1 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:04,240 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hour. 2 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:06,439 Speaker 2: I'm Joe and I'm Serena. 3 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:10,160 Speaker 1: And we are so blessed and lucky to be here 4 00:00:10,280 --> 00:00:15,320 Speaker 1: with our good friend, our Reverend mister Wells Adams. Also, 5 00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:19,240 Speaker 1: before Wells you even say hello, he is the bartender 6 00:00:19,360 --> 00:00:22,120 Speaker 1: Bachelor of Paradise. So at the end of the episode 7 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:24,480 Speaker 1: we'll tease a little bit of what is to come 8 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 1: from that, but before we really have to talk about 9 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 1: like one of the biggest moments of all time, our wedding. 10 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:36,479 Speaker 1: So that's I'm just joking. That was horrible. I hate myself. 11 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 12 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:40,880 Speaker 3: Well, I don't know. 13 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:42,920 Speaker 1: I just started to really rambling out there. I don't 14 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:43,560 Speaker 1: know what I was doing. 15 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:46,920 Speaker 3: Hi, Wells, I get you so flustered, Joe, you do 16 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:51,879 Speaker 3: you do? How are you? Guys? It's been it's been 17 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 3: like forty eight hours since I've seen your beautiful faces. 18 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:57,600 Speaker 2: It's been so long. We miss you, truly. 19 00:00:57,320 --> 00:01:01,200 Speaker 3: Struggle guys too. I want to start by saying that, 20 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 3: I mean, I said it on my Instagram, but it's 21 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 3: one of the biggest honors of my life to get 22 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:11,479 Speaker 3: to marry you too. It was such an amazingly beautiful ceremony. 23 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:15,919 Speaker 3: In wedding. The whole weekend was fantastic. The venue was great, 24 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 3: your wedding planners were ridiculously awesome and fun to work with. 25 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:26,920 Speaker 3: Your photographer videographer so great. But really, aside from the 26 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:31,959 Speaker 3: fact that, like Joe is the funniest guy on that altar, 27 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 3: your guys' parents are so stinkin' amazing and cute, and I, 28 00:01:39,640 --> 00:01:42,679 Speaker 3: like Serena, your mom is one of the most beautiful 29 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 3: women I've ever seen in my entire life. Just right 30 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 3: off the bat, your dad, Bill is the best him 31 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 3: and I took so many pictures of the photo booth. 32 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 4: Oh I saw I saw that. I saw one where 33 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 4: you lifted him up or he lifted you up. 34 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 2: I don't know what was happening. 35 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 3: I lifted him up and then his suit jackets started 36 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 3: to slip and I almost dropped your sweet, fragile little father. 37 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 3: And then for everyone out there wondering what Joe's parents 38 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 3: are like, let me just tell you, it's exactly what 39 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 3: you think they are. 40 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:14,240 Speaker 1: That was funny you did say. That was the first 41 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:14,560 Speaker 1: thing you. 42 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:19,399 Speaker 3: Said that too. They are like your dad is. First 43 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 3: of all, if Sarah ever leaves me, she's gonna leave 44 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:25,640 Speaker 3: me for Big Joe. He is like she loves your dad. 45 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:27,839 Speaker 3: They were hanging out. They could not stop hanging out 46 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 3: the entire weekend. Your mom is the sweetest. Anyways, I 47 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 3: just had the most amazing time. Thank you so much 48 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 3: for letting me be a part of it. I feel 49 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 3: truly honored and blessed to just have been there, let 50 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 3: alone to be the officiant. 51 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, you were, Honestly, we talked about it like multiple times. 52 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 1: It's just how wonderful you were and how serious you 53 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 1: took it. 54 00:02:49,240 --> 00:02:52,840 Speaker 4: Which, honestly was a good thing because, as you know 55 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 4: from the conversations the calls we had, Joe and I 56 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:58,640 Speaker 4: weren't taking it probably as seriously as we should have 57 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 4: or giving it as much thought as needed to be 58 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:04,359 Speaker 4: given into the entire ceremony and like what should be 59 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:08,320 Speaker 4: said and done. So it was so wonderful that you 60 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 4: really took the job seriously and we could tell how 61 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 4: much thought and effort and time you put into it, 62 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 4: and it really showed because it just made the ceremony 63 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 4: so much more wonderful than we could have ever imagined. 64 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, for real, I do you need to apologize. I 65 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 3: did screw up one thing and I felt terrible about it. 66 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:28,160 Speaker 3: I forgot to tell everyone to sit down. 67 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:34,359 Speaker 1: I forgot that. In my opinion, when that happened, that 68 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 1: kicked off like the lightness and the like there was 69 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 1: gonna be a little humor. 70 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 4: Yes, we didn't want the ceremony to feel overly like 71 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:47,080 Speaker 4: stuffy or formal. And I feel like that was a good, 72 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 4: like funny mistake that happened, but also like I'm sorry, 73 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 4: like I didn't know you had to tell people to 74 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 4: sit down, did you, Like, were you prepared that they 75 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 4: weren't going to sit down? 76 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 3: And I didn't even think about it. But then when 77 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 3: I when it happened, I was like, oh, yeah, I 78 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 3: think you're supposed to say, like you all may be 79 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 3: seated now, you know. 80 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 4: So for people that don't know, Like I walked down 81 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 4: the aisle, everyone stands up because like the bride's entering. 82 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 4: I get to the end, I'm looking at Joe and Wells, 83 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 4: so I don't even see it, and then I think 84 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 4: we kind of started. And then all of a sudden, 85 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 4: you're like, guys, you guys sit down by the way, 86 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 4: I look over and everyone's still standing. 87 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 3: Well, everyone started to like sit down there, like okay, 88 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:24,159 Speaker 3: he's not gonna tell us we're gonna start doing it. 89 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 3: Then I was like, oh yeah, sit down, sit down, 90 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 3: sit down here, So sorry. 