WEBVTT - Second Date Update: A Slip of the Ex

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<v Speaker 1>And we got a new podcast for you. Welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>the Second Date Podcast Forging Jeffrey in the Morning. And

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<v Speaker 1>gotta get props to our guy today because he has

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<v Speaker 1>a pickup line that uses no words at all and

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<v Speaker 1>it works as Yeah, you're gonna hear what that is

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<v Speaker 1>in just a second. And of course we love highlighting

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<v Speaker 1>your lovely comments.

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<v Speaker 2>What do we see to Yeah, Patrese mctaniel said this

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<v Speaker 2>I love you guys, just about everyone. I want to

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we'll see if you like this. It's starting right.

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<v Speaker 4>Now, Second Date Up Date.

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<v Speaker 5>It's always interesting to me that we have just as

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<v Speaker 5>many guys listen to our show as we do ladies.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, yeah, on our podcast we have more males.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, yes, And if that's because women are forcing their

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<v Speaker 5>spouses to listen at the threat of withholding love, then

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<v Speaker 5>you know, whats so be it?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh? Not just that we're entertaining No, sorry, sorry, sorry,

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<v Speaker 6>sorry sorry, We all know by now ladies don't have

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<v Speaker 6>to approach anyone on the dating apps.

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<v Speaker 5>They're pretty much flooded with messages twenty four to seven.

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<v Speaker 5>So the big question that we always ask here is

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<v Speaker 5>how does a guy cut through all the clutter and

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<v Speaker 5>get himself.

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<v Speaker 1>Noticed the girtio on a dating Apple.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and our listener Connor says he's figured out a

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<v Speaker 5>great conversation opener that nobody else was using and says

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<v Speaker 5>it has an extremely high success right.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, interesting, Connor, Are.

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<v Speaker 5>You sure you want to give away your secrets to

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<v Speaker 5>the world right here on the show?

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly, No, but your producer's kind of telling me I

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<v Speaker 4>have to do that. I want to be here.

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<v Speaker 1>Our producer can be kind of scary, we get it.

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<v Speaker 5>He makes me do a lot of stuff I don't

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<v Speaker 5>want to do either, Connor, So I completely understand.

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<v Speaker 7>Now, time to wipe away those tears. Give it up.

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<v Speaker 7>What's your secret? So?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't send any words at all? Any words?

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<v Speaker 7>I'm with you? Women hate words? Words huge turnoff.

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<v Speaker 5>Am I Right, alexis, especially the way a punctuation marks

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<v Speaker 5>it's emoji.

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<v Speaker 4>Dude, you send emojis because it leads to a response.

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<v Speaker 7>Eventually.

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<v Speaker 1>Why are you because you're like trying to decode what

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<v Speaker 1>you're attempting to say. Are there's specific emojis that you use?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, yeah, there's a specific group of emojis. Okay, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>man emoji, woman emoji, sushi emoji, dance emoji, music emoji,

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<v Speaker 4>gift box emoji, question mark emoji.

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<v Speaker 1>What was the last one before question mark equal sign

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<v Speaker 1>and the question.

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<v Speaker 5>Mark math equations axis like an algebra problem.

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<v Speaker 1>You could take that out. Okay, that's so, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>From those emojis, that is a fancy first date that

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<v Speaker 1>you just play.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, sushi and dancing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>For people who aren't emoji literate, can you like translate

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<v Speaker 5>what exactly you're saying in it?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so it translates to a guy and a girl,

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<v Speaker 4>we get sushi, we dance, and also there's a little

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<v Speaker 4>something special. What do you think?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, if it's a tiny gift, the fact that you

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<v Speaker 5>have a gift box looks really cool, the big gold

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<v Speaker 5>box on the.

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<v Speaker 1>Emoji, unless it's like that old SNL song about what's

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<v Speaker 1>in the box. I've never an ice cream emoji your lift, No.

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<v Speaker 4>But it always elicted the response either people send back

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<v Speaker 4>like emojis of their own, like they get it or

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<v Speaker 4>they're like sorry, what was that? And at least I've

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<v Speaker 4>got somebody talking to me even if they didn't get it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well then she asked for clarification, then you can

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<v Speaker 2>formally ask her out.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So you do this to hundreds of women and

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<v Speaker 1>one you actually went on a date with.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I did this to Nikki. I was able to

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<v Speaker 4>get her number and we met up and we did

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<v Speaker 4>that date.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you did the day okay?

