WEBVTT - Daddy Edition with AJ McLean and Brian Austin Green Part 1 0:00:04.880 --> 0:00:11.000 This is Frosted Tips with Lance Bass, an iHeartRadio podcast. Hello, 0:00:11.119 --> 0:00:13.840 my little Peanuts, it's me your host, Lance Bass. This 0:00:13.920 --> 0:00:18.520 is Frosted Tips with Me and my lovely co host husband, 0:00:18.720 --> 0:00:23.239 Michael Turkey Turchin. I'm excited for our first show back 0:00:23.400 --> 0:00:26.000 season two of Frosted Tips, and we are starting out 0:00:26.000 --> 0:00:30.280 with a bang because it is Father's Day, Daddy Day edition, 0:00:31.320 --> 0:00:34.240 and we have brought our favorite dads to the show today. 0:00:34.360 --> 0:00:37.440 Not only are you an amazing dad, Turkey Turchin, well, 0:00:37.479 --> 0:00:39.280 we have some great dads with us too, Brian Austin, 0:00:39.320 --> 0:00:39.920 greatest hair. 0:00:40.200 --> 0:00:42.479 Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes yes. 0:00:42.360 --> 0:00:46.120 And we also have Alexander James McLean a k a 0:00:46.120 --> 0:00:50.960 a J. From the Backstreet Boys and also my son's namesake. 0:00:52.880 --> 0:00:56.480 I love watching this banter. It's so cute. It is, 0:00:56.840 --> 0:00:59.480 it really is. We're just going to start. I would 0:00:59.480 --> 0:01:01.120 love to be on the car ride home. I just 0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:01.639 I just. 0:01:01.560 --> 0:01:05.400 Would so you I hear want to start going by 0:01:05.440 --> 0:01:06.320 Alex more than AJ. 0:01:07.160 --> 0:01:09.440 Yeah you know so so a J. 0:01:10.920 --> 0:01:15.160 I've now kind of learned is a persona is a 0:01:15.440 --> 0:01:18.360 character if you will that you know, I as as 0:01:18.440 --> 0:01:21.680 one fifth of the Backstory Boys when I went on 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:26.399 this little self journey. This past summer, I spent ten 0:01:26.400 --> 0:01:30.240 weeks out in Scottsdale, Arizona, went to an amazing place 0:01:30.400 --> 0:01:34.600 for a intensive outpatient program called The Meadows. Not so 0:01:34.680 --> 0:01:36.800 much for my sobriety, but really to kind of get 0:01:36.840 --> 0:01:39.679 to the roots and clean out the pipes and you know, 0:01:39.800 --> 0:01:43.360 deal with some past traumas and whatnot. And you know, 0:01:43.480 --> 0:01:46.680 learned two very key words that I never used in 0:01:46.720 --> 0:01:51.040 my vocabulary since birth. One is boundaries. That's a big one. 0:01:51.320 --> 0:01:54.000 Love that word. Well, it's a big word. Yeah, when 0:01:54.040 --> 0:01:54.400 you're born. 0:01:54.440 --> 0:01:57.840 That's a lot to say, a lot of syllables that 0:01:57.960 --> 0:02:03.760 And then authenticity you know, right, that's another one. Yeah, 0:02:03.840 --> 0:02:06.520 I mean, thank you, thank you to the most amazing 0:02:07.120 --> 0:02:09.280 woman that I've never met, and I cannot wait to 0:02:09.280 --> 0:02:10.519 meet miss Brene Brown. 0:02:11.440 --> 0:02:13.520 She really inspired. 0:02:15.200 --> 0:02:17.520 And so oh she's incredible, does a bunch of ted 0:02:17.560 --> 0:02:22.239 talks and she is phenomenal. Her mantra is Braving, which 0:02:22.240 --> 0:02:27.720 I got tattooed on my arm, which stands for boundaries, reliability, accountability, fault, integrity, 0:02:27.720 --> 0:02:29.040 non judgment, and gratitude. 0:02:29.440 --> 0:02:29.880 Nice. 0:02:30.480 --> 0:02:33.520 So yeah, So Alexander James is me being my true 0:02:33.560 --> 0:02:38.440 authentic self And uh as I said to you earlier 0:02:38.520 --> 0:02:41.280 before we started. Alexander James has a bone to pick 0:02:41.280 --> 0:02:43.360 with you? 0:02:43.480 --> 0:02:44.040 A bone pick? 0:02:44.680 --> 0:02:45.720 Yes, I do so. 0:02:46.000 --> 0:02:51.120 I you know, Pride Pride just happened here. I texted 0:02:51.160 --> 0:02:54.560 you twice. You did come out hanging out with you guys, 0:02:55.560 --> 0:02:58.280 and I got crickets crickets. 0:02:58.320 --> 0:02:59.560 I did not get a message. 0:03:00.040 --> 0:03:04.280 Wow, get your Instagram going having so much fun. 0:03:04.480 --> 0:03:10.600 Oh my god, Wow, I did not see this. 0:03:11.040 --> 0:03:15.000 It was like you had fun scene in the morning 0:03:16.840 --> 0:03:17.480 because you're a dad. 0:03:17.520 --> 0:03:19.920 I mean, yeah, I'm up at seven. Oh my god, 0:03:19.960 --> 0:03:21.359 I did not see this. 0:03:21.680 --> 0:03:23.480 Yeah. Rude, yeah, rude. 0:03:23.520 --> 0:03:24.640 So do you want to hang for Pride? 0:03:24.960 --> 0:03:25.400 That's weird? 0:03:26.040 --> 0:03:28.680 Yes, yes, sure, fit me in next. 0:03:29.480 --> 0:03:32.120 You know, Pride was so fun this year because we 0:03:32.160 --> 0:03:35.800 had zero plans. Usually always, you know, hang out either 0:03:35.840 --> 0:03:37.600 at Heart or Rocos, and I just kind of sit 0:03:37.680 --> 0:03:40.560 there and watch the craziness happen. This year I went 0:03:40.640 --> 0:03:42.760 into the festival for the first time and it was 0:03:42.800 --> 0:03:47.320 a crazy lineup. We had Kylie Minogue, we had dip 0:03:47.320 --> 0:03:52.560 Lo Bbi Rex, Lambert Lamber. 0:03:52.840 --> 0:03:54.080 It was all my friends. Thank you. 0:03:54.880 --> 0:03:57.320 It was fun. It was fun. So yeah, four other 0:03:57.360 --> 0:03:59.240 Bags boys, the other four Backstree boys. 0:03:59.400 --> 0:04:03.560 They didn't invite you, just left the tour. He was there. 0:04:04.200 --> 0:04:04.800 It was crazy. 0:04:04.880 --> 0:04:06.960 Should have been there, yeah, I should have should have. 0:04:08.120 --> 0:04:10.200 But yeah, it was fun and the most visited Pride 0:04:10.360 --> 0:04:13.920 in history I think so far. Yeah, some records. So 0:04:13.960 --> 0:04:16.400 take that. Sorry for shoving it in your face out there, 0:04:17.040 --> 0:04:20.279 but here we are. I know this. That's the funniest 0:04:20.279 --> 0:04:22.560 phrase to me. Just don't shove it down my throat, 0:04:22.680 --> 0:04:24.800 don't put it in my face, and just like, what 0:04:24.920 --> 0:04:25.799 are you talking about? 0:04:25.839 --> 0:04:26.480 Things that are. 0:04:27.600 --> 0:04:32.720 Yeah, but somehow I came back from Pride and I 0:04:32.720 --> 0:04:35.320 didn't notice until like a few days later. I'm like, 0:04:35.360 --> 0:04:37.479 I'm scratching the back of my head. I'm like, something's 0:04:37.480 --> 0:04:39.880 wrong with my hair right here, and I realized that 0:04:40.000 --> 0:04:43.760 it had been burnt. Someone burned my hair. And the 0:04:43.800 --> 0:04:45.200 only thing I can think of is someone just took 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:47.200 a lighter and just went because it was. 0:04:47.279 --> 0:04:49.839 Just next to a heater. 0:04:50.279 --> 0:04:51.880 I think I would have felt that. 0:04:52.120 --> 0:04:54.880 I don't know you would have felt if somebody. 0:04:54.800 --> 0:04:56.800 Well I thought so too, but I don't know. I 0:04:56.800 --> 0:04:59.160 don't know. I did have a drink or maybe you 0:04:59.200 --> 0:05:03.000 just have a crusty yeah, but yeah, so someone burnt 0:05:03.040 --> 0:05:04.720 my hair or I burnt my hair. I don't know, but. 0:05:07.320 --> 0:05:10.400 That's that's the truth, Michaels. Michael's giving me shifty eyes, like, 0:05:10.440 --> 0:05:12.040 maybe that's the person you. 0:05:11.920 --> 0:05:15.680 Do this to me? That does sound like something you 0:05:15.680 --> 0:05:18.600 would do. What your hair is? 0:05:22.560 --> 0:05:22.640 All? 0:05:22.760 --> 0:05:25.000 Right? Well, it is Father's Day. Happy Father's Day to 0:05:25.480 --> 0:05:30.640 two amazing, three amazing dads here, and we're amazing, amazed. 0:05:31.560 --> 0:05:33.200 I am a good dad. I think I'm a good dat. 0:05:33.279 --> 0:05:35.320 But I'm glad that you are here because I want 0:05:35.360 --> 0:05:37.800 to get into because y'all have been dads longer than 0:05:37.839 --> 0:05:40.599 we have. So we're gonna need some advice, I think, 0:05:40.680 --> 0:05:44.960 because we're now getting to that age where they're really impressionable. 0:05:45.040 --> 0:05:47.560 Now there, you know, they can they just learn things. 0:05:47.680 --> 0:05:49.720 And now now we have to watch right, Okay, we've 0:05:49.720 --> 0:05:52.440 got to watch what we say we do. So now 0:05:52.600 --> 0:05:54.440 now we have to like really be in it instead 0:05:54.480 --> 0:05:56.040 of just looking at them like, oh, there's nothing I 0:05:56.080 --> 0:05:57.600 could do for your just a blob sitting there on 0:05:57.640 --> 0:06:00.200 the couch. Now they're like human beings ready to go. 0:06:01.240 --> 0:06:04.160 So my question to you guys is, uh, is there 0:06:04.320 --> 0:06:06.760 something that you wish you would have done when they 0:06:06.760 --> 0:06:10.240 were younger that you didn't do that you're like, oh man, 0:06:10.279 --> 0:06:12.240 when they were two, I wish I would have started this. 0:06:14.800 --> 0:06:16.880 I know I was a perfect dad, because one thing 0:06:16.960 --> 0:06:20.000 that I want to do is, you know, they get 0:06:20.000 --> 0:06:21.760 a lot of art right there at school. They come 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:23.000 home with all this art, and like, what do you 0:06:23.040 --> 0:06:25.600 do with it? You know, do you save it memory box? Like, okay, 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:29.520 that's that's a lot. But now they have these books 0:06:29.520 --> 0:06:31.760 now that you can just send in the photos and 0:06:31.760 --> 0:06:34.159 they create it, right. So we're going to start doing 0:06:34.160 --> 0:06:37.120 that for the next birthday. So every birthday we're going 0:06:37.200 --> 0:06:39.080 to collect all their art and do that. And I'm 0:06:39.160 --> 0:06:39.920 understating how. 0:06:39.839 --> 0:06:42.080 Big the room is going to have to be houses 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:43.440 this collection of books. 