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Speaker 1: thinking about it, oftentimes we just complain about stuff and

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Speaker 1: Brother Calvin, you bring him gonna fold you like a

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Speaker 1: I hadn't been locked up six seven years. I'm just

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Speaker 1: So if you want to get it off, meet me

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Speaker 1: you're trying to scare me with your background or something

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Speaker 1: Do you know Leicester that that also he also had

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Speaker 1: Leicester is the person to tell me to call you.

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Speaker 1: This is nephew Timmy from the Steve Harby Brenda. Your

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Speaker 1: Yah y I brought the lockdown out of you? Man?

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Speaker 1: y'all got me out here talking reckless? I should who

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Speaker 1: passed it over here? This boy hanging there, bro and

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Speaker 1: and do this for me. Man, tell me this. What

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Speaker 1: is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show

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Speaker 1: in the land? Man, It's Steve Harvey Radio Man. Hey man,

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Speaker 1: if you see somebody's Sunday pull up in a van,

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Speaker 1: might have to call out this week and my heart

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Speaker 1: can't take it. You fights, I have seen fights. Oh

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Speaker 1: some people. You ain't never seen that video on the

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Speaker 1: people getting him too old? It was an old people

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Speaker 1: fighting deacons. Well, listen, thank you, nephew, we appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we got

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Speaker 1: some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening

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Speaker 1: Dave Harvey Morning Show. Well, some sad news to begin

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Speaker 1: our entertainment news report today. Famed author Tony Morrison has died.

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Speaker 1: Miss Morrison was eighty eight years old. She passed away

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Speaker 1: at a New York City hospital, according to her publisher,

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Speaker 1: and there's no word yet on the cause of her death,

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Speaker 1: but her family said she'd experienced a short illness, which

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Speaker 1: lets us um know that she didn't suffer very very long. Um.

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Speaker 1: Miss Morrison's first novel, The Bluest Eye, was published back

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Speaker 1: in nineteen seventy. She won the Pulitzer Prize for Fiction

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Speaker 1: in nineteen eighty eight for Beloved and remember Beloved, Oprah

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Speaker 1: she won the Nobel Piece the Nobel Prize for Literature

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Speaker 1: in nineteen ninety three. Her most recent work was twenty

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Speaker 1: and fifteens, God Saved the Child. Miss Morrison leaves behind

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Speaker 1: two children and we hear, of course at the Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show, send our heartfelt condolencence to the Morrison family.

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Speaker 1: She wrote, she is the most highly decorated African American

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Speaker 1: author in history. Wow, in the history. Yeah wow, A

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Speaker 1: legends true allegend man. And to writing. You know you

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Speaker 1: we all right, but that's a hard job to stay

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Speaker 1: stay focused like that and kind of lonely sometimes. Yeah

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Speaker 1: it is. Yeah. You write by yourself and you have

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Speaker 1: all these characters. You have to use your imagination. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: very yeah, very much so. Talent. Yeah, r I p

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Speaker 1: Miss Tony Morrison and other entertainment news. Now, remember back

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Speaker 1: when Tyrese was mad at I mean he was really mad.

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Speaker 1: He was like big mad at Dwayne the Rock Johnson

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Speaker 1: for doing the fast and the Furious spinoff, remember that

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Speaker 1: all over social media and everything. Well, now that Hobbs

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Speaker 1: Tyrese shared a screenshot of an Instagram headline with the

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Speaker 1: title Hobbs and Shaw has lowest Fast and Furious box

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Speaker 1: I have to show my respect for one thing he tried.

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Speaker 1: Folks called me a hater and attacked me for speaking out.

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Speaker 1: Breaking up the family clearly doesn't have the value that

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Speaker 1: the crew will come dance with us again for Fast ten.

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Speaker 1: We can all hug it out and get back to

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Speaker 1: giving the true fans who have supported this franchise for

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Speaker 1: out the facts. Shortly after the post, uh Tyrise deleted it. Well,

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Speaker 1: you know what I saw that was not hating or

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Speaker 1: was it hating? Which one wasn't? I saw Hobson Sean

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Speaker 1: It's a great movie and not anywhere in the movie.

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Speaker 1: Did anybody else well where Tyre? Yeah, And nobody asked

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Speaker 1: what are he coming on scenes? No, nobody yelled at hell, no,

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Speaker 1: I want my money. That Tyree ain't in the movie.

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Speaker 1: So he mad because he's mad because they broke off.

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Speaker 1: He wanted them to say with the Fast and Furious

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Speaker 1: twenty five millions, not a movie guy, but he's the shade.

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Speaker 1: He threw. Was saying that even though the movie was

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Speaker 1: So that's the shade. Yeah, that's what he's saying. Yeah, yeah, okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and it's still number one. It's still made what sixty

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Speaker 1: a lot. You can't, you know, snub your nose at

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Speaker 1: that figure, you know, right, you're right? So yeah, well

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Speaker 1: I'm Jay. Let's let's get to the news. Please, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna move Tyry. Let's see how you ted a Penegras movie.

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Speaker 1: Do anyway? It is time for me. We do love you, Tyre.

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Speaker 1: Turn off Jade, you can do that. It's time for

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Speaker 1: the news with missus An trip By now investigating the

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Speaker 1: recent mass shooting in North Carolina, north of California at

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Speaker 1: the annual Gilroy Garlic Festival. Remember that took place a

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Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago. They're investigating that case now as

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Speaker 1: an active domestic terrorism It's already say that the white

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Speaker 1: gunman who killed three people and wounded many others on

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Speaker 1: July twenty eighth had a list of other attacks he

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Speaker 1: was superior to be planning, some on federal buildings, political organizations,

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Speaker 1: and religious institutions. The FEDS are also treating the killings

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Speaker 1: in a Passo the same Twenty two people were killed

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Speaker 1: in that attack, also by a white gunman who's suspected

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Speaker 1: of authorizing a racist to anti Hispanic manifesto. Meanwhile, officials

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Speaker 1: and sisters are still not sure about the motive for

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Speaker 1: the nine killings in Dayton, Ohio, where the gunman killed

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Speaker 1: his own sister, but that six of the nine people

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Speaker 1: shot to death were black. The FEDS say they don't

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Speaker 1: know why that happened. Meanwhile, President Trump has scheduled to

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Speaker 1: travel to both Dayton and Alpasso today. He's expected to

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Speaker 1: run to some residents, however, who blame his rhetoric for

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Speaker 1: the recent rash of deadly attacks. Including presidential hopeful and

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Speaker 1: El Paso native bed or Roar immigrants, specifically who he's

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Speaker 1: about an infestation. He is in large part responsible for

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Speaker 1: what has taken place. He's invited violence. These are the

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Speaker 1: consequences for his actions. Many residents of El Paso were

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Speaker 1: incensed after Trump gave erroneous crime statistics about their city

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Speaker 1: and Dayton, Ohio may Or Nan Walley, She's got some questions. Look,

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Speaker 1: I'm disappointed with remarks. I mean, I think they've fell

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Speaker 1: really short. He mentioned like issues one time. I think,

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Speaker 1: you know, watching the president over the past few years

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Speaker 1: on the issues of guns, he's been I don't know

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Speaker 1: if he knows what he believes. Frankert, we will see

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Speaker 1: what happens today. Barneys is closing its stores in Chicago,

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Speaker 1: Las Vegas, and Seattle. They're keeping about six other stores open.

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Speaker 1: Barney's New York was in the news a few years

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Speaker 1: ago when black customers complained that they were profiled and

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Speaker 1: followed around after making purchases, with a few accusing store

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Speaker 1: employees of actually claiming their credit cards didn't belong to

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Speaker 1: them and even calling the cops. On them after making

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Speaker 1: legitimate purchases. Sadly, the literary and black communities of morning

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Speaker 1: the death this week of Tony Morrison, who died of

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Speaker 1: pneumonia in New York City at age eighty eight on Monday.

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Speaker 1: Tony Morrison originally from Lorraine, Ohio. Her given name was

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Speaker 1: Chloe Wafford. She became the first black woman to win

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Speaker 1: the Nobel Prize for Literature in nineteen ninety three. Has

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Speaker 1: never been entertainment for me. It is in the work

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Speaker 1: I have done for most of my adult life. I

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Speaker 1: believe that one of the principal ways in which we acquire,

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Speaker 1: hold and digest information is via narrative that was part

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Speaker 1: of a Nobel speech. Tony Morrison dead at eighty eight.

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Speaker 1: Now back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening

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Speaker 1: to show? Okay, So what is this? Okay, Junior? First poetry?

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Speaker 1: Now you're going deep and you're going to interpret fortune

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Speaker 1: cookie sayings? What is going on? I got other talents.

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Speaker 1: I'm just showing y'all how deep I am. Oh, y'all

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Speaker 1: don't even know what fortune cookies mean. See y'all be

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Speaker 1: looking at it. Y'all throw the paper away, But these

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Speaker 1: really means some stuff, and I can I can interpret.

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, well, I'm gonna tell you I just ate

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Speaker 1: Chinese food not too long ago. So yeah, and you

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Speaker 1: didn't understand your fortune. That's why we here. So okay. Um.

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Speaker 1: This one said a beautiful, smart, and loving person will

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Speaker 1: be coming into your life. What that really saying is

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Speaker 1: he's about to cheat on you. That's what that means.

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Speaker 1: That's what I got. I don't know how y'all didn't

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Speaker 1: get it. Wow, that's what I do. What about this one?

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Speaker 1: It says all your hard work will soon pay off.

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Speaker 1: What that really means is your personal training is telling

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Speaker 1: you you lost one pound. Congratulations. Congratulations. That's all that

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Speaker 1: really means. These are fortune cookie readings that Junior is interpreting.

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Speaker 1: I got. Okay. This one says, he who expects no

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Speaker 1: gratitude shall never be disappointed. I like that one. I

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Speaker 1: like that. I know you wouldn't like it till I

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Speaker 1: tell you what it means. What it means is you're

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Speaker 1: gonna write the report, but the supervisor is gonna take

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Speaker 1: all the credit. That's exactly what that means. Yeah, I'll

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Speaker 1: tell you. I found this out yesterday when I was

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Speaker 1: reading that's what that's the talent. Ain't nobody else doing this.

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Speaker 1: You're not a good poet, So in your ass, in yours?

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Speaker 1: All right, here we go, Here we go. How about this?

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Speaker 1: When women hear this all the time, women hear this

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Speaker 1: all the time, trust your intuition. Well me and hit

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Speaker 1: is too. When we hear this saying, called upo lee,

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Speaker 1: she found out? What place? She found out? What a

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Speaker 1: new place is called? Police? Are you moved out on her? Wow?

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Speaker 1: Coming over them? All right, this one says observe all men,

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Speaker 1: but most of all yourself. What they're really saying, it's

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Speaker 1: saying to other people's business, and mind your damn own business.

