1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,880 Speaker 1: So actually, this next story does have to do with 2 00:00:03,040 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 1: terrible dates and it comes from our beautiful Okay community 3 00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 1: on our okop call line. If you want to call 4 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: us and leave your story, call four for zero five 5 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 1: or eight six five sixty seven. But let's hear this 6 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 1: title please, by by Jamaica. 7 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:26,120 Speaker 2: The title of my story is he ghosted me out 8 00:00:26,120 --> 00:00:26,760 Speaker 2: of nowhere. 9 00:00:27,560 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 1: All right, let's hear about this ghosting. Ghosting sucks the 10 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:35,400 Speaker 1: ghost We need an exorcism. So basically, I went on 11 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:38,120 Speaker 1: a dating site, which was against my rules for myself, 12 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:40,879 Speaker 1: but I was bored after two years of being divorced 13 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:43,920 Speaker 1: and three kids, and so I met this guy on there, 14 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:47,600 Speaker 1: and we'll name him Zach another Zach. So Zach reached 15 00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 1: out and we hit it off on the first date. 16 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:50,960 Speaker 1: I mean, it was a little rocky as far as 17 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 1: us getting to where we're supposed to meet, just because 18 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 1: of some hiccups with gas on my part and whatnot. 19 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 1: But it all ended up where our first date was 20 00:00:58,240 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 1: a success. 21 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:00,000 Speaker 3: Nice. 22 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 1: He held my hand in his truck and he was 23 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 1: driving me home because my car got towed away thetruck. 24 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 3: But then his drug got thowed away. 25 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 1: I think her car got I'm sorry, Oh no, that 26 00:01:15,360 --> 00:01:18,199 Speaker 1: kind of sucks, dude. Yeah, but yeah, and this song 27 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:20,400 Speaker 1: was on and he basically said, I think this is 28 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 1: going to be our song. And I'm like, this is 29 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 1: first date, handholding and we have a song. 30 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 2: Okay. 31 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 1: So he dropped me off and we gave each other 32 00:01:29,840 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 1: a hug, and you know, I get in and he 33 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 1: immediately stayed, and that he wanted to see where this 34 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 1: would go or where we would go, and he would 35 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:40,039 Speaker 1: like for me to get rid of the dating site 36 00:01:40,080 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 1: because he did the same off the first day. First day, 37 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 1: He's like, we can get rid of hinge, Tinder and 38 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 1: bumble because you're the only person I want. 39 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 3: To rumble with a little bit too maybe too quick. 40 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 1: Well, not even that far into it, maybe like a 41 00:01:53,080 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 1: week after he met, he came over to my house 42 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 1: and or my apartment and stayed. He was looking into 43 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:00,200 Speaker 1: getting an apartment nearby. 44 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 3: Man's moving a little too. 45 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 1: Fast, The ir old do you think it's a red 46 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 1: flag to say get rid of your dating apps? 47 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 3: I think that was the first reflag. 48 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's the first reflag. Second red flag, 49 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 1: I'm moving next to you. Yeah, And I was just like, 50 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: what you know, but I didn't want to shake the 51 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:19,480 Speaker 1: water to scare him away by like freaking out. So 52 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 1: I just kind of made a mental note, and by 53 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:24,919 Speaker 1: week two he told me he loved me. I mean, actually, 54 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 1: I've said I love you pretty quick. 55 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:28,919 Speaker 3: No, but it seems like his whole mo is moving 56 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 3: way too fast. 57 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:33,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, red flag with context. Red flag. And that was 58 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:35,679 Speaker 1: kind of like a red flag because most guys don't 59 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 1: say that until like six months to a year maybe more, 60 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:42,400 Speaker 1: which is the usual time. Really Yeah, why, oh, I 61 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:44,000 Speaker 1: just you think it's earlier. 