0:06:43.520 --> 0:06:45.640 But they're pretty thin books. They're pretty thin books, and 0:06:45.680 --> 0:06:47.240 we're going to combine on both kids are going to 0:06:47.320 --> 0:06:49.480 have one book. So you know, wait, how how old 0:06:49.480 --> 0:06:50.720 are your kids now? 0:06:50.600 --> 0:06:52.120 Two and a half? Two and a half. I mean 0:06:52.160 --> 0:06:58.320 the last I had probably more fun than the kids did. 0:06:58.440 --> 0:06:59.160 Yeah, would you do. 0:07:01.480 --> 0:07:04.480 Birthday party? That place was incredible. 0:07:04.760 --> 0:07:06.960 Little candy Land. When we were kids, we didn't have 0:07:07.000 --> 0:07:09.080 that crap, you know, we just had the McDonald's. 0:07:09.440 --> 0:07:11.080 Where was what was the play? It was also called 0:07:11.160 --> 0:07:13.080 candy It's like an indoor playground. 0:07:13.120 --> 0:07:16.640 Yeah, like indoor playground, and there's Mickey and Minnie showed up. 0:07:16.800 --> 0:07:18.400 And scary Mickey Minni. 0:07:18.720 --> 0:07:22.800 They were a little like they were. 0:07:23.800 --> 0:07:27.520 They were six foot five, yeah as Mickey and mine. 0:07:27.760 --> 0:07:30.720 I was on Royd very tall, a little. 0:07:30.440 --> 0:07:32.320 Skinny and tall like slender. 0:07:32.360 --> 0:07:35.200 Many had the adorable outfits. 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:37.520 They were full on, a league of their own, and 0:07:38.120 --> 0:07:42.960 these two baseball as soon as you walked in, I'm like, 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:44.440 that was. 0:07:44.440 --> 0:07:47.640 Just it was great where we have. So they were 0:07:47.680 --> 0:07:50.440 Halloween babies, so of course every year for their birthday 0:07:50.480 --> 0:07:52.320 and it's going to be a Halloween party, which is 0:07:52.320 --> 0:07:55.520 my favorite holiday. And they're obsessed even to this day. 0:07:56.320 --> 0:07:59.200 They only asked for scary things to read, like scary 0:07:59.320 --> 0:08:01.480 I wrote this Halloween book that's coming out this year, 0:08:01.520 --> 0:08:04.920 and they every night Scary Street, Scary Street. I'm like, 0:08:04.920 --> 0:08:06.600 what hap about to Santa Claus, come on, can we 0:08:06.600 --> 0:08:06.760 do it? 0:08:07.040 --> 0:08:07.640 No? 0:08:07.720 --> 0:08:09.680 They have ghost poppings. 0:08:13.040 --> 0:08:13.840 Ghost Journey. 0:08:13.880 --> 0:08:15.960 My eight year old is all about like all the 0:08:16.000 --> 0:08:18.720 horror games and the horror things, and it's all like 0:08:18.920 --> 0:08:24.320 five nights at Freddy's time and like all of these things. 0:08:24.520 --> 0:08:26.800 I love that because I grew up with scary Halloween 0:08:26.880 --> 0:08:30.040 like my grandfather, my dad. They were all about just 0:08:30.320 --> 0:08:33.200 doing scary and I love that because it desensitized me 0:08:33.280 --> 0:08:36.240 to Halloween. I always I was never scared of I like. 0:08:37.920 --> 0:08:39.960 I used to do a haunted house. I won't do 0:08:40.120 --> 0:08:44.079 Halloween hard nights. I don't like to be scared, you know, 0:08:44.200 --> 0:08:44.800 like I jumping. 0:08:45.040 --> 0:08:47.960 I don't like people like my knee jerk reaction is 0:08:48.000 --> 0:08:50.880 to punch you in the face. I don't want that, 0:08:51.080 --> 0:08:55.160 but I will watch the goryoust most revolting films. 0:08:55.679 --> 0:08:58.200 I love her See. I'm the same way. I don't 0:08:58.240 --> 0:09:00.079 like being scared, but I scare the crap of of 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:00.720 him all the time. 0:09:00.920 --> 0:09:01.880 I think, I know you guy. 0:09:02.000 --> 0:09:04.560 You guys ever go to the Haunted hay Ride and 0:09:05.240 --> 0:09:08.599 that's not that's not scary. Well the hay Ride, you 0:09:08.640 --> 0:09:11.160 know they ride is a Griffith Park. 0:09:11.920 --> 0:09:13.560 That's my old so they do. 0:09:13.880 --> 0:09:16.240 They do the walk through mazes and some of those 0:09:16.320 --> 0:09:19.960 get the hay Ride. I used to go to when 0:09:20.000 --> 0:09:22.360 they first started, and it was scary, like they had 0:09:22.760 --> 0:09:24.760 that you get to a section, there'd be were wolves 0:09:24.880 --> 0:09:26.480 or like Jason Vore, he's auld be on a hill 0:09:26.720 --> 0:09:27.800 like all these cool things. 0:09:28.320 --> 0:09:29.600 Now it's not as not. 0:09:29.840 --> 0:09:31.760 As part of it. 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:33.040 But the walk through. 0:09:33.400 --> 0:09:35.560 The thing that gets me on that walk through is 0:09:35.640 --> 0:09:39.680 at the end when that tunnel where it starts you. 0:09:39.720 --> 0:09:44.360 It's like walking through like like if you're claustophobic, because 0:09:44.520 --> 0:09:47.160 like you're through like a giants anus. 0:09:49.040 --> 0:09:51.839 Out and you're like, is uh. 0:09:52.080 --> 0:09:55.080 They had one maze where you had to like crawl through. 0:09:55.679 --> 0:09:57.360 They had just like this little kind of cut out 0:09:57.400 --> 0:09:59.080 in the wall and the guy was like pointing to 0:09:59.120 --> 0:10:01.719 it and I was like, I'm not that's like and 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:03.520 he was like, no, that's the only way to go. 0:10:03.720 --> 0:10:05.480 There's a really good one, remember the one we went to. 0:10:05.559 --> 0:10:09.200 There's one in the thirteen Doors seventeen doors I've heard 0:10:09.240 --> 0:10:09.520 of that. 0:10:09.720 --> 0:10:11.600 Oh nothing's as bad as what is it? 0:10:12.320 --> 0:10:16.400 Mcamee manner, Like that's a whole like you're physically. 0:10:16.000 --> 0:10:19.880 Being tortured, Like to is that out of state? 0:10:20.000 --> 0:10:22.200 It's out of state and it's like you like a 0:10:22.400 --> 0:10:24.960 forty page waiver and no one's ever completed it. 0:10:25.000 --> 0:10:27.240 There's been two documentaries on it. One just came out 0:10:27.280 --> 0:10:29.560 about how this guy is not good. 0:10:30.000 --> 0:10:30.640 Yeah, it's. 0:10:32.280 --> 0:10:34.120 For free and there's like waitless forever and he goes 0:10:34.120 --> 0:10:36.000 to his house and he like tortures people. 0:10:35.760 --> 0:10:41.400 From they'll pull your teeth out, they'll like make food. Yeah, 0:10:41.440 --> 0:10:44.400 I don't understand what. What's the the. 0:10:44.400 --> 0:10:47.240 New thing though for us that my best friends got 0:10:47.280 --> 0:10:49.199 me and my kids hooked up, which like we are 0:10:49.240 --> 0:10:52.760 obsessed now is escape rooms. Escape rooms is all the 0:10:52.840 --> 0:10:54.480 rage and a couple of my kids love them and 0:10:54.559 --> 0:10:59.280 one hates love him skap rooms because it's also good 0:10:59.280 --> 0:11:02.560 team building, like having you know, a four year gap 0:11:02.600 --> 0:11:06.280 between both my girls. You know, they're always kind of 0:11:06.320 --> 0:11:10.240 competing for the attention and competing, you know, which is natural. 0:11:10.679 --> 0:11:13.600 But now in this type of a scenario, we all 0:11:13.640 --> 0:11:17.319 have to work together, and they do so well, like 0:11:17.880 --> 0:11:18.679 they're smarter than dad. 0:11:18.679 --> 0:11:22.800 I'll tell you that I I suck at escape rooms terrible, terrible, 0:11:22.960 --> 0:11:24.800 like all sitting on it for like ten minutes and be. 0:11:24.840 --> 0:11:25.480 Like I have not. 0:11:26.000 --> 0:11:28.920 We've done like four and like two are just crappy. 0:11:28.960 --> 0:11:31.680 You're like, okay, and then two are really good. But yeah, 0:11:31.679 --> 0:11:34.240 they're a very hit or miss, very hit or miss. 0:11:34.760 --> 0:11:37.800 We did. Speaking of haunted houses, which I love as 0:11:37.800 --> 0:11:40.240 a kid, always built harnted houses, like that was my thing, 0:11:40.360 --> 0:11:42.920 Like you take the garage over, you know, trigger treating. 0:11:42.760 --> 0:11:46.000 Halloween, My mom take graves in the front yard. Have 0:11:46.559 --> 0:11:49.320 I wear my Freddy Krueger costume or hop about and 0:11:49.440 --> 0:11:51.120 kids didn't want to walk down the lall we did. 0:11:51.200 --> 0:11:54.360 We lived into Luca Lake years ago, and uh it 0:11:54.440 --> 0:11:56.280 was we rented this house because we were living in 0:11:56.280 --> 0:11:58.800 New York at the time. Uh, the old Jonas brother's house, 0:11:58.800 --> 0:12:01.680 which was funny because like little kids and mail would 0:12:01.679 --> 0:12:04.840 come for them all the time. Like this is ironic 0:12:05.559 --> 0:12:08.120 trying to find Jonas buzs and you find an instinct number. Uh. 0:12:08.160 --> 0:12:11.800 So we were we were moving out or November first. 0:12:11.840 --> 0:12:13.959 We had to be out right, so we had all 0:12:13.960 --> 0:12:16.760 the furniture of the house and we were in this neighborhood, which, 0:12:17.440 --> 0:12:20.079 if to Luca Lake is the best place to go 0:12:20.200 --> 0:12:23.000 trick or treating is I've never in my life everyone 0:12:23.040 --> 0:12:26.760 has full candy bars. It is nuts. Thousands of kids 0:12:26.760 --> 0:12:29.920 get bust in their nuts. So like, why don't we 0:12:29.960 --> 0:12:32.200 just go ahead and build a haunted house, you know 0:12:32.320 --> 0:12:35.760 it's empty. So we did, and we kind of forgot 0:12:35.800 --> 0:12:39.200 that it was it was for kids. This is definitely 0:12:39.240 --> 0:12:41.920 from more adults. We had a dexter kill room. I 0:12:41.920 --> 0:12:43.240 mean it was there was elaborate. 0:12:43.240 --> 0:12:44.400 We had like thirty people will come. 0:12:44.679 --> 0:12:45.960 So you hired a bunch of people. 