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Speaker 1: Thanking if you subject. We did it and he's trying

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Speaker 1: to do me. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a thirty two

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Speaker 1: year old married woman and I've got a problem with

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Speaker 1: my district manager. For years, we flirted with each other

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Speaker 1: and it made work fun and interesting. He's married, too,

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Speaker 1: so I never imagined we'd ever fool around, but we did.

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Speaker 1: Here's how it happened. I've been married three years and

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Speaker 1: my husband was being distant and staying out more than

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Speaker 1: he usually does. I asked if he was okay, and

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Speaker 1: he said he was stressed at work, but that he's fine.

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Speaker 1: Right after that, I ran into one of his female

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Speaker 1: friends he went to college with, who I never really

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Speaker 2: She told me that she.

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Speaker 1: Is praying things work out with my husband at work

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Speaker 1: because she's not used to seeing him so depressed. She

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Speaker 1: went on to say that my husband confided in her

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Speaker 1: about an issue with his boss and how he resolved it.

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Speaker 1: I could hardly breathe. I went home and he confessed

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Speaker 1: to confiding in her and having dinner with her a

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Speaker 1: few times to talk. He swore to me that it

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Speaker 1: was nothing major, just two friends talking. I went to

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Speaker 1: work the next day and I lost it. I couldn't

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Speaker 1: stop crying, and my manager came in to check on me.

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Speaker 1: He took me out for coffee and we sat in

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Speaker 1: his car talking. My rap dress had all of my

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Speaker 1: goodies on display, so he reached in and rubbed a

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Speaker 1: few things. He kept on rubbing until I left his

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Speaker 1: car with blurred vision. Now he wants more, and I

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Speaker 1: can't give him more. What my husband did was very wrong,

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Speaker 1: but I honestly do not think my husband would cheat

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Speaker 1: on me. My district manager is using what he knows

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Speaker 1: about my marriage in his favor. He is trying to

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Speaker 1: coerce me into having an affair by saying my husband

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Speaker 1: doesn't my husband doesn't appreciate me, and revenge. Sex always

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Speaker 1: makes a person feel better. Is this man crazy or

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Speaker 1: just being manipulative?

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Speaker 2: Well, you're the.

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Speaker 1: One that's crazy if you do let this man manipulate

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Speaker 1: you into having an affair with him, because that is

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Speaker 1: exactly what he's doing right now. You say, you haven't

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Speaker 1: gone all the way with him, so you can walk

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Speaker 1: away with something of a clear conscience. So please let

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Speaker 1: that go and make sure it goes no further with

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Speaker 1: your boss, Okay, because he's on ready set. He's on

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Speaker 1: ready set right now. All you have to do is

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Speaker 1: give him the go and he's waiting for that. So

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Speaker 1: now your husband, your husband, on the other hand, what

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Speaker 1: is he doing? You say, you honestly don't believe he

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Speaker 1: would cheat on you. So what were the dinners for?

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Speaker 1: If it was just with the friend? Why didn't he

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Speaker 1: tell you? Why did you have to make him confess

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Speaker 1: it to you? And he went out with her, this

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Speaker 1: other woman, not just once or twice, but a few times.

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Speaker 1: And she's a female friend from college that you don't

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Speaker 1: even these are your words click with.

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Speaker 2: This is not adding up.

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Speaker 1: It's not looking good at all, because surely she knows

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Speaker 1: she's not one of your favorite people. Surely she knows that.

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Speaker 1: She still decided, though, to tell you about what happened

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Speaker 1: between her and your husband. That was just messy. Don't

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Speaker 1: you think that was messy? She knew it would throw

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Speaker 1: you into something, and it did. And what does she

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Speaker 1: have to gain from all this? I'm thinking your husband,

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Speaker 1: So you know, I just say, definitely tell your boss

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Speaker 1: it's a no for you, and then turn your attention

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Speaker 1: to the more pressing issue of your husband his job

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Speaker 1: and these dinner dates with this college friend of his.

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Speaker 1: I think there's definitely something going on between them, and

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Speaker 3: Steve, That's not what this letter is about to me.

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Speaker 3: Ah read these letters. See Shirley be really trying to

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Speaker 3: help y'all.

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Speaker 2: You know. And there's a difference between me and Shirley.

