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Speaker 1: How can you tell if you're being a jerk? It's

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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. And I know sometimes

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Speaker 1: I wonder that about myself.

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Speaker 2: Oh, do you want us to let you know more often?

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Speaker 1: Or sure, you can let me know, but sometimes I

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Speaker 1: I tried to find out by going to the website

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Speaker 1: Ultimate jerk dot web.

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Speaker 2: That's the wrong website, yeah, that is.

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Speaker 3: I didn't find the answers. I was looking for something else,

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Speaker 3: though I did end up giving my credit card inform me. Still, though,

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Speaker 3: I thought there has to be a better.

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Speaker 1: Way to figure out if you're acting like a d

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Speaker 1: bag in a certain situation. Sometimes you have to, and

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Speaker 1: that's why we created this segment called Am I the Jerk?

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Speaker 1: If you haven't heard it before, here's how it works.

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Speaker 1: You tell us about an argument or a weird situation

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Speaker 1: you found yourself in recently and how you handled it

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Speaker 1: in that moment, and then we'll discuss and not only

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Speaker 1: give our opinion, but we'll also ask our listeners to

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Speaker 1: text in and tell us what they think if you

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Speaker 1: were in the right or if you were in the wrong,

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Speaker 1: And by the end, hopefully we'll give everybody a little

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Speaker 1: bit a peace of mind. So who needs our help today?

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Speaker 1: His name is Tommy. Tommy, you feel like a jerk today?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, a little bit, I do.

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Speaker 5: Oh, it's not a good place to start, Tommy, but

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Speaker 5: it's all right. Maybe we'll get you to an apology

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Speaker 3: Yeah, tell us what happened.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So I'm getting married next month. Congrat So we

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Speaker 4: got this wedding coming up in a month, and my

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Speaker 3: You're soon to be wife. Don't jump the gun here.

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Speaker 2: That's so sweet.

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Speaker 6: Yeah that we we've been together so long that like

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Speaker 6: But anyways, like you know, she's been doing all the

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Speaker 5: And yeah, and she carries the entire mental and emotional

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Speaker 3: No wonder, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I don't know about you know, she knows more about

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Speaker 4: helping out somebody. You know, this is an important day

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Speaker 2: Yeah, for sure. You don't sound like a jerk to me.

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Speaker 2: I know it does sound sound nice.

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Speaker 3: Yeah all right, So what's the situation.

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Speaker 4: I'll tell you, because she's kind of the one that's

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, what do you mean she's aer enabler?

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Speaker 8: Okay, yeah, So she has this whole idea for the

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Speaker 8: me and all my grooms men are like really like

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Speaker 5: Like okay, it doesn't seem like a crazy ass tell

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Speaker 7: Oh I wouldn't go.

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Speaker 3: Get out of here, okay.

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Speaker 4: I mean the showering isn't the big deal. I mean

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Speaker 4: it's the shaving that's the problem. For one of my

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Speaker 2: Oh, she doesn't want him to have a beard or something.

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Speaker 4: He's got this long hair that he's been growing out

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Speaker 3: That is that's a tough one.

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean her thing is like she really wants

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Speaker 1: She wants to not even know which one of the

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Speaker 3: She's like, I'll think any one of these.

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Speaker 4: I mean, on one hand, like I can understand where

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Speaker 7: Seven years is a long time.

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Speaker 1: It's probably that, I guess I can see it might

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Speaker 5: Like, what are we living in nineteen fifty where no

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Speaker 7: Like everybody cut your hair.

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Speaker 5: Hy was like, like, sure, people look different, that's that's okay.

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Speaker 2: It should be celebrated.

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Speaker 3: Bro, It's not your wedding, Okay. Every wedding does not

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Speaker 5: I just think some logic would have helped her maybe

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Speaker 3: Relax for a second. Relax.

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Speaker 1: We don't even know what happened yet. Okay, so let's

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Speaker 1: let's get back to this Tommy. What happened when your

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Speaker 4: So she said basically like, you got to tell me

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Speaker 4: he doesn't cut his hair, Like he can't be in

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Wow, still go to the wedding.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly, Like he could still go to the wedding.

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Speaker 4: She just didn't want him at all the pictures of

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Speaker 2: So what did you say, I mean, you wouldn't talk

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I mean I I talked to him, and

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Speaker 4: you were then you got that mad?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, oh my god. Yeah, Like we've been friends for

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Speaker 4: like twenty years and he's never been this mad at

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm sure you know is too.