91 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 1: Those those are the those are the best moments in 92 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:32,800 Speaker 1: my opinion though, because and you're you're you do really 93 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:35,839 Speaker 1: well at making fun of yourself. I think like that's 94 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 1: something we both do. We kind of like make fun 95 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 1: of ourselves, and you're just like really funny. So right 96 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 1: when you did that and then everyone laughed, I was 97 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 1: like that that like actually made me feel more calm. 98 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 99 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, because at the end of the day, like something's 100 00:04:49,480 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 4: it's never gonna be perfect, nor did we want it 101 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 4: to be perfect. So it's like the first little like 102 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 4: thing happened and then it's like okay, like it's fine, 103 00:04:57,560 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 4: everything's gonna be fine, you know what I mean, like 104 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 4: relaxes you a little bit. And then you know, the 105 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 4: second imperfect thing happened when Joe kissed me in the 106 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 4: middle of the ceremony, I know. 107 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 3: And like, what I loved about that moment was so 108 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:17,160 Speaker 3: first of all, it happened right after vows uh Serena, 109 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:20,839 Speaker 3: you did yours first, and I remember sensing a moment 110 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:23,920 Speaker 3: that like after yours, I thought that Joe was you 111 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 3: guys were gonna kiss, and I was like ready for it. 112 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:28,240 Speaker 3: I can tell because it was because yours are really 113 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 3: sweet and heartfelt, you know wherea Joe's kind of we're 114 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 3: a little yuck yucky, and then and then turned into 115 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 3: really sweet, and so I was ready for the first time, 116 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:38,880 Speaker 3: and then the second time I was thrown so thrown 117 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:42,040 Speaker 3: away by Joe's joke that I was like completely gone. 118 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 3: And then you guys kiss, and I was like no, no, no, no, no, no. 119 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:51,440 Speaker 3: And then to my favorite thing that happened was Joe saying, 120 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 3: what am I not supposed to do that? Like he's 121 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 3: never been to a wedding before. 122 00:05:59,040 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 2: Well, I was. 123 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:02,040 Speaker 4: In there, and I get it because after you say 124 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 4: your vows, like your instinct is to kiss the person 125 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:08,359 Speaker 4: that has just said all of these really really nice 126 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:12,200 Speaker 4: things to you, aka my husband. But so you're kind 127 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 4: of like, I don't know what to do now, Like 128 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:15,000 Speaker 4: I just kind of like poured my heart out. I 129 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:16,600 Speaker 4: guess I'll just like stand here wait for you to 130 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 4: pour your heat out. And then Joe went and I 131 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:22,680 Speaker 4: literally remember it so clearly, him saying he said, I 132 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:25,160 Speaker 4: love you, baby, and then he stepped forward and just 133 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 4: like came at me and I was just like, all. 134 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:29,839 Speaker 2: Right, sure, I guess we're gonna kiss Sally. I don't 135 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 2: know what's happening. 136 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 1: Were you Were you shocked when I made the walls 137 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 1: joke at the beginning? 138 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:39,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, and so I don't even know if I told 139 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 3: you this afterwards, but uh one, like for everyone listening, 140 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:46,919 Speaker 3: I had like twenty minutes of stand up material that 141 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 3: I thought was gold and Joe in one minute of 142 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 3: talking absolutely kills takes the house down and blows all 143 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:58,360 Speaker 3: of my jokes out of the water, which I love 144 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 3: because I think, I think and know you're so funny 145 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:05,280 Speaker 3: and like I was you told me because you told 146 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 3: me you're like I got a good one and I 147 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 3: was waiting to experience it. I didn't know it was 148 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:14,080 Speaker 3: gonna be right in the beginning of your vows. And 149 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 3: it's so funny because I'm going through the nuts and 150 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:19,080 Speaker 3: bolts of marrying you guys, and I'm thinking, like, Okay, 151 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 3: so the next thing I gotta do is like I 152 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 3: get the rings or whatever it was, and you know, 153 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 3: like making sure I was ready for like the next 154 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 3: thing that I wasn't really really paying attention to. You 155 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 3: like I And at that point too, I was like, okay, 156 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 3: this is now Joe talking to Serena and like I 157 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 3: can kind of get my thoughts back in order. And 158 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:42,280 Speaker 3: if you watch the video, you can see like, I 159 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 3: give you a laugh right when you hit the punchline 160 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 3: and then you see the gears turn in my head. 161 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 4: Yes, second later realize what was said. 162 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 3: Yes, oh so good? 163 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 1: Yeah you literally you literally yeah, I think, oh my god, 164 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 1: it was good because we talked at the welcome party. 165 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:06,160 Speaker 1: Us three were talking and you're like who's gonna go first? 166 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 1: And You're like, who's ever going to bring down the house? 167 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 1: He needs to go second, And I'm like, I think, 168 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 1: I think I got this. 169 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:15,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think yeah. And I knew about the joke. 170 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 4: So if you don't know what joke we're talking about, 171 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 4: it is on Joe's Instagram in a real so you 172 00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:24,200 Speaker 4: can go check it out there. But basically it's a 173 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 4: joke about where I think he's saying something very sweet 174 00:08:27,120 --> 00:08:30,320 Speaker 4: to me and he's actually talking about Wells. But he 175 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:33,679 Speaker 4: had asked me in advance, like, hey, I'm gonna make 176 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 4: this joke. Is this okay? Like let me know what 177 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 4: you think? And I was like I think this is 178 00:08:39,000 --> 00:08:41,400 Speaker 4: hilarious and I think you should definitely do it. But 179 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:44,560 Speaker 4: I'm very glad he asked me because I had just 180 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:46,199 Speaker 4: really poured my heart out in the vows. 181 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 2: And if I'm standing there. 