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Speaker 1: because this is a voice of society. James in the game.

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Speaker 1: Guys are the coveted morning show. What y'all earn? Exacting

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Speaker 1: hear that Breathfast School, the World's most dangerous morning show.

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Speaker 1: Good Morning, Usa, Hey damn, good morning, Good morning Angela. Yee,

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Speaker 1: it's Thursday. Who Today is ghost Face Killer's birthday. Happy birthday,

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Speaker 1: ghost Faced Birthday to ghost Face Now, um, shout out

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Speaker 1: to I know my kids going to school right now.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to my kids and my family. Every couple

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Speaker 1: of months we have like a big family meeting and

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Speaker 1: that's when everybody you know, jumps up in my bed

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Speaker 1: about how we feel about everybody else. And sometimes it's

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Speaker 1: good and sometimes it's bad. Sometimes somebody gets attacked, sometimes

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Speaker 1: it's I get attacked, no way, yeah or absolutely. So

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Speaker 1: you know, we talked about so logan you know tells

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Speaker 1: doesn't like. They tell me what they feel, what they like,

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Speaker 1: So it's a really good conversation. I mean it gets

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Speaker 1: nasty at times. Um. You know, my problems with my

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Speaker 1: him picking up behind himself. Uh, it's just a lot

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Speaker 1: just it was just a lot they got at me.

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Speaker 1: Of course, Dad, you sleep too much or you dude

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, what do they know? That's what I said.

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Speaker 1: you know. My son was like, you know, it's you know,

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Speaker 1: say with somebody who fights all the time. Shut up.

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Speaker 1: So it was pretty It was pretty cool. And then

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Speaker 1: I went to the gym. A friend of mine opened

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Speaker 1: up a new gym. You didn't fight, No, I did not.

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Speaker 1: Man in the gym. That's so rude, running breathing, heavy smell. Listen.

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Speaker 1: I would like you to hire me for your juice press.

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Speaker 1: And you shot a lot too. I don't shot anymore,

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Speaker 1: and I would I want you to hire me for

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Speaker 1: your juice press business. Because when I was at the gym,

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Speaker 1: I said, look, I understand that you don't have you know,

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Speaker 1: The juices could survive three to five days. You all

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Speaker 1: mean I'm two months. Oh I didn't. I don't know

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Speaker 1: not sexual assault. Come on, you know the difference, envy,

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Speaker 1: patis what we're talking about from page news. Well, we'll

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Speaker 1: talk about all these guns that were seized from a house.

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Speaker 1: The last thing in Sports. The Bucks eliminate the Celtics

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Speaker 1: Kimba Walker's from New York. He's an option He's a

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. If you're getting, if Katie's

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Speaker 1: like y'all say, y'all should want Kimball Walker the compliment.

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Speaker 1: I like Kimball. Yeah, I definitely like Kimball. Now what

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Speaker 1: Why were they teaching an analyzing comedy class in high school? Um,

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Speaker 1: Hid morning? Good morning, good morning, get it off her chests, Mama,

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Speaker 1: my ex supervisor Michelle. Why are you? Why you? Why you?

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Speaker 1: I'm here here now yo. Good morning yo. So crazy? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: That's all want to say? Yeah? Yeah you high his

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Speaker 1: this gracious all right? Hello? Who's this yo? DJ grumpy

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Speaker 1: Different voice. This is the Black Panther from the Avengers.

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Speaker 1: Do you drink about that? Do you really think about that? Trash?

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Speaker 1: good day, mister Grench. I just said we're gonna celebrate it. Well,

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Speaker 1: Report with Angelie Breakfast Club. Yesterday, we played this triggered

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Speaker 1: tweeted about it during that So she tweeted, I love

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Speaker 1: you beyond measure, even though I get big mad and

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Speaker 1: you triggered the f out of me. You make me

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Speaker 1: feel and I appreciate that, and that she wrote toward

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Speaker 1: Big Sean. So the generation takes everything literal by I

423
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Speaker 1: mean she wrote trigger and then the song is called

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Speaker 1: triggered right after that. So if you write that in

425
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Speaker 1: a tweet to Big Sean and that's your last boyfriend

426
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Speaker 1: and then you put out But thinks every song is

427
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Speaker 1: about somebody pretty much. Yeah, So if you write a

428
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Speaker 1: song about a breakup and then you had just broken

429
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Speaker 1: up with somebody, chances are you're an artist all right now.

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Speaker 1: Laurie Laughlin, she does not think that she's good end

431
00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:02,160
Speaker 1: up going to jail. She's been more and more confident

432
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Speaker 1: because of that college admissions cheating scandal. They believe they

433
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Speaker 1: will be acquitted if they go to trial, and that's

434
00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:11,000
Speaker 1: for allegedly paying five hundred thousand dollars to bribe their

435
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Speaker 1: daughter's way into the University of Southern California. Now, on

436
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Speaker 1: the other side of things, there's a TV series already

437
00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:19,080
Speaker 1: in the works based on the recent college admission scandal.

438
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Speaker 1: It's going to be a one hour limited perier about that.

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00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:25,000
Speaker 1: And they're also opating the rights to the upcoming book Accepted.

440
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Speaker 1: Are they gonna get paid for this? A Lauri Lacklingham

441
00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:29,280
Speaker 1: getting paid with us as well. They're not involved in it.

442
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Speaker 1: Somebody else is doing it so accepted as a book

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Speaker 1: that's being written by Wall Street Journal report is Melissa

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Speaker 1: Corn and Jen Levitts. They're writing the book and then

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Speaker 1: there's also a TV show and they're not involved in

446
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Speaker 1: this TV show at all. All right, we say that

447
00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:44,639
Speaker 1: until we see the credits and say, executive producer Aunt Becky.

448
00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:46,520
Speaker 1: Would you be mad if she was an executive producer

449
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Speaker 1: on it? All right? Tyred Banks, she's back and she's

450
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Speaker 1: on the cover of Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Issues. She returned

451
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Speaker 1: to modeling for that and looks amazing. And when they

452
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Speaker 1: do the side by side of Tyra Banks when she

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Speaker 1: did her cover previously back in nineteen ninety six, that's

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Speaker 1: the first cover she had. Look at how she looks

455
00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:08,640
Speaker 1: now pretty much the same. You look better enough, drop

456
00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:11,720
Speaker 1: on a clue Bux retire Banks. Damon's amazing. It's nothing

457
00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:13,639
Speaker 1: like when when you age like one and send a

458
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Speaker 1: milk boy. It's a different ball game. And a lot

459
00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:19,119
Speaker 1: of women in this generation are ageing like war. Previous

460
00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:21,000
Speaker 1: generations jaged like milk. But I mean it's a lot

461
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Speaker 1: of different factors. You know, people have more mindfulness about

462
00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:26,600
Speaker 1: health and wellness now because when you say, oh, she's

463
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Speaker 1: forty five. You don't look forty five. What the hell's

464
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Speaker 1: forty five pos to look like? All right? Now? R.

465
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Speaker 1: Kelly is very fortunate for him that he is now

466
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Speaker 1: going to get to go to court. He's getting a

467
00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:38,399
Speaker 1: do over for that whole sexual abuse laws. To remember,

468
00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:41,040
Speaker 1: he was served papers while he was in prison, and

469
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Speaker 1: the argument was that he didn't know what the paper

470
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Speaker 1: said because he can't read. But now they are giving

471
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Speaker 1: him another chance, so what not be able to read again? Well,

472
00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:53,840
Speaker 1: now he knows. So they vacated the default judgment, so

473
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Speaker 1: now he can actually fight the lawsuit. So all that

474
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Speaker 1: means is it hasn't been vacated. He can now fight

475
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Speaker 1: the lass. I mean they did keep that default judgment.

476
00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 1: No more default judgment. He's not going to have to

477
00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,320
Speaker 1: pay automatically. He can still go fight it. Now. I

478
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:08,119
Speaker 1: don't know what the hell is going on? Let me

479
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:11,400
Speaker 1: can tell, Yeah, we can tell. And he also paid

480
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Speaker 1: sixty two thousand dollars in back child support. So now

481
00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:16,000
Speaker 1: do you get that money from I don't know. I

482
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 1: can't tell you what he has going on in his

483
00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:20,520
Speaker 1: personal life where this money just shows up. But yes,

484
00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:23,480
Speaker 1: now Diana Ross she was upset about TSA, saying that

485
00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:26,439
Speaker 1: she was violated when she was getting patted down. She tweeted,

486
00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:28,920
Speaker 1: it's not what was done, but how I'm feeling violated.

487
00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:31,440
Speaker 1: I still feel her hands between my legs front and back,

488
00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:34,440
Speaker 1: saying to me it's her job. Wow. Really mixed emotions.

489
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 1: I always like to see the good things, but not

490
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:39,040
Speaker 1: feeling good right now, she complained on social media. Now,

491
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:41,880
Speaker 1: originally they were going to be doing a whole probe

492
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Speaker 1: into what happened, but now they've closed that and they

493
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:47,439
Speaker 1: said it was really nothing. They reviewed surveillance footage, they

494
00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:50,639
Speaker 1: interviewed the officers that were involved with her screening, and

495
00:23:50,960 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 1: they said they followed a proper protocols. That is protocol.

496
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:55,840
Speaker 1: If it's a random search and they have to search,

497
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:57,680
Speaker 1: they have to do it. It happened to me before.

498
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Speaker 1: I'm sure it happened to you guys before, as much

499
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Speaker 1: as we traveled. It happens. It's something that they do.

500
00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:03,879
Speaker 1: They're trying to stop terrorism and people from blowing up

501
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:05,479
Speaker 1: planes and things like that, so they do it. They

502
00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 1: absolutely positively. Yeah, I definitely set off the align just

503
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:09,959
Speaker 1: now when I was going to Dominican Republic. But I

504
00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:11,880
Speaker 1: think I might have had some pins in my hair

505
00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:14,600
Speaker 1: and things like that. TSA is very aggressive, though, I

506
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:16,439
Speaker 1: mean I think we y'all can feel a little invasive

507
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:18,240
Speaker 1: because they also ask you, do you want to go

508
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,159
Speaker 1: to a back room to get sets? Because they do.

509
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 1: They know they're about to violate you. You know what

510
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:24,439
Speaker 1: I'm saying, But they but they have to. They have

511
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 1: to check in those areas that all you know, or

512
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Speaker 1: your personal parts. I'm not gonna lie. We did go

513
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 1: through TSA one time and it was these dudes and

514
00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:35,040
Speaker 1: they was laughing and wanted The dudes said said to

515
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Speaker 1: music boy, they about to get wax. And when Wax

516
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:40,160
Speaker 1: got through that thing, there was a gay TSA agent

517
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Speaker 1: and he was being very very very aggressive and very fondly. Well,

518
00:24:44,440 --> 00:24:46,280
Speaker 1: they got to they got to check, you know, make

519
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:48,399
Speaker 1: sure they do they Why would he say to me

520
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:50,920
Speaker 1: they about to get him? It is just something. It

521
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:54,359
Speaker 1: does feel crazy, that's all. But anyway to look like

522
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 1: to do it trying to get some cheap fields to me?

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Speaker 1: Oh no, all right, Now when we come back, we

524
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:01,679
Speaker 1: got page news we're talking about, Yes, we are going

525
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:05,119
Speaker 1: to be talking about guns confiscated, over one thousand guns.

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00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,359
Speaker 1: One man arrested so far another man in Europe? What

527
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 1: went down? All right, we'll get into that when we

528
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Speaker 1: come back. Keeping locked us to breakfast club. Good morning.

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Speaker 1: Hey yo, what dropping the clues box for ghost face Killing?

530
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Speaker 1: My favorite m see of all times is born day

531
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Speaker 1: to day. Damn it we said that already? Yeah, okay,

532
00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 1: well I didn't. Happy born day to ghost face Killer. Okay,

533
00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 1: Happy very day to the ghost face killer. All right. Well,

534
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:29,159
Speaker 1: let's get in some front page news. Now. The Bucks

535
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,720
Speaker 1: eliminates the Celtics last night one sixteen ninety deep one nine.

536
00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:34,200
Speaker 1: Front Paul Piers might have to come to the front

537
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 1: of the carrigation because I thought that was the stupidest

538
00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:38,560
Speaker 1: prediction in the world after Game one when the Celtics

539
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:40,879
Speaker 1: beat them one twelve to ninety beat the Bucks, and

540
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:43,400
Speaker 1: he said it may be over. No, he didn't say maybe.

541
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:45,719
Speaker 1: He said I think it's over. But he was wrong. Now,

542
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 1: the Golden State Warriors beat the Rockets last night one

543
00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:50,320
Speaker 1: O four ninety nine, but Kevin Durant was injured. We're

544
00:25:50,320 --> 00:25:52,680
Speaker 1: not sure how serious the injury is, how many games

545
00:25:52,680 --> 00:25:55,440
Speaker 1: he's gonna be out, but we'll definitely see. They'll be fine.

546
00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:58,920
Speaker 1: They have a superstar named Steph Curry on Clay Thompson.

547
00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:00,239
Speaker 1: They both let it up last night. And they got

548
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:02,080
Speaker 1: another brother named Raymond Green. And I don't know if

549
00:26:02,119 --> 00:26:04,640
Speaker 1: y'all realizing that, but those guys won championships before Kevin

550
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,120
Speaker 1: Durant came there, went to the finals twice before Kevin

551
00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,160
Speaker 1: Durant came there. I think they'll be a okay guys,

552
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:11,520
Speaker 1: all right? What else he talking about? By the way,

553
00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 1: congratulations to Prince Harry and Megan Marco. They've revealed the

554
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 1: name of their new little baby, Archie Harrison, Mount Batton

555
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:25,680
Speaker 1: windsor what what Archie Harrison, Mount Batton windsor Mount Batten. Well,

556
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:28,640
Speaker 1: apparently Mount Batton Windsor is given to the male descendants

557
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 1: in line to the throne. That's the I guess the

558
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:34,800
Speaker 1: name that they're given, I don't know. And they said

559
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:36,399
Speaker 1: the name Archie. They just liked the name. There was

560
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 1: no special meaning, so that's why. And it's not it's

561
00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,199
Speaker 1: not Archibald. They want to make sure you guys know

562
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:43,000
Speaker 1: the baby is not Archibald. His name is really just

563
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 1: so what would he be a prince a little baby

564
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:51,440
Speaker 1: Prince Archie, Prince Archie and Ared duke and duchess. So

565
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:54,240
Speaker 1: what is that? I don't know. I don't know. Don't

566
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 1: give me, I don't know that people, God bless them. Okay,

567
00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 1: everybody was talking about it, and everybody he was like

568
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:03,000
Speaker 1: going crazy over the baby. When I was in Dominican Republic,

569
00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:05,359
Speaker 1: every oh my god, she had the baby. So okay,

570
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:11,320
Speaker 1: all right, now, let's talk about just messed this all up.

571
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:14,479
Speaker 1: The guns, yes, oh, the guns. So they did seize

572
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:17,119
Speaker 1: over a thousand guns. And this happened to add a

573
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:20,479
Speaker 1: very luxurious neighborhood in La It's called Holmby Hills, and

574
00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:23,399
Speaker 1: what they are saying is that someone was suspected of

575
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:27,119
Speaker 1: manufacturing and selling illegal firearms. It was an anonymous tip

576
00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:28,800
Speaker 1: and that's why they showed up to the house. One

577
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:30,239
Speaker 1: man was arrested in the house. They don't know if

578
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:31,679
Speaker 1: he was a squatter or if he was allowed to

579
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 1: be staying there. And they also said the person who

580
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 1: was the owner hasn't lived there in years and is

581
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 1: in Europe, so we don't know if he's involved in

582
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:39,919
Speaker 1: this whole scheme right now. But they said it's right

583
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:42,199
Speaker 1: near the Playboy mansion and it's also close to the

584
00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:46,120
Speaker 1: estate where Michael Jackson passed away, and back in the day,

585
00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:47,879
Speaker 1: that picture of all those guns would have made a

586
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:51,600
Speaker 1: mean mixtape couple about fifteen years ago. Man, somebody might

587
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:54,359
Speaker 1: do that now at every soul corny. Now, there was

588
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 1: a lot of controversy over this, and I don't know

589
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:57,439
Speaker 1: if you guys think this is a big deal, but

590
00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 1: Danna ka Patrick and Aaron Rodgers were sitting in courts

591
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:02,680
Speaker 1: at the Game five showdown between the Celtics and the

592
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 1: Milwaukee Bucks that we were just talking about, and camera's

593
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 1: caught h Danna Kapatrick trying to give money for a drink.