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Speaker 1: That's that's what that really saying. This. Yeah, it comes

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Speaker 1: so natur Okay, all right, we've we've we've all heard

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Speaker 1: this one. It takes a lot of courage to admit

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Speaker 1: when you're wrong, or to admit fault. That that really

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Speaker 1: saying is stop lying and tell the truth. That's exactly

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Speaker 1: what that mean. I had a black woman tell me

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Speaker 1: that same thing. All right, we've all heard this one.

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Speaker 1: With age comes what wisdom? I don't really mean that

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Speaker 1: they tell that to all old people. They don't we

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Speaker 1: don't have enough to say to them. And thank you.

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Speaker 1: I think you might have talent. Fortune pie, yeah, fortune

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Speaker 1: cookie sayings with Junior. All right, coming up next to

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Speaker 1: thirty four after the hour today, the President plans to

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Speaker 1: visit El Paso and Dayton. They don't want him there though.

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Speaker 1: We'll talk about that right after that. You're listening to

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Speaker 1: show the President Trump is preparing to visit El Paso

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Speaker 1: and Dayton, Ohio. El Paso, Texas, of course, in Dayton, Ohio.

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Speaker 1: Today it appearances that will not be universally welcome as

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Speaker 1: the two cities grief from weekend mass shootings that left

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Speaker 1: thirty one people dead, yeah and many injured and rattled.

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Speaker 1: Former Texas Representative Beta O'Rourke said he doesn't think that

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Speaker 1: President Trump is welcome in El Paso in the wake

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Speaker 1: of the deadly shooting that left twenty two dead there.

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Speaker 1: This president, says O'Rourke, who helped create the hatred that

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Speaker 1: made Saturday's tragedy possible, should not come to El Paso.

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Speaker 1: That's what he tweeted. He says, we do not need

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Speaker 1: more division, We need to heal. He has no place here, guys.

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Speaker 1: El Paso is a city of about six hundred and

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Speaker 1: eighty three thousand people with a largely Latino population. In

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Speaker 1: the city of Dayton. Mayor Nan Whaley encouraged people to

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Speaker 1: protest who are unhappy under mister Trump's upcoming visit to

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Speaker 1: the city of about one hundred and forty thousand. The

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Speaker 1: mayor of Dayton went on to say President Trump made

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Speaker 1: his bed and now he has to lie in it. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Dayton's mayor went on to say she would greet the

631
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Speaker 1: president in the official role as mayor, but she will

632
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:05,600
Speaker 1: also tell him that his words weren't helpful and they

633
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:09,000
Speaker 1: weren't you know, and they weren't. The people in Toledo

634
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:11,760
Speaker 1: would be glad to see me. I'm going to Toledo

635
00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:15,319
Speaker 1: to meet all the people in there because they love It's.

636
00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 1: Oh it's Dayton. Excuse me? Y? Yeah? Are you? Are

637
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:23,400
Speaker 1: you bring? Do you have asked? The people in Deledo

638
00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:27,360
Speaker 1: love me and Deledo, So I'm going to Deledo. It's Dayton, Ohio.

639
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 1: What is what the what is that? Are you on

640
00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:33,440
Speaker 1: a machine or of some sort? No, I'm clearing my

641
00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:37,279
Speaker 1: nostrils before I talk. Well, he's gonna really see though,

642
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:41,880
Speaker 1: Jay All jokes aside, He's gonna really really see, they

643
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 1: don't want you anywhere. No, they don't want you to

644
00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 1: know where because it's your words that are so you know,

645
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 1: that are dividing this country. You know a lot of

646
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:54,439
Speaker 1: people are blaming you, mister president, for you know, these

647
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 1: young guys you know that have the show. We have

648
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:01,600
Speaker 1: said that on this show above. Just a matter of

649
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:05,359
Speaker 1: time that somebody takes his words and use them. Yeah,

650
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:10,279
Speaker 1: that's literally yeah, and that's what has happened. And um,

651
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:12,960
Speaker 1: you know he's blaming it on mental illness and a

652
00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:18,880
Speaker 1: video game, but that's illness. They always go in. They

653
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 1: don't ever want to go, guns, never want to go.

654
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:23,919
Speaker 1: But this is the president that said I can walk

655
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:27,120
Speaker 1: down the street in New York. He said that and

656
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:30,040
Speaker 1: he got elected. He got elected, Yeah, yeah, he got

657
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 1: He can't honestly think that he can go to a

658
00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 1: city like El Paso, where you talked about Latinos and

659
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 1: you talked about immigrants, and it is a city that

660
00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:46,400
Speaker 1: is on the border of Texas and Mexico. So for

661
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 1: you to even think that those people want you there

662
00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:54,759
Speaker 1: this time, at this time, right now, it's just I

663
00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:57,879
Speaker 1: think he's unbelievable. But I think he is arrogant enough

664
00:42:57,920 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 1: to think that he surely really he is arrogant. And

665
00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:05,680
Speaker 1: now the mayor of El Paso, who was a Republican,

666
00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 1: he is welcoming the president. He has no choice. Yeah. Yeah,

667
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 1: because and the president is expected to meet even in

668
00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:20,839
Speaker 1: Dayton and El Paso, to meet with local authorities, first responders,

669
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:24,359
Speaker 1: especially the first responders. I mean, we have to say

670
00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 1: hats off to them, the first responders um for a

671
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:31,640
Speaker 1: job well done. But you know, especially in Dayton, Ohio, right,

672
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:34,400
Speaker 1: and that many people can get hurt. Do you remember

673
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 1: when a sandy that storm Sandy hit the New Jersey

674
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:44,000
Speaker 1: area and President yeah, superstorm Sandy, and when a President

675
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:46,960
Speaker 1: Obama went to New Jersey and he met with Chris Christie.

676
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:52,160
Speaker 1: Remember that. Yeah, you know, people were so upset about that.

677
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:54,600
Speaker 1: But then so many people were like, you know, you

678
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:58,080
Speaker 1: put your differences aside. Chris Christie was a Republican governor

679
00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 1: at the time, you know, and as an Obama Democratic president,

680
00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:03,680
Speaker 1: they were able to come together with the meeting of

681
00:44:03,719 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 1: the minds, you know. Yeah, but it's yeah, yeah, but

682
00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 1: a part of that too though, the local people, like

683
00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 1: the mayor of El Paso, and they want federal dollars too. Yeah,

684
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:16,640
Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? In New Jersey needed

685
00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:20,120
Speaker 1: federal dollars to help rebuild a Jersey shore, you know,

686
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:23,799
Speaker 1: after Superstorm Sandy. So that's what the mayor of El

687
00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:28,319
Speaker 1: Paso is, right. So we'll see today, won't we. Yeah,

688
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 1: you see, artist turns out all right? Well, coming up next,

689
00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:33,160
Speaker 1: the nephew is here to make us smile again with

690
00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:35,840
Speaker 1: today's prank phone call that's coming up right after this.

691
00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 1: You're listening to show coming up at the top of

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00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:43,880
Speaker 1: the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry

693
00:44:43,960 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 1: letter for today, subject I can't believe how naive I am.

694
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 1: Wait till you hear this letter. But right now the

695
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:54,359
Speaker 1: nephew is in the building with today's prank phone call.

696
00:44:54,440 --> 00:45:00,360
Speaker 1: What do you have for us today? Nevuh m m.

697
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 1: This is so mean. This is me again, Jay, your

698
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 1: new boss. This is so damn me. Well, let's see

699
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:16,000
Speaker 1: how I mean. Come on, your new boss, let's run it. Hello. Hello,

700
00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:20,320
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Jason place. Yester, how cannot help you? Hey, Jason,

701
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:22,440
Speaker 1: this is Lyle. I'm giving you a call out of

702
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:25,680
Speaker 1: human resources. Right. How you doing? You're the former the

703
00:45:25,760 --> 00:45:29,120
Speaker 1: project guy out there. Yes, I am on the project manageers.

704
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:32,920
Speaker 1: I cannot help you. Listen, you've been training an individual

705
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:34,680
Speaker 1: out there, I think for the last month or so

706
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 1: you have, you've been training a Yes, great guy, um

707
00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:42,719
Speaker 1: doing great work. He's doing good. Okay, how is he is?

708
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:45,040
Speaker 1: He coming along pretty good with everything? Oh? Man, he

709
00:45:45,120 --> 00:45:47,560
Speaker 1: picking up real good man. He learned to trade. I

710
00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:49,840
Speaker 1: mean he's picking up. Just let us love from me,

711
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:53,000
Speaker 1: pick up excellent, young welcome. And here's how many moon

712
00:45:53,080 --> 00:45:55,680
Speaker 1: weeks of training out there? I will say probably about

713
00:45:55,680 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 1: another week or two. Well, we let him, you know,

714
00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:00,640
Speaker 1: put put him on his arm. Okay, think he'll handle

715
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:02,840
Speaker 1: it efficiently? Oh yes, I think he would be a

716
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 1: great great employees. Okay, you've been with the company, how long?

717
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 1: Going on about seventeen years? Yeah, my records are telling

718
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:15,600
Speaker 1: me somewhere around sixteen plus, right right, Okay, you've been

719
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:18,279
Speaker 1: with us quite a while. And first of all, let

720
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:19,880
Speaker 1: you know we're grateful of you, of the work that

721
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:22,719
Speaker 1: you're putting in. Well, man, I appreciate a man made man.

722
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:25,080
Speaker 1: I appreciate it. You have the company, man, and you

723
00:46:25,120 --> 00:46:27,319
Speaker 1: know being here to eat many years man. He let

724
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:30,320
Speaker 1: you know, man, I love my company exactly. Listen, we

725
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:33,239
Speaker 1: got a few adjustments we're gonna be making out there

726
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:36,080
Speaker 1: on the plant. Here's what we're gonna do now, you say,

727
00:46:36,520 --> 00:46:38,560
Speaker 1: gonna be done in about a week or two? Yes,

728
00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 1: about a week? Okay, here's here's what we're gonna do

729
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:44,840
Speaker 1: on that particular day that he gets released. And you

730
00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 1: you definitely know he's ready for everything. Um, I'm gonna

731
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 1: want you to give him your key card as well

732
00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:56,480
Speaker 1: as the key to your office. What man, I'm gonna

733
00:46:56,520 --> 00:46:58,799
Speaker 1: want you to give him your key card that gets

734
00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 1: you actually onto the prod pretty and you have you

735
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:05,920
Speaker 1: have your own parking space too, don't you? Yes? I do. Okay,

736
00:47:06,480 --> 00:47:08,920
Speaker 1: Now we're gonna need you to give it your key

737
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:12,640
Speaker 1: card in your office key and um, well, we'll find

738
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:14,880
Speaker 1: you another place to park. He's actually probably gonna be

739
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:17,719
Speaker 1: parking in your space. Hold hold, what you mean you're

740
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:20,239
Speaker 1: telling me to give him my key parking right, I'm

741
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 1: talking to your parking space, but your key card to

742
00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:26,919
Speaker 1: get you onto the property, a little bit electrical card there,

743
00:47:27,360 --> 00:47:30,000
Speaker 1: right that as well as your office. He's gonna actually

744
00:47:30,120 --> 00:47:34,399
Speaker 1: be taking over as project manager. No, no, sir, I'm

745
00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:37,360
Speaker 1: not giving up nothing, sir, nobody to think over the

746
00:47:37,400 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 1: pocket manager. Let's let's first of all, sir, let's do this.