62 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 3: I don't know. Well maybe for guys I don't know. 63 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 1: I mean I've said it really early. I've said it 64 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 1: like a month in, and I've said it like I 65 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 1: think it's six months, seven months in. It just depends, 66 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:56,839 Speaker 1: just depends, right, three months, three months. 67 00:02:57,080 --> 00:02:57,240 Speaker 2: Yeah. 68 00:02:57,280 --> 00:02:59,079 Speaker 1: But I was just kind of like, wow, I don't 69 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 1: even know this guy. But eventually we grew very very close, 70 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 1: very fast, and things pretty much went smoothly until he 71 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 1: had to move back to his hometown, which is four 72 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 1: hours away. I don't want to get into why he 73 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:10,800 Speaker 1: had to move back. It was work related. I'll just 74 00:03:10,880 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: leave it at that. 75 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:13,320 Speaker 3: Did work out for a livit. 76 00:03:13,600 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: I think OP got cut off right, was it three 77 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 1: minute one? Yeah? I think OP got cut off. 78 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 3: So there's more to the story. 79 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 1: There's more to the story. And I think we're gonna 80 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 1: have to call. We're going to call right now. This 81 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 1: line has been placed out of service. This line has 82 00:03:34,120 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 1: been placed in service. That's so sad, Jamaica. I guess 83 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 1: we'll know, we'll never know. We did try to call. 84 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 3: We did try to call. 85 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, Jamaica, please please. 86 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 3: Send us the rest of the story. 87 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: But low key, those were like a bunch of red 88 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 1: flags right in a row. 89 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, it does seem like a worked out, which is. 90 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 1: Great, but I feel like we were going into it 91 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 1: then again not working out. But I would love to 92 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: know what you think. Like, I've fallen fast, I've fallen slow, 93 00:04:04,240 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 1: I've fallen on it all. What do you think is 94 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 1: like the average time that people say I love you? 95 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 1: At Riley said three months? I said around six month. 96 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 1: I think I agree with Op. Sophia says never. But 97 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:21,359 Speaker 1: let us know in the comments what you think. But 98 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:24,760 Speaker 1: I think we're going to get into another story. 99 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 2: An idea asshole for wanting my father to break up 100 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 2: with this new girlfriend. 101 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:32,279 Speaker 1: Huh m, I mean why? 102 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:34,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think any more info. 103 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 1: Although I like I could be getting like jealous stepdaughter 104 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:41,280 Speaker 1: vibes where it's like nobody can date my dad besides 105 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:42,599 Speaker 1: my mom or I don't. 106 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, don't. 107 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 1: I feel like it's going to be worse. 108 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:46,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's like something's. 109 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, not the ahole because this again comes 110 00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 1: from our beautiful, our. 111 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 3: Beautiful, OKP fans call. 112 00:04:53,960 --> 00:04:56,680 Speaker 1: On, so let's get into it. Read that transcript. 113 00:04:56,760 --> 00:05:01,200 Speaker 4: Maybe alrighty, I'm about to take you guys on a 114 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 4: wild ride. Fill up, buggle up, buckeroos, cause you we 115 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 4: go to start the story. My dad has been married 116 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 4: a total of four times. 117 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:13,280 Speaker 1: Now that's a lot of times. 118 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:16,279 Speaker 4: It's a lot of times. He just recently just divorced 119 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 4: from his latest wife. His first wife left and moved 120 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:21,839 Speaker 4: out of the country and left my older brother with him. 121 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:24,800 Speaker 1: Wow, that second wife that sucks. 