Speaker 1: Second. It can be pretty frustrating when a first date
Speaker 1: doesn't go the way that you planned. Yeah. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: Like when you go to the movie theater you find
Speaker 1: the tickets are all sold out. You go to the concert,
Speaker 1: the band forgot their guitar. That you go skydiving, they're
Speaker 1: out of parachutes, but they do have a big bundle
Speaker 1: of those helium party balloons, so you know, you give
Speaker 1: it a go. Yeah, but it's just not working out
Speaker 1: the way that you hope. I don't think they're going
Speaker 1: to be calling us after that skydiving. That's what happened
Speaker 1: to one of our listeners, justin not skydiving, but just
Speaker 1: his date didn't go the way he wanted it too,
Speaker 1: so justin welcome to the show man. Hey, thank you
Speaker 1: for having me out there. But you didn't say she
Speaker 1: jumped first. Yeah. Well, we'll get to what you did
Speaker 1: on your date in just a second, but first tell
Speaker 1: us about the person that you were meeting up with. Um, who, what, where,
Speaker 1: when and why? That's a lot Well just who, I
Speaker 1: guess he'll alter know everything. Well, her name was Robin.
Speaker 1: She's beautiful. Yeah, he has these really really sexy green eyes.
Speaker 1: I mean, like wow, Oh, that's awesome. Brook Brook has
Speaker 1: some sexy green eyes over there, like little lima beans. Oh,
Speaker 1: like a like a mountain dew see them glasses? How
Speaker 1: almost compliments into an insult. I get you, I get
Speaker 1: you us green eyed girls where you know we stick together.
Speaker 1: We're rare breeds are yeah, like real green eyes, not
Speaker 1: contacts or anything. You going. Okay, so wait, where did
Speaker 1: you meet her? Where did you meet Robin? We met
Speaker 1: on a dating app and we decided to do like
Speaker 1: a dinner date. Awesome, Okay, was were you feeling a
Speaker 1: lot of pressure going into this because it sounds like
Speaker 1: there was a lot of build up. Um a little bit,
Speaker 1: but like, I try not to get too nervous because
Speaker 1: I feel like on dates we all just get nervous
Speaker 1: and we're trying to impress the other person, but the
Speaker 1: other person is probably feeling the same. So I just
Speaker 1: tried to mellow out. Equal to go there, have a
Speaker 1: good time, make sure everybody's comfortable. That is a good
Speaker 1: it's good life lesson right there. Yeah, they always say
Speaker 1: be yourself. Yeah, I feel like a lot of times
Speaker 1: if people try too hard, that yeah ruins that. Right.
Speaker 1: So you go to the restaurant for the date. How
Speaker 1: does it go? I ended up getting there a couple
Speaker 1: of minutes early, like, because I really liked this girl,
Speaker 1: and I'm always like five ten minutes late, so I
Speaker 1: made sure I was there fifteen minutes early. Nice, bro,
Speaker 1: don't set that precedent you're going to be late the restaurroom.
Speaker 1: But get this. So I'm there about fifteen minutes early,
Speaker 1: and then I get a text that she's running late.
Speaker 1: So I was like, oh, in there, of course, that's
Speaker 1: how it always wears. Yeah, but you know, like I
Speaker 1: completely understand. So I was like, not a problem. I
Speaker 1: just ordered a drink while I was waiting. I finished
Speaker 1: my drink and by that time she texts me again,
Speaker 1: that's still on the way. Oh my god. That here
Speaker 1: was a while, like I'll tell you, Like, I saw
Speaker 1: another couple come in after I had been there, sit down,
Speaker 1: finish their meal, and leave. I think it had been
Speaker 1: like at least an hour before she got there. But
Speaker 1: she she did show up right, and she stayed in contact.