747
00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:41,880
Speaker 1: Let's stone the language down. Okay, we're gonna find a

748
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:44,439
Speaker 1: place for you, but for the time being, we're gonna

749
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:47,000
Speaker 1: put you back into play until we find the game.

750
00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:50,480
Speaker 1: I'm fignd the place of my place right now. I'm

751
00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:53,520
Speaker 1: not moving from nowhere. That's akay. I'm not getting said

752
00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:57,879
Speaker 1: to sign me nothing. I got seventeen years. Ope, Ain't

753
00:47:57,920 --> 00:48:01,319
Speaker 1: nobody said to sign means plays to move. You got

754
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:03,960
Speaker 1: to understand that part down. I got seventeen years up

755
00:48:04,000 --> 00:48:05,879
Speaker 1: in him and chain a young guy and this guy

756
00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 1: got a couple of months, and you're telling me the

757
00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:09,520
Speaker 1: other one to do what to me? Move me, Jason,

758
00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:11,839
Speaker 1: this is a temporary move. We're gonna find something better

759
00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:14,759
Speaker 1: for you. No, you ain't know whatter this the project man.

760
00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 1: Ain't nobody got that understanding. This has come from the

761
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 1: head and on the head and head is I know,

762
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:24,680
Speaker 1: the head of people. This decision actually come from the

763
00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:26,719
Speaker 1: vice president. They ain't told me none of that. It

764
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:28,719
Speaker 1: comes to me first. I'll tell you what, Jason, this

765
00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:30,520
Speaker 1: is something I'm supposed to probably not tell you. But

766
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 1: let me let me let you in on a little something. Yeah,

767
00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:34,279
Speaker 1: let me hand on something, because this is gonna be

768
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:36,440
Speaker 1: some bug him because I shut the whole place up

769
00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 1: out him. And I mean, let me explain something to you, Jason.

770
00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 1: This young guy that you've been training, he's actually the

771
00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:45,280
Speaker 1: nephew of the vice president. I don't give a about

772
00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:47,759
Speaker 1: no neshew or no vice president. Man, do you think

773
00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 1: I care about some president telling him? Tell the president?

774
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 1: I said what I said? Yeah, man, the next you

775
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:55,839
Speaker 1: who care about the nephew? They ain't never told me? Well,

776
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 1: can I expect you to give your key over to him? Oh?

777
00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:01,400
Speaker 1: Hell no, ain't you ain't nobody nothing. Definitely get the

778
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:03,319
Speaker 1: law to come and get it. Ain't nobody getting nothing.

779
00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:05,279
Speaker 1: I ain't leaving how that sounds. So all I can

780
00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:07,600
Speaker 1: ask you for is I need your key card and

781
00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:09,160
Speaker 1: I need the key to your office. I need you

782
00:49:09,239 --> 00:49:11,959
Speaker 1: to empty out your things so we can move Victor

783
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:14,920
Speaker 1: in there and you a place. This is just a

784
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:19,840
Speaker 1: temporary slot right now, you them all, it ain't nobody

785
00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:22,879
Speaker 1: getting nothing saying okay, and I've been here. I tell

786
00:49:22,880 --> 00:49:24,360
Speaker 1: you what I gonna do. I go out there and

787
00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:27,120
Speaker 1: I tempt slap this who love something okay, and then

788
00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:29,319
Speaker 1: I find out who is boll says or whoever did

789
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:31,560
Speaker 1: nest the boat to beach and kick hit because I

790
00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:34,680
Speaker 1: ain't giving up nothing, and I'm talking about job y'all

791
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:36,880
Speaker 1: with the wrong one, Okay, with the wrong one at

792
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 1: this time, because the an't nobody taking nothing. You're talking

793
00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:42,960
Speaker 1: about beating the Vice president's nephew. You're you're you're losing

794
00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:46,160
Speaker 1: control here, uh Jason, No, I ain't losing nothing. I'm

795
00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:48,239
Speaker 1: gonna think control. I'm gonna lose. And when I kick

796
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:50,279
Speaker 1: h how that sounds? And I'm gonna kick the boat

797
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:53,000
Speaker 1: to see you? All them? How that sounds? That makes

798
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:55,880
Speaker 1: sound clear to you? Makes sense? We're trying to just

799
00:49:56,000 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 1: give you someplace to be temporarily until I find you

800
00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:02,680
Speaker 1: another slot. Ain't no other block. My slot is my slot.

801
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:09,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna kick givest rats not how that sound to you?

802
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:11,720
Speaker 1: Turn All I'm asking is I need your key card

803
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:14,000
Speaker 1: and I need the key to the office. Get all

804
00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:15,880
Speaker 1: your things out so I can get Victor moved in

805
00:50:15,960 --> 00:50:19,279
Speaker 1: within the next week. Ain't no, he's okay, all of them,

806
00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:21,560
Speaker 1: I don't give a how that sounds. I don't care

807
00:50:21,760 --> 00:50:24,759
Speaker 1: nothing about them, Okay, because I see you. I maybe

808
00:50:25,120 --> 00:50:27,520
Speaker 1: somebody out here today. Okay, I'm tired of it and

809
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:30,000
Speaker 1: this ain't gonna happen to me. I'm gonna get security

810
00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 1: to come over and walk you out. Okay, No, ain't

811
00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:34,520
Speaker 1: no security for to walk me no where. How that sounds.

812
00:50:34,600 --> 00:50:37,239
Speaker 1: I came here, ain't buy myself. Ain't nobody to walk

813
00:50:37,239 --> 00:50:39,239
Speaker 1: me about the end? Are you having problems moving out

814
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:42,040
Speaker 1: for the nephew, the nephew, Okay, the nephew is not

815
00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:45,600
Speaker 1: gonna come in here and take Okay, there's another that

816
00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:47,399
Speaker 1: you need to be aware of. Do you know who

817
00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:49,799
Speaker 1: the other nephew is? Hell no, I ain't never seen

818
00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:51,920
Speaker 1: no other nephew. I ain't know that wasn't nephew. Let

819
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 1: me tell you who the other one is? Who who

820
00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 1: the other one is? The other one is the nephew

821
00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:58,080
Speaker 1: taught me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show, Jason, you

822
00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:03,799
Speaker 1: just got pranked. Y'all lying with me? Man, Come on, man,

823
00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:09,000
Speaker 1: don't play with me. Man, y'all, man, this ain't no

824
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:11,799
Speaker 1: Tommy Man. Y'all need to put that man. And y'all

825
00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:14,080
Speaker 1: don't know how long the brother man I worked I

826
00:51:14,200 --> 00:51:16,560
Speaker 1: worked my way up, man, he man ain't no just

827
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:19,440
Speaker 1: just baby, y'all. But ma, man, y'all got me, good man,

828
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:21,640
Speaker 1: I got you, man, I got I got one thing

829
00:51:21,719 --> 00:51:24,160
Speaker 1: to ask you. Man, what's the baddest radio show in

830
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:31,839
Speaker 1: the land. That's Steve Harvey Morning Shot Man. Y'all don't

831
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:36,120
Speaker 1: like what I mean? You played to this? Mean it's time.

832
00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:40,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna need your car, kid and y'all. But ya,

833
00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:47,959
Speaker 1: this happens every day. Yeah, real, you can't touched the nerve,

834
00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 1: he said. I know he's doing real good. He don't really, Yeah,

835
00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:53,879
Speaker 1: he's gonna be all right. You know when we when

836
00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:57,239
Speaker 1: we let him go and release be ready. When he

837
00:51:57,320 --> 00:51:59,680
Speaker 1: said I'm gonna come to Maine. I'm gonna come to Maine.

838
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:06,400
Speaker 1: How long you've been there going on seventeen years? Sixteen? Yeah, salty?

839
00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:10,240
Speaker 1: But you know what that happens on the job every

840
00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:15,400
Speaker 1: day every day. Yeah, that's baby, that's how I go

841
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:17,080
Speaker 1: down and you don't even know they're coming for you.

842
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:20,960
Speaker 1: You know you've been there seventeen going on twenty years. Yeah, yeah, man,

843
00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:24,280
Speaker 1: he's doing a good job. Yeah, good good. Hey, where's

844
00:52:24,320 --> 00:52:28,640
Speaker 1: your key card? What? But you ever notice how the

845
00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:30,560
Speaker 1: hearing go out when they hear what they don't want

846
00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 1: to hear me. Excuse me? What say that again? All right, baby,

847
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 1: but that's the Blues and Jazz Supper Club. The Nephew

848
00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 1: was coming back back by popular demand. I will be

849
00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:44,520
Speaker 1: the Labor Day weekend. Y'all come hang out with you boy,

850
00:52:44,600 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 1: Everybody in Maryland, everybody in DC, Virginia, come on upstage.

851
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:56,839
Speaker 1: I'm trying to play low. I want to keep going,

852
00:52:56,920 --> 00:52:58,960
Speaker 1: but I want to saying with you today. But I

853
00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:04,839
Speaker 1: got to get these updates out. Always something Tommy. We're

854
00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:06,480
Speaker 1: gonna work on our number. But that's the Blues and

855
00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:09,000
Speaker 1: jast Summer Club Friday and Saturday. Two shows Friday and

856
00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:14,479
Speaker 1: two on Saturday. Stop that caller, and then and then

857
00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:18,440
Speaker 1: I will be in Greenville the very next weekend, Greenville,

858
00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:21,360
Speaker 1: North Carolina. That's Saturday, September the seventh, at the Greenville

859
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:25,359
Speaker 1: Convention Center. Tickets on see right now. And they're going fast.

860
00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:29,759
Speaker 1: They're going like hot cakes. North Carolina, North Carolina, Caroline.

861
00:53:30,200 --> 00:53:33,160
Speaker 1: I love it. You know what, I actually get to

862
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 1: see my father law when I go to Maryland in DC.

863
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:41,359
Speaker 1: That's what. Okay, nice, nice, nice nice, Okay, that's my man,

864
00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:45,560
Speaker 1: Skipper be his name Skipper y'all say, hey the skilpul alright,

865
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:50,360
Speaker 1: all right, well, thank you nephew. Coming up next, Today's

866
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:53,960
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letters. Subject I can't believe how not Eve I am.

