1 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Samantha and this is Annie. Welcome to Steff. 2 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:09,600 Speaker 1: Mom never told you a production of I Heart Radios 3 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:22,120 Speaker 1: How stuff works? And today we've got an amazing episode. 4 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:24,480 Speaker 1: I'm so excited. Just a bit of a trigger warning, 5 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:26,759 Speaker 1: not really big detail, but we do talk about the 6 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 1: Me Too movement, specifically talking about comedians in the me 7 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:33,640 Speaker 1: too time frame, Harvey Weinstein, So just to throw that 8 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: out there. Again. We don't get into anything deep, but 9 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 1: we just still like to give you a warning. And 10 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:43,600 Speaker 1: today we had the most amazing Chanel Ali come in 11 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 1: and speak with us about comedy, women in comedy, black 12 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 1: women in comedy, and fighting against injustice with humor. Yes, 13 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 1: and she was an absolute delight. I'm really bummed that 14 00:00:57,200 --> 00:01:00,840 Speaker 1: I missed the show that you went to talk. Yeah. 15 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:03,200 Speaker 1: So she was a part of the feminist buzz Kills 16 00:01:03,240 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: of Comedy, which used to be Lady Parts Justice and 17 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 1: it is now called Abortion Access Front and they tore 18 00:01:09,600 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 1: around the country working with different abortion clinics throughout the 19 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 1: country getting their name. Now talk about fundraising, talk about 20 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 1: reproductive justice, and it's beautiful and hilarious. This is the 21 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 1: second one that I've attended. The first one was at 22 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 1: a different location. Caroline of Unladylike is the one that 23 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:30,400 Speaker 1: invited me and I love them so much. They're so hilarious. 24 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:33,760 Speaker 1: Liz Winstead, who was an icon and herself, she was 25 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 1: a co creator of the Daily Show. She's the one 26 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:39,319 Speaker 1: that began this organization and make sure to go around 27 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 1: and brings into conversation these big issues and I love it. 28 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:46,680 Speaker 1: And I met Chanelle at the show from this weekend. 29 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 1: I guess that probably was a couple of weeks ago 30 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: when we aired this cor actual episode. Yes, yes, and 31 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 1: was I kind of was like, hey, can we be friends? 32 00:01:55,960 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 1: And it worked. Look at that Samantha, I make friends. 33 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 1: But she had an amazing show. She had an amazing set. 34 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 1: So if you are around anywhere, because she tours a 35 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 1: lot essentially, I know she is based out of New York, 36 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 1: but if you get a chance, go check her side 37 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 1: out Chanelle Ali and we'll give you some more information 38 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 1: and check out her touring because she does some amazing things. 39 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 1: She absolutely does. I'm so bummed I missed the show. 40 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 1: Samantha has two excellent shirts she got from it. But 41 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 1: I'm very glad that she came to the studio. That 42 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 1: you succeeded in getting her to come in because she 43 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:36,959 Speaker 1: was at a light she is, and so we go 44 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 1: ahead and start with the interview. So today we are 45 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: meeting with someone who I may have stealthily I'm gonna 46 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 1: say it stealthily, but it really wasn't hunted down during 47 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:50,920 Speaker 1: an abortion Access front comedy event. Probably frightened her quite 48 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 1: a bit. Alie Hie, thank you guys so much for 49 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:57,920 Speaker 1: having me. Thanks for coming on. I did so. I 50 00:02:58,000 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: was telling Annie, I'm like, I'm pretty sure you thinks 51 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 1: I'm yeah, I'm not gonna say it now, like it's okay, 52 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:06,360 Speaker 1: because I was like, hey, can we be friends? And 53 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:09,640 Speaker 1: he was like, I'm trying to watch and support my people. 54 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 1: But that happens at comedy shows a lot of times. 55 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 1: Like I'll get off stage and someone's very excited to 56 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 1: talk to me, and I'm excited too, but also like 57 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: sometimes the show is still happening, so I'll be like, yeah, yeah, yeah, 58 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 1: let's yeah, yeah, let's see how excited tomorrow. I may 59 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 1: have had an adult beverage or two and I'm like 60 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:31,519 Speaker 1: we were on the same level of a few drinks 61 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 1: and I can tell. So she's here. Thank you. We 62 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 1: did it. We did it, and yes, you were a 63 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 1: part of the Atlanta set for feminist buzz kill of 64 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 1: Comedy Right, which was created by Abortion Access Front, which 65 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 1: was used to be Lady Part Justice, used to be 66 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 1: called Lady Press Justice, and then they decided that they 67 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 1: wanted to really be straightforward about what their goals are 68 00:03:53,040 --> 00:03:54,400 Speaker 1: and who they are. So they're like, we are the 69 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 1: Abortion Access Front and we're here to help women and 70 00:03:57,960 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 1: then we're going to fight the fight. I love it. 71 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 1: And luckily the you know, the founder is Liz Winstead. 72 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 1: I'm sure you're very familiar with. She also was the 73 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 1: co creator of The Daily Show. Also, it's just like 74 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 1: a very woke, gas like adorable lady. I just like 75 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 1: her bun makes me happy when I see it. It 76 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:16,159 Speaker 1: makes me happy. So she reached out to me a 77 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 1: few months ago and said that they were looking to 78 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 1: take on a comedy writer. And I came on and 79 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 1: I worked for them part time in New York a 80 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 1: few days a week, and then they said we're going 81 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 1: on tour. You want to come on tour. You can 82 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 1: tell jokes and then you know, help us during the day. 83 00:04:28,400 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 1: And I was like, of course, you know, so here 84 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:31,560 Speaker 1: we are because I think this is the last stop 85 00:04:31,560 --> 00:04:34,479 Speaker 1: on the tour. Is the last stop? Ye? Man? I 86 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 1: was like, but this is the second show I've been too, 87 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 1: because I can't. I've went to the show with Joel 88 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 1: and Helen Hong and I'm like, oh, I want to 89 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:43,840 Speaker 1: be all of your friends, right and where are you? Yeah? 90 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:45,279 Speaker 1: They do a good job of making sure that the 91 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:48,599 Speaker 1: comedians they pick can like handle the spotlight of the 92 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 1: social issue but also can be like super insightful and 93 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:54,839 Speaker 1: funny and personal and it's so funny and it's so fantastic. 94 00:04:55,120 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 1: And again, yes, this is the second time I've been, 95 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 1: But I did want you to talk a little one 96 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 1: you have. Can you introduce yourself for our list? Hi guys, 97 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 1: I'm Shinnali. I'm a stand up comedian and a writer. 98 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 1: I live in New York City. I'm originally from Philadelphia. 99 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 1: Shout out to anybody they went to Tumble University and 100 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 1: it's still trying to pay it off. I've been doing 101 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 1: comedy for about seven years. You might know me from 102 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:18,599 Speaker 1: MTVS Girl Code. I was in the last season of 103 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:22,760 Speaker 1: that show, which was also the last season of that show. Um. 104 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:25,120 Speaker 1: I have a Comedy Central set coming out in a 105 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 1: few weeks and that will be my debut on Comedy 106 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:29,919 Speaker 1: Central and an album will be out in May. What 107 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 1: is the title of the Comedy Central special. I don't 108 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 1: know if they're titled it yet, but it's a partnership 109 00:05:34,320 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 1: with Refinery twenty nine, so they just highlighted female comedians 110 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 1: and they let us do kind of shorter sets like 111 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:43,279 Speaker 1: ten twelve minutes. But it was great, really great production. 