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Speaker 1: From Hollywood. See you, thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 1: Ryan Pecan with the Ryan Seacrest. Let's get emma. I

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Speaker 1: am a good morning, thanks for holding. How you doing, Ma? Good?

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Speaker 1: How are you? Ryan? Good morning? Good morning. So you're

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Speaker 1: being tell me what's happy? Says here? You're being charged

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Speaker 1: more for a batcherette party? Are you in charge? So no,

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Speaker 1: I'm not in charge. I'm having to pay more than

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Speaker 1: the wedding party. So an old friend of mine from college,

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Speaker 1: she is getting married, and she invited me along to

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Speaker 1: the bacharette because you know, we're good friends. I'm just

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Speaker 1: not a part of the wedding party. Um, And recently

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Speaker 1: I found out that I'm actually paying more than the

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Speaker 1: wedding party for like a few things, like there's just

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Speaker 1: some activities and with our stay, I'm just having to

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Speaker 1: pay a little bit more. And I don't know if

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Speaker 1: I go to the maid of honor who planned this,

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Speaker 1: or if I go to my friend the bride, just

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Speaker 1: because you know, I don't. I'm not used to, you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm not used to people who aren't a part of

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Speaker 1: the wedding party, you know, having to pay more. Or

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Speaker 1: that's the news saying, or time, let me ask a

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Speaker 1: couple of naive questions because I have never planned a wedding. Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: is the issue here that the wedding party has a

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Speaker 1: certain amount of things they've got to pay for themselves,

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Speaker 1: and that Emma's expected to pay for the party In theory, yeah,

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Speaker 1: if you're in the wedding party, you end up spending

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Speaker 1: more because you have to get your hair makeup done.

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Speaker 1: Probably generally everyone splits it equally. I've never heard of

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Speaker 1: where someone would have to spend more money Emma, and

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Speaker 1: like that is can you split it with all the

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Speaker 1: other guests? I mean, it's really I don't know because

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Speaker 1: I don't the price. I guess, like all these bridesmaids,

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Speaker 1: like they all have a certain price and I have

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Speaker 1: a different price. That's so weird that I don't Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you need to take it up with the maid of honor.

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Speaker 1: Leave the bride out of it because you don't want

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Speaker 1: to stress her out. But talk to the maid of

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Speaker 1: honor and be like why weddings are like sometimes it

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Speaker 1: just needs to be get together loved ones and friends

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Speaker 1: get married celebrated. I don't even get me started. I

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Speaker 1: planned a whole bachelorette that we didn't even have Uh,

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Speaker 1: this is the point, guys, you haven't been listened to

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Speaker 1: me for twenty years. I am I'm ryan. It's like

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Speaker 1: you're in my ear sometimes I'm like an earworm. Yes,

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Speaker 1: all right, I think Tisney's advice is good. Don't burden

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Speaker 1: the bride, but burden the bride's maid. Yeah, the maid, Okay,

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Speaker 1: good bye bye. I'm always flattered that we get calls

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Speaker 1: about things to work out in weddings because there's not

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Speaker 1: a lot of wedding experience here. My my through line

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Speaker 1: here on on a lot of these concerns that we

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Speaker 1: get is that we're dealing with layers of complications for

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Speaker 1: something you're supposed to be completely celebratory and easy. I

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Speaker 1: know you're right, but there is so much drama around.

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Speaker 1: I'd like to walk away from that, I know, and

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Speaker 1: I like to avoid it. Like when I was planning

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Speaker 1: my friends batchelorrette that did not happen because she got

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Speaker 1: covid um. I just chose to pay for certain things

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Speaker 1: because I didn't want to upset the guests. I was

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Speaker 1: just like, you know what, I'm going to handle you guys,

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Speaker 1: just pay for the tip, you know, Like I because

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Speaker 1: I felt bad that people were spending money. It's weird.

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Speaker 1: It's a weird feeling. Yeah, yeah, well we won't get

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Speaker 1: into that in time soon tiny and night right now

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Speaker 1: you could or maybe she will. I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: can't speak for you, you know what, but with a

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Speaker 1: fun thing. Why I keep saying that you're in my

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Speaker 1: years ago, I would have wanted to do the whole hullabaloo.

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Speaker 1: You're getting an old circus of a wedding. Yeah. Now

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Speaker 1: I'm like, whatever, whatever's important to just the two of us,

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Speaker 1: and that's love and simplicity. Wow, these things should not

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Speaker 1: be so stressful, dramatic and complicated. It's a celebration of love. True,

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Speaker 1: But the bachelorette party is just like you know, well,

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Speaker 1: you were playing when they got canceled because someone got cold.

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Speaker 1: But the wedding happened. Yes, the wedding happened, so the

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Speaker 1: I don't think so weekend in six months, Well that's

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Speaker 1: what it's supposed. It's gonna be a girl's weekend regardless. Well, no,

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Speaker 1: you had blow up dolls and party balloons. I still

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Speaker 1: I think it ruins it. There's a steam issue around

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Speaker 1: the neck. It's not attractive. Now. What happened with the wedding?

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Speaker 1: So the wedding happened um last weekend and it was

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Speaker 1: so beautiful. Everything was great. So as we're dancing on

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Speaker 1: the dance floor, everything's cutting. Everyone's done with dinner, and

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Speaker 1: in a bunched ball, like almost like she didn't bustle it.

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Speaker 1: You know what bustling a dress means. Right, Well, I

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Speaker 1: was a man of honor my sister's wedding. So no, okay,

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Speaker 1: So when you get married. For the ceremony, usually have

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Speaker 1: or whatever, and so when you're ready to dance and

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Speaker 1: regret all these pictures, like you're gonna The dress was

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Speaker 1: can find some hair ties. So I went backstage in

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Speaker 1: the bridal suite and we're looking for hair ties, which

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Speaker 1: know what, I can't take it. Cut it? And I

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Speaker 1: So the wedding planners like, I have scissors, and so

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Speaker 1: are you sure? The wedding dress? I cut the wedding dress.