182 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:50,440 Speaker 4: Thinking that he's like saying all this sweet stuff to 183 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 4: me and then turns to Walls and is like, just kidding, Striena, 184 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:55,439 Speaker 4: I'm not talking about you at all. 185 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:58,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, Wells, Well we asked you to do the vows 186 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 1: via text mess which I thought that was going to 187 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:04,439 Speaker 1: get a harder laugh when you said it, because I 188 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 1: thought it was very funny. I just think half half 189 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:10,720 Speaker 1: half my side was like, what, Like, what's the big deal? 190 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 3: That's how you asked people do stuff? What are you 191 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:15,959 Speaker 3: talking about? 192 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 1: Because I had texted for our audience, I texted Wells 193 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:21,679 Speaker 1: if he would officiate. 194 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 2: I think you literally said, hey, will you marry us? 195 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:25,000 Speaker 3: Yeah? 196 00:09:26,480 --> 00:09:28,319 Speaker 1: But now I'm kind of throwing off. What was I talking? Oh? 197 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:32,520 Speaker 1: I wrote that joke that day. Really yeah? 198 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:33,959 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was ready for that, right What? 199 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 1: I don't know? 200 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 3: Did you ask me to marry you guys because of 201 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 3: that joke? Were you not? 202 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 1: I did it? 203 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 2: But I hope, I hope. 204 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 1: That I have a really funny joke, but I need 205 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:49,720 Speaker 1: to see if we will be bored for it. 206 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:53,720 Speaker 3: They know we're already married. But I've got an idea. 207 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:58,320 Speaker 3: Let's have another wedding. I've got this great joke. I 208 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 3: need to find a guy who's got tan skin, got 209 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 3: curly hair, who's got brown eyes, just like my wife 210 00:10:06,160 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 3: to have this payoff. That would be insane. That is 211 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:13,480 Speaker 3: something I would potentially, but that is not what I did. 212 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:25,560 Speaker 1: Okay, so let's talk about So were you How nervous 213 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:27,839 Speaker 1: were you on a scale of I guess on a 214 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:30,680 Speaker 1: scale of one through ten, Yes, you didn't. You didn't 215 00:10:30,720 --> 00:10:31,680 Speaker 1: come across nervous. 216 00:10:31,760 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 2: No you didn't. 217 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. So, like, I don't have a problem with public 218 00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:42,560 Speaker 3: speaking really at all. I kind of enjoy it. But 219 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 3: I had never married anybody before, and so when everyone 220 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 3: found out that it was like my first time doing it, 221 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 3: everyone does the thing where they're like, are you nervous? 222 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:53,680 Speaker 3: Are you nervous? Which is a mean thing to ask 223 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 3: somebody because then it makes you nervous. But I was like, 224 00:10:56,440 --> 00:10:59,560 Speaker 3: and I think that they they want to hear you 225 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:02,080 Speaker 3: say yes, I am nervous, because I think that they're 226 00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 3: trying to put themselves in your shoes and they would 227 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:06,080 Speaker 3: feel that way, and I was like, no, I'm really 228 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:10,200 Speaker 3: not nervous. I'm excited. But also, like the way that 229 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:12,840 Speaker 3: I get around like nerves and anxiety is that if 230 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:16,280 Speaker 3: you feel nerves and anxiety about something, that means it 231 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 3: means something to you, and that's a good thing. So 232 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 3: just got to turn a bad and do it good. 233 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 3: And it's really just not nervous energy, it's excitement. But 234 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:27,079 Speaker 3: so I wasn't nervous at all. And then I walked 235 00:11:27,120 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 3: down the aisle and then Joe walks up, still not nervous. 236 00:11:31,520 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 3: And then when Serena started walking down the aisle, I 237 00:11:36,200 --> 00:11:42,360 Speaker 3: had this flashback to my wedding and I remember being 238 00:11:42,440 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 3: up on the altar with Jesse Teller Ferguson who married us, 239 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 3: and Sarah, and I remember looking around and seeing everyone 240 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:53,760 Speaker 3: and I was like, oh my god, this is the 241 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:55,880 Speaker 3: most important day of my life. Like I had that 242 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:57,800 Speaker 3: thought of like this is a big this is a 243 00:11:57,840 --> 00:12:01,320 Speaker 3: big moment. And then at up there at your wedding, 244 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:05,000 Speaker 3: I was taken back to that moment and then it 245 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:07,000 Speaker 3: all clicked of like, oh my god, this is a 246 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 3: this is a big moment for them. I really can't 247 00:12:10,520 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 3: screw this up. And then I started a little bit 248 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 3: of cold sweats, like, oh no, this is I really 249 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:17,560 Speaker 3: can't screw this, like, do not screw this ship, do 250 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:20,600 Speaker 3: not screw this up. And then like once we got going, 251 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 3: like you know, for anyone who ever wants to get 252 00:12:23,960 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 3: into public speaking, the easiest way to do a relatively 253 00:12:27,280 --> 00:12:29,320 Speaker 3: good job in public speaking is open with a joke, 254 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:31,559 Speaker 3: because then it takes like all the anxiety out of 255 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 3: the air. And so I opened with like two jokes 256 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:35,640 Speaker 3: and we're like, okay, I'm off and running. The only 257 00:12:35,679 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 3: thing that sucked about it was I did have a 258 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:39,960 Speaker 3: long speech, Like you know, it was like twenty minutes 259 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 3: before we got it was eighteen minutes before we got 260 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:45,079 Speaker 3: to vows. I just I was like, I need some water. 261 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:47,960 Speaker 3: I am getting like cotton mouth over here. And thankfully 262 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:50,720 Speaker 3: I told the the wedding planners, was like, you need 263 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 3: to put some water over by the vow books so 264 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:55,960 Speaker 3: I can like sneak some water. But no, I wasn't. 265 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:58,040 Speaker 3: I wasn't nervous. I was just nervous that I would 266 00:12:58,160 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 3: ruin your guys's. 267 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 1: Big day. 268 00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:03,480 Speaker 3: But I didn't. I don't think I did. 269 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 2: No, you did not. 270 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 1: You made it great. I did you do a shot before? 