1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 1: Look mare, Oh, I see you my own. Look over 2 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:11,719 Speaker 1: there is that culture yess lost cult ding Dong lost 3 00:00:11,720 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 1: Culturista's calling. We're back in the little boxes on the 4 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:16,480 Speaker 1: virtual screen. 5 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 2: No, y'all, we're not getting the visuals. We're in our 6 00:00:19,720 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 2: Beyonce bag. You're not getting the visuals this week for 7 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 2: the podcast. Okay, let's just be up front. You guys 8 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 2: were spoiling your You're like spoiled rotten. 9 00:00:28,080 --> 00:00:32,839 Speaker 3: Little piglets in the in the mush people on the 10 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 3: in the in the slop from the trough. Oh yeah, 11 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 3: they eat slop from the trough. Oh god, that's like 12 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 3: both disgusting and so horny. 13 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 2: You know, I'm seeing these tiktoks of pigs with a 14 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 2: bunch of golden retrievers, you know, doing the same tricks 15 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:53,200 Speaker 2: as the dogs, and I'm going I think it's time 16 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 2: we save the pigs for good. 17 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, you think it's because the pigs are looking at 18 00:00:57,560 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 3: the dogs and they think there are a dog, and 19 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:00,320 Speaker 3: the dogs are looking at the pig and I think 20 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 3: they're a pig because these animals are so stupid. 21 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:05,199 Speaker 2: No, that is not what I'm saying. Man, you better 22 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 2: walk that back because you're gonna upset. Some people die 23 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:09,960 Speaker 2: have no. 24 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:13,760 Speaker 3: Problem saying that domestic dogs and pigs are stupid. 25 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 1: The whales are smarter than humans. 26 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:18,560 Speaker 2: But what makes you say that the dogs aren't as 27 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:20,560 Speaker 2: smart as the whales or humans. 28 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:21,680 Speaker 1: Because they look at a pig and they act like 29 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 1: a pig, and they're a dog idiot. 30 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:25,559 Speaker 2: It's like, and see the pigs act like the dog. 31 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:27,840 Speaker 3: Excuse me, honey, Let me tell you something as someone 32 00:01:27,880 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 3: who sees me something you don't know nothing about. I. 33 00:01:31,880 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 3: First of all, I know that big dogs see little 34 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 3: dogs and think they're little dogs. That's why they act 35 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:38,959 Speaker 3: the foolish way they do. And little dogs see big 36 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 3: dogs and think they're big dogs. That's why they bark. 37 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 2: So I don't like this from you at all. You're 38 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:50,600 Speaker 2: what you like at all, like what I be. You'd 39 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 2: be a little smarter. 40 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 1: You got me, girl, got girl, I know you. I 41 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 1: know my girl, girl shot down. 42 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 2: I might be getting back on TikTok just to view 43 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 2: because I was off of it for a while, but 44 00:02:02,880 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 2: I was. I'm following this woman who was trying to 45 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:09,680 Speaker 2: make banana ice cream, and it's the sweetest video I've 46 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 2: ever seen. Her husband's there helping her in the knschen. 47 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:14,640 Speaker 2: She goes, I don't know how to do anything. She's like, really, 48 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 2: she's like ninety years old. Oh, trying to make banana 49 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,639 Speaker 2: ice cream. And she's like, okay, it's everyone's making this. 50 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:23,959 Speaker 2: And then she like turns the food process around. She screams, 51 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:27,679 Speaker 2: I am can I just I'm about to shift gears. Okay, 52 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 2: my luxapro journey is crazy. I know you've been updating 53 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 2: daily and in a way that I hope is okay. 54 00:02:34,240 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 2: I hope it's not too much information. 55 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:37,440 Speaker 1: Well, I think that here's the thing. 56 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:40,360 Speaker 3: On first glance, it feels like whenever you post about 57 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:43,079 Speaker 3: you Lexibro journey, you're like, well, I'm a zombie again today. 58 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 1: Well this is terrible. And then honestly, I see you 59 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 1: and I feel you are vibrant. 60 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 2: Really, I just I just came from a workout, honey, 61 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:53,280 Speaker 2: and it's a miracle that I made it out of 62 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:53,960 Speaker 2: bed to the gym. 63 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:56,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I mean you did and you came and 64 00:02:56,880 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 3: you're on the zoom vibrant. Wow, are you working back 65 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 3: better than you think? I was gonna say? 66 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:04,119 Speaker 2: You look vibrant back in La and maybe LA looks 67 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 2: good on you. 68 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 1: Still, no, honey, I had a facial yesterday. 69 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:10,079 Speaker 2: Oh you had a facial in New York. I had 70 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 2: to tell me everything. 71 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 3: So basically, something I'm getting into this year is like, yes, 72 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 3: you make no alogies. I'm trying to get to get 73 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:22,800 Speaker 3: so okay. I feel like I'm being so annoying with 74 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 3: like this project, this project, this project. I've come out 75 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 3: in order I have to take photos for the project 76 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 3: actually today, and so I'm just being extra good with 77 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 3: my skin and like taking care of myself and rejuvenating. 78 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 3: And I have to say, I'm looking at myself in 79 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 3: the zoom right now, is fucking. 80 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 2: Hitting You look amazing, honey. 81 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 1: Very happy. 82 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 3: So that's why I got a facial yesterday. It's not la, 83 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:48,440 Speaker 3: it's facial. And also I didn't really go out this 84 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 3: week out outside of seeing Taylor Swift. 85 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 1: I restore two times twice. 86 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:53,160 Speaker 2: We didn't really do anything. 87 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 1: Didn't really. 88 00:03:57,920 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 2: Foolish one. 89 00:03:59,440 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 1: I know. 90 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 3: I got speaking of concerts that did not end in 91 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 3: a performance of Death by a Thousand Cuts that made 92 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 3: me weep. 93 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 1: On the spot. 94 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 3: Can I just say, before I ask about what happened 95 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:12,119 Speaker 3: last night with Carly Ray, can I just tell you 96 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 3: and can we all get into it? I've seen eras 97 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 3: four times. These were my secret songs. Okay, when I 98 00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:20,159 Speaker 3: was with you, Welcome to New York and Clean. You 99 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 3: remember how he felt when Clean started? 100 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 1: Oh my God. 101 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:28,480 Speaker 3: Then I got Starlight and back to December Jesus in Denver. 102 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 3: Then then Queen, I got our song and you are 103 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 3: in love? 104 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:37,520 Speaker 1: Wow. 105 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 3: And then and then I got Death by a Thousand 106 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 3: Cuts and You're on your own kid, she track five. 107 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 3: When I tell you, when she started to play Death 108 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 3: by a Thousand Cuts, I've never experienced Beatlemania. I wasn't 109 00:04:53,880 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 3: alive then right Everyone around me was screaming, sobbing, wailing 110 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:03,279 Speaker 3: at the skies like we have lost a great leader. 111 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 1: It was un be believable. 112 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 3: The catharsis that came out when she's sang Death five 113 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 3: thousand cuts, I think, talk about it. 114 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:14,360 Speaker 1: What do you. 115 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 2: Think it is about that song? Because it has like 116 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 2: the quality people love that song in the way that 117 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:21,479 Speaker 2: it might as well be a track five. It's not. 118 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:22,840 Speaker 1: Oh it's not. 119 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 3: The Archer is track five. The Archer is track five. Yeah, 120 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:28,280 Speaker 3: I guess that's what I mean. And there you go. 121 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:30,560 Speaker 1: That's me showing my imp no notion. 122 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:32,360 Speaker 2: I was and that wasn't me. 123 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 3: Calling you in or anything. No, I know, I'm just 124 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:36,240 Speaker 3: saying like it had the energy of track five. 125 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 1: You are so right. I don't know what it is. 126 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 3: I think it's just one of those Well, can I 127 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 3: say I think Lover actually is sort of coming from behind. 128 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 2: I am about to give it a full spin after 129 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 2: I literally on my to do list it's like, you 130 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:52,679 Speaker 2: know what, I should give Lover a full fucking rotation. 131 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 3: Lover is actually sort of stomping to the front. It's 132 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 3: saying I've been here, you just respected me, and it's 133 00:06:01,680 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 3: her fault kind of half because she picked the wrong singles, 134 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 3: and I think that put a little weird taste in 135 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 3: everyone's mouth. But totally Lover has at least five songs 136 00:06:09,520 --> 00:06:11,480 Speaker 3: on that album that are tailor. 137 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 2: Canon Cool Summer Death by Thousand Times, Cornelia Street, Lover, 138 00:06:16,120 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 2: I'd say Daylight Afterglow, Lover, Lover, the Archer, Fuck yes, 139 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:27,520 Speaker 2: I fucking love the Archer. And can I say, False. 140 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 3: God, you are a False God superfan and I'm in 141 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 3: I think he knows super fan. 142 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 2: She did False God right after I did my first 143 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:39,160 Speaker 2: weekend update live at SNL. Oh my god, and I 144 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 2: was like this is one of the best days of 145 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 2: my life. 146 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:43,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, did you get to see her? Then? I did night. 