867
00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:56,319
Speaker 1: I can't believe how now Eve I am. We'll get

868
00:53:56,360 --> 00:54:00,759
Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening every morning show

869
00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:04,319
Speaker 1: time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

870
00:54:04,360 --> 00:54:08,240
Speaker 1: advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more, please

871
00:54:08,480 --> 00:54:12,239
Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and click

872
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:14,759
Speaker 1: that submit Strawberry Letter button. Okay, and we could be

873
00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:17,600
Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

874
00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:20,360
Speaker 1: going to read this one right here. I do that

875
00:54:20,480 --> 00:54:26,319
Speaker 1: for Jay Anthony Brown right now. He likes he likes

876
00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:30,520
Speaker 1: that I'm easy to please. Okay, we'll get him. He

877
00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:33,080
Speaker 1: turned on by a paper shaker. It doesn't take much.

878
00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:36,399
Speaker 1: It doesn't take letter. Buckle up and hold on tight.

879
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:39,760
Speaker 1: We got it for you. Here. It is the Strawberry Letter. Subject,

880
00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:43,880
Speaker 1: I can't believe how naive I am. Dear Stephen Shirley.

881
00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:46,080
Speaker 1: I've been married for the past five years to a

882
00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:50,160
Speaker 1: very controlling man. He worked off shore, so he was

883
00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:53,000
Speaker 1: gone from home a lot, and I was not allowed

884
00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:55,759
Speaker 1: to work so I was left home with nothing to do.

885
00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:58,960
Speaker 1: I started getting more involved in the church, and one

886
00:54:59,080 --> 00:55:03,080
Speaker 1: evening after stewardship meeting, I met a handsome man in

887
00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:05,919
Speaker 1: the parking lot of the church. He was in town

888
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:09,440
Speaker 1: visiting his mother and had brought her to the meeting.

889
00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:13,280
Speaker 1: One thing led to another, and we exchanged phone numbers

890
00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:18,440
Speaker 1: and secretly talked whenever we could. We knew about my situation.

891
00:55:18,600 --> 00:55:21,480
Speaker 1: He knew about my situation at home, and he always

892
00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:25,600
Speaker 1: offered me great advice and support. He lives in another state,

893
00:55:25,760 --> 00:55:28,200
Speaker 1: six hours from me, so he offered to buy me

894
00:55:28,280 --> 00:55:30,320
Speaker 1: a plane ticket to come to town just for a

895
00:55:30,440 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 1: day so we could hang out. I told him that

896
00:55:33,760 --> 00:55:37,600
Speaker 1: was a bit much, but I would think about it well.

897
00:55:37,960 --> 00:55:41,080
Speaker 1: He bought a plane ticket for me anyway. I told

898
00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:43,600
Speaker 1: him that I didn't appreciate that kind of pressure from

899
00:55:43,719 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 1: him and he was being too forward. He got so

900
00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:49,920
Speaker 1: angry that he was yelling through the phone that I

901
00:55:50,040 --> 00:55:56,719
Speaker 1: owed him two hundred dollars okay. I told him that

902
00:55:57,320 --> 00:55:59,520
Speaker 1: I didn't ask him to buy the ticket and I

903
00:55:59,680 --> 00:56:02,920
Speaker 1: was not paying for him paying him for it. He

904
00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:05,680
Speaker 1: said he would tell my husband about us, and that

905
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:08,960
Speaker 1: we have been sneaking around behind his back. I thought

906
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:11,839
Speaker 1: he was bluffing, and I stopped answering his calls. Can

907
00:56:12,000 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 1: you believe this crazy man called my husband a week

908
00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:21,879
Speaker 1: later and told him everything. Wow, now my husband wants

909
00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:25,319
Speaker 1: to divorce me. Yeah. I can't believe that I went

910
00:56:25,360 --> 00:56:28,440
Speaker 1: outside my marriage and confide it in a total stranger.

911
00:56:28,680 --> 00:56:31,000
Speaker 1: I thought he was a trustworthy guy. One of my

912
00:56:31,120 --> 00:56:33,040
Speaker 1: friends at the church told me I should use this

913
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:35,320
Speaker 1: as a way to get out of my sad marriage

914
00:56:35,320 --> 00:56:37,799
Speaker 1: and move on. But I want to clear my name

915
00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 1: and not be looked at as a cheater. I had

916
00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:43,400
Speaker 1: no plans to have sex with the other guy. What

917
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:48,080
Speaker 1: should I do? Wow? OMG, what a loser guy he was.

918
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:53,080
Speaker 1: I mean, really, you didn't pick a good one. I

919
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:55,560
Speaker 1: gotta go back to the letter though for a minute.

920
00:56:56,040 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 1: You say one thing led to another? What does that

921
00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:02,319
Speaker 1: mean all? Do? I mean? Really? You go from meeting

922
00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:04,920
Speaker 1: him in the parking lot, then one thing led to another,

923
00:57:05,000 --> 00:57:08,600
Speaker 1: and you exchange phone numbers and secretly talked whenever you could.

924
00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:11,520
Speaker 1: He knew about your situation at home. That means you

925
00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:14,440
Speaker 1: were running your mouth and talking to him and telling

926
00:57:14,520 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 1: him all your business about your husband and how you know,

927
00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:21,680
Speaker 1: unhappy you were and all of that stuff. Um, you know,

928
00:57:22,280 --> 00:57:24,840
Speaker 1: I just don't understand why you gave him your number

929
00:57:24,880 --> 00:57:29,480
Speaker 1: in the first place. Mismarried lady, Well just hold on

930
00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:34,720
Speaker 1: in the You gave him your phone number in the

931
00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:42,880
Speaker 1: church parking lot, Thomas Miles right after the stewardship meeting. Now, yeah,

932
00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:45,600
Speaker 1: I mean, do you know what stewardship means. I mean,

933
00:57:45,680 --> 00:57:48,200
Speaker 1: did you learn what stewardship means while you were in

934
00:57:48,280 --> 00:57:52,480
Speaker 1: the stewardship meeting. It means taking care of or or

935
00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:55,760
Speaker 1: managing responsibly the things that God has blessed you with.

936
00:57:56,000 --> 00:58:00,760
Speaker 1: That's what stewardship means. That means, you know, managing your marriage,

937
00:58:00,840 --> 00:58:03,080
Speaker 1: taking care of your marriage. You were not doing that.

938
00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:06,520
Speaker 1: In marriage, you don't do things like secretly talk to

939
00:58:06,640 --> 00:58:09,240
Speaker 1: other men, you know, and stuff like that. You guys

940
00:58:09,360 --> 00:58:11,600
Speaker 1: probably texting. You didn't put it in the letter. But

941
00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:14,280
Speaker 1: if you're secretly talking to him, you're secretly doing a

942
00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:17,640
Speaker 1: lot of other things too. That's called emotional cheating. I mean,

943
00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:20,520
Speaker 1: you were teasing him. You didn't tell him absolutely no,

944
00:58:21,040 --> 00:58:23,560
Speaker 1: you were leading him on. You told him you would

945
00:58:23,600 --> 00:58:27,120
Speaker 1: think about it. Okay, he probably heard, yes, I'm gonna

946
00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:28,840
Speaker 1: let me get this ticket she gonna you know, I

947
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:31,760
Speaker 1: can convince her to come up here with me. And

948
00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:34,520
Speaker 1: then he got managed. You started yelling through the phone.

949
00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:37,760
Speaker 1: He's controlling. It sounds like just like your husband. You

950
00:58:37,840 --> 00:58:43,040
Speaker 1: know this is crazy. I'm sorry that your husband wants

951
00:58:43,080 --> 00:58:46,200
Speaker 1: to divorce you now, but because he thinks you're cheating.

952
00:58:46,320 --> 00:58:48,800
Speaker 1: Your husband's gone a lot, he's off shore. Who knows

953
00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:51,560
Speaker 1: what he's doing. I'm not saying he's cheating, but you're

954
00:58:51,680 --> 00:58:54,960
Speaker 1: sitting at home unhappy. Why stay in a very unhappy

955
00:58:55,040 --> 00:58:58,000
Speaker 1: marriage anyway? You know, one of your friends at the

956
00:58:58,080 --> 00:59:00,280
Speaker 1: church told you that you should use this as a

957
00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:03,640
Speaker 1: way to get out of your sad marriage and move on. Okay,

958
00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:07,080
Speaker 1: that could be some good advice because you are in

959
00:59:07,160 --> 00:59:10,560
Speaker 1: an unhappy marriage, But you do want to clear your name.

960
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:13,120
Speaker 1: You said you can do that after the fact. Your

961
00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:15,720
Speaker 1: husband doesn't sound like he's going to believe you. Anyway.

962
00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:19,640
Speaker 1: You guys have grown apart. He's not there. You're off secretly.

963
00:59:20,000 --> 00:59:22,440
Speaker 1: You know, with this other guy talking to him. You

964
00:59:22,760 --> 00:59:25,240
Speaker 1: weren't planning on having sex with this other guy. But

965
00:59:25,320 --> 00:59:27,200
Speaker 1: I tell you what that other guy was planning on

966
00:59:27,680 --> 00:59:30,000
Speaker 1: having sex with you if he bought you a plane

967
00:59:30,000 --> 00:59:32,760
Speaker 1: ticket and wanted you to come out. There. Was he

968
00:59:32,840 --> 00:59:34,960
Speaker 1: wrong for telling your husband? Of course he was. I

969
00:59:35,160 --> 00:59:40,880
Speaker 1: was just vindictive and crazy. But yeah, yeah, you know

970
00:59:41,160 --> 00:59:43,360
Speaker 1: your husband is going to divorce you. It looks like

971
00:59:43,480 --> 00:59:44,880
Speaker 1: I don't see how you can get out of this

972
00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:48,920
Speaker 1: and clear your name, not right now anyway, because of

973
00:59:49,200 --> 00:59:53,640
Speaker 1: what this man said to him, Junior. Yea on you huh.

974
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:58,560
Speaker 1: I can't believe how naive I am nobody reading this letter. King,

975
00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:02,000
Speaker 1: go ahay it and get the divorce. Yeah, just go

976
01:00:02,040 --> 01:00:03,880
Speaker 1: ahead and get it because your marriage is done. Yeah,

977
01:00:04,160 --> 01:00:06,400
Speaker 1: the trust is gone. You should have went, to be

978
01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:10,000
Speaker 1: honest with you. No, you should have went out, yeah, man,

979
01:00:10,160 --> 01:00:11,600
Speaker 1: because if you if you, if you would have went,

980
01:00:11,720 --> 01:00:14,439
Speaker 1: you still have your husband. But now now you ain't

981
01:00:14,480 --> 01:00:17,120
Speaker 1: got that. No, Mo, he was crazy. I don't care.

982
01:00:17,240 --> 01:00:19,680
Speaker 1: You should have went if you thought your husband was

983
01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:23,120
Speaker 1: controlling before, watch how control even be? Now? Put your

984
01:00:23,240 --> 01:00:25,240
Speaker 1: damn head down. I can't let you look at nothing.

