1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:02,360 Speaker 1: I'll say it. I want to be Gronk for a day. 2 00:00:03,080 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: That was mine. That was mine. Calm Down with Aaron 3 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 1: and Carissa is a production of iHeartRadio. I would like 4 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:18,160 Speaker 1: to welcome everyone to the pregame show, and I would 5 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:21,480 Speaker 1: also like to submit a question at the end of 6 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 1: the pre game show. Great to get Urah, Yeah it was? 7 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:29,720 Speaker 1: Was it? Dear Abby? You're gonna be my Abby? Great? 8 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:34,839 Speaker 1: I love this. This is exciting. Yeah. Anyway, this is 9 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 1: a question for you. So you start us off with, Oh, Aaron, 10 00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 1: this is from Jerry Girl six. Aaron, did the player 11 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:45,320 Speaker 1: save a space for you on the air conditioned benches? No? 12 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 1: I mean, I will say this. Teams are very very 13 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 1: generous with their waters, with their if you need a 14 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 1: towel smelling salts, I did that once. I was like, whoa. 15 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: It was like nailed in the head by a pass 16 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 1: during practice, no pregame of the Super Bowl. Conked in 17 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 1: the head. What hit me so hard the last time 18 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 1: we had a Super Bowl. I'm not going to say 19 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:10,880 Speaker 1: what quarterback hit me? And I was especially with you. 20 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 1: I didn't know this. No, it was during the pregame. 21 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 1: You were still part of the pregame. I was entroying 22 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 1: my mahomes piece and I got nailed by a pass. 23 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 1: I looked at the three security members next to me, 24 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:24,560 Speaker 1: and I was like, none of you guys tried to 25 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 1: catch that. You good. Oh. I was so pissed, but 26 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 1: also so grateful it wasn't on air because it would 27 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:33,479 Speaker 1: have dropped an F bomb. And then chiefs training staff 28 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:35,639 Speaker 1: saw and I was like, can I please have smelling salts? 29 00:01:35,640 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 1: I think I'm concussed. I wasn't, but I was a 30 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 1: little nervous for my first hit and what would come out. 31 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:45,040 Speaker 1: But no, I don't go on the air conditioned benches. 32 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 1: I have stood in front of the heaters before. We've 33 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 1: talked about that a lot I have. I didn't stand 34 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 1: in front of the like the blow the misty blowers 35 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 1: that the guys have, but you did. Oh I love those, Okay, 36 00:01:57,520 --> 00:02:00,200 Speaker 1: right there, I did, Miami. I just feel like it's 37 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 1: a tease to my body, and I'm like, these are 38 00:02:02,440 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 1: the conditions, this is the situation. Move it or lose 39 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:09,280 Speaker 1: its sister. But I will, you know, I will ask 40 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 1: for other things on the bench, like in Green Bay 41 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 1: sometimes it's freezing. Love the training staff there. They have 42 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 1: soup like they have broth, hot broth that you can 43 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 1: drink to what you want. I mean, yeah, I don't 44 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 1: know that. I just know the package like it's a 45 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 1: it's a buffet. Yeah, so good, but no, no your 46 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 1: conditioned bunches. But man, can I stop going to these places? 47 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 1: Take a shot of you to do your report. Let's 48 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 1: go to Aarin for more, and she's on the bench 49 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 1: just like, oh sap. Well, guys, let me tell you, 50 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:47,639 Speaker 1: idle man, where do you pull inspiration from when you're 51 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: in a slump? Oh, well, I will kind of slump exactly. 52 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 1: Let's see pull inspiration from. It's a great question. Let 53 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:58,920 Speaker 1: me think. I try to put things into perspective. So 54 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 1: my problem it does right now, I don't know. I'm 55 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 1: at the ranch. So it's like trivial things that I 56 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:08,800 Speaker 1: just don't know enough about with the ranch, and it 57 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,959 Speaker 1: just cost me exorbitance amount of money. Oh, exorbitant amount 58 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 1: of money. And then I'm like no, I'm like this 59 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 1: is elective, Like it's not health, it's not family or friends. 