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Speaker 1: This is Frosted Tips with Lance Bass, an iHeartRadio podcast. Hello,

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Speaker 1: my little Peanuts, it's me your host, Lance Bass. This

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Speaker 1: is Frosted Tips with Me and my lovely co host husband,

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Speaker 1: Michael Turkey Turchin. I'm excited for our first show back

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Speaker 1: season two of Frosted Tips, and we are starting out

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Speaker 1: with a bang because it is Father's Day, Daddy Day edition,

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Speaker 1: and we have brought our favorite dads to the show today.

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Speaker 1: Not only are you an amazing dad, Turkey Turchin, well,

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Speaker 1: we have some great dads with us too, Brian Austin,

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Speaker 1: greatest hair.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes yes.

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Speaker 1: And we also have Alexander James McLean a k a

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Speaker 1: a J. From the Backstreet Boys and also my son's namesake.

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Speaker 2: I love watching this banter. It's so cute. It is,

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Speaker 2: it really is. We're just going to start. I would

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Speaker 2: love to be on the car ride home. I just

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Speaker 2: I just.

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Speaker 1: Would so you I hear want to start going by

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Speaker 1: Alex more than AJ.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you know so so a J.

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Speaker 3: I've now kind of learned is a persona is a

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Speaker 3: character if you will that you know, I as as

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Speaker 3: one fifth of the Backstory Boys when I went on

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Speaker 3: this little self journey. This past summer, I spent ten

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Speaker 3: weeks out in Scottsdale, Arizona, went to an amazing place

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Speaker 3: for a intensive outpatient program called The Meadows. Not so

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Speaker 3: much for my sobriety, but really to kind of get

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Speaker 3: to the roots and clean out the pipes and you know,

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Speaker 3: deal with some past traumas and whatnot. And you know,

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Speaker 3: learned two very key words that I never used in

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Speaker 3: my vocabulary since birth. One is boundaries. That's a big one.

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Speaker 2: Love that word. Well, it's a big word. Yeah, when

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Speaker 2: you're born.

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Speaker 3: That's a lot to say, a lot of syllables that

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Speaker 3: And then authenticity you know, right, that's another one. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I mean, thank you, thank you to the most amazing

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Speaker 3: woman that I've never met, and I cannot wait to

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Speaker 3: meet miss Brene Brown.

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Speaker 2: She really inspired.

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Speaker 3: And so oh she's incredible, does a bunch of ted

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Speaker 3: talks and she is phenomenal. Her mantra is Braving, which

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Speaker 3: I got tattooed on my arm, which stands for boundaries, reliability, accountability, fault, integrity,

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Speaker 3: non judgment, and gratitude.

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Speaker 1: Nice.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, So Alexander James is me being my true

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Speaker 3: authentic self And uh as I said to you earlier

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Speaker 3: before we started. Alexander James has a bone to pick

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Speaker 3: with you?

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Speaker 1: A bone pick?

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Speaker 2: Yes, I do so.

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Speaker 3: I you know, Pride Pride just happened here. I texted

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Speaker 3: you twice. You did come out hanging out with you guys,

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Speaker 3: and I got crickets crickets.

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Speaker 1: I did not get a message.

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Speaker 2: Wow, get your Instagram going having so much fun.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Wow, I did not see this.

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Speaker 2: It was like you had fun scene in the morning

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Speaker 2: because you're a dad.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I'm up at seven. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I did not see this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Rude, yeah, rude.

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Speaker 1: So do you want to hang for Pride?

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Speaker 4: That's weird?

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, sure, fit me in next.

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Speaker 1: You know, Pride was so fun this year because we

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Speaker 1: had zero plans. Usually always, you know, hang out either

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Speaker 1: at Heart or Rocos, and I just kind of sit

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Speaker 1: there and watch the craziness happen. This year I went

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Speaker 1: into the festival for the first time and it was

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Speaker 1: a crazy lineup. We had Kylie Minogue, we had dip

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Speaker 1: Lo Bbi Rex, Lambert Lamber.

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Speaker 2: It was all my friends. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: It was fun. It was fun. So yeah, four other

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Speaker 1: Bags boys, the other four Backstree boys.

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Speaker 2: They didn't invite you, just left the tour. He was there.

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Speaker 1: It was crazy.

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Speaker 2: Should have been there, yeah, I should have should have.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, it was fun and the most visited Pride

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Speaker 1: in history I think so far. Yeah, some records. So

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Speaker 1: take that. Sorry for shoving it in your face out there,

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Speaker 1: but here we are. I know this. That's the funniest

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Speaker 1: phrase to me. Just don't shove it down my throat,

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Speaker 1: don't put it in my face, and just like, what

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Speaker 4: Things that are.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but somehow I came back from Pride and I

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Speaker 1: didn't notice until like a few days later. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I'm scratching the back of my head. I'm like, something's

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Speaker 1: wrong with my hair right here, and I realized that

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Speaker 1: it had been burnt. Someone burned my hair. And the

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Speaker 1: only thing I can think of is someone just took

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Speaker 4: Just next to a heater.

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Speaker 1: I think I would have felt that.

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Speaker 2: I don't know you would have felt if somebody.

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Speaker 1: Well I thought so too, but I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. I did have a drink or maybe you

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Speaker 1: just have a crusty yeah, but yeah, so someone burnt

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Speaker 1: my hair or I burnt my hair. I don't know, but.

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Speaker 2: That's that's the truth, Michaels. Michael's giving me shifty eyes, like,

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Speaker 2: maybe that's the person you.

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Speaker 1: Do this to me? That does sound like something you

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Speaker 1: would do. What your hair is?

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Speaker 4: All?

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Speaker 1: Right? Well, it is Father's Day. Happy Father's Day to

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Speaker 1: two amazing, three amazing dads here, and we're amazing, amazed.

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Speaker 1: I am a good dad. I think I'm a good dat.

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Speaker 1: But I'm glad that you are here because I want

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Speaker 1: to get into because y'all have been dads longer than

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Speaker 1: we have. So we're gonna need some advice, I think,

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Speaker 1: because we're now getting to that age where they're really impressionable.

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Speaker 1: Now there, you know, they can they just learn things.

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Speaker 1: And now now we have to watch right, Okay, we've

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Speaker 1: got to watch what we say we do. So now

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Speaker 1: now we have to like really be in it instead

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Speaker 1: of just looking at them like, oh, there's nothing I

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Speaker 1: could do for your just a blob sitting there on

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Speaker 1: the couch. Now they're like human beings ready to go.

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Speaker 1: So my question to you guys is, uh, is there

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Speaker 1: something that you wish you would have done when they

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Speaker 1: were younger that you didn't do that you're like, oh man,

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Speaker 1: when they were two, I wish I would have started this.

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Speaker 1: I know I was a perfect dad, because one thing

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Speaker 1: that I want to do is, you know, they get

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Speaker 1: a lot of art right there at school. They come

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Speaker 1: home with all this art, and like, what do you

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Speaker 1: do with it? You know, do you save it memory box? Like, okay,

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Speaker 1: that's that's a lot. But now they have these books

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Speaker 1: they create it, right. So we're going to start doing

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Speaker 1: that for the next birthday. So every birthday we're going

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Speaker 1: to collect all their art and do that. And I'm

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Speaker 1: understating how.

