Speaker 1: This is your weekop Hall to Breakfast Club to show
Speaker 1: you love to hate from the East to the West,
Speaker 1: Coat d J M. Angela, Ye, Charlomagne, The Rulers show
Speaker 1: on the planet. This is where I respect this show
Speaker 1: because this is a voice of society. James in the game.
Speaker 1: Guys are the coveted morning show. What y'all earn? Exacting
Speaker 1: the coach up in the morning and day. Want to
Speaker 1: hear that Breathfast School, the World's most dangerous morning show.
Speaker 1: Good Morning, Usa, Hey damn, good morning, Good morning Angela. Yee,
Speaker 1: it's Thursday. Who Today is ghost Face Killer's birthday. Happy birthday,
Speaker 1: ghost Faced Birthday to ghost Face Now, um, shout out
Speaker 1: to I know my kids going to school right now.
Speaker 1: Shout out to my kids and my family. Every couple
Speaker 1: of months we have like a big family meeting and
Speaker 1: that's when everybody you know, jumps up in my bed
Speaker 1: and we get a chance to really have a conversation
Speaker 1: about how we feel about everybody else. And sometimes it's
Speaker 1: good and sometimes it's bad. Sometimes somebody gets attacked, sometimes
Speaker 1: it's I get attacked, no way, yeah or absolutely. So
Speaker 1: you know, we talked about so logan you know tells
Speaker 1: his sister, how he feels, what he likes, what he
Speaker 1: doesn't like. They tell me what they feel, what they like,
Speaker 1: what they don't like, or in you know, in vice versus.
Speaker 1: So it's a really good conversation. I mean it gets
Speaker 1: nasty at times. Um. You know, my problems with my
Speaker 1: son was, you know, he's a boy, so he doesn't
Speaker 1: like to turn off the lights. And it's funny. As
Speaker 1: a kid, I never turned up the lights and I
Speaker 1: really didn't understand it until I started to pay the
Speaker 1: bills and I'm like, everybody lights off, you know, so
Speaker 1: him picking up behind himself. Uh, it's just a lot
Speaker 1: the way they treat this, the younger siblings. It was
Speaker 1: just it was just a lot they got at me.
Speaker 1: Of course, Dad, you sleep too much or you dude
Speaker 1: was taking nap and then when you sleep, you pastcast
Speaker 1: And I'm like, what do they know? That's what I said.
Speaker 1: I said, I do all the time with the new problem,
Speaker 1: sleep up. So it was a lot of cool than
Speaker 1: you know. My son was like, you know, it's you know,
Speaker 1: you know, a little family, but we don't have we
Speaker 1: don't have bro to um like me and you just
Speaker 1: don't hang out. But there's things that you don't really
Speaker 1: say with somebody who fights all the time. Shut up.
Speaker 1: So it was pretty It was pretty cool. And then
Speaker 1: I went to the gym. A friend of mine opened
Speaker 1: up a new gym. You didn't fight, No, I did not.
Speaker 1: Man in the gym. That's so rude, running breathing, heavy smell. Listen.
Speaker 1: I would like you to hire me for your juice press.
Speaker 1: And you shot a lot too. I don't shot anymore,
Speaker 1: and I would I want you to hire me for
Speaker 1: your juice press business. Because when I was at the gym,
Speaker 1: I said, look, I understand that you don't have you know,
Speaker 1: a juice, any juices in here. I said, I know
Speaker 1: the right person that can get the juices in here.
Speaker 1: The juices could survive three to five days. You all
Speaker 1: you have to do is put in three weeks. I
Speaker 1: mean I'm two months. Oh I didn't. I don't know
Speaker 1: that I'm bad salesperson. But I said, three to five days.
Speaker 1: You can order it every five days. It's fresh, it
Speaker 1: tastes good. You know, all the people that's working Indie
Speaker 1: gym would really love it. It's organic, no sugar, added,
Speaker 1: I said, and it tastes He was like, bet let's
Speaker 1: do it. I said yes. He said how much is it?
Speaker 1: I said, I don't know. I'm trying to down. You
Speaker 1: know what's crazy. I was at this amazing event yesterday
Speaker 1: called Blogger. It's women and their bloggers and their food bloggers.
Speaker 1: It's their food portion. They do a beauty one also,
Speaker 1: and so I spoke at it and we were actually
Speaker 1: sampling the drink Fresh Juice there and it was a
Speaker 1: very successful situation. It was really nice. There was over
Speaker 1: three hundred women there that are all food bloggers and
Speaker 1: in that industry, and they absolutely love the juice. So
Speaker 1: I thought it was an amazing event for me to
Speaker 1: go to and speak at. This is all a new
Speaker 1: world to me, like going to these food events and
Speaker 1: things like that. But I just wanted to say that
Speaker 1: I appreciate everybody that was out there that shows some support.
Speaker 1: And I got to meet this other woman there. She
Speaker 1: makes my favorite hot sauces called Queen Majesty Hot Sauce.
Speaker 1: So she came up to me to say hello because
Speaker 1: she knows my brother, and I was like, wait, I
Speaker 1: ordered your stuff from Whole Foods all the time, so
Speaker 1: now I got a Queen Majesty clug. We adn't go
Speaker 1: back to how much percentage, like if it's selling your juice, now,
Speaker 1: that's what I got you. Okay, let's just say you
Speaker 1: know how we say that I got you? No, you
Speaker 1: got me? That means I'm getting pay damn it. Man.
Speaker 1: As I was driving and I was listening to the
Speaker 1: news and they were telling me that if you told
Speaker 1: you personally now, I was listening and they were saying
Speaker 1: that if you compliment your female co worker, it's like
Speaker 1: a sign of sexual assault. It is, yeah, And I
Speaker 1: was like, dang god, y'all never compliment me. I was
Speaker 1: gonna compliment you today. But I was like, no, I
Speaker 1: don't even know sexual assu on your swetsup. Oh you
Speaker 1: like my sweatsuit? Nope, because that's sexually assault. So I
Speaker 1: can't sound like that. It's not Come on now, y'all
Speaker 1: taking this too far, That's what I said. I was like,
Speaker 1: I can't say sweat You can say I like your sweatsuit.
Speaker 1: You can't say things like I like your ass in
Speaker 1: that sweatsuit. My people have to know the difference. I'm
Speaker 1: not talking about you, but what I'm saying isn't Yes,
Speaker 1: you can give someone a compliment. Oh, I like your hair.
Speaker 1: You got your hair braided. It looks nice. That's fine.
Speaker 1: But you can't say I ain't saying none of that.
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say, too shitty. You can't talk about
Speaker 1: someone's body. You can talk about No, I'm just giving
Speaker 1: other people advice. Okay, So don't I think that you
Speaker 1: can't compliment someone sneakers? Oh, those sneakers are dope. That's
Speaker 1: not sexual assault. Come on, you know the difference, envy,
Speaker 1: You might not. I Nope, let's get the show cracking.
Speaker 1: Common will be joining us this morning. Yes, I'm sure
Speaker 1: he knows the difference. Yeah, we're kicking it with Common.
Speaker 1: We'll talk about his new book and a course from
Speaker 1: patis what we're talking about from page news. Well, we'll
Speaker 1: talk about all these guns that were seized from a house.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you saw this, but the amount
Speaker 1: of guns, more than one thousand inside of one house.
Speaker 1: I've seen that video. It's crazy. All right, we'll get
Speaker 1: into that next keeping lot. This to Breakfast Club. Good
Speaker 1: morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy.
Speaker 1: We are to Breakfast Club. Let's getting some front page news.
Speaker 1: The last thing in Sports. The Bucks eliminate the Celtics
Speaker 1: one sixteen ninety one, the Celtics to f out of here.
Speaker 1: I doubt Kyrie Irvan will be back in Boston. I
Speaker 1: don't know what Kyrie's gonna do, but I do know
Speaker 1: Paul Piss got to feel like a damn fool because
Speaker 1: after Game one, Paul Piz said, and I quote, I
Speaker 1: think it's over. I'm on in a seven game series. Live. Well,
Speaker 1: they're saying that he might be going to the Nets,
Speaker 1: he might be going to the Knicks, so we'll definitely see. Also,
Speaker 1: the Warriors beat the Rockets one on four ninety nine,
Speaker 1: but Kevin Durant got injured. They don't know what the
Speaker 1: injury is. They don't know how bad it is. They
Speaker 1: don't know how long he's gonna be out. But we'll
Speaker 1: see what happens. They they're fine. They have a guy
Speaker 1: named Steph Curry who went crazy in the four quarter
Speaker 1: yesterday and I won that game for them. Also, if
Speaker 1: I was a New York Knicks fan, I wouldn't want
Speaker 1: Kyrie Irvan. I don't want I don't want Kimball Walker.
Speaker 1: Kimba Walker's from New York. He's an option He's a
Speaker 1: very very very solid Kyrie's from Jersey, very solid twenty
Speaker 1: and ten. Guy, Kimber, don't get hurt like Kyrie. That's true.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. If you're getting, if Katie's
Speaker 1: coming here next year and y'all getting nine whims and
Speaker 1: like y'all say, y'all should want Kimball Walker the compliment.
Speaker 1: I like Kimball. Yeah, I definitely like Kimball. Now what
Speaker 1: else you're talking about? You, Well, more than one thousand
Speaker 1: guns were sizes from someone's house in la It was
Speaker 1: in Holmby Hills, that's the neighborhood in the upscale neighborhood
Speaker 1: in Los Angeles. They said there was a tip that
Speaker 1: somebody was conducting illegal firearms transactions and it was over
Speaker 1: one thousand guns that season. But there were all those
Speaker 1: guns outside on blankets. It's a ridiculous amount of guns.
Speaker 1: They said that there was one man who was arrested
Speaker 1: inside the house for that crime of selling, possessing, or
Speaker 1: transporting illegal assault weapons. They also said the owner hasn't
Speaker 1: lived there in years, and right now the owner is
Speaker 1: in Europe. They don't know if that person they arrested
Speaker 1: was a squatter or if he was allowed to be
Speaker 1: living in the home, that would have made an amazing
Speaker 1: mixtape cover, like fifteen years ago us Corney now but
Speaker 1: back fifteen years ago, amazing mixtape cover. How would they
Speaker 1: buying these guns? Did anybody know? Was it legally? Bored or?
Speaker 1: I doubted in Yeah, I don't think that that was legal.
Speaker 1: Go ahead, A lot of guns though for illegal A
Speaker 1: thousand illegal, that's a lot. Yeah, I doubt it all right.
Speaker 1: And there were two men shot outside of SLBs. That's
Speaker 1: a club in New York City. It's a pretty famous
Speaker 1: club that a lot of artists have almost right around
Speaker 1: the corner. Yeah, right in the middle of the night,
Speaker 1: one forty in the morning. Yeah, two people were shot.
Speaker 1: So one man was shot in the chest and another
Speaker 1: was shot in the thigh. They said, these victims are
Speaker 1: being somewhat uncooperative out that there. They are saying that
Speaker 1: it was a dispute and that they did know the
Speaker 1: person who shot them. That both men are in stable
Speaker 1: condition and expected to be Okay. Are you a brave
Speaker 1: man to be shooting in the middle of Tribeca soho
Speaker 1: what area? You're a brave man to be shooting in
Speaker 1: the middle of the West Village like that because when
Speaker 1: they get yours, they're gonna burn you. Yeah, they're still
Speaker 1: looking for him. And at least one person was killed
Speaker 1: and two others injured in a shooting at a bar
Speaker 1: in Fort Lauderdale, Florida that was inside the mall. It
Speaker 1: was the Blue you know, I love the Blue Martini
Speaker 1: every time I go to Florida, I love going to
Speaker 1: Blue Martini. But that's where that actually happened. One person
Speaker 1: was killed. And let's talk about that school shooting we
Speaker 1: were telling you about in Denver at the Stems School
Speaker 1: Highlands Ranch, eighteen year old Kender Castillo is a hero.
Speaker 1: According to students who were witnesses. They said the shooter
Speaker 1: came into the classroom while the class was watching The
Speaker 1: Princess Bride. It was part of a lesson they were
Speaker 1: doing on analyzing comedy. He went over and talked to
Speaker 1: the teacher, walked over to a second classroom door, opened it,
Speaker 1: and then returned to the door and closed it and
Speaker 1: they said then he pulled out a gun, told us
Speaker 1: not to move, and that's when the shooting started. Kendra Castillo,
Speaker 1: who's eighteen years old, charged at him and tried to
Speaker 1: subdue him, and that's when everybody had a chance to
Speaker 1: actually run, take cover and hide in three other students
Speaker 1: did the Russian, but unfortunately Kendra Castillo lost his life
Speaker 1: saving the lives of others. Man, God bless that young man,
Speaker 1: rest in peace. That's college of high school, high school.
Speaker 1: Why were they teaching an analyzing comedy class in high school? Um,
Speaker 1: they just learned it's the stems fool All right, well,
Speaker 1: last front more crazy? Why do you technology? Maybe I
Speaker 1: don't know analyzing comedy class? Man? All right, we'll get
Speaker 1: it off your chests five eight five one oh five one.
Speaker 1: If you're upset, you need to vent hit us up
Speaker 1: right now. Maybe had a bad night, horrible morning, or
Speaker 1: maybe you just want to spread some positivity. Eight five
Speaker 1: eight five one oh five one. Get it off your chests.
Speaker 1: It's the breakfast club. Good morning, the breakfast club, Wake up,
Speaker 1: wake You're time to get it off your chest because
Speaker 1: your man or blass. We want to hear from you
Speaker 1: on a breakfast clos Hello, who's this Ali? Hey? Ali?
Speaker 1: Get it off your chess. Mama, Good morning, dj V,
Speaker 1: Good morning, Charlotta Magne, good morning, and Julie. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: want to spress some positivities this morning. Um, I want
Speaker 1: to thank Charlottagne also for talking about anxiety and depression.
Speaker 1: I'm Puerto Rican, I'm part of the minority community. I
Speaker 1: just want to let those know who are feeling worth
Speaker 1: less of feeling less, that they are put on this
Speaker 1: earth for a purpose and they need to keep pushing.
