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Speaker 1: Morning.

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Speaker 2: The inside of my booty cheeks probably you know they're

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Speaker 2: used to it.

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Speaker 1: The inside of your booty cheeks.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know how your hand like callouson come back vacation.

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Speaker 2: So I sabatist is Jack harlow on Kaylin in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Hey, good morning everybody. Tuesday, April late, It's the

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Speaker 1: French show Kitelen in the morning. Hi, good morning, Hi

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Speaker 1: Jason Brown. Hi, you are right over there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: These are just random. They just pop themselves in.

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, rata geatut like sabotaging.

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Speaker 1: Stop sabotage, sabotaging, sabotaging.

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Speaker 2: Is it hard to say?

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Speaker 1: She started to sound like me saying people's name, sabotage, sabotage.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you're sabotaging anything. I don't Hi, Kiki,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Bella. I mean, is here on the phone

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Speaker 4: K We're all arguing about the best female rapper of

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Speaker 2: So we got to talk about.

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Speaker 4: That, and then the season finale that got over six

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Speaker 1: There go, well, debate your relationship drama this morning to

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Speaker 1: fifty show is Kiki it for? Showb is Shelley? Three

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Speaker 1: game win streak fifteen and two Yo, listen, the money's

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Speaker 1: yours if you win. Yeah, if you don't lose between

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Speaker 1: now and a time she comes back from eternity, leave,

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Speaker 1: then you know that's the new deal I'm making with you.

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Speaker 1: It's the new deal.

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Speaker 2: I love the deal.

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Speaker 1: Yeahs the deal two fifty is yours? So far? Waiting

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Speaker 1: by the phone this morning? Why did somebody get ghosted?

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Speaker 1: And more stuff? What is the you're doing? The fat

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Speaker 1: seventy five? What is it? The hard seventy five?

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Speaker 2: Oh god, seventy five hard?

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Speaker 5: Well, there's different versions, right, there's a soft medium and hard.

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Speaker 2: I discovered this yesterday. Wait what yesterday? Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Why why would I do seventy five to get soft?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I would do seventy five to get hard, I guess,

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Speaker 1: but I wouldn't do seventy five to get me I

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Speaker 1: already am yeah, same, I am soft medium, So I'm

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Speaker 1: not trying to get soft. Seventy five soft. He's going

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Speaker 1: to coverts every day or something like her, you know

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Speaker 1: wherever eating MC nuggets every day. That's the seventy five

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Speaker 1: soft exactly. And I didn't know that because I got

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Speaker 1: the app.

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Speaker 5: So I guess you could you like I said hard

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Speaker 5: or soft, but I guess just means, like, how intense

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Speaker 5: do you want.

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Speaker 2: This to be?

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Speaker 1: So like I think it was like the outcome of

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Speaker 1: your body. No, no, I mean it's seventy five hard

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Speaker 1: means it the hard you would be like ripped.

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Speaker 7: It's like you're going hard, you're heart Why would I

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Speaker 7: want to go solid?

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Speaker 1: Like, no one's asking me to go soft.

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Speaker 2: It's hard to do this whole thing, but.

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Speaker 1: It's hard to lose weight. It's hard to be.

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Speaker 2: This includes reading, this includes.

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Speaker 1: How you eat.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So I thought to be a lot more intense

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Speaker 5: because like I got an app for this whole thing,

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Speaker 5: because I'm like, I have to make sure I see

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Speaker 5: it visually. It doesn't seem that bad. But I know

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Speaker 5: once I start doing it, I'm gonna to work. What's

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Speaker 5: what explained to me? What are you supposed to do today?

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Speaker 1: Day one of seventy five hard is hard hard, really hard,

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Speaker 1: non soft or medium medium.

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Speaker 5: So I had it worked out, and I think they

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Speaker 2: It could be anything that I want it to be.

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Speaker 2: So like I can go to pilates or righty flawed.

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Speaker 1: You get to pick the workout.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't say what to do.

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Speaker 5: Unless it doesn't. I just skip that part. But there's

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Speaker 1: You have to work out twice today. Yeah, yeah, and

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Speaker 5: It don't sound terrible books they walk every day, right,

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Speaker 1: See, but that's what I mean. It's like I'm going

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Speaker 1: butt kicked. Yes, so that's a workout, I guess. But

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Speaker 1: then you could by definition, I suppose according to this,

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Speaker 2: Well, forty five minutes I gotta walk, So for forty

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Speaker 1: Okay, But that's different than doing forty five minutes of

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Speaker 5: Correct, So I'm assuming this is both They want you

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Speaker 5: to do both ways.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, so that what else do you have

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Speaker 2: I have to drink a lot of water. I have

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Speaker 2: to drink twelve ounces.

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Speaker 1: That's it.

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Speaker 1: is this is easy seventy five. So for twelve hours,

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Speaker 1: I'm a liar.

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Speaker 2: I'm a liar to one hundred and twenty eight ounces. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's getting harder now.

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Speaker 2: It is no junk food, no sugary drinks. That's hard.

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Speaker 5: But I mean for a day, I can definitely do it.

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Speaker 5: Maybe we do it for seventy five. That's what I'm saying. Hey, three,

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Speaker 5: it might get hard. Read ten pages non fiction, so like,

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Speaker 5: I know, you.

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Speaker 1: Make a documentary or whatever.

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Speaker 2: You've got to let them theory book. I'll be reading.

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Speaker 1: We can get into that. I've read a quarter of it.

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Speaker 2: I'm a mel Robin's girl. Okay, let's it's that.

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Speaker 1: I have the same feeling about a lot of self

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Speaker 1: help books. So this is a self help.

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Speaker 2: It is, it is.

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Speaker 1: I've read a lot of them.

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Speaker 2: I gotta read ten.

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Speaker 5: So nonfiction would be like anything that's not fic fiction.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, nonfiction would be anything that's nonfiction correct.

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Speaker 5: Use fiction is the fake story. It's like the romance. Okay,

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Speaker 5: love it? Right to learn something?

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Speaker 2: Got it?

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Speaker 5: No alcohol and cheat meals. That's fine today, Today's Tuesday.

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Speaker 5: No alcohol in my kitchen today. I don't do happy

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Speaker 5: hour on Tuesdays. And then progress pictures, Oh no, I

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Speaker 1: The only good thing about the pictures I wish I

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Speaker 1: would I would feel like I I can see what

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Speaker 1: I've done. True, But at the time I didn't want

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Speaker 1: But now I wish I had them because they're you know, well,

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Speaker 1: thank you. But I don't know about that. But in

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Speaker 1: now I would have to like start eating you know,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the diaparts.

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Speaker 1: And that's that's if I want to like go another

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so like you're going intense, Like I mean, you

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Speaker 4: work out what twice a week, three times a week,

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Speaker 4: three times a week.

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Speaker 2: Well that's impressive.

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Speaker 1: But yeah so this, well twice we geton and then

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Speaker 4: Good job, good job. Yeah, this is for seventy five days,

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Speaker 4: no drinking. You have to read every day, you have

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Speaker 4: to work out twice a day, you have to eat

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Speaker 1: But I will say, one thing feeds the other. So

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Speaker 1: the reading. Well, the reading maybe, but like if you say, okay,

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Speaker 1: then I worked out three times this week. So then

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Speaker 1: And then and then you start to go, oh, I'm

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Speaker 1: And then you know, I'm gonna work out today, I

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Speaker 1: gotta drink a lot of water otherwise it's gonna be bad,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, or like just developing those habits, like right now,

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Speaker 5: I have terrible habits, Like they're horrible. I don't get

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Speaker 5: enough sleep, I don't drink enough water. For sure, I

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Speaker 5: nothing to hard seventy five hard, I think will be

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Speaker 5: really difficult. But I'm also doing it for the mental challenge,

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Speaker 5: and I'm trying to challenge myself in different ways of

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Speaker 5: like I know I'm stronger than this, right I birth

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Speaker 5: the whole child, Like I know that my body is strong.

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Speaker 2: I can do these things, but I am scared. I'm scared.

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Speaker 1: Oh, you totally can. The water. I don't know why

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Speaker 1: the water is so hard. It doesn't taste like anything.

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Speaker 1: That's why it's not rewarding to me. Like I'm just

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Speaker 1: drinking this stuff and it's it's like, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I know, I would rather drink a lot of other things.

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Speaker 1: The alcohol, though I've decided I could. I could probably

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Speaker 1: never drink again. Yeah, in your whole life, easily, I could. Probably.

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Speaker 1: two hundred and forty calories or whatever it is, and

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Speaker 2: No, I'm not paid for this seventy five days like

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Speaker 1: make it up. Yeah, you go over there and push

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Speaker 2: Yeah, recharge gets.

