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Speaker 1: My wife admitted to baby trapping me with three kids,

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Speaker 1: but I don't care.

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Speaker 2: I'm still leaving.

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Speaker 3: If the sex was consensual, is it baby I guess

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Speaker 3: it depends howsual, depends how your baby trapping.

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Speaker 4: Let's hear it, Let's hear more. I want to hear so.

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Speaker 5: My wife's thirty two female and I thirty four male,

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Speaker 5: have been together for eight years. We have a little girl,

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Speaker 5: five female, and a baby boy, two male. I love

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Speaker 5: both of them more than anything, and I finally feel

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Speaker 5: like I have it all. A beautiful wife, two healthy kids,

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Speaker 5: a great career, and a big house. The token American

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Speaker 5: dream to take dogs because I'm allergic just like Arian.

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Speaker 5: Arian is allergy to dogs, so we can have a

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Speaker 5: freaking gold ring.

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Speaker 4: Sam still marry me? Or is it a deal breaker?

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Speaker 5: Deal breaker? But yeah, it sounds pretty picture of perfect,

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Speaker 5: picture of perfect. When we talked about kids before, my

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Speaker 5: wife always said she wanted to I only wanted one.

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Speaker 5: It would be easier and we'd have our money for

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Speaker 5: vacations and stuff. But my wife maintained it's important for

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Speaker 5: a child to have a sibling.

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Speaker 3: It feels fair, and he loves both of them. You

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Speaker 3: would think he would come around. Oh I've got these

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Speaker 3: two darling little doll faced thinky bus.

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Speaker 5: Face, thinky butts. I grew up with four and my

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Speaker 5: wife with none, so I guess I understand where she's

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Speaker 5: coming from. After our son and getting through the baby

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Speaker 5: years and sleepless nights for the second time, I did

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Speaker 5: not want to go through it all again.

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Speaker 4: No more children.

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Speaker 1: Both kids were foxy and kolicky. I don't know what

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Speaker 1: that means. But when he's lanky.

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Speaker 3: Colicky, yeah, I think it means like they're moist or something.

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Speaker 5: There's no way that's what I think.

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Speaker 4: Comment below do is call it? You mean moist colic?

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Speaker 5: Just pain painful, just like a pain in the ass,

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Speaker 5: pain in the Abdominum. I don't know. But when he

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Speaker 5: was a year old, my wife casually began mentioning, what

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Speaker 5: if we got a third kid?

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Speaker 4: If we just went to the store and got another one,

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Speaker 4: get another kid, shop around, see what we like.

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Speaker 1: Ibut a big butter boat one.

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Speaker 5: Hey, yeah, that's the baby. Oh hey. I would laugh

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Speaker 5: it off, but finally she sat me down and said,

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Speaker 5: we have to have a third child.

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Speaker 4: What's the reasoning here?

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Speaker 5: I said, no, what would be a reason.

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Speaker 3: To have a third one because she loves she finds

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Speaker 3: purpose in motherhood. It brings her the most joy she's

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Speaker 3: ever experienced, and would.

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Speaker 4: He dare deprive her of that gift?

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Speaker 5: Crazy girlfriend alert.

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Speaker 4: Don't put it in the crazy ones, they say.

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Speaker 5: I said no, we agreed on two, but she said

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Speaker 5: she wanted four, and three was the compromise. I refused

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Speaker 5: and said I wanted to have one, but we had two.

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Speaker 5: She got angy, green called me selfish for taking away

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Speaker 5: her dream of wanting a big fan.

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Speaker 4: So what I'm talking about, I understand the mind of

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Speaker 4: a woman.

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Speaker 5: A couple of days later, she apologized and we had sex.

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Speaker 3: Man didn't realize that maybe he should put a bag

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Speaker 3: on it.

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Speaker 4: This time.

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Speaker 5: I noticed her drive increased exponentially, but so did mine,

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Speaker 5: and I was happy to engage with her. She was

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Speaker 5: on birth control, I had a condom.

