WEBVTT - Confronting A Bully

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<v Speaker 1>And a man will buy a woman drinks to funk

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<v Speaker 1>up her judgment and increase his odds. Yeah, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>need you to make bad decisions. What I'm saying is

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<v Speaker 1>is that we go and get the food. We go,

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<v Speaker 1>we work, We take care of the kids. You've been

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<v Speaker 1>doing that. We cooked the food. So okay, So that's

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<v Speaker 1>why you're over here saying that we want to be

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<v Speaker 1>be bold. No, we don't want to be both. We

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<v Speaker 1>were forced to be both. No, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that actually was just what being a woman was. Working

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<v Speaker 1>women have always worked. Black women unless you white and

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<v Speaker 1>not even know, black women have works his slavery ended.

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<v Speaker 1>Black women have works in slavery, and slavery ended because

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<v Speaker 1>they ain't never gave black men enough money, feel me

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<v Speaker 1>to do anything outside of that. So this ain't nothing

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<v Speaker 1>new to you. Just somewhere you just decided you want

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<v Speaker 1>to be a man as well. I don't got nothing

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<v Speaker 1>to do with what is what is wanting to be

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<v Speaker 1>a man as well? What is a woman wanting to

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<v Speaker 1>be a man in? What is a woman wanting to

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<v Speaker 1>be like call the shots in the relationship, running the house,

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<v Speaker 1>all that kind of stuff. That's pretty okay. No, but

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<v Speaker 1>we have an audience. Also, it was just a smart

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<v Speaker 1>question question no, because I don't want to I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to be the man. But I am opinionated as

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<v Speaker 1>far as you're comment where you're like, oh, the bet

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<v Speaker 1>the perfect place to see a woman, or where you

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<v Speaker 1>like to see her as watching the clothes, I was

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of like, Okay, that's the that's where you

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<v Speaker 1>like her the most, Like I want to see the

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<v Speaker 1>natural her. I know, I know, I know, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>Most women in the world are not getting dressed up

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<v Speaker 1>to go to the laundry mat. They're not going to

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<v Speaker 1>throw on lashes to go to the laundry. So he's

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<v Speaker 1>actually talking about the way she's gonna look. So you

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<v Speaker 1>think about something, But this, no, this is what we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about men and women. See you already was ready

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<v Speaker 1>to defend it and deflect, defend and deflect, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking about some simple ship. I want to see exactly

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<v Speaker 1>who you are because now I see you. Now when

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<v Speaker 1>I engage, I'm engaging because the person the surface is

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<v Speaker 1>already cool for me. The surface is already straight in

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<v Speaker 1>the fucking laundry map. You's know what I'm saying. But

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<v Speaker 1>see you thought I was on some whole other ship.

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<v Speaker 1>You thought you thought she thought I was on something

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<v Speaker 1>not supposed to be washing and doing it. No, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to see any laundry, Mac, because I know

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<v Speaker 1>you're not You're not you're not You're not getting up.

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<v Speaker 1>You just don't like, you know, dressed up, just chilling.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't mind dressed up, and I don't want to.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to see the normal. I want to see

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<v Speaker 1>what you're gonna do when when nobody's watching, when you

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<v Speaker 1>don't give a fun That's what I want to see

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<v Speaker 1>because that's what's gonna engage, because I already know when

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<v Speaker 1>you get laced up, I might not know what the

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<v Speaker 1>funk you look like when you take all that ship off.

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<v Speaker 1>Who you trying to happen? It's happened in real life

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<v Speaker 1>where I don't even know who the fucking what he is. Literally,

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<v Speaker 1>motherfucker told me in life before, hey man, you know me?

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<v Speaker 1>And I said no, I do I know you? And

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<v Speaker 1>they and then they tell me where are you going

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<v Speaker 1>from this house? This is that? And I was like, oh, ship, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you had too much going on that day and I

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<v Speaker 1>was faded, But but now you've got too much going on,

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<v Speaker 1>it's bad news. But mine is that what's wrong with

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<v Speaker 1>liking to see your old lady watch clothes? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if that's what turns you on, that's what turns you on.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm saying that what's wrong with a woman being

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<v Speaker 1>barefoot and pregnant? I mean, is something wrong with a

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<v Speaker 1>man coming home with callis on his hand and pregnant? Okay, great,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know if we don't want to do that,

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<v Speaker 1>then they want to be basketball players, they want to

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<v Speaker 1>be analysis, they want to be mechanics. So is it's

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<v Speaker 1>aligned for both sides? Should should me? Should women be

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<v Speaker 1>justice attracted to niggas that want to do the same,

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<v Speaker 1>that have a right to because it's it's talked about

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<v Speaker 1>for men to not actually like if you don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that's attractive, like me personally, Oprah having money don't mean

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<v Speaker 1>nothing to me, Like I don't. It don't make me

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<v Speaker 1>want her. I don't care a rich woman. That's so

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<v Speaker 1>what who cares? Like? What does that mean? What You're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna buy me something? I'm your I'm your I'm your girl.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how I feel. But what I'm saying to you is,

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<v Speaker 1>if you feel like a man should be attracted to

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<v Speaker 1>a woman because let's say we take away all the

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<v Speaker 1>societal norms and it's pressure. Like if I say, right

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<v Speaker 1>now on this podcast, and I don't like women who

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<v Speaker 1>who think working is everything, I want my woman barefoot

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<v Speaker 1>and pregnant, it would be lashback. But the same lashback

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<v Speaker 1>be to a man of saying I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>work and I just want to take care of the house.

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<v Speaker 1>What wants to do that? And we you be attracted

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<v Speaker 1>to that man the same way you want me to

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<v Speaker 1>be attracted to you based off of your desires to

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<v Speaker 1>go out and conquer the world right and go out

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<v Speaker 1>and successfully make beings of dollars and you know and

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<v Speaker 1>all that. I don't know what you want to make

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<v Speaker 1>beings of dollars for. I mean, maybe you want to

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<v Speaker 1>take care of your family. Maybe you want to provide

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<v Speaker 1>for your husband. I doubt it, but maybe you do. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not attracted to a man that wants to sit

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<v Speaker 1>in the house and take care of the kids. There

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<v Speaker 1>are women. There's a lot of niggas at home right

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<v Speaker 1>now that ain't working, that's not doing a motherfucking thing,

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<v Speaker 1>and they still with them. So there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>women that's okay with there. That's more in spite of them,

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<v Speaker 1>because of first off, first off, this is no Sillings

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<v Speaker 1>g L. And this small fucker, my nigga, Pete, I got,

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<v Speaker 1>I got toxic masculinity. Just so you know, this ship

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<v Speaker 1>is toxic up in the small is real masculine energy

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<v Speaker 1>going on up in here. Ain't no ain't no compromising,

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<v Speaker 1>no no backbreaking, ain't no buck breaking, none of that.

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<v Speaker 1>My boy moved, moved. And uh, one of the one

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<v Speaker 1>of my favorite women I know, Asian right who the

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<v Speaker 1>Cousins podcast, who kind of made me think about podcasting.

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<v Speaker 1>But she very much is a feminist. And this conversation

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<v Speaker 1>ain't even about that. This really is conversations about cowards.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I want to talk about. But I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like being brave is standing up to women about how

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<v Speaker 1>y'all constantly keep trying to overdo what the hell y'all

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<v Speaker 1>got going on. Y'all got everything, and that's not true.

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<v Speaker 1>There was no man that's respected that is a housewife.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't tell me one man that is literally a

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<v Speaker 1>centerpiece of society that's a house man. He's respected and

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<v Speaker 1>they show him love. Yet women want to be respected

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<v Speaker 1>for being whatever they think men or like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>if I just told you right now, if you say

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<v Speaker 1>to me, if I say, man, I like my woman

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<v Speaker 1>barefoot and pregnant, I want my old lady barefoot and pregnant,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be frowned upon. But if a man came on

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<v Speaker 1>the same show and said, man, I'm really good at

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<v Speaker 1>taking care of the house and take care of kids.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to cook for my family every day. You

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<v Speaker 1>go out to make the money. So that same society

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<v Speaker 1>that y'all like don't exist, feel me, will frown on him.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no like glass mop conversation for men like the

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<v Speaker 1>glass ceiling. So I so starting off this, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>conversation is about cowards. I'm standing up to you and women. First,

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<v Speaker 1>your motherfucker's is out of line and you need to

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<v Speaker 1>check yourself. You can't have it all your way. You

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<v Speaker 1>can't be us and yourself every motherfucker to have to

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<v Speaker 1>make a living. You ain't no man just because you

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<v Speaker 1>go out of work. And I'm not no woman just

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<v Speaker 1>because I that the house and clean up. But we can't.