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Speaker 1: It's about time someone enjoys a wedding. And we had

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Speaker 1: a what a great friend do you are? And you

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Speaker 1: came with the solution of shears well, I was. I

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Speaker 1: or regret what that's even the dress is even cooler now. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we had It was so funny. I put the pictures

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Speaker 1: online if you guys saw him. But are you familiar

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Speaker 1: with bustling Tanya? Bustling? Yeah? But bustling yes, I didn't

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Speaker 1: the ceremony. If the train got untrained right right, it

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Speaker 1: you were doing it. I don't know, but I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: pack scissors to all weddings. I go, Yeah, Seacrest there

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Speaker 1: with Ryan Seacrest's eminem on Ellie's number one in music station.

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Speaker 1: This is kid at them. Let's get Ben, Ben. I

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Speaker 1: hear you're going on a first date. That is correct

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Speaker 1: and nonetheless on an airplane. Ryan, can you explain that. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I met a girl on Hinge a few weeks

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Speaker 1: ago and we've been texting NonStop, and recently we discovered

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Speaker 1: each other. Yeah. I thought this was a cool idea

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Speaker 1: and my insane yes, and it's so it's all right,

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Speaker 1: So let'sen hear me out. It's happening next week. We're

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Speaker 1: on the plane. It's each other, right, right, And but like,

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Speaker 1: what if we hate each other, then we're absolutely trapped

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Speaker 1: So what do you guys think? I got a lot

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Speaker 1: of thoughts. You're not going to realize that you hate

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Speaker 1: each other within those two hours? Me too. First of all,

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Speaker 1: great move, right, So it's so good, it's so clever

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Speaker 1: I guess not if you're turning like that. No, but

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Speaker 1: then if you have a drink or if you're actively eating,

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Speaker 1: of it, no one's going to be that upset if

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Speaker 1: it doesn't work. Tony, what do you think? I think

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Speaker 1: it's a really bad idea to extend your trip to

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Speaker 1: stay one more day so you don't have to do that.

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Speaker 1: Why you, guys, you clearly have not been on a

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Speaker 1: bad first date. Twenty minutes feels like a lifetime on

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Speaker 1: a bad day, if you're stuck in an airplane with

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Speaker 1: two hours and it's bad, only think it's such a

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's bad for a second date, but

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Speaker 1: a first day. Oh my, I went, I'll never forget.

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Speaker 1: Oh it's so beautiful. I went to Sugarfish with this

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Speaker 1: guy on a first date. And thankfully they try and

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Speaker 1: Twenty five minutes door to door, and it felt like

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Speaker 1: seventeen hours. Were you seated at the sushi bar? No,

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Speaker 1: we had a table? I said, please, don't bring me

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Speaker 1: another drink. I gotta go. Okay, Well, you have bad luck.

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Speaker 1: Ben is more creative than going to sugarfish, and he's

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Speaker 1: going to have better luck. And Ben, you've already been

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Speaker 1: her a little bit, right, Yeah, we've been talking for

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Speaker 1: going back for a second, you would think you got

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Speaker 1: there at forty four years, like I'm thinking, you know, ten, fifteen, twenty,

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Speaker 1: you think, Okay, we're good. Now it's come back to

424
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Speaker 1: that for the next couple of shows. But yeah, let's

425
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Speaker 1: definitely come back come back to that for tomorrow and

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Speaker 1: this week. But you you said that he two years,

427
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Speaker 1: I mean you gave him two years of accommodations and

428
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Speaker 1: two years of it sounds like great helpful love and

429
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Speaker 1: calmness and a place to be around family. So that's great.

430
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Speaker 1: So you did that. I mean, that's a long time.

431
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Speaker 1: And now I think if it were me, I think

432
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Speaker 1: the conversation is something like this. And I often loathe

433
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Speaker 1: saying these thoughts on the air because I know people

434
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Speaker 1: are going to cringe or judge what I'm going to

435
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:24,359
Speaker 1: say because I don't know what I'm gonna say. But

436
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Speaker 1: I think I would say, Dad, I love you. I'm

437
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Speaker 1: so happy we have been able to have this time together.

438
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Speaker 1: But I need to talk to you about the next

439
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Speaker 1: phase of everything. You know, it was whatever you want

440
00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:39,920
Speaker 1: to say about the two years, but now we should

441
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Speaker 1: focus on the next phase. And I think what's healthy

442
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:46,199
Speaker 1: for everybody here, for both of us, is and then

443
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Speaker 1: however you want to say, you know that next step.

444
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Speaker 1: And what I'm seeing is like he's there's a complacency

445
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Speaker 1: here right. He's settled into the comfort of it, and

446
00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:58,560
Speaker 1: he probably doesn't want to have to face going out

447
00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:00,680
Speaker 1: and doing this, but you have to it. Probably doesn't

448
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:04,440
Speaker 1: want to be alone, but you have to address what's

449
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:07,680
Speaker 1: healthy for you, your family, and for him, and that

450
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:10,400
Speaker 1: is this next phase and this next step. And Dad,

451
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 1: what does that look like to you? Let him talk

452
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:14,840
Speaker 1: to you about it, and here's how it looks to me.

453
00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 1: Here's how it looks to me. And maybe you're on

454
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 1: the same page, or maybe he needs to hear here's

455
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:20,840
Speaker 1: how it looks to you, and you hear how it

456
00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:23,160
Speaker 1: looks to him. But get to a place where you're aligned,

457
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:25,400
Speaker 1: and get to a place where you can make a plan.

458
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Speaker 1: And I think you got to install a timeline. I agree,

459
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Speaker 1: because the timeline is definitely the thing that I mean,

460
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Speaker 1: now that it's actually come I haven't really I haven't

461
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Speaker 1: really sat down with him and hit the time, unlike

462
00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:41,320
Speaker 1: we've talked in generals about his plans, but nothing concrete

463
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,600
Speaker 1: or a timeline. So I think that's excellent advice as

464
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Speaker 1: far as like getting a timeline with him my guidance.

465
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 1: I definitely think he's comfortable with family, and you know,

466
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Speaker 1: in the I thinks it's a little bit you know,

467
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:55,119
Speaker 1: like you said, forty five years, he's afraid to be alone.