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Speaker 2: Big the room is going to have to be houses

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Speaker 2: this collection of books.

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Speaker 1: But they're pretty thin books. They're pretty thin books, and

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Speaker 1: we're going to combine on both kids are going to

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Speaker 1: have one book. So you know, wait, how how old

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Speaker 2: Two and a half? Two and a half. I mean

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Speaker 2: the last I had probably more fun than the kids did.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, would you do.

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Speaker 2: Birthday party? That place was incredible.

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Speaker 1: Little candy Land. When we were kids, we didn't have

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Speaker 1: that crap, you know, we just had the McDonald's.

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Speaker 2: Where was what was the play? It was also called

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Speaker 2: candy It's like an indoor playground.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like indoor playground, and there's Mickey and Minnie showed up.

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Speaker 1: And scary Mickey Minni.

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Speaker 2: They were a little like they were.

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Speaker 1: They were six foot five, yeah as Mickey and mine.

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Speaker 2: I was on Royd very tall, a little.

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Speaker 1: Skinny and tall like slender.

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Speaker 3: Many had the adorable outfits.

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Speaker 2: They were full on, a league of their own, and

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Speaker 1: Just it was great where we have. So they were

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Speaker 1: Halloween babies, so of course every year for their birthday

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Speaker 1: and it's going to be a Halloween party, which is

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Speaker 1: my favorite holiday. And they're obsessed even to this day.

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Speaker 1: They only asked for scary things to read, like scary

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Speaker 1: I wrote this Halloween book that's coming out this year,

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Speaker 1: and they every night Scary Street, Scary Street. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: what hap about to Santa Claus, come on, can we

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 1: They have ghost poppings.

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Speaker 2: Ghost Journey.

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Speaker 5: My eight year old is all about like all the

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Speaker 5: horror games and the horror things, and it's all like

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Speaker 5: five nights at Freddy's time and like all of these things.

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Speaker 1: I love that because I grew up with scary Halloween

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Speaker 1: like my grandfather, my dad. They were all about just

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Speaker 1: doing scary and I love that because it desensitized me

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Speaker 1: to Halloween. I always I was never scared of I like.

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Speaker 2: I used to do a haunted house. I won't do

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Speaker 2: Halloween hard nights. I don't like to be scared, you know,

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Speaker 3: I don't like people like my knee jerk reaction is

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Speaker 3: but I will watch the goryoust most revolting films.

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Speaker 1: I love her See. I'm the same way. I don't

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Speaker 2: I think, I know you guy.

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Speaker 5: You guys ever go to the Haunted hay Ride and

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Speaker 5: that's not that's not scary. Well the hay Ride, you

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Speaker 5: know they ride is a Griffith Park.

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Speaker 2: That's my old so they do.

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Speaker 5: They do the walk through mazes and some of those

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Speaker 5: get the hay Ride. I used to go to when

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Speaker 5: they first started, and it was scary, like they had

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Speaker 5: that you get to a section, there'd be were wolves

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Speaker 5: or like Jason Vore, he's auld be on a hill

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Speaker 5: like all these cool things.

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Speaker 2: Now it's not as not.

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Speaker 1: As part of it.

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Speaker 2: But the walk through.

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Speaker 1: The thing that gets me on that walk through is

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Speaker 1: at the end when that tunnel where it starts you.

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Speaker 4: It's like walking through like like if you're claustophobic, because

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Speaker 4: like you're through like a giants anus.

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Speaker 1: Out and you're like, is uh.

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Speaker 2: They had one maze where you had to like crawl through.

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Speaker 5: They had just like this little kind of cut out

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Speaker 5: in the wall and the guy was like pointing to

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Speaker 5: it and I was like, I'm not that's like and

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Speaker 5: he was like, no, that's the only way to go.

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Speaker 4: There's a really good one, remember the one we went to.

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Speaker 4: There's one in the thirteen Doors seventeen doors I've heard

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Speaker 4: of that.

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Speaker 2: Oh nothing's as bad as what is it?

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Speaker 3: Mcamee manner, Like that's a whole like you're physically.

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Speaker 2: Being tortured, Like to is that out of state?

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Speaker 3: It's out of state and it's like you like a

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Speaker 3: forty page waiver and no one's ever completed it.

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Speaker 1: There's been two documentaries on it. One just came out

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Speaker 1: about how this guy is not good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's.

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Speaker 4: For free and there's like waitless forever and he goes

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Speaker 3: that's what I've been every year and the kids go

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Speaker 2: Don't sound like Ryan Reynolds. I'm not, you know what

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Speaker 3: I went as Spider Man, but my my mask didn't

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Speaker 2: Area that street gets that way like later on in

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Speaker 3: Like this is you know, you're past that age now, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: What is the oldest you would want your kid to

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Speaker 5: There should be some sort of like moral age online. Okay,

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Speaker 2: Don't be a sexy nurse like not raggedy. Yeah no, no,

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Speaker 2: So he's got like he's all like the.

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Speaker 5: As the kids like continued to come like as I

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Speaker 1: And I don't like to be hot.

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Speaker 5: Well, and it's like you spend hours working on costumes

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Speaker 4: And yeah, Sla in Hollywood took it over.

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Speaker 1: Yes, like we didn't know what to do, Like is

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Speaker 5: you get like into the gift room afterwards where there's

442
00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:16,199
Speaker 5: like stuff to buy, and the kid, is.

443
00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:18,480
Speaker 2: That all year round? Is that there are No, it's

444
00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:19,160
Speaker 2: not a year round.

445
00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:22,560
Speaker 1: It's called what was that called? It's yeah, it's camp.

446
00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:25,120
Speaker 2: It's called about the Incredible House.

447
00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:27,400
Speaker 1: So I don't know what it's called. They just invited

448
00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:30,200
Speaker 1: us over. It's Airbnb, you know is doing it. So

449
00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:33,359
Speaker 1: we went there and it's the jit all right.

450
00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:35,160
Speaker 2: I saw that's insane.

451
00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:37,520
Speaker 4: The like rebuilt their entire house inside.

452
00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:40,000
Speaker 1: The entire thing, so you see see the suits get

453
00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:42,800
Speaker 1: tested on with fire and ice and I mean and

454
00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:44,760
Speaker 1: then you go and they have what's her name from

455
00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:49,040
Speaker 1: Project Runway, one of these contestants like only three times. Yeah,

456
00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:51,159
Speaker 1: she is like the designer and so you look at

457
00:21:51,160 --> 00:21:53,639
Speaker 1: all the swatches and all the kids are like picking

458
00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:56,880
Speaker 1: out the colors, they want the different fabrics. Way yeah,

459
00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:58,520
Speaker 1: and then you know, you put it all together and

460
00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:00,880
Speaker 1: you're designing it and I mean it's takes like over

461
00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:03,080
Speaker 1: an hour to do all this stuff. It was so

462
00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:05,280
Speaker 1: much fun. And then they're like okay, and then they

463
00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:06,960
Speaker 1: made suits for us and they're like, Okay, you'll get

464
00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:08,920
Speaker 1: it in like two weeks. Like, oh, we actually get

465
00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:11,000
Speaker 1: to have suits. Yeah, we.

466
00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:16,640
Speaker 2: Really superhero out Okay, hold.

467
00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:22,360
Speaker 1: On, kind of like guess, oh my god, Jit.

