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<v Speaker 1>This is your weekop Hall to Breakfast Club to show

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<v Speaker 1>you love to hate from the East to the West,

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<v Speaker 1>Coat d J M. Angela, Ye, Charlomagne, The Rulers show

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<v Speaker 1>on the planet. This is where I respect this show

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<v Speaker 1>because this is a voice of society. James in the game.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys are the coveted morning show. What y'all earn? Exacting

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<v Speaker 1>the coach up in the morning and day. Want to

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<v Speaker 1>hear that Breathfast School, the World's most dangerous morning show.

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<v Speaker 1>Good Morning, Usa, Hey damn, good morning, Good morning Angela. Yee,

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<v Speaker 1>it's Thursday. Who Today is ghost Face Killer's birthday. Happy birthday,

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<v Speaker 1>ghost Faced Birthday to ghost Face Now, um, shout out

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<v Speaker 1>to I know my kids going to school right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Shout out to my kids and my family. Every couple

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<v Speaker 1>of months we have like a big family meeting and

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<v Speaker 1>that's when everybody you know, jumps up in my bed

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<v Speaker 1>and we get a chance to really have a conversation

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<v Speaker 1>about how we feel about everybody else. And sometimes it's

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<v Speaker 1>good and sometimes it's bad. Sometimes somebody gets attacked, sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>it's I get attacked, no way, yeah or absolutely. So

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we talked about so logan you know tells

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<v Speaker 1>his sister, how he feels, what he likes, what he

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't like. They tell me what they feel, what they like,

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<v Speaker 1>what they don't like, or in you know, in vice versus.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's a really good conversation. I mean it gets

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<v Speaker 1>nasty at times. Um. You know, my problems with my

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<v Speaker 1>son was, you know, he's a boy, so he doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>like to turn off the lights. And it's funny. As

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<v Speaker 1>a kid, I never turned up the lights and I

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<v Speaker 1>really didn't understand it until I started to pay the

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<v Speaker 1>bills and I'm like, everybody lights off, you know, so

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<v Speaker 1>him picking up behind himself. Uh, it's just a lot

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<v Speaker 1>the way they treat this, the younger siblings. It was

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<v Speaker 1>just it was just a lot they got at me.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course, Dad, you sleep too much or you dude

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<v Speaker 1>was taking nap and then when you sleep, you pastcast

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, what do they know? That's what I said.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I do all the time with the new problem,

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<v Speaker 1>sleep up. So it was a lot of cool than

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<v Speaker 1>you know. My son was like, you know, it's you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a little family, but we don't have we

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<v Speaker 1>don't have bro to um like me and you just

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<v Speaker 1>don't hang out. But there's things that you don't really

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<v Speaker 1>say with somebody who fights all the time. Shut up.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was pretty It was pretty cool. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I went to the gym. A friend of mine opened

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<v Speaker 1>up a new gym. You didn't fight, No, I did not.

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<v Speaker 1>Man in the gym. That's so rude, running breathing, heavy smell. Listen.

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<v Speaker 1>I would like you to hire me for your juice press.

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<v Speaker 1>And you shot a lot too. I don't shot anymore,

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<v Speaker 1>and I would I want you to hire me for

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<v Speaker 1>your juice press business. Because when I was at the gym,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, look, I understand that you don't have you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a juice, any juices in here. I said, I know

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<v Speaker 1>the right person that can get the juices in here.

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<v Speaker 1>The juices could survive three to five days. You all

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<v Speaker 1>you have to do is put in three weeks. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I'm two months. Oh I didn't. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm bad salesperson. But I said, three to five days.

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<v Speaker 1>You can order it every five days. It's fresh, it

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<v Speaker 1>tastes good. You know, all the people that's working Indie

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<v Speaker 1>gym would really love it. It's organic, no sugar, added,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, and it tastes He was like, bet let's

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<v Speaker 1>do it. I said yes. He said how much is it?

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<v Speaker 1>I said, I don't know. I'm trying to down. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what's crazy. I was at this amazing event yesterday

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<v Speaker 1>called Blogger. It's women and their bloggers and their food bloggers.

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<v Speaker 1>It's their food portion. They do a beauty one also,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I spoke at it and we were actually

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<v Speaker 1>sampling the drink Fresh Juice there and it was a

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<v Speaker 1>very successful situation. It was really nice. There was over

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<v Speaker 1>three hundred women there that are all food bloggers and

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<v Speaker 1>in that industry, and they absolutely love the juice. So

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was an amazing event for me to

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<v Speaker 1>go to and speak at. This is all a new

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<v Speaker 1>world to me, like going to these food events and

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<v Speaker 1>things like that. But I just wanted to say that

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate everybody that was out there that shows some support.

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<v Speaker 1>And I got to meet this other woman there. She

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<v Speaker 1>makes my favorite hot sauces called Queen Majesty Hot Sauce.

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<v Speaker 1>So she came up to me to say hello because

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<v Speaker 1>she knows my brother, and I was like, wait, I

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<v Speaker 1>ordered your stuff from Whole Foods all the time, so

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<v Speaker 1>now I got a Queen Majesty clug. We adn't go

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<v Speaker 1>back to how much percentage, like if it's selling your juice, now,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I got you. Okay, let's just say you

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<v Speaker 1>know how we say that I got you? No, you

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<v Speaker 1>got me? That means I'm getting pay damn it. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>As I was driving and I was listening to the

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<v Speaker 1>news and they were telling me that if you told

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<v Speaker 1>you personally now, I was listening and they were saying

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<v Speaker 1>that if you compliment your female co worker, it's like

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<v Speaker 1>a sign of sexual assault. It is, yeah, And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, dang god, y'all never compliment me. I was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna compliment you today. But I was like, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know sexual assu on your swetsup. Oh you

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<v Speaker 1>like my sweatsuit? Nope, because that's sexually assault. So I

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<v Speaker 1>can't sound like that. It's not Come on now, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>taking this too far, That's what I said. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't say sweat You can say I like your sweatsuit.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't say things like I like your ass in

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<v Speaker 1>that sweatsuit. My people have to know the difference. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not talking about you, but what I'm saying isn't Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you can give someone a compliment. Oh, I like your hair.

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<v Speaker 1>You got your hair braided. It looks nice. That's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>But you can't say I ain't saying none of that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna say, too shitty. You can't talk about

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<v Speaker 1>someone's body. You can talk about No, I'm just giving

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<v Speaker 1>other people advice. Okay, So don't I think that you

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<v Speaker 1>can't compliment someone sneakers? Oh, those sneakers are dope. That's

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<v Speaker 1>not sexual assault. Come on, you know the difference, envy,

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<v Speaker 1>You might not. I Nope, let's get the show cracking.

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<v Speaker 1>Common will be joining us this morning. Yes, I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>he knows the difference. Yeah, we're kicking it with Common.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll talk about his new book and a course from

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<v Speaker 1>patis what we're talking about from page news. Well, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>talk about all these guns that were seized from a house.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you saw this, but the amount

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<v Speaker 1>of guns, more than one thousand inside of one house.

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen that video. It's crazy. All right, we'll get

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<v Speaker 1>into that next keeping lot. This to Breakfast Club. Good

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<v Speaker 1>morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy.

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<v Speaker 1>We are to Breakfast Club. Let's getting some front page news.

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<v Speaker 1>The last thing in Sports. The Bucks eliminate the Celtics

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<v Speaker 1>one sixteen ninety one, the Celtics to f out of here.

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<v Speaker 1>I doubt Kyrie Irvan will be back in Boston. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what Kyrie's gonna do, but I do know

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<v Speaker 1>Paul Piss got to feel like a damn fool because

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<v Speaker 1>after Game one, Paul Piz said, and I quote, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's over. I'm on in a seven game series. Live. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>they're saying that he might be going to the Nets,

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<v Speaker 1>he might be going to the Knicks, so we'll definitely see. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>the Warriors beat the Rockets one on four ninety nine,

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<v Speaker 1>but Kevin Durant got injured. They don't know what the

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<v Speaker 1>injury is. They don't know how bad it is. They

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how long he's gonna be out. But we'll

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<v Speaker 1>see what happens. They they're fine. They have a guy

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<v Speaker 1>named Steph Curry who went crazy in the four quarter

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<v Speaker 1>yesterday and I won that game for them. Also, if

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<v Speaker 1>I was a New York Knicks fan, I wouldn't want

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<v Speaker 1>Kyrie Irvan. I don't want I don't want Kimball Walker.

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<v Speaker 1>Kimba Walker's from New York. He's an option He's a

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<v Speaker 1>very very very solid Kyrie's from Jersey, very solid twenty

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<v Speaker 1>and ten. Guy, Kimber, don't get hurt like Kyrie. That's true.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. If you're getting, if Katie's

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<v Speaker 1>coming here next year and y'all getting nine whims and

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<v Speaker 1>like y'all say, y'all should want Kimball Walker the compliment.

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<v Speaker 1>I like Kimball. Yeah, I definitely like Kimball. Now what

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<v Speaker 1>else you're talking about? You, Well, more than one thousand

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<v Speaker 1>guns were sizes from someone's house in la It was

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<v Speaker 1>in Holmby Hills, that's the neighborhood in the upscale neighborhood

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<v Speaker 1>in Los Angeles. They said there was a tip that

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<v Speaker 1>somebody was conducting illegal firearms transactions and it was over

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<v Speaker 1>one thousand guns that season. But there were all those

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<v Speaker 1>guns outside on blankets. It's a ridiculous amount of guns.

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<v Speaker 1>They said that there was one man who was arrested

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<v Speaker 1>inside the house for that crime of selling, possessing, or

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<v Speaker 1>transporting illegal assault weapons. They also said the owner hasn't

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<v Speaker 1>lived there in years, and right now the owner is

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<v Speaker 1>in Europe. They don't know if that person they arrested

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<v Speaker 1>was a squatter or if he was allowed to be

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<v Speaker 1>living in the home, that would have made an amazing

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<v Speaker 1>mixtape cover, like fifteen years ago us Corney now but

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<v Speaker 1>back fifteen years ago, amazing mixtape cover. How would they

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<v Speaker 1>buying these guns? Did anybody know? Was it legally? Bored or?

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<v Speaker 1>I doubted in Yeah, I don't think that that was legal.

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<v Speaker 1>Go ahead, A lot of guns though for illegal A

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<v Speaker 1>thousand illegal, that's a lot. Yeah, I doubt it all right.

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<v Speaker 1>And there were two men shot outside of SLBs. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a club in New York City. It's a pretty famous

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<v Speaker 1>club that a lot of artists have almost right around

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<v Speaker 1>the corner. Yeah, right in the middle of the night,

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<v Speaker 1>one forty in the morning. Yeah, two people were shot.

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<v Speaker 1>So one man was shot in the chest and another

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<v Speaker 1>was shot in the thigh. They said, these victims are

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<v Speaker 1>being somewhat uncooperative out that there. They are saying that

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<v Speaker 1>it was a dispute and that they did know the

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<v Speaker 1>person who shot them. That both men are in stable

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<v Speaker 1>condition and expected to be Okay. Are you a brave

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<v Speaker 1>man to be shooting in the middle of Tribeca soho

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<v Speaker 1>what area? You're a brave man to be shooting in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of the West Village like that because when

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<v Speaker 1>they get yours, they're gonna burn you. Yeah, they're still

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<v Speaker 1>looking for him. And at least one person was killed

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<v Speaker 1>and two others injured in a shooting at a bar

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<v Speaker 1>in Fort Lauderdale, Florida that was inside the mall. It

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<v Speaker 1>was the Blue you know, I love the Blue Martini

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<v Speaker 1>every time I go to Florida, I love going to

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<v Speaker 1>Blue Martini. But that's where that actually happened. One person

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<v Speaker 1>was killed. And let's talk about that school shooting we

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<v Speaker 1>were telling you about in Denver at the Stems School

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<v Speaker 1>Highlands Ranch, eighteen year old Kender Castillo is a hero.

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<v Speaker 1>According to students who were witnesses. They said the shooter

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<v Speaker 1>came into the classroom while the class was watching The

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<v Speaker 1>Princess Bride. It was part of a lesson they were

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<v Speaker 1>doing on analyzing comedy. He went over and talked to

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<v Speaker 1>the teacher, walked over to a second classroom door, opened it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then returned to the door and closed it and

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<v Speaker 1>they said then he pulled out a gun, told us

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<v Speaker 1>not to move, and that's when the shooting started. Kendra Castillo,

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<v Speaker 1>who's eighteen years old, charged at him and tried to

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<v Speaker 1>subdue him, and that's when everybody had a chance to

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<v Speaker 1>actually run, take cover and hide in three other students

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<v Speaker 1>did the Russian, but unfortunately Kendra Castillo lost his life

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<v Speaker 1>saving the lives of others. Man, God bless that young man,

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<v Speaker 1>rest in peace. That's college of high school, high school.

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<v Speaker 1>Why were they teaching an analyzing comedy class in high school? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>they just learned it's the stems fool All right, well,

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<v Speaker 1>last front more crazy? Why do you technology? Maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know analyzing comedy class? Man? All right, we'll get

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<v Speaker 1>it off your chests five eight five one oh five one.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're upset, you need to vent hit us up

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Maybe had a bad night, horrible morning, or

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you just want to spread some positivity. Eight five

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<v Speaker 1>eight five one oh five one. Get it off your chests.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the breakfast club. Good morning, the breakfast club, Wake up,

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<v Speaker 1>wake You're time to get it off your chest because

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<v Speaker 1>your man or blass. We want to hear from you

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<v Speaker 1>on a breakfast clos Hello, who's this Ali? Hey? Ali?

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<v Speaker 1>Get it off your chess. Mama, Good morning, dj V,

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, Charlotta Magne, good morning, and Julie. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to spress some positivities this morning. Um, I want

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<v Speaker 1>to thank Charlottagne also for talking about anxiety and depression.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Puerto Rican, I'm part of the minority community. I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to let those know who are feeling worth

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<v Speaker 1>less of feeling less, that they are put on this

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<v Speaker 1>earth for a purpose and they need to keep pushing.

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<v Speaker 1>They are loved and there are people who will support

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<v Speaker 1>them no matter what. That's right. You got to tell

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<v Speaker 1>people that you love them, you value, value them, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you appreciate them because you don't know what they

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<v Speaker 1>may be going through. They may need that pick me

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<v Speaker 1>up because tomorrow's not promised. But I love you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much too. Hello, who's this straight? Get

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<v Speaker 1>it off your chests? Bro? Hey man, I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to say, like I worked. I worked for a delivery company, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and people don't be tipping real maybe your services? What

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<v Speaker 1>type of delivery like I deliver? I deliver appliances and

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like people don't deliver like me and my man,

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<v Speaker 1>we're the best people. I was. Who told you that?

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<v Speaker 1>What the surveys tell us that? Because after we leave

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<v Speaker 1>five ten minutes up to be leave, the surveys call

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<v Speaker 1>back and they come back awesome. But they don't tip

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<v Speaker 1>for real, So what should people tip to delivery people

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<v Speaker 1>when they deliver that stuff? I'm just carriage when you

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<v Speaker 1>want anything? Is okay? Five ten dollars. I'm just saying

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<v Speaker 1>the shows appreciation. When we're walking out the door, they're

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<v Speaker 1>giving us nineteen thousand, thank yous and you're so awesome,

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<v Speaker 1>You're so great. What's wrong with that? But it's but

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<v Speaker 1>it's um delivery fees included. Maybe people think that delivery

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<v Speaker 1>fee is what they paid for, Like if you ordered

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<v Speaker 1>an a client when you get applians, they come free. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>now they shouldn't be tipping. Now, hold on, envy, didn't

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<v Speaker 1>a woman call up here and complain about your ass

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<v Speaker 1>one time talking about you didn't tip after she helped

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<v Speaker 1>you up to the car and you got her fire.

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<v Speaker 1>You've got to change hard if you've got to change

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<v Speaker 1>the heart. Five that was actually nine years ago, so

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta change heart. And they didn't deliver. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a different a different scenario. They help you walk through

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<v Speaker 1>the car. They did not have me walk to the car.

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<v Speaker 1>They were taking taking the shopping cars and I was

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<v Speaker 1>there and they have helped me put one thing into

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<v Speaker 1>the car and they wanted to tip. No, but when

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<v Speaker 1>they do deliver things from my house, to deliver my cars,

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely tip. Let you guys. Thank you brother, Thank

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<v Speaker 1>you guys for answering the phone. You know we ain't

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<v Speaker 1>got no choices our job, sir. Hey, hey, shout out

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<v Speaker 1>to my wife's Gnita spit. I love her so much.

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<v Speaker 1>My kid Aaron Anamar. You should tip who ride with

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<v Speaker 1>me every day? What's something? All right? Broight? Alright? Tip

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<v Speaker 1>your appliance delivery guys. Please don't just tell them they're

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<v Speaker 1>doing an awesome job. You should took the garbage men,

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<v Speaker 1>sanitation you should tip them. I never see my sanitations man,

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<v Speaker 1>who never seen my garge? I've never seen them. They

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<v Speaker 1>took them. The post office people you should tip, but

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<v Speaker 1>I never go to the post off ups. You should

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<v Speaker 1>tip all those people when they deliver your mail. Absolutely

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<v Speaker 1>leave the giant. Never took none of those people, you just.

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't never took my garlinge man. No, I'm never

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<v Speaker 1>took for people. I always said I took them every

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<v Speaker 1>year for Christmas. No, I really, I mean I really

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<v Speaker 1>see them. I don't know. I don't think I've never

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<v Speaker 1>seen one of them. That's consistent enough that I would say,

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<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, that's my man. I don't I don't see

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<v Speaker 1>them that dropped the ball. Leave all right. We put

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<v Speaker 1>our guy bags on the curb and then sometime they

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<v Speaker 1>pick it up while I'm at work. I'll make sure.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, get it off her chests. Five eight

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<v Speaker 1>five one hit us up. Now, it's the breakfast club.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, the breakfast club. It is your time to

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<v Speaker 1>get it off your chests, whether you're man or bless.

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<v Speaker 1>So if we better have the same industry, we want

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<v Speaker 1>to hear from you on the breakfast club. Hello. Who's this?

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<v Speaker 1>Hid morning? Good morning, good morning, get it off her chests, Mama,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just in a good mood. Um. I stept into

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<v Speaker 1>twenty nineteen ilevibe, new man in my life, new job,

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<v Speaker 1>new career. Okay, alkay, all right, big move. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>feeling good. Congratulations on all that. Thank you. UM. Shout

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<v Speaker 1>out to my sister Rachel, her husband, kids, my friend Devin, UM,

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<v Speaker 1>my ex supervisor Michelle. Why are you? Why you? Why you?

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you saluting your ex supervisor? Why? Oh ya

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<v Speaker 1>used to sleep with each other. I'm so nervous that

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<v Speaker 1>I even got through. So why are you bigger or

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<v Speaker 1>why are you picking up your ex supervisor? Because I

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<v Speaker 1>miss her? Oh, y'all used to sleep together. Huh, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>used to sleep together. Um, some people did sleep together

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<v Speaker 1>there at that job, but Danner it was not, you know, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Well she was a great person. We have a good

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<v Speaker 1>on my whole blessed day. Hello. Who's this yo? I

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted to say, good morning? Uh Envy? Is that you? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it's me and that's right, Yes, that's me showing me there. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here here now yo. Good morning yo. So crazy? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's so crazy. What you've been smoking on this morning? Bro?

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<v Speaker 1>What grade is? I don't know? Good morning, little brother?

