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Speaker 2: Trip is on the phone today for a first day
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a girl named
Speaker 2: Bri and he really liked her and has no idea why.
Speaker 2: So we're about to call her in a minute and
Speaker 2: see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and
Speaker 2: maybe get him another date. But first, Trip, how long
Speaker 2: has it been since you heard from Brie. H.
Speaker 3: It's been a couple of days now four? Okay?
Speaker 2: How many times have you reached out to her in
Speaker 2: that time?
Speaker 4: Just, you know, just a just a couple I texted
Speaker 4: her like right after her date to to see what
Speaker 4: was going on and had her come back and uh,
Speaker 4: you know, like one at a time a day later,
Speaker 4: and then I just texted her again yesterday to see
Speaker 4: if she was okay and still nothing.
Speaker 2: Why don't you tell us about your date then, Trip,
Speaker 2: How did that go?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Okay, sure, So we met on the League. Are
Speaker 3: you guys familiar?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: The League? That Yeah, it's it's like a.
Speaker 4: Higher end dating app to prove to join, and that's
Speaker 4: like business professionals and stuff, who you know want to seem.
Speaker 3: Like big things in their life.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I have heard that.
Speaker 5: Then.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you met on there. So you guys are
Speaker 2: both high powered business cards an business cards.
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, you know I do, okay, and then
Speaker 4: Ritas it does pretty well too. So we yeah, you know,
Speaker 4: we'll do it all right. So, you know, we had
Speaker 4: to talking, and so we decided to go to like
Speaker 4: the higher end steakhouse for for our date. I sent
Speaker 4: out a car to pick her up, you know, really
Speaker 4: rolled out the red car carpet for you know.
Speaker 3: When it was we dropped a good term to change
Speaker 3: on this.
Speaker 4: You know, we got caviar, seafood tower, a pretty nice
Speaker 4: bottle of wine.
Speaker 3: She seemed really into all of it.
Speaker 4: She she was you know, olded up and was really
Speaker 4: excited by by getting a car to pick her up.
Speaker 2: And uh, and all of that.
Speaker 3: Conversation was good. We ate a bunch, We drank a bunch.
Speaker 4: Initially, you know, I had invited her back to my
Speaker 4: place and she said yeah, and then but you know,
Speaker 4: then she kind of changed her mind.
Speaker 3: She like stepped away to the bathroom, uh, and came
Speaker 3: back and was like, I need to go home.
Speaker 2: So she went to the bathroom, came back and said
Speaker 2: she needed to go home.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, what do you think happened in that time
Speaker 5: where she said yes and I need to go home?
Speaker 3: I mean, you know, really a lot and drank a lot.
Speaker 4: So I'm assumed she was a little you know, was embarrassed.
Speaker 4: Then maybe some some commy troubles we were heading her way, you.
Speaker 2: Know, oh okay, okay, felt like she got too drunk
Speaker 2: or ate much.
Speaker 3: No, I don't. I don't think she was drunk.
Speaker 4: I think she ate too much and maybe, uh maybe
Speaker 4: maybe you know, I was worried about about what, you.
Speaker 3: Know, what I might see the next morning, you know
Speaker 3: what I mean.
Speaker 2: Like, okay, in my bathroom, I see that's when way
Speaker 2: to aspiral? Do you I mean, do you think that's
Speaker 2: why she ghosted you though?
Speaker 4: Because yeah, I mean I can't think of anything else. Like,
Speaker 4: like I said, the conversation was great. She had initially
Speaker 4: said yes, that's coming back on my place, so I
Speaker 4: know there was nothing in the conversation that would have
Speaker 4: thrown her off. So you know, that's that's really all
Speaker 4: I can think of, and that she's like embarrassed to
Speaker 4: be that she had to say no, And so you know,
Speaker 4: has been kind of like weird because she thinks I'm
Speaker 4: I'm judging her, but like I totally am not want
Speaker 4: her to know I'm okay and that she shouldn't be
Speaker 4: embarrassed by it or anything.
Speaker 2: When the bathroom came back and then left.
Speaker 4: Basically your crew griper for like a you know, a
Speaker 4: few more kind of wrap up moments. But but she
Speaker 4: got out of there pretty quick.
Speaker 2: I was just gonna say, did you get her a
Speaker 2: car home?
Speaker 4: I did, of course, Like, yeah, the car, the car
Speaker 4: got her there, so like.
Speaker 5: Okay, maybe she had a thing for the car guy interception.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I hope that's not the case.