112 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:46,719 Speaker 1: We shot some incredible stuff backstage, like lady comics just 113 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 1: talking to each other about like what type of weed 114 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:51,920 Speaker 1: we smoke and stuff like like really hard hitting journalism 115 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 1: and um, it's gonna be a dope series. I love it. 116 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: And then you said you have an album coming out. Yes, 117 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:58,279 Speaker 1: I have an album coming out. I think it's going 118 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:04,159 Speaker 1: to be called Chanel Number one, like it claiming it. 119 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 1: I like you feel right? I was like for a while, 120 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:08,599 Speaker 1: and then I was like, I think that's it. Though, 121 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:11,840 Speaker 1: I think that is good, you know, I like it. Yeah, 122 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 1: maybe I'll just be like naked on a perfume bottle, 123 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 1: like I don't know, we're going to plan it out. Oh, 124 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:19,119 Speaker 1: I have an envision of like a giant perfume bottle 125 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:23,919 Speaker 1: you'd wrap yourself around somehow. Yeah, I mean the ad parodies, 126 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:27,039 Speaker 1: you could do so many, there are so many. I 127 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 1: really hope it later on in my career, I do, 128 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:32,600 Speaker 1: like get some type of sponsorship from Chanel and then 129 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 1: I'll just be in a Chanel ad and It'll be 130 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 1: like Chanel for Chanelle, because and that's what I want 131 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:44,000 Speaker 1: for my future. I want to be in advertising like that. 132 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:47,080 Speaker 1: As far as goals go, that is a solid one. 133 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 1: It makes perfect sense. Yeah, it's in sync. If you're listening, 134 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 1: You guys got a lot of stuff you need to 135 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 1: cover up. You need to get me on the front 136 00:06:57,720 --> 00:07:01,720 Speaker 1: lines out here to help you, and we'll, yeah, let 137 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 1: her help you. You know. I love the perfume. This 138 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:08,760 Speaker 1: is the ads world. Yeah. Yeah. So you just talk 139 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 1: about MTV Girl Code. Can you kind of tell us 140 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 1: what that is? Yeah? What that incomas? And how did 141 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 1: you get involved? Oh? Man, So that used to be 142 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 1: the show that was on MTV and it was like 143 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:22,000 Speaker 1: sometimes guys, but mostly lady comics, straight to camera, like 144 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 1: in front of a green screen, just giving really practical advice, 145 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 1: Like if you have a friend of me and you're 146 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 1: still friends with them on Instagram, like you don't want 147 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 1: to like every picture, but if they post something like, oh, 148 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 1: I'm having a really hard day, then you want to 149 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 1: like it because you want to let them know, like 150 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:38,680 Speaker 1: your life is in shambles. I want to be truthful 151 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 1: in my social interactions, you know. So it was just 152 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 1: a really dope series where comedians were just being really 153 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 1: honest and straightforward and giving advice that we wish we 154 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 1: would have had ourselves when we were younger. And when 155 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 1: I first started comedy, and even prior to comedy, I 156 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:54,559 Speaker 1: used to love this show. Like I used to watch 157 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 1: it and I would walk up to the TV and 158 00:07:56,920 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 1: get really close to it, and I would say, I 159 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 1: gotta get on a show, like I don't know how 160 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 1: people get in here? What is the email? You know, 161 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 1: Like how do you do it? And so I started 162 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: comedy in Philly and I did comedy there for like 163 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 1: two and a half years, started to make some money 164 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 1: and get booked, and I was like, all right, I'm 165 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 1: gonna go to New York and really try this because 166 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:15,880 Speaker 1: I don't want to be like six years old trying 167 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 1: to be a comedian, so let's do it now. And 168 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 1: so then I went to New York, and I really 169 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 1: like I mean impact on the scene. Just hit every 170 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 1: single club, every single show, every single open mic, till 171 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:27,640 Speaker 1: everyone in the town was saying, have you seen Shinnelli? 172 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 1: Have you seen Shinnelli? And then one day I did 173 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 1: a stupid show at a Brooklyn coffee shop, like a 174 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 1: smokey coffee shop, and this guy was in the back 175 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 1: reading a newspaper who just so happened to be a 176 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 1: producer for a girl code. And the next day after 177 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 1: I performed and I killed it. The next day he 178 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:44,680 Speaker 1: d m me on Instagram and he was like, Hey, 179 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:47,199 Speaker 1: I know this is random, but I produced for girl Coode. 180 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:48,960 Speaker 1: I think you'd be so good on this show. I 181 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 1: can't get you an audition because we already cast it, 182 00:08:50,640 --> 00:08:52,280 Speaker 1: but if you go home and do a self tape, 183 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:54,440 Speaker 1: maybe I can show it to the director and we'll 184 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:55,960 Speaker 1: do maybe. You know. He was like, I don't know, 185 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:58,559 Speaker 1: let's see what happens. So I went home, I didn't makeup, 186 00:08:59,040 --> 00:09:02,440 Speaker 1: set up lighting, put some TLC music in the background, 187 00:09:02,520 --> 00:09:04,000 Speaker 1: took it to the nineties. I was like, let's go, 188 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 1: let's go, let's go, and uh I got on that show. 189 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 1: That is amazing. I remember the day they sent me 190 00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 1: the email like welcome to the cast of Girl Code. 191 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:13,560 Speaker 1: I was on the train and I had like six 192 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 1: dollars to my name, just so poor, so poor. And 193 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:19,079 Speaker 1: I got the email and I just like burst into tears, 194 00:09:19,120 --> 00:09:22,240 Speaker 1: like uncontrollable for like ten stops on this train, and 195 00:09:22,280 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 1: everybody in New York is like half looking at me, 196 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:27,559 Speaker 1: like is this happy tears or like we don't even 197 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 1: know because people cry on the train all the time, 198 00:09:29,320 --> 00:09:31,320 Speaker 1: you know, but it felt good to be like crying 199 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 1: on the train for a good reason, you know. I 200 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 1: was like, Wow, this is a great day. That awesome. Yeah, 201 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:39,839 Speaker 1: So that was like my first big thing, I felt like, 202 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 1: and since then, I've done a ton of things, but yeah, 203 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 1: that that really helped me establish a lot of my 204 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 1: fan base. It got me verified on Snapchat. I have 205 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:50,520 Speaker 1: so many followers on Snapchat. I don't know if they're 206 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 1: real people, but they watched my stuff. So yeah, it 207 00:09:54,160 --> 00:09:55,960 Speaker 1: was a great It was a great experience all around. 208 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:58,760 Speaker 1: It really taught me a lot about, you know, communicating 209 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:02,959 Speaker 1: with women and being really vulnerable and how there's great 210 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:05,320 Speaker 1: comedy in that there's such great comedy and being able 211 00:10:05,360 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 1: to pull from our really personal experiences and say, hey, girl, 212 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:10,840 Speaker 1: I wish somebody would have told me this, And then 213 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 1: I think it also kind of it helps men understand 214 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 1: us a little better, to be able to see our 215 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:18,080 Speaker 1: perspectives and not such a heavy handed way, right, so 216 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:20,079 Speaker 1: we can break down the barrier and have them giggle 217 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:22,679 Speaker 1: a little and understand like, oh, you guys are human, right, 218 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:29,000 Speaker 1: you know, people to look at what feeling funny, at 219 00:10:29,040 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 1: the giggles in me. So there were a couple of 220 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:33,720 Speaker 1: things because you were talking about the d M. First, Annie, 221 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:37,640 Speaker 1: that's how a professional d M looks like. I had 222 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:40,079 Speaker 1: to teach her a couple of years ago what sliding 223 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 1: into d M s meant because she is genuinely sweet 224 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:46,959 Speaker 1: and kind and she gets random hits on like oh girl. 225 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:50,600 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, he's sending me pictures have him 226 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:56,160 Speaker 1: reading this thing. No, no, no, no, no no, I 227 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:59,240 Speaker 1: just love supporting us. She's like, what do I respond? 