122 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:29,039 Speaker 4: My second wife was my mother and they divorced after 123 00:05:29,160 --> 00:05:32,359 Speaker 4: she realized that he was a beach. But unfortunately she 124 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:33,120 Speaker 4: did pass away. 125 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:37,560 Speaker 1: Maybe that's what the first wife realized too. Yeah. 126 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, so not really his fault, but the relationship was 127 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:42,479 Speaker 4: very awkward, and that's where I've gained my two step 128 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:45,040 Speaker 4: siblings and now coming to his fourth wife. 129 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:46,679 Speaker 3: I told her at the very beginning. 130 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 4: I was like, hey girl, look, if you decide to 131 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:51,920 Speaker 4: get divorced, I'm keeping you. 132 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 3: And behold, it happened. 133 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:56,839 Speaker 4: So now we're here and I'm looking at him on 134 00:05:56,880 --> 00:06:01,159 Speaker 4: Facebook just completely basting his new girl friend not even. 135 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:02,600 Speaker 3: A year after they divorced. 136 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 4: Possibly they were kind of talking to each other before 137 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 4: the divorce happened. 138 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 1: So this is like like basically girlfriend slash wife number 139 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:10,599 Speaker 1: five that he's on now. 140 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 4: Yes, wow, yeah, so but but oh he's like. 141 00:06:13,960 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 1: I want to keep a relationship with a girlfriend or 142 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 1: wife number four number four, Yes. 143 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 4: Not even a year after they divorced. Possibly they were 144 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 4: kind of talking to each other before the divorce happened. 145 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 3: And I wasn't even. 146 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 4: Going to share this story, But as soon as I 147 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 4: saw the post of him being like my princess with 148 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 4: her holding a dozen roses, I was like, Okay, all right, 149 00:06:33,720 --> 00:06:35,720 Speaker 4: I don't know what I should do, because my deal 150 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:39,799 Speaker 4: is I have seen this pattern repeat itself so many times. 151 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:41,160 Speaker 3: He cannot be alone. 152 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:44,360 Speaker 4: He's just jumped from a new person to a new 153 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:46,920 Speaker 4: person with less than a year, Like, I don't think 154 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:50,400 Speaker 4: he can be by himself and within each of these relationships, 155 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 4: he doesn't seem to learn any life lessons. And I 156 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:55,679 Speaker 4: almost first I wouldn't care, But I do care because 157 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:57,600 Speaker 4: she has a kid and I don't want him going 158 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:00,359 Speaker 4: into this kid's life and kind of wrecking it. But 159 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 4: would I be the a hole for trying to like 160 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 4: reach out to her or her older kids just to 161 00:07:05,040 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 4: give them the lowdown? 162 00:07:06,560 --> 00:07:08,120 Speaker 3: Or would I be the a hole for letting it. 163 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 1: So basically reaching out to wife number four about girlfriend 164 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 1: possibly wife number five, I think so mm. 165 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 4: And like giving them lowdown of what oh, unless it's 166 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 4: reaching out to the new girlfriend and being like, hey, this. 167 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 1: Is this is his pattern. 168 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:26,680 Speaker 4: Yes, so it's either this fourth wife or this new girlfriend, 169 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 4: this is the pattern that like op being like, hey, 170 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 4: this is the pattern. I feel like I'm being a 171 00:07:31,280 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 4: dick either way. But I wanted to see what you 172 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:35,239 Speaker 4: guys thought, and I hope to hear from you because 173 00:07:35,240 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 4: I got lots of beats. 174 00:07:40,040 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 3: So I've got lots of deats. Beats Oh yes, no beats, 175 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 3: just deats. Good luck bye. 176 00:07:47,160 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 1: Hmmm. I think so what Opie's asking is, would I 177 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 1: be the a hole for telling girlfriend number five slash 178 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 1: wife number. 179 00:07:56,400 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 3: Five, yes, that this is this my dad matter? 180 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 1: Or it possibly is am I asshole for telling wife 181 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 1: number four that about the with dating girlfriend number five, 182 00:08:08,600 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 1: possibly while they were still together. 