985
01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:29,200
Speaker 1: And this guy is controlling too. Yeah. Get yeah, get

986
01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:31,040
Speaker 1: in the bathroom, lock the dough. I'll tell you when

987
01:00:31,120 --> 01:00:34,600
Speaker 1: to come out. It can't go nowhere. All right, listen,

988
01:00:34,960 --> 01:00:38,000
Speaker 1: We'll have part two of the Strawberry Letter coming up

989
01:00:38,040 --> 01:00:40,480
Speaker 1: at twenty three after the hours, subject, I can't believe

990
01:00:40,520 --> 01:00:42,920
Speaker 1: how naive I am. We'll get back into it right

991
01:00:42,960 --> 01:00:48,360
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening show. All right, guys, let's recap

992
01:00:48,440 --> 01:00:52,680
Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter. Wow, subject, I can't believe how naive

993
01:00:52,720 --> 01:00:55,160
Speaker 1: I am. This woman who's been married for the past

994
01:00:55,240 --> 01:00:58,000
Speaker 1: five years to a very controlling man, she says, who

995
01:00:58,080 --> 01:01:01,280
Speaker 1: works offshore. He's gone from home a lot. She's not

996
01:01:01,400 --> 01:01:04,520
Speaker 1: allowed to work, so she's just left at home with

997
01:01:04,680 --> 01:01:07,200
Speaker 1: nothing to do. She didn't mention any kids or anything,

998
01:01:07,480 --> 01:01:10,240
Speaker 1: so she's just sitting there. So she started getting more

999
01:01:10,320 --> 01:01:13,600
Speaker 1: involved in the church and everything. One evening she went

1000
01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:16,040
Speaker 1: to a stewardship meeting and she made a very handsome

1001
01:01:16,080 --> 01:01:20,560
Speaker 1: man in the church parking lot. Right after the stewardship meeting.

1002
01:01:20,600 --> 01:01:22,840
Speaker 1: He was in town visiting his mom. He lives in

1003
01:01:22,920 --> 01:01:26,400
Speaker 1: another state, about six hours away. So they exchanged phone

1004
01:01:26,440 --> 01:01:29,360
Speaker 1: numbers because one thing led to another, you know, and

1005
01:01:29,520 --> 01:01:34,160
Speaker 1: they now secretly talk on the phone. He knows about

1006
01:01:34,200 --> 01:01:36,280
Speaker 1: her situation at home. Now, how does he know that

1007
01:01:36,400 --> 01:01:38,880
Speaker 1: he just met you? Because you're talking. You're telling him

1008
01:01:38,920 --> 01:01:41,840
Speaker 1: your business about all this stuff. So he offered you

1009
01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:46,080
Speaker 1: some great advice and some support. And he also offered

1010
01:01:46,120 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 1: to buy you a plane ticket, but you told him

1011
01:01:49,360 --> 01:01:51,680
Speaker 1: that was a bit much, but you would think about it.

1012
01:01:51,960 --> 01:01:54,560
Speaker 1: That's all the opening he needed. He went ahead and

1013
01:01:54,640 --> 01:01:57,600
Speaker 1: bought the ticket. You turned him down. Then he told

1014
01:01:57,640 --> 01:02:00,680
Speaker 1: you you owed him the money. Then he got on

1015
01:02:00,800 --> 01:02:03,520
Speaker 1: the phone called your husband, told your husband everything, and

1016
01:02:03,680 --> 01:02:07,320
Speaker 1: then some now your husband wants to divorce you. A

1017
01:02:07,440 --> 01:02:09,200
Speaker 1: friend told you it's a way to get out of

1018
01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:11,320
Speaker 1: your sad marriage and move on, but you want to

1019
01:02:11,360 --> 01:02:14,240
Speaker 1: clear your name. You can't have it both ways. You're

1020
01:02:14,280 --> 01:02:15,880
Speaker 1: gonna have to get out of this marriage because your

1021
01:02:16,240 --> 01:02:20,000
Speaker 1: husband doesn't believe you anymore, and you're kind of on

1022
01:02:20,120 --> 01:02:22,240
Speaker 1: your own now, you're kind of on your own. Jay,

1023
01:02:22,320 --> 01:02:26,240
Speaker 1: what you got? You know what? What? You know what?

1024
01:02:27,000 --> 01:02:30,440
Speaker 1: I can't believe how cheap this lady is. It didn't

1025
01:02:30,440 --> 01:02:33,320
Speaker 1: take up two hundred damn dollars to get out of

1026
01:02:33,400 --> 01:02:36,280
Speaker 1: this situation. There was an old man, this is the

1027
01:02:36,320 --> 01:02:39,240
Speaker 1: ideal oil. He's a church steward. He ain't got that

1028
01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:42,440
Speaker 1: kind of money. He sent you two hundred dollars and

1029
01:02:42,440 --> 01:02:44,440
Speaker 1: he asked you to give me the money back. You

1030
01:02:44,520 --> 01:02:47,080
Speaker 1: could have sent it back to him, but new you

1031
01:02:47,200 --> 01:02:49,560
Speaker 1: want to play You play with his emotions first of all,

1032
01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:54,240
Speaker 1: on the phone talking heaping it up, yap, yap, yapping,

1033
01:02:54,440 --> 01:02:56,680
Speaker 1: my husband, don't do this. And he said, I'm gonna

1034
01:02:56,680 --> 01:02:59,440
Speaker 1: send you two hundred dollars ticket and I'm asking you,

1035
01:03:00,160 --> 01:03:02,160
Speaker 1: out of good faith, could you send me the money.

1036
01:03:02,240 --> 01:03:04,800
Speaker 1: He probably ain't got that kind of money. And all

1037
01:03:04,880 --> 01:03:07,479
Speaker 1: you you know what two hundred dollars is. That's two

1038
01:03:07,720 --> 01:03:10,480
Speaker 1: bags of grocery when them when him when him expensive

1039
01:03:10,560 --> 01:03:14,360
Speaker 1: food store. That's too bad. The whole food that two

1040
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:16,760
Speaker 1: bags you go to? What's the show with they had

1041
01:03:16,800 --> 01:03:18,520
Speaker 1: him high prices with the M and the K. I

1042
01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:22,439
Speaker 1: can't think of the name of it, um the lady

1043
01:03:22,520 --> 01:03:25,439
Speaker 1: show with the M and the K or something that. Yeah,

1044
01:03:25,520 --> 01:03:28,960
Speaker 1: that's maybe one shoe you get one shoe out, Yeah,

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01:03:29,560 --> 01:03:32,720
Speaker 1: you get him my crunget you one shoe. That's a

1046
01:03:32,880 --> 01:03:36,160
Speaker 1: cable bill for one month. But you couldn't do that, nude.

1047
01:03:36,920 --> 01:03:40,280
Speaker 1: You couldn't send the man back to two hundred damn dollars.

1048
01:03:40,480 --> 01:03:42,960
Speaker 1: He asked you nicely, and he put it that on.

1049
01:03:43,080 --> 01:03:45,440
Speaker 1: He's saying, if you don't send me my money because

1050
01:03:45,480 --> 01:03:47,920
Speaker 1: that's his money, ain't got that. I'm gonna tell your

1051
01:03:48,000 --> 01:03:51,080
Speaker 1: husband what tell him. Tell him now he told him.

1052
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:53,880
Speaker 1: Now you out of a husband, and all you had

1053
01:03:54,000 --> 01:03:58,080
Speaker 1: to do? Lady, what's come up with two hundred dollars?

1054
01:03:58,560 --> 01:04:01,640
Speaker 1: Your man is gone away. He don't know how much

1055
01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:05,040
Speaker 1: money you're spending him. See you for six? Two hundred

1056
01:04:05,200 --> 01:04:09,040
Speaker 1: damn dollars? That don't make no sin? Does it not

1057
01:04:09,360 --> 01:04:11,800
Speaker 1: right for you to do that? The man sent you

1058
01:04:11,960 --> 01:04:15,240
Speaker 1: a ticket and it said two hundred dollars and you

1059
01:04:15,440 --> 01:04:18,400
Speaker 1: did not send the man the money back? What kind

1060
01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:21,520
Speaker 1: of message do you talking to every night? Not only

1061
01:04:21,560 --> 01:04:23,640
Speaker 1: that he should have asked you for the damn phone

1062
01:04:23,720 --> 01:04:26,080
Speaker 1: build money, but no, he asked you for that. He

1063
01:04:26,240 --> 01:04:28,960
Speaker 1: asked you for two, and we just washed this duck

1064
01:04:29,000 --> 01:04:31,600
Speaker 1: could go away? How you know him? From me again?

1065
01:04:31,760 --> 01:04:35,600
Speaker 1: I'll change chages if you just send me two. I

1066
01:04:35,600 --> 01:04:39,760
Speaker 1: ain't sending you a damn that two hundred damn dollars.

1067
01:04:39,840 --> 01:04:43,959
Speaker 1: Oh all right, thank you, full movie ticket. You're gonna

1068
01:04:44,000 --> 01:04:47,640
Speaker 1: movie full time and with popcorn and everything for two.

1069
01:04:48,200 --> 01:04:51,240
Speaker 1: Sending that man that money. You're getting what you deserve.

1070
01:04:51,360 --> 01:04:54,439
Speaker 1: You deserve all of this, all right, say we gotta

1071
01:04:54,480 --> 01:04:58,160
Speaker 1: hear from the neck you now, thank you? You're really

1072
01:04:58,240 --> 01:05:00,880
Speaker 1: mad about that too? Under dollar? What you got, nephew,

1073
01:05:01,560 --> 01:05:05,080
Speaker 1: This ain't nothing but some people from New Orleans. That's all. Listen,

1074
01:05:06,280 --> 01:05:09,440
Speaker 1: all right, this is a Gulf coast hot miss. Do

1075
01:05:09,480 --> 01:05:13,040
Speaker 1: you understand me? I know, I know lava Lake talk.

1076
01:05:13,160 --> 01:05:17,280
Speaker 1: When I hear all right, they probably live in Lake Talk. Loveya.

1077
01:05:17,440 --> 01:05:21,040
Speaker 1: He works all off shore. Okay, Okay, So this one

1078
01:05:21,080 --> 01:05:22,960
Speaker 1: I'm fenna help you out with. You don't want to

1079
01:05:22,960 --> 01:05:25,360
Speaker 1: look like no cheatle. I'm gonna take you from cheetah

1080
01:05:25,400 --> 01:05:27,680
Speaker 1: to crazy. Now you gotta pick out which one you want.

1081
01:05:28,240 --> 01:05:30,000
Speaker 1: But he's a cheetah or crazy. I can't stop it

1082
01:05:30,000 --> 01:05:31,840
Speaker 1: from being a cheetah. This is what you need to do.