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<v Speaker 1>We gotta stop preaching this equality because you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>no man that's equal to you, and you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be equal to no man, So I wish y'all

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<v Speaker 1>stop that. You don't want a man equal to you, Jesus,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to prop him up on the level to

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<v Speaker 1>make him feel like he's stronger and he can go

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<v Speaker 1>out and deal with the presses of the world. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't want no man that's equal to you. What if

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<v Speaker 1>a man walk up on your faith, he tells you

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<v Speaker 1>take your own faith? Are you you got that? I respect?

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<v Speaker 1>I think what got lost in that whole woman's independent push.

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<v Speaker 1>We got lost in that whole independence woman's pushes. You

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<v Speaker 1>were fighting for equal pay for doing the same jobs,

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<v Speaker 1>not to be equal to a man, And that's what

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<v Speaker 1>it became. Or I'm equal to a man. No, you're not.

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<v Speaker 1>Who said who is equal to a man? Or? That's

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<v Speaker 1>the problem. When you use general terms like equality instead

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<v Speaker 1>of focusing on equal pay, you have made these men soft.

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<v Speaker 1>A men's batas. They full of ship. They cowered, they're

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<v Speaker 1>scared of y'all. They won't tell you what they think,

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<v Speaker 1>none of that. They are fearful. Niggas is worried about

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<v Speaker 1>being castled. All of women coming together, Now, I beat

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<v Speaker 1>all the motherfucker's up. You know what Claricia sells too.

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<v Speaker 1>She is a professional boxing with major hands. Congratulations to

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<v Speaker 1>her because she just did something that no fighter and

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<v Speaker 1>the hittory of fighting. As ever, I still beat her up.

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<v Speaker 1>She's a boxer. She's the baddest box of the everlas

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<v Speaker 1>of gloves period me and or woman. Yeah, she cold.

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<v Speaker 1>I tip her up, goddamnit. In a real fight, not

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<v Speaker 1>put the body gloves. She had probably beat the dogs

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<v Speaker 1>out of me. But in a real fight, I maler. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we can grab us all the type of other ship

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<v Speaker 1>we can do, but let me get to the point

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<v Speaker 1>because I got lost bringing back Man, bringing on back Man.

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<v Speaker 1>So I've seen Oh, shout out to King King, back

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<v Speaker 1>in the house, Final was Gone, Happy Birthday, bit dog

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<v Speaker 1>may Ye, Prince Bad, Prince Bagy, failure, I've seen Judas

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<v Speaker 1>in the Messiah. I haven't seen that yet. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>a movie that chronicles um the rise and death of

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<v Speaker 1>of from Chicago, Black Panthers, Chicago. He was a cold brother.

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<v Speaker 1>He was united the streets in the in the movement,

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<v Speaker 1>Panther movement, you know, And it chronicles his rise from

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<v Speaker 1>the eyes of the person who was used to take

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<v Speaker 1>the movement down Okay, you know what I'm saying. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a brother who was uh stealing cars. He

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<v Speaker 1>was acting like he was a Federal agent, going to

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<v Speaker 1>bars and saying that somebody's car was stolen, and he

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<v Speaker 1>would come in and handcuff him and take him out

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<v Speaker 1>and and then get the keys of their car and

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<v Speaker 1>drive off in their car. And he got caught on

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<v Speaker 1>one of the on one of the moves, and uh,

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<v Speaker 1>the Fed used him to infiltrate the Chicago Black Panthers.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how much of a threat Fred Hampton was that

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<v Speaker 1>they used somebody to infiltrate the Chicago Black Panthers because

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<v Speaker 1>they felt he could unite the streets, so they used

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<v Speaker 1>him to infiltrate the Black Panthers. He moved up into

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<v Speaker 1>the ranks, providing all information to you know, get him

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<v Speaker 1>shotting all kind of ships, and he end up poison

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<v Speaker 1>in Fred Hampton and it kind of left him in

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<v Speaker 1>a vulnerable situation to where the police, the Chicago p

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<v Speaker 1>D came in and murdered him and straight murdered them.

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<v Speaker 1>Right like the city end up being civically liable. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>they shoot the city here for like two million or something.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're close to that. So a nigg of life

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<v Speaker 1>is two millions, right, and George Floyd family just got

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<v Speaker 1>twenty seven. So I think for happing, I think they

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<v Speaker 1>wanted seventy million and something and end up settling for

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<v Speaker 1>a long time. So I wanted to talk about cowards

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<v Speaker 1>like that that brother right there in that situation, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, and like a rat, like like

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<v Speaker 1>like Danny Hernandez, the Rapper, the little mess kid from

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<v Speaker 1>New York, No Rapper, the little snitch. I didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>that was his name, No nyd catch this dude. He's

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<v Speaker 1>he's not nobody that this dude is. But Little Daddy

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<v Speaker 1>told him. What he's doing to the world is he's

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<v Speaker 1>he's parading around like he was brave. And it's like

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<v Speaker 1>so he's telling everybody, Hey, you know this person is

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<v Speaker 1>you know, um, oh, well, you know what was I

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to do? Was I supposed to go down for

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of people that did me wrong? Right? And

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<v Speaker 1>the problem with Little Danny situation is he wasn't supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to go down for other people, Like he wasn't charged

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<v Speaker 1>for what they did. His charges was for what he did.

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<v Speaker 1>He put hits out on rappers. Um, he did all

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<v Speaker 1>of these things to these people. And when the police said, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>let me take you to jail for your crimes. But

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<v Speaker 1>these people are talking about doing something to you, we

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<v Speaker 1>have charges on them too. So if you want to

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<v Speaker 1>avoid your crimes and those penalties, just tell them you

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<v Speaker 1>can just inform us on their part in the crimes

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<v Speaker 1>that you orchestrated as well. Yeah he did. Real, that's

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<v Speaker 1>coward ship. Okay, your coward, we'll use coward. You know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying. It's yeah, it's all good coward ship.

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<v Speaker 1>And and that's my point where people so so there's

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<v Speaker 1>no such thing. It's bravery and absence of fear. So

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<v Speaker 1>like standing up to women in today's time, it's very

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<v Speaker 1>brave because women have enough power today to crush you. Wow. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a movement, me too movement. It's a lot of women,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of power and women where they could crush you.

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<v Speaker 1>So when I step out and I say what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>I understand that this is a fear Like, Okay, these

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<v Speaker 1>people can come together and blah blah blah, but this

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<v Speaker 1>is crap. One thing that does about being a crimp

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<v Speaker 1>that I'll honestly talk about my experience. It taught me

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<v Speaker 1>how to be okay with things against me. They stacked

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<v Speaker 1>against them, It's okay. So at the same time cripp

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<v Speaker 1>and called me. It taught me courage. Didn't give me

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<v Speaker 1>somebody to call when something went wrong. My first situation

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<v Speaker 1>when I moved to Lakewood and and and the ages

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<v Speaker 1>can't busting that it's a tripping and ship. I called

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<v Speaker 1>my home and like they get your gun to get

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<v Speaker 1>the shooting by driving way over there. So I want

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<v Speaker 1>to thank my hommies for that. Feel me. My mom

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<v Speaker 1>taught me about not snitching. That's courage in the first day,

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<v Speaker 1>Like if you're gonna do a crime, be held accountable

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<v Speaker 1>for your own crimes. But you got to see the

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<v Speaker 1>movie Dog, and it's today when such a time of

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<v Speaker 1>people being a coward, that's like what's in Wow, that's

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<v Speaker 1>what's saying. Point where men are scared to stand up

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<v Speaker 1>to women totally me and won't stand up to women.

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus Christ. I'll never forget. I had a conversation I

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<v Speaker 1>did the breakfast club right and I was talking to

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<v Speaker 1>Angeli Angeli. It was probably the second time it was

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<v Speaker 1>right around the Rey right situation Angie was like glasses.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, well, I understand how this man and

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<v Speaker 1>this woman could get into a fight because sometime I

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<v Speaker 1>get drunk and it's my fun trying me for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll mix her ass up, he said. She said, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't believe you said that. G would you hit the woman?