468
00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:24,720
Speaker 5: I'm not sure how I feel about the choices and

469
00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:26,800
Speaker 5: colors and fabric, but that's uh.

470
00:22:27,320 --> 00:22:30,560
Speaker 1: I think the personal joy me and me and Alexander's

471
00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:33,360
Speaker 1: are really like that's I mean, I think we did good.

472
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:36,520
Speaker 2: Okay, I need to take the girls there. That is awesome.

473
00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:39,200
Speaker 2: It's not amazing, right, it was just for I think.

474
00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:40,639
Speaker 1: It is still right now. I think it's there for

475
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:41,520
Speaker 1: a couple of monks here.

476
00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:42,800
Speaker 2: We just went a few weeks ago.

477
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:44,760
Speaker 3: I want to go to the So there's another airbnb.

478
00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:46,359
Speaker 3: I don't know where it's at, and it's the X

479
00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:50,360
Speaker 3: Men ninety seven. Oh yes, and it's every room it's

480
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:52,600
Speaker 3: all done like the old comics and just like the

481
00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 3: actual TV show, you can stay there, stay there in

482
00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:59,400
Speaker 3: like Jubileese room or in beasts room. I'm a huge

483
00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:02,719
Speaker 3: comic book guy and Marvel, so I'm like, and when

484
00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:05,359
Speaker 3: you walk in, there's a sentinel head in the front

485
00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:07,160
Speaker 3: driveway like it's daywhen.

486
00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:11,120
Speaker 1: And you're watching ninety seven, right, it's the new show. Yeah,

487
00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:14,120
Speaker 1: I haven't seen it yet, Oh so good, loves it

488
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:14,920
Speaker 1: so good.

489
00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:17,919
Speaker 2: Same the first one that was Saturday mornings for me,

490
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:18,560
Speaker 2: me too.

491
00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:22,399
Speaker 1: So exactly. So yeah. So now that we've done the

492
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:25,320
Speaker 1: superhero thing, I think every year I want to try

493
00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:27,120
Speaker 1: to find a designer just to make us a new

494
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:29,919
Speaker 1: superhero suit every year. So every year we're just a

495
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:34,000
Speaker 1: different superhero, all right, because there's just they love it

496
00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:36,360
Speaker 1: and they ask to wear it every day. Superhero. He's

497
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:39,680
Speaker 1: bubble neote because he wants his powers or bubbles. Oh okay,

498
00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:46,680
Speaker 1: and she is ultraviolet ultra violet. Is this a Halloween

499
00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:47,280
Speaker 1: episode or what?

500
00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 2: Like Father's Day? By the way, happy Father's Day?

501
00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:56,199
Speaker 1: Is there a holiday that is the most fun for

502
00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:57,080
Speaker 1: you and your family?

503
00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:02,880
Speaker 2: So I think I think Halloween's the most fun. Yeah, yeah,

504
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:04,840
Speaker 2: for sure, Halloween and or Christmas, Halloween.

505
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:07,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, Christmas is fun, but Christmas is So we tried

506
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:11,560
Speaker 5: a new thing last Christmas, which a friend of mine

507
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:13,520
Speaker 5: suggested and I was. I tried it and I was like,

508
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:17,359
Speaker 5: it's amazing. Normally Christmas morning, everybody gets to the tree,

509
00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:20,119
Speaker 5: they tear everything apart, and it's over in like fifteen minutes.

510
00:24:20,160 --> 00:24:21,959
Speaker 5: Ye're like, oh my god, I've been working for like

511
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,000
Speaker 5: three months.

512
00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:24,439
Speaker 1: That's me.

513
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:28,480
Speaker 2: So he was like, instead, you do a couple of presents.

514
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 5: Then everybody gets up, puts on their pajamas, goes outside

515
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:33,960
Speaker 5: for like a walk or does something, and you come

516
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 5: back in. You do a couple more presents, and then

517
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,919
Speaker 5: you have you make breakfast, and you do so we

518
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:42,240
Speaker 5: ended up stretching Christmas out through the entire day's idea.

519
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:46,960
Speaker 5: It's really good the kids then, because they had time

520
00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:50,000
Speaker 5: after they open presents, I'd put them together, they'd play

521
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:52,560
Speaker 5: with them. The problem leading up to this was like

522
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:54,600
Speaker 5: my kids would find things and they go.

523
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:56,520
Speaker 2: Hey, I've got this. I was like, yay, you got that.

524
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:58,720
Speaker 5: For Christmas last year, they had no idea because they

525
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:01,440
Speaker 5: just shove everything to close. Because they have the two

526
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 5: things that they remember at the end of their half

527
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:09,520
Speaker 5: hour destructions. So it was amazing and it was great,

528
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 5: and then people came by and they brought presents and

529
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:14,359
Speaker 5: so it was like this slow It really ended up

530
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:16,000
Speaker 5: being like a family experience.

531
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Speaker 1: I'm going to do that this year. I think that

532
00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 1: was a really good idea because I'm the person that

533
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:23,359
Speaker 1: I'll go all out for that type stuff. I mean,

534
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:25,359
Speaker 1: I plan it for days this year. I was also

535
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 1: on TikTok, which we're going to make a tradition where

536
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:29,879
Speaker 1: h so you know where the tree is and all

537
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,360
Speaker 1: the presents are in the living room, Well, we put

538
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:35,840
Speaker 1: wrapping paper on the entryway, so it's just one big

539
00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:39,119
Speaker 1: present basically, and so we all stand there and we

540
00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 1: count to three and then they have to bust through it.

541
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:42,440
Speaker 1: And then when you bust through it, you see the

542
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:45,240
Speaker 1: magic of Christmas, right, I mean, it is such a

543
00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:47,440
Speaker 1: fun moment. But then they just fly through the present.

544
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:49,440
Speaker 1: So I'm definitely taking your advice.

545
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:52,720
Speaker 5: Works really well, and it made it like a fun

546
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:54,200
Speaker 5: family day.

547
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:55,360
Speaker 2: It was and the kids.

548
00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:57,359
Speaker 5: I was afraid the kids would be like, you know,

549
00:25:57,520 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 5: just like foaming at the mouth to open more stuff,

550
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 5: and they were fine. They they played with everything that

551
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:04,160
Speaker 5: they got during the day.

552
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 2: I still have batteries and toys and have.

553
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 1: So many presents that have not even been like unwrapped,

554
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:11,600
Speaker 1: that are just in the garage waiting for next Yeah.

555
00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 1: I just it's just too much.

556
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:16,960
Speaker 3: There's a there's a basketball goal that still is in

557
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 3: the box that I got for Elliott because she was

558
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 3: all about basketball and then like she's over it now.

559
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 2: I'm like, really, I mean I can't return it now.

560
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 2: There receipts not good anymore. We've had Barbie signed the

561
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:30,560
Speaker 2: box and sell it there.

562
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 1: We have had Hot Wheels, some crazy huge Hot Wheels

563
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:36,960
Speaker 1: thing and the Barbie dream House in our garage, just

564
00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:39,399
Speaker 1: waiting for them to turn three because it says three plus.

565
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:43,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, okay, we're gonna wait till three plus. Yeah,

566
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,119
Speaker 1: And I just thing is gonna take up too much

567
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:50,480
Speaker 1: fucking room in my house, like we're already we're we

568
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 1: like minimalism and so you know, we.