228 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 1: Was like, no know started, but that you did bring 229 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:08,679 Speaker 1: to the point about how putting humor to heavy handed things. 230 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:12,439 Speaker 1: And and again I met you through such an amazing organization, 231 00:11:12,520 --> 00:11:14,840 Speaker 1: Abortion Access Front and how big of an issue it 232 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:17,400 Speaker 1: is today. And and Annie and I have talked a 233 00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:21,079 Speaker 1: lot since I've been on because of the political climate, 234 00:11:21,240 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 1: of course, Well that's that, um And why it is 235 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:26,680 Speaker 1: so important when we talk about reproductive justice and what 236 00:11:26,840 --> 00:11:29,600 Speaker 1: it is what we're talking about about female autonomy and 237 00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 1: having rights for women and what that actually looks like 238 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 1: as opposed to this morality idea. But why do you 239 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 1: think it is so important that we can combat injustice 240 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 1: like this with humor? You know? I think when I 241 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:46,599 Speaker 1: think back about like the journey that I've had and 242 00:11:46,960 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 1: finding my voice and really standing up for specifically reproductive rights, 243 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:53,640 Speaker 1: I think all the time about when I was naive 244 00:11:54,320 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 1: and I was for I would say most of my 245 00:11:56,840 --> 00:11:59,560 Speaker 1: life I didn't understand Obviously we've been hearing forever that 246 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:02,560 Speaker 1: women get paid less, but I didn't have understand the 247 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:04,319 Speaker 1: full scope of that until I really started to get 248 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 1: a real job and like climb that ladder and watch 249 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:10,680 Speaker 1: male counterparts climb the ladder with me, and got to 250 00:12:10,679 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 1: recognize the difference, like, oh, you're titles different than mine? 251 00:12:13,559 --> 00:12:15,679 Speaker 1: Are you getting paid more than me? Like what's happening here? 252 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 1: We're doing the exact and I sit next to you. 253 00:12:17,360 --> 00:12:19,920 Speaker 1: We're doing the exact same job, you know, And so 254 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:22,960 Speaker 1: I think that there's this I don't want to keep 255 00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:26,679 Speaker 1: referring to trying to make men see us as humans, 256 00:12:26,760 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 1: but I do think that sometimes when you dumb it 257 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:31,720 Speaker 1: down to that, you have to recognize that is an issue. 258 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 1: And especially with legislators. You know, we have these men 259 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:39,520 Speaker 1: in suits, sitting in positions of lots of power, and 260 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 1: it's like they're playing legos. To them, it's a game, 261 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:46,720 Speaker 1: and the reality is that they're orchestrating what humans can do, 262 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 1: what rights we have, what freedoms we have. So I 263 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 1: think in humor, especially if you talk about like the 264 00:12:53,080 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 1: transition of not knowing and knowing, when you can guide 265 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 1: someone through that with some humor, you can help them 266 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:02,840 Speaker 1: not be so heavy handed about whether or not they understand. 267 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:04,760 Speaker 1: Because it's fine for a person to sit across from 268 00:13:04,760 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 1: me and say I don't agree with you about this, 269 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 1: but it's better if they can say I understand your 270 00:13:10,400 --> 00:13:14,240 Speaker 1: perspective versus I don't agree or I do agree. But 271 00:13:14,280 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 1: if I can get you to understand my perspective, especially 272 00:13:16,679 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 1: through humor, I can get you to kind of take 273 00:13:19,040 --> 00:13:22,160 Speaker 1: down your stance of judgment and we can really talk 274 00:13:22,200 --> 00:13:25,520 Speaker 1: about being human and what it feels like to not 275 00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:28,439 Speaker 1: be able to take care of yourself. You know, so 276 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 1: um that that's it's something that's really beautiful. And I 277 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:32,920 Speaker 1: watch it at comedy shows all the time when we talk, 278 00:13:32,960 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 1: when I talk about something very heavy handed, and I 279 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:39,840 Speaker 1: can feel the energy shift. I can feel crowds tighten up, like, oh, 280 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:43,720 Speaker 1: she's she's talking about gay people. Now okay, now she's 281 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:45,920 Speaker 1: she said it is something that she didn't say Trump. 282 00:13:45,960 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 1: We know she's reverencing him. You can feel that energy 283 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 1: shift when people are like, we're scared about what you're 284 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:53,880 Speaker 1: gonna do. And when you release that tension and you 285 00:13:53,920 --> 00:13:56,560 Speaker 1: take it to a silly place, you allow them to 286 00:13:56,679 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 1: also relax about it and recognize that we should be 287 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:01,240 Speaker 1: able to talk about it and it doesn't have to 288 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:04,880 Speaker 1: be so heavy handed one or the other. So comedy 289 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:07,640 Speaker 1: is just such a useful tool to getting people to 290 00:14:07,679 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 1: see a perspective and recognize other people in a way. 291 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:11,960 Speaker 1: And just when you're sitting in a crowd full of 292 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:15,240 Speaker 1: people that don't look like you and you share a 293 00:14:15,240 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 1: common laugh and you look over at a stranger and 294 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 1: kind of glance like ha ha, that's funny. You connect. 295 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 1: You connect on a level that it's very deep, you know, 296 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:25,760 Speaker 1: and you carry it with you for a while. So 297 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 1: I think comedy is just so powerful. Can you teach 298 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 1: me to be funny like that instead of just being 299 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:34,120 Speaker 1: heavy handed? I can, but I tried a lot hour 300 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:37,760 Speaker 1: to be fair, I probably can't afford it. You'd be 301 00:14:37,800 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 1: surprised how many business women in New York City are like, 302 00:14:40,360 --> 00:14:43,480 Speaker 1: I'll pay you, pay you if you teach me some 303 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:46,080 Speaker 1: funny things. Is that a thing that could be an industry? 304 00:14:46,320 --> 00:14:49,080 Speaker 1: You know, I really recently started doing it, and I'm 305 00:14:49,120 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 1: about to I'm about to expand because if you can imagine, 306 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 1: like in every like rom com, there's just like forty 307 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:00,720 Speaker 1: year old woman that's been like just she's been climbing 308 00:15:00,760 --> 00:15:03,080 Speaker 1: the corporate ladder forever, and then all of a sudden 309 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:06,480 Speaker 1: she says that marvelous miss masl moment in her life 310 00:15:06,520 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 1: where she's like, I wanted to be an artist the 311 00:15:08,360 --> 00:15:10,840 Speaker 1: whole time. And so they have all times of disposable 312 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:12,680 Speaker 1: income that they can throw at someone so they can 313 00:15:12,720 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 1: bypass the hard, hard steps of just going to open 314 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 1: mics and just like not knowing what you're doing. So 315 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 1: it's it's twofold. You know. It helps me, it helps them, 316 00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:25,680 Speaker 1: So can it be taught or is it just natural 317 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 1: um nature versus I think you can teach it. I 318 00:15:28,960 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 1: think I think you can teach it. But I do 319 00:15:30,680 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 1: think that persona is very important, And like my joke, 320 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:36,920 Speaker 1: I know I'm a very good joke writer. I could 321 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 1: write a joke for you and you know, try to 322 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:40,960 Speaker 1: write it in your voice and then send you on 323 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:42,880 Speaker 1: stage and you could say it. And I know that 324 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:45,280 Speaker 1: I could say the same joke and I could really 325 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 1: kill people, you know, because I know that my persona 326 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 1: is