271 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:09,080 Speaker 1: I did a shot right before. 272 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I did. But I went over to the bar, 273 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 3: which wasn't open yet, and I was like, I need 274 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:19,280 Speaker 3: a shot of alcohol and They're like, no, we can't 275 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:22,320 Speaker 3: do that. And I was like, I'm the pastor. I 276 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:26,679 Speaker 3: demand this. I've never bard anybody before. But if I'm 277 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 3: being honest, I didn't do a shot because I was nervous. 278 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:32,079 Speaker 3: I did a shot because I was a little hungover 279 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:34,640 Speaker 3: from your rehearsal dinner and welcome party that I was like, 280 00:13:34,679 --> 00:13:37,880 Speaker 3: I need to equal like equalize here a little bit, little. 281 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:40,400 Speaker 2: Hair of the dog. Yeah, yeah, that makes sense. 282 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 3: Actually, did you for your wedding? 283 00:13:43,559 --> 00:13:45,480 Speaker 1: I think we might we may have talked about this, 284 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:49,280 Speaker 1: but how late did you stay out the night before 285 00:13:49,320 --> 00:13:49,840 Speaker 1: your wedding? 286 00:13:50,920 --> 00:13:52,960 Speaker 3: Far too late? And I told you that at your 287 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:55,240 Speaker 3: rehearsal dinner. I was like, do not stay out. It 288 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 3: was one big regret. Yeah. The problem with what happened 289 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 3: to us is that, you know, we stayed the wedding party, 290 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:08,079 Speaker 3: stayed on venue site, like we got married at this winery, 291 00:14:08,320 --> 00:14:10,720 Speaker 3: and so when we got done with the rehearsal dinner 292 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:14,920 Speaker 3: and the welcome party. We like the my closest people 293 00:14:14,960 --> 00:14:17,680 Speaker 3: to me all went back to our house and so 294 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:19,200 Speaker 3: of course it was like, let's open a bottle of 295 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 3: wine and like whatever. And then that turned into two bottles, 296 00:14:24,800 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 3: three bottles, you know whatever. And the worst part about 297 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:32,920 Speaker 3: it was, it's so dumb, but you can't just sleep 298 00:14:32,960 --> 00:14:36,480 Speaker 3: in the same room with your two be wife that night. 299 00:14:37,240 --> 00:14:40,640 Speaker 3: So of course Sarah gets the master suite and they 300 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:43,640 Speaker 3: put me in like this there it was a room. 301 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 3: It was a tiny little room that connected to the 302 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:53,840 Speaker 3: like the bridesmaid's quarters. And so I'm hungover and I 303 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 3: only want to do is sleep in and like sleep 304 00:14:55,800 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 3: it off. But everyone has to walk through my room 305 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:02,320 Speaker 3: to get to the bridesmaid's quarters, which was like starting 306 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:05,320 Speaker 3: like seven am, and everyone would be walking through and 307 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 3: chit chatting, and I remember I couldn't sleep and I 308 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 3: and I think three times someone threw stuff on the 309 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 3: because I would like put the covers over my head. 310 00:15:13,280 --> 00:15:15,600 Speaker 3: They threw stuff on the bed, like purses and stuff, 311 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:17,800 Speaker 3: and it would like hit me and I was like, god, 312 00:15:18,120 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 3: this is this is horrible. 313 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:22,280 Speaker 2: Oh my god, that is horrible. 314 00:15:22,920 --> 00:15:26,560 Speaker 3: And so I remember, I, uh, I was really puffy 315 00:15:26,600 --> 00:15:30,760 Speaker 3: for my wedding because I was a little hungover, and uh, 316 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 3: like Joe, you were there. Unfortunately Screenad was six so 317 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 3: she could come to the wedding. But like Sarah had 318 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:38,560 Speaker 3: a hard time putting my ring on the finger. And 319 00:15:38,640 --> 00:15:41,560 Speaker 3: I remember for your for your wedding, you were like, 320 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 3: I'm puffy, and I was like I was there too. 321 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:48,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. See, that is the worst part about welcome parties. 322 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:52,000 Speaker 1: They are so much fun there. They're just it's because 323 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:57,280 Speaker 1: it's like the first time everyone's seeing each other and. 324 00:15:56,360 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 4: There's no If it's destination, everyone's like I'm on vacation, 325 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:03,760 Speaker 4: Like I'm so relaxed. I don't got anything to do 326 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 4: more other than this wedding. Yeah, and then it's not 327 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:07,800 Speaker 4: their wedding. They don't care if they're hungover. 328 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:11,720 Speaker 1: And then it's just drinking and drinking, and yeah it's rough. 329 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:12,720 Speaker 1: I'm still hurting. 330 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. 331 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:15,400 Speaker 4: And the thing is is, I don't know about you Wells, 332 00:16:15,440 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 4: but I did not sleep in Charleston. I feel like 333 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 4: I did not get one very good night sleep, just 334 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:25,800 Speaker 4: between like the hurricane and worrying about guests coming in 335 00:16:25,880 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 4: and then worrying about the wedding, and then I'm drinking 336 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 4: so I'm not sleeping well because I'm going to bed 337 00:16:30,440 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 4: after a few glasses of whatever. So now I'm just 338 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:37,640 Speaker 4: like tired, hungover from the wedding of needing like three 339 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:38,360 Speaker 4: days of sleep. 340 00:16:38,880 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, Sarah's sick. Now I blame your guys' wedding. 341 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:49,440 Speaker 3: She's over there like yeah. And of course, like the 342 00:16:50,120 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 3: after the welcome party, I was like, Sarah, I need 343 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 3: I need to go home early because I have a 344 00:16:58,320 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 3: big day tomorrow. I'm marrying these people and I do 345 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:05,479 Speaker 3: not want to be hungover. But Sarah was like yeah, sure, whatever. 346 00:17:05,800 --> 00:17:07,760 Speaker 3: And then of course afterwards, like vatter Nation was like, 347 00:17:07,840 --> 00:17:09,960 Speaker 3: let's go to a bar and I was like no, 348 00:17:10,640 --> 00:17:13,159 Speaker 3: and she was like, come on, one drink and I 349 00:17:13,200 --> 00:17:14,679 Speaker 3: was like fine, one drink. And then of course we 350 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:19,639 Speaker 3: go to this bar with Andrew and Bakowski and Anna 351 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:23,160 Speaker 3: and everyone, and one drink turns into like three or four, 352 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:24,199 Speaker 3: and I was like, Sarah, are you. 353 00:17:24,200 --> 00:17:27,960 Speaker 4: Trying to Anna Kousie can drink. Like anytime we go 354 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 4: out with them, I'm like struggling to keep up, like 355 00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:32,119 Speaker 4: they will go hard. 356 00:17:32,480 --> 00:17:34,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, so my wife tried to sabotage your wedding with 357 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 3: her with their party acumen. 