Speaker 1: And a man will buy a woman drinks to funk
Speaker 1: up her judgment and increase his odds. Yeah, yeah, I
Speaker 1: need you to make bad decisions. What I'm saying is
Speaker 1: is that we go and get the food. We go,
Speaker 1: we work, We take care of the kids. You've been
Speaker 1: doing that. We cooked the food. So okay, So that's
Speaker 1: why you're over here saying that we want to be
Speaker 1: be bold. No, we don't want to be both. We
Speaker 1: were forced to be both. No, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: that actually was just what being a woman was. Working
Speaker 1: women have always worked. Black women unless you white and
Speaker 1: not even know, black women have works his slavery ended.
Speaker 1: Black women have works in slavery, and slavery ended because
Speaker 1: they ain't never gave black men enough money, feel me
Speaker 1: to do anything outside of that. So this ain't nothing
Speaker 1: new to you. Just somewhere you just decided you want
Speaker 1: to be a man as well. I don't got nothing
Speaker 1: to do with what is what is wanting to be
Speaker 1: a man as well? What is a woman wanting to
Speaker 1: be a man in? What is a woman wanting to
Speaker 1: be like call the shots in the relationship, running the house,
Speaker 1: all that kind of stuff. That's pretty okay. No, but
Speaker 1: we have an audience. Also, it was just a smart
Speaker 1: question question no, because I don't want to I don't
Speaker 1: want to be the man. But I am opinionated as
Speaker 1: far as you're comment where you're like, oh, the bet
Speaker 1: the perfect place to see a woman, or where you
Speaker 1: like to see her as watching the clothes, I was
Speaker 1: just kind of like, Okay, that's the that's where you
Speaker 1: like her the most, Like I want to see the
Speaker 1: natural her. I know, I know, I know, I know.
Speaker 1: Most women in the world are not getting dressed up
Speaker 1: to go to the laundry mat. They're not going to
Speaker 1: throw on lashes to go to the laundry. So he's
Speaker 1: actually talking about the way she's gonna look. So you
Speaker 1: think about something, But this, no, this is what we're
Speaker 1: talking about men and women. See you already was ready
Speaker 1: to defend it and deflect, defend and deflect, and I'm
Speaker 1: talking about some simple ship. I want to see exactly
Speaker 1: who you are because now I see you. Now when
Speaker 1: I engage, I'm engaging because the person the surface is
Speaker 1: already cool for me. The surface is already straight in
Speaker 1: the fucking laundry map. You's know what I'm saying. But
Speaker 1: see you thought I was on some whole other ship.
Speaker 1: You thought you thought she thought I was on something
Speaker 1: not supposed to be washing and doing it. No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I want to see any laundry, Mac, because I know
Speaker 1: you're not You're not you're not You're not getting up.
Speaker 1: You just don't like, you know, dressed up, just chilling.
Speaker 1: I don't mind dressed up, and I don't want to.
Speaker 1: I want to see the normal. I want to see
Speaker 1: what you're gonna do when when nobody's watching, when you
Speaker 1: don't give a fun That's what I want to see
Speaker 1: because that's what's gonna engage, because I already know when
Speaker 1: you get laced up, I might not know what the
Speaker 1: funk you look like when you take all that ship off.
Speaker 1: Who you trying to happen? It's happened in real life
Speaker 1: where I don't even know who the fucking what he is. Literally,
Speaker 1: motherfucker told me in life before, hey man, you know me?
Speaker 1: And I said no, I do I know you? And
Speaker 1: they and then they tell me where are you going
Speaker 1: from this house? This is that? And I was like, oh, ship, yeah,
Speaker 1: you had too much going on that day and I
Speaker 1: was faded, But but now you've got too much going on,
Speaker 1: it's bad news. But mine is that what's wrong with
Speaker 1: liking to see your old lady watch clothes? I mean,
Speaker 1: if that's what turns you on, that's what turns you on.
Speaker 1: But I'm saying that what's wrong with a woman being
Speaker 1: barefoot and pregnant? I mean, is something wrong with a
Speaker 1: man coming home with callis on his hand and pregnant? Okay, great,
Speaker 1: but you know if we don't want to do that,
Speaker 1: then they want to be basketball players, they want to
Speaker 1: be analysis, they want to be mechanics. So is it's
Speaker 1: aligned for both sides? Should should me? Should women be
Speaker 1: justice attracted to niggas that want to do the same,
Speaker 1: that have a right to because it's it's talked about
Speaker 1: for men to not actually like if you don't think
Speaker 1: that's attractive, like me personally, Oprah having money don't mean
Speaker 1: nothing to me, Like I don't. It don't make me
Speaker 1: want her. I don't care a rich woman. That's so
Speaker 1: what who cares? Like? What does that mean? What You're
Speaker 1: gonna buy me something? I'm your I'm your I'm your girl.
Speaker 1: That's how I feel. But what I'm saying to you is,
Speaker 1: if you feel like a man should be attracted to
Speaker 1: a woman because let's say we take away all the
Speaker 1: societal norms and it's pressure. Like if I say, right
Speaker 1: now on this podcast, and I don't like women who
Speaker 1: who think working is everything, I want my woman barefoot
Speaker 1: and pregnant, it would be lashback. But the same lashback
Speaker 1: be to a man of saying I don't want to
Speaker 1: work and I just want to take care of the house.
Speaker 1: What wants to do that? And we you be attracted
Speaker 1: to that man the same way you want me to
Speaker 1: be attracted to you based off of your desires to
Speaker 1: go out and conquer the world right and go out
Speaker 1: and successfully make beings of dollars and you know and
Speaker 1: all that. I don't know what you want to make
Speaker 1: beings of dollars for. I mean, maybe you want to
Speaker 1: take care of your family. Maybe you want to provide
Speaker 1: for your husband. I doubt it, but maybe you do. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm not attracted to a man that wants to sit
Speaker 1: in the house and take care of the kids. There
Speaker 1: are women. There's a lot of niggas at home right
Speaker 1: now that ain't working, that's not doing a motherfucking thing,
Speaker 1: and they still with them. So there's a lot of
Speaker 1: women that's okay with there. That's more in spite of them,
Speaker 1: because of first off, first off, this is no Sillings
Speaker 1: g L. And this small fucker, my nigga, Pete, I got,
Speaker 1: I got toxic masculinity. Just so you know, this ship
Speaker 1: is toxic up in the small is real masculine energy
Speaker 1: going on up in here. Ain't no ain't no compromising,
Speaker 1: no no backbreaking, ain't no buck breaking, none of that.