1083
01:05:32,160 --> 01:05:36,440
Speaker 1: Go down to the French quarter, get you a voodoo dog,

1084
01:05:37,320 --> 01:05:40,000
Speaker 1: and we're gonna put this route on his ass. You

1085
01:05:40,120 --> 01:05:42,800
Speaker 1: understand me. That's what we've fend to do night. In fact,

1086
01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:44,760
Speaker 1: you're gonna go a little deep. I already heard how

1087
01:05:44,800 --> 01:05:47,080
Speaker 1: they do. These roots sometimes go down to his house.

1088
01:05:47,120 --> 01:05:50,560
Speaker 1: Six hours wait, same same two d go down there,

1089
01:05:50,760 --> 01:05:53,480
Speaker 1: get something his draws and bury them in his yard.

1090
01:05:53,920 --> 01:05:57,120
Speaker 1: They say, if you go past that yard while them

1091
01:05:57,240 --> 01:06:00,560
Speaker 1: draws is beared, you're gonna fall out right there. That's

1092
01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:02,600
Speaker 1: actually gonna get him back that's how you're gonna get

1093
01:06:02,680 --> 01:06:04,520
Speaker 1: him back, and he's gonna be called in if they

1094
01:06:04,560 --> 01:06:06,120
Speaker 1: please come get your drugs. I'm like, y'all, I don't

1095
01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:07,360
Speaker 1: know where they I need you come out here and

1096
01:06:07,360 --> 01:06:09,320
Speaker 1: dig up your drugs out my y'all. I can't live

1097
01:06:09,400 --> 01:06:12,600
Speaker 1: my life. I promise you get him back. Don't be

1098
01:06:13,040 --> 01:06:15,560
Speaker 1: You're gonna lose your husband. That's all. That's already. Yeah,

1099
01:06:16,000 --> 01:06:18,920
Speaker 1: go back and put some damage on this food right here.

1100
01:06:20,320 --> 01:06:22,040
Speaker 1: All right? Oh you mean pay the man back who

1101
01:06:22,160 --> 01:06:27,280
Speaker 1: told her husband? Yes? Yes, okay, all right, all right, well,

1102
01:06:27,360 --> 01:06:33,000
Speaker 1: thank you guys. A lot of different perspectives. All right. Listen,

1103
01:06:33,080 --> 01:06:35,960
Speaker 1: you can email us your Instagram your thoughts on today's

1104
01:06:35,960 --> 01:06:38,240
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM, or you can check

1105
01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:41,640
Speaker 1: out the Strawberry Letter podcasts go to on demand. Now.

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01:06:41,720 --> 01:06:43,720
Speaker 1: Coming up at forty six after the hour, we're gonna

1107
01:06:43,760 --> 01:06:47,200
Speaker 1: talk about Marshawn Lynch's confrontation with a football mom. Did

1108
01:06:47,200 --> 01:06:49,040
Speaker 1: you guys see this when he asked her, is here

1109
01:06:49,040 --> 01:06:51,080
Speaker 1: a man here with you? We're gonna talk about that

1110
01:06:51,280 --> 01:06:55,120
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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01:06:55,960 --> 01:06:59,320
Speaker 1: Former NFL star Marshawn Lynch cussed out a group of

1112
01:06:59,520 --> 01:07:02,760
Speaker 1: kids during drills at his football camp in Seattle. It

1113
01:07:02,880 --> 01:07:06,919
Speaker 1: was a Lyncha's family first football camp in Seattle where

1114
01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:10,200
Speaker 1: Marshan was coaching about two hundred kids or so when

1115
01:07:10,280 --> 01:07:12,960
Speaker 1: one of the moms confronted him, and Marshawn tried to

1116
01:07:13,040 --> 01:07:15,800
Speaker 1: speak to this upset mother and then he asked her,

1117
01:07:16,160 --> 01:07:18,240
Speaker 1: is there a man here with you? Take a listen.

1118
01:07:24,840 --> 01:07:30,840
Speaker 1: It's not a man here with you, but I don't care.

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01:07:31,160 --> 01:07:35,000
Speaker 1: It's my son. Wow. Yeah, well see I get what

1120
01:07:35,080 --> 01:07:37,920
Speaker 1: you ah, No, I get it, okay from I want

1121
01:07:37,920 --> 01:07:39,280
Speaker 1: to distract you. I want to talk to a man

1122
01:07:39,360 --> 01:07:41,640
Speaker 1: and I can talk to man to man and we can.

1123
01:07:42,000 --> 01:07:44,040
Speaker 1: He can understand exactly where I was coming from out

1124
01:07:44,080 --> 01:07:46,000
Speaker 1: here on this football call, on this football But you

1125
01:07:46,080 --> 01:07:48,840
Speaker 1: know what a lot of people, Tommy were upset because

1126
01:07:48,920 --> 01:07:52,439
Speaker 1: they thought he was being chauvinistic, uh and talking down

1127
01:07:52,600 --> 01:07:55,360
Speaker 1: to this kid's mom. So a lot of people got

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01:07:55,480 --> 01:07:58,000
Speaker 1: upset with him at how he was speaking. They thought

1129
01:07:58,040 --> 01:08:01,440
Speaker 1: he was being dismissive of her. Yeah, he was talking

1130
01:08:01,600 --> 01:08:04,800
Speaker 1: like they talked to football players. And and the mom

1131
01:08:04,920 --> 01:08:07,720
Speaker 1: camp be there to baby him when he's when she

1132
01:08:07,880 --> 01:08:10,200
Speaker 1: hears something that she doesn't normally hear at the house.

1133
01:08:10,280 --> 01:08:13,040
Speaker 1: This is how they talk. Absolutely, this is dad, don't

1134
01:08:13,160 --> 01:08:16,880
Speaker 1: I mean coaches. I mean, even like me eating as

1135
01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:19,599
Speaker 1: good as I was, if I messed up, coach, coach

1136
01:08:19,680 --> 01:08:21,680
Speaker 1: still got on my case and I didn't like the

1137
01:08:21,720 --> 01:08:23,160
Speaker 1: words that came out of his mouth. But you know

1138
01:08:23,200 --> 01:08:24,519
Speaker 1: what they taught me to do to block out the

1139
01:08:24,600 --> 01:08:27,880
Speaker 1: noise and focus back on my job. Okay, you still

1140
01:08:27,920 --> 01:08:29,559
Speaker 1: have to get back out and played this game. Now,

1141
01:08:29,600 --> 01:08:31,120
Speaker 1: if you don't like to play this, it's another sports

1142
01:08:31,120 --> 01:08:32,760
Speaker 1: you can gonna play. You're gonna fay chess, go do

1143
01:08:32,840 --> 01:08:34,439
Speaker 1: something like that. They don't talk like that. Still behind

1144
01:08:34,520 --> 01:08:38,160
Speaker 1: him line, he wasn't being disrespectful to the model. He did.

1145
01:08:38,360 --> 01:08:41,200
Speaker 1: He was trying not to be disrespectful to her. That's

1146
01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:43,640
Speaker 1: why he wanted to speak to a man again. And

1147
01:08:43,680 --> 01:08:46,920
Speaker 1: I think it's too too, because you know, I've volunteered,

1148
01:08:47,080 --> 01:08:49,880
Speaker 1: you know, at football camps. My nephew is a professional

1149
01:08:49,920 --> 01:08:52,360
Speaker 1: football player. He had football camp. I've been there so

1150
01:08:52,560 --> 01:08:54,960
Speaker 1: a lot of times too, with these football players and

1151
01:08:55,160 --> 01:08:57,400
Speaker 1: what they're trying to do with these kids, because it's

1152
01:08:57,400 --> 01:09:00,840
Speaker 1: a dream to play in the NFL, and you you

1153
01:09:01,000 --> 01:09:03,680
Speaker 1: might get them ready. You gotta get them ready. So

1154
01:09:03,920 --> 01:09:07,160
Speaker 1: sometimes you know, these coaches, they they talk to these kids,

1155
01:09:07,640 --> 01:09:10,760
Speaker 1: you know, they're rough, and Marshawn, these kids are young.

1156
01:09:11,120 --> 01:09:14,680
Speaker 1: These are not ten and eleven year old kids, and

1157
01:09:14,880 --> 01:09:17,640
Speaker 1: he was talking to them rough. So the question is

1158
01:09:17,960 --> 01:09:21,600
Speaker 1: should he take it a more professional way or you know,

1159
01:09:21,720 --> 01:09:23,920
Speaker 1: the moms were like, what does it matter if my

1160
01:09:24,040 --> 01:09:26,080
Speaker 1: man is here or not? You know, it's a lot

1161
01:09:26,160 --> 01:09:31,760
Speaker 1: of issues that it was with this conformation yesterday. Yesterday

1162
01:09:31,920 --> 01:09:36,800
Speaker 1: was Jordan's first day of football. Yeah. Contact, he's eight

1163
01:09:36,920 --> 01:09:39,800
Speaker 1: years old. Yeah, them coaches hotting like all get out

1164
01:09:39,840 --> 01:09:42,559
Speaker 1: out there. Yeah, oh my god. And I was like, boy,

1165
01:09:42,640 --> 01:09:44,960
Speaker 1: this brings back memories and you know what I've got.

1166
01:09:45,479 --> 01:09:47,679
Speaker 1: I want him to hear it. You better do everything

1167
01:09:47,720 --> 01:09:50,719
Speaker 1: they're telling you to do you want to play football.

1168
01:09:50,880 --> 01:09:53,600
Speaker 1: It reminds me, well what we can carry this conversation on,

1169
01:09:53,720 --> 01:09:55,879
Speaker 1: but it reminds me a little bit of Steve's mentoring

1170
01:09:55,960 --> 01:09:58,760
Speaker 1: camp too. And I'll tell ye, yes, all right, coming

1171
01:09:58,840 --> 01:10:00,400
Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, we're to talk

1172
01:10:00,439 --> 01:10:04,599
Speaker 1: more about this Marshawn Lynch situation about coaching, about parenting,

1173
01:10:04,920 --> 01:10:12,360
Speaker 1: and we'll do that right after this. You're listening, all right,

1174
01:10:12,479 --> 01:10:15,280
Speaker 1: So during our last break, we were talking about should

1175
01:10:15,320 --> 01:10:18,439
Speaker 1: Marshawn Lynch and his confrontation with one of the moms

1176
01:10:18,479 --> 01:10:21,720
Speaker 1: at his football camp for kids. Should Marshawn have been

1177
01:10:21,760 --> 01:10:24,160
Speaker 1: more professional and not cuss at the kids during his

1178
01:10:24,240 --> 01:10:27,240
Speaker 1: football camp in Seattle? And we were talking, you guys

1179
01:10:27,280 --> 01:10:30,400
Speaker 1: have all played sports, and you were talking about, well, Jay,

1180
01:10:33,960 --> 01:10:36,280
Speaker 1: you have to have the band out dead. Oh okay?

