1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 1: with i R Radio. We've made it through uh the 3 00:00:08,440 --> 00:00:13,280 Speaker 1: insanely long offseason, the off season that has never stopped, 4 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:18,520 Speaker 1: the off season that we'll never get again. Well, who knows. 5 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:22,920 Speaker 1: Actually this this has been crazy, But we are celebrating 6 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 1: Claire's season premiering starting right now. With this episode, we're 7 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 1: gonna break down everything from Claire her Bachelor headlines, the 8 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 1: Bachelor headlines. We're gonna bring on some guests who I 9 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 1: think you're really gonna want to talk to, uh, Leslie 10 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: Murphy and Robert Graham. Uh. And then we'll be airing 11 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 1: a second episode uh in just a few days, talking 12 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:52,000 Speaker 1: about Claire's guys maybe what we think we can expect, 13 00:00:52,440 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 1: and then also talking to uh Tinley Moleson, Eric Bigger 14 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 1: and Lupel. Actually we've got a big week in front 15 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 1: of us. Yep, So two part guys, and just heads 16 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 1: up because next week next week is the premiere. It 17 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 1: premieres on Tuesday. The Bachelor will be on Tuesdays this year, 18 00:01:13,240 --> 00:01:18,919 Speaker 1: so um this this podcast will also be airing on 19 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: well Tuesday nights, so after the episode this will be up. Yeah, 20 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:26,840 Speaker 1: we're not gonna spoil it. This will be like a 21 00:01:27,319 --> 00:01:29,480 Speaker 1: let's say it on Monday and you watch on Tuesday, 22 00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 1: and you know what's gonna happen. It will be Tuesday nights, Ashley. 23 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:35,319 Speaker 1: I think it's important right now to mention two things. 24 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 1: One thing less serious uh than the other. The first 25 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 1: is that if there's like some like pounding in the background, 26 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 1: it's not Jared who. What it is is you have 27 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:48,559 Speaker 1: like some construction going on around your house, don't you. Yeah, yeah, 28 00:01:48,600 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 1: there's some drilling going on. I'm sure it'll end soon, 29 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 1: but I'm sorry. Yeah, just forgiver, uh, for forgive the 30 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:59,160 Speaker 1: people outside work and it's a it's a beautiful day 31 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 1: in Los Angeles to the outside. The second thing we 32 00:02:01,600 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 1: want to talk about is we uh we received some 33 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 1: messages this week, um and there they saddened our whole 34 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:14,079 Speaker 1: team here. Uh. It was in relation to the Facebook 35 00:02:14,120 --> 00:02:16,920 Speaker 1: group for the Almost Famous podcast. The group was started 36 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: a few years ago with the idea that we could 37 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 1: build a community around it with our listeners, that they 38 00:02:21,760 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 1: could interact, talk about the show, talk about everything they 39 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 1: love in life. Um. It was never intended nor is 40 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:34,240 Speaker 1: it still the place for bullying, uh, and for putting 41 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 1: other people down. Conversations in the healthiest ways are UH wanted, needed, accepted. 42 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 1: But we hope this Facebook group UM is a representation 43 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:51,360 Speaker 1: of all of our listeners, including Ashley and myself and 44 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 1: our team. We hope this Facebook group is a representation 45 00:02:56,200 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 1: of all of our listeners, Ashley, myself and our team. 46 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 1: And it won't be tolerated, UM to make other people 47 00:03:03,760 --> 00:03:08,400 Speaker 1: feel less than, or to bully or or to threaten UH. 48 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:12,240 Speaker 1: That isn't accepted. We don't want it there UM. And 49 00:03:12,320 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: so please, if you're a part of that group, encourage kindness, 50 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 1: encourage love, acceptance, understanding, UH, gentleness, UH, and listening. That 51 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 1: is what our hope is. That is what we ask 52 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: of all of us together. UH. As you've noticed here recently, 53 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 1: Ashley and I had to do a lot of listening, 54 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 1: a lot of learning, a lot of understanding. UH. And 55 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 1: I will tell you that I am better for it. 56 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 1: I'll speak for Rashly UH and say that she is 57 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:44,360 Speaker 1: better for it. UM and UH and we hoped for 58 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: all of you. So we want to start with that. 59 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:49,119 Speaker 1: That is really important. UH. It is something we will 60 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: be monitoring UM. But we just we want to be 61 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 1: able to continue to have that platform and uh in 62 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 1: that place to speak, and so hey, uh we can 63 00:03:58,800 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 1: move on there, Ashley. With some Bachelor headlines, and there 64 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 1: are many just I don't know how they keep doing it, 65 00:04:07,120 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 1: but Bachelor people keep doing crazy stuff. Um. But the 66 00:04:11,280 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 1: first headline is Chris Harrison on what to expect from 67 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:17,920 Speaker 1: season sixteen of The Bachelorette. He says, and I quote, 68 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:22,840 Speaker 1: it's a wild ride this according to people. Okay, so 69 00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 1: Harrison says that the drama starts on night one. He 70 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:32,039 Speaker 1: also says that there will be an unprecedented twist in 71 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 1: season sixteen, beyond usual fights and romantic dinner dates. I 72 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 1: wonder what he's referring to their He then goes on 73 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 1: to say something that I actually think it is kind 74 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 1: of odd, and I don't really know if I like it. Ah, 75 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 1: he goes What I can confirm is that this is 76 00:04:48,160 --> 00:04:53,160 Speaker 1: clear season one, it's all hers. It's about her story 77 00:04:53,360 --> 00:04:56,599 Speaker 1: and everything that happens after that you'll just have to 78 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 1: wait and see. What the heck. Don't you feel like 79 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:06,359 Speaker 1: that it's really rude to Tasia? But we don't. But again, Ashley, UM, 80 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:08,040 Speaker 1: I mean tell me if I'm wrong, And a lot 81 