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<v Speaker 5>And you said, her name is Nikki, that's the woman

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<v Speaker 5>that we're going to be calling her.

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<v Speaker 7>How did your date go?

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<v Speaker 4>It was great. We did exactly what I said we

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<v Speaker 4>were going to do. We did sushi, we went dancing,

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<v Speaker 4>and then I took her out paid for drinks afterwards.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wait, where was the present? You put a present box?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in there.

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<v Speaker 4>The president is like, I'm going to let you in

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<v Speaker 4>on my secret spot.

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<v Speaker 1>Really cool drinks? Like did she like that present?

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<v Speaker 4>She liked it? She thought it was cool.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, how was the connection between you two?

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<v Speaker 1>Look?

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<v Speaker 4>I thought it was great. There was no like moment

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<v Speaker 4>where it felt like the kiss was right, but I

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<v Speaker 4>felt like we were vibing the whole time. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 4>obviously listened to these times. Prince girl. It's like, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>what you mess up? And I will tell you right now.

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<v Speaker 4>The awkward thing came from her and not from me.

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<v Speaker 4>I still want to go on our second date. But

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<v Speaker 4>there was a point where she called me Martin.

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<v Speaker 1>Martin, No, Brook has forgotten your name.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not just she forgot dude. Martin is her ex.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh glad, I bet she felt so bad.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she said she did. We had fun with it.

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<v Speaker 4>I made I cracked a joke or two about it.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought it was all good. But now it's been

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<v Speaker 4>like a week and a half and I haven't heard anything.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, it's awkward to be called by the ex's name,

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<v Speaker 5>but it's also kind of a good sign that she's

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<v Speaker 5>seeing you in a romantic way, and it's unlocking that

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<v Speaker 5>door to like old romantic flings.

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<v Speaker 3>A stretch, Yeah, I have to stretch.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, do you think that she's not over

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<v Speaker 1>her ex?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean that's my first thought for sure, But I

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<v Speaker 4>hope that that's not the case because we had a

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<v Speaker 4>good time. I would like to see her again, And also, like,

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<v Speaker 4>if you're not over your ex, fine, but you're gonna ghost.

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<v Speaker 3>Me for that?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean, maybe she thinks it's it's kind right,

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<v Speaker 1>Like maybe she thinks like I should leave this guy alone.

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<v Speaker 4>Never the kindest option.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I agree, I agree, I don't disagree with that.

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<v Speaker 1>But what happened at the very end of the.

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<v Speaker 4>Night, I was like, Hey, this has been so much fun.

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<v Speaker 4>I hope to see you again. We gave each other

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<v Speaker 4>a hug.

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<v Speaker 5>And how many times have you called her? How many

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<v Speaker 5>times have you texted her?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, obviously I hit her with some emo jeez okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>and then I left one voicemail. I'm trying to not

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<v Speaker 4>be like weird it.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, did you leave the voicemail saying your real name?

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<v Speaker 1>Because maybe she doesn't remember it. Maybe you should have

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<v Speaker 1>called yourself Martin.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, that is rough. That's true.

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<v Speaker 5>And voicemails are a little bit as especially if you

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<v Speaker 5>hear the loser line segment on our show.

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<v Speaker 7>It's always a risk to leave one.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I think voicemails are fine if they're short and

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<v Speaker 1>they end quickly. Yeah, that's the same thing I just

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<v Speaker 1>said twice. But you know what I mean, just.

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<v Speaker 5>Like making short to end it quickly, get out more

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<v Speaker 5>there you go.

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<v Speaker 7>So we're going to reach out to Nikki.

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<v Speaker 5>Hopefully she answers and we'll find out is it really

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<v Speaker 5>just because she called you her ex's name on the date,

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<v Speaker 5>or is something else happening when we come back for

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<v Speaker 5>your second date update.

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<v Speaker 7>Right after this second date update.