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Speaker 2: I thought we were all.

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Speaker 4: Good, double duty over here double.

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Speaker 5: Thinking back on it, I probably should have figured out

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Speaker 5: that something was up.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: It's like, it's like after the fight, everything's a little

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Speaker 3: bit more steamy. You want to have some like hot

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Speaker 3: and steamy break up post fights?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know anything.

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Speaker 5: Naked, they say, Yeah, that's what we do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, let me jump around, Yeah like that, like that.

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Speaker 5: I came home from work one day while the kids

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Speaker 5: were at their grandparents, and my wife showed me a

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Speaker 5: positive pregnancy test, literally dancing with joy. What do you

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Speaker 5: think the wife did?

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Speaker 4: Poked a hole and went off of her birth control?

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Speaker 5: See, you just came to that answer way too quick,

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Speaker 5: and it's really making.

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Speaker 4: Me else what else could it have been?

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Speaker 5: That's why pulling out is the only method.

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Speaker 3: Boys, the only safe way, only safe way when work

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Speaker 4: Pull out sex is the safest sex.

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Speaker 5: My first thought was, oh fuck. My wife noticed my

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Speaker 5: less than happy expression on my face and started.

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Speaker 1: Screaming at me. She berated me for not being su

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Speaker 1: part of and that this was a mirror of hole

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Speaker 1: from God and.

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Speaker 5: I should be grateful. I said I was sorry and

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Speaker 5: hugged her and said I was super excited for the baby.

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Speaker 3: Lying just straight up lying in gaslight. Listen, happy wife,

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Speaker 3: happy life, that's what they say.

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Speaker 5: My wife was delighted, and later that night she was

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Speaker 5: calling all family and friends to happily tell them the news.

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Speaker 5: When she was talking about the nursery and how we'll

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Speaker 5: convert my office into room. I started getting a little suspicious.

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Speaker 5: Everything was so well thought out, and it seemed like

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Speaker 5: she'd been planning at all this time. When she was asleep,

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Speaker 5: I took the condoms out of the cupboard and ran

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Speaker 5: them underwater holes holes. Dude, fucking crazy.

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Speaker 4: Dude, that's crazy. That's not cool.

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Speaker 5: I am so glad that you're finally saying it's not cool.

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Speaker 4: That's not cool because there wasn't if it was an

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Speaker 4: if it was.

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Speaker 5: An oops, oops, you can't help you can't help an oop.

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Speaker 3: But to actively, that's just yeah, that's just lying to

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Speaker 3: your husband. Ultimately, it's about what you would not condone,

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Speaker 3: but not condone.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like I feel like Arianna just gets

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Speaker 5: into the mind of the crazy ex girlfriend. But isn't

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Speaker 5: crazy her song.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I'm willing to empathize.

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Speaker 3: I'm just a highly empathetic person and can see it

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Speaker 3: from how it might be done if I were the

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Speaker 3: crazy ex girlfriend or girlfriend.

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Speaker 4: However, Okay, communication is key, kids, Communication is key.

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Speaker 5: Okay. I nabbed her phone and saw she'd set a

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Speaker 5: password on it, which was odd. Nevertheless, my wife has

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Speaker 5: a terrible memory, so I tried her birthday and it opened.

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Speaker 5: Further up, we're text with her best friend of my wife,

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Speaker 5: complaining how I wouldn't come around. Her best friend suggested

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Speaker 5: that I arrange an accident.

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Speaker 1: No, hey, wouldn't it be crazy if I Wouldn't it

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Speaker 1: be unfortunate if you tripped and fell. You'll know, would

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Speaker 1: it be unfortunate if your your your business built, but

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Speaker 1: you know, burnt down. You know you need a little

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Speaker 1: protection from the mob. You know, you don't want you

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Speaker 1: don't want something bad. You know, accidents happen all the time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you go ahead and uh, something happens. You just

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Speaker 1: If we gotta whack him, we gotta put some some stone,

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Speaker 1: you know, you gotta you know, if if an accident happened,

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Speaker 1: you just gotta keep whacking them, Just keep whacking them.