358 00:17:38,160 --> 00:17:39,159 Speaker 1: Well, I know they were. 359 00:17:39,680 --> 00:17:42,440 Speaker 3: He closed down Charleston after the wedding too. 360 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:44,639 Speaker 2: I was gonna say what happened after. 361 00:17:44,840 --> 00:17:47,480 Speaker 4: So we all got back to the hotel from that 362 00:17:47,520 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 4: party bus together and then Joe and I were like, 363 00:17:49,840 --> 00:17:51,919 Speaker 4: we're going to bed, have a good night, guys. We 364 00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:54,480 Speaker 4: just got married. We want to go hang out. And 365 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:55,880 Speaker 4: then you guys went out, But. 366 00:17:55,840 --> 00:17:56,960 Speaker 2: Where did you go yet? 367 00:17:57,000 --> 00:17:59,800 Speaker 1: My cousin gas like, oh my god, Sarah and I 368 00:17:59,800 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 1: are best friends. We rode bikes all throughout Charleston. 369 00:18:02,480 --> 00:18:05,160 Speaker 2: At like, yeah, bikes, what do you mean, where's that happen? 370 00:18:06,160 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 3: Yes? So, first of all, Sarah did not ride bikes 371 00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:11,200 Speaker 3: because she cannot ride a bike. She's the only person 372 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:12,640 Speaker 3: I've ever met that doesn't how to ride a bike. 373 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:14,120 Speaker 4: My sister can't ride a bike either. 374 00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:16,960 Speaker 3: Okay, good, then she's and she's. 375 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:18,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's they have a friend now. 376 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:22,480 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, So yeah, we wanted to go to 377 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:27,080 Speaker 3: a bar, but like Charleston like closes down at midnight. 378 00:18:27,240 --> 00:18:29,639 Speaker 3: So we there were these there. I don't even know 379 00:18:29,640 --> 00:18:31,560 Speaker 3: if they were like communal bikes, there were just bikes there. 380 00:18:31,560 --> 00:18:33,439 Speaker 3: So we like hopped on them and we started riding, 381 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:36,880 Speaker 3: and Sarah was like, on the back of the bike, 382 00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:40,960 Speaker 3: like holding on on onto me, and I was a 383 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:43,359 Speaker 3: little tipsy, and I was like, this is not safe. 384 00:18:43,400 --> 00:18:45,320 Speaker 3: Like we got like maybe a block and I was like, 385 00:18:45,480 --> 00:18:47,480 Speaker 3: this is not good. And so I got I was like, 386 00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:49,639 Speaker 3: get off the bike and we put it away and 387 00:18:49,640 --> 00:18:54,120 Speaker 3: then we tried to go find a bar. First of all, uh, 388 00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 3: Joe has a cousin who I shit you not. His 389 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:02,840 Speaker 3: name is Spaghan, which is the most Italian thing. I 390 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:04,359 Speaker 3: was like, I don't even know if this is like, 391 00:19:04,480 --> 00:19:06,360 Speaker 3: is this like racist for me to call you this? 392 00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 3: Like this seems not accept Is that his real name? 393 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:11,680 Speaker 3: It's his nickname. I was like, hey, what's your name? 394 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:12,360 Speaker 3: I'm Spaghetti. 395 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:13,320 Speaker 2: I was like, oh yeah. 396 00:19:13,480 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 4: It took me so long to like actually remember what 397 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 4: his real name is. And the only reason I have 398 00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:20,959 Speaker 4: really learned it is because on wedding invitations we've been 399 00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:23,640 Speaker 4: using his real name. But like, I don't know anyone 400 00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:26,520 Speaker 4: other than Jia, his wife that calls well, so Gia. 401 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:26,879 Speaker 1: Is my cousin. 402 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 3: Spaghetti. 403 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 1: Spaghetti married Gia. But Spaghetti and I went to high 404 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:33,760 Speaker 1: school together and he was he was two years older 405 00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:36,600 Speaker 1: than me, so I always, you know, I was a yeah, 406 00:19:36,600 --> 00:19:38,840 Speaker 1: I was a sophomore. He was a senior, and he 407 00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:40,479 Speaker 1: was like, yeah, Spaghetti, Spaghetti's here. 408 00:19:41,080 --> 00:19:44,879 Speaker 2: That's how how did that start? What the nickname Spaghetti? 409 00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:47,359 Speaker 1: He had the nickname Spaghetti. I think ever since he 410 00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:50,200 Speaker 1: was a kid. Oh my god, I think he loves spaghetti. 411 00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:56,280 Speaker 1: And what else would they call somebody that loves spaghetti 412 00:19:57,720 --> 00:20:00,800 Speaker 1: spaghetti so much? Let's call him? 413 00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:03,680 Speaker 3: So yeah, So we we tried to go find a bar. 414 00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:07,080 Speaker 3: We couldn't. We found a pizza place. We walked to 415 00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:11,560 Speaker 3: this pizza place in Charleston, and like it was must 416 00:20:11,560 --> 00:20:13,359 Speaker 3: have been like right when all the bars let out, 417 00:20:13,359 --> 00:20:16,320 Speaker 3: because Charleston's a college town. And so we're sitting there 418 00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:20,600 Speaker 3: waiting for our pizza, and like a million kids walk 419 00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:25,119 Speaker 3: in the door, and so of course everyone's like recognizing Sarah, 420 00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:26,760 Speaker 3: and it's like we got to get out of here. 421 00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 3: So and then Spaghetti and I went across the street. 422 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:32,280 Speaker 3: We bought two bottles of wine and some solo cups, 423 00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:36,320 Speaker 3: and we walked back with like three pizzas, two bottles 424 00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:38,560 Speaker 3: of wine and solo cups, and we sat out in 425 00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:42,159 Speaker 3: the courtyard, which I don't think you're supposed to drink outside, 426 00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:45,760 Speaker 3: but whatever, And so we're out in the courtyard in 427 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:48,439 Speaker 3: front of the hotel, and we drank two bottles of 428 00:20:48,440 --> 00:20:52,920 Speaker 3: wine and ate pizza and talked about like how beautiful 429 00:20:52,920 --> 00:20:55,159 Speaker 3: your wedding was, and why the hell is named is 430 00:20:55,200 --> 00:20:59,960 Speaker 3: Spaghetti and like our aliens real, like it got real real? 431 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:01,360 Speaker 2: Is it just the four of you? 432 00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:02,040 Speaker 3: Yes? 433 00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 1: Oh my god? Well so and my cousin Samantha is 434 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:12,439 Speaker 1: married to Tony, and Tony and Spaghetti are close when 435 00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:15,040 Speaker 1: they they go and when they get really drunk. Toni 436 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 1: refers to himself as Rigatoni and Spaghetti. 437 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:23,240 Speaker 4: Oh my god, I didn't know that, just Spaghetti and Rigatoni. 438 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:25,160 Speaker 2: Everyone gets a past nick name. 439 00:21:25,160 --> 00:21:29,119 Speaker 4: We've got Penny, We've got Facili. 440 00:21:30,480 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 2: Your family is so Italian. 441 00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:32,840 Speaker 3: All right. 442 00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:36,720 Speaker 1: Before we get into uh some paradise stuff, I want 443 00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:40,680 Speaker 1: to ask you for our knowledge. How how long til 444 00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 1: you guys went on your honeymoon right after your wedding. 