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<v Speaker 1>That's all want to say? Yeah? Yeah you high his

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<v Speaker 1>hell right now? Man, weaken big? I feel you in

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<v Speaker 1>this gracious all right? Hello? Who's this yo? DJ grumpy

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<v Speaker 1>big chocolate, big chocolate, the toe sucker like a tornado.

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<v Speaker 1>I got something to do for the moms. Check it out.

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<v Speaker 1>Different voice. This is the Black Panther from the Avengers.

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<v Speaker 1>God bless my mother and all the mothers on Mother's Day.

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<v Speaker 1>Please bring some macaroni and cheese to a conduct for

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<v Speaker 1>me and my lions. How do you like that? Shunam?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you drink about that? Do you really think about that? Trash?

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<v Speaker 1>You get audition for the what's the next movie you

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<v Speaker 1>can audition for? Your Holy Day? Black panther? Right, yeah, absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>chocolate panther, big chocolate panther. There you go, baby, there

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<v Speaker 1>you go. What you think? DJ Grumpy? I guess I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a little grumpy this morning. Junior, Good morning, Jake, Breakfasts Club.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Angela you Jerksten listen, he said, Lee but ahead, Junior.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Hey, I'm John in Florida, originally from Detroit,

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<v Speaker 1>and I want to set a big shout out to

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<v Speaker 1>all of my Exelon system Solutions Day Canon, Jacksonville, Florida,

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<v Speaker 1>And I just got be listening to a commercial with

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<v Speaker 1>the whole team talking about Mother's Day. Uh DJ Andy

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<v Speaker 1>talking about, you know, getting flowers and everything for its mom.

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<v Speaker 1>We love so much. Why do we have to wait

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<v Speaker 1>till one day of the year to say, Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to express my love to one for my mother.

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<v Speaker 1>You can do it. Yeah, we don't. Yeah, That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, Like Mama might be the only person that

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<v Speaker 1>you really do show love to. On a consistent basis.

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<v Speaker 1>Most people definitely show their mother that they loved them often.

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<v Speaker 1>I talked to my mom yesterday because I'm taking her

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<v Speaker 1>on a vacation, but it's not gonna happen on her

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<v Speaker 1>Mother's Day, and my dad said, what about me? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just saying, so, why one day when society says, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the thing you're supposed to show love for

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<v Speaker 1>your mother the same thing it's Valentine's Day. When you

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<v Speaker 1>show love to the person that you're dating or that

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<v Speaker 1>you're with or married to, it's you know, it's the

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<v Speaker 1>same thing. It's the same love you. I saw you

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<v Speaker 1>on the show with your major three if like, there's

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<v Speaker 1>my girl right there, rep Game. I was like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god there ship Yeah, thanks? Now is if you're

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<v Speaker 1>doing this all year like my wife? Hey, bro, bro Broy,

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<v Speaker 1>I get what you're saying, but shut the hell up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>don't get you don't get your girl a mom? Now

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<v Speaker 1>why you want to be the Grench? We stole Mother's Day.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't show a big Valentine's Day. You know why?

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<v Speaker 1>Who said there my Valentine's Day here? Now? I was

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<v Speaker 1>just saying that people celebrate that and you should show

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<v Speaker 1>the person you're with love all year round. You mean

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<v Speaker 1>when mister Green, But there's nothing wrong with that, show

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<v Speaker 1>love for my wife. They're not going to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a commercial holiday. If your wife is not with

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<v Speaker 1>you Valentine's Day, she's with somebody else. Bro have a

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<v Speaker 1>good day, mister Grench. I just said we're gonna celebrate it. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying my mom some flowers, I'm taking her on vacation,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm letting her know about it. It's just a holiday.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people just like being extra appreciated on one day.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe he hates his mom so much. All Right,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll get it off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five,

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<v Speaker 1>one oh five one. If you need to vent, you

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<v Speaker 1>can hit this up at any time. Now, we got

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<v Speaker 1>rooms on the way. Yes, let's talk about the babies here.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone's been talking about this. I know y'all having y'all

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<v Speaker 1>don't care, but for some reason, everybody is very excited

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<v Speaker 1>about this royal baby. Okay, all right, we'll get into

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<v Speaker 1>that next. Keeping locked this to Breakfast Club. Good morning,

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<v Speaker 1>the Breakfast Club. All right morning, everybody's DJ m Angelie,

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<v Speaker 1>Ye Charlomagne, the guy we all the Breakfast Club. We

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<v Speaker 1>say you gotta rewind it to catch it. So if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have to rewind button on your radio, I'm sorry. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, well let's we'll play it again for you

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<v Speaker 1>guys here in the next hour. Yeah. Absolutely, Let's get

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<v Speaker 1>to the rumors. Let's talk to This is the rumor

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<v Speaker 1>Report with Angelie Breakfast Club. Yesterday, we played this triggered

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<v Speaker 1>freestyle from Jenaiaco for you. If you need a recap,

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<v Speaker 1>here's what we played as bish down down, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>trying to wild out now, all right, now, I'm care

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<v Speaker 1>my brown. Don't go crazy because my around have to

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<v Speaker 1>pay me and blood. This ain't the way that you,

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<v Speaker 1>my cat, you casings. Let me catch your face to

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<v Speaker 1>face and this bish I am my heart. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>to it's respect you after what you man, what you expect?

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<v Speaker 1>You know. A Jeniaco fan, Um, yeah, she cool. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna say I'm not. I'm not a fan, but

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<v Speaker 1>she cool because god damn, six fifty five in the morning,

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<v Speaker 1>you're talking about the middle of the dogs, all right. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people were talking about it. She was

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<v Speaker 1>actually trending all day yesterday because of this triggered freestyle,

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<v Speaker 1>and she explained because clearly she's talking about Big Sean.

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<v Speaker 1>She said, triggered was a moment, a moment that for

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<v Speaker 1>me has passed. It is new to you because you're

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<v Speaker 1>just now hearing it. But for me, it's something I

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<v Speaker 1>moved on from the moment I expressed it. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>a dis song. It's a moment of talking ish out

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<v Speaker 1>of frustration and passion. It was a moment of exaggerated

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<v Speaker 1>expression when I was feeling lost in a week. No

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<v Speaker 1>one is to be blamed or bast for how I

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<v Speaker 1>was feeling in that moment. I am in control of

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<v Speaker 1>my feelings. This is how I paint. This is me

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<v Speaker 1>yelling and throwing paint at a campt How did they

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<v Speaker 1>know that was about Big Sean because that's who she

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<v Speaker 1>used to date, and you know they went through a

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<v Speaker 1>breakup and she was very frustrated, and she even had

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<v Speaker 1>tweeted about it during that So she tweeted, I love

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<v Speaker 1>you beyond measure, even though I get big mad and

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<v Speaker 1>you triggered the f out of me. You make me

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<v Speaker 1>feel and I appreciate that, and that she wrote toward

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<v Speaker 1>Big Sean. So the generation takes everything literal by I

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<v Speaker 1>mean she wrote trigger and then the song is called

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<v Speaker 1>triggered right after that. So if you write that in

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<v Speaker 1>a tweet to Big Sean and that's your last boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>and then you put out But thinks every song is

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<v Speaker 1>about somebody pretty much. Yeah, So if you write a

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<v Speaker 1>song about a breakup and then you had just broken

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<v Speaker 1>up with somebody, chances are you're an artist all right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Laurie Laughlin, she does not think that she's good end

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<v Speaker 1>up going to jail. She's been more and more confident

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<v Speaker 1>because of that college admissions cheating scandal. They believe they

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<v Speaker 1>will be acquitted if they go to trial, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>for allegedly paying five hundred thousand dollars to bribe their

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<v Speaker 1>daughter's way into the University of Southern California. Now, on

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<v Speaker 1>the other side of things, there's a TV series already

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<v Speaker 1>in the works based on the recent college admission scandal.

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<v Speaker 1>It's going to be a one hour limited perier about that.

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<v Speaker 1>And they're also opating the rights to the upcoming book Accepted.

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<v Speaker 1>Are they gonna get paid for this? A Lauri Lacklingham

0:21:27.359 --> 0:21:29.280
<v Speaker 1>getting paid with us as well. They're not involved in it.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody else is doing it so accepted as a book

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<v Speaker 1>that's being written by Wall Street Journal report is Melissa

0:21:33.960 --> 0:21:36.439
<v Speaker 1>Corn and Jen Levitts. They're writing the book and then

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<v Speaker 1>there's also a TV show and they're not involved in

0:21:39.680 --> 0:21:41.440
<v Speaker 1>this TV show at all. All right, we say that

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<v Speaker 1>until we see the credits and say, executive producer Aunt Becky.

0:21:44.720 --> 0:21:46.520
<v Speaker 1>Would you be mad if she was an executive producer

0:21:46.520 --> 0:21:50.600
<v Speaker 1>on it? All right? Tyred Banks, she's back and she's

0:21:50.640 --> 0:21:53.919
<v Speaker 1>on the cover of Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Issues. She returned

0:21:53.960 --> 0:21:57.119
<v Speaker 1>to modeling for that and looks amazing. And when they

0:21:57.200 --> 0:21:59.399
<v Speaker 1>do the side by side of Tyra Banks when she

0:21:59.480 --> 0:22:03.560
<v Speaker 1>did her cover previously back in nineteen ninety six, that's

0:22:03.560 --> 0:22:06.080
<v Speaker 1>the first cover she had. Look at how she looks

0:22:06.160 --> 0:22:08.640
<v Speaker 1>now pretty much the same. You look better enough, drop

0:22:08.680 --> 0:22:11.720
<v Speaker 1>on a clue Bux retire Banks. Damon's amazing. It's nothing

0:22:11.760 --> 0:22:13.639
<v Speaker 1>like when when you age like one and send a

0:22:13.680 --> 0:22:16.360
<v Speaker 1>milk boy. It's a different ball game. And a lot

0:22:16.359 --> 0:22:19.119
<v Speaker 1>of women in this generation are ageing like war. Previous

0:22:19.200 --> 0:22:21.000
<v Speaker 1>generations jaged like milk. But I mean it's a lot

0:22:21.040 --> 0:22:24.040
<v Speaker 1>of different factors. You know, people have more mindfulness about

0:22:24.119 --> 0:22:26.600
<v Speaker 1>health and wellness now because when you say, oh, she's

0:22:26.640 --> 0:22:28.400
<v Speaker 1>forty five. You don't look forty five. What the hell's

0:22:28.440 --> 0:22:30.680
<v Speaker 1>forty five pos to look like? All right? Now? R.

0:22:30.800 --> 0:22:33.440
<v Speaker 1>Kelly is very fortunate for him that he is now

0:22:33.520 --> 0:22:35.760
<v Speaker 1>going to get to go to court. He's getting a

0:22:35.840 --> 0:22:38.399
<v Speaker 1>do over for that whole sexual abuse laws. To remember,

0:22:38.440 --> 0:22:41.040
<v Speaker 1>he was served papers while he was in prison, and

0:22:41.119 --> 0:22:42.760
<v Speaker 1>the argument was that he didn't know what the paper

0:22:42.840 --> 0:22:45.240
<v Speaker 1>said because he can't read. But now they are giving

0:22:45.320 --> 0:22:48.280
<v Speaker 1>him another chance, so what not be able to read again? Well,

0:22:48.280 --> 0:22:53.840
<v Speaker 1>now he knows. So they vacated the default judgment, so

0:22:53.880 --> 0:22:56.239
<v Speaker 1>now he can actually fight the lawsuit. So all that

0:22:56.280 --> 0:22:58.800
<v Speaker 1>means is it hasn't been vacated. He can now fight

0:22:58.840 --> 0:23:01.080
<v Speaker 1>the lass. I mean they did keep that default judgment.

0:23:01.280 --> 0:23:03.520
<v Speaker 1>No more default judgment. He's not going to have to

0:23:03.560 --> 0:23:06.320
<v Speaker 1>pay automatically. He can still go fight it. Now. I

0:23:06.320 --> 0:23:08.119
<v Speaker 1>don't know what the hell is going on? Let me

0:23:08.200 --> 0:23:11.400
<v Speaker 1>can tell, Yeah, we can tell. And he also paid

0:23:11.440 --> 0:23:13.919
<v Speaker 1>sixty two thousand dollars in back child support. So now

0:23:14.040 --> 0:23:16.000
<v Speaker 1>do you get that money from I don't know. I

0:23:16.000 --> 0:23:17.760
<v Speaker 1>can't tell you what he has going on in his

0:23:17.840 --> 0:23:20.520
<v Speaker 1>personal life where this money just shows up. But yes,

0:23:20.800 --> 0:23:23.480
<v Speaker 1>now Diana Ross she was upset about TSA, saying that

0:23:23.560 --> 0:23:26.439
<v Speaker 1>she was violated when she was getting patted down. She tweeted,

0:23:26.480 --> 0:23:28.920
<v Speaker 1>it's not what was done, but how I'm feeling violated.

0:23:28.920 --> 0:23:31.440
<v Speaker 1>I still feel her hands between my legs front and back,

0:23:31.800 --> 0:23:34.440
<v Speaker 1>saying to me it's her job. Wow. Really mixed emotions.

0:23:34.600 --> 0:23:36.040
<v Speaker 1>I always like to see the good things, but not

0:23:36.080 --> 0:23:39.040
<v Speaker 1>feeling good right now, she complained on social media. Now,

0:23:39.040 --> 0:23:41.880
<v Speaker 1>originally they were going to be doing a whole probe

0:23:41.920 --> 0:23:44.320
<v Speaker 1>into what happened, but now they've closed that and they

0:23:44.359 --> 0:23:47.439
<v Speaker 1>said it was really nothing. They reviewed surveillance footage, they

0:23:47.440 --> 0:23:50.639
<v Speaker 1>interviewed the officers that were involved with her screening, and

0:23:50.960 --> 0:23:53.760
<v Speaker 1>they said they followed a proper protocols. That is protocol.

0:23:54.040 --> 0:23:55.840
<v Speaker 1>If it's a random search and they have to search,

0:23:55.880 --> 0:23:57.680
<v Speaker 1>they have to do it. It happened to me before.

0:23:57.680 --> 0:23:59.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure it happened to you guys before, as much

0:23:59.359 --> 0:24:01.359
<v Speaker 1>as we traveled. It happens. It's something that they do.

0:24:01.400 --> 0:24:03.879
<v Speaker 1>They're trying to stop terrorism and people from blowing up

0:24:03.880 --> 0:24:05.479
<v Speaker 1>planes and things like that, so they do it. They

0:24:05.560 --> 0:24:07.840
<v Speaker 1>absolutely positively. Yeah, I definitely set off the align just

0:24:07.880 --> 0:24:09.959
<v Speaker 1>now when I was going to Dominican Republic. But I

0:24:09.960 --> 0:24:11.880
<v Speaker 1>think I might have had some pins in my hair

0:24:12.000 --> 0:24:14.600
<v Speaker 1>and things like that. TSA is very aggressive, though, I

0:24:14.600 --> 0:24:16.439
<v Speaker 1>mean I think we y'all can feel a little invasive

0:24:16.440 --> 0:24:18.240
<v Speaker 1>because they also ask you, do you want to go

0:24:18.280 --> 0:24:20.159
<v Speaker 1>to a back room to get sets? Because they do.

0:24:20.560 --> 0:24:22.280
<v Speaker 1>They know they're about to violate you. You know what

0:24:22.320 --> 0:24:24.439
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, But they but they have to. They have

0:24:24.480 --> 0:24:26.960
<v Speaker 1>to check in those areas that all you know, or

0:24:26.960 --> 0:24:29.119
<v Speaker 1>your personal parts. I'm not gonna lie. We did go

0:24:29.160 --> 0:24:31.760
<v Speaker 1>through TSA one time and it was these dudes and

0:24:31.800 --> 0:24:35.040
<v Speaker 1>they was laughing and wanted The dudes said said to

0:24:35.119 --> 0:24:37.439
<v Speaker 1>music boy, they about to get wax. And when Wax

0:24:37.480 --> 0:24:40.160
<v Speaker 1>got through that thing, there was a gay TSA agent

0:24:40.160 --> 0:24:44.440
<v Speaker 1>and he was being very very very aggressive and very fondly. Well,

0:24:44.440 --> 0:24:46.280
<v Speaker 1>they got to they got to check, you know, make

0:24:46.320 --> 0:24:48.399
<v Speaker 1>sure they do they Why would he say to me

0:24:48.440 --> 0:24:50.920
<v Speaker 1>they about to get him? It is just something. It

0:24:50.960 --> 0:24:54.359
<v Speaker 1>does feel crazy, that's all. But anyway to look like

0:24:54.400 --> 0:24:55.840
<v Speaker 1>to do it trying to get some cheap fields to me?

0:24:57.760 --> 0:24:59.760
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, all right, Now when we come back, we

0:24:59.760 --> 0:25:01.679
<v Speaker 1>got page news we're talking about, Yes, we are going

0:25:01.720 --> 0:25:05.119
<v Speaker 1>to be talking about guns confiscated, over one thousand guns.

0:25:05.160 --> 0:25:07.359
<v Speaker 1>One man arrested so far another man in Europe? What

0:25:07.440 --> 0:25:09.080
<v Speaker 1>went down? All right, we'll get into that when we

0:25:09.119 --> 0:25:11.160
<v Speaker 1>come back. Keeping locked us to breakfast club. Good morning.

0:25:13.280 --> 0:25:16.400
<v Speaker 1>Hey yo, what dropping the clues box for ghost face Killing?

0:25:16.440 --> 0:25:18.239
<v Speaker 1>My favorite m see of all times is born day

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<v Speaker 1>to day. Damn it we said that already? Yeah, okay,

0:25:20.240 --> 0:25:23.000
<v Speaker 1>well I didn't. Happy born day to ghost face Killer. Okay,

0:25:23.000 --> 0:25:26.080
<v Speaker 1>Happy very day to the ghost face killer. All right. Well,

0:25:26.119 --> 0:25:29.159
<v Speaker 1>let's get in some front page news. Now. The Bucks

0:25:29.160 --> 0:25:32.720
<v Speaker 1>eliminates the Celtics last night one sixteen ninety deep one nine.

0:25:32.880 --> 0:25:34.200
<v Speaker 1>Front Paul Piers might have to come to the front

0:25:34.240 --> 0:25:36.040
<v Speaker 1>of the carrigation because I thought that was the stupidest

0:25:36.040 --> 0:25:38.560
<v Speaker 1>prediction in the world after Game one when the Celtics

0:25:38.600 --> 0:25:40.879
<v Speaker 1>beat them one twelve to ninety beat the Bucks, and

0:25:40.920 --> 0:25:43.400
<v Speaker 1>he said it may be over. No, he didn't say maybe.

0:25:43.440 --> 0:25:45.719
<v Speaker 1>He said I think it's over. But he was wrong. Now,

0:25:45.760 --> 0:25:47.600
<v Speaker 1>the Golden State Warriors beat the Rockets last night one

0:25:47.640 --> 0:25:50.320
<v Speaker 1>O four ninety nine, but Kevin Durant was injured. We're

0:25:50.320 --> 0:25:52.680
<v Speaker 1>not sure how serious the injury is, how many games

0:25:52.680 --> 0:25:55.440
<v Speaker 1>he's gonna be out, but we'll definitely see. They'll be fine.

0:25:55.480 --> 0:25:58.920
<v Speaker 1>They have a superstar named Steph Curry on Clay Thompson.