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<v Speaker 1>I will slap the dog ship out of a woman.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe. I truly ain't had to hit no woman

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<v Speaker 1>because every woman, no, I will slap the dog because

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<v Speaker 1>that's another thing. It's like I think we have mentioned before,

0:16:40.440 --> 0:16:44.000
<v Speaker 1>women live in a universe with no consequences. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I wanted you here. That's why I wanted That's

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<v Speaker 1>why I wanted you here really not only to get

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<v Speaker 1>you back into the podcast of Space because you're part

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<v Speaker 1>of my inspiration, but because I wanted you to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to speak for the for the bully, for the

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<v Speaker 1>bullying that women is doing today, because today women are

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<v Speaker 1>truly bullying men. And I wanted to make sure because

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<v Speaker 1>this conversation is about cowards and Mook saying this, are

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<v Speaker 1>you really brave or are you at this point now

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<v Speaker 1>where they're like women as a movement, Are you at

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<v Speaker 1>a point knowing that nobody can do anything to you

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<v Speaker 1>no matter what you do. Like right now, if a

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<v Speaker 1>woman is punching a man to the ground, beat him up,

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<v Speaker 1>if he hits her one time and she knocks her down,

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<v Speaker 1>people are gonna be mad at that man. So tell

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<v Speaker 1>her move. What you said about women, Well, I said

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of ship about him. But uh, I'll just

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<v Speaker 1>go on the accountability ship. You know, at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the day, these bitches is moving around this motherfucking

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<v Speaker 1>country in the world and not having to be accountable

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<v Speaker 1>for the ship they do. They get to they move

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<v Speaker 1>riverdently like kids. They kind of like kids. They just

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<v Speaker 1>get to do whatever they whatever the funk they want. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>nobody has to Nobody reprimands them for the ship they do.

0:18:21.960 --> 0:18:25.400
<v Speaker 1>And at the end of the day, that's really illegal.

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<v Speaker 1>In my brain, it is illegal. It shouldn't happen. So

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<v Speaker 1>what I what I would like to know? Go ahead

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<v Speaker 1>before you say that, though, Do you really believe that

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<v Speaker 1>women don't have any sense of accountability at this point?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't believe that. No. Oh yeah, I need to here.

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<v Speaker 1>What is okay? When is it okay for a man

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<v Speaker 1>to hit a woman? Okay, So I have a son

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<v Speaker 1>and I definitely don't think that men should hit when

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<v Speaker 1>stop right there, stop right there. I didn't ask you

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't man be able to hit women? I ask you,

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<v Speaker 1>when is it okay? When can a man? When is

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<v Speaker 1>it okay for a man to hit a woman? M okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So I think that if a woman is hitting on

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<v Speaker 1>a man, I think that she needs to understand that

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<v Speaker 1>you're trying to talk around this one. Don't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a question because as an interviewer, Yeah, because we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to stay focused. Well, we're not gonna do is.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not gonna politic out of this. You're not gonna

0:19:45.680 --> 0:19:49.359
<v Speaker 1>Joe Biden me, not gonna money back Joe me. You

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<v Speaker 1>feel you're not gonna Donald Trump me. It's always you're

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<v Speaker 1>not going to do any of that. So when I

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<v Speaker 1>asked you a question, because this goes to the sense

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<v Speaker 1>of accountability, when is it okay for a man to

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<v Speaker 1>hit a woman? And if you think there's never a

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<v Speaker 1>reason to say, there is never a reason. I think

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<v Speaker 1>if a woman hits a man, I think that it's

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<v Speaker 1>okay for a man to hit a woman. That's the

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<v Speaker 1>first time in life I've ever heard that. It took

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of that means. So I didn't take a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of thought. It was just like, Okay, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like men are stronger, and I mean that

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<v Speaker 1>we're different, We're not. Let me ask us a couple

0:20:33.400 --> 0:20:38.200
<v Speaker 1>of too little, small, nuanced follow ups. Do you think,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how well? Have you ever hit a man?

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<v Speaker 1>I have? Did you do so because you thought that

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<v Speaker 1>on sheer force of collision that you were going to

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<v Speaker 1>come out on top, or because you thought that you

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<v Speaker 1>were not going to be hit back? I swung on

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<v Speaker 1>him out of pure frustration. That's a subconscious thing. It

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<v Speaker 1>was just that's something that I think women can't even describe.

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<v Speaker 1>I think subconsciously, she believed, since she was taught since

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<v Speaker 1>a little kid that men don't hit women back, that

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<v Speaker 1>she can hit a man. She was not never it exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>So she wasn't going to get hit back. She wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>going to get hit back, which speaks to which speaks

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<v Speaker 1>to you didn't think you're to hit back, because there's

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<v Speaker 1>not a scenario in the world, no matter how emotional

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<v Speaker 1>I get, where I would go up and hit a

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<v Speaker 1>man without assuming there are is going to be more

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<v Speaker 1>than simply man. At that time, I'm not thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>if he's going to hit me back, because you don't

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<v Speaker 1>think it's going to happen. No, because I'm just like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pissed, and so I'm I'm ready if if at

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<v Speaker 1>that point when I was at that point when I

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<v Speaker 1>hit him, I was ready to just fuck it, take

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<v Speaker 1>me out, let's do we gotta do? Like, that's that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I was thinking. I don't even want to know

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<v Speaker 1>what you're thinking, like, he's not gonna hit me. No,

0:22:06.760 --> 0:22:10.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm preparing, Like what are we doing? Do you prepare

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<v Speaker 1>to get beat up? That's what it sounds like. I

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<v Speaker 1>know I'm gonna lose. Yeah, I'm frustrated. That was That

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<v Speaker 1>was the whole in my head. I'm like, yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know what. You don't even want to know what.

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<v Speaker 1>That's all I wanted. That was that last part. I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of figured like if I wanted crazy enough, he

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna be like, you know what you actually wanted it.

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<v Speaker 1>If I attacked Muke, I would not expect him to

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<v Speaker 1>not rough me up that much. I would expect it

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<v Speaker 1>to be the best man wins, and this might go

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<v Speaker 1>for a very long time until I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>to go he might kill me. He might kill me.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't know. It was at that point where

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<v Speaker 1>it was like, you know what, I'm gonna just I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna just um take my chances. Fuck it, Like, what

0:22:54.080 --> 0:22:58.040
<v Speaker 1>chances did you have? Have you ever want to fight

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<v Speaker 1>with a guy? No? So what chances did you have?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean a chance that he ain't gonna you know, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that he may not hit you, not that he won't

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<v Speaker 1>hit because I know you didn't think for yourself you

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<v Speaker 1>had a chance to win the fight. I wasn't even

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about winning the fight. That's a universe with no consequences.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a verse because it's not like you weren't thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about winning. You weren't thinking about losing. You know why

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<v Speaker 1>you never robbed the bank because you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>go to jail. You know, you know that ship is

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<v Speaker 1>bullying to man. You provoked me, and I can't do

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<v Speaker 1>ship to you. And then I go past that threshold

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<v Speaker 1>where I'm not thinking because you did something to me,

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<v Speaker 1>you might call the police on me because women doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna do that, you know what I mean? You

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<v Speaker 1>might want to call your brother. You You're gonna put

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<v Speaker 1>me in a position where I'm going way further than

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to go because, like he said, I can

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<v Speaker 1>look at any man in here. It's like, yo, it's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be a problem if I do this. But me

0:24:00.240 --> 0:24:02.439
<v Speaker 1>hitting you was going for the further than what I

0:24:02.480 --> 0:24:05.200
<v Speaker 1>wanted to do. But you kept provoking, you kept doing

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<v Speaker 1>the things that was like at this point, I'm like, okay,

0:24:08.720 --> 0:24:12.680
<v Speaker 1>you need to walk away like he he needs. So

0:24:12.720 --> 0:24:16.440
<v Speaker 1>this is the bullying woman the man. But the man

0:24:16.600 --> 0:24:20.280
<v Speaker 1>always have to make the right decision in these situations.