183 00:08:11,880 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 4: Yes, there are two scenarios. I think, No, you're not 184 00:08:14,560 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 4: the a whole. I think it'll be nice of you 185 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:16,920 Speaker 4: to reach out. 186 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 1: I mean, like this is the whole thing, like not 187 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 1: my monkey, not my circus, Like do you really want 188 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:27,000 Speaker 1: to take on this this drama? Because I think if you, 189 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:29,320 Speaker 1: if you, if you do it, you could be taking 190 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:30,000 Speaker 1: on a lot of drama. 191 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 3: That's true. 192 00:08:30,880 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 1: What's P's name? 193 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:33,600 Speaker 3: I don't know if they left the name, we can 194 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 3: call them bukaroo. 195 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 1: I think we need to call and get some more details. 196 00:08:37,679 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, I want to sort this story. 197 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 1: Lets sort this out and we will see if they 198 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 1: pick up and they don't pick up, Hey, guys, you 199 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:47,400 Speaker 1: gotta pick up. 200 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 3: We're calling you. 201 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:49,959 Speaker 1: We got to pick up. 202 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:53,560 Speaker 3: Remember the number you should be on the lookout for 203 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 3: is four four zero. 204 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 1: Five zero eight six five sixty seven. 205 00:08:57,679 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 3: There we go. 206 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 1: Hello, this is Sam from the OKOP show. How's it going? 207 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 1: Hi great, My sister Sophia is also with us. What 208 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 1: was your name? I didn't hear it in the voicemail. Hi, 209 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:21,600 Speaker 1: nice to talk to you. So we just were going 210 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 1: through your voicemail and we have a question. So are 211 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 1: you asking whether you and it could be these two 212 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:32,560 Speaker 1: options or a complete third option that we're not understanding. 213 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:36,079 Speaker 1: So are you asking of whether you should tell what 214 00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:40,600 Speaker 1: your dad's wife number four about possible wife slash girlfriend 215 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 1: number five and the dating period happening and overlapping when 216 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 1: they were still together. Or are you going to tell 217 00:09:46,920 --> 00:09:50,559 Speaker 1: girlfriend number five slash possible wife number five that this 218 00:09:51,000 --> 00:09:53,079 Speaker 1: your dad has a pattern of just like not being 219 00:09:53,160 --> 00:09:56,600 Speaker 1: able to be alone. Or are you doing something different 220 00:09:56,640 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 1: than both those two? 221 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 2: Oh? I think probably the second option of whether or 222 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:04,839 Speaker 2: not I should give her a warning? 223 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 1: Yeah kind of a butt. 224 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, I could be. I've seen this pattern that 225 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 2: I don't foresee him breaking anytime soon. I know. I 226 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 2: try to word it a little bit in the voicemail. 227 00:10:16,640 --> 00:10:20,559 Speaker 1: But it's just a lot how long these relationships been. 228 00:10:20,880 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 2: This new person, Uh, he recently got divorced like this year, 229 00:10:25,640 --> 00:10:29,520 Speaker 2: so this is like fresh. And even I was like, 230 00:10:29,640 --> 00:10:33,160 Speaker 2: hey man, maybe we should a little bit time, like 231 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:34,920 Speaker 2: you know, let's like chill out a little bit. And 232 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 2: he's never really been able to live on his own 233 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 2: or to kind of like exist. He always seems to 234 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:44,440 Speaker 2: be the type of person that needs somebody, and in 235 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 2: his case, it's always been somebody that's a little bit 236 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:51,680 Speaker 2: like cooler than him, stressful, you know what I mean, 237 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:54,480 Speaker 2: And like my dad is not cute enough to be 238 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 2: any type of sugar baby by any means, Like I 239 00:10:57,559 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 2: don't understand, but yeah, that's kind of a situation right now. 240 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:06,520 Speaker 1: So he's like pulling all of these better and more 241 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 1: successful women somehow basically, Well, I mean, I guess he's 242 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:14,560 