468
00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:57,639
Speaker 1: And Dad, Hey, it's not like we're going anywhere. We're here.

469
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Speaker 1: If you need us, you know, come over. For dinner.

470
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Speaker 1: Recall me. I'm here for you. I love you, but

471
00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 1: I need to do it's healthy, I know for me,

472
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Speaker 1: my family, and I think for us. So let's look

473
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Speaker 1: at how this looks. Let's put a deadline on it,

474
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:11,080
Speaker 1: and let's do this in a loving way. I really

475
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 1: believe that's how And again, I'm sorry if people who

476
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 1: are good at this are thinking differently, but that's what

477
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Speaker 1: I would do. Okay, I mean, that's great. That's kind

478
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:20,320
Speaker 1: of where I felt I needed to go. I just

479
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:23,959
Speaker 1: didn't know how to approach it without sounding just like

480
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:26,840
Speaker 1: mean daughter. Get out. No, I start with I love

481
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:28,400
Speaker 1: you and I'm happy I've been able to be here

482
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,359
Speaker 1: for you. And let's talk about what this looks like

483
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:33,560
Speaker 1: going forward. Okay for sure? Yep, I think that sounds great.

484
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:35,399
Speaker 1: Thank you so much and love listening to you guys.

485
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:38,000
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. We appreciate you coming on. Take care.

486
00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:40,440
Speaker 1: That's a tough one, and now we do. Let's address

487
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:43,679
Speaker 1: it later. Yeah, ten years, fifteen years, twenty years, my

488
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:48,600
Speaker 1: parents at fifty plus years, Kim, good morning, how you doing, Ken?

489
00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 1: How are you? We don't know, we don't know, we

490
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 1: actually don't know. So all right, your sister's getting married. Congratulations,

491
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 1: what's the issue? Ya? Yeah, so I don't know what

492
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 1: to do about this. So she's been moving to this

493
00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:05,440
Speaker 1: guy for like six years. He's nice, Fine, I'm kind

494
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:09,399
Speaker 1: of worrying whatever. Um, but they're engaged and also getting

495
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:13,399
Speaker 1: married next summer. But she told me last night that

496
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:20,000
Speaker 1: she's not attracted to him and they almost never sleep together. What. Yeah,

497
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 1: So she's thirty and lives with our parents. Um. And

498
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 1: he is also thirty and also lives with his parents.

499
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:28,960
Speaker 1: Why is she getting married to him? Yeah? What, I

500
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 1: don't understand, That's what I'm wondering. And also get this,

501
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:37,520
Speaker 1: after they get married, they have no plans to moving

502
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:43,240
Speaker 1: together at all. Why are they getting married marriage? No?

503
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,800
Speaker 1: I don't know, and like, yeah, they're just gonna keep

504
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:52,399
Speaker 1: with living with their parents. Um. So yeah, this is

505
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:54,119
Speaker 1: your sister. Can you not say, hey, why are you

506
00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:59,480
Speaker 1: getting married? Yeah? Um, I I've raised concerns for sure. Um,

507
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:01,280
Speaker 1: and she just kind of like blows me off, like

508
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:04,680
Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm talking about because she's older

509
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 1: than me. Like I'm the younger sister, and you got

510
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:10,320
Speaker 1: the right idea. I mean, you can't get married to

511
00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 1: someone and not want to be with someone. No, this

512
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:18,640
Speaker 1: is so end like that and not lived together after

513
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 1: you get married. I've never wanted something else is going on, Kim.

514
00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:27,120
Speaker 1: I don't understand it, but something's going on there. Yeah. Yeah,

515
00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 1: um so I don't know what to do, and like

516
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 1: my parents are no help at all. It's one of

517
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 1: them in the CIA and they need it, right a cover,

518
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,680
Speaker 1: not that I know of, Well, we wouldn't know. Well,

519
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:41,680
Speaker 1: we wouldn't know, but I don't. I mean, you not

520
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:44,639
Speaker 1: want to throw it out there. Maybe just continue to

521
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 1: try to talk to her and just be completely honest

522
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:51,680
Speaker 1: and transparent, and you have until next time. Yeah, I don't.

523
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,200
Speaker 1: I don't want to understand. First of all, don't get

524
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:56,439
Speaker 1: me started on the marriage thing. Second of all, getting

525
00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:57,879
Speaker 1: married to somebody you're not going to be with or

526
00:27:57,920 --> 00:28:03,160
Speaker 1: attracted to, it's all not living together. Yeah, I don't

527
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:06,920
Speaker 1: understand it, to be honest, Well, if you don't understand

528
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 1: it and we don't understand it, how are we gonna

529
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:12,479
Speaker 1: understand it? I don't know. I'm just trying to stop her,

530
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:16,080
Speaker 1: try try harder, stand in front of her, maybe ask her,

531
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:18,439
Speaker 1: maybe ask her to explain it to you. Maybe the

532
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 1: reason why you don't understand is because you're not asking

533
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 1: her to really explain it. Oh yeah, that's a good idea,

534
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:28,200
Speaker 1: so obvious. Why did we think of that? We can look,

535
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 1: I think you're doing everything you can. You're not wrong

536
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 1: to try and do all the things you can at

537
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:37,200
Speaker 1: least have this sister of yours think about it. Right,

538
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:40,800
Speaker 1: But she's gonna do what she's gonna do, and good luck,

539
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 1: Thanks all right? Bye? Now? Why what what's going on there? Is?

540
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:51,160
Speaker 1: I don't Is it a family pressure? Is it a cover?

541
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:53,680
Speaker 1: What's going on? I don't know? Is it a culture thing? Like?

542
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 1: My mind is blown. I have no idea. Never once

543
00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 1: heard of someone not being attracted who to who they're

544
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 1: gonna marry, and then not living together after you get married.

545
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 1: So again I've done what's the point? I mean, what's

546
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:08,720
Speaker 1: the point anyway, what's the point? I don't know? They're

547
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 1: living together with the family. Yeah, it's gotta be a reason.