445 00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:47,639 Speaker 3: Not right afterwards? So Sarah was still we were Sarah 446 00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:51,480 Speaker 3: was still filming Love Island during the wedding, so she 447 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:54,879 Speaker 3: got like that weekend off. Effectively, they were filming in 448 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:58,080 Speaker 3: Santa Barbara, thankfully. So what we ended up doing was 449 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 3: after the wedding we went to OHI. We stayed there 450 00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:05,440 Speaker 3: for a night, and then we went to Santa Barbara 451 00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:09,480 Speaker 3: because she had a film for like two or three days, 452 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 3: and then we went to we did like a mini moon, 453 00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:17,520 Speaker 3: which we went to this like place in Big Surf 454 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:19,479 Speaker 3: for like two nights, and then she had to go 455 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:23,439 Speaker 3: back for work, I guess, and then we waited like 456 00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:25,800 Speaker 3: I think it was a good like three weeks before 457 00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:28,040 Speaker 3: we went to like the Maldives and did our like 458 00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 3: true honeymoon. So yeah, it wasn't like I remember being 459 00:22:32,240 --> 00:22:34,280 Speaker 3: like I want to drive away in like an old 460 00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:37,600 Speaker 3: car with like cans rattling down the street and like 461 00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:40,960 Speaker 3: go straight to the airport. But that didn't happen. And 462 00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:44,040 Speaker 3: I assume you guys have to wait a little bit, right, We're. 463 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:46,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're waiting just a week. Yeah, But I was 464 00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:48,679 Speaker 1: we were like that we got home yesterday and we 465 00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:51,880 Speaker 1: were like depressed, like it's over and we're just with 466 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:54,960 Speaker 1: everyone and now we're back in our apartment in New York. 467 00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:59,359 Speaker 1: What happened? So I get like how people go straight 468 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:02,239 Speaker 1: on their moon because the excitement just doesn't stop. It 469 00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:03,040 Speaker 1: like keeps going. 470 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:05,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, And I was saying, like it's fine that we 471 00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 4: have to wait a week. We've got some stuff we've 472 00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:08,760 Speaker 4: got to do this week anyway, and you know we'll 473 00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:11,960 Speaker 4: settle in unpacked, do laundry, repack. But like, I'm glad 474 00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:14,880 Speaker 4: that our honeymoon is like I would say, if you're 475 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 4: doing a honeymoon, like within three weeks of your wedding, 476 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,280 Speaker 4: is like nice because it's like, Okay, we were so 477 00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:22,320 Speaker 4: depressed yesterday. You come off of such a high. You've 478 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:25,720 Speaker 4: been building towards this weekend for a whole year, and 479 00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 4: then it's over. To have at least the honeymoon to 480 00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:31,720 Speaker 4: look forward to has been nice of like Okay, it's fine. 481 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:33,440 Speaker 4: You know we're gonna we get to go on a 482 00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:34,800 Speaker 4: beautiful trip next week together. 483 00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:36,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm excited. 484 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:41,400 Speaker 3: Well, eat and drink yourself into like just oblivion because 485 00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:44,600 Speaker 3: you don't have to take more pictures. There's no more videos, 486 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:46,600 Speaker 3: Like it doesn't matter what you look like. Go have fun. 487 00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:49,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I told Terina after this it's all going down 488 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:50,560 Speaker 1: for me now. 489 00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:54,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, did you not the plan? Jooke up and went 490 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:55,640 Speaker 4: for a run this morning. 491 00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:58,720 Speaker 1: Miles this morning, I remember, ran five miles this morning. 492 00:23:58,720 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 1: I feel good. 493 00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 3: Keep your heart rate under one sixty. 494 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:04,440 Speaker 1: No, I didn't wear the heart I figure, I figure 495 00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:06,880 Speaker 1: right now, heart rate is not something I could control. 496 00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:11,480 Speaker 1: There's a lot like that's got to get flushed out 497 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:22,440 Speaker 1: of the system. First. Yeah, well's what is how is Paradise? 498 00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:31,240 Speaker 3: It was great. It was we paradised, real hard, real fast. Yeah, 499 00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:33,400 Speaker 3: you know, I mean it's I'll tell you what was weird, 500 00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:38,760 Speaker 3: Joe and Serena. There were no crabs this year, which 501 00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:42,760 Speaker 3: is weird, what very very weird because so the way 502 00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:45,439 Speaker 3: it works in Paradise, the crabs don't live on the 503 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:48,440 Speaker 3: beach that they live in the mountain, the mountain side. 504 00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:52,440 Speaker 3: When it rains, the crabs their little houses get filled 505 00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:54,639 Speaker 3: with water, so they come out. And that's why, like 506 00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:57,280 Speaker 3: you know, there's always a rose ceremony or something that 507 00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:59,280 Speaker 3: there's like a big storm and then all of a 508 00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:02,120 Speaker 3: sudden there's the crow. Cabs are everywhere. But it never 509 00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:04,720 Speaker 3: rained really while we were there, which we are so 510 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:06,760 Speaker 3: thankful for because you guys, remember there would be like 511 00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:09,280 Speaker 3: a road ceremony we shut down. Then we couldn't start 512 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:11,359 Speaker 3: until like five in the morning. It's just a really 513 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:13,800 Speaker 3: long night. We were grateful for that, but I was 514 00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:16,600 Speaker 3: it was a very weird thing of like, like the 515 00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:20,760 Speaker 3: unofficial mascot of Paradise are these crabs? And they were 516 00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:23,120 Speaker 3: nowhere to be found. And it was funny because obviously 517 00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:28,800 Speaker 3: the cast is somewhat uh you know, aware and knowledgeable 518 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,680 Speaker 3: of this crab problem that we have when we film, 519 00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:33,720 Speaker 3: and they were like, are you guys making this up? 520 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 3: Like there's there's no there's no crab, there's no crabs here, which. 521 00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:41,480 Speaker 4: That's crazy, Like there were crabs literally everywhere, like in 522 00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:45,880 Speaker 4: the shower, in the bathroom, in the sink, Like I 523 00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:48,320 Speaker 4: can't imagine being there and not seeing any crabs like 524 00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:49,959 Speaker 4: they were literally We had a lot of rain our 525 00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:51,720 Speaker 4: season too, but they were literally everywhere. 