Speaker 1: My boy moved, moved. And uh, one of the one
Speaker 1: of my favorite women I know, Asian right who the
Speaker 1: Cousins podcast, who kind of made me think about podcasting.
Speaker 1: But she very much is a feminist. And this conversation
Speaker 1: ain't even about that. This really is conversations about cowards.
Speaker 1: That's what I want to talk about. But I feel
Speaker 1: like being brave is standing up to women about how
Speaker 1: y'all constantly keep trying to overdo what the hell y'all
Speaker 1: got going on. Y'all got everything, and that's not true.
Speaker 1: There was no man that's respected that is a housewife.
Speaker 1: You can't tell me one man that is literally a
Speaker 1: centerpiece of society that's a house man. He's respected and
Speaker 1: they show him love. Yet women want to be respected
Speaker 1: for being whatever they think men or like I said,
Speaker 1: if I just told you right now, if you say
Speaker 1: to me, if I say, man, I like my woman
Speaker 1: barefoot and pregnant, I want my old lady barefoot and pregnant,
Speaker 1: I'd be frowned upon. But if a man came on
Speaker 1: the same show and said, man, I'm really good at
Speaker 1: taking care of the house and take care of kids.
Speaker 1: I want to cook for my family every day. You
Speaker 1: go out to make the money. So that same society
Speaker 1: that y'all like don't exist, feel me, will frown on him.
Speaker 1: There's no like glass mop conversation for men like the
Speaker 1: glass ceiling. So I so starting off this, you know,
Speaker 1: conversation is about cowards. I'm standing up to you and women. First,
Speaker 1: your motherfucker's is out of line and you need to
Speaker 1: check yourself. You can't have it all your way. You
Speaker 1: can't be us and yourself every motherfucker to have to
Speaker 1: make a living. You ain't no man just because you
Speaker 1: go out of work. And I'm not no woman just
Speaker 1: because I that the house and clean up. But we can't.
Speaker 1: We gotta stop preaching this equality because you don't want
Speaker 1: no man that's equal to you, and you don't want
Speaker 1: to be equal to no man, So I wish y'all
Speaker 1: stop that. You don't want a man equal to you, Jesus,
Speaker 1: you want to prop him up on the level to
Speaker 1: make him feel like he's stronger and he can go
Speaker 1: out and deal with the presses of the world. You
Speaker 1: don't want no man that's equal to you. What if
Speaker 1: a man walk up on your faith, he tells you
Speaker 1: take your own faith? Are you you got that? I respect?
Speaker 1: I think what got lost in that whole woman's independent push.
Speaker 1: We got lost in that whole independence woman's pushes. You
Speaker 1: were fighting for equal pay for doing the same jobs,
Speaker 1: not to be equal to a man, And that's what
Speaker 1: it became. Or I'm equal to a man. No, you're not.
Speaker 1: Who said who is equal to a man? Or? That's
Speaker 1: the problem. When you use general terms like equality instead
Speaker 1: of focusing on equal pay, you have made these men soft.
Speaker 1: A men's batas. They full of ship. They cowered, they're
Speaker 1: scared of y'all. They won't tell you what they think,
Speaker 1: none of that. They are fearful. Niggas is worried about
Speaker 1: being castled. All of women coming together, Now, I beat
Speaker 1: all the motherfucker's up. You know what Claricia sells too.
Speaker 1: She is a professional boxing with major hands. Congratulations to
Speaker 1: her because she just did something that no fighter and
Speaker 1: the hittory of fighting. As ever, I still beat her up.
Speaker 1: She's a boxer. She's the baddest box of the everlas
Speaker 1: of gloves period me and or woman. Yeah, she cold.
Speaker 1: I tip her up, goddamnit. In a real fight, not
Speaker 1: put the body gloves. She had probably beat the dogs
Speaker 1: out of me. But in a real fight, I maler. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we can grab us all the type of other ship
Speaker 1: we can do, but let me get to the point
Speaker 1: because I got lost bringing back Man, bringing on back Man.
Speaker 1: So I've seen Oh, shout out to King King, back
Speaker 1: in the house, Final was Gone, Happy Birthday, bit dog
Speaker 1: may Ye, Prince Bad, Prince Bagy, failure, I've seen Judas
Speaker 1: in the Messiah. I haven't seen that yet. So it's
Speaker 1: a movie that chronicles um the rise and death of
Speaker 1: of from Chicago, Black Panthers, Chicago. He was a cold brother.
Speaker 1: He was united the streets in the in the movement,
Speaker 1: Panther movement, you know, And it chronicles his rise from
Speaker 1: the eyes of the person who was used to take
Speaker 1: the movement down Okay, you know what I'm saying. Um,
Speaker 1: it was a brother who was uh stealing cars. He
Speaker 1: was acting like he was a Federal agent, going to
Speaker 1: bars and saying that somebody's car was stolen, and he
Speaker 1: would come in and handcuff him and take him out
Speaker 1: and and then get the keys of their car and
Speaker 1: drive off in their car. And he got caught on
Speaker 1: one of the on one of the moves, and uh,
Speaker 1: the Fed used him to infiltrate the Chicago Black Panthers.
