WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Two's Company, Three's An Intervention

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<v Speaker 1>Abby Monday, it is your Second Date podcast. Thanks so

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<v Speaker 1>much for being here. It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,

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<v Speaker 1>and I would love in the comments today for people

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<v Speaker 1>to share the awkward ways their date ended, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>not all or.

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<v Speaker 2>Just a simple kiss or a little hog news.

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<v Speaker 1>Some of them get weird and that definitely happened in

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<v Speaker 1>today's Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep, so let us know because you know we love

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<v Speaker 2>reading your comments. What do you see?

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<v Speaker 3>Lex Yes seven Ish said, Hey, guys, listening all the

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<v Speaker 3>way from Malaysia.

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<v Speaker 4>Cool.

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<v Speaker 3>I discovered the show through a Second Date Update clip

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<v Speaker 3>on TikTok and I've been hooked ever since. I started

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<v Speaker 3>with the Second Date playlist. Then I moved on to

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<v Speaker 3>Awkward Tuesdays and mass speakers, and now I'm all in

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<v Speaker 3>on the full show.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah right, I mean you do get a full hour

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<v Speaker 1>if you somehow want more of this. Remember we have

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<v Speaker 1>a second podcast feed that is just Brook and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the same goofy pictures of us in the in

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<v Speaker 1>the in the pod, but you'll find it and you

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<v Speaker 1>can get even more.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, We're gonna start your Second Date right now.

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<v Speaker 5>Second Date Update. I'm not sure if you guys remember this.

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<v Speaker 5>But about six months ago, we did an awkward Tuesday

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<v Speaker 5>phone call with a listener named Kevin who wanted to

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<v Speaker 5>ask out his coworker and he was super nervous about

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<v Speaker 5>it needed our advice. The call wasn't perfect. Yeah, he

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<v Speaker 5>had some stumbles along the way, But she's sound like

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<v Speaker 5>every call that we do, absolutely flawless.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm tried to remember what happened In.

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<v Speaker 5>The end, she did say yes and agree to a

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<v Speaker 5>date with him. I guess I don't know. It was

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<v Speaker 5>a yes bottom line. Now, apparently they went out a

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<v Speaker 5>few times, things fizzled, didn't quite last. So Kevin has

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<v Speaker 5>jumped back into the beautiful oasis we call the modern

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<v Speaker 5>dating pool. And again, that was months ago. So, Kevin,

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<v Speaker 5>how's it been. Have you had a lot of dates

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<v Speaker 5>in that time?

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<v Speaker 4>Like ten ten, ten days?

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<v Speaker 5>You did dates in the last two years.

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<v Speaker 2>You're doing some work. Congratulations, you're a catch.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but I actually haven't had a second date.

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<v Speaker 2>But is that from your choosing, Like maybe you didn't

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<v Speaker 2>want to go out again with any of them.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I would have been happy to go out with

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<v Speaker 4>really any of them again.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, okay, that's hard. You're here we're going to

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<v Speaker 2>help you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, they haven't been the greatest. I actually had a

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<v Speaker 4>really bad one. Yeah she was a nice girl, I thought,

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<v Speaker 4>But when I walked her out to her cards opened

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<v Speaker 4>the door, and then she just suck her punched me,

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<v Speaker 4>and then drove off.

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<v Speaker 5>Wait what did you say? I did not expect that sentence?

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<v Speaker 2>That is terrible face? Did she punch you in the face?

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<v Speaker 4>It was actually in the back of my head. I

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<v Speaker 4>was opening her door, and then all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 4>I just felt.

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<v Speaker 5>This, like, did you ask permission to open the door

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<v Speaker 5>for her? Because she mayn't really have not liked that

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<v Speaker 5>fast enough for her.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe so, I don't know if she thought I was

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<v Speaker 4>going to kiss her or your head?

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<v Speaker 2>How are you going to kiss her?

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe she thought that you were trying to steal her car.

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<v Speaker 4>So.

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<v Speaker 2>It has to be a self defense.

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<v Speaker 5>He's not like, give me the keys.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Wasn't that bad? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>Some people give off natural grand theft daughter vibes, so

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<v Speaker 5>maybe you fell into that category.

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<v Speaker 2>Ask for you? Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Now I am yeah, concu so a sucker punch girl

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<v Speaker 5>the one you want us to call for a second date. Update,

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<v Speaker 5>We'll call her fighter. Well, who do you want to call?