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Speaker 1: And then and then when down that cement flies all

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Speaker 1: over your face that you.

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Speaker 4: Know, you gotta grab it with the turkey based.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then you gotta stick it inside.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah, baby, it's the turkey baster A real thing.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I saw it in a show once.

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Speaker 5: Really, what do they do?

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Speaker 3: She she got some semen from somewhere, purportedly saved it

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Speaker 3: from her husband, put it in a turkey baster, put

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Speaker 3: her legs up on the wall, stuck it in segment

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Speaker 3: oh yeah, and then squeezed it and she got pregnant

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Speaker 3: with twins.

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Speaker 4: You heard it from here, folks, it happened in TV.

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Speaker 4: That means it's real.

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Speaker 5: My wife agreed and said it was great to arrange

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Speaker 5: an accident and that she was going to come off

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Speaker 5: birth control. It went on for a little while, ending

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Speaker 5: with my wife saying yes, we were going to have

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Speaker 5: a third So I woke her up immediately and asked

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Speaker 5: her if this had really been a miracle baby. She

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Speaker 5: got the deer in the headlight's look and burst into tears.

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Speaker 5: She wailed and then got angry. Through tears, she screamed.

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Speaker 1: I had no right to go through her phone, and

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Speaker 1: it's her choice whether or not she wants to take

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Speaker 5: The side effects are bad and she was sick. She

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Speaker 5: also brought up if I really didn't want a third kid,

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Speaker 5: I would have had a vasectomy.

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Speaker 4: This is crazy.

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Speaker 3: You're supposed to have these conversations together. If birth control

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Speaker 3: is making you sick, talk to your partner about it,

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Speaker 3: then you go off of it.

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Speaker 4: Then he would probably choose to get a vasectomy.

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Speaker 5: I love that. I'm I'm so glad that you're normal.

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Speaker 5: My god, Yes, yes, yes, I mean it's absolutely she's

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Speaker 5: gaslighting him to the MAC. She's like, oh for sure.

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Speaker 3: Now, dare you look through my phone? After I poke

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Speaker 3: toolls in the content each kid? Is it costs like

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Speaker 3: two million dollars? Like you basically just cost this man

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Speaker 3: two million I want to spend like you're completely interrupting

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Speaker 5: At that point, Oh yeah, he's fucked.

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Speaker 4: He's not fucked, he sucked. It's just like, is he

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Speaker 4: ever gonna love that child the same? Also, he asked her, but.

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Speaker 5: Is he gonna love his wife the same?

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Speaker 4: Probably not, probably not? And that's gonna that's gonnack the children, all,

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Speaker 5: Was it worth it? She told me to go sleep

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Speaker 5: I'm sleeping here. You're leaving. So, while wailing, she packed

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Speaker 5: the next day, I told her I need some time

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Speaker 5: to myself. She said that's fine, but I need to

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Speaker 5: come around for our child. I told her I wasn't

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Speaker 5: sure if it be our child, and she cried more.

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Speaker 5: It's been two weeks since then, government recommended to stay home,

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Speaker 5: and I knew staying home by myself while also working

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Speaker 5: wanted to see the kids. So we're in the same house.

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Speaker 5: She constantly keeps on stopping me and trying to get

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Speaker 5: and whatever. I've been ignoring her entirely. What do I do?

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Speaker 5: Staying home with her is bad enough, and I don't

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Speaker 5: know if I should leave her over this. I don't

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Speaker 5: trust her anymore. She betrayed it. I'm angry, but I

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Speaker 5: have another child on the way.

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Speaker 4: What should It's a really, really tough situation.

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Speaker 3: You've got only a couple months to kind of figure

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Speaker 3: figure it out.

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Speaker 5: Well, do you think this is a big Is this

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Speaker 5: a big enough breach of trust to end the relationship?

