Speaker 1: First Date is follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury
Speaker 1: Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com. Lucy is on the
Speaker 1: phone today for a first Date follow up and she's
Speaker 1: getting ghosted by a guy named Brandon. So in a
Speaker 1: few minutes we're gonna call him and see if you'll
Speaker 1: tell us why's ghostinger and maybe get her another date.
Speaker 1: But first, Lucy, how long has it been since you
Speaker 1: heard from Brandon?
Speaker 2: It's one two week?
Speaker 1: Two weeks? Okay, have you reached out to did you try?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I did. I invited him to a game of
Speaker 2: ski ball, but he didn't respond.
Speaker 1: Oh no, okay, well see if we can figure it out.
Speaker 1: I want to tell us about the date and how
Speaker 1: you guys met.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Maul, you know how, and goes I'm at Brendan
Speaker 2: on the app. We talked briefly back and forth, good chemistry,
Speaker 2: before deciding to meet up at a local bar by us.
Speaker 2: We both like to play pool or both go at it,
Speaker 2: so yeah, it was kind of fun. It was like
Speaker 2: a hot challenge to build some flirty chemistry and we
Speaker 2: definitely did. We turned it into this drinking game and
Speaker 2: anytime one of us missed a shot, we would drink.
Speaker 1: You said, you guys are good, So did you end
Speaker 1: up drinking a lot? Like you know first people who
Speaker 1: are good at it like me, I would get hammer.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you could say that we got a little handsy,
Speaker 2: not in like a growth way, you know. But we
Speaker 2: played a few games, we danced around, talked, we kissed
Speaker 2: each other. We shared an uber home. It was a
Speaker 2: good time. It was definitely a good time.
Speaker 1: You shared an Uber home. So I I went home together,
Speaker 1: so he made.
Speaker 2: Sure that I got home first. He was definitely a gentleman. Yeah,
Speaker 2: he took good care of me. He's not like the
Speaker 2: other guys have dated.
Speaker 1: Did he try?
Speaker 2: No, he didn't. He was such a gentleman. And I
Speaker 2: mean we had a great kiss in the car, but
Speaker 2: then when it was time to go home, he said
Speaker 2: good night and didn't even try.
Speaker 1: That's refreshing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So, I mean, as you can imagine, I was
Speaker 2: pretty excited to see him again.
Speaker 1: So, yeah, why do you think you're getting ghosted them?
Speaker 2: I don't know. I did have this one moment where
Speaker 2: I kind of shrieked out a little bit, not on him,
Speaker 2: but we were like having a little moment in the
Speaker 2: corner and the drunk girl walked by and bumped into
Speaker 2: me and she made me still my beer all over
Speaker 2: my brand new top. Oh, I kind of freaked out
Speaker 2: a little bit on her. I snapped, but I like
Speaker 2: dialed it back before I went too far. I apologized.
Speaker 1: Brandon subscribed snap like start throwing chairs, like hey girl,
Speaker 1: do you know you just did that? Or was it
Speaker 1: like we're you know, snapping? Yeah, I think.
Speaker 2: Like a verbal like what the you know, and just
Speaker 2: kind of I don't know.
Speaker 3: I I.
Speaker 2: Have been more becoming in the past, but I don't know.
Speaker 2: I didn't. I didn't think it was that big of
Speaker 2: a deal. And I totally apologized to Brandon for doing it.
Speaker 2: That girl was definitely a mess, like she was not innocent,
Speaker 2: you know. So yeah, I don't know. I'm afraid that
Speaker 2: he was just like being polite in the moment and
Speaker 2: saying it was fine, and maybe I might have turned
Speaker 2: him off from it. It's not normal for me to
Speaker 2: do that, but when someone deserves it, you know, Okay,
Speaker 2: I'm only you bean, but I wanted to know that
Speaker 2: I'm not going to just freak out on him randomly
Speaker 2: like that, you know, right?
Speaker 1: Would that turn you off to you?
Speaker 3: Hole?
Speaker 1: It ends how it was. Yeah, I think it might
Speaker 1: turn me off now, but past me would have loved yeah,
Speaker 1: especially if you turn around and freaked out on me,
Speaker 1: I'd be like, whoa, oh she's hot. Oh thankfully I've
Speaker 1: learned my lesson with that though. But so it might.
Speaker 1: It might be a little bit much. So we'll see.