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Speaker 1: Shut up to space the space station for Elon Musk,

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Speaker 1: The recall only affects thirteen ounce bags, and we're available

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Speaker 1: for purchase. As of March seventh. The chips were sold

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Speaker 1: in grocery, drug and convenience stories in thirteen states. So there,

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Speaker 1: I need to.

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Speaker 5: Go to my best friend's house right now because he

441
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Speaker 5: can't have that.

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Speaker 2: He can't have milk.

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Speaker 1: You better see if he'd got the Tostito's cantina traditional

444
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Speaker 1: yellow corn tortilla.

445
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Speaker 2: Chips, the only one he eats. What are you talking about?

446
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Speaker 1: Those are one? He's a cantina guy.

447
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Speaker 10: He is.

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Speaker 2: He eates pretzels and tortilla chips all he can have.

449
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Speaker 1: Okay, well you better call him up. You better call

450
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Speaker 1: him up and say, gen z? Is this, according to

451
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Speaker 1: The New York Post, is being labeled as the ghosted generation?

452
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Speaker 1: So gen Z is defined as what I always get

453
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Speaker 1: these messed up. I'm technically somewhere between millennial and I'm

454
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Speaker 1: right on the cusp of millennial and gen X is it? No?

455
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Speaker 1: Ninety seven to twenty twelve? Gen z? But what am I?

456
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Speaker 1: What am I again? Millennial? You're a barely millennial? Or

457
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Speaker 1: but what's before that? What's older than that? Why? X?

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Speaker 6: Right?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 7: So yeah, So gen Z starts at ninety seven, Millennials

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Speaker 7: are eighty one to ninety six.

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Speaker 1: And then what's right before that that was born at

463
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Speaker 1: the end of eighty Yeah, right, So I'm somewhere between

464
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Speaker 1: act millennial. Okay, So gen Z is becoming the ghosted

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Speaker 1: generation or is According to a new article from Business Insider,

466
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Speaker 1: young adults today are facing more knows than any generation

467
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Speaker 1: before them, from dating apps to college applications to the

468
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Speaker 1: brutal job market. Is that true though? I mean maybe

469
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Speaker 1: dating apps, because you know you're there's much a much

470
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Speaker 1: higher percentage of folks that you're looking at and that

471
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Speaker 1: could potentially not swipe right on you, which I don't

472
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Speaker 1: necessarily see as a no. That doesn't seem like I mean,

473
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Speaker 1: it's not if someone doesn't match with me, it's not

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Speaker 1: necessarily rejection. I don't if I don't know them. Maybe

475
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Speaker 1: if I know them, i'd feel rejected, But I don't know.

476
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Speaker 1: How is that any different than when I used to

477
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Speaker 1: have to go out back in the day, like in

478
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Speaker 1: high school, walk up to the girl in high school

479
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Speaker 1: and talk to her because I couldn't text her because

480
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Speaker 1: we didn't have that. I don't know, But and why

481
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Speaker 1: are there more nos in the job market now than

482
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Speaker 1: there were when we were younger. I mean, I mean,

483
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Speaker 1: how many no's have I gotten in this business? I

484
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Speaker 1: get them every day still to this day. Same. But

485
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Speaker 1: there's an author who said, it's not about entitlement, it's

486
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Speaker 1: about gen z growing up in a world where yes,

487
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Speaker 1: seems more out of reach than ever despite having more

488
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Speaker 1: access to opportunities. Think endless dating options at your fingertips,

489
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Speaker 1: get higher rates of loneliness, or sending out hundreds of

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Speaker 1: job applications with nothing but radio silence in return? Is

491
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Speaker 1: that a new thing? Though? I don't know. I'm am

492
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Speaker 1: asking an honest question. I'm not picking on anybody, but

493
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Speaker 1: are there really more nos now in the job market

494
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Speaker 1: than there ever have been? I mean, I.

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Speaker 6: Feel like because the way we get jobs now is different.

496
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Speaker 6: So now you can mass you know, fine on inded

497
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Speaker 6: a thousand job opportunities and apply for all of them.

498
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Speaker 6: Back in the day, you had to know somebody or

499
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Speaker 6: have an internship, sure that you shot your shot at

500
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Speaker 6: like one job and works your way to get it.

501
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Speaker 6: Now they could shoot their shot at a million jobs. Yeah,

502
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Speaker 6: but it's old.

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Speaker 1: No, Kiki, if I send a thousand mass job, but

504
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Speaker 1: you know, resumes out one's you know, generic application to

505
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Speaker 1: a thousand places. And I know that's probably an exaggeration,

506
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Speaker 1: but let's say I do and and nine and ninety nine.

507
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Speaker 1: Tell me, no, I don't see that as a rejection

508
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Speaker 1: because I didn't really invest myself in any of that.

509
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Speaker 6: Right, because you're you're fishing, You're normal, right, So they live, right,

510
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Speaker 6: they're delusional and they think that they deserve all one

511
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Speaker 6: thousand jobs that they applied for, Like I applied to

512
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Speaker 6: be a doctor yesterday.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Like that, I.

514
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Speaker 1: Dont think you could do it. I mean, you're a judge, right,

515
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Speaker 1: you know.

516
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Speaker 6: It's that type of delusion that they have that our

517
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Speaker 6: generation and the ones before us we didn't have. We

518
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Speaker 6: lived in like a different reality because we were humbled

519
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Speaker 6: every day.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that might make it. I can see why

521
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Speaker 1: it might be harder to get a job because everyone's

522
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Speaker 1: doing that. So it may be harder for people to

523
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Speaker 1: if I'm a hiring manager and people are applying for

524
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Speaker 1: the job and they don't even know what they applied

525
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Speaker 1: for because it's right because they just applied, Because then

526
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Speaker 1: it might be harder for me to stand out than

527
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Speaker 1: it was before, because like when I was applying for

528
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Speaker 1: radio jobs, I'm not even that old, but I mean

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Speaker 1: this was, you know, early two thousands. When I'm first

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Speaker 1: applying for radio jobs. The way you had to do

531
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Speaker 1: it was you had to make a CD, right, and

532
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Speaker 1: you had to type out a resume and a CD

533
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Speaker 1: and then you had to figure out a way to

534
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Speaker 1: make that stand out. But you still had to put

535
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Speaker 1: it in a fed X envelope and send it to

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Speaker 1: a radio station. And then when I finally got said jobs,

537
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Speaker 1: then I was the guy receiving those things. And I

538
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Speaker 1: can remember there would be bins of these applications, but

539
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Speaker 1: there would be maybe thirty, and I thought that was

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Speaker 1: a lot.

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Speaker 8: You know.

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Speaker 1: We'd have like these bins of envelopes of people who

543
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Speaker 1: wanted jobs we didn't have, and I would try because

544
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Speaker 1: I remember applying for them and no one writing me back.

545
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Speaker 1: I can remember, but I knew they got it because

546
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Speaker 1: it was FedEx so you could put little receipt on it.

547
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Speaker 1: But I remember trying to go through them all and

548
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Speaker 1: at least call them back. I had no ability to

549
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Speaker 1: hire them, I had no juice, but I just remember

550
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Speaker 1: what it was like to send the envelope and get

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Speaker 1: nothing back. I can remember I remember this guy. There

552
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Speaker 1: was a guy in Louisville, Kentucky. I said, I made

553
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Speaker 1: a I took a bottle of Jack Daniels because it's

554
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Speaker 1: Kentucky whiskey, and I bless you.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I make it away from the I know.

556
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Speaker 1: You're not allergic to that because that's one of your favorites.

557
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Speaker 1: And I made a custom label for the front of

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Speaker 1: the Jack Daniels bottle with my face on it, my

559
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Speaker 1: name and the whole thing. And I put it on

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Speaker 1: there and I sent it to him and he never

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Speaker 1: wrote me back. And I saw him at a conference

562
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Speaker 1: like three years ago, because he's still in the business,

563
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Speaker 1: and I go, do you remember when I did that?

564
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Speaker 1: He goes, yeah, thanks for the whiskey. And I was like,

565
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Speaker 1: you couldn't have answered, I go, I go to anyone

566
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Speaker 1: else do anything like that? He was like no. I'm like,

567
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Speaker 1: couldn't you have at least called me and said I

568
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Speaker 1: don't have a job for you. But that was really creative.

569
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Speaker 1: You know, it's funny you don't forget these things. But

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Speaker 1: I guess what I'm saying is if you're if you're

571
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Speaker 1: if you're swiping on one hundred people on a dating

572
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Speaker 1: app and nobody matches with you. I don't necessarily think

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Speaker 1: that's rejection because I don't there's no investment. Yeah, you know,

574
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Speaker 1: if I make it. If I go ten rounds in

575
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Speaker 1: an interview and don't get the job, that's rejection. They

576
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Speaker 1: decided they didn't want you. Now, that sucks, but that's

577
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:10,479
Speaker 1: nothing new, right, that's when happening forever.