1181
01:10:36,439 --> 01:10:41,280
Speaker 1: And they was rough too, wasn't it. Yeah. He was

1182
01:10:41,360 --> 01:10:43,360
Speaker 1: saying that you didn't know a coach who didn't cuss

1183
01:10:43,439 --> 01:10:45,439
Speaker 1: up my kid? I did not know one. I mean,

1184
01:10:45,520 --> 01:10:49,400
Speaker 1: it's just yeah. But but he got criticized for talking

1185
01:10:49,600 --> 01:10:51,760
Speaker 1: for asking the mom is there a man here? People

1186
01:10:51,800 --> 01:10:54,559
Speaker 1: thought he was talking down to the man to the mom,

1187
01:10:55,000 --> 01:10:57,640
Speaker 1: It seems like he just didn't want to be disrespectful

1188
01:10:57,680 --> 01:10:59,360
Speaker 1: to her and he would just rather talk to a

1189
01:10:59,439 --> 01:11:02,800
Speaker 1: man about this situation with his son. But I was

1190
01:11:02,840 --> 01:11:04,760
Speaker 1: saying before the break that it kind of reminds me

1191
01:11:04,840 --> 01:11:08,160
Speaker 1: of Steve's mentoring camp. How he takes in only boys

1192
01:11:08,240 --> 01:11:14,080
Speaker 1: from single moms, and he mentors the boys away from

1193
01:11:14,200 --> 01:11:18,960
Speaker 1: the moms, right because he is the point is is

1194
01:11:19,000 --> 01:11:21,840
Speaker 1: to bring them into manhood and to talk to them

1195
01:11:22,000 --> 01:11:26,200
Speaker 1: how man to man and it's that's what this situation

1196
01:11:26,320 --> 01:11:31,760
Speaker 1: reminds me of. Yeah, and man to man, maybe yeah, yeah,

1197
01:11:32,120 --> 01:11:34,960
Speaker 1: that's where the way I love. I played football for

1198
01:11:35,080 --> 01:11:37,040
Speaker 1: one day because I was I know the other thing.

1199
01:11:37,080 --> 01:11:42,600
Speaker 1: I'm lying. But one day what happened quickly. You know

1200
01:11:42,680 --> 01:11:50,160
Speaker 1: how many people have never played one day. I played

1201
01:11:50,720 --> 01:11:57,760
Speaker 1: pads everything one day, one full damn day whatever. I'm

1202
01:11:58,000 --> 01:12:00,320
Speaker 1: that And I could chick the ball really fun because

1203
01:12:00,320 --> 01:12:02,760
Speaker 1: I was kicking. And I kicked the ball about two

1204
01:12:02,800 --> 01:12:04,640
Speaker 1: or three times. I let's suit up the next day.

1205
01:12:04,720 --> 01:12:07,760
Speaker 1: And then I got hit and I got hit really

1206
01:12:07,880 --> 01:12:11,479
Speaker 1: really hard, and the coach, the coach cuts me out

1207
01:12:11,640 --> 01:12:14,559
Speaker 1: so bad. But here's the thing. I had been getting

1208
01:12:14,600 --> 01:12:17,000
Speaker 1: cuts out at home. I just thought this was very

1209
01:12:17,160 --> 01:12:19,759
Speaker 1: nice to him to talk to me in that tone,

1210
01:12:19,920 --> 01:12:24,960
Speaker 1: because the cussing I was getting at the house was nothing.

1211
01:12:25,040 --> 01:12:28,960
Speaker 1: I mean, that's all. That's all you got. You got,

1212
01:12:29,640 --> 01:12:32,840
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'll be out there the football field get

1213
01:12:32,920 --> 01:12:35,280
Speaker 1: custed out. And my daddy stating right there, he helped.

1214
01:12:36,920 --> 01:12:39,880
Speaker 1: Ain't nothing like your father cussings at you from the sideline,

1215
01:12:40,400 --> 01:12:45,080
Speaker 1: because it prepares you for life. Football players grow up,

1216
01:12:46,160 --> 01:12:50,000
Speaker 1: grow up, you know, And it's it's true for for

1217
01:12:50,120 --> 01:12:53,240
Speaker 1: girls sports too. I mean this period. I think, yeah

1218
01:12:54,080 --> 01:13:02,320
Speaker 1: competitive that movie. There's no crying in baseball. Yeah, they

1219
01:13:02,360 --> 01:13:04,800
Speaker 1: don't care about your feelings. Right, And let me tell

1220
01:13:04,800 --> 01:13:06,960
Speaker 1: you something, when you got Marshaw Linz has some eight

1221
01:13:07,080 --> 01:13:09,400
Speaker 1: nineteen year old boys out there when they are when

1222
01:13:09,439 --> 01:13:13,360
Speaker 1: they're eight nineteen eleven years old, trust me, they are

1223
01:13:13,479 --> 01:13:16,439
Speaker 1: not completely focused. If they're not on the field, then

1224
01:13:16,439 --> 01:13:18,880
Speaker 1: they over here playing with each other. And you know,

1225
01:13:19,120 --> 01:13:21,519
Speaker 1: a coach wants your underbouted attention. I told my son,

1226
01:13:21,560 --> 01:13:24,880
Speaker 1: I said, listen, you playing, they're hidden now, this ain't

1227
01:13:24,920 --> 01:13:27,240
Speaker 1: flag no more. So you better pay attention because if

1228
01:13:27,240 --> 01:13:28,760
Speaker 1: you don't know something, you freg knocked on your butt

1229
01:13:28,800 --> 01:13:34,400
Speaker 1: and we're not quitting you. Yeah, cry, you're gonna go home.

1230
01:13:34,400 --> 01:13:38,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be back out here tomorrow. That's it. Yeah, yeah,

1231
01:13:38,240 --> 01:13:41,160
Speaker 1: that's that's That's how I got all that in one

1232
01:13:41,320 --> 01:13:45,200
Speaker 1: I got all that in one year. But you quit,

1233
01:13:45,400 --> 01:13:49,200
Speaker 1: but you stopped. Why do you look what I learned.

1234
01:13:49,320 --> 01:13:55,479
Speaker 1: I learned a lot, but you suited up with the everything.

1235
01:13:55,720 --> 01:14:03,479
Speaker 1: Jay got all that one pl ten fid you were

1236
01:14:03,520 --> 01:14:06,360
Speaker 1: ready for the NFL. You got it all in one

1237
01:14:06,479 --> 01:14:12,320
Speaker 1: day game and Junior in the last break we all

1238
01:14:12,439 --> 01:14:14,680
Speaker 1: got when you said that's how good you were, and

1239
01:14:14,800 --> 01:14:17,320
Speaker 1: when you say you got it, I got you. Yeah.

1240
01:14:18,320 --> 01:14:20,240
Speaker 1: I can't help that part, but that's what I'm saying.

1241
01:14:20,800 --> 01:14:23,680
Speaker 1: I love. I love when coach, when Coach hollidayd me

1242
01:14:23,920 --> 01:14:26,280
Speaker 1: uh huh, and he didn't use regular words to another

1243
01:14:26,320 --> 01:14:29,160
Speaker 1: guy who wasn't as good. I love did you play, Junior?

1244
01:14:29,200 --> 01:14:31,840
Speaker 1: How long did you play? Alway, alway, all the way out?

1245
01:14:32,640 --> 01:14:38,040
Speaker 1: How many years? I played more than a game? But

1246
01:14:38,160 --> 01:14:40,160
Speaker 1: it took you that lone and learn? I got all

1247
01:14:40,200 --> 01:14:50,240
Speaker 1: man all right, coming out, more music, more fun. On

1248
01:14:50,360 --> 01:14:53,200
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show at twenty minutes after the

1249
01:14:53,280 --> 01:15:01,120
Speaker 1: hour you're listening Morning Show. All right, Jay, you had

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Speaker 1: a big celebration last night at the Jay Spot. Tell

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Speaker 1: us about it. What happened? Oh my god. I invited

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Speaker 1: all the comedians who like participated in the club for years.

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Speaker 1: I've been there twelve years, open the club twelve years,

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Speaker 1: and last night close to my two hundred comedians came out. Man,

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Speaker 1: it's not This wasn't a roast. I don't know what this.

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Speaker 1: This was a beyond a roast. They did impression to me.

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Speaker 1: This was it was like a LUI just like tied

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Speaker 1: to a stick, Tommy just turning it over. But it

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01:15:33,960 --> 01:15:36,080
Speaker 1: was so good, you know, you don't you don't realize

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Speaker 1: when you put something together, like opening a comedy club,

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Speaker 1: how much it means to the comedians. And for me

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Speaker 1: to be a club owner, the hardest thing is to

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Speaker 1: see the faces of comics and on a certain night

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Speaker 1: that I can't tell them that they can't go up,

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Speaker 1: I tell them you can't go up because I got

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Speaker 1: too many comedians. It's just it's just it's unbelievable the

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Speaker 1: love that they had for this business. You got it,

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Speaker 1: Junior got it, and we all got to start somewhere.

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Speaker 1: And to be able to open that club with my

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Speaker 1: son twelve years ago. Man, it was just great to

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Speaker 1: see the comics come out and say thank you for

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Speaker 1: you know, having this club. And I never made a

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Speaker 1: dime off of that building, but I helped a lot

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Speaker 1: of comics. Thank you, man. I never stayed married twelve years,

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Speaker 1: all three marriages didn't even do twelve Can you make

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Speaker 1: a dime off the club? Jay one. I know I'm

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Speaker 1: not a good man. You're a comedian comedian, man, but

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Speaker 1: I had a great time. Thank you, love you, Jay.

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Speaker 1: We really to do. We'll be back. We'll be back, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we will. Right after this you're listening to the President

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Speaker 1: Trump is preparing to visit El Paso and Dayton, Ohio.

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Speaker 1: El Paso, Texas, of course, in Dayton, Ohio today, the

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Speaker 1: parents says that will not be universally welcome as the

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Speaker 1: two cities grief from weekend mass shootings left thirty one

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Speaker 1: people dead, yeah, and many injured and rattled. Former Texas

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Speaker 1: Representative Beta O'Rourke said he doesn't think that President Trump

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Speaker 1: is welcome in El Paso in the wake of the

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Speaker 1: deadly shooting that left twenty two dead there. This president,

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Speaker 1: says O'Rourke, who helped create the hatred that made Saturday's

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Speaker 1: tragedy possible, should not come to El Paso. That's what

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Speaker 1: he tweeted. He says, we do not need more division,

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Speaker 1: We need to heal. He has no place here, guys.