526 00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:54,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I've been there twice and there was 527 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:58,080 Speaker 1: always a ton of crabs. That actually brings me back 528 00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:00,399 Speaker 1: to when we took our Were you expecting to call 529 00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:01,240 Speaker 1: you up for a shot? 530 00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:07,040 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Well, because we had talked before, when we 531 00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:11,080 Speaker 3: talked about like what you guys wanted, you know, the 532 00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:12,560 Speaker 3: original thought was we were going to do it on 533 00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:14,520 Speaker 3: the altar, like take a shot together. 534 00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:16,560 Speaker 1: Which I'm glad we didn't do that same. 535 00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:20,439 Speaker 3: I would not have wanted to do that, but that 536 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:23,480 Speaker 3: so you were like, I think we've got something else planned. 537 00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:26,560 Speaker 3: So I had I assumed something was coming. What I 538 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:29,280 Speaker 3: didn't plan on was how big the shot was going 539 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:29,520 Speaker 3: to be. 540 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:34,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, my god, it is so big. I was so intimidated. 541 00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:37,360 Speaker 1: I just had so like I was just on such 542 00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:41,800 Speaker 1: an adrenaline rush just from speaking and like the whole thing, 543 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:43,679 Speaker 1: and I was like, it's just finally over. Let's just 544 00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:45,399 Speaker 1: it could have been a whole bottle. I would have 545 00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:48,080 Speaker 1: drank the whole thing. Yeah, it's just like, let's go. 546 00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:52,080 Speaker 4: No. I went to the table to grab the shots 547 00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:53,960 Speaker 4: and I'm kind of like looking for them because I'm like, 548 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:56,520 Speaker 4: I just see these three glasses of water here, and 549 00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:58,920 Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, no, these are the shots that will 550 00:26:58,920 --> 00:26:59,280 Speaker 4: be doing. 551 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:04,679 Speaker 1: And we did shuts the next day too. Anything you 552 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:07,840 Speaker 1: can tease about Paradise before we let you go. 553 00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:13,800 Speaker 3: Well, I will say this, you know, I think you know. 554 00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:17,200 Speaker 3: The mission statement is that people end up like you, right, 555 00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:20,400 Speaker 3: Like they get engaged and they get married and all 556 00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:23,640 Speaker 3: that kind of stuff. And I will say that there 557 00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:26,680 Speaker 3: is someone who gets married this year, which is a 558 00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 3: kind of a new thing for Paradise. There is a 559 00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:39,119 Speaker 3: lot of tears, there's a lot of crying, there's a 560 00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:42,879 Speaker 3: lot of pooping. There's a lot of not pooping. That 561 00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:45,920 Speaker 3: one's new too for Paradise. But no, it's a it's 562 00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:49,119 Speaker 3: a really good season. It's really really funny, I think. 563 00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:52,399 Speaker 3: And I also think that like we're airing later in 564 00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:55,840 Speaker 3: the year, and I think people like want the show back, 565 00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:59,479 Speaker 3: and it'll be really interesting to see how it works 566 00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:05,439 Speaker 3: because is we're we're coming on after Golden Bachelor, so 567 00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:09,160 Speaker 3: like people are gonna be watching like these these old 568 00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:13,160 Speaker 3: people make out and then have to watch like then 569 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:15,600 Speaker 3: a bunch of young people sweating on the beach. So 570 00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:19,800 Speaker 3: it'd be interesting to see like how Bachelornation takes it all. 571 00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:22,040 Speaker 3: But I think it's gonna be a really good season. 572 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:24,040 Speaker 3: I think everyone's gonna really like it. And then you know, 573 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:28,880 Speaker 3: people that I know are fan favorites and are very 574 00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:34,600 Speaker 3: popular in Bachelornation are gonna be very pleased because they 575 00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:37,040 Speaker 3: have like really good storylines. I think people are gonna 576 00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:40,240 Speaker 3: be really pleased with like how things shake out, which 577 00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:40,680 Speaker 3: is nice. 578 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:44,280 Speaker 1: Nice Do you think will do you think you will 579 00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:47,160 Speaker 1: be asked by anyone else in bachination to marry them? 580 00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:50,880 Speaker 3: I don't know, Uh, would you do it? 581 00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:51,680 Speaker 1: Hell? Yeah? 582 00:28:51,960 --> 00:28:56,160 Speaker 3: I had the most fun, but but also it is 583 00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 3: a big responsibility. 584 00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,200 Speaker 1: Though it is a lot like even like seeing like 585 00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:01,840 Speaker 1: everything that you wrote and you had to do, it's 586 00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:04,000 Speaker 1: a lot like it's not just like because I remember 587 00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,280 Speaker 1: when we asked you, I was like, man, this this 588 00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 1: is also a kind of a pain in the ass now. 589 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:14,440 Speaker 3: I mean, here's the thing. Like if it was a 590 00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:16,920 Speaker 3: Batter Nation couple that I didn't really know, I might 591 00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:19,040 Speaker 3: be like, I think that, like Jesse should do this 592 00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:23,760 Speaker 3: and not me, you know. Yeah, But like for me, 593 00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:26,200 Speaker 3: it was really wonderful because it was this full circle moment. 594 00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:29,080 Speaker 3: Like obviously, Joe, you and I have done a couple 595 00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:34,280 Speaker 3: shows together, and then I got to see your guys' relationship, 596 00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:39,040 Speaker 3: you know, a couple of years ago in Paradise, and 597 00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:41,200 Speaker 3: I was there on the last day, which I'm not 598 00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:44,840 Speaker 3: usually there on the last day, but your season was 599 00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:46,800 Speaker 3: the season that I was hosting there at the end, 600 00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:49,640 Speaker 3: so I kind of had to be there. I remember, 601 00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:51,720 Speaker 3: I had to like film the out and everything, the outro, 602 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,480 Speaker 3: and so I have these pictures of us on that 603 00:29:56,560 --> 00:30:00,920 Speaker 3: day and of you guys, and so be getting there 604 00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:03,280 Speaker 3: to getting to be there to marry you guys was 605 00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:07,120 Speaker 3: like this really wonderful full circle moment for me. So 606 00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:09,360 Speaker 3: I like, yes, it is a pain in the ass, 607 00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:11,520 Speaker 3: but it was like a labor of love. Like I 608 