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 1: of times you educate me and all this stuff, but like, 82 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 1: we still don't know what Tassia's role is in this, 83 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 1: right sure, but if we come to find out in 84 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:24,720 Speaker 1: week three or whatnot, that she becomes the bachelorette as 85 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 1: everyone is reporting, isn't that just weird to say that 86 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:34,840 Speaker 1: it's one clear season and it's all about her, Like 87 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:39,240 Speaker 1: that's so weird. Yes, So there's like two paths here. 88 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 1: Either one is they've really duped us and have very 89 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:47,720 Speaker 1: little role this seaar wrong the whole time. They've kept 90 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 1: it a secret, which hey, as you and I know 91 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:54,040 Speaker 1: the Bachelor is really good at keeping secrets, or Tassia 92 00:05:54,160 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 1: is a part of this season and this ends up 93 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 1: being a really weird comment. I think it's is gonna 94 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 1: end up being a weird comment. I could even try 95 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 1: to excuse it by saying, like, maybe they have Claire 96 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:09,719 Speaker 1: be part of the season. Throughout the entire thing, they're 97 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 1: always checking up on her, you know, she's part of 98 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:16,040 Speaker 1: at least five minutes of every episode. But the fact 99 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 1: that he says it's Claire season is super interesting. I'm 100 00:06:19,960 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 1: not hating on Harrison. We love Harrison, but this sounds 101 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:30,359 Speaker 1: like an extremist comment. Given all the rumors, Okay, and 102 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 1: we can move on from here this but Harrison doesn't 103 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:40,160 Speaker 1: speak typically. I've I've never really, in my time kind 104 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:43,720 Speaker 1: of following along with him, I have never heard him 105 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:48,360 Speaker 1: in the promotion of a season speak unwisely and unthoughtful. 106 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:55,040 Speaker 1: He says is very strategic, is very calculated, and he 107 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 1: knows where his boundaries can be pushed. And so what 108 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:01,040 Speaker 1: if we look into this and say, if I'm following 109 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:03,119 Speaker 1: Harrison's lead right now, I'm saying TASTI is a smaller 110 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:04,840 Speaker 1: part of the season. We think she's not she doesn't 111 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:08,680 Speaker 1: become the bachelorette. Ditto what you said. Everything he said 112 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 1: says is usually so thought out that it's that it's 113 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 1: almost like he wants us to read into this statement. 114 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:20,040 Speaker 1: All right, Chris Harrison, well you did a good job, 115 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 1: because I don't know what anyways, that's a comment. Uh. 116 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:27,000 Speaker 1: Next headline is The Bachelorettes. Mike Johnson reveals the advice 117 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 1: he gave first black bachelor Matt James is according to people, well, 118 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 1: it seems like he only spoke to him or gave 119 00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 1: his advice when Matt was just supposed to be a 120 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 1: contestant on Claire's season. The two of them met in 121 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 1: New York City and the advice that he gave him 122 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 1: is great advice. It's not specific for being the Bachelor 123 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 1: or the first black Bachelor, but justin a great advice 124 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 1: for anyone who's going to be on the show. He said, Um, 125 00:07:57,440 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 1: treat a girl how your mother taught you to treat woman. 126 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 1: And then of course he jokes by saying, your shirt 127 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 1: is gonna be off at some point in time. So 128 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 1: I told him to make sure that you have a 129 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 1: better body than Tyler. Well, it's hard to do. Um, 130 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 1: it's not. That's not a challenge I want to accept. Anyways, Hey, Ashley, 131 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:23,320 Speaker 1: you've talked about a few times, and it is something 132 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 1: that we just seem to be celebrating every week over here. 133 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 1: And we're gonna bring on some some new moms, uh 134 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 1: in a future mom here to the next two episodes. 135 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 1: But The Bachelor's Ashley Fraser Welcome's daughter every ann and 136 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 1: the quote is absolutely perfect and healthy. This again, according 137 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:49,000 Speaker 1: to People, the baby was born on September. Ashley says 138 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 1: that you can expect baby Spam to come to her 139 00:08:51,960 --> 00:08:56,320 Speaker 1: Instagram and this just adds to our list of bachelor 140 00:08:56,440 --> 00:08:59,240 Speaker 1: lums having babies this this year. We went through the 141 00:08:59,400 --> 00:09:03,880 Speaker 1: entire list last week and it's just it's wild. It's wild. 142 00:09:04,760 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 1: This is her, this is her second child with her husband, 143 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 1: Aaron Williams. Well, Ashley, before we move on, I do 144 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:15,960 Speaker 1: want to mention that there is a bachelor who has 145 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 1: recently announced that he is madly in love and it's 146 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 1: not with the person that he picked from his season. 147 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 1: But before we do, Ashley, let's talk a second about 148 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:31,640 Speaker 1: so No Bellow. I have my mom's nose. Everybody says it, 149 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:35,839 Speaker 1: I've got my mom's nose. Uh. 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As we tease before, there is 184 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:51,520 Speaker 1: a bachelor who has fell madly in love with somebody 185 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:53,560 Speaker 1: that he didn't choose on the season. But before we 186 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 1: get there, we do have a headline that we have 187 00:11:55,960 --> 00:11:59,319 Speaker 1: to cover that came out this week. This According to Cosmo, Tyler, 188 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 1: Cameron opened up about not speaking to Hannah Brown this summer. Okay, 189 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:09,679 Speaker 1: this is juicy stuff. He says, there was definitely a 190 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 1: time where we didn't speak. We have a very different relationship. 191 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:18,280 Speaker 1: It's hard to you know, we've had ups and downs 192 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 1: right now, I think he means it was hard to define. 