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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocates Law dot com.

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Speaker 2: Jenna is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude that

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Speaker 2: she really liked. His name is Nico. We'll call him

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Speaker 2: in a few minutes and ste if you'll tell us

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Speaker 2: why he's ghosting or maybe get on another date. But first, Jenna,

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Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Nico.

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Speaker 3: Well, it's been about five days since our date officially.

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Speaker 4: So what was your last interaction with him?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Well, we well, first I met him at this party

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Speaker 3: at a friends party, and I saw him across.

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Speaker 5: The room and it was just like sparked, like it.

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Speaker 3: Was he was like the hotted guy I'd seen in

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Speaker 3: a minute and like and I guess he kind of

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Speaker 3: felt the same way about me, because we spent pretty

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Speaker 3: much the entire party talking wow and.

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Speaker 5: Like to the point where everyone's like, okay, everyone has

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Speaker 5: to go home. And so we decided to go on.

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Speaker 3: A date since we were having such a good time,

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Speaker 3: and he took me to this restaurant, which.

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Speaker 5: Is his favorite. It was a Greek.

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Speaker 2: Restaurant and he was the same night as the.

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Speaker 6: Different, different night.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 3: We made plans to go on a date and so yeah,

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Speaker 3: so he found this restaurant, but apparently he already knows

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Speaker 3: the restaurant because he knows the owner. And so we

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Speaker 3: got like the VIP treatment and he kept calling me,

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Speaker 3: he kept joking calling me his wifey, which like I'm

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Speaker 3: not taking too seriously, but it was just like, okay, well,

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Speaker 3: it's like he gets it, like this is a pretty

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Speaker 3: cool connection that we have. And so like he was

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Speaker 3: telling about his childhood and like how connected he feels

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Speaker 3: with his culture and like how he never really knew

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Speaker 3: his dad and his dad types Greek.

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Speaker 5: So uh so as a way of like trying.

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Speaker 3: To get to know him better, he really dove into

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Speaker 3: Greek culture and like, I don't know, it just I

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Speaker 3: just really loved how vulnerable he was being on this

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Speaker 3: first date. And you know, like I said, he was

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Speaker 3: getting the VIP VIP treatment, so you know that the

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Speaker 3: uzza was flowing like we were dancing and yeah, and

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Speaker 3: so afterwards I went back to his place and we

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Speaker 3: hooked up.

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Speaker 5: And so yeah, then two days.

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Speaker 3: Since I texted him last and like five days total

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Speaker 3: since that date.

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Speaker 4: What did you say in the text.

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Speaker 3: I don't know because like buzz, you know, it was

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Speaker 3: just such a good date and it was just like

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Speaker 3: I texted him and saying like how how good of

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Speaker 3: a time I had, and how I kept replaying it

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Speaker 3: over and over and he responded with, you know, a

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Speaker 3: hard eye emoji.

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Speaker 5: And then I didn't hear anything for like two days.

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Speaker 3: So I texted him again asking him when we were

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Speaker 3: going to go out, and I haven't heard anything.

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Speaker 5: So now I'm just like, what happened?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, even since you was a hardy eye emoji and

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Speaker 2: then nothing.

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Speaker 3: And it was calling you white right, But it was

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Speaker 3: just like, I mean, I wasn't I mean, I'm not

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Speaker 3: reading into it too much, but it was just like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: this is going great.

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Speaker 2: Is there anything you can think of that could possibly

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Speaker 2: be a reason that he wont you want to ghost you?

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Speaker 5: Well, since I've been over analyzing this over and over.

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Speaker 3: At one point he did ask me what my three

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Speaker 3: favorite things in my purse were, and so I said,

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Speaker 3: liplass gum and uh Anti bacterial gel. He said that

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Speaker 3: you bet he thinks that he finds it really unattractive when.

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Speaker 5: Women shoe gum, and so I was like Okay, Roger.

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Speaker 3: Now did Okay, Okay, if that's if that's like your

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Speaker 3: one red flag, I can deal with that.

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Speaker 5: So so I didn't chew gum at all when I

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Speaker 5: was with him, But I don't know. Maybe he was

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Speaker 5: just maybe he just hated the fact that I had

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Speaker 2: I don't know if that's If that's the reason he's

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Speaker 2: not calling you back, that would be ridiculous, ridiculous, and

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Speaker 2: that would be a flag on your Yeah, well.

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Speaker 5: That's I'm calling you, guys. I don't understand what happened.

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Speaker 2: Well, we'll figure it out. We'll play a song come back,

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Speaker 2: and then call him and see if you tell us

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Speaker 2: why is ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay, okay, cool, thanks,

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Speaker 2: all right, place, I'll come back. Get your first day

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Speaker 2: follow up, Next first.

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Speaker 2: The midd of your first date follow up. If you're

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Speaker 2: just joining us at Jenna is on the phone and

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Speaker 2: she's getting ghosted by a dude named Nico. So we're

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Speaker 2: about to call him and see if you'll tell us

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Speaker 2: why he's a ghostinger. But before we do that, Jenna,

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Speaker 2: why don't you refresh everybody's memory on your situation.

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Speaker 3: I met Nico at a party and we really hit

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Speaker 3: it off. So we decided to go out on a date.

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Speaker 3: And it was to this awesome Greek restaurant. Why he

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Speaker 3: knew the owners, and we had a great time and

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Speaker 3: we've been joke even joking calling me wifey, and we

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Speaker 3: ended up hooking up. And now I haven't heard from him,

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Speaker 3: and I don't.

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Speaker 5: Know if it's because I have.

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Speaker 3: I said I loved gum, but I decided not to

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Speaker 3: chew it when I was around him, so I don't.

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Speaker 5: I just don't know what happened.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we'll see if that is it. We're gonna call

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Speaker 2: him right now. Are you ready?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: All right, here we go.

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Speaker 6: Hello.

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Speaker 2: Hey, is this Nico? Yes, Nico was some man.

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Speaker 6: How are you?

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Speaker 2: My name is Jewbell from a radio show. It's called

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Speaker 2: The jewbel Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, Nico Whole shows Here. My name is Nina, Hi,

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Speaker 4: and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 2: How are you?

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Speaker 6: Hi?

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Speaker 5: Am good?

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Speaker 6: What is it what is it about?

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Speaker 2: Well? Have you ever listened to the show before at all?

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Speaker 6: I believe I have.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: We do a segment on a show that's called the

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Speaker 2: First Aid follow Up. That's where if you go out

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Speaker 2: on a date with somebody and then you end up

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Speaker 2: ghosting them, they can email us to get you on

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Speaker 2: the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So we

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Speaker 2: got an email about you from somebody that you went

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Speaker 2: out with recently. Okay, her name is Jenna right, and

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Speaker 2: Jenna wants to know why you ghosted her.

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Speaker 6: I just I just think it didn't didn't work out.

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Speaker 7: I don't think it's a good long term matchup with Jenna.

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Speaker 4: Why do you say that?

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Speaker 7: I mean, it's kind of like maybe embarrassing. I don't

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Speaker 7: want to be rude or anything, but I don't know.

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Speaker 7: It's just kind of smelly for me.

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Speaker 2: Say that melly smelly?

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Speaker 6: You know it's just her bad breath. Man like she

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Speaker 6: had bad breath. I could, you know. I could deal

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Speaker 6: with it for a night, but future wifey material can't

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Speaker 6: be smelly, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 5: Excuse I think? Are you kidding me? It's you and

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Speaker 5: me eating garlic dip all night. I'm not a wizard.

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Speaker 3: I can't not make my breast all bat after eating

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Speaker 3: a bunch of.

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Speaker 2: Garlic and you go, that's Jenna she's on the phone

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Speaker 5: I got that I had garlic breath? Are you not?

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Speaker 8: I just did?

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Speaker 5: You told me didn't like gum chewing. I would have.

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Speaker 5: I would have had wiliness.

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Speaker 6: If you, oh yo yo, come down. That was That

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Speaker 6: was like darlic missed was mixed with like a trash can.

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Speaker 3: No way, no guy, No one has ever told me.

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Speaker 3: I think before this is the ass, No way, like

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Speaker 3: whatever this is, this is, this is, this is I

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Speaker 3: can't no way.

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Speaker 6: Yes, it's not like a funeral home in there going on,

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Speaker 6: like it's not.

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Speaker 3: Able to sell anything over that mountain of Colonne. You

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Speaker 6: You've worked on you didn't it's nice, really charming, freshing

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Speaker 5: Well, if you weren't such a weirdo, it didn't allow

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Speaker 6: I thought it, law, I don't think you should be you.

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Speaker 6: I mean, if you need to chew gum because your

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Speaker 6: you got to see a professional.

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Speaker 2: You you hooked up with her too, Like, if it

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Speaker 6: I mean, like I said one night, it was you know,

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Speaker 6: I dealt with it, you know, I closed the deal.

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Speaker 4: You know, Jenna, you're dodging bullets.

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Speaker 5: Man, this can't really be the reason. What else? What

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Speaker 5: else happened? Why else? It can't because it can't be

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Speaker 4: What else?

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Speaker 5: What else happened? What else? Aren't you not telling me?

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Speaker 6: Girls, you're braud. We like a like a locker room

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Speaker 6: in there, like I don't know, like like I don't

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Speaker 6: know what, like a gym stock, like you had a

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Speaker 5: I don't know, a gym stock.

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Speaker 8: Like if it was chronic what you have noticed that

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Speaker 8: the first night you were talking to her, So if

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Speaker 8: like that could be a side effect of that, which

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Speaker 8: would mean that next time that wouldn't be an issue.

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Speaker 6: No, it was an issue. It was always an issue.

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Speaker 6: You know, I need somebody who can eat garlic can

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Speaker 6: and not smell like a foot, even if it was garlic.

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Speaker 4: Who is carlican doesn't smell like a scarlet.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I don't.

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Speaker 3: I don't even know how you were able to taste

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Speaker 3: the garlic. Every time I opened my mouth, I would

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Speaker 3: just get wasked or whatever bad cologne your grandpa had.

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Speaker 5: Expired from his shelf.

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Speaker 3: Those things expire, buddy, You're not supposed to be wearing

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Speaker 3: cologne for fifty years.

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Speaker 5: You should be getting a new model by now. The

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Speaker 3: I'm not in your shit on going out with your

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Speaker 3: broke anyways.

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Speaker 6: Broke? How am I broke?

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Maybe you had to take me to your friend's restaurant

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Speaker 3: so that they could hook us up because you can't

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Speaker 5: A normal meal on your own.

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Speaker 2: I still have to ask the question, Nico, would you

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Speaker 2: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 6: Uh No, I'd rather date someone who doesn't smell like

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Speaker 6: there's a toilet in her mouth.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, was this harsh?

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