Speaker 1: got something. But have you actually just have you talked 243 00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: to him about, like Dad, Like, have you ever tried 244 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:19,719 Speaker 1: just being alone and working on yourself a little bit? 245 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 2: Yeah? Like, I think he kind of this last rewards 246 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:28,960 Speaker 2: kind of took him by surprise, just hilarious considering that, 247 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 2: you know, she had been asking for therapy and just 248 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:35,120 Speaker 2: working on stuff, and so I think he kind of 249 00:11:35,160 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 2: acknowledges that, yeah, maybe I should have done a little 250 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 2: bit better. 251 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:40,440 Speaker 1: But that's good. 252 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 2: His actions now don't really fit the description of yes, 253 00:11:44,400 --> 00:11:48,599 Speaker 2: I've learned from this past experience, yeah, and jumping. 254 00:11:48,240 --> 00:11:50,959 Speaker 1: Into this I'm going to do it all over again. 255 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, all over again. 256 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 1: Well, what do you think would happen if you told 257 00:11:55,320 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 1: girlfriend number five this is this is girlfriend, right, not wife? 258 00:12:01,960 --> 00:12:03,400 Speaker 1: Girlfriend possible? 259 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:06,199 Speaker 2: But I can definitely see like the love bombing. He's 260 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 2: definitely super into all her interests right now, kind of 261 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 2: like repeating the same patterns, meaning like all of her friends, 262 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:18,280 Speaker 2: you know, and whatnot. But I was almost thinking about 263 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 2: just like weighing and seeing how serious it gets. But 264 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:23,240 Speaker 2: I also know it's because like he's kind of boom 265 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:26,000 Speaker 2: or older. Sometimes they're like, we're old, let's get married 266 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:30,440 Speaker 2: real fast. Yeah, Like I don't know. But I also 267 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 2: found out that she has some sons who are my age, 268 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 2: and so I was like, well, maybe they'll listen to 269 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 2: these type of shows and then maybe they'll be like, 270 00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:41,959 Speaker 2: oh this sounds familiar, Dan will happen. I don't know 271 00:12:42,200 --> 00:12:42,720 Speaker 2: who knows. 272 00:12:43,160 --> 00:12:45,720 Speaker 1: This was actually your way of releasing it into the world. 273 00:12:45,960 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 2: Literally just quoted out there and see you know what 274 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:50,200 Speaker 2: I mean. 275 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:55,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, just send this video like oh I saw this video, 276 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 4: and we'll like what's going on? 277 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 1: And so what do you think exactly you would say 278 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 1: to girlfriend number five or what's your relationship? 279 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:10,920 Speaker 3: Like how like are you close with the girlfriend? 280 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 2: No? I have no idea, but like, so, I'm not 281 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:17,480 Speaker 2: really close to my dad. He's been kind of pre 282 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:22,319 Speaker 2: radicaling I guess forever my mom. My mom was kind 283 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:24,800 Speaker 2: of like gross and then ended up getting divorced and 284 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:29,319 Speaker 2: then like saying pattern again and again. But we're not close. 285 00:13:29,400 --> 00:13:32,200 Speaker 2: I don't know her. And even with him, it's like 286 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 2: he's suddenly meeting someone new and all of a sudden 287 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 2: he's like, yeah, this is my daughter. He should meet them. 288 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:39,679 Speaker 2: We're like super cool and close and whatnot. So it's 289 00:13:39,720 --> 00:13:41,640 Speaker 2: kind of like. 290 00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:45,120 Speaker 1: A pawn and his love bombing ye kind. 291 00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:47,760 Speaker 2: Of makes them work a little bit better, but like 292 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 2: we we don't communicate that much. And even with me 293 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:53,320 Speaker 2: being like hey man, this is what I think, it's like, 294 00:13:53,400 --> 00:13:57,960 Speaker 2: why would he even listen? It's like yeah, related, but 295 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:00,120 Speaker 2: it's not like we have that kind of relationship that 296 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:00,719 Speaker 2: to be like. 297 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:05,440 Speaker 1: Hey is that is that a rooster in the background? 298 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:07,480 Speaker 2: Oh yes, sorry, I'm outside. I was like taking care 299 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:10,240 Speaker 2: of my chicken. 