193 00:12:20,640 --> 00:12:23,000 Speaker 1: We've had ups and downs. Right now, we're in a 194 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 1: great spot where friends were able to kind of come back. 195 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 1: It was really great to see her this week. If 196 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:31,920 Speaker 1: you guys didn't see, they were spotted hanging out in 197 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 1: l a Um. It was really great to see her 198 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:37,080 Speaker 1: and hang out and be ourselves again and be friends 199 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:40,080 Speaker 1: and all that. It was hard. We both weren't in 200 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:43,160 Speaker 1: a great spot when we were hanging out earlier this summer. 201 00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:46,720 Speaker 1: Were in a much better place now as people, and 202 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:49,400 Speaker 1: it's allowing us to have a good friendship now. So 203 00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:52,360 Speaker 1: if you guys remember, and I know you do, Hannah 204 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 1: went down to Florida and was part of the quarantine 205 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:59,600 Speaker 1: crew in March, and since then they apparently didn't really speak. 206 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 1: They had had some interactions on social media, and we 207 00:13:03,840 --> 00:13:08,440 Speaker 1: know that Tyler was standing by Hannah's side when she 208 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 1: was going through the trouble that she went through earlier 209 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 1: this summer. Now, this whole article, this interview that Cosmo 210 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:20,839 Speaker 1: did with Tyler makes me wonder and like, yes, I'm 211 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:24,480 Speaker 1: just assuming here, and yes I am spitballing things that 212 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:28,959 Speaker 1: I have no clue about, but I'm just gonna say it, right, 213 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:33,720 Speaker 1: I feel like they did have a like a sort 214 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:39,680 Speaker 1: of like a friend on and off relationship romance. Something 215 00:13:39,760 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 1: was going on, right, There was definitely more than friendship 216 00:13:43,160 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 1: that happened in the quarantine house. Because if if it 217 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:50,560 Speaker 1: weren't for a complicated are we friends? Are we friends 218 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:52,840 Speaker 1: with benefits? Can we be more? I want to be more, 219 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:55,559 Speaker 1: you don't want to be more type of situation, then 220 00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 1: why would they stop being why would they stop talking 221 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 1: for a period of time. So do we ever get 222 00:14:03,120 --> 00:14:06,120 Speaker 1: like confirmation from the two of them back during the 223 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:11,319 Speaker 1: quarantine crew that they were like more than just friends. 224 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:13,720 Speaker 1: I remember that time. I remember watching the videos. I 225 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:16,680 Speaker 1: remember like the assumptions being made, like, hey, there's gotta 226 00:14:16,679 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 1: be something going on, like there has to be. But 227 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 1: I don't. I can't recall that we ever found out 228 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 1: like what the status of their relationship was. I guess 229 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:30,680 Speaker 1: now we never did. And if anything, they kept saying like, oh, 230 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 1: we're friends, right, friends? We're like yeah, I mean like 231 00:14:33,720 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 1: they're friends. But you cannot tell me that they didn't, 232 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 1: like there wasn't a move made at some point in 233 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:44,640 Speaker 1: the quarantine house, right, I mean, this is me gossiping, 234 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 1: Yes it is. I don't have facts on this. I 235 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:50,040 Speaker 1: don't know that anybody beyond Tyler and Hannah and their 236 00:14:50,040 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 1: close group of friends have facts on this um. But 237 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 1: I think that what Tyler is saying is that their 238 00:14:55,800 --> 00:14:59,840 Speaker 1: relationship was complicated at some point and they're becoming friends now. 239 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 1: And I'm speculating again, but I would just say that, 240 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:09,560 Speaker 1: based on my own experience, somebody probably wanted to be 241 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 1: more than just friends, and then another person probably didn't 242 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:16,400 Speaker 1: want to be more than just friends, and and maybe 243 00:15:16,400 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 1: somebody was like, I can't be around you if we're 244 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:22,360 Speaker 1: not more than just friends, and um, we need to 245 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 1: take a friend We need to take a friend break 246 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 1: because like it's just too hard for me and it's 247 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:27,680 Speaker 1: not healthy for me to be around you if I 248 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:32,720 Speaker 1: want more. Right, this is just my deduction from these quotes. 249 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 1: But it's good to see him back out together again, 250 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 1: and it's nice to see the two of them just 251 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:43,800 Speaker 1: sharing life together in whatever way they have previous and 252 00:15:43,840 --> 00:15:47,120 Speaker 1: are doing now. Who knows those kids those days, they're 253 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 1: they're always doing something. And speaking of recent Bachelor's, Peter 254 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 1: Weber and Kelly Flann again are and I quote very 255 00:15:56,640 --> 00:16:00,160 Speaker 1: in love and moving in together soon. This according to 256 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:04,600 Speaker 1: US Weekly. Yeah, so the two of them are going 257 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 1: to be moving to New York, but interestingly only for 258 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:10,720 Speaker 1: a year. The plan is only for a year, and 259 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:13,240 Speaker 1: they're going to get a house in the Chicago area 260 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:18,880 Speaker 1: as an investment. UM. They are planning on moving to 261 00:16:18,880 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 1: New York in January for Peter's job. UM I don't 262 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 1: know that. I tell me pilots and families of pilots 263 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 1: out there, if do do pilots have to live in 264 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 1: a certain area, I guess, like if they're going on 265 00:16:32,600 --> 00:16:34,680 Speaker 1: a certain route. So they're going to move to New 266 00:16:34,720 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 1: York for a year in January for Peter's job as them, 267 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:41,200 Speaker 1: and they're looking for a house in Chicago now, and 268 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 1: they are very in love, very serious and committed to 269 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:46,960 Speaker 