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00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 1: One of the fans I guess sitting behind them bought

595
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 1: it hurt sorry, and Aaron Rodgers a drink, and I

596
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:22,280
Speaker 1: guess people were upset that Aaron Rodgers allowed that to happen,

597
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:24,480
Speaker 1: to allow somebody else to buy the guy to buy

598
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:27,119
Speaker 1: his wife a drink. Yeah, you know, I don't know

599
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:29,679
Speaker 1: what was going down, but the guy, he was just

600
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 1: a random person that was sitting behind them, and when

601
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:34,320
Speaker 1: the drinks came, she tried to turn around and hand

602
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:36,679
Speaker 1: him the money for their drinks, like, oh no, it's okay,

603
00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 1: and the fan wouldn't take the cash, so people are saying,

604
00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:43,479
Speaker 1: oh my god, I can't believe that he would let

605
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 1: somebody else buy his woman a drink. Oh my god,

606
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: I hate a man. I just don't understand. So if

607
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 1: you were out with your wife and somebody sending her

608
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 1: a drink, would that be okay, that's not what happened,

609
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,720
Speaker 1: as contexted his whole situation, I would have. But that's

610
00:28:57,720 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 1: that what happened. Because if he was sitting in courtside

611
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 1: and pebody was a fan, people bought them drinks. She

612
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 1: tried to pay for it. He said, Now it's cool.

613
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:05,480
Speaker 1: I do that. I do I literally do that all

614
00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 1: the time, like just people in general the time. Did

615
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 1: he try to buy both of them drinks? So it

616
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:11,080
Speaker 1: was just one of those things that I'm just buying

617
00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 1: your wife saw her turning around, Now I'm good, and

618
00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 1: you know, he's like, I want to buy them to drink.

619
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 1: He said, now I'm good, and he bought a drink.

620
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:19,120
Speaker 1: Pay't a wrong that, yes, But if he just sent

621
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 1: over a drink to his wife, then that's a problem.

622
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 1: And Aaron Rodgers didn't do anything. He didn't look like

623
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:25,000
Speaker 1: he was upset, but she was turning around trying to

624
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:28,080
Speaker 1: give the money, and Dad ain't been crazy over that.

625
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:29,800
Speaker 1: You'd been in a restaurant, you with your boyfriend, and

626
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 1: somebody sending a drink over for you. Somebody send a

627
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 1: whole bottle, That's what I'm saying. Come on, I ask

628
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:36,600
Speaker 1: for you and your boyfriend though, correct. Oh, but they

629
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Speaker 1: know ye, They're like, oh that's angela. Ye, I'm sending

630
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Speaker 1: them a bottle, not just sending Year a drink. They

631
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Speaker 1: not just sending Year a bottle. It was it was

632
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,440
Speaker 1: just like oh and uh, the waitress was like, oh this.

633
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 1: You know, somebody over there wanted to send this over

634
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Speaker 1: to you. Guys. That's what that's. They're fussing over nothing.

635
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:55,760
Speaker 1: That's a big to do about nothing. Yes, and I

636
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 1: say that correctly, A big ti too. Yeah, it's a

637
00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:01,040
Speaker 1: big but for some reason everyone was talking about it.

638
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:05,040
Speaker 1: So all right, what about you? I mean, you wouldn't

639
00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:07,160
Speaker 1: be mad, right, somebody said, my wife a drink and

640
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 1: you were there too, both of y'all. It depends how

641
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 1: it came pause if it was somebody else, you know

642
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:17,000
Speaker 1: what that Trump page news. I'm not messing with you guys, man,

643
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:21,280
Speaker 1: see you always go Now I'm up a little bit now,

644
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 1: you know, Hey, that's front page News. Thank you. Now,

645
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Speaker 1: when we come back, Comment will be joining us. We'll

646
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 1: kick of a comment to don't move. Yes. Comment has

647
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 1: a new book out called Let Love Have the Last Word?

648
00:30:33,320 --> 00:30:36,400
Speaker 1: Yes are the last laugh no last word? Word? Yes? Yes,

649
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:40,440
Speaker 1: love has the where's the book? Somebody shut up? Man,

650
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:43,720
Speaker 1: I tell you say something that love the last Love

651
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 1: have the last word. The name of it, yes, goodness,

652
00:30:47,200 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 1: and I love and I love, I love what Let

653
00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 1: love have the last word? I just said that should

654
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 1: let me have the last word? Then you said laugh,

655
00:30:56,880 --> 00:31:00,200
Speaker 1: I did not. You didn't. Happy birthday to ghost face. Right,

656
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 1: we said that already. But I like, I like what

657
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 1: comments on right now? He's on. He's on. Uh. He's

658
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:09,160
Speaker 1: talking about a lot of mindfulness and uh mental wellness

659
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 1: and just you know, doing a lot of healing. And

660
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:15,719
Speaker 1: I appreciate that. Okay, let's get into it all right,

661
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:17,720
Speaker 1: we'll do that next. Keep a lot. Just the Breakfast Club.

662
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 1: Good morning, the Breakfast Club. It's DJ Envy Angela Yee,

663
00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:27,800
Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got

664
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 1: a special guest in the building has an Oscar golden globe,

665
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:36,240
Speaker 1: and me and Grammy, our brother coma. He's king great, man,

666
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 1: God's great. Absolutely good to see your brother. Yeah, I'm great.

667
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:41,120
Speaker 1: I'm glad, glad to see you, bro, glad to see

668
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 1: all y'all you got. Let Love have the last word, Yes, sir,

669
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:46,200
Speaker 1: we came in here with love for all of us

670
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:49,040
Speaker 1: too this morning. That's the book, man. Yeah, so I'm

671
00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 1: excited about Let love how the last word? What's the

672
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 1: deeper meaning of that title? It really comes from like

673
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 1: all the stuff that's going on in the world. A

674
00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 1: lot of things been feeling heavy. A lot of people,

675
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 1: you know, a lot of conversation is about taxes going

676
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 1: on in world politics. And I just felt like, man,

677
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 1: the best thing we can do to overcome a lot

678
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:11,520
Speaker 1: of this anxiety and depression is is man, put love

679
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 1: out there and not love like in a just mushy

680
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 1: all love, lovey dovey way, but it's like love and action,

681
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 1: like man, So I want to put positive energy out

682
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 1: there in the world where time seems so dark. So

683
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 1: forgiveness is part of that, yes, sir, So are you

684
00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 1: a forgiving person? I believe I am. I work towards it,

685
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,360
Speaker 1: for sure, I strive to practice it. And that's what

686
00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 1: this whole book for me is like it's just me

687
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 1: telling my stories and in the journey for what I

688
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 1: had to do to practice, and what I do to

689
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 1: practice is not always I'm not always succeeding at it,

690
00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:43,280
Speaker 1: but I'm striving towards it. I want to see you

691
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 1: at the Riverside Church on Monday, and you told this

692
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 1: story about why you say love all the time, and

693
00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, comment, ain't line because those is

694
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:52,760
Speaker 1: a known common any inter of you. He already ended

695
00:32:52,840 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 1: with love love. You always endo with that, but tell

696
00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:58,080
Speaker 1: them why you do that. One of my homies I

697
00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 1: grew up with named Dark, like from the South Side.

698
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 1: With me, he was like he a raw dude, Like

699
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 1: he was just a hustler. He lived a street life.

700
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 1: You're good brother, though, and we was in high school.

701
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 1: We always was like, man, yo, we need to start

702
00:33:10,400 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 1: saying love, man. And it's a dude, you know, Dark honestly,

703
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:16,480
Speaker 1: like he'd been shot five times, but he was still

704
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:18,720
Speaker 1: on something like, Yo, We're gonna start saying love, man.

705
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 1: And it just kind of stuck with me because it

706
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:24,520
Speaker 1: was like another way of just you know, extending it

707
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 1: to whoever my homies to strangers. I mean, I love,

708
00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 1: get off the phone wherever. I just that's that's my mind.

709
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 1: Black men don't do that to each other enough. We

710
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 1: don't tell each other we love each other, we value

711
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:38,400
Speaker 1: each other, we appreciate each other. That's why everybody's so tough. Yeah,

712
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:40,200
Speaker 1: you know, and then we end up hurting each other

713
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 1: because everybody's so angry. I feel like, man, we need

714
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 1: that because we've been taught like man, Yo, it's weak

715
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:48,840
Speaker 1: to go to therapy. It's weak to just be like Yo, man,

716
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 1: love bro, I love you. You know what you know,

717
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:53,840
Speaker 1: I messed up Hill just acknowledge certain things and just

718
00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:57,000
Speaker 1: you know, carrying to another to another black man, it's

719
00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:59,840
Speaker 1: like those things. It's like we're missing parts of our

720
00:33:59,880 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 1: life by not acknowledging those aspects. And I feel like

721
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:08,319
Speaker 1: we can be well rounded men by by acknowledging those things.

722
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:11,920
Speaker 1: That vulnerability is important, man, because if you stay like yo,

723
00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:15,279
Speaker 1: I'm I'm just like hard the whole time, it's like,

724
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:18,239
Speaker 1: oh I don't feel anything, man, at some point, it's

725
00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 1: gonna come out the wrong way. That's why it's so

726
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:22,919
Speaker 1: easy for us to hurt each other. Yeah, exactly, Yeah,

727
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 1: I mean, so I've been going to point Bland. I've

728
00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:28,759
Speaker 1: been going to visit a lot of prisons in California.

729
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:31,160
Speaker 1: You know, a lot of people I've talked to that

730
00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 1: just being cancerated, brothers, doing life without parole. Man. So

731
00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 1: many times when you get to the rooter they story,

732
00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:39,840
Speaker 1: they was like, man, I just was hurt when I was.

733
00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,560
Speaker 1: In fact, this one cat I remember his name was

734
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:45,200
Speaker 1: Bobby Gones, he broke down his whole stories to the

735
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:47,880
Speaker 1: point where he was like, man, I got sexually abused

736
00:34:47,920 --> 00:34:49,600
Speaker 1: when I was eight. I ain't know I'd expressed that.

737
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 1: So once I punched somebody out, that was my way

738
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:55,359
Speaker 1: of of letting, you know, letting my voice be heard

739
00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:57,719
Speaker 1: in a way because nobody else was gonna hear me,

740
00:34:57,719 --> 00:35:00,080
Speaker 1: and I was afraid to talk about those things. And

741
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:01,880
Speaker 1: when he did that, he said after that that was

742
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:05,120
Speaker 1: his way of just expressing it. And eventually, you know,

743
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:07,759
Speaker 1: he ended up murdering somebody because he thought that was

744
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:10,640
Speaker 1: a way to handle it violence for him to understand

745
00:35:10,640 --> 00:35:13,160
Speaker 1: the root of that issue. It's like for me, that's

746
00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:15,640
Speaker 1: where I look at my life, or look at our

747
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 1: lives and say, man, we can we can get this

748
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 1: extracted at the route, like if we really deal with

749
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:23,959
Speaker 1: the real, the real issue, and know how to work

750
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 1: through it. That's like when I when I met them,

751
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:29,160
Speaker 1: a lot of the brothers and sisters incarcerated, they were

752
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:31,839
Speaker 1: like transformed. I went in there and they was like

753
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:33,839
Speaker 1: some of the brothers was like man. They would they

754
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:36,720
Speaker 1: were introduced themselves and be like, yeah, I killed this brother,

755
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:39,000
Speaker 1: Joe Wilson, and they would say the name. And I

756
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 1: asked them, man, why you why do you say the name?

757
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:43,440
Speaker 1: They was like, man, we gotta we gotta acknowledge them

758
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:46,359
Speaker 1: as human beings. At the time when I did that act,

759
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:48,359
Speaker 1: I didn't even look at that person as a human being.

760
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:51,360
Speaker 1: I was like, it's for me to humanize myself and

761
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:53,880
Speaker 1: that person. We need their families and know that we

762
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 1: you know, we look at them as human beings. And

763
00:35:56,200 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 1: I think, you know, our culture or the way we

764
00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:01,359
Speaker 1: grew up. I'm not blaming it on us, but we

765
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:04,719
Speaker 1: got we inherited a lot of pain and suffering and

766
00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:07,640
Speaker 1: things we put up, like walls we put up just

767
00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:11,319
Speaker 1: from being here as black men. Is. Our ancestors had

768
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 1: had to suffer through that and that's been passed down.

769
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 1: So some of the things we got to shake off,

770
00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:17,680
Speaker 1: we got to peel it off. Man, it's and then

771
00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:19,719
Speaker 1: take a lot of work. So but what allowed you

772
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:21,560
Speaker 1: to open up because we've seen you opened up in

773
00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 1: this book and you talked about being molested as a child. Yeah,

774
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 1: what gave you that courage to talk about that? Honestly,

775
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:30,760
Speaker 1: I didn't even realize that happened in my life till

776
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:33,400
Speaker 1: like I was doing a movie and the movie was

777
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:36,520
Speaker 1: about sexual abuse and I was discussing it with the

778
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:39,319
Speaker 1: actress and we was talking about I was like, wait,

779
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:41,959
Speaker 1: I just went to that moment and was like, man,

780
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:44,759
Speaker 1: that that happened to me. So when when it came

781
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:47,160
Speaker 1: to the surface and one like, I was talking about

782
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:49,480
Speaker 1: it with everybody. But as I was writing this book,

783
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:52,360
Speaker 1: you know what my heart was like, I want to

784
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:54,880
Speaker 1: tell my story so that other people would be all

785
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 1: right with telling their stories and feel like, man, even

786
00:36:57,680 --> 00:37:00,440
Speaker 1: if it's not the exact same story, but okay with

787
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 1: being like, Man, I've been through some stuff and I

788
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 1: felt like, man, I gotta I gotta go out there

789
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 1: and do it, because man, the only way for people

790
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:11,600
Speaker 1: to heal is to talk about it. And I also

791
00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:13,880
Speaker 1: wanted to offer tools. You know, it wasn't like I

792
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:15,839
Speaker 1: was in the book I'm not like, this is how

793
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:18,200
Speaker 1: you get through it. I'm like, man, I'm still working

794
00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:20,279
Speaker 1: on this getting through it because I just recognized, did

795
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:22,400
Speaker 1: you forgive the person that molested you? And did you

796
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:24,799
Speaker 1: have that conversation with him the person pass I haven't

797
00:37:24,800 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 1: had that conversation with him, but I definitely forgave from Afar,

798
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:30,800
Speaker 1: like because I'm like, you know, this is this happened

799
00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:32,239
Speaker 1: in my life. I don't you know, I don't know

800
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:34,760
Speaker 1: what happened to that person to make that person want

801
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:36,879
Speaker 1: to do that. But I was like, man, I can't

802
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:39,359
Speaker 1: carry that, like what I was just saying about carrying it.

803
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:41,120
Speaker 1: And then you know, it was deep because I had

804
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:43,240
Speaker 1: to talk with my mother about it before the book

805
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:47,680
Speaker 1: came out, because she didn't never know about it, like

806
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:49,600
Speaker 1: and this is something you don't want to you know,

807
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:51,480
Speaker 1: you didn't want to tell them as you're you when

808
00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:53,799
Speaker 1: you're shorty. But I was talking to and she was

809
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:56,640
Speaker 1: telling me stories about her. I was like, man, this

810
00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 1: is a cycle that then like I want to be

811
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:00,640
Speaker 1: one of the ones that stop it. And you have

812
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:02,440
Speaker 1: a daughter too, and you reference your daughter a lot

813
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 1: in the book, So just imagine your daughter goes through

814
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:07,200
Speaker 1: something and doesn't want to mention it to you. Did

815
00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 1: you have a conversation with her too before the book?

816
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 1: I did. Yeah, we had a lot of conversations about

817
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 1: it because I actually played her song because I have

818
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 1: an album that's inspired by the book, and I played

819
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 1: a song that it's called Memories at Home to deal

820
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:24,319
Speaker 1: with the deals with the subject because I hadn't told

821
00:38:24,320 --> 00:38:26,239
Speaker 1: her when she just started like crying and I sat

822
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:28,239
Speaker 1: down and talked to about it. You know, she was like,

823
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:29,840
Speaker 1: I didn't even know that happened to you. Why didn't

824
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 1: you tell me about it? And I was like, you know,

825
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:34,799
Speaker 1: I'm just starting to come to grips with with Shan

826
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 1: that I really had to allow that to surface myself.

827
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 1: You know. She was like, man, that's courageous. She just

828
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 1: said this to me last night, Like, Yo, I'm really

829
00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 1: proud of you. All Right, we got more with common

830
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:47,520
Speaker 1: when we come back, don't move. It's the Breakfast Club.