548
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,600
Speaker 1: I just feel like, yeah, why instead of trying to

549
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:18,120
Speaker 1: talk her out of it, why don't we trying to

550
00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 1: understand where she's coming from. Well that's what Kim's assignment was,

551
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 1: wasn't it. Yeah, hopefully she returns. Tom's bringing in Kaylee May,

552
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 1: creator influencer Kaylee May on TikTok. And there she is

553
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 1: with her dog on our zoom kind of dog you have, Holloa,

554
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 1: it's a loud picnics. Oh my god, name his name's Oliver. Oliver.

555
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:55,239
Speaker 1: All right, well listen, Kaylee, thank you for joining us,

556
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:57,240
Speaker 1: Thank you for coming on. She had to make time

557
00:29:57,240 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 1: for us because she's got one hundred million views on TikTok. Now,

558
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:06,800
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna you need to hear why because in terms,

559
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 1: I may need you for our new project coming out

560
00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:12,480
Speaker 1: of this Kayley conversation, I need to learn a little

561
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 1: bit more. But Kayley's twenty one TikTok influencer based right

562
00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:18,640
Speaker 1: here in southern California, known for sharing lifestyle, home decor,

563
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:23,960
Speaker 1: and organizational content. Now let's focus on the organizational content.

564
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:28,400
Speaker 1: You've got millions and millions of followers. And what I

565
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 1: just watched was I think it's your hand refilling water

566
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 1: bottles and putting different items into the refrigerator. And that

567
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 1: has got how many views? I got ninety two million

568
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 1: views that you Yeah, I was restocking my mini fridge

569
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 1: in my bedroom and you quit Starbucks to do that

570
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:55,560
Speaker 1: for a living right, yes, incredible crazy. So where were

571
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 1: you working at Starbucks? M I was just a barrista

572
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,560
Speaker 1: in a hospital Starbucks and that's all I did before.

573
00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 1: And I was able to quit my day job to

574
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 1: do this full time. Wow. And literally she organizes drawers.

575
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 1: You'll put little like cubbies and cabinets, and it's so

576
00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:16,280
Speaker 1: soothing to watch your videos. It's like, yeah, it's satisfying,

577
00:31:16,440 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 1: Thank you. Where did this interest in organization come from? Um, well,

578
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 1: I've always been organized. I have my step one to

579
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:28,320
Speaker 1: think for that. She's like always had those containers before

580
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 1: it was even trending and in quarantine when it started

581
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:34,680
Speaker 1: to like trend on TikTok, that kind of like inspired

582
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:37,880
Speaker 1: me to start making my own content. And did you

583
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:41,520
Speaker 1: have any idea that just stalking your mini refrigerator would

584
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 1: generate more views than we've ever talked to in people

585
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 1: in twenty years on this show. No never. I started

586
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:52,360
Speaker 1: doing it for fun um and it is insane like

587
00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 1: where it went. But now you're covering your costs, your

588
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 1: living costs. Yeah. Yeah, over like the past two years,

589
00:31:58,320 --> 00:31:59,880
Speaker 1: and my account has grown. I've been there just like

590
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 1: with brands and also with Amazon, and that that is

591
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:06,120
Speaker 1: able to let me quit my job? Wow? Yeah, wait,

592
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:07,760
Speaker 1: but do you do it for other people? Like would

593
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 1: you come into like, let's say, my home and organize it? Um,

594
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 1: I haven't done that, but like not really working it,

595
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 1: not really worth it because she's got one hundred million

596
00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 1: people watching her do it. Here's listen to this. This

597
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 1: is our organizing. You're cleaning? Are you doing? It's ASMR?

598
00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 1: It's like a touch of ASMR. What do you re wrecking?

599
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:36,080
Speaker 1: Your stop? Your your your cabinets or your your spices.

600
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 1: I think that was like a Saint Clean video that

601
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 1: sounded like it. So this is what This is the

602
00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 1: point tubs. If does your hand? Look, I don't even

603
00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:47,000
Speaker 1: know if it's her hand in this video it's gone

604
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:48,960
Speaker 1: had a million people. Did your hand? Let me see

605
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:52,479
Speaker 1: your hand? That would pass my hand? Well, now I'm

606
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 1: looking at this hand because I want to get you

607
00:32:54,240 --> 00:32:57,239
Speaker 1: beautiful thank you? But look at wait? Whose hand are

608
00:32:57,240 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 1: we talking about? Yeah? Yours? Ryan? No? I my hand

609
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:03,360
Speaker 1: is very nice. It's all right. You should see my feet? Yeah,

610
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 1: you do have nice feet. Now what about this? Since

611
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:08,520
Speaker 1: you're doing the hands thing? What if I stock my

612
00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 1: fridge with my feet? I don't know about that one.

613
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 1: Well that's the points until you try, right, But what

614
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 1: if that became the new thing. I can pick stuff

615
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:22,720
Speaker 1: up with my toes, So I think we were onto something.

616
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 1: We're here just to say we appreciate what it is

617
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:30,520
Speaker 1: you're doing. We also are advocates of organization. Again, we

618
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 1: think that's good for the mind actually to keep things

619
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:34,400
Speaker 1: physically in the right place so you find like mentally

620
00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:37,520
Speaker 1: it's good for you. Yes, in a sprinkling. Now I

621
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 1: have to ask you, is there any place in your

622
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:43,320
Speaker 1: apartment or house that is messy, like you know how

623
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:46,959
Speaker 1: like Monica on Friends is like Super has that closet

624
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 1: where she stuffs everything, Like what's your Do you have

625
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:52,120
Speaker 1: a junk drawer like you have to Yes, Um, I

626
00:33:52,200 --> 00:33:54,920
Speaker 1: have almost like a junk closet where I keep all

627
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:57,959
Speaker 1: of the like excess like the restock stuff, like if

628
00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 1: it doesn't all fit into a container kind of where

629
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 1: it all goes like in the normal packages. Um. People

630
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 1: ask about that all the time. They're like, can I

631
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 1: see Like I just know that you have something that organize.

632
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 1: So Kami may you can see her on TikTok. She

633
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 1: was working in the Starbucks in the hospital. Say, you

634
00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:19,439
Speaker 1: know what. This is great, but I can do better.