1: one another. It's gonna be so interesting at these two 270 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 1: like get engaged. It's gonna be so so fun, I know. 271 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:53,800 Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like they're on their way right 272 00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:59,400 Speaker 1: like like I feel like it's I don't know, like 273 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 1: this relationship has blossomed in front of us. They were 274 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 1: very secret about it for long, I mean the corners, 275 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:09,719 Speaker 1: and they've been really like side by side ever since then. 276 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:13,080 Speaker 1: I will say this, if you can quarantine in a 277 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:17,480 Speaker 1: new relationship and then keep it going after courtly, you 278 00:17:17,480 --> 00:17:19,440 Speaker 1: know afterwards where there you know, it looks like now 279 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:21,639 Speaker 1: they're out and about a little bit. Like that's a 280 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:27,080 Speaker 1: pretty good sign. Uh, It's something to to celebrate. I mean, 281 00:17:27,119 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 1: they found love on this season, and yesterday maybe didn't 282 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:33,120 Speaker 1: happen the way we all thought it would, or expected 283 00:17:33,160 --> 00:17:36,240 Speaker 1: it would or got to watch it. But hey, as 284 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:39,480 Speaker 1: we just said, Peter Webber and Kelly Flannagan are moving 285 00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:46,240 Speaker 1: in together and uh, looking like they're gonna start life toither. Well, Hey, Ashley, UM, 286 00:17:46,320 --> 00:17:49,200 Speaker 1: let's take a break here. When we come back, we're 287 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 1: gonna have one of our most special people. Uh, somebody 288 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:55,159 Speaker 1: uh that has a lot going on in their life, 289 00:17:55,440 --> 00:18:00,200 Speaker 1: somebody who has recently moved in with their love uh 290 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:01,959 Speaker 1: and uh and who has a lot of exciting things 291 00:18:01,960 --> 00:18:04,160 Speaker 1: to talk about. We're gonna have Leslie Murphy on the podcast. 292 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:05,639 Speaker 1: But let's take a break when we come back with 293 00:18:05,880 --> 00:18:20,560 Speaker 1: Leslie Murphy. Alright, guys, Leslie Murphy from Sean Lowe season, 294 00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:24,359 Speaker 1: from our season of Bachelor Winter Games is on the 295 00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:29,639 Speaker 1: line right now. Hey, Leslie, You've got so much going on. 296 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:33,320 Speaker 1: There's like three major things in your life. Okay, you 297 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:38,600 Speaker 1: got engaged, I did. You got engaged this year pre 298 00:18:38,760 --> 00:18:42,960 Speaker 1: quarantine Okay, Then you announced last week that you're pregnant 299 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:48,240 Speaker 1: and gratulations, thank you, thank you. And this week you 300 00:18:48,280 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 1: announced that you're moving to back home to Arkansas. It's wild. 301 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:57,160 Speaker 1: I don't even know where to start. I don't even 302 00:18:57,200 --> 00:19:04,440 Speaker 1: think it's all processed at any time, and it's crazy. Yeah, 303 00:19:04,440 --> 00:19:06,760 Speaker 1: so let's start at the beginning. You've got you got 304 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:10,480 Speaker 1: engaged a few months back. When was the exact dated 305 00:19:11,080 --> 00:19:16,720 Speaker 1: fourth I can't forget February fourth. Had it happened? He uh, 306 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:21,800 Speaker 1: he proposed via drone via model plane. So he flew 307 00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 1: him out a plane on the bottom of the drone 308 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:27,439 Speaker 1: with the ring attached, all the way across the beach. 309 00:19:27,560 --> 00:19:33,879 Speaker 1: And I thought he wasn't gonna put the ring in 310 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:35,639 Speaker 1: it and just like pull it out of his pocket. 311 00:19:35,720 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 1: But yeah, it was pretty weasy, and the ring was 312 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:40,960 Speaker 1: in the box the whole time. And so then he 313 00:19:41,000 --> 00:19:43,960 Speaker 1: had this little drop maneuver and he just pressed a 314 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 1: button and so then the dring, the ring dropped from 315 00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:48,480 Speaker 1: the drone and he got down on the knee on 316 00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:52,280 Speaker 1: the beach and I, that's so cute. Yeah, it was cute. 317 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:56,240 Speaker 1: It was like, oh, please, Ben, I'm sure your proposal 318 00:19:56,280 --> 00:20:01,680 Speaker 1: was beautiful. It was like an It was an ode 319 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:04,359 Speaker 1: to how we met because I slid into his d 320 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 1: M S and hopes that this complete stranger at the 321 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 1: time would fix my drone. So then it all came 322 00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:12,720 Speaker 1: full circle with the proposal. Wait a stranger would fix 323 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:16,840 Speaker 1: your drones? Yeah, I had a I had a drone 324 00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:19,679 Speaker 1: that needed to be fixed, and so am a mutual 325 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:22,520 Speaker 1: friend told me to to d M him to see 326 00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:24,280 Speaker 1: if he could fix it. And so I randomly just 327 00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:26,520 Speaker 1: slid into his d MS one day, like two years ago, 328 00:20:27,160 --> 00:20:29,439 Speaker 1: and he couldn't fix it, but he let me borrow 329 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:32,240 Speaker 1: his and hopes that we'd see each other again, and 330 00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:35,439 Speaker 1: so the rest is history. Was there any other like 331 00:20:35,600 --> 00:20:37,399 Speaker 1: reason for you d M E M or is it 332 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 1: really just for the drone? It was just for the drone. 333 00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:43,280 Speaker 1: And I didn't do any research on this guy. But 334 00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:46,159 Speaker 1: I remember pulling up to his house. His door was 335 00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:48,640 Speaker 1: already open, so I could see him before I even 336 00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:51,239 Speaker 1: crossed through the threshold. And I saw him and I 337 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:53,240 Speaker 1: was like, damn, I should have done more research on 338 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:57,040 Speaker 1: this guy. He's hot. And that's how it started. And 339 00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:59,080 Speaker 1: then we saw each other again because I had to 340 00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:02,359 Speaker 1: give his drone to him. And then our first day 341 00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:06,240 Speaker 1: was when we went flying my new drune because he 342 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:09,200 Speaker 1: bought me a new one. Where is he from? Where's 343 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:13,200 Speaker 1: he lives? He is from Sydney, Australia and he lives 344 00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:18,080 Speaker 1: with me now in Arkansas. How did you okay, So 345 00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:22,560 Speaker 1: were you in Australia when you're drone broke? No, we 346 00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:24,159 Speaker 1: were both living in l A at the time, so 347 00:21:24,200 --> 00:21:26,359 Speaker 1: this was two years ago. We were both on the 348 00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:29,399 Speaker 1: West side in l A, which never happens. You know, 349 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:31,600 Speaker 1: if you live anywhere close in l A. It's it's 350 00:21:31,680 --> 00:21:35,320 Speaker 1: like a magical feats because I had to drive like 351 00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:37,560 Speaker 1: eight minutes to his house to see if he could 352 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:40,360 Speaker 1: fix his drone. And so it just worked easy from 353 00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:43,920 Speaker 1: from the get go. And and yeah, I'll started with 354 00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:47,080 Speaker 1: drones and ended with drums. That's really cute. That proposal 355 00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:50,440 Speaker 1: is even cuter now. So you're getting this guy who 356 00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:55,040 Speaker 1: is from Sydney, Australia to move to Little Rock, Arkansas, right. 