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Speaker 2: Well, I think now too.

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Speaker 5: I listen to a whole podcast episode yesterday about it

580
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Speaker 5: was really interesting, and I think what's going on to

581
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Speaker 5: is AI. I think is going through those applications and

582
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Speaker 5: automatically just disqualifying a lot of people.

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Speaker 1: So I think, well, that's the only way, right, because

584
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Speaker 1: how can they possibly if everybody on Earth who's looking

585
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Speaker 1: for a job is just mass applying for jobs correct,

586
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Speaker 1: then how do they know which you recommended?

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Speaker 5: They're like, don't mass apply, like make this personal, like actually,

588
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Speaker 5: like do it the correct way. But people are not

589
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Speaker 5: gen z I'm talking to you, So then you know,

590
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Speaker 5: AI is just kind of like throwing them out basically

591
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Speaker 5: in the trash and it sucks. But also too, I

592
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Speaker 5: see on TikTok a lot of gen z say that

593
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Speaker 5: it's hard to get a job, and I don't know

594
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Speaker 5: how true this is, but somebody said that even Trader

595
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Speaker 5: Joe's has like a list of people applying every day

596
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Speaker 5: that they can't even hire.

597
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Speaker 2: So I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I'm a job market expert, but it doesn't seem great

599
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Speaker 5: right now.

600
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Speaker 2: No, I don't really. The market is crazy.

601
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Speaker 6: I've heard and think about it, and now they have

602
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Speaker 6: full companies that all they do is scan through applications

603
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Speaker 6: for other job like for companies.

604
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you'll see it on TikTok all the time.

605
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:10,199
Speaker 1: Ways to optimize your resume so AI will pick up

606
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Speaker 1: all right, you know and stuff. So I mean I

607
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Speaker 1: would agree, now you're competing with a new level of sophistication,

608
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Speaker 1: But I don't know that that means that you should

609
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Speaker 1: feel more rejected than any other generation who didn't get

610
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Speaker 1: a job either. I mean, because I guess every generation

611
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Speaker 1: has had challenges, right. I mean, it used to be

612
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Speaker 1: you couldn't even apply online. You had to physically go

613
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Speaker 1: to all these places and fill out individual applications and whatever,

614
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Speaker 1: you know, So that was a challenge. But I guess

615
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Speaker 1: that meant there was less competition because everybody couldn't just

616
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Speaker 1: push one button. But I guess college is probably the

617
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Speaker 1: same way. I remember I had to fill out individual

618
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Speaker 1: college applications for every college. Yeah, now that felt like

619
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Speaker 1: rejection because every process was different everyone. I mean, there's

620
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Speaker 1: some of the essays you could reuse, but a lot

621
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Speaker 1: of colleges wanted different subject matters, so you had to

622
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Speaker 1: write different essays. Then of course you had different levels

623
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Speaker 1: of investment. I can remember not getting into colleges I

624
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Speaker 1: really thought I wanted to go to and that felt

625
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Speaker 1: terrible because you're rejecting me. Somebody read that and looked

626
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Speaker 1: through my grade and looked through my resume and looked

627
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Speaker 1: through my essays and decided I wasn't good enough.

628
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Speaker 2: But I'm not even get that personal. I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you never had the thought like, oh I'm

630
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Speaker 4: getting rejected more than like Susie down the hall, did you, Like?

631
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Speaker 2: I would never think like that.

632
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Speaker 4: I mean, I know they have people like designated when

633
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Speaker 4: you're applying to like combing through your social and that's

634
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Speaker 4: got to be an issue these days. But I just

635
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Speaker 4: I don't know how we can quantify the amount of

636
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Speaker 4: rejection each generation gets. I just think every other generation

637
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Speaker 4: never had the thought like I'm getting it worse.

638
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Speaker 2: Good point, you know what I mean?

639
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Speaker 1: Somebody said he didn't respond because Jack's made in Tennessee

640
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Speaker 1: at Kentucky. I think, I don't Maybe it was like

641
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Speaker 1: a Tennessee job. I don't know. I don't know. That's

642
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Speaker 1: that's the point of last twenty dollars. The point is

643
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Speaker 1: I couldn't afford to do any of this, and I

644
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Speaker 1: don't know when I became a photoshop expert to make

645
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Speaker 1: the l that's the point. The point is, I guess

646
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Speaker 1: I know that nobody else did that, so at least

647
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Speaker 1: take one second to call me and go, your tape sucked.

648
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:11,359
Speaker 1: But that was really that was her treated But maybe

649
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Speaker 1: maybe that's what happened. Maybe that's what happened. Critics say

650
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 1: that gen Z was never taught how to lose, was

651
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Speaker 1: raised in a culture where everybody is a winner, and

652
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Speaker 1: now in the real world the crash is hard. Okay,

653
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Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe.

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Speaker 4: I mean, my sister's getting rejected right now for internship.

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Speaker 4: She's applying and I've never heard her saying. I mean,

656
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Speaker 4: she's bombed, but.

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Speaker 2: She moves on. She's like, you know, I learned something

658
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Speaker 2: in every interview.

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Speaker 1: See, but you were saying she's getting to like three

660
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Speaker 1: rounds of interviews, and I would argue that is a rejection. Now,

661
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Speaker 1: I'm not saying she's not good enough, But what.

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Speaker 2: I mean is it hurts to me.

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Speaker 1: Yes, Like if I send an application and you don't

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Speaker 1: write me back, or I or I swipe right on

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Speaker 1: you simply and you don't swipe right on me, I

666
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Speaker 1: don't see that as a rejection. You don't know me

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Speaker 1: from anything. Now if I interviewed three times for a

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Speaker 1: job and then you say I want somebody else, Now

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Speaker 1: that I can understand that, that's reet that's them saying

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Speaker 1: someone else is better than you. Yeah, And I don't

671
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Speaker 1: think that's a terrible thing.

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Speaker 4: And she, I will say, like she takes it better

673
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Speaker 4: based on she works with recruiters, so like some recruiters

674
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Speaker 4: are really great at telling her like why she may

675
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Speaker 4: not have gotten it and talking her through like this

676
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Speaker 4: is not about you personally, there was someone a little

677
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Speaker 4: more qualified, Like she like takes it better than if

678
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Speaker 4: someone just like ghosts her and then is like, sorry.

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Speaker 2: Someone else got the job.

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Speaker 4: You know, because she's putting time in these interviews, but

681
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Speaker 4: she's never once said, like, this is worse than when

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Speaker 4: you were going through it.

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Speaker 1: You know, maybe the GEB was in Knoxville whatever, twenty

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Speaker 1: two years ago, and I promise you I was considerate

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Speaker 1: about what I was doing. I don't know. It doesn't

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Speaker 1: I didn't. I thought it was clever. Men who I'll

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Speaker 1: finish these headlines quickly. Men who regularly use cannabis or

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Speaker 1: synthetic cannabinoids cannabinoids rare okay reports significantly lower sexual satisfaction, desire,

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Speaker 1: and erectile function compared to non users. Hmmm, I'm doing

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Speaker 1: all right, Thank you? Thanks are going for in that area.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I agree with that. I feel

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Speaker 1: like if I, you know, hypothetically, if I had a

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Speaker 1: little bit of a right the sensation is actually a

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Speaker 1: little it. I don't know about that from what I've heard. Allegedly,

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Speaker 1: there's a phone case that flips over when it here's

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Speaker 1: the word cheers. Heineken has created what they're calling the Flipper.

697
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Speaker 1: It's a phone case which flips your phone face down

698
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Speaker 1: so you don't get distracted by socials when you're out socializing.

699
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Speaker 1: It uses AI trained listening tools connected to a robotic

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Speaker 1: arm to flip the phone nestled inside it when it

701
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Speaker 1: senses the word cheers, a universal sign that you're out

702
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Speaker 1: having in person conversation. It's a prototype for now, but

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Speaker 1: the idea, of course is that you wouldn't be distracted

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Speaker 1: by your phone, which the kiki would just flip it

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Speaker 1: back over so it wouldn't work. And A guy who

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Speaker 1: is four feet three inches tall is believed to be

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Speaker 1: the world's oldest person after he turned one hundred and

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Speaker 1: twenty five on Saturday, April fifth. This guy lives in Peru.

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Speaker 1: His name is Mashiko and that's what his government issued

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Speaker 1: photo says and at lists his birth year is nineteen hundred.

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Speaker 1: The old and tiny man was orphan at the age

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Speaker 1: of seven after his parents tragically died while trying to

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Speaker 1: cross the river in nineteen oh seven.

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Speaker 11: Jesus.