Speaker 1: That's how much of a threat Fred Hampton was that
Speaker 1: they used somebody to infiltrate the Chicago Black Panthers because
Speaker 1: they felt he could unite the streets, so they used
Speaker 1: him to infiltrate the Black Panthers. He moved up into
Speaker 1: the ranks, providing all information to you know, get him
Speaker 1: shotting all kind of ships, and he end up poison
Speaker 1: in Fred Hampton and it kind of left him in
Speaker 1: a vulnerable situation to where the police, the Chicago p
Speaker 1: D came in and murdered him and straight murdered them.
Speaker 1: Right like the city end up being civically liable. I mean,
Speaker 1: they shoot the city here for like two million or something.
Speaker 1: So we're close to that. So a nigg of life
Speaker 1: is two millions, right, and George Floyd family just got
Speaker 1: twenty seven. So I think for happing, I think they
Speaker 1: wanted seventy million and something and end up settling for
Speaker 1: a long time. So I wanted to talk about cowards
Speaker 1: like that that brother right there in that situation, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, and like a rat, like like
Speaker 1: like Danny Hernandez, the Rapper, the little mess kid from
Speaker 1: New York, No Rapper, the little snitch. I didn't know
Speaker 1: that was his name, No nyd catch this dude. He's
Speaker 1: he's not nobody that this dude is. But Little Daddy
Speaker 1: told him. What he's doing to the world is he's
Speaker 1: he's parading around like he was brave. And it's like
Speaker 1: so he's telling everybody, Hey, you know this person is
Speaker 1: you know, um, oh, well, you know what was I
Speaker 1: supposed to do? Was I supposed to go down for
Speaker 1: a bunch of people that did me wrong? Right? And
Speaker 1: the problem with Little Danny situation is he wasn't supposed
Speaker 1: to go down for other people, Like he wasn't charged
Speaker 1: for what they did. His charges was for what he did.
Speaker 1: He put hits out on rappers. Um, he did all
Speaker 1: of these things to these people. And when the police said, hey,
Speaker 1: let me take you to jail for your crimes. But
Speaker 1: these people are talking about doing something to you, we
Speaker 1: have charges on them too. So if you want to
Speaker 1: avoid your crimes and those penalties, just tell them you
Speaker 1: can just inform us on their part in the crimes
Speaker 1: that you orchestrated as well. Yeah he did. Real, that's
Speaker 1: coward ship. Okay, your coward, we'll use coward. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It's yeah, it's all good coward ship.
Speaker 1: And and that's my point where people so so there's
Speaker 1: no such thing. It's bravery and absence of fear. So
Speaker 1: like standing up to women in today's time, it's very
Speaker 1: brave because women have enough power today to crush you. Wow. Right,
Speaker 1: it's a movement, me too movement. It's a lot of women,
Speaker 1: a lot of power and women where they could crush you.
Speaker 1: So when I step out and I say what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: I understand that this is a fear Like, Okay, these
Speaker 1: people can come together and blah blah blah, but this
Speaker 1: is crap. One thing that does about being a crimp
Speaker 1: that I'll honestly talk about my experience. It taught me
Speaker 1: how to be okay with things against me. They stacked
Speaker 1: against them, It's okay. So at the same time cripp
Speaker 1: and called me. It taught me courage. Didn't give me
Speaker 1: somebody to call when something went wrong. My first situation
Speaker 1: when I moved to Lakewood and and and the ages
Speaker 1: can't busting that it's a tripping and ship. I called
Speaker 1: my home and like they get your gun to get
Speaker 1: the shooting by driving way over there. So I want
Speaker 1: to thank my hommies for that. Feel me. My mom
Speaker 1: taught me about not snitching. That's courage in the first day,
Speaker 1: Like if you're gonna do a crime, be held accountable
Speaker 1: for your own crimes. But you got to see the
Speaker 1: movie Dog, and it's today when such a time of
Speaker 1: people being a coward, that's like what's in Wow, that's
Speaker 1: what's saying. Point where men are scared to stand up
Speaker 1: to women totally me and won't stand up to women.
Speaker 1: Jesus Christ. I'll never forget. I had a conversation I
Speaker 1: did the breakfast club right and I was talking to
Speaker 1: Angeli Angeli. It was probably the second time it was
Speaker 1: right around the Rey right situation Angie was like glasses.
Speaker 1: I was like, well, I understand how this man and
Speaker 1: this woman could get into a fight because sometime I
Speaker 1: get drunk and it's my fun trying me for me.
Speaker 1: I'll mix her ass up, he said. She said, I
Speaker 1: can't believe you said that. G would you hit the woman?
Speaker 1: I will slap the dog ship out of a woman.
Speaker 1: I believe. I truly ain't had to hit no woman
Speaker 1: because every woman, no, I will slap the dog because
Speaker 1: that's another thing. It's like I think we have mentioned before,
Speaker 1: women live in a universe with no consequences. And that's
Speaker 1: why I wanted you here. That's why I wanted That's
Speaker 1: why I wanted you here really not only to get
Speaker 1: you back into the podcast of Space because you're part
Speaker 1: of my inspiration, but because I wanted you to be
Speaker 1: able to speak for the for the bully, for the
Speaker 1: bullying that women is doing today, because today women are
Speaker 1: truly bullying men. And I wanted to make sure because
Speaker 1: this conversation is about cowards and Mook saying this, are
Speaker 1: you really brave or are you at this point now
Speaker 1: where they're like women as a movement, Are you at
Speaker 1: a point knowing that nobody can do anything to you
Speaker 1: no matter what you do. Like right now, if a
Speaker 1: woman is punching a man to the ground, beat him up,
Speaker 1: if he hits her one time and she knocks her down,
Speaker 1: people are gonna be mad at that man. So tell
Speaker 1: her move. What you said about women, Well, I said
Speaker 1: a lot of ship about him. But uh, I'll just
Speaker 1: go on the accountability ship. You know, at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, these bitches is moving around this motherfucking
Speaker 1: country in the world and not having to be accountable
Speaker 1: for the ship they do. They get to they move
Speaker 1: riverdently like kids. They kind of like kids. They just
Speaker 1: get to do whatever they whatever the funk they want. Uh,
Speaker 1: nobody has to Nobody reprimands them for the ship they do.