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<v Speaker 4>I've had this really bad luck until I met Chelsea.

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<v Speaker 5>Chelsea, Okay, it's a new girl.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, okay, no physical violence.

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<v Speaker 5>I hope you'll tell us about your I'm assuming you

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<v Speaker 5>went on a date with Chelsea.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she didn't punch me.

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<v Speaker 5>Actually perfect, we're improving.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought, a good sign, and we connected the best

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<v Speaker 4>out of all of the first dates I went on.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well what made what made it the best?

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<v Speaker 4>Felt like I could talk to her because like when

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<v Speaker 4>we went on our coffee date, it was a good conversation,

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<v Speaker 4>even though it didn't last very long. Okay, it was

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<v Speaker 4>actually like twenty minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>Why was it so short?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I'm not really sure my friends got by

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<v Speaker 4>and by your friend? Yeah, I don't really know why.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, So you had a friend come by randomly and

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<v Speaker 5>you talk to the friend a little bit, and you

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<v Speaker 5>feel like maybe she got offended that the attention was

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<v Speaker 5>taken away from her.

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<v Speaker 4>I make I don't know. That would be weird to me.

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<v Speaker 5>She got a friend in what.

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<v Speaker 1>Happens if you're only there for twenty minutes and you

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<v Speaker 1>have a five minute conversation with a friend, that's one

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<v Speaker 1>fourth of the date, they learned.

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<v Speaker 5>Trying to play it off. Hey, Brooke, good to see

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<v Speaker 5>you here.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, are too successful and beautiful.

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like I normally wouldn't ask this, but I

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<v Speaker 5>feel like I need to know Chelsea. She's not the barista, right,

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<v Speaker 5>You're not considering that a date. That's creative, Like she

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<v Speaker 5>doesn't work there.

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<v Speaker 4>No, she doesn't work there.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, that's a good question. How did it end? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>after the twenty minutes? How did you two leave it?

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<v Speaker 4>She said she had to do something, so we got

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<v Speaker 4>up and left. And I guess that was kind of

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<v Speaker 4>weird too, because I was kind of like behind her

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<v Speaker 4>for a couple of blocks. She what walked.

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<v Speaker 5>Away the same direction.

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<v Speaker 2>That's like the most awing ever.

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<v Speaker 5>And then she started to jog, and then you started

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<v Speaker 5>to jog. You're like, hey, I'm gonna run out of

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<v Speaker 5>someone weird chases you.

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<v Speaker 4>I end up I lost her, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Lost you, I think, Yeah, that's really Did she know

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<v Speaker 1>you were back there?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think so. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, but you weren't following her. That was just a

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<v Speaker 5>coincidence you had the same route home.

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<v Speaker 2>Dude.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate that even when that happens with my friends,

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<v Speaker 1>were saying goodbye at the restaurant, and then we're like.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, get it, you get it all right? So how

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<v Speaker 5>long has it been since this twenty minute date?

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<v Speaker 4>I credit two weeks?

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<v Speaker 2>Two weeks? Okay, I have you reached out much with her?

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<v Speaker 4>I was texting her quite a bit?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we may, said, yeah, we might.

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<v Speaker 5>We might find out if you've crossed any lines or

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<v Speaker 5>how many texts you've actually sent when we call her here.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's more how far he did cross.

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<v Speaker 5>Them, or maybe they were right in that sweet spot.

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<v Speaker 5>We don't know, Brooke. Remember when you said you had hope.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I do have hope as long as you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>send her a picture of the back of her.

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<v Speaker 2>Head as she was walking away from you.

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<v Speaker 5>On this he was just trying to make sure she

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<v Speaker 5>doesn't get sucker punched back there. What did I was

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<v Speaker 5>going to.

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<v Speaker 4>Say when I was on last time, Brooke? You told

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<v Speaker 4>me to be more certain, So I'm really trying to

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<v Speaker 4>be here.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, in their car.

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<v Speaker 2>There's a balance that we need to discuss. But maybe enough.

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<v Speaker 5>Period and weren't trying to be weird. You were just

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<v Speaker 5>trying to walk to your car.

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<v Speaker 2>And maybe that's not why she's not calling me back

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<v Speaker 2>at all.