Speaker 1: They are loved and there are people who will support
Speaker 1: them no matter what. That's right. You got to tell
Speaker 1: people that you love them, you value, value them, and
Speaker 1: then you appreciate them because you don't know what they
Speaker 1: may be going through. They may need that pick me
Speaker 1: up because tomorrow's not promised. But I love you guys.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much too. Hello, who's this straight? Get
Speaker 1: it off your chests? Bro? Hey man, I just want
Speaker 1: to say, like I worked. I worked for a delivery company, right,
Speaker 1: and people don't be tipping real maybe your services? What
Speaker 1: type of delivery like I deliver? I deliver appliances and
Speaker 1: stuff like people don't deliver like me and my man,
Speaker 1: we're the best people. I was. Who told you that?
Speaker 1: What the surveys tell us that? Because after we leave
Speaker 1: five ten minutes up to be leave, the surveys call
Speaker 1: back and they come back awesome. But they don't tip
Speaker 1: for real, So what should people tip to delivery people
Speaker 1: when they deliver that stuff? I'm just carriage when you
Speaker 1: want anything? Is okay? Five ten dollars. I'm just saying
Speaker 1: the shows appreciation. When we're walking out the door, they're
Speaker 1: giving us nineteen thousand, thank yous and you're so awesome,
Speaker 1: You're so great. What's wrong with that? But it's but
Speaker 1: it's um delivery fees included. Maybe people think that delivery
Speaker 1: fee is what they paid for, Like if you ordered
Speaker 1: an a client when you get applians, they come free. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: now they shouldn't be tipping. Now, hold on, envy, didn't
Speaker 1: a woman call up here and complain about your ass
Speaker 1: one time talking about you didn't tip after she helped
Speaker 1: you up to the car and you got her fire.
Speaker 1: You've got to change hard if you've got to change
Speaker 1: the heart. Five that was actually nine years ago, so
Speaker 1: you gotta change heart. And they didn't deliver. It was
Speaker 1: a different a different scenario. They help you walk through
Speaker 1: the car. They did not have me walk to the car.
Speaker 1: They were taking taking the shopping cars and I was
Speaker 1: there and they have helped me put one thing into
Speaker 1: the car and they wanted to tip. No, but when
Speaker 1: they do deliver things from my house, to deliver my cars,
Speaker 1: I definitely tip. Let you guys. Thank you brother, Thank
Speaker 1: you guys for answering the phone. You know we ain't
Speaker 1: got no choices our job, sir. Hey, hey, shout out
Speaker 1: to my wife's Gnita spit. I love her so much.
Speaker 1: My kid Aaron Anamar. You should tip who ride with
Speaker 1: me every day? What's something? All right? Broight? Alright? Tip
Speaker 1: your appliance delivery guys. Please don't just tell them they're
Speaker 1: doing an awesome job. You should took the garbage men,
Speaker 1: sanitation you should tip them. I never see my sanitations man,
Speaker 1: who never seen my garge? I've never seen them. They
Speaker 1: took them. The post office people you should tip, but
Speaker 1: I never go to the post off ups. You should
Speaker 1: tip all those people when they deliver your mail. Absolutely
Speaker 1: leave the giant. Never took none of those people, you just.
Speaker 1: I ain't never took my garlinge man. No, I'm never
Speaker 1: took for people. I always said I took them every
Speaker 1: year for Christmas. No, I really, I mean I really
Speaker 1: see them. I don't know. I don't think I've never
Speaker 1: seen one of them. That's consistent enough that I would say,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, that's my man. I don't I don't see
Speaker 1: them that dropped the ball. Leave all right. We put
Speaker 1: our guy bags on the curb and then sometime they
Speaker 1: pick it up while I'm at work. I'll make sure.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, get it off her chests. Five eight
Speaker 1: five one hit us up. Now, it's the breakfast club.
Speaker 1: Good morning, the breakfast club. It is your time to
Speaker 1: get it off your chests, whether you're man or bless.
Speaker 1: So if we better have the same industry, we want
Speaker 1: to hear from you on the breakfast club. Hello. Who's this?
Speaker 1: Hid morning? Good morning, good morning, get it off her chests, Mama,
Speaker 1: I'm just in a good mood. Um. I stept into
Speaker 1: twenty nineteen ilevibe, new man in my life, new job,
Speaker 1: new career. Okay, alkay, all right, big move. So I'm
Speaker 1: feeling good. Congratulations on all that. Thank you. UM. Shout
Speaker 1: out to my sister Rachel, her husband, kids, my friend Devin, UM,
Speaker 1: my ex supervisor Michelle. Why are you? Why you? Why you?
Speaker 1: Why are you saluting your ex supervisor? Why? Oh ya
Speaker 1: used to sleep with each other. I'm so nervous that
Speaker 1: I even got through. So why are you bigger or
Speaker 1: why are you picking up your ex supervisor? Because I
Speaker 1: miss her? Oh, y'all used to sleep together. Huh, y'all
Speaker 1: used to sleep together. Um, some people did sleep together
Speaker 1: there at that job, but Danner it was not, you know, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: Well she was a great person. We have a good
Speaker 1: on my whole blessed day. Hello. Who's this yo? I
Speaker 1: just wanted to say, good morning? Uh Envy? Is that you? Yes,
Speaker 1: it's me and that's right, Yes, that's me showing me there. Yes,
Speaker 1: I'm here here now yo. Good morning yo. So crazy? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's so crazy. What you've been smoking on this morning? Bro?
Speaker 1: What grade is? I don't know? Good morning, little brother?
Speaker 1: That's all want to say? Yeah? Yeah you high his
Speaker 1: hell right now? Man, weaken big? I feel you in
Speaker 1: this gracious all right? Hello? Who's this yo? DJ grumpy
Speaker 1: big chocolate, big chocolate, the toe sucker like a tornado.
Speaker 1: I got something to do for the moms. Check it out.
Speaker 1: Different voice. This is the Black Panther from the Avengers.
Speaker 1: God bless my mother and all the mothers on Mother's Day.
Speaker 1: Please bring some macaroni and cheese to a conduct for
Speaker 1: me and my lions. How do you like that? Shunam?
Speaker 1: Do you drink about that? Do you really think about that? Trash?
Speaker 1: You get audition for the what's the next movie you
Speaker 1: can audition for? Your Holy Day? Black panther? Right, yeah, absolutely,
Speaker 1: chocolate panther, big chocolate panther. There you go, baby, there
Speaker 1: you go. What you think? DJ Grumpy? I guess I'm
Speaker 1: a little grumpy this morning. Junior, Good morning, Jake, Breakfasts Club.
Speaker 1: It's Angela you Jerksten listen, he said, Lee but ahead, Junior.
Speaker 1: All right, Hey, I'm John in Florida, originally from Detroit,
Speaker 1: and I want to set a big shout out to
Speaker 1: all of my Exelon system Solutions Day Canon, Jacksonville, Florida,
Speaker 1: And I just got be listening to a commercial with
Speaker 1: the whole team talking about Mother's Day. Uh DJ Andy
Speaker 1: talking about, you know, getting flowers and everything for its mom.
Speaker 1: We love so much. Why do we have to wait
Speaker 1: till one day of the year to say, Okay, I
Speaker 1: want to express my love to one for my mother.
Speaker 1: You can do it. Yeah, we don't. Yeah, That's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like Mama might be the only person that
Speaker 1: you really do show love to. On a consistent basis.
Speaker 1: Most people definitely show their mother that they loved them often.
Speaker 1: I talked to my mom yesterday because I'm taking her
Speaker 1: on a vacation, but it's not gonna happen on her
Speaker 1: Mother's Day, and my dad said, what about me? I'm
Speaker 1: just saying, so, why one day when society says, hey,
Speaker 1: this is the thing you're supposed to show love for
Speaker 1: your mother the same thing it's Valentine's Day. When you
Speaker 1: show love to the person that you're dating or that
Speaker 1: you're with or married to, it's you know, it's the
Speaker 1: same thing. It's the same love you. I saw you
Speaker 1: on the show with your major three if like, there's
Speaker 1: my girl right there, rep Game. I was like, oh
Speaker 1: my god there ship Yeah, thanks? Now is if you're
Speaker 1: doing this all year like my wife? Hey, bro, bro Broy,
Speaker 1: I get what you're saying, but shut the hell up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: don't get you don't get your girl a mom? Now
Speaker 1: why you want to be the Grench? We stole Mother's Day.
Speaker 1: We don't show a big Valentine's Day. You know why?
Speaker 1: Who said there my Valentine's Day here? Now? I was
Speaker 1: just saying that people celebrate that and you should show
Speaker 1: the person you're with love all year round. You mean
Speaker 1: when mister Green, But there's nothing wrong with that, show
Speaker 1: love for my wife. They're not going to do it.
Speaker 1: It's a commercial holiday. If your wife is not with
Speaker 1: you Valentine's Day, she's with somebody else. Bro have a
Speaker 1: good day, mister Grench. I just said we're gonna celebrate it. Well,
Speaker 1: I'm saying my mom some flowers, I'm taking her on vacation,
Speaker 1: and I'm letting her know about it. It's just a holiday.
Speaker 1: Some people just like being extra appreciated on one day.
Speaker 1: I can't believe he hates his mom so much. All Right,
Speaker 1: we'll get it off your chest. Eight hundred five eight five,
Speaker 1: one oh five one. If you need to vent, you
Speaker 1: can hit this up at any time. Now, we got
Speaker 1: rooms on the way. Yes, let's talk about the babies here.
Speaker 1: Everyone's been talking about this. I know y'all having y'all
Speaker 1: don't care, but for some reason, everybody is very excited
Speaker 1: about this royal baby. Okay, all right, we'll get into
Speaker 1: that next. Keeping locked this to Breakfast Club. Good morning,
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. All right morning, everybody's DJ m Angelie,
Speaker 1: Ye Charlomagne, the guy we all the Breakfast Club. We
Speaker 1: say you gotta rewind it to catch it. So if
Speaker 1: you don't have to rewind button on your radio, I'm sorry. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, well let's we'll play it again for you
Speaker 1: guys here in the next hour. Yeah. Absolutely, Let's get
Speaker 1: to the rumors. Let's talk to This is the rumor
Speaker 1: Report with Angelie Breakfast Club. Yesterday, we played this triggered
Speaker 1: freestyle from Jenaiaco for you. If you need a recap,
Speaker 1: here's what we played as bish down down, I'm not
Speaker 1: trying to wild out now, all right, now, I'm care
Speaker 1: my brown. Don't go crazy because my around have to
Speaker 1: pay me and blood. This ain't the way that you,
Speaker 1: my cat, you casings. Let me catch your face to
Speaker 1: face and this bish I am my heart. It's not
Speaker 1: to it's respect you after what you man, what you expect?
Speaker 1: You know. A Jeniaco fan, Um, yeah, she cool. I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna say I'm not. I'm not a fan, but
Speaker 1: she cool because god damn, six fifty five in the morning,
Speaker 1: you're talking about the middle of the dogs, all right. Well,
Speaker 1: a lot of people were talking about it. She was
Speaker 1: actually trending all day yesterday because of this triggered freestyle,
Speaker 1: and she explained because clearly she's talking about Big Sean.
Speaker 1: She said, triggered was a moment, a moment that for
Speaker 1: me has passed. It is new to you because you're
Speaker 1: just now hearing it. But for me, it's something I
Speaker 1: moved on from the moment I expressed it. It's not
Speaker 1: a dis song. It's a moment of talking ish out
Speaker 1: of frustration and passion. It was a moment of exaggerated
Speaker 1: expression when I was feeling lost in a week. No
Speaker 1: one is to be blamed or bast for how I
Speaker 1: was feeling in that moment. I am in control of
Speaker 1: my feelings. This is how I paint. This is me
Speaker 1: yelling and throwing paint at a campt How did they
Speaker 1: know that was about Big Sean because that's who she
Speaker 1: used to date, and you know they went through a
Speaker 1: breakup and she was very frustrated, and she even had
Speaker 1: tweeted about it during that So she tweeted, I love
Speaker 1: you beyond measure, even though I get big mad and
Speaker 1: you triggered the f out of me. You make me
Speaker 1: feel and I appreciate that, and that she wrote toward
Speaker 1: Big Sean. So the generation takes everything literal by I
Speaker 1: mean she wrote trigger and then the song is called
Speaker 1: triggered right after that. So if you write that in
Speaker 1: a tweet to Big Sean and that's your last boyfriend
Speaker 1: and then you put out But thinks every song is
Speaker 1: about somebody pretty much. Yeah, So if you write a
Speaker 1: song about a breakup and then you had just broken
Speaker 1: up with somebody, chances are you're an artist all right now.
Speaker 1: Laurie Laughlin, she does not think that she's good end
Speaker 1: up going to jail. She's been more and more confident
Speaker 1: because of that college admissions cheating scandal. They believe they
Speaker 1: will be acquitted if they go to trial, and that's
Speaker 1: for allegedly paying five hundred thousand dollars to bribe their
Speaker 1: daughter's way into the University of Southern California. Now, on
Speaker 1: the other side of things, there's a TV series already
Speaker 1: in the works based on the recent college admission scandal.
Speaker 1: It's going to be a one hour limited perier about that.
Speaker 1: And they're also opating the rights to the upcoming book Accepted.
Speaker 1: Are they gonna get paid for this? A Lauri Lacklingham
Speaker 1: getting paid with us as well. They're not involved in it.
Speaker 1: Somebody else is doing it so accepted as a book
Speaker 1: that's being written by Wall Street Journal report is Melissa
Speaker 1: Corn and Jen Levitts. They're writing the book and then
Speaker 1: there's also a TV show and they're not involved in
Speaker 1: this TV show at all. All right, we say that
Speaker 1: until we see the credits and say, executive producer Aunt Becky.