Speaker 1: And at the end of the day, that's really illegal.
Speaker 1: In my brain, it is illegal. It shouldn't happen. So
Speaker 1: what I what I would like to know? Go ahead
Speaker 1: before you say that, though, Do you really believe that
Speaker 1: women don't have any sense of accountability at this point?
Speaker 1: I don't believe that. No. Oh yeah, I need to here.
Speaker 1: What is okay? When is it okay for a man
Speaker 1: to hit a woman? Okay, So I have a son
Speaker 1: and I definitely don't think that men should hit when
Speaker 1: stop right there, stop right there. I didn't ask you
Speaker 1: shouldn't man be able to hit women? I ask you,
Speaker 1: when is it okay? When can a man? When is
Speaker 1: it okay for a man to hit a woman? M okay?
Speaker 1: So I think that if a woman is hitting on
Speaker 1: a man, I think that she needs to understand that
Speaker 1: you're trying to talk around this one. Don't do that.
Speaker 1: It's a question because as an interviewer, Yeah, because we're
Speaker 1: going to stay focused. Well, we're not gonna do is.
Speaker 1: We're not gonna politic out of this. You're not gonna
Speaker 1: Joe Biden me, not gonna money back Joe me. You
Speaker 1: feel you're not gonna Donald Trump me. It's always you're
Speaker 1: not going to do any of that. So when I
Speaker 1: asked you a question, because this goes to the sense
Speaker 1: of accountability, when is it okay for a man to
Speaker 1: hit a woman? And if you think there's never a
Speaker 1: reason to say, there is never a reason. I think
Speaker 1: if a woman hits a man, I think that it's
Speaker 1: okay for a man to hit a woman. That's the
Speaker 1: first time in life I've ever heard that. It took
Speaker 1: a lot of that means. So I didn't take a
Speaker 1: lot of thought. It was just like, Okay, I don't
Speaker 1: I feel like men are stronger, and I mean that
Speaker 1: we're different, We're not. Let me ask us a couple
Speaker 1: of too little, small, nuanced follow ups. Do you think,
Speaker 1: I don't know how well? Have you ever hit a man?
Speaker 1: I have? Did you do so because you thought that
Speaker 1: on sheer force of collision that you were going to
Speaker 1: come out on top, or because you thought that you
Speaker 1: were not going to be hit back? I swung on
Speaker 1: him out of pure frustration. That's a subconscious thing. It
Speaker 1: was just that's something that I think women can't even describe.
Speaker 1: I think subconsciously, she believed, since she was taught since
Speaker 1: a little kid that men don't hit women back, that
Speaker 1: she can hit a man. She was not never it exactly.
Speaker 1: So she wasn't going to get hit back. She wasn't
Speaker 1: going to get hit back, which speaks to which speaks
Speaker 1: to you didn't think you're to hit back, because there's
Speaker 1: not a scenario in the world, no matter how emotional
Speaker 1: I get, where I would go up and hit a
Speaker 1: man without assuming there are is going to be more
Speaker 1: than simply man. At that time, I'm not thinking about
Speaker 1: if he's going to hit me back, because you don't
Speaker 1: think it's going to happen. No, because I'm just like,
Speaker 1: I'm pissed, and so I'm I'm ready if if at
Speaker 1: that point when I was at that point when I
Speaker 1: hit him, I was ready to just fuck it, take
Speaker 1: me out, let's do we gotta do? Like, that's that's
Speaker 1: what I was thinking. I don't even want to know
Speaker 1: what you're thinking, like, he's not gonna hit me. No,
Speaker 1: I'm preparing, Like what are we doing? Do you prepare
Speaker 1: to get beat up? That's what it sounds like. I
Speaker 1: know I'm gonna lose. Yeah, I'm frustrated. That was That
Speaker 1: was the whole in my head. I'm like, yeah, you
Speaker 1: don't even know what. You don't even want to know what.
Speaker 1: That's all I wanted. That was that last part. I
Speaker 1: kind of figured like if I wanted crazy enough, he
Speaker 1: was gonna be like, you know what you actually wanted it.
Speaker 1: If I attacked Muke, I would not expect him to
Speaker 1: not rough me up that much. I would expect it
Speaker 1: to be the best man wins, and this might go
Speaker 1: for a very long time until I don't know how
Speaker 1: to go he might kill me. He might kill me.
Speaker 1: I just don't know. It was at that point where
Speaker 1: it was like, you know what, I'm gonna just I'm
Speaker 1: gonna just um take my chances. Fuck it, Like, what
Speaker 1: chances did you have? Have you ever want to fight
Speaker 1: with a guy? No? So what chances did you have?
Speaker 1: I mean a chance that he ain't gonna you know, oh,
Speaker 1: that he may not hit you, not that he won't
Speaker 1: hit because I know you didn't think for yourself you
Speaker 1: had a chance to win the fight. I wasn't even
Speaker 1: thinking about winning the fight. That's a universe with no consequences.
Speaker 1: That's a verse because it's not like you weren't thinking
Speaker 1: about winning. You weren't thinking about losing. You know why
Speaker 1: you never robbed the bank because you don't want to
Speaker 1: go to jail. You know, you know that ship is
Speaker 1: bullying to man. You provoked me, and I can't do
Speaker 1: ship to you. And then I go past that threshold
Speaker 1: where I'm not thinking because you did something to me,
Speaker 1: you might call the police on me because women doing that.
Speaker 1: You're gonna do that, you know what I mean? You
Speaker 1: might want to call your brother. You You're gonna put
Speaker 1: me in a position where I'm going way further than
Speaker 1: I wanted to go because, like he said, I can
Speaker 1: look at any man in here. It's like, yo, it's
Speaker 1: gonna be a problem if I do this. But me
Speaker 1: hitting you was going for the further than what I
Speaker 1: wanted to do. But you kept provoking, you kept doing
Speaker 1: the things that was like at this point, I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: you need to walk away like he he needs. So
Speaker 1: this is the bullying woman the man. But the man
Speaker 1: always have to make the right decision in these situations.