Speaker 4: But I mean, I mean, who too, Like, you know,
Speaker 4: I'd be really bummed out if I got her the
Speaker 4: best looking.
Speaker 3: Car guy, you know.
Speaker 2: All right, well, we'll try to figure it out for
Speaker 2: you to play a song come back, and then call
Speaker 2: her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting
Speaker 2: you and maybe get you another date. Okay, all right, thanks,
Speaker 2: all right, play a song, come back, get your first
Speaker 2: day follow up next.
Speaker 3: If you're just.
Speaker 2: Joining us for today's the first Day follow up trip
Speaker 2: is on the phone and he's getting ghosted from a
Speaker 2: date that he went on with a woman named Brie.
Speaker 2: And we're about to call her and see if she'll
Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
Speaker 2: another date. But before we do that trip, why don't
Speaker 2: you catch everybody up on your date with Brie. Uh?
Speaker 3: Yeah, we went to a high end steakhouse.
Speaker 4: We we really you know, ate and drank the night away,
Speaker 4: and you know, I sent a car to pick her up,
Speaker 4: and then she stepped back switch to the bathroom, came
Speaker 4: back and like, We're like, oh, I got.
Speaker 3: To go home right now.
Speaker 2: And you think maybe the reason you're getting ghosted is
Speaker 2: because she had to go to the bathroom really bad
Speaker 2: and she's embarrassed.
Speaker 3: Yep, that's exactly what I think it is.
Speaker 2: All right, see if we can figure it out for you.
Speaker 2: You ready for us to call her?
Speaker 3: You better believe it.
Speaker 2: Here we go. Hello, Hi, May I speak to Bree? Please? Brie?
Speaker 2: How are you? My name is Jewbell and I host
Speaker 2: a radio show. It's called the Jewbel Show. Hi, Brie,
Speaker 2: the radio show is here. My name's Nina, Hi, and
Speaker 2: I'm Victoria. How are you?
Speaker 3: Hi?
Speaker 1: Good?
Speaker 2: How are you good? Do you ever listen to the show?
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: If you ever heard a first date follow up before,
Speaker 2: where we call somebody who's been on a date and
Speaker 2: they've been ghosted, so we get the other person on
Speaker 2: the phone to find out why they've been ghosted. Then
Speaker 2: I'll just tell you that's what this is.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, Okay, Okay, we got an email about you
Speaker 1: from a guy named Trip right, Okay, yes, uh huh.
Speaker 2: He says that you haven't talked to him since your date.
Speaker 2: It's been about a week. Said that you guys met
Speaker 2: on the dating app The League, which is like a
Speaker 2: very successful people dating app.
Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, and then he told us.
Speaker 2: That you guys want it's to dinner, and you went
Speaker 2: to the bathroom. Then at one point came back and
Speaker 2: we're like, I got to go, and that's the last
Speaker 2: year from you.
Speaker 1: Oh, it's interesting. That's his interpretation of the date.
Speaker 3: Okay, So that's it.
Speaker 1: Well, I feel like he's leading out the major points.
Speaker 1: I mean, the date was initially lovely, you know, we
Speaker 1: went to a nice place. I felt like he usually
Speaker 1: trying to impress me, and like money was not an option.
Speaker 1: It was ordering all the things, And I did think
Speaker 1: there was potential there for a good portion of the date.
Speaker 3: It really wasn't.
Speaker 1: Until the end where she really unraveled again. I can't
Speaker 1: believe he left all of this out. But so the
Speaker 1: bill comes and he took a screenshot of the bill,
Speaker 1: and then his phone rang. It was his mom. He's
Speaker 1: sitting there. It seemed like she wanted to recap everything
Speaker 1: we had ordered to make sure the bill is correct,
Speaker 1: like that he was being charged correctly. It wasn't a
Speaker 1: large bill, but he was one that insisted on ordering
Speaker 1: like all the things.
Speaker 2: Took a picture and send it to his mom to
Speaker 2: ask like huh yeah.
Speaker 1: And then he told his mom, as I'm sitting there,
Speaker 1: that I'm going to go back to his place, which
Speaker 1: is already very weird. But then she's saying things like
Speaker 1: don't worry, I'll be responsible, and then he said, I know,
Speaker 1: I'll be on my best behavior. And I'm not sure
Speaker 1: what the conversation was.
Speaker 3: Completely, but it just it just gave me.