147 00:06:43,480 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 2: She just hugged me and said, you're so funny. But 148 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 2: I think she was just saying that in her like 149 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:53,600 Speaker 2: politician way, you know, like, oh, you don't like she's 150 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:54,120 Speaker 2: seen the. 151 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 1: Weekend update, you just did. 152 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 2: I think she was in her dressing room fucking throwing 153 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 2: back shots with fucking and no, no, like Dylan O'Brien 154 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 2: or something, just a. 155 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:04,719 Speaker 1: Few free false god shots, you know. 156 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:06,840 Speaker 2: I think she doesn't give a fuck. And the way 157 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:09,279 Speaker 2: that I celebrate, she's just like whatever, Like I'm just here, 158 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 2: I'm hanging out. 159 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 3: I am always confused by how much singers drink. So 160 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:16,400 Speaker 3: I was just watching Watch It Happens Live with the 161 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 3: Legend Sandra Bernhard and the Legend Girl. I love Sandra, 162 00:07:21,960 --> 00:07:24,640 Speaker 3: I love Sandra Bernhard. Sandra Bernhard was formative for me. 163 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 3: She was on Watch It Happens Live with Alex Newell 164 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 3: and they just want the Tony for Shucked. By the way, 165 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 3: I don't know if I've talked about Shucked yet on 166 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 3: the podcast I fucking Love Shucked. I thought Chucks was 167 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 3: Hilary's sad that I missed Alex and it is Alex 168 00:07:37,560 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 3: no longer in Shock. I think they're done. Maybe, oh 169 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 3: I don't know, correct me if I'm wrong. Maybe that's 170 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 3: why they were able to be on Yeah. Oh that 171 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 3: would be a shame, I know. I mean it's it's 172 00:07:49,200 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 3: right up my alley that kind of show. Okay, So 173 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:53,880 Speaker 3: first of all, if you can't see Alex Newell in Shucked, 174 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:56,480 Speaker 3: just go on YouTube and watch the live performance of 175 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 3: Alex Nuwell performing independently owned on the view. 176 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:05,040 Speaker 1: Just honestly, so unbelievable live. 177 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 3: It was stunning, love shocked, big endorsement for Shocked, and 178 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 3: I realized I had never said that, even after my 179 00:08:11,320 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 3: big year of Broadway, and I had to say Shucked 180 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:17,680 Speaker 3: was excellent. But the reason I say the drinking thing 181 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 3: is because Alex Newell, like Andy Cohen, asked the question like, 182 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 3: what's something you do every day to make you happy? 183 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:25,120 Speaker 3: And she said drink? And I was like, how do 184 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 3: you drink every single day? And sound like that? Maybe 185 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 3: she's being relatable queen and like also like being tongue 186 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 3: in cheeic. I believe the expression is but like when 187 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:39,120 Speaker 3: I drink a little bit, like I wake up the 188 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 3: next day, I'm dry, croaky. 189 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:42,000 Speaker 1: I can't do it. 190 00:08:42,080 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I can't do it. By the way, 191 00:08:44,360 --> 00:08:46,760 Speaker 2: tongue in cheek, isn't tongue always in cheek? 192 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:49,959 Speaker 1: I don't get it, not when it's like this. Yeah, 193 00:08:50,000 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 1: you're right. 194 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 3: Matt just stuck his tongue out and I was not 195 00:08:52,480 --> 00:08:54,440 Speaker 3: in cheek and he's not in cheek. 196 00:08:54,480 --> 00:08:55,719 Speaker 1: It was way out of cheek. It was way out 197 00:08:55,720 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 1: of pocket. Actually we had a pocket. 198 00:08:57,640 --> 00:09:00,800 Speaker 2: So talk more about Eras because you have literally been 199 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:04,199 Speaker 2: to this concert more than any one four times. That's unbelievable. 200 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 2: And we're going again next summer. Guess what, I'm gonna 201 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 2: shout out my sister Yang Yang. She did something for herself. 202 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:12,720 Speaker 2: She bought heires for tickets for Paris, and I said. 203 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:14,160 Speaker 1: Girl, you deserve it for her. 204 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:15,880 Speaker 2: She deserves it. 205 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 3: Mom move saying you know what, I'm taking the week 206 00:09:20,160 --> 00:09:22,679 Speaker 3: off to go see Taylor Swids. 207 00:09:22,880 --> 00:09:25,959 Speaker 2: Brian watched the kids. I'm going to Paris to watch 208 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:27,079 Speaker 2: this girl sing Paris. 209 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 1: Brian watched the kids. I'm going to Paris is a 210 00:09:30,000 --> 00:09:32,440 Speaker 1: ruler culture rule of culture number thirty. 211 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:36,199 Speaker 2: Brian, watch the kids. I'm going to Paris. 212 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 3: I have to tell you something I keep thinking about 213 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 3: that you said, which I do believe is one of 214 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:44,600 Speaker 3: the top five funniest things you may have said ever. 215 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 1: Is your impression of Patty Lapone. I took a drive 216 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:52,320 Speaker 1: with my daughter. We listen to Taylor Swift. She's a poet, 217 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:53,360 Speaker 1: she was a poet. 218 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 2: Test I can't do a good Patty. 219 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:57,600 Speaker 1: That was real. You do do a good Patty? Oh no, 220 00:09:57,880 --> 00:09:58,560 Speaker 1: do we say? 221 00:09:58,840 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 2: We're going to see Patty in Cherry Grove at the 222 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:04,720 Speaker 2: Ice Palace. Bitch at the Ice Palace? 223 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:06,559 Speaker 1: So sick. 224 00:10:06,800 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 2: We're getting breakfast at Floyd's. We're getting me. We're eating 225 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:15,240 Speaker 2: a nice bacon, egg and cheese at a dog themed restaurant, 226 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 2: and then we're spending the day in Cherry Grove. Hours 227 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 2: before Patty goes up on stage. We bought general admission tickets. 228 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 2: We're sitting in the fucking back. We're gonna have the 229 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:25,560 Speaker 2: time of our lives. 230 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:29,560 Speaker 3: I cannot wait to see Patty at the Ice Palace. 231 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:32,560 Speaker 3: That is so it's been said before, but it is 232 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 3: literally iconic, like that will be a memory forever, Like 233 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:37,959 Speaker 3: what is she going to say with a room full 234 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:39,320 Speaker 3: of gays screaming at her? 235 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 1: You know she's gonna go off. I wonder if she'll 236 00:10:42,280 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 1: take questions. I want to raise my hand. We should 237 00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 1: interview her, should we get her on the pod? 238 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:48,680 Speaker 2: Let's get her? 239 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 1: Wait, it is just the best idea ever. 240 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:53,079 Speaker 2: You look into it, Honey. 241 00:10:53,400 --> 00:10:56,160 Speaker 3: I wonder if she'll stay in Cherry Grove on that 242 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:58,959 Speaker 3: Sunday night and the Monday we can record with her. 243 00:10:59,320 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 2: Oh my, interview her on Fire Island. You are twisted. Wait, 244 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:06,319 Speaker 2: keep them addicted. 245 00:11:06,559 --> 00:11:08,520 Speaker 3: I will keep them addicted. Wait, can I just put 246 00:11:08,520 --> 00:11:13,200 Speaker 3: this out there into the atmosphere? Bowen Yang, Matt Rogers, 247 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:18,679 Speaker 3: Patty Lapone the Lost Culturistas interview at the Ice Palace 248 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 3: Monday Day. 249 00:11:21,080 --> 00:11:22,680 Speaker 2: Let's see. 250 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 1: Let's see. 251 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 2: Well, it's not up to us. 252 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:29,559 Speaker 1: We would tread a Patty Lapone interview. 253 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 3: You would tread I feel like, Patty, oh my god, 254 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 3: my email. 255 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:38,760 Speaker 2: Now you would tread I feel like. 256 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 1: What are you talking about? You do an amazing impression. 257 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:43,240 Speaker 2: That is not a good interview. 258 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:47,120 Speaker 3: Make she's, first of all, I guarantee she's a big 259 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 3: bone yang fan. 260 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:48,839 Speaker 1: I guarantee it. 261 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:51,440 Speaker 2: I don't think so, honey, I don't think. 262 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 1: It's about commitment. And he gets it. He gets it. 263 00:11:56,559 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 1: That's my impression of. 264 00:11:57,920 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 2: That's a good Patty. I think we both have a Patty. 265 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 3: Mount's cuta Patty Mount's got a Patty that's gonna Patty 266 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:04,560 Speaker 3: Iris POWs. 267 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 1: Big year for her, Big year for her. 268 00:12:07,120 --> 00:12:10,080 Speaker 3: Now do you want to give the download on? So 269 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 3: that was everything that happened with Eras. I mean, there's 270 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:13,960 Speaker 3: nothing more to say about Eras. It was incredible. You 271 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 3: went to a concert. I was so excited for you. You 272 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:18,719 Speaker 3: were seeing Carlie Ray Jebson last night, and then the 273 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:19,880 Speaker 3: unthinkable happens. 274 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 2: But first of all, the very thinkable. Well, first of all, 275 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:26,320 Speaker 2: it was thinkable because the day before I'm looking at 276 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 2: the weather forecast. It's at Peer seventeen on the rooftop, 277 00:12:30,760 --> 00:12:34,439 Speaker 2: and it's an outdoor concert, asking for it, asking for it. 278 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 2: And I look at the weather forecast right at the 279 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:40,560 Speaker 2: concert time, forty percent chance of rain. I go, okay, 280 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:44,760 Speaker 2: I'll chance it. I'll make dinner plans with Celeste DM, 281 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:47,680 Speaker 2: friend of the pod. We go, we have dinner. I 282 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 2: wake up yesterday we're clear for rain. I said, great, 283 00:12:53,559 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 2: But things can really change the fickle. 284 00:12:57,040 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 3: Nature of New York weather. I mean, it was it 285 00:13:00,720 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 3: was tunny. It's very unpredictable, and what did happen. 286 00:13:05,280 --> 00:13:12,280 Speaker 2: It's an overcast night evening, and she sings three and 287 00:13:12,280 --> 00:13:16,400 Speaker 2: a half songs, which were let's sort the whole thing out, okay, 288 00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 2: run away with me, thank god, we got one of 289 00:13:20,400 --> 00:13:21,480 Speaker 2: the national anthems. 290 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:22,719 Speaker 1: Thank god. Absolutely. 291 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 2: Then she sings surrender my Heart, thank God. I love 292 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:31,160 Speaker 2: surrendering my Heart excellent. I want to I want to 293 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:33,960 Speaker 2: be brave enough to show you my not so perfect family. 294 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 2: She stuck that in a song. That's an amazing song. 295 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:46,440 Speaker 2: That the loneliest time we didn't talk about how Midnight's 296 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:49,960 Speaker 2: completely fucking overshadowed that album. 297 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:53,880 Speaker 3: It's better than Dedicated. It's I like it better than dedicated. 298 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:54,439 Speaker 2: I think so. 299 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:56,680 Speaker 1: I think, I think that's actually that's not a hot take. 300 00:13:56,679 --> 00:13:58,360 Speaker 2: I think it's not a hot take, not a hot 301 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:01,800 Speaker 2: take at all. Then she says, josh I love Dedicated, 302 00:14:02,080 --> 00:14:02,960 Speaker 2: we love Dedicated. 303 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:03,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. 304 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 2: She sings Joshua Tree, well, no, during surrender my Heart, 305 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:12,600 Speaker 2: there's lightning oh, and we go uh oh. Then Joshua Tree. 306 00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:16,560 Speaker 2: I'm sure she's getting screamed at in her fucking earpiece. Carly, 307 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:19,280 Speaker 2: you gotta call it. You have to call it. 308 00:14:19,440 --> 00:14:21,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, Carly, you gotta call it. 309 00:14:21,440 --> 00:14:24,840 Speaker 3: So she goes be full, and then she goes, okay, 310 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:25,840 Speaker 3: we get a little bit of lightning. 311 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 2: This guy's excited about. We'll be right back. Hang tight. 