0:12:46.600 --> 0:12:51.160 Friends just came and it was so good and we 0:12:51.240 --> 0:12:53.480 kept telling the parents were like, I don't know if 0:12:53.520 --> 0:12:55.679 there is this is good for little kids, like oh fine, 0:12:56.200 --> 0:12:59.120 the amount of kids that pete and poop their pants 0:12:59.400 --> 0:13:02.960 and oh it was not but the best thing ever. 0:13:03.040 --> 0:13:08.760 Even it's on youtubef you want to see lances. So 0:13:08.840 --> 0:13:12.839 you were in other people's kids and I mean there 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:15.000 because we did have halfway through there was an exit 0:13:15.040 --> 0:13:16.840 and they a lot of people use that. 0:13:18.240 --> 0:13:22.120 Where where I currently live, there's a there's one street 0:13:22.200 --> 0:13:26.640 in the community that goes SAMN and I mean it's 0:13:27.080 --> 0:13:30.360 it's better than Hard Knights in many ways. And there's 0:13:30.360 --> 0:13:32.480 a lot of the same houses. They do the same 0:13:32.520 --> 0:13:33.120 thing well. 0:13:33.000 --> 0:13:38.040 And people spend thousand, they heads of thousands. They'll have 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:43.240 like easily skeleton like horses, animatronics, crazy. 0:13:43.360 --> 0:13:46.440 And there's one house right on the corner that does 0:13:46.480 --> 0:13:50.960 a haunted house every year. And Lyric, my youngest, was 0:13:51.000 --> 0:13:53.040 like the one pushing for us to go through it, 0:13:53.040 --> 0:13:54.280 and I'm like, do you really want. 0:13:54.160 --> 0:13:55.920 To do this, babe, And She's like, yeah, I got this. 0:13:55.960 --> 0:14:00.440 I got this. Within seconds of walking in, she attached 0:14:00.440 --> 0:14:04.760 herself to my leg didn't look and like, so thank 0:14:04.800 --> 0:14:05.800 you to my brother in law. 0:14:06.320 --> 0:14:09.840 He would go ahead of us and like tell the people, heay, 0:14:10.040 --> 0:14:12.680 we got a we got a six year old. She's 0:14:12.720 --> 0:14:15.480 freaking out, go easy. So we didn't really get to 0:14:15.520 --> 0:14:18.120 experience what they were gonna do because they will like 0:14:18.200 --> 0:14:20.120 run up and touch you and like get in your face. 0:14:20.960 --> 0:14:24.160 And then afterwards she's hysterically crying. We're about halfway back 0:14:24.200 --> 0:14:27.080 to my house and she's like, that was awesome. 0:14:27.320 --> 0:14:29.160 I did it. That was awesome, and now she wants 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:31.320 to do it again. So she says, until you're there. 0:14:31.640 --> 0:14:34.880 We're there exactly until you're back in the hallway and leg. 0:14:35.160 --> 0:14:39.720 I mean, but they had some really clever like little 0:14:39.760 --> 0:14:42.400 rooms there. I mean it was there. They basically gutted 0:14:42.400 --> 0:14:44.120 their entire garage and their. 0:14:43.960 --> 0:14:46.720 Whole first floor crazy. I mean, they really go all out. 0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:48.360 I used to go to a not scary farm when 0:14:48.600 --> 0:14:51.840 like when it first opens, and they used to have 0:14:51.880 --> 0:14:52.600 some walk through. 0:14:52.480 --> 0:14:54.880 Mazes that were crazy. 0:14:54.480 --> 0:14:58.400 Like guys on like spongy cords jumping down and they 0:14:58.600 --> 0:15:00.960 come down and like spring back up, you know, two 0:15:00.960 --> 0:15:02.720 floors and like all sorts of for the. 0:15:02.720 --> 0:15:05.240 First time last year, and I'm like, yeah, it's definitely 0:15:05.240 --> 0:15:07.880 better than hard Knights. Oh yeah, it's a little scarier. 0:15:08.120 --> 0:15:10.760 And there's so many actors out there. 0:15:10.600 --> 0:15:11.880 And they smoked the whole thing up. 0:15:12.080 --> 0:15:14.320 It's like they're sliding at you on knee pads and 0:15:14.280 --> 0:15:15.640 they've got like the can. 0:15:19.240 --> 0:15:21.480 Do y'all have a favorite? Did y'all ever do family 0:15:21.520 --> 0:15:23.600 costumes with your kids? Like a group costume? 0:15:23.680 --> 0:15:26.280 We tried this year or this past year to be 0:15:26.720 --> 0:15:32.920 a Marvel family, and unfortunately my oldest daughter's costume didn't 0:15:32.960 --> 0:15:35.680 turn out the way she wanted, so she kind of 0:15:35.800 --> 0:15:37.600 was Scarlet Witch in her own way. 0:15:37.640 --> 0:15:38.480 I guess a little bit. 0:15:38.840 --> 0:15:40.600 Did she throw a wrench in the whole thing though? 0:15:40.640 --> 0:15:43.120 She was like she was just you know, she was 0:15:43.240 --> 0:15:44.720 really really upset about it. 0:15:44.800 --> 0:15:48.200 So we had to like last minute put together this 0:15:48.280 --> 0:15:51.280 kind of makeshift scarlet, which I've been the same thing 0:15:52.160 --> 0:15:56.960 the last five years. I found this amazing guy who 0:15:57.040 --> 0:15:59.040 used to work at Disney back in the day doing 0:15:59.080 --> 0:16:03.680 all of the costs and he since retired, and he 0:16:03.760 --> 0:16:07.640 made like a movie grade quality Deadpool costume, which is 0:16:07.640 --> 0:16:11.040 my favorite. You know, Ryan Reynolds is my mancarage. So 0:16:11.640 --> 0:16:14.720 that's what I've been every year and the kids go 0:16:14.960 --> 0:16:17.960 nuts because the costume is that good. But kids can 0:16:18.000 --> 0:16:20.880 be mean, Like when they ask me something and I respond, 0:16:20.920 --> 0:16:21.320 they're like, you. 0:16:21.320 --> 0:16:23.880 Don't sound like Ryan Reynolds. I'm not, you know what 0:16:24.800 --> 0:16:29.040 I will, you know. But this was the first year 0:16:29.080 --> 0:16:30.600 I didn't go as Deadpool. 0:16:30.640 --> 0:16:36.120 I went as Spider Man, but my my mask didn't 0:16:36.440 --> 0:16:39.240 work right, so I just kept the mask off, had 0:16:39.280 --> 0:16:42.200 the whole costume, had a backpack on, and just put 0:16:42.200 --> 0:16:45.360 a baseball cap on and I got more people loving 0:16:45.960 --> 0:16:48.280 the look of it than anything else. And I'm like, 0:16:49.120 --> 0:16:51.160 and we had to make shift because when he made it, 0:16:51.160 --> 0:16:53.920 he didn't put something in the crotch like a like 0:16:53.960 --> 0:16:57.800 a superhero has like that that Ken doll crosh right, 0:16:58.480 --> 0:17:00.960 So there was no cup there, right, Okay, So it's 0:17:01.040 --> 0:17:03.680 like full moose knuckle going on in this costume. 0:17:03.680 --> 0:17:05.159 And I'm like, I don't want to freak out. 0:17:05.040 --> 0:17:08.680 These kids, you know, like very well, oh the Spider Man, 0:17:09.760 --> 0:17:11.480 what's happening right there? 0:17:12.600 --> 0:17:12.840 Yeah? 0:17:12.960 --> 0:17:15.400 But like, but this was the first time that there 0:17:15.480 --> 0:17:19.960 was more teenagers, which were kind of being kind of asses, 0:17:20.040 --> 0:17:21.760 like ruining it for all the little kids that want 0:17:21.840 --> 0:17:24.919 to go like trick or treating. So you know, I 0:17:24.920 --> 0:17:26.560 had to bite my top a lot. 0:17:26.560 --> 0:17:29.000 Area that street gets that way like later on in 0:17:29.040 --> 0:17:30.640 the night all the time. Yeah, I had to bite 0:17:30.680 --> 0:17:33.399 my tongue at the end. Yeah, it's like this is 0:17:33.440 --> 0:17:34.760 not for you. 0:17:34.440 --> 0:17:37.560 Like this is you know, you're past that age now, Yeah, 0:17:37.640 --> 0:17:39.040 what is six year old? 0:17:39.040 --> 0:17:39.240 Fans? 0:17:39.280 --> 0:17:41.520 What is the oldest you would want your kid to 0:17:41.560 --> 0:17:43.640 trigger treat? Is there a. 0:17:43.560 --> 0:17:47.120 Cutoff forty six? Yeah, I don't think there's a cutoff. 0:17:47.160 --> 0:17:50.920 I think there's just like a moral exactly. 0:17:51.080 --> 0:17:54.159 There should be some sort of like moral age online. Okay, 0:17:54.200 --> 0:17:57.480 don't don't be an asshole, don't don't like completely run 0:17:57.520 --> 0:17:59.680 over little kids, you know, and not look back. 0:17:59.760 --> 0:18:04.000 Or and if you're the parents, like don't don't wear 0:18:04.160 --> 0:18:07.879 like lingerie and things like I've seen some of the moms. 0:18:07.960 --> 0:18:12.439 Don't be a sexy nurse like not raggedy. Yeah no, no, 0:18:12.440 --> 0:18:13.240 no, no trick or. 0:18:13.240 --> 0:18:16.480 Treat street like saying that like you know, some some 0:18:16.560 --> 0:18:20.000 party at so exactly, or don't do that, don't do that. 0:18:20.720 --> 0:18:24.120 Go to the Hollywood Cemetery. 0:18:24.960 --> 0:18:26.359 It's about birds and the bees. Now. 0:18:26.680 --> 0:18:29.320 Yeah, this next one, I think the plan, if hopefully 0:18:29.400 --> 0:18:31.399 I'm home, is to do the Wizard of Oz. 0:18:31.800 --> 0:18:33.479 That's the next family. 0:18:33.640 --> 0:18:35.480 Your guys gonna do that one too? 0:18:35.600 --> 0:18:37.800 Is still no, no, no, I'm gonna make my own because 0:18:37.840 --> 0:18:43.240 I'm the Scarecrow, so that's pretty easy to do. Elliott 0:18:43.280 --> 0:18:48.480 wants to be Toto, Lyric wants to be Dorothy. Uh 0:18:48.520 --> 0:18:51.280 my brother in law wants to be the Cowardly Lion. 0:18:51.320 --> 0:18:54.160 But he wants to be the Cowardly Lion version from 0:18:54.200 --> 0:18:55.119 American Dad. 0:18:55.800 --> 0:18:58.280 So he's got like he's all like the. 0:18:58.280 --> 0:19:00.520 Cowardly line on top, but from the bottom down he's 0:19:00.560 --> 0:19:02.440 in heels and like fish nets. 0:19:02.440 --> 0:19:04.840 I'm like, okay, whatever, dude, all right, man, bring it. 0:19:05.200 --> 0:19:05.919 That's a choice. 0:19:06.080 --> 0:19:12.480 Yeah he's a sexy yes, okay, but they get I 0:19:12.520 --> 0:19:14.680 think Rochelle's either going to be the tin Man or 0:19:14.720 --> 0:19:17.040 the Wicked Witch. I'm not sure she hasn't see. 0:19:17.119 --> 0:19:18.919 I love group costumes and we try to think of 0:19:18.960 --> 0:19:21.000 one every year. Every year. This is the third one 0:19:21.000 --> 0:19:23.919 we're gonna have, but yeah, there's always one. Because we 0:19:23.920 --> 0:19:26.239 were trying to do which which one did Panucci not 0:19:26.320 --> 0:19:28.560 want to wear, like, well, you just run a whole 0:19:28.560 --> 0:19:31.640 family costume. He wouldn't put something on his head where 0:19:31.640 --> 0:19:34.240 it was Yeah, it was yeah, but what was it 0:19:34.280 --> 0:19:36.280 was a group anyway, It's supposed to be teen wolf, 0:19:36.280 --> 0:19:40.879 So I don't know what the group. 