Speaker 1: She did. She stayed in contact. She showed up. You know,
Speaker 1: people have rough days. I understand, okay, and that can
Speaker 1: be hard though, after you've been waiting like cold for
Speaker 1: like an hour for them, but you I know, but
Speaker 1: you know, the restaurant staff is like, oh yea, and
Speaker 1: all the other couples around are looking over like getting
Speaker 1: stood up as a server. You know, this guy wants
Speaker 1: to make money off this table, but you can't go
Speaker 1: up and go, hey, when are you gonna just call
Speaker 1: it quits and let me get another table? Yeah, you
Speaker 1: can't do that. So how did it go when she
Speaker 1: finally did show up to the restaurant. Well, I was
Speaker 1: happy just to like, you know, have somebody there to
Speaker 1: be with me, because I'm clad to be so sad,
Speaker 1: said to her. I'm so sure. I didn't want to
Speaker 1: like make herself conscious. She's I don't know what kind
Speaker 1: of day she was having. She's finally here. Let's just
Speaker 1: have a good time. That's hard though, Like was she
Speaker 1: super frazzled. She seemed a bit flustered. I don't know
Speaker 1: if it was because she was late. I didn't want
Speaker 1: to like keep digging at it or dig into it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you just want to move forward, move on. And were
Speaker 1: you able to well? I tried, but the vibe was
Speaker 1: just different from before, Like I could tell this is
Speaker 1: not going well and so I was like, hey, why
Speaker 1: don't I get you like a really nice cot fail.
Speaker 1: When they brought it out, she gulped it down like
Speaker 1: a shot. Was really stressed out. Yeah, that's not a
Speaker 1: good look to some people. Bro, speak for yourself, How
Speaker 1: did you feel about it? I don't know. I really
Speaker 1: like her. I feel like she's like the perfect physical
Speaker 1: match for me. And on the text she was so nice,
Speaker 1: fun and playful and charming. She just seemed really distracted,
Speaker 1: like she got food, she didn't even finish her food.
Speaker 1: So I don't know what was going on. I just
Speaker 1: could tell like, oh boy, this is not how I
Speaker 1: wanted it to go. Okay, So how did you end
Speaker 1: this date with her? So? I asked if she wanted
Speaker 1: to just go for a walk, because I loved walking
Speaker 1: when I'm stressed out and just you know, fair and
Speaker 1: everything that's kind, that's suful. He said that she just
Speaker 1: kind of felt like she has to decompressed today and
Speaker 1: wanted to go home, and I said, that's not a problem.
Speaker 1: Did she give any indication that she wanted to see
Speaker 1: you again or like retry, because if it was me,
Speaker 1: I would feel really apologetic, right, like, like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I ruined this day. I was super late. I've been
Speaker 1: totally distracted. Can you just give me a redo? You know,
Speaker 1: she didn't even say sorry when she came in out. Man,
Speaker 1: I mean, it definitely doesn't sound like you did anything wrong.
Speaker 1: It sounds like there was something going on with her.
Speaker 1: But let's call her and find out and we'll try
Speaker 1: and get your second day up date. All right, that'd
Speaker 1: be great, all right, man, hold on, Let's take this
Speaker 1: from the woman's perspective. Okay, Like she shows up an
Speaker 1: hour late, she's in a sour mood, she's gulping down cocktails,
Speaker 1: barely eating, hardly even talking to the sweet man sitting
Speaker 1: across the table from her. And after all of that,
Speaker 1: the guy still wants to see her again. That's how
Speaker 1: powerful it is to have a pair of sexy green eyes.
Speaker 1: Brooke wishes that she had a real pair and they
Speaker 1: were hiding behind those giant foreign lenses that you got. Okay, listen,
Speaker 1: my eyes don't work well, but they are green. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, according to photoshop, they are. Look. That's why
Speaker 1: one of my listeners, Justin wants to call Robin after
Speaker 1: he waited an hour at the restaurant for her to
Speaker 1: show up and the date never really even got off
Speaker 1: the ground once she did. But those darned gorgeous asparagus
Speaker 1: green eyes, they just had him wanting one more chance. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like a sexy diesel gas pump. Right, you should say
Speaker 1: like an emerald. That's class. That's what everybody does. What
Speaker 1: what do you think, like, Justin, how would you describe
Speaker 1: those green eyes? I don't know, like magical, little kiwi
Speaker 1: brown on the outside. Yeah, they're exotic. Oh, Justine. The
Speaker 1: thing for me with this girl, she didn't apologize after
Speaker 1: she was so late. That doesn't rub you wrong. It does,
Speaker 1: but you know, just taking all the history in the consideration,
Speaker 1: I thought like, maybe she's just something personal happened, Like
Speaker 1: I wouldn't mind giving it one more shot. Okay, that's
Speaker 1: nice the way you've been describing her. A lot of times,
Speaker 1: really hot girls aren't apologetic. They're used to people waiting
Speaker 1: on them. Are you worried maybe this girl has like
Speaker 1: a ton of options and doesn't really care about you
Speaker 1: that much. Trying to project onto him on a positive
Speaker 1: Let's try one more time so I just need not
Speaker 1: have experience. Let's let Jose sit in the corner and yeah,
Speaker 1: we have a lot of theories justin but we're really
Speaker 1: hoping for the best year. I'm gonna dial Robbin's phone
Speaker 1: number right now. We'll see what's going on. You ready, Yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, just picture those beautiful KeyWe eyes. Here we go,
Speaker 1: let's do this. Hello. Hi, is this Robin? Yeah? Who's hey?