569
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 3: Definitely doesn't work with We're a big Legos family. We're

570
00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 3: a big Lego We hadn't gotten too the Legos yet.

571
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:03,920
Speaker 3: We we love Legos, like there's obviously the more adult

572
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:09,199
Speaker 3: ones that are like three thousand pieces, but like Lyric

573
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 3: and Rachelle just did.

574
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 2: One of of.

575
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:15,400
Speaker 3: Of a stitch and it's freaking awesome and like she's

576
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 3: so proud that she did it. Granted she's seven, but

577
00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 3: still legos is that's a that's a really good one.

578
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:26,639
Speaker 2: But I'm definitely gonna use that shocked pace of play.

579
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:28,480
Speaker 1: And I always do you know the Christmas Eve, you

580
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 1: have one that you know, open up and usually it's

581
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:33,280
Speaker 1: I like to do the pajamas so we can all

582
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 1: wake up in our little Christmas So we were.

583
00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 2: At Christmas Eve.

584
00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:39,160
Speaker 3: Everything family growing up, All the presents were on Christmas Eve.

585
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:40,879
Speaker 3: Christmas Day was just food.

586
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 6: You know.

587
00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 5: What's another idea too that that my fiance saw on

588
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 5: on Instagram. I think it was that seemed really cool

589
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:52,399
Speaker 5: that you can only do for a few years. Someone

590
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 5: in the family would dress up like Santa Claus and

591
00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:56,880
Speaker 5: be putting presents under.

592
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 2: The tree the night before.

593
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:01,399
Speaker 5: The kids could come out and see him, but couldn't

594
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 5: speak to him. So they saw the magic of like

595
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:07,120
Speaker 5: Santa doing this stuff, so they knew he was there,

596
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 5: but then they had to go back in their rooms,

597
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 5: and so it's all about like, you know, he's there,

598
00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:12,400
Speaker 5: but no interaction.

599
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:15,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, obviously you don't want to turn and face. I

600
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:17,399
Speaker 2: still believe. I still believe.

601
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 1: Are you catch it on the rdom camera? I still

602
00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:20,879
Speaker 1: believe what you catch it on the ring camera?

603
00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's amazing.

604
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:29,400
Speaker 1: Are we do we want any? Are we done?

605
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 2: Are we? What?

606
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:32,560
Speaker 1: Are we done? With kids? You want more? Yeah?

607
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:34,160
Speaker 2: Even numbers good?

608
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: Even five?

609
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:36,640
Speaker 2: Five?

610
00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:41,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's odd. I'm just saying, yeah, I was gonna

611
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:43,720
Speaker 1: say yous for you.

612
00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:46,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like it's I mean, and yours ranges? What

613
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 2: twenty two to almost two? O?

614
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 1: You? When do you sleep?

615
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 2: I don't, I don't.

616
00:28:57,440 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 5: It's uh, it's amazing though. It's I've learned so much

617
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 5: having kids because you you realize, especially when you're five,

618
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 5: in that like, oh you start off thinking, oh I

619
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 5: want my son and my daughter to be like a

620
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:13,120
Speaker 5: little version of me.

621
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:15,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love dancing, love the.

622
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:17,480
Speaker 5: Things that I love, and so you're you spend all

623
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 5: this time trying to like mold them and make them

624
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:24,080
Speaker 5: into something, and then you realize later on that it's

625
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 5: like they're these kids, They're exactly.

626
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:27,480
Speaker 2: Who they are.

627
00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:29,960
Speaker 5: You're not going to mold that at all. The only

628
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:33,240
Speaker 5: thing you can mold is morally making sure that they.

629
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 1: Are good people.

630
00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:37,560
Speaker 2: Going into the world doing whatever it is they're supposed

631
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 2: to do. Because like, if I look at my parents,

632
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:40,840
Speaker 2: I'm so.

633
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 1: Different from my parents. They are who they are and

634
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:49,360
Speaker 1: it's crazy we knew that, you like six months old.

635
00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:50,160
Speaker 4: Different, Yeah, I guess six months our kids were so

636
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 4: different and like they like just weird things that, like

637
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 4: just the behavior everything.

638
00:29:54,920 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 2: It's like, you can't they.

639
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 1: Are who they are, yeah, and you can't. Yeah, you

640
00:29:58,920 --> 00:29:59,320
Speaker 1: can't change.

641
00:29:59,440 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 2: I think.

642
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:02,040
Speaker 5: I think the more you stop like trying, you stop

643
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 5: fighting that, and the more you just accept it and

644
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:05,560
Speaker 5: you like learn to enjoy.

645
00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 2: It, enjoy it and brazy because.

646
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 5: Now I'm excited every time they do something new, when

647
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:12,000
Speaker 5: they do something that reminds me of me, or there's

648
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 5: a similarity of like oh my god, you really love

649
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 5: music as much as I do.

650
00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 1: Or it's cool but.

651
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 5: I'm not pushing for it. Yeah, it's my oldest son

652
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 5: now is acting. But he found it in school. He

653
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:25,120
Speaker 5: was doing theater in school and he found his own

654
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 5: love for it. And it's like, it's amazing because I

655
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 5: can share all of these experiences.

656
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 1: I know. We Alexander started showing that he loves music,

657
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 1: you know, loves playing instruments. So I'm like, okay, it's

658
00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 1: time to get a piano. Like, I'm going to get

659
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:41,240
Speaker 1: a keyboard for him, And so we go to Guitar

660
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 1: Center and it was so fun to go there for

661
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 1: the first time with your kids and let them see

662
00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 1: all the instruments and play everything. And then finally I'm

663
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 1: on the keyboard and he loves it so much. He's

664
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,560
Speaker 1: already like mixing things. And then he pushes himself back

665
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 1: and cracks his head on the fireplace and the back

666
00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 1: had three staples. So it's our first state. Oh boy,

667
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 1: perfect baby, I mean so much moons.

668
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:11,560
Speaker 5: How I love that it ended with staples to stables.

669
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 1: I know our poor a girl, Lisa Giggles, who everyone

670
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 1: was on this show. She was our assistant for twenty

671
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 1: years now. Almost like she's named.

672
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 4: An ambulance with like our bloody song. We're like what

673
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 4: she's like, Oh, he's.

674
00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 1: A fire truck ambulance, which they love. He's where.

675
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:31,840
Speaker 2: He's really good at the piano. Where do you see him.

676
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 2: He's very practicing, really hard, play it like bach.

677
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:53,760
Speaker 1: But yeah, what was y'all's relationships with your dad's growing up?

678
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 1: Oh wait again, let's unpack this let's unpack.

679
00:31:57,760 --> 00:31:59,479
Speaker 2: That's up.

680
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 3: That's a oh yeah, didn't have one.

681
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 2: Dad wasn't there.

682
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 3: I just recently reconnected with my dad after about forty.

683
00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:19,760
Speaker 6: Years last October, when Joey and I were doing a

684
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:23,360
Speaker 6: con and then we did our first performance together in

685
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 6: Tampa before the tour started.

686
00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, I just needed to kind of sit down.