00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:14,240 Speaker 3: loved it and I'm so happy that I got to 609 00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:17,320 Speaker 3: do it, and like now I want to be like, 610 00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:22,040 Speaker 3: does anyone in bachtination need me to marry them? I 611 00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:24,000 Speaker 3: won't be free like I was for Joe and Serena, 612 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:26,200 Speaker 3: but like, let's go. Maybe this is like a new 613 00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:26,840 Speaker 3: job for me. 614 00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:29,800 Speaker 4: You say you have a new side hustle, Reverend Wells 615 00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:30,400 Speaker 4: hire him. 616 00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:36,480 Speaker 1: Oh so much fun, Well Walls, We won't take up 617 00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:38,640 Speaker 1: any more of your time. Honestly, we just thank you 618 00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:40,720 Speaker 1: so much. We had so much fun you truly, like 619 00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:44,360 Speaker 1: I feel like you made our wedding even greater than 620 00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:45,280 Speaker 1: it was gonna be. 621 00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:47,400 Speaker 4: And I'm glad you felt like it was a full 622 00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:49,880 Speaker 4: circle moment because that's really how we felt as well, 623 00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:52,280 Speaker 4: and was one of the main reasons that we wanted 624 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:54,800 Speaker 4: you to marry us. So yeah, thank you so much. 625 00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:57,360 Speaker 1: When you said yeah. When you said yes, Serena cried, 626 00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:00,800 Speaker 1: and Serena has cried a lot lately, and one thing 627 00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:04,080 Speaker 1: she told me when we met in Paradise, she doesn't cry. 628 00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:08,440 Speaker 4: I am not a sad crier or a stressed, angry crier, 629 00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:11,880 Speaker 4: but I am a wedding crier, apparently, is what we've 630 00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 4: learned because I've done a lot of wedding crying, but 631 00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:15,840 Speaker 4: a happy wedding crier. 632 00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:20,000 Speaker 3: You're a pretty crier, thank you. That is important. I'm 633 00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:24,560 Speaker 3: so annoyed because I've never gotten Joe to cry, and 634 00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:27,160 Speaker 3: like that's one of my things that like I feel 635 00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:29,480 Speaker 3: like i'm good at is getting people to cry at 636 00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:31,480 Speaker 3: the bar, and never gotten to cry at the bar. 637 00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:33,720 Speaker 3: And then I thought, finally I'm going to do this. 638 00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:36,160 Speaker 3: I'm going to do this wedding and I'm going to 639 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,400 Speaker 3: get him to cry. And I still didn't do it, 640 00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:39,320 Speaker 3: So I know. 641 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:42,160 Speaker 1: I almost, I almost. I almost got emotional. I almost 642 00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:45,160 Speaker 1: got emotional on the on the first look. And the 643 00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:48,280 Speaker 1: truth is, if we didn't do a first look and 644 00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:51,880 Speaker 1: we would have waited for that moment to be the altar, 645 00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:55,080 Speaker 1: I probably I probably would have tear it off. 646 00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:56,120 Speaker 3: Really yeah. 647 00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:57,720 Speaker 1: But I also had to listen to my dad the 648 00:31:57,720 --> 00:31:59,920 Speaker 1: whole time, like if you cry, I'm walking out. 649 00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:03,720 Speaker 2: So we can't have that. We can't have that. 650 00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:09,880 Speaker 3: So I well, last story about your dad is the 651 00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:12,720 Speaker 3: funniest thing in the world. So at the rehearsal dinner, 652 00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:16,320 Speaker 3: I was like, I love speech. I love listening to 653 00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:21,560 Speaker 3: people's speeches, love judging people's speeches, which, by the way, 654 00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:27,640 Speaker 3: your sister and your brother gave completely different types of 655 00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:32,600 Speaker 3: speeches at the ceremony, but they were the best speeches 656 00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 3: I've heard in a very long time. They were so good. 657 00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:40,360 Speaker 3: But at the rehearsal dinner, that's usually when everyone speaks, 658 00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:42,840 Speaker 3: like everyone gets a shot at like saying whatever they 659 00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:46,880 Speaker 3: want to say. And your dad comes over and I go, big, Joe, 660 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:49,600 Speaker 3: are you going to speak? And he goes, I'm not 661 00:32:49,600 --> 00:32:54,440 Speaker 3: gonna speak. That's the sissies. And he goes, what did 662 00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:59,320 Speaker 3: your father speak? And I was like, yeah, whoever was 663 00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:02,840 Speaker 3: next to me, like Jimmy or Joe there's a million 664 00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:06,080 Speaker 3: Joe's at this whole thing, or Joe Ann's. They were like, 665 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:07,600 Speaker 3: my dad spoke too. 666 00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:10,640 Speaker 5: He was like, oh, no, do I gotta speak now 667 00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:14,360 Speaker 5: I'm not banned. And I was like, yes, we're going 668 00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,520 Speaker 5: to get some off the wall speeds from your dad. 669 00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:20,680 Speaker 5: And it didn't happen, But you know, maybe maybe at 670 00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:22,760 Speaker 5: your brother's wedding, yeah. 671 00:33:22,760 --> 00:33:24,520 Speaker 1: Maybe he well he was fun though. He was he 672 00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:28,000 Speaker 1: was a good time. He was good, he was the best. 673 00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:31,080 Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah he uh well, that's it. 674 00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:35,240 Speaker 4: We have we have stories everyone leaving that wedding story 675 00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:38,560 Speaker 4: of Joe's parents or civilly Joe's died that they will 676 00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:39,840 Speaker 4: hold for the rest of their lives. 677 00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:43,480 Speaker 1: He's just such a character, so much fun. Walls, thank 678 00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:46,320 Speaker 1: you so much. We really appreciate you and everything you 679 00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:50,640 Speaker 1: did for us. And yeah, all our listeners make sure 680 00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:53,200 Speaker 1: to check out Walls and the rest of The Bachelor 681 00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:57,160 Speaker 1: in Paradise cast because the new season is premiery September 682 00:33:57,200 --> 00:34:01,520 Speaker 1: twenty eighth. We can't wait. That is an episode of 683 00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:04,240 Speaker 1: Batcher Happy Hour to all our listeners. Thank you so much, 684 00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:09,360 Speaker 1: make sure to subscribe, and yeah, we love you guys. 685 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:12,239 Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you so much. Continue to subscribe, tuning in 686 00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:13,680 Speaker 4: every week from more exclusive interviews. 687 00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:13,960 Speaker 2: Wells. 688 00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:16,120 Speaker 4: Thank you again and we will see you soon. 689 00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:18,840 Speaker 3: And bye, thank you, love you. 690 00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:19,320 Speaker 2: Bye.