WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Stress Test

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<v Speaker 1>Second. It can be pretty frustrating when a first date

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't go the way that you planned. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like when you go to the movie theater you find

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<v Speaker 1>the tickets are all sold out. You go to the concert,

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<v Speaker 1>the band forgot their guitar. That you go skydiving, they're

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<v Speaker 1>out of parachutes, but they do have a big bundle

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<v Speaker 1>of those helium party balloons, so you know, you give

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<v Speaker 1>it a go. Yeah, but it's just not working out

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<v Speaker 1>the way that you hope. I don't think they're going

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<v Speaker 1>to be calling us after that skydiving. That's what happened

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<v Speaker 1>to one of our listeners, justin not skydiving, but just

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<v Speaker 1>his date didn't go the way he wanted it too,

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<v Speaker 1>so justin welcome to the show man. Hey, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for having me out there. But you didn't say she

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<v Speaker 1>jumped first. Yeah. Well, we'll get to what you did

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<v Speaker 1>on your date in just a second, but first tell

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<v Speaker 1>us about the person that you were meeting up with. Um, who, what, where,

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<v Speaker 1>when and why? That's a lot Well just who, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess he'll alter know everything. Well, her name was Robin.

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<v Speaker 1>She's beautiful. Yeah, he has these really really sexy green eyes.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like wow, Oh, that's awesome. Brook Brook has

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<v Speaker 1>some sexy green eyes over there, like little lima beans. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>like a like a mountain dew see them glasses? How

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<v Speaker 1>almost compliments into an insult. I get you, I get

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<v Speaker 1>you us green eyed girls where you know we stick together.

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<v Speaker 1>We're rare breeds are yeah, like real green eyes, not

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<v Speaker 1>contacts or anything. You going. Okay, so wait, where did

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<v Speaker 1>you meet her? Where did you meet Robin? We met

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<v Speaker 1>on a dating app and we decided to do like

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<v Speaker 1>a dinner date. Awesome, Okay, was were you feeling a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of pressure going into this because it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>there was a lot of build up. Um a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>but like, I try not to get too nervous because

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like on dates we all just get nervous

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<v Speaker 1>and we're trying to impress the other person, but the

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<v Speaker 1>other person is probably feeling the same. So I just

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<v Speaker 1>tried to mellow out. Equal to go there, have a

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<v Speaker 1>good time, make sure everybody's comfortable. That is a good

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<v Speaker 1>it's good life lesson right there. Yeah, they always say

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<v Speaker 1>be yourself. Yeah, I feel like a lot of times

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<v Speaker 1>if people try too hard, that yeah ruins that. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>So you go to the restaurant for the date. How

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<v Speaker 1>does it go? I ended up getting there a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of minutes early, like, because I really liked this girl,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm always like five ten minutes late, so I

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<v Speaker 1>made sure I was there fifteen minutes early. Nice, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>don't set that precedent you're going to be late the restaurroom.

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<v Speaker 1>But get this. So I'm there about fifteen minutes early,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I get a text that she's running late.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, oh, in there, of course, that's

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<v Speaker 1>how it always wears. Yeah, but you know, like I

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<v Speaker 1>completely understand. So I was like, not a problem. I

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<v Speaker 1>just ordered a drink while I was waiting. I finished

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<v Speaker 1>my drink and by that time she texts me again,

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<v Speaker 1>that's still on the way. Oh my god. That here

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<v Speaker 1>was a while, like I'll tell you, Like, I saw

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<v Speaker 1>another couple come in after I had been there, sit down,

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<v Speaker 1>finish their meal, and leave. I think it had been

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<v Speaker 1>like at least an hour before she got there. But

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<v Speaker 1>she she did show up right, and she stayed in contact.