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Speaker 1: Then if you know some years did he agree to

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Speaker 4: No, I mean he basically said, you know what, forget it.

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Speaker 4: I'm you know what, I mean, your wedding party. I'm

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Speaker 3: Oh no, oh he backed out of the whole wedding.

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Speaker 6: She backed out.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, completely, Like he's like, I don't even want to

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Speaker 4: be there if this is how you're going to treat me,

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Speaker 7: Asked for both though, because this is remember her, this

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Speaker 7: is her special day. This is your special day as well. Brother,

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Speaker 7: you guys want to remember this foreverything.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but that doesn't mean you can turn into a

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Speaker 7: Or is she turning into a jerk? Who knows the listeners?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, question.

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Speaker 1: I have a feeling I know what Brooks opinion on

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Speaker 3: But let's ask our listeners.

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Speaker 1: Okay, text in just seven tell us do you think

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Speaker 1: Tommy is a jerk for telling his Grimsman friend he

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Speaker 3: Text it in.

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Speaker 1: We're going to play a song and we'll hear what

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, okay, all right, hold on.

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Speaker 6: Man frooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: All right, if you're just tuning in, we're in the

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Speaker 1: middle of doing. Am I the jerk and the jerk

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Speaker 1: in question today? His name's Tommy. Tommy's getting married next month,

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Speaker 1: and his soon to be wife is very, very particular

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Speaker 1: And that's a problem for Tommy because one of his

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Speaker 1: when he told him, you need to chop it or

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Speaker 1: you're getting chopped from the wedding party, his friend said, fine.

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Speaker 1: In fact, I'm not going to come to the wedding

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Speaker 2: I don't see any red flags here at all.

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Speaker 1: We asked for text though into seven eighty five nine

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Speaker 1: two from our listeners, and we got a few back.

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Speaker 1: One says, it's just hair, it'll grow back, Your friendship

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Speaker 3: Easy decision, cut it. He may even like it. Maybe

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Speaker 2: You guys that kind of.

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Speaker 5: Likes it when they ask you to change, I will

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Speaker 2: That's what friends are for, Tommy.

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Speaker 3: What do you think about that? You think that's good advice?

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Speaker 4: Tommy, I have no problem telling him that, But I

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Speaker 7: He'll probably get mad. Just so you know, everyone's saying

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Speaker 7: it's an easy decision, just cut your hairs.

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Speaker 2: Gonna like an opinion that says you're not the jerk, Tommy.

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 1: We got another text into seventy five nine two says

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Speaker 1: this is random. But if he cuts his hair, can

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Speaker 1: I buy it? I have a project I'm working on.

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Speaker 1: What color is it?

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Speaker 3: Exactly?

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Speaker 1: How soft is it? I have a lot more questions, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: Can you answer any of that for us? Do you

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Speaker 1: know the color and the softness?

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Speaker 4: No, but you might want to flag that number yeah.

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Speaker 2: I thought it was a business opportunity, you know.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, let's get some more opinions on this.

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Speaker 1: We have people on the phone who'd like to weigh in.

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Speaker 1: Is it cool if we talk to them a little bit?

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Speaker 3: Tommy?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, no for sure. All right?

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Speaker 1: Cool, Well let's hear from Kyle. Kyle, what do you think?

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Speaker 1: Who's the jerk here?

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Speaker 4: Hey, dude, I'm so sorry to tell you, but you're

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Speaker 4: definitely the jerk here.

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Speaker 3: We're talking to me. Are you talking to Tommy?

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Speaker 2: This is going to be a really confusing segment for you.

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Speaker 2: Jeffrey always that it's.

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Speaker 1: Going to be okay, Thank you. So you think, Kyle,

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Speaker 1: you think Tommy is the jerk? Why why do you

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Speaker 1: say that?

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Speaker 4: Because this is his friend. If he doesn't stand up now,

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Speaker 4: it's gonna get worse.

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Speaker 2: I think it's like.

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Speaker 7: Set the tone for the marriage.

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Speaker 3: You think you're enabling the wife to control him?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, trust me, it'll be downhill after that. And I

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Speaker 2: Are you divorced? So what you're saying, because that's what

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Speaker 8: Like, no comment, I'm just not happy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what do you think?

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Speaker 7: Man?