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<v Speaker 1>So we can't be emotional. Man, you can be emotional

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<v Speaker 1>towards me, and I still have to be like, but

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm telling you to leave, so no, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>just ill. So I gotta do what you're telling. No

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<v Speaker 1>matter what the situation, it always come back to being

0:24:36.200 --> 0:24:39.120
<v Speaker 1>a man's fault, even if I cheated on you, Right,

0:24:39.440 --> 0:24:41.320
<v Speaker 1>you have an option to leave, You have an option

0:24:41.400 --> 0:24:43.600
<v Speaker 1>not to yell or throw some ship at me. You

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<v Speaker 1>have all these options. So you make an emotional decision

0:24:46.960 --> 0:24:50.639
<v Speaker 1>that it's gonna lead me to no matter what idea room.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I'm defending myself. Now I'm in a position where

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<v Speaker 1>all these other things are gonna happen that did really

0:24:56.880 --> 0:24:59.000
<v Speaker 1>need to happen. And that's what we're talking about, the

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<v Speaker 1>bullying because you know that you know that if my

0:25:01.640 --> 0:25:05.159
<v Speaker 1>big guys grabs you, it does anything. You've shifted the

0:25:05.200 --> 0:25:09.480
<v Speaker 1>power to our knew the cheating't was gonna hurt me,

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<v Speaker 1>So leave me, leave me, okay. But in the interim

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<v Speaker 1>of that argument, I mean, what's going on, m is

0:25:17.520 --> 0:25:21.479
<v Speaker 1>going on? What is the argument happening? For the argument happen?

0:25:24.320 --> 0:25:26.080
<v Speaker 1>Are you arguing at that point? So I gave her

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<v Speaker 1>the right to do everything that was doing because she

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<v Speaker 1>figured out she wasn't a special upset and she has

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<v Speaker 1>to defend her own fucking honor at the point at

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that she has she in her brain she

0:25:41.760 --> 0:25:44.600
<v Speaker 1>has wasted her time with a nigga that have shown

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<v Speaker 1>her that she wasn't especial as the funk she thought

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<v Speaker 1>she was. So now since I've done all this, I

0:25:51.000 --> 0:25:54.520
<v Speaker 1>have to trip because if I don't trip, something's wrong

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<v Speaker 1>with me. And you know, see that's the difference with me.

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<v Speaker 1>The problem that I get is they tell me that

0:25:59.840 --> 0:26:03.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't give a fuck because I don't. You want

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<v Speaker 1>to go and do what you need to do, by

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<v Speaker 1>good bye. That that situation where where I swung it

0:26:09.080 --> 0:26:12.240
<v Speaker 1>didn't have anything to do with cheating or anything like that,

0:26:12.560 --> 0:26:16.520
<v Speaker 1>exactly saying you don't give a bull. We got we

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<v Speaker 1>gotta know something. What happened? Why did you? Why did

0:26:20.520 --> 0:26:22.520
<v Speaker 1>you start a fight with somebody you know that couldn't

0:26:22.560 --> 0:26:26.919
<v Speaker 1>fight you back? Why were you being a bully? So?

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<v Speaker 1>Um this had to do it was I was sexually frustrated.

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<v Speaker 1>Um hm, I was sexually frustrated. So let me get

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<v Speaker 1>this right to me. Just it wasn't It wasn't during

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<v Speaker 1>like during intersext. What happened was is that it was

0:26:45.600 --> 0:26:48.639
<v Speaker 1>some type of connection. It was off like we weren't

0:26:48.640 --> 0:26:52.520
<v Speaker 1>having sex. We weren't having sex. There was just like

0:26:52.560 --> 0:26:58.960
<v Speaker 1>a disconnected Yeah it's a mother. That's not true. That's

0:26:58.960 --> 0:27:01.119
<v Speaker 1>not true. I think that I realized about all of

0:27:01.119 --> 0:27:05.800
<v Speaker 1>that is when you first start having sex, right outside

0:27:05.840 --> 0:27:09.399
<v Speaker 1>of the concept of procreation, it's really for men, I

0:27:09.440 --> 0:27:12.560
<v Speaker 1>think it's more of a conquest of like I conquered you,

0:27:12.640 --> 0:27:16.119
<v Speaker 1>and for women it's a it's a sense of intimacy

0:27:16.160 --> 0:27:18.840
<v Speaker 1>because I think women crave intimacy and I think men,

0:27:21.080 --> 0:27:23.639
<v Speaker 1>you know, we we crave conquests, right, which is to

0:27:23.800 --> 0:27:27.960
<v Speaker 1>conquer but when you already you can't reconquer something that

0:27:28.080 --> 0:27:32.000
<v Speaker 1>you conquered daily, right if that makes sense. So, like

0:27:34.160 --> 0:27:36.840
<v Speaker 1>I think that's what it is, right, So I think

0:27:36.840 --> 0:27:39.760
<v Speaker 1>for y'all, it's intimacy. So what happens is the girl

0:27:39.800 --> 0:27:44.640
<v Speaker 1>with different colored hair. That's what they'd be thinking. They

0:27:44.680 --> 0:27:46.240
<v Speaker 1>tell you that too. They'd be like, I could be

0:27:46.280 --> 0:27:48.440
<v Speaker 1>another woman, if you want another woman, I could be

0:27:48.480 --> 0:27:51.600
<v Speaker 1>whoever you want to be. No, you kick because that

0:27:51.720 --> 0:27:56.000
<v Speaker 1>thing is the same thing, and it was never about

0:27:56.000 --> 0:27:58.040
<v Speaker 1>the thing though you feel me like it's more to it,

0:27:58.080 --> 0:28:00.560
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. But I say that to

0:28:00.600 --> 0:28:04.800
<v Speaker 1>say intimacy. So when you get into a relationship with somebody,

0:28:05.520 --> 0:28:09.359
<v Speaker 1>there are so many more intimate moments, intimacy being closeness,

0:28:09.400 --> 0:28:11.680
<v Speaker 1>Like like a level of closeness you share with this

0:28:11.720 --> 0:28:15.560
<v Speaker 1>person doesn't have to always be sex. But so so

0:28:15.640 --> 0:28:18.919
<v Speaker 1>when you're in a situation with somebody who's intimate with

0:28:19.040 --> 0:28:23.320
<v Speaker 1>you consistently and then it stops, it don't always mean

0:28:23.359 --> 0:28:25.800
<v Speaker 1>a man is cheating, like it means also that he

0:28:25.880 --> 0:28:28.960
<v Speaker 1>you're supplying you. Guys are have an intimate prom example, right,

0:28:29.000 --> 0:28:33.000
<v Speaker 1>I add, for every man in this room, men they

0:28:33.160 --> 0:28:37.359
<v Speaker 1>land up watching TV with no woman he don't like you,

0:28:37.400 --> 0:28:40.760
<v Speaker 1>Remember this, This is how serious this. I'm not laying

0:28:40.800 --> 0:28:43.400
<v Speaker 1>up watching no movie with you if I don't like you.

0:28:45.120 --> 0:28:50.360
<v Speaker 1>That's an intimate time. I'm not doing nothing that will

0:28:50.400 --> 0:28:54.120
<v Speaker 1>get us closer outside of sex if I don't like you.

0:28:55.480 --> 0:28:58.080
<v Speaker 1>So think about the guys who just knocked you down

0:28:58.600 --> 0:29:01.400
<v Speaker 1>versus the guys that got close to you. The ones

0:29:01.440 --> 0:29:03.760
<v Speaker 1>that just knock you down, they weren't trying to get

0:29:03.760 --> 0:29:09.040
<v Speaker 1>close to you, but the one who actually did things

0:29:09.080 --> 0:29:12.480
<v Speaker 1>that provided closeness watching TVs with you, ask you questions

0:29:12.520 --> 0:29:16.480
<v Speaker 1>about your kids, your family. That person wants to just say, well,

0:29:16.720 --> 0:29:19.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna have to probably sit through this movie to

0:29:19.120 --> 0:29:21.760
<v Speaker 1>have sex for this woman. Nobody's gonna sit through the

0:29:21.800 --> 0:29:28.560
<v Speaker 1>movie like no man is just I'll say this much.

0:29:28.640 --> 0:29:32.200
<v Speaker 1>If I come through and you want to watch a movie,

0:29:32.200 --> 0:29:34.680
<v Speaker 1>and I'm assuming I'm coming through for another reason, and

0:29:34.800 --> 0:29:37.400
<v Speaker 1>you and all that happens is a movie, that is

0:29:37.440 --> 0:29:41.560
<v Speaker 1>certainly the last time you've ever heard from me, exactly. So,

0:29:41.560 --> 0:29:45.200
<v Speaker 1>So what I'm saying is so that person, right, that

0:29:45.280 --> 0:29:48.160
<v Speaker 1>person could you guys could be having a lot more

0:29:48.240 --> 0:29:54.880
<v Speaker 1>intimate moments And and two women's I blame men and

0:29:54.920 --> 0:29:58.320
<v Speaker 1>women for this. But there's a false sense of intimacy

0:29:58.360 --> 0:30:01.719
<v Speaker 1>with sex in two thousand, you know, in our times,

0:30:01.760 --> 0:30:06.600
<v Speaker 1>because everybody just fucking no, nobody trying to get close.