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<v Speaker 1>She did. She stayed in contact. She showed up. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>people have rough days. I understand, okay, and that can

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<v Speaker 1>be hard though, after you've been waiting like cold for

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<v Speaker 1>like an hour for them, but you I know, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the restaurant staff is like, oh yea, and

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<v Speaker 1>all the other couples around are looking over like getting

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<v Speaker 1>stood up as a server. You know, this guy wants

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<v Speaker 1>to make money off this table, but you can't go

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<v Speaker 1>up and go, hey, when are you gonna just call

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<v Speaker 1>it quits and let me get another table? Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>can't do that. So how did it go when she

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<v Speaker 1>finally did show up to the restaurant. Well, I was

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<v Speaker 1>happy just to like, you know, have somebody there to

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<v Speaker 1>be with me, because I'm clad to be so sad,

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<v Speaker 1>said to her. I'm so sure. I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>like make herself conscious. She's I don't know what kind

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<v Speaker 1>of day she was having. She's finally here. Let's just

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<v Speaker 1>have a good time. That's hard though, Like was she

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<v Speaker 1>super frazzled. She seemed a bit flustered. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if it was because she was late. I didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to like keep digging at it or dig into it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you just want to move forward, move on. And were

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<v Speaker 1>you able to well? I tried, but the vibe was

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<v Speaker 1>just different from before, Like I could tell this is

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<v Speaker 1>not going well and so I was like, hey, why

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<v Speaker 1>don't I get you like a really nice cot fail.

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<v Speaker 1>When they brought it out, she gulped it down like

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<v Speaker 1>a shot. Was really stressed out. Yeah, that's not a

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<v Speaker 1>good look to some people. Bro, speak for yourself, How

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<v Speaker 1>did you feel about it? I don't know. I really

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<v Speaker 1>like her. I feel like she's like the perfect physical

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<v Speaker 1>match for me. And on the text she was so nice,

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<v Speaker 1>fun and playful and charming. She just seemed really distracted,

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<v Speaker 1>like she got food, she didn't even finish her food.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know what was going on. I just

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<v Speaker 1>could tell like, oh boy, this is not how I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted it to go. Okay, So how did you end

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<v Speaker 1>this date with her? So? I asked if she wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to just go for a walk, because I loved walking

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<v Speaker 1>when I'm stressed out and just you know, fair and

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<v Speaker 1>everything that's kind, that's suful. He said that she just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of felt like she has to decompressed today and

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to go home, and I said, that's not a problem.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she give any indication that she wanted to see

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<v Speaker 1>you again or like retry, because if it was me,

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<v Speaker 1>I would feel really apologetic, right, like, like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I ruined this day. I was super late. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>totally distracted. Can you just give me a redo? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't even say sorry when she came in out. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it definitely doesn't sound like you did anything wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like there was something going on with her.

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<v Speaker 1>But let's call her and find out and we'll try

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<v Speaker 1>and get your second day up date. All right, that'd

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<v Speaker 1>be great, all right, man, hold on, Let's take this

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<v Speaker 1>from the woman's perspective. Okay, Like she shows up an

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<v Speaker 1>hour late, she's in a sour mood, she's gulping down cocktails,

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<v Speaker 1>barely eating, hardly even talking to the sweet man sitting

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<v Speaker 1>across the table from her. And after all of that,

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<v Speaker 1>the guy still wants to see her again. That's how

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<v Speaker 1>powerful it is to have a pair of sexy green eyes.

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke wishes that she had a real pair and they

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<v Speaker 1>were hiding behind those giant foreign lenses that you got. Okay, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>my eyes don't work well, but they are green. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, according to photoshop, they are. Look. That's why

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<v Speaker 1>one of my listeners, Justin wants to call Robin after

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<v Speaker 1>he waited an hour at the restaurant for her to

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<v Speaker 1>show up and the date never really even got off

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<v Speaker 1>the ground once she did. But those darned gorgeous asparagus

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<v Speaker 1>green eyes, they just had him wanting one more chance. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like a sexy diesel gas pump. Right, you should say

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<v Speaker 1>like an emerald. That's class. That's what everybody does. What

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think, like, Justin, how would you describe

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<v Speaker 1>those green eyes? I don't know, like magical, little kiwi

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<v Speaker 1>brown on the outside. Yeah, they're exotic. Oh, Justine. The

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<v Speaker 1>thing for me with this girl, she didn't apologize after

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<v Speaker 1>she was so late. That doesn't rub you wrong. It does,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, just taking all the history in the consideration,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought like, maybe she's just something personal happened, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't mind giving it one more shot. Okay, that's

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<v Speaker 1>nice the way you've been describing her. A lot of times,

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<v Speaker 1>really hot girls aren't apologetic. They're used to people waiting

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<v Speaker 1>on them. Are you worried maybe this girl has like

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<v Speaker 1>a ton of options and doesn't really care about you

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<v Speaker 1>that much. Trying to project onto him on a positive

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<v Speaker 1>Let's try one more time so I just need not

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<v Speaker 1>have experience. Let's let Jose sit in the corner and yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we have a lot of theories justin but we're really

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<v Speaker 1>hoping for the best year. I'm gonna dial Robbin's phone

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<v Speaker 1>number right now. We'll see what's going on. You ready, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, just picture those beautiful KeyWe eyes. Here we go,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do this. Hello. Hi, is this Robin? Yeah? Who's hey?