831
00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 1: Good morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlemagne,

832
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 1: the guy we are the Breakfast Club. Were still kicking

833
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:56,920
Speaker 1: with common. The only stories are good though, And the

834
00:38:56,960 --> 00:38:59,279
Speaker 1: reason I say that is it opens things up for

835
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:01,920
Speaker 1: me and coversations to my daughter, Like every time I

836
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:05,320
Speaker 1: know Shalman has three daughters, I have three daughters, I'm overprotective,

837
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 1: Like did anybody touch you? Or you're okay? Did somebody say,

838
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 1: don't tell daddy? Like I'm over it because I hear

839
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:12,080
Speaker 1: all these stories and I want to make sure my

840
00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:14,239
Speaker 1: kids are good, you know, yeah, And I feel like

841
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:17,840
Speaker 1: these are the discussions that we didn't have as kids,

842
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:20,640
Speaker 1: and we want our kids to know. I'm glad as

843
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 1: parents we could be like, hey, somebody touch you. You You

844
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:26,359
Speaker 1: you can always come to me, don't ever, that's not

845
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:29,400
Speaker 1: your fault, you know, like, and we can learn, like

846
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:31,759
Speaker 1: we could discuss with each other the best ways to

847
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 1: have those conversations, you know, and get the information from

848
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:37,359
Speaker 1: whatever sources because a lot of you know, a lot

849
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:39,440
Speaker 1: of times I feel like in our communities, we haven't

850
00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:42,840
Speaker 1: had the resources or having as use access to the

851
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 1: resources to get like like professional help, right, But I

852
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 1: do it. I love that you you know, provide that

853
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:52,600
Speaker 1: space for for our kids. And that's what I this

854
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:55,720
Speaker 1: conversation is like, Man, I want kids to be like, man,

855
00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:58,160
Speaker 1: I gotta go tell somebody. Yeah, but you're opening up

856
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:00,400
Speaker 1: a new door because I was molested when I but

857
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:01,839
Speaker 1: it was by a woman, you know what I mean.

858
00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 1: I don't think growing up I'd have been secure enough

859
00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 1: to tell that story if it was done at the

860
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:09,600
Speaker 1: hands of another man. So what gave you the security?

861
00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:11,440
Speaker 1: At what point in your left you said, I'm secure

862
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 1: enough to say, you know what, this is what happened

863
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 1: to me? At this point, I think it's just faith

864
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 1: and who I am, faith in God and my spirituality.

865
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 1: It's something that I feel, like the attacks that or

866
00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:26,879
Speaker 1: whatever comes from the outside at some point, if I'm

867
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:29,640
Speaker 1: strong enough in the inside to and know who I am,

868
00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:32,239
Speaker 1: I'm then I'm good. Even when I played the song

869
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:35,000
Speaker 1: for some of my homies, they was looking like man,

870
00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:37,319
Speaker 1: ros ain't know that happened to you know, like, and

871
00:40:37,360 --> 00:40:39,879
Speaker 1: I was feeling a little like okay. And the first

872
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:41,920
Speaker 1: thing they did was joked a little bit, and then

873
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 1: they kind of saw it was a real subject and

874
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:46,400
Speaker 1: was like, all I gotta chill. So I think, you know,

875
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:49,839
Speaker 1: it's been my faith in myself and God and being

876
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:53,200
Speaker 1: like man. Sometimes leaders got to step out there, simple

877
00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:55,960
Speaker 1: as that. And some guys think that when they're young,

878
00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:57,880
Speaker 1: like Charlotagne at first might have been like, oh, I

879
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:00,360
Speaker 1: liked it right until this, but you didn't like you

880
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:02,200
Speaker 1: were a little kid, so you don't really know later

881
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 1: on in life what it is that that long lasting

882
00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:07,479
Speaker 1: impact is. You might think this grown woman doing something

883
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:09,759
Speaker 1: to you, because sometimes people like to act like that's

884
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 1: something that's fly that happens like a teacher and a student,

885
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:14,839
Speaker 1: and it's really not. Yeah, but that's just the way

886
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:16,399
Speaker 1: the world is position. But that's why I say it's

887
00:41:16,440 --> 00:41:18,719
Speaker 1: it's different with it's a guy. You know what I'm saying, Like,

888
00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 1: how did that affect you growing up? Like I said,

889
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:24,800
Speaker 1: for many many years, I tucked it away. I tried

890
00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:26,919
Speaker 1: to forget it. And it wasn't even like I tried

891
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:29,200
Speaker 1: to forget it. It It was just forgotten it in any way.

892
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:32,920
Speaker 1: So I love women, so that didn't affect me in

893
00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:35,719
Speaker 1: any way as far as that goes. But you know,

894
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 1: I'm not homophobic either. I'm like, yo, I respect anybody

895
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:41,760
Speaker 1: who was on that level. But it didn't. It didn't

896
00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:44,360
Speaker 1: like detol what I who I love and who I

897
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:46,840
Speaker 1: care about. I think more than anything, I just felt

898
00:41:47,200 --> 00:41:50,359
Speaker 1: violated that. You know, as a kid, I wasn't making

899
00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 1: a choice to be in any type of activity with anybody.

900
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 1: You do talk about going to therapy and finding out

901
00:41:56,080 --> 00:41:59,680
Speaker 1: that you were addicted to love, yes, love or sex?

902
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:06,200
Speaker 1: It was love was sex, it was it was It

903
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:09,839
Speaker 1: was more love addiction than then then the sex thing.

904
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 1: I mean, the sex thing is obviously a wonderful thing.

905
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:15,920
Speaker 1: But to be honest, the pattern I found myself in,

906
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 1: and what was called love addiction who my therapist broke

907
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:21,120
Speaker 1: it down, was that feeling of being like, ah, I'm

908
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 1: in love and it's that honeymoon period that people call it.

909
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:27,479
Speaker 1: I was addicted to that feeling. When that feeling would

910
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:30,879
Speaker 1: go away and the real part of relationships came, I

911
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:32,960
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, dude, I want this or not. Like

912
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 1: I wasn't ready to do the out. I care for

913
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:38,759
Speaker 1: the person, but when things got tough and it's time

914
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 1: to work through stuff, I wasn't willing to work through it,

915
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:44,359
Speaker 1: and I would make up make excuses like, oh man,

916
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:47,800
Speaker 1: that's interfere with my work. Relationships ain't good for me.

917
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:49,480
Speaker 1: I don't make my best albums when I'm in a

918
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:55,759
Speaker 1: relationship one of those it's not you with me, you

919
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 1: know exactly, you know. So I was, you know, I

920
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:02,440
Speaker 1: was in going through those cycles and and man, thank god,

921
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 1: I went to therapy because I was able to identify

922
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:08,680
Speaker 1: that what that pattern was and why I was feeling

923
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:11,399
Speaker 1: that way. So now you know, in relationships, I can

924
00:43:11,480 --> 00:43:14,160
Speaker 1: be this is how I really feeling in the present. This.

925
00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna bring up the old past things that happened,

926
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 1: because some of that old past stuff was just showing

927
00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:22,279
Speaker 1: up without me even knowing it. Was like, Okay, if

928
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:24,279
Speaker 1: I've been in a relationship before that was like really

929
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 1: needy and heavy and that didn't feel good, then I

930
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 1: also expected the next relationship gonna be like that, but

931
00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:31,440
Speaker 1: I ain't necessarily how it has to be. When you

932
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:33,640
Speaker 1: got some love advice from Michelle Obama, she helped y'all,

933
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:35,960
Speaker 1: oh man, yeah, well I talked to her, how does

934
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:37,839
Speaker 1: that happen? At the way? I talked to her, Yeah,

935
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:40,880
Speaker 1: a couple of times about like relationships, because you know

936
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:44,680
Speaker 1: what happens is she like comment, what's up? You know? You? You?

937
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 1: How did you forty forty two with you know this?

938
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 1: At the time, she was like, how did you you

939
00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:53,319
Speaker 1: know what's going on? Ain't you? And I'm giving up

940
00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 1: my reasons and she like, it feels like you didn't

941
00:43:56,600 --> 00:44:00,640
Speaker 1: agree with her advice about compromising what was about the Yeah,

942
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:03,400
Speaker 1: she has given me a lot of woods. And one

943
00:44:03,440 --> 00:44:05,080
Speaker 1: great thing that she told me is always going through

944
00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:07,040
Speaker 1: this journey is that you have to understand you're not

945
00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:09,719
Speaker 1: gonna get anybody that's perfect because you're not perfect. So

946
00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:12,200
Speaker 1: understand that there's some certain things that you will compromise

947
00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 1: in choosing that partner. But as long as the core

948
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:16,719
Speaker 1: values that are most important to you, that person you

949
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:19,319
Speaker 1: know marks off on that list, then you're good. I

950
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 1: agree with that advice, but it's taking the time to

951
00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:24,880
Speaker 1: work to get to live that advice, you know, Like,

952
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:27,759
Speaker 1: but it did help me because it's something for me

953
00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:30,400
Speaker 1: to always go back to and be like, yo, because

954
00:44:30,640 --> 00:44:33,399
Speaker 1: I think I was looking for if something going wrong,

955
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:35,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh man, she ain't go lasts long. We

956
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:37,800
Speaker 1: ain't go last its long because it is so I

957
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:41,279
Speaker 1: can start making excuses or reasons why it ain't gonna work.

958
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 1: And I think being able to say, you know what,

959
00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:46,759
Speaker 1: this person may not have this right now, but that's

960
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:48,759
Speaker 1: okay because we you know, we can work through it

961
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 1: at some point. That's what I feel like. I'm coming

962
00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:54,640
Speaker 1: to the understanding of se because you said, but I'm

963
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 1: beginning to understand that compromising myself to become inauthentic, to

964
00:44:58,120 --> 00:44:59,960
Speaker 1: live and exist as something other than who I am.

965
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:02,720
Speaker 1: It isn't love and sense to compromises filled with dangers

966
00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 1: and pitfalls at least to resentment. It leads to unhappiness.

967
00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:09,279
Speaker 1: It leads eventually to that feeling of losing oneself. Yeah, well,

968
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:12,120
Speaker 1: I mean, I definitely don't believe in losing losing myself.

969
00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:14,640
Speaker 1: That's where I failed in relationships, you know, like where

970
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:17,800
Speaker 1: where I've like gone too far thinking I'm like, Okay,

971
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm being the right part and I'm being

972
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:22,720
Speaker 1: the right man in this relationship, but I'm giving away

973
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:25,880
Speaker 1: some of the things of myself. So I don't believe.

974
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:29,600
Speaker 1: You don't compromise yourself, but you can compromise to like

975
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 1: be able to agree to do certain things. You know.

976
00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:34,880
Speaker 1: It's like with some compromises you've made. I want specific example,

977
00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:38,880
Speaker 1: Like it's specific example would be like, okay with with

978
00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:42,400
Speaker 1: with your family, you want to go spend this holiday,

979
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:44,839
Speaker 1: and I'm like, well, I gotta spend this time with

980
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 1: my family too, So I'll be like, I'm gonna spend

981
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:49,759
Speaker 1: this time with my family and then make sure I

982
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 1: got time with your family too. So that's that's some

983
00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:55,840
Speaker 1: of the compromises I've had since I've been talking to

984
00:45:55,960 --> 00:46:01,520
Speaker 1: Michelle Obama. Barack Obama know about He's goddamn relationship conversation

985
00:46:01,960 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 1: with his white Yeah, man, I mean I think Rock Cool,

986
00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:07,960
Speaker 1: He's probably looking at me like, go ahead, come and

987
00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:09,920
Speaker 1: get you know, get some wisdom, because you need to

988
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:12,480
Speaker 1: be chilling with a lady. Well yeah, this was like

989
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:15,800
Speaker 1: that was like three two three years ago, and stop

990
00:46:15,840 --> 00:46:17,760
Speaker 1: he was still in the White U. Yeah, he definitely

991
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:19,680
Speaker 1: was in the White House when when she first started

992
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 1: talking to me about it, he was he was in

993
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:23,319
Speaker 1: the White House. I wouldn't hit you with a little

994
00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:26,520
Speaker 1: light audit, you know what. She had to make sure,

995
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:30,360
Speaker 1: you know what, make sure you know she's been telling

996
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 1: me other stuff, you know, so be patient, like and

997
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 1: like take your time and those things. So he man.

998
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:39,040
Speaker 1: But but Rock, you know, you're a real dude. You know,

999
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:41,439
Speaker 1: she had to be having those conversations with you because

1000
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:43,360
Speaker 1: she had some some women she wanted to hook you

1001
00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:45,640
Speaker 1: up with, Like good conversation, just don't come out the blue.

1002
00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 1: Well she didn't. She didn't like come to the table

1003
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:50,160
Speaker 1: like yo, all right, Well I got somebody for you.

1004
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 1: She just was like yo, and then she she probably

1005
00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:56,000
Speaker 1: did think of somebody at one point, but I wouldn't

1006
00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:58,400
Speaker 1: around enough for her to be like Okay, come on,

1007
00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:01,239
Speaker 1: all right, let's get into a comment many mixed comings here.

1008
00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:10,759
Speaker 1: Let's go as the breakfast club good morning, shout the

1009
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:13,359
Speaker 1: coming here, let me know your favorite coming joy right now,

1010
00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:22,279
Speaker 1: and team changing me. Let's go. Yeah. I never knew

1011
00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:25,279
Speaker 1: what lah lah lah lah lah like. This gotta be

1012
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:28,360
Speaker 1: for me to write this, Queen, I ain't seen you

1013
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:31,440
Speaker 1: in a minute, wrote this letter and finally decide the

1014
00:47:31,560 --> 00:47:34,960
Speaker 1: Senate sign sil delivered for us to grow together. Love

1015
00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:37,279
Speaker 1: has no limit. Let's spend a slow forever. I know

1016
00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 1: your heartest weather blah blasters did to you. I ain't

1017
00:47:40,040 --> 00:47:42,320
Speaker 1: gonna saw them because I probably did it too because

1018
00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:45,239
Speaker 1: of you. Feelings I handle would care some recognize your

1019
00:47:45,239 --> 00:47:47,279
Speaker 1: life if they can't handle the glass. You know. I

1020
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 1: hate the type to walk around with matching searchs of relationships.

1021
00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 1: I will match to work. I want to be the

1022
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:54,200
Speaker 1: one to make you happy as it hurts you the most,

1023
00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:56,279
Speaker 1: they say the end of sneer. It's important that we're

1024
00:47:56,320 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 1: close to the most high, regardless of what happened. On

1025
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 1: him like a live yes, yes, yes y'all, and you

1026
00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:11,600
Speaker 1: don't stop to the beach, y'all. Get Joe stop, yes,

1027
00:48:11,719 --> 00:48:16,640
Speaker 1: yes y'all, Get tony, y'all it get Joe stop, yes,

1028
00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 1: yes y'all, and get tone stop to the b consience

1029
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:22,239
Speaker 1: to be the short shot. Come on, I met this

1030
00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:24,919
Speaker 1: girl and I was t his owld and what I loved.

1031
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:27,960
Speaker 1: So she had so much soul. She was on school

1032
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:30,359
Speaker 1: and I was sister shorty. Never do throughout my life.

1033
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:32,719
Speaker 1: She would read them for me or the regular. Not

1034
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:35,439
Speaker 1: a church girl. She was secular, not about my money,

1035
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 1: no stuff. Was like checking Henry he smuggle, saying for

1036
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:44,600
Speaker 1: a man as the five hustle seen him ben to

1037
00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:47,960
Speaker 1: struggle a whole life, made a transition from being to

1038
00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:53,600
Speaker 1: his wife stifling. The night had been Yes, my daddy

1039
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:56,880
Speaker 1: was a hustler, so she lied him. Looked at the churmy,

1040
00:48:56,960 --> 00:49:06,719
Speaker 1: how can they judge him? She screamed. That was a

1041
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 1: common mini mix morning. Everybody is DJ Envy and Angela Yee. Charlemagne,

1042
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:14,320
Speaker 1: the guy we are the breakfast club was still kicking

1043
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:17,440
Speaker 1: with coming yee. How difficult was the realization about your

1044
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:19,960
Speaker 1: daughter and her feeling like you weren't there enough for

1045
00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:22,920
Speaker 1: her when she was growing up. That was tough for me, man,

1046
00:49:22,960 --> 00:49:26,759
Speaker 1: because I thought I was doing a good job, you know, providing. Yeah,

1047
00:49:26,840 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 1: you're providing, and you you're taking those moments to to

1048
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:33,600
Speaker 1: really do show love, and you like, Okay, we're going

1049
00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:35,640
Speaker 1: to do these things that you like to do, and

1050
00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:37,920
Speaker 1: you think that spending time is really doing it. But

1051
00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 1: it's still some of those other moments that she needed,

1052
00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:43,239
Speaker 1: and just you know the fact, when she said it,

1053
00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:45,320
Speaker 1: it was, man, it was I was hurt. I was

1054
00:49:45,640 --> 00:49:47,239
Speaker 1: I was mad because some of the things she was

1055
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 1: saying to me. Was like, man, I can't believe you

1056
00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:52,840
Speaker 1: think I would do that. So I got defensive. But

1057
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:55,440
Speaker 1: then at some point I was just like, you know what,

1058
00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:57,480
Speaker 1: I need to listen to her because this is how

1059
00:49:57,560 --> 00:49:59,879
Speaker 1: she feeled. But what was she saying? What was basic?

