:02:35,160 --> 01:02:36,960
Speaker 4: I'll give it to you. I'll do it for the ground.

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01:02:37,040 --> 01:02:38,960
Speaker 1: You know how people have messy homes. You could tell

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01:02:38,960 --> 01:02:41,479
Speaker 1: when they take their little selfies and they like haul

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01:02:41,480 --> 01:02:43,920
Speaker 1: away or they bathroom and she is like cut and

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01:02:43,960 --> 01:02:45,920
Speaker 1: cropped and like the.

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01:02:46,000 --> 01:02:47,200
Speaker 4: Whole thing is.

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01:02:47,280 --> 01:02:50,880
Speaker 6: That's what I'm saying everyone is living like this. Everyone

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01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:54,560
Speaker 6: just cleans out one little area, right, and that's where

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01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:56,240
Speaker 6: they take their pics, and then the rest is a

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01:02:56,240 --> 01:02:56,960
Speaker 6: fucking disaster.

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01:02:57,240 --> 01:02:59,640
Speaker 2: Nah my room is where it's messy, but everything else

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01:02:59,680 --> 01:03:02,480
Speaker 2: is n m m. Yeah. Like I'm a little too

1394
01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:04,439
Speaker 2: OCD to just like have stuff like.

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01:03:05,280 --> 01:03:08,440
Speaker 4: Out, okay, out out. I have to come over and

1396
01:03:08,560 --> 01:03:09,320
Speaker 4: see your methods.

1397
01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:10,880
Speaker 2: I should have came to your house for your Christmas

1398
01:03:10,920 --> 01:03:13,400
Speaker 2: party so I can see your house. It looks really

1399
01:03:13,440 --> 01:03:16,920
Speaker 2: good at the party was behind the tree. You had

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01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:18,120
Speaker 2: a Christmas party, Carolyn.

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01:03:18,240 --> 01:03:21,200
Speaker 4: Yes, I invited you. You didn't get the paperless post.

1402
01:03:24,800 --> 01:03:25,640
Speaker 4: I invited you.

1403
01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:27,120
Speaker 1: She said that you gotta to invite it. You just

1404
01:03:27,160 --> 01:03:30,080
Speaker 1: never RCD Peede Beach, that's what you.

1405
01:03:30,960 --> 01:03:31,560
Speaker 2: Don't blame her.

1406
01:03:31,560 --> 01:03:33,600
Speaker 4: I'm bringing muchkins to your birthday. Don't worry.

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01:03:34,200 --> 01:03:36,080
Speaker 2: Can we talk about this? It's so sad.

1408
01:03:36,160 --> 01:03:38,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, but my birthday is next week?

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01:03:38,360 --> 01:03:40,680
Speaker 4: Okay, yes, happy birthday.

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01:03:40,720 --> 01:03:41,160
Speaker 2: I'll be there.

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01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:44,320
Speaker 3: Well, I mean this episode may come out the day

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01:03:44,360 --> 01:03:45,000
Speaker 3: before your birthday.

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01:03:45,000 --> 01:03:47,440
Speaker 2: Oh, it actually will. It's gonna come out tomorrow. Her

1414
01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:48,160
Speaker 2: birthday is tomorrow.

1415
01:03:48,240 --> 01:03:50,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, my birthday is tomorrow, February, So you guys know

1416
01:03:50,840 --> 01:03:53,600
Speaker 1: my vemmo. You know if you want to send me makeup.

1417
01:03:54,240 --> 01:04:00,000
Speaker 1: I need some new highlight coler I'm an inn seven center.

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01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:10,040
Speaker 1: Her your favorite Tyler Perry dvd? No please, Carolyn Win's.

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01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:11,840
Speaker 4: Your birthday November twenty seventh.

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01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:15,240
Speaker 2: I'm sad it passed, so yeah, it's okay, Okay.

1421
01:04:15,520 --> 01:04:16,320
Speaker 4: When's your birthday?

1422
01:04:16,320 --> 01:04:18,120
Speaker 2: September twenty third? So what's coming?