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<v Speaker 5>We're making stuff. Okay, well let's call her and use

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<v Speaker 5>that assertion to aggressively get you a second date. When

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<v Speaker 5>we called Chelsea right after this hold on second date update,

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<v Speaker 5>don't you hate it when you're on a first date

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<v Speaker 5>and the girl says she has to go and you

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<v Speaker 5>accidentally follow her all the way home? No, jef, I

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<v Speaker 5>think it.

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<v Speaker 1>Was only three blocks to be fair, I mean enough

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<v Speaker 1>blocks to be alarming.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but you lost her. That's what happened to our listener, Kevin.

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<v Speaker 5>Sort of. He wasn't following his date Chelsea on purpose.

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<v Speaker 5>They just left the coffee shop at the same time,

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<v Speaker 5>and he coincidentally was walking behind her on the street

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<v Speaker 5>for a long, long while.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, at any point, did you think I

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<v Speaker 1>should take a different route.

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<v Speaker 5>Or just stop for a second? No, stop, hope, he

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<v Speaker 5>didn't think speed up, let me catch up with her.

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<v Speaker 5>Did that thought come to your mind at all, Kevin,

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<v Speaker 5>any of those?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well, I didn't think it was that weird, and

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<v Speaker 4>so I've been thinking about it, like while we were

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<v Speaker 4>on hold, and I think you should tell her that

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't intentionally walk behind her, because I really did it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you want you want us to let her

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<v Speaker 2>know that?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, yeah, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 5>We're not exactly sure what happened there. We just know

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<v Speaker 5>that the date was only twenty minutes long, which is

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<v Speaker 5>kind of short to get to know someone. That's honestly

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<v Speaker 5>the bigger concern for me, like why did she only

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<v Speaker 5>stay for twenty minutes? The following is a totally different story.

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<v Speaker 5>If you were in a hurry, why would you even

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<v Speaker 5>schedule a date during that time?

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<v Speaker 1>They were just trying to squeeze it in and it's

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<v Speaker 1>like one of those pre dates where it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>a quick coffee, like will this be worth a full night?

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<v Speaker 5>You didn't catfish her with like a photo of Liam Hemsworth,

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<v Speaker 5>did you, because you do sound like a Liam to

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<v Speaker 5>me right now, kind of hunky.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm actually bushing right now. But no, does a name could.

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<v Speaker 5>Have fooled me. Let's call Chelsea here. We'll see if

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<v Speaker 5>we can get an explanation from her. If she picks up,

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<v Speaker 5>all right, here we go. Hello, Hey is this Chelsea?

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<v Speaker 6>This is who's calling?

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<v Speaker 5>This is a radio show calling called Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 5>in the morning.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, Chelsea, Uh what what?

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<v Speaker 4>What? Is this.

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<v Speaker 5>This is fun for some of us. It's fun. It's

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<v Speaker 5>a segment we do call the Second Date Update. And

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<v Speaker 5>we're looking at sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, just listening, just actively listening.

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<v Speaker 5>By interrupting me. But let's okay. We're trying to help

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<v Speaker 5>out one of our listeners that you went out on

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<v Speaker 5>a date with recently. He says he had a really

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<v Speaker 5>good time with you, but it ended kind of short.

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<v Speaker 5>His name is Kevin.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm hoping that was a smile and not a laugh.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Sensitive.

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<v Speaker 5>We're calling because Kevin told us a little bit about

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<v Speaker 5>your guys' date coffee date, coffee date, and from what

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<v Speaker 5>we heard, it sound pretty fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Tame short.

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<v Speaker 6>That was two weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but he he liked you, He thought you were awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>He wanted to see you again.

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<v Speaker 5>He said he's been pursuing it actually and texting you,

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<v Speaker 5>trying to organize something, but he doesn't understand why nothing's happening.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, he has sent me quite a few texts, but

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<v Speaker 6>I guess I'm confused as to why he doesn't understand

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<v Speaker 6>why he start moving forward.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you write him back?

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<v Speaker 4>He?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I guess we never asked if you ever

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<v Speaker 2>texted him back.

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<v Speaker 6>From my perspective, he was pretty obvious.

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<v Speaker 5>The only the only idea that he had about the

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<v Speaker 5>date about why it would have ended so quickly is

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<v Speaker 5>he did mention one of his friends stopped by and said.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, that's what he said.