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Speaker 3: I don't think that you will necessarily have a happy

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Speaker 3: Maybe you decide, you both decide okay this Actually you know,

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Speaker 3: given the children, it matters so much to me. Hey,

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Speaker 3: we realized we both weren't communicating well with one another.

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Speaker 5: But she has to admit that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, they both have to decide that, but maybe she

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Speaker 3: Like can she completely reverse her personality from like so

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Speaker 5: Trust?

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Speaker 4: Were they?

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Speaker 5: But like, like your actions have consequences, Like is this

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Speaker 3: Right, yeah, yeah, of course a lot of things happen

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Speaker 4: Like detely not the asshole, not the asshole if.

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Speaker 5: You wanted to get divorce, should he do it? I know,

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Speaker 5: I think you are right that it could be worked through,

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, back to the episode.

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Speaker 5: So the wife's still at home. I'm going out of

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Speaker 5: my mind. Kids don't understand what's happening and keep asking

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Speaker 5: why I won't talk to mommy. Yeah, it's been close

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Speaker 5: I saw. I lied and said I was going for

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Speaker 5: after the kids. I called my dad's best friend, she's

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Speaker 5: asked her why she did it, And she went on

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Speaker 5: about completing our family and how we needed a third kid,

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Speaker 5: little detective over here. She apologized profusely as well, and

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Speaker 5: she told me she knew she hadn't gone about it

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Speaker 3: It sounds like she just wants to brush the whole

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Speaker 5: I know, I know which is You know it might

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Speaker 3: I mean it's probably partially true, but she's not acknowledging how.

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Speaker 4: Fucked up it was.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's pretty fucked up. I'm back on civil terms

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Speaker 5: divorce that I've planned behind her back. No, I've got

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Speaker 5: the evidence, I've got the lawyer, and I'm preparing to

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Speaker 5: how it's going to go because of quarantine and what

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Speaker 5: thing called ADR Alternative Dispute Resolution. So that's pretty much it.

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Speaker 5: I've got all my ducks in a row and my

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Speaker 4: I feel bad for the little kids, kind of feel

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Speaker 5: Because like they're excited for their.

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Speaker 3: Like exactly, they're they're happy moment and Daddy are talking again.

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Speaker 5: It does suck, but it's like, but just remember it's

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Speaker 3: Will the kids understand that, Like, I don't know if

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Speaker 3: Do you explain the whole situation to them? Like, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: there's these things called condoms you can poke holes in them,

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Speaker 3: and there's this thing called birth control like bees on

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Speaker 5: Yeah, dude, it's uh, it's definitely a complicated one. But

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Speaker 5: let us know, is Op the ahole? What do you think?

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Speaker 5: Put in the comments below and Ariana, is he the

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Speaker 5: a hole for leaving?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 5: No, not at all. All right, we'll see you in

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Speaker 6: Is my husband cheating on me? I keep finding long

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Speaker 6: hairs that aren't mine or his.

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Speaker 5: He's bald, OKAYOPI he's bald.

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Speaker 6: My guy has a shiny god round nugget polished.

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Speaker 2: So it started a few weeks ago.

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Speaker 6: While cleaning the bathroom, I found a number of long

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Speaker 2: He's bald bald.

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Speaker 6: I also have a very crop short hairstyle, so it's

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Speaker 6: not possible that the strands I found were mine or

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Speaker 6: just couldn't stop thinking about it. Oh, I decided not

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Speaker 6: There seems to be a pattern that there's hairs appearing

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Speaker 5: So she keeps seeing these hairs. Read here bruh fire

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Speaker 5: marked broh.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, bruhr by it.

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Speaker 6: I feel like I'm going crazy, and I feel like

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Speaker 6: I asked my husband about it, and at first he

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Speaker 5: Suspicious, suspicious, A suspicious shrug.

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Speaker 6: It's just a suspicious shrug. Say that time five times fast.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 6: This made me paranoid, as surely this is something that's

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Speaker 6: to think that he's playing it down and he's trying

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Speaker 5: Oh God.