0:30:06.600 --> 0:30:08.720
<v Speaker 1>You're just knocking them down, and that just provides a

0:30:08.800 --> 0:30:13.880
<v Speaker 1>false into intimacy. So then we only connect intimacy with sex.

0:30:14.200 --> 0:30:17.200
<v Speaker 1>But then it's more like land up watching TV with

0:30:17.280 --> 0:30:21.960
<v Speaker 1>your girl, um talking to her, laughing and making a

0:30:22.040 --> 0:30:23.920
<v Speaker 1>joke with her. No, no, no, no, no, that was

0:30:24.000 --> 0:30:30.040
<v Speaker 1>very big. That's what I was about. A dude wanted

0:30:30.080 --> 0:30:33.400
<v Speaker 1>to have a conversation. If I want to hear what

0:30:33.480 --> 0:30:38.959
<v Speaker 1>you have to say, feel me that special. That's big

0:30:39.040 --> 0:30:44.680
<v Speaker 1>because men are if the conquest is the desire, even

0:30:44.800 --> 0:30:47.480
<v Speaker 1>during that time, you'll be able to start telling. You'll

0:30:47.480 --> 0:30:51.000
<v Speaker 1>be able to tell because they're gonna focus on the conquest,

0:30:51.040 --> 0:30:53.920
<v Speaker 1>like let me conquer this. But if if somebody is

0:30:54.000 --> 0:30:58.000
<v Speaker 1>intimate with you consistently feel me, a change is the dynamics.

0:30:58.040 --> 0:30:59.720
<v Speaker 1>But then this goes back to the point I was

0:30:59.720 --> 0:31:02.160
<v Speaker 1>saying as far as women wanting to be in a

0:31:02.200 --> 0:31:06.200
<v Speaker 1>relationship and date, but it's it's a newness that makes

0:31:06.280 --> 0:31:10.680
<v Speaker 1>dating work right, It's just an intrigue. I have no

0:31:10.800 --> 0:31:13.360
<v Speaker 1>idea who this person is. So getting to know this

0:31:13.400 --> 0:31:17.120
<v Speaker 1>person is what the dating process is all about. Once

0:31:17.160 --> 0:31:19.880
<v Speaker 1>you have a good idea of who this person is,

0:31:20.640 --> 0:31:23.680
<v Speaker 1>why the hell, why the funk are you dating? And

0:31:23.760 --> 0:31:27.120
<v Speaker 1>y'all don't put those two together because that was never

0:31:27.160 --> 0:31:28.880
<v Speaker 1>why you were dating in the first place. You were

0:31:28.960 --> 0:31:31.640
<v Speaker 1>never dating to get to know the man. You already

0:31:31.640 --> 0:31:35.320
<v Speaker 1>felt like you knew him, and now you're just confirming things.

0:31:35.400 --> 0:31:37.320
<v Speaker 1>That's why you wanted to keep going even once you're

0:31:37.320 --> 0:31:40.120
<v Speaker 1>inner relationship. Yeah, what are you talking about, like going

0:31:40.160 --> 0:31:43.560
<v Speaker 1>out going on dates? Just a date? Yeah, we should

0:31:43.600 --> 0:31:47.400
<v Speaker 1>go on dates when we're in a relationship. Focus not listen,

0:31:48.040 --> 0:31:50.120
<v Speaker 1>run this by your games because you just got this

0:31:50.160 --> 0:31:54.360
<v Speaker 1>blind and you have a blind desire that don't really

0:31:54.840 --> 0:31:58.920
<v Speaker 1>make sense. Men, because it's two people dates, man and

0:31:58.920 --> 0:32:02.040
<v Speaker 1>a woman, so you have to care about one person paying.

0:32:02.760 --> 0:32:15.320
<v Speaker 1>It's seventy five percent because we pay. So we're going

0:32:15.440 --> 0:32:21.480
<v Speaker 1>on a date to get to know you. Okay, So

0:32:21.640 --> 0:32:25.560
<v Speaker 1>once we've decided to go into relationship, we feel as

0:32:25.600 --> 0:32:29.040
<v Speaker 1>if we have an idea of who you are, like

0:32:29.160 --> 0:32:32.720
<v Speaker 1>we know you. So when you're saying we should keep

0:32:32.720 --> 0:32:36.240
<v Speaker 1>going on dates, notice why we're going on dates I'm

0:32:36.320 --> 0:32:39.400
<v Speaker 1>done now, I know you see you see women don't

0:32:39.400 --> 0:32:43.280
<v Speaker 1>get that. Women don't get that. That's a very key component.

0:32:43.640 --> 0:32:45.320
<v Speaker 1>Well that's the so then you don't have to call

0:32:45.360 --> 0:32:47.480
<v Speaker 1>it a day. That's just being intimate. But we're going

0:32:47.560 --> 0:32:50.680
<v Speaker 1>somewhere for sure. Why what do you mean? Why? Because

0:32:51.880 --> 0:32:53.760
<v Speaker 1>because we're not sitting in the house and we're going

0:32:53.800 --> 0:32:56.800
<v Speaker 1>to spend time together, we're going out. Why I can

0:32:56.840 --> 0:33:00.480
<v Speaker 1>spend time in the living room. I want to go out,

0:33:00.560 --> 0:33:05.800
<v Speaker 1>So we're going out. If you ask somebody, you'll get

0:33:05.840 --> 0:33:07.719
<v Speaker 1>the real answer. Because you want to go out. So

0:33:07.800 --> 0:33:10.280
<v Speaker 1>she already if she already answered up, because I want

0:33:10.280 --> 0:33:11.960
<v Speaker 1>to go out? And why do you want to go out?

0:33:12.000 --> 0:33:16.000
<v Speaker 1>She doesn't even know, she doesn't know. Yes, I want

0:33:16.000 --> 0:33:17.560
<v Speaker 1>to go out because I want to spend time with

0:33:17.600 --> 0:33:22.440
<v Speaker 1>you out the house. Why because I like spending time

0:33:22.440 --> 0:33:24.360
<v Speaker 1>with you. But you can spend time with him in

0:33:24.400 --> 0:33:28.640
<v Speaker 1>the house. But that he does. But you don't give

0:33:28.640 --> 0:33:34.840
<v Speaker 1>a funk about that part of you don't give You

0:33:34.920 --> 0:33:37.440
<v Speaker 1>only care about your temper. Your temperacent is more important

0:33:37.440 --> 0:33:42.320
<v Speaker 1>than this fucking ninety and why not? So unless you

0:33:42.400 --> 0:33:44.920
<v Speaker 1>be honestly this is the problem for y'all. You don't

0:33:44.960 --> 0:33:47.720
<v Speaker 1>be honest. And if you be honest, even as bad

0:33:47.760 --> 0:33:49.800
<v Speaker 1>as you feel like you would look as a bully,

0:33:49.960 --> 0:33:51.560
<v Speaker 1>it's okay because you can get to the root of

0:33:51.600 --> 0:33:58.120
<v Speaker 1>why you bullying me in because you are why. You'll

0:33:58.160 --> 0:34:00.800
<v Speaker 1>start realizing you like to go out. Once you realize

0:34:00.800 --> 0:34:02.920
<v Speaker 1>why you like to go out, it will make you

0:34:02.960 --> 0:34:07.640
<v Speaker 1>reassess everything. Because I want to go out? Why because

0:34:07.720 --> 0:34:11.359
<v Speaker 1>I like it? I want to go what a restaurant?

0:34:11.400 --> 0:34:15.759
<v Speaker 1>Some money, spend some of his money. It's not just

0:34:16.040 --> 0:34:18.920
<v Speaker 1>spending his money. It's about going out. It's a different

0:34:19.160 --> 0:34:22.239
<v Speaker 1>it's a different scenery. It's like, okay, we're going on

0:34:22.280 --> 0:34:25.000
<v Speaker 1>a date. Like we're always I don't want to just

0:34:25.120 --> 0:34:28.080
<v Speaker 1>always be in the house, Like why are we doing that?

0:34:28.120 --> 0:34:33.120
<v Speaker 1>We could chance and the scenery is does it speak

0:34:33.200 --> 0:34:39.920
<v Speaker 1>to a lack of common interest, objective goals, projects, whatever?

0:34:40.000 --> 0:34:42.279
<v Speaker 1>That the only way that the two that you and

0:34:42.320 --> 0:34:47.919
<v Speaker 1>whoever can engage is on some little many excursion rather

0:34:47.960 --> 0:34:50.640
<v Speaker 1>than being like, hey, we're home, we've got some time.