1060
00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:02,360
Speaker 1: She was basically like how when she was younger, I

1061
00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:06,160
Speaker 1: didn't fight enough with her mother to like make sure

1062
00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:08,839
Speaker 1: that she was spending time with me. At one point,

1063
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:12,560
Speaker 1: she was talking about how I didn't like want to

1064
00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 1: pay for her to take the SAT tests, and I

1065
00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:18,080
Speaker 1: was like, a maya, you know better, Like you're like,

1066
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:21,560
Speaker 1: you know how much I paid for so ultimately, I

1067
00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:24,240
Speaker 1: was just like talking to her, telling her, you should

1068
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:26,200
Speaker 1: you know me and you know that how much I

1069
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:28,279
Speaker 1: love you, so it's no way that I would not

1070
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:31,160
Speaker 1: do those things. So I was it was, man, it

1071
00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:32,920
Speaker 1: was just some of those things you think as a

1072
00:50:33,040 --> 00:50:36,759
Speaker 1: daughter growing up. She probably just looked and was thinking like, man,

1073
00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:39,200
Speaker 1: this my dad ain't doing what I want. And Man,

1074
00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:41,200
Speaker 1: one of the things that really struck me when she

1075
00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:43,400
Speaker 1: was like, man, it hurt me when I saw you

1076
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:49,799
Speaker 1: out with your girlfriend's kids, and I was like, how

1077
00:50:49,840 --> 00:50:52,320
Speaker 1: do you answer that one? I was like, Man, you know,

1078
00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:54,279
Speaker 1: I was just trying to move forward with my life.

1079
00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 1: You know, like I was like that, I didn't love

1080
00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:59,919
Speaker 1: you any less, but if somebody I love has kids,

1081
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:03,239
Speaker 1: we might be out and and man, that was some real,

1082
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:06,239
Speaker 1: you know, real conversations. But the thing is what I

1083
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:09,000
Speaker 1: feel good about is man, Man and Moya, we're having

1084
00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:13,080
Speaker 1: these real conversations, so it's better in our relationship. Like

1085
00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:15,680
Speaker 1: the fact that we talked about all this, she actually

1086
00:51:15,800 --> 00:51:19,200
Speaker 1: feels like more confident and stronger, and I know that

1087
00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:22,439
Speaker 1: my love is what's gonna help her be the best

1088
00:51:22,680 --> 00:51:25,440
Speaker 1: woman she could be in relationships. It's part of you

1089
00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:27,560
Speaker 1: seeking self healing, because you want to be the type

1090
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:30,080
Speaker 1: of man you want to see your daughter with. For sure,

1091
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:32,279
Speaker 1: I want to be. I want to be um I

1092
00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:34,759
Speaker 1: I said, an example for my daughter all the time,

1093
00:51:35,160 --> 00:51:37,279
Speaker 1: I try to do it without like telling her, Yo,

1094
00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:40,200
Speaker 1: this type of man you want. I'm just like, open

1095
00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:41,960
Speaker 1: the door for it. She'd be frustrated, like, man, I

1096
00:51:42,000 --> 00:51:43,759
Speaker 1: gotta wait for you to open the door. I'm like, yeah,

1097
00:51:43,840 --> 00:51:46,680
Speaker 1: you do, and like just do regular things that I

1098
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:48,440
Speaker 1: think I wanted, the way I want to see a

1099
00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:51,160
Speaker 1: man treatd I just do it in action. Because that's

1100
00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:53,600
Speaker 1: such a tough question. Man, when people say, are you

1101
00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:56,160
Speaker 1: the kind of man that you would want your daughters

1102
00:51:56,200 --> 00:52:00,239
Speaker 1: to be with? Man, that's man. Like I told my daughter, YO, saying,

1103
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:02,839
Speaker 1: this guy, he young man, he might you know, that's

1104
00:52:03,040 --> 00:52:04,880
Speaker 1: that's where he is right now. He ain't gonna make

1105
00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:07,320
Speaker 1: all the best choices. He might want to be with

1106
00:52:07,440 --> 00:52:10,320
Speaker 1: some other girls. This is what it is. I was

1107
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:12,799
Speaker 1: that young man, of course, and into a into an

1108
00:52:12,800 --> 00:52:15,239
Speaker 1: adult age, and like I said, beyond just wanting to

1109
00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:18,480
Speaker 1: be with other women, even just being able to love

1110
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 1: in a mature and in a complete way. It took

1111
00:52:21,600 --> 00:52:24,560
Speaker 1: me years to get there. You know, being that man

1112
00:52:24,800 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 1: is a process. But I think one of the greatest

1113
00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:30,879
Speaker 1: things I've got is being able to communicate those things

1114
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:33,719
Speaker 1: now instead of being like having something harboring up in

1115
00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:36,160
Speaker 1: me and not being able to say it to a

1116
00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:39,719
Speaker 1: woman I'm in a relationship with. Is like, I gotta

1117
00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:41,520
Speaker 1: be able to say, like, yo, I need this time

1118
00:52:41,880 --> 00:52:43,759
Speaker 1: for this. I mean, this is better to express your

1119
00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:46,359
Speaker 1: feelings period. Like they tell us even in school when

1120
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:48,399
Speaker 1: you grew up as a great scout, like oh, think

1121
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:50,800
Speaker 1: positive and be partlis. I mean, I'll be feeling positive

1122
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:52,520
Speaker 1: at this moment, so I should be able to express that.

1123
00:52:52,719 --> 00:52:55,600
Speaker 1: I'll be talking to some of the shorties and seeing

1124
00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:57,960
Speaker 1: what hear and what they're going through. I'm like, man,

1125
00:52:58,080 --> 00:53:00,520
Speaker 1: you need some you need somebody to talk to. Man, Like,

1126
00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:03,040
Speaker 1: there's no way you can get through your day if

1127
00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:07,320
Speaker 1: you've seen your cousin shot, you pop slaying around just

1128
00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:10,120
Speaker 1: going through all that stuff, and you you're supposed to

1129
00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:13,399
Speaker 1: be regular and be normal and be good for the day.

1130
00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:16,480
Speaker 1: It's like, man, that's what these kids starting self medican.

1131
00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:19,000
Speaker 1: They start smoking, they start drinking, they start hanging around

1132
00:53:19,040 --> 00:53:21,440
Speaker 1: games because they feel like that's their brothers and musically,

1133
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:23,600
Speaker 1: goes down the wrong way, they start redistributing that pain.

1134
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:27,640
Speaker 1: That's the greatest source of white casts out here, hurting

1135
00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:30,320
Speaker 1: each other, killing each other's because they in pain. So

1136
00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:33,400
Speaker 1: I believe we go treat that pain as much as

1137
00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:38,279
Speaker 1: much as we reshaping and re reconfiguring the community. We

1138
00:53:38,360 --> 00:53:41,200
Speaker 1: got to create jobs. We gotta give mental health support,

1139
00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:44,359
Speaker 1: We gotta give like different ways of expressing. Like they

1140
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:47,600
Speaker 1: need to know about cinematography. They need to know about

1141
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:50,000
Speaker 1: like what it is to be a scriptwriter or whatever.

1142
00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:52,720
Speaker 1: You know, I'm just mentioning things in the entertainment Absolutely social.

1143
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:55,399
Speaker 1: They need to put social emotional learning in the schools. Yes,

1144
00:53:55,640 --> 00:53:58,480
Speaker 1: you know, I'm actually opening up a school called AIM.

1145
00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:01,319
Speaker 1: It's a Chicago It's called It's in Motion And one

1146
00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:05,320
Speaker 1: of the things that we are doing, it's opening this September.

1147
00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:07,600
Speaker 1: One of the things that we're doing is like we're

1148
00:54:07,640 --> 00:54:11,959
Speaker 1: gonna have that social and emotional intelligence, like those type

1149
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:15,120
Speaker 1: of courses where they could just talk things out, have

1150
00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 1: that type of therapy space, yoga space, you know, have

1151
00:54:19,800 --> 00:54:23,839
Speaker 1: spaces where they do know learning about cinematography, learning about scriptwriting,

1152
00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:27,520
Speaker 1: learning about costume design. Because so many of the kids

1153
00:54:27,719 --> 00:54:31,120
Speaker 1: don't get the exposure. Like for me, I was like, man,

1154
00:54:31,200 --> 00:54:33,600
Speaker 1: if I ain't have my mother saying, Man, I'm putting

1155
00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:36,680
Speaker 1: you in this computer class, I'm putting you you're playing

1156
00:54:36,719 --> 00:54:39,439
Speaker 1: biitty basketball. Man, I don't know where my life would

1157
00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:42,279
Speaker 1: be got to go to. That's a charter school. Yeah,

1158
00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:43,239
Speaker 1: I know, I know, you gotta get out there. I

1159
00:54:43,239 --> 00:54:44,719
Speaker 1: gotta ask you one last question because a lot of

1160
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:46,200
Speaker 1: things you say resonate with me in such a wig

1161
00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:47,880
Speaker 1: it's the same thing I'm going through right now. But

1162
00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:49,919
Speaker 1: you talk about your father and you say the sins

1163
00:54:49,960 --> 00:54:52,320
Speaker 1: of the father represents a cycle that you are destined

1164
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:54,399
Speaker 1: to break or repeat one of the other and your

1165
00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:56,960
Speaker 1: work remains and complete. So which cycles are you currently

1166
00:54:57,000 --> 00:55:02,320
Speaker 1: fighting to break? And your parenting? Yeah, the abandonment cycle

1167
00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:05,080
Speaker 1: was one of them, because man, I love my dad.

1168
00:55:05,239 --> 00:55:08,919
Speaker 1: My dad was cool, man, we got along really good.

1169
00:55:09,160 --> 00:55:11,439
Speaker 1: But I didn't know that I was had a void,

1170
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:14,160
Speaker 1: something was missing because when I was one, him and

1171
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:16,920
Speaker 1: my mother split up and I didn't have that relationship

1172
00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:20,080
Speaker 1: with him, like a presence, you know, with him being there,

1173
00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:23,719
Speaker 1: and you know the fact that my daughter is like

1174
00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:26,040
Speaker 1: kind of saying some of the same things that your

1175
00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:30,200
Speaker 1: presence wasn't you weren't physically there. It's like, Okay, how

1176
00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 1: can I stop the cycle? Now? I gotta be able

1177
00:55:32,719 --> 00:55:34,600
Speaker 1: to talk to her about this and tell her and

1178
00:55:34,680 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 1: hopefully she understands reasons why, so that there's no reason why. Really,

1179
00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:42,440
Speaker 1: I mean, she might understand from a different perspective and

1180
00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:45,680
Speaker 1: know that I'm hearing her and her being hurt. I

1181
00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:48,279
Speaker 1: think DOC has stopped the hurt. Like we was talking

1182
00:55:48,320 --> 00:55:51,279
Speaker 1: about distributing the pain. It's like that pain I had

1183
00:55:51,360 --> 00:55:54,120
Speaker 1: from my father. I didn't even know I had that pain,

1184
00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:57,480
Speaker 1: but it was there. Well, a moya can acknowledge that

1185
00:55:57,560 --> 00:55:59,799
Speaker 1: she has that pain and heal that pain, so when

1186
00:55:59,840 --> 00:56:02,680
Speaker 1: she going her relationship, she'll be a whole woman. That's

1187
00:56:02,760 --> 00:56:06,600
Speaker 1: really my way of stopping it um and just recognizing

1188
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:09,680
Speaker 1: those things. And when I do find myself like feeling

1189
00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:12,479
Speaker 1: a certain way about something my father did or whatever,

1190
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:15,920
Speaker 1: which I've worked to forgive my father. My father passed

1191
00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:19,080
Speaker 1: in twenty fourteen, but we was definitely in a great space.

1192
00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:21,960
Speaker 1: But even then post that, I had to still work

1193
00:56:22,040 --> 00:56:25,400
Speaker 1: on forgiving and knowing those things. But with that, I

1194
00:56:25,520 --> 00:56:28,280
Speaker 1: just feel like I carry a better happiness for myself

1195
00:56:28,440 --> 00:56:30,319
Speaker 1: and I'm able to give that to the people. I love.

1196
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:33,840
Speaker 1: I love these conversations, the conversation you're supposed to be

1197
00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:38,040
Speaker 1: having man therapy, so full of healing. I appreciate you

1198
00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:40,520
Speaker 1: coming for having these conversations. Well, let love have the

1199
00:56:40,640 --> 00:56:42,839
Speaker 1: last words out right now, so make sure you pick

1200
00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:44,920
Speaker 1: it up. Thank you for joining us, brother man, Thank

1201
00:56:45,000 --> 00:56:47,200
Speaker 1: y'all for having me. I love you, Love you brother.

1202
00:56:48,000 --> 00:56:50,680
Speaker 1: All right, it's coming. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning.

1203
00:56:51,280 --> 00:57:00,279
Speaker 1: It's about is the rumor report? Angela Yee on the

1204
00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:03,400
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Well, we've been talking about this. Did he

1205
00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:05,920
Speaker 1: cover story? Because Mother's Day is coming up this Sunday

1206
00:57:05,920 --> 00:57:09,160
Speaker 1: and he's on the May issue and he did an

1207
00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:12,160
Speaker 1: interview with Dream Hampton and it's a very raw and

1208
00:57:12,280 --> 00:57:16,360
Speaker 1: unedited conversation and we have a piece of that conversation

1209
00:57:16,480 --> 00:57:20,120
Speaker 1: exclusively for you right now. And it's very difficult to

1210
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:23,040
Speaker 1: hear because clearly did he still going through a lot

1211
00:57:23,280 --> 00:57:25,320
Speaker 1: having lost kim Porter. The kids are going through a

1212
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:28,720
Speaker 1: lot with kim Porter having passed. And here's what happened

1213
00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:32,439
Speaker 1: when he discusses black mothers, his Mother's Day is gonna hurt.

1214
00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:35,960
Speaker 1: We're definitely going to celebrate, you know, all the mothers

1215
00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:38,640
Speaker 1: you're not. We're not gonna get in the way of that.

1216
00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:43,320
Speaker 1: But you know, honestly, anybody that's lost the mother, lost

1217
00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:48,120
Speaker 1: the soulmate, it takes time. It takes time, you know.

1218
00:57:49,240 --> 00:57:52,760
Speaker 1: I don't you know they say town hills all wounds

1219
00:57:53,480 --> 00:57:56,919
Speaker 1: when it comes to your mother mothers. I don't think

1220
00:57:57,000 --> 00:58:01,200
Speaker 1: that case. No. I mean, I think we have the

1221
00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:04,760
Speaker 1: strongest being. Like if it comes to like a category

1222
00:58:04,840 --> 00:58:08,439
Speaker 1: or who's the strongest being on the stay for the earth,

1223
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 1: it would have to be black mothers. Don't anybody can

1224
00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 1: ever understand, you know, to be a black mother man,

1225
00:58:17,960 --> 00:58:20,240
Speaker 1: God bless did he? Man? Tears of how our heart

1226
00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:22,400
Speaker 1: speaks on our lips can't describe how much we've been hurting.

1227
00:58:22,400 --> 00:58:24,040
Speaker 1: There's no need to front and pretend to be tough

1228
00:58:24,080 --> 00:58:26,040
Speaker 1: at the time like this, Let those tears go. And

1229
00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:27,560
Speaker 1: I hope that Diddy and the kids are getting some

1230
00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:29,400
Speaker 1: type of grief counsel in, some type of therapy. I

1231
00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:31,320
Speaker 1: hope all the kids are protecting their energy and really

1232
00:58:31,400 --> 00:58:33,600
Speaker 1: invested in their mental wealth. Because He's right. I don't

1233
00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:35,720
Speaker 1: think time heals all wounds. With situations like this, they

1234
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:37,800
Speaker 1: may hurt less, but it will always hurt. And honestly,

1235
00:58:37,880 --> 00:58:40,160
Speaker 1: that's fine. We're human. Were allowed to feel that. Well.

1236
00:58:40,200 --> 00:58:42,520
Speaker 1: We get to see the family together a lot now too,

1237
00:58:42,680 --> 00:58:45,120
Speaker 1: and he's been, like he said in the article, just

1238
00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:47,800
Speaker 1: basically the mom for Mother's Day and all of that

1239
00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:50,400
Speaker 1: with the with the girls, you know, with his sons

1240
00:58:50,440 --> 00:58:52,720
Speaker 1: as well, a lot of family times. Shout to Diddy man,

1241
00:58:53,440 --> 00:58:56,600
Speaker 1: All right, now you should hurry. We discussed her comments

1242
00:58:56,760 --> 00:58:59,400
Speaker 1: during Red Table Talk. If you guys, remember she has

1243
00:58:59,480 --> 00:59:02,800
Speaker 1: this to say about her insecurities. Something that really bothers

1244
00:59:02,920 --> 00:59:05,280
Speaker 1: me and like honestly has given me a sense of

1245
00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:08,280
Speaker 1: a little bit of an insecurity is the fact that, yeah,

1246
00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:11,320
Speaker 1: like there are all these women like throwing themselves but me,

1247
00:59:11,840 --> 00:59:15,280
Speaker 1: like the past ten years, like I don't have any

1248
00:59:15,360 --> 00:59:18,480
Speaker 1: of that. This sounds weird, but like male attention. And

1249
00:59:18,600 --> 00:59:20,880
Speaker 1: so then like I begin to internalize it, and I'm like,

1250
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:25,720
Speaker 1: it's something wrong with her because I don't want it.