687
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:32,920
Speaker 3: And it was after my whole stint in you know, Arizona,

688
00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 3: and I was, you know, I felt like I had

689
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 3: the control to kind of sit this down and do

690
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 3: this my way. And you know what was really frustrating

691
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 3: more than anything was even after the conversation, you know,

692
00:32:45,080 --> 00:32:48,760
Speaker 3: I kind of stepped away from it, felt a little

693
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 3: better about things, but obviously I'm not ready to go

694
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 3: play catch in the front yard. But what blew my

695
00:32:54,760 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 3: mind was months later, we're in the Bahamas for How's birthday,

696
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:04,360
Speaker 3: his big old fiftieth birthday, and my mom calls me

697
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 3: and she's, I don't know what brought this on, and

698
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 3: she's like, you know, I just want to let you know.

699
00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 3: Don't know if you know, but your dad was a musician.

700
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:15,640
Speaker 3: That's how I met your dad.

701
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 2: He was in a band.

702
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:20,760
Speaker 3: He played bass, And I'm sitting here going wow, like

703
00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 3: you kept that from me for so long? Like I

704
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:26,720
Speaker 3: didn't think anybody in my family was musically inclined except

705
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:30,520
Speaker 3: my grandmother who was an insane jazz pianist, but she

706
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 3: got stage fright.

707
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:35,720
Speaker 2: She couldn't she just couldn't do it. But I'm like, wait,

708
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:38,840
Speaker 2: so my dad was a freaking musician, like seriously.

709
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 3: And you know, so when I when I talked to

710
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 3: him recently, we were that's all we talked about was

711
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:49,240
Speaker 3: just music. And He's like, you know, when I'm not

712
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 3: of this world anymore, I want my collection of these

713
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 3: amazing fenders and all these things to go somewhere.

714
00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 2: And I'm like, yeah, I'll take really good care of.

715
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 3: Him, you know, but but yeah, yeah, you know it's

716
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 3: a work in progress.

717
00:34:02,400 --> 00:34:05,120
Speaker 1: Now do you did that heal you in any way?

718
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:10,000
Speaker 2: Because I know, I mean, it started it, but it

719
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 2: started it.

720
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:14,800
Speaker 3: It started it, but it didn't it didn't close anything.

721
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 3: Because my mom had kept letters from me, Christmas cards

722
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:21,000
Speaker 3: for like, she kept everything from me for years.

723
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 5: Did he have a conversation with you and talk to

724
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 5: you about like when you were born, what he was

725
00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 5: going through, Like what why the circumstances ended up the

726
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 5: way they did.

727
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:31,399
Speaker 2: No.

728
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:34,879
Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, the gist of what I got from

729
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:39,719
Speaker 3: both my parents was, now that I've talked to both

730
00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 3: of them about it was that, you know, had me

731
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 3: too young, wasn't ready for the responsibility kind of thing.

732
00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:49,720
Speaker 3: But growing up, I was told my dad was jealous

733
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 3: of me, that's why he left.

734
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:52,439
Speaker 2: And I'm like, how could you be jealous of your kid?

735
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:55,720
Speaker 2: Your kid's not even who told you that? My mom,

736
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:56,840
Speaker 2: my uncle who.

737
00:34:56,760 --> 00:34:58,800
Speaker 3: Kind of took the place of like a father figure,

738
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 3: and then my grandfather, and those are the only men

739
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:05,440
Speaker 3: in my life, you know. So looking back on it now,

740
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 3: it's like it all makes sense why I took the

741
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:12,760
Speaker 3: path that I took outside of the drugs and alcohol

742
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:18,400
Speaker 3: and the party, but like even women and everything, like

743
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 3: my whole perception of relationships and everything. And you know,

744
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 3: I'll sell myself out objectifying people because that's all I knew.

745
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 3: You know, I don't do that on purpose. I don't

746
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 3: do that to this day, But it makes sense to

747
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:38,640
Speaker 3: me now why that was my perception of what's real

748
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:42,120
Speaker 3: and what's not. I had no one to really look

749
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:45,200
Speaker 3: up to or base any of this one, you know.

750
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 3: But I mean we probably talk once a month. Right now,

751
00:35:50,960 --> 00:35:54,080
Speaker 3: I'm still you know, he's been sick and not sick,

752
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:56,719
Speaker 3: and sick and not sick. So, you know, my mom

753
00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:59,360
Speaker 3: asked me recently, She's like, if your dad passed away tomorrow,

754
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 3: would you go to the funeral? I said, I really

755
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 3: don't have an answer for that, because if they asked

756
00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 3: me to go and say something, what the.

757
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 1: Hell do I say?

758
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:08,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know anything about you.

759
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:13,040
Speaker 3: I know you're from Cambridge, mass you're a musician, and

760
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:16,719
Speaker 3: you're basically a certified genius like your IQ is through

761
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:22,280
Speaker 3: the roof. He's a techie, you know, worked for IBM.

762
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:26,320
Speaker 3: He spent up months or years I think living in Japan.

763
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:29,759
Speaker 3: You know, again, it's all fragments. You know, I don't

764
00:36:29,800 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 3: know enough, but but.

765
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:33,880
Speaker 1: I'm glad that you're getting some of those answers.

766
00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:37,840
Speaker 2: But if you look at him and me side by side,

767
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 2: it's frightening. Really we are mannerisms, which is crazy, Like

768
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 2: the way yeah, the way we sit, the way we talk,

769
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:52,319
Speaker 2: our cadence. I'm like, it's unselling to me, Like why.

770
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:54,640
Speaker 1: I'm starting to see that in our son.

771
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:54,879
Speaker 6: Now.

772
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 1: It took a couple of years, but now I'm starting

773
00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:58,799
Speaker 1: to see so much of myself. It took a couple

774
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:00,200
Speaker 1: year because he's only a couple year.

775
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:05,239
Speaker 2: It's entire life. It's his entire life for me to

776
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:06,239
Speaker 2: see he's just like me.

777
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 1: At the first Hi, I'm like, oh, I don't like whatever.

778
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:10,719
Speaker 1: I didn't even think you look like me. Now he's

779
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 1: starting to look more like me. He's starting to do

780
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 1: the same things like oh crap.

781
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 2: Like that's Elliott.

782
00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 5: I'll spot little things every once in a while, like

783
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:18,720
Speaker 5: I'll be doing something and I'll look.

784
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:20,440
Speaker 2: At my hands and I'll go, that's my dad's.

785
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:25,360
Speaker 5: It's so weird to see because I remember like looking

786
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:26,239
Speaker 5: at things like that.

787
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 1: What about you?

788
00:37:28,600 --> 00:37:29,080
Speaker 2: I had?

789
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:33,279
Speaker 5: So I had a very different experience my dad. So

790
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:37,520
Speaker 5: my dad is amazing. My dad was young when I

791
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 5: was born. He was twenty five when he married my mom.

792
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 5: She already had two kids. Then he had me, which

793
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:47,360
Speaker 5: so that was for me turning thirty, I was like,

794
00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:49,919
Speaker 5: I've got to get on this, like having kids thing

795
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:54,719
Speaker 5: in life, thing like this. I'm way late. I'm so

796
00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 5: far behind what you're supposed to be doing. My dad musician.

797
00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 2: He's drummer.