very strong and I'm very confident and comfortable and 327 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:54,360 Speaker 1: how I speak to people. So I watched the difference 328 00:15:54,400 --> 00:15:56,800 Speaker 1: sometimes and how my comedy can come across. So I 329 00:15:56,840 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 1: do think you can teach it. I think anybody could 330 00:15:59,560 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 1: do it. But I also think there's the real comedy 331 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 1: happens in the moments that you didn't write, the moments 332 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 1: where you're just comfortable on stage and you're just saying 333 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 1: a thing that you thought or that you felt. And 334 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:13,920 Speaker 1: that's the difference between people who just do comedy and 335 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:17,080 Speaker 1: people who are artists. So you were talking about being 336 00:16:17,120 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 1: on stage. Have you always been comfortable on stage? I 337 00:16:20,280 --> 00:16:21,920 Speaker 1: can't say that. I think I used to have pretty 338 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 1: severe stage right and then. Um, but I was always 339 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 1: doing public speaking, like I would always force myself to 340 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:30,360 Speaker 1: face it. So I was in student council in high school, 341 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:33,000 Speaker 1: and I, you know, I just did anytime they needed 342 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:34,640 Speaker 1: somebody to get up and speak, I would always like 343 00:16:34,720 --> 00:16:37,080 Speaker 1: volunteer because I knew that it was healthy. But when 344 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:39,880 Speaker 1: I started comedy, it really ramped it up. I was 345 00:16:39,960 --> 00:16:43,240 Speaker 1: super super afraid, Like my voice would shake, and I 346 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 1: remember my hands would shake, you know, like I would 347 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 1: get so nervous. So to desensitize myself. When I first 348 00:16:48,120 --> 00:16:51,280 Speaker 1: started comedy, I started telling jokes on the Philadelphia subway. 349 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:53,560 Speaker 1: So I would just get up on the street car 350 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:56,080 Speaker 1: and say, hey, you guys like comedy, too bad, You're 351 00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:58,480 Speaker 1: about to get something. And I would just go off 352 00:16:58,520 --> 00:17:00,880 Speaker 1: into a thing, and like, you know, it would be insane. 353 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 1: Sometimes people will get up to leave. Sometimes they'd be like, 354 00:17:04,080 --> 00:17:05,560 Speaker 1: you know, but every once in a while I get 355 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:08,119 Speaker 1: some laughs. It helped me learn about timing and how 356 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:09,760 Speaker 1: quickly you have to cut the fat and get to 357 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 1: the joke because they're not going to just sit here 358 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:15,639 Speaker 1: and listen attently for however long they're on the train. Um, 359 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:18,600 Speaker 1: and that just like was so scary that when I 360 00:17:18,600 --> 00:17:21,680 Speaker 1: started getting on stage, I was much less afraid. So 361 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:24,320 Speaker 1: now I don't really get nervous very often, but sometimes 362 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 1: I do if it's a big opportunity. And like right 363 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:29,080 Speaker 1: before my Comedy Central taping, I was very concerned I'd 364 00:17:29,080 --> 00:17:31,720 Speaker 1: forget my name, you know, just go out there and 365 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:33,439 Speaker 1: be like, hey, I don't know who I am, but 366 00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 1: thank you guys so much. There's a joke, you know. 367 00:17:37,720 --> 00:17:39,960 Speaker 1: So yeah, I do think I I used to have 368 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:41,960 Speaker 1: a pretty severe fear of it. But I also think 369 00:17:42,040 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 1: that even in those moments where I was able to 370 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:46,479 Speaker 1: push through and get those laughs, it was so strong. 371 00:17:46,600 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 1: It was such a strong feeling that I was like, 372 00:17:48,520 --> 00:17:51,679 Speaker 1: this is worth it. I'll fix this fear. This is 373 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:54,640 Speaker 1: worth it. You know. We have some more of an 374 00:17:54,640 --> 00:17:56,880 Speaker 1: interview with Chanelle, but first we have a quick break 375 00:17:56,920 --> 00:18:12,800 Speaker 1: for words from our sponsor, EM We're back, Thank you sponsor. 376 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:16,480 Speaker 1: Let's get back into the interview. So with all of that, 377 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:18,679 Speaker 1: because I think you and I talked a little bit 378 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:21,159 Speaker 1: about what I want to focus on in just in 379 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:25,200 Speaker 1: general when it comes to a being a woman who 380 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:29,000 Speaker 1: talks about abortion and talks about reproductive justice and then 381 00:18:29,160 --> 00:18:32,440 Speaker 1: being a woman on the comedy stage. Which is already 382 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:35,120 Speaker 1: usually a strike. And then being a woman of color, 383 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:38,239 Speaker 1: a black woman, so many stage what how do you 384 00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:42,199 Speaker 1: combat all of those social I guess what is it? 385 00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:47,520 Speaker 1: Issues injustices, racism all about how do you deal with that? 386 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:52,119 Speaker 1: And today especially when even though it's not accepted, it 387 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:57,159 Speaker 1: kind of is and it seems to be back and forth. Yeah, 388 00:18:57,560 --> 00:18:59,480 Speaker 1: I mean there's a lot of levels to that. But 389 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:02,720 Speaker 1: I think just being a woman in comedy, I had 390 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 1: to learn that. Um I had to find peace with 391 00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 1: people not always agreeing with me, and I think that 392 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:10,720 Speaker 1: can be hard when you're speaking into a microphone because 393 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:13,280 Speaker 1: you want them to just not and say, yep, you're 394 00:19:13,359 --> 00:19:15,639 Speaker 1: right girl, we're here with you. And so I had 395 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:18,760 Speaker 1: to learn peace with that. And that really came from 396 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:23,359 Speaker 1: educating male comedians in like personal spaces like I remember 397 00:19:23,600 --> 00:19:25,360 Speaker 1: when Bill Cosby went on trial, a lot of male 398 00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:27,879 Speaker 1: comedians that I love and respect, we're just not in 399 00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:32,000 Speaker 1: the right mindset in my opinion, And they were very 400 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 1: steeped in their beliefs and weren't going to be moved. 401 00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:38,280 Speaker 1: But then they got to hear a perspective from someone 402 00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:39,959 Speaker 1: like me that they know and they love and they 403 00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:42,480 Speaker 1: trust and they know has been doing comedy forever and 404 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 1: has been even in rooms with people like Bill Cosby, 405 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:47,719 Speaker 1: and so I could speak from an experience that they 406 00:19:47,760 --> 00:19:50,320 Speaker 1: had never had firsthand knowledge of. And so I was 407 00:19:50,359 --> 00:19:53,960 Speaker 1: able to convince them through my experiences and also referencing 408 00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:56,760 Speaker 1: things that they had seen among their their their counterparts 409 00:19:57,200 --> 00:19:59,920 Speaker 1: about the reality. You know, like you have been on tour, 410 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:02,879 Speaker 1: are with a famous comedian and he grew up in 411 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:06,280 Speaker 1: an era where things couldn't get recorded on your cell phone. 412 00:20:06,760 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 1: You did you see firsthand that he was inappropriate? Did 413 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:13,479 Speaker 1: you see firsthand that he seemed power crazy and not 414 00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 1: really aware of how he's affecting other people? And a 415 00:20:16,280 --> 00:20:18,479 Speaker 1: lot of times they couldn't deny that, And so I 416 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:20,960 Speaker 1: was able to kind of bridge that gap between them, 417 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:24,320 Speaker 1: not feeling so indignant as as we often do, but 418 00:20:24,359 --> 00:20:28,560 Speaker 1: at least feeling sympathetic and recognizing the reality of the 419 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:31,199 Speaker 1: climate of what fame and money can do and the 420 00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:35,000 Speaker 1: types of power dynamics that exists in entertainment. Because a 421 00:20:35,040 --> 00:20:37,679 Speaker 1: lot of our meetings are in hotel rooms, and they 422 00:20:37,720 --> 00:20:40,560 Speaker 1: are there at bars and we have been drinking and 423 00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:44,080 Speaker 1: you have to go or the opportunity isn't there, and 424 00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:46,760 Speaker 1: if I was a young woman years ago and Bill 425 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:49,360 Speaker 1: Cosby had invited me to a thing, I would have went. 426 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:51,960 Speaker 1: I would have absolutely went, and I would have trusted 427 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:55,080 Speaker 1: that anything you wanted me to do was within the 428 00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:57,880 Speaker 1: scope of what's appropriate, right, you know. So I think 429 00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:00,920 Speaker 1: by really just kind of king down those barriers of 430 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:04,760 Speaker 1: communication and taking out the anger, because it's so easy 431 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:08,440 Speaker 1: to like scream at a man, you're stupid, you're not listening, 432 00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:11,600 Speaker 1: you don't trust women, blah blah blah blah blah. But 433 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:14,879 Speaker 1: you know you can't just scream feminism at men. And 434 00:21:14,920 --> 00:21:17,720 Speaker 1: I think I have learned that from firsthand just watching 435 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:20,920 Speaker 1: people try getting on stage and being like, so I'm 436 00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:24,119 Speaker 1: a feminist, and the whole crowd is like, great, this 437 00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:28,119 Speaker 1: is gonna be light. You're not gonna have any heavy 438 00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:29,880 Speaker 1: opinions that make me feel bad about what I'm doing 439 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:32,480 Speaker 1: every day with my life. So I watched a lot 440 00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 1: of mistakes and I was able to kind of learn like, okay, 441 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:36,520 Speaker 1: so you can't. You can't really break down a barrier 442 00:21:36,600 --> 00:21:39,720 Speaker 1: that way. So um, I think just like really being 443 00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 1: confident and and taking out the anger as much as 444 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:46,359 Speaker 1: I can has helped me convert a lot of men 445 00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:50,160 Speaker 1: into at least thinking for themselves, and women have been 446 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:53,800 Speaker 1: calling out a lot of the inequalities and comedy, like 447 00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:55,880 Speaker 1: a comedy show flyer will come out and it'll be 448 00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 1: eight white guys in the same flannel. Two to three 449 00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:02,480 Speaker 1: of them have beard, some glasses, and that's fine, but 450 00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:05,920 Speaker 1: the perspectives that they're gonna bring are gonna be very similar. 451 00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:09,320 Speaker 1: And then the comedy becomes this one industry where you 452 00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:12,000 Speaker 1: only give an opportunity to somebody that makes you feel comfortable, 453 00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:15,399 Speaker 1: and you always give an opportunity to someone that's like you. 454 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:17,200 Speaker 1: I feel the same way when I go on the 455 00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:19,080 Speaker 1: road and I picked someone open for me, I'm more 456 00:22:19,119 --> 00:22:20,480 Speaker 1: often I'm going to give it to a black woman 457 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:23,240 Speaker 1: than anyone else because I wanted to succeed and I 458 00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 1: feel like I'm giving back to my community. So I 459 00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:27,760 Speaker 1: feel like other people do that, but they don't recognize 460 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:30,520 Speaker 1: that they do if they don't recognize that comedy is 461 00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:33,440 Speaker 1: run by white men and they own most of the clubs, 462 00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:37,160 Speaker 1: and so when they consistently make that decision, it does 463 00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 1: become a system. And so when you can break it 464 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:42,560 Speaker 1: down into terms like that and and really talk about 465 00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:46,359 Speaker 1: the human qualities Um, it helps you really just get 466 00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:49,120 Speaker 1: over the barrier of I'm not just spouting because I'm 467 00:22:49,160 --> 00:22:51,920 Speaker 1: a black woman and I'm angry, because even though I am, 468 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:54,439 Speaker 1: I'm really trying to educate you and enlighten you so 469 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:56,240 Speaker 1: you can see that this is a world that I 470 00:22:56,320 --> 00:23:00,920 Speaker 1: exist in and you exist in differently. So because one 471 00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:02,760 Speaker 1: of the things that we've been talking about a lot 472 00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:05,080 Speaker 1: in the last year was about anchor and how it 473 00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 1: can be used to fight, because a lot of times 474 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:11,080 Speaker 1: we know that anger is a sign that something is wrong, 475 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:13,919 Speaker 1: and so there needs to be whether you take action 476 00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:18,160 Speaker 1: or you just sit and stew in it. Um, And 477 00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:20,280 Speaker 1: we've been talking about what does that look like when 478 00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:23,520 Speaker 1: we actually take action. So as you're talking about in 479 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:28,840 Speaker 1: this industry, which has been exposed somewhat but obviously kind 480 00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:30,440 Speaker 1: of fallen back because you look at the Louis c 481 00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:34,080 Speaker 1: k thing, and he's fairly forgiven and now kind of 482 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,399 Speaker 1: still dictates what it is to have stand up and 483 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:39,400 Speaker 1: being paid to do comedy, as well as dictating, oh, 484 00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:41,720 Speaker 1: you can't have your phone in here because I want 485 00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:43,359 Speaker 1: to say the inappropriate things that's going to get me 486 00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 1: in trouble. I don't want to read an article about 487 00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:48,199 Speaker 1: it so right and all of these things. When we 488 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:50,360 Speaker 1: have that, and then just even the Harvey Weinstein when 489 00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:53,160 Speaker 1: he came to the club with all the young actresses 490 00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:55,360 Speaker 1: and the comedian came out and called him out. Yeah, 491 00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:57,080 Speaker 1: that everybody was pissed. I'd like to shout them out. 492 00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:59,359 Speaker 1: That was Kelly Bachman Ambarrallo. Ambarrallo and I have a 493 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:03,480 Speaker 1: podcast together. Um, she's dope. They're they're both really dope, 494 00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:05,840 Speaker 1: and they're so courageous in that moment. But yeah, that's 495 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:09,160 Speaker 1: really so empowering to watch women stand up for our spaces. 496 00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:12,199 Speaker 1: And that's something about like the space is thing that 497 00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:14,280 Speaker 1: I sometimes feel like I have to always bridge the 498 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:16,520 Speaker 1: gap with men and explain. And I'm like, if we 499 00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:21,120 Speaker 1: have evidence that a person is inappropriate in a certain space, 500 00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:25,320 Speaker 1: every woman in that space is now uncomfortable. So when 501 00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:28,359 Speaker 1: Louisy k walks into a comedy club and they throw 502 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:30,000 Speaker 1: him on a lineup, if a woman is on that 503 00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:32,679 Speaker 1: lineup and she's uncomfortable in that space, now she has 504 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:36,199 Speaker 1: to leave because the club is not going to say okay, sorry, 505 00:24:36,920 --> 00:24:41,200 Speaker 1: So so now his his privilege is that he continues 506 00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:43,719 Speaker 1: to dictate what a spaces and what he can do 507 00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:47,280 Speaker 1: in it, and women just have to deal, especially comedians, 508 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:49,320 Speaker 1: and when we work in an industry that is is 509 00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:52,840 Speaker 1: literal minutes. Somebody gives me a mic for ten minutes 510 00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:54,280 Speaker 1: and you can work on your craft, and then you 511 00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:56,520 Speaker 1: have to go home. You can't come back and I'll 512 00:24:56,520 --> 00:24:58,119 Speaker 1: give you more minutes. You have to go home and 513 00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:02,000 Speaker 1: wait for another day. It it sets women back in 514 00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:04,919 Speaker 1: a huge way. I always compare comedy to basketball and 515 00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:07,840 Speaker 1: that if someone was like, I want to be Lebron tomorrow, 516 00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:10,080 Speaker 1: they'd have to practice every single day as much as 517 00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:11,840 Speaker 1: they could. But if they're only going to give you 518 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,080 Speaker 1: a basketball for ten minutes, it's gonna take you a 519 00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:17,440 Speaker 1: lot longer. And men get the basketball a lot, so 520 00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 1: they get that basketball so much exactly. And that's the 521 00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:23,720 Speaker 1: question is how do you hate that anger or take 522 00:25:23,800 --> 00:25:29,040 Speaker 1: that understanding that you have just been denied? Yeah, I mean, 523 00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:30,720 Speaker 1: I don't know if I handle it the same way 524 00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:32,960 Speaker 1: as everyone else. But I always try to really look 525 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:34,960 Speaker 1: at the pros and the cons and try to decide 526 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:36,879 Speaker 1: what I want to be a part of, what I 527 00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:39,120 Speaker 1: want to put my name on. And I always think 528 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:41,680 Speaker 1: about the younger me and if she were to watch 529 00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:46,080 Speaker 1: a comedy show and see a display that's not very 530 00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:49,240 Speaker 1: favoring of women, and then watch me also on the 531 00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:53,080 Speaker 1: lineup not address it. What type of implications would I 532 00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:56,280 Speaker 1: push out on her? I would be indirectly teaching her 533 00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 1: that this is okay and that you should just take 534 00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:03,280 Speaker 1: it and just smile. And I think that's terrible. I 535 00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:06,600 Speaker 1: hate that so much, so to me, I really try 536 00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:10,800 Speaker 1: to evaluate projects very thoroughly. I really stand up for 537 00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:14,280 Speaker 1: myself in corporate rooms and talk about what I'm not 538 00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,800 Speaker 1: comfortable with. I even remember one time I auditioned for 539 00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:18,320 Speaker 1: a film and I really wanted to be in it, 540 00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:20,200 Speaker 1: but there was a line in the character they wanted 541 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:22,359 Speaker 1: me to play where I basically had to say, like 542 00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:25,239 Speaker 1: who would want to be black? Because it's terrible. So 543 00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:28,320 Speaker 1: I tried to make it funny, like let's make it lighthearted, 544 00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:31,840 Speaker 1: and the director was like, no, you're sad and you're 545 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:36,040 Speaker 1: mad that you're black, and I was like, I don't 546 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:38,240 Speaker 1: think I can do this, you know, And so I 547 00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 1: had to acknowledge, like I'm not going to get this 548 00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:44,320 Speaker 1: part because I'm not capable of even saying that sentence 549 00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:46,480 Speaker 1: and sounding like I'm not forcing it out of my mouth. 