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Speaker 6: Then it happened again two days ago. I asked my

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Speaker 5: Oh but she has short hair.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Opie says, they're not, and that he's going to

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Speaker 6: I don't want to assume my husband is cheating on

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Speaker 2: Could rule out his sister. Now there is an update.

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Speaker 5: Oh god, what are we going to see?

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Speaker 2: Here we go? I promise this isn't the ending that

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Speaker 5: Okay. I ultimately decided this part's great.

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Speaker 6: I ultimately decided against getting a secret camera for the

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Speaker 2: No, just someone like being in the wall.

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Speaker 6: Oh I guess yeah, you're right, someone thought someone was

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Speaker 6: My boss allowed me to leave after a half day.

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Speaker 6: Upon returning home, something seemed to miss. I was expecting

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Speaker 6: Oh God, and not only that they looked to be

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Speaker 5: Wait what yeh?

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Speaker 6: Here we go, buckle and buckle on standing in the hallway,

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Speaker 2: Of tea in his hands.

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Speaker 6: Oh God, by my husband's face, it was obvious he

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Speaker 5: I'm on my thoes. We like this is this is

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Speaker 6: Playing along with the naivete I asked my husband how

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Speaker 5: Oh no, what's everything? What's everything?

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Speaker 2: John?

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Speaker 6: At the beginning of Lockdown, his friend, someone I'm not

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Speaker 6: He lost his job, and ever since then he had

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Speaker 5: Oh wow, wait, this is a way of more wholesome.

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Speaker 6: Ending it like keeps saying like, Okay, this is gonna

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Speaker 6: So it turns out my husband isn't cheating on me,

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Speaker 6: but was hiding the fact that his long haired male

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Speaker 6: friend was coming over to us a shower.

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Speaker 5: So basically, your husband's a saint.

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Speaker 6: Yes, imagine if op had gotten the camera in the bathroom.

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Speaker 6: Oh god, and then he found out and then he revealed.

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Speaker 5: That is actually half damn. That is what a turn

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Speaker 5: of events. I would not have expected that. But I

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Speaker 5: feel like I feel like he should have told his

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Speaker 5: wife about it totally.

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Speaker 6: Like because because it's like, hey, my friend who has

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Speaker 6: been evicted, like just wants to come over during the

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Speaker 6: day to take a shower, like that.

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Speaker 5: You're his long haired friend to come over right when

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Speaker 5: he knew she was going to come back, Like he

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Speaker 5: was hiding something. And really it's a long haired girl

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Speaker 5: that he's been seeing and this is the cover up.

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Speaker 6: If if that is true, that that is with the

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Speaker 6: greatest cheater that has ever exist, deserve it. After a shower,

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Speaker 6: I ended up meeting Dave and he turned out to

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Speaker 6: be a very nice bloke, just down on his luck.

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Speaker 6: I wish him the very best for a socially distanced interview,

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Speaker 6: and he went on his way. I asked my husband

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Speaker 6: why he didn't just tell me, as I wouldn't have

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Speaker 6: had a problem with problem with it. Turns out he

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Speaker 6: was worried about my reaction of me not liking or

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Speaker 6: approving of the situation. He also told me Dave was

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Speaker 6: very embarrassed about the whole thing and didn't want people

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Speaker 6: to know what he was having to do. I told

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Speaker 6: my husband I was starting to believe that he was cheating,

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Speaker 6: and he was shocked hearing that, having not even considered

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Speaker 6: the implications while attempting to cover up for his friend.

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Speaker 6: I told him the whole thing was ridiculous and even

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Speaker 6: suggested his friend live with us until he's back on

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Speaker 6: his feet.

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Speaker 5: We love a happy ending on okop. We don't get

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Speaker 5: many of those. We don't, so it's beautiful when they happened.

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Speaker 5: And if you want to hear the full story go

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Speaker 2: We'll see you next time.

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Speaker 5: See you soon.