312 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:32,480 Speaker 2: She and her band run off the stage. Everyone in 313 00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:35,760 Speaker 2: the audience is going, oh, well, okay, let's just wait 314 00:14:35,800 --> 00:14:40,560 Speaker 2: a bit with him. Thirty seconds on the screens, today's 315 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:41,560 Speaker 2: event has ended. 316 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 1: No, no, was it raining? 317 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:48,960 Speaker 2: And then it was raining, But it was just so 318 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:52,520 Speaker 2: fun as Celeste and I were laughing cackling about it 319 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 2: the entire night. Oh man to go from hang tight? Okay, 320 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 2: thirty seconds later, today's show has ended. 321 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 3: But then she sort of I saw she came back 322 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 3: out and was sort of the president came back out. 323 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 2: Was the President said I'm so sorry. No one's getting 324 00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 2: electrocuted tonight though, woo. And then everyone cheered, and then 325 00:15:12,040 --> 00:15:14,560 Speaker 2: what can I say? We were out at dinner we 326 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 2: saw her stories. She said, first, one hundred and fifty 327 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 2: people at Rockwood Music Hall tonight we're doing a sing 328 00:15:20,360 --> 00:15:24,080 Speaker 2: along and that is a small ass venue, quarter circular 329 00:15:24,080 --> 00:15:26,880 Speaker 2: stage in the corner of that room. We did not go. 330 00:15:27,040 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 2: And she's doing a matinee today at three. I don't 331 00:15:30,240 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 2: think I can make it. 332 00:15:31,400 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 1: So is this the makeup? 333 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:36,120 Speaker 2: This is the makeup at three pm on a Tuesday 334 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 2: the next day. I don't think people have work. I 335 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:40,080 Speaker 2: don't think people can go. 336 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:41,080 Speaker 1: You can't go. 337 00:15:41,600 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 2: I don't know if I can. Maybe I will. I 338 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:46,160 Speaker 2: don't know. We'll see maybe right after. That's all just 339 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:46,720 Speaker 2: go by myself. 340 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 1: It might be really fun. Is it a nice day today? 341 00:15:49,280 --> 00:15:51,880 Speaker 2: It's okay? Yeah, But she's doing two shows Todays. She's 342 00:15:51,920 --> 00:15:53,400 Speaker 2: doing a matine at three and then she's doing her 343 00:15:53,440 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 2: regular show at eight. She has another for her. I 344 00:15:56,440 --> 00:16:01,600 Speaker 2: think listen, Carly Ray is just a Canadian as they come, 345 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:07,320 Speaker 2: just puts in the work, is talented. It just makes 346 00:16:07,320 --> 00:16:08,760 Speaker 2: sure everyone has a good time. 347 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 3: I always show Carly Ray her respect. I've seen her 348 00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:14,920 Speaker 3: a couple times. She puts on a show. 349 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:15,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. 350 00:16:15,440 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 3: I fucking love Carly right. And the new album is 351 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:19,080 Speaker 3: really good. 352 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:19,640 Speaker 2: So good. 353 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:23,560 Speaker 3: And also we just showed her her respect when we 354 00:16:23,640 --> 00:16:26,520 Speaker 3: did and this is a segue, we did the top 355 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:31,040 Speaker 3: ten pop girly debut singles Lost Coach and Call Me 356 00:16:31,080 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 3: Maybe was represented. So that's just to say Lost Coach 357 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 3: is doing bonus content, okay. 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Let's just say 387 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:00,800 Speaker 2: what we have up next month. 388 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:02,800 Speaker 3: So right now, like we said, we released a free 389 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 3: episode which is the Top ten popularly debut single, so 390 00:18:05,400 --> 00:18:06,639 Speaker 3: you can sort of get a sense of what it 391 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:08,800 Speaker 3: is if you want to sign up for it. Yeah, 392 00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:10,480 Speaker 3: and then right now, if you sign up, you can 393 00:18:10,560 --> 00:18:14,159 Speaker 3: get the Julia Roberts Top ten Movies. And next month 394 00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:19,560 Speaker 3: we are doing Top ten Batman Villas. It's queer culture only. 395 00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:22,879 Speaker 2: It's queer culture only. I'm really like, I was a 396 00:18:22,960 --> 00:18:25,960 Speaker 2: jury duty and we were talking about this, our ideas 397 00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:27,720 Speaker 2: for the top ten lists, and like, I think this 398 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:32,280 Speaker 2: is like a perfect new injection of fun fancy free. 399 00:18:32,560 --> 00:18:35,560 Speaker 3: Well, it's a perfect new injection of fun fancy free. 400 00:18:35,600 --> 00:18:38,960 Speaker 3: And that is the review for us for our own podcast. 401 00:18:39,200 --> 00:18:42,439 Speaker 3: We're gonna stop post posting, you know when they're like 402 00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:45,280 Speaker 3: The New York Times says four stars, a ravishing romp. 403 00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 3: It's gonna be We're gonna get a poster for this 404 00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:54,440 Speaker 3: and it's gonna Coach says a perfect, perfect pure injection fancy. 405 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 1: Free title of app. Oh my god, I love that 406 00:18:57,880 --> 00:19:02,280 Speaker 1: title of app A perfect pure and of fun, fancy free. 407 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:05,600 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love that. 408 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:14,000 Speaker 2: Bow Yeah, I think it's good. I think it works. 409 00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:18,360 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 410 00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:19,639 Speaker 3: Wait, you know what I forgot to say? Or I 411 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:22,119 Speaker 3: didn't get an opportunity to say last week because we 412 00:19:22,280 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 3: recorded a little early please Indictment watch. We are on 413 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:29,840 Speaker 3: Indictment Watch, and we got him. 414 00:19:30,240 --> 00:19:30,920 Speaker 2: We got him. 415 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:32,520 Speaker 1: I can't do it, got him. 416 00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:34,399 Speaker 2: Hold on, let me get this fucking buzzer. 417 00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:35,199 Speaker 1: Oh hold on. 418 00:19:35,240 --> 00:19:37,080 Speaker 3: I guess Bowen has a little bit of a buzzer. 419 00:19:37,119 --> 00:19:40,320 Speaker 3: Sometimes he gets things delivered to his apartment, like food, 420 00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:43,639 Speaker 3: et cetera, while we're recording episodes. And then what I 421 00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:45,200 Speaker 3: get to do is I can just sort of watch 422 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:48,200 Speaker 3: him scurry away from the computer and then run down 423 00:19:48,240 --> 00:19:48,880 Speaker 3: the stairs. 424 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:51,440 Speaker 1: And now he's coming back. And I think you don't 425 00:19:51,480 --> 00:19:53,520 Speaker 1: you're not aware of how adorable it is when you 426 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:53,840 Speaker 1: do that. 427 00:19:54,320 --> 00:19:56,160 Speaker 2: Well, this might be the last one you ever see, 428 00:19:56,160 --> 00:19:57,879 Speaker 2: because I am not dealing with a buzzer in my 429 00:19:57,960 --> 00:19:58,520 Speaker 2: next place. 430 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:01,239 Speaker 1: What are you gonna deal with? Then? How are you 431 00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:02,840 Speaker 1: gonna know when someone's coming for you? 432 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:04,720 Speaker 2: Honey? It's called a door person. 433 00:20:04,920 --> 00:20:08,359 Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, wealth Bowen Yang returning to his roots 434 00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:09,560 Speaker 3: as a wealthy person. 435 00:20:09,880 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 1: Those are not Matt. 436 00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:16,919 Speaker 2: I think he doesn't like to do this. It's not 437 00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:18,080 Speaker 2: that I don't like when you do this. 438 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:22,720 Speaker 3: I just think it has a collateral effect because people. 439 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:24,640 Speaker 2: Do end up believing out there in the real world. 440 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:29,760 Speaker 2: They go, well, I heard that you grew up and 441 00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:31,600 Speaker 2: then the case was. 442 00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:34,040 Speaker 1: Born a poor white child. 443 00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:39,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, and he grew up to be a rich Asian man. Yes, 444 00:20:40,200 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 3: that is the narrative American dream. 445 00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:47,760 Speaker 2: You contained races and class. 446 00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:54,720 Speaker 3: What was her name, Doles, what venterla culture number eighty? 447 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:58,960 Speaker 2: What was her name? Dozol You know, I can't wait 448 00:20:59,000 --> 00:20:59,879 Speaker 2: for that biopic. 449 00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:02,679 Speaker 3: I can't believe they have any Angelina Jolie and her 450 00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:04,399 Speaker 3: a mighty heart geche remember that. 451 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:05,480 Speaker 1: Remember when she. 452 00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:06,359 Speaker 2: Played My God? 453 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:08,440 Speaker 1: Remember when Angelina Joli played black Woman. 454 00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:11,439 Speaker 2: Then she's perfect, She's qualified. 455 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:14,359 Speaker 3: It's so recent that, like all that was happening, like 456 00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:17,879 Speaker 3: Angelina Joli, like Black Woman, Jared Leno played a trans woman. 457 00:21:18,119 --> 00:21:20,040 Speaker 1: Like it's so recent, and. 458 00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:23,920 Speaker 2: They get rewarded for it. It's amazing, so amazing. 459 00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:25,480 Speaker 1: We give them their flowers. Queen. 460 00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 2: Now, what do we have on the docket? Today, because 461 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:33,960 Speaker 2: there are lots of things to talk about. Do we 462 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:34,760 Speaker 2: talk about them? 463 00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:36,800 Speaker 1: What do we have to talk about? 464 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:38,760 Speaker 2: Do we have any opinion on the Lizo stuff? 465 00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:41,679 Speaker 3: Oh oh oh oh oh oh okay, so can I 466 00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:44,160 Speaker 3: tell you my hot take on the Lizo stuff. Something 467 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:47,440 Speaker 3: I'm observing is that like people will be like, oh, yeah, 468 00:21:47,480 --> 00:21:48,240 Speaker 3: I know about. 469 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:50,680 Speaker 2: This, and isn't that a funny thing. It's like a 470 00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:52,239 Speaker 2: funny knee jerk thing that we all do now. 471 00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:54,119 Speaker 3: But yeah, go, it's that thing of like when a 472 00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 3: celebrity news item comes out, some we'll just go like, 473 00:21:57,880 --> 00:21:59,600 Speaker 3: oh yeah, people have been saying that for a long time. 474 00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:02,199 Speaker 3: It's like I know, like two or three people who 475 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:04,720 Speaker 3: heard this about Lizzo, Like this Lizzo news broke. And 476 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:06,840 Speaker 3: if you don't know what the Lizo news is, it's 477 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:09,360 Speaker 3: that a few of her backup dancers have come out 478 00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:13,280 Speaker 3: and they're suing her for like a bunch of sexual 479 00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:18,840 Speaker 3: harassment and like professional abuse and like retaliation, false imprisonment. 480 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:20,640 Speaker 3: Like there's like a whole list of things that they're 481 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:23,119 Speaker 3: suing her for, and it basically comes down to the 482 00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:25,919 Speaker 3: fact that she's like a very cruel boss who like 483 00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:28,360 Speaker 3: works them to the bone. And then I guess at 484 00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 3: a club in Amsterdam, she forced a dancer or two 485 00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:34,959 Speaker 3: to like touch a nude performer. Apparently, like you know, 486 00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:38,720 Speaker 3: when they've expressed desires to change the work environment, Lizo 487 00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:42,040 Speaker 3: retaliated against them. And like it's just this whole bunch 488 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,840 Speaker 3: of like this fleet of information about how Lizo is 489 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:49,200 Speaker 3: like a terror. It's not good, but it's just funny 490 00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:51,239 Speaker 3: because this stuff came out about her, and like two 491 00:22:51,359 --> 00:22:53,400 Speaker 3: or three people I know, like I said, were like, oh, yeah, 492 00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:54,720 Speaker 3: people have been saying about this about her for a 493 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:56,440 Speaker 3: long time. This is a reckoning. This has been coming. 