1423
01:04:18,560 --> 01:04:18,800
Speaker 1: Hi?

1424
01:04:19,200 --> 01:04:20,000
Speaker 4: Are you a virgo?

1425
01:04:20,120 --> 01:04:22,920
Speaker 2: But I am a Libra. I'm a libra virgo cusp

1426
01:04:23,120 --> 01:04:27,080
Speaker 2: Adrianna is a Libra, so she's dope. Yeah, Andrew Win's

1427
01:04:27,080 --> 01:04:29,400
Speaker 2: your birthday November.

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01:04:30,240 --> 01:04:34,040
Speaker 1: You guys are all garbage. Nobody's fucking with this Aquarius

1429
01:04:34,120 --> 01:04:34,760
Speaker 1: light right now?

1430
01:04:35,040 --> 01:04:41,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, we should close out with Aquaria a query.

1431
01:04:44,280 --> 01:04:45,440
Speaker 2: I don't know this, do you know this?

1432
01:04:47,200 --> 01:04:48,160
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1433
01:04:48,240 --> 01:04:51,919
Speaker 2: The age of Aquarius? That sounds gay age.

1434
01:04:52,480 --> 01:04:54,400
Speaker 1: I don't want to say what the age of Aquarius

1435
01:04:54,480 --> 01:04:55,360
Speaker 1: is right now, but it's right.

1436
01:04:57,880 --> 01:05:02,680
Speaker 2: Just know that I'm older. Just know that she was

1437
01:05:02,720 --> 01:05:07,400
Speaker 2: around when George h w office.

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01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:12,720
Speaker 1: Wow, it was around for Reagan. Oh we friends. I

1439
01:05:12,720 --> 01:05:13,560
Speaker 1: don't think we're fresh.

1440
01:05:13,600 --> 01:05:16,520
Speaker 2: She was around for the Carter administration. Definitely was not

1441
01:05:16,640 --> 01:05:22,120
Speaker 2: and Carolyn, that's when you Reagan.

1442
01:05:21,880 --> 01:05:24,640
Speaker 4: Carter was president, When I was born.

1443
01:05:25,080 --> 01:05:26,240
Speaker 2: Who was before Carter?

1444
01:05:26,680 --> 01:05:27,120
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1445
01:05:28,000 --> 01:05:28,600
Speaker 2: Nobody knows that.

1446
01:05:28,640 --> 01:05:32,400
Speaker 4: Franklin, Delano, Roosevelt. No, it was like Nixon or something.

1447
01:05:33,240 --> 01:05:36,200
Speaker 2: It was like John F. Kennedy, it was maybe it was.

1448
01:05:36,760 --> 01:05:37,920
Speaker 2: I feel like it was one of those.

1449
01:05:38,400 --> 01:05:41,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I don't even know who else comes before them.

1450
01:05:41,400 --> 01:05:47,600
Speaker 3: It was Nixon, and then before Nixon was Kennedy. Okay, yeah,

1451
01:05:47,600 --> 01:05:49,560
Speaker 3: because I don't know, Like, I don't know who else

1452
01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:50,400
Speaker 3: the presidents were before.

1453
01:05:50,400 --> 01:05:51,960
Speaker 4: I don't remember. I know George.

1454
01:05:51,720 --> 01:05:54,880
Speaker 2: Washington, Abraham Lincoln somewhere, and then John F. Kennedy.

1455
01:05:55,000 --> 01:05:55,160
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1456
01:05:55,200 --> 01:05:57,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, we need so good.

1457
01:05:57,520 --> 01:05:59,680
Speaker 3: Barack Obama, I mean, I be.

1458
01:06:01,440 --> 01:06:01,960
Speaker 2: We know him.

1459
01:06:02,240 --> 01:06:05,560
Speaker 6: I have two Barack Obama magnets in my kitchen. I

1460
01:06:05,600 --> 01:06:07,760
Speaker 6: have a great magnet collection that's very organized.