60 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 1: So like, I just try to always put perspective on things. 61 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:24,400 Speaker 1: I mean, don't get me wrong. There's about five voice 62 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 1: notes bitching to Aaron and then I get it out 63 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 1: and then I go, Okay, pull it together, Chris. So yeah, 64 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 1: that's my inspirations perspective yours. But yeah, and I had 65 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 1: a real shit weekend. But I will say this about 66 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: my shit weekend. It also made me realize my perspective 67 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:43,840 Speaker 1: was my team and not just I don't mean like 68 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 1: the people that work with me are for me. I 69 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 1: mean my family, my husband, my best friend and her 70 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 1: boyfriend husband. I have such a great group around me 71 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 1: that I can send a quick text to about thirty 72 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 1: people that this is happening, and different people are doing 73 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 1: different things like we got you here, we got you here, 74 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 1: we got you here, we got you here, and it 75 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 1: was so amazing, especially like Chris and I are never home. 76 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 1: It's like dealing with things at home are super hard 77 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 1: and this one is kind of trivial. So it was. Yeah, 78 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 1: it was pretty cool to sit back after my chest 79 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:21,080 Speaker 1: started to like up a bit, not from phlem and 80 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:23,359 Speaker 1: I was like, God, dang, I am so lucky with 81 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:25,279 Speaker 1: the group that I have around me. So that was 82 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 1: my perspective. And I agree, same thing. But I will 83 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:29,839 Speaker 1: say this, and you're not asking for this, but I 84 00:04:29,839 --> 00:04:32,599 Speaker 1: think very much that's a boomerang like what you put 85 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 1: out is what happens. You are my number one crisis friend. 86 00:04:35,800 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 1: You should work for the Red Cross, you should work 87 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 1: for any like emergency as solaces. I'm not kidding first responders, 88 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 1: because you have all the answers and sometimes you can 89 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 1: could see it for yourself. Just know that that's because 90 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,840 Speaker 1: you do the same thing. And so it comes back 91 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:57,359 Speaker 1: Nick's perspective perspective. It could always be worse. It really could. 92 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 1: Next whoa sweet and sweet envy? If you could switch 93 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 1: places with one of your coworkers more day, who would 94 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:11,719 Speaker 1: it be? Huh? I'll say it. I want to be 95 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 1: Gronk for a day. I know it's mine. I always 96 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 1: want to be that. Will I do? He is he 97 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:24,359 Speaker 1: I tell people that don't know Gronk this all the time. 98 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:27,840 Speaker 1: He is exactly what you want him to be and 99 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:31,680 Speaker 1: what you expect him to be. He is the best. 100 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 1: I was going to say that because yesterday so Kurt Menafie, 101 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 1: because he also has a full time job in New York. 102 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 1: He'll leave early, not all the time. This was the 103 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 1: first time this year we'll leave. Did you do postgame? 104 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 1: I did one post game? Yeah. The Raider is bron 105 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 1: post one, and so it was me, Terry Howie and Gronk, 106 00:05:49,320 --> 00:05:51,160 Speaker 1: and it's sort of one of those things where it's 107 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:52,600 Speaker 1: like you may get it, like I thought I was 108 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 1: getting your guys's postgame, and then you guys ended up 109 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 1: taking it off air because the timing of the game. 110 00:05:56,520 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 1: So it's just there's a lot of things and this 111 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 1: is more it's that's so crazy, by the way, I 112 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:03,840 Speaker 1: couldn't imagine. It's so fun of it all. Yeah, no, 113 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 1: I that's where I like Jacob Ooman, like Bill Richard's 114 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 1: like all those people that have to coordinate. If you 115 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:11,360 Speaker 1: guys think about it, what we're talking about is if 116 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 1: this is of any interest you, if you're listening to 117 00:06:13,240 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 1: this podcast, you obviously thinkre enough about what they do 118 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:17,800 Speaker 1: for a living that it's if a game goes off 119 00:06:17,839 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 1: the air, then it has to go to studio for 120 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 1: the postgame, but coordinating when each game goes off the 121 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 1: air and so you're not overlapping the postgame. So it's 122 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 1: actually like very much a so free of like things. 