798
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 5: He was touring a lot when I was young, so

799
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 5: I was home most of the time with my mom,

800
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:10,480
Speaker 5: but my dad was always super present. But you know,

801
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 5: he comes from a military background. His dad was in

802
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:18,360
Speaker 5: was in the military, So it's very that generation and

803
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 5: that upbringing was very much like, you know, do as

804
00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 5: you're told. I'll tell you the best way to fucking

805
00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:27,319
Speaker 5: do things. Otherwise shut the fuck up, like you know,

806
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 5: let me, let me just guide you, like I know

807
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:34,799
Speaker 5: what's best. So it was definitely a bit stifling, you

808
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:36,799
Speaker 5: know when you when I got older, and it was

809
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:39,319
Speaker 5: like I had to do things then for myself because

810
00:38:39,320 --> 00:38:41,000
Speaker 5: I was like, God, I don't know how to do

811
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 5: any of this stuff. And one of the other things

812
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:49,040
Speaker 5: that was really that that I noticed later on in

813
00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 5: life was that my parents always held my parents on

814
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 5: such a pedestal. I aways looked up to them and

815
00:38:55,080 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 5: what it is they did, because they never grounded my

816
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:03,680
Speaker 5: view of them, like they never apologized for things. They

817
00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:07,000
Speaker 5: were never human and if they made a mistake, it

818
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:08,719
Speaker 5: was just kind of like they made it and they

819
00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:09,320
Speaker 5: brushed over it.

820
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 2: It was like on to the next day.

821
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:13,200
Speaker 5: So I always make a point now with my kids

822
00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:18,279
Speaker 5: of apologizing for mistakes that I make, for things that

823
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:20,880
Speaker 5: happen because it's like, I don't I don't want you

824
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:23,759
Speaker 5: guys to think that I am any better than you are.

825
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:27,520
Speaker 5: You know, I've experienced a lot in life, so I

826
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:29,480
Speaker 5: want to help guide you through things, but I also

827
00:39:29,560 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 5: want you to experience life in your own things as well.

828
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 5: So it's a it's a juggling act. But I morally

829
00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 5: from my parents. My moral compass is so huge, so

830
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 5: I owe them the world for that, and I want to.

831
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 2: Be the opposite of my dad.

832
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 1: Obviously it will always.

833
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:53,240
Speaker 3: I am very invested in my kids and even something

834
00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:55,279
Speaker 3: as simple as last night, me and the girls went

835
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:58,880
Speaker 3: to get dinner and one of the managers at the

836
00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 3: restaurant as we were walking out, he like stops us all,

837
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 3: and I'm like what they do and he's like, you

838
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 3: have the most like sweetest girls.

839
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:12,319
Speaker 2: They're so respectful.

840
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 3: They've said thank you, they've said thank you, they've said

841
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:18,279
Speaker 3: thank you. Pick out a cookie and like gave them

842
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:20,480
Speaker 3: some cookies and they were like, oh, thank.

843
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 2: You so very much, and just that's just what restaurant

844
00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 2: is that love We were Love's last night.

845
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:31,160
Speaker 5: As soon as you said like, he came with the

846
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:39,160
Speaker 5: cookies and like literally the Calabasas It's like it's kind

847
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:40,759
Speaker 5: of like Jerry's Deli used to be, but it's a

848
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:42,319
Speaker 5: much better version of way.

849
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 2: Their menu is massive.

850
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:48,719
Speaker 5: They have like they bake everything and so desert and

851
00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:49,520
Speaker 5: all sorts of st.

852
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:53,480
Speaker 2: And we literally get the same thing every time. There's

853
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:53,919
Speaker 2: no change.

854
00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 5: Friday nights, it's clam chowdert.

855
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:58,879
Speaker 2: My French toast, literally French toast.

856
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:00,799
Speaker 1: And it's the place we go to pretty much every day.

857
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 1: Is the Beverly Glenn Deli. Okay, yeah, Glens, And it's

858
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 1: you know, it's our favorite little Jewish deli. And the

859
00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 1: kids actually don't go crazy anymore, so it's an actually

860
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 1: good experience. But I get the same exact thing every

861
00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:14,239
Speaker 1: single time.

862
00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:18,720
Speaker 2: Crossroads. My girls love.

863
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:21,279
Speaker 3: They had no idea that it was vegan, right, and

864
00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:24,239
Speaker 3: like they're just going to town. And then afterwards I'm like,

865
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:26,720
Speaker 3: you know that was vegan. They're like, okay, whatever.

866
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 2: I took my son there for his birthday.

867
00:41:28,640 --> 00:41:30,319
Speaker 5: That's when he ordered the cocktail and I was like,

868
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:34,120
Speaker 5: this is not don't check his ID, this isn't happen.

869
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:35,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is a frosted tip.

870
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:37,799
Speaker 1: I need from you. Guys. We are having such a

871
00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:41,640
Speaker 1: hard time finding food for our kids that they will

872
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 1: eat it. My girl's better, she'll actually eat like a

873
00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 1: chicken nugget, a fish stick. Right. I'm trying to get

874
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 1: some kind of protein in them because.

875
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:51,960
Speaker 2: I tried to go against fried.

876
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 1: They won't even eat fried. I mean the French fry

877
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 1: every once in a while, but it's just sugar. I

878
00:41:58,560 --> 00:42:01,319
Speaker 1: mean bread, sugar, bread, sugar. Red Shirt will not eat

879
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 1: anything else. Is there a trick into getting them to

880
00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:06,080
Speaker 1: know when?

881
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:12,760
Speaker 5: Yeah, Like we try and do as many like vitamin

882
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:17,960
Speaker 5: gummies and things just to make sure that because if

883
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:19,879
Speaker 5: you go in like you know, oh no, I want

884
00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:21,680
Speaker 5: the healthiest stuff for you, and I want that and

885
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 5: then they don't eat, then then they're not getting any

886
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:27,440
Speaker 5: nutrients at all. So it's like you have to and

887
00:42:27,480 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 5: it changes, it'll it gets better.

888
00:42:29,680 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 2: It does. But two and a half, I mean, yeah,

889
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:37,240
Speaker 2: you're super independent, saying.

890
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:39,719
Speaker 4: Like her son who's now sick, still has never had

891
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:42,680
Speaker 4: a green vegetable, and she's all about cooking and everything you.

892
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:43,160
Speaker 1: Refuse to do.

893
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:45,040
Speaker 2: I mean it's also I mean I got lucky.

894
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:49,919
Speaker 3: Both my girls eat everything and they love like their

895
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 3: seaweed and they love their vegetables, and I love this

896
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:55,040
Speaker 3: that and the other. They're kind of getting a little

897
00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:58,720
Speaker 3: bit away from certain proteins, like you know, chicken or steak.

898
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 3: But you know, we'll put that in here and there.

899
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:03,319
Speaker 3: At least my youngest is not living off of bac

900
00:43:03,320 --> 00:43:07,359
Speaker 3: and cheese anymore. But the best advice I would give

901
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:12,720
Speaker 3: is they're also sponges. So whatever they see you eating,

902
00:43:13,440 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 3: they one or the other might lean towards one of

903
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:18,920
Speaker 3: you to want to eat what dad's eating.

904
00:43:19,400 --> 00:43:19,640
Speaker 2: You know.

905
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:24,359
Speaker 3: Like, so I hated vegetables until about three four years ago.