Speaker 1: The eck immediately, like I love the mama's boy, but
Speaker 1: this was life a bottle fed mama's boy. From what
Speaker 1: I understand, I think the money is his mom's money
Speaker 1: and she wants to know what he's spending it on.
Speaker 1: So we have to send a vote of the checks
Speaker 1: and the like, aren't any.
Speaker 5: Surprises, Like that's the thing, wouldn't she want to send
Speaker 5: it like later?
Speaker 2: Thanks for telling us, Brie, he didn't tell us that part.
Speaker 5: Yeah, of course, Well he probably doesn't think it's weird
Speaker 5: because he openly did it, Brie.
Speaker 2: Guess what, he's actually on the phone listening and has
Speaker 2: been listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, Well, I Bree, Hi.
Speaker 2: Hi, Uh, I.
Speaker 3: Guess you would.
Speaker 4: I guess I wish you would have said something about it.
Speaker 4: It's never struck me as weird. My mom's been a
Speaker 4: financial manager for a long time, so like she always
Speaker 4: she always loves to, you know, double check bills and
Speaker 4: is very involved in money, like it's a pretty normal
Speaker 4: thing to do. And your parents an expert, you know.
Speaker 4: And look, at the end of the day, like I
Speaker 4: get what you're saying about her being involved, Like I
Speaker 4: totally do. But uh, you know, once once my mom
Speaker 4: falls in love with you, like she won't, she definitely
Speaker 4: won't be.
Speaker 3: As involved, you know. It's that's that's just kind of
Speaker 3: a now thing. Well what do you mean by that, Well.
Speaker 4: I mean, you know, she worries, she worries that that
Speaker 4: that people are like after me for my money and
Speaker 4: and her money, you know, both of our moneyes. So
Speaker 4: you know, once what she meets you and like approves
Speaker 4: of you and stuff, she'll she'll definitely like back off.
Speaker 4: It won't be as big a deal what she knows
Speaker 4: that you're in it for the right reasons.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, in a way, it does. I just I
Speaker 2: wonder if money, if you're afraid of people liking you
Speaker 2: for money, then maybe flashing it in the beginning is
Speaker 2: maybe not the move.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean.
Speaker 4: Maybe, but like you know, again, the league is a
Speaker 4: place for successful people, and like like I assume, I
Speaker 4: assume that anyone I meet on there is is also
Speaker 4: comfortable with money and used to seeing money spence. So
Speaker 4: like you know, it's it's not about flashing it. It's
Speaker 4: about providing a level of I don't know, comfort to familiarity,
Speaker 4: like confidence, you.
Speaker 3: Know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean I appreciate the lovely day and
Speaker 1: I think you're you're a lovely guy, but I just
Speaker 1: do not feel comfortable with that much mothering Like that
Speaker 1: was just to me like next level. And I find
Speaker 1: it very hard to believe that she will back off
Speaker 1: when she finds someone she approves of.
Speaker 4: I mean she she will, that's kind of HERMO will
Speaker 4: be very engaged up front and then back off.
Speaker 3: Which is comming. I have a lot of friends.
Speaker 1: That have mother in laws that say, and it's not
Speaker 1: It's not that way Withsten no offense. I'm sure she
Speaker 1: lovely too, but that is just not something I can
Speaker 1: sign up for.
Speaker 2: Well, Brie, would you like to go on another date
Speaker 2: with triple pay for it?
Speaker 3: Yeah? You know, I'd really love to see again.
Speaker 4: And you know, the second date is always a date
Speaker 4: where I take someone to meet my mom, So you
Speaker 4: know you can do that.
Speaker 2: Screwed away, Okay to night the presence.
Speaker 1: You know, I still I think you're gonna have to
Speaker 1: stick with my no thank you. I I've never met
Speaker 1: pone's parents on the second date, and this just seems
Speaker 1: like a lot for me right from the get I
Speaker 1: just don't think we're a match.
Speaker 4: You know, on the day you mentioned that you like Keith,
Speaker 4: who my mom makes a really great keys, Like we'll
Speaker 4: be missing out the great secunity for a good Keys.
Speaker 2: I mean, come on, we gotta love a good Keys.
Speaker 2: Keith Lorraine hit it right again.
Speaker 1: I just don't think that that's I don't want to
Speaker 1: lead you on trip. You seem like a nice guy,
Speaker 1: but I just think I got the ick and I
Speaker 1: don't think I could come back from it. And if
Speaker 1: I went over there for a second date, I'd be
Speaker 1: just going over there for the kesh, and I don't
Speaker 2: Honest you will first date to follow up