1251
00:59:25,960 --> 00:59:29,240
Speaker 1: But it would be nice to know that, like someone's looking.

1252
00:59:30,000 --> 00:59:32,320
Speaker 1: And I appreciate her for being honest about it because

1253
00:59:32,320 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 1: a lot of people feel like, man, I just want

1254
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Speaker 1: somebody to say I look nice, and it changes your

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Speaker 1: whole day sometimes when somebody's like, oh you look great today,

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00:59:38,800 --> 00:59:41,000
Speaker 1: and sometimes that's a great compliment. Your husband saying that

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00:59:41,040 --> 00:59:42,640
Speaker 1: don't make you feel good. No, I haven't saying you

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00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:44,760
Speaker 1: guys are married, so she knows that, and I guess

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00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:46,160
Speaker 1: she feels like he gets a lot of attention. But

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Speaker 1: I don't think there's anything wrong with her expressing how

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00:59:48,080 --> 00:59:50,400
Speaker 1: she really feels, because a lot of people were critical

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Speaker 1: of her, like she was saying she doesn't care about

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Speaker 1: her husband's feelings, but of course, but of course she does.

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Speaker 1: But she was just being honest that she feels insecure

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Speaker 1: and sometimes that's hard for people to admit. Now, she posted,

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Speaker 1: I've never been one to cage my feelings and emotions

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Speaker 1: to any capacity. I am human. It brings me pure

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Speaker 1: joy to speak my mind, be vulnerable at times, and

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Speaker 1: to know myself inside and out. Seeing it's how it's

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Speaker 1: mental health awareness month. I really want to take the

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Speaker 1: time to encourage everyone to speak their truth, regardless of perception,

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Speaker 1: fitting into a mold or offending someone. Because it's your

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Speaker 1: truth and that's okay, then God bless how you should courage.

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01:00:23,440 --> 01:00:25,280
Speaker 1: Still don't agree with what she said. When you depend

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01:00:25,320 --> 01:00:26,800
Speaker 1: on people to build you up, they will have the

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01:00:26,840 --> 01:00:28,800
Speaker 1: same power to break you down. Stop investing in the

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Speaker 1: opinions of other people so much, especially when you got

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Speaker 1: a man that loves you, values and appreciates you, who

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01:00:33,360 --> 01:00:35,120
Speaker 1: cares what other men thinks. I mean, you don't have

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Speaker 1: to agree with what she said, really do. It's not

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01:00:39,360 --> 01:00:42,040
Speaker 1: like I agree with you, but it's more like I

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01:00:42,120 --> 01:00:44,040
Speaker 1: get what she's saying. She's with her husband all the time.

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Speaker 1: Her husband is supposed to say she looks beautiful, but

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01:00:46,480 --> 01:00:48,880
Speaker 1: she's not. Yes, at that right there is taking your

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Speaker 1: significant other for granted it. Then she also let me

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01:00:52,480 --> 01:00:54,080
Speaker 1: tell you what she said. She also go out on

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01:00:54,160 --> 01:00:55,880
Speaker 1: to say, if what I'm not afraid to say out

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01:00:55,920 --> 01:00:58,360
Speaker 1: loud about being a thirty year old mama of three

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01:00:58,480 --> 01:01:00,200
Speaker 1: helps another women like me feel like they're not the

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Speaker 1: alone and not the only one with an insecurity because

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Speaker 1: we all have them, don't play, then that makes all

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Speaker 1: of this hoop low worth it. She just wants to

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Speaker 1: be flying and sexy. She had three children, she's a mom.

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Speaker 1: She still wants to be fly look flying, and she

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01:01:11,440 --> 01:01:13,440
Speaker 1: still wants to say she's not. And why does she

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Speaker 1: need the outside of opinions of others to feel that way?

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Speaker 1: If what I say is your husband doesn't matter anymore

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Speaker 1: of what I think. I never said. It doesn't matter.

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Speaker 1: That should be the end all, be all, period. She

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01:01:25,760 --> 01:01:28,080
Speaker 1: just wants to feel like, oh, people find me attractive

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01:01:28,640 --> 01:01:31,120
Speaker 1: in general? What's wrong with that? Who cares what people think?

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01:01:31,400 --> 01:01:34,760
Speaker 1: She does clearly, and she's being honest about her insecurity.

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01:01:34,840 --> 01:01:37,280
Speaker 1: She's not saying I need you to validate how I feel.

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01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:39,400
Speaker 1: She's just saying, this is how I really feel. I

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01:01:39,440 --> 01:01:41,200
Speaker 1: can't help it, and that's exactly what it is. And

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01:01:41,320 --> 01:01:44,200
Speaker 1: insecurity sometimes people can't help how they feel. We would

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01:01:44,200 --> 01:01:46,880
Speaker 1: love to all not be insecure, but the reality is

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01:01:46,960 --> 01:01:49,800
Speaker 1: people do have insecurities. I'm angela, yeah, and that's your

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Speaker 1: room of report. All right, Charloman, who's giving that? Donkey?

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01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:54,200
Speaker 1: You we need Paul Piss to come to the front

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01:01:54,200 --> 01:01:56,200
Speaker 1: of the congregation or this one is feeling Milwaukee and

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01:01:56,280 --> 01:01:59,400
Speaker 1: Milwaukee strictly all right, telp faull Piss. We'd like to

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01:01:59,400 --> 01:02:01,000
Speaker 1: have a world with him, please. All right, we'll get

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01:02:01,040 --> 01:02:02,800
Speaker 1: into that next. Keep it locked. Just to Breakfast Club,

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Speaker 1: Good Morning. I was born to Donkey. It's the Donkey

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01:02:07,560 --> 01:02:23,720
Speaker 1: of the Death that Devil Breakfast Club. Yes, Donkey today

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01:02:23,800 --> 01:02:27,040
Speaker 1: for Thursday, May knife goes to my man the legendary

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01:02:27,160 --> 01:02:30,120
Speaker 1: future NBA Hall of Fame. Apaul Piss, Now, listen, I

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01:02:30,280 --> 01:02:33,280
Speaker 1: love predictions. We all make them. That is the foundation

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01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:35,760
Speaker 1: of a lot of different debates and lively discussions in

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01:02:35,800 --> 01:02:38,520
Speaker 1: our culture. Someone throws a wild prediction out there, and

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01:02:38,600 --> 01:02:40,800
Speaker 1: then everyone goes back and forth depending on if people

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01:02:40,840 --> 01:02:44,960
Speaker 1: agree or disagree. Some people will tell you never make predictions,

1324
01:02:45,280 --> 01:02:48,040
Speaker 1: especially about the future. But what fun would that be

1325
01:02:48,840 --> 01:02:52,000
Speaker 1: if that lets your testicles hang? All right, throw something

1326
01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:53,680
Speaker 1: against the wall and see if it's sticks. If you

1327
01:02:53,760 --> 01:02:56,680
Speaker 1: are correcting your prediction, then you are a profit of sorts.

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01:02:56,720 --> 01:02:58,480
Speaker 1: O Can you get to look at people and say,

1329
01:02:58,480 --> 01:03:00,360
Speaker 1: I told you so, you know what I mean? Especially

1330
01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:02,919
Speaker 1: if the situation goes down exactly how you said it would.

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01:03:03,240 --> 01:03:06,480
Speaker 1: And even if you're wrong, that's fine too, depending how

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01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:10,200
Speaker 1: close the actual outcome came to your said prediction. And

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01:03:10,360 --> 01:03:12,960
Speaker 1: that's why we are here today giving Paul Piss to

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01:03:13,000 --> 01:03:15,760
Speaker 1: credit he deserves for being stupid, because Paul Piss made

1335
01:03:15,800 --> 01:03:18,480
Speaker 1: what has turned out to be an extremely stupid prediction.

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01:03:18,760 --> 01:03:21,800
Speaker 1: All right, see Paul Piss is on ESPN and after

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01:03:21,880 --> 01:03:24,280
Speaker 1: Game one of the Eastern Conference Semifinals, which the Boston

1338
01:03:24,360 --> 01:03:27,680
Speaker 1: Celtics won, one twelve to ninety, a twenty two point blowout.

1339
01:03:27,880 --> 01:03:30,800
Speaker 1: Paul Piss got on ESPN and made this bold prediction.

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01:03:31,200 --> 01:03:33,680
Speaker 1: That's a team. I don't know where Milwaukee goes from

1341
01:03:33,720 --> 01:03:36,960
Speaker 1: here because who is this over? I think it's over.

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01:03:37,120 --> 01:03:40,040
Speaker 1: The series is over. Yeah, the game you just said

1343
01:03:40,040 --> 01:03:42,000
Speaker 1: her and said that they could win an NBA champion.

1344
01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:44,400
Speaker 1: I didn't say that, but one game. I think styles

1345
01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:48,520
Speaker 1: make fights in Boston boxing cha before the series start out,

1346
01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:51,040
Speaker 1: but it just seemed like Milwaukee was a way better

1347
01:03:51,120 --> 01:03:53,520
Speaker 1: team throughout the regular season. But when I watched this,

1348
01:03:54,000 --> 01:03:57,360
Speaker 1: if Jannis doesn't have a monster game and somebody else

1349
01:03:57,640 --> 01:04:00,720
Speaker 1: was hid besides him doesn't step up, Boston is just

1350
01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:03,920
Speaker 1: gonna out talent. Paul Piss after Game one of the

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01:04:04,120 --> 01:04:07,400
Speaker 1: NBA Eastern Conference Semifinals, Ladies and Gentlemen, after the Celtics

1352
01:04:07,480 --> 01:04:09,280
Speaker 1: beat the Bucks by twenty two points, you heard him

1353
01:04:09,360 --> 01:04:12,600
Speaker 1: just say he declared the series was over. Well, last night,

1354
01:04:12,680 --> 01:04:14,800
Speaker 1: the series did come to an end. Let's hear what

1355
01:04:14,880 --> 01:04:22,760
Speaker 1: the outcome was. Show the Bucks. George France took the

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01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:28,600
Speaker 1: East Fox Finals hold the first time, choose thousand A,

1357
01:04:32,400 --> 01:04:35,479
Speaker 1: dropping the Clues Monster the Milwaukee Bucks all right. Game

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01:04:35,560 --> 01:04:37,880
Speaker 1: five They won the series four games, the one meaning

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01:04:37,920 --> 01:04:40,440
Speaker 1: after that Game one lost to the Celtics. The Bucks

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01:04:40,480 --> 01:04:43,040
Speaker 1: didn't lose, No Mo. Now here's the thing. During the

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01:04:43,080 --> 01:04:46,280
Speaker 1: regular season, the Bucks won sixty games, sixty games, number

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01:04:46,320 --> 01:04:49,200
Speaker 1: one seed in the East. The Greek freak Gianni's last

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01:04:49,280 --> 01:04:51,680
Speaker 1: name I can't pronounces, an MVP candidate, one of the

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01:04:51,720 --> 01:04:53,840
Speaker 1: most unstoppable players in the league. They have another All

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01:04:53,920 --> 01:04:56,600
Speaker 1: Star in Chris Middleton. They got Eric Bletsobrook Lopez. The

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01:04:56,640 --> 01:05:00,440
Speaker 1: Bucks have six players, six players averaging double figures in

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01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:02,480
Speaker 1: points for the regular season. I'm saying all that to

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01:05:02,520 --> 01:05:05,600
Speaker 1: say they got a squad, squad, all right, a team team.

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01:05:05,800 --> 01:05:08,160
Speaker 1: There's no reason to say in a seven game series

1370
01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:11,520
Speaker 1: after Game one that this team in particular was done

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01:05:11,840 --> 01:05:14,479
Speaker 1: all right. I love Milwaukee. Slut to everyone who listens

1372
01:05:14,480 --> 01:05:16,720
Speaker 1: to us on one hundred point seven jams in Milwaukee.

1373
01:05:16,800 --> 01:05:19,080
Speaker 1: I think everyone in Milwaukee who can hear my voice

1374
01:05:19,400 --> 01:05:22,320
Speaker 1: needs to go to act. Paul piss thirty four on

1375
01:05:22,480 --> 01:05:25,720
Speaker 1: Twitter and leave nothing but dear emojis in his comments

1376
01:05:26,080 --> 01:05:28,680
Speaker 1: because he was loud and wrong, not once, but twice.

1377
01:05:28,920 --> 01:05:31,320
Speaker 1: Oh Paul doubled and tripled down. Now and now, Paul

1378
01:05:31,320 --> 01:05:33,400
Speaker 1: could have been drunk when he initially said after game

1379
01:05:33,440 --> 01:05:35,440
Speaker 1: one it was over, but he doubled down on the

1380
01:05:35,560 --> 01:05:37,840
Speaker 1: jump on the ESPN and he seemed to be sober. Here.

1381
01:05:37,920 --> 01:05:40,480
Speaker 1: Let's listen. I mean they may win a game, maybe two,

1382
01:05:40,880 --> 01:05:43,720
Speaker 1: but I'll just look at a talent disparity on these

1383
01:05:43,800 --> 01:05:47,400
Speaker 1: two balls. See, it's so easy, kind of. It's easier

1384
01:05:47,480 --> 01:05:49,680
Speaker 1: to scout the Bucks than it as the Celtics. You know,

1385
01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:52,600
Speaker 1: the driving force for the Bucks. Of course, you know

1386
01:05:52,760 --> 01:05:54,600
Speaker 1: Celtics have a drive force of Kyrie, but they have

1387
01:05:54,720 --> 01:05:56,960
Speaker 1: so many other guys that can step up. Now you

1388
01:05:57,080 --> 01:05:59,280
Speaker 1: slowed down Greek freak and you took him away for

1389
01:05:59,360 --> 01:06:02,800
Speaker 1: the most part, and they lose my Twitter. Some donkey

1390
01:06:02,880 --> 01:06:05,360
Speaker 1: to days just sell themselves. Please give Paul Piss the

1391
01:06:05,360 --> 01:06:08,400
Speaker 1: sweet sounds of the Hamletones. Oh now you are the

1392
01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:24,880
Speaker 1: doge the day, the dogee, Oh the day yee. Everybody

1393
01:06:24,960 --> 01:06:27,439
Speaker 1: in Milwaukee, please go have a pity party. And Paul

1394
01:06:27,480 --> 01:06:30,840
Speaker 1: pisss mentions his Twitter is Paul Piss thirty four. Leave

1395
01:06:31,000 --> 01:06:36,680
Speaker 1: nothing but dear emojis all in his comments all day long. Okay,

1396
01:06:37,600 --> 01:06:39,800
Speaker 1: have a bless day, Paul Piers. All right, that's the

1397
01:06:39,920 --> 01:06:42,280
Speaker 1: donkey of the day. Now up next is ask Ye

1398
01:06:42,520 --> 01:06:44,760
Speaker 1: eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. If

1399
01:06:44,800 --> 01:06:47,960
Speaker 1: you need advice, relationship advice, or any type of advice,

1400
01:06:48,040 --> 01:06:50,120
Speaker 1: you can call Ye now. The phone line to wide open.

1401
01:06:50,160 --> 01:06:53,320
Speaker 1: The number again is eight hundred five eight five one

1402
01:06:53,360 --> 01:06:54,920
Speaker 1: oh five one. Hit us up right now. It's the

1403
01:06:54,920 --> 01:07:01,040
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Come morning, the Breakfast Club. Morning. Everybody is

1404
01:07:01,080 --> 01:07:04,600
Speaker 1: tej Envy, Angela, Yee, Charlomagne, the guy. We all the

1405
01:07:04,640 --> 01:07:07,160
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. It is time to ask Ye Hello. Who's this?

1406
01:07:08,440 --> 01:07:13,960
Speaker 1: Yeah Hardy, oh Hey, Coma style stalloy Bean. I'm the

1407
01:07:14,000 --> 01:07:17,640
Speaker 1: all biggest fan though. Uh, what's your question? Though? For Angela? Ye,

1408
01:07:18,040 --> 01:07:22,360
Speaker 1: stop at Envy. That's terrible. Let's go what's the guy? Uh?

1409
01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:26,760
Speaker 1: I got my baby mama. She keeps dming me. She

1410
01:07:26,920 --> 01:07:30,120
Speaker 1: doesn't have your phone number? She do, but I guess

1411
01:07:30,160 --> 01:07:34,120
Speaker 1: she's just like a messenger and uh, you usually don't

1412
01:07:34,160 --> 01:07:35,840
Speaker 1: even pence me out the blue light that but y'all

1413
01:07:35,880 --> 01:07:38,560
Speaker 1: was like, what are you doing? And then she'll coming short.

1414
01:07:39,120 --> 01:07:40,960
Speaker 1: I don't know what she wants. To be honest, I

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01:07:41,080 --> 01:07:43,600
Speaker 1: give him money and I'll take care of her. But

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01:07:44,200 --> 01:07:45,800
Speaker 1: I don't know if she's jealous, she's trying to get

1417
01:07:45,840 --> 01:07:48,320
Speaker 1: back with me. What do you want her? Hay me?