906
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:27,800
Speaker 3: I hated them, But being clean now it's sober trying

907
00:43:27,840 --> 00:43:31,200
Speaker 3: to like put on size all this stuff. You gotta

908
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:33,640
Speaker 3: eat your greens so like, and I, you know, I

909
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 3: gotta stop making a face when.

910
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:35,920
Speaker 2: I eat the broccoli and like.

911
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:40,520
Speaker 3: But by example you have kids, kids are gonna want

912
00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 3: to be like what their parents are. If they're eating

913
00:43:43,200 --> 00:43:46,120
Speaker 3: something green, they're gonna go, oh, try it and then, oh,

914
00:43:46,160 --> 00:43:46,840
Speaker 3: my god.

915
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 2: The only thing my kids eat that ugh, I don't

916
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:50,520
Speaker 2: know why.

917
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:55,360
Speaker 3: Out of the can sardines out of a freaking.

918
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 5: Can, all over caesar salad. I'm like, I don't want

919
00:43:57,520 --> 00:43:58,000
Speaker 5: the sardines?

920
00:43:58,280 --> 00:43:59,880
Speaker 2: Is wrong with my children?

921
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:01,440
Speaker 1: Did they even get their hands on a can of

922
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:02,840
Speaker 1: sard gema.

923
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:05,880
Speaker 2: GiMA gets it and they freaking literally eat.

924
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 1: My grandfather, my papa. It was so disgusting. He would

925
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:14,680
Speaker 1: love a canno sardines and buttermilk. Think about that.

926
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:19,960
Speaker 3: It just sounds like restantly or even worse genera that

927
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 3: whole like, but like literally.

928
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 2: Open the can is like like you're eating the depression

929
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 2: and stuff. They just ended up eating all extra warm buttermilk.

930
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:36,320
Speaker 5: And he wasn't eating sardines and buttermilk.

931
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 3: Like I've seen all those people on like eating that.

932
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:41,800
Speaker 2: What's that? Just give me five minutes.

933
00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:46,680
Speaker 3: What's that fish that makes everybody want to It's like

934
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:51,279
Speaker 3: like Sweden or there's that that like viral challenge with

935
00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:53,839
Speaker 3: people eating that fish that's supposed to be like the

936
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:54,960
Speaker 3: worst smelling.

937
00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, and would anyone want to viraly do challenge exactly?

938
00:44:59,840 --> 00:45:02,680
Speaker 3: Like I'll do certain things, sure, but I'm not going

939
00:45:02,719 --> 00:45:05,439
Speaker 3: to eat something that's gonna make me projectile, vomit or die.

940
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:07,600
Speaker 1: Like what was the puffer fish that you know exactly

941
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:09,080
Speaker 1: how he's done that?

942
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:11,200
Speaker 2: How he did that? We were in freaking Japan.

943
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:14,200
Speaker 3: Obviously, it's one of five chefs in the world that

944
00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:17,319
Speaker 3: are allowed to serve it. But dude, if you're off

945
00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:18,760
Speaker 3: by one scale.

946
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:21,160
Speaker 1: Your dad.

947
00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 4: Like every other one.

948
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:25,919
Speaker 1: But it's the you know, it's the excitement of But if.

949
00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:28,120
Speaker 2: You get the wrong piece, you are you will die.

950
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:30,120
Speaker 2: I have too many kids now to like risk it

951
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:31,600
Speaker 2: just to try some fish.

952
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 1: How much I'm a daredevil, But now that I have kids,

953
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:36,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, No, I don't need to skydive anymore.

954
00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:40,600
Speaker 4: No, I don't need to eatl I never will be.

955
00:45:43,560 --> 00:45:48,719
Speaker 1: Lance that will have to talk about because if I

956
00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:51,040
Speaker 1: get if I get a seat, I'm going, I'm sorry.

957
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 1: It's so safe. Now what a space is so sick?

958
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 2: Why would you?

959
00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 3: You can literally fly in a giant It looks like

960
00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:00,319
Speaker 3: a giant with.

961
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:02,759
Speaker 1: Of course really yea my whole life. I want to

962
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:03,080
Speaker 1: be a national.

963
00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:03,879
Speaker 2: It's a giant pedole.

964
00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:06,640
Speaker 1: All right, Let's play a game when we come back

965
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:08,840
Speaker 1: from this break, because I have lots of things to

966
00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:11,400
Speaker 1: play with you guys. One before we go, though, congrats

967
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 1: on the how do you say it? The the at

968
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:19,440
Speaker 1: at at peak your mocktails that you're doing, Yes, tell

969
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 1: us about that before we go break.

970
00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:26,200
Speaker 3: So at ten, who is an amazingly talented individual from Montreal.

971
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:27,359
Speaker 2: Uh.

972
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 3: He played soccer in Montreal and then actually played for the.

973
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 2: Jets uh here in the US for a couple of years.

974
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:41,600
Speaker 3: He's also sober, like myself created this amazing mocktail brand.

975
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:44,840
Speaker 3: Uh so, I am a brand ambassador and a partner

976
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:48,680
Speaker 3: and uh it is. The mocktail thing is here to stay.

977
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:51,800
Speaker 3: Like almost every single restaurant I've been to now anywhere

978
00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:54,279
Speaker 3: has it as as as an option. It's just like

979
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:58,360
Speaker 3: luten free or vegan options. And now, granted, when I

980
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:02,359
Speaker 3: got sober, you know, there's a lot of drinks surprisingly

981
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:05,440
Speaker 3: that I never tried. So I tried a lot, but

982
00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:08,319
Speaker 3: so I don't know if that's what it's supposed to taste, like,

983
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:10,600
Speaker 3: like I never had a mohido, never have them, But

984
00:47:11,440 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 3: my friends that have tried it are like, dude, this

985
00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:16,040
Speaker 3: tastes like a mohedo, And like I tell people, it's

986
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:20,120
Speaker 3: it's it's kind of like you know, when you're younger

987
00:47:20,160 --> 00:47:22,279
Speaker 3: and you see mom and dad having a drink after

988
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 3: dinner whatever, and maybe they get a little bit tipsy.

989
00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:27,879
Speaker 2: You want to be like that kind of thing.

990
00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:30,440
Speaker 3: So like they'll pour like apple juice in your glass

991
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:31,840
Speaker 3: and you'll act a little loopy.

992
00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 2: Oh it it's.

993
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:39,040
Speaker 3: You know, it releases that dopamine that we all get

994
00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:42,280
Speaker 3: from drinking or partying or dancing or whatever we're doing.

995
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:44,920
Speaker 3: But you don't get foam while you're still in that

996
00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:45,880
Speaker 3: social atmosphere.

997
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:47,280
Speaker 2: You know what you're doing.

998
00:47:47,320 --> 00:47:49,560
Speaker 3: You can get home safely or be the DD and

999
00:47:49,600 --> 00:47:53,240
Speaker 3: make sure your friends are good. And it tastes amazing,

1000
00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 3: it honestly does, and it's all it's all natural, organic

1001
00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 3: and it's I mean, I'm telling you it is the

1002
00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:03,920
Speaker 3: new wave. It's currently only available in Canada, but eventually

1003
00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:05,279
Speaker 3: we are going to bring it down to the.

1004
00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:10,319
Speaker 1: That is the this young generation. They don't drink much

1005
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:12,040
Speaker 1: at all. They don't like to go out, they like

1006
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:13,880
Speaker 1: to be at home and they don't like to drink.