0:19:40.800 --> 0:19:41.040 For me. 0:19:41.080 --> 0:19:43.720 As the kids like continued to come like as I 0:19:43.760 --> 0:19:47.240 had more and more, it was like, my my costume 0:19:47.280 --> 0:19:50.920 now is like whatever I can move in the easiest. 0:19:51.359 --> 0:19:53.919 I need to safely get them through a neighborhood. 0:19:55.080 --> 0:19:56.119 And I don't like to be hot. 0:19:56.840 --> 0:19:58.240 I don't like to be hot. I don't like to 0:19:58.240 --> 0:19:58.959 be uncomfortable. 0:20:01.840 --> 0:20:04.440 Well, and it's like you spend hours working on costumes 0:20:04.440 --> 0:20:06.359 for the kids and then they want a trick or treat, 0:20:06.400 --> 0:20:08.200 they want to do one lap, and then they're done 0:20:08.240 --> 0:20:09.879 because they've got their bag of candy. 0:20:09.600 --> 0:20:11.639 And you're like, what did I put all this work 0:20:11.720 --> 0:20:28.879 into this costume for? Well this year? We will a 0:20:28.920 --> 0:20:32.800 couple of weeks ago, so Airbnb and Pixar got together 0:20:32.960 --> 0:20:36.080 and did the Incredibles House. So they saw that, yes, 0:20:36.359 --> 0:20:39.320 so they you know Edna, you know the mode, the 0:20:39.400 --> 0:20:43.440 designer of the costumes. So they created her mansion and 0:20:43.480 --> 0:20:46.520 where she creates all the superhoots, superhoots, super suits. 0:20:46.320 --> 0:20:49.240 And yeah, Sla in Hollywood took it over. 0:20:49.440 --> 0:20:51.520 Yeah, and so they invited us over there with the 0:20:51.600 --> 0:20:53.600 kids I'm like, okay, Like you know, you do these 0:20:53.640 --> 0:20:56.159 experiences all the time and sometimes they're hit or miss. 0:20:56.200 --> 0:20:58.320 We did this blue one that we're like, okay. 0:20:58.160 --> 0:21:00.000 We did the Century City. 0:21:00.480 --> 0:21:03.119 Yes, like we didn't know what to do, Like is 0:21:03.119 --> 0:21:04.480 they we're gonna tell us, like what to do? And 0:21:04.520 --> 0:21:07.840 there was five hundred kids everyone like this is crazy. 0:21:08.040 --> 0:21:09.200 They just recreated the house. 0:21:09.200 --> 0:21:11.960 So you kind of walked through and they're like, now 0:21:12.119 --> 0:21:14.600 you get like into the gift room afterwards where there's 0:21:14.640 --> 0:21:16.199 like stuff to buy, and the kid, is. 0:21:16.200 --> 0:21:18.480 That all year round? Is that there are No, it's 0:21:18.520 --> 0:21:19.160 not a year round. 0:21:19.480 --> 0:21:22.560 It's called what was that called? It's yeah, it's camp. 0:21:22.600 --> 0:21:25.120 It's called about the Incredible House. 0:21:25.240 --> 0:21:27.400 So I don't know what it's called. They just invited 0:21:27.480 --> 0:21:30.200 us over. It's Airbnb, you know is doing it. So 0:21:30.320 --> 0:21:33.359 we went there and it's the jit all right. 0:21:33.400 --> 0:21:35.160 I saw that's insane. 0:21:35.160 --> 0:21:37.520 The like rebuilt their entire house inside. 0:21:37.800 --> 0:21:40.000 The entire thing, so you see see the suits get 0:21:40.040 --> 0:21:42.800 tested on with fire and ice and I mean and 0:21:42.840 --> 0:21:44.760 then you go and they have what's her name from 0:21:44.800 --> 0:21:49.040 Project Runway, one of these contestants like only three times. Yeah, 0:21:49.320 --> 0:21:51.159 she is like the designer and so you look at 0:21:51.160 --> 0:21:53.639 all the swatches and all the kids are like picking 0:21:53.640 --> 0:21:56.880 out the colors, they want the different fabrics. Way yeah, 0:21:57.040 --> 0:21:58.520 and then you know, you put it all together and 0:21:58.520 --> 0:22:00.880 you're designing it and I mean it's takes like over 0:22:00.920 --> 0:22:03.080 an hour to do all this stuff. It was so 0:22:03.160 --> 0:22:05.280 much fun. And then they're like okay, and then they 0:22:05.320 --> 0:22:06.960 made suits for us and they're like, Okay, you'll get 0:22:06.960 --> 0:22:08.920 it in like two weeks. Like, oh, we actually get 0:22:09.040 --> 0:22:11.000 to have suits. Yeah, we. 0:22:13.920 --> 0:22:16.640 Really superhero out Okay, hold. 0:22:16.400 --> 0:22:22.360 On, kind of like guess, oh my god, Jit. 0:22:22.800 --> 0:22:24.720 I'm not sure how I feel about the choices and 0:22:24.800 --> 0:22:26.800 colors and fabric, but that's uh. 0:22:27.320 --> 0:22:30.560 I think the personal joy me and me and Alexander's 0:22:30.560 --> 0:22:33.360 are really like that's I mean, I think we did good. 0:22:33.760 --> 0:22:36.520 Okay, I need to take the girls there. That is awesome. 0:22:36.720 --> 0:22:39.200 It's not amazing, right, it was just for I think. 0:22:39.080 --> 0:22:40.639 It is still right now. I think it's there for 0:22:40.680 --> 0:22:41.520 a couple of monks here. 0:22:41.680 --> 0:22:42.800 We just went a few weeks ago. 0:22:42.880 --> 0:22:44.760 I want to go to the So there's another airbnb. 0:22:44.840 --> 0:22:46.359 I don't know where it's at, and it's the X 0:22:46.440 --> 0:22:50.360 Men ninety seven. Oh yes, and it's every room it's 0:22:50.440 --> 0:22:52.600 all done like the old comics and just like the 0:22:52.720 --> 0:22:56.320 actual TV show, you can stay there, stay there in 0:22:56.359 --> 0:22:59.400 like Jubileese room or in beasts room. I'm a huge 0:22:59.400 --> 0:23:02.719 comic book guy and Marvel, so I'm like, and when 0:23:02.760 --> 0:23:05.359 you walk in, there's a sentinel head in the front 0:23:05.400 --> 0:23:07.160 driveway like it's daywhen. 0:23:07.440 --> 0:23:11.120 And you're watching ninety seven, right, it's the new show. Yeah, 0:23:11.400 --> 0:23:14.120 I haven't seen it yet, Oh so good, loves it 0:23:14.480 --> 0:23:14.920 so good. 0:23:15.080 --> 0:23:17.919 Same the first one that was Saturday mornings for me, 0:23:18.000 --> 0:23:18.560 me too. 0:23:19.520 --> 0:23:22.399 So exactly. So yeah. So now that we've done the 0:23:22.400 --> 0:23:25.320 superhero thing, I think every year I want to try 0:23:25.359 --> 0:23:27.120 to find a designer just to make us a new 0:23:27.200 --> 0:23:29.919 superhero suit every year. So every year we're just a 0:23:29.960 --> 0:23:34.000 different superhero, all right, because there's just they love it 0:23:34.119 --> 0:23:36.360 and they ask to wear it every day. Superhero. He's 0:23:36.400 --> 0:23:39.680 bubble neote because he wants his powers or bubbles. Oh okay, 0:23:40.280 --> 0:23:46.680 and she is ultraviolet ultra violet. Is this a Halloween 0:23:46.680 --> 0:23:47.280 episode or what? 0:23:47.400 --> 0:23:52.080 Like Father's Day? By the way, happy Father's Day? 0:23:53.560 --> 0:23:56.199 Is there a holiday that is the most fun for 0:23:56.240 --> 0:23:57.080 you and your family? 0:23:59.720 --> 0:24:02.880 So I think I think Halloween's the most fun. Yeah, yeah, 0:24:02.920 --> 0:24:04.840 for sure, Halloween and or Christmas, Halloween. 0:24:04.880 --> 0:24:07.600 Yeah, Christmas is fun, but Christmas is So we tried 0:24:07.640 --> 0:24:11.560 a new thing last Christmas, which a friend of mine 0:24:11.600 --> 0:24:13.520 suggested and I was. I tried it and I was like, 0:24:13.680 --> 0:24:17.359 it's amazing. Normally Christmas morning, everybody gets to the tree, 0:24:17.480 --> 0:24:20.119 they tear everything apart, and it's over in like fifteen minutes. 0:24:20.160 --> 0:24:21.959 Ye're like, oh my god, I've been working for like 0:24:22.000 --> 0:24:24.000 three months. 0:24:23.800 --> 0:24:24.439 That's me. 0:24:24.640 --> 0:24:28.480 So he was like, instead, you do a couple of presents. 0:24:28.840 --> 0:24:31.760 Then everybody gets up, puts on their pajamas, goes outside 0:24:31.760 --> 0:24:33.960 for like a walk or does something, and you come 0:24:34.000 --> 0:24:36.560 back in. You do a couple more presents, and then 0:24:36.560 --> 0:24:38.919 you have you make breakfast, and you do so we 0:24:39.000 --> 0:24:42.240 ended up stretching Christmas out through the entire day's idea. 0:24:42.240 --> 0:24:46.960 It's really good the kids then, because they had time 0:24:47.119 --> 0:24:50.000 after they open presents, I'd put them together, they'd play 0:24:50.040 --> 0:24:52.560 with them. The problem leading up to this was like 0:24:53.080 --> 0:24:54.600 my kids would find things and they go. 0:24:54.640 --> 0:24:56.520 Hey, I've got this. I was like, yay, you got that. 0:24:56.640 --> 0:24:58.720 For Christmas last year, they had no idea because they 0:24:58.760 --> 0:25:01.440 just shove everything to close. Because they have the two 0:25:01.480 --> 0:25:04.240 things that they remember at the end of their half 0:25:04.320 --> 0:25:09.520 hour destructions. So it was amazing and it was great, 0:25:09.560 --> 0:25:11.600 and then people came by and they brought presents and 0:25:11.600 --> 0:25:14.359 so it was like this slow It really ended up 0:25:14.400 --> 0:25:16.000 being like a family experience. 0:25:16.320 --> 0:25:18.119 I'm going to do that this year. I think that 0:25:18.240 --> 0:25:21.080 was a really good idea because I'm the person that 0:25:21.359 --> 0:25:23.359 I'll go all out for that type stuff. I mean, 0:25:23.359 --> 0:25:25.359 I plan it for days this year. I was also 0:25:25.480 --> 0:25:27.560 on TikTok, which we're going to make a tradition where 0:25:28.200 --> 0:25:29.879 h so you know where the tree is and all 0:25:29.880 --> 0:25:32.360 the presents are in the living room, Well, we put 0:25:32.400 --> 0:25:35.840 wrapping paper on the entryway, so it's just one big 0:25:36.359 --> 0:25:39.119 present basically, and so we all stand there and we 0:25:39.160 --> 0:25:40.840 count to three and then they have to bust through it. 0:25:40.880 --> 0:25:42.440 And then when you bust through it, you see the 0:25:42.480 --> 0:25:45.240 magic of Christmas, right, I mean, it is such a 0:25:45.240 --> 0:25:47.440 fun moment. But then they just fly through the present. 