Speaker 1: So we can't be emotional. Man, you can be emotional
Speaker 1: towards me, and I still have to be like, but
Speaker 1: if I'm telling you to leave, so no, it's not
Speaker 1: just ill. So I gotta do what you're telling. No
Speaker 1: matter what the situation, it always come back to being
Speaker 1: a man's fault, even if I cheated on you, Right,
Speaker 1: you have an option to leave, You have an option
Speaker 1: not to yell or throw some ship at me. You
Speaker 1: have all these options. So you make an emotional decision
Speaker 1: that it's gonna lead me to no matter what idea room.
Speaker 1: Now I'm defending myself. Now I'm in a position where
Speaker 1: all these other things are gonna happen that did really
Speaker 1: need to happen. And that's what we're talking about, the
Speaker 1: bullying because you know that you know that if my
Speaker 1: big guys grabs you, it does anything. You've shifted the
Speaker 1: power to our knew the cheating't was gonna hurt me,
Speaker 1: So leave me, leave me, okay. But in the interim
Speaker 1: of that argument, I mean, what's going on, m is
Speaker 1: going on? What is the argument happening? For the argument happen?
Speaker 1: Are you arguing at that point? So I gave her
Speaker 1: the right to do everything that was doing because she
Speaker 1: figured out she wasn't a special upset and she has
Speaker 1: to defend her own fucking honor at the point at
Speaker 1: the fact that she has she in her brain she
Speaker 1: has wasted her time with a nigga that have shown
Speaker 1: her that she wasn't especial as the funk she thought
Speaker 1: she was. So now since I've done all this, I
Speaker 1: have to trip because if I don't trip, something's wrong
Speaker 1: with me. And you know, see that's the difference with me.
Speaker 1: The problem that I get is they tell me that
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck because I don't. You want
Speaker 1: to go and do what you need to do, by
Speaker 1: good bye. That that situation where where I swung it
Speaker 1: didn't have anything to do with cheating or anything like that,
Speaker 1: exactly saying you don't give a bull. We got we
Speaker 1: gotta know something. What happened? Why did you? Why did
Speaker 1: you start a fight with somebody you know that couldn't
Speaker 1: fight you back? Why were you being a bully? So?
Speaker 1: Um this had to do it was I was sexually frustrated.
Speaker 1: Um hm, I was sexually frustrated. So let me get
Speaker 1: this right to me. Just it wasn't It wasn't during
Speaker 1: like during intersext. What happened was is that it was
Speaker 1: some type of connection. It was off like we weren't
Speaker 1: having sex. We weren't having sex. There was just like
Speaker 1: a disconnected Yeah it's a mother. That's not true. That's
Speaker 1: not true. I think that I realized about all of
Speaker 1: that is when you first start having sex, right outside
Speaker 1: of the concept of procreation, it's really for men, I
Speaker 1: think it's more of a conquest of like I conquered you,
Speaker 1: and for women it's a it's a sense of intimacy
Speaker 1: because I think women crave intimacy and I think men,
Speaker 1: you know, we we crave conquests, right, which is to
Speaker 1: conquer but when you already you can't reconquer something that
Speaker 1: you conquered daily, right if that makes sense. So, like
Speaker 1: I think that's what it is, right, So I think
Speaker 1: for y'all, it's intimacy. So what happens is the girl
Speaker 1: with different colored hair. That's what they'd be thinking. They
Speaker 1: tell you that too. They'd be like, I could be
Speaker 1: another woman, if you want another woman, I could be
Speaker 1: whoever you want to be. No, you kick because that
Speaker 1: thing is the same thing, and it was never about
Speaker 1: the thing though you feel me like it's more to it,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But I say that to
Speaker 1: say intimacy. So when you get into a relationship with somebody,
Speaker 1: there are so many more intimate moments, intimacy being closeness,
Speaker 1: Like like a level of closeness you share with this
Speaker 1: person doesn't have to always be sex. But so so
Speaker 1: when you're in a situation with somebody who's intimate with
Speaker 1: you consistently and then it stops, it don't always mean
Speaker 1: a man is cheating, like it means also that he
Speaker 1: you're supplying you. Guys are have an intimate prom example, right,
Speaker 1: I add, for every man in this room, men they
Speaker 1: land up watching TV with no woman he don't like you,
Speaker 1: Remember this, This is how serious this. I'm not laying
Speaker 1: up watching no movie with you if I don't like you.
Speaker 1: That's an intimate time. I'm not doing nothing that will
Speaker 1: get us closer outside of sex if I don't like you.
Speaker 1: So think about the guys who just knocked you down
Speaker 1: versus the guys that got close to you. The ones
Speaker 1: that just knock you down, they weren't trying to get
Speaker 1: close to you, but the one who actually did things
Speaker 1: that provided closeness watching TVs with you, ask you questions
Speaker 1: about your kids, your family. That person wants to just say, well,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to probably sit through this movie to
Speaker 1: have sex for this woman. Nobody's gonna sit through the
Speaker 1: movie like no man is just I'll say this much.
Speaker 1: If I come through and you want to watch a movie,
Speaker 1: and I'm assuming I'm coming through for another reason, and
Speaker 1: you and all that happens is a movie, that is
Speaker 1: certainly the last time you've ever heard from me, exactly. So,
Speaker 1: So what I'm saying is so that person, right, that
Speaker 1: person could you guys could be having a lot more
Speaker 1: intimate moments And and two women's I blame men and
Speaker 1: women for this. But there's a false sense of intimacy
Speaker 1: with sex in two thousand, you know, in our times,
Speaker 1: because everybody just fucking no, nobody trying to get close.
Speaker 1: You're just knocking them down, and that just provides a
Speaker 1: false into intimacy. So then we only connect intimacy with sex.