357 00:21:55,240 --> 00:21:58,320 Speaker 1: I never thought there'd be a day like like this 358 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:01,680 Speaker 1: would happen, but it did. And he lovingly and willingly 359 00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:05,160 Speaker 1: said yes because he's such a family guy and the 360 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:08,879 Speaker 1: Australian borders are closed for god knows how much longer 361 00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:11,520 Speaker 1: because of COVID, and so he said, you know, I 362 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:14,159 Speaker 1: think family is so important, and when we have this baby, 363 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:15,920 Speaker 1: I think it's important to be around family. If we 364 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:19,000 Speaker 1: can't be around mine, we should be around yours. And 365 00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:22,080 Speaker 1: so I've struggled really hard of it because I never 366 00:22:22,160 --> 00:22:24,879 Speaker 1: thought i'd move back to Arkansas. Um, never in a 367 00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:28,080 Speaker 1: million years, And then you know, I kept going back 368 00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:31,080 Speaker 1: to I'm never going to regret many more time with family, 369 00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:33,879 Speaker 1: especially when this baby is born. And so here we 370 00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:38,160 Speaker 1: are on day one in Arkansas. This is day one, 371 00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:41,320 Speaker 1: like this is this is the first move. Well, thanks 372 00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:44,439 Speaker 1: for taking time to hang out with this. UM. What 373 00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:46,679 Speaker 1: are some things you're most looking forward to with the 374 00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:51,800 Speaker 1: move back other than family? I mean families obvious? Um, 375 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:54,399 Speaker 1: the yeah, family is obvious. I mean that's the number 376 00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:58,640 Speaker 1: one reason we're here. And to have help with the baby. Honestly, 377 00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:01,600 Speaker 1: I mean I am not there yet. I certainly don't 378 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:04,840 Speaker 1: know what I'm doing. Uh, so I need all the 379 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:07,959 Speaker 1: help I can get from them. Rekindling old friendships that I, 380 00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:12,280 Speaker 1: you know, haven't seen since high school or prior to that, um, 381 00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:15,840 Speaker 1: and being gone. I work in travel, and so when 382 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:18,680 Speaker 1: we were living in l A, it's hard to create 383 00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:22,400 Speaker 1: a community there when you're constantly back and forth all 384 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:25,520 Speaker 1: over the world. And so here I have that stable 385 00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 1: community and so I can leave and know I can 386 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:31,400 Speaker 1: come back and have you know, the ones to see 387 00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:34,439 Speaker 1: you when I do, what do you plan on doing 388 00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:39,560 Speaker 1: when it comes to traveling and having a newborn? Drap 389 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:42,840 Speaker 1: the kid on my back and go, yeah, so it's 390 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:44,960 Speaker 1: not gonna we don't think it's gonna affect your travel 391 00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 1: as much. I think in the beginning beginning it will. 392 00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:52,200 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm so scared for that first ride. I'm 393 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:54,480 Speaker 1: not gonna lie because we all we've all been there 394 00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:58,879 Speaker 1: where there's a crying kid behind us, and I know 395 00:23:58,960 --> 00:24:01,600 Speaker 1: it's gonna happen, and I don't know what to do 396 00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:05,040 Speaker 1: just yet. But it's like anything else, you figure it out, 397 00:24:05,160 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 1: right and uh and yeah, I think it's everything is 398 00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:12,000 Speaker 1: learning process and an experiment. And like I said, I'm 399 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:15,440 Speaker 1: I'm so nervous, but we we figured it out. People 400 00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:18,600 Speaker 1: do it all the time. Did you, guys, did you 401 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:21,240 Speaker 1: ever set a wedding date? Like were you planning on 402 00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:23,479 Speaker 1: getting married this year or were you still like this 403 00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:26,960 Speaker 1: was still a planning year for you guys? Yeah, I 404 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:32,520 Speaker 1: mean he engraved ten ten twenty on this guy, which 405 00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:35,920 Speaker 1: is you know, in a few days from now. Um, 406 00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:39,320 Speaker 1: so it's a little it's a little sad knowing that 407 00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:42,840 Speaker 1: date is coming soon and we won't be getting married 408 00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:47,080 Speaker 1: and that's okay. I think as the pandemic went on, 409 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 1: we realized that that date was less and less likely 410 00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:54,760 Speaker 1: to be ours, especially because he's from Australia and his 411 00:24:54,840 --> 00:24:58,119 Speaker 1: family is still in Australia. They can't get out, we 412 00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:01,840 Speaker 1: can't get in. It's it's just a crazy year. And 413 00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:06,200 Speaker 1: so I think we are doing the best we can 414 00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:08,080 Speaker 1: with the time we have by having a baby. First, 415 00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:13,920 Speaker 1: he engraved a date. Um before you said yes, right? 