Speaker 1: My name is Jeff work on a morning radio show
Speaker 1: called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Okay, okay, And
Speaker 1: this is Jose Yeah, and that is yeah, thanks Jeff.
Speaker 1: This is weirdness. This is Brooke. It sounds like you're busy, Robin,
Speaker 1: and it is I. That is Alexus. I don't think
Speaker 1: she was asking for a roundtable introduction, assualted. And you
Speaker 1: are now part of this thing called Brooke and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the Morning. Welcome. Okay, what's going on? Did I
Speaker 1: win something or what's up? Possibly? Yeah, Well, we're doing
Speaker 1: a segment called a second date Update. Okay. The way
Speaker 1: that it works is one of our listeners reaches out
Speaker 1: to us and we call the person who they went
Speaker 1: on on a date with and has been ghosting them,
Speaker 1: and we're trying to help him figure out the reason why. So,
Speaker 1: the guy you went out with recently his name's Justin.
Speaker 1: Oh Justin. Yeah, yeah, you can just tell him I'm
Speaker 1: not interested anymore. You're not interested, Okay, you're not interested
Speaker 1: in Justin. He sounded like a really nice guy. No,
Speaker 1: I mean I've got my reasons. Okay. Well look that's okay,
Speaker 1: Like you're allowed to choose who you want to date
Speaker 1: and who you don't. But for Justin's sanity, he's trying
Speaker 1: to figure out, like what went wrong because he told
Speaker 1: us it took you a while to show up to
Speaker 1: the restaurant even I mean, yeah I did, and I
Speaker 1: do feel sad about that, Like that seems like it's
Speaker 1: more on you and it's less of what Justin did
Speaker 1: or are we are we wrong about that? No, it's
Speaker 1: totally what he did. Oh. So, like I had some
Speaker 1: stuff to get done and so I was like running late.
Speaker 1: But also like sometimes I do this with guys I
Speaker 1: meet online, just kind of to see how they're going
Speaker 1: to react. Wait, wait, wait, the one hour late thing
Speaker 1: was a test? Is that what you're saying? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean I didn't like planet ahead of time, but once
Speaker 1: I started being late, I was like, okay, well, how
Speaker 1: is he going to react to this? You know? And
Speaker 1: dude like sat there for an hour and waited for me. Like,
Speaker 1: what is that a gentleman called patience and kindness and forgiveness. No,
Speaker 1: I mean you were texting him the whole time. You
Speaker 1: kept telling him you were going to be there. You
Speaker 1: were leading them on. It's not like he sat there
Speaker 1: for an hour and hadn't heard from you. I only
Speaker 1: texted him twice and kept saying like I'm heading there,
Speaker 1: and all he had to do he kept many options here, right,
Speaker 1: he could have rescheduled, he could have left, I mean
Speaker 1: something that Toody had a backbone. Right, So you're are
Speaker 1: you seriously saying that you're mad at Justin because he
Speaker 1: waited an hour for you to show up. No, I'm
Speaker 1: not mad at him. I just he's not the guy
Speaker 1: for me. I'm looking for somebody who's confident, who's going
Speaker 1: to stand up for himself, Like I didn't even say
Speaker 1: I'm sorry when I got there, and he's too nice. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's just kind of pathetic. And it's just like a
Speaker 1: little puppy dog waiting for like his master to show up.
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I like an actual puppy, not a
Speaker 1: man who's a puppy. I Okay, I understand that you
Speaker 1: want somebody who's confident, But to me, it's not that
Speaker 1: he wasn't confident, it's just that he was forgiving. Those
Speaker 1: are two separate things, and I think, like God, the
Speaker 1: world needs more of that type of attitude right now
Speaker 1: more than anything. I mean, no spare me. I think
Speaker 1: the world before men who like have a backbone and
Speaker 1: our little explaiting for somebody to show up. Well, Alice,
Speaker 1: I think it takes a lot of backbone, Robin, to
Speaker 1: be on the other line listening to this conversation the
Speaker 1: whole time and not freak out. Yeah, that's the patience
Speaker 1: that takes strength and courage, because Justin's actually been there
Speaker 1: the whole time wanted to talk to you. Is that right, Justin? Yeah?