0:25:47.560 --> 0:25:49.440 So I'm definitely taking your advice. 0:25:50.520 --> 0:25:52.720 Works really well, and it made it like a fun 0:25:52.960 --> 0:25:54.200 family day. 0:25:54.280 --> 0:25:55.360 It was and the kids. 0:25:55.600 --> 0:25:57.359 I was afraid the kids would be like, you know, 0:25:57.520 --> 0:25:59.600 just like foaming at the mouth to open more stuff, 0:26:00.119 --> 0:26:03.080 and they were fine. They they played with everything that 0:26:03.080 --> 0:26:04.160 they got during the day. 0:26:04.359 --> 0:26:06.800 I still have batteries and toys and have. 0:26:06.920 --> 0:26:09.520 So many presents that have not even been like unwrapped, 0:26:09.600 --> 0:26:11.600 that are just in the garage waiting for next Yeah. 0:26:11.680 --> 0:26:13.200 I just it's just too much. 0:26:14.080 --> 0:26:16.960 There's a there's a basketball goal that still is in 0:26:17.040 --> 0:26:19.399 the box that I got for Elliott because she was 0:26:19.440 --> 0:26:23.600 all about basketball and then like she's over it now. 0:26:23.640 --> 0:26:26.480 I'm like, really, I mean I can't return it now. 0:26:26.600 --> 0:26:29.480 There receipts not good anymore. We've had Barbie signed the 0:26:29.480 --> 0:26:30.560 box and sell it there. 0:26:31.480 --> 0:26:34.560 We have had Hot Wheels, some crazy huge Hot Wheels 0:26:34.560 --> 0:26:36.960 thing and the Barbie dream House in our garage, just 0:26:37.040 --> 0:26:39.399 waiting for them to turn three because it says three plus. 0:26:39.400 --> 0:26:43.360 I'm like, well, okay, we're gonna wait till three plus. Yeah, 0:26:44.400 --> 0:26:47.119 And I just thing is gonna take up too much 0:26:47.200 --> 0:26:50.480 fucking room in my house, like we're already we're we 0:26:50.720 --> 0:26:53.480 like minimalism and so you know, we. 0:26:53.600 --> 0:26:57.080 Definitely doesn't work with We're a big Legos family. We're 0:26:57.080 --> 0:26:59.520 a big Lego We hadn't gotten too the Legos yet. 0:26:59.720 --> 0:27:03.920 We we love Legos, like there's obviously the more adult 0:27:05.240 --> 0:27:09.199 ones that are like three thousand pieces, but like Lyric 0:27:09.320 --> 0:27:10.520 and Rachelle just did. 0:27:10.400 --> 0:27:12.840 One of of. 0:27:11.920 --> 0:27:15.400 Of a stitch and it's freaking awesome and like she's 0:27:15.400 --> 0:27:18.040 so proud that she did it. Granted she's seven, but 0:27:18.119 --> 0:27:21.080 still legos is that's a that's a really good one. 0:27:21.119 --> 0:27:26.639 But I'm definitely gonna use that shocked pace of play. 0:27:26.880 --> 0:27:28.480 And I always do you know the Christmas Eve, you 0:27:28.520 --> 0:27:31.480 have one that you know, open up and usually it's 0:27:31.560 --> 0:27:33.280 I like to do the pajamas so we can all 0:27:33.280 --> 0:27:34.840 wake up in our little Christmas So we were. 0:27:34.720 --> 0:27:35.480 At Christmas Eve. 0:27:35.560 --> 0:27:39.160 Everything family growing up, All the presents were on Christmas Eve. 0:27:39.640 --> 0:27:40.879 Christmas Day was just food. 0:27:41.119 --> 0:27:41.240 You know. 0:27:41.320 --> 0:27:45.560 What's another idea too that that my fiance saw on 0:27:45.560 --> 0:27:48.440 on Instagram. I think it was that seemed really cool 0:27:48.720 --> 0:27:52.399 that you can only do for a few years. Someone 0:27:52.400 --> 0:27:55.320 in the family would dress up like Santa Claus and 0:27:55.400 --> 0:27:56.880 be putting presents under. 0:27:56.680 --> 0:27:57.800 The tree the night before. 0:27:58.400 --> 0:28:01.399 The kids could come out and see him, but couldn't 0:28:01.400 --> 0:28:04.040 speak to him. So they saw the magic of like 0:28:04.080 --> 0:28:07.120 Santa doing this stuff, so they knew he was there, 0:28:07.880 --> 0:28:09.480 but then they had to go back in their rooms, 0:28:09.480 --> 0:28:11.480 and so it's all about like, you know, he's there, 0:28:11.520 --> 0:28:12.400 but no interaction. 0:28:12.680 --> 0:28:15.919 Yeah, obviously you don't want to turn and face. I 0:28:15.960 --> 0:28:17.399 still believe. I still believe. 0:28:17.400 --> 0:28:19.000 Are you catch it on the rdom camera? I still 0:28:19.000 --> 0:28:20.879 believe what you catch it on the ring camera? 0:28:20.960 --> 0:28:24.240 Yeah, it's amazing. 0:28:25.520 --> 0:28:29.400 Are we do we want any? Are we done? 0:28:29.720 --> 0:28:30.080 Are we? What? 0:28:30.240 --> 0:28:32.560 Are we done? With kids? You want more? Yeah? 0:28:32.680 --> 0:28:34.160 Even numbers good? 0:28:34.520 --> 0:28:35.800 Even five? 0:28:36.400 --> 0:28:36.640 Five? 0:28:36.760 --> 0:28:41.120 Yeah, that's odd. I'm just saying, yeah, I was gonna 0:28:41.000 --> 0:28:43.720 say yous for you. 0:28:43.960 --> 0:28:46.960 Yeah, it's like it's I mean, and yours ranges? What 0:28:47.240 --> 0:28:49.920 twenty two to almost two? O? 0:28:51.200 --> 0:28:53.000 You? When do you sleep? 0:28:53.440 --> 0:28:56.680 I don't, I don't. 0:28:57.440 --> 0:29:01.320 It's uh, it's amazing though. It's I've learned so much 0:29:01.600 --> 0:29:07.320 having kids because you you realize, especially when you're five, 0:29:07.400 --> 0:29:10.360 in that like, oh you start off thinking, oh I 0:29:10.400 --> 0:29:12.320 want my son and my daughter to be like a 0:29:12.360 --> 0:29:13.120 little version of me. 0:29:13.320 --> 0:29:15.240 Yeah, I love dancing, love the. 0:29:15.200 --> 0:29:17.480 Things that I love, and so you're you spend all 0:29:17.480 --> 0:29:19.760 this time trying to like mold them and make them 0:29:19.800 --> 0:29:24.080 into something, and then you realize later on that it's 0:29:24.120 --> 0:29:27.360 like they're these kids, They're exactly. 0:29:27.000 --> 0:29:27.480 Who they are. 0:29:27.760 --> 0:29:29.960 You're not going to mold that at all. The only 0:29:30.000 --> 0:29:33.240 thing you can mold is morally making sure that they. 0:29:33.160 --> 0:29:34.080 Are good people. 0:29:34.240 --> 0:29:37.560 Going into the world doing whatever it is they're supposed 0:29:37.560 --> 0:29:40.080 to do. Because like, if I look at my parents, 0:29:40.120 --> 0:29:40.840 I'm so. 0:29:40.680 --> 0:29:43.560 Different from my parents. They are who they are and 0:29:43.600 --> 0:29:49.360 it's crazy we knew that, you like six months old. 0:29:48.160 --> 0:29:50.160 Different, Yeah, I guess six months our kids were so 0:29:50.280 --> 0:29:53.360 different and like they like just weird things that, like 0:29:53.800 --> 0:29:54.880 just the behavior everything. 0:29:54.920 --> 0:29:56.600 It's like, you can't they. 0:29:56.440 --> 0:29:58.880 Are who they are, yeah, and you can't. Yeah, you 0:29:58.920 --> 0:29:59.320 can't change. 0:29:59.440 --> 0:29:59.640 I think. 0:29:59.720 --> 0:30:02.040 I think the more you stop like trying, you stop 0:30:02.080 --> 0:30:04.120 fighting that, and the more you just accept it and 0:30:04.160 --> 0:30:05.560 you like learn to enjoy. 0:30:05.320 --> 0:30:07.040 It, enjoy it and brazy because. 0:30:06.800 --> 0:30:09.200 Now I'm excited every time they do something new, when 0:30:09.200 --> 0:30:12.000 they do something that reminds me of me, or there's 0:30:12.040 --> 0:30:14.440 a similarity of like oh my god, you really love 0:30:14.520 --> 0:30:15.680 music as much as I do. 0:30:15.880 --> 0:30:17.600 Or it's cool but. 0:30:17.600 --> 0:30:20.440 I'm not pushing for it. Yeah, it's my oldest son 0:30:20.480 --> 0:30:23.040 now is acting. But he found it in school. He 0:30:23.080 --> 0:30:25.120 was doing theater in school and he found his own 0:30:25.160 --> 0:30:28.120 love for it. And it's like, it's amazing because I 0:30:28.120 --> 0:30:29.840 can share all of these experiences. 0:30:30.680 --> 0:30:34.760 I know. We Alexander started showing that he loves music, 0:30:34.800 --> 0:30:36.800 you know, loves playing instruments. So I'm like, okay, it's 0:30:36.840 --> 0:30:38.320 time to get a piano. Like, I'm going to get 0:30:38.320 --> 0:30:41.240 a keyboard for him, And so we go to Guitar 0:30:41.280 --> 0:30:45.160 Center and it was so fun to go there for 0:30:45.200 --> 0:30:47.080 the first time with your kids and let them see 0:30:47.120 --> 0:30:50.160 all the instruments and play everything. And then finally I'm 0:30:50.160 --> 0:30:52.440 on the keyboard and he loves it so much. He's 0:30:52.440 --> 0:30:55.560 already like mixing things. And then he pushes himself back 0:30:55.600 --> 0:30:57.560 and cracks his head on the fireplace and the back 0:30:57.640 --> 0:31:00.640 had three staples. So it's our first state. Oh boy, 0:31:00.800 --> 0:31:05.600 perfect baby, I mean so much moons. 0:31:06.200 --> 0:31:11.560 How I love that it ended with staples to stables. 0:31:13.480 --> 0:31:16.720 I know our poor a girl, Lisa Giggles, who everyone 0:31:16.880 --> 0:31:19.680 was on this show. She was our assistant for twenty 0:31:19.800 --> 0:31:22.080 years now. Almost like she's named. 0:31:22.120 --> 0:31:24.800 An ambulance with like our bloody song. We're like what 0:31:25.080 --> 0:31:25.920 she's like, Oh, he's. 0:31:25.800 --> 0:31:29.000 A fire truck ambulance, which they love. He's where. 0:31:29.040 --> 0:31:31.840 He's really good at the piano. Where do you see him. 0:31:31.880 --> 0:31:34.400 He's very practicing, really hard, play it like bach. 0:31:34.480 --> 0:31:53.760 But yeah, what was y'all's relationships with your dad's growing up? 0:31:54.520 --> 0:31:57.640 Oh wait again, let's unpack this let's unpack. 0:31:57.760 --> 0:31:59.479 That's up. 0:32:00.120 --> 0:32:04.120 That's a oh yeah, didn't have one. 0:32:04.200 --> 0:32:04.920 Dad wasn't there. 0:32:06.040 --> 0:32:11.080 I just recently reconnected with my dad after about forty. 0:32:10.840 --> 0:32:19.760 Years last October, when Joey and I were doing a 0:32:19.800 --> 0:32:23.360 con and then we did our first performance together in 0:32:23.400 --> 0:32:25.480 Tampa before the tour started. 0:32:27.320 --> 0:32:29.280 Yeah, you know, I just needed to kind of sit down. 0:32:29.360 --> 0:32:32.920 And it was after my whole stint in you know, Arizona, 0:32:33.040 --> 0:32:35.520 and I was, you know, I felt like I had 0:32:35.560 --> 0:32:37.600 the control to kind of sit this down and do 0:32:37.720 --> 0:32:41.640 this my way. And you know what was really frustrating 0:32:41.680 --> 0:32:45.000 more than anything was even after the conversation, you know, 0:32:45.080 --> 0:32:48.760 I kind of stepped away from it, felt a little 0:32:48.800 --> 0:32:51.040 better about things, but obviously I'm not ready to go 0:32:51.080 --> 0:32:54.680 play catch in the front yard. But what blew my 0:32:54.760 --> 0:33:00.800 mind was months later, we're in the Bahamas for How's birthday, 0:33:00.840 --> 0:33:04.360 his big old fiftieth birthday, and my mom calls me 0:33:04.920 --> 0:33:07.280 and she's, I don't know what brought this on, and 0:33:07.320 --> 0:33:09.480 she's like, you know, I just want to let you know. 0:33:11.400 --> 0:33:13.640 Don't know if you know, but your dad was a musician. 0:33:14.120 --> 0:33:15.640 That's how I met your dad. 0:33:15.680 --> 0:33:16.440 He was in a band. 0:33:16.480 --> 0:33:20.760 He played bass, And I'm sitting here going wow, like 0:33:20.840 --> 0:33:22.680 you kept that from me for so long? Like I 0:33:22.720 --> 0:33:26.720 didn't think anybody in my family was musically inclined except 0:33:26.720 --> 0:33:30.520 my grandmother who was an insane jazz pianist, but she 0:33:30.640 --> 0:33:31.640 got stage fright. 0:33:32.040 --> 0:33:35.720 She couldn't she just couldn't do it. But I'm like, wait, 0:33:35.760 --> 0:33:38.840 so my dad was a freaking musician, like seriously. 0:33:39.200 --> 0:33:41.760 And you know, so when I when I talked to 0:33:41.800 --> 0:33:44.960 him recently, we were that's all we talked about was 0:33:45.040 --> 0:33:49.240 just music. And He's like, you know, when I'm not 0:33:49.360 --> 0:33:52.760 of this world anymore, I want my collection of these 0:33:52.800 --> 0:33:55.760 amazing fenders and all these things to go somewhere. 0:33:55.760 --> 0:33:58.320 And I'm like, yeah, I'll take really good care of. 0:33:58.280 --> 0:34:01.320 Him, you know, but but yeah, yeah, you know it's 0:34:01.360 --> 0:34:02.280 a work in progress. 0:34:02.400 --> 0:34:05.120 Now do you did that heal you in any way? 0:34:05.160 --> 0:34:10.000 Because I know, I mean, it started it, but it 0:34:10.040 --> 0:34:10.920 started it. 0:34:10.920 --> 0:34:14.800 It started it, but it didn't it didn't close anything. 0:34:14.840 --> 0:34:18.120 Because my mom had kept letters from me, Christmas cards 0:34:18.120 --> 0:34:21.000 for like, she kept everything from me for years. 0:34:21.040 --> 0:34:23.680 Did he have a conversation with you and talk to 0:34:23.719 --> 0:34:26.080 you about like when you were born, what he was 0:34:26.160 --> 0:34:30.080 going through, Like what why the circumstances ended up the 0:34:30.080 --> 0:34:30.680 way they did. 0:34:31.160 --> 0:34:31.399 No. 0:34:31.719 --> 0:34:34.879 I mean, honestly, the gist of what I got from 0:34:34.920 --> 0:34:39.719 both my parents was, now that I've talked to both 0:34:39.719 --> 0:34:42.120 of them about it was that, you know, had me 0:34:42.239 --> 0:34:47.120 too young, wasn't ready for the responsibility kind of thing. 0:34:47.200 --> 0:34:49.720 But growing up, I was told my dad was jealous 0:34:49.760 --> 0:34:50.719 of me, that's why he left. 0:34:50.719 --> 0:34:52.439 And I'm like, how could you be jealous of your kid? 0:34:52.480 --> 0:34:55.720 Your kid's not even who told you that? My mom, 0:34:55.960 --> 0:34:56.840 my uncle who. 0:34:56.760 --> 0:34:58.800 Kind of took the place of like a father figure, 0:34:58.840 --> 0:35:02.120 and then my grandfather, and those are the only men 0:35:02.120 --> 0:35:05.440 in my life, you know. So looking back on it now, 0:35:05.480 --> 0:35:10.040 it's like it all makes sense why I took the 0:35:10.080 --> 0:35:12.760 path that I took outside of the drugs and alcohol 0:35:12.760 --> 0:35:18.400 and the party, but like even women and everything, like 0:35:18.560 --> 0:35:23.480 my whole perception of relationships and everything. And you know, 0:35:23.920 --> 0:35:28.160 I'll sell myself out objectifying people because that's all I knew. 0:35:28.760 --> 0:35:31.600 You know, I don't do that on purpose. I don't 0:35:31.640 --> 0:35:35.279 do that to this day, But it makes sense to 0:35:35.320 --> 0:35:38.640 me now why that was my perception of what's real 0:35:38.719 --> 0:35:42.120 and what's not. I had no one to really look 0:35:42.200 --> 0:35:45.200 up to or base any of this one, you know. 0:35:45.360 --> 0:35:50.560 But I mean we probably talk once a month. Right now, 0:35:50.960 --> 0:35:54.080 I'm still you know, he's been sick and not sick, 0:35:54.120 --> 0:35:56.719 and sick and not sick. So, you know, my mom 0:35:56.760 --> 0:35:59.360 asked me recently, She's like, if your dad passed away tomorrow, 0:35:59.400 --> 0:36:01.160 would you go to the funeral? I said, I really 0:36:01.160 --> 0:36:03.520 don't have an answer for that, because if they asked 0:36:03.520 --> 0:36:05.080 me to go and say something, what the. 0:36:05.000 --> 0:36:05.759 Hell do I say? 0:36:05.840 --> 0:36:08.000 Yeah, I don't know anything about you. 0:36:08.320 --> 0:36:13.040 I know you're from Cambridge, mass you're a musician, and 0:36:13.200 --> 0:36:16.719 you're basically a certified genius like your IQ is through 0:36:16.719 --> 0:36:22.280 the roof. He's a techie, you know, worked for IBM. 0:36:22.480 --> 0:36:26.320 He spent up months or years I think living in Japan. 0:36:27.160 --> 0:36:29.759 You know, again, it's all fragments. You know, I don't 0:36:29.800 --> 0:36:32.000 know enough, but but. 0:36:31.920 --> 0:36:33.880 I'm glad that you're getting some of those answers. 0:36:34.080 --> 0:36:37.840 But if you look at him and me side by side, 0:36:38.560 --> 0:36:42.560 it's frightening. Really we are mannerisms, which is crazy, Like 0:36:43.400 --> 0:36:46.480 the way yeah, the way we sit, the way we talk, 0:36:46.640 --> 0:36:52.319 our cadence. I'm like, it's unselling to me, Like why. 0:36:53.160 --> 0:36:54.640 I'm starting to see that in our son. 0:36:54.719 --> 0:36:54.879 Now. 0:36:54.960 --> 0:36:57.000 It took a couple of years, but now I'm starting 0:36:57.000 --> 0:36:58.799 to see so much of myself. It took a couple 0:36:58.880 --> 0:37:00.200 year because he's only a couple year. 0:37:02.320 --> 0:37:05.239 It's entire life. It's his entire life for me to 0:37:05.239 --> 0:37:06.239 see he's just like me. 0:37:07.280 --> 0:37:09.040 At the first Hi, I'm like, oh, I don't like whatever. 0:37:09.160 --> 0:37:10.719 I didn't even think you look like me. Now he's 0:37:10.719 --> 0:37:12.560 starting to look more like me. He's starting to do 0:37:12.600 --> 0:37:14.160 the same things like oh crap. 0:37:14.120 --> 0:37:15.160 Like that's Elliott. 0:37:15.239 --> 0:37:17.319 I'll spot little things every once in a while, like 0:37:17.360 --> 0:37:18.720 I'll be doing something and I'll look. 0:37:18.560 --> 0:37:20.440 At my hands and I'll go, that's my dad's. 0:37:22.320 --> 0:37:25.360 It's so weird to see because I remember like looking 0:37:25.360 --> 0:37:26.239 at things like that. 0:37:27.040 --> 0:37:28.200 What about you? 0:37:28.600 --> 0:37:29.080 I had? 0:37:29.280 --> 0:37:33.279 So I had a very different experience my dad. So 0:37:33.680 --> 0:37:37.520 my dad is amazing. My dad was young when I 0:37:37.560 --> 0:37:41.080 was born. He was twenty five when he married my mom. 0:37:41.200 --> 0:37:44.560 She already had two kids. Then he had me, which 0:37:44.680 --> 0:37:47.360 so that was for me turning thirty, I was like, 0:37:47.440 --> 0:37:49.919 I've got to get on this, like having kids thing 0:37:49.960 --> 0:37:54.719 in life, thing like this. I'm way late. I'm so 0:37:54.880 --> 0:37:59.640 far behind what you're supposed to be doing. My dad musician. 0:37:59.760 --> 0:38:00.480 He's drummer. 0:38:01.200 --> 0:38:03.000 He was touring a lot when I was young, so 0:38:03.160 --> 0:38:06.520 I was home most of the time with my mom, 0:38:06.560 --> 0:38:10.480 but my dad was always super present. But you know, 0:38:10.520 --> 0:38:13.719 he comes from a military background. His dad was in 0:38:14.040 --> 0:38:18.360 was in the military, So it's very that generation and 0:38:18.400 --> 0:38:22.640 that upbringing was very much like, you know, do as 0:38:22.640 --> 0:38:24.600 you're told. I'll tell you the best way to fucking 0:38:24.640 --> 0:38:27.319 do things. Otherwise shut the fuck up, like you know, 0:38:27.800 --> 0:38:30.200 let me, let me just guide you, like I know 0:38:30.280 --> 0:38:34.799 what's best. So it was definitely a bit stifling, you 0:38:34.800 --> 0:38:36.799 know when you when I got older, and it was 0:38:36.840 --> 0:38:39.319 like I had to do things then for myself because 0:38:39.320 --> 0:38:41.000 I was like, God, I don't know how to do 0:38:41.080 --> 0:38:46.560 any of this stuff. And one of the other things 0:38:46.560 --> 0:38:49.040 that was really that that I noticed later on in 0:38:49.080 --> 0:38:52.520 life was that my parents always held my parents on 0:38:52.600 --> 0:38:55.040 such a pedestal. I aways looked up to them and 0:38:55.080 --> 0:39:00.600 what it is they did, because they never grounded my 0:39:00.920 --> 0:39:03.680 view of them, like they never apologized for things. They 0:39:03.680 --> 0:39:07.000 were never human and if they made a mistake, it 0:39:07.080 --> 0:39:08.719 was just kind of like they made it and they 0:39:08.760 --> 0:39:09.320 brushed over it. 0:39:09.400 --> 0:39:10.600 It was like on to the next day. 0:39:11.040 --> 0:39:13.200 So I always make a point now with my kids 0:39:13.400 --> 0:39:18.279 of apologizing for mistakes that I make, for things that 0:39:18.360 --> 0:39:20.880 happen because it's like, I don't I don't want you 0:39:20.920 --> 0:39:23.759 guys to think that I am any better than you are. 0:39:24.360 --> 0:39:27.520 You know, I've experienced a lot in life, so I 0:39:27.560 --> 0:39:29.480 want to help guide you through things, but I also 0:39:29.560 --> 0:39:33.160 want you to experience life in your own things as well. 0:39:33.239 --> 0:39:37.480 So it's a it's a juggling act. But I morally 0:39:37.880 --> 0:39:42.040 from my parents. My moral compass is so huge, so 0:39:42.120 --> 0:39:45.560 I owe them the world for that, and I want to. 0:39:45.520 --> 0:39:46.719 Be the opposite of my dad. 0:39:47.080 --> 0:39:48.520 Obviously it will always. 