416 00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:17,920 Speaker 1: Why why? Wait? Why that date is a really good 417 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:22,520 Speaker 1: question because when he proposed shortly thereafter, he was like, okay, okay, 418 00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:24,359 Speaker 1: look at the look at the engagement ring Luke quotes 419 00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 1: on the inside. And I was like, oh god. And 420 00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:29,919 Speaker 1: I looked at the sentence in twenty and I was 421 00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:33,320 Speaker 1: so taken aback because obviously we we hadn't talked about that, 422 00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:38,200 Speaker 1: and and I came to find out that he had 423 00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,600 Speaker 1: just talked to my mom, and I guess my mom 424 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:44,040 Speaker 1: always knew that I liked the October month for getting married, 425 00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:46,720 Speaker 1: although and I had never talked about it, so it 426 00:25:46,760 --> 00:25:50,040 Speaker 1: was still a bit random and like super super ballsy 427 00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:54,400 Speaker 1: on his side. Um, But like I said, I've always 428 00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:57,000 Speaker 1: visioned in October wedding and I love even numbers, and 429 00:25:57,040 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 1: you can't forget a date like ten ten twenty. Uh 430 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:03,560 Speaker 1: so it all kind of lined up. I was on board, 431 00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:09,359 Speaker 1: you know, other plan. I still can't. I find it 432 00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:14,679 Speaker 1: like kind of sweet that you're always remember based on 433 00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:16,879 Speaker 1: that engraving, Like you'll look back and you, yes, that 434 00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:19,520 Speaker 1: wasn't the day. There will be a new date. But like, 435 00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:23,160 Speaker 1: I kind of find it sweet. I kind of find 436 00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:25,240 Speaker 1: it like. I like it too. First, I don't. I 437 00:26:25,240 --> 00:26:26,960 Speaker 1: can't put my finger on what it is about it, 438 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,800 Speaker 1: but I like it. I want to do something special 439 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:31,879 Speaker 1: on that date too. I don't know what yet, but 440 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:34,520 Speaker 1: I want to. I want to celebrate in some way 441 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:39,160 Speaker 1: of I guess what could have been. Um, yeah, we'll 442 00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:42,000 Speaker 1: have a new dates. I don't know what it's gonna 443 00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:44,240 Speaker 1: look like. I don't know where it's going to be, 444 00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:50,439 Speaker 1: because it's hard to visualize something when another milestone like 445 00:26:50,560 --> 00:26:53,480 Speaker 1: babies coming first, and when a whole half of the 446 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:56,399 Speaker 1: family is on another continent. There's just a lot of 447 00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:59,920 Speaker 1: things in the air that haven't settled. Yeah, Leslie Murphy, 448 00:26:59,920 --> 00:27:02,680 Speaker 1: you have more things going on right now than most 449 00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:06,000 Speaker 1: humans have in like five years, and you're just packing 450 00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:08,639 Speaker 1: into the one year that like, why not, you know, 451 00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:11,280 Speaker 1: we got time on our hands, just go ahead and 452 00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:14,479 Speaker 1: have a baby, move and get married. But really, I 453 00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:17,360 Speaker 1: mean that's the thing. We do have time on our 454 00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:20,000 Speaker 1: hands because, like I said, I work and travel. Can't 455 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:23,159 Speaker 1: really do that right now. Um, And so I don't know. 456 00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:27,359 Speaker 1: I am not mad at this year. There are many 457 00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 1: many hard hardships that have come with it, but I 458 00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:32,919 Speaker 1: think for the most part it's been, you know, pretty 459 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:34,919 Speaker 1: good to the two of us, with an engagement and 460 00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:37,760 Speaker 1: a baby and a move back home to family. I 461 00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:41,280 Speaker 1: really can't complain. Well, can you share with us the 462 00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:45,520 Speaker 1: day that you found out you're pregnant? Um? Sure, yeah, 463 00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:49,480 Speaker 1: I Um, I haven't talked about this anywhere. So here 464 00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:57,120 Speaker 1: we go exclusive and it's it's really not like anything dramatic. 465 00:27:57,240 --> 00:28:01,160 Speaker 1: I you know, as you do and you get pregnant, 466 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:04,000 Speaker 1: if you were in tune with your body, you realize 467 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:07,080 Speaker 1: that you must period. And I did just that, and 468 00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:11,000 Speaker 1: so I said, I I had I just had a feeling, 469 00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:14,080 Speaker 1: and I m took a pregnant to test. I went 470 00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:18,760 Speaker 1: to Target and then waited until that night to take 471 00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:21,320 Speaker 1: the pregnancy test because it's such a big moment, and 472 00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:23,920 Speaker 1: I knew. I'm just knew in the back of my mind. 473 00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:27,160 Speaker 1: I was like, this is going to read positive. And 474 00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:30,320 Speaker 1: I knew from that moment on that my life and 475 00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:33,760 Speaker 1: would be forever changed. And so I waited until that 476 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:38,960 Speaker 1: night to take it. I actually took the test, said 477 00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:40,840 Speaker 1: it on the stink because it takes like a few 478 00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:44,280 Speaker 1: seconds or moments, and actually took a bath, and I 479 00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:49,240 Speaker 1: was like, Okay, I just need to like fends the fence. 480 00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:52,240 Speaker 1: But I knew the moment I looked at it that 481 00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:53,920 Speaker 1: my life would forever change. So I just wanted a 482 00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:58,080 Speaker 1: few more moments of um, I guess peace and stillness 483 00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:01,920 Speaker 1: and the way life was and moment before it changed forever. 484 00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:04,080 Speaker 1: And so then I got out of the bath and 485 00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:06,800 Speaker 1: I immediately looked at it and it said pregnant on it, 486 00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:11,520 Speaker 1: and I literally just walked out of the bathroom and 487 00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:16,520 Speaker 1: he's sitting there watching TV, and I go, um, we're pregnant. 