Speaker 1: Would you be mad if she was an executive producer
Speaker 1: on it? All right? Tyred Banks, she's back and she's
Speaker 1: on the cover of Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Issues. She returned
Speaker 1: to modeling for that and looks amazing. And when they
Speaker 1: do the side by side of Tyra Banks when she
Speaker 1: did her cover previously back in nineteen ninety six, that's
Speaker 1: the first cover she had. Look at how she looks
Speaker 1: now pretty much the same. You look better enough, drop
Speaker 1: on a clue Bux retire Banks. Damon's amazing. It's nothing
Speaker 1: like when when you age like one and send a
Speaker 1: milk boy. It's a different ball game. And a lot
Speaker 1: of women in this generation are ageing like war. Previous
Speaker 1: generations jaged like milk. But I mean it's a lot
Speaker 1: of different factors. You know, people have more mindfulness about
Speaker 1: health and wellness now because when you say, oh, she's
Speaker 1: forty five. You don't look forty five. What the hell's
Speaker 1: forty five pos to look like? All right? Now? R.
Speaker 1: Kelly is very fortunate for him that he is now
Speaker 1: going to get to go to court. He's getting a
Speaker 1: do over for that whole sexual abuse laws. To remember,
Speaker 1: he was served papers while he was in prison, and
Speaker 1: the argument was that he didn't know what the paper
Speaker 1: said because he can't read. But now they are giving
Speaker 1: him another chance, so what not be able to read again? Well,
Speaker 1: now he knows. So they vacated the default judgment, so
Speaker 1: now he can actually fight the lawsuit. So all that
Speaker 1: means is it hasn't been vacated. He can now fight
Speaker 1: the lass. I mean they did keep that default judgment.
Speaker 1: No more default judgment. He's not going to have to
Speaker 1: pay automatically. He can still go fight it. Now. I
Speaker 1: don't know what the hell is going on? Let me
Speaker 1: can tell, Yeah, we can tell. And he also paid
Speaker 1: sixty two thousand dollars in back child support. So now
Speaker 1: do you get that money from I don't know. I
Speaker 1: can't tell you what he has going on in his
Speaker 1: personal life where this money just shows up. But yes,
Speaker 1: now Diana Ross she was upset about TSA, saying that
Speaker 1: she was violated when she was getting patted down. She tweeted,
Speaker 1: it's not what was done, but how I'm feeling violated.
Speaker 1: I still feel her hands between my legs front and back,
Speaker 1: saying to me it's her job. Wow. Really mixed emotions.
Speaker 1: I always like to see the good things, but not
Speaker 1: feeling good right now, she complained on social media. Now,
Speaker 1: originally they were going to be doing a whole probe
Speaker 1: into what happened, but now they've closed that and they
Speaker 1: said it was really nothing. They reviewed surveillance footage, they
Speaker 1: interviewed the officers that were involved with her screening, and
Speaker 1: they said they followed a proper protocols. That is protocol.
Speaker 1: If it's a random search and they have to search,
Speaker 1: they have to do it. It happened to me before.
Speaker 1: I'm sure it happened to you guys before, as much
Speaker 1: as we traveled. It happens. It's something that they do.
Speaker 1: They're trying to stop terrorism and people from blowing up
Speaker 1: planes and things like that, so they do it. They
Speaker 1: absolutely positively. Yeah, I definitely set off the align just
Speaker 1: now when I was going to Dominican Republic. But I
Speaker 1: think I might have had some pins in my hair
Speaker 1: and things like that. TSA is very aggressive, though, I
Speaker 1: mean I think we y'all can feel a little invasive
Speaker 1: because they also ask you, do you want to go
Speaker 1: to a back room to get sets? Because they do.
Speaker 1: They know they're about to violate you. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, But they but they have to. They have
Speaker 1: to check in those areas that all you know, or
Speaker 1: your personal parts. I'm not gonna lie. We did go
Speaker 1: through TSA one time and it was these dudes and
Speaker 1: they was laughing and wanted The dudes said said to
Speaker 1: music boy, they about to get wax. And when Wax
Speaker 1: got through that thing, there was a gay TSA agent
Speaker 1: and he was being very very very aggressive and very fondly. Well,
Speaker 1: they got to they got to check, you know, make
Speaker 1: sure they do they Why would he say to me
Speaker 1: they about to get him? It is just something. It
Speaker 1: does feel crazy, that's all. But anyway to look like
Speaker 1: to do it trying to get some cheap fields to me?
Speaker 1: Oh no, all right, Now when we come back, we
Speaker 1: got page news we're talking about, Yes, we are going
Speaker 1: to be talking about guns confiscated, over one thousand guns.
Speaker 1: One man arrested so far another man in Europe? What
Speaker 1: went down? All right, we'll get into that when we
Speaker 1: come back. Keeping locked us to breakfast club. Good morning.
Speaker 1: Hey yo, what dropping the clues box for ghost face Killing?
Speaker 1: My favorite m see of all times is born day
Speaker 1: to day. Damn it we said that already? Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: well I didn't. Happy born day to ghost face Killer. Okay,
Speaker 1: Happy very day to the ghost face killer. All right. Well,
Speaker 1: let's get in some front page news. Now. The Bucks
Speaker 1: eliminates the Celtics last night one sixteen ninety deep one nine.
Speaker 1: Front Paul Piers might have to come to the front
Speaker 1: of the carrigation because I thought that was the stupidest
Speaker 1: prediction in the world after Game one when the Celtics
Speaker 1: beat them one twelve to ninety beat the Bucks, and
Speaker 1: he said it may be over. No, he didn't say maybe.
Speaker 1: He said I think it's over. But he was wrong. Now,
Speaker 1: the Golden State Warriors beat the Rockets last night one
Speaker 1: O four ninety nine, but Kevin Durant was injured. We're
Speaker 1: not sure how serious the injury is, how many games
Speaker 1: he's gonna be out, but we'll definitely see. They'll be fine.
Speaker 1: They have a superstar named Steph Curry on Clay Thompson.
Speaker 1: They both let it up last night. And they got
Speaker 1: another brother named Raymond Green. And I don't know if
Speaker 1: y'all realizing that, but those guys won championships before Kevin
Speaker 1: Durant came there, went to the finals twice before Kevin
Speaker 1: Durant came there. I think they'll be a okay guys,
Speaker 1: all right? What else he talking about? By the way,
Speaker 1: congratulations to Prince Harry and Megan Marco. They've revealed the
Speaker 1: name of their new little baby, Archie Harrison, Mount Batton
Speaker 1: windsor what what Archie Harrison, Mount Batton windsor Mount Batten. Well,
Speaker 1: apparently Mount Batton Windsor is given to the male descendants
Speaker 1: in line to the throne. That's the I guess the
Speaker 1: name that they're given, I don't know. And they said
Speaker 1: the name Archie. They just liked the name. There was
Speaker 1: no special meaning, so that's why. And it's not it's
Speaker 1: not Archibald. They want to make sure you guys know
Speaker 1: the baby is not Archibald. His name is really just
Speaker 1: so what would he be a prince a little baby
Speaker 1: Prince Archie, Prince Archie and Ared duke and duchess. So
Speaker 1: what is that? I don't know. I don't know. Don't
Speaker 1: give me, I don't know that people, God bless them. Okay,
Speaker 1: everybody was talking about it, and everybody he was like
Speaker 1: going crazy over the baby. When I was in Dominican Republic,
Speaker 1: every oh my god, she had the baby. So okay,
Speaker 1: all right, now, let's talk about just messed this all up.
Speaker 1: The guns, yes, oh, the guns. So they did seize
Speaker 1: over a thousand guns. And this happened to add a
Speaker 1: very luxurious neighborhood in La It's called Holmby Hills, and
Speaker 1: what they are saying is that someone was suspected of
Speaker 1: manufacturing and selling illegal firearms. It was an anonymous tip
Speaker 1: and that's why they showed up to the house. One
Speaker 1: man was arrested in the house. They don't know if
Speaker 1: he was a squatter or if he was allowed to
Speaker 1: be staying there. And they also said the person who
Speaker 1: was the owner hasn't lived there in years and is
Speaker 1: in Europe, so we don't know if he's involved in
Speaker 1: this whole scheme right now. But they said it's right
Speaker 1: near the Playboy mansion and it's also close to the
Speaker 1: estate where Michael Jackson passed away, and back in the day,
Speaker 1: that picture of all those guns would have made a
Speaker 1: mean mixtape couple about fifteen years ago. Man, somebody might
Speaker 1: do that now at every soul corny. Now, there was
Speaker 1: a lot of controversy over this, and I don't know
Speaker 1: if you guys think this is a big deal, but
Speaker 1: Danna ka Patrick and Aaron Rodgers were sitting in courts
Speaker 1: at the Game five showdown between the Celtics and the
Speaker 1: Milwaukee Bucks that we were just talking about, and camera's
Speaker 1: caught h Danna Kapatrick trying to give money for a drink.
Speaker 1: One of the fans I guess sitting behind them bought
Speaker 1: it hurt sorry, and Aaron Rodgers a drink, and I
Speaker 1: guess people were upset that Aaron Rodgers allowed that to happen,
Speaker 1: to allow somebody else to buy the guy to buy
Speaker 1: his wife a drink. Yeah, you know, I don't know
Speaker 1: what was going down, but the guy, he was just
Speaker 1: a random person that was sitting behind them, and when
Speaker 1: the drinks came, she tried to turn around and hand
Speaker 1: him the money for their drinks, like, oh no, it's okay,
Speaker 1: and the fan wouldn't take the cash, so people are saying,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I can't believe that he would let
Speaker 1: somebody else buy his woman a drink. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: I hate a man. I just don't understand. So if
Speaker 1: you were out with your wife and somebody sending her
Speaker 1: a drink, would that be okay, that's not what happened,
Speaker 1: as contexted his whole situation, I would have. But that's
Speaker 1: that what happened. Because if he was sitting in courtside
Speaker 1: and pebody was a fan, people bought them drinks. She
Speaker 1: tried to pay for it. He said, Now it's cool.
Speaker 1: I do that. I do I literally do that all
Speaker 1: the time, like just people in general the time. Did
Speaker 1: he try to buy both of them drinks? So it
Speaker 1: was just one of those things that I'm just buying
Speaker 1: your wife saw her turning around, Now I'm good, and
Speaker 1: you know, he's like, I want to buy them to drink.
Speaker 1: He said, now I'm good, and he bought a drink.
Speaker 1: Pay't a wrong that, yes, But if he just sent
Speaker 1: over a drink to his wife, then that's a problem.
Speaker 1: And Aaron Rodgers didn't do anything. He didn't look like
Speaker 1: he was upset, but she was turning around trying to
Speaker 1: give the money, and Dad ain't been crazy over that.
Speaker 1: You'd been in a restaurant, you with your boyfriend, and
Speaker 1: somebody sending a drink over for you. Somebody send a
Speaker 1: whole bottle, That's what I'm saying. Come on, I ask
Speaker 1: for you and your boyfriend though, correct. Oh, but they
Speaker 1: know ye, They're like, oh that's angela. Ye, I'm sending
Speaker 1: them a bottle, not just sending Year a drink. They
Speaker 1: not just sending Year a bottle. It was it was
Speaker 1: just like oh and uh, the waitress was like, oh this.
Speaker 1: You know, somebody over there wanted to send this over
Speaker 1: to you. Guys. That's what that's. They're fussing over nothing.
Speaker 1: That's a big to do about nothing. Yes, and I
Speaker 1: say that correctly, A big ti too. Yeah, it's a
Speaker 1: big but for some reason everyone was talking about it.
Speaker 1: So all right, what about you? I mean, you wouldn't
Speaker 1: be mad, right, somebody said, my wife a drink and
Speaker 1: you were there too, both of y'all. It depends how
Speaker 1: it came pause if it was somebody else, you know
Speaker 1: what that Trump page news. I'm not messing with you guys, man,
Speaker 1: see you always go Now I'm up a little bit now,
Speaker 1: you know, Hey, that's front page News. Thank you. Now,
Speaker 1: when we come back, Comment will be joining us. We'll
Speaker 1: kick of a comment to don't move. Yes. Comment has
Speaker 1: a new book out called Let Love Have the Last Word?
Speaker 1: Yes are the last laugh no last word? Word? Yes? Yes,
Speaker 1: love has the where's the book? Somebody shut up? Man,
Speaker 1: I tell you say something that love the last Love
Speaker 1: have the last word. The name of it, yes, goodness,
Speaker 1: and I love and I love, I love what Let
Speaker 1: love have the last word? I just said that should
Speaker 1: let me have the last word? Then you said laugh,
Speaker 1: I did not. You didn't. Happy birthday to ghost face. Right,
Speaker 1: we said that already. But I like, I like what
Speaker 1: comments on right now? He's on. He's on. Uh. He's
Speaker 1: talking about a lot of mindfulness and uh mental wellness
Speaker 1: and just you know, doing a lot of healing. And
Speaker 1: I appreciate that. Okay, let's get into it all right,
Speaker 1: we'll do that next. Keep a lot. Just the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 1: Good morning, the Breakfast Club. It's DJ Envy Angela Yee,
Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got
Speaker 1: a special guest in the building has an Oscar golden globe,
Speaker 1: and me and Grammy, our brother coma. He's king great, man,
Speaker 1: God's great. Absolutely good to see your brother. Yeah, I'm great.
Speaker 1: I'm glad, glad to see you, bro, glad to see
Speaker 1: all y'all you got. Let Love have the last word, Yes, sir,
Speaker 1: we came in here with love for all of us
Speaker 1: too this morning. That's the book, man. Yeah, so I'm
Speaker 1: excited about Let love how the last word? What's the
Speaker 1: deeper meaning of that title? It really comes from like
Speaker 1: all the stuff that's going on in the world. A
Speaker 1: lot of things been feeling heavy. A lot of people,
Speaker 1: you know, a lot of conversation is about taxes going
Speaker 1: on in world politics. And I just felt like, man,
Speaker 1: the best thing we can do to overcome a lot
Speaker 1: of this anxiety and depression is is man, put love
Speaker 1: out there and not love like in a just mushy
Speaker 1: all love, lovey dovey way, but it's like love and action,
Speaker 1: like man, So I want to put positive energy out
Speaker 1: there in the world where time seems so dark. So
Speaker 1: forgiveness is part of that, yes, sir, So are you
Speaker 1: a forgiving person? I believe I am. I work towards it,
Speaker 1: for sure, I strive to practice it. And that's what
Speaker 1: this whole book for me is like it's just me
Speaker 1: telling my stories and in the journey for what I
Speaker 1: had to do to practice, and what I do to
Speaker 1: practice is not always I'm not always succeeding at it,
Speaker 1: but I'm striving towards it. I want to see you
Speaker 1: at the Riverside Church on Monday, and you told this
Speaker 1: story about why you say love all the time, and
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, comment, ain't line because those is
Speaker 1: a known common any inter of you. He already ended
Speaker 1: with love love. You always endo with that, but tell
Speaker 1: them why you do that. One of my homies I
Speaker 1: grew up with named Dark, like from the South Side.