1418
01:07:48,520 --> 01:07:51,400
Speaker 1: I mean I want everything, but to be honest, uh,

1419
01:07:52,440 --> 01:07:53,960
Speaker 1: I can't see it with her. That's why I don't

1420
01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:56,440
Speaker 1: really reply her back like that. Okay, So then it

1421
01:07:56,480 --> 01:07:58,520
Speaker 1: doesn't it doesn't matter what she wants. What matters is

1422
01:07:58,560 --> 01:08:02,120
Speaker 1: what you want. I mean. So if you don't want

1423
01:08:02,120 --> 01:08:03,640
Speaker 1: to be with her, don't be with her, don't matter.

1424
01:08:03,680 --> 01:08:05,440
Speaker 1: And she wants to be with you or you don't

1425
01:08:05,480 --> 01:08:08,400
Speaker 1: can't figure out what's her motives? That none of that matters.

1426
01:08:08,400 --> 01:08:10,280
Speaker 1: If that's not who you want to be with, all right, well,

1427
01:08:10,360 --> 01:08:13,040
Speaker 1: can just shout out my instagram is the mego underscore?

1428
01:08:13,080 --> 01:08:16,760
Speaker 1: Oh my god, every team and sliding him DMS. He'll

1429
01:08:16,800 --> 01:08:19,960
Speaker 1: answer him. I've seen that drink Champs yesterday. I love

1430
01:08:20,040 --> 01:08:23,080
Speaker 1: me some YouTube probably like three years ago. Your nammy

1431
01:08:23,200 --> 01:08:25,439
Speaker 1: was on there talking about some meeting Booty. Oh yes,

1432
01:08:25,520 --> 01:08:27,920
Speaker 1: and we even talking about eating Booty. Y'all kill me, man,

1433
01:08:27,960 --> 01:08:30,880
Speaker 1: I love the Breakfast Club. I mean I feel like

1434
01:08:30,960 --> 01:08:33,439
Speaker 1: sometimes y'all throw shade at me, at you. We don't

1435
01:08:33,439 --> 01:08:37,439
Speaker 1: even know you. You might on Twitter. Man, shut up, Okay, hey,

1436
01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:44,200
Speaker 1: thank you. That's a little shade. It's the audacity of man.

1437
01:08:45,160 --> 01:08:47,920
Speaker 1: Why you throwing shade at him? All right, take care,

1438
01:08:50,920 --> 01:08:53,560
Speaker 1: go ask ye eight hundred five eighty five one or

1439
01:08:53,600 --> 01:08:55,280
Speaker 1: five one if you need relationship advice. Hit and now

1440
01:08:55,280 --> 01:08:57,800
Speaker 1: it was the breakfast club, Good morning morning. Everybody is

1441
01:08:57,880 --> 01:09:01,120
Speaker 1: DJ Envy Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the

1442
01:09:01,160 --> 01:09:03,880
Speaker 1: breakfast club now ye with the middle of as you

1443
01:09:03,920 --> 01:09:06,559
Speaker 1: want to go to, let's do Mikita online nine Mkita,

1444
01:09:06,640 --> 01:09:12,240
Speaker 1: good morning. Hey, how y'all, I'm good? So hey anxiety okay,

1445
01:09:12,360 --> 01:09:16,519
Speaker 1: so mean I wanted to as um So, I pretty

1446
01:09:16,600 --> 01:09:20,040
Speaker 1: much I was in a relationship and then I got pregnant,

1447
01:09:20,080 --> 01:09:22,200
Speaker 1: and when I got pregnant, as I had my baby,

1448
01:09:22,400 --> 01:09:26,519
Speaker 1: everything pretty much shoo went left. Like I was kind

1449
01:09:26,520 --> 01:09:30,360
Speaker 1: of being like a little abused, And what's a little abused?

1450
01:09:31,040 --> 01:09:34,920
Speaker 1: Um So? I have been like kids before in my face,

1451
01:09:36,200 --> 01:09:38,639
Speaker 1: but only like once we getting in like a real

1452
01:09:38,960 --> 01:09:41,920
Speaker 1: strong argument and he just don't know how to control

1453
01:09:42,040 --> 01:09:47,240
Speaker 1: his temper. Okay, But if Makita, don't downplay what happened

1454
01:09:47,280 --> 01:09:53,599
Speaker 1: to you. Weren't a little abuse, you were abused, right, Okay, Makita,

1455
01:09:59,120 --> 01:10:01,320
Speaker 1: I have a door man. I don't want to take

1456
01:10:01,439 --> 01:10:06,320
Speaker 1: my daughter out of his life. When I went over

1457
01:10:06,400 --> 01:10:08,479
Speaker 1: his house to think my daughter up and he had

1458
01:10:08,520 --> 01:10:11,720
Speaker 1: a girl there and it made me feel like YA

1459
01:10:11,840 --> 01:10:15,840
Speaker 1: wanted him best. So I kind of tried, but it

1460
01:10:15,880 --> 01:10:19,000
Speaker 1: would feel negatives and just negative energy. You know, I

1461
01:10:19,040 --> 01:10:22,759
Speaker 1: wouldn't be positive and right and feel loves doing everything.

1462
01:10:23,000 --> 01:10:26,840
Speaker 1: And I guess it's like one am I posed whether

1463
01:10:26,960 --> 01:10:29,599
Speaker 1: I do now? Like how like your over these feelings

1464
01:10:29,800 --> 01:10:34,000
Speaker 1: or Nikita baby? Listen, First of all, it's okay for

1465
01:10:34,080 --> 01:10:36,240
Speaker 1: you to have these feelings. It's okay that you were

1466
01:10:36,320 --> 01:10:38,840
Speaker 1: jealous that he had another woman at the house. It's

1467
01:10:38,880 --> 01:10:40,280
Speaker 1: okay that you feel a way better to You're a

1468
01:10:40,360 --> 01:10:43,960
Speaker 1: human being, and that's fine. But I would say you

1469
01:10:44,000 --> 01:10:46,519
Speaker 1: should be thankful that you are not with this man anymore.

1470
01:10:46,600 --> 01:10:48,800
Speaker 1: And I would say run and keep it moving. And

1471
01:10:48,920 --> 01:10:50,960
Speaker 1: just because y'all not together doesn't mean he can't be

1472
01:10:51,040 --> 01:10:52,800
Speaker 1: a father and that he's not going to be in

1473
01:10:52,880 --> 01:10:55,040
Speaker 1: your daughter's life. He can still do those things, but

1474
01:10:55,160 --> 01:10:57,280
Speaker 1: you don't want to raise your daughter around somebody that's

1475
01:10:57,320 --> 01:11:01,000
Speaker 1: abusive to you that you're making excuses for that. I

1476
01:11:01,160 --> 01:11:03,720
Speaker 1: think that right now you should be so happy that

1477
01:11:03,840 --> 01:11:06,000
Speaker 1: you're not with him anymore, and that the I know

1478
01:11:06,160 --> 01:11:08,559
Speaker 1: that it takes a long time, because only time can

1479
01:11:08,640 --> 01:11:11,880
Speaker 1: heal those wounds that you're feeling. But it's okay for

1480
01:11:12,000 --> 01:11:14,519
Speaker 1: you to mourn the death of a relationship. It's over.

1481
01:11:15,080 --> 01:11:18,000
Speaker 1: And then what if, like I don't I'd be telling

1482
01:11:18,040 --> 01:11:19,880
Speaker 1: him like I don't want him, I don't want my

1483
01:11:20,040 --> 01:11:24,320
Speaker 1: child around I'll certainly people that he have around him

1484
01:11:24,479 --> 01:11:27,600
Speaker 1: because they just are enemy to me or just so

1485
01:11:27,800 --> 01:11:32,000
Speaker 1: like me or whatever. And he feels feel like, pretty

1486
01:11:32,080 --> 01:11:34,320
Speaker 1: much just forget what I say, like there's no respect.

1487
01:11:34,600 --> 01:11:37,240
Speaker 1: So here's the thing. Do you feel like your daughter's

1488
01:11:37,240 --> 01:11:41,720
Speaker 1: in harm and harm's way? Okay, so it's gonna be

1489
01:11:42,040 --> 01:11:44,640
Speaker 1: It sounds like this is an emotional experience where you

1490
01:11:44,720 --> 01:11:47,120
Speaker 1: don't want your child around people who you don't like,

1491
01:11:47,520 --> 01:11:49,120
Speaker 1: and you want him to respect that. But that's a

1492
01:11:49,160 --> 01:11:50,800
Speaker 1: hard thing for you doing force. And if you feel

1493
01:11:50,840 --> 01:11:53,519
Speaker 1: like your daughter is safe and she's okay, and that

1494
01:11:53,600 --> 01:11:56,160
Speaker 1: he's doing a good job as a father, you yourself

1495
01:11:56,200 --> 01:11:57,840
Speaker 1: are gonna have to deal with those because you can't

1496
01:11:57,880 --> 01:12:00,760
Speaker 1: really tell him who to be around and all those things.

1497
01:12:00,840 --> 01:12:03,679
Speaker 1: I think it's a different question if it's a safety issue.

1498
01:12:03,960 --> 01:12:05,560
Speaker 1: But if you feel like your daughter is safe and

1499
01:12:05,880 --> 01:12:10,360
Speaker 1: being treated well, that's the top priority. Okay, well, thank you.

1500
01:12:10,520 --> 01:12:13,640
Speaker 1: He definitely helped me clear my mind. Then, just know

1501
01:12:13,960 --> 01:12:16,160
Speaker 1: which way to go, mckitta. I can't wait till you

1502
01:12:16,280 --> 01:12:18,640
Speaker 1: find somebody who loves you and values you the way

1503
01:12:18,680 --> 01:12:21,640
Speaker 1: that you deserve to be valued in your relationship. And

1504
01:12:21,760 --> 01:12:24,240
Speaker 1: I think that sometimes certain things are a blessing. Like

1505
01:12:24,400 --> 01:12:26,200
Speaker 1: anytime you think I want him back, I want to

1506
01:12:26,200 --> 01:12:29,040
Speaker 1: get back with him, just remember how abusive he was,

1507
01:12:29,160 --> 01:12:31,800
Speaker 1: and remember that he has other girls that he's dealing with.

1508
01:12:32,000 --> 01:12:34,240
Speaker 1: And don't go back and backside, because it's gonna take

1509
01:12:34,240 --> 01:12:36,400
Speaker 1: you even longer to get out of that hole. You

1510
01:12:36,920 --> 01:12:41,519
Speaker 1: halfway out of it now, keep going, Okay, thank you, Okay, mckitta,

1511
01:12:41,600 --> 01:12:44,400
Speaker 1: We love you, Love y'all too. Thank y'all listening to

1512
01:12:44,439 --> 01:12:49,400
Speaker 1: y'all every morning. So all right, thank you. Sorry, all right,

1513
01:12:49,560 --> 01:12:52,880
Speaker 1: let's go to another line. Hello, who's this from Regina?

1514
01:12:53,000 --> 01:12:55,320
Speaker 1: What's up? Bro? What's your question for you? I'm about

1515
01:12:55,320 --> 01:12:57,720
Speaker 1: to go to jail and do for us, you know

1516
01:12:58,320 --> 01:13:01,720
Speaker 1: my jailstention to work with you. Whatever, But we had

1517
01:13:01,760 --> 01:13:04,439
Speaker 1: infidelities before, caught her texting people and stuff. She said,

1518
01:13:05,200 --> 01:13:07,680
Speaker 1: whatever did, but I own I don't know if I

1519
01:13:07,680 --> 01:13:10,400
Speaker 1: should clear a mind or you know, just try to

1520
01:13:10,439 --> 01:13:13,000
Speaker 1: hold it down with her. What you think, um, being

1521
01:13:13,040 --> 01:13:15,160
Speaker 1: that she's already had infidelity issues while you were home

1522
01:13:15,160 --> 01:13:18,000
Speaker 1: and not locked up, and you've caught her texting and

1523
01:13:18,120 --> 01:13:20,760
Speaker 1: doing other things. I always say, I wouldn't want you

1524
01:13:20,760 --> 01:13:22,280
Speaker 1: to be stressed out in jail thinking that your girl

1525
01:13:22,400 --> 01:13:23,920
Speaker 1: is going to hold you down, Right, That's what I

1526
01:13:24,040 --> 01:13:25,680
Speaker 1: was saying too. That's one of the same things. You

1527
01:13:25,760 --> 01:13:28,320
Speaker 1: know great as she does. But you have to be

1528
01:13:28,439 --> 01:13:31,559
Speaker 1: realistic with yourself. You know you are about to go away.

1529
01:13:31,680 --> 01:13:33,280
Speaker 1: You're going to be gone for three years. She's gonna

1530
01:13:33,280 --> 01:13:35,519
Speaker 1: have a lot of freedom. And imagine every day you're

1531
01:13:35,600 --> 01:13:38,040
Speaker 1: trying to call her wondering what she's doing. You know,

1532
01:13:38,160 --> 01:13:40,639
Speaker 1: you might have to just in reality all they say, Okay,

1533
01:13:41,000 --> 01:13:42,760
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just give her this pass in my mind

1534
01:13:42,840 --> 01:13:45,560
Speaker 1: and know that whatever might be happening might happen, and

1535
01:13:45,640 --> 01:13:47,479
Speaker 1: I have to be prepared for the fact that she's

1536
01:13:47,520 --> 01:13:50,160
Speaker 1: not gonna do this bed with me, or you have

1537
01:13:50,280 --> 01:13:52,200
Speaker 1: to just let her know. Look, I don't even expect

1538
01:13:52,240 --> 01:13:54,720
Speaker 1: you to do that. Yeah, true, true, I guess I

1539
01:13:54,880 --> 01:13:57,400
Speaker 1: might just break it off. I appreciate you, all right,

1540
01:13:57,479 --> 01:14:01,040
Speaker 1: no problem, Good luck to you in jail. Trying to

1541
01:14:01,160 --> 01:14:05,599
Speaker 1: keep it real. Yeah, right, that you need a little

1542
01:14:05,640 --> 01:14:09,360
Speaker 1: more than lucking gee. All right, ask eight hundred five

1543
01:14:09,439 --> 01:14:11,160
Speaker 1: eight five one or five one. Now you got rumors

1544
01:14:11,160 --> 01:14:13,200
Speaker 1: all the way. Yes, let's talk about Steve Harvey. People

1545
01:14:13,240 --> 01:14:15,599
Speaker 1: are upset over these comments that he made about rich

1546
01:14:15,680 --> 01:14:18,160
Speaker 1: people don't sleep. We'll tell you what he said. All right,

1547
01:14:18,200 --> 01:14:19,680
Speaker 1: we'll get into that next. Keep a lock. This to

1548
01:14:19,680 --> 01:14:26,040
Speaker 1: Breakfast Club. Good morning, she's spilling the team. This is

1549
01:14:26,120 --> 01:14:31,080
Speaker 1: the rumor offor with Angela Yee on the Breakfast Club. Well,

1550
01:14:31,240 --> 01:14:34,400
Speaker 1: people were upset about some comments that Steve Harvey made.

1551
01:14:34,920 --> 01:14:37,519
Speaker 1: Now he was talking about rich people and what their

1552
01:14:37,560 --> 01:14:40,479
Speaker 1: habits are. Here's what he said. Success is not a

1553
01:14:40,600 --> 01:14:45,840
Speaker 1: comfortable procedure. So you gotta get comfortable being uncomfortable if

1554
01:14:45,920 --> 01:14:49,080
Speaker 1: you ever want to be successful. All of you have

1555
01:14:49,360 --> 01:14:53,680
Speaker 1: extraordinary capabilities. You have to decide if you're willing to

1556
01:14:53,840 --> 01:14:56,960
Speaker 1: do the things to put you in that category. Rich

1557
01:14:57,120 --> 01:14:59,960
Speaker 1: people don't sleep eight hours a day. That's a third

1558
01:15:00,160 --> 01:15:02,439
Speaker 1: of your life. It ain't twenty four hours in a day.

1559
01:15:02,600 --> 01:15:04,519
Speaker 1: You can't live in that la and wake up at

1560
01:15:04,560 --> 01:15:07,040
Speaker 1: eight o'clock in the morning. It's eleven o'clock on the

1561
01:15:07,120 --> 01:15:09,599
Speaker 1: East coast. The stock mark had been open two hours.

1562
01:15:09,800 --> 01:15:12,479
Speaker 1: They already making decisions about your life, and your ass

1563
01:15:12,560 --> 01:15:15,400
Speaker 1: was sleep. I actually think it's the opposite. I think

1564
01:15:15,439 --> 01:15:16,960
Speaker 1: when you get to a certain position in life, you

1565
01:15:17,080 --> 01:15:19,240
Speaker 1: sleep more because you know you have to in order

1566
01:15:19,280 --> 01:15:21,560
Speaker 1: to maintain what you built. And I think sleep is

1567
01:15:21,560 --> 01:15:24,120
Speaker 1: such an important part of self care, Like regular sleep

1568
01:15:24,240 --> 01:15:26,479
Speaker 1: is very important. Like now during the week, I rarely

1569
01:15:26,520 --> 01:15:29,360
Speaker 1: get eight hours of sleep a night, but I attempt to. Yeah,

1570
01:15:29,360 --> 01:15:30,600
Speaker 1: I don't think what he said, lie, I don't know

1571
01:15:30,600 --> 01:15:32,920
Speaker 1: why people are upset. He's absolutely positible. You know. He's

1572
01:15:32,920 --> 01:15:35,080
Speaker 1: saying that, Richard on sleep eight hours a day, like

1573
01:15:35,320 --> 01:15:37,680
Speaker 1: that means you're irresponsible and not trying to get it.