1007
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:16,640
Speaker 1: So mocktails are the big thing.

1008
00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:21,879
Speaker 2: Well it's either they do that or they they don't

1009
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:24,799
Speaker 2: eat before they go out. They as soon as they

1010
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:26,680
Speaker 2: walk in the club, they do six shots and then

1011
00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:28,839
Speaker 2: before you know it, they black out and they don't

1012
00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:31,759
Speaker 2: know where they end up. And it's like it's just

1013
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:32,440
Speaker 2: on set.

1014
00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:35,960
Speaker 3: Like me being an alcoholic, like I always I'm not

1015
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 3: picking on them, and I'm like, you guys have no

1016
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:39,520
Speaker 3: idea how to drink, Like you don't know what you're doing.

1017
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:44,880
Speaker 2: You know, first of all, just have a salad. Just

1018
00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:45,680
Speaker 2: have a salad.

1019
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 3: When you have a couple shots, guess what, have a water.

1020
00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:51,520
Speaker 3: Then you can kind of go peet a little bit

1021
00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:54,359
Speaker 3: of the alcohol, drink some more. You don't walk in

1022
00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:57,120
Speaker 3: and go six shots deep. And then you know, if

1023
00:48:57,120 --> 00:48:59,520
Speaker 3: you're a young lady you wake up in some guy's house,

1024
00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:01,440
Speaker 3: you have knowd how you got there. Or if you're

1025
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:03,440
Speaker 3: a guy and all of a sudden you end up

1026
00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:07,239
Speaker 3: in a bush somewhere on Hollywood Bulevard like he's been.

1027
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:09,600
Speaker 1: He's woken up in a bush before. I was in

1028
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:10,080
Speaker 1: a bush.

1029
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:14,040
Speaker 2: Burning bush was a hedge. It was totally different. It

1030
00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 2: was wasn't blooming. It was I was drugged.

1031
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:20,560
Speaker 1: I don't think you're like eighteen.

1032
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 2: I was like twenty.

1033
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 4: They were trying to drug the pretty girl I was with.

1034
00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:25,360
Speaker 4: I'm pretty sure you're welcome.

1035
00:49:25,520 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 5: I've been drunk, but I didn't wake up, so they

1036
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:29,239
Speaker 5: just wanted to get you out of there.

1037
00:49:29,320 --> 00:49:31,399
Speaker 2: No, I think I just took her to the yeah.

1038
00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:35,080
Speaker 1: But then his friends leave him and all my.

1039
00:49:35,000 --> 00:49:37,120
Speaker 4: Friends woke up at the bust of five in the

1040
00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:39,960
Speaker 4: morning and outside the club in Miami, beats' missing my

1041
00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:43,960
Speaker 4: phone and wallet and a shoe. And luckily the bouncer

1042
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:45,920
Speaker 4: knew my twin sister because he had a crush on her,

1043
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 4: and I was like, her up and then I just

1044
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:49,520
Speaker 4: get this. I have a vague memory of this, her

1045
00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:50,640
Speaker 4: little car pulling up.

1046
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 2: I'm being put in some bad that could have ended

1047
00:49:54,160 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 2: really really bad.

1048
00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:58,000
Speaker 5: You could have you could have signed from that haunted house,

1049
00:49:58,040 --> 00:49:59,360
Speaker 5: and you could have been missing tea.

1050
00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:00,600
Speaker 2: And also of things.

1051
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 4: To attack me or not leave me.

1052
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:07,320
Speaker 3: But it is interesting though that you say that, because

1053
00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:09,960
Speaker 3: like I don't know the brands, but I know that

1054
00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:13,240
Speaker 3: there was a few liquor brands, for example, that pulled

1055
00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:16,200
Speaker 3: out of Coachella this year because they don't want to

1056
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:19,200
Speaker 3: be associated with some of the aftermath that happens, even

1057
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:22,160
Speaker 3: though it's personal choice. But so there was like a

1058
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:25,480
Speaker 3: company called New Bar, a bunch of mocktail options at

1059
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:29,320
Speaker 3: Coachella at Stage Coach, and they couldn't keep these mocktails

1060
00:50:29,360 --> 00:50:32,640
Speaker 3: on the shelf like they were just going And that's incredible.

1061
00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:34,640
Speaker 1: Well, a lot of times they're on drugs.

1062
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:40,560
Speaker 2: Well there's also that a mic. Well they're all they're

1063
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 2: all doing shrooms. Shrooms is all the rage. Now it's

1064
00:50:42,680 --> 00:50:45,279
Speaker 2: a little microding thing. It's the whole mushroom thing.

1065
00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:48,680
Speaker 3: Like obviously, you know, people are comparing it to like weed,

1066
00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:51,319
Speaker 3: where it's like, Okay, you can't die from it.

1067
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:53,280
Speaker 2: You'll do dumb things, you'll make poor.

1068
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:56,080
Speaker 3: Decisions, or you'll have an out of body experience, and

1069
00:50:56,120 --> 00:50:58,239
Speaker 3: then it's over, you know, and you don't do it

1070
00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:00,520
Speaker 3: every single day, although there are the is that smoke

1071
00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:02,480
Speaker 3: weed daily all the time.

1072
00:51:03,120 --> 00:51:06,560
Speaker 2: But see there you go. I used to not so

1073
00:51:06,640 --> 00:51:06,960
Speaker 2: much in it.

1074
00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:10,200
Speaker 3: But then there's obviously the Kenne means and all these

1075
00:51:10,239 --> 00:51:13,120
Speaker 3: things that are like that's a little bit more severe.

1076
00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:16,120
Speaker 1: I just don't. I can't do anything that I can't

1077
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:18,400
Speaker 1: be in control of, Like I just I would not

1078
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:19,000
Speaker 1: be good.

1079
00:51:19,120 --> 00:51:19,319
Speaker 2: Well.

1080
00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 3: And also people are now terrified, thank god, they're terrified

1081
00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 3: of who of what's out there now because of because

1082
00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:31,680
Speaker 3: of fetanol, you know. I mean I've literally lost eleven

1083
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:35,760
Speaker 3: friends because of it. And it's like so they're switching

1084
00:51:35,840 --> 00:51:38,680
Speaker 3: to stuff that hopefully doesn't have it in it. But again,

1085
00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 3: you just never.

1086
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:41,920
Speaker 2: Know, you know what I mean. It's just not just

1087
00:51:41,920 --> 00:51:46,000
Speaker 2: just don't do any of it. Go. There's there's more

1088
00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:47,120
Speaker 2: ways to have fun.

1089
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:53,760
Speaker 1: Have a motel have a mottetail exactly. All right, guys. Well,

1090
00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:56,120
Speaker 1: as usual, we're running out of time, so this is

1091
00:51:56,120 --> 00:51:57,560
Speaker 1: definitely gonna be a two for it because I have

1092
00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:00,880
Speaker 1: a lot to talk about with these guys, So all right,

1093
00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 1: we're gonna leave it here. Look for the second episode

1094
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:07,280
Speaker 1: coming out very very soon. All right, guys, Hey, thanks

1095
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:10,480
Speaker 1: for listening. Follow us on Instagram at Frosted Tips with

1096
00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 1: Lance and Michael Turchinard, and at lance Bast for all

1097
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