Speaker 1: With me, he was like he a raw dude, Like
Speaker 1: he was just a hustler. He lived a street life.
Speaker 1: You're good brother, though, and we was in high school.
Speaker 1: We always was like, man, yo, we need to start
Speaker 1: saying love, man. And it's a dude, you know, Dark honestly,
Speaker 1: like he'd been shot five times, but he was still
Speaker 1: on something like, Yo, We're gonna start saying love, man.
Speaker 1: And it just kind of stuck with me because it
Speaker 1: was like another way of just you know, extending it
Speaker 1: to whoever my homies to strangers. I mean, I love,
Speaker 1: get off the phone wherever. I just that's that's my mind.
Speaker 1: Black men don't do that to each other enough. We
Speaker 1: don't tell each other we love each other, we value
Speaker 1: each other, we appreciate each other. That's why everybody's so tough. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, and then we end up hurting each other
Speaker 1: because everybody's so angry. I feel like, man, we need
Speaker 1: that because we've been taught like man, Yo, it's weak
Speaker 1: to go to therapy. It's weak to just be like Yo, man,
Speaker 1: love bro, I love you. You know what you know,
Speaker 1: I messed up Hill just acknowledge certain things and just
Speaker 1: you know, carrying to another to another black man, it's
Speaker 1: like those things. It's like we're missing parts of our
Speaker 1: life by not acknowledging those aspects. And I feel like
Speaker 1: we can be well rounded men by by acknowledging those things.
Speaker 1: That vulnerability is important, man, because if you stay like yo,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm just like hard the whole time, it's like,
Speaker 1: oh I don't feel anything, man, at some point, it's
Speaker 1: gonna come out the wrong way. That's why it's so
Speaker 1: easy for us to hurt each other. Yeah, exactly, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, so I've been going to point Bland. I've
Speaker 1: been going to visit a lot of prisons in California.
Speaker 1: You know, a lot of people I've talked to that
Speaker 1: just being cancerated, brothers, doing life without parole. Man. So
Speaker 1: many times when you get to the rooter they story,
Speaker 1: they was like, man, I just was hurt when I was.
Speaker 1: In fact, this one cat I remember his name was
Speaker 1: Bobby Gones, he broke down his whole stories to the
Speaker 1: point where he was like, man, I got sexually abused
Speaker 1: when I was eight. I ain't know I'd expressed that.
Speaker 1: So once I punched somebody out, that was my way
Speaker 1: of of letting, you know, letting my voice be heard
Speaker 1: in a way because nobody else was gonna hear me,
Speaker 1: and I was afraid to talk about those things. And
Speaker 1: when he did that, he said after that that was
Speaker 1: his way of just expressing it. And eventually, you know,
Speaker 1: he ended up murdering somebody because he thought that was
Speaker 1: a way to handle it violence for him to understand
Speaker 1: the root of that issue. It's like for me, that's
Speaker 1: where I look at my life, or look at our
Speaker 1: lives and say, man, we can we can get this
Speaker 1: extracted at the route, like if we really deal with
Speaker 1: the real, the real issue, and know how to work
Speaker 1: through it. That's like when I when I met them,
Speaker 1: a lot of the brothers and sisters incarcerated, they were
Speaker 1: like transformed. I went in there and they was like
Speaker 1: some of the brothers was like man. They would they
Speaker 1: were introduced themselves and be like, yeah, I killed this brother,
Speaker 1: Joe Wilson, and they would say the name. And I
Speaker 1: asked them, man, why you why do you say the name?
Speaker 1: They was like, man, we gotta we gotta acknowledge them
Speaker 1: as human beings. At the time when I did that act,
Speaker 1: I didn't even look at that person as a human being.
Speaker 1: I was like, it's for me to humanize myself and
Speaker 1: that person. We need their families and know that we
Speaker 1: you know, we look at them as human beings. And
Speaker 1: I think, you know, our culture or the way we
Speaker 1: grew up. I'm not blaming it on us, but we
Speaker 1: got we inherited a lot of pain and suffering and
Speaker 1: things we put up, like walls we put up just
Speaker 1: from being here as black men. Is. Our ancestors had
Speaker 1: had to suffer through that and that's been passed down.
Speaker 1: So some of the things we got to shake off,
Speaker 1: we got to peel it off. Man, it's and then
Speaker 1: take a lot of work. So but what allowed you
Speaker 1: to open up because we've seen you opened up in
Speaker 1: this book and you talked about being molested as a child. Yeah,
Speaker 1: what gave you that courage to talk about that? Honestly,
Speaker 1: I didn't even realize that happened in my life till
Speaker 1: like I was doing a movie and the movie was
Speaker 1: about sexual abuse and I was discussing it with the
Speaker 1: actress and we was talking about I was like, wait,
Speaker 1: I just went to that moment and was like, man,
Speaker 1: that that happened to me. So when when it came
Speaker 1: to the surface and one like, I was talking about
Speaker 1: it with everybody. But as I was writing this book,
Speaker 1: you know what my heart was like, I want to
Speaker 1: tell my story so that other people would be all
Speaker 1: right with telling their stories and feel like, man, even
Speaker 1: if it's not the exact same story, but okay with
Speaker 1: being like, Man, I've been through some stuff and I
Speaker 1: felt like, man, I gotta I gotta go out there
Speaker 1: and do it, because man, the only way for people
Speaker 1: to heal is to talk about it. And I also
Speaker 1: wanted to offer tools. You know, it wasn't like I
Speaker 1: was in the book I'm not like, this is how
Speaker 1: you get through it. I'm like, man, I'm still working
Speaker 1: on this getting through it because I just recognized, did
Speaker 1: you forgive the person that molested you? And did you
Speaker 1: have that conversation with him the person pass I haven't
Speaker 1: had that conversation with him, but I definitely forgave from Afar,
Speaker 1: like because I'm like, you know, this is this happened
Speaker 1: in my life. I don't you know, I don't know
Speaker 1: what happened to that person to make that person want
Speaker 1: to do that. But I was like, man, I can't
Speaker 1: carry that, like what I was just saying about carrying it.
Speaker 1: And then you know, it was deep because I had
Speaker 1: to talk with my mother about it before the book
Speaker 1: came out, because she didn't never know about it, like
Speaker 1: and this is something you don't want to you know,
Speaker 1: you didn't want to tell them as you're you when
Speaker 1: you're shorty. But I was talking to and she was
Speaker 1: telling me stories about her. I was like, man, this
Speaker 1: is a cycle that then like I want to be
Speaker 1: one of the ones that stop it. And you have
Speaker 1: a daughter too, and you reference your daughter a lot
Speaker 1: in the book, So just imagine your daughter goes through
Speaker 1: something and doesn't want to mention it to you. Did
Speaker 1: you have a conversation with her too before the book?
Speaker 1: I did. Yeah, we had a lot of conversations about
Speaker 1: it because I actually played her song because I have
Speaker 1: an album that's inspired by the book, and I played
Speaker 1: a song that it's called Memories at Home to deal
Speaker 1: with the deals with the subject because I hadn't told
Speaker 1: her when she just started like crying and I sat
Speaker 1: down and talked to about it. You know, she was like,
Speaker 1: I didn't even know that happened to you. Why didn't
Speaker 1: you tell me about it? And I was like, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm just starting to come to grips with with Shan
Speaker 1: that I really had to allow that to surface myself.
Speaker 1: You know. She was like, man, that's courageous. She just
Speaker 1: said this to me last night, Like, Yo, I'm really
Speaker 1: proud of you. All Right, we got more with common
Speaker 1: when we come back, don't move. It's the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 1: Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlemagne,
Speaker 1: the guy we are the Breakfast Club. Were still kicking
Speaker 1: with common. The only stories are good though, And the
Speaker 1: reason I say that is it opens things up for
Speaker 1: me and coversations to my daughter, Like every time I
Speaker 1: know Shalman has three daughters, I have three daughters, I'm overprotective,
Speaker 1: Like did anybody touch you? Or you're okay? Did somebody say,
Speaker 1: don't tell daddy? Like I'm over it because I hear
Speaker 1: all these stories and I want to make sure my
Speaker 1: kids are good, you know, yeah, And I feel like
Speaker 1: these are the discussions that we didn't have as kids,
Speaker 1: and we want our kids to know. I'm glad as
Speaker 1: parents we could be like, hey, somebody touch you. You You
Speaker 1: you can always come to me, don't ever, that's not
Speaker 1: your fault, you know, like, and we can learn, like
Speaker 1: we could discuss with each other the best ways to
Speaker 1: have those conversations, you know, and get the information from
Speaker 1: whatever sources because a lot of you know, a lot
Speaker 1: of times I feel like in our communities, we haven't
Speaker 1: had the resources or having as use access to the
Speaker 1: resources to get like like professional help, right, But I
Speaker 1: do it. I love that you you know, provide that
Speaker 1: space for for our kids. And that's what I this
Speaker 1: conversation is like, Man, I want kids to be like, man,
Speaker 1: I gotta go tell somebody. Yeah, but you're opening up
Speaker 1: a new door because I was molested when I but
Speaker 1: it was by a woman, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I don't think growing up I'd have been secure enough
Speaker 1: to tell that story if it was done at the
Speaker 1: hands of another man. So what gave you the security?
Speaker 1: At what point in your left you said, I'm secure
Speaker 1: enough to say, you know what, this is what happened
Speaker 1: to me? At this point, I think it's just faith
Speaker 1: and who I am, faith in God and my spirituality.
Speaker 1: It's something that I feel, like the attacks that or
Speaker 1: whatever comes from the outside at some point, if I'm
Speaker 1: strong enough in the inside to and know who I am,
Speaker 1: I'm then I'm good. Even when I played the song
Speaker 1: for some of my homies, they was looking like man,
Speaker 1: ros ain't know that happened to you know, like, and
Speaker 1: I was feeling a little like okay. And the first
Speaker 1: thing they did was joked a little bit, and then
Speaker 1: they kind of saw it was a real subject and
Speaker 1: was like, all I gotta chill. So I think, you know,
Speaker 1: it's been my faith in myself and God and being
Speaker 1: like man. Sometimes leaders got to step out there, simple
Speaker 1: as that. And some guys think that when they're young,
Speaker 1: like Charlotagne at first might have been like, oh, I
Speaker 1: liked it right until this, but you didn't like you
Speaker 1: were a little kid, so you don't really know later
Speaker 1: on in life what it is that that long lasting
Speaker 1: impact is. You might think this grown woman doing something
Speaker 1: to you, because sometimes people like to act like that's
Speaker 1: something that's fly that happens like a teacher and a student,
Speaker 1: and it's really not. Yeah, but that's just the way
Speaker 1: the world is position. But that's why I say it's
Speaker 1: it's different with it's a guy. You know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: how did that affect you growing up? Like I said,
Speaker 1: for many many years, I tucked it away. I tried
Speaker 1: to forget it. And it wasn't even like I tried
Speaker 1: to forget it. It It was just forgotten it in any way.
Speaker 1: So I love women, so that didn't affect me in
Speaker 1: any way as far as that goes. But you know,
Speaker 1: I'm not homophobic either. I'm like, yo, I respect anybody
Speaker 1: who was on that level. But it didn't. It didn't
Speaker 1: like detol what I who I love and who I
Speaker 1: care about. I think more than anything, I just felt
Speaker 1: violated that. You know, as a kid, I wasn't making
Speaker 1: a choice to be in any type of activity with anybody.
Speaker 1: You do talk about going to therapy and finding out
Speaker 1: that you were addicted to love, yes, love or sex?
Speaker 1: It was love was sex, it was it was It
Speaker 1: was more love addiction than then then the sex thing.
Speaker 1: I mean, the sex thing is obviously a wonderful thing.
Speaker 1: But to be honest, the pattern I found myself in,
Speaker 1: and what was called love addiction who my therapist broke
Speaker 1: it down, was that feeling of being like, ah, I'm
Speaker 1: in love and it's that honeymoon period that people call it.
Speaker 1: I was addicted to that feeling. When that feeling would
Speaker 1: go away and the real part of relationships came, I
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, dude, I want this or not. Like
Speaker 1: I wasn't ready to do the out. I care for
Speaker 1: the person, but when things got tough and it's time
Speaker 1: to work through stuff, I wasn't willing to work through it,
Speaker 1: and I would make up make excuses like, oh man,
Speaker 1: that's interfere with my work. Relationships ain't good for me.
Speaker 1: I don't make my best albums when I'm in a
Speaker 1: relationship one of those it's not you with me, you
Speaker 1: know exactly, you know. So I was, you know, I
Speaker 1: was in going through those cycles and and man, thank god,
Speaker 1: I went to therapy because I was able to identify
Speaker 1: that what that pattern was and why I was feeling
Speaker 1: that way. So now you know, in relationships, I can
Speaker 1: be this is how I really feeling in the present. This.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna bring up the old past things that happened,
Speaker 1: because some of that old past stuff was just showing
Speaker 1: up without me even knowing it. Was like, Okay, if
Speaker 1: I've been in a relationship before that was like really
Speaker 1: needy and heavy and that didn't feel good, then I
Speaker 1: also expected the next relationship gonna be like that, but
Speaker 1: I ain't necessarily how it has to be. When you
Speaker 1: got some love advice from Michelle Obama, she helped y'all,
Speaker 1: oh man, yeah, well I talked to her, how does
Speaker 1: that happen? At the way? I talked to her, Yeah,
Speaker 1: a couple of times about like relationships, because you know
Speaker 1: what happens is she like comment, what's up? You know? You? You?