123 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:32,359 Speaker 1: Any who, So Terry Gronk and how we walk out 124 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:34,880 Speaker 1: and Terry comes up to me, he goes, do you 125 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:38,240 Speaker 1: know who this Brandon Ayuki is and I go Brandon 126 00:06:38,320 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 1: Ayuk and he goes no. Gronk said earlier on air, 127 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: it's Brandon Ayuki. I said. I looked at Gronk, I go, 128 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:47,800 Speaker 1: you said his name's Brandon Ayuki and Gronk go's I 129 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 1: didn't know what his name was whatever like that, and 130 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:53,600 Speaker 1: I started laughing in a couple of super Bowl incredible. 131 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:57,120 Speaker 1: But this goes back to Gronk is exactly who he is. 132 00:06:57,160 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 1: By the way, this is Terry Gronk is Terry Junior 133 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 1: like each other, like reincarnated in their own way. But 134 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:06,960 Speaker 1: I just love people who are unapologetic about who they 135 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 1: are and are. I said to Gronk, I go, you 136 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 1: are human espresso. I was like, you love that line, 137 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 1: you love them and you are just like and that's 138 00:07:15,720 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 1: actually like from uh, you know who says that all 139 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 1: the time is our boss Brad, because I'm like he is. 140 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 1: He just instantly puts everyone in a good mood. He 141 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 1: doesn't take himself too seriously. He doesn't mind being the 142 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 1: butt of the joke. And like, I think that you 143 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 1: and I in our older age have gotten better about 144 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 1: self deprecation, but he is next level. So yes, we 145 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 1: are unanimous in our gronk uh decision. Key right. Anonymous 146 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:49,400 Speaker 1: meda guy who said he we love these was attracted 147 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 1: to me then completely ignores me. Okay, meda guy who 148 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 1: said he's attracted me but completely ignores me, Well, that's 149 00:07:57,400 --> 00:08:01,520 Speaker 1: just like being young, and I don't that's juvenile to me. 150 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 1: If he said he likes you, then he needs to 151 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:05,760 Speaker 1: pursue you. I'm all about make the fucking effort, Like 152 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 1: I'm done like meeting you halfway on that initial thing. 153 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:12,640 Speaker 1: This is where like, yes, we're independent women and all 154 00:08:12,680 --> 00:08:14,720 Speaker 1: this kind of stuff. But I'm very much like old 155 00:08:14,720 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 1: school like when it comes to like I want the 156 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 1: man to pursue me. I want the man to set 157 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:21,480 Speaker 1: up the date at the beginning. Like once you're in 158 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 1: the relationship, that's fine, like if you, you know, pick 159 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 1: up the check or whatever. But I need some chivalry. 160 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 1: I need you to open the door. I need you 161 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:29,360 Speaker 1: to do all that stuff. So if this guy is 162 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 1: like now pretending like he's not into you, I'm bored. Next, 163 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 1: don't waste your time. Yeah. I had people do that 164 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:37,840 Speaker 1: to me back in my dating days. Oh my god, 165 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:39,800 Speaker 1: I thank you so much. I was so trying. Yeah, 166 00:08:39,800 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 1: a couple of them, but I never No, you don't 167 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:44,640 Speaker 1: how much time I wasted on that crowd. No move 168 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:46,960 Speaker 1: or lose it again? You know, well, you know what 169 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:48,440 Speaker 1: I want you to be. I want I want you 170 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:49,640 Speaker 1: to be the guy that's on the side of the 171 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:51,599 Speaker 1: road in the blow up thing with the sign and 172 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 1: it's spinning. I'm into you. I'm into you. That's what 173 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:58,880 Speaker 1: I want. That from oh guy, the hand and the 174 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 1: crazy hair, that's a because we got a special today. 