Speaker 1: We'll play a song come back, and then call him
Speaker 1: and see if the Tulus Why is ghosting you. Maybe
Speaker 1: get you another date. Okay, okay, thank y'all, all right,
Speaker 1: plaus song come back, get your first day follow up
Speaker 1: next if you're just joining us for today's first thing
Speaker 1: follow up. Lucy is on the phone and she's getting
Speaker 1: ghosted by a guy named Brandon. So in a second
Speaker 1: we're gonna get him on the phone and see if
Speaker 1: the Telus Why is ghostinger. But first, Lucy, why don't
Speaker 1: you catch us up on your situation?
Speaker 2: So basically, I went out with this guy. He was
Speaker 2: super hot, super cool, We had a good time, great chemistry.
Speaker 2: I may have snapped one of ye old dropped her
Speaker 2: beer on me, and I'm just worried that maybe I might.
Speaker 3: Have scared him off from that.
Speaker 2: But I wanted to know that that's not who I
Speaker 2: am like, I just random movie that to him?
Speaker 1: Right? Are you ready for us to call him?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Let's do it all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, man,
Speaker 1: I speak to Brandon please. Yeah, this is Brandon. How
Speaker 1: are you? My name is Jebel. I'm calling from a
Speaker 1: radio show. It's called The Jebel Show. Hi, Brandon, this
Speaker 1: is Nina. I'm also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 1: What's up? How are you? It's a radio show, yes,
Speaker 1: and we're calling you because we do a segment that's
Speaker 1: called the first Aid follow Up. That's where if you
Speaker 1: go on a day with somebody and you ghost them,
Speaker 1: that person can email us to get you on the
Speaker 1: phone and ask why you're ghosting. So we got an
Speaker 1: email about you from somebody. Do you know who do
Speaker 1: you think would email us and say that you're ghosting them?
Speaker 3: I don't know, you tell me it. It could be
Speaker 3: a couple of people, but all.
Speaker 1: Right, Okay, was about to get really good, Brandon.
Speaker 3: Her name is Lucy, So yeah, Lucy? I remember her?
Speaker 1: Okay? Do you remember liking Lucy? Do you remember going
Speaker 1: on a date with her?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Weird, man. We had a great time. Man, that
Speaker 3: girl was hot, smoking, I mean okay, yeah.
Speaker 1: I remember, Okay, So then what's the deal? She's so bomb?
Speaker 1: Where are you gone?
Speaker 3: She's sneaky, man, snaky.
Speaker 1: She's sneaky.
Speaker 3: She's sneaky. She pulled some stuff on a date man
Speaker 3: that was just not cool. Like what, Well, we went on,
Speaker 3: we had a great time, and you know it ended
Speaker 3: up where we were in a ball having a good time.
Speaker 3: We steaked out our little corner and uh we were
Speaker 3: actually relating to each other pretty well, touch steely, kissing, kissing.
Speaker 3: I was into her, she was into me, I thought.
Speaker 3: And then some random dude walks up to her out
Speaker 3: of nowhere, and it's like a whistle of lucy. I'm like,
Speaker 3: who is this clown? And she's like having a small
Speaker 3: talk with him. She turns her back to me and
Speaker 3: like almost starts arguing with this guy. It doesn't introduce me,
Speaker 3: doesn't tell me what's going on. And I'm like, what
Speaker 3: is what is the deal here? What is she hiding something?
Speaker 3: She's smiling and flirting and all this stuff with this guy,
Speaker 3: and I'm like, wait a minute, wasn't she just kissing me?
Speaker 3: Then it gets worse. We start playing pool. All of
Speaker 3: a sudden, she sees a group of people I guess
Speaker 3: over the other side of room with this guy. She
Speaker 3: walks over to him and just starts hanging out with him,
Speaker 3: like she came to the bar with them. I'm like,
Speaker 3: we just got done kissing petting in the corner and
Speaker 3: now you're over here with a whole other group. What
Speaker 3: the hell is going on?
Speaker 1: Did you ask her?
Speaker 3: Yeah? And she apologized, and she's like, oh, it's just
Speaker 3: some but I used to hang out with you know,
Speaker 3: it's no big deal. But it just sounded weird, you know,
Speaker 3: and the whole thing just it just didn't feel right.
Speaker 3: She was way too mysterious, and you know, I was
Speaker 3: waiting for it to even take me over there and
Speaker 3: introduce me to these people. But it didn't happen. I
Speaker 3: wasn't even upset about that. I mean, you know, things happened,
Speaker 3: but she was gone, like fifteen twenty minutes.