Speaker 1: How did you forty forty two with you know this?
Speaker 1: At the time, she was like, how did you you
Speaker 1: know what's going on? Ain't you? And I'm giving up
Speaker 1: my reasons and she like, it feels like you didn't
Speaker 1: agree with her advice about compromising what was about the Yeah,
Speaker 1: she has given me a lot of woods. And one
Speaker 1: great thing that she told me is always going through
Speaker 1: this journey is that you have to understand you're not
Speaker 1: gonna get anybody that's perfect because you're not perfect. So
Speaker 1: understand that there's some certain things that you will compromise
Speaker 1: in choosing that partner. But as long as the core
Speaker 1: values that are most important to you, that person you
Speaker 1: know marks off on that list, then you're good. I
Speaker 1: agree with that advice, but it's taking the time to
Speaker 1: work to get to live that advice, you know, Like,
Speaker 1: but it did help me because it's something for me
Speaker 1: to always go back to and be like, yo, because
Speaker 1: I think I was looking for if something going wrong,
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh man, she ain't go lasts long. We
Speaker 1: ain't go last its long because it is so I
Speaker 1: can start making excuses or reasons why it ain't gonna work.
Speaker 1: And I think being able to say, you know what,
Speaker 1: this person may not have this right now, but that's
Speaker 1: okay because we you know, we can work through it
Speaker 1: at some point. That's what I feel like. I'm coming
Speaker 1: to the understanding of se because you said, but I'm
Speaker 1: beginning to understand that compromising myself to become inauthentic, to
Speaker 1: live and exist as something other than who I am.
Speaker 1: It isn't love and sense to compromises filled with dangers
Speaker 1: and pitfalls at least to resentment. It leads to unhappiness.
Speaker 1: It leads eventually to that feeling of losing oneself. Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: I mean, I definitely don't believe in losing losing myself.
Speaker 1: That's where I failed in relationships, you know, like where
Speaker 1: where I've like gone too far thinking I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm being the right part and I'm being
Speaker 1: the right man in this relationship, but I'm giving away
Speaker 1: some of the things of myself. So I don't believe.
Speaker 1: You don't compromise yourself, but you can compromise to like
Speaker 1: be able to agree to do certain things. You know.
Speaker 1: It's like with some compromises you've made. I want specific example,
Speaker 1: Like it's specific example would be like, okay with with
Speaker 1: with your family, you want to go spend this holiday,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, well, I gotta spend this time with
Speaker 1: my family too, So I'll be like, I'm gonna spend
Speaker 1: this time with my family and then make sure I
Speaker 1: got time with your family too. So that's that's some
Speaker 1: of the compromises I've had since I've been talking to
Speaker 1: Michelle Obama. Barack Obama know about He's goddamn relationship conversation
Speaker 1: with his white Yeah, man, I mean I think Rock Cool,
Speaker 1: He's probably looking at me like, go ahead, come and
Speaker 1: get you know, get some wisdom, because you need to
Speaker 1: be chilling with a lady. Well yeah, this was like
Speaker 1: that was like three two three years ago, and stop
Speaker 1: he was still in the White U. Yeah, he definitely
Speaker 1: was in the White House when when she first started
Speaker 1: talking to me about it, he was he was in
Speaker 1: the White House. I wouldn't hit you with a little
Speaker 1: light audit, you know what. She had to make sure,
Speaker 1: you know what, make sure you know she's been telling
Speaker 1: me other stuff, you know, so be patient, like and
Speaker 1: like take your time and those things. So he man.
Speaker 1: But but Rock, you know, you're a real dude. You know,
Speaker 1: she had to be having those conversations with you because
Speaker 1: she had some some women she wanted to hook you
Speaker 1: up with, Like good conversation, just don't come out the blue.
Speaker 1: Well she didn't. She didn't like come to the table
Speaker 1: like yo, all right, Well I got somebody for you.
Speaker 1: She just was like yo, and then she she probably
Speaker 1: did think of somebody at one point, but I wouldn't
Speaker 1: around enough for her to be like Okay, come on,
Speaker 1: all right, let's get into a comment many mixed comings here.
Speaker 1: Let's go as the breakfast club good morning, shout the
Speaker 1: coming here, let me know your favorite coming joy right now,
Speaker 1: and team changing me. Let's go. Yeah. I never knew
Speaker 1: what lah lah lah lah lah like. This gotta be
Speaker 1: for me to write this, Queen, I ain't seen you
Speaker 1: in a minute, wrote this letter and finally decide the
Speaker 1: Senate sign sil delivered for us to grow together. Love
Speaker 1: has no limit. Let's spend a slow forever. I know
Speaker 1: your heartest weather blah blasters did to you. I ain't
Speaker 1: gonna saw them because I probably did it too because
Speaker 1: of you. Feelings I handle would care some recognize your
Speaker 1: life if they can't handle the glass. You know. I
Speaker 1: hate the type to walk around with matching searchs of relationships.
Speaker 1: I will match to work. I want to be the
Speaker 1: one to make you happy as it hurts you the most,
Speaker 1: they say the end of sneer. It's important that we're
Speaker 1: close to the most high, regardless of what happened. On
Speaker 1: him like a live yes, yes, yes y'all, and you
Speaker 1: don't stop to the beach, y'all. Get Joe stop, yes,
Speaker 1: yes y'all, Get tony, y'all it get Joe stop, yes,
Speaker 1: yes y'all, and get tone stop to the b consience
Speaker 1: to be the short shot. Come on, I met this
Speaker 1: girl and I was t his owld and what I loved.
Speaker 1: So she had so much soul. She was on school
Speaker 1: and I was sister shorty. Never do throughout my life.
Speaker 1: She would read them for me or the regular. Not
Speaker 1: a church girl. She was secular, not about my money,
Speaker 1: no stuff. Was like checking Henry he smuggle, saying for
Speaker 1: a man as the five hustle seen him ben to
Speaker 1: struggle a whole life, made a transition from being to
Speaker 1: his wife stifling. The night had been Yes, my daddy
Speaker 1: was a hustler, so she lied him. Looked at the churmy,
Speaker 1: how can they judge him? She screamed. That was a
Speaker 1: common mini mix morning. Everybody is DJ Envy and Angela Yee. Charlemagne,
Speaker 1: the guy we are the breakfast club was still kicking
Speaker 1: with coming yee. How difficult was the realization about your
Speaker 1: daughter and her feeling like you weren't there enough for
Speaker 1: her when she was growing up. That was tough for me, man,
Speaker 1: because I thought I was doing a good job, you know, providing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're providing, and you you're taking those moments to to
Speaker 1: really do show love, and you like, Okay, we're going
Speaker 1: to do these things that you like to do, and
Speaker 1: you think that spending time is really doing it. But
Speaker 1: it's still some of those other moments that she needed,
Speaker 1: and just you know the fact, when she said it,
Speaker 1: it was, man, it was I was hurt. I was
Speaker 1: I was mad because some of the things she was
Speaker 1: saying to me. Was like, man, I can't believe you
Speaker 1: think I would do that. So I got defensive. But
Speaker 1: then at some point I was just like, you know what,
Speaker 1: I need to listen to her because this is how
Speaker 1: she feeled. But what was she saying? What was basic?
Speaker 1: She was basically like how when she was younger, I
Speaker 1: didn't fight enough with her mother to like make sure
Speaker 1: that she was spending time with me. At one point,
Speaker 1: she was talking about how I didn't like want to
Speaker 1: pay for her to take the SAT tests, and I
Speaker 1: was like, a maya, you know better, Like you're like,
Speaker 1: you know how much I paid for so ultimately, I
Speaker 1: was just like talking to her, telling her, you should
Speaker 1: you know me and you know that how much I
Speaker 1: love you, so it's no way that I would not
Speaker 1: do those things. So I was it was, man, it
Speaker 1: was just some of those things you think as a
Speaker 1: daughter growing up. She probably just looked and was thinking like, man,
Speaker 1: this my dad ain't doing what I want. And Man,
Speaker 1: one of the things that really struck me when she
Speaker 1: was like, man, it hurt me when I saw you
Speaker 1: out with your girlfriend's kids, and I was like, how
Speaker 1: do you answer that one? I was like, Man, you know,
Speaker 1: I was just trying to move forward with my life.
Speaker 1: You know, like I was like that, I didn't love
Speaker 1: you any less, but if somebody I love has kids,
Speaker 1: we might be out and and man, that was some real,
Speaker 1: you know, real conversations. But the thing is what I
Speaker 1: feel good about is man, Man and Moya, we're having
Speaker 1: these real conversations, so it's better in our relationship. Like
Speaker 1: the fact that we talked about all this, she actually
Speaker 1: feels like more confident and stronger, and I know that
Speaker 1: my love is what's gonna help her be the best
Speaker 1: woman she could be in relationships. It's part of you
Speaker 1: seeking self healing, because you want to be the type
Speaker 1: of man you want to see your daughter with. For sure,
Speaker 1: I want to be. I want to be um I
Speaker 1: I said, an example for my daughter all the time,
Speaker 1: I try to do it without like telling her, Yo,
Speaker 1: this type of man you want. I'm just like, open
Speaker 1: the door for it. She'd be frustrated, like, man, I
Speaker 1: gotta wait for you to open the door. I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you do, and like just do regular things that I
Speaker 1: think I wanted, the way I want to see a
Speaker 1: man treatd I just do it in action. Because that's
Speaker 1: such a tough question. Man, when people say, are you
Speaker 1: the kind of man that you would want your daughters
Speaker 1: to be with? Man, that's man. Like I told my daughter, YO, saying,
Speaker 1: this guy, he young man, he might you know, that's
Speaker 1: that's where he is right now. He ain't gonna make
Speaker 1: all the best choices. He might want to be with
Speaker 1: some other girls. This is what it is. I was
Speaker 1: that young man, of course, and into a into an
Speaker 1: adult age, and like I said, beyond just wanting to
Speaker 1: be with other women, even just being able to love
Speaker 1: in a mature and in a complete way. It took
Speaker 1: me years to get there. You know, being that man
Speaker 1: is a process. But I think one of the greatest
Speaker 1: things I've got is being able to communicate those things
Speaker 1: now instead of being like having something harboring up in
Speaker 1: me and not being able to say it to a
Speaker 1: woman I'm in a relationship with. Is like, I gotta
Speaker 1: be able to say, like, yo, I need this time
Speaker 1: for this. I mean, this is better to express your
Speaker 1: feelings period. Like they tell us even in school when
Speaker 1: you grew up as a great scout, like oh, think
Speaker 1: positive and be partlis. I mean, I'll be feeling positive
Speaker 1: at this moment, so I should be able to express that.
Speaker 1: I'll be talking to some of the shorties and seeing
Speaker 1: what hear and what they're going through. I'm like, man,
Speaker 1: you need some you need somebody to talk to. Man, Like,
Speaker 1: there's no way you can get through your day if
Speaker 1: you've seen your cousin shot, you pop slaying around just
Speaker 1: going through all that stuff, and you you're supposed to
Speaker 1: be regular and be normal and be good for the day.
Speaker 1: It's like, man, that's what these kids starting self medican.
Speaker 1: They start smoking, they start drinking, they start hanging around
Speaker 1: games because they feel like that's their brothers and musically,
Speaker 1: goes down the wrong way, they start redistributing that pain.
Speaker 1: That's the greatest source of white casts out here, hurting
Speaker 1: each other, killing each other's because they in pain. So
Speaker 1: I believe we go treat that pain as much as
Speaker 1: much as we reshaping and re reconfiguring the community. We
Speaker 1: got to create jobs. We gotta give mental health support,
Speaker 1: We gotta give like different ways of expressing. Like they
Speaker 1: need to know about cinematography. They need to know about
Speaker 1: like what it is to be a scriptwriter or whatever.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm just mentioning things in the entertainment Absolutely social.
Speaker 1: They need to put social emotional learning in the schools. Yes,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm actually opening up a school called AIM.
Speaker 1: It's a Chicago It's called It's in Motion And one
Speaker 1: of the things that we are doing, it's opening this September.
Speaker 1: One of the things that we're doing is like we're
Speaker 1: gonna have that social and emotional intelligence, like those type
Speaker 1: of courses where they could just talk things out, have
Speaker 1: that type of therapy space, yoga space, you know, have
Speaker 1: spaces where they do know learning about cinematography, learning about scriptwriting,
Speaker 1: learning about costume design. Because so many of the kids
Speaker 1: don't get the exposure. Like for me, I was like, man,
Speaker 1: if I ain't have my mother saying, Man, I'm putting
Speaker 1: you in this computer class, I'm putting you you're playing
Speaker 1: biitty basketball. Man, I don't know where my life would
Speaker 1: be got to go to. That's a charter school. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I know, I know, you gotta get out there. I
Speaker 1: gotta ask you one last question because a lot of
Speaker 1: things you say resonate with me in such a wig
Speaker 1: it's the same thing I'm going through right now. But
Speaker 1: you talk about your father and you say the sins
Speaker 1: of the father represents a cycle that you are destined
Speaker 1: to break or repeat one of the other and your
Speaker 1: work remains and complete. So which cycles are you currently
Speaker 1: fighting to break? And your parenting? Yeah, the abandonment cycle
Speaker 1: was one of them, because man, I love my dad.
Speaker 1: My dad was cool, man, we got along really good.