0:25:58.920 --> 0:26:00.239
<v Speaker 1>They both let it up last night. And they got

0:26:00.280 --> 0:26:02.080
<v Speaker 1>another brother named Raymond Green. And I don't know if

0:26:02.119 --> 0:26:04.640
<v Speaker 1>y'all realizing that, but those guys won championships before Kevin

0:26:04.720 --> 0:26:07.120
<v Speaker 1>Durant came there, went to the finals twice before Kevin

0:26:07.240 --> 0:26:09.160
<v Speaker 1>Durant came there. I think they'll be a okay guys,

0:26:09.560 --> 0:26:11.520
<v Speaker 1>all right? What else he talking about? By the way,

0:26:11.520 --> 0:26:14.840
<v Speaker 1>congratulations to Prince Harry and Megan Marco. They've revealed the

0:26:14.920 --> 0:26:19.000
<v Speaker 1>name of their new little baby, Archie Harrison, Mount Batton

0:26:19.160 --> 0:26:25.680
<v Speaker 1>windsor what what Archie Harrison, Mount Batton windsor Mount Batten. Well,

0:26:25.720 --> 0:26:28.640
<v Speaker 1>apparently Mount Batton Windsor is given to the male descendants

0:26:28.680 --> 0:26:32.040
<v Speaker 1>in line to the throne. That's the I guess the

0:26:32.119 --> 0:26:34.800
<v Speaker 1>name that they're given, I don't know. And they said

0:26:34.800 --> 0:26:36.399
<v Speaker 1>the name Archie. They just liked the name. There was

0:26:36.440 --> 0:26:39.520
<v Speaker 1>no special meaning, so that's why. And it's not it's

0:26:39.520 --> 0:26:41.199
<v Speaker 1>not Archibald. They want to make sure you guys know

0:26:41.240 --> 0:26:43.000
<v Speaker 1>the baby is not Archibald. His name is really just

0:26:43.080 --> 0:26:45.840
<v Speaker 1>so what would he be a prince a little baby

0:26:46.320 --> 0:26:51.440
<v Speaker 1>Prince Archie, Prince Archie and Ared duke and duchess. So

0:26:51.600 --> 0:26:54.240
<v Speaker 1>what is that? I don't know. I don't know. Don't

0:26:54.240 --> 0:26:57.320
<v Speaker 1>give me, I don't know that people, God bless them. Okay,

0:26:58.240 --> 0:27:00.560
<v Speaker 1>everybody was talking about it, and everybody he was like

0:27:00.760 --> 0:27:03.000
<v Speaker 1>going crazy over the baby. When I was in Dominican Republic,

0:27:03.040 --> 0:27:05.359
<v Speaker 1>every oh my god, she had the baby. So okay,

0:27:06.040 --> 0:27:11.320
<v Speaker 1>all right, now, let's talk about just messed this all up.

0:27:11.400 --> 0:27:14.479
<v Speaker 1>The guns, yes, oh, the guns. So they did seize

0:27:14.480 --> 0:27:17.119
<v Speaker 1>over a thousand guns. And this happened to add a

0:27:17.200 --> 0:27:20.479
<v Speaker 1>very luxurious neighborhood in La It's called Holmby Hills, and

0:27:20.520 --> 0:27:23.399
<v Speaker 1>what they are saying is that someone was suspected of

0:27:23.440 --> 0:27:27.119
<v Speaker 1>manufacturing and selling illegal firearms. It was an anonymous tip

0:27:27.320 --> 0:27:28.800
<v Speaker 1>and that's why they showed up to the house. One

0:27:28.800 --> 0:27:30.239
<v Speaker 1>man was arrested in the house. They don't know if

0:27:30.240 --> 0:27:31.679
<v Speaker 1>he was a squatter or if he was allowed to

0:27:31.720 --> 0:27:34.080
<v Speaker 1>be staying there. And they also said the person who

0:27:34.119 --> 0:27:36.000
<v Speaker 1>was the owner hasn't lived there in years and is

0:27:36.040 --> 0:27:37.760
<v Speaker 1>in Europe, so we don't know if he's involved in

0:27:37.800 --> 0:27:39.919
<v Speaker 1>this whole scheme right now. But they said it's right

0:27:39.920 --> 0:27:42.199
<v Speaker 1>near the Playboy mansion and it's also close to the

0:27:42.320 --> 0:27:46.120
<v Speaker 1>estate where Michael Jackson passed away, and back in the day,

0:27:46.160 --> 0:27:47.879
<v Speaker 1>that picture of all those guns would have made a

0:27:47.960 --> 0:27:51.600
<v Speaker 1>mean mixtape couple about fifteen years ago. Man, somebody might

0:27:51.680 --> 0:27:54.359
<v Speaker 1>do that now at every soul corny. Now, there was

0:27:54.400 --> 0:27:55.960
<v Speaker 1>a lot of controversy over this, and I don't know

0:27:55.960 --> 0:27:57.439
<v Speaker 1>if you guys think this is a big deal, but

0:27:57.760 --> 0:28:00.000
<v Speaker 1>Danna ka Patrick and Aaron Rodgers were sitting in courts

0:28:00.240 --> 0:28:02.680
<v Speaker 1>at the Game five showdown between the Celtics and the

0:28:02.720 --> 0:28:05.840
<v Speaker 1>Milwaukee Bucks that we were just talking about, and camera's

0:28:05.840 --> 0:28:10.280
<v Speaker 1>caught h Danna Kapatrick trying to give money for a drink.

0:28:10.320 --> 0:28:13.000
<v Speaker 1>One of the fans I guess sitting behind them bought

0:28:12.840 --> 0:28:18.520
<v Speaker 1>it hurt sorry, and Aaron Rodgers a drink, and I

0:28:18.560 --> 0:28:22.280
<v Speaker 1>guess people were upset that Aaron Rodgers allowed that to happen,

0:28:22.720 --> 0:28:24.480
<v Speaker 1>to allow somebody else to buy the guy to buy

0:28:24.640 --> 0:28:27.119
<v Speaker 1>his wife a drink. Yeah, you know, I don't know

0:28:27.160 --> 0:28:29.679
<v Speaker 1>what was going down, but the guy, he was just

0:28:29.720 --> 0:28:31.800
<v Speaker 1>a random person that was sitting behind them, and when

0:28:31.800 --> 0:28:34.320
<v Speaker 1>the drinks came, she tried to turn around and hand

0:28:34.400 --> 0:28:36.679
<v Speaker 1>him the money for their drinks, like, oh no, it's okay,

0:28:36.920 --> 0:28:41.080
<v Speaker 1>and the fan wouldn't take the cash, so people are saying,

0:28:41.080 --> 0:28:43.479
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I can't believe that he would let

0:28:43.520 --> 0:28:45.720
<v Speaker 1>somebody else buy his woman a drink. Oh my god,

0:28:47.160 --> 0:28:51.280
<v Speaker 1>I hate a man. I just don't understand. So if

0:28:51.280 --> 0:28:52.880
<v Speaker 1>you were out with your wife and somebody sending her

0:28:52.920 --> 0:28:54.960
<v Speaker 1>a drink, would that be okay, that's not what happened,

0:28:55.000 --> 0:28:57.720
<v Speaker 1>as contexted his whole situation, I would have. But that's

0:28:57.720 --> 0:28:59.640
<v Speaker 1>that what happened. Because if he was sitting in courtside

0:28:59.720 --> 0:29:02.160
<v Speaker 1>and pebody was a fan, people bought them drinks. She

0:29:02.160 --> 0:29:03.640
<v Speaker 1>tried to pay for it. He said, Now it's cool.

0:29:03.840 --> 0:29:05.480
<v Speaker 1>I do that. I do I literally do that all

0:29:05.520 --> 0:29:08.440
<v Speaker 1>the time, like just people in general the time. Did

0:29:08.480 --> 0:29:09.840
<v Speaker 1>he try to buy both of them drinks? So it

0:29:09.920 --> 0:29:11.080
<v Speaker 1>was just one of those things that I'm just buying

0:29:11.080 --> 0:29:14.120
<v Speaker 1>your wife saw her turning around, Now I'm good, and

0:29:14.200 --> 0:29:15.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, he's like, I want to buy them to drink.

0:29:15.520 --> 0:29:16.960
<v Speaker 1>He said, now I'm good, and he bought a drink.

0:29:17.080 --> 0:29:19.120
<v Speaker 1>Pay't a wrong that, yes, But if he just sent

0:29:19.240 --> 0:29:21.040
<v Speaker 1>over a drink to his wife, then that's a problem.

0:29:21.120 --> 0:29:22.880
<v Speaker 1>And Aaron Rodgers didn't do anything. He didn't look like

0:29:22.880 --> 0:29:25.000
<v Speaker 1>he was upset, but she was turning around trying to

0:29:25.040 --> 0:29:28.080
<v Speaker 1>give the money, and Dad ain't been crazy over that.

0:29:28.120 --> 0:29:29.800
<v Speaker 1>You'd been in a restaurant, you with your boyfriend, and

0:29:29.800 --> 0:29:31.480
<v Speaker 1>somebody sending a drink over for you. Somebody send a

0:29:31.480 --> 0:29:33.680
<v Speaker 1>whole bottle, That's what I'm saying. Come on, I ask

0:29:33.720 --> 0:29:36.600
<v Speaker 1>for you and your boyfriend though, correct. Oh, but they

0:29:36.720 --> 0:29:39.640
<v Speaker 1>know ye, They're like, oh that's angela. Ye, I'm sending

0:29:39.680 --> 0:29:41.680
<v Speaker 1>them a bottle, not just sending Year a drink. They

0:29:41.800 --> 0:29:44.520
<v Speaker 1>not just sending Year a bottle. It was it was

0:29:44.560 --> 0:29:47.440
<v Speaker 1>just like oh and uh, the waitress was like, oh this.

0:29:47.680 --> 0:29:50.080
<v Speaker 1>You know, somebody over there wanted to send this over

0:29:50.120 --> 0:29:52.760
<v Speaker 1>to you. Guys. That's what that's. They're fussing over nothing.

0:29:53.360 --> 0:29:55.760
<v Speaker 1>That's a big to do about nothing. Yes, and I

0:29:55.800 --> 0:29:57.440
<v Speaker 1>say that correctly, A big ti too. Yeah, it's a

0:29:57.480 --> 0:30:01.040
<v Speaker 1>big but for some reason everyone was talking about it.

0:30:01.080 --> 0:30:05.040
<v Speaker 1>So all right, what about you? I mean, you wouldn't

0:30:05.040 --> 0:30:07.160
<v Speaker 1>be mad, right, somebody said, my wife a drink and

0:30:07.200 --> 0:30:09.040
<v Speaker 1>you were there too, both of y'all. It depends how

0:30:09.040 --> 0:30:14.520
<v Speaker 1>it came pause if it was somebody else, you know

0:30:14.520 --> 0:30:17.000
<v Speaker 1>what that Trump page news. I'm not messing with you guys, man,

0:30:17.080 --> 0:30:21.280
<v Speaker 1>see you always go Now I'm up a little bit now,

0:30:21.760 --> 0:30:25.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, Hey, that's front page News. Thank you. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>when we come back, Comment will be joining us. We'll

0:30:28.320 --> 0:30:30.440
<v Speaker 1>kick of a comment to don't move. Yes. Comment has

0:30:30.440 --> 0:30:33.040
<v Speaker 1>a new book out called Let Love Have the Last Word?

0:30:33.320 --> 0:30:36.400
<v Speaker 1>Yes are the last laugh no last word? Word? Yes? Yes,

0:30:36.520 --> 0:30:40.440
<v Speaker 1>love has the where's the book? Somebody shut up? Man,

0:30:40.040 --> 0:30:43.720
<v Speaker 1>I tell you say something that love the last Love

0:30:43.760 --> 0:30:47.080
<v Speaker 1>have the last word. The name of it, yes, goodness,

0:30:47.200 --> 0:30:50.920
<v Speaker 1>and I love and I love, I love what Let

0:30:50.960 --> 0:30:54.480
<v Speaker 1>love have the last word? I just said that should

0:30:54.640 --> 0:30:56.640
<v Speaker 1>let me have the last word? Then you said laugh,

0:30:56.880 --> 0:31:00.200
<v Speaker 1>I did not. You didn't. Happy birthday to ghost face. Right,

0:31:00.360 --> 0:31:02.200
<v Speaker 1>we said that already. But I like, I like what

0:31:02.280 --> 0:31:05.120
<v Speaker 1>comments on right now? He's on. He's on. Uh. He's

0:31:05.120 --> 0:31:09.160
<v Speaker 1>talking about a lot of mindfulness and uh mental wellness

0:31:09.200 --> 0:31:11.400
<v Speaker 1>and just you know, doing a lot of healing. And

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that. Okay, let's get into it all right,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll do that next. Keep a lot. Just the Breakfast Club.

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<v Speaker 1>Good morning, the Breakfast Club. It's DJ Envy Angela Yee,

0:31:25.640 --> 0:31:27.800
<v Speaker 1>Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got

0:31:27.840 --> 0:31:31.240
<v Speaker 1>a special guest in the building has an Oscar golden globe,

0:31:31.280 --> 0:31:36.240
<v Speaker 1>and me and Grammy, our brother coma. He's king great, man,

0:31:36.320 --> 0:31:39.200
<v Speaker 1>God's great. Absolutely good to see your brother. Yeah, I'm great.

0:31:39.200 --> 0:31:41.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm glad, glad to see you, bro, glad to see

0:31:41.160 --> 0:31:44.320
<v Speaker 1>all y'all you got. Let Love have the last word, Yes, sir,

0:31:44.560 --> 0:31:46.200
<v Speaker 1>we came in here with love for all of us

0:31:46.240 --> 0:31:49.040
<v Speaker 1>too this morning. That's the book, man. Yeah, so I'm

0:31:49.080 --> 0:31:51.480
<v Speaker 1>excited about Let love how the last word? What's the

0:31:51.480 --> 0:31:53.920
<v Speaker 1>deeper meaning of that title? It really comes from like

0:31:54.280 --> 0:31:56.360
<v Speaker 1>all the stuff that's going on in the world. A

0:31:56.400 --> 0:31:58.680
<v Speaker 1>lot of things been feeling heavy. A lot of people,

0:31:58.880 --> 0:32:02.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, a lot of conversation is about taxes going

0:32:02.040 --> 0:32:05.840
<v Speaker 1>on in world politics. And I just felt like, man,

0:32:05.920 --> 0:32:08.120
<v Speaker 1>the best thing we can do to overcome a lot

0:32:08.160 --> 0:32:11.520
<v Speaker 1>of this anxiety and depression is is man, put love

0:32:11.560 --> 0:32:13.840
<v Speaker 1>out there and not love like in a just mushy

0:32:13.920 --> 0:32:17.000
<v Speaker 1>all love, lovey dovey way, but it's like love and action,

0:32:17.120 --> 0:32:20.480
<v Speaker 1>like man, So I want to put positive energy out

0:32:20.480 --> 0:32:22.680
<v Speaker 1>there in the world where time seems so dark. So

0:32:22.800 --> 0:32:25.160
<v Speaker 1>forgiveness is part of that, yes, sir, So are you

0:32:25.160 --> 0:32:27.760
<v Speaker 1>a forgiving person? I believe I am. I work towards it,

0:32:27.880 --> 0:32:30.360
<v Speaker 1>for sure, I strive to practice it. And that's what

0:32:30.560 --> 0:32:32.760
<v Speaker 1>this whole book for me is like it's just me

0:32:32.880 --> 0:32:36.640
<v Speaker 1>telling my stories and in the journey for what I

0:32:36.640 --> 0:32:38.200
<v Speaker 1>had to do to practice, and what I do to

0:32:38.280 --> 0:32:41.400
<v Speaker 1>practice is not always I'm not always succeeding at it,

0:32:41.440 --> 0:32:43.280
<v Speaker 1>but I'm striving towards it. I want to see you

0:32:43.320 --> 0:32:45.960
<v Speaker 1>at the Riverside Church on Monday, and you told this

0:32:46.000 --> 0:32:48.840
<v Speaker 1>story about why you say love all the time, and

0:32:48.840 --> 0:32:50.880
<v Speaker 1>I was like, damn, comment, ain't line because those is

0:32:50.920 --> 0:32:52.760
<v Speaker 1>a known common any inter of you. He already ended

0:32:52.840 --> 0:32:56.240
<v Speaker 1>with love love. You always endo with that, but tell

0:32:56.280 --> 0:32:58.080
<v Speaker 1>them why you do that. One of my homies I

0:32:58.200 --> 0:33:00.880
<v Speaker 1>grew up with named Dark, like from the South Side.

0:33:00.880 --> 0:33:02.760
<v Speaker 1>With me, he was like he a raw dude, Like

0:33:02.800 --> 0:33:04.880
<v Speaker 1>he was just a hustler. He lived a street life.

0:33:05.240 --> 0:33:07.600
<v Speaker 1>You're good brother, though, and we was in high school.

0:33:07.600 --> 0:33:10.360
<v Speaker 1>We always was like, man, yo, we need to start

0:33:10.400 --> 0:33:13.680
<v Speaker 1>saying love, man. And it's a dude, you know, Dark honestly,

0:33:13.880 --> 0:33:16.480
<v Speaker 1>like he'd been shot five times, but he was still

0:33:16.480 --> 0:33:18.720
<v Speaker 1>on something like, Yo, We're gonna start saying love, man.

0:33:19.040 --> 0:33:21.360
<v Speaker 1>And it just kind of stuck with me because it

0:33:21.440 --> 0:33:24.520
<v Speaker 1>was like another way of just you know, extending it

0:33:24.560 --> 0:33:27.880
<v Speaker 1>to whoever my homies to strangers. I mean, I love,

0:33:28.080 --> 0:33:31.200
<v Speaker 1>get off the phone wherever. I just that's that's my mind.

0:33:31.440 --> 0:33:33.000
<v Speaker 1>Black men don't do that to each other enough. We

0:33:33.000 --> 0:33:34.800
<v Speaker 1>don't tell each other we love each other, we value

0:33:34.840 --> 0:33:38.400
<v Speaker 1>each other, we appreciate each other. That's why everybody's so tough. Yeah,

0:33:38.480 --> 0:33:40.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, and then we end up hurting each other

0:33:40.280 --> 0:33:43.120
<v Speaker 1>because everybody's so angry. I feel like, man, we need

0:33:43.120 --> 0:33:46.080
<v Speaker 1>that because we've been taught like man, Yo, it's weak

0:33:46.120 --> 0:33:48.840
<v Speaker 1>to go to therapy. It's weak to just be like Yo, man,

0:33:48.920 --> 0:33:50.920
<v Speaker 1>love bro, I love you. You know what you know,

0:33:51.080 --> 0:33:53.840
<v Speaker 1>I messed up Hill just acknowledge certain things and just

0:33:54.200 --> 0:33:57.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, carrying to another to another black man, it's

0:33:57.080 --> 0:33:59.840
<v Speaker 1>like those things. It's like we're missing parts of our

0:33:59.880 --> 0:34:03.800
<v Speaker 1>life by not acknowledging those aspects. And I feel like

0:34:04.440 --> 0:34:08.319
<v Speaker 1>we can be well rounded men by by acknowledging those things.

0:34:08.360 --> 0:34:11.920
<v Speaker 1>That vulnerability is important, man, because if you stay like yo,

0:34:12.239 --> 0:34:15.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm just like hard the whole time, it's like,

0:34:15.480 --> 0:34:18.239
<v Speaker 1>oh I don't feel anything, man, at some point, it's

0:34:18.239 --> 0:34:20.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna come out the wrong way. That's why it's so

0:34:20.160 --> 0:34:22.919
<v Speaker 1>easy for us to hurt each other. Yeah, exactly, Yeah,

0:34:23.040 --> 0:34:25.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean, so I've been going to point Bland. I've

0:34:25.680 --> 0:34:28.759
<v Speaker 1>been going to visit a lot of prisons in California.