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<v Speaker 6>He he said, a friend stopped by.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, like that.

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<v Speaker 2>You think that they weren't actually friends?

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<v Speaker 5>Was it his ex?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, as far as I know, I don't think

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<v Speaker 6>it was an ex, but I don't know. Thirty seconds

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<v Speaker 6>a minute into us meeting at the coffee shop, this

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<v Speaker 6>guy comes over and sits like right next to us,

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<v Speaker 6>isn't looking at me at all. So I asked Kevin.

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<v Speaker 6>I was like, Hi, can we introduce him?

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<v Speaker 4>He's like, well, no, no, don't.

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<v Speaker 6>He's not engaging in the conversation. He's just my emotional

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<v Speaker 6>support friend.

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<v Speaker 5>Emotional support friend.

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<v Speaker 6>So originally I thought he might have been kidding, and

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<v Speaker 6>so I laugh and he's like, it's not funny.

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<v Speaker 4>This is Charles.

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<v Speaker 6>I've had a couple of poor dates, and Charles is

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<v Speaker 6>really there to just kind of help me with my

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<v Speaker 6>confidence and communicate more effectively. I mean, I think if

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<v Speaker 6>maybe I had been given a heads up, I would

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<v Speaker 6>have been more.

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<v Speaker 4>Open to the idea.

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<v Speaker 5>Emotional support friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Vest Dude, that's amazing that he can find a friend

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<v Speaker 1>that will take the time to go on a day

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<v Speaker 1>with him. I mean, but I'll say I think that

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<v Speaker 1>that says a lot about Vin that he must.

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<v Speaker 2>Be a good I need to know, is Charles sitting

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<v Speaker 2>on his phone? Is he's just listening.

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<v Speaker 5>We got the impression that he just popped in real

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<v Speaker 5>quick and left.

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<v Speaker 4>No, not at all.

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<v Speaker 6>He was there the whole time. He wasn't really engaging

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<v Speaker 6>in the conversation. He was just there.

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<v Speaker 2>Did he hype Kevin up ever? You know, like he's sport?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, he laughed at some of the things that

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<v Speaker 6>Kevin said, but beyond that, there wasn't much in her action.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody friend Charles a few tables over.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we didn't know that was how it played out.

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<v Speaker 5>We got a little bit of a different version of

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<v Speaker 5>that story.

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<v Speaker 2>Charles is on the phone too.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, because, oh my god, we have an emotional support

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<v Speaker 5>friend quietly listening on the other line right now. Just

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<v Speaker 5>to make sure that I do a good job with

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<v Speaker 5>this segment. And that person is Kevin.

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<v Speaker 6>Kevin's here, what he's on the phone?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, he's really Actually he wants to talk in this conversation,

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<v Speaker 5>so I'm going to give him permission to jump in

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<v Speaker 5>and say something.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, if he's there, Keviny there, Yeah, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 2>How you doing, buddy, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just I'm listening. Yeah, I don't understand what the

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<v Speaker 4>big deal is really, Kevin.

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<v Speaker 5>When did you get an emotional support bro? You didn't

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<v Speaker 5>tell us about that? Well?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean, a friend is a friend. He doesn't

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<v Speaker 4>need like a title or.

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<v Speaker 5>You sounds like you gave him a title. You you

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<v Speaker 5>called him your emotional support friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Kevin, you brought him along on the date and didn't

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<v Speaker 1>tell us the whole time.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, yes, he was there, but he was there

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<v Speaker 4>for me.

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<v Speaker 5>Sure, sure, Chelsea. Do you see where he's coming from?

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<v Speaker 6>I guess. I mean, but you kind of have to

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<v Speaker 6>put my like yourself in my shoes, Kevin, And it's

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<v Speaker 6>it's a little bizarre to just have a third person

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<v Speaker 6>there without kind of giving the heads up why, and

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<v Speaker 6>not engaging really in the conversation.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, are you mad because he didn't laugh at your

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<v Speaker 4>jokes and he has.

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<v Speaker 5>I'd be mad. That's a good question, guys, Chelsea.