550 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:50,360 Speaker 1: I'm not capable of even portraying that sentiment, and if 551 00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:54,360 Speaker 1: my younger self watched myself say that, it would impact me, 552 00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:56,720 Speaker 1: you know so, I always think about the younger generation. 553 00:26:56,800 --> 00:27:00,680 Speaker 1: I think about how many incredibly talented and funny women 554 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:04,040 Speaker 1: I think there are around the world who never feel 555 00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:08,480 Speaker 1: compelled to try it because there's all these voices telling them, no, 556 00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:11,600 Speaker 1: you're not funny, this is for this, and this is that. 557 00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:14,680 Speaker 1: So you know too, I always think that there's like 558 00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:18,160 Speaker 1: an orthodontist in Missouri who could have been a comedy great, 559 00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:21,280 Speaker 1: but everybody in her life told her no. I told her, yeah, 560 00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:25,040 Speaker 1: you're silly, you know so I always think about like 561 00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 1: really elevating our voices and calling things out. And I 562 00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:31,479 Speaker 1: picked my battles. I definitely picked my battles. But I 563 00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:34,720 Speaker 1: also have a lot of integrity. And so there have 564 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,440 Speaker 1: been entire clubs, entire venues that I've decided I'm not 565 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:40,760 Speaker 1: gonna work with you guys anymore because you continually perpetuate 566 00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:42,440 Speaker 1: something that's unhealthy and I don't want to. I don't 567 00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:43,960 Speaker 1: want to. I don't want to add to it because 568 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:45,760 Speaker 1: I know what I bring to the table, you know, 569 00:27:46,160 --> 00:27:47,679 Speaker 1: So you have to have a lot of pride. You 570 00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:50,720 Speaker 1: have to really hold yourself to a high standard but 571 00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:55,280 Speaker 1: also protect your rise because I need to be on 572 00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:59,080 Speaker 1: a high platform to to make any change. So myself 573 00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:02,160 Speaker 1: as your new best friend, yes, as a supporter who 574 00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:05,359 Speaker 1: is not a comedian, what can I do to help 575 00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:08,159 Speaker 1: elevate that cause as well? Obviously I don't have that 576 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:11,200 Speaker 1: giant voice. I don't have the comedic timing. It's okay, 577 00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:14,359 Speaker 1: but I want to support this and I want to 578 00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:17,679 Speaker 1: make sure that the women and those who identify who 579 00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:22,600 Speaker 1: their non binary, who are being silenced because these platforms 580 00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:25,960 Speaker 1: don't want to be uncomfortable or and or don't want 581 00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:31,159 Speaker 1: to root for the underdogs. And essentially, yeah, we are underdogs. 582 00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:35,200 Speaker 1: Um what can I do? I mean, obviously I exist 583 00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:37,560 Speaker 1: in an artist realm, so it really comes down to 584 00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:40,720 Speaker 1: supporting the artists. And and that can really come down 585 00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:43,600 Speaker 1: to even just like doing your due diligence and looking 586 00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:47,040 Speaker 1: up on lineup and asking questions, why is there no 587 00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:50,200 Speaker 1: woman on the show? You have eight comedians here, you 588 00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:53,600 Speaker 1: couldn't find one lady? You know? Um? Also I think 589 00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:57,520 Speaker 1: that like we when we think about our favorite television shows, 590 00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:00,160 Speaker 1: a lot of those shows are staffed by room of 591 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:02,360 Speaker 1: comedians that get together in a room like this and 592 00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:04,840 Speaker 1: they sit down and they write an episode. So look 593 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,880 Speaker 1: up your favorite shows, look up those writers if they 594 00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:10,880 Speaker 1: are trans women, if they are non binary, follow them 595 00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:14,560 Speaker 1: on Twitter, follow them on Instagram, support their other projects, 596 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:18,160 Speaker 1: and recognize the parts that they play, like some of 597 00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:20,560 Speaker 1: them will direct an entire episode. You know. Mindy calling 598 00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:24,440 Speaker 1: started out that way a lot, so that individual support 599 00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:27,640 Speaker 1: means so much more. I think it also really comes 600 00:29:27,640 --> 00:29:30,000 Speaker 1: down to, like standing firm on things you're not going 601 00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:32,880 Speaker 1: to support, Like I'm not going to spend a lot 602 00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:35,560 Speaker 1: of money on a ticket to see Louisy K. I'm 603 00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:38,520 Speaker 1: not going to do it, and you should if you 604 00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:41,800 Speaker 1: are really considering that, you should actually put that money elsewhere, 605 00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:46,160 Speaker 1: donated to the amazing organizations that help comedians every day. 606 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:49,000 Speaker 1: And there are even a lot of like mentorship programs 607 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,880 Speaker 1: that help young women find their voice. So it really 608 00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:55,040 Speaker 1: comes down to deciding what type of artists you want 609 00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:59,720 Speaker 1: to support and recognizing that their message requires your help 610 00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:03,840 Speaker 1: because it's important. Right, we have a little bit more 611 00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:06,080 Speaker 1: for you listeners, but first we have one more quick 612 00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:22,320 Speaker 1: break for word from our sponsor m and we're back 613 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:25,880 Speaker 1: thank you, sponsor. Yeah, so a lot of these questions 614 00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,000 Speaker 1: I've already I've been thinking about a lot of them. 615 00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:30,960 Speaker 1: One of the biggest questions for me as a woman 616 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:33,320 Speaker 1: of color, but as a woman of color with privilege. 617 00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:35,560 Speaker 1: And I acknowledge that I'm assis woman, I get all 618 00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:39,400 Speaker 1: of that. I have a good job, I've had good support, 619 00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:42,600 Speaker 1: and I acknowledge all that's how do I support those 620 00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:46,480 Speaker 1: who may not have that same advantage as well as 621 00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:50,320 Speaker 1: if my heart is an advocacy, which it always has been, 622 00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:51,920 Speaker 1: which is why I am a social worker. And you 623 00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:54,040 Speaker 1: and I were talking about, you know, kind of pouring 624 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:57,959 Speaker 1: back out because it's something significant for us. What doesn't 625 00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:02,720 Speaker 1: look like to be a true all I m there's 626 00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:04,600 Speaker 1: there's a lot of levels to that. Yeah, you know, 627 00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:08,240 Speaker 1: but I think really, especially myself, I've learned the last 628 00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:11,760 Speaker 1: year that we should be volunteering more. And it sounds 629 00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:16,080 Speaker 1: especially I'm a comedian, I drink a lot, I work 630 00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:20,960 Speaker 1: at night, I don't sleep. If someone was like, yeah, 631 00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:22,360 Speaker 1: you know, a couple of times a month you need 632 00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:24,920 Speaker 1: to go volunteer somewhere, I'd be like, yeah, I don't know, man, 633 00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:28,800 Speaker 1: I don't know, but um, I will say that in 634 00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:31,959 Speaker 1: everything that we do, like my medium is comedy, and 635 00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:34,320 Speaker 1: everything that we do, we have these skills that we 636 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:37,280 Speaker 1: could lend to organizations that are great and that we 637 00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:40,880 Speaker 1: should donate our time to them. So if that's making 638 00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:45,920 Speaker 1: us some dope stickers for a great cause, um, in 639 00:31:46,040 --> 00:31:47,800 Speaker 1: terms of like causes that are very important to me, 640 00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:52,280 Speaker 1: I'm very consistently worried about gun violence, and so I'll volunteer. 