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Speaker 1: The guy worked in the fields from a young age,

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Speaker 1: unable to attend school because the closest one was too

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Speaker 1: far away. During his time working in the fields, he

718
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Speaker 1: reared animals and bartered farm goods. He never had a

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Speaker 1: partner or children. He lived a simple, solitary and self

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Speaker 1: sufficient life. But apparently he's one hundred and twenty five

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Speaker 1: years old. I'm all sad. My goodness, I think a

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Speaker 1: nice eighty five ninety would be. And at this rate,

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Speaker 1: I'm not even sure about maybe a nice if I

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Speaker 1: could live, if I could live healthfully to about eighty

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Speaker 1: and then I just dropped dead.

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Speaker 6: Oh, don't say that. Eighties young, Yeah, still need to

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Speaker 6: get it in at eighty.

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Speaker 1: Get it in?

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Speaker 11: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Oh lord may is young?

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Speaker 2: I agree?

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Speaker 1: Okay, well you know what I mean. Had one hundred

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Speaker 1: and twenty five. I think I'm proud. No, I'll set

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Speaker 1: with them. It's National Library Workers Day, National Empanada Day,

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Speaker 1: and National Zoo Lover's Day. The Entertainer Report blogs and

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Speaker 1: Stay or Go will debate some relationship drama all next

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Speaker 1: Fresh Shows. Entertainer Report is on the Fresh Show.

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Speaker 4: Sunday's season three finale of The White Lotus was seen

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Speaker 4: by six point two million viewers in the US, and

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Speaker 4: that viewership was fifty one percent higher than the season

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Speaker 4: two finale, which was at four point one million US viewers.

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Speaker 4: And I think it's probably because, well, it happens every season,

743
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Speaker 4: but if you haven't seen it every season, it's the

744
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Speaker 4: premise is that everyone goes to the White Lotus, which

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Speaker 4: is a resort, so you learn about everybody who's staying

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Speaker 4: at this resort on their vacation. It's like a family,

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Speaker 4: you know, it's three best friends, it's a couple on

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Speaker 4: their honeymoon.

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Speaker 2: So you learn all their stories and at the beginning you.

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Speaker 4: Always learn that there was a murder or murderers, and

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Speaker 4: so you watch the whole season to figure out who

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Speaker 4: was the murderer.

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Speaker 2: How did it come happen?

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Speaker 4: Kind of yeah, but it's like it's it's dark, but

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Speaker 4: it's dark humor. There are are light moments, but it's

756
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Speaker 4: always takes place at a different you know, nice destination.

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Speaker 4: One was in Italy, this last one was in Thailand,

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Speaker 4: so I think people were trying to figure out and boy,

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Speaker 4: I kind of thought who the murderer might be.

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Speaker 2: But there was a.

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Speaker 4: Twist after it happened and that that was kind of crazy.

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Speaker 4: But highly recommend. You don't need to watch one season

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Speaker 4: without the other.

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Speaker 2: But they usually let.

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Speaker 4: Like one character survive from the other because the thing

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Speaker 4: is is that it's like a branch of resorts, so

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Speaker 4: they the white Lotus is always existing, but like one

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Speaker 4: employee might carry through or they you know, they let

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Speaker 4: Jennifer Coolidge do two seasons, but everybody else is brand new.

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Speaker 6: So services, what streaming services that are on just it

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Speaker 6: is on max.

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Speaker 2: It is on max. It is on Max. So there

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Speaker 2: you go.

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Speaker 4: But I am not I am asking a question about that,

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Speaker 4: but I am not asking a question about.

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Speaker 1: Actually have an invention. This is crazy to have an invention.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know what I should be talking about

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Speaker 1: it publicly. But what I'm gonna I have a disinvention.

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Speaker 1: I'm taking all the streaming services and I'm putting them

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Speaker 1: on one streaming service that automatically connects your telegraph.

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Speaker 2: No one saw of that ever, No, no, yeah.

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Speaker 1: No it's so. What you would be able to do

783
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Speaker 1: is turn your TV on and then there would be

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Speaker 1: like a listing of all.

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Speaker 2: The different Wait, it would all be bundled.

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Speaker 1: Like all the channels and then all the shows, and

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Speaker 1: then you would just be able to just click on

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Speaker 1: it and watch it. What do you want to on

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Speaker 1: the TV? Cable?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Oh my god, you've always been so smart?

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean, you know, break that down. These are

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Speaker 1: the kind of things that come to me. I mean,

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Speaker 1: the difference between us is I'm actually trying to make

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Speaker 1: cable happen. Yeah, and you came up with uber and

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Speaker 1: just didn't tell anybody. Avocado Toast didn't.

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Speaker 5: Tell anybody, and why not rich Sam.

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Speaker 4: Billboard released their list of the twenty five greatest female

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Speaker 4: rappers of all time. Of course, rap as we know

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Speaker 4: it wouldn't have been possible without the pioneering role of

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Speaker 4: women mcs and.

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Speaker 2: Back when the scene was predominantly.

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Speaker 4: Male in the seventies and eighties, women like EMC Light Rock,

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Speaker 4: San Chante, Salt and Peppa and Queen Latifa emerge MC

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Speaker 4: light Jason, you were asking who she was the first

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Speaker 4: ever female MC to release a solo studio album, so

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Speaker 4: she's pretty important. And then there's Missy Elliott, who's innate

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Speaker 4: creativity not only made music videos like a damn Near movie,

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Speaker 4: but she had her own unique.

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Speaker 2: Sound and style. She was just such an innovator.

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Speaker 4: So I will do the top ten backwards for you,

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Speaker 4: starting with ten, Foxy Brown, Eve, Roxanne, Chante, Sultan, Pepa,

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Speaker 4: EMC Light at six, Queen Latifah at five, Lil Kim,

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Speaker 4: Lauren Hill, Missy Elliott, and Miss Nicki Minaj at number one, and.

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Speaker 2: Then elsewhere in the list.

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Speaker 4: I thought, I mean, Dochi's on the list, which you know,

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Speaker 4: she's a great rapper.

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Speaker 2: We just kind of met her.

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Speaker 4: Nato Remy Ma Doja Cat, Megnae Stallion left Eye, who

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Speaker 4: I absolutely love. So those are some who made the

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Speaker 4: top twenty five. De Brett, Cardi b you know all

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Speaker 4: those ladies. So congrats to Nicki Minaj. And days after

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Speaker 4: she was asked to sign divorce papers, Kelsey Ballerini helped

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Speaker 4: in this clip from kelsey Saturday show in Tulsa, the

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Speaker 4: my name is Kelsey Ballerina. I'm here to tell you

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Speaker 4: shared a video of how the moment came to be,

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Speaker 4: and spotted Maddie sign which read can you help me

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Speaker 4: announce my pregnancy?

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Speaker 2: Caught her eye and she said, yes, we love Kelsey

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Speaker 2: in this house. By the way, if you.

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Speaker 1: fourth row Javalvin tickets. You had to think about it

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Speaker 1: I'd be okay with them. Keep getting met with disappointment Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: game with us on the left field porch. Yes, the

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Speaker 1: are you picking these places? Well, we're just throwing dartship maps. Actually.

870
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Speaker 1: So the next one's in Toledo, which is exciting. No,

871
00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:17,400
Speaker 1: we are strategic here. We're trying to hit different areas

872
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 1: and we hit on the last tour also areas where

873
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:23,280
Speaker 1: people listen to us, and so hopefully over time we'll

874
00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:23,840
Speaker 1: hit everywhere.

875
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:26,240
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's a mix of that and who will respond

876
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 7: to me, But I do want to correct myself. So

877
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:32,200
Speaker 7: on Friday I said that it's million dollar Bacon. That's

878
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Speaker 7: like the signature says. I want to correct myself it's

879
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Speaker 7: billion dollar bacon.

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Speaker 1: Oh it's not all so wow. So all this time

881
00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:45,759
Speaker 1: I thought it was million, and now you're telling me

882
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Speaker 1: it's billions billion. Okay, Well with out of my league

883
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Speaker 1: bill a million, I can do billion. That's going to

884
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,560
Speaker 1: be a stretch. But we're gonna be there on Friday

885
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 1: from six to nine thirty doing the show live. It's

886
00:36:57,760 --> 00:37:03,359
Speaker 1: on Aberdeen Drive and Valparaiso. May people bacon. Valparaiso sold out.

887
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:05,960
Speaker 1: Kendrick Lamurins is a ticket to Silderfield. Got those brought

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Speaker 1: manufacturing in the state of Illinois. So I think it's

891
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Speaker 1: gonna be big. I do. I mean a lot of

892
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Speaker 1: people text and saying they can't wait for Friday and Valpariso.

893
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Speaker 1: So I feel like Indiana's gonna show up and show out.

894
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:23,360
Speaker 1: It's gonna be a big time because in Northwest Indiana

895
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Speaker 1: they wrap the Fred Show. They're part of the thirteen.