1574
01:15:37,840 --> 01:15:39,200
Speaker 1: I mean, if you sleep eight hours a day, but

1575
01:15:40,840 --> 01:15:42,800
Speaker 1: I take it as the grind, Like you know, when

1576
01:15:42,840 --> 01:15:45,200
Speaker 1: we all had our journey here, I know I didn't

1577
01:15:45,240 --> 01:15:46,880
Speaker 1: sleep eight hours a day of my journey here. Now

1578
01:15:46,960 --> 01:15:49,960
Speaker 1: I'm starting to get to sleep a position, but I

1579
01:15:50,040 --> 01:15:52,479
Speaker 1: definitely didn't about your life and your ass was sleep.

1580
01:15:52,720 --> 01:15:54,840
Speaker 1: In other words, he's trying to say, the less sleep

1581
01:15:54,880 --> 01:15:56,920
Speaker 1: you get, the more successful you are, because you should

1582
01:15:56,960 --> 01:16:00,240
Speaker 1: not be sleep because you'll miss something that's going on. Yeah,

1583
01:16:00,240 --> 01:16:02,240
Speaker 1: we're all death. We're all lying on ourselves if we

1584
01:16:02,360 --> 01:16:04,160
Speaker 1: say that. That's why I said, I think it's the opposite,

1585
01:16:04,200 --> 01:16:06,840
Speaker 1: because on the grind, on the journey, you ain't get

1586
01:16:06,920 --> 01:16:08,720
Speaker 1: no sleep. I think the main thing, I think it

1587
01:16:08,760 --> 01:16:11,240
Speaker 1: was irresponsible because you should encourage people to get more

1588
01:16:11,280 --> 01:16:12,840
Speaker 1: sleep and don't make me feel like, well, I'm not

1589
01:16:12,920 --> 01:16:15,040
Speaker 1: successful because I sleep eight hours a night. I think

1590
01:16:15,240 --> 01:16:16,599
Speaker 1: I think he was speaking the truth to I think

1591
01:16:17,520 --> 01:16:19,360
Speaker 1: run this is what he did. You know he lived

1592
01:16:19,400 --> 01:16:21,479
Speaker 1: in the cause, he drove call the call call. I

1593
01:16:21,520 --> 01:16:23,559
Speaker 1: was gonna say, cause show comedy club to comedy club.

1594
01:16:23,560 --> 01:16:25,280
Speaker 1: He didn't get much sleep. I know I didn't get

1595
01:16:25,360 --> 01:16:27,240
Speaker 1: much sleep. And in no disrespect, but a lot of

1596
01:16:27,280 --> 01:16:29,200
Speaker 1: the DJs that got a lot of sleep, they still

1597
01:16:29,240 --> 01:16:31,280
Speaker 1: back home with their move. If that's the truth. Yeah,

1598
01:16:31,320 --> 01:16:35,479
Speaker 1: but people die from sleep, and people die from sleep deprivation.

1599
01:16:35,600 --> 01:16:38,160
Speaker 1: They suffer more from obesity. There's a lot of diseases

1600
01:16:38,200 --> 01:16:41,040
Speaker 1: that are linked to sleep deprivations. They've proven asleep is

1601
01:16:41,080 --> 01:16:44,000
Speaker 1: more important than probably anything right it comes to your health.

1602
01:16:44,120 --> 01:16:45,920
Speaker 1: I absolutely agree. I think that you should get as

1603
01:16:46,000 --> 01:16:48,120
Speaker 1: much sleep as possible. But we're lying to ourselves if

1604
01:16:48,160 --> 01:16:49,840
Speaker 1: we say that our culture did not fuel a lot

1605
01:16:49,920 --> 01:16:51,280
Speaker 1: of that. Now. I said a long time ago, I

1606
01:16:51,400 --> 01:16:53,439
Speaker 1: never sleep because sleep is becausein of death. It's like

1607
01:16:53,600 --> 01:16:56,160
Speaker 1: twenty five years to think about team no sleep. You

1608
01:16:56,200 --> 01:16:57,760
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like all of these like if

1609
01:16:57,800 --> 01:17:00,640
Speaker 1: you sleep, sleep when you die, hustles don't sleep like

1610
01:17:00,720 --> 01:17:04,760
Speaker 1: it's been a lot of negative stigma. Let's be let's

1611
01:17:04,800 --> 01:17:07,000
Speaker 1: be responsible about what we say and not to the

1612
01:17:07,080 --> 01:17:09,400
Speaker 1: people that you're not rich if you sleep eight hours

1613
01:17:09,439 --> 01:17:12,560
Speaker 1: a day, I should encourage you should encourage people to

1614
01:17:12,720 --> 01:17:14,439
Speaker 1: try to get eight hours to sleep. I even wish

1615
01:17:14,439 --> 01:17:16,800
Speaker 1: I could, amazing. That's not how I got to this

1616
01:17:16,840 --> 01:17:18,519
Speaker 1: spot by sleep. And I'm not gonna sit here and live.

1617
01:17:18,560 --> 01:17:20,680
Speaker 1: I grinded my assholes so I can sleep now. But

1618
01:17:20,760 --> 01:17:22,920
Speaker 1: I grunted. There was times I slept a pay, I

1619
01:17:23,000 --> 01:17:25,360
Speaker 1: took naps, two hour naps, and I worked my asshole.

1620
01:17:25,400 --> 01:17:27,080
Speaker 1: But that's because you weren't rich, right, I wasn't. But

1621
01:17:27,560 --> 01:17:29,400
Speaker 1: that's why he says rich people don't sleep. It ours

1622
01:17:29,400 --> 01:17:30,960
Speaker 1: the day you didn't say. People trying to be rich,

1623
01:17:31,040 --> 01:17:34,400
Speaker 1: you ever got a little grind and you sleep? No.

1624
01:17:34,560 --> 01:17:36,000
Speaker 1: But there was one time there was I had a

1625
01:17:36,080 --> 01:17:37,439
Speaker 1: better pain. There was some blood on it and I

1626
01:17:37,479 --> 01:17:39,439
Speaker 1: couldn't figure out how where that blood came from anyway.

1627
01:17:39,600 --> 01:17:42,599
Speaker 1: That's crazy. Just think about just think about people who

1628
01:17:42,720 --> 01:17:44,760
Speaker 1: have to work multiple jobs, who have kids to take

1629
01:17:44,800 --> 01:17:47,040
Speaker 1: care of and can't sleep eight hours a day. What

1630
01:17:47,120 --> 01:17:49,439
Speaker 1: he should have did. He shouldn't have generalized. You shouldn't

1631
01:17:49,439 --> 01:17:51,560
Speaker 1: have said rich people. He should have said me, you

1632
01:17:51,600 --> 01:17:53,200
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. He shouldn't have generalized. That's what

1633
01:17:53,240 --> 01:17:55,719
Speaker 1: he should have did. Okay, so now let's talk about

1634
01:17:55,720 --> 01:17:58,840
Speaker 1: Little Wayne. According to reports here and Cortest, his long

1635
01:17:58,880 --> 01:18:02,200
Speaker 1: time manager, have part ways. Really yes, they said, he

1636
01:18:02,360 --> 01:18:05,200
Speaker 1: reportedly parted ways with him prior to the release of

1637
01:18:05,320 --> 01:18:07,640
Speaker 1: the car to five back in September, even though their

1638
01:18:07,720 --> 01:18:10,360
Speaker 1: childhood friends and everything they said, the reason and motivation

1639
01:18:10,600 --> 01:18:15,720
Speaker 1: was allegedly supposedly agreed. They said that Quartez is the

1640
01:18:15,760 --> 01:18:19,240
Speaker 1: one that convinced him to fire his longtime lawyer, Ron

1641
01:18:19,320 --> 01:18:22,240
Speaker 1: Sweeney due to the belief that his company was attempting

1642
01:18:22,280 --> 01:18:24,400
Speaker 1: to collect more of Jake's royalties than he was owed.

1643
01:18:24,479 --> 01:18:27,040
Speaker 1: And after that, they said, Quartz conspired with Mac to

1644
01:18:27,200 --> 01:18:29,479
Speaker 1: drive a wedge between Little Wayne and Sweeney by making

1645
01:18:29,520 --> 01:18:32,360
Speaker 1: false and misleading statements. So I don't know what's going

1646
01:18:32,439 --> 01:18:34,479
Speaker 1: on over there in that camp. But I didn't even

1647
01:18:34,560 --> 01:18:38,360
Speaker 1: know that happened. That quez All right, Now, let's talk

1648
01:18:38,400 --> 01:18:40,839
Speaker 1: about that guy we told you about that's on Jeopardy.

1649
01:18:40,920 --> 01:18:43,840
Speaker 1: He's the second longest running champion. He still yes, he

1650
01:18:43,920 --> 01:18:47,719
Speaker 1: has over twenty two consecutive wins. Goodness, and he revealed

1651
01:18:47,760 --> 01:18:49,680
Speaker 1: that he had dreams of working in an MLB front

1652
01:18:49,720 --> 01:18:52,000
Speaker 1: office when he was young. He made that known last

1653
01:18:52,080 --> 01:18:56,040
Speaker 1: week and now teams are showing interest in him. Oakland,

1654
01:18:56,080 --> 01:18:58,720
Speaker 1: A's executive vice president of baseball operations said, my first

1655
01:18:58,840 --> 01:19:00,240
Speaker 1: ut when I saw him once, we half to get

1656
01:19:00,280 --> 01:19:03,040
Speaker 1: this guy in baseball. The Red Sox president and CEO

1657
01:19:03,120 --> 01:19:06,480
Speaker 1: said absolutely, yes. We put a huge premium on analytical abilities,

1658
01:19:06,720 --> 01:19:08,880
Speaker 1: both on the baseball side and business side, without question,

1659
01:19:08,920 --> 01:19:11,320
Speaker 1: when we interview young professionals coming out of college, that

1660
01:19:11,479 --> 01:19:14,080
Speaker 1: skill set is hugely important. So it looks like he

1661
01:19:14,200 --> 01:19:18,479
Speaker 1: might have a job twenty two and he's not cheating. No, wow,

1662
01:19:18,600 --> 01:19:21,960
Speaker 1: congratulations to him and that's amazing. All right. Now, Charlottagne

1663
01:19:22,000 --> 01:19:24,880
Speaker 1: did a conversation from a schoolboy Q. It's called crash Talk,

1664
01:19:25,160 --> 01:19:30,040
Speaker 1: a conversation with Leonard and it's on YouTube. The conversation

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Speaker 1: with Leonard see the God McKelvie. I like just Leonard

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01:19:34,080 --> 01:19:38,519
Speaker 1: sounds good. I like Leonard too. But here is what happened.

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01:19:38,640 --> 01:19:41,559
Speaker 1: In that interview. They did discuss Mac Miller. So this day,

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Speaker 1: I just don't I don't understand how I can't call

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01:19:43,880 --> 01:19:46,920
Speaker 1: me no more like innocent. So like losing a friend

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01:19:47,000 --> 01:19:49,559
Speaker 1: to game banging is way different from losing a friend

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01:19:49,640 --> 01:19:52,920
Speaker 1: that's like an innocent little like little kid that's just

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01:19:53,040 --> 01:19:57,439
Speaker 1: super pure. Like you remember your last conversation with Yeah bros.

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01:19:57,479 --> 01:20:00,320
Speaker 1: Over face. He was shooting a video and and he

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01:20:00,479 --> 01:20:03,400
Speaker 1: was talking and he was acting weird, and I'm just like,

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01:20:03,560 --> 01:20:06,240
Speaker 1: it's up with you, bro? Like he like, uh, people like,

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01:20:06,320 --> 01:20:08,080
Speaker 1: who do I gotta call to make sure I can

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01:20:08,160 --> 01:20:12,639
Speaker 1: get you in this video? Do you mean you ain't

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01:20:12,680 --> 01:20:16,280
Speaker 1: gonna call nobody? All right? So you can see that

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Speaker 1: whole thing on YouTube. I think it's like thirty something minutes,

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01:20:19,320 --> 01:20:21,160
Speaker 1: thirty nine minutes, and we ain't played the part when

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01:20:21,240 --> 01:20:23,720
Speaker 1: he cried that was you know, I like it. I

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01:20:23,840 --> 01:20:25,400
Speaker 1: like when brothers cried. You know what I'm saying. I

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01:20:25,439 --> 01:20:26,760
Speaker 1: think we need to do more of that. You can

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01:20:26,800 --> 01:20:29,280
Speaker 1: watch the hole anybody didn't break down talking about Mac Miller.

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01:20:29,760 --> 01:20:32,840
Speaker 1: All right, now let's talk about Diddy. He did a

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01:20:32,960 --> 01:20:35,519
Speaker 1: recent Essence May issue cover story. You know, Mother's Day

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01:20:35,640 --> 01:20:38,240
Speaker 1: is coming up, and now didd he is both mom

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01:20:38,280 --> 01:20:41,400
Speaker 1: and dad to his three of his children, and he

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01:20:41,560 --> 01:20:45,200
Speaker 1: had a very raw and unedited conversation with writer Dream

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01:20:45,280 --> 01:20:50,120
Speaker 1: Hampton where he discusses black mothers and how important they

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01:20:50,160 --> 01:20:52,639
Speaker 1: are in our lives. His Mother's Day is gonna hurt.

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01:20:53,160 --> 01:20:56,800
Speaker 1: He's definitely gonna celebrate, you know, all the mothers. You're not.

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01:20:56,920 --> 01:21:00,599
Speaker 1: We're not gonna get in the way of that. But honestly,

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01:21:01,200 --> 01:21:04,920
Speaker 1: anybody that's lost the mother, lost the soul mate. It

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01:21:05,040 --> 01:21:10,040
Speaker 1: takes time. It takes time, you know. I don't you

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01:21:10,120 --> 01:21:14,320
Speaker 1: know they say time hills all wounds when it comes

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01:21:14,720 --> 01:21:19,240
Speaker 1: to your mother mothers. I don't think that's the chase. No.

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01:21:20,360 --> 01:21:23,000
Speaker 1: I mean, I think we have the strongest being. Like

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01:21:23,320 --> 01:21:25,479
Speaker 1: if it comes to like a category or who's the

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01:21:25,560 --> 01:21:29,559
Speaker 1: strongest beings or the stay for the earth, it would

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01:21:29,560 --> 01:21:32,400
Speaker 1: have to be black mother. I don't think anybody can

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01:21:32,479 --> 01:21:35,920
Speaker 1: ever understand how you know to be a black mother

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01:21:37,120 --> 01:21:39,160
Speaker 1: as a man tis or how our hearts speaks and

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01:21:39,200 --> 01:21:41,240
Speaker 1: our lips can't describe how much we've been hurting. As

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01:21:41,280 --> 01:21:43,759
Speaker 1: my therapist says, it's okay to feel. There's no blueprint

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01:21:43,840 --> 01:21:46,000
Speaker 1: for pain, no manual book for trauma. You have to

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01:21:46,000 --> 01:21:48,599
Speaker 1: allow yourself to feel, and that's the first step to healing.

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01:21:48,640 --> 01:21:50,960
Speaker 1: And I do agree to They say time hills all wounds.

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01:21:51,560 --> 01:21:53,920
Speaker 1: With situations like that, it may hurt less, but I

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01:21:53,960 --> 01:21:56,320
Speaker 1: think it will always hurt and that is that's perfectly fine.

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01:21:56,960 --> 01:21:59,040
Speaker 1: All right, Well, I mane yea, and that is your

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01:21:59,200 --> 01:22:02,040
Speaker 1: rumor report, right, thank you, miss ye revote. We'll see

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01:22:02,080 --> 01:22:04,840
Speaker 1: you guys tomorrow. Everybody else to People's Choice mixes up Next,

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01:22:04,880 --> 01:22:08,320
Speaker 1: don't move. It's the Breakfast Club. Go Morning Morning. Everybody

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01:22:08,479 --> 01:22:12,280
Speaker 1: is DJ Envy Angela yee, Charlemagne the guy. We are

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01:22:12,360 --> 01:22:14,880
Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. We got a special guest in the building, yep,

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01:22:15,240 --> 01:22:19,639
Speaker 1: author David back who. Thank you for having met the author.