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Speaker 4: I mean, judging by that dude's relationship. I don't know

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Speaker 5: Yeah. Yeah, And I think that if you talk to

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Speaker 2: It can be really stressful and the pressure.

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Speaker 5: Of it, and maybe she's just not thinking clearly, Like

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Speaker 5: maybe she would also regret even asking him to do

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Speaker 7: She I have to ask this and I apologize ahead

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Speaker 7: of time. Is your fiance kind of a bright zilla

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Speaker 7: right now? Is this coming out of that?

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Speaker 8: No?

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Speaker 4: Like, I think it's more that, like every little detail

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you, she is going to be one

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Speaker 2: stress ball.

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Speaker 1: We do have more advice coming in on the text board.

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Speaker 1: One text says he should hire a celebrity makeup artist

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Speaker 1: to tuck it and make him look bald.

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Speaker 3: They do it a lot in Hollywall.

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Speaker 9: That's true always again, that's changing the person, not forever,

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Speaker 9: just we're just going to make you look totally different

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Another text came in, Yo, is alexis still single? I

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Speaker 1: would totally buy a lock of her head.

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Speaker 10: For sale are for sale?

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Speaker 7: Disappointed this, but socks always standards. Sorry.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's hear from somebody else. Isabelle, do you think

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Speaker 1: Tommy's being a jerk?

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Speaker 10: I am here to say right now that you are

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Speaker 10: not the jerk. I am for real. Listen, Okay, honey,

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Speaker 10: your wife is being the jerk here. She should have

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Speaker 10: never put you in between your best friends ever, So

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Speaker 10: listen to this. At my wedding, my mother in law

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Speaker 10: did not want to wear my colors. So I didn't

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Speaker 10: matter how much I wanted to, I was.

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Speaker 3: Gonna say to compromise or something exactly.

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Speaker 10: So what we did is my husband and I took

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Speaker 5: It's actually a good idea because then the mother in

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Speaker 5: law feels like a star.

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Speaker 3: Right, tell me, how do you feel about that idea?

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Speaker 4: That's a good point. Like when she was saying that, like,

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Speaker 4: I started thinking, like, what could we do with the

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Speaker 4: cut his hair, Like maybe all the groomsmen like wear

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Speaker 5: In one of the pictures, this is why men should

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Speaker 1: What if the opposite way, instead of adding more hair,

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Speaker 1: we do like top hats for all the grooms, so

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Speaker 1: we could put his hair up inside the hats cats.

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Speaker 4: Okay, maybe my idea wasn't the best, but like, I

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Speaker 4: think the compromise thing is right.

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Speaker 3: Well, look at that.

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Speaker 1: We actually got some good advice from one of our listeners.

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Speaker 1: Thank you Isabelle for that.

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Speaker 10: Yes, thank you, good luck. Tommy. Just go apologize to

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, thank you, Isabelle. We're going to hold onto

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Speaker 3: your number for future. Am I the jerks because we

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Speaker 3: need some reason.

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Speaker 1: On the show, Producer Boy has been tallying the text

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Speaker 1: in the other room, and according to our listeners, almost

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Speaker 1: ninety percent say, Tommy, you are the jerk for not

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Speaker 1: pushing back against your wife.

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Speaker 2: Oh Tommy, you knew that already.

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Speaker 4: I mean I felt bad about it, and then kind

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Speaker 4: I realized, yeah, I probably needed to think more about

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Speaker 4: this and like get more opinions before I like jump

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Speaker 4: the gun and talk to my friend sold them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think their apology phone call is needed.

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Speaker 1: I think maybe you push back the wedding seven years

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Speaker 1: so that you all have hair, and then it's all

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Speaker 1: like a joint activity you can do together. Fourteen years,

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Speaker 1: we're back in it again. I don't know, tom Do

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Speaker 1: you feel a little bit better after talking this out?

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Speaker 4: I mean I feel better. I don't know how it's

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Speaker 4: gonna go with my fiance, but I feel like I

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Speaker 1: Good good, Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Just reminder, how would you feel if I judged

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Speaker 5: your bride'smaids on their appearance? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: No, I don't think she would take that very well.

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Speaker 1: Well, thanks for having empathy here, Thanks for being on

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Speaker 1: with us, Tommy. Coming up next, we have a bride

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Speaker 1: who's upset that her future husband won't listen to her

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Speaker 1: advice about what she wants at her wedding. I'm sure

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Speaker 1: it's not related Broken Jeffrey in the

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Speaker 10: Morning, Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning,