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Speaker 1: And we got a new podcast for you. Welcome to

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Speaker 1: the Second Date Podcast Forging Jeffrey in the Morning. And

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Speaker 1: gotta get props to our guy today because he has

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Speaker 1: a pickup line that uses no words at all and

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Speaker 1: it works as Yeah, you're gonna hear what that is

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Speaker 1: in just a second. And of course we love highlighting

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Speaker 1: your lovely comments.

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Speaker 2: What do we see to Yeah, Patrese mctaniel said this

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Speaker 2: is my go to when working uber.

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Speaker 1: Just about everyone loves it, Phoenix Arizona.

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Speaker 2: I love you guys, just about everyone. I want to

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Speaker 2: know the people that tell you like turn it off

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Speaker 2: or what I feel like it should be our new

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Speaker 2: show tagline about everyone loves it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I like that.

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Speaker 1: All right, we'll see if you like this. It's starting right.

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Speaker 4: Now, Second Date Up Date.

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Speaker 5: It's always interesting to me that we have just as

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Speaker 5: many guys listen to our show as we do ladies.

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Speaker 1: Actually, yeah, on our podcast we have more males.

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Speaker 5: Yes, yes, And if that's because women are forcing their

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Speaker 5: spouses to listen at the threat of withholding love, then

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Speaker 5: you know, whats so be it?

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Speaker 6: Oh? Not just that we're entertaining No, sorry, sorry, sorry,

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Speaker 6: sorry sorry, We all know by now ladies don't have

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Speaker 6: to approach anyone on the dating apps.

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Speaker 5: They're pretty much flooded with messages twenty four to seven.

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Speaker 5: So the big question that we always ask here is

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Speaker 5: how does a guy cut through all the clutter and

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Speaker 5: get himself.

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Speaker 1: Noticed the girtio on a dating Apple.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and our listener Connor says he's figured out a

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Speaker 5: great conversation opener that nobody else was using and says

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Speaker 5: it has an extremely high success right.

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Speaker 1: Oh, interesting, Connor, Are.

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Speaker 5: You sure you want to give away your secrets to

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Speaker 5: the world right here on the show?

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Speaker 4: Honestly, No, but your producer's kind of telling me I

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Speaker 4: have to do that. I want to be here.

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Speaker 1: Our producer can be kind of scary, we get it.

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Speaker 5: He makes me do a lot of stuff I don't

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Speaker 5: want to do either, Connor, So I completely understand.

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Speaker 7: Now, time to wipe away those tears. Give it up.

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Speaker 7: What's your secret? So?

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Speaker 4: I don't send any words at all? Any words?

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Speaker 7: I'm with you? Women hate words? Words huge turnoff.

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Speaker 5: Am I Right, alexis, especially the way a punctuation marks

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Speaker 5: it's emoji.

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Speaker 4: Dude, you send emojis because it leads to a response.

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Speaker 7: Eventually.

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Speaker 1: Why are you because you're like trying to decode what

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Speaker 1: you're attempting to say. Are there's specific emojis that you use?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, there's a specific group of emojis. Okay, okay, yeah,

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Speaker 4: man emoji, woman emoji, sushi emoji, dance emoji, music emoji,

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Speaker 4: gift box emoji, question mark emoji.

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Speaker 1: What was the last one before question mark equal sign

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Speaker 1: and the question.

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Speaker 5: Mark math equations axis like an algebra problem.

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Speaker 1: You could take that out. Okay, that's so, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: From those emojis, that is a fancy first date that

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Speaker 1: you just play.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, sushi and dancing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: For people who aren't emoji literate, can you like translate

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Speaker 5: what exactly you're saying in it?

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Speaker 4: Okay, so it translates to a guy and a girl,

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Speaker 4: we get sushi, we dance, and also there's a little

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Speaker 4: something special. What do you think?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Okay, if it's a tiny gift, the fact that you

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Speaker 5: have a gift box looks really cool, the big gold

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Speaker 1: Emoji, unless it's like that old SNL song about what's

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Speaker 1: in the box. I've never an ice cream emoji your lift, No.

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Speaker 4: But it always elicted the response either people send back

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Speaker 4: like emojis of their own, like they get it or

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Speaker 4: they're like sorry, what was that? And at least I've

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Speaker 4: got somebody talking to me even if they didn't get it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well then she asked for clarification, then you can

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Speaker 2: formally ask her out.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you do this to hundreds of women and

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Speaker 1: one you actually went on a date with.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I did this to Nikki. I was able to

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Speaker 4: get her number and we met up and we did

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Speaker 1: Oh you did the day okay?

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Speaker 5: And you said, her name is Nikki, that's the woman

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Speaker 7: How did your date go?

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Speaker 4: It was great. We did exactly what I said we

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Speaker 4: were going to do. We did sushi, we went dancing,

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Speaker 4: and then I took her out paid for drinks afterwards.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, where was the present? You put a present box?

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Speaker 1: I'm in there.

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Speaker 4: The president is like, I'm going to let you in

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Speaker 4: on my secret spot.

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Speaker 1: Really cool drinks? Like did she like that present?

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Speaker 4: She liked it? She thought it was cool.

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Speaker 5: Okay, how was the connection between you two?

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Speaker 1: Look?

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Speaker 4: I thought it was great. There was no like moment

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Speaker 4: where it felt like the kiss was right, but I

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Speaker 4: felt like we were vibing the whole time. Okay, I

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Speaker 4: obviously listened to these times. Prince girl. It's like, okay,

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Speaker 4: what you mess up? And I will tell you right now.

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Speaker 4: The awkward thing came from her and not from me.

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Speaker 4: I still want to go on our second date. But

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Speaker 4: there was a point where she called me Martin.

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Speaker 1: Martin, No, Brook has forgotten your name.

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Speaker 4: It's not just she forgot dude. Martin is her ex.

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Speaker 6: Oh glad, I bet she felt so bad.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she said she did. We had fun with it.

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Speaker 4: I made I cracked a joke or two about it.

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Speaker 4: I thought it was all good. But now it's been

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Speaker 4: like a week and a half and I haven't heard anything.

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Speaker 5: Yes, it's awkward to be called by the ex's name,

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Speaker 5: but it's also kind of a good sign that she's

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Speaker 5: seeing you in a romantic way, and it's unlocking that

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Speaker 3: A stretch, Yeah, I have to stretch.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, do you think that she's not over

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Speaker 4: I mean that's my first thought for sure, But I

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Speaker 4: hope that that's not the case because we had a

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Speaker 4: good time. I would like to see her again, And also, like,

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Speaker 4: if you're not over your ex, fine, but you're gonna ghost.

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Speaker 3: Me for that?

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean, maybe she thinks it's it's kind right,

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Speaker 1: Like maybe she thinks like I should leave this guy alone.

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Speaker 4: Never the kindest option.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I agree, I agree, I don't disagree with that.

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Speaker 1: But what happened at the very end of the.

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Speaker 4: Night, I was like, Hey, this has been so much fun.

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Speaker 4: I hope to see you again. We gave each other

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Speaker 5: And how many times have you called her? How many

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Speaker 5: times have you texted her?

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Speaker 4: Well, obviously I hit her with some emo jeez okay, yeah,

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Speaker 4: and then I left one voicemail. I'm trying to not

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Speaker 1: Now, did you leave the voicemail saying your real name?

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Speaker 1: Because maybe she doesn't remember it. Maybe you should have

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Speaker 1: called yourself Martin.

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Speaker 4: Oh, that is rough. That's true.

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Speaker 5: And voicemails are a little bit as especially if you

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Speaker 5: hear the loser line segment on our show.

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Speaker 7: It's always a risk to leave one.

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Speaker 1: No, I think voicemails are fine if they're short and

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Speaker 1: they end quickly. Yeah, that's the same thing I just

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Speaker 1: said twice. But you know what I mean, just.

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Speaker 5: Like making short to end it quickly, get out more

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Speaker 5: there you go.

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Speaker 7: So we're going to reach out to Nikki.

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Speaker 5: Hopefully she answers and we'll find out is it really

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Speaker 5: just because she called you her ex's name on the date,

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Speaker 5: or is something else happening when we come back for

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Speaker 5: your second date update.

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Speaker 7: Right after this second date update.

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Speaker 5: Was a warm summer afternoon and our listener Connor calm

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Speaker 5: de gal into a date with a flick of the

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Speaker 5: finger and a string of mysterious emojis. Man emoji, woman emoji,

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Speaker 5: sushi emoji, dance emoji, music emoji, gift box emoji equals

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Speaker 7: Jeff, that's where we're at now.

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Speaker 5: I've conferred with my co host Jose Sherlock, Homeboy, and Brooke.

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Speaker 5: What's up Watson? They told me we don't know enough

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Speaker 5: about this date.

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Speaker 1: Actually more investigating scene. I think we know quite a bit, though, Oh,

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Speaker 1: I think we know quite a bit.

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Speaker 7: Not quite enough, though.

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Speaker 5: Our only lead is that Nikki called Connor by her

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Speaker 5: ex lover's name, some nobody named Martin. But that's all

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Speaker 5: we know. We don't even know what they spoke about,

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Speaker 5: any childhood memories. Did they play the game pasta Arosta?

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Speaker 1: What is that game?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Man, you haven't played pasta arosta.

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Speaker 1: I haven't even lived apparently.

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Speaker 5: Connor, can you tell us what was the gab about

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Speaker 5: that night?

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Speaker 7: What did you speak about? Oh?

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Speaker 4: Man, I feel like it was pretty basic first date

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Speaker 4: stuff like stuff that happened to us with when we

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Speaker 4: were kids. I was like, oh, I have this scar

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Speaker 4: on my arm. Honestly, now that we're talking about I'm like,

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Speaker 4: am I basic?

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Speaker 1: Am I basic? It's okay.

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Speaker 7: There wasn't a big crazy moment.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: You're a man that's willing to take a woman dancing,

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Speaker 1: and that is not basic. Many men are scared of dancing.

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Speaker 4: I'll take that. But our conversation maybe wasn't as like,

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Speaker 4: I don't know. It wasn't like we looked up at

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Speaker 4: the stars and contemplated our existence. Again.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you communicated with those dance moves and that's right.

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Speaker 7: Still no pasta or arasta, so kind of fell short. But

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Speaker 7: let's reach out to Nikki here.

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Speaker 5: We'll see if she picks up and hopefully she has

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Speaker 5: some answers, and if she.

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Speaker 1: Doesn't, let's play the game because I'm really curious how

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Speaker 1: this game works.

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Speaker 7: It's not appropriate for radio.

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Speaker 1: Was going to guess Penny.

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Speaker 7: Okay, you don't know what you're talking about. You would

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Speaker 7: want that pain anyway?

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Speaker 5: I know. Right here, let's just call Nikki here hopefully

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Speaker 5: get out of this awkwardness.

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Speaker 7: Here we go. Hey is this Nikki?

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Speaker 5: Hey Nikki, You're on radio show called Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 5: in the morning.

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Speaker 1: What's up, Nikki? Hey?

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Speaker 8: Why are you calling me?

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Speaker 7: Sorry to interrupt you.

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Speaker 5: I'm not sure if you're busy or something, but we're

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Speaker 5: doing a segment on our show. It's called a second

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Speaker 5: Date Update.

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Speaker 8: I'm so sorry, I gotta go.

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Speaker 1: I'm just honestly, it'll take less than three minutes.

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Speaker 5: Lucky for you, we're not doing our big segment pasta

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Speaker 5: a rasta yeah, super highly yeah quick.

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Speaker 1: Actually kind of exciting.

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Speaker 5: Okay, because the second Date Update it's where one of

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Speaker 5: our listeners has asked us to help get some answers

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Speaker 5: for why you're not responding to his emoji texts and

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Speaker 8: God, oh my god, why would he do that?

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Speaker 1: Okay, we're talking about immediately when we say emoji, Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because he told us the story about your date

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Speaker 8: Well, I don't know what he told you, guys, but

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we heard about the moment where you called him

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Speaker 7: That's why we're calling.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean, actually it was it was just that.

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Speaker 7: It was.

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Speaker 8: It was that moment.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, But it sounds like you guys joked about it

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Speaker 8: Let no I'm here. I tried to laugh it off,

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Speaker 7: Wait what what that's what you said? Yeah?

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Speaker 8: No, I know, I know. I had to make it up.

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Speaker 1: What who's Martin?

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Speaker 8: Okay, so his eyebrows are the bushy is eyebrows I've

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Speaker 1: Are you talking about Martin right now or are you talking

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Speaker 8: I'm talking about Connor conn Like. He has the same

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Speaker 8: And I put him in my phone as that, And

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Speaker 8: I guess I got so used to seeing that name

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so you rose, Wait, you saved him as like

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Speaker 8: I said, Martin eyebrows. And in the pictures you put

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, watching one caterpillar.

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Speaker 7: I don't think anymore that.

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Speaker 5: I don't want to hurt any more feelings, especially because Martin.

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Speaker 5: No Connor, Connor, he's uh, he's on the other line

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Speaker 4: Nikki, shut up, shut up.

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Speaker 7: I have to talk because I'm on the radio. But yeah,

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Speaker 7: he's there. Sorry, Connor, are you there?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not really sure what to say.

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Speaker 1: Brother. I bet you have great eyebrows there.

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Speaker 4: Very full like people are into.

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Speaker 1: It, big eyebrowser in.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, but this is beyond the trend.

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Speaker 5: But a preference for every different people.

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Speaker 4: You don't have to why we date.

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Speaker 8: That's why we date because everybody has different preferences. And

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Speaker 8: I'm sorry, Connor, you're a nice looking guy, but your

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Speaker 1: How do you apologize for being mean? And the double

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Speaker 8: Is honestly mean. I mean, listen, I didn't call me

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Speaker 8: He was ready, I guess for the truth, and that's true.

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Speaker 7: We do appreciate your honesty, Nikki. I mean, we really do.

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Speaker 5: That's what we ask I don't necessarily love what you're saying. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: I would think though, that eyebrows are something that you

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Speaker 1: No, you don't want to change who you're taking.

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Speaker 4: Them Jack, Yeah, I mean I'm happy with how I look.

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Speaker 4: I'm just baffled. But it took coming to the radio.

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Speaker 8: To hear that I was trying to be nice put

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Speaker 4: Now, you know, ghosting is never nice. That's not a kindness.

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Speaker 7: What it felt nice.

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Speaker 5: If she said the reason I said is because you

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Speaker 1: She could have just said, you know what, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 1: I just don't feel an attraction here.

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Speaker 7: It's just all She would have been fine.

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Speaker 4: But also if you said I look like Martin Scorsese,

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Speaker 4: I would have been like, hell, yeah, I dude, tight, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I love Connor.

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Speaker 8: I mean, I'm sorry, I gotta go to work, okay,

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Speaker 8: more than happy to give her number to Connor. Doubling

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Speaker 3: They're not doubling down.

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Speaker 8: I'm trying to help. I want Connor to find a

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Speaker 7: In a little bit.

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Speaker 5: So look, I normally would never do this, but in

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Speaker 5: it open season. Is there anything you would like to

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Speaker 5: critique about Nicky in returning field up to you, Connor, when.

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Speaker 1: She goes well, you go high, Connor.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, what's what's above the eyebrows that you can.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm a it man, you know what I mean? Like,

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Speaker 4: I'm not sorry for the way that I look. I

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Speaker 3: But just great, a great guy that I didn't do

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Speaker 8: I've now been embarrassed on the radio.

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Speaker 7: Oh you've been embarrassed.

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Speaker 8: Embarrassed, guys. I can't deal with this.

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Speaker 7: No.

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Speaker 8: Next day, I'm I'm deleting every app for dating. I'm

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Speaker 5: People don't answer random Okay, it's good that she was

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Speaker 5: able to make this entire thing about her, So Nikki,

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Speaker 8: I don't appreciate that.

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Speaker 8: I the next time you go ahead and send someone

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Speaker 8: why didn't you just bring a gift and not be

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I guess it wasn't just the eyebrows.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, just the eyebrows.

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Speaker 5: Well, with really not knowing much at the beginning of

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Speaker 7: Was just a couple of eyebrows.

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Speaker 3: Hey, what's up?

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Speaker 1: What's in?

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Speaker 7: We solved the mystery game.

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Speaker 5: I knew we'd get to the bottom of it. Tune

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Speaker 5: in next week when we unmasked the owner of the

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Speaker 5: old Kabuki theater and find out who isn't dating the

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Speaker 5: wrong person.

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Speaker 1: Eyebrows were like super hairy.

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Speaker 7: I knew it, schools Jeffrey.

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Speaker 5: In the morning, I got a lot of texts coming

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Speaker 5: into our textport at seven eighty five nine two people

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Speaker 1: It would have been forgiven because she didn't know he

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Speaker 7: She just wouldn't stop.

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Speaker 1: Yeah anytime you're like, I'm sorry, but it's not an apology.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and I know Connor didn't want to say anything

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Wow, they're blowing up our textboards.

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Speaker 1: We're ruthless.

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Speaker 5: One said I've never even seen that woman, but I

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Speaker 7: Another says she sounds like she was you know what, Actually,

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Speaker 7: some of these are not waiting cool.

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Speaker 5: I probably shouldn't, but you know what, it is nice

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Speaker 7: Listen to this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but what about that, Like when they go.

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Speaker 5: Low, we go high, no mom mentality, When they go low,

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Speaker 5: we go low.

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Speaker 1: She went high, So we can.

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Speaker 7: All go up.

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Speaker 5: There you go, but we will stick up for you

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Speaker 5: and your love life.

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Speaker 7: You can email the show.

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Speaker 5: We'll call that person who's not calling you back and

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Speaker 5: go check out all of our second date updates if

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Speaker 5: you want to find them online. They're available wherever you

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Speaker 5: get your podcasts at Brook and Jeffrey