641 00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:55,240 Speaker 1: I'll donate to every town. I think they're incredible organization. 642 00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:58,880 Speaker 1: I'll advocate for them, I'll write tweets about them and 643 00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:01,480 Speaker 1: praise any thing to do in the media, you know. 644 00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:05,239 Speaker 1: But I think also it's it's about recognizing how a 645 00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:08,200 Speaker 1: lot of the things that we frequent our our microcosms 646 00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:11,160 Speaker 1: for some of these bigger problems. So even in the 647 00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:14,720 Speaker 1: realm of an office, just recognizing that you know a 648 00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:18,880 Speaker 1: person of color is alone in certain instances, or that 649 00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:22,800 Speaker 1: you know they're left out in certain instances. Just just 650 00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,959 Speaker 1: being comfortable enough to walk up to someone and say 651 00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,680 Speaker 1: I'm here to help is really being an ally or 652 00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:32,320 Speaker 1: just hey, I recognize what just happened, Because sometimes that 653 00:32:32,480 --> 00:32:36,160 Speaker 1: silence is so deafening when you feel like you're being 654 00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:40,640 Speaker 1: targeted or treated unfairly, and then everyone is averting their eyes. 655 00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:42,760 Speaker 1: I think that's a great way to do it. I 656 00:32:42,800 --> 00:32:45,920 Speaker 1: also think that, um, we have to vote. We have 657 00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:47,840 Speaker 1: to vote, and we have to do it in a 658 00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:50,480 Speaker 1: way that we're not just thinking about ourselves. And that's 659 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:53,600 Speaker 1: really hard because that's not really the way that a 660 00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:57,320 Speaker 1: lot of candidates speak nowadays. Anyway. They can be very 661 00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:59,760 Speaker 1: brash and very bold and like people are coming for 662 00:32:59,880 --> 00:33:02,200 Speaker 1: your guns, and people are coming for you, and so 663 00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:05,040 Speaker 1: you have to vote for you, But that's not really 664 00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:08,400 Speaker 1: the foundation of the country or really trying to form 665 00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:11,200 Speaker 1: this more perfect union. If you're really being that patriotic, 666 00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:14,120 Speaker 1: then you should recognize that there are things that are 667 00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:17,520 Speaker 1: not directly affecting you, but are affecting other people all 668 00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:20,200 Speaker 1: the time, and it is your duty, because you have 669 00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:22,760 Speaker 1: the privilege to not be affected by it, to research 670 00:33:22,880 --> 00:33:25,480 Speaker 1: it more and to recognize when it happens, and to 671 00:33:25,640 --> 00:33:28,240 Speaker 1: listen to other people when they tell you about it happening. 672 00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:30,840 Speaker 1: Um So I just think that's the first step. And 673 00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:33,440 Speaker 1: I think you have to really break all of these 674 00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:36,600 Speaker 1: bigger tasks down into a smaller schedule so you can 675 00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:39,040 Speaker 1: say that, hey, however, many days a month I was 676 00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:42,440 Speaker 1: able to give to a local clinic. And if it's 677 00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:46,240 Speaker 1: as simple as just bringing them some donuts, that's support, 678 00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:50,840 Speaker 1: that's help, and that's that's what's gonna that's what's gonna 679 00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:53,320 Speaker 1: fuel people to keep doing the work that you may 680 00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:57,400 Speaker 1: not yourself be able to do. I love it. That's 681 00:33:57,440 --> 00:33:59,120 Speaker 1: been one of the big messages I think we've been 682 00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:02,520 Speaker 1: recording in the Last Vote, and I'm how to recognize 683 00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:06,320 Speaker 1: that your voice matters and and this right matters. And 684 00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:09,160 Speaker 1: I always think about like the really stupid guy that 685 00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:11,680 Speaker 1: you knew in high school, like the idiot of idiots, 686 00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:15,719 Speaker 1: and how he's going to vote every time. He's got 687 00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:20,200 Speaker 1: nothing else. He's so invested in exercising his right that 688 00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:23,000 Speaker 1: you have to exercise yours to at least combat it. 689 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:25,480 Speaker 1: So if you're ever feeling like I don't know if 690 00:34:25,480 --> 00:34:27,680 Speaker 1: I want to vote, I don't feel like going out today, 691 00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:30,520 Speaker 1: think about that idiot. I know that his mom is 692 00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:32,919 Speaker 1: going to take him to vote. She's going to drive 693 00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:36,440 Speaker 1: him there, and he'll pick he'll pick the radio station, 694 00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:40,640 Speaker 1: and that's his life. So don't let him. Because he 695 00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:43,279 Speaker 1: doesn't have to look for the services that you might 696 00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:45,640 Speaker 1: need one day, he doesn't have to worry about the 697 00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:49,400 Speaker 1: things that impact your life. So you know you gotta vote. 698 00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:53,719 Speaker 1: I love it. I love I'm someone who's very spite motivated. 699 00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:57,560 Speaker 1: What's the idea of like, oh, that high school kid, 700 00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:06,440 Speaker 1: think about him? That's why, as you wrote, you're like, yes, 701 00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:17,680 Speaker 1: name him? Yeah Mason, Yeah, I totally did. It works 702 00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:22,320 Speaker 1: at a costco. You know, we don't forget these things 703 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:27,120 Speaker 1: stay whatever, they stay with us. Um, So thank you. Yeah, 704 00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:28,520 Speaker 1: I guess we can. Just trying to wrap it up 705 00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:30,920 Speaker 1: and just want to know what projects you already talked 706 00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:33,560 Speaker 1: about the Comedy Central show, we talked about the album, 707 00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:36,919 Speaker 1: what other projects We're talked more about these projects? Oh man. 708 00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:40,200 Speaker 1: So at the end of the month, I'm recording a 709 00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:44,480 Speaker 1: series for Audible. It's going to be called Apocalypse Untreated, 710 00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:49,120 Speaker 1: and it's about these teenagers in this apocalyptic world who 711 00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:52,640 Speaker 1: were medicated like for their depression, but now because an 712 00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:55,600 Speaker 1: apocalypse has happened, they don't have medication and so it's 713 00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:59,040 Speaker 1: like this comedy drama. UM, so that'll be out an Audible. 714 00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:01,799 Speaker 1: I don't know what within a few months. Um. You 715 00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:04,399 Speaker 1: can always check my website for dates about where I'm 716 00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:07,920 Speaker 1: gonna be touring because I'm always telling jokes outside of 717 00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:09,439 Speaker 1: New York City, even though that's where I live. Would 718 00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:11,840 Speaker 1: go into our about fourteen days a month. Usually you 719 00:36:11,840 --> 00:36:14,400 Speaker 1: can go to nali dot com for that. That's channel 720 00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:19,200 Speaker 1: like the perfume Ali like Mohammed you get it, Yea, 721 00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:25,000 Speaker 1: there it is, UM And can you give advice? Again, 722 00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:28,440 Speaker 1: I'm not this person who is trying to come into 723 00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:33,720 Speaker 1: the comedy world. Will you give some sound advice to them? Totally, 724 00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:36,239 Speaker 1: I'm gonna try to not speak forever on this, but 725 00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:39,279 Speaker 1: the first advice I want to say is that if 726 00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:41,720 Speaker 1: you want to pursue comedy and you feel like anybody 727 00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:44,560 Speaker 1: in your life is trying to persuade you, not to 728 00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:48,080 Speaker 1: find peace in the idea that you're not trying to 729 00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:51,759 Speaker 1: hurt anyone and that if your goal is to bring 730 00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:55,319 Speaker 1: people together through laughter, that is very noble, and so 731 00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:59,239 Speaker 1: find peace with how it might not seem like you're 732 00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:02,080 Speaker 1: a surgeon and your life is very important as a comedian, 733 00:37:02,080 --> 00:37:04,520 Speaker 1: But if it's something that you