494 00:22:56,640 --> 00:22:58,600 Speaker 3: The Lizzo thing has been a thing for a while, 495 00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:00,199 Speaker 3: and now we're ready to say it. I'm like, what, 496 00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 3: I had never heard of this, and how did your. 497 00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:04,840 Speaker 1: Well? 498 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:08,880 Speaker 2: I also have I never trust it's not that. Look, 499 00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:15,280 Speaker 2: I'm sure I never never I haven't. We all as 500 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:18,840 Speaker 2: a culture heard so many different people be like this 501 00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:22,160 Speaker 2: person has a reckoning coming for them. Oh absolutely, and 502 00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 2: then most of the time it never happens and never 503 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 2: comes to pass, which, like I guess, is no problem. 504 00:23:29,080 --> 00:23:32,240 Speaker 2: But it's also like my takeaway on the meta narrative 505 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:35,879 Speaker 2: of this is we can never know, literally no one knows. 506 00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:39,119 Speaker 3: I mean, here's the thing. It's like I watched the 507 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:42,000 Speaker 3: interviews with these dancers, and I do believe them. I 508 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 3: do believe that they have had a horrible experience, you 509 00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:45,880 Speaker 3: know what I mean. 510 00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 1: It's just this thing of like. 511 00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:53,000 Speaker 3: I sort of wish for them that there was more 512 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:57,239 Speaker 3: because people are gonna I think they're going to denounce them. 513 00:23:57,240 --> 00:23:59,080 Speaker 3: I mean, like it's it's weird what's happening on Twitter. 514 00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:02,399 Speaker 3: It's like equal parts like fuck Lizzo and fuck these 515 00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:05,280 Speaker 3: dancers in a way that seems very Twitter. If there's 516 00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 3: something that really happened, I just wish it felt like 517 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:11,480 Speaker 3: they had more of a case because I feel like 518 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:13,680 Speaker 3: it's very easy for things like this to get dismissed 519 00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:16,199 Speaker 3: because it is just like this happened to me, and 520 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:19,399 Speaker 3: I think there's not much like concrete proof. But like 521 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:21,479 Speaker 3: what I think is helping them is the fact that like, 522 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:25,080 Speaker 3: you know, her former director of our documentary has come 523 00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:27,719 Speaker 3: out and being like she was toxic and arrogant and 524 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:29,679 Speaker 3: like was treating people this way. I think it's like 525 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:31,360 Speaker 3: other dancers are coming out and. 526 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:33,159 Speaker 1: Being like this was also my experience. 527 00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:36,760 Speaker 3: So if this is the case, it's like incredibly disappointing. 528 00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:39,840 Speaker 3: But also I do think that there is a thing 529 00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:44,080 Speaker 3: where when someone comes out and makes themselves. 530 00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:46,879 Speaker 1: Like the face of an issue, I always feel a 531 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:50,800 Speaker 1: little bit like you kind of have to question that always, 532 00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:51,879 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. 533 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:57,760 Speaker 2: Truly, what are we the face of friendship? I make 534 00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:01,000 Speaker 2: this about us? No, but like totally it's like if 535 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:08,960 Speaker 2: someone is really embodying in this very intentional way, some 536 00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:12,480 Speaker 2: sort of not virtue, I guess that word is like 537 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:13,199 Speaker 2: so fucked up. 538 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:15,040 Speaker 3: Now it's just hard to back that up, you know 539 00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:17,080 Speaker 3: what I mean, Because like she's a human being, She's 540 00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:20,320 Speaker 3: got like a bunch of contradictions obviously, and I just 541 00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:23,200 Speaker 3: think if she did make these girls feel this way, 542 00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,240 Speaker 3: that is a problem, because she like is out here 543 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:28,080 Speaker 3: saying like this is what I'm all about, this is 544 00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:30,199 Speaker 3: what I'm all about. No part of me wants to 545 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 3: believe this about her. 546 00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:36,600 Speaker 1: But I do, And I don't know how to. 547 00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:39,600 Speaker 3: I don't know where you go from here outside of 548 00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 3: just like I hope that you know, if there's something 549 00:25:42,359 --> 00:25:46,560 Speaker 3: really wrong, that it gets dealt with, because these girls 550 00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 3: seem like traumatized, and I just don't want them to 551 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:53,240 Speaker 3: be dismissed because it's a really brave thing and a 552 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,680 Speaker 3: very vulnerable position to come out there, and you also 553 00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:58,760 Speaker 3: have to think, like what are they gaining from it? 554 00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:02,240 Speaker 3: They're gaining nothing from this. N percent of the time 555 00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:09,639 Speaker 3: whoever is putting themselves in opposition to someone on the 556 00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:12,119 Speaker 3: other end of a power dynamic, like they never have 557 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:12,840 Speaker 3: anything to gain. 558 00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:13,880 Speaker 2: It's just how it is with. 559 00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:18,280 Speaker 3: Like accusers of like assault, It's just it's always the way, 560 00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:21,560 Speaker 3: like societally, it's all set up, is all so fucked. 561 00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:24,040 Speaker 2: Up anyway, and it's like it's all a huge bummer. 562 00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:27,600 Speaker 3: It's just like we know from knowing, but like you 563 00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:30,880 Speaker 3: never want to hear and believe that someone is an asshole. 564 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:34,240 Speaker 3: Now I believe it every time, Like so many people 565 00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:37,359 Speaker 3: are fucking assholes. It's really weird when you see people 566 00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:41,040 Speaker 3: with so much to lose act like that because it's 567 00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:44,400 Speaker 3: gonna get out. I know it is gonna get out. 568 00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:48,199 Speaker 3: The media is too sensitive now, people are too interested 569 00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:52,640 Speaker 3: in this type of thing, Like I mean, we're past 570 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:54,840 Speaker 3: the point of like, yeah, being an asshole is like 571 00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:57,439 Speaker 3: a means to an end. It's not you're it's I 572 00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:59,600 Speaker 3: don't understand behaving like that. And then there's like an 573 00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:01,720 Speaker 3: ego thing to thinking you can get away with. 574 00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:05,800 Speaker 2: It, right, But then like people do see that as 575 00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:11,679 Speaker 2: like an additional pressure. It's like an additional strain on 576 00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:14,240 Speaker 2: their like psyche where it's like it then feeds it. 577 00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:15,800 Speaker 2: Not that this is the same thing, but it's like 578 00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:17,879 Speaker 2: people who are always like I'm not allowed to do 579 00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:19,800 Speaker 2: that anymore or not allowed to say that anymore. This 580 00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:21,719 Speaker 2: would have flown a few years ago. It's like that 581 00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:25,440 Speaker 2: is also like a concentric circle around this thing of 582 00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:29,080 Speaker 2: like you know, being an asshole, I guess, or just 583 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:32,760 Speaker 2: being like harmful to other people. It's like if you 584 00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,880 Speaker 2: tell them they can't I if the media is sort 585 00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:39,240 Speaker 2: of like exposing people for this kind of behavior, then 586 00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:45,360 Speaker 2: that then also adds this like counter force where they go, well, 587 00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:49,200 Speaker 2: I'm I feel even more repressed or something because I'm 588 00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:53,080 Speaker 2: not allowed to behave in this like pure id way. 589 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:56,800 Speaker 3: Right exactly in creative atmospheres. And it's also like let's 590 00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:59,880 Speaker 3: just say this, there's nothing illegal about being an asshole. 591 00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:02,720 Speaker 3: Like if you are if you were running the show 592 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:05,840 Speaker 3: and you're an asshole, like you can do it that way. 593 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:09,040 Speaker 3: I mean it might get out. People might be like, oh, 594 00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:12,320 Speaker 3: like I have something to say about it. But where 595 00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 3: it's iffy is like if there's like illegal stuff going on, 596 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:19,560 Speaker 3: which is why I think stuff with like this lawsuit 597 00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:23,160 Speaker 3: and like other allegations that come out, like is she 598 00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:25,919 Speaker 3: an asshole or was there something illegal? It feels like 599 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:28,960 Speaker 3: something illegal that was happening was maybe the retaliation on 600 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:32,719 Speaker 3: them losing their jobs, and certainly this issue that happened 601 00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:36,359 Speaker 3: in like an Amsterdam club where Lizzo apparently bullied and 602 00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:39,800 Speaker 3: forced one or more of the dancers to touch a 603 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:41,880 Speaker 3: live performer when they didn't want to do that, which. 604 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:43,360 Speaker 1: Is sexual harassment. 605 00:28:43,400 --> 00:28:46,240 Speaker 3: And people should also know, like that is still a 606 00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 3: professional environment when you're with all of your colleagues. So 607 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:53,360 Speaker 3: that would be like if this were an office scenario. 608 00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:55,920 Speaker 3: If an office full of people went out to an 609 00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:59,120 Speaker 3: Amsterdam club and then their boss said, hey, touch that 610 00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:02,680 Speaker 3: nude performer and started yelling and being like you know, 611 00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:04,520 Speaker 3: chanting their name and egging them on to do it, 612 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:06,240 Speaker 3: and then they did it and they felt a certain 613 00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:07,720 Speaker 3: way about it, that would be illegal. 614 00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:10,840 Speaker 1: That would be that would be a violation a professional atmosphere. 615 00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:13,880 Speaker 3: And Lizzo and her backup dancers and her team that 616 00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:17,320 Speaker 3: is also a professional atmosphere, So that's where there's an issue, 617 00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:20,120 Speaker 3: but she's allowed to be an asshole, you know what 618 00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 3: I'm saying. It's like, yeah, it's just where it gets 619 00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:25,760 Speaker 3: to the place of misconduct. Where's the separation. So I 620 00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:28,320 Speaker 3: think that's like that gets weird in like the whole 621 00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:30,520 Speaker 3: thing of like it being reported in the media, like 622 00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:34,920 Speaker 3: all these things we should also say. Lizo responded, and 623 00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:38,600 Speaker 3: she's emphatic that this is not the case. Yeah, you know, 624 00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:43,360 Speaker 3: it's also weird. In a creative atmosphere, it feels like 625 00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:46,160 Speaker 3: there's more gray area than there is, but there's really not. 626 00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:48,680 Speaker 3: When someone is saying to you, I don't want to 627 00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:50,400 Speaker 3: do this thing, I'm not comfortable, and they want to 628 00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:52,880 Speaker 3: be treated with respect and you don't do that, then 629 00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 3: there's not really the excuse of gray area creative artistic 630 00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:58,680 Speaker 3: GAMUS for anymore. You're forcing someone to do something they 631 00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:01,120 Speaker 3: don't want to do. You're making I'm uncomfortable, and then 632 00:30:01,160 --> 00:30:03,320 Speaker 3: ultimately they get fired because they didn't drive with you. 633 00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:04,120 Speaker 1: That's wrong. 