Speaker 1: But then it's more like land up watching TV with
Speaker 1: your girl, um talking to her, laughing and making a
Speaker 1: joke with her. No, no, no, no, no, that was
Speaker 1: very big. That's what I was about. A dude wanted
Speaker 1: to have a conversation. If I want to hear what
Speaker 1: you have to say, feel me that special. That's big
Speaker 1: because men are if the conquest is the desire, even
Speaker 1: during that time, you'll be able to start telling. You'll
Speaker 1: be able to tell because they're gonna focus on the conquest,
Speaker 1: like let me conquer this. But if if somebody is
Speaker 1: intimate with you consistently feel me, a change is the dynamics.
Speaker 1: But then this goes back to the point I was
Speaker 1: saying as far as women wanting to be in a
Speaker 1: relationship and date, but it's it's a newness that makes
Speaker 1: dating work right, It's just an intrigue. I have no
Speaker 1: idea who this person is. So getting to know this
Speaker 1: person is what the dating process is all about. Once
Speaker 1: you have a good idea of who this person is,
Speaker 1: why the hell, why the funk are you dating? And
Speaker 1: y'all don't put those two together because that was never
Speaker 1: why you were dating in the first place. You were
Speaker 1: never dating to get to know the man. You already
Speaker 1: felt like you knew him, and now you're just confirming things.
Speaker 1: That's why you wanted to keep going even once you're
Speaker 1: inner relationship. Yeah, what are you talking about, like going
Speaker 1: out going on dates? Just a date? Yeah, we should
Speaker 1: go on dates when we're in a relationship. Focus not listen,
Speaker 1: run this by your games because you just got this
Speaker 1: blind and you have a blind desire that don't really
Speaker 1: make sense. Men, because it's two people dates, man and
Speaker 1: a woman, so you have to care about one person paying.
Speaker 1: It's seventy five percent because we pay. So we're going
Speaker 1: on a date to get to know you. Okay, So
Speaker 1: once we've decided to go into relationship, we feel as
Speaker 1: if we have an idea of who you are, like
Speaker 1: we know you. So when you're saying we should keep
Speaker 1: going on dates, notice why we're going on dates I'm
Speaker 1: done now, I know you see you see women don't
Speaker 1: get that. Women don't get that. That's a very key component.
Speaker 1: Well that's the so then you don't have to call
Speaker 1: it a day. That's just being intimate. But we're going
Speaker 1: somewhere for sure. Why what do you mean? Why? Because
Speaker 1: because we're not sitting in the house and we're going
Speaker 1: to spend time together, we're going out. Why I can
Speaker 1: spend time in the living room. I want to go out,
Speaker 1: So we're going out. If you ask somebody, you'll get
Speaker 1: the real answer. Because you want to go out. So
Speaker 1: she already if she already answered up, because I want
Speaker 1: to go out? And why do you want to go out?
Speaker 1: She doesn't even know, she doesn't know. Yes, I want
Speaker 1: to go out because I want to spend time with
Speaker 1: you out the house. Why because I like spending time
Speaker 1: with you. But you can spend time with him in
Speaker 1: the house. But that he does. But you don't give
Speaker 1: a funk about that part of you don't give You
Speaker 1: only care about your temper. Your temperacent is more important
Speaker 1: than this fucking ninety and why not? So unless you
Speaker 1: be honestly this is the problem for y'all. You don't
Speaker 1: be honest. And if you be honest, even as bad
Speaker 1: as you feel like you would look as a bully,
Speaker 1: it's okay because you can get to the root of
Speaker 1: why you bullying me in because you are why. You'll
Speaker 1: start realizing you like to go out. Once you realize
Speaker 1: why you like to go out, it will make you
Speaker 1: reassess everything. Because I want to go out? Why because
Speaker 1: I like it? I want to go what a restaurant?
Speaker 1: Some money, spend some of his money. It's not just
Speaker 1: spending his money. It's about going out. It's a different
Speaker 1: it's a different scenery. It's like, okay, we're going on
Speaker 1: a date. Like we're always I don't want to just
Speaker 1: always be in the house, Like why are we doing that?
Speaker 1: We could chance and the scenery is does it speak
Speaker 1: to a lack of common interest, objective goals, projects, whatever?
Speaker 1: That the only way that the two that you and
Speaker 1: whoever can engage is on some little many excursion rather
Speaker 1: than being like, hey, we're home, we've got some time.
Speaker 1: We were trying to look into X, so let's go
Speaker 1: spend some time doing a you know, deep dive into
Speaker 1: our dream to go get us a second vacation house
Speaker 1: and or whatever. It is else what we're doing instead
Speaker 1: of doing that for five hours while you're cooked together
Speaker 1: and explore whatever it is that you have a connection together.
Speaker 1: But you have to go do that because there is
Speaker 1: not that connection together. No, that that is awesome. I
Speaker 1: do want to spend time with you in the house.
Speaker 1: I do want to cook, I do want to explore
Speaker 1: other things outside of the house. But we definitely need
Speaker 1: to go on dates, like we should go focus on
Speaker 1: focus on you're not exploring anything, why you're okay? So
Speaker 1: if I've never been to Jamaica and now we're going
Speaker 1: to Jamaica, now we're gonna go experience Jamaica together. That's
Speaker 1: why what I want to take a girl to Jamaica.
