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Speaker 1: Time now to check Steve's voicemail and if you would

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Speaker 1: like to leave Steve a voicemail, call eight seven seven

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Speaker 1: twenty nine Steve and you could hear your message on

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Speaker 1: the radio. All right, Steve, here we go. This is

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Speaker 1: a call about men in the relationship.

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Speaker 2: Hi.

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Speaker 3: See, my name is Sai Kaylie Williams. I'm twenty three

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Speaker 3: years old calling in from out Sata Sovada. I'm listening

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Speaker 3: to your guys' conversation right now about men enclosure and

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Speaker 3: it's not usually the woman.

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Speaker 4: It's the man.

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Speaker 2: And I'm literally going through this like.

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Speaker 3: Right now, like where a guy came into my life

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Speaker 3: with somebody who I knew from high school, trusted him,

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Speaker 3: and out of nowhere, he's just like, yeah, this didn't

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Speaker 3: gonna work.

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Speaker 2: And I want to.

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Speaker 3: Go back to the point of did you know that

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Speaker 3: I was quote unquote too.

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Speaker 2: Much when you came into my life? Because mind you,

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Speaker 2: a lot of times men will set up this facade

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Speaker 2: of willing to be attensive and willing will be supportive,

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Speaker 2: and then once that woman starts extracide and not support

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Speaker 2: now is too much. Now you can't uphold it. It's

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Speaker 2: like why are you showering me?

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Speaker 3: And candy talking to me all sweet and then you

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Speaker 3: pray you don't want a relationship, just make it makes sense.

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Speaker 3: That's all.

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Speaker 2: Thank you guys so much.

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Speaker 3: I hope you guys have a lesson glorious day.

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Speaker 5: Wow, very well, said young lady. Here, let me help

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Speaker 5: you with this part right here. You got to understand

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Speaker 5: when you're entre into a relationship with a man for

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Speaker 5: the first two weeks, you are going to meet the

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Speaker 5: most attentive, best representative of himself you could possibly meet.

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Speaker 5: Most dudes have got the two week game mastered, what

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Speaker 5: to say, how to be because you can, as you

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Speaker 5: use the word facade, you can keep up a facade

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Speaker 5: for two weeks. Two weeks, it's two weeks is really good.

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Speaker 5: It's hard to do that over a ninety day stretch. No,

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Speaker 5: it really is hard to pull that off over a

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Speaker 5: ninety day stretch. It's been done, but it's harder. And

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Speaker 5: so to protect yourselves, women, before you give into this,

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Speaker 5: oh my god, this is too good to be true,

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Speaker 5: you have to develop the questions and the test to

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Speaker 5: find out early if it is too good to be true.

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Speaker 6: And that's why I created the ninety day rule.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steven, we have another call from a woman

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Speaker 1: about men being the provider.

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Speaker 4: I just heard you say, Steve, I got to tell

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Speaker 4: in that women wants security. When a man meets a

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Speaker 4: woman is game on. I'm really sick of women who

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Speaker 4: look for security and a man. The word says God

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Speaker 4: bless a child who has their own. No, that's not

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Speaker 4: the word, but the saying goes, God bless the child

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Speaker 4: that has his her own. And also the word does

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Speaker 4: say if a man wants to eat, he has to work.

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Speaker 4: If a man don't work, you don't eat. That goes

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Speaker 4: for a wall man. Also, I've never looked for a

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Speaker 4: man to be my security. God has been my source.

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Speaker 4: I just retired from my job after forty two years.

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Speaker 4: God has blessed me to take care of myself. I'm

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Speaker 4: so sick and tired of women who look to a

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Speaker 4: man to take care of her. What I want from

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Speaker 4: a man is loyalty, love, understanding, communication. I want to

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Speaker 4: believe that I can believe in him because I want to.

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Speaker 4: I don't get with a man because of what he

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Speaker 4: can do for me. Never have, never will never will.

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Speaker 4: I love the black man. I love you, Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 4: Happy belated birthday, Hello to all of your crew, stay safe,

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Speaker 4: be blessed.

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Speaker 5: By by it. You know what, She made some valid points,

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Speaker 5: but I want to show her something. I stand by

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Speaker 5: what I said what a woman looks for she's not

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Speaker 5: arguing that point. She's talking about her standpoint. What a

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Speaker 5: woman looks for in a man is security. But the

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Speaker 5: things you describe that you want are forms of security.

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Speaker 5: Loyalty is security. You want to know that your heart

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Speaker 5: is safe with him. You won't love. You want to

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Speaker 5: feel like you belong to somebody, like like you're somebody somebody.

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Speaker 5: You want a person that can communicate with you. That's security.

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Speaker 5: You want understanding, You want to believe in him.

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Speaker 6: That's security system.

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Speaker 5: And then you need to package that up with when

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Speaker 5: your chips is down, will he be there?

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Speaker 6: See y'all?

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Speaker 5: Please stop that everybody looking for security.

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Speaker 6: Now.

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Speaker 5: I appreciate you. Your source is God and you've been

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Speaker 5: on your own for forty two years. But you said,

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Speaker 5: and the whole thing you wanted a man. That's what

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Speaker 5: security is. Man, That's what it is. Women want security

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Speaker 5: and security is a lot of things, and financial is

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Speaker 5: one of them.

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Speaker 6: And financial is one of them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, if you want to leave a voicemail for Steve.

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Speaker 1: Call eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve, you might hear

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Speaker 1: your message on the air coming up next to prank

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Speaker 1: phone call with the nephew right after this. You're listening

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