896
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:27,279
Speaker 1: We got it, come on, you know, we got to

897
00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:31,200
Speaker 1: hit everywhere. And then I task him Palatine are left yep? Okay?

898
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 2: So are those a little closer.

899
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Speaker 6: Oh not really, no, not really no No.

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Speaker 1: I said to Jason, what is the absolute length of

901
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:44,720
Speaker 1: our listening audience? I want to go to the very extreme.

902
00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:46,520
Speaker 1: I want to go to where it starts to get

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Speaker 1: a little fuzzy. Yeah, I want to stay there. I

904
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:52,799
Speaker 1: want to go anywhere we can hear us through the fuzz. Yeah,

905
00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:56,879
Speaker 1: because everybody matters, all of the thirteen. We're gonna meet

906
00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:58,920
Speaker 1: every single one of you. You can hear us anywhere

907
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 1: on the free I Heart Radio. Well, don't say that,

908
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 1: because then we're gonna end up in Springfield, Massachusetts instead

909
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:08,319
Speaker 1: your favorite place, So Valparaiso on Friday, and thank you

910
00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:10,840
Speaker 1: thirteen too, were continues. It's the Fred Show. We'll go

911
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:11,680
Speaker 1: up in the city.

912
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Speaker 5: My latest one was the head Ants in the House.

913
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Speaker 5: I was like, what did you have to do so

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Speaker 5: bad in your past life? Did you come back as

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Speaker 5: an ant?

916
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Speaker 12: Wow?

917
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Speaker 8: Yeah?

918
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Speaker 1: No, it's a full intelligence briefing every morning. It's intent.

919
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Speaker 2: That's what you're doing in there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what'd you doll it? Nevermind? I will start The

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Speaker 1: Fred's Show is on a morning, Tuesday, April eight. The

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Speaker 1: Fred Show is here. Hi Kaylin, good morning, Hi Jason

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Speaker 1: brad Hi Paulina.

924
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Speaker 2: Hello there, cheeky, good morning.

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Speaker 1: Bellahmine is here on the phone and the text hit

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Speaker 1: us up anytime eight five, five, five, nine, one one

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Speaker 1: oh three five blogs are audio journals. In just a second,

928
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Speaker 1: Stayer go, we'll debate the relationship drama show biz Kiki

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Speaker 1: two hundred and fifty bucks fifteen and two is your

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Speaker 1: record three game win streak? And the entertainment report this

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Speaker 1: hour too, what are you working on? Ky?

932
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Speaker 4: We are talking fire festival too, and also a two

933
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Speaker 4: decade long beef has ended?

934
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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, and that we're commercial free for the

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Speaker 1: next forty five minutes.

936
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Speaker 12: The yeah, they talk better than they These are the

937
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Speaker 12: radio blogs on the Fred Show.

938
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Speaker 1: We're writing in our diaries. Ex If we say them aloud,

939
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 1: we call them blogs.

940
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Speaker 2: Kaylen go, thank you, dear blog.

941
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Speaker 4: So there's been a horrible mistake that has happened, and

942
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:33,280
Speaker 4: it's all over a miscommunication. So I am very into

943
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Speaker 4: do you take magnesium?

944
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Speaker 11: Fred?

945
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:35,319
Speaker 1: No?

946
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Speaker 4: Okay, Like I feel like you hit a certain age

947
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Speaker 4: and people push magnesium on you.

948
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Speaker 2: I found a brand that actually works.

949
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 4: I love my magnesium, but I am kind of a

950
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,319
Speaker 4: hot mess just in general, you know, Like I used

951
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:50,399
Speaker 4: to keep things in my bra I keep things all

952
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:54,080
Speaker 4: over the apartment whatever. And I kind of have something

953
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Speaker 4: that I call my little pill jar. It's a mason

954
00:39:56,520 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 4: jar where I put everything in there. Okay, take them

955
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:00,799
Speaker 4: out of the bottle and put them all in the

956
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Speaker 4: mason jar. And I do this because like we don't

957
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Speaker 4: have a ton of space in our bathroom, like underneath

958
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:10,239
Speaker 4: we just have like one little cupboard thing, not a

959
00:40:10,280 --> 00:40:11,520
Speaker 4: lot of space. I'm a girl, I have a lot

960
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:13,799
Speaker 4: of stuff. So I thought that this was helping our

961
00:40:13,840 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 4: issue with space. So recently I have been giving my

962
00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:21,440
Speaker 4: boyfriend magnesium if he ever feels like off or like

963
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:23,799
Speaker 4: he has anxiety or whatever, and it's been helping him.

964
00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 4: But I've always been the one to get the magnesium. Well,

965
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Speaker 4: recently I found out that he's been going into the

966
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Speaker 4: little pill jar and taking what he thinks is magnesium, okay,

967
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Speaker 4: white pills, just reaching in there.

968
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Speaker 2: I did not know he was going into the little

969
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Speaker 2: pill jar.

970
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Speaker 4: I also, in the little pill jar have some suppositories,

971
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Speaker 4: oh good vaginal suppositories, and they are boric acid, which

972
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Speaker 4: very much is not meant to be ingested orally.

973
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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

974
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Speaker 2: And the other day I my boyfriends where the magnesium.

975
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Speaker 4: I'm like, in here, I grab them the thing and

976
00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:03,920
Speaker 4: I see what he grabs and I go, hold up,

977
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Speaker 4: one of those is not for your mouth. You need

978
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Speaker 4: to put that back in the pill gender right. So

979
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Speaker 4: he's like, oh my bad and grab another pill. Then

980
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Speaker 4: a couple of days later he goes, Kaylin, I go yeah,

981
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Speaker 4: He goes, I was too embarrassed to say this the

982
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Speaker 4: other day, but I have been reaching in there and

983
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Speaker 4: I have been taking some of those orally, and so

984
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Speaker 4: he has been taking well boric acid, vagina pills orally

985
00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:34,880
Speaker 4: by mistake.

986
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Speaker 1: Why are people taking anything they don't know what they're taking?

987
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:41,320
Speaker 1: One he asked, questions before you put things in your mouth?

988
00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 2: Now, him and g I know.

989
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:45,879
Speaker 4: Now him and Gason blame me because they think it's

990
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Speaker 4: my fault because I combine all my pills in my Mason.

991
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Speaker 2: Jar of pills.

992
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Speaker 7: He puts multiple different types of WoT I would raise

993
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:57,879
Speaker 7: the different.

994
00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:00,440
Speaker 1: I mean, I see both sides, because like what going

995
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 1: in there and taking things he doesn't know where they are.

996
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 1: But why are you putting things that aren't intended to

997
00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:07,320
Speaker 1: be put in your mouth in the mouth jar? Well,

998
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:08,760
Speaker 1: like there should be a mouth jar.

999
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 7: And there should be multiple things you should put in

1000
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:12,000
Speaker 7: your mouth in one jar.

1001
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:14,360
Speaker 1: Well, sure, I mean, but then at least they at

1002
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Speaker 1: least they go in your mouth.

1003
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Speaker 4: They're different shapes, they are different colors, Like I can

1004
00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:17,879
Speaker 4: tell the.

1005
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 1: Difference, but the things that go into other areas might

1006
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:21,920
Speaker 1: they might not need to be in that same area.

1007
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 1: But at the same time, it's not his jar.

1008
00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:26,400
Speaker 2: It's not your Mason jar.

1009
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Speaker 1: Right, so maybe find your own Mason jar or get

1010
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:32,439
Speaker 1: on the Amazon and get yourself some magnesium that comes

1011
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:35,360
Speaker 1: in a magnesium thing that goes in your mouth. And

1012
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:38,400
Speaker 1: it's you know, for all humans, not just women.

1013
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 2: And you have.

1014
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:40,840
Speaker 4: Stomach problems and like we've been trying to get to

1015
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 4: the bottom of them.

1016
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Speaker 2: And I bet I know why I think that I can.

1017
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:45,200
Speaker 2: I know it's not helping you.

1018
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:48,399
Speaker 1: But least at least everything's nice and balance in there,

1019
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:49,319
Speaker 1: So that's good, right, right?

1020
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Speaker 4: Your pH is it slaps, but my god, I felt

1021
00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:55,560
Speaker 4: so bad. But also like he's mad at me and

1022
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:58,640
Speaker 4: it's my pill jar, and I can tell the difference.

1023
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:04,359
Speaker 1: I don't I got nothing, I got I got an Oh,

1024
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 1: I'm just kidding. I can't stop thinking about it.

1025
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:10,439
Speaker 7: I'd like to stop thinking of the jars and dump

1026
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:13,520
Speaker 7: them all into one jar like that. It's like it's

1027
00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 7: like pill cereal, Like that's crazy.

1028
00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:19,440
Speaker 2: But I know they are all different shapes and colors

1029
00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 2: and sizes.

1030
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 7: I take multiple pills too, But if I threw them

1031
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:23,520
Speaker 7: all in the jar, I don't think I would know this.

1032
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:24,960
Speaker 1: Way, But I don't do that. I keep them in

1033
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 1: their original what's wrong with the original package?

1034
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:29,799
Speaker 2: Well, because we don't have a lot of space. But

1035
00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:31,919
Speaker 2: I think I was trying to listen. No good deed,

1036
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:33,479
Speaker 2: No good deed.

1037
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:35,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I like to keep things in their original packaging,

1038
00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 1: so I'm real clear on what they are. When I.

1039
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:43,040
Speaker 4: Say that, you can't tell a brown circular pill and

1040
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 4: a long, white opaque pill and a see through pill,

1041
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:47,800
Speaker 4: I don't.

1042
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 7: Remember which one is which, especially if I mine are white,

1043
00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:51,160
Speaker 7: they're not alway.

1044
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 1: I also the same way that I don't go through

1045
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 1: in women's purses under any circumstances. I don't go through

1046
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 1: women's bathroom stuff. Like you got your bathroom stuff. I

1047
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:00,880
Speaker 1: got my bathroom stuff. If I need something from you,

1048
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:02,760
Speaker 1: I'll ask you. You can go get it and deliver

1049
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:05,760
Speaker 1: it to me vice versa. Yeah, it's my private area,

1050
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 1: that's your private area, and I don't I don't need

1051
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:09,960
Speaker 1: to be going through your stuff. I don't need to

1052
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:12,839
Speaker 1: be accidentally taking something that's meant for there and put

1053
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:17,520
Speaker 1: it in my mouth. So there's that. Get right, okay,

1054
00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 1: Stread show is on. It's stay or go Okay, Shannon,

1055
00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 1: Good morning, Sannin, Hi, good morning. So what's going on

1056
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:31,960
Speaker 1: with this this boyfriend of yours?

1057
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:36,959
Speaker 9: Okay, So we've been dating for fifteen years and.

1058
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:38,200
Speaker 2: I know that sounds like a lot.

1059
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:39,000
Speaker 1: That's a minute.

1060
00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 9: We started at eighteen, so it's like, you know, those

1061
00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:44,560
Speaker 9: younger years do they really count? But yes they do

1062
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 9: in girl years, yes they count. I want to get married, right,

1063
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:51,600
Speaker 9: like I want to have a family. I'm thirty three,

1064
00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 9: Like you know, this is like geriatric pregnancy kind of like,

1065
00:44:55,960 --> 00:44:57,920
Speaker 9: you know, we got to get the ball rolling here.

1066
00:44:58,000 --> 00:45:00,719
Speaker 9: But my boyfriend just says that he's not ready.

1067
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 1: After fifteen years, he's not ready? Yeah, are you using

1068
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:06,640
Speaker 1: big tim?

1069
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:08,920
Speaker 9: I don't know.

1070
00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 2: I don't think so like it.

1071
00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 1: I think that's Kiky's boyfriend. But it's been about half

1072
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 1: the time, right, eight years? Yes, seven seven? Yeah, fifteen

1073
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:24,080
Speaker 1: years and this guy hasn't pulled the trigger. And you

1074
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:26,359
Speaker 1: want to have kids, and the whole geriatric pregnancy thing

1075
00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:28,200
Speaker 1: is laughable to me, but I know that's what they

1076
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:31,080
Speaker 1: call it. My sister her first pregnancy was I think,

1077
00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:33,399
Speaker 1: like pre geriatric, and then the second one was full

1078
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 1: on geriatric.

1079
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 9: By definition, if you're thirty five or older, they consider

1080
00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:41,600
Speaker 9: it cheeriaster or like I guess they like want to

1081
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:44,279
Speaker 9: use like this advanced and maternal age thing, but you

1082
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:45,120
Speaker 9: know what they're saying.

1083
00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:51,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, So okay, hmm. It's funny because Kylein and I

1084
00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 1: we're having this conversation all of us actually off the

1085
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 1: air yesterday about getting married, and like I had a

1086
00:45:56,960 --> 00:45:59,840
Speaker 1: woman at the event on Friday say to me, you know,

1087
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:02,279
Speaker 1: somebody will marry you kind of thing, and I was like, well,

1088
00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:05,680
Speaker 1: you're assuming I want to be married. Everyone's assuming that

1089
00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:07,640
Speaker 1: I want to be married, and I'm desperately trying to

1090
00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:09,279
Speaker 1: be in a relationship and I am not. I mean,

1091
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 1: if I met somebody who was you know, and the

1092
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:14,880
Speaker 1: synergy was there, then I would do it. But otherwise

1093
00:46:14,960 --> 00:46:17,319
Speaker 1: I'm good. But as far as getting married, then I

1094
00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 1: asked this person and it's always my follow up question,

1095
00:46:19,960 --> 00:46:22,839
Speaker 1: So you're happily married? Oh no, I'm divorced. Well then

1096
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:25,480
Speaker 1: why tell are you telling me to get married? Oh,

1097
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:27,400
Speaker 1: I'd never do it again? Well, then why are you?

1098
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:30,279
Speaker 1: Why are you encouraging it for others so that we

1099
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:32,480
Speaker 1: can all be tortured the way that you've been tortured.

1100
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:35,839
Speaker 1: So I might say to you after fifteen years, if

1101
00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:39,000
Speaker 1: you're happy and things are functioning and going well, then okay.

1102
00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:40,600
Speaker 1: I mean, if you want that, then you should. You

1103
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:42,799
Speaker 1: deserve to have that and you should find that. But

1104
00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:45,480
Speaker 1: maybe everything is just okay the way it is. Now.

1105
00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:47,239
Speaker 1: You add to this the fact that you want to

1106
00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:49,880
Speaker 1: have kids. Maybe it's important for you to be married

1107
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:52,720
Speaker 1: when you have kids, or you know, that's that's important

1108
00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:55,359
Speaker 1: value for you, not for everybody, but for you. Well,

1109
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:57,440
Speaker 1: then those things need to have You know, you need

1110
00:46:57,480 --> 00:46:59,040
Speaker 1: to get married, and then you need to think about

1111
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:01,400
Speaker 1: starting a family, and you probably want to think about

1112
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:06,520
Speaker 1: that sooner than later. So I get it. But how

1113
00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:10,720
Speaker 1: do you make a person who in fifteen years hasn't

1114
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 1: knows these things about you, knows that you want to

1115
00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:14,960
Speaker 1: be married, knows that you have kids. How do you

1116
00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:17,840
Speaker 1: get them after fifteen years to just convert into somebody

1117
00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:20,160
Speaker 1: who believes in this. I'm not sure that you do

1118
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:23,000
Speaker 1: and the problem is if you were to say to him,

1119
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:26,479
Speaker 1: you better. We've talked about this before too, like, hey,

1120
00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:28,399
Speaker 1: I spent fifteen years. I've giving you plenty of time.

1121
00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:29,920
Speaker 1: I want to be married and have kids. So we're

1122
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:31,239
Speaker 1: doing both of those things and we have to do

1123
00:47:31,280 --> 00:47:33,880
Speaker 1: them in the next thirty six months otherwise it's unhealthy.

1124
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:39,680
Speaker 1: Potentially you may get what you want, but there's two things.

1125
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:42,879
Speaker 1: One it may be under duress, which means a guy

1126
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 1: didn't want to do it anyway. And two, even if

1127
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:47,520
Speaker 1: he does do it, and even if he did want

1128
00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:49,840
Speaker 1: to do it, you had to tell him that. You

1129
00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 1: essentially are going to wonder did I always make him

1130
00:47:53,040 --> 00:47:55,799
Speaker 1: do this? And I don't think either one of those

1131
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:59,320
Speaker 1: things are very good. So my gut tells me, Shannon,

1132
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:01,359
Speaker 1: you might need to think about moving on.

1133
00:48:02,640 --> 00:48:05,800
Speaker 9: Yeah, I know, but he says he wants to get married,

1134
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:08,319
Speaker 9: you know, like, well, he just wants to propose on

1135
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:09,040
Speaker 9: his own time.

1136
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:11,160
Speaker 2: But I'm like, is your watch broken, buddy, Like.

1137
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 6: Come on, fifteen years he not ready? What's his reason

1138
00:48:14,239 --> 00:48:15,080
Speaker 6: for not being ready?

1139
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:16,799
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1140
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:18,480
Speaker 9: He just says he wants to do it on his

1141
00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:21,080
Speaker 9: own time, and you know, it's like, oh, work, oh this,

1142
00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:23,160
Speaker 9: I'm like, there's always going to be stuff, right, Like

1143
00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:26,000
Speaker 9: I am apprized and I want to be the priority.

1144
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 2: Oh well, Anger, you gotta go yeah, because I don't.

1145
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:30,680
Speaker 1: I don't think you can go to him if you

1146
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:33,719
Speaker 1: want to be married after fifteen years. I think the

1147
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:35,680
Speaker 1: only way this works is if you go to him

1148
00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:37,520
Speaker 1: and say, look, I want to be married like now

1149
00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:42,080
Speaker 1: and then and then you have to I mean it's

1150
00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:43,520
Speaker 1: almost like you have to put a deadline on it,

1151
00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:46,840
Speaker 1: because again, fifteen years is a life, it's half a lifetime.

1152
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:49,400
Speaker 1: I mean, it's a long time. And I don't know

1153
00:48:49,440 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 1: how you get a person because if you don't say

1154
00:48:51,680 --> 00:48:55,800
Speaker 1: anything and then status quo, you know, then it. I mean, Jason,

1155
00:48:55,840 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 1: you're kind of in this in this bottle. I'm almost there. Yeah, one,

1156
00:48:59,200 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 1: you're shy and then which I mean, what like what

1157
00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:02,080
Speaker 1: do you do?

1158
00:49:02,200 --> 00:49:02,319
Speaker 6: Right?

1159
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:06,920
Speaker 1: You go to Mike the mechanic and go like, hey, man,

1160
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 1: you know, hey, I want to be married, and he goes, okay,

1161
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: but I don't want to be and then the end

1162
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:16,840
Speaker 1: of conversation unless there's a second part, which is okay.

1163
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:19,279
Speaker 1: But I mean, really like, I need this in my life.

1164
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:20,759
Speaker 1: I want this in my life and it needs to

1165
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:23,400
Speaker 1: happen soon. And then what if the person says no,

1166
00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:28,399
Speaker 1: Then if you say okay, then you've acquiesced and you've

1167
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:31,279
Speaker 1: you've played your card. The card has been played and

1168
00:49:31,320 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 1: you now have no leverage. So the answer is there.

1169
00:49:34,160 --> 00:49:37,839
Speaker 1: It is So if that is so important to you

1170
00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:40,719
Speaker 1: and this person's not seeing the same value in that,

1171
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:44,360
Speaker 1: then you that might that might be a fundamental disconnection.

1172
00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:45,160
Speaker 1: You may have to move on.

1173
00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:48,320
Speaker 4: Would you be open to having kids outside like without

1174
00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:49,120
Speaker 4: being married?

1175
00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:51,279
Speaker 2: Like, is that something either of you are open to.

1176
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:55,120
Speaker 9: I'm not open to that. I want to be married,

1177
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 9: like I want the whole thing.

1178
00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:58,600
Speaker 4: Okay, Oh gosh, it's so hard, Like you have someone

1179
00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:01,719
Speaker 4: that treats you well and that you and it's like yeah,

1180
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:05,360
Speaker 4: fifteen years right, Yeah, it's a lot of time invested.

1181
00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:07,480
Speaker 5: And it goes back to, like you said, the value.

1182
00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:09,799
Speaker 5: So like I on my podcast, lol, but like I

1183
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:12,400
Speaker 5: had a relationship expert come on and talk about the situation,

1184
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:14,880
Speaker 5: because I think a lot of times it's you know,

1185
00:50:14,920 --> 00:50:16,360
Speaker 5: you don't want to give some of the ultimatum. You

1186
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:18,400
Speaker 5: don't want to force somebody to do something they.

1187
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:19,359
Speaker 1: Don't want to, right, right.

1188
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:22,440
Speaker 5: However, I think it goes back to, quite literally, the

1189
00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:24,120
Speaker 5: like what do you value in your relationship?

1190
00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:24,439
Speaker 2: Right?

1191
00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:26,479
Speaker 5: And that's what this expert was telling me, and she said,

1192
00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:29,040
Speaker 5: you know, is it marriage? Like is it you know,

1193
00:50:29,239 --> 00:50:31,520
Speaker 5: sex and your like marriage or relationship? Like what are

1194
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:34,040
Speaker 5: your values? And unfortunately the hard part with this is

1195
00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:35,719
Speaker 5: if you go to him and ask him that, you

1196
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:37,280
Speaker 5: have to be prepared for the answer.

1197
00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:38,799
Speaker 2: And then also it's kind of like, well, what are

1198
00:50:38,800 --> 00:50:40,040
Speaker 2: you gonna do with that answer?

1199
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:40,239
Speaker 1: Right?

1200
00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:41,359
Speaker 2: Are you staying or are you going?

1201
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:43,080
Speaker 5: And that's what's fine, We're here, there or go, But

1202
00:50:43,280 --> 00:50:45,319
Speaker 5: quite literally, you know, what are you going to do

1203
00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 5: with that information?

1204
00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:48,600
Speaker 4: Because you can't get all the values I'm sure I

1205
00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:49,880
Speaker 4: don't think so from one person?

1206
00:50:49,920 --> 00:50:52,399
Speaker 5: Probably not right, Like if I value let's just say

1207
00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 5: like the top three things you know, does my husband

1208
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:55,279
Speaker 5: value those?

1209
00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:55,600
Speaker 10: No?

1210
00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:57,840
Speaker 2: But I guess like what's priority? Like she wants to

1211
00:50:57,880 --> 00:50:59,040
Speaker 2: be married, this is what she wants?

1212
00:50:59,200 --> 00:51:01,040
Speaker 1: Well, let me ask you, and just to be clear,

1213
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:04,719
Speaker 1: did you switch? Did you did you flip the script

1214
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:07,680
Speaker 1: at any point? Like I mean, I'm as curious. I

1215
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:09,080
Speaker 1: don't know the answer, of course, but like for the

1216
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:11,160
Speaker 1: first I don't know ten years where you like, ah,

1217
00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:13,239
Speaker 1: this is fine or for the first I mean, you

1218
00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:14,840
Speaker 1: have every right to do that, But I mean, like,

1219
00:51:14,880 --> 00:51:17,799
Speaker 1: did you just recently say because like, for example, I

1220
00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:20,719
Speaker 1: know a married couple. They're married, they decided they just

1221
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 1: from the beginning, if we get married, I do not

1222
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 1: want to have kids one persons and the person's like,

1223
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:29,160
Speaker 1: that's fine. And the person is like, I don't want

1224
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:31,279
Speaker 1: to marry you and have this come up later, like

1225
00:51:31,320 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 1: this is fundamental, I don't want to have kids, and

1226
00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:36,759
Speaker 1: the person was like, that's fine, no problem. Two years

1227
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:39,239
Speaker 1: in the marriage, I want to have a kid, and

1228
00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 1: and then it was like, well, now what do we

1229
00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:43,960
Speaker 1: do because we talked about this and then well, whoopsie

1230
00:51:43,960 --> 00:51:46,880
Speaker 1: they had a kid. And that's that's a whole different conversation.

1231
00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:49,480
Speaker 1: But oh it was a mistake. It was oh, it

1232
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:52,160
Speaker 1: was an accident and it all worked out. But my

1233
00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:54,960
Speaker 1: thing is, like, I guess I was just curious if

1234
00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:57,440
Speaker 1: you if you were like, oh, no, you know, it's

1235
00:51:57,480 --> 00:51:59,080
Speaker 1: just free and fun and whatever, and then all of

1236
00:51:59,080 --> 00:52:00,600
Speaker 1: a sudden you're like, no, no, no, I mean we have

1237
00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:02,680
Speaker 1: to get married now. Is there any of that going on?

1238
00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:06,239
Speaker 9: So I mean we were together like at eighteen, so yeah,

1239
00:52:06,320 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 9: of course, it was like, oh, yeah, whatever, we're just

1240
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 9: having fun. But I mean, I will say the last

1241
00:52:11,160 --> 00:52:13,839
Speaker 9: ten years I've been pretty solid on like wanting a

1242
00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:16,440
Speaker 9: family and wanting to have kids. So you know, I

1243
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:18,759
Speaker 9: feel like, you know, fair at twenty two, you know,

1244
00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:21,759
Speaker 9: I'm like kind of thinking that way, and he was seemed.

1245
00:52:21,480 --> 00:52:22,480
Speaker 2: To be on the same page.

1246
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:25,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, and we're like allowed to change, right or do

1247
00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:25,920
Speaker 5: you guys disagree?

1248
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:28,719
Speaker 1: Let's just say you can change. But I guess if

1249
00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:31,240
Speaker 1: a decade goes by and you can change your mind.

1250
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:33,440
Speaker 1: But I think if you change your mind in that

1251
00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:35,719
Speaker 1: way after saying no, no, it's good, it's good, it's good,

1252
00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:37,160
Speaker 1: and then a decade later you're like, no, it's not,

1253
00:52:37,440 --> 00:52:39,120
Speaker 1: I think you have to be prepared that person's going

1254
00:52:39,200 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 1: to say, well, i've been very honest with you and transparent.