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Speaker 1: El Paso is a city of about six hundred and

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Speaker 1: eighty three thousand people with a largely Latino population. In

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Speaker 1: the city of Dayton, Mayor Nan Whaley encouraged people to

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Speaker 1: protest who are unhappy under mister Trump's upcoming visit to

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Speaker 1: the city of about one hundred and forty thousand. The

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Speaker 1: mayor of Dayton went on to say President Trump made

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Speaker 1: his bed and now he has to lie in it. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Dayton's mayor went on to say she would greet the

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Speaker 1: president in the official role as mayor, but she will

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Speaker 1: also tell him that his words weren't helpful. The people

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Speaker 1: in Toledo would be glad to see me. I'm going

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Speaker 1: to Toledo to meet all the people in there because

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Speaker 1: they love it's. Oh it's Dayton. Excuse me? Yeah? Are

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Speaker 1: you are you bring? Do you ask? The people in

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01:18:21,520 --> 01:18:23,960
Speaker 1: Deledo love me and Deledo, So I'm going to Deledo.

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Speaker 1: It's Dayton, Ohio. They don't want anywhere. They don't want

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Speaker 1: you to know where because it's your words that are

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01:18:32,120 --> 01:18:35,120
Speaker 1: so you know, that are dividing this country. We have

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01:18:35,280 --> 01:18:38,760
Speaker 1: said that on this just a matter of time that

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Speaker 1: somebody takes his words and use them good. That's literally yeah,

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Speaker 1: and that's what has happened. And um, you know he's

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Speaker 1: blaming it on mental illness and video game. But that's

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Speaker 1: what they always say, illness. They always go there. They

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01:18:55,040 --> 01:18:57,200
Speaker 1: don't ever want to go guns No, I never want

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Speaker 1: to go. But this is the president that said I

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Speaker 1: can down the street in New York. He said that,

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Speaker 1: and he got elected. He got elected, Yeah, he got

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Speaker 1: He can't honestly think that he can go to a

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Speaker 1: city like El Paso, where you talked about Latinos and

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Speaker 1: you talked about immigrants, and it is a city that

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Speaker 1: is on the border of Texas and Mexico. So for

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Speaker 1: you to even think that those people want you there

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01:19:26,280 --> 01:19:30,400
Speaker 1: this time, at this time, right now, it's just I

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01:19:30,479 --> 01:19:33,240
Speaker 1: think he's unbelievable. Yeah, but I think he is arrogant

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Speaker 1: enough to think that. He really think he is arrogant.

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Speaker 1: And now the mayor of El Paso, who's a Republican,

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Speaker 1: he is welcoming the president. He has no choice. Yeah, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, guys, coming up, last break up the day,

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Speaker 1: and then we'll do Jay's segment. It's it's gaining popularity

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Speaker 1: around the world. Check it out. Jay's gonna ask us

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Speaker 1: what if we learned today? Coming up right after this, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Morning Show. All right, here we are, guys,

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Speaker 1: last break of the day on this Wednesday, hop day.

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Speaker 1: Look on to that weekend. Yeah, loving it, loving it? Okay, Jay,

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01:20:21,920 --> 01:20:23,920
Speaker 1: we may as well get started. I mean time for

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Speaker 1: your segment. As we leave, it is all right every

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Speaker 1: day that we've been doing for quite a while. Like

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01:20:28,240 --> 01:20:30,000
Speaker 1: Shirley says, it's catching home. People are talking to me

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Speaker 1: about it in the street. I'm lying. Nobody said, no, man,

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Speaker 1: I loved at what you let not one person. But anyway,

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01:20:40,200 --> 01:20:41,439
Speaker 1: we go around the room at the end of the

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01:20:41,520 --> 01:20:43,519
Speaker 1: show and we ask the people who are on this show,

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01:20:43,880 --> 01:20:47,040
Speaker 1: what did you learn today, Shirley, what did you learn today? Okay,

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01:20:47,080 --> 01:20:49,920
Speaker 1: we talked about this earlier Jay when we first started

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01:20:49,960 --> 01:20:53,920
Speaker 1: the show. This morning, we talked about what couples argue about,

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01:20:54,080 --> 01:20:56,880
Speaker 1: and come to find out, I guess we're all arguing

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01:20:56,920 --> 01:21:02,040
Speaker 1: about the same thing. Family drama, going day to day frustrations,

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01:21:02,280 --> 01:21:08,200
Speaker 1: you know, drifting apart in your relationship, parenting philosophies. You're

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01:21:08,280 --> 01:21:11,920
Speaker 1: too lenient, you beat them too much. You know, stuff

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01:21:11,960 --> 01:21:15,559
Speaker 1: like that, financial problems, flirting, all of that. So basically

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01:21:15,720 --> 01:21:18,800
Speaker 1: you ain't kiss me, and my damn all of that,

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01:21:19,439 --> 01:21:22,400
Speaker 1: you know, jealousy, I want to hit a joke. Let

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01:21:22,439 --> 01:21:26,840
Speaker 1: me hit a joke. I want right, So, I mean,

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01:21:27,160 --> 01:21:29,880
Speaker 1: you know, we gotta we gotta try to keep our

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01:21:29,960 --> 01:21:35,080
Speaker 1: relationships together. It's all about love. There's this long term

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01:21:35,400 --> 01:21:38,320
Speaker 1: relationship expert out there. Her name is doctor Pepper Schwartz.

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01:21:38,400 --> 01:21:40,000
Speaker 1: I'm sure you can look her up if you want

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01:21:40,080 --> 01:21:42,599
Speaker 1: some help in your relationships. So, I mean, we all

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01:21:42,720 --> 01:21:44,200
Speaker 1: need it every now and then. You know, when we

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01:21:44,320 --> 01:21:46,120
Speaker 1: drift a prior, we can come back together. We don't

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Speaker 1: always have to break up all the time. Let's try

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01:21:48,600 --> 01:21:51,320
Speaker 1: to stay together. I think it's harder to stay together

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01:21:51,640 --> 01:21:54,360
Speaker 1: than it is to break up. It's easy to break

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Speaker 1: up and get somebody else, but stay together. That's the commitment,

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01:21:57,960 --> 01:22:00,320
Speaker 1: that's that work. You know that you got to put

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Speaker 1: into the relationship to make it last. So that's what

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Speaker 1: I learned today. If that makes it very good, very good,

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Speaker 1: very good, very good. I need to write up on

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Speaker 1: that by tomorrow. All right. What I learned today is

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Speaker 1: the city of El Paso, in the city of Dayton

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Speaker 1: does not does not want the President to come to

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Speaker 1: the city. Both of these cities. We are still praying

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01:22:27,360 --> 01:22:31,679
Speaker 1: for the victims families. They are grieving after this past weekend,

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01:22:31,840 --> 01:22:36,080
Speaker 1: the horrible mass shootings, and the President what he needs

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01:22:36,200 --> 01:22:39,160
Speaker 1: to learn talking about what we learn. What he needs

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01:22:39,200 --> 01:22:41,800
Speaker 1: to learn is to be responsible for the words that

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Speaker 1: he says. His rhetoric can stop all of this racist

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Speaker 1: talk and be a president and be a leader. Said yesterday,

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Speaker 1: stop the hey I said yesterday, and I'm going to

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Speaker 1: said again today. Amen. Amen again, very good, very good.

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Speaker 1: That's even better than what Shirley learned. I like that one.

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Speaker 1: That's Junior. What did you learn you one day football player?

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Speaker 1: Hold on, Shirley, hold on, Shirley, if you take here,

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Speaker 1: if you think, if you like, no, no, no no,

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Speaker 1: let me run the Junior. We'll get back you tomorrow. Alright,

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Speaker 1: I can't move. I learned this. I learned that the

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Speaker 1: little boy that said Marshaw Lynch football cap and Jenny

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Speaker 1: Brown had the same football career one damn day. You

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Speaker 1: and I ain't. Y'all got the same football career. High five, Junior,

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Speaker 1: Hi got to work. I can't leave this blahble pool. Yeah,

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01:23:49,080 --> 01:23:58,400
Speaker 1: you just quit Yankee from camp. We needed to do

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01:23:58,479 --> 01:24:01,040
Speaker 1: it though I'm not doing And I didn't even know

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01:24:01,160 --> 01:24:04,960
Speaker 1: Junior was gonna stop when he went hold on. I

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01:24:05,040 --> 01:24:10,920
Speaker 1: knew that a very good, very good, Junior. Tell me

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01:24:10,960 --> 01:24:15,559
Speaker 1: what you learned today? Well, I didn't know it till today. Jay.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I knew all about Dion Warwick and you

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Speaker 1: know things that she could do. But I find that

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Speaker 1: Junior is a fortune cookie till I didn't know. I

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01:24:28,560 --> 01:24:32,040
Speaker 1: didn't know. Yeah, man, cookie didn't tell you what it

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01:24:32,200 --> 01:24:35,519
Speaker 1: really means. Yeah man, yeah man. You can't miss a

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01:24:35,600 --> 01:24:39,800
Speaker 1: moment to see you miss Now. You know, the back

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01:24:39,880 --> 01:24:42,479
Speaker 1: of the Fortune Cookie actually had a lottery numbers, you

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01:24:42,560 --> 01:24:44,960
Speaker 1: know that. I know that back of that page got

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01:24:44,960 --> 01:24:46,559
Speaker 1: a lot of them. But the front side of where

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01:24:46,640 --> 01:24:49,360
Speaker 1: Junior he worked on the front of that yeah fortune Yeah.

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Speaker 1: When I woke up after I hit my head, I

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Speaker 1: could read Fortune Cookie, but I wish I could had

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01:24:54,360 --> 01:24:56,200
Speaker 1: that backflad to get them numbers. I could pick the

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Speaker 1: right man. All right, here's what I learned today. Had

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Speaker 1: I applied myself to football more than that one no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I'm not saying more than that one, damn day, I

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Speaker 1: would have never been a great football player. I would

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01:25:14,960 --> 01:25:18,280
Speaker 1: have just drifted on and not played in the NFL.

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01:25:18,840 --> 01:25:22,719
Speaker 1: But look, God, say quit. There's something bigger and better

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01:25:22,840 --> 01:25:28,639
Speaker 1: for you. And look what I am today, damn day

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01:25:28,680 --> 01:25:30,800
Speaker 1: or football. What was the time it was you got

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01:25:30,920 --> 01:25:34,960
Speaker 1: cussed out by your coach and now you are one

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01:25:35,000 --> 01:25:45,599
Speaker 1: of the greatest cussols. That's what I learned. Today. Wow, Well,

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Speaker 1: everybody learned something as always, I learned something every days. Good.

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01:25:49,520 --> 01:25:54,479
Speaker 1: That's good. That's still yeah. Kissing y'all. Spouse in the

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01:25:54,560 --> 01:26:00,720
Speaker 1: mouth ya was yeah, I know, I'm still tell me

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01:26:00,800 --> 01:26:03,360
Speaker 1: we've been married four years. Okay, I didn't even know

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01:26:03,479 --> 01:26:15,120
Speaker 1: that was still going on and cheek man. Al Right, guys,

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01:26:15,439 --> 01:26:18,599
Speaker 1: we gotta get out of here this ignorant show. We'll

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Speaker 1: see you tomorrow. Thank you so much for listening. Bye bye.

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