0:34:51.640 --> 0:34:53.880
<v Speaker 1>We were trying to look into X, so let's go

0:34:53.960 --> 0:34:56.879
<v Speaker 1>spend some time doing a you know, deep dive into

0:34:56.920 --> 0:34:59.759
<v Speaker 1>our dream to go get us a second vacation house

0:34:59.760 --> 0:35:01.439
<v Speaker 1>and or whatever. It is else what we're doing instead

0:35:01.480 --> 0:35:04.000
<v Speaker 1>of doing that for five hours while you're cooked together

0:35:04.040 --> 0:35:06.120
<v Speaker 1>and explore whatever it is that you have a connection together.

0:35:06.400 --> 0:35:08.000
<v Speaker 1>But you have to go do that because there is

0:35:08.000 --> 0:35:12.480
<v Speaker 1>not that connection together. No, that that is awesome. I

0:35:12.520 --> 0:35:13.919
<v Speaker 1>do want to spend time with you in the house.

0:35:13.960 --> 0:35:15.680
<v Speaker 1>I do want to cook, I do want to explore

0:35:15.920 --> 0:35:19.480
<v Speaker 1>other things outside of the house. But we definitely need

0:35:19.560 --> 0:35:22.400
<v Speaker 1>to go on dates, like we should go focus on

0:35:23.640 --> 0:35:27.759
<v Speaker 1>focus on you're not exploring anything, why you're okay? So

0:35:27.800 --> 0:35:30.120
<v Speaker 1>if I've never been to Jamaica and now we're going

0:35:30.200 --> 0:35:34.719
<v Speaker 1>to Jamaica, now we're gonna go experience Jamaica together. That's

0:35:34.760 --> 0:35:38.560
<v Speaker 1>why what I want to take a girl to Jamaica.

0:35:39.320 --> 0:35:42.720
<v Speaker 1>What do you mean why wouldn't you the Reas because

0:35:42.760 --> 0:35:45.600
<v Speaker 1>it has Jamaican women all over it? Why do you

0:35:45.719 --> 0:35:50.239
<v Speaker 1>vote it so predating? Right? Let's say single, why do

0:35:50.239 --> 0:35:53.759
<v Speaker 1>you go to a club? Because just to tell you

0:35:53.760 --> 0:35:56.439
<v Speaker 1>why you like to go out to dance? You could

0:35:56.480 --> 0:35:59.400
<v Speaker 1>dance at home. That next one better one? Really to

0:35:59.520 --> 0:36:04.640
<v Speaker 1>go to hear music music? Like there we go? You

0:36:04.680 --> 0:36:08.960
<v Speaker 1>know to dress upwhere starting there? So you dress up

0:36:09.200 --> 0:36:12.240
<v Speaker 1>so other people can see you. Now, if you don't

0:36:12.320 --> 0:36:14.239
<v Speaker 1>be honest, which is what the lie you keep trying

0:36:14.239 --> 0:36:16.040
<v Speaker 1>not to say about going I would amend and everything

0:36:16.239 --> 0:36:18.560
<v Speaker 1>we could actually really get them with. That's wrong with

0:36:18.600 --> 0:36:24.879
<v Speaker 1>them say you want everybody to see I want other

0:36:25.000 --> 0:36:29.080
<v Speaker 1>people to see us. That's not it, though, Is it

0:36:29.120 --> 0:36:31.880
<v Speaker 1>not part of it? It's not. No, it's not a

0:36:31.960 --> 0:36:34.880
<v Speaker 1>part of it. It's not part of it. It's not

0:36:34.960 --> 0:36:39.040
<v Speaker 1>wanna dance, but you can dance people. You play music

0:36:39.120 --> 0:36:40.960
<v Speaker 1>at home, you can dance at home. You can get

0:36:41.040 --> 0:36:48.280
<v Speaker 1>dress at home. You can eat that especially a sofa,

0:36:49.040 --> 0:36:53.720
<v Speaker 1>and you can eat at home, eat at home, ship

0:36:53.760 --> 0:36:56.319
<v Speaker 1>that you know you can cook good. We're standing up

0:36:56.320 --> 0:36:58.399
<v Speaker 1>to the food from the place you want to go

0:36:58.719 --> 0:37:01.000
<v Speaker 1>home back home. Well, I mean we've been in the

0:37:01.080 --> 0:37:03.600
<v Speaker 1>whole pandemic, so that's what's been going on. We've been

0:37:03.640 --> 0:37:07.400
<v Speaker 1>getting food and going back. And I'm saying I'm saying before,

0:37:07.560 --> 0:37:10.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying before a virus and the government decided that

0:37:10.440 --> 0:37:13.839
<v Speaker 1>you needed to stay home. I'm asking you, why do

0:37:13.920 --> 0:37:16.680
<v Speaker 1>you like going outside? Because I don't want to stay inside.

0:37:16.920 --> 0:37:19.800
<v Speaker 1>Why not I like going out? Why I want to

0:37:19.840 --> 0:37:21.560
<v Speaker 1>get dressed? I want to be cute. I want you

0:37:21.560 --> 0:37:23.600
<v Speaker 1>can get dress and beat you and go sitting that living.

0:37:24.680 --> 0:37:26.640
<v Speaker 1>You could do that with your men at home. So

0:37:26.760 --> 0:37:31.560
<v Speaker 1>what use I'm entertaining myself? It's entertainment, That's why it's entertainment.

0:37:31.560 --> 0:37:34.640
<v Speaker 1>Why how is it entertaining? That doesn't even make sense.

0:37:34.760 --> 0:37:38.360
<v Speaker 1>It's entertaining that don't even make sense. Who's entertaining you

0:37:40.080 --> 0:37:44.839
<v Speaker 1>when you go? It's entertainments. When we go out, we're

0:37:45.040 --> 0:37:47.920
<v Speaker 1>entertaining each other. Were you can entertain each other at home?

0:37:47.960 --> 0:37:51.640
<v Speaker 1>But we're not at home. I'm asking you why? What

0:37:51.680 --> 0:37:53.919
<v Speaker 1>do you mean? Why because I want to go? Why

0:37:54.000 --> 0:37:56.080
<v Speaker 1>do you want to go? When I want to eat?

0:37:56.120 --> 0:37:58.040
<v Speaker 1>It's because I want to fulfill a hunger. When I

0:37:58.120 --> 0:38:01.560
<v Speaker 1>drink water is to fulfill a thirst. Why do you

0:38:01.920 --> 0:38:07.200
<v Speaker 1>want to go out? Sure, I'm hungry and I want

0:38:07.200 --> 0:38:09.640
<v Speaker 1>to go. You can make food and eat what you're

0:38:09.640 --> 0:38:11.640
<v Speaker 1>man at home. So you're lying and you're avoiding the

0:38:11.719 --> 0:38:15.239
<v Speaker 1>answer on purpose. What is the answer? You don't want

0:38:15.239 --> 0:38:17.840
<v Speaker 1>to tell me, So I'm not gonna my thing is

0:38:17.880 --> 0:38:20.719
<v Speaker 1>because I want to go out to tell me some

0:38:20.760 --> 0:38:22.640
<v Speaker 1>other things? You just want to do, just based off

0:38:22.640 --> 0:38:32.720
<v Speaker 1>why you have no idea? Why you want to do? What? Fiction? What?

0:38:34.360 --> 0:38:38.200
<v Speaker 1>It's a fair question. I'm not asking you anything. Yeah,

0:38:38.239 --> 0:38:41.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm not asking you something crazy. And the only reason

0:38:41.040 --> 0:38:42.960
<v Speaker 1>you're struggling is because you're just you don't want to

0:38:42.960 --> 0:38:45.959
<v Speaker 1>be honest. And I understand what comes with being honest.

0:38:46.120 --> 0:38:48.120
<v Speaker 1>What comes with being honest is a look in the mirror.

0:38:48.160 --> 0:38:51.560
<v Speaker 1>And that's a tough thing. That's a tough thing, but

0:38:51.680 --> 0:38:54.239
<v Speaker 1>you gotta be honest with yourself. The one thing I

0:38:54.280 --> 0:38:58.919
<v Speaker 1>respected about Aisha Curry is she's being honest with herself.

0:38:58.960 --> 0:39:02.560
<v Speaker 1>She's openly that everything that y'all think in y'all brain.