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Speaker 3: Because I might try to help you sometimes I might not,

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Speaker 3: but I'm always here for entertainment. And that's the difference

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Speaker 3: between me and Shirley's response.

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Speaker 2: So in the entertainment, I always peel.

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Speaker 3: This onion back to you, tear up. We did it,

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Speaker 3: and he's trying to do it. And this thirty two

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Speaker 3: year old married woman, she's got a problem with her

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Speaker 3: district manager. For years, we flirted with each other and

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Speaker 3: it made work fun and interesting.

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Speaker 2: Right there, that just tells you everything.

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Speaker 3: She went to work flirting with her district manager, and

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Speaker 3: she said because it made it fun and interesting. Her

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Speaker 3: husband didn't know nothing about this. This was her doing.

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Speaker 3: She didn't come in out and tell her husband. You know,

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Speaker 3: I go to work and I have so much fun

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Speaker 3: with my district man. We flirt with each other, and

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Speaker 3: it's just made the years fun and interesting.

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Speaker 2: Keep that in mind, ladies.

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Speaker 3: He's married too, so I never imagine we fool around,

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Speaker 3: but we did.

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Speaker 2: Here's how it happened. I've been married three years now.

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Speaker 3: For them three years, she was still flirting, having fun

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Speaker 3: with the district manager.

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Speaker 2: Keep this in mind now.

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Speaker 3: And I've known my husband being distance, staying out more

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Speaker 3: than he usually does.

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Speaker 2: I asked he was okay.

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Speaker 3: He said he was dress at work true statement will

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Speaker 3: find out later, but that he's fine.

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Speaker 2: Right after that, I ran into one.

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Speaker 3: Of his female friends he went to college, which who

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Speaker 3: I never really clicked with. She told me she is

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Speaker 3: praying things work out with my husband at work because

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Speaker 3: she's not used.

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Speaker 2: To seeing him so depressed. Let's pump your breaks.

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Speaker 3: Whenever a person comes to you saying they're preying for

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Speaker 3: you or your situation. God don't dig at you and

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Speaker 3: pray for you at the same time, and neither do

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Speaker 3: real friends.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, we'll have part two of your response

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Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry letter, we did it and he's trying

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Speaker 1: Right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The

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Speaker 1: subject we did it and he's trying to do me.

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Speaker 3: Well, this thirty two year old woman been flirting with

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Speaker 3: this district manager for years and it's made work fun

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Speaker 3: and interesting. She's married for three years now, but she

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Speaker 3: been doing this without her husband knowing. Okay, didn't notice

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Speaker 3: her husband standing out more than use your answers.

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Speaker 2: Everything fine? He said he was stressed out at work.

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Speaker 2: Then you ran up.

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Speaker 3: Been one of his female college friends who you don't

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Speaker 3: really like, never click with.

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Speaker 2: She told you she's praying everything.

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Speaker 3: Works out for your husband at work because she's never

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Speaker 3: used to seeing him so depressed. A woman comes to

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Speaker 3: you tells you that they praying for you. People always

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Speaker 3: be waaring. People come to you telling me, I'm praying

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Speaker 3: for you in your situation. But then it comes in

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Speaker 2: No you not no you, No, you ain't praying for me.

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Speaker 2: That ain't how prayer works. We ain't friends.

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Speaker 3: And then she went on to say that your husband

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Speaker 3: confided confided in her about an issue with his boss

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Speaker 3: and now and how he resolved it.

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Speaker 2: I could hardly breathe.

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Speaker 3: I went home and he confessed to confiding in her

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Speaker 3: and having dinner with her a few times, a talk.

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Speaker 3: He swore to me that nothing major, just two friends talking.

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Speaker 3: I went to work the next day, and I lost

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Speaker 3: and I couldn't stop crying. Now, wait a minute, ain't

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Speaker 3: you the same woman? You can't believe he confided in her.

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Speaker 3: I bet your husband wouldn't believe that you be with

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Speaker 3: your district manager for years at work and it's been

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Speaker 3: fun and interest this time. See now, all of a

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Speaker 3: sudden he'd had confided in this college girl, and they'd

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Speaker 3: had dinner a couple of times. Now, you can't you

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Speaker 3: crying if he'd have known you was at work flirting

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Speaker 3: with your district manager. See, you can't have your cake

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Speaker 3: and eat it too. You can't do one thing. And

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Speaker 3: then when it happened to you, and now it's all

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Speaker 3: messed up now a whole letter? Is you think your

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Speaker 3: man cheating on you? I couldn't stop crying. And then

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Speaker 3: my manager came in to check on me. He took

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Speaker 3: me out the coffee. We sat in his car talking.