488 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:21,880 Speaker 1: I like had to get it off my chest. I couldn't. 489 00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:25,120 Speaker 1: I so badly wanted to do something cute and surprising 490 00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:28,280 Speaker 1: in some way, but it was nighttime. We were really 491 00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:31,120 Speaker 1: about to go to sleep, and I like it was 492 00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:33,080 Speaker 1: like word about it. I had to get it out 493 00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:35,840 Speaker 1: of my body and have somebody else just know it. 494 00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:39,440 Speaker 1: So that's how it happened. Did he know like that 495 00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:42,360 Speaker 1: you had an inkling or was he just completely like 496 00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:45,360 Speaker 1: was just out of nowhere. No. I in fact, I 497 00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:48,600 Speaker 1: didn't tell my box pregnant's test that day, um, because 498 00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:52,520 Speaker 1: I I like this the shock factor a little bit, 499 00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:53,800 Speaker 1: so I was I didn't even tell him I was 500 00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:55,200 Speaker 1: taking the test, So I just kind of watched in 501 00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:58,800 Speaker 1: the bathroom, took a bath, and then came out with 502 00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:01,160 Speaker 1: a massive surprise. And you know what is the funniest 503 00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:03,680 Speaker 1: part of this whole thing is so, like I said, 504 00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:06,880 Speaker 1: this is at nighttime. I just think about we're about 505 00:30:06,920 --> 00:30:10,240 Speaker 1: to go to sleep. So he gets in bed. I 506 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 1: walked back to brush my teeth, and I can hear 507 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:17,160 Speaker 1: him kind of breathing really hard in the bedroom, like 508 00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:20,360 Speaker 1: almost like he's hyperventilating, And I'm like, are you okay 509 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:21,880 Speaker 1: in there? And he's like, yeah, I think I'm fine. 510 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:24,080 Speaker 1: It's just, you know, it's just a lot to process. 511 00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:26,160 Speaker 1: And so I walked back in the bed, I sit down, 512 00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:28,760 Speaker 1: and he immediately gets up and runs to the bathroom 513 00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:36,440 Speaker 1: and vomits everywhere. Oh, it was just a lot to 514 00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:39,720 Speaker 1: handle for him, I think. But in the moment, all 515 00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:41,120 Speaker 1: I can do is laugh because I was like, I'm 516 00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 1: a pregnant one, actually, and it was it was a 517 00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:47,959 Speaker 1: funny moment. I'm always interested though. I think those I mean, 518 00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:50,280 Speaker 1: those moments are so special ones that you can't forget. 519 00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:53,840 Speaker 1: But like, what was his first reaction? Because I put 520 00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:58,400 Speaker 1: myself in his position, Yeah, and I mean, honestly, you 521 00:30:58,400 --> 00:30:59,760 Speaker 1: don't know what you know, you don't know how you're 522 00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:03,400 Speaker 1: gonna what was his initial reaction and instinct it was 523 00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:08,400 Speaker 1: not as it wasn't as like dramatic as I had hoped. 524 00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:10,520 Speaker 1: And so I walk out of the bathroom and I 525 00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 1: don't even give him time to think or look or anything. Immediately, 526 00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:19,040 Speaker 1: just word vomit, Uh, we're pregnant. And it takes the 527 00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:22,600 Speaker 1: seconds to register in his brain. And then he was 528 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:29,160 Speaker 1: just like, oh my god, are we really Wow, He's 529 00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:33,200 Speaker 1: just tell he's just sitting and processing, sitting and processing. 530 00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:37,040 Speaker 1: And I'm like, yeah, that's that's it. That's all I got. 531 00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:39,640 Speaker 1: And I think, you know, and then about a few 532 00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:42,600 Speaker 1: minutes later is when he threw up everywhere and so 533 00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:49,680 Speaker 1: still processing. But ultimately, I mean, with all having said, 534 00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:51,960 Speaker 1: he is thrilled. I mean, he wanted to be a 535 00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:56,080 Speaker 1: dad last year, so this is these thrills minus the 536 00:31:56,720 --> 00:32:01,400 Speaker 1: you know, vomit. Speaking of vomit, how is your first trimester, Ben? 537 00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:06,360 Speaker 1: How you feeling? Yeah? Good? I have had no morning thickness. 538 00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:10,680 Speaker 1: Good for you, none, I would. I am lucky in 539 00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:14,400 Speaker 1: that aspect. I it was really really tired, a lot 540 00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:17,240 Speaker 1: of fatigue, a lot of bloating, but that's about it. 541 00:32:17,360 --> 00:32:21,600 Speaker 1: I really I was shocked because I had prepared myself for, 542 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:26,000 Speaker 1: you know, the worst, and it it didn't come. That's amazing, 543 00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:32,040 Speaker 1: couldn't for you? It's amazing, Leslie. We uh we hear 544 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 1: the almost famous podcast. I want to say congratulations and 545 00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:38,640 Speaker 1: all this stuff. I mean, that's just a huge deal 546 00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:41,800 Speaker 1: for you, uh and in so many ways. And moving 547 00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:44,280 Speaker 1: back home is obviously a big move. And people love 548 00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:46,800 Speaker 1: you and follow you because of your travels and because 549 00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:50,520 Speaker 1: of your adventure. And this is a new adventure, one 550 00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:52,760 Speaker 1: that we can't wait to fall along with. If people 551 00:32:52,800 --> 00:32:55,760 Speaker 1: out there listening go, hey, uh, I just need a 552 00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:58,760 Speaker 1: little bit more of Leslie Murphy in my life. Where 553 00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:02,080 Speaker 1: can they follow you? Where can they tune into this journey? 554 00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:05,320 Speaker 1: I love it? You can tune in various places, one 555 00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:09,520 Speaker 1: being Instagram at Leslie and Murphy or my blog The 556 00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:12,520 Speaker 1: road Less Travels with one s as in Leslie, we 557 00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:16,040 Speaker 1: can't let you go before we talk about Claire. Of course, 558 00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:18,480 Speaker 1: of course you and Claire got really close during Bachelor 559 00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:22,520 Speaker 1: Winter Games. Tell us all your thoughts about her being 560 00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:25,280 Speaker 1: the Bachelorette, if you talk to her since she's left 561 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:29,320 Speaker 1: the show or anything that you got. I know, and 562 00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:32,000 Speaker 1: we were all there together on Bachelor Winter Games, so 563 00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:35,160 Speaker 1: you guys know just as much as I do. But um, 564 00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:38,080 Speaker 1: I love I love that she's the Bachelorette. All I 565 00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:43,120 Speaker 1: guess one of two? Uh this season? Well, let's pause there, 566 00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:46,800 Speaker 1: let's actually pause there. Um, Leslie, there's a quote this 567 00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:50,920 Speaker 1: week from Chris Harrison. Okay, and we we spoke about 568 00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:52,640 Speaker 1: it before you came on. We don't know how to 569 00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 1: decipher it. In fact, we're super confused by it. And uh, 570 00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:58,120 Speaker 1: and before we move on to your thoughts on Claire, 571 00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:00,240 Speaker 1: I do think it. I want to hear your thoughts 572 00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:03,360 Speaker 1: on this this quote. So Chris Harrison came out this 573 00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:07,120 Speaker 1: week and told people, uh, he says. What I can 574 00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:11,920 Speaker 1: confirm is this is clear season a dent it's all hers, 575 00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:15,480 Speaker 1: it's about her story and everything that happens after it. 576 00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:19,880 Speaker 1: After it, you'll just have to wait and see. Leslie. 