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<v Speaker 5>Was a warm summer afternoon and our listener Connor calm

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<v Speaker 5>de gal into a date with a flick of the

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<v Speaker 5>finger and a string of mysterious emojis. Man emoji, woman emoji,

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<v Speaker 5>sushi emoji, dance emoji, music emoji, gift box emoji equals

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<v Speaker 5>question mark emoji.

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<v Speaker 7>Jeff, that's where we're at now.

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<v Speaker 5>I've conferred with my co host Jose Sherlock, Homeboy, and Brooke.

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<v Speaker 5>What's up Watson? They told me we don't know enough

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<v Speaker 5>about this date.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually more investigating scene. I think we know quite a bit, though, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I think we know quite a bit.

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<v Speaker 7>Not quite enough, though.

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<v Speaker 5>Our only lead is that Nikki called Connor by her

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<v Speaker 5>ex lover's name, some nobody named Martin. But that's all

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<v Speaker 5>we know. We don't even know what they spoke about,

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<v Speaker 5>any childhood memories. Did they play the game pasta Arosta?

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<v Speaker 1>What is that game?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Man, you haven't played pasta arosta.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't even lived apparently.

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<v Speaker 5>Connor, can you tell us what was the gab about

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<v Speaker 5>that night?

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<v Speaker 7>What did you speak about? Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Man, I feel like it was pretty basic first date

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<v Speaker 4>stuff like stuff that happened to us with when we

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<v Speaker 4>were kids. I was like, oh, I have this scar

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<v Speaker 4>on my arm. Honestly, now that we're talking about I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>am I basic?

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<v Speaker 1>Am I basic? It's okay.

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<v Speaker 7>There wasn't a big crazy moment.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>You're a man that's willing to take a woman dancing,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is not basic. Many men are scared of dancing.

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<v Speaker 4>I'll take that. But our conversation maybe wasn't as like,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. It wasn't like we looked up at

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<v Speaker 4>the stars and contemplated our existence. Again.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you communicated with those dance moves and that's right.

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<v Speaker 7>Still no pasta or arasta, so kind of fell short. But

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<v Speaker 7>let's reach out to Nikki here.

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<v Speaker 5>We'll see if she picks up and hopefully she has

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<v Speaker 5>some answers, and if she.

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<v Speaker 1>Doesn't, let's play the game because I'm really curious how

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<v Speaker 1>this game works.

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<v Speaker 7>It's not appropriate for radio.

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<v Speaker 1>Was going to guess Penny.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, you don't know what you're talking about. You would

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<v Speaker 7>want that pain anyway?

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<v Speaker 5>I know. Right here, let's just call Nikki here hopefully

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<v Speaker 5>get out of this awkwardness.

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<v Speaker 7>Here we go. Hey is this Nikki?

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<v Speaker 5>Hey Nikki, You're on radio show called Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 5>in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Nikki? Hey?

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<v Speaker 8>Why are you calling me?

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<v Speaker 7>Sorry to interrupt you.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not sure if you're busy or something, but we're

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<v Speaker 5>doing a segment on our show. It's called a second

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<v Speaker 5>Date Update.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm so sorry, I gotta go.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just honestly, it'll take less than three minutes.

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<v Speaker 5>Lucky for you, we're not doing our big segment pasta

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<v Speaker 5>a rasta yeah, super highly yeah quick.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually kind of exciting.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, because the second Date Update it's where one of

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<v Speaker 5>our listeners has asked us to help get some answers

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<v Speaker 5>for why you're not responding to his emoji texts and

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<v Speaker 5>your voicemail messages.

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<v Speaker 8>God, oh my god, why would he do that?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we're talking about immediately when we say emoji, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 8>Connor, yeah, I know about the emojis, but like, why

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<v Speaker 8>would he call a radio station and like get you

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<v Speaker 8>guys involved? Like I'm confused warm.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, because he told us the story about your date

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<v Speaker 5>and said he's reached out a few times hoping to

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<v Speaker 5>get a second one that has not happened and he's

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<v Speaker 5>not sure why.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, I don't know what he told you, guys, but

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<v Speaker 8>I had a little bit of an embarrassing moment on

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<v Speaker 8>the date.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we heard about the moment where you called him

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<v Speaker 5>by your ex boyfriend's name Martin.