0:34:29.320 --> 0:34:31.160
<v Speaker 1>You know, a lot of people I've talked to that

0:34:31.360 --> 0:34:35.200
<v Speaker 1>just being cancerated, brothers, doing life without parole. Man. So

0:34:35.320 --> 0:34:37.560
<v Speaker 1>many times when you get to the rooter they story,

0:34:37.600 --> 0:34:39.840
<v Speaker 1>they was like, man, I just was hurt when I was.

0:34:40.280 --> 0:34:42.560
<v Speaker 1>In fact, this one cat I remember his name was

0:34:42.600 --> 0:34:45.200
<v Speaker 1>Bobby Gones, he broke down his whole stories to the

0:34:45.200 --> 0:34:47.880
<v Speaker 1>point where he was like, man, I got sexually abused

0:34:47.920 --> 0:34:49.600
<v Speaker 1>when I was eight. I ain't know I'd expressed that.

0:34:49.920 --> 0:34:52.120
<v Speaker 1>So once I punched somebody out, that was my way

0:34:52.160 --> 0:34:55.359
<v Speaker 1>of of letting, you know, letting my voice be heard

0:34:55.400 --> 0:34:57.719
<v Speaker 1>in a way because nobody else was gonna hear me,

0:34:57.719 --> 0:35:00.080
<v Speaker 1>and I was afraid to talk about those things. And

0:35:00.080 --> 0:35:01.880
<v Speaker 1>when he did that, he said after that that was

0:35:01.920 --> 0:35:05.120
<v Speaker 1>his way of just expressing it. And eventually, you know,

0:35:05.120 --> 0:35:07.759
<v Speaker 1>he ended up murdering somebody because he thought that was

0:35:07.760 --> 0:35:10.640
<v Speaker 1>a way to handle it violence for him to understand

0:35:10.640 --> 0:35:13.160
<v Speaker 1>the root of that issue. It's like for me, that's

0:35:13.200 --> 0:35:15.640
<v Speaker 1>where I look at my life, or look at our

0:35:15.640 --> 0:35:17.759
<v Speaker 1>lives and say, man, we can we can get this

0:35:17.880 --> 0:35:20.200
<v Speaker 1>extracted at the route, like if we really deal with

0:35:20.239 --> 0:35:23.959
<v Speaker 1>the real, the real issue, and know how to work

0:35:23.960 --> 0:35:26.080
<v Speaker 1>through it. That's like when I when I met them,

0:35:26.360 --> 0:35:29.160
<v Speaker 1>a lot of the brothers and sisters incarcerated, they were

0:35:29.239 --> 0:35:31.839
<v Speaker 1>like transformed. I went in there and they was like

0:35:32.040 --> 0:35:33.839
<v Speaker 1>some of the brothers was like man. They would they

0:35:33.880 --> 0:35:36.720
<v Speaker 1>were introduced themselves and be like, yeah, I killed this brother,

0:35:36.880 --> 0:35:39.000
<v Speaker 1>Joe Wilson, and they would say the name. And I

0:35:39.360 --> 0:35:41.160
<v Speaker 1>asked them, man, why you why do you say the name?

0:35:41.239 --> 0:35:43.440
<v Speaker 1>They was like, man, we gotta we gotta acknowledge them

0:35:43.440 --> 0:35:46.359
<v Speaker 1>as human beings. At the time when I did that act,

0:35:46.400 --> 0:35:48.359
<v Speaker 1>I didn't even look at that person as a human being.

0:35:48.719 --> 0:35:51.360
<v Speaker 1>I was like, it's for me to humanize myself and

0:35:51.440 --> 0:35:53.880
<v Speaker 1>that person. We need their families and know that we

0:35:54.080 --> 0:35:56.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, we look at them as human beings. And

0:35:56.200 --> 0:35:59.000
<v Speaker 1>I think, you know, our culture or the way we

0:35:59.040 --> 0:36:01.359
<v Speaker 1>grew up. I'm not blaming it on us, but we

0:36:01.400 --> 0:36:04.719
<v Speaker 1>got we inherited a lot of pain and suffering and

0:36:05.320 --> 0:36:07.640
<v Speaker 1>things we put up, like walls we put up just

0:36:07.680 --> 0:36:11.319
<v Speaker 1>from being here as black men. Is. Our ancestors had

0:36:11.320 --> 0:36:13.560
<v Speaker 1>had to suffer through that and that's been passed down.

0:36:13.800 --> 0:36:15.680
<v Speaker 1>So some of the things we got to shake off,

0:36:15.719 --> 0:36:17.680
<v Speaker 1>we got to peel it off. Man, it's and then

0:36:17.760 --> 0:36:19.719
<v Speaker 1>take a lot of work. So but what allowed you

0:36:19.760 --> 0:36:21.560
<v Speaker 1>to open up because we've seen you opened up in

0:36:21.600 --> 0:36:24.120
<v Speaker 1>this book and you talked about being molested as a child. Yeah,

0:36:24.160 --> 0:36:27.160
<v Speaker 1>what gave you that courage to talk about that? Honestly,

0:36:27.560 --> 0:36:30.760
<v Speaker 1>I didn't even realize that happened in my life till

0:36:30.760 --> 0:36:33.400
<v Speaker 1>like I was doing a movie and the movie was

0:36:33.440 --> 0:36:36.520
<v Speaker 1>about sexual abuse and I was discussing it with the

0:36:36.600 --> 0:36:39.319
<v Speaker 1>actress and we was talking about I was like, wait,

0:36:40.000 --> 0:36:41.959
<v Speaker 1>I just went to that moment and was like, man,

0:36:42.040 --> 0:36:44.759
<v Speaker 1>that that happened to me. So when when it came

0:36:44.800 --> 0:36:47.160
<v Speaker 1>to the surface and one like, I was talking about

0:36:47.160 --> 0:36:49.480
<v Speaker 1>it with everybody. But as I was writing this book,

0:36:50.000 --> 0:36:52.360
<v Speaker 1>you know what my heart was like, I want to

0:36:52.400 --> 0:36:54.880
<v Speaker 1>tell my story so that other people would be all

0:36:54.960 --> 0:36:57.680
<v Speaker 1>right with telling their stories and feel like, man, even

0:36:57.680 --> 0:37:00.440
<v Speaker 1>if it's not the exact same story, but okay with

0:37:00.560 --> 0:37:03.440
<v Speaker 1>being like, Man, I've been through some stuff and I

0:37:03.480 --> 0:37:05.880
<v Speaker 1>felt like, man, I gotta I gotta go out there

0:37:05.880 --> 0:37:08.080
<v Speaker 1>and do it, because man, the only way for people

0:37:08.120 --> 0:37:11.600
<v Speaker 1>to heal is to talk about it. And I also

0:37:11.680 --> 0:37:13.880
<v Speaker 1>wanted to offer tools. You know, it wasn't like I

0:37:13.960 --> 0:37:15.839
<v Speaker 1>was in the book I'm not like, this is how

0:37:15.840 --> 0:37:18.200
<v Speaker 1>you get through it. I'm like, man, I'm still working

0:37:18.200 --> 0:37:20.279
<v Speaker 1>on this getting through it because I just recognized, did

0:37:20.320 --> 0:37:22.400
<v Speaker 1>you forgive the person that molested you? And did you

0:37:22.440 --> 0:37:24.799
<v Speaker 1>have that conversation with him the person pass I haven't

0:37:24.800 --> 0:37:28.080
<v Speaker 1>had that conversation with him, but I definitely forgave from Afar,

0:37:28.280 --> 0:37:30.800
<v Speaker 1>like because I'm like, you know, this is this happened

0:37:30.840 --> 0:37:32.239
<v Speaker 1>in my life. I don't you know, I don't know

0:37:32.239 --> 0:37:34.760
<v Speaker 1>what happened to that person to make that person want

0:37:34.800 --> 0:37:36.879
<v Speaker 1>to do that. But I was like, man, I can't

0:37:36.880 --> 0:37:39.359
<v Speaker 1>carry that, like what I was just saying about carrying it.

0:37:39.400 --> 0:37:41.120
<v Speaker 1>And then you know, it was deep because I had

0:37:41.160 --> 0:37:43.240
<v Speaker 1>to talk with my mother about it before the book

0:37:43.239 --> 0:37:47.680
<v Speaker 1>came out, because she didn't never know about it, like

0:37:48.080 --> 0:37:49.600
<v Speaker 1>and this is something you don't want to you know,

0:37:49.800 --> 0:37:51.480
<v Speaker 1>you didn't want to tell them as you're you when

0:37:51.520 --> 0:37:53.799
<v Speaker 1>you're shorty. But I was talking to and she was

0:37:53.840 --> 0:37:56.640
<v Speaker 1>telling me stories about her. I was like, man, this

0:37:56.719 --> 0:37:58.480
<v Speaker 1>is a cycle that then like I want to be

0:37:58.520 --> 0:38:00.640
<v Speaker 1>one of the ones that stop it. And you have

0:38:00.680 --> 0:38:02.440
<v Speaker 1>a daughter too, and you reference your daughter a lot

0:38:02.440 --> 0:38:05.080
<v Speaker 1>in the book, So just imagine your daughter goes through

0:38:05.120 --> 0:38:07.200
<v Speaker 1>something and doesn't want to mention it to you. Did

0:38:07.239 --> 0:38:09.080
<v Speaker 1>you have a conversation with her too before the book?

0:38:09.200 --> 0:38:11.560
<v Speaker 1>I did. Yeah, we had a lot of conversations about

0:38:11.600 --> 0:38:15.520
<v Speaker 1>it because I actually played her song because I have

0:38:15.560 --> 0:38:18.520
<v Speaker 1>an album that's inspired by the book, and I played

0:38:18.520 --> 0:38:21.759
<v Speaker 1>a song that it's called Memories at Home to deal

0:38:21.800 --> 0:38:24.319
<v Speaker 1>with the deals with the subject because I hadn't told

0:38:24.320 --> 0:38:26.239
<v Speaker 1>her when she just started like crying and I sat

0:38:26.239 --> 0:38:28.239
<v Speaker 1>down and talked to about it. You know, she was like,

0:38:28.239 --> 0:38:29.840
<v Speaker 1>I didn't even know that happened to you. Why didn't

0:38:29.840 --> 0:38:31.759
<v Speaker 1>you tell me about it? And I was like, you know,

0:38:31.800 --> 0:38:34.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm just starting to come to grips with with Shan

0:38:34.960 --> 0:38:37.840
<v Speaker 1>that I really had to allow that to surface myself.

0:38:38.000 --> 0:38:40.400
<v Speaker 1>You know. She was like, man, that's courageous. She just

0:38:40.400 --> 0:38:43.000
<v Speaker 1>said this to me last night, Like, Yo, I'm really

0:38:43.040 --> 0:38:45.120
<v Speaker 1>proud of you. All Right, we got more with common

0:38:45.160 --> 0:38:47.520
<v Speaker 1>when we come back, don't move. It's the Breakfast Club.

0:38:47.520 --> 0:38:52.480
<v Speaker 1>Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlemagne,

0:38:52.480 --> 0:38:55.040
<v Speaker 1>the guy we are the Breakfast Club. Were still kicking

0:38:55.080 --> 0:38:56.920
<v Speaker 1>with common. The only stories are good though, And the

0:38:56.960 --> 0:38:59.279
<v Speaker 1>reason I say that is it opens things up for

0:38:59.360 --> 0:39:01.920
<v Speaker 1>me and coversations to my daughter, Like every time I

0:39:02.200 --> 0:39:05.320
<v Speaker 1>know Shalman has three daughters, I have three daughters, I'm overprotective,

0:39:05.360 --> 0:39:08.160
<v Speaker 1>Like did anybody touch you? Or you're okay? Did somebody say,

0:39:08.200 --> 0:39:10.520
<v Speaker 1>don't tell daddy? Like I'm over it because I hear

0:39:10.560 --> 0:39:12.080
<v Speaker 1>all these stories and I want to make sure my

0:39:12.160 --> 0:39:14.239
<v Speaker 1>kids are good, you know, yeah, And I feel like

0:39:14.680 --> 0:39:17.840
<v Speaker 1>these are the discussions that we didn't have as kids,

0:39:17.920 --> 0:39:20.640
<v Speaker 1>and we want our kids to know. I'm glad as

0:39:20.680 --> 0:39:24.120
<v Speaker 1>parents we could be like, hey, somebody touch you. You You

0:39:24.120 --> 0:39:26.359
<v Speaker 1>you can always come to me, don't ever, that's not

0:39:26.520 --> 0:39:29.400
<v Speaker 1>your fault, you know, like, and we can learn, like

0:39:29.440 --> 0:39:31.759
<v Speaker 1>we could discuss with each other the best ways to

0:39:32.160 --> 0:39:35.120
<v Speaker 1>have those conversations, you know, and get the information from

0:39:35.160 --> 0:39:37.359
<v Speaker 1>whatever sources because a lot of you know, a lot

0:39:37.360 --> 0:39:39.440
<v Speaker 1>of times I feel like in our communities, we haven't

0:39:39.440 --> 0:39:42.840
<v Speaker 1>had the resources or having as use access to the

0:39:42.920 --> 0:39:47.200
<v Speaker 1>resources to get like like professional help, right, But I

0:39:47.280 --> 0:39:49.560
<v Speaker 1>do it. I love that you you know, provide that

0:39:49.680 --> 0:39:52.600
<v Speaker 1>space for for our kids. And that's what I this

0:39:52.640 --> 0:39:55.720
<v Speaker 1>conversation is like, Man, I want kids to be like, man,

0:39:55.520 --> 0:39:58.160
<v Speaker 1>I gotta go tell somebody. Yeah, but you're opening up

0:39:58.200 --> 0:40:00.400
<v Speaker 1>a new door because I was molested when I but

0:40:00.400 --> 0:40:01.839
<v Speaker 1>it was by a woman, you know what I mean.

0:40:02.000 --> 0:40:04.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't think growing up I'd have been secure enough

0:40:04.960 --> 0:40:07.200
<v Speaker 1>to tell that story if it was done at the

0:40:07.280 --> 0:40:09.600
<v Speaker 1>hands of another man. So what gave you the security?

0:40:09.640 --> 0:40:11.440
<v Speaker 1>At what point in your left you said, I'm secure

0:40:11.560 --> 0:40:13.480
<v Speaker 1>enough to say, you know what, this is what happened

0:40:13.520 --> 0:40:16.120
<v Speaker 1>to me? At this point, I think it's just faith

0:40:16.400 --> 0:40:20.040
<v Speaker 1>and who I am, faith in God and my spirituality.

0:40:20.560 --> 0:40:23.960
<v Speaker 1>It's something that I feel, like the attacks that or

0:40:24.280 --> 0:40:26.879
<v Speaker 1>whatever comes from the outside at some point, if I'm

0:40:26.880 --> 0:40:29.640
<v Speaker 1>strong enough in the inside to and know who I am,

0:40:29.840 --> 0:40:32.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm then I'm good. Even when I played the song

0:40:32.360 --> 0:40:35.000
<v Speaker 1>for some of my homies, they was looking like man,

0:40:35.160 --> 0:40:37.319
<v Speaker 1>ros ain't know that happened to you know, like, and

0:40:37.360 --> 0:40:39.879
<v Speaker 1>I was feeling a little like okay. And the first

0:40:39.920 --> 0:40:41.920
<v Speaker 1>thing they did was joked a little bit, and then

0:40:41.960 --> 0:40:43.600
<v Speaker 1>they kind of saw it was a real subject and

0:40:43.719 --> 0:40:46.400
<v Speaker 1>was like, all I gotta chill. So I think, you know,

0:40:46.400 --> 0:40:49.839
<v Speaker 1>it's been my faith in myself and God and being

0:40:49.880 --> 0:40:53.200
<v Speaker 1>like man. Sometimes leaders got to step out there, simple

0:40:53.239 --> 0:40:55.960
<v Speaker 1>as that. And some guys think that when they're young,

0:40:56.040 --> 0:40:57.880
<v Speaker 1>like Charlotagne at first might have been like, oh, I

0:40:57.920 --> 0:41:00.360
<v Speaker 1>liked it right until this, but you didn't like you

0:41:00.400 --> 0:41:02.200
<v Speaker 1>were a little kid, so you don't really know later

0:41:02.239 --> 0:41:04.880
<v Speaker 1>on in life what it is that that long lasting

0:41:04.920 --> 0:41:07.479
<v Speaker 1>impact is. You might think this grown woman doing something

0:41:07.520 --> 0:41:09.759
<v Speaker 1>to you, because sometimes people like to act like that's

0:41:09.800 --> 0:41:13.040
<v Speaker 1>something that's fly that happens like a teacher and a student,

0:41:13.200 --> 0:41:14.839
<v Speaker 1>and it's really not. Yeah, but that's just the way

0:41:14.840 --> 0:41:16.399
<v Speaker 1>the world is position. But that's why I say it's

0:41:16.440 --> 0:41:18.719
<v Speaker 1>it's different with it's a guy. You know what I'm saying, Like,

0:41:18.760 --> 0:41:21.000
<v Speaker 1>how did that affect you growing up? Like I said,

0:41:21.080 --> 0:41:24.800
<v Speaker 1>for many many years, I tucked it away. I tried

0:41:24.800 --> 0:41:26.919
<v Speaker 1>to forget it. And it wasn't even like I tried

0:41:26.960 --> 0:41:29.200
<v Speaker 1>to forget it. It It was just forgotten it in any way.

0:41:29.360 --> 0:41:32.920
<v Speaker 1>So I love women, so that didn't affect me in

0:41:32.960 --> 0:41:35.719
<v Speaker 1>any way as far as that goes. But you know,

0:41:35.840 --> 0:41:39.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm not homophobic either. I'm like, yo, I respect anybody

0:41:39.120 --> 0:41:41.760
<v Speaker 1>who was on that level. But it didn't. It didn't

0:41:41.800 --> 0:41:44.360
<v Speaker 1>like detol what I who I love and who I

0:41:44.440 --> 0:41:46.840
<v Speaker 1>care about. I think more than anything, I just felt

0:41:47.200 --> 0:41:50.359
<v Speaker 1>violated that. You know, as a kid, I wasn't making

0:41:50.360 --> 0:41:53.600
<v Speaker 1>a choice to be in any type of activity with anybody.

0:41:53.680 --> 0:41:56.040
<v Speaker 1>You do talk about going to therapy and finding out

0:41:56.080 --> 0:41:59.680
<v Speaker 1>that you were addicted to love, yes, love or sex?

0:42:00.760 --> 0:42:06.200
<v Speaker 1>It was love was sex, it was it was It

0:42:06.320 --> 0:42:09.839
<v Speaker 1>was more love addiction than then then the sex thing.

0:42:10.040 --> 0:42:12.560
<v Speaker 1>I mean, the sex thing is obviously a wonderful thing.

0:42:12.640 --> 0:42:15.920
<v Speaker 1>But to be honest, the pattern I found myself in,

0:42:16.000 --> 0:42:18.640
<v Speaker 1>and what was called love addiction who my therapist broke

0:42:18.680 --> 0:42:21.120
<v Speaker 1>it down, was that feeling of being like, ah, I'm

0:42:21.200 --> 0:42:24.480
<v Speaker 1>in love and it's that honeymoon period that people call it.