634 00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:10,200 Speaker 2: Mmmmmm hmm. God, you are giving the view you are 635 00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:14,040 Speaker 2: giving should have gone to you. 636 00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:15,440 Speaker 1: Are you? 637 00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:18,120 Speaker 2: I want to see you and Sonny go head to head. 638 00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:21,720 Speaker 2: I think you know, I'm sure Sonny. I think Sonny 639 00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:24,160 Speaker 2: would like play Devil's advocate and be like, well now 640 00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:26,080 Speaker 2: I feel like Lizzo's getting canceled. 641 00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:26,760 Speaker 1: I don't like this. 642 00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:29,200 Speaker 2: I don't like this cancel culture. And I went to 643 00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:30,479 Speaker 2: law school. I read the book. 644 00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:34,360 Speaker 3: I read the book. I did see a psychic and 645 00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:37,960 Speaker 3: she said that my partner is a lawyer and she 646 00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:39,000 Speaker 3: sees him in a suit. 647 00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:41,200 Speaker 2: Now you've you've seen a psychic recently. 648 00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:43,840 Speaker 1: I saw a psychic two days ago. 649 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:45,360 Speaker 2: Not the same one as before. 650 00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:47,360 Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no, no, no different. 651 00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:50,600 Speaker 2: I gotta say, with some distance. I didn't like that one. 652 00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:53,760 Speaker 3: No, I know, and that one's in the past, right, 653 00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:55,920 Speaker 3: that one's in the past. But this is actually a 654 00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:59,719 Speaker 3: friend of mine, an old friend of mine, and I 655 00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:02,840 Speaker 3: got a reading done over the phone and it was 656 00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:07,000 Speaker 3: really interesting. And she said that she sees my partner 657 00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,400 Speaker 3: as being in a suit and they're going to be 658 00:31:10,400 --> 00:31:13,160 Speaker 3: a very solid person, and they are not. She says, 659 00:31:13,320 --> 00:31:16,640 Speaker 3: this is really important. Not in the entertainment industry. 660 00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,200 Speaker 2: Oh, I was gonna say, it's gonna be ted sarandos, 661 00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:21,040 Speaker 2: it's gonna be your husband. 662 00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:26,240 Speaker 3: Wouldn't fuck them anymore? Maybe back in the day now 663 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:28,000 Speaker 3: with the strike, can't be fucking ted. 664 00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:33,480 Speaker 2: Maybe in the DVD era, sure maybe, Yeah, well that's exciting. 665 00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:35,600 Speaker 2: How do you feel about that a dinas suit not 666 00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:36,760 Speaker 2: in the entertainment industry. 667 00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:40,400 Speaker 3: I'm so psyched that this person said that they're not 668 00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:44,400 Speaker 3: in the entertainment industry because now it's like liability. Well 669 00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:47,160 Speaker 3: now it's like you can rule everyone out, which I love, Oh. 670 00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:49,240 Speaker 2: My god, everyone. 671 00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:53,440 Speaker 3: I don't think a relationship with someone in the entertainment 672 00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:55,800 Speaker 3: industry is for me or for you for that matter. 673 00:31:56,600 --> 00:32:00,320 Speaker 2: I go back and forth and forth and back, and 674 00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:03,560 Speaker 2: I don't know, do you feel like they can't be 675 00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,640 Speaker 2: anywhere near it? Like you wouldn't date like a fucking 676 00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:12,120 Speaker 2: grip or something, you know what I mean? 677 00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:14,840 Speaker 3: You know what I guess, Like when I say in 678 00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:18,640 Speaker 3: the entertainment industry, I guess I mean like an entertainer 679 00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:22,000 Speaker 3: or someone that's like really in it, like someone that's like, 680 00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:24,280 Speaker 3: I guess, too similar to me and what I do. 681 00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:28,960 Speaker 3: I'm excited about that being off the table, just because honestly, 682 00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:31,760 Speaker 3: like I guess, the stupid pie in the sky thing 683 00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:34,520 Speaker 3: of being like I just want to someone who gets it, 684 00:32:34,640 --> 00:32:36,880 Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Like, but that is ultimately it, right, 685 00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:38,920 Speaker 3: Like you want to say, someone who gets it and 686 00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:41,880 Speaker 3: is like a respector and a fan and supporter of 687 00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:43,840 Speaker 3: what you do, but not someone that also. 688 00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:45,200 Speaker 1: Does it totally. 689 00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:47,800 Speaker 2: And you just want some because because what I'm all 690 00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,120 Speaker 2: about right now is like I need someone to like 691 00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:55,080 Speaker 2: broaden my life, and I feel like the best way 692 00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:58,720 Speaker 2: to that is on some professional occupational levels for them 693 00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:04,520 Speaker 2: to like give me something different, bringing in new stream 694 00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:06,640 Speaker 2: of reality. If that makes sense, you know. 695 00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:10,000 Speaker 3: So ground, you know what I mean, Like, that's another 696 00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:12,360 Speaker 3: whole part of it. I should also say, like two 697 00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:16,560 Speaker 3: out of my three x's have been in the entertainment industry, 698 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:17,600 Speaker 3: and that was never the. 699 00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:18,720 Speaker 1: Problem, you know what I mean. 700 00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:22,560 Speaker 3: Like then, yeah, it's not like it's like a hard no, 701 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:28,400 Speaker 3: it's just helpful that a psychic said it, and we 702 00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:34,240 Speaker 3: trust this one, I think, so yeah, okay, I mean okay. 703 00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:37,280 Speaker 1: Also, what else did she say? She said, like, well, 704 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:39,920 Speaker 1: I don't know. Well, she also said, she's like, you 705 00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,080 Speaker 1: have to talk about the things that you go through. 706 00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:42,760 Speaker 1: You have to. 707 00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:46,600 Speaker 2: You have to as if you don't. Well, I feel 708 00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:48,200 Speaker 2: like you do a great job and I really do 709 00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:49,880 Speaker 2: compliment you. I feel like you are one of the 710 00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:51,800 Speaker 2: most emotionally cogent people I know. 711 00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:55,440 Speaker 3: I try to do a respectful job now of sharing 712 00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:57,840 Speaker 3: what I'm going through with respect to people in my life. 713 00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:01,280 Speaker 3: I try to do a respectful job while so honoring 714 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:04,479 Speaker 3: myself and what I'm going through whatever, but also not 715 00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:05,760 Speaker 3: being who I was like back. 716 00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:09,000 Speaker 1: In the day, like being like today, Henry did this. 717 00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:11,560 Speaker 2: We were young. 718 00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:14,839 Speaker 1: We were so young. Years ago. 719 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:17,240 Speaker 2: We were young, and that's a rule of culture number 720 00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:21,680 Speaker 2: seventy two years ago. When we were young. 721 00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:23,920 Speaker 1: They made mistakes. 722 00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:26,840 Speaker 2: Well, you sharing details about your life with Henry was 723 00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:28,560 Speaker 2: never an issue either, was it. 724 00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:31,319 Speaker 1: It was with him. It was with him. 725 00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:34,239 Speaker 3: He was like, hey, did you say this thing on 726 00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:36,400 Speaker 3: the podcast because people are asked me about it? And 727 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:39,000 Speaker 3: I was like, oh, yeah, I guess I did, And 728 00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:42,200 Speaker 3: I don't know. It's just like it's that's a weird thing. 729 00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:46,920 Speaker 3: But also it's like I feel like anybody that like 730 00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:52,400 Speaker 3: knows who we are, knows that we get on the 731 00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:54,719 Speaker 3: podcast episodes like this where we talk to each other 732 00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:56,880 Speaker 3: about what's going on. So like, if that's not for you, like, 733 00:34:57,920 --> 00:34:59,920 Speaker 3: don't try to stick a finger in my buttole then 734 00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:01,000 Speaker 3: I know. 735 00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:04,680 Speaker 2: You only stick it in there if that's for you. 736 00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:07,000 Speaker 2: If you're okay with being talked about. 737 00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:12,080 Speaker 3: If you hear this podcast and you say, wow, that's 738 00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:14,319 Speaker 3: really crazy they went into this that the other thing. 739 00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:17,279 Speaker 3: And then you see us at tai Te, don't come 740 00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:18,840 Speaker 3: over to us and try to stick your finger in 741 00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:20,040 Speaker 3: my in our buttthle. 742 00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:21,080 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 743 00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:25,319 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. Only do it if if 744 00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:26,879 Speaker 2: you don't know, Like. 745 00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,400 Speaker 3: Imagine me a baggot coming up to you at my 746 00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:32,520 Speaker 3: fucking knockdown center. Ready, I'm styling up to you like 747 00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:35,359 Speaker 3: dance tie I du Alipa is playing. I'm like, hey, 748 00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:37,920 Speaker 3: suddenly you feel my hands slide down your butt and 749 00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:40,680 Speaker 3: I start to finger your butthole, and I go, I 750 00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:45,520 Speaker 3: really have been identifying with your lexapro journey. 751 00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:46,600 Speaker 2: That's so nice. 752 00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:49,000 Speaker 1: What are you doing fingering? 753 00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:49,319 Speaker 3: Yeah? 754 00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:51,600 Speaker 1: Ow, you're. 755 00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:58,799 Speaker 3: Remember when we went to Miami. Yes, that was a fingerfest. 756 00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:01,440 Speaker 3: Remember when we went to that one night club in Miami. 757 00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:02,040 Speaker 1: Oh my god? 758 00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:03,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, who was getting fingered? 759 00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:08,600 Speaker 3: Oh shit, we were in Miami. We weren to that 760 00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:10,200 Speaker 3: one like super duper club. 761 00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:11,440 Speaker 2: Were you getting fingered? 762 00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:13,439 Speaker 1: So I went out to the middle. 763 00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:15,640 Speaker 3: Sometimes I'll go out into the middle of the dance floor, 764 00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:18,160 Speaker 3: like just by myself and just like float around and 765 00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:20,879 Speaker 3: like sometimes you'll start dancing with a guy and like 766 00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:22,760 Speaker 3: I was just getting fingered. 