175 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:05,480 Speaker 1: That's who I want. I don't live in the sun. 176 00:09:06,160 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 1: I don't want to have to do any masks. Are 177 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:10,080 Speaker 1: you into me or not? Okay, by the way, that's 178 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 1: still such a great movie. He's just not that into you. 179 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 1: Mixed all right? See phones, Aaron. This is sweet. This 180 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:18,280 Speaker 1: will make me cry. My son did not have many 181 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:21,319 Speaker 1: words until he was closer to two. He's now three 182 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:24,559 Speaker 1: and he never stops talking. Mac will get there. You're 183 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:29,080 Speaker 1: doing more. Thank you. That's very very sweet. That's very sweet. 184 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:32,320 Speaker 1: It is very sweet. Anonymous, How do you deal with 185 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:37,600 Speaker 1: decreased confidence after having untrue and misrepresented information spread about you? 186 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 1: Did I write this to myself? Did I do this 187 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 1: in my sleep? Especially when you know confronting that person 188 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 1: is not worth it and not an option. So again 189 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 1: it could be an option. How do you deal with 190 00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:55,680 Speaker 1: the decrease confidence? Okay, huh do you want to start 191 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:57,080 Speaker 1: this one? Because I got a lot to say, so 192 00:09:57,120 --> 00:09:59,360 Speaker 1: I'm going to think about how I'm going to phrase this. 193 00:10:00,520 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 1: I would say that with both of us and dealing 194 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 1: with things like this, maybe I should speak for myself 195 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:10,080 Speaker 1: that it does take a minute though your confidence does 196 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:14,960 Speaker 1: take a hit. But much like I talked about in 197 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:16,840 Speaker 1: the beginning, where you have a great team around you, 198 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 1: they also are the ones that are there for you 199 00:10:19,320 --> 00:10:22,600 Speaker 1: that said knock it off. These people don't matter. But 200 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:25,120 Speaker 1: you also have to get there yourself and that takes time, 201 00:10:25,160 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 1: and it does, and I think you have to kind 202 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 1: of go through the path. You have to go through 203 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 1: the whole. What am I looking for? The whole? To 204 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:35,320 Speaker 1: get there? You have to go through the shit to 205 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:38,000 Speaker 1: get there. And you know what, I'm not going to 206 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:40,680 Speaker 1: speak for you, but I will you and I have 207 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 1: been through so much shit publicly that and I'm sure 208 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:50,959 Speaker 1: more is coming, not for you, but hey, no, my 209 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:54,080 Speaker 1: crystal ball is telling me. But it's just at this point, 210 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 1: it's like, what are you going to hit And I 211 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 1: don't want to put that out there, but I feel 212 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 1: like our confidence and our belief in ourselves has gotten 213 00:11:02,640 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 1: that much greater. Where where he's here noringing for the fends. Nope, 214 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 1: you're you're very close. You're getting warmer. You're getting warm 215 00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:16,360 Speaker 1: to this idea that we No, I'll take some of 216 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:20,319 Speaker 1: some of mine self inflicted, did bad decision and men 217 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 1: saying too much certain things. Okay, so that's fine. That's 218 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:27,199 Speaker 1: just about growing and maturing and taking responsibility. I mean, 219 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:30,559 Speaker 1: you know when a basketball game someone commits a turnover 220 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:32,240 Speaker 1: and they run down the court and they're like, my bad. 221 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 1: I love my bad. There's some stuff it's not because 222 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:38,400 Speaker 1: you know those people that's like, oh it's everybody. Everybody 223 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:40,880 Speaker 1: else is the problem. Well, if everyone else is the problem, 224 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 1: you might be the problem. So I like to split responsibilities. 