Speaker 1: But I didn't know that I was had a void,
Speaker 1: something was missing because when I was one, him and
Speaker 1: my mother split up and I didn't have that relationship
Speaker 1: with him, like a presence, you know, with him being there,
Speaker 1: and you know the fact that my daughter is like
Speaker 1: kind of saying some of the same things that your
Speaker 1: presence wasn't you weren't physically there. It's like, Okay, how
Speaker 1: can I stop the cycle? Now? I gotta be able
Speaker 1: to talk to her about this and tell her and
Speaker 1: hopefully she understands reasons why, so that there's no reason why. Really,
Speaker 1: I mean, she might understand from a different perspective and
Speaker 1: know that I'm hearing her and her being hurt. I
Speaker 1: think DOC has stopped the hurt. Like we was talking
Speaker 1: about distributing the pain. It's like that pain I had
Speaker 1: from my father. I didn't even know I had that pain,
Speaker 1: but it was there. Well, a moya can acknowledge that
Speaker 1: she has that pain and heal that pain, so when
Speaker 1: she going her relationship, she'll be a whole woman. That's
Speaker 1: really my way of stopping it um and just recognizing
Speaker 1: those things. And when I do find myself like feeling
Speaker 1: a certain way about something my father did or whatever,
Speaker 1: which I've worked to forgive my father. My father passed
Speaker 1: in twenty fourteen, but we was definitely in a great space.
Speaker 1: But even then post that, I had to still work
Speaker 1: on forgiving and knowing those things. But with that, I
Speaker 1: just feel like I carry a better happiness for myself
Speaker 1: and I'm able to give that to the people. I love.
Speaker 1: I love these conversations, the conversation you're supposed to be
Speaker 1: having man therapy, so full of healing. I appreciate you
Speaker 1: coming for having these conversations. Well, let love have the
Speaker 1: last words out right now, so make sure you pick
Speaker 1: it up. Thank you for joining us, brother man, Thank
Speaker 1: y'all for having me. I love you, Love you brother.
Speaker 1: All right, it's coming. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning.
Speaker 1: It's about is the rumor report? Angela Yee on the
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Well, we've been talking about this. Did he
Speaker 1: cover story? Because Mother's Day is coming up this Sunday
Speaker 1: and he's on the May issue and he did an
Speaker 1: interview with Dream Hampton and it's a very raw and
Speaker 1: unedited conversation and we have a piece of that conversation
Speaker 1: exclusively for you right now. And it's very difficult to
Speaker 1: hear because clearly did he still going through a lot
Speaker 1: having lost kim Porter. The kids are going through a
Speaker 1: lot with kim Porter having passed. And here's what happened
Speaker 1: when he discusses black mothers, his Mother's Day is gonna hurt.
Speaker 1: We're definitely going to celebrate, you know, all the mothers
Speaker 1: you're not. We're not gonna get in the way of that.
Speaker 1: But you know, honestly, anybody that's lost the mother, lost
Speaker 1: the soulmate, it takes time. It takes time, you know.
Speaker 1: I don't you know they say town hills all wounds
Speaker 1: when it comes to your mother mothers. I don't think
Speaker 1: that case. No. I mean, I think we have the
Speaker 1: strongest being. Like if it comes to like a category
Speaker 1: or who's the strongest being on the stay for the earth,
Speaker 1: it would have to be black mothers. Don't anybody can
Speaker 1: ever understand, you know, to be a black mother man,
Speaker 1: God bless did he? Man? Tears of how our heart
Speaker 1: speaks on our lips can't describe how much we've been hurting.
Speaker 1: There's no need to front and pretend to be tough
Speaker 1: at the time like this, Let those tears go. And
Speaker 1: I hope that Diddy and the kids are getting some
Speaker 1: type of grief counsel in, some type of therapy. I
Speaker 1: hope all the kids are protecting their energy and really
Speaker 1: invested in their mental wealth. Because He's right. I don't
Speaker 1: think time heals all wounds. With situations like this, they
Speaker 1: may hurt less, but it will always hurt. And honestly,
Speaker 1: that's fine. We're human. Were allowed to feel that. Well.
Speaker 1: We get to see the family together a lot now too,
Speaker 1: and he's been, like he said in the article, just
Speaker 1: basically the mom for Mother's Day and all of that
Speaker 1: with the with the girls, you know, with his sons
Speaker 1: as well, a lot of family times. Shout to Diddy man,
Speaker 1: All right, now you should hurry. We discussed her comments
Speaker 1: during Red Table Talk. If you guys, remember she has
Speaker 1: this to say about her insecurities. Something that really bothers
Speaker 1: me and like honestly has given me a sense of
Speaker 1: a little bit of an insecurity is the fact that, yeah,
Speaker 1: like there are all these women like throwing themselves but me,
Speaker 1: like the past ten years, like I don't have any
Speaker 1: of that. This sounds weird, but like male attention. And
Speaker 1: so then like I begin to internalize it, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: it's something wrong with her because I don't want it.
Speaker 1: But it would be nice to know that, like someone's looking.
Speaker 1: And I appreciate her for being honest about it because
Speaker 1: a lot of people feel like, man, I just want
Speaker 1: somebody to say I look nice, and it changes your
Speaker 1: whole day sometimes when somebody's like, oh you look great today,
Speaker 1: and sometimes that's a great compliment. Your husband saying that
Speaker 1: don't make you feel good. No, I haven't saying you
Speaker 1: guys are married, so she knows that, and I guess
Speaker 1: she feels like he gets a lot of attention. But
Speaker 1: I don't think there's anything wrong with her expressing how
Speaker 1: she really feels, because a lot of people were critical
Speaker 1: of her, like she was saying she doesn't care about
Speaker 1: her husband's feelings, but of course, but of course she does.
Speaker 1: But she was just being honest that she feels insecure
Speaker 1: and sometimes that's hard for people to admit. Now, she posted,
Speaker 1: I've never been one to cage my feelings and emotions
Speaker 1: to any capacity. I am human. It brings me pure
Speaker 1: joy to speak my mind, be vulnerable at times, and
Speaker 1: to know myself inside and out. Seeing it's how it's
Speaker 1: mental health awareness month. I really want to take the
Speaker 1: time to encourage everyone to speak their truth, regardless of perception,
Speaker 1: fitting into a mold or offending someone. Because it's your
Speaker 1: truth and that's okay, then God bless how you should courage.
Speaker 1: Still don't agree with what she said. When you depend
Speaker 1: on people to build you up, they will have the
Speaker 1: same power to break you down. Stop investing in the
Speaker 1: opinions of other people so much, especially when you got
Speaker 1: a man that loves you, values and appreciates you, who
Speaker 1: cares what other men thinks. I mean, you don't have
Speaker 1: to agree with what she said, really do. It's not
Speaker 1: like I agree with you, but it's more like I
Speaker 1: get what she's saying. She's with her husband all the time.
Speaker 1: Her husband is supposed to say she looks beautiful, but
Speaker 1: she's not. Yes, at that right there is taking your
Speaker 1: significant other for granted it. Then she also let me
Speaker 1: tell you what she said. She also go out on
Speaker 1: to say, if what I'm not afraid to say out
Speaker 1: loud about being a thirty year old mama of three
Speaker 1: helps another women like me feel like they're not the
Speaker 1: alone and not the only one with an insecurity because
Speaker 1: we all have them, don't play, then that makes all
Speaker 1: of this hoop low worth it. She just wants to
Speaker 1: be flying and sexy. She had three children, she's a mom.
Speaker 1: She still wants to be fly look flying, and she
Speaker 1: still wants to say she's not. And why does she
Speaker 1: need the outside of opinions of others to feel that way?
Speaker 1: If what I say is your husband doesn't matter anymore
Speaker 1: of what I think. I never said. It doesn't matter.
Speaker 1: That should be the end all, be all, period. She
Speaker 1: just wants to feel like, oh, people find me attractive
Speaker 1: in general? What's wrong with that? Who cares what people think?
Speaker 1: She does clearly, and she's being honest about her insecurity.
Speaker 1: She's not saying I need you to validate how I feel.
Speaker 1: She's just saying, this is how I really feel. I
Speaker 1: can't help it, and that's exactly what it is. And
Speaker 1: insecurity sometimes people can't help how they feel. We would
Speaker 1: love to all not be insecure, but the reality is
Speaker 1: people do have insecurities. I'm angela, yeah, and that's your
Speaker 1: room of report. All right, Charloman, who's giving that? Donkey?
Speaker 1: You we need Paul Piss to come to the front
Speaker 1: of the congregation or this one is feeling Milwaukee and
Speaker 1: Milwaukee strictly all right, telp faull Piss. We'd like to
Speaker 1: have a world with him, please. All right, we'll get
Speaker 1: into that next. Keep it locked. Just to Breakfast Club,
Speaker 1: Good Morning. I was born to Donkey. It's the Donkey
Speaker 1: of the Death that Devil Breakfast Club. Yes, Donkey today
Speaker 1: for Thursday, May knife goes to my man the legendary
Speaker 1: future NBA Hall of Fame. Apaul Piss, Now, listen, I
Speaker 1: love predictions. We all make them. That is the foundation
Speaker 1: of a lot of different debates and lively discussions in
Speaker 1: our culture. Someone throws a wild prediction out there, and
Speaker 1: then everyone goes back and forth depending on if people
Speaker 1: agree or disagree. Some people will tell you never make predictions,
Speaker 1: especially about the future. But what fun would that be
Speaker 1: if that lets your testicles hang? All right, throw something
Speaker 1: against the wall and see if it's sticks. If you
Speaker 1: are correcting your prediction, then you are a profit of sorts.
Speaker 1: O Can you get to look at people and say,
Speaker 1: I told you so, you know what I mean? Especially
Speaker 1: if the situation goes down exactly how you said it would.
Speaker 1: And even if you're wrong, that's fine too, depending how
Speaker 1: close the actual outcome came to your said prediction. And
Speaker 1: that's why we are here today giving Paul Piss to
Speaker 1: credit he deserves for being stupid, because Paul Piss made
Speaker 1: what has turned out to be an extremely stupid prediction.
Speaker 1: All right, see Paul Piss is on ESPN and after
Speaker 1: Game one of the Eastern Conference Semifinals, which the Boston
Speaker 1: Celtics won, one twelve to ninety, a twenty two point blowout.
Speaker 1: Paul Piss got on ESPN and made this bold prediction.
Speaker 1: That's a team. I don't know where Milwaukee goes from
Speaker 1: here because who is this over? I think it's over.
Speaker 1: The series is over. Yeah, the game you just said
Speaker 1: her and said that they could win an NBA champion.
Speaker 1: I didn't say that, but one game. I think styles
Speaker 1: make fights in Boston boxing cha before the series start out,
Speaker 1: but it just seemed like Milwaukee was a way better
Speaker 1: team throughout the regular season. But when I watched this,
Speaker 1: if Jannis doesn't have a monster game and somebody else
Speaker 1: was hid besides him doesn't step up, Boston is just
Speaker 1: gonna out talent. Paul Piss after Game one of the
Speaker 1: NBA Eastern Conference Semifinals, Ladies and Gentlemen, after the Celtics
Speaker 1: beat the Bucks by twenty two points, you heard him
Speaker 1: just say he declared the series was over. Well, last night,
Speaker 1: the series did come to an end. Let's hear what
Speaker 1: the outcome was. Show the Bucks. George France took the
Speaker 1: East Fox Finals hold the first time, choose thousand A,
Speaker 1: dropping the Clues Monster the Milwaukee Bucks all right. Game
Speaker 1: five They won the series four games, the one meaning
Speaker 1: after that Game one lost to the Celtics. The Bucks
Speaker 1: didn't lose, No Mo. Now here's the thing. During the
Speaker 1: regular season, the Bucks won sixty games, sixty games, number
Speaker 1: one seed in the East. The Greek freak Gianni's last
Speaker 1: name I can't pronounces, an MVP candidate, one of the
Speaker 1: most unstoppable players in the league. They have another All
Speaker 1: Star in Chris Middleton. They got Eric Bletsobrook Lopez. The
Speaker 1: Bucks have six players, six players averaging double figures in
Speaker 1: points for the regular season. I'm saying all that to
Speaker 1: say they got a squad, squad, all right, a team team.
Speaker 1: There's no reason to say in a seven game series
Speaker 1: after Game one that this team in particular was done
Speaker 1: all right. I love Milwaukee. Slut to everyone who listens
Speaker 1: to us on one hundred point seven jams in Milwaukee.
Speaker 1: I think everyone in Milwaukee who can hear my voice
Speaker 1: needs to go to act. Paul piss thirty four on
Speaker 1: Twitter and leave nothing but dear emojis in his comments
Speaker 1: because he was loud and wrong, not once, but twice.
Speaker 1: Oh Paul doubled and tripled down. Now and now, Paul
Speaker 1: could have been drunk when he initially said after game
Speaker 1: one it was over, but he doubled down on the
Speaker 1: jump on the ESPN and he seemed to be sober. Here.
Speaker 1: Let's listen. I mean they may win a game, maybe two,
Speaker 1: but I'll just look at a talent disparity on these
Speaker 1: two balls. See, it's so easy, kind of. It's easier
Speaker 1: to scout the Bucks than it as the Celtics. You know,
Speaker 1: the driving force for the Bucks. Of course, you know
Speaker 1: Celtics have a drive force of Kyrie, but they have
Speaker 1: so many other guys that can step up. Now you
Speaker 1: slowed down Greek freak and you took him away for
Speaker 1: the most part, and they lose my Twitter. Some donkey
Speaker 1: to days just sell themselves. Please give Paul Piss the
Speaker 1: sweet sounds of the Hamletones. Oh now you are the
Speaker 1: doge the day, the dogee, Oh the day yee. Everybody
Speaker 1: in Milwaukee, please go have a pity party. And Paul
Speaker 1: pisss mentions his Twitter is Paul Piss thirty four. Leave
Speaker 1: nothing but dear emojis all in his comments all day long. Okay,
Speaker 1: have a bless day, Paul Piers. All right, that's the
Speaker 1: donkey of the day. Now up next is ask Ye
Speaker 1: eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. If
Speaker 1: you need advice, relationship advice, or any type of advice,
Speaker 1: you can call Ye now. The phone line to wide open.
Speaker 1: The number again is eight hundred five eight five one
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Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Come morning, the Breakfast Club. Morning. Everybody is
Speaker 1: tej Envy, Angela, Yee, Charlomagne, the guy. We all the
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. It is time to ask Ye Hello. Who's this?