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<v Speaker 6>No, not really. I don't think I was particularly funny

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<v Speaker 6>because I was kind of creeped out by the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I told so many jokes and just I mean, Kevin,

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<v Speaker 1>do you think that maybe you could have told her

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<v Speaker 1>prior to the date that he was coming along.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, he's going to be right.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't need to tell her because he wasn't going

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<v Speaker 4>to do anything. Like, he's just the wallpaper. He's going

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<v Speaker 4>to be there now for me.

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<v Speaker 5>So what I think, Kevin, Chelsea is saying that it's

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<v Speaker 5>hard for her to connect romantically with you.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't even mean romantically, I just mean as a

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<v Speaker 6>person to person it's hard.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Kevin, it's a little bit distracting, Kevin.

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<v Speaker 6>Maybe he's waiting for Charles to responds.

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<v Speaker 5>Charles speak up right now?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so it's a little bit distracting, I guess. But

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<v Speaker 4>like the thing is, I can tell him to do

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<v Speaker 4>whatever I want. Does that make sense because I'm the

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<v Speaker 4>one that's paying him?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh you paying.

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<v Speaker 1>Hard?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, okay, yeah, he was technically not facing you

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<v Speaker 4>for the time. But I mean, I could guess I

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<v Speaker 4>could get him to like face the wall if you

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<v Speaker 4>really wanted.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I do think that would be better. That's that's

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<v Speaker 5>at least a good first step. Can we agree on that?

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<v Speaker 2>Awkward Kevin?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, people need to tell him we left the rest.

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<v Speaker 6>Of the day.

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<v Speaker 5>But the blindfolded a ball game, you can't see, you

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<v Speaker 5>can't speak.

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<v Speaker 2>Compare the both of you. Emotional support is totally normal

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<v Speaker 2>and needed. But let's get you a dog or you know.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, but dogs can't laugh.

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<v Speaker 4>At jokes exactly. And it was a good date.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't.

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<v Speaker 6>Did you hear it wasn't a good date. I am

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<v Speaker 6>so sorry, y'all. I don't understand why this was even

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<v Speaker 6>a conversation. It is awkward and weird, and I've got

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<v Speaker 6>to go. I hope you all have a great day.

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<v Speaker 5>Sounds like you need an emotional support friend to deal

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<v Speaker 5>with that.

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<v Speaker 4>She keeps having to go, and I think that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>She's not interested, and I don't know that you're going

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<v Speaker 1>to find many that are interested when Charles.

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<v Speaker 2>Has to be there with you. But a dog, a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of women would be interested.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, emotional for animals are kind of weird. I prefer people.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, Okay, well maybe again, maybe just follow her home

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<v Speaker 5>again and see.

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<v Speaker 2>If she.

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<v Speaker 5>Stops brook Jeffrey in the morning, Man, I don't say

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<v Speaker 5>this about many people, but this show is an open

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<v Speaker 5>door for Kevin whenever he wants to come back. He

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<v Speaker 5>is officially a friend of the show, even if he

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<v Speaker 5>wasn't being one hundred per century full with us about

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<v Speaker 5>his emotional support friend. I like him and I would

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<v Speaker 5>let him follow me home anytime.

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<v Speaker 1>Is he the only one that pushes back on dogs

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<v Speaker 1>that people are better than dogs?

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<v Speaker 2>They're not, Kevin. People are your problem.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, everybody agrees. All the people on the textboard, they're

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<v Speaker 5>saying dogs.

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<v Speaker 2>Are better than bele Yes, get the right emotional support.

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<v Speaker 5>Actually, wait, did his emotional support friend follow Chelsea home too?

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<v Speaker 2>So there's two dudes following.

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<v Speaker 5>If there's two guys following you, now, I kind of

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<v Speaker 5>understand the creepiness, especially when he's talking to his friend

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<v Speaker 5>and going, what is the boy?

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't understand the creepiness when the guy was sitting

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<v Speaker 1>next to him staring at her.

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<v Speaker 5>The date itself was pretty odd. Yeah, I mean he's

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<v Speaker 5>just being supportive.

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<v Speaker 2>No better ways.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, way hoped you should have done a FaceTime totally.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean he honestly could have had him on

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<v Speaker 1>speakerphone and just set the phone on the bay, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>There's lots of life lessons to be taken from these segments,

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<v Speaker 5>and you can go find them online wherever you get

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<v Speaker 5>your podcast at Brook and Jeffrey and then email the show.

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<v Speaker 5>We can call that person who wasn't calling you back

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<v Speaker 2>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.