300 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 3: We used to have chicken. We used to have bantam chickens. 301 00:14:12,880 --> 00:14:14,520 Speaker 2: I love chickens. 302 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:17,680 Speaker 1: I raised a duck into adulthood. That's true, back back 303 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 1: in the day. So what would like a like all right, 304 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 1: I'm I am either the white. Let's let's say I'm 305 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:28,360 Speaker 1: I'm your dad's new girlfriend. What would you say to me? 306 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:35,040 Speaker 2: I'd be like, Hey, it's great to meet you. I 307 00:14:35,040 --> 00:14:37,040 Speaker 2: think we should have a cup of coffee one day, 308 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:39,160 Speaker 2: maybe sit down a little. 309 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:46,200 Speaker 1: Coffee. Fast forward, Hey. 310 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 2: I just want to let you know that, you know, 311 00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 2: I have seen I don't know if you know about 312 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 2: some of his past relationship experiences, but I've noticed a 313 00:14:55,480 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 2: couple of patterns. It kind of starts out as they 314 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 2: very much like love, and then it kind of switches 315 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 2: into this kind of manipulative, leachy behavior. So I just 316 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:10,000 Speaker 2: wanted to like give you a fair warning and a 317 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 2: head suck, Like I don't know, this sounds. 318 00:15:12,880 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 1: Exactly what's happened. And I'm gonna tell your dad that 319 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:21,840 Speaker 1: you said, so. 320 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 2: He's gonna know what's me. He's like what I feel? 321 00:15:24,600 --> 00:15:28,240 Speaker 1: I mean, it's the I think like you may be 322 00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 1: saving her some time and energy. 323 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:34,400 Speaker 2: Me, which is why I'm like, well, which is why 324 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:36,320 Speaker 2: I'm still on the fence. And she do you. 325 00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 1: Want the drama? Do you want the drama? 326 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:41,240 Speaker 2: Yeah? I don't want trauma, and I also don't want 327 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:45,760 Speaker 2: trauma for whoever she's around either. Such as like a kid, 328 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:50,080 Speaker 2: so it's like yeah, yeah, I don't know. 329 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel if it was me and this was 330 00:15:54,920 --> 00:15:59,000 Speaker 1: like my dad's relationship, and if you're not like like 331 00:15:59,040 --> 00:16:01,680 Speaker 1: super close to dad, already made your peace with your 332 00:16:01,760 --> 00:16:03,480 Speaker 1: dad or like kind of like said what you have 333 00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:07,880 Speaker 1: to say, I feel like you may be introducing more 334 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 1: chaos than it's worth by talking to by talking directly 335 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 1: to the to if you don't have like a super yeah. 336 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 2: Like I would never go out of my way to 337 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 2: be like, hey girl, yeah, I. 338 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 1: Guess I wouldn't do the coffee date, but maybe like 339 00:16:27,960 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 1: you could kind of just have like a like a 340 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 1: like a dish sash with her kids and basically yeah, yeah, 341 00:16:35,360 --> 00:16:37,560 Speaker 1: but but but more out of like solidarity, you know. 342 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:40,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was trying to find them, but I cannot 343 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 2: find them. I was like the message either, So again, 344 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:47,440 Speaker 2: maybe if they listen to your show, which hopefully. 345 00:16:46,520 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 3: Honestly maybe that's the honest. 346 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:54,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, send the show to her kids and be like 347 00:16:55,080 --> 00:16:56,840 Speaker 4: but monotonously. 348 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 2: Literally there listening to be like hey, just like message 349 00:17:01,960 --> 00:17:03,920 Speaker 2: me on Facebook. I don't know, like. 350 00:17:05,480 --> 00:17:09,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe the comments will have Well let's let's ask 351 00:17:09,200 --> 00:17:13,400 Speaker 1: the okay community maybe to do. 352 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:18,840 Speaker 2: And like I want the best for my dad, but 353 00:17:18,880 --> 00:17:22,640 Speaker 2: I also don't want to cause anymore. I don't want 354 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:24,840 Speaker 2: to like if I could prevent something, I do so 355 00:17:25,080 --> 00:17:26,800 Speaker 2: it's just hard. Yeah. 356 00:17:26,840 --> 00:17:30,920 Speaker 1: Absolutely, Maybe he'll change his ways on life number five. 357 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:34,040 Speaker 1: Who knows, But I would love to know the comments. 358 00:17:34,040 --> 00:17:36,119 Speaker 1: What you guys think about the charm? 359 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:37,520 Speaker 2: Like, we can't do this again? 