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<v Speaker 1>Fine, it sounds like he didn't even like care that much.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, there could have been more moments on the

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<v Speaker 5>date that might have turned you off. Like, we just

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<v Speaker 5>don't know, and Connor wants some honesty and clarification on

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<v Speaker 5>the situation.

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<v Speaker 7>That's why we're calling.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, I mean, actually it was it was just that.

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, I'm gonna be honest with you guys about something.

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<v Speaker 7>It was.

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<v Speaker 8>It was that moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, But it sounds like you guys joked about it

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<v Speaker 1>after you called him the wrong name. He like made

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<v Speaker 1>light of it and he can't.

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<v Speaker 8>Let no I'm here. I tried to laugh it off,

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<v Speaker 8>but tell you guys, the true Martin is not my

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<v Speaker 8>excess name.

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<v Speaker 7>Wait what what that's what you said? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 8>No, I know, I know. I had to make it up.

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<v Speaker 1>What who's Martin?

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, so his eyebrows are the bushy is eyebrows I've

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<v Speaker 8>ever seen and sing.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you talking about Martin right now or are you talking

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<v Speaker 1>about our listener, your date with Connor.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm talking about Connor conn Like. He has the same

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<v Speaker 8>eyebrows as Martin Scorsese. He actually makes Martin look thin.

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<v Speaker 8>And I put him in my phone as that, And

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<v Speaker 8>I guess I got so used to seeing that name

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<v Speaker 8>on my phoneing that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so you rose, Wait, you saved him as like

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<v Speaker 1>Martin Scorsese eyebrow boy or something in your phone.

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<v Speaker 8>I said, Martin eyebrows. And in the pictures you put

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<v Speaker 8>really do like you saw, they were bushy, hence me

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<v Speaker 8>putting him in my phone as Martin eyebrows. But I

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<v Speaker 8>couldn't stop looking at them. It was like a bad

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<v Speaker 8>accident that you can't stop looking at.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, watching one caterpillar.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't think anymore that.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't want to hurt any more feelings, especially because Martin.

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<v Speaker 5>No Connor, Connor, he's uh, he's on the other line

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<v Speaker 5>listening to this.

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<v Speaker 4>Nikki, shut up, shut up.

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<v Speaker 7>I have to talk because I'm on the radio. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>he's there. Sorry, Connor, are you there?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm not really sure what to say.

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<v Speaker 1>Brother. I bet you have great eyebrows there.

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<v Speaker 4>Very full like people are into.

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<v Speaker 1>It, big eyebrowser in.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, but this is beyond the trend.

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<v Speaker 5>But a preference for every different people.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't have to why we date.

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<v Speaker 8>That's why we date because everybody has different preferences. And

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<v Speaker 8>I'm sorry, Connor, you're a nice looking guy, but your

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<v Speaker 8>browser too much like they but not even focus enough

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<v Speaker 8>to remember your real name, Burst, the name I've been

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<v Speaker 8>calling you in my follow.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you apologize for being mean? And the double

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<v Speaker 1>down on it.

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<v Speaker 8>Is honestly mean. I mean, listen, I didn't call me

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<v Speaker 8>and do this, Okay, Connor knew what he was getting into.

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<v Speaker 8>He was ready, I guess for the truth, and that's true.

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<v Speaker 7>We do appreciate your honesty, Nikki. I mean, we really do.

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<v Speaker 5>That's what we ask I don't necessarily love what you're saying. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>but you know, at least she's being truthful for the reason.

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<v Speaker 5>I would think though, that eyebrows are something that you

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<v Speaker 5>could easily change.

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<v Speaker 1>No, you don't want to change who you're taking.

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<v Speaker 4>Them Jack, Yeah, I mean I'm happy with how I look.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just baffled. But it took coming to the radio.

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<v Speaker 8>To hear that I was trying to be nice put

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<v Speaker 8>me in this spot.

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<v Speaker 4>Now, you know, ghosting is never nice. That's not a kindness.

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<v Speaker 7>What it felt nice.

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<v Speaker 5>If she said the reason I said is because you

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<v Speaker 5>remind me you look like Martin scorse that feel good.

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<v Speaker 1>She could have just said, you know what, I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't feel an attraction here.

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<v Speaker 7>It's just all She would have been fine.