0:42:24.719 --> 0:42:27.479
<v Speaker 1>I was addicted to that feeling. When that feeling would

0:42:27.520 --> 0:42:30.879
<v Speaker 1>go away and the real part of relationships came, I

0:42:30.920 --> 0:42:32.960
<v Speaker 1>was like, Okay, dude, I want this or not. Like

0:42:33.280 --> 0:42:36.120
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't ready to do the out. I care for

0:42:36.160 --> 0:42:38.759
<v Speaker 1>the person, but when things got tough and it's time

0:42:38.800 --> 0:42:41.640
<v Speaker 1>to work through stuff, I wasn't willing to work through it,

0:42:41.680 --> 0:42:44.359
<v Speaker 1>and I would make up make excuses like, oh man,

0:42:44.640 --> 0:42:47.800
<v Speaker 1>that's interfere with my work. Relationships ain't good for me.

0:42:47.840 --> 0:42:49.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't make my best albums when I'm in a

0:42:49.520 --> 0:42:55.759
<v Speaker 1>relationship one of those it's not you with me, you

0:42:55.800 --> 0:42:59.480
<v Speaker 1>know exactly, you know. So I was, you know, I

0:42:59.520 --> 0:43:02.440
<v Speaker 1>was in going through those cycles and and man, thank god,

0:43:02.480 --> 0:43:05.640
<v Speaker 1>I went to therapy because I was able to identify

0:43:05.920 --> 0:43:08.680
<v Speaker 1>that what that pattern was and why I was feeling

0:43:08.719 --> 0:43:11.399
<v Speaker 1>that way. So now you know, in relationships, I can

0:43:11.480 --> 0:43:14.160
<v Speaker 1>be this is how I really feeling in the present. This.

0:43:14.360 --> 0:43:17.000
<v Speaker 1>I ain't gonna bring up the old past things that happened,

0:43:17.120 --> 0:43:19.120
<v Speaker 1>because some of that old past stuff was just showing

0:43:19.200 --> 0:43:22.279
<v Speaker 1>up without me even knowing it. Was like, Okay, if

0:43:22.280 --> 0:43:24.279
<v Speaker 1>I've been in a relationship before that was like really

0:43:24.400 --> 0:43:27.080
<v Speaker 1>needy and heavy and that didn't feel good, then I

0:43:27.120 --> 0:43:29.560
<v Speaker 1>also expected the next relationship gonna be like that, but

0:43:29.600 --> 0:43:31.440
<v Speaker 1>I ain't necessarily how it has to be. When you

0:43:31.480 --> 0:43:33.640
<v Speaker 1>got some love advice from Michelle Obama, she helped y'all,

0:43:33.960 --> 0:43:35.960
<v Speaker 1>oh man, yeah, well I talked to her, how does

0:43:35.960 --> 0:43:37.839
<v Speaker 1>that happen? At the way? I talked to her, Yeah,

0:43:37.840 --> 0:43:40.880
<v Speaker 1>a couple of times about like relationships, because you know

0:43:41.040 --> 0:43:44.680
<v Speaker 1>what happens is she like comment, what's up? You know? You? You?

0:43:44.840 --> 0:43:47.120
<v Speaker 1>How did you forty forty two with you know this?

0:43:47.280 --> 0:43:51.080
<v Speaker 1>At the time, she was like, how did you you

0:43:51.120 --> 0:43:53.319
<v Speaker 1>know what's going on? Ain't you? And I'm giving up

0:43:53.640 --> 0:43:56.600
<v Speaker 1>my reasons and she like, it feels like you didn't

0:43:56.600 --> 0:44:00.640
<v Speaker 1>agree with her advice about compromising what was about the Yeah,

0:44:01.719 --> 0:44:03.400
<v Speaker 1>she has given me a lot of woods. And one

0:44:03.440 --> 0:44:05.080
<v Speaker 1>great thing that she told me is always going through

0:44:05.080 --> 0:44:07.040
<v Speaker 1>this journey is that you have to understand you're not

0:44:07.040 --> 0:44:09.719
<v Speaker 1>gonna get anybody that's perfect because you're not perfect. So

0:44:09.840 --> 0:44:12.200
<v Speaker 1>understand that there's some certain things that you will compromise

0:44:12.520 --> 0:44:14.480
<v Speaker 1>in choosing that partner. But as long as the core

0:44:14.600 --> 0:44:16.719
<v Speaker 1>values that are most important to you, that person you

0:44:16.760 --> 0:44:19.319
<v Speaker 1>know marks off on that list, then you're good. I

0:44:19.360 --> 0:44:22.040
<v Speaker 1>agree with that advice, but it's taking the time to

0:44:22.080 --> 0:44:24.880
<v Speaker 1>work to get to live that advice, you know, Like,

0:44:25.880 --> 0:44:27.759
<v Speaker 1>but it did help me because it's something for me

0:44:27.800 --> 0:44:30.400
<v Speaker 1>to always go back to and be like, yo, because

0:44:30.640 --> 0:44:33.399
<v Speaker 1>I think I was looking for if something going wrong,

0:44:33.400 --> 0:44:35.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh man, she ain't go lasts long. We

0:44:35.680 --> 0:44:37.800
<v Speaker 1>ain't go last its long because it is so I

0:44:38.120 --> 0:44:41.279
<v Speaker 1>can start making excuses or reasons why it ain't gonna work.

0:44:41.680 --> 0:44:43.920
<v Speaker 1>And I think being able to say, you know what,

0:44:44.200 --> 0:44:46.759
<v Speaker 1>this person may not have this right now, but that's

0:44:46.800 --> 0:44:48.759
<v Speaker 1>okay because we you know, we can work through it

0:44:48.800 --> 0:44:51.520
<v Speaker 1>at some point. That's what I feel like. I'm coming

0:44:51.560 --> 0:44:54.640
<v Speaker 1>to the understanding of se because you said, but I'm

0:44:54.640 --> 0:44:58.000
<v Speaker 1>beginning to understand that compromising myself to become inauthentic, to

0:44:58.120 --> 0:44:59.960
<v Speaker 1>live and exist as something other than who I am.

0:45:00.440 --> 0:45:02.720
<v Speaker 1>It isn't love and sense to compromises filled with dangers

0:45:02.760 --> 0:45:05.719
<v Speaker 1>and pitfalls at least to resentment. It leads to unhappiness.

0:45:05.960 --> 0:45:09.279
<v Speaker 1>It leads eventually to that feeling of losing oneself. Yeah, well,

0:45:09.320 --> 0:45:12.120
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I definitely don't believe in losing losing myself.

0:45:12.160 --> 0:45:14.640
<v Speaker 1>That's where I failed in relationships, you know, like where

0:45:14.960 --> 0:45:17.800
<v Speaker 1>where I've like gone too far thinking I'm like, Okay,

0:45:17.800 --> 0:45:19.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm I'm being the right part and I'm being

0:45:19.960 --> 0:45:22.720
<v Speaker 1>the right man in this relationship, but I'm giving away

0:45:22.760 --> 0:45:25.880
<v Speaker 1>some of the things of myself. So I don't believe.

0:45:26.320 --> 0:45:29.600
<v Speaker 1>You don't compromise yourself, but you can compromise to like

0:45:29.719 --> 0:45:32.000
<v Speaker 1>be able to agree to do certain things. You know.

0:45:32.000 --> 0:45:34.880
<v Speaker 1>It's like with some compromises you've made. I want specific example,

0:45:35.000 --> 0:45:38.880
<v Speaker 1>Like it's specific example would be like, okay with with

0:45:38.880 --> 0:45:42.400
<v Speaker 1>with your family, you want to go spend this holiday,

0:45:42.640 --> 0:45:44.839
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, well, I gotta spend this time with

0:45:44.880 --> 0:45:47.640
<v Speaker 1>my family too, So I'll be like, I'm gonna spend

0:45:47.719 --> 0:45:49.759
<v Speaker 1>this time with my family and then make sure I

0:45:49.840 --> 0:45:52.480
<v Speaker 1>got time with your family too. So that's that's some

0:45:52.560 --> 0:45:55.840
<v Speaker 1>of the compromises I've had since I've been talking to

0:45:55.960 --> 0:46:01.520
<v Speaker 1>Michelle Obama. Barack Obama know about He's goddamn relationship conversation

0:46:01.960 --> 0:46:05.160
<v Speaker 1>with his white Yeah, man, I mean I think Rock Cool,

0:46:05.200 --> 0:46:07.960
<v Speaker 1>He's probably looking at me like, go ahead, come and

0:46:07.960 --> 0:46:09.920
<v Speaker 1>get you know, get some wisdom, because you need to

0:46:09.960 --> 0:46:12.480
<v Speaker 1>be chilling with a lady. Well yeah, this was like

0:46:13.120 --> 0:46:15.800
<v Speaker 1>that was like three two three years ago, and stop

0:46:15.840 --> 0:46:17.760
<v Speaker 1>he was still in the White U. Yeah, he definitely

0:46:17.840 --> 0:46:19.680
<v Speaker 1>was in the White House when when she first started

0:46:19.719 --> 0:46:21.640
<v Speaker 1>talking to me about it, he was he was in

0:46:21.680 --> 0:46:23.319
<v Speaker 1>the White House. I wouldn't hit you with a little

0:46:23.360 --> 0:46:26.520
<v Speaker 1>light audit, you know what. She had to make sure,

0:46:26.600 --> 0:46:30.360
<v Speaker 1>you know what, make sure you know she's been telling

0:46:30.360 --> 0:46:32.920
<v Speaker 1>me other stuff, you know, so be patient, like and

0:46:33.080 --> 0:46:35.719
<v Speaker 1>like take your time and those things. So he man.

0:46:35.800 --> 0:46:39.040
<v Speaker 1>But but Rock, you know, you're a real dude. You know,

0:46:39.400 --> 0:46:41.439
<v Speaker 1>she had to be having those conversations with you because

0:46:41.440 --> 0:46:43.360
<v Speaker 1>she had some some women she wanted to hook you

0:46:43.440 --> 0:46:45.640
<v Speaker 1>up with, Like good conversation, just don't come out the blue.

0:46:45.719 --> 0:46:47.960
<v Speaker 1>Well she didn't. She didn't like come to the table

0:46:48.040 --> 0:46:50.160
<v Speaker 1>like yo, all right, Well I got somebody for you.

0:46:51.040 --> 0:46:53.560
<v Speaker 1>She just was like yo, and then she she probably

0:46:53.600 --> 0:46:56.000
<v Speaker 1>did think of somebody at one point, but I wouldn't

0:46:56.000 --> 0:46:58.400
<v Speaker 1>around enough for her to be like Okay, come on,

0:46:58.640 --> 0:47:01.239
<v Speaker 1>all right, let's get into a comment many mixed comings here.

0:47:01.320 --> 0:47:10.759
<v Speaker 1>Let's go as the breakfast club good morning, shout the

0:47:10.880 --> 0:47:13.359
<v Speaker 1>coming here, let me know your favorite coming joy right now,

0:47:15.320 --> 0:47:22.279
<v Speaker 1>and team changing me. Let's go. Yeah. I never knew

0:47:22.280 --> 0:47:25.279
<v Speaker 1>what lah lah lah lah lah like. This gotta be

0:47:25.840 --> 0:47:28.360
<v Speaker 1>for me to write this, Queen, I ain't seen you

0:47:28.400 --> 0:47:31.440
<v Speaker 1>in a minute, wrote this letter and finally decide the

0:47:31.560 --> 0:47:34.960
<v Speaker 1>Senate sign sil delivered for us to grow together. Love

0:47:35.040 --> 0:47:37.279
<v Speaker 1>has no limit. Let's spend a slow forever. I know

0:47:37.360 --> 0:47:40.000
<v Speaker 1>your heartest weather blah blasters did to you. I ain't

0:47:40.040 --> 0:47:42.320
<v Speaker 1>gonna saw them because I probably did it too because

0:47:42.360 --> 0:47:45.239
<v Speaker 1>of you. Feelings I handle would care some recognize your

0:47:45.239 --> 0:47:47.279
<v Speaker 1>life if they can't handle the glass. You know. I

0:47:47.280 --> 0:47:50.200
<v Speaker 1>hate the type to walk around with matching searchs of relationships.

0:47:50.520 --> 0:47:52.200
<v Speaker 1>I will match to work. I want to be the

0:47:52.200 --> 0:47:54.200
<v Speaker 1>one to make you happy as it hurts you the most,

0:47:54.200 --> 0:47:56.279
<v Speaker 1>they say the end of sneer. It's important that we're

0:47:56.320 --> 0:47:59.759
<v Speaker 1>close to the most high, regardless of what happened. On

0:48:00.040 --> 0:48:07.680
<v Speaker 1>him like a live yes, yes, yes y'all, and you

0:48:07.840 --> 0:48:11.600
<v Speaker 1>don't stop to the beach, y'all. Get Joe stop, yes,

0:48:11.719 --> 0:48:16.640
<v Speaker 1>yes y'all, Get tony, y'all it get Joe stop, yes,

0:48:16.760 --> 0:48:20.080
<v Speaker 1>yes y'all, and get tone stop to the b consience

0:48:20.120 --> 0:48:22.239
<v Speaker 1>to be the short shot. Come on, I met this

0:48:22.400 --> 0:48:24.919
<v Speaker 1>girl and I was t his owld and what I loved.

0:48:24.960 --> 0:48:27.960
<v Speaker 1>So she had so much soul. She was on school

0:48:27.960 --> 0:48:30.359
<v Speaker 1>and I was sister shorty. Never do throughout my life.

0:48:30.400 --> 0:48:32.719
<v Speaker 1>She would read them for me or the regular. Not

0:48:32.800 --> 0:48:35.439
<v Speaker 1>a church girl. She was secular, not about my money,

0:48:35.600 --> 0:48:41.560
<v Speaker 1>no stuff. Was like checking Henry he smuggle, saying for

0:48:41.640 --> 0:48:44.600
<v Speaker 1>a man as the five hustle seen him ben to

0:48:44.760 --> 0:48:47.960
<v Speaker 1>struggle a whole life, made a transition from being to

0:48:48.160 --> 0:48:53.600
<v Speaker 1>his wife stifling. The night had been Yes, my daddy

0:48:53.760 --> 0:48:56.880
<v Speaker 1>was a hustler, so she lied him. Looked at the churmy,

0:48:56.960 --> 0:49:06.719
<v Speaker 1>how can they judge him? She screamed. That was a

0:49:06.920 --> 0:49:11.960
<v Speaker 1>common mini mix morning. Everybody is DJ Envy and Angela Yee. Charlemagne,

0:49:11.960 --> 0:49:14.320
<v Speaker 1>the guy we are the breakfast club was still kicking

0:49:14.400 --> 0:49:17.440
<v Speaker 1>with coming yee. How difficult was the realization about your

0:49:17.560 --> 0:49:19.960
<v Speaker 1>daughter and her feeling like you weren't there enough for

0:49:20.040 --> 0:49:22.920
<v Speaker 1>her when she was growing up. That was tough for me, man,

0:49:22.960 --> 0:49:26.759
<v Speaker 1>because I thought I was doing a good job, you know, providing. Yeah,

0:49:26.840 --> 0:49:30.000
<v Speaker 1>you're providing, and you you're taking those moments to to

0:49:30.200 --> 0:49:33.600
<v Speaker 1>really do show love, and you like, Okay, we're going

0:49:33.680 --> 0:49:35.640
<v Speaker 1>to do these things that you like to do, and

0:49:35.760 --> 0:49:37.920
<v Speaker 1>you think that spending time is really doing it. But

0:49:38.920 --> 0:49:41.160
<v Speaker 1>it's still some of those other moments that she needed,

0:49:41.239 --> 0:49:43.239
<v Speaker 1>and just you know the fact, when she said it,

0:49:43.280 --> 0:49:45.320
<v Speaker 1>it was, man, it was I was hurt. I was

0:49:45.640 --> 0:49:47.239
<v Speaker 1>I was mad because some of the things she was

0:49:47.280 --> 0:49:49.680
<v Speaker 1>saying to me. Was like, man, I can't believe you

0:49:49.800 --> 0:49:52.840
<v Speaker 1>think I would do that. So I got defensive. But

0:49:53.000 --> 0:49:55.440
<v Speaker 1>then at some point I was just like, you know what,

0:49:55.560 --> 0:49:57.480
<v Speaker 1>I need to listen to her because this is how

0:49:57.560 --> 0:49:59.879
<v Speaker 1>she feeled. But what was she saying? What was basic?

0:50:00.160 --> 0:50:02.360
<v Speaker 1>She was basically like how when she was younger, I

0:50:02.440 --> 0:50:06.160
<v Speaker 1>didn't fight enough with her mother to like make sure

0:50:06.239 --> 0:50:08.839
<v Speaker 1>that she was spending time with me. At one point,

0:50:08.920 --> 0:50:12.560
<v Speaker 1>she was talking about how I didn't like want to

0:50:12.600 --> 0:50:14.480
<v Speaker 1>pay for her to take the SAT tests, and I

0:50:14.640 --> 0:50:18.080
<v Speaker 1>was like, a maya, you know better, Like you're like,

0:50:18.280 --> 0:50:21.560
<v Speaker 1>you know how much I paid for so ultimately, I

0:50:21.680 --> 0:50:24.240
<v Speaker 1>was just like talking to her, telling her, you should

0:50:24.320 --> 0:50:26.200
<v Speaker 1>you know me and you know that how much I

0:50:26.360 --> 0:50:28.279
<v Speaker 1>love you, so it's no way that I would not

0:50:28.440 --> 0:50:31.160
<v Speaker 1>do those things. So I was it was, man, it

0:50:31.239 --> 0:50:32.920
<v Speaker 1>was just some of those things you think as a

0:50:33.040 --> 0:50:36.759
<v Speaker 1>daughter growing up. She probably just looked and was thinking like, man,

0:50:36.840 --> 0:50:39.200
<v Speaker 1>this my dad ain't doing what I want. And Man,

0:50:39.280 --> 0:50:41.200
<v Speaker 1>one of the things that really struck me when she

0:50:41.360 --> 0:50:43.400
<v Speaker 1>was like, man, it hurt me when I saw you

0:50:43.560 --> 0:50:49.799
<v Speaker 1>out with your girlfriend's kids, and I was like, how

0:50:49.840 --> 0:50:52.320
<v Speaker 1>do you answer that one? I was like, Man, you know,

0:50:52.400 --> 0:50:54.279
<v Speaker 1>I was just trying to move forward with my life.