Speaker 1: Yeah Hardy, oh Hey, Coma style stalloy Bean. I'm the
Speaker 1: all biggest fan though. Uh, what's your question? Though? For Angela? Ye,
Speaker 1: stop at Envy. That's terrible. Let's go what's the guy? Uh?
Speaker 1: I got my baby mama. She keeps dming me. She
Speaker 1: doesn't have your phone number? She do, but I guess
Speaker 1: she's just like a messenger and uh, you usually don't
Speaker 1: even pence me out the blue light that but y'all
Speaker 1: was like, what are you doing? And then she'll coming short.
Speaker 1: I don't know what she wants. To be honest, I
Speaker 1: give him money and I'll take care of her. But
Speaker 1: I don't know if she's jealous, she's trying to get
Speaker 1: back with me. What do you want her? Hay me?
Speaker 1: I mean I want everything, but to be honest, uh,
Speaker 1: I can't see it with her. That's why I don't
Speaker 1: really reply her back like that. Okay, So then it
Speaker 1: doesn't it doesn't matter what she wants. What matters is
Speaker 1: what you want. I mean. So if you don't want
Speaker 1: to be with her, don't be with her, don't matter.
Speaker 1: And she wants to be with you or you don't
Speaker 1: can't figure out what's her motives? That none of that matters.
Speaker 1: If that's not who you want to be with, all right, well,
Speaker 1: can just shout out my instagram is the mego underscore?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, every team and sliding him DMS. He'll
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Speaker 1: was on there talking about some meeting Booty. Oh yes,
Speaker 1: and we even talking about eating Booty. Y'all kill me, man,
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Speaker 1: sometimes y'all throw shade at me, at you. We don't
Speaker 1: even know you. You might on Twitter. Man, shut up, Okay, hey,
Speaker 1: thank you. That's a little shade. It's the audacity of man.
Speaker 1: Why you throwing shade at him? All right, take care,
Speaker 1: go ask ye eight hundred five eighty five one or
Speaker 1: five one if you need relationship advice. Hit and now
Speaker 1: it was the breakfast club, Good morning morning. Everybody is
Speaker 1: DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the
Speaker 1: breakfast club now ye with the middle of as you
Speaker 1: want to go to, let's do Mikita online nine Mkita,
Speaker 1: good morning. Hey, how y'all, I'm good? So hey anxiety okay,
Speaker 1: so mean I wanted to as um So, I pretty
Speaker 1: much I was in a relationship and then I got pregnant,
Speaker 1: and when I got pregnant, as I had my baby,
Speaker 1: everything pretty much shoo went left. Like I was kind
Speaker 1: of being like a little abused, And what's a little abused?
Speaker 1: Um So? I have been like kids before in my face,
Speaker 1: but only like once we getting in like a real
Speaker 1: strong argument and he just don't know how to control
Speaker 1: his temper. Okay, But if Makita, don't downplay what happened
Speaker 1: to you. Weren't a little abuse, you were abused, right, Okay, Makita,
Speaker 1: I have a door man. I don't want to take
Speaker 1: my daughter out of his life. When I went over
Speaker 1: his house to think my daughter up and he had
Speaker 1: a girl there and it made me feel like YA
Speaker 1: wanted him best. So I kind of tried, but it
Speaker 1: would feel negatives and just negative energy. You know, I
Speaker 1: wouldn't be positive and right and feel loves doing everything.
Speaker 1: And I guess it's like one am I posed whether
Speaker 1: I do now? Like how like your over these feelings
Speaker 1: or Nikita baby? Listen, First of all, it's okay for
Speaker 1: you to have these feelings. It's okay that you were
Speaker 1: jealous that he had another woman at the house. It's
Speaker 1: okay that you feel a way better to You're a
Speaker 1: human being, and that's fine. But I would say you
Speaker 1: should be thankful that you are not with this man anymore.
Speaker 1: And I would say run and keep it moving. And
Speaker 1: just because y'all not together doesn't mean he can't be
Speaker 1: a father and that he's not going to be in
Speaker 1: your daughter's life. He can still do those things, but
Speaker 1: you don't want to raise your daughter around somebody that's
Speaker 1: abusive to you that you're making excuses for that. I
Speaker 1: think that right now you should be so happy that
Speaker 1: you're not with him anymore, and that the I know
Speaker 1: that it takes a long time, because only time can
Speaker 1: heal those wounds that you're feeling. But it's okay for
Speaker 1: you to mourn the death of a relationship. It's over.
Speaker 1: And then what if, like I don't I'd be telling
Speaker 1: him like I don't want him, I don't want my
Speaker 1: child around I'll certainly people that he have around him
Speaker 1: because they just are enemy to me or just so
Speaker 1: like me or whatever. And he feels feel like, pretty
Speaker 1: much just forget what I say, like there's no respect.
Speaker 1: So here's the thing. Do you feel like your daughter's
Speaker 1: in harm and harm's way? Okay, so it's gonna be
Speaker 1: It sounds like this is an emotional experience where you
Speaker 1: don't want your child around people who you don't like,
Speaker 1: and you want him to respect that. But that's a
Speaker 1: hard thing for you doing force. And if you feel
Speaker 1: like your daughter is safe and she's okay, and that
Speaker 1: he's doing a good job as a father, you yourself
Speaker 1: are gonna have to deal with those because you can't
Speaker 1: really tell him who to be around and all those things.
Speaker 1: I think it's a different question if it's a safety issue.
Speaker 1: But if you feel like your daughter is safe and
Speaker 1: being treated well, that's the top priority. Okay, well, thank you.
Speaker 1: He definitely helped me clear my mind. Then, just know
Speaker 1: which way to go, mckitta. I can't wait till you
Speaker 1: find somebody who loves you and values you the way
Speaker 1: that you deserve to be valued in your relationship. And
Speaker 1: I think that sometimes certain things are a blessing. Like
Speaker 1: anytime you think I want him back, I want to
Speaker 1: get back with him, just remember how abusive he was,
Speaker 1: and remember that he has other girls that he's dealing with.
Speaker 1: And don't go back and backside, because it's gonna take
Speaker 1: you even longer to get out of that hole. You
Speaker 1: halfway out of it now, keep going, Okay, thank you, Okay, mckitta,
Speaker 1: We love you, Love y'all too. Thank y'all listening to
Speaker 1: y'all every morning. So all right, thank you. Sorry, all right,
Speaker 1: let's go to another line. Hello, who's this from Regina?
Speaker 1: What's up? Bro? What's your question for you? I'm about
Speaker 1: to go to jail and do for us, you know
Speaker 1: my jailstention to work with you. Whatever, But we had
Speaker 1: infidelities before, caught her texting people and stuff. She said,
Speaker 1: whatever did, but I own I don't know if I
Speaker 1: should clear a mind or you know, just try to
Speaker 1: hold it down with her. What you think, um, being
Speaker 1: that she's already had infidelity issues while you were home
Speaker 1: and not locked up, and you've caught her texting and
Speaker 1: doing other things. I always say, I wouldn't want you
Speaker 1: to be stressed out in jail thinking that your girl
Speaker 1: is going to hold you down, Right, That's what I
Speaker 1: was saying too. That's one of the same things. You
Speaker 1: know great as she does. But you have to be
Speaker 1: realistic with yourself. You know you are about to go away.
Speaker 1: You're going to be gone for three years. She's gonna
Speaker 1: have a lot of freedom. And imagine every day you're
Speaker 1: trying to call her wondering what she's doing. You know,
Speaker 1: you might have to just in reality all they say, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just give her this pass in my mind
Speaker 1: and know that whatever might be happening might happen, and
Speaker 1: I have to be prepared for the fact that she's
Speaker 1: not gonna do this bed with me, or you have
Speaker 1: to just let her know. Look, I don't even expect
Speaker 1: you to do that. Yeah, true, true, I guess I
Speaker 1: might just break it off. I appreciate you, all right,
Speaker 1: no problem, Good luck to you in jail. Trying to
Speaker 1: keep it real. Yeah, right, that you need a little
Speaker 1: more than lucking gee. All right, ask eight hundred five
Speaker 1: eight five one or five one. Now you got rumors
Speaker 1: all the way. Yes, let's talk about Steve Harvey. People
Speaker 1: are upset over these comments that he made about rich
Speaker 1: people don't sleep. We'll tell you what he said. All right,
Speaker 1: we'll get into that next. Keep a lock. This to
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Good morning, she's spilling the team. This is
Speaker 1: the rumor offor with Angela Yee on the Breakfast Club. Well,
Speaker 1: people were upset about some comments that Steve Harvey made.
Speaker 1: Now he was talking about rich people and what their
Speaker 1: habits are. Here's what he said. Success is not a
Speaker 1: comfortable procedure. So you gotta get comfortable being uncomfortable if
Speaker 1: you ever want to be successful. All of you have
Speaker 1: extraordinary capabilities. You have to decide if you're willing to
Speaker 1: do the things to put you in that category. Rich
Speaker 1: people don't sleep eight hours a day. That's a third
Speaker 1: of your life. It ain't twenty four hours in a day.
Speaker 1: You can't live in that la and wake up at
Speaker 1: eight o'clock in the morning. It's eleven o'clock on the
Speaker 1: East coast. The stock mark had been open two hours.
Speaker 1: They already making decisions about your life, and your ass
Speaker 1: was sleep. I actually think it's the opposite. I think
Speaker 1: when you get to a certain position in life, you
Speaker 1: sleep more because you know you have to in order
Speaker 1: to maintain what you built. And I think sleep is
Speaker 1: such an important part of self care, Like regular sleep
Speaker 1: is very important. Like now during the week, I rarely
Speaker 1: get eight hours of sleep a night, but I attempt to. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't think what he said, lie, I don't know
Speaker 1: why people are upset. He's absolutely positible. You know. He's
Speaker 1: saying that, Richard on sleep eight hours a day, like
Speaker 1: that means you're irresponsible and not trying to get it.
Speaker 1: I mean, if you sleep eight hours a day, but
Speaker 1: I take it as the grind, Like you know, when
Speaker 1: we all had our journey here, I know I didn't
Speaker 1: sleep eight hours a day of my journey here. Now
Speaker 1: I'm starting to get to sleep a position, but I
Speaker 1: definitely didn't about your life and your ass was sleep.
Speaker 1: In other words, he's trying to say, the less sleep
Speaker 1: you get, the more successful you are, because you should
Speaker 1: not be sleep because you'll miss something that's going on. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're all death. We're all lying on ourselves if we
Speaker 1: say that. That's why I said, I think it's the opposite,
Speaker 1: because on the grind, on the journey, you ain't get
Speaker 1: no sleep. I think the main thing, I think it
Speaker 1: was irresponsible because you should encourage people to get more
Speaker 1: sleep and don't make me feel like, well, I'm not
Speaker 1: successful because I sleep eight hours a night. I think
Speaker 1: I think he was speaking the truth to I think
Speaker 1: run this is what he did. You know he lived
Speaker 1: in the cause, he drove call the call call. I
Speaker 1: was gonna say, cause show comedy club to comedy club.
Speaker 1: He didn't get much sleep. I know I didn't get
Speaker 1: much sleep. And in no disrespect, but a lot of
Speaker 1: the DJs that got a lot of sleep, they still
Speaker 1: back home with their move. If that's the truth. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but people die from sleep, and people die from sleep deprivation.
Speaker 1: They suffer more from obesity. There's a lot of diseases
Speaker 1: that are linked to sleep deprivations. They've proven asleep is
Speaker 1: more important than probably anything right it comes to your health.
Speaker 1: I absolutely agree. I think that you should get as
Speaker 1: much sleep as possible. But we're lying to ourselves if
Speaker 1: we say that our culture did not fuel a lot
Speaker 1: of that. Now. I said a long time ago, I
Speaker 1: never sleep because sleep is becausein of death. It's like
Speaker 1: twenty five years to think about team no sleep. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like all of these like if
Speaker 1: you sleep, sleep when you die, hustles don't sleep like
Speaker 1: it's been a lot of negative stigma. Let's be let's
Speaker 1: be responsible about what we say and not to the
Speaker 1: people that you're not rich if you sleep eight hours
Speaker 1: a day, I should encourage you should encourage people to
Speaker 1: try to get eight hours to sleep. I even wish
Speaker 1: I could, amazing. That's not how I got to this
Speaker 1: spot by sleep. And I'm not gonna sit here and live.
Speaker 1: I grinded my assholes so I can sleep now. But
Speaker 1: I grunted. There was times I slept a pay, I
Speaker 1: took naps, two hour naps, and I worked my asshole.
Speaker 1: But that's because you weren't rich, right, I wasn't. But
Speaker 1: that's why he says rich people don't sleep. It ours
Speaker 1: the day you didn't say. People trying to be rich,
Speaker 1: you ever got a little grind and you sleep? No.
Speaker 1: But there was one time there was I had a
Speaker 1: better pain. There was some blood on it and I
Speaker 1: couldn't figure out how where that blood came from anyway.
Speaker 1: That's crazy. Just think about just think about people who
Speaker 1: have to work multiple jobs, who have kids to take
Speaker 1: care of and can't sleep eight hours a day. What
Speaker 1: he should have did. He shouldn't have generalized. You shouldn't
Speaker 1: have said rich people. He should have said me, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. He shouldn't have generalized. That's what
Speaker 1: he should have did. Okay, so now let's talk about
Speaker 1: Little Wayne. According to reports here and Cortest, his long
Speaker 1: time manager, have part ways. Really yes, they said, he
Speaker 1: reportedly parted ways with him prior to the release of
Speaker 1: the car to five back in September, even though their
Speaker 1: childhood friends and everything they said, the reason and motivation
Speaker 1: was allegedly supposedly agreed. They said that Quartez is the
Speaker 1: one that convinced him to fire his longtime lawyer, Ron
Speaker 1: Sweeney due to the belief that his company was attempting
Speaker 1: to collect more of Jake's royalties than he was owed.