360 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:42,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, that history shall not repeat itself once more. Do 361 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 1: you want your name to be bleeped? 362 00:17:45,119 --> 00:17:47,600 Speaker 2: Yes, bleep out of my Do. 363 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:48,880 Speaker 1: You want to wait ship? 364 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:50,160 Speaker 3: Do you want the chickens to be. 365 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:54,360 Speaker 4: Well? 366 00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:59,200 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for calling in the okay op community. 367 00:17:59,240 --> 00:18:04,520 Speaker 1: Please give LEEP so advice. Should she tell wife number 368 00:18:04,640 --> 00:18:08,440 Speaker 1: of possible wife number five, girlfriend number five, possible wife 369 00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:11,280 Speaker 1: number five or maybe girlfriends kids? 370 00:18:11,640 --> 00:18:11,840 Speaker 4: Yeah? 371 00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:12,280 Speaker 2: Kids? 372 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:15,639 Speaker 1: Those options sound like good options. Put your answers below. 373 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for calling LEEP. Oh, you really 374 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:19,679 Speaker 1: appreciate it. 375 00:18:19,680 --> 00:18:21,720 Speaker 2: It's a nice guys. Let me know we should sound 376 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:23,160 Speaker 2: the alarm. Have a great. 377 00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 1: All right, talk to whole recording any day. 378 00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:32,440 Speaker 3: So sweet? All our colors are so nice. 379 00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:34,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, they love they love the show, their friends of 380 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 1: the show me. 381 00:18:35,560 --> 00:18:37,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, we love Leep. 382 00:18:37,880 --> 00:18:42,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, we love LEEP. Editors. Make sure you bleep that 383 00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 1: but I would love to know what you think. Do 384 00:18:43,840 --> 00:18:48,960 Speaker 1: you think leep? Do you think should tell girlfriend number 385 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:51,920 Speaker 1: five and warn girl for number five or warn girl 386 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:54,880 Speaker 1: forrid number five? Kids? Do nothing or do nothing? I'm 387 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:56,679 Speaker 1: kind of on the side of doing nothing. 388 00:18:56,920 --> 00:18:59,960 Speaker 3: I feel the yeah, maybe do nothing, I think possible. 389 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:04,600 Speaker 1: I think not your monkey, not your circus, you know which. 390 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:05,040 Speaker 1: I love it. 391 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:08,439 Speaker 4: I understand the like desire to save someone from all 392 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:09,640 Speaker 4: this time and trouble. 393 00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:13,160 Speaker 1: But you know again as someone else's monkey and someone 394 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:14,680 Speaker 1: else's circus, but. 395 00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:18,200 Speaker 4: Also touch so the close those monkeys and circuses are 396 00:19:18,280 --> 00:19:18,840 Speaker 4: so close? 397 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:21,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, but like how close are they really? It doesn't 398 00:19:21,600 --> 00:19:23,960 Speaker 1: seem like if you were closer with your dad or 399 00:19:23,960 --> 00:19:26,280 Speaker 1: that person. Maybe yeah, yeah, that's were close with your dad. 400 00:19:26,320 --> 00:19:27,760 Speaker 1: You would just tell your dad, which you've already done. 401 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:29,520 Speaker 1: What you've done, You've done a good thing, you've done 402 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 1: that you've tried. 403 00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:32,120 Speaker 3: Maybe we'll see. 404 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:33,720 Speaker 1: Let us know what you think. Put your answers to 405 00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:36,399 Speaker 1: the com leave it to your people. Thank you for 406 00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:38,199 Speaker 1: calling on. 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Yeah, So there's 418 00:20:12,119 --> 00:20:14,480 Speaker 1: this coffee. I'm like, I'm totally serious right now. Yeah, 419 00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:16,560 Speaker 1: there's you know, you know the cat poo coffee. I've 420 00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:20,200 Speaker 1: heard of. It's dollars. Yeah. They eat these like coffee 421 00:20:20,240 --> 00:20:22,280 Speaker 1: beans that poop them out. These people go and like 422 00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:25,000 Speaker 1: look through the poop and then they steep those coffee beans. 423 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 5: And it doesn't do what could it possibly do? Tastes 424 00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:31,760 Speaker 5: like shit, but the good kind. So today we ended 425 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:34,359 Speaker 5: up having to bring our cat to the emergency veterinary clinic. 