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<v Speaker 1>My name is Jeff work on a morning radio show

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<v Speaker 1>called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Okay, okay, And

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<v Speaker 1>this is Jose Yeah, and that is yeah, thanks Jeff.

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<v Speaker 1>This is weirdness. This is Brooke. It sounds like you're busy, Robin,

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<v Speaker 1>and it is I. That is Alexus. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>she was asking for a roundtable introduction, assualted. And you

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<v Speaker 1>are now part of this thing called Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. Welcome. Okay, what's going on? Did I

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<v Speaker 1>win something or what's up? Possibly? Yeah, Well, we're doing

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<v Speaker 1>a segment called a second date Update. Okay. The way

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<v Speaker 1>that it works is one of our listeners reaches out

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<v Speaker 1>to us and we call the person who they went

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<v Speaker 1>on on a date with and has been ghosting them,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're trying to help him figure out the reason why. So,

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<v Speaker 1>the guy you went out with recently his name's Justin.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Justin. Yeah, yeah, you can just tell him I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not interested anymore. You're not interested, Okay, you're not interested

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<v Speaker 1>in Justin. He sounded like a really nice guy. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I've got my reasons. Okay. Well look that's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you're allowed to choose who you want to date

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<v Speaker 1>and who you don't. But for Justin's sanity, he's trying

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out, like what went wrong because he told

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<v Speaker 1>us it took you a while to show up to

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<v Speaker 1>the restaurant even I mean, yeah I did, and I

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<v Speaker 1>do feel sad about that, Like that seems like it's

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<v Speaker 1>more on you and it's less of what Justin did

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<v Speaker 1>or are we are we wrong about that? No, it's

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<v Speaker 1>totally what he did. Oh. So, like I had some

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<v Speaker 1>stuff to get done and so I was like running late.

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<v Speaker 1>But also like sometimes I do this with guys I

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<v Speaker 1>meet online, just kind of to see how they're going

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<v Speaker 1>to react. Wait, wait, wait, the one hour late thing

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<v Speaker 1>was a test? Is that what you're saying? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I didn't like planet ahead of time, but once

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<v Speaker 1>I started being late, I was like, okay, well, how

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<v Speaker 1>is he going to react to this? You know? And

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<v Speaker 1>dude like sat there for an hour and waited for me. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>what is that a gentleman called patience and kindness and forgiveness. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you were texting him the whole time. You

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<v Speaker 1>kept telling him you were going to be there. You

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<v Speaker 1>were leading them on. It's not like he sat there

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<v Speaker 1>for an hour and hadn't heard from you. I only

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<v Speaker 1>texted him twice and kept saying like I'm heading there,

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<v Speaker 1>and all he had to do he kept many options here, right,

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<v Speaker 1>he could have rescheduled, he could have left, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>something that Toody had a backbone. Right, So you're are

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<v Speaker 1>you seriously saying that you're mad at Justin because he

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<v Speaker 1>waited an hour for you to show up. No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not mad at him. I just he's not the guy

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<v Speaker 1>for me. I'm looking for somebody who's confident, who's going

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<v Speaker 1>to stand up for himself, Like I didn't even say

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry when I got there, and he's too nice. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just kind of pathetic. And it's just like a

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<v Speaker 1>little puppy dog waiting for like his master to show up.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, I like an actual puppy, not a

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<v Speaker 1>man who's a puppy. I Okay, I understand that you

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<v Speaker 1>want somebody who's confident, But to me, it's not that

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't confident, it's just that he was forgiving. Those

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<v Speaker 1>are two separate things, and I think, like God, the

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<v Speaker 1>world needs more of that type of attitude right now