Speaker 1: Oh that's a game. Oh that's a long time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's hugging and laughing with these people with her
Speaker 3: back turn like she's trying to block me out. I'm like,
Speaker 3: sounds sneaky. Reminded me of an X. I was checked out.
Speaker 1: Well, okay, thank you for telling us. And now I'll
Speaker 1: let you know that Lucy is actually on the phone
Speaker 1: listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 3: Oh oh thanks, guys, appreciate it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, clear some stuff from both of you, guys, you
Speaker 1: know Lucy.
Speaker 2: Hey, Yeah, hi Brandon, what wrong again?
Speaker 3: Oh my god?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I left, I'll tell you, Okay. One, I don't
Speaker 2: think I was gone for that long. And Two, that
Speaker 2: was so unbelievably awkward for me. I did not think
Speaker 2: that these people are going to show up there. These
Speaker 2: are people that I like, know and I'm trying to
Speaker 2: kind of like fizzle out, and so it was super
Speaker 2: awkward for me. And I did not want to introduce
Speaker 2: you to these people, like I didn't want to mix that.
Speaker 3: You know, I understand what you're saying. It's just the
Speaker 3: only true part about what you just said is you
Speaker 3: didn't think because you didn't take me into consideration at all.
Speaker 3: You left me hanging. And I mean I just watched
Speaker 3: you have a beer pour it all over you. Obviously
Speaker 3: I'm kind of into you if I'm still sticking around.
Speaker 2: Okay, I mean, I definitely did not think it was
Speaker 2: a big deal. We were just talking. I mean, if
Speaker 2: you hadn't seen some people that you knew and you
Speaker 2: were talking to them, I wouldn't be so sensitive about it.
Speaker 3: Well, let's slip the script. Let's say that I take
Speaker 3: you out and I leave you somewhere and I go
Speaker 3: to talk to a bunch of girls that I know,
Speaker 3: and then I come back and say, Hey, it's no
Speaker 3: big deal. These are just some girls that I know.
Speaker 3: How would you feel about that?
Speaker 2: If I'm being like completely transparent and honest with you.
Speaker 2: That guy was my egg, and I really don't think
Speaker 2: that there was any world where you two needed to
Speaker 2: be like talking and meeting each other and whatever, and
Speaker 2: so like with all of our old friends there it
Speaker 2: was like weird for me and awkward, and so I
Speaker 2: wanted to just kind of like be like what's up,
Speaker 2: but also.
Speaker 3: Not mix y'all together.
Speaker 2: You know, I'm trying to fizzle that out. I'm trying
Speaker 2: to get away for each of you. I think that
Speaker 2: you're a great guy.
Speaker 3: I ever heard my way.
Speaker 2: I really like you, and I did not at all
Speaker 2: want you involved in that.
Speaker 3: It just sounds sneaky. And you want to talk about
Speaker 3: being uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: Because she's telling you the truth or.
Speaker 3: I'm on the radio. What if your guys listening to it,
Speaker 3: you should have.
Speaker 2: Well, I guess he knows that I'm not interested anymore.
Speaker 3: Then. I'm just saying the whole thing sounded shady to me.
Speaker 3: That was why, that was why I ghosted you. I
Speaker 3: don't even know what to say at this point. I'm
Speaker 3: just kind of confused. Where do we go from here?
Speaker 1: Well, it's flipped again, Brandon. What if your ex girlfriend
Speaker 1: showed up and you were with Lucy?
Speaker 3: What do you do introduce them?
Speaker 1: Do you you would introduce them?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: I don't know if I would.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's my it's my ex girlfriend. The way Lucy looks.
Speaker 3: If you met my ex girlfriend, Oh, I would definitely
Speaker 3: introduce them, you.
Speaker 2: Know, man, I genuine hope be a different person. I
Speaker 2: did not want that those stories like coming to you.
Speaker 2: I would much rather just like ease into this thing
Speaker 2: with you.
Speaker 1: Brandon. Would you like to go on another day with Lucy?
Speaker 1: We'll pay for it.
Speaker 3: I mean, it's just funny that you think I couldn't
Speaker 3: handle that, so in a public situation, you just decided
Speaker 3: that now I couldn't handle it. I'm gonna ease into it.
Speaker 3: I don't know, you know what, anybody can make a mistake.
Speaker 3: Let's do it.
Speaker 1: Okay, right, Okay, got another date, Lucy.
Speaker 2: All right, let's go.
Speaker 3: Let's do it. I'll probably go somewhere and not bump
Speaker 3: into your ex.
Speaker 2: You know that sounds like a plan to meet Please
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