0:39:48.640 --> 0:39:53.240 I am very invested in my kids and even something 0:39:53.280 --> 0:39:55.279 as simple as last night, me and the girls went 0:39:55.320 --> 0:39:58.880 to get dinner and one of the managers at the 0:39:58.880 --> 0:40:03.640 restaurant as we were walking out, he like stops us all, 0:40:03.760 --> 0:40:07.600 and I'm like what they do and he's like, you 0:40:07.680 --> 0:40:10.160 have the most like sweetest girls. 0:40:10.400 --> 0:40:12.319 They're so respectful. 0:40:12.480 --> 0:40:15.000 They've said thank you, they've said thank you, they've said 0:40:15.000 --> 0:40:18.279 thank you. Pick out a cookie and like gave them 0:40:18.320 --> 0:40:20.480 some cookies and they were like, oh, thank. 0:40:20.320 --> 0:40:25.080 You so very much, and just that's just what restaurant 0:40:25.120 --> 0:40:27.680 is that love We were Love's last night. 0:40:29.560 --> 0:40:31.160 As soon as you said like, he came with the 0:40:31.160 --> 0:40:39.160 cookies and like literally the Calabasas It's like it's kind 0:40:39.160 --> 0:40:40.759 of like Jerry's Deli used to be, but it's a 0:40:40.840 --> 0:40:42.319 much better version of way. 0:40:42.719 --> 0:40:44.200 Their menu is massive. 0:40:44.800 --> 0:40:48.719 They have like they bake everything and so desert and 0:40:48.760 --> 0:40:49.520 all sorts of st. 0:40:50.320 --> 0:40:53.480 And we literally get the same thing every time. There's 0:40:53.520 --> 0:40:53.919 no change. 0:40:53.920 --> 0:40:57.920 Friday nights, it's clam chowdert. 0:40:56.520 --> 0:40:58.879 My French toast, literally French toast. 0:40:58.880 --> 0:41:00.799 And it's the place we go to pretty much every day. 0:41:00.840 --> 0:41:05.040 Is the Beverly Glenn Deli. Okay, yeah, Glens, And it's 0:41:05.080 --> 0:41:07.520 you know, it's our favorite little Jewish deli. And the 0:41:07.600 --> 0:41:10.480 kids actually don't go crazy anymore, so it's an actually 0:41:10.520 --> 0:41:13.560 good experience. But I get the same exact thing every 0:41:13.600 --> 0:41:14.239 single time. 0:41:16.600 --> 0:41:18.720 Crossroads. My girls love. 0:41:19.239 --> 0:41:21.279 They had no idea that it was vegan, right, and 0:41:21.360 --> 0:41:24.239 like they're just going to town. And then afterwards I'm like, 0:41:24.280 --> 0:41:26.720 you know that was vegan. They're like, okay, whatever. 0:41:26.920 --> 0:41:28.600 I took my son there for his birthday. 0:41:28.640 --> 0:41:30.319 That's when he ordered the cocktail and I was like, 0:41:30.400 --> 0:41:34.120 this is not don't check his ID, this isn't happen. 0:41:34.360 --> 0:41:35.719 Yeah, this is a frosted tip. 0:41:35.760 --> 0:41:37.799 I need from you. Guys. We are having such a 0:41:37.800 --> 0:41:41.640 hard time finding food for our kids that they will 0:41:41.680 --> 0:41:45.000 eat it. My girl's better, she'll actually eat like a 0:41:45.080 --> 0:41:47.759 chicken nugget, a fish stick. Right. I'm trying to get 0:41:47.760 --> 0:41:50.560 some kind of protein in them because. 0:41:50.400 --> 0:41:51.960 I tried to go against fried. 0:41:52.600 --> 0:41:55.520 They won't even eat fried. I mean the French fry 0:41:55.520 --> 0:41:58.560 every once in a while, but it's just sugar. I 0:41:58.560 --> 0:42:01.319 mean bread, sugar, bread, sugar. Red Shirt will not eat 0:42:01.360 --> 0:42:05.080 anything else. Is there a trick into getting them to 0:42:05.239 --> 0:42:06.080 know when? 0:42:07.760 --> 0:42:12.760 Yeah, Like we try and do as many like vitamin 0:42:12.800 --> 0:42:17.960 gummies and things just to make sure that because if 0:42:18.000 --> 0:42:19.879 you go in like you know, oh no, I want 0:42:19.880 --> 0:42:21.680 the healthiest stuff for you, and I want that and 0:42:21.719 --> 0:42:24.680 then they don't eat, then then they're not getting any 0:42:24.760 --> 0:42:27.440 nutrients at all. So it's like you have to and 0:42:27.480 --> 0:42:29.480 it changes, it'll it gets better. 0:42:29.680 --> 0:42:33.239 It does. But two and a half, I mean, yeah, 0:42:34.560 --> 0:42:37.240 you're super independent, saying. 0:42:37.000 --> 0:42:39.719 Like her son who's now sick, still has never had 0:42:39.719 --> 0:42:42.680 a green vegetable, and she's all about cooking and everything you. 0:42:42.640 --> 0:42:43.160 Refuse to do. 0:42:43.280 --> 0:42:45.040 I mean it's also I mean I got lucky. 0:42:45.120 --> 0:42:49.919 Both my girls eat everything and they love like their 0:42:49.960 --> 0:42:52.440 seaweed and they love their vegetables, and I love this 0:42:52.480 --> 0:42:55.040 that and the other. They're kind of getting a little 0:42:55.040 --> 0:42:58.720 bit away from certain proteins, like you know, chicken or steak. 0:42:58.800 --> 0:43:01.200 But you know, we'll put that in here and there. 0:43:01.239 --> 0:43:03.319 At least my youngest is not living off of bac 0:43:03.320 --> 0:43:07.359 and cheese anymore. But the best advice I would give 0:43:07.560 --> 0:43:12.720 is they're also sponges. So whatever they see you eating, 0:43:13.440 --> 0:43:16.600 they one or the other might lean towards one of 0:43:16.640 --> 0:43:18.920 you to want to eat what dad's eating. 0:43:19.400 --> 0:43:19.640 You know. 0:43:19.880 --> 0:43:24.359 Like, so I hated vegetables until about three four years ago. 0:43:24.520 --> 0:43:27.800 I hated them, But being clean now it's sober trying 0:43:27.840 --> 0:43:31.200 to like put on size all this stuff. You gotta 0:43:31.200 --> 0:43:33.640 eat your greens so like, and I, you know, I 0:43:33.680 --> 0:43:35.080 gotta stop making a face when. 0:43:34.920 --> 0:43:35.920 I eat the broccoli and like. 0:43:37.120 --> 0:43:40.520 But by example you have kids, kids are gonna want 0:43:40.520 --> 0:43:43.120 to be like what their parents are. If they're eating 0:43:43.200 --> 0:43:46.120 something green, they're gonna go, oh, try it and then, oh, 0:43:46.160 --> 0:43:46.840 my god. 0:43:46.920 --> 0:43:50.000 The only thing my kids eat that ugh, I don't 0:43:50.040 --> 0:43:50.520 know why. 0:43:50.760 --> 0:43:55.360 Out of the can sardines out of a freaking. 0:43:55.080 --> 0:43:57.520 Can, all over caesar salad. I'm like, I don't want 0:43:57.520 --> 0:43:58.000 the sardines? 0:43:58.280 --> 0:43:59.880 Is wrong with my children? 0:44:00.040 --> 0:44:01.440 Did they even get their hands on a can of 0:44:01.520 --> 0:44:02.840 sard gema. 0:44:03.000 --> 0:44:05.880 GiMA gets it and they freaking literally eat. 0:44:07.640 --> 0:44:10.759 My grandfather, my papa. It was so disgusting. He would 0:44:10.840 --> 0:44:14.680 love a canno sardines and buttermilk. Think about that. 0:44:14.680 --> 0:44:19.960 It just sounds like restantly or even worse genera that 0:44:20.040 --> 0:44:23.040 whole like, but like literally. 0:44:22.840 --> 0:44:27.360 Open the can is like like you're eating the depression 0:44:27.400 --> 0:44:32.719 and stuff. They just ended up eating all extra warm buttermilk. 0:44:32.800 --> 0:44:36.320 And he wasn't eating sardines and buttermilk. 0:44:37.440 --> 0:44:40.279 Like I've seen all those people on like eating that. 0:44:40.320 --> 0:44:41.800 What's that? Just give me five minutes. 0:44:42.080 --> 0:44:46.680 What's that fish that makes everybody want to It's like 0:44:46.680 --> 0:44:51.279 like Sweden or there's that that like viral challenge with 0:44:51.320 --> 0:44:53.839 people eating that fish that's supposed to be like the 0:44:53.880 --> 0:44:54.960 worst smelling. 0:44:55.760 --> 0:44:59.719 Yeah, and would anyone want to viraly do challenge exactly? 0:44:59.840 --> 0:45:02.680 Like I'll do certain things, sure, but I'm not going 0:45:02.719 --> 0:45:05.439 to eat something that's gonna make me projectile, vomit or die. 0:45:05.480 --> 0:45:07.600 Like what was the puffer fish that you know exactly 0:45:08.239 --> 0:45:09.080 how he's done that? 0:45:09.239 --> 0:45:11.200 How he did that? We were in freaking Japan. 0:45:11.840 --> 0:45:14.200 Obviously, it's one of five chefs in the world that 0:45:14.239 --> 0:45:17.319 are allowed to serve it. But dude, if you're off 0:45:17.360 --> 0:45:18.760 by one scale. 0:45:19.360 --> 0:45:21.160 Your dad. 0:45:22.320 --> 0:45:23.000 Like every other one. 0:45:23.080 --> 0:45:25.919 But it's the you know, it's the excitement of But if. 0:45:25.840 --> 0:45:28.120 You get the wrong piece, you are you will die. 0:45:28.160 --> 0:45:30.120 I have too many kids now to like risk it 0:45:30.320 --> 0:45:31.600 just to try some fish. 0:45:32.560 --> 0:45:35.080 How much I'm a daredevil, But now that I have kids, 0:45:35.080 --> 0:45:36.840 I'm like, No, I don't need to skydive anymore. 0:45:37.080 --> 0:45:40.600 No, I don't need to eatl I never will be. 0:45:43.560 --> 0:45:48.719 Lance that will have to talk about because if I 0:45:48.719 --> 0:45:51.040 get if I get a seat, I'm going, I'm sorry. 0:45:51.520 --> 0:45:54.080 It's so safe. Now what a space is so sick? 0:45:54.160 --> 0:45:54.680 Why would you? 0:45:54.680 --> 0:45:58.000 You can literally fly in a giant It looks like 0:45:58.040 --> 0:46:00.319 a giant with. 0:46:00.640 --> 0:46:02.759 Of course really yea my whole life. I want to 0:46:02.760 --> 0:46:03.080 be a national. 