0:50:54.440 --> 0:50:56.799
<v Speaker 1>You know, like I was like that, I didn't love

0:50:56.840 --> 0:50:59.919
<v Speaker 1>you any less, but if somebody I love has kids,

0:51:00.200 --> 0:51:03.239
<v Speaker 1>we might be out and and man, that was some real,

0:51:03.480 --> 0:51:06.239
<v Speaker 1>you know, real conversations. But the thing is what I

0:51:06.320 --> 0:51:09.000
<v Speaker 1>feel good about is man, Man and Moya, we're having

0:51:09.040 --> 0:51:13.080
<v Speaker 1>these real conversations, so it's better in our relationship. Like

0:51:13.160 --> 0:51:15.680
<v Speaker 1>the fact that we talked about all this, she actually

0:51:15.800 --> 0:51:19.200
<v Speaker 1>feels like more confident and stronger, and I know that

0:51:19.360 --> 0:51:22.439
<v Speaker 1>my love is what's gonna help her be the best

0:51:22.680 --> 0:51:25.440
<v Speaker 1>woman she could be in relationships. It's part of you

0:51:25.560 --> 0:51:27.560
<v Speaker 1>seeking self healing, because you want to be the type

0:51:27.600 --> 0:51:30.080
<v Speaker 1>of man you want to see your daughter with. For sure,

0:51:30.160 --> 0:51:32.279
<v Speaker 1>I want to be. I want to be um I

0:51:32.680 --> 0:51:34.759
<v Speaker 1>I said, an example for my daughter all the time,

0:51:35.160 --> 0:51:37.279
<v Speaker 1>I try to do it without like telling her, Yo,

0:51:37.320 --> 0:51:40.200
<v Speaker 1>this type of man you want. I'm just like, open

0:51:40.280 --> 0:51:41.960
<v Speaker 1>the door for it. She'd be frustrated, like, man, I

0:51:42.000 --> 0:51:43.759
<v Speaker 1>gotta wait for you to open the door. I'm like, yeah,

0:51:43.840 --> 0:51:46.680
<v Speaker 1>you do, and like just do regular things that I

0:51:46.760 --> 0:51:48.440
<v Speaker 1>think I wanted, the way I want to see a

0:51:48.520 --> 0:51:51.160
<v Speaker 1>man treatd I just do it in action. Because that's

0:51:51.200 --> 0:51:53.600
<v Speaker 1>such a tough question. Man, when people say, are you

0:51:53.880 --> 0:51:56.160
<v Speaker 1>the kind of man that you would want your daughters

0:51:56.200 --> 0:52:00.239
<v Speaker 1>to be with? Man, that's man. Like I told my daughter, YO, saying,

0:52:00.320 --> 0:52:02.839
<v Speaker 1>this guy, he young man, he might you know, that's

0:52:03.040 --> 0:52:04.880
<v Speaker 1>that's where he is right now. He ain't gonna make

0:52:05.520 --> 0:52:07.320
<v Speaker 1>all the best choices. He might want to be with

0:52:07.440 --> 0:52:10.320
<v Speaker 1>some other girls. This is what it is. I was

0:52:10.400 --> 0:52:12.799
<v Speaker 1>that young man, of course, and into a into an

0:52:12.800 --> 0:52:15.239
<v Speaker 1>adult age, and like I said, beyond just wanting to

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<v Speaker 1>be with other women, even just being able to love

0:52:18.560 --> 0:52:21.520
<v Speaker 1>in a mature and in a complete way. It took

0:52:21.600 --> 0:52:24.560
<v Speaker 1>me years to get there. You know, being that man

0:52:24.800 --> 0:52:27.640
<v Speaker 1>is a process. But I think one of the greatest

0:52:27.680 --> 0:52:30.879
<v Speaker 1>things I've got is being able to communicate those things

0:52:31.000 --> 0:52:33.719
<v Speaker 1>now instead of being like having something harboring up in

0:52:33.800 --> 0:52:36.160
<v Speaker 1>me and not being able to say it to a

0:52:36.280 --> 0:52:39.719
<v Speaker 1>woman I'm in a relationship with. Is like, I gotta

0:52:39.719 --> 0:52:41.520
<v Speaker 1>be able to say, like, yo, I need this time

0:52:41.880 --> 0:52:43.759
<v Speaker 1>for this. I mean, this is better to express your

0:52:43.800 --> 0:52:46.359
<v Speaker 1>feelings period. Like they tell us even in school when

0:52:46.360 --> 0:52:48.399
<v Speaker 1>you grew up as a great scout, like oh, think

0:52:48.520 --> 0:52:50.800
<v Speaker 1>positive and be partlis. I mean, I'll be feeling positive

0:52:50.880 --> 0:52:52.520
<v Speaker 1>at this moment, so I should be able to express that.

0:52:52.719 --> 0:52:55.600
<v Speaker 1>I'll be talking to some of the shorties and seeing

0:52:55.640 --> 0:52:57.960
<v Speaker 1>what hear and what they're going through. I'm like, man,

0:52:58.080 --> 0:53:00.520
<v Speaker 1>you need some you need somebody to talk to. Man, Like,

0:53:00.880 --> 0:53:03.040
<v Speaker 1>there's no way you can get through your day if

0:53:03.080 --> 0:53:07.320
<v Speaker 1>you've seen your cousin shot, you pop slaying around just

0:53:07.480 --> 0:53:10.120
<v Speaker 1>going through all that stuff, and you you're supposed to

0:53:10.200 --> 0:53:13.399
<v Speaker 1>be regular and be normal and be good for the day.

0:53:13.400 --> 0:53:16.480
<v Speaker 1>It's like, man, that's what these kids starting self medican.

0:53:16.520 --> 0:53:19.000
<v Speaker 1>They start smoking, they start drinking, they start hanging around

0:53:19.040 --> 0:53:21.440
<v Speaker 1>games because they feel like that's their brothers and musically,

0:53:21.440 --> 0:53:23.600
<v Speaker 1>goes down the wrong way, they start redistributing that pain.

0:53:23.920 --> 0:53:27.640
<v Speaker 1>That's the greatest source of white casts out here, hurting

0:53:27.680 --> 0:53:30.320
<v Speaker 1>each other, killing each other's because they in pain. So

0:53:31.080 --> 0:53:33.400
<v Speaker 1>I believe we go treat that pain as much as

0:53:33.760 --> 0:53:38.279
<v Speaker 1>much as we reshaping and re reconfiguring the community. We

0:53:38.360 --> 0:53:41.200
<v Speaker 1>got to create jobs. We gotta give mental health support,

0:53:41.520 --> 0:53:44.359
<v Speaker 1>We gotta give like different ways of expressing. Like they

0:53:44.480 --> 0:53:47.600
<v Speaker 1>need to know about cinematography. They need to know about

0:53:47.680 --> 0:53:50.000
<v Speaker 1>like what it is to be a scriptwriter or whatever.

0:53:50.080 --> 0:53:52.720
<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm just mentioning things in the entertainment Absolutely social.

0:53:52.920 --> 0:53:55.399
<v Speaker 1>They need to put social emotional learning in the schools. Yes,

0:53:55.640 --> 0:53:58.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm actually opening up a school called AIM.

0:53:58.680 --> 0:54:01.319
<v Speaker 1>It's a Chicago It's called It's in Motion And one

0:54:01.400 --> 0:54:05.320
<v Speaker 1>of the things that we are doing, it's opening this September.

0:54:05.600 --> 0:54:07.600
<v Speaker 1>One of the things that we're doing is like we're

0:54:07.640 --> 0:54:11.959
<v Speaker 1>gonna have that social and emotional intelligence, like those type

0:54:12.000 --> 0:54:15.120
<v Speaker 1>of courses where they could just talk things out, have

0:54:15.320 --> 0:54:19.640
<v Speaker 1>that type of therapy space, yoga space, you know, have

0:54:19.800 --> 0:54:23.839
<v Speaker 1>spaces where they do know learning about cinematography, learning about scriptwriting,

0:54:23.960 --> 0:54:27.520
<v Speaker 1>learning about costume design. Because so many of the kids

0:54:27.719 --> 0:54:31.120
<v Speaker 1>don't get the exposure. Like for me, I was like, man,

0:54:31.200 --> 0:54:33.600
<v Speaker 1>if I ain't have my mother saying, Man, I'm putting

0:54:33.600 --> 0:54:36.680
<v Speaker 1>you in this computer class, I'm putting you you're playing

0:54:36.719 --> 0:54:39.439
<v Speaker 1>biitty basketball. Man, I don't know where my life would

0:54:39.440 --> 0:54:42.279
<v Speaker 1>be got to go to. That's a charter school. Yeah,

0:54:42.280 --> 0:54:43.239
<v Speaker 1>I know, I know, you gotta get out there. I

0:54:43.239 --> 0:54:44.719
<v Speaker 1>gotta ask you one last question because a lot of

0:54:44.719 --> 0:54:46.200
<v Speaker 1>things you say resonate with me in such a wig

0:54:46.400 --> 0:54:47.880
<v Speaker 1>it's the same thing I'm going through right now. But

0:54:47.960 --> 0:54:49.919
<v Speaker 1>you talk about your father and you say the sins

0:54:49.960 --> 0:54:52.320
<v Speaker 1>of the father represents a cycle that you are destined

0:54:52.320 --> 0:54:54.399
<v Speaker 1>to break or repeat one of the other and your

0:54:54.440 --> 0:54:56.960
<v Speaker 1>work remains and complete. So which cycles are you currently

0:54:57.000 --> 0:55:02.320
<v Speaker 1>fighting to break? And your parenting? Yeah, the abandonment cycle

0:55:02.480 --> 0:55:05.080
<v Speaker 1>was one of them, because man, I love my dad.

0:55:05.239 --> 0:55:08.919
<v Speaker 1>My dad was cool, man, we got along really good.

0:55:09.160 --> 0:55:11.439
<v Speaker 1>But I didn't know that I was had a void,

0:55:11.560 --> 0:55:14.160
<v Speaker 1>something was missing because when I was one, him and

0:55:14.239 --> 0:55:16.920
<v Speaker 1>my mother split up and I didn't have that relationship

0:55:17.000 --> 0:55:20.080
<v Speaker 1>with him, like a presence, you know, with him being there,

0:55:20.680 --> 0:55:23.719
<v Speaker 1>and you know the fact that my daughter is like

0:55:24.200 --> 0:55:26.040
<v Speaker 1>kind of saying some of the same things that your

0:55:26.160 --> 0:55:30.200
<v Speaker 1>presence wasn't you weren't physically there. It's like, Okay, how

0:55:30.239 --> 0:55:32.680
<v Speaker 1>can I stop the cycle? Now? I gotta be able

0:55:32.719 --> 0:55:34.600
<v Speaker 1>to talk to her about this and tell her and

0:55:34.680 --> 0:55:39.600
<v Speaker 1>hopefully she understands reasons why, so that there's no reason why. Really,

0:55:39.680 --> 0:55:42.440
<v Speaker 1>I mean, she might understand from a different perspective and

0:55:42.960 --> 0:55:45.680
<v Speaker 1>know that I'm hearing her and her being hurt. I

0:55:45.760 --> 0:55:48.279
<v Speaker 1>think DOC has stopped the hurt. Like we was talking

0:55:48.320 --> 0:55:51.279
<v Speaker 1>about distributing the pain. It's like that pain I had

0:55:51.360 --> 0:55:54.120
<v Speaker 1>from my father. I didn't even know I had that pain,

0:55:54.280 --> 0:55:57.480
<v Speaker 1>but it was there. Well, a moya can acknowledge that

0:55:57.560 --> 0:55:59.799
<v Speaker 1>she has that pain and heal that pain, so when

0:55:59.840 --> 0:56:02.680
<v Speaker 1>she going her relationship, she'll be a whole woman. That's

0:56:02.760 --> 0:56:06.600
<v Speaker 1>really my way of stopping it um and just recognizing

0:56:06.640 --> 0:56:09.680
<v Speaker 1>those things. And when I do find myself like feeling

0:56:09.719 --> 0:56:12.479
<v Speaker 1>a certain way about something my father did or whatever,

0:56:12.719 --> 0:56:15.920
<v Speaker 1>which I've worked to forgive my father. My father passed

0:56:15.960 --> 0:56:19.080
<v Speaker 1>in twenty fourteen, but we was definitely in a great space.

0:56:19.200 --> 0:56:21.960
<v Speaker 1>But even then post that, I had to still work

0:56:22.040 --> 0:56:25.400
<v Speaker 1>on forgiving and knowing those things. But with that, I

0:56:25.520 --> 0:56:28.280
<v Speaker 1>just feel like I carry a better happiness for myself

0:56:28.440 --> 0:56:30.319
<v Speaker 1>and I'm able to give that to the people. I love.

0:56:31.000 --> 0:56:33.840
<v Speaker 1>I love these conversations, the conversation you're supposed to be

0:56:33.920 --> 0:56:38.040
<v Speaker 1>having man therapy, so full of healing. I appreciate you

0:56:38.160 --> 0:56:40.520
<v Speaker 1>coming for having these conversations. Well, let love have the

0:56:40.640 --> 0:56:42.839
<v Speaker 1>last words out right now, so make sure you pick

0:56:42.880 --> 0:56:44.920
<v Speaker 1>it up. Thank you for joining us, brother man, Thank

0:56:45.000 --> 0:56:47.200
<v Speaker 1>y'all for having me. I love you, Love you brother.

0:56:48.000 --> 0:56:50.680
<v Speaker 1>All right, it's coming. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning.

0:56:51.280 --> 0:57:00.279
<v Speaker 1>It's about is the rumor report? Angela Yee on the

0:57:00.320 --> 0:57:03.400
<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club. Well, we've been talking about this. Did he

0:57:03.520 --> 0:57:05.920
<v Speaker 1>cover story? Because Mother's Day is coming up this Sunday

0:57:05.920 --> 0:57:09.160
<v Speaker 1>and he's on the May issue and he did an

0:57:09.239 --> 0:57:12.160
<v Speaker 1>interview with Dream Hampton and it's a very raw and

0:57:12.280 --> 0:57:16.360
<v Speaker 1>unedited conversation and we have a piece of that conversation

0:57:16.480 --> 0:57:20.120
<v Speaker 1>exclusively for you right now. And it's very difficult to

0:57:20.200 --> 0:57:23.040
<v Speaker 1>hear because clearly did he still going through a lot

0:57:23.280 --> 0:57:25.320
<v Speaker 1>having lost kim Porter. The kids are going through a

0:57:25.360 --> 0:57:28.720
<v Speaker 1>lot with kim Porter having passed. And here's what happened

0:57:28.720 --> 0:57:32.439
<v Speaker 1>when he discusses black mothers, his Mother's Day is gonna hurt.

0:57:33.000 --> 0:57:35.960
<v Speaker 1>We're definitely going to celebrate, you know, all the mothers

0:57:36.360 --> 0:57:38.640
<v Speaker 1>you're not. We're not gonna get in the way of that.

0:57:39.280 --> 0:57:43.320
<v Speaker 1>But you know, honestly, anybody that's lost the mother, lost

0:57:43.400 --> 0:57:48.120
<v Speaker 1>the soulmate, it takes time. It takes time, you know.

0:57:49.240 --> 0:57:52.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't you know they say town hills all wounds

0:57:53.480 --> 0:57:56.919
<v Speaker 1>when it comes to your mother mothers. I don't think

0:57:57.000 --> 0:58:01.200
<v Speaker 1>that case. No. I mean, I think we have the

0:58:01.360 --> 0:58:04.760
<v Speaker 1>strongest being. Like if it comes to like a category

0:58:04.840 --> 0:58:08.439
<v Speaker 1>or who's the strongest being on the stay for the earth,

0:58:09.000 --> 0:58:12.240
<v Speaker 1>it would have to be black mothers. Don't anybody can

0:58:12.280 --> 0:58:17.840
<v Speaker 1>ever understand, you know, to be a black mother man,

0:58:17.960 --> 0:58:20.240
<v Speaker 1>God bless did he? Man? Tears of how our heart

0:58:20.280 --> 0:58:22.400
<v Speaker 1>speaks on our lips can't describe how much we've been hurting.

0:58:22.400 --> 0:58:24.040
<v Speaker 1>There's no need to front and pretend to be tough

0:58:24.080 --> 0:58:26.040
<v Speaker 1>at the time like this, Let those tears go. And

0:58:26.120 --> 0:58:27.560
<v Speaker 1>I hope that Diddy and the kids are getting some

0:58:27.640 --> 0:58:29.400
<v Speaker 1>type of grief counsel in, some type of therapy. I

0:58:29.480 --> 0:58:31.320
<v Speaker 1>hope all the kids are protecting their energy and really

0:58:31.400 --> 0:58:33.600
<v Speaker 1>invested in their mental wealth. Because He's right. I don't

0:58:33.640 --> 0:58:35.720
<v Speaker 1>think time heals all wounds. With situations like this, they

0:58:35.760 --> 0:58:37.800
<v Speaker 1>may hurt less, but it will always hurt. And honestly,

0:58:37.880 --> 0:58:40.160
<v Speaker 1>that's fine. We're human. Were allowed to feel that. Well.

0:58:40.200 --> 0:58:42.520
<v Speaker 1>We get to see the family together a lot now too,

0:58:42.680 --> 0:58:45.120
<v Speaker 1>and he's been, like he said in the article, just

0:58:45.360 --> 0:58:47.800
<v Speaker 1>basically the mom for Mother's Day and all of that

0:58:47.960 --> 0:58:50.400
<v Speaker 1>with the with the girls, you know, with his sons

0:58:50.440 --> 0:58:52.720
<v Speaker 1>as well, a lot of family times. Shout to Diddy man,

0:58:53.440 --> 0:58:56.600
<v Speaker 1>All right, now you should hurry. We discussed her comments

0:58:56.760 --> 0:58:59.400
<v Speaker 1>during Red Table Talk. If you guys, remember she has

0:58:59.480 --> 0:59:02.800
<v Speaker 1>this to say about her insecurities. Something that really bothers

0:59:02.920 --> 0:59:05.280
<v Speaker 1>me and like honestly has given me a sense of

0:59:05.320 --> 0:59:08.280
<v Speaker 1>a little bit of an insecurity is the fact that, yeah,

0:59:08.360 --> 0:59:11.320
<v Speaker 1>like there are all these women like throwing themselves but me,

0:59:11.840 --> 0:59:15.280
<v Speaker 1>like the past ten years, like I don't have any

0:59:15.360 --> 0:59:18.480
<v Speaker 1>of that. This sounds weird, but like male attention. And

0:59:18.600 --> 0:59:20.880
<v Speaker 1>so then like I begin to internalize it, and I'm like,

0:59:20.920 --> 0:59:25.720
<v Speaker 1>it's something wrong with her because I don't want it.

0:59:25.960 --> 0:59:29.240
<v Speaker 1>But it would be nice to know that, like someone's looking.

0:59:30.000 --> 0:59:32.320
<v Speaker 1>And I appreciate her for being honest about it because

0:59:32.320 --> 0:59:33.840
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people feel like, man, I just want

0:59:34.240 --> 0:59:36.120
<v Speaker 1>somebody to say I look nice, and it changes your

0:59:36.160 --> 0:59:38.360
<v Speaker 1>whole day sometimes when somebody's like, oh you look great today,

0:59:38.800 --> 0:59:41.000
<v Speaker 1>and sometimes that's a great compliment. Your husband saying that

0:59:41.040 --> 0:59:42.640
<v Speaker 1>don't make you feel good. No, I haven't saying you

0:59:42.680 --> 0:59:44.760
<v Speaker 1>guys are married, so she knows that, and I guess

0:59:44.760 --> 0:59:46.160
<v Speaker 1>she feels like he gets a lot of attention. But

0:59:46.160 --> 0:59:48.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't think there's anything wrong with her expressing how

0:59:48.080 --> 0:59:50.400
<v Speaker 1>she really feels, because a lot of people were critical

0:59:50.440 --> 0:59:52.200
<v Speaker 1>of her, like she was saying she doesn't care about

0:59:52.200 --> 0:59:55.479
<v Speaker 1>her husband's feelings, but of course, but of course she does.

0:59:55.680 --> 0:59:58.240
<v Speaker 1>But she was just being honest that she feels insecure

0:59:58.640 --> 1:00:01.280
<v Speaker 1>and sometimes that's hard for people to admit. Now, she posted,

1:00:01.560 --> 1:00:03.840
<v Speaker 1>I've never been one to cage my feelings and emotions

1:00:03.880 --> 1:00:06.880
<v Speaker 1>to any capacity. I am human. It brings me pure

1:00:06.960 --> 1:00:09.200
<v Speaker 1>joy to speak my mind, be vulnerable at times, and

1:00:09.280 --> 1:00:11.520
<v Speaker 1>to know myself inside and out. Seeing it's how it's

1:00:11.560 --> 1:00:13.800
<v Speaker 1>mental health awareness month. I really want to take the

1:00:13.880 --> 1:00:17.360
<v Speaker 1>time to encourage everyone to speak their truth, regardless of perception,

1:00:17.680 --> 1:00:20.520
<v Speaker 1>fitting into a mold or offending someone. Because it's your

1:00:20.560 --> 1:00:23.400
<v Speaker 1>truth and that's okay, then God bless how you should courage.