635
00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:22,520
Speaker 1: Just stock in my fridge and cleaning things up on

636
00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:25,840
Speaker 1: TikTok and it's working. So to the youth listening, now,

637
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:29,960
Speaker 1: use your feet. I'm just giving you an idea. Use

638
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,520
Speaker 1: your feet and see what happens. It's nice to meet you.

639
00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 1: Continued success. Thank you so much, so great to meet

640
00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:41,600
Speaker 1: you too. Okay, bye bye Oliver. Oh do you want

641
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 1: treat your hands? I'm telling you right now, where's David

642
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:50,759
Speaker 1: in the social department. He could get his camera and

643
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:53,040
Speaker 1: could use Tub's hand. We can stock some fridges. No,

644
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:56,240
Speaker 1: I'm telling you should use my boyfriend's hands. They're very nice,

645
00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:59,239
Speaker 1: like they're you use your boyfriend's hands. I want to

646
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:06,279
Speaker 1: use his. This result is bad. I got a hand

647
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 1: modeling gig with a charcuterrie company. I'm sorry what. I'm

648
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:13,160
Speaker 1: sure he's thrilled. He's a lawyer by the way, guy

649
00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:14,879
Speaker 1: went to law school, past the bar, and he's got

650
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,279
Speaker 1: a charcuterrie gig. No, it's fun for they think he

651
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:21,759
Speaker 1: thinks it's like fun and funny. Okay, anyway, Tubbs, let's

652
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:28,719
Speaker 1: talk after on air with Ryan Seacrest. Kristen h how

653
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:31,880
Speaker 1: are you doing this? Morning. I'm doing okay. How about

654
00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 1: you doing well? So you're not going to your father's wedding?

655
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:39,160
Speaker 1: It says on my call screen, what's going on? Okay?

656
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:42,120
Speaker 1: So I haven't really like decided yet. I just like

657
00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:46,200
Speaker 1: I don't want to go to his wedding. He's mirroring

658
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:49,520
Speaker 1: the woman he cheated on my mom with, and when

659
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 1: I was in high school, my mom found a bunch

660
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 1: of texts that he had been sending to her and

661
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 1: it just completely blew up my family and it was

662
00:35:57,920 --> 00:35:59,880
Speaker 1: so horrible. We're still dealing with a lot of the

663
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:05,800
Speaker 1: fallout and now he's marrying this woman and never went away.

664
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:11,439
Speaker 1: It's there's still tension, there's still trouble. And does he

665
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:13,640
Speaker 1: I don't know if you speak or if he writes,

666
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:16,640
Speaker 1: or how you correspond, but does he acknowledge that he

667
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:21,000
Speaker 1: understands if it's too uncomfortable for you? Well, I was

668
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:23,840
Speaker 1: honest with him and told him that, you know, I

669
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 1: don't want to go, and he was not understanding at

670
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:29,399
Speaker 1: all and actually told me, well, if you don't come

671
00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:31,800
Speaker 1: to mind, I'm not going to come to yours whenever

672
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 1: you get married. What. Yeah, I'm like, what's not okay?

673
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:46,000
Speaker 1: That's so hard, A terrible thing to say to your daughter. Um,

674
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 1: I don't, I don't. I don't know that that is

675
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 1: I can't believe he said that, but I don't know

676
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:52,480
Speaker 1: that that's true when it comes down to it, that

677
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 1: he would really miss his daughter's wedding. But Kristen, I don't. Again,

678
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say things that may not be pop. But

679
00:37:01,040 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 1: if it's me and you are having this feeling and

680
00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:12,359
Speaker 1: you are still dealing with the fallout and you're still

681
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:16,040
Speaker 1: scarred by it, I think it's okay for you to say,

682
00:37:16,400 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 1: you know, you wish him the best, but you're not

683
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 1: going to be there in person. No, I don't know.

684
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 1: I almost think just suck it up and go. I

685
00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:27,160
Speaker 1: don't really could. Look, you don't have to stay the

686
00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:30,640
Speaker 1: whole time, go to do the ceremony, have the dinner,

687
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 1: don't dance. Why not wish him well and not have

688
00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:35,680
Speaker 1: to see it in person and open up all those wounds.

689
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 1: Because she's taking the high road in this situation. You're

690
00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 1: you're you're being the adult. Truly just a woman though

691
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:47,480
Speaker 1: like you guys, she is. She is the absolute worst.

692
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 1: Like she still hasn't made amends, wish like with me,

693
00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:55,759
Speaker 1: or my mom and your mother be upset if you

694
00:37:55,880 --> 00:38:00,760
Speaker 1: go No, my mom's an adult, like she's she moved

695
00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:03,480
Speaker 1: on and everything. But it's just like I don't know,

696
00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 1: it's just a matter of what you can stomach. I'm

697
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 1: I'm I wouldn't be have a stomach. I don't think.

698
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 1: I don't know that I would be the adult here.

699
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 1: And I'm saying you wish well, you know, we should

700
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:16,440
Speaker 1: the best peace and happiness, but I can't see it

701
00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 1: in person, right or wrong. It's who I feel. Yeah, yeah,

702
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:23,360
Speaker 1: I feel like it was just kind of like he

703
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:25,960
Speaker 1: crossed the line when he said that he wouldn't like

704
00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:30,040
Speaker 1: come to mind, like what kind of that's a that

705
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:32,440
Speaker 1: to be true? That's childish and I don't believe that

706
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:35,520
Speaker 1: to be true if it ends up, you know, at

707
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 1: that place. But well, Christen, two clear choices to make

708
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,800
Speaker 1: good luck. And I'm sorry you going through that. Thanks

709
00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:45,759
Speaker 1: all right, bye bye. No, I wouldn't want to see it.

710
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 1: But you don't do this, then that's that's where the

711
00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:51,879
Speaker 1: fork in the road happens with your relationship and your dad.

712
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:53,920
Speaker 1: It's like at that point it's never going to be

713
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 1: the same holidays all that. Whether she gets married or not,

714
00:38:57,719 --> 00:39:00,520
Speaker 1: it's always going to be this thing that just covers

715
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 1: over them. Yes, she needs to be the bigger person

716
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 1: and as well. Also the dad sounds like a lame Yeah.