0:46:03.239 --> 0:46:03.879 It's a giant pedole. 0:46:05.000 --> 0:46:06.640 All right, Let's play a game when we come back 0:46:06.680 --> 0:46:08.840 from this break, because I have lots of things to 0:46:08.840 --> 0:46:11.400 play with you guys. One before we go, though, congrats 0:46:11.400 --> 0:46:16.000 on the how do you say it? The the at 0:46:16.320 --> 0:46:19.440 at at peak your mocktails that you're doing, Yes, tell 0:46:19.520 --> 0:46:20.560 us about that before we go break. 0:46:20.960 --> 0:46:26.200 So at ten, who is an amazingly talented individual from Montreal. 0:46:26.719 --> 0:46:27.359 Uh. 0:46:27.400 --> 0:46:32.160 He played soccer in Montreal and then actually played for the. 0:46:32.160 --> 0:46:35.520 Jets uh here in the US for a couple of years. 0:46:36.560 --> 0:46:41.600 He's also sober, like myself created this amazing mocktail brand. 0:46:42.160 --> 0:46:44.840 Uh so, I am a brand ambassador and a partner 0:46:45.000 --> 0:46:48.680 and uh it is. The mocktail thing is here to stay. 0:46:48.960 --> 0:46:51.800 Like almost every single restaurant I've been to now anywhere 0:46:52.200 --> 0:46:54.279 has it as as as an option. It's just like 0:46:54.360 --> 0:46:58.360 luten free or vegan options. And now, granted, when I 0:46:58.400 --> 0:47:02.359 got sober, you know, there's a lot of drinks surprisingly 0:47:02.440 --> 0:47:05.440 that I never tried. So I tried a lot, but 0:47:06.080 --> 0:47:08.319 so I don't know if that's what it's supposed to taste, like, 0:47:08.320 --> 0:47:10.600 like I never had a mohido, never have them, But 0:47:11.440 --> 0:47:13.000 my friends that have tried it are like, dude, this 0:47:13.040 --> 0:47:16.040 tastes like a mohedo, And like I tell people, it's 0:47:16.120 --> 0:47:20.120 it's it's kind of like you know, when you're younger 0:47:20.160 --> 0:47:22.279 and you see mom and dad having a drink after 0:47:22.280 --> 0:47:26.120 dinner whatever, and maybe they get a little bit tipsy. 0:47:26.160 --> 0:47:27.879 You want to be like that kind of thing. 0:47:27.960 --> 0:47:30.440 So like they'll pour like apple juice in your glass 0:47:30.440 --> 0:47:31.840 and you'll act a little loopy. 0:47:32.480 --> 0:47:34.680 Oh it it's. 0:47:34.120 --> 0:47:39.040 You know, it releases that dopamine that we all get 0:47:39.120 --> 0:47:42.280 from drinking or partying or dancing or whatever we're doing. 0:47:42.960 --> 0:47:44.920 But you don't get foam while you're still in that 0:47:44.960 --> 0:47:45.880 social atmosphere. 0:47:46.239 --> 0:47:47.280 You know what you're doing. 0:47:47.320 --> 0:47:49.560 You can get home safely or be the DD and 0:47:49.600 --> 0:47:53.240 make sure your friends are good. And it tastes amazing, 0:47:53.320 --> 0:47:57.080 it honestly does, and it's all it's all natural, organic 0:47:57.160 --> 0:47:59.120 and it's I mean, I'm telling you it is the 0:47:59.200 --> 0:48:03.920 new wave. It's currently only available in Canada, but eventually 0:48:03.920 --> 0:48:05.279 we are going to bring it down to the. 0:48:06.800 --> 0:48:10.319 That is the this young generation. They don't drink much 0:48:10.360 --> 0:48:12.040 at all. They don't like to go out, they like 0:48:12.120 --> 0:48:13.880 to be at home and they don't like to drink. 0:48:14.200 --> 0:48:16.640 So mocktails are the big thing. 0:48:16.719 --> 0:48:21.879 Well it's either they do that or they they don't 0:48:21.880 --> 0:48:24.799 eat before they go out. They as soon as they 0:48:24.840 --> 0:48:26.680 walk in the club, they do six shots and then 0:48:26.680 --> 0:48:28.839 before you know it, they black out and they don't 0:48:28.840 --> 0:48:31.759 know where they end up. And it's like it's just 0:48:31.800 --> 0:48:32.440 on set. 0:48:32.280 --> 0:48:35.960 Like me being an alcoholic, like I always I'm not 0:48:36.040 --> 0:48:37.600 picking on them, and I'm like, you guys have no 0:48:37.640 --> 0:48:39.520 idea how to drink, Like you don't know what you're doing. 0:48:40.080 --> 0:48:44.880 You know, first of all, just have a salad. Just 0:48:44.920 --> 0:48:45.680 have a salad. 0:48:46.080 --> 0:48:49.040 When you have a couple shots, guess what, have a water. 0:48:49.840 --> 0:48:51.520 Then you can kind of go peet a little bit 0:48:51.520 --> 0:48:54.359 of the alcohol, drink some more. You don't walk in 0:48:54.400 --> 0:48:57.120 and go six shots deep. And then you know, if 0:48:57.120 --> 0:48:59.520 you're a young lady you wake up in some guy's house, 0:48:59.560 --> 0:49:01.440 you have knowd how you got there. Or if you're 0:49:01.480 --> 0:49:03.440 a guy and all of a sudden you end up 0:49:03.480 --> 0:49:07.239 in a bush somewhere on Hollywood Bulevard like he's been. 0:49:07.360 --> 0:49:09.600 He's woken up in a bush before. I was in 0:49:09.640 --> 0:49:10.080 a bush. 0:49:10.920 --> 0:49:14.040 Burning bush was a hedge. It was totally different. It 0:49:14.080 --> 0:49:18.480 was wasn't blooming. It was I was drugged. 0:49:18.760 --> 0:49:20.560 I don't think you're like eighteen. 0:49:21.280 --> 0:49:21.960 I was like twenty. 0:49:21.960 --> 0:49:23.600 They were trying to drug the pretty girl I was with. 0:49:23.719 --> 0:49:25.360 I'm pretty sure you're welcome. 0:49:25.520 --> 0:49:28.080 I've been drunk, but I didn't wake up, so they 0:49:28.160 --> 0:49:29.239 just wanted to get you out of there. 0:49:29.320 --> 0:49:31.399 No, I think I just took her to the yeah. 0:49:33.040 --> 0:49:35.080 But then his friends leave him and all my. 0:49:35.000 --> 0:49:37.120 Friends woke up at the bust of five in the 0:49:37.120 --> 0:49:39.960 morning and outside the club in Miami, beats' missing my 0:49:40.239 --> 0:49:43.960 phone and wallet and a shoe. And luckily the bouncer 0:49:44.040 --> 0:49:45.920 knew my twin sister because he had a crush on her, 0:49:45.960 --> 0:49:47.600 and I was like, her up and then I just 0:49:47.680 --> 0:49:49.520 get this. I have a vague memory of this, her 0:49:49.560 --> 0:49:50.640 little car pulling up. 0:49:51.080 --> 0:49:54.080 I'm being put in some bad that could have ended 0:49:54.160 --> 0:49:55.680 really really bad. 0:49:55.800 --> 0:49:58.000 You could have you could have signed from that haunted house, 0:49:58.040 --> 0:49:59.360 and you could have been missing tea. 0:49:59.520 --> 0:50:00.600 And also of things. 0:50:02.880 --> 0:50:04.640 To attack me or not leave me. 0:50:04.840 --> 0:50:07.320 But it is interesting though that you say that, because 0:50:07.400 --> 0:50:09.960 like I don't know the brands, but I know that 0:50:10.000 --> 0:50:13.240 there was a few liquor brands, for example, that pulled 0:50:13.239 --> 0:50:16.200 out of Coachella this year because they don't want to 0:50:16.200 --> 0:50:19.200 be associated with some of the aftermath that happens, even 0:50:19.200 --> 0:50:22.160 though it's personal choice. But so there was like a 0:50:22.200 --> 0:50:25.480 company called New Bar, a bunch of mocktail options at 0:50:25.520 --> 0:50:29.320 Coachella at Stage Coach, and they couldn't keep these mocktails 0:50:29.360 --> 0:50:32.640 on the shelf like they were just going And that's incredible. 0:50:32.840 --> 0:50:34.640 Well, a lot of times they're on drugs. 0:50:35.000 --> 0:50:40.560 Well there's also that a mic. Well they're all they're 0:50:40.600 --> 0:50:42.680 all doing shrooms. Shrooms is all the rage. Now it's 0:50:42.680 --> 0:50:45.279 a little microding thing. It's the whole mushroom thing. 0:50:45.480 --> 0:50:48.680 Like obviously, you know, people are comparing it to like weed, 0:50:49.080 --> 0:50:51.319 where it's like, Okay, you can't die from it. 0:50:51.400 --> 0:50:53.280 You'll do dumb things, you'll make poor. 0:50:53.120 --> 0:50:56.080 Decisions, or you'll have an out of body experience, and 0:50:56.120 --> 0:50:58.239 then it's over, you know, and you don't do it 0:50:58.360 --> 0:51:00.520 every single day, although there are the is that smoke 0:51:00.560 --> 0:51:02.480 weed daily all the time. 0:51:03.120 --> 0:51:06.560 But see there you go. I used to not so 0:51:06.640 --> 0:51:06.960 much in it. 0:51:07.200 --> 0:51:10.200 But then there's obviously the Kenne means and all these 0:51:10.239 --> 0:51:13.120 things that are like that's a little bit more severe. 0:51:13.239 --> 0:51:16.120 I just don't. I can't do anything that I can't 0:51:16.160 --> 0:51:18.400 be in control of, Like I just I would not 0:51:18.520 --> 0:51:19.000 be good. 0:51:19.120 --> 0:51:19.319 Well. 0:51:19.360 --> 0:51:23.080 And also people are now terrified, thank god, they're terrified 0:51:23.280 --> 0:51:28.120 of who of what's out there now because of because 0:51:28.120 --> 0:51:31.680 of fetanol, you know. I mean I've literally lost eleven 0:51:31.719 --> 0:51:35.760 friends because of it. And it's like so they're switching 0:51:35.840 --> 0:51:38.680 to stuff that hopefully doesn't have it in it. But again, 0:51:39.320 --> 0:51:40.080 you just never. 0:51:39.960 --> 0:51:41.920 Know, you know what I mean. It's just not just 0:51:41.920 --> 0:51:46.000 just don't do any of it. Go. There's there's more 0:51:46.040 --> 0:51:47.120 ways to have fun. 0:51:47.120 --> 0:51:53.760 Have a motel have a mottetail exactly. All right, guys. Well, 0:51:54.080 --> 0:51:56.120 as usual, we're running out of time, so this is 0:51:56.120 --> 0:51:57.560 definitely gonna be a two for it because I have 0:51:57.640 --> 0:52:00.880 a lot to talk about with these guys, So all right, 0:52:00.920 --> 0:52:03.600 we're gonna leave it here. Look for the second episode 0:52:03.600 --> 0:52:07.280 coming out very very soon. All right, guys, Hey, thanks 0:52:07.320 --> 0:52:10.480 for listening. Follow us on Instagram at Frosted Tips with 0:52:10.640 --> 0:52:14.120 Lance and Michael Turchinard, and at lance Bast for all 0:52:14.160 --> 0:52:15.280 your pop culture needs 0:52:15.560 --> 0:52:17.520 And make sure to write a review and leave us 0:52:17.520 --> 0:52:20.000 five stars six if you can see you next time.