1:00:23.440 --> 1:00:25.280
<v Speaker 1>Still don't agree with what she said. When you depend

1:00:25.320 --> 1:00:26.800
<v Speaker 1>on people to build you up, they will have the

1:00:26.840 --> 1:00:28.800
<v Speaker 1>same power to break you down. Stop investing in the

1:00:28.880 --> 1:00:31.160
<v Speaker 1>opinions of other people so much, especially when you got

1:00:31.240 --> 1:00:33.360
<v Speaker 1>a man that loves you, values and appreciates you, who

1:00:33.360 --> 1:00:35.120
<v Speaker 1>cares what other men thinks. I mean, you don't have

1:00:35.200 --> 1:00:39.200
<v Speaker 1>to agree with what she said, really do. It's not

1:00:39.360 --> 1:00:42.040
<v Speaker 1>like I agree with you, but it's more like I

1:00:42.120 --> 1:00:44.040
<v Speaker 1>get what she's saying. She's with her husband all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Her husband is supposed to say she looks beautiful, but

1:00:46.480 --> 1:00:48.880
<v Speaker 1>she's not. Yes, at that right there is taking your

1:00:48.920 --> 1:00:52.440
<v Speaker 1>significant other for granted it. Then she also let me

1:00:52.480 --> 1:00:54.080
<v Speaker 1>tell you what she said. She also go out on

1:00:54.160 --> 1:00:55.880
<v Speaker 1>to say, if what I'm not afraid to say out

1:00:55.920 --> 1:00:58.360
<v Speaker 1>loud about being a thirty year old mama of three

1:00:58.480 --> 1:01:00.200
<v Speaker 1>helps another women like me feel like they're not the

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<v Speaker 1>alone and not the only one with an insecurity because

1:01:03.200 --> 1:01:05.440
<v Speaker 1>we all have them, don't play, then that makes all

1:01:05.480 --> 1:01:07.160
<v Speaker 1>of this hoop low worth it. She just wants to

1:01:07.200 --> 1:01:09.400
<v Speaker 1>be flying and sexy. She had three children, she's a mom.

1:01:09.480 --> 1:01:11.320
<v Speaker 1>She still wants to be fly look flying, and she

1:01:11.440 --> 1:01:13.440
<v Speaker 1>still wants to say she's not. And why does she

1:01:13.560 --> 1:01:15.640
<v Speaker 1>need the outside of opinions of others to feel that way?

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<v Speaker 1>If what I say is your husband doesn't matter anymore

1:01:18.040 --> 1:01:23.120
<v Speaker 1>of what I think. I never said. It doesn't matter.

1:01:23.200 --> 1:01:25.600
<v Speaker 1>That should be the end all, be all, period. She

1:01:25.760 --> 1:01:28.080
<v Speaker 1>just wants to feel like, oh, people find me attractive

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<v Speaker 1>in general? What's wrong with that? Who cares what people think?

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<v Speaker 1>She does clearly, and she's being honest about her insecurity.

1:01:34.840 --> 1:01:37.280
<v Speaker 1>She's not saying I need you to validate how I feel.

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<v Speaker 1>She's just saying, this is how I really feel. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't help it, and that's exactly what it is. And

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<v Speaker 1>insecurity sometimes people can't help how they feel. We would

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<v Speaker 1>love to all not be insecure, but the reality is

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<v Speaker 1>people do have insecurities. I'm angela, yeah, and that's your

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<v Speaker 1>room of report. All right, Charloman, who's giving that? Donkey?

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<v Speaker 1>You we need Paul Piss to come to the front

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<v Speaker 1>of the congregation or this one is feeling Milwaukee and

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<v Speaker 1>Milwaukee strictly all right, telp faull Piss. We'd like to

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<v Speaker 1>have a world with him, please. All right, we'll get

1:02:01.040 --> 1:02:02.800
<v Speaker 1>into that next. Keep it locked. Just to Breakfast Club,

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<v Speaker 1>Good Morning. I was born to Donkey. It's the Donkey

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<v Speaker 1>of the Death that Devil Breakfast Club. Yes, Donkey today

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<v Speaker 1>for Thursday, May knife goes to my man the legendary

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<v Speaker 1>future NBA Hall of Fame. Apaul Piss, Now, listen, I

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<v Speaker 1>love predictions. We all make them. That is the foundation

1:02:33.360 --> 1:02:35.760
<v Speaker 1>of a lot of different debates and lively discussions in

1:02:35.800 --> 1:02:38.520
<v Speaker 1>our culture. Someone throws a wild prediction out there, and

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<v Speaker 1>then everyone goes back and forth depending on if people

1:02:40.840 --> 1:02:44.960
<v Speaker 1>agree or disagree. Some people will tell you never make predictions,

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<v Speaker 1>especially about the future. But what fun would that be

1:02:48.840 --> 1:02:52.000
<v Speaker 1>if that lets your testicles hang? All right, throw something

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<v Speaker 1>against the wall and see if it's sticks. If you

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<v Speaker 1>are correcting your prediction, then you are a profit of sorts.

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<v Speaker 1>O Can you get to look at people and say,

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<v Speaker 1>I told you so, you know what I mean? Especially

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<v Speaker 1>if the situation goes down exactly how you said it would.

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<v Speaker 1>And even if you're wrong, that's fine too, depending how

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<v Speaker 1>close the actual outcome came to your said prediction. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's why we are here today giving Paul Piss to

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<v Speaker 1>credit he deserves for being stupid, because Paul Piss made

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<v Speaker 1>what has turned out to be an extremely stupid prediction.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, see Paul Piss is on ESPN and after

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<v Speaker 1>Game one of the Eastern Conference Semifinals, which the Boston

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<v Speaker 1>Celtics won, one twelve to ninety, a twenty two point blowout.

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<v Speaker 1>Paul Piss got on ESPN and made this bold prediction.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a team. I don't know where Milwaukee goes from

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<v Speaker 1>here because who is this over? I think it's over.

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<v Speaker 1>The series is over. Yeah, the game you just said

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<v Speaker 1>her and said that they could win an NBA champion.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't say that, but one game. I think styles

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<v Speaker 1>make fights in Boston boxing cha before the series start out,

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<v Speaker 1>but it just seemed like Milwaukee was a way better

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<v Speaker 1>team throughout the regular season. But when I watched this,

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<v Speaker 1>if Jannis doesn't have a monster game and somebody else

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<v Speaker 1>was hid besides him doesn't step up, Boston is just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna out talent. Paul Piss after Game one of the

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<v Speaker 1>NBA Eastern Conference Semifinals, Ladies and Gentlemen, after the Celtics

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<v Speaker 1>beat the Bucks by twenty two points, you heard him

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<v Speaker 1>just say he declared the series was over. Well, last night,

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<v Speaker 1>the series did come to an end. Let's hear what

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<v Speaker 1>the outcome was. Show the Bucks. George France took the

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<v Speaker 1>East Fox Finals hold the first time, choose thousand A,

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<v Speaker 1>dropping the Clues Monster the Milwaukee Bucks all right. Game

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<v Speaker 1>five They won the series four games, the one meaning

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<v Speaker 1>after that Game one lost to the Celtics. The Bucks

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<v Speaker 1>didn't lose, No Mo. Now here's the thing. During the

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<v Speaker 1>regular season, the Bucks won sixty games, sixty games, number

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<v Speaker 1>one seed in the East. The Greek freak Gianni's last

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<v Speaker 1>name I can't pronounces, an MVP candidate, one of the

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<v Speaker 1>most unstoppable players in the league. They have another All

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<v Speaker 1>Star in Chris Middleton. They got Eric Bletsobrook Lopez. The

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<v Speaker 1>Bucks have six players, six players averaging double figures in

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<v Speaker 1>points for the regular season. I'm saying all that to

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<v Speaker 1>say they got a squad, squad, all right, a team team.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no reason to say in a seven game series

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<v Speaker 1>after Game one that this team in particular was done

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<v Speaker 1>all right. I love Milwaukee. Slut to everyone who listens

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<v Speaker 1>to us on one hundred point seven jams in Milwaukee.

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<v Speaker 1>I think everyone in Milwaukee who can hear my voice

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<v Speaker 1>needs to go to act. Paul piss thirty four on

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<v Speaker 1>Twitter and leave nothing but dear emojis in his comments

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<v Speaker 1>because he was loud and wrong, not once, but twice.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Paul doubled and tripled down. Now and now, Paul

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<v Speaker 1>could have been drunk when he initially said after game

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<v Speaker 1>one it was over, but he doubled down on the

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<v Speaker 1>jump on the ESPN and he seemed to be sober. Here.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's listen. I mean they may win a game, maybe two,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'll just look at a talent disparity on these

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<v Speaker 1>two balls. See, it's so easy, kind of. It's easier

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<v Speaker 1>to scout the Bucks than it as the Celtics. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>the driving force for the Bucks. Of course, you know

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<v Speaker 1>Celtics have a drive force of Kyrie, but they have

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<v Speaker 1>so many other guys that can step up. Now you

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<v Speaker 1>slowed down Greek freak and you took him away for

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<v Speaker 1>the most part, and they lose my Twitter. Some donkey

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<v Speaker 1>to days just sell themselves. Please give Paul Piss the

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<v Speaker 1>sweet sounds of the Hamletones. Oh now you are the

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<v Speaker 1>doge the day, the dogee, Oh the day yee. Everybody

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<v Speaker 1>in Milwaukee, please go have a pity party. And Paul

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<v Speaker 1>pisss mentions his Twitter is Paul Piss thirty four. Leave

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<v Speaker 1>nothing but dear emojis all in his comments all day long. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>have a bless day, Paul Piers. All right, that's the

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<v Speaker 1>donkey of the day. Now up next is ask Ye

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<v Speaker 1>eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. If

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<v Speaker 1>you need advice, relationship advice, or any type of advice,

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<v Speaker 1>you can call Ye now. The phone line to wide open.

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<v Speaker 1>The number again is eight hundred five eight five one

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<v Speaker 1>oh five one. Hit us up right now. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club. Come morning, the Breakfast Club. Morning. Everybody is

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<v Speaker 1>tej Envy, Angela, Yee, Charlomagne, the guy. We all the

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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club. It is time to ask Ye Hello. Who's this?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah Hardy, oh Hey, Coma style stalloy Bean. I'm the

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<v Speaker 1>all biggest fan though. Uh, what's your question? Though? For Angela? Ye,

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<v Speaker 1>stop at Envy. That's terrible. Let's go what's the guy? Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>I got my baby mama. She keeps dming me. She

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't have your phone number? She do, but I guess

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<v Speaker 1>she's just like a messenger and uh, you usually don't

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<v Speaker 1>even pence me out the blue light that but y'all

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<v Speaker 1>was like, what are you doing? And then she'll coming short.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what she wants. To be honest, I

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<v Speaker 1>give him money and I'll take care of her. But

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if she's jealous, she's trying to get

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<v Speaker 1>back with me. What do you want her? Hay me?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I want everything, but to be honest, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't see it with her. That's why I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really reply her back like that. Okay, So then it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't it doesn't matter what she wants. What matters is

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<v Speaker 1>what you want. I mean. So if you don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be with her, don't be with her, don't matter.

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<v Speaker 1>And she wants to be with you or you don't

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<v Speaker 1>can't figure out what's her motives? That none of that matters.

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<v Speaker 1>If that's not who you want to be with, all right, well,

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<v Speaker 1>can just shout out my instagram is the mego underscore?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, every team and sliding him DMS. He'll

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<v Speaker 1>answer him. I've seen that drink Champs yesterday. I love

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<v Speaker 1>me some YouTube probably like three years ago. Your nammy

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<v Speaker 1>was on there talking about some meeting Booty. Oh yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and we even talking about eating Booty. Y'all kill me, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I love the Breakfast Club. I mean I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes y'all throw shade at me, at you. We don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know you. You might on Twitter. Man, shut up, Okay, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you. That's a little shade. It's the audacity of man.

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<v Speaker 1>Why you throwing shade at him? All right, take care,

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<v Speaker 1>go ask ye eight hundred five eighty five one or

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<v Speaker 1>five one if you need relationship advice. Hit and now

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<v Speaker 1>it was the breakfast club, Good morning morning. Everybody is

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<v Speaker 1>DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the

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<v Speaker 1>breakfast club now ye with the middle of as you

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<v Speaker 1>want to go to, let's do Mikita online nine Mkita,

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<v Speaker 1>good morning. Hey, how y'all, I'm good? So hey anxiety okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so mean I wanted to as um So, I pretty

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<v Speaker 1>much I was in a relationship and then I got pregnant,

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<v Speaker 1>and when I got pregnant, as I had my baby,

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<v Speaker 1>everything pretty much shoo went left. Like I was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of being like a little abused, And what's a little abused?

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<v Speaker 1>Um So? I have been like kids before in my face,

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<v Speaker 1>but only like once we getting in like a real

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<v Speaker 1>strong argument and he just don't know how to control

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<v Speaker 1>his temper. Okay, But if Makita, don't downplay what happened

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Weren't a little abuse, you were abused, right, Okay, Makita,

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<v Speaker 1>I have a door man. I don't want to take

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<v Speaker 1>my daughter out of his life. When I went over

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<v Speaker 1>his house to think my daughter up and he had

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<v Speaker 1>a girl there and it made me feel like YA

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<v Speaker 1>wanted him best. So I kind of tried, but it

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<v Speaker 1>would feel negatives and just negative energy. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be positive and right and feel loves doing everything.

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<v Speaker 1>And I guess it's like one am I posed whether

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<v Speaker 1>I do now? Like how like your over these feelings

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<v Speaker 1>or Nikita baby? Listen, First of all, it's okay for

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<v Speaker 1>you to have these feelings. It's okay that you were

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<v Speaker 1>jealous that he had another woman at the house. It's

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<v Speaker 1>okay that you feel a way better to You're a

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<v Speaker 1>human being, and that's fine. But I would say you

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<v Speaker 1>should be thankful that you are not with this man anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>And I would say run and keep it moving. And

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<v Speaker 1>just because y'all not together doesn't mean he can't be

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<v Speaker 1>a father and that he's not going to be in

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<v Speaker 1>your daughter's life. He can still do those things, but

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to raise your daughter around somebody that's

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<v Speaker 1>abusive to you that you're making excuses for that. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that right now you should be so happy that

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<v Speaker 1>you're not with him anymore, and that the I know

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<v Speaker 1>that it takes a long time, because only time can

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<v Speaker 1>heal those wounds that you're feeling. But it's okay for

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<v Speaker 1>you to mourn the death of a relationship. It's over.

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<v Speaker 1>And then what if, like I don't I'd be telling

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<v Speaker 1>him like I don't want him, I don't want my

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<v Speaker 1>child around I'll certainly people that he have around him

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<v Speaker 1>because they just are enemy to me or just so

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<v Speaker 1>like me or whatever. And he feels feel like, pretty

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<v Speaker 1>much just forget what I say, like there's no respect.

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<v Speaker 1>So here's the thing. Do you feel like your daughter's

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<v Speaker 1>in harm and harm's way? Okay, so it's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like this is an emotional experience where you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want your child around people who you don't like,

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<v Speaker 1>and you want him to respect that. But that's a

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<v Speaker 1>hard thing for you doing force. And if you feel

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<v Speaker 1>like your daughter is safe and she's okay, and that

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<v Speaker 1>he's doing a good job as a father, you yourself

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<v Speaker 1>are gonna have to deal with those because you can't

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<v Speaker 1>really tell him who to be around and all those things.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a different question if it's a safety issue.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you feel like your daughter is safe and

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<v Speaker 1>being treated well, that's the top priority. Okay, well, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>He definitely helped me clear my mind. Then, just know

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<v Speaker 1>which way to go, mckitta. I can't wait till you

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<v Speaker 1>find somebody who loves you and values you the way

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<v Speaker 1>that you deserve to be valued in your relationship. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think that sometimes certain things are a blessing. Like

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<v Speaker 1>anytime you think I want him back, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>get back with him, just remember how abusive he was,

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<v Speaker 1>and remember that he has other girls that he's dealing with.

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<v Speaker 1>And don't go back and backside, because it's gonna take

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<v Speaker 1>you even longer to get out of that hole. You

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<v Speaker 1>halfway out of it now, keep going, Okay, thank you, Okay, mckitta,

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<v Speaker 1>We love you, Love y'all too. Thank y'all listening to

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<v Speaker 1>y'all every morning. So all right, thank you. Sorry, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go to another line. Hello, who's this from Regina?

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? Bro? What's your question for you? I'm about

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<v Speaker 1>to go to jail and do for us, you know

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<v Speaker 1>my jailstention to work with you. Whatever, But we had

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<v Speaker 1>infidelities before, caught her texting people and stuff. She said,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever did, but I own I don't know if I

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<v Speaker 1>should clear a mind or you know, just try to

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<v Speaker 1>hold it down with her. What you think, um, being

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<v Speaker 1>that she's already had infidelity issues while you were home

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<v Speaker 1>and not locked up, and you've caught her texting and

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<v Speaker 1>doing other things. I always say, I wouldn't want you

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<v Speaker 1>to be stressed out in jail thinking that your girl

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<v Speaker 1>is going to hold you down, Right, That's what I

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<v Speaker 1>was saying too. That's one of the same things. You

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<v Speaker 1>know great as she does. But you have to be

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<v Speaker 1>realistic with yourself. You know you are about to go away.

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<v Speaker 1>You're going to be gone for three years. She's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have a lot of freedom. And imagine every day you're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to call her wondering what she's doing. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>you might have to just in reality all they say, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna just give her this pass in my mind

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<v Speaker 1>and know that whatever might be happening might happen, and

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<v Speaker 1>I have to be prepared for the fact that she's

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna do this bed with me, or you have

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<v Speaker 1>to just let her know. Look, I don't even expect

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<v Speaker 1>you to do that. Yeah, true, true, I guess I

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<v Speaker 1>might just break it off. I appreciate you, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>no problem, Good luck to you in jail. Trying to

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<v Speaker 1>keep it real. Yeah, right, that you need a little

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<v Speaker 1>more than lucking gee. All right, ask eight hundred five

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<v Speaker 1>eight five one or five one. Now you got rumors

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<v Speaker 1>all the way. Yes, let's talk about Steve Harvey. People

1:14:13.240 --> 1:14:15.599
<v Speaker 1>are upset over these comments that he made about rich

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<v Speaker 1>people don't sleep. We'll tell you what he said. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll get into that next. Keep a lock. This to

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<v Speaker 1>Breakfast Club. Good morning, she's spilling the team. This is

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<v Speaker 1>the rumor offor with Angela Yee on the Breakfast Club. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>people were upset about some comments that Steve Harvey made.

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<v Speaker 1>Now he was talking about rich people and what their

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<v Speaker 1>habits are. Here's what he said. Success is not a

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable procedure. So you gotta get comfortable being uncomfortable if

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<v Speaker 1>you ever want to be successful. All of you have

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<v Speaker 1>extraordinary capabilities. You have to decide if you're willing to

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<v Speaker 1>do the things to put you in that category. Rich

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<v Speaker 1>people don't sleep eight hours a day. That's a third

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<v Speaker 1>of your life. It ain't twenty four hours in a day.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't live in that la and wake up at

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<v Speaker 1>eight o'clock in the morning. It's eleven o'clock on the

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<v Speaker 1>East coast. The stock mark had been open two hours.