really feel interested in, 734 00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:08,040 Speaker 1: then you have to not listen to anyone and you 735 00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:11,719 Speaker 1: have to just do it for yourself every single day. UM. 736 00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:14,479 Speaker 1: In terms of like very practical comedy advice. I think 737 00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:19,000 Speaker 1: minutes on stage trump everything. Like I don't care how 738 00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:20,680 Speaker 1: much you can sit at home and write funny things 739 00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:23,520 Speaker 1: in your notebook. You have to be on stage every 740 00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:26,680 Speaker 1: single day as much as you can, no matter what, 741 00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:30,799 Speaker 1: because those logging those minutes, that's all that's gonna bring 742 00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:33,600 Speaker 1: you growth, that's gonna that's gonna help you develop as 743 00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:36,600 Speaker 1: an artist. I also think it's important to study from 744 00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:38,880 Speaker 1: artists before us. Steve Martin has a great book on 745 00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:41,439 Speaker 1: comedy called Born Standing Up changed my life. I read 746 00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:43,279 Speaker 1: it after the first time I bombed and I wanted 747 00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:45,480 Speaker 1: to quit comedy. I was like, what's funny? I don't 748 00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:48,920 Speaker 1: even know? Read that book really changed my life. Also, 749 00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:52,960 Speaker 1: that guy Darryl Hammond has a book. He used to 750 00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:55,480 Speaker 1: be the announcer. I think he's actually the announcer for SNL, 751 00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:57,400 Speaker 1: but he used to be a player on SNL. I 752 00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:01,680 Speaker 1: think it's called God if You're there, if You're not 753 00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:05,440 Speaker 1: up there, And I think it's I think if I 754 00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:08,239 Speaker 1: think it's God if You're not up there. But it's 755 00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:11,160 Speaker 1: an incredible story. He lives an incredible life and overcame 756 00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:15,160 Speaker 1: just just really some some hard, hard things. What's it 757 00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:18,360 Speaker 1: called yeah, I got it right, God right, dang. I 758 00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:21,160 Speaker 1: read that book Forever Ago UM, and that book helped 759 00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:23,200 Speaker 1: me a lot, helped me reconcile with the idea that 760 00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:25,520 Speaker 1: we don't have to be perfect people to pursue art. 761 00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:30,279 Speaker 1: We can have suffered trauma and be currently living in 762 00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:33,319 Speaker 1: it and still be okay enough to do our art. 763 00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:36,040 Speaker 1: And that's a very peaceful sentiment once you can have it. 764 00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:39,520 Speaker 1: I also think it's very important to take deep breaths, 765 00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:41,439 Speaker 1: breathe in through your nails and out in your mouth 766 00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:45,480 Speaker 1: very often and try to just keep moving forward no 767 00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:48,320 Speaker 1: matter what. I love it, and I did want to 768 00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:51,200 Speaker 1: kind of ask because this is again my own self interest. 769 00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:53,239 Speaker 1: You were talking about the fact that you work with 770 00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:57,120 Speaker 1: a group. I work with an organization in New York. 771 00:38:57,120 --> 00:39:00,160 Speaker 1: It's called Stand Up for Girls and UM. So they 772 00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:02,240 Speaker 1: basically go around to some of the local high schools 773 00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:04,640 Speaker 1: in New York City and they get basically the more 774 00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:09,080 Speaker 1: vocal or very not vocal girls to practice stand up comedy, 775 00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:11,040 Speaker 1: to practice a five minutes set. For a few months, 776 00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:13,439 Speaker 1: they work on it, and they throw a big show 777 00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:15,560 Speaker 1: at a comedy club and they invite their parents and 778 00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:18,080 Speaker 1: the administrator's whole faculty to come out and then they'll 779 00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:21,640 Speaker 1: have someone like me headline it. And it's so incredible 780 00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:26,040 Speaker 1: to watch young women find their voice in that way. 781 00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:29,200 Speaker 1: I mean, I have heard these girls say jokes that 782 00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:32,880 Speaker 1: were better than anything I could ever write, like so poignant. 783 00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:35,160 Speaker 1: Um a lot of them, especially if they come from 784 00:39:35,600 --> 00:39:40,440 Speaker 1: families that have like immigrant parents, a lot of cultural background, 785 00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:43,840 Speaker 1: a lot of cultural history, they will read our country 786 00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:47,160 Speaker 1: for filth in a way that we could never really 787 00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:49,800 Speaker 1: communicate as well. UM So Stand Up for Girls is 788 00:39:49,840 --> 00:39:52,960 Speaker 1: a great organization. If you want to donate, they're doing 789 00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:55,200 Speaker 1: great work. I have been on the verge of tears 790 00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:58,160 Speaker 1: at every single comedy show that I have done with them, 791 00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:00,480 Speaker 1: and it's just beautiful. It's beautiful co It's just a 792 00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:03,040 Speaker 1: beautiful thing. And if you're not seeing comedy shows in 793 00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:05,759 Speaker 1: your daily life, do it. You need to go sit 794 00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:08,200 Speaker 1: with strangers and giggle on the dark. I promise you 795 00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:11,560 Speaker 1: you do. Yes, I appreciated it. It was a good night. 796 00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:16,200 Speaker 1: I'm so sad I missed. Yeah, you missed out real hard. 797 00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:20,000 Speaker 1: I got T shirts. I know to T shirts. Excited 798 00:40:20,000 --> 00:40:22,560 Speaker 1: about my shirts. Literally, no one asked I love that shirt, 799 00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:28,719 Speaker 1: love so much anyway, thank you, thank you. One thing, 800 00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:30,960 Speaker 1: tell our listeners where they can find you. You can 801 00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:35,400 Speaker 1: follow me on Twitter and Instagram at Chanel Underscore Underscore Ali. 802 00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:39,279 Speaker 1: That's two underscores. So it's Chanel two underscores. Ali. There's 803 00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:42,160 Speaker 1: a girl who has my actual name, Shanel Ali, and 804 00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:46,520 Speaker 1: I'm trying to track her down for years. Yeah, the clone. 805 00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:49,680 Speaker 1: She has pictures up. I know. I actually know a 806 00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:52,000 Speaker 1: lot about her life because I really tracked down her 807 00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:54,840 Speaker 1: friends because she hasn't been on Instagram in like four years, 808 00:40:54,840 --> 00:40:56,640 Speaker 1: and I've come so close to getting her leg on 809 00:40:56,680 --> 00:41:01,080 Speaker 1: the phone. But so yeah, Chanel, I'll underscore on score Ali. 810 00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:04,000 Speaker 1: I'm on Twitter, Instagram. I post on Twitter pretty often. Um. 811 00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:07,040 Speaker 1: You can also follow me on Snapchat at channel Ali Baba. 812 00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:09,600 Speaker 1: That's c h A N e O A l I 813 00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:13,319 Speaker 1: b A b awesome. Yay. Thank you so much for 814 00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:17,759 Speaker 1: coming in to it. Oh. I love you guys so much, 815 00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:21,200 Speaker 1: and just keep moving forward, all right, And I hope 816 00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:23,319 Speaker 1: you enjoyed that as much as we did. It was 817 00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:26,360 Speaker 1: such an amazing time. Um. I'm hoping to catch up 818 00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,440 Speaker 1: with her again. I'm fount and determined to be friends 819 00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:31,279 Speaker 1: with everything really all um and she apparently is coming 820 00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:33,160 Speaker 1: back to Atlanta, so when she does, I will be there. 821 00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:36,960 Speaker 1: You guys should definitely check out her Comedy Central special 822 00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:39,480 Speaker 1: coming Out, her Audible coming Out, as well as her 823 00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:43,399 Speaker 1: album coming Out, because she is amazing and just a 824 00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:49,879 Speaker 1: great individual overall. Yeah, and always remember, as she said, 825 00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:52,800 Speaker 1: fun to giggle in the dark with someone, but really 826 00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:55,719 Speaker 1: support people that you want to see succeed. And she 827 00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:58,520 Speaker 1: was awesome, So go do it. Go do it. And 828 00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:00,759 Speaker 1: in the meantime, if you would like to email as 829 00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:03,520 Speaker 1: you can, our email is Stuff Media mom Stuff at 830 00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:05,400 Speaker 1: iHeart media dot com. You can also find us on 831 00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:08,359 Speaker 1: Twitter at mom Stuff Podcast or on Instagram at Stuff 832 00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:10,640 Speaker 1: Mom Never Told You. 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