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<v Speaker 4>But also if you said I look like Martin Scorsese,

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<v Speaker 4>I would have been like, hell, yeah, I dude, tight, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I love Connor.

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, I'm sorry, I gotta go to work, okay,

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<v Speaker 8>but I'm sorry, Connor, like, best of luck. If you

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<v Speaker 8>need a brown person, I have someone really good. I'm

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<v Speaker 8>more than happy to give her number to Connor. Doubling

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<v Speaker 8>really good.

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<v Speaker 3>They're not doubling down.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm trying to help. I want Connor to find a

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<v Speaker 8>nice woman together.

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<v Speaker 7>In a little bit.

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<v Speaker 5>So look, I normally would never do this, but in

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<v Speaker 5>the spirit of truthfulness and honesty, Connor, I'm gonna call

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<v Speaker 5>it open season. Is there anything you would like to

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<v Speaker 5>critique about Nicky in returning field up to you, Connor, when.

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<v Speaker 1>She goes well, you go high, Connor.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, what's what's above the eyebrows that you can.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I'm a it man, you know what I mean? Like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not sorry for the way that I look. I

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<v Speaker 4>think she looks great. I would have been happy to

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<v Speaker 4>go on a second date.

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<v Speaker 3>But just great, a great guy that I didn't do

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<v Speaker 3>anything wrong.

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<v Speaker 8>I've now been embarrassed on the radio.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh you've been embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 8>Embarrassed, guys. I can't deal with this.

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<v Speaker 7>No.

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<v Speaker 8>Next day, I'm I'm deleting every app for dating. I'm

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<v Speaker 8>taking a break.

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<v Speaker 5>People don't answer random Okay, it's good that she was

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<v Speaker 5>able to make this entire thing about her, So Nikki,

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<v Speaker 5>well done.

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<v Speaker 8>I don't appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 4>Just s y.

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<v Speaker 8>I the next time you go ahead and send someone

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<v Speaker 8>all these crazy emojis and there's a gift in there,

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<v Speaker 8>why didn't you just bring a gift and not be

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<v Speaker 8>a cheap act?

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<v Speaker 7>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I guess it wasn't just the eyebrows.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, just the eyebrows.

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<v Speaker 7>All right.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, with really not knowing much at the beginning of

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<v Speaker 5>this what went wrong, and now we know it.

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<v Speaker 7>Was just a couple of eyebrows.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>What's in?

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<v Speaker 7>We solved the mystery game.

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<v Speaker 5>I knew we'd get to the bottom of it. Tune

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<v Speaker 5>in next week when we unmasked the owner of the

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<v Speaker 5>old Kabuki theater and find out who isn't dating the

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<v Speaker 5>wrong person.

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<v Speaker 1>Eyebrows were like super hairy.

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<v Speaker 7>I knew it, schools Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 5>In the morning, I got a lot of texts coming

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<v Speaker 5>into our textport at seven eighty five nine two people

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<v Speaker 5>are ripping that woman for what she said about Connor's eyebrows.

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<v Speaker 1>It would have been forgiven because she didn't know he

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<v Speaker 1>was on the phone until she just kept going yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>She just wouldn't stop.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah anytime you're like, I'm sorry, but it's not an apology.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and I know Connor didn't want to say anything

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<v Speaker 5>bad about her, but our listeners did not.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>Wow, they're blowing up our textboards.

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<v Speaker 1>We're ruthless.

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<v Speaker 5>One said I've never even seen that woman, but I

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<v Speaker 5>can tell she's got a gaping fish mouth, all right.

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<v Speaker 7>Another says she sounds like she was you know what, Actually,

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<v Speaker 7>some of these are not waiting cool.

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<v Speaker 5>I probably shouldn't, but you know what, it is nice

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<v Speaker 5>to see our listeners coming together and sticking up for

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<v Speaker 5>other listeners who.

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<v Speaker 7>Listen to this.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but what about that, Like when they go.

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<v Speaker 5>Low, we go high, no mom mentality, When they go low,

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<v Speaker 5>we go low.

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<v Speaker 1>She went high, So we can.

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<v Speaker 7>All go up.

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<v Speaker 5>There you go, but we will stick up for you

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<v Speaker 5>and your love life.

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<v Speaker 7>You can email the show.

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