717
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 1: I mean who says it to their kids first cheating

718
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:12,720
Speaker 1: on the mom and then saying that to your daughter Like, Okay,

719
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 1: grow a pair. Let's grab an incoming call from Monique. Monique,

720
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:22,080
Speaker 1: good morning, how are you doing? Good morning morning? Okay,

721
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:23,960
Speaker 1: So I've been wanting to get in touch with you

722
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:26,520
Speaker 1: for quite a while now because I've noticed that you're

723
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 1: doing something on air that is really you need you

724
00:39:30,600 --> 00:39:35,040
Speaker 1: need six oh really opening my mouth? Yes, I love you,

725
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:36,839
Speaker 1: I'd love you. I don't want to, you know, take

726
00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:38,960
Speaker 1: this in the wrong way. But when you're it seems

727
00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 1: like recently, when you're talking, you end your sentence and

728
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:47,160
Speaker 1: you you like take a little slur s little like

729
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:53,960
Speaker 1: I slurp. You're slurping. You're slurping in air or something.

730
00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:56,360
Speaker 1: And I don't know if anybody else noticing those or

731
00:39:56,480 --> 00:40:01,319
Speaker 1: it's just me. Now I'm gonna not be able to

732
00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:03,439
Speaker 1: notice it, Like, well, now I'm not gonna be able

733
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:07,720
Speaker 1: to hydrate my mouth because of the fear of a slurp.

734
00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 1: Is it? This? Is it? This? Let me try it?

735
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:16,080
Speaker 1: Let me is it this? Oh? Yeah? You that. Sometimes

736
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:18,360
Speaker 1: it's it's more of a you'll you'll make a statement

737
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:24,239
Speaker 1: and then you'll look at the end. Oh that's because okay, yeah,

738
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:27,439
Speaker 1: well that's a deep thought inhale kind of thing, which

739
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 1: is a reaction to what I have to deal with

740
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:33,759
Speaker 1: when they pile on me over here. We love you.

741
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:36,120
Speaker 1: The girls are here for you, you know, to help

742
00:40:36,120 --> 00:40:37,680
Speaker 1: you out with that. I don't know, but they make

743
00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:43,279
Speaker 1: me inhale a lot. Oh I will, I will it.

744
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's just to take a deep breath and hold back,

745
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:52,880
Speaker 1: but I will be aware of that. I think if

746
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:56,479
Speaker 1: you do this long enough, Monique, you burp on the air,

747
00:40:57,000 --> 00:41:02,240
Speaker 1: you do. There's enough stuff that happens because it's just life.

748
00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 1: But there you go. There that that that was just

749
00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:11,880
Speaker 1: for you. But uh, you know, I love you. I

750
00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:13,839
Speaker 1: listened to you every day. But I want I want

751
00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:17,960
Speaker 1: to know does anyone else have any interesting habit? Like

752
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:23,800
Speaker 1: we know, let's see anybody else here? Is there anyone

753
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:29,200
Speaker 1: on air the habit that I'm aware of? Well, we

754
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:32,480
Speaker 1: would say, we hear Tanya say sissy, what does she say?

755
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:37,560
Speaker 1: Both when she when she says the word bota, she

756
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:40,640
Speaker 1: says it with an owl like milk both. Someone once

757
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 1: told me that I say mm hmmm a lot, so

758
00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:46,080
Speaker 1: like if you're like Bryan's talking or something, I'll kind

759
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 1: of just like chime in with it. Mm hmm. M

760
00:41:53,560 --> 00:42:03,279
Speaker 1: Andy makes weird noises time cute. All right, Well, we

761
00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 1: have had more fun Monique with you today than we need.

762
00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:11,359
Speaker 1: So thank you so much. Thank you this, I want

763
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:14,799
Speaker 1: to talk to you than we're getting confirmation from our

764
00:42:14,840 --> 00:42:16,880
Speaker 1: web department that they have had to edit out your

765
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:22,919
Speaker 1: slurps and videos. See as you happy that I called today? Yes,

766
00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 1: thank you? I need less man. We love you all

767
00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 1: so good a great day. That's funny. Well, the mics

768
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:41,359
Speaker 1: are always open, right, so no matter what we do,

769
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 1: you hear it? Oh let me laugh. Yeah, that was

770
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:52,719
Speaker 1: really funny. So I don't even want to breathe. I

771
00:42:52,800 --> 00:42:55,720
Speaker 1: need Crystal to make a compilation of just the videos

772
00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:58,360
Speaker 1: of you slurping, just in like a big, just thirty

773
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:01,239
Speaker 1: second clip. I'm sure who do you worked for? She's

774
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:04,879
Speaker 1: our team. Good now I'm gonna tell you Crystal now

775
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:14,919
Speaker 1: on the record, No on Air with Ryan Seacrest. Ryan

776
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 1: Seacrest and the Gang. Here's Sarah's on the phone at

777
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:21,000
Speaker 1: eight hundred Batua one or two seven. Sarah, good morning,

778
00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:23,719
Speaker 1: how are you doing? Hi? Good morning, I'm doing well.

779
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:25,840
Speaker 1: How are you doing? We are doing well. So you

780
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:31,160
Speaker 1: and your husband are house hunting. Oh, yes, we're so excited,

781
00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:35,520
Speaker 1: but obviously a little stressed and with this housing market. Um,

782
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:38,600
Speaker 1: my husband and I we got married in November, so

783
00:43:38,640 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 1: we're just really thrilled to start of their life together

784
00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 1: and buy a house, which has been exciting, really exciting.

785
00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:49,399
Speaker 1: But the stressful part and where I need you guys

786
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 1: to kind of chime in for me, is my husband

787
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:58,239
Speaker 1: is so insistent on a big backyard. Yes, we're well,

788
00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 1: we're looking in the La suburb, and you know, there's

789
00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 1: really just not a ton of house out there with

790
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:07,880
Speaker 1: like the big backyard that he's looking for. And I

791
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:10,799
Speaker 1: don't really I don't really need a vard. I've never

792
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 1: really lived with one. So even though we're excited to

793
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 1: go see these houses, we end up fighting about each

794
00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:21,760
Speaker 1: one because it just isn't matching his vision of a house.