426 00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:37,080 Speaker 1: He's now fine. After he was all fixed up and 427 00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:38,920 Speaker 1: I had paid, I was waiting for the vet tech 428 00:20:39,000 --> 00:20:40,640 Speaker 1: to bring him out so I could take him home. 429 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:43,040 Speaker 1: While I was waiting, I noticed a couple who had 430 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:46,120 Speaker 1: also just paid waiting as well, and assumed they were 431 00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:49,080 Speaker 1: waiting for their animal to come out safe. Assumption before 432 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:51,240 Speaker 1: my cat was brought out, a different vet tech came 433 00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:54,800 Speaker 1: out to the couple waiting carrying a fancy paper bag. Ooh, 434 00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:59,399 Speaker 1: my dumb ass should have realized then and there, but alas, 435 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 1: this is where I fucked up, instead of realizing that 436 00:21:03,160 --> 00:21:08,240 Speaker 1: the bag carried the ashes of their dead animal. No no, 437 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:12,639 Speaker 1: I excitedly asked from across the waiting room with a bright, 438 00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:15,800 Speaker 1: sunny voice. Oh do we get goodie bags? 439 00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:21,440 Speaker 5: Imagine and think to the to the person who's who's 440 00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:24,320 Speaker 5: cat just died, that a thousand percent sounds like you're 441 00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:29,479 Speaker 5: mocking them. Yeah, Oh, look, we get goodie bags. 442 00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:33,120 Speaker 1: A cat just like like those people like bawling even 443 00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:36,399 Speaker 1: more frying. My cat's still alive, so I don't know 444 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:39,800 Speaker 1: what that's like. But let me sit through your guddie bag. 445 00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:42,359 Speaker 1: Can I see what's in there? Have a taste? I 446 00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:45,600 Speaker 1: realized what was in the bag as the words were 447 00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:48,480 Speaker 1: coming out, what's in the bag, but not soon enough 448 00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:51,639 Speaker 1: to actually stop saying them. The vattech handing the bag 449 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:55,040 Speaker 1: of froze mid pass off. The woman receiving the bag, 450 00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:57,920 Speaker 1: who was heavily pregnant. Oh that makes so much words 451 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:02,160 Speaker 1: burst into tears, and me and everyone else just looked 452 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:06,280 Speaker 1: deeply uncomfortable. I started apologizing immediately and tried to explain, 453 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:08,920 Speaker 1: but it was poo darn late. The room was dead 454 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:13,560 Speaker 1: silent emphasis on the word dead, except for the sobs 455 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:16,000 Speaker 1: of the pregnant lady. It was at this moment, of course, 456 00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 1: that the vet tech that had been working with our 457 00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:22,560 Speaker 1: cat brings them out, cheerly, proclaiming and happy and healthy 458 00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:25,240 Speaker 1: and ready to go home. No, the couple with the 459 00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:29,440 Speaker 1: goody bat left in a hurry without looking up at me. Again. 460 00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:33,000 Speaker 1: I have never been so effing mortified in my life. 461 00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:36,240 Speaker 1: I feel so bad that I made their already horrible 462 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:37,359 Speaker 1: day worse. 463 00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:39,960 Speaker 5: Okay, so this is this is a quick question for 464 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:44,439 Speaker 5: you and everyone listening. Ye when you make an f 465 00:22:44,520 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 5: up of that magnitude, are you so mortified you can't speak? 466 00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:52,439 Speaker 5: Or are you tempting to profusely apologize? 467 00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:55,520 Speaker 1: I'm I'm apologizing. I'm like, oh my god, I had 468 00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 1: no idea. I'm so sorry. I'm an idiot. 469 00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:00,959 Speaker 5: I'm usually if I'm if at that level of embarrassment, 470 00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:02,240 Speaker 5: I just completely freeze. 471 00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:05,120 Speaker 1: I'm just like John's coffering, like. 472 00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:07,080 Speaker 5: And what what can you say? I mean, you can 473 00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:08,880 Speaker 5: say I'm sorry, but it's like. 474 00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:11,480 Speaker 1: Or you can double down and be like, YO, give 475 00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:14,359 Speaker 1: me that guinea bag. That's right, I forgot. We doubled 476 00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:16,240 Speaker 1: down on the shovel down. I forgot. 477 00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:20,119 Speaker 5: Hey, what is that a collector's edition? You stupid punk? 478 00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:24,240 Speaker 5: Smells great? 479 00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:31,040 Speaker 1: Barbecue? Is someone make as a barbecue? But give me 480 00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:33,679 Speaker 1: some of that A one sauce. Yeah, I'll keep that 481 00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 1: in mind the next time I go to the VET.