Speaker 1: What do you mean why wouldn't you the Reas because
Speaker 1: it has Jamaican women all over it? Why do you
Speaker 1: vote it so predating? Right? Let's say single, why do
Speaker 1: you go to a club? Because just to tell you
Speaker 1: why you like to go out to dance? You could
Speaker 1: dance at home. That next one better one? Really to
Speaker 1: go to hear music music? Like there we go? You
Speaker 1: know to dress upwhere starting there? So you dress up
Speaker 1: so other people can see you. Now, if you don't
Speaker 1: be honest, which is what the lie you keep trying
Speaker 1: not to say about going I would amend and everything
Speaker 1: we could actually really get them with. That's wrong with
Speaker 1: them say you want everybody to see I want other
Speaker 1: people to see us. That's not it, though, Is it
Speaker 1: not part of it? It's not. No, it's not a
Speaker 1: part of it. It's not part of it. It's not
Speaker 1: wanna dance, but you can dance people. You play music
Speaker 1: at home, you can dance at home. You can get
Speaker 1: dress at home. You can eat that especially a sofa,
Speaker 1: and you can eat at home, eat at home, ship
Speaker 1: that you know you can cook good. We're standing up
Speaker 1: to the food from the place you want to go
Speaker 1: home back home. Well, I mean we've been in the
Speaker 1: whole pandemic, so that's what's been going on. We've been
Speaker 1: getting food and going back. And I'm saying I'm saying before,
Speaker 1: I'm saying before a virus and the government decided that
Speaker 1: you needed to stay home. I'm asking you, why do
Speaker 1: you like going outside? Because I don't want to stay inside.
Speaker 1: Why not I like going out? Why I want to
Speaker 1: get dressed? I want to be cute. I want you
Speaker 1: can get dress and beat you and go sitting that living.
Speaker 1: You could do that with your men at home. So
Speaker 1: what use I'm entertaining myself? It's entertainment, That's why it's entertainment.
Speaker 1: Why how is it entertaining? That doesn't even make sense.
Speaker 1: It's entertaining that don't even make sense. Who's entertaining you
Speaker 1: when you go? It's entertainments. When we go out, we're
Speaker 1: entertaining each other. Were you can entertain each other at home?
Speaker 1: But we're not at home. I'm asking you why? What
Speaker 1: do you mean? Why because I want to go? Why
Speaker 1: do you want to go? When I want to eat?
Speaker 1: It's because I want to fulfill a hunger. When I
Speaker 1: drink water is to fulfill a thirst. Why do you
Speaker 1: want to go out? Sure, I'm hungry and I want
Speaker 1: to go. You can make food and eat what you're
Speaker 1: man at home. So you're lying and you're avoiding the
Speaker 1: answer on purpose. What is the answer? You don't want
Speaker 1: to tell me, So I'm not gonna my thing is
Speaker 1: because I want to go out to tell me some
Speaker 1: other things? You just want to do, just based off
Speaker 1: why you have no idea? Why you want to do? What? Fiction? What?
Speaker 1: It's a fair question. I'm not asking you anything. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not asking you something crazy. And the only reason
Speaker 1: you're struggling is because you're just you don't want to
Speaker 1: be honest. And I understand what comes with being honest.
Speaker 1: What comes with being honest is a look in the mirror.
Speaker 1: And that's a tough thing. That's a tough thing, but
Speaker 1: you gotta be honest with yourself. The one thing I
Speaker 1: respected about Aisha Curry is she's being honest with herself.
Speaker 1: She's openly that everything that y'all think in y'all brain.
Speaker 1: I do want attention from other men. I do want
Speaker 1: other men to see what my man has. You can't
Speaker 1: say it here. That's what I was gonna ask her,
Speaker 1: But she's not gonna say it because because you know
Speaker 1: how scum baggage it sounds. Yeah, when you go out
Speaker 1: with you, dude, every other dude we see you every day,
Speaker 1: we know what we know you find, and you want
Speaker 1: us to go out there so everybody else can see
Speaker 1: you find because somebody else, that's what it is. You
Speaker 1: got dressed up so so and you probably some of
Speaker 1: these women hope that it makes me feel a certain
Speaker 1: way too, Like, oh, if he feels this, he might
Speaker 1: want me even more. That's a qualifying question. Do you
Speaker 1: care how your man presents himself when the two of
Speaker 1: you go out? Yes, okay, yes, yeah, showing out? I
Speaker 1: mean I want them to look good, of course. I mean,
Speaker 1: I mean I think he looks good with whatever. But
Speaker 1: but the rest of the restaurant does not. I don't
Speaker 1: care about the rest of the restaurant. But do you
Speaker 1: think he looks good with whatever? I wouldn't care if
Speaker 1: he like if if he if it was just us
Speaker 1: in the restaurant, it doesn't matter. Like that's you that
Speaker 1: could beat and we do hang out at home something
Speaker 1: that's not that's kind of like, And I'm asking you
Speaker 1: why not? What what's your fear of monotony? What's your
Speaker 1: fear of consistency? Like, what's what's your desire to change
Speaker 1: things up? I don't know. I just like I I
Speaker 1: don't want to do the same thing all the time.
Speaker 1: If you were married, would you let your man have
Speaker 1: three sums? Would you let your man sleep with other women? Like?
Speaker 1: How how much do you want him to be consistent
Speaker 1: when it's to your benefit? Or the things that you
Speaker 1: can control? These an honest questions. I'm not asking nothing crazy,
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm asking because I feel like I keep
Speaker 1: telling you. I consistently have realized women are bullying men today.
Speaker 1: Men are cowards today. They don't ask the hard questions.
Speaker 1: They don't and you know they don't. You can run
Speaker 1: over a man. And what I'm saying is and you
Speaker 1: know it's true. The one thing about me is I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna black how women say they don't ask questions
Speaker 1: that they don't really answer to a lot of men
Speaker 1: don't either, especially not this. So I know why you
Speaker 1: want to go out? Why do I want to go out?
Speaker 1: That's you. That's for you to answer. You tell me
Speaker 1: why do I want to go out? I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: get into it. You have to answer it. And you
Speaker 1: know you didn't. You didn't say, you just said because
Speaker 1: I want to. I want to go out. I want
Speaker 1: to get dressed because of my walls. Why because it's
Speaker 1: there and I can't. So why not? That's not an answer?
Speaker 1: Why not that you hate you? So I don't. I'm
Speaker 1: just trying to help. I'm just trying to figure out
Speaker 1: where you don't like to. Okay, so why do you? So?
Speaker 1: Why do you go out with your friends? Ask him?