0:39:03.360 --> 0:39:06.359
<v Speaker 1>I do want attention from other men. I do want

0:39:06.440 --> 0:39:09.200
<v Speaker 1>other men to see what my man has. You can't

0:39:09.200 --> 0:39:12.040
<v Speaker 1>say it here. That's what I was gonna ask her,

0:39:12.600 --> 0:39:14.960
<v Speaker 1>But she's not gonna say it because because you know

0:39:15.000 --> 0:39:17.640
<v Speaker 1>how scum baggage it sounds. Yeah, when you go out

0:39:17.680 --> 0:39:21.120
<v Speaker 1>with you, dude, every other dude we see you every day,

0:39:21.840 --> 0:39:24.319
<v Speaker 1>we know what we know you find, and you want

0:39:24.400 --> 0:39:26.920
<v Speaker 1>us to go out there so everybody else can see

0:39:27.239 --> 0:39:32.040
<v Speaker 1>you find because somebody else, that's what it is. You

0:39:32.120 --> 0:39:35.560
<v Speaker 1>got dressed up so so and you probably some of

0:39:35.560 --> 0:39:37.840
<v Speaker 1>these women hope that it makes me feel a certain

0:39:37.840 --> 0:39:41.640
<v Speaker 1>way too, Like, oh, if he feels this, he might

0:39:41.719 --> 0:39:46.759
<v Speaker 1>want me even more. That's a qualifying question. Do you

0:39:46.960 --> 0:39:50.200
<v Speaker 1>care how your man presents himself when the two of

0:39:50.239 --> 0:39:59.360
<v Speaker 1>you go out? Yes, okay, yes, yeah, showing out? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I want them to look good, of course. I mean,

0:40:01.719 --> 0:40:05.880
<v Speaker 1>I mean I think he looks good with whatever. But

0:40:05.880 --> 0:40:09.480
<v Speaker 1>but the rest of the restaurant does not. I don't

0:40:09.480 --> 0:40:11.400
<v Speaker 1>care about the rest of the restaurant. But do you

0:40:11.440 --> 0:40:14.000
<v Speaker 1>think he looks good with whatever? I wouldn't care if

0:40:14.080 --> 0:40:17.680
<v Speaker 1>he like if if he if it was just us

0:40:17.719 --> 0:40:24.400
<v Speaker 1>in the restaurant, it doesn't matter. Like that's you that

0:40:24.440 --> 0:40:29.560
<v Speaker 1>could beat and we do hang out at home something

0:40:29.640 --> 0:40:34.719
<v Speaker 1>that's not that's kind of like, And I'm asking you

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<v Speaker 1>why not? What what's your fear of monotony? What's your

0:40:39.280 --> 0:40:43.320
<v Speaker 1>fear of consistency? Like, what's what's your desire to change

0:40:43.360 --> 0:40:48.160
<v Speaker 1>things up? I don't know. I just like I I

0:40:48.160 --> 0:40:49.759
<v Speaker 1>don't want to do the same thing all the time.

0:40:50.360 --> 0:40:51.680
<v Speaker 1>If you were married, would you let your man have

0:40:51.760 --> 0:40:56.160
<v Speaker 1>three sums? Would you let your man sleep with other women? Like?

0:40:56.239 --> 0:40:58.200
<v Speaker 1>How how much do you want him to be consistent

0:40:58.400 --> 0:41:00.680
<v Speaker 1>when it's to your benefit? Or the things that you

0:41:00.719 --> 0:41:03.800
<v Speaker 1>can control? These an honest questions. I'm not asking nothing crazy,

0:41:03.840 --> 0:41:06.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm not. I'm asking because I feel like I keep

0:41:06.719 --> 0:41:10.480
<v Speaker 1>telling you. I consistently have realized women are bullying men today.

0:41:11.160 --> 0:41:14.800
<v Speaker 1>Men are cowards today. They don't ask the hard questions.

0:41:15.239 --> 0:41:17.799
<v Speaker 1>They don't and you know they don't. You can run

0:41:17.840 --> 0:41:21.200
<v Speaker 1>over a man. And what I'm saying is and you

0:41:21.200 --> 0:41:24.759
<v Speaker 1>know it's true. The one thing about me is I'm

0:41:24.800 --> 0:41:27.120
<v Speaker 1>not gonna black how women say they don't ask questions

0:41:27.120 --> 0:41:29.799
<v Speaker 1>that they don't really answer to a lot of men

0:41:29.880 --> 0:41:33.600
<v Speaker 1>don't either, especially not this. So I know why you

0:41:33.640 --> 0:41:35.560
<v Speaker 1>want to go out? Why do I want to go out?

0:41:35.600 --> 0:41:38.520
<v Speaker 1>That's you. That's for you to answer. You tell me

0:41:38.520 --> 0:41:40.080
<v Speaker 1>why do I want to go out? I'm not gonna

0:41:40.080 --> 0:41:43.600
<v Speaker 1>get into it. You have to answer it. And you

0:41:43.600 --> 0:41:45.160
<v Speaker 1>know you didn't. You didn't say, you just said because

0:41:45.160 --> 0:41:46.640
<v Speaker 1>I want to. I want to go out. I want

0:41:46.640 --> 0:41:52.719
<v Speaker 1>to get dressed because of my walls. Why because it's

0:41:52.800 --> 0:41:56.920
<v Speaker 1>there and I can't. So why not? That's not an answer?

0:41:58.560 --> 0:42:03.239
<v Speaker 1>Why not that you hate you? So I don't. I'm

0:42:03.280 --> 0:42:04.839
<v Speaker 1>just trying to help. I'm just trying to figure out

0:42:04.840 --> 0:42:07.960
<v Speaker 1>where you don't like to. Okay, so why do you? So?

0:42:08.000 --> 0:42:11.359
<v Speaker 1>Why do you go out with your friends? Ask him?

0:42:11.360 --> 0:42:13.560
<v Speaker 1>Why I'll forced to tell the truth. I want to

0:42:13.560 --> 0:42:17.239
<v Speaker 1>be with my niggers. I want to see bitches go

0:42:17.440 --> 0:42:19.600
<v Speaker 1>and spend focus on what he just said. Listen that

0:42:19.719 --> 0:42:22.040
<v Speaker 1>he finish because he taking time to get to the

0:42:22.040 --> 0:42:25.080
<v Speaker 1>real answer. Yeah, we all have the real answer locked

0:42:25.120 --> 0:42:26.719
<v Speaker 1>and loaded, but he's being po I want to see

0:42:26.800 --> 0:42:29.040
<v Speaker 1>him and we respect that. Yeah, I mean yeah, we

0:42:29.040 --> 0:42:33.040
<v Speaker 1>we we we we appreciate him easing into it. He

0:42:33.160 --> 0:42:35.799
<v Speaker 1>just slid into the puss. He gotta get it wet first. Yeah,

0:42:36.480 --> 0:42:40.960
<v Speaker 1>that's the ultimate. But he's gonna give you every answer

0:42:41.800 --> 0:42:44.840
<v Speaker 1>leading into the to the real answer to get every

0:42:44.960 --> 0:42:49.760
<v Speaker 1>last man goes out looking for some to bus bros. Yeah,

0:42:50.280 --> 0:42:53.120
<v Speaker 1>and so that's why y'all don't want your dude going out,

0:42:53.120 --> 0:42:56.480
<v Speaker 1>because you know that like by itself with his own

0:43:00.640 --> 0:43:03.759
<v Speaker 1>and ain't none of us out for nothing different. Ain't

0:43:03.760 --> 0:43:05.480
<v Speaker 1>none of us out to go listen to music or

0:43:05.520 --> 0:43:09.440
<v Speaker 1>fucking dance. None of us there to listen to music,

0:43:09.440 --> 0:43:12.280
<v Speaker 1>to dance or get dressed. There do you receive attention

0:43:12.320 --> 0:43:18.880
<v Speaker 1>from other None of us go out to dance, listen

0:43:18.960 --> 0:43:23.799
<v Speaker 1>to music, or get dressed or drink shitty drinks. So

0:43:23.840 --> 0:43:26.160
<v Speaker 1>the reasons you're saying you go out and the reasons

0:43:26.200 --> 0:43:31.120
<v Speaker 1>we're saying we're going out. There's a fundamental difference if

0:43:31.160 --> 0:43:34.440
<v Speaker 1>you are not taken into account where you're going. If

0:43:34.480 --> 0:43:38.040
<v Speaker 1>you're going swimming, be aware if you're swimming the shark tank.

0:43:39.920 --> 0:43:44.520
<v Speaker 1>So I'm asking you again, why do you like going out?