795
00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 1: So I don't know what to do with this. You know,

796
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 1: it's already stressful enough. And then we're fighting about, you know,

797
00:44:28,520 --> 00:44:31,560
Speaker 1: the house on top of it. So did he grow

798
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:34,960
Speaker 1: up with a backyard? Is that where it's coming from?

799
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:38,160
Speaker 1: I think so he did, And I wonder if it's

800
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:41,560
Speaker 1: like that's his picture of like a perfect house. But

801
00:44:41,840 --> 00:44:44,640
Speaker 1: he's lived in La long enough to know that that's

802
00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:47,839
Speaker 1: not super common. It's like a guy thing. I think

803
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 1: it's like I need my land like this, fore that

804
00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:53,400
Speaker 1: there is no space. I get it. So if you

805
00:44:53,400 --> 00:44:55,640
Speaker 1: can get a house that has a like a big backyard,

806
00:44:55,640 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 1: then it's almost like this like you've made it type

807
00:44:58,000 --> 00:45:01,680
Speaker 1: of vibe. You know, like, well, what is the compromise

808
00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:06,880
Speaker 1: to this? Do you see a path to compromise? You know?

809
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:10,360
Speaker 1: I want I want to help him with his dream

810
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:14,640
Speaker 1: house and my compromise. I'm willing to kind of, especially

811
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 1: with the housing market as it is, take something that's

812
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:20,840
Speaker 1: kind of a right now, a newly married couple house.

813
00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:24,239
Speaker 1: But he's not really willing to compromise. So I don't

814
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 1: know how to start that conversation. Boy, you trick him.

815
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 1: Here's the thing. No, but it's not like where you guys,

816
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 1: not like a lie or anything. You find a house

817
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:38,359
Speaker 1: that you love that's got everything right. Maybe it's turn

818
00:45:38,480 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 1: key and whatever. But yes, the yard is a little

819
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 1: bit smaller, but you take him to it and you

820
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:44,359
Speaker 1: have him fall in love with the house, and then

821
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:46,680
Speaker 1: maybe just by seeing the house, he's going to compromise

822
00:45:46,719 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 1: for the smaller backyard. But you have to you have

823
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 1: to physically get him to those houses. It can't just

824
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:53,480
Speaker 1: be like on Redfin and you're showing him in passing.

825
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 1: You have to get him in. There's what I'm doing

826
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 1: with Michael. And I'm telling you he's almost budging on

827
00:45:57,560 --> 00:46:00,600
Speaker 1: some homes that have smaller backyards because he's well, yeah,

828
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:02,360
Speaker 1: it has all the bed and twine now and this

829
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:04,480
Speaker 1: and that whatever. So yeah, I think you're gonna win

830
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:07,240
Speaker 1: this one. I don't see him falling on the sword

831
00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 1: for it. Okay, okay, yeah, and we've you're right, we've

832
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:17,200
Speaker 1: been treading Redfin emails. So my vision, you need to

833
00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 1: get him there. Don't even tell him what's happening, just

834
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:21,120
Speaker 1: be like, hey, meet me for lunch tomorrow at noon

835
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:23,399
Speaker 1: at whatever place, and go have lunch, and then after

836
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:25,840
Speaker 1: lunch you go take him to the house. Thank you

837
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:27,799
Speaker 1: so much. I love this idea. I'm going to do it.

838
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Speaker 1: Good luck. Just this call makes me think I should

839
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Speaker 1: call into the show it for advice sometimes. Why I

840
00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:36,880
Speaker 1: don't know. I just listen to you guys give advice. Everybody.

841
00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:39,359
Speaker 1: Y'all were all on the same page on that. Thank

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00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:42,600
Speaker 1: you very much, Sarah, good luck and congratulations. So if

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00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:45,520
Speaker 1: you ever listen to the show, maybe you've heard us

844
00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:49,920
Speaker 1: talk about how Tanya loves to initiate a group text thread, right,

845
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 1: and I usually chime in, yeah, but I don't initiate

846
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:58,080
Speaker 1: many of them, like personal ones. He's like in the wild,

847
00:46:58,120 --> 00:47:00,400
Speaker 1: not work ones, but like in the wild ones. But

848
00:47:00,560 --> 00:47:03,640
Speaker 1: I did. I took it upon myself to initiate one

849
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:06,799
Speaker 1: the other day, and I think it was because I

850
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:10,000
Speaker 1: saw that old picture of me from when I first

851
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:13,480
Speaker 1: started working, when it's like nineteen. Was that what that was?

852
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:18,759
Speaker 1: That was a headshot for a job card to have. Yeah,

853
00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:21,160
Speaker 1: I used to give out like postcards with your face

854
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:25,640
Speaker 1: said hey listen to listen to made them arm morning afternoon.

855
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,120
Speaker 1: So that was so I found it. It was just

856
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:30,720
Speaker 1: a random shot. I found it and I have bleached

857
00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:33,320
Speaker 1: blonde hair and it's when I was nineteen twenty. It

858
00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 1: is nick Lash ninety eight degrees adjacent. It's really boy Danish.

859
00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:40,319
Speaker 1: So anyway, I just threw it out there, and then

860
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:43,879
Speaker 1: of course Tanya couldn't then she couldn't stop texting right

861
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:45,439
Speaker 1: then she was just like, I had a dream about

862
00:47:45,440 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 1: you guys last night, and we're like, okay, aren't you

863
00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 1: proud I'm mature? And wait, can we post this picture

864
00:47:55,520 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 1: so everyone can see? Or was this just like I

865
00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:00,960
Speaker 1: send it to David Alvarez Okay, I don't think I

866
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:05,160
Speaker 1: have David Alberts is all right, we'll send it to Belinda. Okay,

867
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 1: to send to David markin sen it. You guys figured

868
00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:09,520
Speaker 1: it out. I don't figure to send it times to

869
00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 1: put it up there. I'll send it to Mark and

870
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:12,799
Speaker 1: then you can send it to who. All right. So

871
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:17,960
Speaker 1: I've been hearing from you, Tanya Sissany that I don't

872
00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 1: put enough social content top. So I did post another

873
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:25,840
Speaker 1: in the kitchen episode. I loved this so much, so

874
00:48:25,960 --> 00:48:27,680
Speaker 1: much that I came in and then he pulled the

875
00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:31,360
Speaker 1: audio from it. So I was, you know, before American

876
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:33,600
Speaker 1: Ido on Sundays. I like to cook. I like to

877
00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:35,359
Speaker 1: go to the the store in the morning. I like to cook.