1461
01:06:08,160 --> 01:06:09,680
Speaker 2: But it's not holding any of the cards up on

1462
01:06:09,720 --> 01:06:10,040
Speaker 2: the frieze.

1463
01:06:10,160 --> 01:06:12,880
Speaker 4: No, because the water fridge is stainless steel.

1464
01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:14,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, they don't, they're not magnetic.

1465
01:06:14,920 --> 01:06:16,280
Speaker 4: I was so fucking pissed.

1466
01:06:16,280 --> 01:06:17,560
Speaker 2: You gotta put them on the side.

1467
01:06:18,400 --> 01:06:21,520
Speaker 4: No, the side is sucked in because it's you really got.

1468
01:06:21,360 --> 01:06:24,000
Speaker 2: A nice place on the side.

1469
01:06:24,160 --> 01:06:32,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't even unplug your ship. No, you gotta

1470
01:06:32,720 --> 01:06:34,920
Speaker 1: we gotta go Sydney.

1471
01:06:35,400 --> 01:06:39,480
Speaker 2: Uh, what do you want for your birthday this year? Happiness?

1472
01:06:40,160 --> 01:06:43,360
Speaker 1: And also send me money? Yeah, and I just don't

1473
01:06:43,360 --> 01:06:45,400
Speaker 1: want to go to jail, so like you know.

1474
01:06:45,600 --> 01:06:46,960
Speaker 4: Well, money buys happiness.

1475
01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:49,720
Speaker 1: We're having an unofficial expert meet up at your courtinate

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01:06:49,720 --> 01:06:54,960
Speaker 1: you will, can you guys please comment show up.

1477
01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:56,200
Speaker 2: I'm gonna make an event.

1478
01:06:56,000 --> 01:06:58,440
Speaker 6: Right, Okay, we don't have time on the podcast, but

1479
01:06:58,480 --> 01:07:00,240
Speaker 6: you need to catch me up with what hap.

1480
01:07:00,360 --> 01:07:01,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I'll be there.

1481
01:07:02,280 --> 01:07:04,919
Speaker 2: They already know we did a whole episode. Did do it?

1482
01:07:05,080 --> 01:07:06,520
Speaker 2: They laughed very hard.

1483
01:07:06,440 --> 01:07:09,200
Speaker 1: Jailing jobs. Yeah, oh my heart is the new Sydney.

1484
01:07:09,800 --> 01:07:11,520
Speaker 1: And then what's next for you?

1485
01:07:11,560 --> 01:07:14,000
Speaker 6: So I'm the head of editorial at laugh Exchange. Yes,

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01:07:14,080 --> 01:07:17,760
Speaker 6: you are full time job and it's really fun. Check

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01:07:21,360 --> 01:07:23,080
Speaker 6: stand up all over the town and stuff like that.

1489
01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:25,560
Speaker 2: And where can people listen to your podcast with your kid?

1490
01:07:25,840 --> 01:07:29,400
Speaker 4: Just Google Daughter knows best. It's on iTunes, Stitcher and

1491
01:07:29,440 --> 01:07:30,040
Speaker 4: Google Play.

1492
01:07:30,120 --> 01:07:32,920
Speaker 2: And you guys do live shows with that sometimes.

1493
01:07:32,400 --> 01:07:34,920
Speaker 6: Yes, yeah, and I've got a bunch more live shows

1494
01:07:34,920 --> 01:07:36,760
Speaker 6: in the works for twenty nineteen.

1495
01:07:36,920 --> 01:07:40,520
Speaker 2: Excellent, do it, do it? Don't forget to send us

1496
01:07:40,520 --> 01:07:42,120
Speaker 2: a picture of the newspaper bile.

1497
01:07:42,200 --> 01:07:44,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're holding you to it hashtig Sydney will come

1498
01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:46,720
Speaker 1: over and burn it for you outside.

1499
01:07:46,880 --> 01:07:48,120
Speaker 4: Can we do it like a little witchery?

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01:07:48,200 --> 01:07:51,560
Speaker 2: Can we yea stages?

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01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:58,240
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to work, Bye guy, Bye Forever.

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