0:43:44.920 --> 0:43:47.520
<v Speaker 1>And you won't give me the answer because the reality

0:43:47.680 --> 0:43:50.600
<v Speaker 1>is what she likes the feeling a piranhas biting at

0:43:50.640 --> 0:43:53.640
<v Speaker 1>the me even though they can't have it. She likes

0:43:53.719 --> 0:43:55.880
<v Speaker 1>that feeling, and she can't say that going out by

0:43:55.920 --> 0:43:57.800
<v Speaker 1>myself or with my men, you can't even say that.

0:43:58.920 --> 0:44:03.160
<v Speaker 1>You see what I like. What I like and what

0:44:03.320 --> 0:44:05.480
<v Speaker 1>he likes, and what mook like and whats p like

0:44:05.600 --> 0:44:08.000
<v Speaker 1>and what King like is the same in a relationship

0:44:08.120 --> 0:44:10.440
<v Speaker 1>or the relationship. You don't become somebody else different once

0:44:10.560 --> 0:44:13.120
<v Speaker 1>you say you like somebody and y'all sort of relationship.

0:44:13.520 --> 0:44:15.399
<v Speaker 1>Why are you like going out before? It's the same

0:44:15.440 --> 0:44:17.520
<v Speaker 1>reason you're like going out now. So y'all try to

0:44:17.520 --> 0:44:19.959
<v Speaker 1>act like there's two different dimensions. You're going to another realm.

0:44:20.320 --> 0:44:23.640
<v Speaker 1>I know to turn this off, you don't. The reason

0:44:23.719 --> 0:44:25.600
<v Speaker 1>you like going out single is the same reason you're

0:44:25.640 --> 0:44:30.120
<v Speaker 1>like going out in relationships. I want to point and

0:44:30.200 --> 0:44:32.239
<v Speaker 1>be involved in all this ship that's out there. So

0:44:32.320 --> 0:44:35.080
<v Speaker 1>stop front like it's a different person. Women kill me

0:44:35.160 --> 0:44:37.759
<v Speaker 1>with that, y'all kill me when you think you get

0:44:37.800 --> 0:44:39.680
<v Speaker 1>these dudes who busting a lot of brails, you think

0:44:39.719 --> 0:44:42.399
<v Speaker 1>they feel be somebody different, that's who they is. They're

0:44:42.400 --> 0:44:45.480
<v Speaker 1>not doing this by pressure. They like this person. So

0:44:45.600 --> 0:44:49.359
<v Speaker 1>when that person kills himself to be with you, listen

0:44:49.400 --> 0:44:51.719
<v Speaker 1>what he said. When that person is what when he

0:44:51.920 --> 0:44:57.959
<v Speaker 1>kills what he likes, when he kills what he likes,

0:44:58.400 --> 0:45:02.360
<v Speaker 1>killed his own motherfucking person for you, for you, you're serious,

0:45:04.960 --> 0:45:07.800
<v Speaker 1>when he kills who he is, you're saying, this is

0:45:07.800 --> 0:45:10.320
<v Speaker 1>why he liked going out. Ain't no niggative history of

0:45:10.440 --> 0:45:13.840
<v Speaker 1>niggative ever went out to say, I want to hear music.

0:45:14.960 --> 0:45:22.000
<v Speaker 1>Dad's with my friends. Boy, he ever said, he wearing

0:45:22.080 --> 0:45:25.279
<v Speaker 1>everything to make sure he feel to get a girl.

0:45:26.200 --> 0:45:29.200
<v Speaker 1>That's what that best. A man is gonna go because

0:45:29.239 --> 0:45:30.520
<v Speaker 1>it's the homely birthday. He might not want to go

0:45:31.600 --> 0:45:34.759
<v Speaker 1>because it's his birthday and it might be some holes there. Yeah,

0:45:35.120 --> 0:45:38.120
<v Speaker 1>and a man will buy a woman drinks to funk

0:45:38.160 --> 0:45:40.640
<v Speaker 1>up her judgment and increase his odds. Yeah, yeah, I

0:45:40.760 --> 0:45:44.279
<v Speaker 1>need you to make bad decisions and you guys, yeah,

0:45:44.280 --> 0:45:49.399
<v Speaker 1>I'm not paying for better judgment, doesn't mean that. But see,

0:45:49.440 --> 0:45:52.600
<v Speaker 1>this is what you don't understand. Is that cheating? What

0:45:52.760 --> 0:45:55.920
<v Speaker 1>you mean accepting attention from other men when you go out?

0:45:56.080 --> 0:45:59.440
<v Speaker 1>If someone buys a drink, accepting if I take it

0:45:59.520 --> 0:46:02.400
<v Speaker 1>to pau that on a car and then just bounce

0:46:02.480 --> 0:46:04.600
<v Speaker 1>with the car on the deposit, would you say that's ethical?

0:46:08.200 --> 0:46:11.279
<v Speaker 1>Just no, you gotta talk like this. This is what

0:46:11.360 --> 0:46:13.680
<v Speaker 1>they gotta understand because they don't understand it any other way.

0:46:14.080 --> 0:46:16.040
<v Speaker 1>Because any other way she would have had a comeback.

0:46:17.160 --> 0:46:19.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if she's heard the word before. Women

0:46:19.719 --> 0:46:23.160
<v Speaker 1>don't know ethical. Women are the bullies of today's time,

0:46:23.560 --> 0:46:28.640
<v Speaker 1>and we're tired of you guys avoiding. No longer will

0:46:28.719 --> 0:46:31.480
<v Speaker 1>I allow masculinity to be a coward in front of me,

0:46:31.800 --> 0:46:36.400
<v Speaker 1>No longer. If you are not willing to ask your woman,

0:46:36.800 --> 0:46:40.560
<v Speaker 1>why bro you a coward? This guy's like Patrick crip Henry.

0:46:40.760 --> 0:47:01.640
<v Speaker 1>If you not look second, Wow, Look, we know why

0:47:01.760 --> 0:47:05.200
<v Speaker 1>we like to go out, and we'll all tell you openly, proudly.

0:47:05.600 --> 0:47:08.000
<v Speaker 1>You can't tell us. None of us in this room

0:47:08.040 --> 0:47:09.239
<v Speaker 1>said we like to go out because we're just like

0:47:09.280 --> 0:47:11.520
<v Speaker 1>going out. You don't even go out. I used to

0:47:11.600 --> 0:47:15.360
<v Speaker 1>go out for a living for a living, and you

0:47:15.480 --> 0:47:18.200
<v Speaker 1>know why I don't like to go out. You know

0:47:18.320 --> 0:47:20.279
<v Speaker 1>one thing about me that's the honest to god truth.

0:47:20.680 --> 0:47:23.839
<v Speaker 1>I'm not always trying to bustle woman. I don't need

0:47:23.960 --> 0:47:26.360
<v Speaker 1>no more headaches in my life. I never liked the

0:47:26.400 --> 0:47:28.800
<v Speaker 1>headaches that they provide. It ain't never just been simple,

0:47:29.040 --> 0:47:32.400
<v Speaker 1>so always complicated. See, I don't see the joy that

0:47:32.480 --> 0:47:42.239
<v Speaker 1>other men seeing women. Damn are you suggesting that I

0:47:42.320 --> 0:47:46.120
<v Speaker 1>don't see I see a complicated person who's not quite

0:47:46.200 --> 0:47:49.160
<v Speaker 1>sure who they are. And at that point, I'm going

0:47:49.280 --> 0:47:51.800
<v Speaker 1>to have to be okay with joining the journey of

0:47:51.960 --> 0:47:55.759
<v Speaker 1>her finding her. That's how I see it. That means

0:47:55.840 --> 0:47:58.680
<v Speaker 1>I must be willing to hold the flashlight while this

0:47:58.840 --> 0:48:02.000
<v Speaker 1>crazy motherfucker's trying to figure out who she is. That

0:48:02.280 --> 0:48:04.840
<v Speaker 1>is a lot, you know, That's what the relationship is.

0:48:05.080 --> 0:48:10.920
<v Speaker 1>A relationship is a man holding a flashlight with his woman,

0:48:11.120 --> 0:48:13.680
<v Speaker 1>trying to let her figure out who she is. He's

0:48:13.680 --> 0:48:17.920
<v Speaker 1>gonna make me cry at the same time, right at

0:48:17.960 --> 0:48:21.680
<v Speaker 1>the same time we already got our own problems. Wow,

0:48:27.040 --> 0:48:28.479
<v Speaker 1>You're about to make me sputter, tear