Speaker 1: And after that, they said, Quartz conspired with Mac to
Speaker 1: drive a wedge between Little Wayne and Sweeney by making
Speaker 1: false and misleading statements. So I don't know what's going
Speaker 1: on over there in that camp. But I didn't even
Speaker 1: know that happened. That quez All right, Now, let's talk
Speaker 1: about that guy we told you about that's on Jeopardy.
Speaker 1: He's the second longest running champion. He still yes, he
Speaker 1: has over twenty two consecutive wins. Goodness, and he revealed
Speaker 1: that he had dreams of working in an MLB front
Speaker 1: office when he was young. He made that known last
Speaker 1: week and now teams are showing interest in him. Oakland,
Speaker 1: A's executive vice president of baseball operations said, my first
Speaker 1: ut when I saw him once, we half to get
Speaker 1: this guy in baseball. The Red Sox president and CEO
Speaker 1: said absolutely, yes. We put a huge premium on analytical abilities,
Speaker 1: both on the baseball side and business side, without question,
Speaker 1: when we interview young professionals coming out of college, that
Speaker 1: skill set is hugely important. So it looks like he
Speaker 1: might have a job twenty two and he's not cheating. No, wow,
Speaker 1: congratulations to him and that's amazing. All right. Now, Charlottagne
Speaker 1: did a conversation from a schoolboy Q. It's called crash Talk,
Speaker 1: a conversation with Leonard and it's on YouTube. The conversation
Speaker 1: with Leonard see the God McKelvie. I like just Leonard
Speaker 1: sounds good. I like Leonard too. But here is what happened.
Speaker 1: In that interview. They did discuss Mac Miller. So this day,
Speaker 1: I just don't I don't understand how I can't call
Speaker 1: me no more like innocent. So like losing a friend
Speaker 1: to game banging is way different from losing a friend
Speaker 1: that's like an innocent little like little kid that's just
Speaker 1: super pure. Like you remember your last conversation with Yeah bros.
Speaker 1: Over face. He was shooting a video and and he
Speaker 1: was talking and he was acting weird, and I'm just like,
Speaker 1: it's up with you, bro? Like he like, uh, people like,
Speaker 1: who do I gotta call to make sure I can
Speaker 1: get you in this video? Do you mean you ain't
Speaker 1: gonna call nobody? All right? So you can see that
Speaker 1: whole thing on YouTube. I think it's like thirty something minutes,
Speaker 1: thirty nine minutes, and we ain't played the part when
Speaker 1: he cried that was you know, I like it. I
Speaker 1: like when brothers cried. You know what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: think we need to do more of that. You can
Speaker 1: watch the hole anybody didn't break down talking about Mac Miller.
Speaker 1: All right, now let's talk about Diddy. He did a
Speaker 1: recent Essence May issue cover story. You know, Mother's Day
Speaker 1: is coming up, and now didd he is both mom
Speaker 1: and dad to his three of his children, and he
Speaker 1: had a very raw and unedited conversation with writer Dream
Speaker 1: Hampton where he discusses black mothers and how important they
Speaker 1: are in our lives. His Mother's Day is gonna hurt.
Speaker 1: He's definitely gonna celebrate, you know, all the mothers. You're not.
Speaker 1: We're not gonna get in the way of that. But honestly,
Speaker 1: anybody that's lost the mother, lost the soul mate. It
Speaker 1: takes time. It takes time, you know. I don't you
Speaker 1: know they say time hills all wounds when it comes
Speaker 1: to your mother mothers. I don't think that's the chase. No.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think we have the strongest being. Like
Speaker 1: if it comes to like a category or who's the
Speaker 1: strongest beings or the stay for the earth, it would
Speaker 1: have to be black mother. I don't think anybody can
Speaker 1: ever understand how you know to be a black mother
Speaker 1: as a man tis or how our hearts speaks and
Speaker 1: our lips can't describe how much we've been hurting. As
Speaker 1: my therapist says, it's okay to feel. There's no blueprint
Speaker 1: for pain, no manual book for trauma. You have to
Speaker 1: allow yourself to feel, and that's the first step to healing.
Speaker 1: And I do agree to They say time hills all wounds.
Speaker 1: With situations like that, it may hurt less, but I
Speaker 1: think it will always hurt and that is that's perfectly fine.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, I mane yea, and that is your
Speaker 1: rumor report, right, thank you, miss ye revote. We'll see
Speaker 1: you guys tomorrow. Everybody else to People's Choice mixes up Next,
Speaker 1: don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Go Morning Morning. Everybody
Speaker 1: is DJ Envy Angela yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest in the building, yep,
Speaker 1: author David back who. Thank you for having met the author.
Speaker 1: He's one of the most trusted financial experts in the world. Correct, okay,
Speaker 1: and a best selling financial author. You have a new
Speaker 1: book called The Latte Factor. I'm super grateful to have them.
Speaker 1: Beyond the showman, thank you. We'll talk to us about
Speaker 1: the Latte Factor. What are the comparisons between finances and latte? Yeah, Well,
Speaker 1: because here's the deal. They four to ten Americans right
Speaker 1: now cannot get their hands on one hundred dollars in
Speaker 1: case of emergency. Jesus, take that four out of ten.
Speaker 1: That's better than herpes. Herpy's only one in three. Jesus
Speaker 1: take that in for a second. Wait, six out of
Speaker 1: ten Americans can't get their hands on a thousand dollars
Speaker 1: in case of emergency purposes. So seven out of ten
Speaker 1: Americans living paycheck to paycheck. And what I've been teaching
Speaker 1: now for almost total twenty six years is that we
Speaker 1: got to break this. The way you break it, the
Speaker 1: way you stop living paycheck to paycheck, is you realize
Speaker 1: the small amounts of money can change your life. So
Speaker 1: I created this concept called the latte factor, which is
Speaker 1: the idea that if staid of wasting five bucks a
Speaker 1: day on a latte, you took that five dollars a day,
Speaker 1: you put it inside your retirement account, you paid yourself first,
Speaker 1: you could become a millionaire. So so here's what you need,
Speaker 1: some bag. But we got this, We got this little story,
Speaker 1: we got this metaphor in here, and got chart right,
Speaker 1: and a little simple chart shows you that by the
Speaker 1: way it takes a lifetime. Here it takes you starting
Speaker 1: your twenties five dollars a day. By the time forty
Speaker 1: years later at ten percent interest, it's worth nine hundred
Speaker 1: and forty eight thousand dollars. Okay, now someone, yeah, so
Speaker 1: that's starting in your twenties. Right now, there's a chart
Speaker 1: on page one thirty four shows somebody saving more than
Speaker 1: five dollars a day. Okay, three hundred bucks a month. Okay,
Speaker 1: you're twenty five, you saved three hundred bucks a month.
Speaker 1: By the time you reach retirement, you got one million,
Speaker 1: nine hundred and thirteen thousand dollars. Now here's the problem, guys.
Speaker 1: Most people do not start saving at twenty five. They
Speaker 1: start saving, they start they start thinking about it at
Speaker 1: thirty five. Do not wait to start saving money. My
Speaker 1: grandmother helped me buy my first stock at age seven. Wow.
Speaker 1: But you can only teach what you know. So a
Speaker 1: lot of these parents you can't teach finances because they
Speaker 1: don't know finances. This though, you are absolutely right, and
Speaker 1: I'm here to say to any parent listening right now,
Speaker 1: this is my thirteenth book. This is the easiest book
Speaker 1: I've ever written. And I'm out here watching the videos
Speaker 1: of all the amazing, incredible artists who have come through here,
Speaker 1: and a lot of them are wearing six figures in
Speaker 1: jewelry around their neck. When you start seeing somebody wearing
Speaker 1: six figures in jewelry on their neck and they don't
Speaker 1: have a six figure net worth, someone's wrong. I agree.
Speaker 1: The first thing you focus on if you're listening right
Speaker 1: now and you don't have any savings, is focus I'm
Speaker 1: getting a thousand dollars in savings. Take the take. I
Speaker 1: caught thee hundred day challenge, Save ten dollars a day
Speaker 1: for one hundred days. You're now wealth here the six
Speaker 1: out of ten people America. But what about people that
Speaker 1: would say, you know, that sounds great, but what else
Speaker 1: can I do that's going to be more aggressive? I got,
Speaker 1: I got. I'm gonna drop a truth on you right now.
Speaker 1: You want to go and try and get rich overnight,
Speaker 1: you will stay poor forever. You do not get rich
Speaker 1: in days, you get rich in decades. Yeah. But see,
Speaker 1: lottos are really just a tax on people that are
Speaker 1: like praying and hoping, right Like, that's not a real
Speaker 1: way to go and get rich. It's a tax on
Speaker 1: your hope. It's a TAXI own optimism. I used to
Speaker 1: say it's a tax on stupid people. But I don't
Speaker 1: want everybody coming out with a gun on me. So
Speaker 1: so so here's the thing. Lot we have people putting
Speaker 1: more money in the lottery tickets than retirement accounts. Right. So,
Speaker 1: if you've got a job today, here's what I want
Speaker 1: you to do. You have to pay yourself first. You
Speaker 1: have to get financially selfish. The formula to financial freedom
Speaker 1: for life is saving one hour day of your income.
Speaker 1: Whether you make minimum wageer you make more the average
Speaker 1: Americans making about twenty seven dollars an hour right now,
Speaker 1: one hour a day of your income paid automatically into
Speaker 1: a retirement account. You can be financially free for life.
Speaker 1: Can you elaborate on a statement you're richer than you think.
Speaker 1: You have to learn to think like an investor. There's
Speaker 1: two things that make people in America wealthy. They are
Speaker 1: real estate and stocks. If you don't own real estate
Speaker 1: and you don't own stocks, you don't get into one
Speaker 1: of these two games or both, you're not on the
Speaker 1: escalator to building well. These are the things that make
Speaker 1: people wealthier. When you own real estate. The tax laws
Speaker 1: favor the rich, you can buy it. This is what
Speaker 1: people don't realize. You can buy a home, live in
Speaker 1: it for two years, sell it, and if you're single,
Speaker 1: you can keep a quarter of a million dollars in
Speaker 1: tax free gains. Okay, quote a million dollar tax free. Right.
Speaker 1: It's the only game in town where the government doesn't tax.
Speaker 1: You know, one reason because the government wants you to
Speaker 1: have homeowner, want you to own a home. Right. Now,
Speaker 1: here's the truth. When you look at why is it
Speaker 1: that wealth goes from one generation to the next or doesn't.
Speaker 1: It's real estate. So homeowners are four six times wealthier
Speaker 1: than renters. So some of the smartest investments for people
Speaker 1: with new money to make our real estate and stop. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and the simplest thing is to start with your four
Speaker 1: one K plan or your IRA account and just start saving,
Speaker 1: start investing and get yourself. You know, you start some
Speaker 1: of the simples and index fund. You got a chapter
Speaker 1: in your book called don't budget and make it automatic?
Speaker 1: Can you expand on that police. Yeah, so we're all
Speaker 1: taught to budget. Nobody really does it in the real world.
Speaker 1: People hate it. So when I teach, is this the
Speaker 1: way you build wealth for anything? Retirement buying a car,
Speaker 1: going on a dream vocation. Saving money for kids who
Speaker 1: are going to go to college is you save automatically.
Speaker 1: Money's got to get moved automatically from your paycheck, from
Speaker 1: your income into these different savings accounts, or you won't
Speaker 1: do it. If you want to know the true formula
Speaker 1: to being able to retire in your fifties, it is
Speaker 1: to save. I can give you the exact number right now.
Speaker 1: It's fourteen percent of your gross income. Okay, but but
Speaker 1: it's fourty percent of gross income. How do I know
Speaker 1: these numbers because Fidelity Investments run is the largest foreign
Speaker 1: K plan, and I think in the world. They have
Speaker 1: sixteen million people in the US and their foreign K
Speaker 1: plan represents twenty thousand companies. They track the amount of
Speaker 1: people will become millionaires using their foreign K plan, and
Speaker 1: they've saved fourteen percent of their income for thirty years.
Speaker 1: By the time they reach an average age of fifty nine,
Speaker 1: they're a four one K millionaire. So the only way
Speaker 1: you're going to have money in this country is if
Speaker 1: you take care of yourself. No one's coming to save us. Now,
Speaker 1: you address one of the large shifts about money in
Speaker 1: the law. Take fact and it takes money to make money.
Speaker 1: Why that's such a misconception because if you, first of all,
Speaker 1: if you believe you've got to have a lot of
Speaker 1: money to start investing, he'll never started. You're defeated already.
Speaker 1: You're defeated already. It is a poor mental mindset. And
Speaker 1: so I'll go back to my grandmother. My grandmother was
Speaker 1: broke at thirty and didn't have a college education, lived
Speaker 1: in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, and had a job in retail, a
Speaker 1: place called Gimbal's Department store. She said, I was always
Speaker 1: getting my financial advice from my friends, and they were
Speaker 1: all poor. She said, don't get your financial advice from
Speaker 1: poor people. There you go. So she went out and
Speaker 1: started taking classes at adult schools on investing. She found
Speaker 1: somebody who was a millionaire. Didn't know the person well,
Speaker 1: but knew the person enough to say, I know you're
Speaker 1: well off financially, and I'm trying to learn how to
Speaker 1: become wealthier. Would you teach me? She actually asked for
Speaker 1: a mentor, and she learned over her lifetime what to do,
Speaker 1: and you know, and then pass the lessons on to
Speaker 1: our family. A lot of times, what happens once you
Speaker 1: have money is you don't actually care them if you
Speaker 1: look rich, because you don't care what any of else thinks.
Speaker 1: The weirdest thing is that when we're not rich, we
Speaker 1: care what people. Once we are rich, we don't give it.
Speaker 1: You say, big hat, no cat, big cattleig hat, no cattle.
Speaker 1: It's a Texas phrase because that's right, get the big hat.
Speaker 1: But you got no cattle, no big polk, no scroke.
Speaker 1: Have you got a big camp? All right? Dad? Backs,
Speaker 1: appreciate you for joining us. Back up his book The
Speaker 1: Latta Factor now, and thank you so much. Man, you guys,
Speaker 1: thank you for having me on your as. I appreciate you.
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