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<v Speaker 1>more than anything. I mean, no spare me. I think

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<v Speaker 1>the world before men who like have a backbone and

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<v Speaker 1>our little explaiting for somebody to show up. Well, Alice,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it takes a lot of backbone, Robin, to

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<v Speaker 1>be on the other line listening to this conversation the

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<v Speaker 1>whole time and not freak out. Yeah, that's the patience

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<v Speaker 1>that takes strength and courage, because Justin's actually been there

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time wanted to talk to you. Is that right, Justin? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>This true with my point? Is my point? Come on,

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<v Speaker 1>mister confidence, let's go show her. Robin. The reason I

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<v Speaker 1>was waiting for you for so long was because you

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<v Speaker 1>were late, you confirmed, and you said you were coming.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to be rude. Yeah, if you want

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<v Speaker 1>a guy who's mean to you, who's route to you, good, look.

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<v Speaker 1>I just hope you guys don't have any kids, because

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<v Speaker 1>all they're going to create is more havoc and monsters

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<v Speaker 1>in the world's mind. I think, now you're just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like lashing out. So no, it's kind of out.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought that that's what you wanted him to do. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted him to be confident and to like stand

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<v Speaker 1>up for himself, but like not just saying stuff to

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<v Speaker 1>piss me off or to look strong. Like. No, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you wanted to be confident without being told to be confident.

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<v Speaker 1>There's like a happy balance. Yeah, it really is, but

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<v Speaker 1>there is some kind of balance mean but not mean nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there any way Justin can win right now? Robin? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, no, it's done. I mean I hope I

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<v Speaker 1>hope that just like teaches him a lesson though, because

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<v Speaker 1>girls really do want a little more confidence. But that's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing. I'm not trying to go out with the girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to find a woman who's matured confidence right there. Honestly, Robin,

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<v Speaker 1>I I never got not confident from Justin this whole

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<v Speaker 1>time we were talking about him. I did, really. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you should hear the way that he talks about your

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<v Speaker 1>green eyes. Honestly, I've looked at Robin's green eyes in

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<v Speaker 1>the flesh and you know. Now I'm starting to think

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<v Speaker 1>maybe they are contact. Oh ye girl, did you hear

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<v Speaker 1>that that was a sick fern on you? Robin Old?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you wow? I mean do we ask this point?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean there's definitely some sort of fiery passion going

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<v Speaker 1>to ask by saying you don't want to send him

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<v Speaker 1>on a date, then she'll say yes, do it? So, Robin,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the time where I'm supposed to ask if

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<v Speaker 1>you would like to go out on another date, but

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<v Speaker 1>we don't want you to go on it. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think he even wants to show up to it. He

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<v Speaker 1>wants to leave you hanging there. That's the type of guy,

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<v Speaker 1>confident person that yees. And if you're willing to show

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<v Speaker 1>up to that, then we'll pay for thanks for the

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<v Speaker 1>reverse psychology. I'm still good. I will find my own date.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's hard, all this testosterone in the room.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really strong. Jeffrey Jose and I screwed up. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what, Robin, he should be the one that asks you,

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<v Speaker 1>as the strong independent man that he is. Go ahead,

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead, justin Hey, Robin, I'd like to officially ask

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<v Speaker 1>you out on a date to a restaurant. That's not

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<v Speaker 1>even open. It's been closed by the health department. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you want some food, point sing Robin. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what the hell is happening here. I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>back in elementary school, like, what's going on? Because you're

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<v Speaker 1>failing again. Yeah, you're creating a monster here. This is

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<v Speaker 1>getting very unsexy. I finally agree with Rob. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>told you you can say what you want. But that's

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<v Speaker 1>another sick burn. Anytime you want, Roster, I'm just saying,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll take you up on that comedy. I just need

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<v Speaker 1>a clown like Robin, you know, and fire me. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>why am I still on this phone call up? You done?

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<v Speaker 1>Not right? I feel like you would have left if

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<v Speaker 1>you really wanted to leave, But you want to stick around.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean the grave. It's funny. Well, he stuck around

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<v Speaker 1>for you, and you're doing the same thing. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know anybody agree. I guess that wasn't really great comparison.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just sick burned myself. Looking Jeffrey in the morning,