Speaker 1: This true with my point? Is my point? Come on,
Speaker 1: mister confidence, let's go show her. Robin. The reason I
Speaker 1: was waiting for you for so long was because you
Speaker 1: were late, you confirmed, and you said you were coming.
Speaker 1: I didn't want to be rude. Yeah, if you want
Speaker 1: a guy who's mean to you, who's route to you, good, look.
Speaker 1: I just hope you guys don't have any kids, because
Speaker 1: all they're going to create is more havoc and monsters
Speaker 1: in the world's mind. I think, now you're just kind
Speaker 1: of like lashing out. So no, it's kind of out.
Speaker 1: I thought that that's what you wanted him to do. No,
Speaker 1: I wanted him to be confident and to like stand
Speaker 1: up for himself, but like not just saying stuff to
Speaker 1: piss me off or to look strong. Like. No, okay,
Speaker 1: you wanted to be confident without being told to be confident.
Speaker 1: There's like a happy balance. Yeah, it really is, but
Speaker 1: there is some kind of balance mean but not mean nice.
Speaker 1: Is there any way Justin can win right now? Robin? No,
Speaker 1: I mean, no, it's done. I mean I hope I
Speaker 1: hope that just like teaches him a lesson though, because
Speaker 1: girls really do want a little more confidence. But that's
Speaker 1: the thing. I'm not trying to go out with the girl.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to find a woman who's matured confidence right there. Honestly, Robin,
Speaker 1: I I never got not confident from Justin this whole
Speaker 1: time we were talking about him. I did, really. I mean,
Speaker 1: you should hear the way that he talks about your
Speaker 1: green eyes. Honestly, I've looked at Robin's green eyes in
Speaker 1: the flesh and you know. Now I'm starting to think
Speaker 1: maybe they are contact. Oh ye girl, did you hear
Speaker 1: that that was a sick fern on you? Robin Old?
Speaker 1: Are you wow? I mean do we ask this point?
Speaker 1: I mean there's definitely some sort of fiery passion going
Speaker 1: to ask by saying you don't want to send him
Speaker 1: on a date, then she'll say yes, do it? So, Robin,
Speaker 1: this is the time where I'm supposed to ask if
Speaker 1: you would like to go out on another date, but
Speaker 1: we don't want you to go on it. I don't
Speaker 1: think he even wants to show up to it. He
Speaker 1: wants to leave you hanging there. That's the type of guy,
Speaker 1: confident person that yees. And if you're willing to show
Speaker 1: up to that, then we'll pay for thanks for the
Speaker 1: reverse psychology. I'm still good. I will find my own date.
Speaker 1: I mean it's hard, all this testosterone in the room.
Speaker 1: It's really strong. Jeffrey Jose and I screwed up. You
Speaker 1: know what, Robin, he should be the one that asks you,
Speaker 1: as the strong independent man that he is. Go ahead,
Speaker 1: go ahead, justin Hey, Robin, I'd like to officially ask
Speaker 1: you out on a date to a restaurant. That's not
Speaker 1: even open. It's been closed by the health department. But yeah,
Speaker 1: you want some food, point sing Robin. You know, I
Speaker 1: don't know what the hell is happening here. I'm like
Speaker 1: back in elementary school, like, what's going on? Because you're
Speaker 1: failing again. Yeah, you're creating a monster here. This is
Speaker 1: getting very unsexy. I finally agree with Rob. Thank you
Speaker 1: told you you can say what you want. But that's
Speaker 1: another sick burn. Anytime you want, Roster, I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: I'll take you up on that comedy. I just need
Speaker 1: a clown like Robin, you know, and fire me. Well,
Speaker 1: why am I still on this phone call up? You done?
Speaker 1: Not right? I feel like you would have left if
Speaker 1: you really wanted to leave, But you want to stick around.
Speaker 1: I mean the grave. It's funny. Well, he stuck around
Speaker 1: for you, and you're doing the same thing. I don't
Speaker 1: know anybody agree. I guess that wasn't really great comparison.
Speaker 1: So I just sick burned myself. Looking Jeffrey in the morning,