767 00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:28,040 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I had no idea. Oh yeah, this 768 00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:30,319 Speaker 2: is one of those moments where and I think it's 769 00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:33,799 Speaker 2: just important to acknowledge where I feel like you and 770 00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:38,960 Speaker 2: I are in different realities in a space like that. 771 00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:41,239 Speaker 1: Let's just say that. I mean, you might be right. 772 00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:44,439 Speaker 3: But also here's what I'll say if you sore out 773 00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:46,239 Speaker 3: there and you go up to someone and you go hey, 774 00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:48,279 Speaker 3: and you put your hands around their neck like this, 775 00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,480 Speaker 3: and explain to them how I'm dancing right now. 776 00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:57,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, Matt is basically so seductively putting his arms around 777 00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:57,680 Speaker 2: your neck. 778 00:36:58,080 --> 00:36:59,759 Speaker 1: And I'm also wiggling my butt and. 779 00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:02,759 Speaker 2: He's wiggling his butt. He's like really like opening up. 780 00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:05,080 Speaker 3: You could get a finger slit in there if someone 781 00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:08,000 Speaker 3: digit would slip. I don't think anyone looks at me 782 00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:09,839 Speaker 3: and goes, I'm a finger him. 783 00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:10,640 Speaker 2: I'm gonna finger him. 784 00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:13,160 Speaker 3: I have to tell you that's definitely wrong. I think 785 00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:14,600 Speaker 3: people definitely want to finger you. 786 00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:28,279 Speaker 2: Speaking of a terring experience I had in Amsterdam, went 787 00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:30,799 Speaker 2: to the bathhouse. I was like this is not the 788 00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:33,800 Speaker 2: place for me, was getting no play. I was like, okay, whatever, 789 00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:34,560 Speaker 2: and then I left. 790 00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:35,640 Speaker 1: I hate it. 791 00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:38,839 Speaker 2: It's truly a thing where like even like Julio talks 792 00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:40,359 Speaker 2: about going to like Planet Pride, and he's like when 793 00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:41,840 Speaker 2: no one was florting with me. So I walked across 794 00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:43,680 Speaker 2: the street direct and I had a great time. I 795 00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:46,240 Speaker 2: was like, if no one's floating with Julio in a space, 796 00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:48,840 Speaker 2: then like there's no hope. 797 00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:51,760 Speaker 1: That's because they're all on gene. Can't see anything. 798 00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:54,879 Speaker 3: By the way, like we have problems with the G thing, 799 00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:57,560 Speaker 3: and this is good, this is gonna like light, this 800 00:37:57,640 --> 00:37:59,759 Speaker 3: is good up, But like you guys are taking it 801 00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:02,680 Speaker 3: to far. I mean, it's crazy you go to spaces 802 00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:08,319 Speaker 3: now everyone's a fucking soulless personality less zombie because the 803 00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:11,480 Speaker 3: G thing has gone too fucking far. 804 00:38:12,000 --> 00:38:15,600 Speaker 1: It's just weird when you're doing it all the time. 805 00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:19,239 Speaker 2: I think it's a scourge on our community. And I 806 00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:23,000 Speaker 2: know we sound like fucking squares squares squares. 807 00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:24,520 Speaker 1: So I think it's an issue. 808 00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:26,200 Speaker 2: I think it's I was gonna say, I know it 809 00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:29,359 Speaker 2: seems like we're like, oh, drugs, but literally not all 810 00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:32,920 Speaker 2: drugs are created equal No, this is literally a drug 811 00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:38,400 Speaker 2: that is lethal if it is like not so carefully used. 812 00:38:38,880 --> 00:38:43,280 Speaker 2: What's g Hans's ass? What's GHB? It is more commonly 813 00:38:43,280 --> 00:38:46,920 Speaker 2: known as the date rape drug gamma hydroxy buttric acid. 814 00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:49,840 Speaker 3: You put it in alcohol, you know, you fucking know 815 00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:53,960 Speaker 3: you put it in it? You oh yeah, yeah, yeah, 816 00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:57,319 Speaker 3: yeah yeah. So basically, like it's like an alternative to 817 00:38:57,400 --> 00:38:59,959 Speaker 3: drinking alcohol that tons and tons and tons and tons 818 00:38:59,920 --> 00:39:03,080 Speaker 3: of gay men do now. And it's gotten to the 819 00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:05,000 Speaker 3: point where like I'll be at a party and it'll 820 00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:08,200 Speaker 3: be most gays are just doing g and I'm like, 821 00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:11,719 Speaker 3: then you sort of see them like fade out, and 822 00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:17,040 Speaker 3: I'm like, why are we a creative, dynamic, like gorgeous 823 00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:19,680 Speaker 3: community that can connect with each other only to not 824 00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:20,319 Speaker 3: do that? 825 00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:23,520 Speaker 2: My thing is, I feel like at this point, almost 826 00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:28,360 Speaker 2: everybody in this gay community of ours the world over, 827 00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:32,960 Speaker 2: has been affected by a g moment in that I 828 00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:36,080 Speaker 2: literally had to help a stranger like get home, put 829 00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:38,279 Speaker 2: them in a fucking uber a person I don't know 830 00:39:38,320 --> 00:39:41,000 Speaker 2: from fucking adam, Yeah, to make sure they didn't die. 831 00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:45,239 Speaker 2: I'm like, this is ruining my You're ruining my night. 832 00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:48,200 Speaker 1: No, it's getting weird. It's almost like weird to even 833 00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:52,400 Speaker 1: bring up because it's so commonplace, and it's just to 834 00:39:52,400 --> 00:39:53,080 Speaker 1: the point where. 835 00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:56,120 Speaker 2: I'm just find taking this stance, fine, this stance. 836 00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:58,560 Speaker 3: Like mid thirties, let's like zoom out and look at 837 00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:01,200 Speaker 3: our life for a second, Like, let's be real with 838 00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:05,239 Speaker 3: each other here. This is not why we're doing this. 839 00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:07,680 Speaker 3: And I honestly, I'm not saying this like fuck you. 840 00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:11,400 Speaker 3: I'm trying to see actionionately, I'm just saying it's really 841 00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:12,880 Speaker 3: getting weird. 842 00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:15,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how I feel. Is I am not like 843 00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:17,640 Speaker 2: telling people how to live their lives. I'm just going 844 00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:21,120 Speaker 2: there is a collective thing happening here that is it 845 00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:26,440 Speaker 2: strange to me to be noticed anyway? What's coming on 846 00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:27,919 Speaker 2: with uncoupling? 847 00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:29,640 Speaker 1: What's going on with uncoupling? 848 00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:32,560 Speaker 2: Divorce? Divorces in the air? 849 00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:33,920 Speaker 1: Who's divorced? 850 00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:42,400 Speaker 3: Now? Oh wait, everybody, now, okay, let's see Trudeau. Oh 851 00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:44,560 Speaker 3: someone's everybody hold on? 852 00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:45,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, goo goo goo. 853 00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:48,560 Speaker 3: Someone was like, kim k is gonna go for Trudeau. 854 00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:53,440 Speaker 3: That's so funny. I can see Tylor Swift going for Trudeau. 855 00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:56,000 Speaker 3: I can see Kim Ka, I can see Kylie Jenner, 856 00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:57,040 Speaker 3: I can. 857 00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:59,960 Speaker 2: See oh my god, Well look here's what's going on. 858 00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:04,239 Speaker 2: We've got fucking Trudeau, Deblasio and his wife and Lane 859 00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:10,200 Speaker 2: Billy Porter. So if you ever got and Joe Manginiello, Oh. 860 00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:15,000 Speaker 3: Right, I knew about that, Rosilia Rita Noles, oh Tina. 861 00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:18,719 Speaker 2: The list goes on like something is happening this sum 862 00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:19,759 Speaker 2: this is breakup here. 863 00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:23,040 Speaker 3: I'm telling you twenty twenty three. It's something going on. 864 00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:26,560 Speaker 3: It's something, something is in. 865 00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:29,440 Speaker 2: How do you feeling trend? How do you feel being 866 00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:30,680 Speaker 2: on trend with breakup? 867 00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:34,799 Speaker 1: I feel being on trend not good. I mean like 868 00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:37,800 Speaker 1: it's it's horrible. Going through a breakup is horrible. 869 00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:40,239 Speaker 2: It's awful. There's no way to make it chic or 870 00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:42,800 Speaker 2: like ooh, it's it's in right now, Like it doesn't 871 00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:44,279 Speaker 2: make it any no. 872 00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:47,319 Speaker 3: And also it's like it's equally it not maybe not 873 00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:50,200 Speaker 3: equally painful, but it's so painful to be the person 874 00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:53,480 Speaker 3: doing it as well as the person going through it, 875 00:41:53,800 --> 00:41:56,160 Speaker 3: and it honestly chases you away from even getting into 876 00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:59,279 Speaker 3: relationships in the first place, which is like something I'm 877 00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:01,640 Speaker 3: sort of dealing with now is it's like I'm definitely 878 00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:06,520 Speaker 3: dating a good bit, but I am so hesitant to 879 00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:10,360 Speaker 3: get into something with someone that can hurt me in 880 00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:13,480 Speaker 3: the ways in which I have been hurt had to 881 00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:16,680 Speaker 3: hurt other people. Like it's almost like when you go 882 00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:19,000 Speaker 3: on a date with someone and it's going good, you 883 00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:20,879 Speaker 3: look them in the eyes and you're like. 884 00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:23,839 Speaker 1: So are we going to ruin each other's lives or what? 885 00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:24,759 Speaker 2: Oh? 886 00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:27,840 Speaker 1: You know what I mean. It's just like, are we 887 00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:30,520 Speaker 1: going to get into it or what? Like? 888 00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:36,000 Speaker 3: Are you going to be the person that I. 889 00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:36,200 Speaker 1: Have to cry with? 890 00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:37,920 Speaker 2: What's the Brockovic line? 891 00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:39,760 Speaker 1: Are you going to be? You're going to be another 892 00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:43,080 Speaker 1: thing that I have to survive. Oh what, I'm not 893 00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:43,680 Speaker 1: up to it? 894 00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:47,439 Speaker 2: And I'm not I'm actually not. 895 00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:48,799 Speaker 1: How said this to me the other day. 896 00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:50,560 Speaker 3: He was like, I feel like you need to take 897 00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:52,480 Speaker 3: a break because you don't know what you want. And 898 00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:53,960 Speaker 3: I was like, it's not even that I don't know 899 00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:54,520 Speaker 3: what I want. 900 00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:59,520 Speaker 1: He said, I'm not up to the emotions that go 901 00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:03,759 Speaker 1: with I don't know. It's so difficult. 902 00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:09,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I completely understand, and it makes me sad because 903 00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:13,040 Speaker 2: I feel like you deserve everything you want. 904 00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:16,040 Speaker 3: I mean likewise, but the thing is like it is 905 00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:18,640 Speaker 3: fucking hard to get there, and it's work, and then 906 00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:20,839 Speaker 3: you start to feel like I don't want I don't 907 00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:22,880 Speaker 3: want to be like, you know, a chump for not 908 00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:24,840 Speaker 3: wanting to go through it again. But it's just difficult, 909 00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:28,240 Speaker 3: I think, especially like when you do have a lot 910 00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:30,880 Speaker 3: to give and I feel like another thing. The psychic 911 00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:32,960 Speaker 3: said to me, She was like, well, you have the 912 00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:37,160 Speaker 3: you have the ability to love unconditionally. Congratulations. And I 913 00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:38,920 Speaker 3: was just like and I was like, yeah, I think 914 00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:42,640 Speaker 3: I know that's true, which is why when it feels 915 00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:45,520 Speaker 3: conditional for someone else or you realize when things change 916 00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:47,440 Speaker 3: it's just like too painful. 