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01:22:19,680 --> 01:22:22,479
Speaker 1: He's one of the most trusted financial experts in the world. Correct, okay,

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01:22:22,479 --> 01:22:24,680
Speaker 1: and a best selling financial author. You have a new

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01:22:24,720 --> 01:22:27,400
Speaker 1: book called The Latte Factor. I'm super grateful to have them.

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01:22:27,439 --> 01:22:29,280
Speaker 1: Beyond the showman, thank you. We'll talk to us about

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01:22:29,280 --> 01:22:32,920
Speaker 1: the Latte Factor. What are the comparisons between finances and latte? Yeah, Well,

1723
01:22:32,920 --> 01:22:36,200
Speaker 1: because here's the deal. They four to ten Americans right

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01:22:36,240 --> 01:22:39,120
Speaker 1: now cannot get their hands on one hundred dollars in

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01:22:39,240 --> 01:22:42,920
Speaker 1: case of emergency. Jesus, take that four out of ten.

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01:22:43,080 --> 01:22:47,839
Speaker 1: That's better than herpes. Herpy's only one in three. Jesus

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01:22:48,040 --> 01:22:50,880
Speaker 1: take that in for a second. Wait, six out of

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01:22:50,920 --> 01:22:53,679
Speaker 1: ten Americans can't get their hands on a thousand dollars

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01:22:53,920 --> 01:22:57,519
Speaker 1: in case of emergency purposes. So seven out of ten

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01:22:57,520 --> 01:23:00,639
Speaker 1: Americans living paycheck to paycheck. And what I've been teaching

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01:23:00,680 --> 01:23:05,000
Speaker 1: now for almost total twenty six years is that we

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01:23:05,080 --> 01:23:07,280
Speaker 1: got to break this. The way you break it, the

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01:23:07,320 --> 01:23:10,320
Speaker 1: way you stop living paycheck to paycheck, is you realize

1734
01:23:10,479 --> 01:23:12,560
Speaker 1: the small amounts of money can change your life. So

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01:23:12,680 --> 01:23:14,960
Speaker 1: I created this concept called the latte factor, which is

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01:23:15,000 --> 01:23:17,240
Speaker 1: the idea that if staid of wasting five bucks a

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01:23:17,360 --> 01:23:20,479
Speaker 1: day on a latte, you took that five dollars a day,

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01:23:20,600 --> 01:23:23,719
Speaker 1: you put it inside your retirement account, you paid yourself first,

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01:23:24,120 --> 01:23:30,240
Speaker 1: you could become a millionaire. So so here's what you need,

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01:23:30,240 --> 01:23:31,840
Speaker 1: some bag. But we got this, We got this little story,

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01:23:31,840 --> 01:23:34,040
Speaker 1: we got this metaphor in here, and got chart right,

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01:23:34,120 --> 01:23:36,320
Speaker 1: and a little simple chart shows you that by the

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01:23:36,360 --> 01:23:38,280
Speaker 1: way it takes a lifetime. Here it takes you starting

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01:23:38,320 --> 01:23:41,080
Speaker 1: your twenties five dollars a day. By the time forty

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01:23:41,160 --> 01:23:44,040
Speaker 1: years later at ten percent interest, it's worth nine hundred

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01:23:44,040 --> 01:23:47,600
Speaker 1: and forty eight thousand dollars. Okay, now someone, yeah, so

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01:23:47,880 --> 01:23:50,360
Speaker 1: that's starting in your twenties. Right now, there's a chart

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01:23:50,439 --> 01:23:53,680
Speaker 1: on page one thirty four shows somebody saving more than

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01:23:53,720 --> 01:23:56,519
Speaker 1: five dollars a day. Okay, three hundred bucks a month. Okay,

1750
01:23:56,680 --> 01:23:59,519
Speaker 1: you're twenty five, you saved three hundred bucks a month.

1751
01:24:00,160 --> 01:24:02,880
Speaker 1: By the time you reach retirement, you got one million,

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01:24:03,240 --> 01:24:07,320
Speaker 1: nine hundred and thirteen thousand dollars. Now here's the problem, guys.

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01:24:08,040 --> 01:24:11,880
Speaker 1: Most people do not start saving at twenty five. They

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01:24:11,960 --> 01:24:14,559
Speaker 1: start saving, they start they start thinking about it at

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01:24:14,640 --> 01:24:19,439
Speaker 1: thirty five. Do not wait to start saving money. My

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01:24:19,600 --> 01:24:22,479
Speaker 1: grandmother helped me buy my first stock at age seven. Wow.

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01:24:22,640 --> 01:24:24,360
Speaker 1: But you can only teach what you know. So a

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01:24:24,400 --> 01:24:26,640
Speaker 1: lot of these parents you can't teach finances because they

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01:24:26,640 --> 01:24:29,320
Speaker 1: don't know finances. This though, you are absolutely right, and

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01:24:29,360 --> 01:24:31,240
Speaker 1: I'm here to say to any parent listening right now,

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01:24:31,600 --> 01:24:34,120
Speaker 1: this is my thirteenth book. This is the easiest book

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01:24:34,160 --> 01:24:36,559
Speaker 1: I've ever written. And I'm out here watching the videos

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01:24:36,600 --> 01:24:39,479
Speaker 1: of all the amazing, incredible artists who have come through here,

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01:24:40,479 --> 01:24:42,680
Speaker 1: and a lot of them are wearing six figures in

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01:24:42,840 --> 01:24:46,439
Speaker 1: jewelry around their neck. When you start seeing somebody wearing

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01:24:46,479 --> 01:24:48,960
Speaker 1: six figures in jewelry on their neck and they don't

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01:24:48,960 --> 01:24:52,479
Speaker 1: have a six figure net worth, someone's wrong. I agree.

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Speaker 1: The first thing you focus on if you're listening right

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01:24:54,920 --> 01:24:57,960
Speaker 1: now and you don't have any savings, is focus I'm

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01:24:58,000 --> 01:25:01,240
Speaker 1: getting a thousand dollars in savings. Take the take. I

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01:25:01,360 --> 01:25:03,920
Speaker 1: caught thee hundred day challenge, Save ten dollars a day

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01:25:04,040 --> 01:25:06,960
Speaker 1: for one hundred days. You're now wealth here the six

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01:25:07,040 --> 01:25:09,280
Speaker 1: out of ten people America. But what about people that

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01:25:09,360 --> 01:25:11,280
Speaker 1: would say, you know, that sounds great, but what else

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01:25:11,360 --> 01:25:13,240
Speaker 1: can I do that's going to be more aggressive? I got,

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01:25:13,320 --> 01:25:15,240
Speaker 1: I got. I'm gonna drop a truth on you right now.

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01:25:15,479 --> 01:25:17,080
Speaker 1: You want to go and try and get rich overnight,

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01:25:17,400 --> 01:25:19,840
Speaker 1: you will stay poor forever. You do not get rich

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01:25:19,920 --> 01:25:23,800
Speaker 1: in days, you get rich in decades. Yeah. But see,

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01:25:23,880 --> 01:25:26,640
Speaker 1: lottos are really just a tax on people that are

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01:25:26,760 --> 01:25:29,360
Speaker 1: like praying and hoping, right Like, that's not a real

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01:25:29,520 --> 01:25:31,479
Speaker 1: way to go and get rich. It's a tax on

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01:25:31,520 --> 01:25:34,040
Speaker 1: your hope. It's a TAXI own optimism. I used to

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01:25:34,040 --> 01:25:35,559
Speaker 1: say it's a tax on stupid people. But I don't

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01:25:35,560 --> 01:25:37,160
Speaker 1: want everybody coming out with a gun on me. So

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01:25:37,520 --> 01:25:39,679
Speaker 1: so so here's the thing. Lot we have people putting

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01:25:39,720 --> 01:25:42,920
Speaker 1: more money in the lottery tickets than retirement accounts. Right. So,

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01:25:43,080 --> 01:25:45,280
Speaker 1: if you've got a job today, here's what I want

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01:25:45,320 --> 01:25:47,280
Speaker 1: you to do. You have to pay yourself first. You

1790
01:25:47,320 --> 01:25:51,400
Speaker 1: have to get financially selfish. The formula to financial freedom

1791
01:25:51,439 --> 01:25:54,200
Speaker 1: for life is saving one hour day of your income.

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01:25:54,560 --> 01:25:57,599
Speaker 1: Whether you make minimum wageer you make more the average

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01:25:57,600 --> 01:26:00,439
Speaker 1: Americans making about twenty seven dollars an hour right now,

1794
01:26:01,160 --> 01:26:04,080
Speaker 1: one hour a day of your income paid automatically into

1795
01:26:04,120 --> 01:26:06,920
Speaker 1: a retirement account. You can be financially free for life.

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01:26:07,120 --> 01:26:09,120
Speaker 1: Can you elaborate on a statement you're richer than you think.

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01:26:09,439 --> 01:26:11,519
Speaker 1: You have to learn to think like an investor. There's

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01:26:11,600 --> 01:26:14,800
Speaker 1: two things that make people in America wealthy. They are

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01:26:14,920 --> 01:26:18,679
Speaker 1: real estate and stocks. If you don't own real estate

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01:26:18,720 --> 01:26:20,599
Speaker 1: and you don't own stocks, you don't get into one

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01:26:20,600 --> 01:26:23,040
Speaker 1: of these two games or both, you're not on the

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01:26:23,240 --> 01:26:25,880
Speaker 1: escalator to building well. These are the things that make

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01:26:25,960 --> 01:26:28,479
Speaker 1: people wealthier. When you own real estate. The tax laws

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01:26:28,560 --> 01:26:30,920
Speaker 1: favor the rich, you can buy it. This is what

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01:26:31,040 --> 01:26:34,439
Speaker 1: people don't realize. You can buy a home, live in

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01:26:34,479 --> 01:26:38,120
Speaker 1: it for two years, sell it, and if you're single,

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01:26:38,320 --> 01:26:40,320
Speaker 1: you can keep a quarter of a million dollars in

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01:26:40,400 --> 01:26:42,880
Speaker 1: tax free gains. Okay, quote a million dollar tax free. Right.

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01:26:43,320 --> 01:26:46,280
Speaker 1: It's the only game in town where the government doesn't tax.

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01:26:46,360 --> 01:26:47,960
Speaker 1: You know, one reason because the government wants you to

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01:26:48,000 --> 01:26:49,880
Speaker 1: have homeowner, want you to own a home. Right. Now,

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01:26:49,960 --> 01:26:51,920
Speaker 1: here's the truth. When you look at why is it

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01:26:52,080 --> 01:26:55,759
Speaker 1: that wealth goes from one generation to the next or doesn't.

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01:26:56,120 --> 01:27:01,479
Speaker 1: It's real estate. So homeowners are four six times wealthier

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01:27:01,560 --> 01:27:04,720
Speaker 1: than renters. So some of the smartest investments for people

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01:27:04,760 --> 01:27:08,519
Speaker 1: with new money to make our real estate and stop. Yeah,

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01:27:08,560 --> 01:27:10,120
Speaker 1: and the simplest thing is to start with your four

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01:27:10,200 --> 01:27:13,400
Speaker 1: one K plan or your IRA account and just start saving,

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01:27:13,479 --> 01:27:16,200
Speaker 1: start investing and get yourself. You know, you start some

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01:27:16,240 --> 01:27:18,200
Speaker 1: of the simples and index fund. You got a chapter

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01:27:18,280 --> 01:27:20,280
Speaker 1: in your book called don't budget and make it automatic?

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01:27:20,360 --> 01:27:22,400
Speaker 1: Can you expand on that police. Yeah, so we're all

1823
01:27:22,439 --> 01:27:24,720
Speaker 1: taught to budget. Nobody really does it in the real world.

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01:27:24,760 --> 01:27:28,320
Speaker 1: People hate it. So when I teach, is this the

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01:27:28,520 --> 01:27:33,240
Speaker 1: way you build wealth for anything? Retirement buying a car,

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01:27:33,760 --> 01:27:36,599
Speaker 1: going on a dream vocation. Saving money for kids who

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01:27:36,640 --> 01:27:39,320
Speaker 1: are going to go to college is you save automatically.

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01:27:39,960 --> 01:27:44,400
Speaker 1: Money's got to get moved automatically from your paycheck, from

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01:27:44,479 --> 01:27:47,120
Speaker 1: your income into these different savings accounts, or you won't

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01:27:47,160 --> 01:27:49,760
Speaker 1: do it. If you want to know the true formula

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01:27:49,840 --> 01:27:54,439
Speaker 1: to being able to retire in your fifties, it is

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01:27:54,479 --> 01:27:56,439
Speaker 1: to save. I can give you the exact number right now.

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01:27:57,360 --> 01:28:00,200
Speaker 1: It's fourteen percent of your gross income. Okay, but but

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01:28:00,600 --> 01:28:02,519
Speaker 1: it's fourty percent of gross income. How do I know

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01:28:02,640 --> 01:28:05,960
Speaker 1: these numbers because Fidelity Investments run is the largest foreign

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01:28:06,040 --> 01:28:07,519
Speaker 1: K plan, and I think in the world. They have

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01:28:07,600 --> 01:28:09,760
Speaker 1: sixteen million people in the US and their foreign K

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01:28:09,880 --> 01:28:15,400
Speaker 1: plan represents twenty thousand companies. They track the amount of

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01:28:15,439 --> 01:28:18,880
Speaker 1: people will become millionaires using their foreign K plan, and

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01:28:19,040 --> 01:28:22,320
Speaker 1: they've saved fourteen percent of their income for thirty years.

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01:28:22,600 --> 01:28:25,000
Speaker 1: By the time they reach an average age of fifty nine,

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01:28:25,560 --> 01:28:28,840
Speaker 1: they're a four one K millionaire. So the only way

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01:28:28,880 --> 01:28:31,080
Speaker 1: you're going to have money in this country is if

1844
01:28:31,120 --> 01:28:34,360
Speaker 1: you take care of yourself. No one's coming to save us. Now,

1845
01:28:34,400 --> 01:28:36,960
Speaker 1: you address one of the large shifts about money in

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01:28:37,000 --> 01:28:39,040
Speaker 1: the law. Take fact and it takes money to make money.

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01:28:39,400 --> 01:28:43,200
Speaker 1: Why that's such a misconception because if you, first of all,

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01:28:43,240 --> 01:28:45,479
Speaker 1: if you believe you've got to have a lot of

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01:28:45,520 --> 01:28:50,160
Speaker 1: money to start investing, he'll never started. You're defeated already.

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01:28:50,439 --> 01:28:54,880
Speaker 1: You're defeated already. It is a poor mental mindset. And

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01:28:55,160 --> 01:28:57,920
Speaker 1: so I'll go back to my grandmother. My grandmother was

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01:28:58,040 --> 01:29:00,479
Speaker 1: broke at thirty and didn't have a college education, lived

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01:29:00,479 --> 01:29:03,680
Speaker 1: in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, and had a job in retail, a

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01:29:03,800 --> 01:29:06,240
Speaker 1: place called Gimbal's Department store. She said, I was always

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01:29:06,280 --> 01:29:08,360
Speaker 1: getting my financial advice from my friends, and they were

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01:29:08,439 --> 01:29:11,360
Speaker 1: all poor. She said, don't get your financial advice from

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01:29:11,400 --> 01:29:13,400
Speaker 1: poor people. There you go. So she went out and

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01:29:13,479 --> 01:29:17,639
Speaker 1: started taking classes at adult schools on investing. She found

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01:29:18,040 --> 01:29:21,280
Speaker 1: somebody who was a millionaire. Didn't know the person well,

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01:29:22,200 --> 01:29:24,479
Speaker 1: but knew the person enough to say, I know you're

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01:29:24,520 --> 01:29:26,800
Speaker 1: well off financially, and I'm trying to learn how to

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01:29:26,920 --> 01:29:30,960
Speaker 1: become wealthier. Would you teach me? She actually asked for

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01:29:31,040 --> 01:29:33,600
Speaker 1: a mentor, and she learned over her lifetime what to do,

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01:29:34,760 --> 01:29:36,640
Speaker 1: and you know, and then pass the lessons on to

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01:29:37,000 --> 01:29:38,880
Speaker 1: our family. A lot of times, what happens once you

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01:29:38,960 --> 01:29:40,519
Speaker 1: have money is you don't actually care them if you

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01:29:40,520 --> 01:29:42,280
Speaker 1: look rich, because you don't care what any of else thinks.

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01:29:43,000 --> 01:29:44,880
Speaker 1: The weirdest thing is that when we're not rich, we

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01:29:44,960 --> 01:29:47,479
Speaker 1: care what people. Once we are rich, we don't give it.

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Speaker 1: You say, big hat, no cat, big cattleig hat, no cattle.

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Speaker 1: It's a Texas phrase because that's right, get the big hat.

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Speaker 1: But you got no cattle, no big polk, no scroke.

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Speaker 1: Have you got a big camp? All right? Dad? Backs,

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Speaker 1: appreciate you for joining us. Back up his book The

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Speaker 1: Latta Factor now, and thank you so much. Man, you guys,

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Speaker 1: thank you for having me on your as. I appreciate you.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how we got the penises. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: It's the breakfast club. Good morning,