225 00:11:44,800 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 1: Some stuff has definitely happened to me that I have 226 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 1: been a victim of, and you very much so, so 227 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:53,240 Speaker 1: I would say, And getting back to the answering this question, 228 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:55,960 Speaker 1: it's all about and Aaron Rodgers. He keeps coming up 229 00:11:56,000 --> 00:12:00,440 Speaker 1: in the old podcast, but he said, don't worry about 230 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 1: criticism from people that you wouldn't take advice from and 231 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 1: that resonates with me where I'm like, why do I 232 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:10,160 Speaker 1: care about what these people say if I wouldn't take 233 00:12:10,200 --> 00:12:14,320 Speaker 1: advice from them. So there is definitely some individuals that 234 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:17,079 Speaker 1: I have strong opinions about because the way that they 235 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 1: treated me. But all I do now is I now 236 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:23,600 Speaker 1: in my head, know exactly where they stand. Like I've 237 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:26,160 Speaker 1: been able to take an inventory, like you're over here 238 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 1: in the loser column, you're over here in the winter column. 239 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 1: And it makes it easier for me come Christmas time 240 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 1: to know who I'm sending a Christmas card to. And 241 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:35,840 Speaker 1: let me tell you this, that list one is shorter 242 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 1: and shorter and shorter. You're at the top of Santa's 243 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 1: good list every year. But I just, yeah, I think 244 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 1: it's really cathartic to be able to take an inventory. 245 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 1: Sometimes these people who have publicly criticized me have done 246 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:51,400 Speaker 1: me a massive favor. Now I don't have to wonder 247 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 1: what you think of me. You've made it very clear 248 00:12:53,520 --> 00:12:55,679 Speaker 1: what you think about me. So in fact, I'm not 249 00:12:55,720 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 1: going to send you a gift. I'm going to send 250 00:12:57,040 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 1: you a thank you card. You little who Shall I 251 00:13:00,640 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 1: address this too? No? Did that answer your question. I 252 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 1: thought that was great. I was way off, Peach, No, 253 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:10,200 Speaker 1: you were, we were. It was a collective answer, Peacha King. 254 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 1: If oh I do, that's yours, babe, go ahead. If 255 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 1: you could be in any movie or TV show, what 256 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 1: would it be? Friends? Friends? I would say that now, 257 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:21,559 Speaker 1: because you've gotten me into that. I can't believe it 258 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 1: took me that long to get there. Sex and the City, 259 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 1: like those episodes, I want to Carrie Bradshaw and just 260 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:32,679 Speaker 1: like especially Michael Patrick King the writing of that show 261 00:13:32,840 --> 00:13:35,319 Speaker 1: and how it's so poetic and it always comes back 262 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:40,360 Speaker 1: her outfits, her her hair, Oh my god, and she 263 00:13:40,440 --> 00:13:42,680 Speaker 1: had like the flip when it was curly, and it 264 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:46,959 Speaker 1: was just like always effortlessly like cool. Yeah, Sex and 265 00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:53,240 Speaker 1: the City would be mine. Oh, Yellowstone, I'd also be bad. Yeah, yeah, 266 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 1: that would definitely be another one. Well, guys, thanks for listening. Wait, 267 00:13:57,600 --> 00:14:00,920 Speaker 1: I have a question. Oh yeah, Aaron Jill Andrews. Right, 268 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 1: how do you function when you know you have too 269 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:10,400 Speaker 1: much on your plate but you have no choice? That's 270 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 1: the way the plane has to be. Okay, I'm going 271 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 1: to teach you not have a nervous breakdown. Okay, I'm 272 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:18,960 Speaker 1: going to teach you something. It's called CNN, not the 273 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:23,520 Speaker 1: news network, no, no acronym CNN, critical need nice. So 274 00:14:23,560 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 1: you're going to make a list of all the critical 275 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:29,200 Speaker 1: things that are you need to take care of, feeding back, 276 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:32,400 Speaker 1: giving him a bath. I mean just daily critical things 277 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:34,440 Speaker 1: that need to be done, the stuff that you need 278 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 1: to do. I need to study from my game, I 279 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 1: need to book my flight, I need to pull my 280 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 1: outfit for this, I need to pack. And the stuff 281 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 1: that's nice is I would like to get new pillows 282 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:47,120 Speaker 1: on my couch or I would like to go to 283 00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:49,960 Speaker 1: lunch with my girlfriends, but that falls under the nice thing. 