917 00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:49,719 Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I think what's happening too for you 918 00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:54,400 Speaker 2: is that in order to like avoid pain or like 919 00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:59,160 Speaker 2: heavy investment or some such like, you are then selecting. 920 00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:01,719 Speaker 2: There's a selection process there where it's like then you 921 00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:03,319 Speaker 2: just end up going on like a bunch of I'm 922 00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:04,840 Speaker 2: not saying this is what's happening, but then it's like 923 00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:07,839 Speaker 2: it creates a thing where it's like you would only 924 00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:10,160 Speaker 2: go on like mid dates anywhere where like the guy 925 00:44:10,160 --> 00:44:13,080 Speaker 2: doesn't challenge you or doesn't stimulate or spark something. 926 00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:17,720 Speaker 1: Not challenging, it's certainly not happening. 927 00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:20,520 Speaker 3: Like I'm definitely a lot pickier and choosier with if 928 00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:22,440 Speaker 3: I I mean, we've said this, like if I go 929 00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:24,319 Speaker 3: out with someone, like I really want to be there, 930 00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:25,959 Speaker 3: like and I feel like you're the same way. 931 00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:28,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, kind of. I feel like I'll take what I 932 00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:29,640 Speaker 2: can get. 933 00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:32,240 Speaker 1: At this point. No, that's so, that's that's wrong. 934 00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:36,880 Speaker 2: It's okay, it's fine, it's fine. Can I just say 935 00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:40,680 Speaker 2: I think the Lexipro is doing good things? And I 936 00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:45,160 Speaker 2: do feel like I am, like Miles Leagues, in a 937 00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:46,200 Speaker 2: better place than I was. 938 00:44:46,400 --> 00:44:48,400 Speaker 1: You really seem so much better. 939 00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:49,080 Speaker 2: You can tell girl. 940 00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:52,319 Speaker 1: Absolutely, Oh my god, that's good. 941 00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:55,560 Speaker 3: I also think you're now even though it's like weird 942 00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:57,359 Speaker 3: because everything is shut down, It's like you are now 943 00:44:57,400 --> 00:44:59,719 Speaker 3: living like a normal life, you know what I mean. 944 00:44:59,840 --> 00:45:02,680 Speaker 3: Like your life was abnormal, your life like is abnormal. 945 00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:05,120 Speaker 2: I know. I picked up dry cleaning today. It's at 946 00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:07,279 Speaker 2: that Charlie Barday tweet. It's like, right, oh, Like if 947 00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:09,279 Speaker 2: I see someone with dry cleaning, I go, that's a 948 00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:11,720 Speaker 2: fucking errand I'm like, I'm running errands. 949 00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:11,960 Speaker 1: You know what. 950 00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:14,520 Speaker 3: Like I had dinner with Sweety last night. By the way, 951 00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:17,200 Speaker 3: we need to do sometime over the next month or two. 952 00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:18,240 Speaker 2: This's happening. 953 00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:20,239 Speaker 3: It will be a late summer of Compo. I was 954 00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:23,000 Speaker 3: talking to her last night and she was like, you know, 955 00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:26,880 Speaker 3: it's so interesting, like especially with the strike and everything 956 00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:28,680 Speaker 3: with no one working, like you can sort of focus 957 00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:32,719 Speaker 3: on like what is like a routine, because she was 958 00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:35,240 Speaker 3: saying like it's very difficult for her to get anything 959 00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:38,880 Speaker 3: done without a routine. So she was saying, like, you know, 960 00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:42,480 Speaker 3: I wake up in the morning, like I make my coffee, 961 00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:45,480 Speaker 3: I do my thing, like I have like a set 962 00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:48,000 Speaker 3: schedule of things I do. And then I said to 963 00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:49,759 Speaker 3: her when she was saying at the end of all 964 00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:51,919 Speaker 3: this like routine stuff, I was like, you know, that's 965 00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:55,279 Speaker 3: like an adult, normal life, and she's like, yeah, it is. 966 00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:57,239 Speaker 3: And I don't have to feel guilty that I'm not 967 00:45:57,320 --> 00:45:59,960 Speaker 3: like doing other things. It's just like I don't know, 968 00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:03,560 Speaker 3: like like sometimes I the best days I have are 969 00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:06,359 Speaker 3: when I feel like I accomplished small tasks, like I 970 00:46:06,400 --> 00:46:07,160 Speaker 3: did launch this. 971 00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:09,399 Speaker 1: I like went and picked up. 972 00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:11,239 Speaker 3: Something that I've been meaning to get, Like there's been 973 00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:13,759 Speaker 3: like weeks and weeks and weeks where I've needed to 974 00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:16,560 Speaker 3: go get laundry detergent, and I went out and got it. 975 00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:20,280 Speaker 3: And I was like, in the words of Ken Ryan, Gosling. 976 00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:24,080 Speaker 3: I said, sublime, Oh my god, just like little things 977 00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:26,399 Speaker 3: that now you have the time to do, which would 978 00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:29,080 Speaker 3: have been so overwhelming for you, which is wrong. 979 00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:33,759 Speaker 2: I mean, it is literally sublime in the sense that 980 00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:38,400 Speaker 2: it's like beyond good, beyond great, it's something deeper than good. 981 00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:41,640 Speaker 2: It's like, wow, this feels right. 982 00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:43,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I just. 983 00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:47,600 Speaker 3: Do like tiny little human things for yourself. I know, literally, 984 00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:50,560 Speaker 3: but you seem so much better because that's the. 985 00:46:50,520 --> 00:46:51,600 Speaker 1: Case, right. 986 00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:54,560 Speaker 2: I'm just worried that like the luxepro is not the 987 00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:57,279 Speaker 2: right doll. I might be more of a pro zac 988 00:46:57,400 --> 00:46:59,719 Speaker 2: rizol off situation. But I don't have I literally don't 989 00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:03,839 Speaker 2: have the time to be like fucking knocked off of 990 00:47:03,840 --> 00:47:06,320 Speaker 2: my feet for two weeks per drug, you know what 991 00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:06,600 Speaker 2: I mean? 992 00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:09,080 Speaker 3: Maybe, but can I say you do have the time, 993 00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:12,400 Speaker 3: You do have the time, and yet I feel like 994 00:47:13,400 --> 00:47:14,200 Speaker 3: this is what happens. 995 00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:18,319 Speaker 2: I've been like waking up zombifide and then I go 996 00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:21,200 Speaker 2: and then I think it's okay because literally, Katie Gavin 997 00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:23,800 Speaker 2: Muna we were talking and they were asking me like, well, 998 00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:25,759 Speaker 2: is it a good kind of tired or is it 999 00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:28,400 Speaker 2: like is it a good kind of like down or 1000 00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:29,759 Speaker 2: is it a bad kind of down. I'm like, oh, 1001 00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:32,319 Speaker 2: that's such an interesting nuanced question, and I was like, 1002 00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:34,719 Speaker 2: I can't tell yet, but I think what happens is 1003 00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:38,719 Speaker 2: I wake up zombifide and I go, huh, that's interesting, 1004 00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:42,560 Speaker 2: and then I immediately start to feel bad about feeling tired, 1005 00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:44,160 Speaker 2: as if I'm not doing enough with my day, and 1006 00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:46,880 Speaker 2: yet I am kind of doing stuff with my days. 1007 00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:49,279 Speaker 2: I am like going to the gym, I'm like picking 1008 00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:52,480 Speaker 2: up dry cleaning, I'm like doing shit. And this is 1009 00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:55,799 Speaker 2: just the adjustment I think that, Like, for me, what 1010 00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:59,560 Speaker 2: I've experienced is well, one thing is my anxiety is 1011 00:47:59,560 --> 00:47:59,960 Speaker 2: like kind of. 1012 00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:02,760 Speaker 1: Gone, which has really been a big change. 1013 00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:05,480 Speaker 3: Like for example, like last week, the second day I 1014 00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:08,040 Speaker 3: went to Eras, I was going to meet up with 1015 00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:11,960 Speaker 3: a bunch of like people, many of whom I didn't 1016 00:48:12,000 --> 00:48:14,680 Speaker 3: really know, to pregame before the concert. And that is 1017 00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:16,879 Speaker 3: the kind of thing that would have driven me up 1018 00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:19,200 Speaker 3: the wall with anxiety, especially because low key there were 1019 00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:20,719 Speaker 3: going to be like a lot of hot gays there 1020 00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:23,160 Speaker 3: and so or like what I perceived to be like 1021 00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:25,120 Speaker 3: you know, like certain, and so I was getting like 1022 00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:26,840 Speaker 3: a little anxious I was, And that's the kind of 1023 00:48:26,880 --> 00:48:29,359 Speaker 3: thing like that I even started therapy to deal with 1024 00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:33,839 Speaker 3: is just like gatherings of large strangers of gay men. 1025 00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:36,839 Speaker 3: They're strangers, like just like that makes me nervous. And 1026 00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:38,520 Speaker 3: so I walked into this thing and I was like, 1027 00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:40,200 Speaker 3: oh my god, I didn't even think about the fact 1028 00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:42,480 Speaker 3: that I would ordinarily be really anxious about this, Like 1029 00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:45,960 Speaker 3: that was eliminated. So maybe what you're experiencing is like 1030 00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:49,480 Speaker 3: you used to have a comfort with feeling emotions in 1031 00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:53,279 Speaker 3: more extreme and because you're not feeling those emotions and 1032 00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:56,800 Speaker 3: extremes are like because you're not like moved to feel 1033 00:48:57,280 --> 00:49:00,560 Speaker 3: by every little thing, you're thinking, like there's something that's 1034 00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:01,560 Speaker 3: like keeping me down? 1035 00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:02,719 Speaker 1: Is that maybe it? 1036 00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:08,160 Speaker 2: Probably I think maybe with serotonin re entering my system, 1037 00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:12,520 Speaker 2: with the noise in my head sort of dissipating, that 1038 00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:15,719 Speaker 2: has been the thing that is like kept me up 1039 00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:19,319 Speaker 2: and awake and alert at all times. Like that, yeah, 1040 00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:22,479 Speaker 2: that anxiety, and now that that is going away, there's 1041 00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:25,680 Speaker 2: no buttressing for my energy, so it fucking crashes and 1042 00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:28,920 Speaker 2: I'm going, yeah, whoa was that the engine I was 1043 00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:31,920 Speaker 2: running on this whole time? Because literally working at my 1044 00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:36,000 Speaker 2: day job, it is like every day of the week, 1045 00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:39,239 Speaker 2: your emotions are being driven one way or the other. 1046 00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:41,439 Speaker 2: It's like a fucking switchboard. It's like either you feel 1047 00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:43,839 Speaker 2: great on Wednesday or you feel terrible on Wednesday. Either 1048 00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:46,920 Speaker 2: you feel amazing on Saturday or you feel it's like 1049 00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:49,880 Speaker 2: and every week it's that. And then on top of that, 1050 00:49:49,920 --> 00:49:51,680 Speaker 2: it was the travel and whatever. 