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<v Speaker 1>They already making decisions about your life, and your ass

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<v Speaker 1>was sleep. I actually think it's the opposite. I think

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<v Speaker 1>when you get to a certain position in life, you

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<v Speaker 1>sleep more because you know you have to in order

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<v Speaker 1>to maintain what you built. And I think sleep is

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<v Speaker 1>such an important part of self care, Like regular sleep

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<v Speaker 1>is very important. Like now during the week, I rarely

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<v Speaker 1>get eight hours of sleep a night, but I attempt to. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think what he said, lie, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>why people are upset. He's absolutely positible. You know. He's

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<v Speaker 1>saying that, Richard on sleep eight hours a day, like

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<v Speaker 1>that means you're irresponsible and not trying to get it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if you sleep eight hours a day, but

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<v Speaker 1>I take it as the grind, Like you know, when

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<v Speaker 1>we all had our journey here, I know I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>sleep eight hours a day of my journey here. Now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm starting to get to sleep a position, but I

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<v Speaker 1>definitely didn't about your life and your ass was sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>In other words, he's trying to say, the less sleep

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<v Speaker 1>you get, the more successful you are, because you should

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<v Speaker 1>not be sleep because you'll miss something that's going on. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're all death. We're all lying on ourselves if we

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<v Speaker 1>say that. That's why I said, I think it's the opposite,

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<v Speaker 1>because on the grind, on the journey, you ain't get

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<v Speaker 1>no sleep. I think the main thing, I think it

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<v Speaker 1>was irresponsible because you should encourage people to get more

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<v Speaker 1>sleep and don't make me feel like, well, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>successful because I sleep eight hours a night. I think

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<v Speaker 1>I think he was speaking the truth to I think

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<v Speaker 1>run this is what he did. You know he lived

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<v Speaker 1>in the cause, he drove call the call call. I

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna say, cause show comedy club to comedy club.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't get much sleep. I know I didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>much sleep. And in no disrespect, but a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>the DJs that got a lot of sleep, they still

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<v Speaker 1>back home with their move. If that's the truth. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but people die from sleep, and people die from sleep deprivation.

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<v Speaker 1>They suffer more from obesity. There's a lot of diseases

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<v Speaker 1>that are linked to sleep deprivations. They've proven asleep is

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<v Speaker 1>more important than probably anything right it comes to your health.

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<v Speaker 1>I absolutely agree. I think that you should get as

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<v Speaker 1>much sleep as possible. But we're lying to ourselves if

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<v Speaker 1>we say that our culture did not fuel a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of that. Now. I said a long time ago, I

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<v Speaker 1>never sleep because sleep is becausein of death. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>twenty five years to think about team no sleep. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, Like all of these like if

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<v Speaker 1>you sleep, sleep when you die, hustles don't sleep like

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<v Speaker 1>it's been a lot of negative stigma. Let's be let's

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<v Speaker 1>be responsible about what we say and not to the

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<v Speaker 1>people that you're not rich if you sleep eight hours

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<v Speaker 1>a day, I should encourage you should encourage people to

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<v Speaker 1>try to get eight hours to sleep. I even wish

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<v Speaker 1>I could, amazing. That's not how I got to this

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<v Speaker 1>spot by sleep. And I'm not gonna sit here and live.

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<v Speaker 1>I grinded my assholes so I can sleep now. But

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<v Speaker 1>I grunted. There was times I slept a pay, I

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<v Speaker 1>took naps, two hour naps, and I worked my asshole.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's because you weren't rich, right, I wasn't. But

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<v Speaker 1>that's why he says rich people don't sleep. It ours

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<v Speaker 1>the day you didn't say. People trying to be rich,

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<v Speaker 1>you ever got a little grind and you sleep? No.

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<v Speaker 1>But there was one time there was I had a

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<v Speaker 1>better pain. There was some blood on it and I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't figure out how where that blood came from anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>That's crazy. Just think about just think about people who

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<v Speaker 1>have to work multiple jobs, who have kids to take

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<v Speaker 1>care of and can't sleep eight hours a day. What

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<v Speaker 1>he should have did. He shouldn't have generalized. You shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have said rich people. He should have said me, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. He shouldn't have generalized. That's what

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<v Speaker 1>he should have did. Okay, so now let's talk about

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<v Speaker 1>Little Wayne. According to reports here and Cortest, his long

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<v Speaker 1>time manager, have part ways. Really yes, they said, he

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<v Speaker 1>reportedly parted ways with him prior to the release of

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<v Speaker 1>the car to five back in September, even though their

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<v Speaker 1>childhood friends and everything they said, the reason and motivation

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<v Speaker 1>was allegedly supposedly agreed. They said that Quartez is the

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<v Speaker 1>one that convinced him to fire his longtime lawyer, Ron

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<v Speaker 1>Sweeney due to the belief that his company was attempting

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<v Speaker 1>to collect more of Jake's royalties than he was owed.

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<v Speaker 1>And after that, they said, Quartz conspired with Mac to

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<v Speaker 1>drive a wedge between Little Wayne and Sweeney by making

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<v Speaker 1>false and misleading statements. So I don't know what's going

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<v Speaker 1>on over there in that camp. But I didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>know that happened. That quez All right, Now, let's talk

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<v Speaker 1>about that guy we told you about that's on Jeopardy.

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<v Speaker 1>He's the second longest running champion. He still yes, he

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<v Speaker 1>has over twenty two consecutive wins. Goodness, and he revealed

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<v Speaker 1>that he had dreams of working in an MLB front

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<v Speaker 1>office when he was young. He made that known last

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<v Speaker 1>week and now teams are showing interest in him. Oakland,

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<v Speaker 1>A's executive vice president of baseball operations said, my first

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<v Speaker 1>ut when I saw him once, we half to get

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<v Speaker 1>this guy in baseball. The Red Sox president and CEO

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<v Speaker 1>said absolutely, yes. We put a huge premium on analytical abilities,

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<v Speaker 1>both on the baseball side and business side, without question,

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<v Speaker 1>when we interview young professionals coming out of college, that

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<v Speaker 1>skill set is hugely important. So it looks like he

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<v Speaker 1>might have a job twenty two and he's not cheating. No, wow,

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<v Speaker 1>congratulations to him and that's amazing. All right. Now, Charlottagne

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<v Speaker 1>did a conversation from a schoolboy Q. It's called crash Talk,

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation with Leonard and it's on YouTube. The conversation

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<v Speaker 1>with Leonard see the God McKelvie. I like just Leonard

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<v Speaker 1>sounds good. I like Leonard too. But here is what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>In that interview. They did discuss Mac Miller. So this day,

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't I don't understand how I can't call

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<v Speaker 1>me no more like innocent. So like losing a friend

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<v Speaker 1>to game banging is way different from losing a friend

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<v Speaker 1>that's like an innocent little like little kid that's just

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<v Speaker 1>super pure. Like you remember your last conversation with Yeah bros.

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<v Speaker 1>Over face. He was shooting a video and and he

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<v Speaker 1>was talking and he was acting weird, and I'm just like,

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<v Speaker 1>it's up with you, bro? Like he like, uh, people like,

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<v Speaker 1>who do I gotta call to make sure I can

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<v Speaker 1>get you in this video? Do you mean you ain't

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<v Speaker 1>gonna call nobody? All right? So you can see that

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing on YouTube. I think it's like thirty something minutes,

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<v Speaker 1>thirty nine minutes, and we ain't played the part when

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<v Speaker 1>he cried that was you know, I like it. I

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<v Speaker 1>like when brothers cried. You know what I'm saying. I

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<v Speaker 1>think we need to do more of that. You can

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<v Speaker 1>watch the hole anybody didn't break down talking about Mac Miller.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, now let's talk about Diddy. He did a

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<v Speaker 1>recent Essence May issue cover story. You know, Mother's Day

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<v Speaker 1>is coming up, and now didd he is both mom

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<v Speaker 1>and dad to his three of his children, and he

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<v Speaker 1>had a very raw and unedited conversation with writer Dream

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<v Speaker 1>Hampton where he discusses black mothers and how important they

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<v Speaker 1>are in our lives. His Mother's Day is gonna hurt.

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<v Speaker 1>He's definitely gonna celebrate, you know, all the mothers. You're not.

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<v Speaker 1>We're not gonna get in the way of that. But honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>anybody that's lost the mother, lost the soul mate. It

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<v Speaker 1>takes time. It takes time, you know. I don't you

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<v Speaker 1>know they say time hills all wounds when it comes

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<v Speaker 1>to your mother mothers. I don't think that's the chase. No.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think we have the strongest being. Like

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<v Speaker 1>if it comes to like a category or who's the

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<v Speaker 1>strongest beings or the stay for the earth, it would

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<v Speaker 1>have to be black mother. I don't think anybody can

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<v Speaker 1>ever understand how you know to be a black mother

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<v Speaker 1>as a man tis or how our hearts speaks and

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<v Speaker 1>our lips can't describe how much we've been hurting. As

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<v Speaker 1>my therapist says, it's okay to feel. There's no blueprint

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<v Speaker 1>for pain, no manual book for trauma. You have to

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<v Speaker 1>allow yourself to feel, and that's the first step to healing.

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<v Speaker 1>And I do agree to They say time hills all wounds.

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<v Speaker 1>With situations like that, it may hurt less, but I

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<v Speaker 1>think it will always hurt and that is that's perfectly fine.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, I mane yea, and that is your

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<v Speaker 1>rumor report, right, thank you, miss ye revote. We'll see

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<v Speaker 1>you guys tomorrow. Everybody else to People's Choice mixes up Next,

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<v Speaker 1>don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Go Morning Morning. Everybody

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<v Speaker 1>is DJ Envy Angela yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are

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<v Speaker 1>the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest in the building, yep,

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<v Speaker 1>author David back who. Thank you for having met the author.

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<v Speaker 1>He's one of the most trusted financial experts in the world. Correct, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and a best selling financial author. You have a new

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<v Speaker 1>book called The Latte Factor. I'm super grateful to have them.

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<v Speaker 1>Beyond the showman, thank you. We'll talk to us about

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<v Speaker 1>the Latte Factor. What are the comparisons between finances and latte? Yeah, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>because here's the deal. They four to ten Americans right

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<v Speaker 1>now cannot get their hands on one hundred dollars in

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<v Speaker 1>case of emergency. Jesus, take that four out of ten.

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<v Speaker 1>That's better than herpes. Herpy's only one in three. Jesus

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<v Speaker 1>take that in for a second. Wait, six out of

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<v Speaker 1>ten Americans can't get their hands on a thousand dollars

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<v Speaker 1>in case of emergency purposes. So seven out of ten

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<v Speaker 1>Americans living paycheck to paycheck. And what I've been teaching

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<v Speaker 1>now for almost total twenty six years is that we

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<v Speaker 1>got to break this. The way you break it, the

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<v Speaker 1>way you stop living paycheck to paycheck, is you realize

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<v Speaker 1>the small amounts of money can change your life. So

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<v Speaker 1>I created this concept called the latte factor, which is

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<v Speaker 1>the idea that if staid of wasting five bucks a

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<v Speaker 1>day on a latte, you took that five dollars a day,

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<v Speaker 1>you put it inside your retirement account, you paid yourself first,

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<v Speaker 1>you could become a millionaire. So so here's what you need,

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<v Speaker 1>some bag. But we got this, We got this little story,

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<v Speaker 1>we got this metaphor in here, and got chart right,

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<v Speaker 1>and a little simple chart shows you that by the

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<v Speaker 1>way it takes a lifetime. Here it takes you starting

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<v Speaker 1>your twenties five dollars a day. By the time forty

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<v Speaker 1>years later at ten percent interest, it's worth nine hundred

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<v Speaker 1>and forty eight thousand dollars. Okay, now someone, yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>that's starting in your twenties. Right now, there's a chart

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<v Speaker 1>on page one thirty four shows somebody saving more than

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<v Speaker 1>five dollars a day. Okay, three hundred bucks a month. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you're twenty five, you saved three hundred bucks a month.

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<v Speaker 1>By the time you reach retirement, you got one million,

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<v Speaker 1>nine hundred and thirteen thousand dollars. Now here's the problem, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Most people do not start saving at twenty five. They

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<v Speaker 1>start saving, they start they start thinking about it at

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<v Speaker 1>thirty five. Do not wait to start saving money. My

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<v Speaker 1>grandmother helped me buy my first stock at age seven. Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>But you can only teach what you know. So a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of these parents you can't teach finances because they

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<v Speaker 1>don't know finances. This though, you are absolutely right, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here to say to any parent listening right now,

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<v Speaker 1>this is my thirteenth book. This is the easiest book

1:24:34.160 --> 1:24:36.559
<v Speaker 1>I've ever written. And I'm out here watching the videos

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<v Speaker 1>of all the amazing, incredible artists who have come through here,

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<v Speaker 1>and a lot of them are wearing six figures in

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<v Speaker 1>jewelry around their neck. When you start seeing somebody wearing

1:24:46.479 --> 1:24:48.960
<v Speaker 1>six figures in jewelry on their neck and they don't

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<v Speaker 1>have a six figure net worth, someone's wrong. I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>The first thing you focus on if you're listening right

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<v Speaker 1>now and you don't have any savings, is focus I'm

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<v Speaker 1>getting a thousand dollars in savings. Take the take. I

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<v Speaker 1>caught thee hundred day challenge, Save ten dollars a day

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<v Speaker 1>for one hundred days. You're now wealth here the six

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<v Speaker 1>out of ten people America. But what about people that

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<v Speaker 1>would say, you know, that sounds great, but what else

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<v Speaker 1>can I do that's going to be more aggressive? I got,

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<v Speaker 1>I got. I'm gonna drop a truth on you right now.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to go and try and get rich overnight,

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<v Speaker 1>you will stay poor forever. You do not get rich

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<v Speaker 1>in days, you get rich in decades. Yeah. But see,

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<v Speaker 1>lottos are really just a tax on people that are

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<v Speaker 1>like praying and hoping, right Like, that's not a real

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<v Speaker 1>way to go and get rich. It's a tax on

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<v Speaker 1>your hope. It's a TAXI own optimism. I used to

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<v Speaker 1>say it's a tax on stupid people. But I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want everybody coming out with a gun on me. So

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<v Speaker 1>so so here's the thing. Lot we have people putting

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<v Speaker 1>more money in the lottery tickets than retirement accounts. Right. So,

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<v Speaker 1>if you've got a job today, here's what I want

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<v Speaker 1>you to do. You have to pay yourself first. You

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<v Speaker 1>have to get financially selfish. The formula to financial freedom

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<v Speaker 1>for life is saving one hour day of your income.

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<v Speaker 1>Whether you make minimum wageer you make more the average

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<v Speaker 1>Americans making about twenty seven dollars an hour right now,

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<v Speaker 1>one hour a day of your income paid automatically into

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<v Speaker 1>a retirement account. You can be financially free for life.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you elaborate on a statement you're richer than you think.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to learn to think like an investor. There's

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<v Speaker 1>two things that make people in America wealthy. They are

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<v Speaker 1>real estate and stocks. If you don't own real estate

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<v Speaker 1>and you don't own stocks, you don't get into one

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<v Speaker 1>of these two games or both, you're not on the

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<v Speaker 1>escalator to building well. These are the things that make

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<v Speaker 1>people wealthier. When you own real estate. The tax laws

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<v Speaker 1>favor the rich, you can buy it. This is what

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<v Speaker 1>people don't realize. You can buy a home, live in

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<v Speaker 1>it for two years, sell it, and if you're single,

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<v Speaker 1>you can keep a quarter of a million dollars in

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<v Speaker 1>tax free gains. Okay, quote a million dollar tax free. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the only game in town where the government doesn't tax.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, one reason because the government wants you to

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<v Speaker 1>have homeowner, want you to own a home. Right. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>here's the truth. When you look at why is it

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<v Speaker 1>that wealth goes from one generation to the next or doesn't.

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<v Speaker 1>It's real estate. So homeowners are four six times wealthier

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<v Speaker 1>than renters. So some of the smartest investments for people

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<v Speaker 1>with new money to make our real estate and stop. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and the simplest thing is to start with your four

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<v Speaker 1>one K plan or your IRA account and just start saving,

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<v Speaker 1>start investing and get yourself. You know, you start some

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<v Speaker 1>of the simples and index fund. You got a chapter

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<v Speaker 1>in your book called don't budget and make it automatic?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you expand on that police. Yeah, so we're all

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<v Speaker 1>taught to budget. Nobody really does it in the real world.

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<v Speaker 1>People hate it. So when I teach, is this the

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<v Speaker 1>way you build wealth for anything? Retirement buying a car,

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<v Speaker 1>going on a dream vocation. Saving money for kids who

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<v Speaker 1>are going to go to college is you save automatically.

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<v Speaker 1>Money's got to get moved automatically from your paycheck, from

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<v Speaker 1>your income into these different savings accounts, or you won't

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<v Speaker 1>do it. If you want to know the true formula

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<v Speaker 1>to being able to retire in your fifties, it is

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<v Speaker 1>to save. I can give you the exact number right now.

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<v Speaker 1>It's fourteen percent of your gross income. Okay, but but

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<v Speaker 1>it's fourty percent of gross income. How do I know

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<v Speaker 1>these numbers because Fidelity Investments run is the largest foreign

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<v Speaker 1>K plan, and I think in the world. They have

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<v Speaker 1>sixteen million people in the US and their foreign K

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<v Speaker 1>plan represents twenty thousand companies. They track the amount of

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<v Speaker 1>people will become millionaires using their foreign K plan, and

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<v Speaker 1>they've saved fourteen percent of their income for thirty years.

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<v Speaker 1>By the time they reach an average age of fifty nine,

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<v Speaker 1>they're a four one K millionaire. So the only way

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to have money in this country is if

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<v Speaker 1>you take care of yourself. No one's coming to save us. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>you address one of the large shifts about money in

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<v Speaker 1>the law. Take fact and it takes money to make money.

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<v Speaker 1>Why that's such a misconception because if you, first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>if you believe you've got to have a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>money to start investing, he'll never started. You're defeated already.

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<v Speaker 1>You're defeated already. It is a poor mental mindset. And

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<v Speaker 1>so I'll go back to my grandmother. My grandmother was

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<v Speaker 1>broke at thirty and didn't have a college education, lived

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<v Speaker 1>in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, and had a job in retail, a

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<v Speaker 1>place called Gimbal's Department store. She said, I was always

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<v Speaker 1>getting my financial advice from my friends, and they were

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<v Speaker 1>all poor. She said, don't get your financial advice from

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<v Speaker 1>poor people. There you go. So she went out and

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<v Speaker 1>started taking classes at adult schools on investing. She found

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<v Speaker 1>somebody who was a millionaire. Didn't know the person well,

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<v Speaker 1>but knew the person enough to say, I know you're

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<v Speaker 1>well off financially, and I'm trying to learn how to

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<v Speaker 1>become wealthier. Would you teach me? She actually asked for

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<v Speaker 1>a mentor, and she learned over her lifetime what to do,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, and then pass the lessons on to

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<v Speaker 1>our family. A lot of times, what happens once you

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<v Speaker 1>have money is you don't actually care them if you

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<v Speaker 1>look rich, because you don't care what any of else thinks.

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<v Speaker 1>The weirdest thing is that when we're not rich, we

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<v Speaker 1>care what people. Once we are rich, we don't give it.

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<v Speaker 1>You say, big hat, no cat, big cattleig hat, no cattle.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a Texas phrase because that's right, get the big hat.

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<v Speaker 1>But you got no cattle, no big polk, no scroke.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you got a big camp? All right? Dad? Backs,

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate you for joining us. Back up his book The

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<v Speaker 1>Latta Factor now, and thank you so much. Man, you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for having me on your as. I appreciate you.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how we got the penises. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the breakfast club. Good morning,