Speaker 1: Why I'll forced to tell the truth. I want to
Speaker 1: be with my niggers. I want to see bitches go
Speaker 1: and spend focus on what he just said. Listen that
Speaker 1: he finish because he taking time to get to the
Speaker 1: real answer. Yeah, we all have the real answer locked
Speaker 1: and loaded, but he's being po I want to see
Speaker 1: him and we respect that. Yeah, I mean yeah, we
Speaker 1: we we we we appreciate him easing into it. He
Speaker 1: just slid into the puss. He gotta get it wet first. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's the ultimate. But he's gonna give you every answer
Speaker 1: leading into the to the real answer to get every
Speaker 1: last man goes out looking for some to bus bros. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and so that's why y'all don't want your dude going out,
Speaker 1: because you know that like by itself with his own
Speaker 1: and ain't none of us out for nothing different. Ain't
Speaker 1: none of us out to go listen to music or
Speaker 1: fucking dance. None of us there to listen to music,
Speaker 1: to dance or get dressed. There do you receive attention
Speaker 1: from other None of us go out to dance, listen
Speaker 1: to music, or get dressed or drink shitty drinks. So
Speaker 1: the reasons you're saying you go out and the reasons
Speaker 1: we're saying we're going out. There's a fundamental difference if
Speaker 1: you are not taken into account where you're going. If
Speaker 1: you're going swimming, be aware if you're swimming the shark tank.
Speaker 1: So I'm asking you again, why do you like going out?
Speaker 1: And you won't give me the answer because the reality
Speaker 1: is what she likes the feeling a piranhas biting at
Speaker 1: the me even though they can't have it. She likes
Speaker 1: that feeling, and she can't say that going out by
Speaker 1: myself or with my men, you can't even say that.
Speaker 1: You see what I like. What I like and what
Speaker 1: he likes, and what mook like and whats p like
Speaker 1: and what King like is the same in a relationship
Speaker 1: or the relationship. You don't become somebody else different once
Speaker 1: you say you like somebody and y'all sort of relationship.
Speaker 1: Why are you like going out before? It's the same
Speaker 1: reason you're like going out now. So y'all try to
Speaker 1: act like there's two different dimensions. You're going to another realm.
Speaker 1: I know to turn this off, you don't. The reason
Speaker 1: you like going out single is the same reason you're
Speaker 1: like going out in relationships. I want to point and
Speaker 1: be involved in all this ship that's out there. So
Speaker 1: stop front like it's a different person. Women kill me
Speaker 1: with that, y'all kill me when you think you get
Speaker 1: these dudes who busting a lot of brails, you think
Speaker 1: they feel be somebody different, that's who they is. They're
Speaker 1: not doing this by pressure. They like this person. So
Speaker 1: when that person kills himself to be with you, listen
Speaker 1: what he said. When that person is what when he
Speaker 1: kills what he likes, when he kills what he likes,
Speaker 1: killed his own motherfucking person for you, for you, you're serious,
Speaker 1: when he kills who he is, you're saying, this is
Speaker 1: why he liked going out. Ain't no niggative history of
Speaker 1: niggative ever went out to say, I want to hear music.
Speaker 1: Dad's with my friends. Boy, he ever said, he wearing
Speaker 1: everything to make sure he feel to get a girl.
Speaker 1: That's what that best. A man is gonna go because
Speaker 1: it's the homely birthday. He might not want to go
Speaker 1: because it's his birthday and it might be some holes there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and a man will buy a woman drinks to funk
Speaker 1: up her judgment and increase his odds. Yeah, yeah, I
Speaker 1: need you to make bad decisions and you guys, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not paying for better judgment, doesn't mean that. But see,
Speaker 1: this is what you don't understand. Is that cheating? What
Speaker 1: you mean accepting attention from other men when you go out?
Speaker 1: If someone buys a drink, accepting if I take it
Speaker 1: to pau that on a car and then just bounce
Speaker 1: with the car on the deposit, would you say that's ethical?
Speaker 1: Just no, you gotta talk like this. This is what
Speaker 1: they gotta understand because they don't understand it any other way.
Speaker 1: Because any other way she would have had a comeback.
Speaker 1: I don't know if she's heard the word before. Women
Speaker 1: don't know ethical. Women are the bullies of today's time,
Speaker 1: and we're tired of you guys avoiding. No longer will
Speaker 1: I allow masculinity to be a coward in front of me,
Speaker 1: No longer. If you are not willing to ask your woman,
Speaker 1: why bro you a coward? This guy's like Patrick crip Henry.
Speaker 1: If you not look second, Wow, Look, we know why
Speaker 1: we like to go out, and we'll all tell you openly, proudly.
Speaker 1: You can't tell us. None of us in this room
Speaker 1: said we like to go out because we're just like
Speaker 1: going out. You don't even go out. I used to
Speaker 1: go out for a living for a living, and you
Speaker 1: know why I don't like to go out. You know
Speaker 1: one thing about me that's the honest to god truth.
Speaker 1: I'm not always trying to bustle woman. I don't need
Speaker 1: no more headaches in my life. I never liked the
Speaker 1: headaches that they provide. It ain't never just been simple,
Speaker 1: so always complicated. See, I don't see the joy that
Speaker 1: other men seeing women. Damn are you suggesting that I
Speaker 1: don't see I see a complicated person who's not quite
Speaker 1: sure who they are. And at that point, I'm going
Speaker 1: to have to be okay with joining the journey of
Speaker 1: her finding her. That's how I see it. That means
Speaker 1: I must be willing to hold the flashlight while this
Speaker 1: crazy motherfucker's trying to figure out who she is. That
Speaker 1: is a lot, you know, That's what the relationship is.
Speaker 1: A relationship is a man holding a flashlight with his woman,
Speaker 1: trying to let her figure out who she is. He's
Speaker 1: gonna make me cry at the same time, right at
Speaker 1: the same time we already got our own problems. Wow,
Speaker 1: You're about to make me sputter, tear