1051 00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:55,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, and also probably something chemical and also not for nothing. 1052 00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:57,399 Speaker 3: But maybe this will be a good thing because it'll 1053 00:49:57,400 --> 00:50:00,479 Speaker 3: neutralize those feelings. I'm interested to see how you feel 1054 00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:02,680 Speaker 3: when you go back on this. Me too, if you 1055 00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:05,160 Speaker 3: stick with it, if it ever comes back. 1056 00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:12,319 Speaker 2: Truly, who knows. 1057 00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:18,680 Speaker 3: Let's get into I don't think so, honey, Okay, might 1058 00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:20,840 Speaker 3: have to be a messy I kind of want to 1059 00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:23,240 Speaker 3: get messy too. It's kind of been a messy episode, 1060 00:50:23,280 --> 00:50:24,839 Speaker 3: so why the fuck out? Whatever else do it? 1061 00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:27,239 Speaker 2: This has been a beautifully messy episode, hasn't it? 1062 00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:27,560 Speaker 1: Okay? 1063 00:50:28,280 --> 00:50:30,200 Speaker 2: This is Matt Rogers. I don't think so, honey. As 1064 00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:31,160 Speaker 2: time starts now. 1065 00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:34,000 Speaker 1: I don't think so honey. Grinder, I deleted it. You 1066 00:50:34,120 --> 00:50:34,640 Speaker 1: can too. 1067 00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:39,160 Speaker 3: There's a lot of other, you know, hookup apps and 1068 00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:40,920 Speaker 3: dating apps you can use. 1069 00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:45,719 Speaker 1: I just think the app is too toxic, and I'm 1070 00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:47,399 Speaker 1: gonna be real. You can look it up. 1071 00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:50,400 Speaker 3: They just fired in retaliation a whole bunch of their 1072 00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:53,400 Speaker 3: employees just because they wanted to unionize, and that was 1073 00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:56,759 Speaker 3: completely unfair And it's bullshit. And I have people that 1074 00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:58,880 Speaker 3: I love and care about that were. 1075 00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:01,920 Speaker 1: Affected by it. Toxic app, toxic company. 1076 00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:06,040 Speaker 3: I mean, it's just whenever you hear the word, it 1077 00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:08,120 Speaker 3: kind of sends a chill up your spine. So why 1078 00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:10,920 Speaker 3: are we doing it? Here's my message to the gay community. 1079 00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:13,239 Speaker 3: You don't have to do fucking anything you don't want 1080 00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:15,319 Speaker 3: to do. So if you don't want to be on 1081 00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:19,959 Speaker 3: this second, fucking delete it because I did and I'm 1082 00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:23,240 Speaker 3: doing just fine. And you go on Instagram it's basically 1083 00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:25,560 Speaker 3: a hookup app. You go on all these other ones. 1084 00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:27,160 Speaker 3: Do you want to sniff it up? 1085 00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:27,480 Speaker 2: Girl? 1086 00:51:27,680 --> 00:51:28,319 Speaker 1: Do that thing? 1087 00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:30,560 Speaker 3: I'm just saying, because everyone's doing it, you don't have 1088 00:51:30,560 --> 00:51:33,320 Speaker 3: to do it, grinder included. I don't think so, honey. 1089 00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:38,439 Speaker 2: That's one minute beautiful fucking union busting. I mean, it's like. 1090 00:51:38,480 --> 00:51:41,440 Speaker 1: That bullshit, evil, evil. 1091 00:51:41,520 --> 00:51:46,440 Speaker 2: Legally, very very murky. To fucking retaliate against your employees 1092 00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:49,880 Speaker 2: for wanting to unionize, like not the right thing to do. 1093 00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:52,480 Speaker 2: I think they fucked up and by like letting go 1094 00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:56,640 Speaker 2: of all other people disgusting and a terrible app terrible 1095 00:51:56,680 --> 00:52:03,520 Speaker 2: fucking pay structure that those tears are fucking stupid, extra unlimited. 1096 00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:08,080 Speaker 2: It don't make no sense. I have nothing good to say. 1097 00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:11,319 Speaker 3: It's gotten to the point where it's like, I don't know, 1098 00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:12,719 Speaker 3: it's kind of like Twitter at this point, you know, 1099 00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:14,839 Speaker 3: where it's been, like, let's move on. It makes us 1100 00:52:14,880 --> 00:52:18,120 Speaker 3: feel bad. It makes us feel bad, and like now 1101 00:52:18,160 --> 00:52:21,120 Speaker 3: we have like black and white proof that like it's 1102 00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:22,600 Speaker 3: just as shitty on the inside. 1103 00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:24,840 Speaker 1: And that's my I don't think so, honey. 1104 00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:28,759 Speaker 2: Everybody listening who uses it, think about the last great 1105 00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:29,839 Speaker 2: experience you had. 1106 00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:34,239 Speaker 3: I might have been great seven, Yeah, yeah, I might 1107 00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:36,759 Speaker 3: have been twenty five, twenty six, twenty seven, And maybe 1108 00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:39,600 Speaker 3: it was good because it was the first like good 1109 00:52:39,680 --> 00:52:42,000 Speaker 3: random sex I had had, but that wasn't because of the. 1110 00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:45,719 Speaker 2: Ap No no, no, no, okay. 1111 00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:50,120 Speaker 1: Hate that shit anyway. Okay, this is Bowen Yang's I 1112 00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:52,759 Speaker 1: don't think so, honey, And this time starts. 1113 00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:55,520 Speaker 2: Now, I don't think so, honey. The Real House Days 1114 00:52:55,560 --> 00:52:59,080 Speaker 2: of New York City, Season fourteen. I'm sticking with you 1115 00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:04,160 Speaker 2: to the end. I am really this episode. I like listen. 1116 00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:05,920 Speaker 2: I didn't finish it, but I hear is bring the 1117 00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:08,320 Speaker 2: new villain now or something? I can't keep up anymore. 1118 00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:10,399 Speaker 2: And it's already We're only four episodes in and I'm 1119 00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:15,200 Speaker 2: already like falling off. Listen what I am gonna stick 1120 00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:17,279 Speaker 2: with it? But I am. I think we need to 1121 00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:22,440 Speaker 2: stop pretending like it's like an amazing new reset. I 1122 00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:25,400 Speaker 2: think I'm still going back and watching the old episodes 1123 00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:28,680 Speaker 2: and going and look, I would say this openly to 1124 00:53:28,920 --> 00:53:32,600 Speaker 2: you know, people's faces, important people's faces. I would say, 1125 00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:36,000 Speaker 2: this is if not giving the give you know what 1126 00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:39,759 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm missing the energy the spark this had. 1127 00:53:39,880 --> 00:53:42,960 Speaker 2: Right now, this feels a little textureless. Jenna does not 1128 00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:45,360 Speaker 2: have what it takes to hold the center and to 1129 00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:47,480 Speaker 2: be in the center of the tableau. And so I 1130 00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:49,560 Speaker 2: just think we need to really give it a new 1131 00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:50,360 Speaker 2: shot of energy. 1132 00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:51,440 Speaker 1: And that's woman. 1133 00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:53,920 Speaker 3: I could not disagree more that I thought this was 1134 00:53:53,960 --> 00:53:57,280 Speaker 3: the best episode of the season. I like the season, 1135 00:53:57,800 --> 00:54:00,160 Speaker 3: all the women, and it's early bo I mean, and 1136 00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:02,359 Speaker 3: like with Housewives, it's like you have to look at 1137 00:54:02,400 --> 00:54:04,239 Speaker 3: as a collective season, and I think right now we're 1138 00:54:04,239 --> 00:54:06,000 Speaker 3: getting to know all of them and really getting to 1139 00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:09,319 Speaker 3: see like how they tick and everything. Like I mean, 1140 00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:11,920 Speaker 3: I almost feel like when a season, when a new 1141 00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:15,240 Speaker 3: franchise starts too hot, like salt Lake, it's like almost 1142 00:54:15,239 --> 00:54:17,880 Speaker 3: like it's setting it up to go down. 1143 00:54:18,040 --> 00:54:19,879 Speaker 2: Like I think we get two amazing seasons of salt 1144 00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:22,439 Speaker 2: Lake and then one dud season of for season three. 1145 00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:25,319 Speaker 2: But then I think I understand that there is like 1146 00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:28,040 Speaker 2: a cadence in a rhythm and like ebbs and flows. 1147 00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:32,000 Speaker 2: I just think I am not latching on the way 1148 00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:34,280 Speaker 2: that I would have hoped to. And I was really 1149 00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:37,600 Speaker 2: open to really getting into this season and I will 1150 00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:39,440 Speaker 2: and I'm sure I'm just saying right now, as of 1151 00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:41,759 Speaker 2: episode four, I'm like, who cares. 1152 00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:43,799 Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not saying you will eat your hat. 1153 00:54:43,840 --> 00:54:45,960 Speaker 3: I'm saying I hope you eat your hat because I 1154 00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:48,319 Speaker 3: hope so you really like it. I mean, like I 1155 00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:50,600 Speaker 3: think britn is a star who was also excellent un 1156 00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:52,959 Speaker 3: watch What Happens Live with Marlowe. I mean, you should 1157 00:54:53,000 --> 00:54:54,920 Speaker 3: definitely watch to the end. I think if there's some 1158 00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:58,400 Speaker 3: really interesting stuff there, like interesting contradictions on her personality 1159 00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:01,200 Speaker 3: that come out. I love Jenna. I think that she 1160 00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:04,040 Speaker 3: is doing an amazing job. I really enjoy watching her. 1161 00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:05,919 Speaker 3: I'm actually kind of obsessed with her. I fell down 1162 00:55:06,239 --> 00:55:08,279 Speaker 3: a YouTube wormhole of her the other day. 1163 00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:12,400 Speaker 2: I actually was incredible. I'm obsessed. She's popping up on 1164 00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:14,480 Speaker 2: my algorithm too on YouTube. I'm not saying she's not 1165 00:55:14,520 --> 00:55:17,439 Speaker 2: a star. I'm saying she any other season, any other city, 1166 00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:24,239 Speaker 2: she would be like the fun, quirky, not side housewife, 1167 00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:27,719 Speaker 2: but she would not be like carrying it. And I 1168 00:55:27,760 --> 00:55:30,000 Speaker 2: think they're relying her to carry this even though she 1169 00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:32,960 Speaker 2: seems a little uncomfortable doing that. That's what I'm saying. 1170 00:55:33,360 --> 00:55:36,439 Speaker 3: I think that she's starting to come into her own 1171 00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:39,560 Speaker 3: in that regard, and I think we're it has to marinate. 1172 00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:43,200 Speaker 3: But I guess what I'm saying is like I'm liking 1173 00:55:43,360 --> 00:55:46,520 Speaker 3: the energy of what I'm seeing. I also did order 1174 00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:49,000 Speaker 3: uber hat. I will stress it has not come yet, 1175 00:55:49,120 --> 00:55:51,279 Speaker 3: but I'm very excited for my uber hot Taste thing. 1176 00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:54,640 Speaker 3: I didn't know it's on Unperceived Things until oh yeah, 1177 00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:56,960 Speaker 3: And that's why this episode was so amazing. 1178 00:55:57,000 --> 00:55:59,320 Speaker 1: We found out that uber hat was on Oprah Severed Things. 1179 00:56:00,440 --> 00:56:05,440 Speaker 3: I respect your opinion, I respectfully disagree. I think this 1180 00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:07,480 Speaker 3: is gonna be something we watch moving forward. 1181 00:56:09,360 --> 00:56:09,720 Speaker 1: Space. 1182 00:56:09,920 --> 00:56:13,880 Speaker 3: This is atension between us. This episode was you know, 1183 00:56:13,960 --> 00:56:15,800 Speaker 3: we were sort of went there. 1184 00:56:16,520 --> 00:56:17,160 Speaker 2: We went there. 1185 00:56:17,440 --> 00:56:20,640 Speaker 3: Listen plann up for our Diamond subscription if you know 1186 00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:24,080 Speaker 3: what's good for you for the extra bonus con and 1187 00:56:24,120 --> 00:56:25,880 Speaker 3: it's good for you baby. And just as a little 1188 00:56:25,920 --> 00:56:28,560 Speaker 3: tip of the hat to an episode that just came out, 1189 00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:31,080 Speaker 3: we end every episode with a song. 1190 00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:42,799 Speaker 1: When it comes to the club, there's a gong. 1191 00:56:42,920 --> 00:56:45,000 Speaker 2: I listened to it the other day and they play 1192 00:56:45,000 --> 00:56:46,080 Speaker 2: a gong during that part. 1193 00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:50,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, but Fergie sort of is Isn't Ferggy like International? 1194 00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:53,600 Speaker 3: Isn't Forggy like every race? Sure? 1195 00:56:55,400 --> 00:57:03,920 Speaker 1: Bye,