878
00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:37,719
Speaker 1: It's really peaceful of you. I like it. Well, I

879
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:41,080
Speaker 1: met the guy I don't eat shellfish, but I met

880
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 1: the guy at the fish counter. Why did you say

881
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:46,680
Speaker 1: it was a cheat for you? Is it is shellfish? Shellfish?

882
00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 1: I don't know. My doctor says don't eat too much shelfis.

883
00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:51,160
Speaker 1: Oh really, I didn't know that it was bad, so

884
00:48:51,320 --> 00:48:53,799
Speaker 1: I don't eat much of it at all. But the

885
00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:55,839
Speaker 1: guy at the fish counter was like, yeah, I got

886
00:48:55,840 --> 00:48:58,040
Speaker 1: these jumbo shrimp here. Bro, yeah he got you don't

887
00:48:58,040 --> 00:48:59,719
Speaker 1: love these? And I started thinking to myself, what I

888
00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:03,800
Speaker 1: gonna do. I'm gonna do scampy. Yum. It looked really delicious,

889
00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:06,080
Speaker 1: but for me, it was the delivery of your um.

890
00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:09,400
Speaker 1: The way you talked in your your cadence. Oh let me,

891
00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:11,880
Speaker 1: let me hear, and we're gonna make a very garlicky

892
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:16,399
Speaker 1: scampy to get excited for tonight show. As a side dish,

893
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:20,799
Speaker 1: porcini mushrooms with sun dried tomatoes and olive oil and

894
00:49:20,880 --> 00:49:24,040
Speaker 1: a dash of white wine as well, because put the

895
00:49:24,200 --> 00:49:28,040
Speaker 1: music in the background. Oh that's my jam, because I

896
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:30,719
Speaker 1: put music on to cook. And also I find it

897
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:34,840
Speaker 1: terribly uncomfortable to videotape yourself doing something. So I'm trying

898
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,760
Speaker 1: my deliveries, trying to be more comfortable. It was very good.

899
00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:40,440
Speaker 1: It's like I would watch your cooking show. Now, I'm

900
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:43,880
Speaker 1: gonna add a large shrimp, a little white wine, and

901
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:47,719
Speaker 1: a dash tomato paste. That was the secret green a

902
00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:51,600
Speaker 1: dash of tomato paste. Guys, show scampy so good. You

903
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:56,840
Speaker 1: can hear the sizzle, simmering porcini, sun dried tomatoes, garlic

904
00:49:57,960 --> 00:50:03,000
Speaker 1: parsley as the side. YEA, almost ready to go. It's

905
00:50:03,040 --> 00:50:06,080
Speaker 1: time for American Idol to start. Yeah, that was the

906
00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:09,480
Speaker 1: first that I have before the show came on. But

907
00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:11,080
Speaker 1: I have to tell you, I don't know any casting

908
00:50:11,080 --> 00:50:14,799
Speaker 1: directors are listening, but cook and show. Just being in

909
00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 1: the kitchen, I make a complicated I feel like you

910
00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:19,280
Speaker 1: know a guy that could maybe get that going. Probably

911
00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:21,439
Speaker 1: know him. I probably know him. You probably are him.

912
00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:24,080
Speaker 1: But you know, I like the whole process going to

913
00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:25,839
Speaker 1: the store. I go to the store. I go to

914
00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:28,279
Speaker 1: the grocer store and I talk to everybody it works there.

915
00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:31,840
Speaker 1: And usually if you talk to anybody behind the meats

916
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:34,239
Speaker 1: counter or the fish counter and you really get to

917
00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:38,640
Speaker 1: know them. Yeah, they point you in the fresh direction. Okay, okay,

918
00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:40,680
Speaker 1: they let you in on stuff. I'm the opposite. I

919
00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 1: don't like going to the grocery store. I feel like

920
00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:46,279
Speaker 1: it's a waste of time. I'd rather just order it. Well,

921
00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:49,600
Speaker 1: is a weekend, so I kind of look, it's an activity.

922
00:50:49,640 --> 00:50:52,719
Speaker 1: To me, it's fun and I go in not knowing

923
00:50:52,760 --> 00:50:57,520
Speaker 1: what I'm gonna make. That's even scarier. You blind, Yeah,

924
00:50:57,560 --> 00:51:00,239
Speaker 1: it's like a sport. Oh my gosh, No, that's I

925
00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:02,080
Speaker 1: wouldn't even know what to buy. But I get so

926
00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:04,200
Speaker 1: excited when I think of, like the tomato paste secret.

927
00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:06,800
Speaker 1: It looked really good. Was it yummy? It was so

928
00:51:07,080 --> 00:51:11,040
Speaker 1: garlicing good extra garlic always, But thanks for watching my

929
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:13,719
Speaker 1: cooking segment, you know what, You're welcome. It was very good.

930
00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 1: I can't wait for episode two and I'll keep my delivery.

931
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:18,279
Speaker 1: Like god, I think it's a little bit more. It's

932
00:51:18,320 --> 00:51:19,880
Speaker 1: like a little more fun. It's not as mean as

933
00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:21,600
Speaker 1: like Gordon Ramsay or you know, so I feel like

934
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:24,920
Speaker 1: it's like a good balance of like direct but sincere

935
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:30,560
Speaker 1: and calming. Well, you're welcome On Air with Ryan Seacrest.

936
00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:35,759
Speaker 1: That is going to do it for us tomorrow and

937
00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:40,239
Speaker 1: all new Ryan's roses. Thanks for listening to On Air

938
00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:43,000
Speaker 1: with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe it and we'll

939
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:44,040
Speaker 1: talk to you again tomorrow.