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Speaker 3: Now you at work, now you're thirty two. My rap

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Speaker 3: size of the rap dress that had your goodies on display.

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Speaker 3: And the way you were sitting in the car, you know,

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Speaker 3: how rap dress is fit? They wrapped, they unwrapped, so

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Speaker 3: when you sat in the car, it wasn't wrapped no

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Speaker 3: more because it wasn't enough fabric in the first place.

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Speaker 3: He reached here and he rubbed a few things. He

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Speaker 3: kept on rubbing until I left his car with blurred vision.

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Speaker 3: Now he done rubbed you all between your thighs and

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Speaker 3: all on your cleavage in this rap dress.

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Speaker 2: Till you had blurred vision. Well, what kind of rubbing

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Speaker 3: Woll I bet your husband would have been amazed to

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Speaker 3: find this out. You've been flirting for years. Now you

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Speaker 3: in the car rubbing till you got blurred vision. Oh,

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Speaker 3: I know what he was doing. I know how to

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Speaker 3: rub and win. I know how to induce blurred dishes.

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Speaker 3: I crossed your eyes. Yeah, I hear you sitting in

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Speaker 3: that car cock eye.

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Speaker 2: That's right. I had yall blip in the back of

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Speaker 2: your head. If you let me rub like, I know

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Speaker 2: how to rub. See that.

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Speaker 3: What district managed to we was rubb until you got

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Speaker 3: blurred vision. You don't get blurred vision from somebody running

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Speaker 3: across his hand across your chest. That ain't how you

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Speaker 3: blur your vision. You got to get into one of

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Speaker 3: the creases of him where that rap dress open up

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Speaker 3: at me, and it opened in two parts.

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Speaker 2: It opened up.

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Speaker 3: At the thighs in the rap dress, and it open

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Speaker 3: up in the cleavage at the rap dress. He in

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Speaker 3: say you didn't want to. You said you can't. What

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Speaker 3: till your bleasing, till your vision got blurred, either, But

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Speaker 3: you did. My district managers using what he knows about

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Speaker 3: my marriage and his favor.

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Speaker 2: But you told him.

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Speaker 3: He's trying to coerce me into having an affair by

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Speaker 3: saying my husband doesn't appreciate me, Well, you should ask him,

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Speaker 3: does he appreciate he his wife? Because it's a lot

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Speaker 3: of non appreciative people on in this letter right now.

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Speaker 3: Then he says, and revenge sex always makes a person

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Speaker 3: feel better. Revenge sex, that's the stupid approach, your district manager, dumb.

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Speaker 3: You don't use revenge sex as.

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Speaker 2: The approach to getting yours. You got to, you got to,

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Speaker 2: you got to.

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Speaker 3: You got to make a person feel like you can

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Speaker 3: be there for him. Let's talk about this some more.

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Speaker 3: Let's get somewhere and get in the consolation part. You know,

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Speaker 3: that's the stupid approach. Revenge sex always make a person

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Speaker 3: feel better. That's a dumb approach. He should be more

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Speaker 3: consoling so he could do more rubbing if that's what

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Speaker 3: he wants. Now is this man crazy or just me

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Speaker 3: and manipula? He bote he crazy for using the stupid

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Speaker 3: approach that he used. He was almost home with the

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Speaker 3: goodies with just rubbing. Now he talking about revenge shick

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Speaker 3: and is he being manipulated?

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Speaker 2: Yes? And are you willing yes? Have you been flirting

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Speaker 2: for years? Yes?

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Speaker 3: Have you been in a car with him getting rubbed onto?

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Speaker 3: Your vision got blurred?

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Speaker 2: Yes? Did your husband go to dinner with this woman? Yes?

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Speaker 2: Did he talk about his problems? Yes?

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Speaker 3: Everybody in this letter wrong? And you want us to

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Speaker 3: tell you how wrong your husband is. I think you

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Speaker 3: the wrong person in the letter, and I think you

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Speaker 3: get what you put out.

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Speaker 2: Blame.

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