284 00:14:50,040 --> 00:14:53,640 Speaker 1: So critical need and nice and it helps prioritize for 285 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:56,280 Speaker 1: me when I feel overwhelmed with things and I literally 286 00:14:56,360 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 1: write it down so that I can see it. And 287 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:01,840 Speaker 1: immediately when I write things down, I feel less overwhelmed 288 00:15:02,080 --> 00:15:04,200 Speaker 1: because now I'm at least remembering that I have to 289 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 1: do all these things instead of being like shit, I 290 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 1: forgot to do that because I just didn't write it down, 291 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 1: and that that happens me more times than not. So 292 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:14,400 Speaker 1: I'm trying to be better about writing things down or 293 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:17,120 Speaker 1: putting things in a calendar. I was like, I calendar 294 00:15:17,160 --> 00:15:18,680 Speaker 1: adverse for my whole life. And then I'm like, oh, 295 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:21,760 Speaker 1: I wonder why I'm missing these things. And sometimes in 296 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:24,560 Speaker 1: my life I'm like, you're making this harder on yourself. Carisa, 297 00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:27,280 Speaker 1: just stop do it in the moment. What did you say? 298 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:31,280 Speaker 1: Remember when your dad he had that phrase that was 299 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 1: like do it right now? What was the thing? Oh, 300 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:38,200 Speaker 1: put it away, don't put it down. Yeah, like just 301 00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 1: do those little things. But again going back to critical 302 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:48,440 Speaker 1: need and nice so help just you know, ease some 303 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:51,040 Speaker 1: of that. And also I'm going to say this delegation, 304 00:15:52,280 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 1: I know it's unct to do it now, but there 305 00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:57,800 Speaker 1: are certain like we've talked about it, Like I don't 306 00:15:57,840 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 1: like to clean my house, so I pay someone else 307 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:01,040 Speaker 1: to clean my Right, I've cleaned my house for a 308 00:16:01,040 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 1: lot of years now I can afford to not clean 309 00:16:02,800 --> 00:16:04,320 Speaker 1: my house. So I'm going to pay someone else to 310 00:16:04,360 --> 00:16:06,560 Speaker 1: do that. And I'm way that person makes a living 311 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:08,560 Speaker 1: because I'm paying for that. I don't want to be 312 00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:10,480 Speaker 1: the gardener. Okay, I also had to be the like 313 00:16:10,720 --> 00:16:13,640 Speaker 1: so I think it's a I've got a cat jumping 314 00:16:13,680 --> 00:16:17,120 Speaker 1: around back here. Apparently I haven't paid for a animal 315 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:22,160 Speaker 1: sitter in here. There's catterally literally cats flying everywhere. But yeah, 316 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 1: so designation of responsibilities that you don't need to be 317 00:16:26,280 --> 00:16:28,040 Speaker 1: by the way, you don't need to be a hero, 318 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:31,760 Speaker 1: like look at the cats behind you. Are you in 319 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:35,000 Speaker 1: a pat store for yah? These are my little barn 320 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 1: kiddies that I brought inside because I want them to 321 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 1: know people. I don't want them to be weirdos. And 322 00:16:39,880 --> 00:16:42,160 Speaker 1: I'll grab Oh they're playing hold on, look it up 323 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:47,360 Speaker 1: on the floor. Oh are they you one of them 324 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:50,880 Speaker 1: on the Big Show? Oh that's a tease. There's some 325 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:52,880 Speaker 1: more where that came from. So yes, do you? Is 326 00:16:52,880 --> 00:16:56,280 Speaker 1: that helpful to Angel Andrews? M hmm, okay, And you 327 00:16:56,320 --> 00:16:58,560 Speaker 1: know what else you'll do. We'll see if she gets 328 00:16:58,600 --> 00:17:01,360 Speaker 1: back to us and says it is okay. Well, also 329 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:04,720 Speaker 1: tell her when you talk to her next. You need 330 00:17:04,760 --> 00:17:08,600 Speaker 1: to invest in yourself knowing that a workout, because I 331 00:17:08,600 --> 00:17:11,000 Speaker 1: think if it's the same Daron Jill Andrew's very good. 332 00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:13,600 Speaker 1: I heard she did it the same, Oh good she did? Yeah, 333 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:15,840 Speaker 1: very good, because then your mind can be clearer. You 334 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:17,880 Speaker 1: need to make deposits into yourself because you're no good 335 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:19,680 Speaker 1: to anyone else if you're not at your best. Okay, 336 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:22,159 Speaker 1: I Love You. Big show coming up Thursday. We're going 337 00:17:22,200 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 1: to solve all the world's problems. Join ou Oh yeah, 338 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:29,439 Speaker 1: I'm sweating. Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a 339 00:17:29,440 --> 00:17:33,359 Speaker 1: production of iHeartRadio. 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