577 00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:23,759 Speaker 1: If you're just uh an almost famous listener and two 578 00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:25,879 Speaker 1: hosts that try to do their best to make sense 579 00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:28,120 Speaker 1: of it all, what's your thoughts on that? Knowing that 580 00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:32,840 Speaker 1: we've always thought there was two bachelorettes, Yeah, no kidding. 581 00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:36,120 Speaker 1: I guess my initial thoughts are, I'd love to sit down, 582 00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:38,400 Speaker 1: drink a bottle of wine with Chris and really get 583 00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:43,440 Speaker 1: the deeds. Because I now I'm just thoroly. I don't know. 584 00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:46,680 Speaker 1: I am fairly confusing. I just want to I just 585 00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:49,440 Speaker 1: want to get Chris intoxicated, so it tells me all 586 00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:54,840 Speaker 1: be good. But I don't know. I uh, I'm still 587 00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:58,840 Speaker 1: regardless of that quote. That is very that's still very vague. 588 00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:02,080 Speaker 1: I still think we got we got two bachelors. I 589 00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:04,600 Speaker 1: think we do too. Okay, anyway, sorry to Storty to 590 00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:06,880 Speaker 1: do uh go off on a teange there. We just 591 00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:09,120 Speaker 1: I have no clue what to do with that. Um 592 00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:12,080 Speaker 1: thoughts unclear. I don't know what to do with this 593 00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:16,960 Speaker 1: whole season. But going back to Claire, I love Matt. 594 00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:20,319 Speaker 1: They chose her first as the bachelorette. I love that 595 00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:24,440 Speaker 1: she is fierce. I love that she knows what she 596 00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:27,840 Speaker 1: wants as a woman. I love that she hasn't settled 597 00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:29,520 Speaker 1: as a thirty nine year old. I think a lot 598 00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:33,400 Speaker 1: of women, um, I can't generalize their blanket that statement, 599 00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:37,120 Speaker 1: but by any means, but I think some women as 600 00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:41,000 Speaker 1: they get older tend to settle and and she's not 601 00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:43,839 Speaker 1: done that. And I think the world of her for that, 602 00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:46,480 Speaker 1: um And I think it's a good She's a great 603 00:35:46,560 --> 00:35:49,680 Speaker 1: role model for others to find their power and find 604 00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:51,359 Speaker 1: the person they're meant to be with in the end. 605 00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,400 Speaker 1: And I hope she does that with us as an 606 00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:58,280 Speaker 1: audience being able to watch it. I'll play out because 607 00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:01,160 Speaker 1: we didn't. We didn't get there around Bachelor Winter Games, 608 00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:03,920 Speaker 1: and that's okay. They get another dose. I love the 609 00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:06,759 Speaker 1: other dose. And let's just point out that you and 610 00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:09,359 Speaker 1: Claire used to take baths together in the Winter Games house. 611 00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:13,880 Speaker 1: We sued it, um but is one of my favorite 612 00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:18,040 Speaker 1: moments from that season, and the edit from that is 613 00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:20,960 Speaker 1: just great. I mean, really, I don't know. I don't 614 00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:22,440 Speaker 1: remember if you guys were in the hot tub, but 615 00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:26,040 Speaker 1: it was full, so we had to make our own party. Yeah, 616 00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:31,960 Speaker 1: the party in the bathroom was better. There was there 617 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:33,759 Speaker 1: was way too many bodies in the hot top it 618 00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:41,279 Speaker 1: all times. It's not for me to make your own 619 00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:44,960 Speaker 1: parties sometimes, you know, right Well, Leslie Murphy, you're the best. 620 00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:48,719 Speaker 1: Congratulations on all the things going on. UM, good luck 621 00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:52,240 Speaker 1: with the move. This is a an exciting one. Ashley 622 00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:54,080 Speaker 1: and I both love our families. I know you love 623 00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:58,400 Speaker 1: your family. UH is not an easy decision, I'm sure, 624 00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:01,480 Speaker 1: but one we can all celebrate and know it's for 625 00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:04,120 Speaker 1: the good. Leslie Murphy. Everybody, thanks for coming on. Thank 626 00:37:04,160 --> 00:37:08,719 Speaker 1: you guys, appreciate it. By hey. As we mentioned UH, 627 00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:11,880 Speaker 1: this week, we will be releasing a second episode breaking 628 00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:15,280 Speaker 1: down all of Claire's guys. We're gonna have mini guests, 629 00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:19,520 Speaker 1: three guests actually onto the podcast to talk about Claire season, 630 00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:21,839 Speaker 1: to talk about their lives. It's gonna be awesome. It's 631 00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:24,560 Speaker 1: gonna be great. I also have to give a shout 632 00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:27,600 Speaker 1: out to Last week was a National Coffee Week. If 633 00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:31,080 Speaker 1: you don't celebrate National Coffee Week, you crazy. UH. And 634 00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:34,840 Speaker 1: obviously UH for me it was extra personal because generous 635 00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:37,280 Speaker 1: UH had a tremendous week with a lot of support 636 00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:38,640 Speaker 1: and a lot of support from all of you listening, 637 00:37:38,680 --> 00:37:41,719 Speaker 1: so thank you for that. Ashley, You're the best. I 638 00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:43,760 Speaker 1: will talk to you here in just a few days 639 00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:46,239 Speaker 1: and I'm pumped for it. With that, I've Been Been, 640 00:37:46,560 --> 00:37:49,720 Speaker 1: I've Been Ashley by guys. Followed the Benn and Ashley 641 00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:53,120 Speaker 1: I Almost Famous podcast on I Heart Radio or subscribe 642 00:37:53,160 --> 00:40:38,400 Speaker 1: wherever you listen to podcasts. Assssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss