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Speaker 1: My ex wife divorced me after a personality change. I

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Speaker 1: found out I have a brain tumor. How do I

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Speaker 1: move forward?

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Speaker 2: That's like that guy Phidias that got the a poll

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Speaker 2: through his head a pole. Yeah, dude, it's like a

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Speaker 2: famous psychological case. Look up. Put it Phidias on the

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Speaker 2: screen and he turned into a dick because he got

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Speaker 3: Well, let's find out. I hope he is a dick

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Speaker 3: or nod?

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Speaker 1: Well, this comes from Total reality fifty five O three

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Speaker 1: Who says my thirty two male ex wife thirty three

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Speaker 1: female divorced me in twenty twenty two.

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Speaker 3: I was devastated, but I couldn't blame her.

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Speaker 1: We've been together for about six years, and for a

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Speaker 1: while we had an incredible relationship.

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Speaker 2: The Golden years.

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Speaker 3: What will happen? What will go wrong? Nothing right?

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Speaker 2: Everything.

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Speaker 1: We had a memorable engagement in Belize, a long story

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Speaker 1: involving bats getting stranded in the Mayan ruins where I

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Speaker 1: proposed to her fire they go, and being rescued by

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Speaker 1: passing British military exercisers. Bro this is a movie, but

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Speaker 1: that's a whole other story. I won't wax poetic about it,

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Speaker 1: but suffice to say, it's the happiest I've ever been,

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Speaker 1: And I think I made her very happy too. She

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Speaker 1: was my best friend and we were ready to spend

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Speaker 1: the rest of our lives together. I was extremely close

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Speaker 1: to her whole family as well. I was her brother's

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Speaker 1: best man at his wedding.

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Speaker 2: Wow, the family entanglement goes deep.

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Speaker 1: I mean, this seems like dream proposal, deep family ties.

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Speaker 2: Fairy tale relationship. What could go? Rob?

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Speaker 1: I see you, I see you, I comment you. Back

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Speaker 1: then the trouble started. My mental health took a steep decline.

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Speaker 1: My behavior was extremely erratic and bizarre. When we were

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Speaker 1: in public, I often thought I was being followed. One time,

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Speaker 1: I became convinced listening devices had been implanted in our home. Riley,

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Speaker 1: care to comment Alexa?

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Speaker 4: You don't want me to comment?

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Speaker 2: Alexa stopped listening to me right now.

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Speaker 1: I thought the police or government agencies were after me

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Speaker 1: and monitoring my devices. My wife finally dragged me to

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Speaker 1: the emergency room after one of these incidences.

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Speaker 2: They had onto something. Maybe maybe I'm just saying everyone

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Speaker 2: in the Amazon Alexa team does not have an Alexa

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Speaker 2: in their house.

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Speaker 1: Yo.

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Speaker 3: Really, I have.

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Speaker 2: It from like from a friend, that works on amazons. Wow, Wow, dang,

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Speaker 2: Why don't they have it because it's always listening to

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Speaker 2: you and gathering your data.

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Speaker 3: Man's not wrong.

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Speaker 4: I don't like Ziggie downstairs or in your bedroom.

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Speaker 2: You know what.

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Speaker 4: She can be in your bedroom, but not downstairs.

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Speaker 2: In her everywhere all the time. I can say Ziggy

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Speaker 2: play Louis Armstrong and it does it. That's Alexa, Alexa

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Speaker 2: play Louis Armstrong. Well, I can't hear hiss here.

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Speaker 1: Didn't work and I ended up getting diagnosed as having

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Speaker 1: a psychotic break with bipolar and schizo effective.

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Speaker 4: Disorder because you were catching on.

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Speaker 3: They're trying to. They're trying to They're trying to label

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Speaker 3: him as No. No, you can described everything.

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Speaker 2: He's the government label you as a schizophrenic when you

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Speaker 2: get too.

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Speaker 1: Close to the truth, bro that imagine imagine being I mean,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if he was thirty two at that moment,

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Speaker 2: With that for the first time, well, I mean, schizophrenia

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Speaker 2: usually shows up in your late twenties. We still got time.

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Speaker 3: That's you and me are our clock is sticking to me?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Ad I apparently I am at risk at developing

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Speaker 2: schizophrenia according to my DNA test.

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Speaker 3: He can't eat fish or vegetable.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it'll it'll make me develop schizophrenia.

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Speaker 3: It's right, So only Sophia will go insane.

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Speaker 2: I've literally been having nothing but salmon for breakfast every day.

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Speaker 1: Ding My wife stood by me through it all, But

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Speaker 1: even on treatment, I continued my strange behavior and thought patterns.

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Speaker 1: There was lying and substance abuse. Previously, I'd only ever

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Speaker 1: drink and socially and occasionally smoked weed. It was all

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Speaker 1: out of character for me. I'd always been a very

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Speaker 3: I seemed to be spiraling.

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Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, if this is, if these if this

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because you don't even have your mental faculties to

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Speaker 2: So it's like all this is happening, and now you

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Speaker 2: don't have the tools to actually solve it.

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Speaker 1: Which op is like very self aware in his description

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Speaker 1: of it. Now, so I'm guessing later he.

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Speaker 2: Was later he got out of it but still, I mean,

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Speaker 2: it's it's super spooky.

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 2: I know, if I ever think the government's listening to

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Speaker 2: like too much or whatever, I know, maybe I have

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Speaker 2: a brain tumor.

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Speaker 3: How did Riley get her? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Now, one day my wife had had enough and told

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Speaker 1: me she wanted a divorce. She'd caught me lying about

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Speaker 1: drug use. Now, really we're gonna keep going into the story,

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Speaker 1: but everyone in the comments right now, and Sam, do

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Speaker 1: we think this is a fair thing for the wife?

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Speaker 1: At this point, she'd caught him lying about the drug use,

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Speaker 1: it's becoming a lot to handle.

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Speaker 3: Do you think she'll believe it?

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Speaker 2: Well, it's been years now at this point, right.

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Speaker 3: So they at this point like in the relationship.

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Speaker 2: How many years has it been since this erratic behavior started.

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Speaker 3: I don't even think it's been years. But then the

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Speaker 2: So if we didn't know he had a brain tumor,

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Speaker 2: we would be like, yeah, this guy's whack. You should

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Speaker 2: like potentially divorce. But knowing that he has completely stable

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Speaker 2: beforehand lying about drug use, I mean, that's like like

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Speaker 3: Some some some sort of equivalent thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and we need to check out your brain because

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Speaker 2: something ain't right.

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Speaker 3: Totally totally, And so it's it's unclear.

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Speaker 1: They've been in a relationship for six years, and it

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Speaker 2: I mean, a year of this kind of behavior is

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Speaker 2: a lot of stress on a partner. Yes, yes, I

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Speaker 2: don't falter for wanting to get a divorce.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's it just sucks that.

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Speaker 2: It's just like a medical reason that.

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Speaker 1: It's very like it's like a lose lose scenario all around. Well,

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Speaker 1: tried to support us both through it, but eventually he

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Speaker 1: I tried emailing and texting my wife and her brother,

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Speaker 1: but eventually I got the hint mutual friends dropped me too.

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Speaker 3: I couldn't blame anybody, Well.

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Speaker 2: You can't because his whole personality has changed.

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Speaker 1: Oh this too, So I think additional lies and misbehaviors

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Speaker 1: sank pretty low, lost multiple jobs and barely scraped.

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Speaker 4: So is it because he's lying or because of so.

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Speaker 2: So he's lying because of a brain tumor kind of.

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Speaker 1: Like Yeah, as of right now, he was diagnosed with

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Speaker 1: having a psychotic break bipolar, and schizo effective disorder. Gotcha,

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Speaker 1: So oh man, it's basically these the like the mental

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Speaker 1: on that is affecting his behavior and everything. So he is,

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Speaker 1: like he said, he'd been caught in lies and like

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Speaker 1: other misbehaviors. But it's all stemming before he had a

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Speaker 1: and you can see you can see how like someone

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Speaker 3: Like's such a it's such a.

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Speaker 2: Negative because you have someone who is now losing their

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Speaker 2: support structure that could help them maybe get out of.

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Speaker 3: This thing exactly.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, and what's the difference between like, where does

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Speaker 1: the mental illness and the person?

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Speaker 3: Yes, start.

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Speaker 1: Fast forward to now. I'm still struggling, but I've managed

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Speaker 1: to hold a good, well paying job and even bought

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Speaker 1: got a new little pup named Archie.

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Speaker 3: That's actually a great idea.

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Speaker 1: Probably who keeps me going when times get tough. I've

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Speaker 1: kept at therapy and it's definitely helped. But recently, while traveling,

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Speaker 2: You're telling me, no one looked at his brain. You're

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Speaker 2: telling me, yes, yeah, his whole personality switch. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: I've never I'm very uneducated on like this stuff, but

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Speaker 1: I never thought about getting an MRI. But it makes

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Speaker 1: sense because it is literally all empty brain.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna get an MRI just for my shoulder

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Speaker 2: because I heard it just for fun, just just for fun,

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Speaker 2: snug and a little just to feel what it feels

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Speaker 2: like to eat fifteen thousand bananas worth of radiation.

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Speaker 3: Hmm, Is that what it is?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Actually no, I think it's like way less. I

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Speaker 2: think it's like like an MRIs. Like I think like

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Speaker 2: a like a thousand bananas.

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Speaker 1: Let's make that our next experimental YouTube video. We we

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Speaker 1: did radio poisoning via banana?

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Speaker 2: You can if you eat you know, a ton of bananas.

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Speaker 1: We just we just eat bananas for seventy two hours straight. Bro,

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Speaker 1: can we eat ten thousand banas in seventy two hours?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: Speak for yourself.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but interesting video. Yes.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, So the look on his face and his whole

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Speaker 1: demeanor spooked me like he suspected that he didn't want

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Speaker 1: see and not speculating. Lo and behold, I have a

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Speaker 1: brain tumor. Duh, No one thought to check. The funny

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Speaker 1: thing is when I found out, I was relieved.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because at least he knows, like what the cause

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Speaker 2: of all these changes are personality?

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Speaker 1: And how long, Like it's maybe been to twenty twenty two,

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Speaker 1: it's been a while, it might have been two years.

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Speaker 3: Finally it all made sense.

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Speaker 1: Apparently it's not unheard of for such a thing to

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Speaker 1: be misdiagnosed as bipolar. He was missed diagnosed. Oh I

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Speaker 1: thought maybe it was that and the bipolar.

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Speaker 3: Just do an MRI.

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Speaker 2: Just look scan your brain.

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Speaker 3: That is wow. That good, good freaking PSA for everyone.

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Speaker 3: My god.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if you've noticed your personality change. Get an MRI

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Speaker 1: The doctor say it's probably been growing slowly for a

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Speaker 1: long time and explains my strange and out of character behavior. Thankfully,

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Speaker 1: they think it's treatable and with surgery, I can stand

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Speaker 1: to make a good recovery modern medicine. But crazy that

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Speaker 1: Including some news sites and a few journalists and podcasters

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Speaker 1: That's all I'm saying, or delivering a message through a

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Speaker 1: For the social media thing, I don't actually have social

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Speaker 1: I don't think there's anything wrong with it. But to

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Speaker 1: I don't want to like open old wounds necessarily now.

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Speaker 3: Are you freaking subscribe?

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Speaker 4: Just do it.

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Speaker 2: If I had an ex reach out to me and

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Speaker 1: That that honestly, when you when you put it like that,

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Speaker 2: Matches all right. Imagine remember that person that cheated you

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so, I'm I'm now team brain Timber. Oh, Samuel, Well,

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Speaker 1: I guess check this out, yo, Opie says, I guess

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Speaker 1: Best way to handle this for my ex How does

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Speaker 1: that's the exact problem. I realized there was no way

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Speaker 2: Comments, Well, I mean it's it's very much up to

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Speaker 2: for being a dick I had a brain tumor. No, No,

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Speaker 2: I don't think it's not able to move you. Is

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Speaker 3: And it seems like Opie is being pretty objective and

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Speaker 2: I wonder if OPI, in this moment that we are

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Speaker 1: that's all I'm saying. Yeah, Opie says. I always loved

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Speaker 1: her quirks and her silliness and her strength, the way

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Speaker 1: I want them to get back together now.

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Speaker 2: I'm team send it, dude, you don't even you don't

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Speaker 1: Very early in our relationship, she asked whether I was

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Speaker 1: I was also the dungeon master for our Dungeons and

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00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 1: Dragons campaign that she played in. That when you're when

446
00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:46,800
Speaker 1: you're the dungeon master, that's that's forever, except apparently not

447
00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:47,359
Speaker 1: in this case.

448
00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:51,199
Speaker 2: Yeah. See, dungeon master is is a role that you

449
00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:54,320
Speaker 2: take with you in all areas of life.

450
00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:59,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, dungeon Master and her Goblin Rogue will always be

451
00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:00,760
Speaker 1: peaked table top gaming.

452
00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:01,000
Speaker 4: To me.

453
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 3: I loved hearing her thoughts about everything. I miss her

454
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 3: every day.

455
00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:11,880
Speaker 1: God, and who knows, maybe we'll reconnect at some point

456
00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:14,640
Speaker 1: in the future. I'm not ruling out ever contacting her.

457
00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:17,119
Speaker 1: And in case it wasn't clear in my last post,

458
00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:20,520
Speaker 1: I never thought my tumor exonerated me of responsibility for

459
00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:21,560
Speaker 1: everything I'd done.

460
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:22,480
Speaker 3: I know I.

461
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:25,280
Speaker 1: Still need to take ownership of my actions and learn

462
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:27,840
Speaker 1: and grow from this. So that's what I'm going to

463
00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:31,439
Speaker 1: focus on getting better. My surgery is getting scheduled, and

464
00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:33,280
Speaker 1: then I'll just have to take it one step at

465
00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:36,320
Speaker 1: a time. OPI has literally not even had the surgery yet.

466
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:40,040
Speaker 1: Oh and he's like so self aware and objective and

467
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:41,800
Speaker 1: like very Imagine.

468
00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 2: How powerful OPI will be when the tumor is gone.

469
00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 2: Op will be op overpowered. Yeah, there's a lot of.

470
00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:51,119
Speaker 1: Stuff going on to I was applying and interviewing for

471
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,679
Speaker 1: jobs before all of this and actually got two offers.

472
00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:55,399
Speaker 3: Recently, things are.

473
00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 2: Opie's getting job offers, buying houses, getting this tuber removed,

474
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,359
Speaker 2: and about the shout out his old.

475
00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:05,639
Speaker 3: Girl my boy is up up.

476
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 1: So I'll be communicating with them about whether we could

477
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 1: delay the start date the new jobs, and worst case

478
00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:14,120
Speaker 1: if not, my current job is secure and medical leave

479
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 1: won't be a problem. I also bought another property, although

480
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:20,840
Speaker 1: the stale is still conditional, so I could walk away

481
00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:21,560
Speaker 1: if I wanted to.

482
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:22,960
Speaker 3: We'll see how it goes.

483
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:25,399
Speaker 1: All this to say, life is pretty hectic right now,

484
00:24:25,560 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 1: but I honestly feel good, and for the first time

485
00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:32,159
Speaker 1: in years, I'm looking forward to what comes next, whatever

486
00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:32,640
Speaker 1: that might be.

487
00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:35,200
Speaker 2: Oh damn, So he's gonna he's gonna get a brand

488
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:38,440
Speaker 2: new job and then immediately be like, yo, I gotta

489
00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:40,439
Speaker 2: get rid of this brain tumor. I'm out for two.

490
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:46,800
Speaker 1: Months right right, But worst case scenario, he's like, my

491
00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:49,240
Speaker 1: current job will give me the medical leave I need.

492
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:52,880
Speaker 1: The worst case scenario is he stays at his current job,

493
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:56,679
Speaker 1: but hopefully levels up the job the job was.

494
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:59,639
Speaker 2: Able to get paid for that sickly dude.

495
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:00,600
Speaker 3: That be awesome.

496
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:04,480
Speaker 1: Anyways, thanks again everybody for reading and commenting, sharing your

497
00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 1: advice in your stories.

498
00:25:05,680 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 3: Well wishes in love.

499
00:25:06,680 --> 00:25:09,359
Speaker 1: I might post another update down the line, but fair warning,

500
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 1: I'm hoping it'll be just as boring as this one. Also,

501
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:16,320
Speaker 1: I shared this in a comment for the last post,

502
00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 1: but I'll.

503
00:25:17,000 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 3: Post the pictures here too. Here's some pics of the

504
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 3: pup archie dude adorable marketing for this talk in no

505
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:30,200
Speaker 3: you know what, you know what. I will defend this post.

506
00:25:30,320 --> 00:25:31,680
Speaker 3: This is not marketing.

507
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:36,000
Speaker 2: This a come on, he got a little scarf, dude,

508
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:37,520
Speaker 2: he got a little looks like he got a little

509
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:40,119
Speaker 2: shave and like a little summer shave on his body

510
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:43,400
Speaker 2: there on that last photo. Oh, he's got a piano too.

511
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:49,920
Speaker 2: He's playing piano. Looks like his foot game is well manicured.

512
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:55,440
Speaker 3: What in the second photo, Editors, you gotta pop that.

513
00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:59,359
Speaker 2: Up the uh the house looks well decorated.

514
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:01,280
Speaker 3: Yep, this is good.

515
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:01,800
Speaker 2: This is good.

516
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 3: Yeah night, Yeah, nice looking house, good couch.

517
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:09,880
Speaker 2: Okays, stayin little peace stained but that's okay, but we'll

518
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 2: give it a pass.

519
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 3: We'll just flip the cushion before your ex wife comes

520
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:13,440
Speaker 3: back over.

521
00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:15,200
Speaker 2: I mean, this is that it.

522
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:16,399
Speaker 3: That is the end.

523
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 2: But you're telling me we don't know if he said

524
00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 2: the thing or not. I know that is I I am.

525
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:22,280
Speaker 2: That's tragedy.

526
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:24,919
Speaker 3: No I want it, But I think we have a

527
00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:26,280
Speaker 3: solution for our tragedy.

528
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:29,639
Speaker 2: Sam, please, I'm all ears.

529
00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 3: This next story.

530
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 2: Yo, all right, I'm gonna put it in like a

531
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 2: tumor you can never removed. Oh my am I a

532
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:41,479
Speaker 2: hole for sleeping with my ex's dad kind of sounds

533
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:45,679
Speaker 2: like it. This comes from business Jellyfish six four. This

534
00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:47,960
Speaker 2: is a throwaway account. My ex has read it, and

535
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,520
Speaker 2: I don't really want him finding out my current account,

536
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:53,000
Speaker 2: so it's a bit of a long one. Get ready

537
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 2: giving a bit of context. I Mail twenty seven met

538
00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:01,000
Speaker 2: my ex Mail twenty eight. Let's call him Monday for

539
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 2: this when he came to my country for sabbatical when

540
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 2: I was seventeen and he was eighteen. We stayed friends

541
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:09,880
Speaker 2: for about four years and then started dating at twenty one.

542
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:12,920
Speaker 2: I got kicked out by my parents after they found

543
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:15,439
Speaker 2: out I'm queer, so I said ef itt and moved

544
00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 2: to Monday's country. Well wow, as soon as I got there,

545
00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:24,520
Speaker 2: he proposed whoa down on these?

546
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 1: I also just realized why his name is Monday boy,

547
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:34,399
Speaker 1: because that's when the grind starts. Yo, I'm on fire today?

548
00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:38,919
Speaker 2: All right? Pretty good? Pretty good. I got into college.

549
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 2: It was all rainbows and sunshines. For two years. We

550
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 2: were planning the wedding, saving money. The plan was to

551
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:47,719
Speaker 2: get married after I finished school. But then but six

552
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:51,480
Speaker 2: months ago, no no, I found out no that he

553
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:55,200
Speaker 2: no was cheating on me.

554
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 3: Oh he's a stinky man. He's a stinky Monday.

555
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:01,760
Speaker 2: He basically said he didn't want to be stuck with

556
00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:07,680
Speaker 2: an ugly rat for the rest of his life.

557
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:10,480
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

558
00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 2: Like wow, Okay, I know I'm chubby, used pretty thick

559
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 2: glasses and my eyebags have eyebags, but ugly rat really

560
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:24,000
Speaker 2: geesz op. You deserve better. But why is this dude

561
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:28,600
Speaker 2: proposing to an ugly rat? Like obviously he didn't think

562
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:32,399
Speaker 2: you were that like ugly of a rat when he

563
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 2: was proposing.

564
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 1: Is there like some sort of finances? Is there like

565
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 1: a prenup? Like honestly quick conspiracy?

566
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:41,960
Speaker 2: Well all right, but they were not married.

567
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:46,080
Speaker 3: Un conspiracy theory.

568
00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I get that shit out. Yeah yeah, they weren't married.

569
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 2: They weren't married. The guy just proposed. He just proposed,

570
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 2: So wow, what could it be? But it gets worse, John,

571
00:28:56,920 --> 00:29:00,200
Speaker 2: of course it does. It gets worse. Not only not

572
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 2: only did Monday cheat on me, but he also kicked

573
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:07,560
Speaker 2: me out of the apartment we shared. Remember OPI moved

574
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 2: to his lover's country and was kicked out by his parents,

575
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 2: so OPI has no safety in it.

576
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 1: Also, getting kicked out of your apartment in a country

577
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:23,800
Speaker 1: you're not familiar with whole different.

578
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 2: Whole, different ballgame. I don't even know if they have

579
00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 2: ballgames in that country.

580
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:27,880
Speaker 3: We don't even know.

581
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 2: I mean in every country has ball games.

582
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 3: That's true. Everyone loves balls.

583
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 2: Everyone loves balls, especially OPI, especially Opie. No sex, so

584
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 2: I was alone in a country. I had no family

585
00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:42,480
Speaker 2: and very few friends. And then three months ago, his dad,

586
00:29:43,080 --> 00:29:47,440
Speaker 2: fifty eight mail found out about the whole thing. His dad,

587
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:51,960
Speaker 2: let's call him Sunday, offered me a room at his house.

588
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 2: He even offered to pay for the rest of my

589
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:58,960
Speaker 2: college because he was really ashamed of what his son

590
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 2: had done. Sugar daddy, I mean paying for college. There's

591
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:08,320
Speaker 2: a lot of sugar. A free room additional sugar.

592
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:08,960
Speaker 3: Pretty sweet.

593
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 2: I accepted the room, and I've been living with him

594
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 2: these past few months. Okay, everything's good.

595
00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 3: Wow, it's crazy.

596
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 2: Well, I had absolutely no intentions of getting into another relationship. Hell,

597
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 2: I can barely call this a relationship. Really, the whole

598
00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 2: thing started only about three weeks ago. I was feeling

599
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:35,800
Speaker 2: a crap, so Sunday, the dad of Monday, convinced me

600
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:38,120
Speaker 2: we should go out. He wanted me to have fun,

601
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:40,360
Speaker 2: so he took me to a pretty popular gay bar

602
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 2: where we live, so I could get at least drunk

603
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 2: and get flirted with, well, flirted with by whom, by whom,

604
00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 2: by whom. Well, he got a little tipsy and just

605
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:54,080
Speaker 2: started going on about how his son was an idiot

606
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:57,280
Speaker 2: for letting go of a person like me, How blind

607
00:30:57,440 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 2: he was seeing how gorgeous I was. Oh, sexy, sexy,

608
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:09,280
Speaker 2: rat like Revy from rat A two. Probably cooks like

609
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 2: a champion. We'll pull your hair in all the right way.

610
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 2: Imagine flavor profiles. Oh you have baby, control my body, remy.

611
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:21,880
Speaker 2: How blind he was for not seeing how gorgeous I was.

612
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 2: He kept going the entire way home saying stuff like that. Well,

613
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 2: once we got home, he was basically fully sober. We

614
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:35,480
Speaker 2: had barely entered the house when he asked if he

615
00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 2: could kiss me. Oh, and I said yes, mostly out

616
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 2: of confusion because I really did not see that one coming,

617
00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 2: because other than that night, he had never shown any

618
00:31:49,600 --> 00:31:54,040
Speaker 2: interest in me at all. Well, John, the kissing led

619
00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:57,840
Speaker 2: to something else, because we slept together and kept with

620
00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 2: the kissing throughout the weeks. Kept kissing, kept kissing, kept kissing.

621
00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 2: Roommates and kiss mats why not? And playmates why not?

622
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 2: And sex states. So apparently Monday, the ex boyfriend did

623
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 2: not know I was living with Sunday, And yesterday my

624
00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 2: ex oh came into the house to find the two

625
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 2: of us, that's Opie and the ex's dad kissing in

626
00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:36,040
Speaker 2: the kitchen. Oh, it was a mess. He screamed at

627
00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 2: me and called me a horror, said I manipulated his

628
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:42,520
Speaker 2: dad into being queer, and Sunday was trying to get

629
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:45,320
Speaker 2: him out of the house the whole time while I

630
00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:48,320
Speaker 2: just stood there not knowing what to do. I talked

631
00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:50,520
Speaker 2: to some of my friends and the opinions are really

632
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:53,720
Speaker 2: divided on whether I'm the a hole or not? So

633
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:58,800
Speaker 2: should I have rejected my ex's dad Sunday We didn't

634
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 2: even talk about this thing happening, so I don't know

635
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:05,680
Speaker 2: if he wants a relationship or not. Everything is a

636
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 2: bit of a mess. So am I the a hole

637
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 2: for hooking up with my ex's dad?

638
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:14,800
Speaker 3: Wow? Wow?

639
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 2: I want to know what everyone in the comments think?

640
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 2: Ale are not ale? But John, Yes, what do you think?

641
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 2: A hole or not a hole?

642
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:27,240
Speaker 3: Okay, so let's break this down.

643
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 2: Let's break it down.

644
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 1: We are going to take what OPI is saying at

645
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:34,720
Speaker 1: face value that he was not intending for this to happen.

646
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:36,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, Opie didn't make the first move.

647
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 1: You know, and and and again, to be fair, Opie

648
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 1: was was down on his luck, was kicked out in

649
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 1: a country he's not familiar with, and the X was

650
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:51,440
Speaker 1: a massive douche at massive and called op a ugly rat,

651
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:53,960
Speaker 1: ugly rat, not even a sexy one. If I'm in

652
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 1: the same position, and I'm like, I'm down an ugly rat.

653
00:33:57,000 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 1: By the way, thank you you are. You're a I

654
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:01,200
Speaker 1: was gonna say, hey, some rat, but that's.

655
00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 2: You're a rock hard rat.

656
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:04,320
Speaker 3: You're a rock hard rat.

657
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:06,600
Speaker 2: Too, big, big rat, big rat energy.

658
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:06,960
Speaker 4: Yeah.

659
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:10,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, But I feel like if I was in a

660
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:13,839
Speaker 1: similar situation, especially if I was younger than I was now,

661
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:17,399
Speaker 1: I would probably be at least tempted, if not take

662
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:22,879
Speaker 1: the offer to have the living situation, right, so.

663
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:26,879
Speaker 2: To like, like if like op was like seventy six

664
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 2: and anything below exactly, Yeah, if if op was Joe Biden,

665
00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:35,880
Speaker 2: you know, all right, anyway, the John Old jokes. Besides,

666
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Speaker 2: if you were a younger version of yourself, I mean,

667
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Speaker 2: like John at one point was living with like seventy

668
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Speaker 2: people in the house, right, that's all like a room.

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Speaker 3: It was a great retirement community.

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Speaker 2: Look, key, I would be so down to live in

671
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Speaker 2: a retirement community when I'm older.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, oh yeah you would. You'd have loofahs all over

673
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Speaker 4: your little go cart golf cart.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah. Apparently the lufah colors signify like

675
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:04,600
Speaker 2: if your swingers.

676
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:04,960
Speaker 3: And if you're down.

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Speaker 2: Wow, but getting back on track, like to be what

678
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Speaker 2: twenty one and have a room like that is totally

679
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:16,439
Speaker 2: yours is kind of like a big win.

680
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Speaker 3: That's big.

681
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:19,520
Speaker 2: That's big, especially in a country that you know no one.

682
00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:23,240
Speaker 2: So yeah, and free school and free school. We're telling

683
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Speaker 2: me someone offers me a free place and free school

684
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Speaker 2: and I'm gonna say no.

685
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Speaker 4: So if your ex came to you, it's like we're

686
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:33,279
Speaker 4: breaking up, but her ex's mom comes up to you

687
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:36,319
Speaker 4: and says, hey, I'm gonna give you lived in Australia.

688
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:40,440
Speaker 4: She gave you a room, free college. But you had

689
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Speaker 4: to boink her. Would you be okay with that? But

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Speaker 4: that wasn't the deal.

691
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:44,359
Speaker 2: That wasn't the deal.

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Speaker 4: The deal was just well, but that's how sugarnetties go.

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Speaker 2: Though, No, no, no, no, there was It was proposed as

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Speaker 2: I can't believe my son did this to you, I'm

695
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 2: gonna help you out right. So yes, if I had

696
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Speaker 2: an ex that screwed me over and then there and

697
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 2: I was stranded in the country and their hot mom

698
00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:08,359
Speaker 2: said live with me, have your own room, and I'll

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Speaker 2: pay for college. And I'm twenty one. Are you kid?

700
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:14,080
Speaker 2: Are you kidd of it?

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Speaker 3: You're up? You're up, You're up?

702
00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 2: No, dumb that the icing on top she wants to bone.

703
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 2: I'm boning the nicer version of my ex. Easy, she's forty,

704
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 2: she's forty to forty five.

705
00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:37,760
Speaker 3: Dream scenario.

706
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:42,160
Speaker 2: So yeah, dude, I'm actually seeing no dad's side.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: In conclusion, to wrap all this up, I don't think

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Speaker 1: OPI's the a hole. Maybe a little bit on the

710
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:52,120
Speaker 1: dad's side, a little bit, oh.

711
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 2: The dad that it's it is fed up on the

712
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 2: dad's park to hookup with their son's ex.

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Speaker 1: And like I'm trying to find the right word to

714
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Speaker 1: do this, but I I I, Oh, he's.

715
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Speaker 2: A little the a hole to be being complicit in

716
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 2: this situation with the hooking up, not in taking the.

717
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Speaker 3: Initial stay here.

718
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fine, that's totally fine. Yeah. Uh, the accepting

719
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:25,880
Speaker 2: the kiss, I think that's fine. Continually hooking up a

720
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Speaker 2: little bit of a gray area. But you Yeah, but

721
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Speaker 2: actually I don't know. Op is not the a whole.

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Speaker 2: Op owes nothing to their ex. Yeah, I think so

723
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:38,080
Speaker 2: op owes nothing to their ex. The dad is the

724
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Speaker 2: a hole for essentially forsaking the relationship with the Sun.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if coercing is the right word, but

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Speaker 1: it's like he I feel like he played this sounds like, hey, look,

728
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Speaker 1: I'm going to offer him the thing.

729
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: It's hard. It's hard to believe that there wasn't some

731
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Speaker 2: ulterior motives here. So Dad definitely the I think Dad

732
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Speaker 2: is definitely the a whole definitely to the Sun and

733
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Speaker 2: possibly like some weird it's not like grooming, because I guess.

734
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not, they're an adult, but it's like, it's

735
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Speaker 1: it's weird.

736
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Speaker 2: It's it's weird.

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Speaker 3: It's a lot.

738
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Speaker 2: It's weird a lot. But twenty one hot mom?

739
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Speaker 3: What Riley?

740
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Speaker 2: Why are you shaking your head over here?

741
00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:24,479
Speaker 4: I'm just trying to imagine the world. Maybe I haven't

742
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:27,160
Speaker 4: been with someone that I'm looking at their mom and like, WHOA,

743
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 4: that's crazy.

744
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Speaker 2: All right, you're telling me you wouldn't date Zoey dea

745
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Speaker 2: Chanel Zoey forty four?

746
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Speaker 1: Whoa bro came prepared with the scenario Zoey Da channel broke,

747
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:44,879
Speaker 1: which is low key right Riley's type.

748
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Speaker 3: Uh, Zoe's dachanel.

749
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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, yes, but yeah, yeah, I'm there, I

750
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Speaker 4: am right.

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00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:54,880
Speaker 2: Oh, Rae, you're telling me you wouldn't date Rachel McAdams.

752
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 4: Oh, dude, Rachel McAdams.

753
00:38:56,719 --> 00:38:59,879
Speaker 2: Who Rachel McAdams is at least forty.

754
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:03,799
Speaker 4: But like, that's my mom's age, but.

755
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Speaker 2: It's Rachel McAdams. Look at look at all, look at all.

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Speaker 2: Let's hear your age forty five?

757
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:12,800
Speaker 3: Forty five? Wow, forty five?

758
00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:18,800
Speaker 1: You're twenty one, young, stupid and in need of college

759
00:39:18,880 --> 00:39:21,520
Speaker 1: tuition money, get a room to live in a foreign country.

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00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 2: Yeah all right, yeah, I'm getting wrecked, getting wrecked, dude,

761
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:32,960
Speaker 2: Zoey Da should you came prepared too. I know a

762
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:38,880
Speaker 2: man who likes a bang, lady, lady with banks.

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Speaker 3: I'm dying over here.

764
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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I really do have a time.

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Speaker 3: We found it. Ladies and gentlemen, Okay, but there is more.

766
00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:53,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, quirky girls with bangs is totally Riley's type.

767
00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 3: Oh my god, another one on the checklist. We got it.

768
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Speaker 4: I'm now gonna have to rethink my whole love.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so what did to close us out? O p

770
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Speaker 2: not the A hole, the O p x's dad, the

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Speaker 2: A hole, O ps X, the ale Boom bam. Done.

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Speaker 3: Is the story over?

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00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:20,359
Speaker 2: The story's over?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, I thought there was, dude.

775
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Speaker 1: It was jam packed, though it was, it was jam

776
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:27,239
Speaker 1: packed every second you didn't know what was gonna happen.

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Speaker 2: Bam bam bam.

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Speaker 3: Wow, Well you know what else?

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Speaker 2: We're gonna jam right in