1255
00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:45,560
Speaker 1: We may be at a crossroad to That's why I

1256
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:47,239
Speaker 1: was curious about that you do have a right to

1257
00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:49,359
Speaker 1: change your mind. I was just curious if you did lell,

1258
00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 1: we grow, we evolve, because that would be one thing.

1259
00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:53,960
Speaker 1: But you know, you're saying that this guy has known

1260
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:56,239
Speaker 1: for a long time that this is what you want

1261
00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:58,319
Speaker 1: and hasn't done it. Yeah, you got to go.

1262
00:52:58,480 --> 00:53:00,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta got to pack up, pack.

1263
00:53:00,760 --> 00:53:03,400
Speaker 1: It up, you gotta go. No, I don't blame you

1264
00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:05,360
Speaker 1: for being afraid. I don't blame you, but like, I

1265
00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:07,160
Speaker 1: don't think it's gonna happen, And if it does, it's

1266
00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:09,480
Speaker 1: gonna because you you're gonna feel like you force his

1267
00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:11,920
Speaker 1: hand in it. Yeah, right, And that's not a good feeling,

1268
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:13,719
Speaker 1: and that's not fair to you. No, he's in the

1269
00:53:13,719 --> 00:53:14,600
Speaker 1: way of your husband.

1270
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:17,439
Speaker 9: You know your husband is or to him, right, Yeah,

1271
00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:19,680
Speaker 9: because if he doesn't really want it, then like we're

1272
00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:21,040
Speaker 9: both fooling ourselves.

1273
00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:23,440
Speaker 1: Let me, Shannon take some phone calls on this. But

1274
00:53:23,560 --> 00:53:25,120
Speaker 1: I don't mean to be harsh, I really don't, but

1275
00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:26,960
Speaker 1: I just I, you know, my gut tells me that

1276
00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:29,480
Speaker 1: this this isn't going to happen on its own, and

1277
00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:34,200
Speaker 1: if it does, it will probably be you'll probably wonder

1278
00:53:34,200 --> 00:53:35,719
Speaker 1: for the rest of your life, did I make this

1279
00:53:35,719 --> 00:53:38,239
Speaker 1: guy do this? And I don't think that's a great

1280
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:40,440
Speaker 1: feeling to have, even if it's not justified. Even if

1281
00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:43,080
Speaker 1: he's right on the verge and then you push him

1282
00:53:43,080 --> 00:53:45,160
Speaker 1: and then he does it, you're still gonna be like

1283
00:53:45,200 --> 00:53:47,919
Speaker 1: I had to push you, and I don't think that's cool,

1284
00:53:47,960 --> 00:53:49,560
Speaker 1: but man, and let me take some calls and have

1285
00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:51,520
Speaker 1: the radio on and we'll see what happens. But good luck,

1286
00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:56,719
Speaker 1: thank you. I'm eight five three five high, Amanda. How

1287
00:53:56,760 --> 00:53:57,080
Speaker 1: are you?

1288
00:53:58,239 --> 00:53:58,680
Speaker 2: I'm good?

1289
00:53:58,800 --> 00:54:00,759
Speaker 1: Are you doing great? Sarah? Go? What do you think?

1290
00:54:01,920 --> 00:54:02,399
Speaker 1: I say?

1291
00:54:02,520 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 8: Go.

1292
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:05,359
Speaker 13: I've been with my boyfriend for ten years, but we've

1293
00:54:05,400 --> 00:54:08,399
Speaker 13: started dating at fourteen, so I'm twenty four now, and

1294
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:14,160
Speaker 13: we've talked about getting a ring. We just have kind

1295
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:17,480
Speaker 13: of surpassed our first year in both of our you know,

1296
00:54:17,560 --> 00:54:20,000
Speaker 13: start of our careers, so we were kind of just

1297
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Speaker 13: waiting on that. But we're both aligned on the whole

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Speaker 13: kid thing, and I think if you're not, that's a

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Speaker 13: deal breaker.

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Speaker 1: I will say, to start a relationship at fourteen, I mean, yeah,

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00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:33,080
Speaker 1: people get married. I mean people get married at eighteens.

1302
00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:35,560
Speaker 1: You know, they get married young. They do. Yeah, No,

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00:54:35,719 --> 00:54:38,880
Speaker 1: But I mean I would say, I'm not saying that

1304
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:42,640
Speaker 1: the first you know, three quarters of the relationship don't count.

1305
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:46,759
Speaker 1: They do, but it might be a little less realistic

1306
00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:49,480
Speaker 1: to be married in the first part of them. Right,

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00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:52,080
Speaker 1: So now here we are, and so now I think

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00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:53,920
Speaker 1: it's a valid conversation, and I'm not saying that the

1309
00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:55,800
Speaker 1: ten years of your relationship don't count. But you're not

1310
00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:58,879
Speaker 1: gonna get married at fourteen, fifteen, sixteen seven, probably so,

1311
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:01,359
Speaker 1: But yeah, I would think this guy would know where

1312
00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:03,680
Speaker 1: he stands with you at this point, after all this time.

1313
00:55:03,840 --> 00:55:08,040
Speaker 13: Yeah, And you can't change someone's mind that easily on

1314
00:55:08,080 --> 00:55:09,400
Speaker 13: a topic that's huge.

1315
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. And it's not the kind of thing

1316
00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:13,839
Speaker 1: I want to wonder. It's not the kind of thing

1317
00:55:13,880 --> 00:55:15,279
Speaker 1: I want to wonder for the rest of my life,

1318
00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:17,080
Speaker 1: even if it even if it works, I still don't

1319
00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:18,279
Speaker 1: want to be like man I had to make think

1320
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Speaker 1: I do that right. I don't think it's yet.

1321
00:55:20,760 --> 00:55:24,080
Speaker 13: You mentioned guilt. I agree, Gil is not something you

1322
00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:25,520
Speaker 13: want in a relationship.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Amana, thank you, have a good day, good luck,

1324
00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:33,160
Speaker 1: Thanks bred bye, thanks for calling. Hey, Bethany, good morning, Hi,

1325
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Speaker 1: good morning, Hi, Bethany stare Go.

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Speaker 2: So I think that she's got to go. There's after

1327
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Speaker 2: fifteen years. If you're not ready, you're never going to

1328
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Speaker 2: be ready, There's no way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't think this guy wants to be married.

1330
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Speaker 1: I mean, because again, good enough for fifteen years. I

1331
00:55:49,640 --> 00:55:51,839
Speaker 1: don't want to say not good enough for marriage, but

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00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:53,839
Speaker 1: that doesn't make sense, right, Like, if you're good enough

1333
00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:56,560
Speaker 1: for fifteen years, then you're good enough for marriage unless

1334
00:55:56,600 --> 00:55:58,239
Speaker 1: you just don't want to be married, and then that's

1335
00:55:58,280 --> 00:55:59,640
Speaker 1: okay too. But I don't think he.

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00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:01,960
Speaker 4: Wants to be So what's like the cutoff year wise?

1337
00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:04,080
Speaker 4: Like are we concerned at seven.

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Speaker 6: Years half a lifetime ago? I don't know, because he

1339
00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:13,520
Speaker 6: is about to be there. Yeah, I'm about to cut

1340
00:56:13,560 --> 00:56:13,919
Speaker 6: him off.

1341
00:56:14,239 --> 00:56:15,799
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know that it takes. I

1342
00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:17,360
Speaker 1: don't think it takes that long to know if you

1343
00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:19,480
Speaker 1: want to be married. I don't No, it doesn't take

1344
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:21,000
Speaker 1: that long to know if you want to be married.

1345
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:22,920
Speaker 1: I think it takes We have to be realistic. There's

1346
00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:25,200
Speaker 1: a life thing. There's things that happen in people's lives

1347
00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:26,799
Speaker 1: that prevent it. There always will be.

1348
00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:29,960
Speaker 6: There, always will be. However, she she doesn't have a reason.

1349
00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:32,120
Speaker 6: He can't even give her a reason on why it

1350
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:34,879
Speaker 6: hasn't happened. Now I know several reasons on why things

1351
00:56:34,920 --> 00:56:38,120
Speaker 6: haven't happened and why. You know, if you're being if

1352
00:56:38,160 --> 00:56:40,839
Speaker 6: that's really what you want and your partner won't give

1353
00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 6: it to you, like leave, there's no reason to stay

1354
00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:45,640
Speaker 6: in it. But there's I mean, you can't put a

1355
00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:47,480
Speaker 6: time stamp. I don't think there's a certain year like

1356
00:56:47,480 --> 00:56:49,120
Speaker 6: at the five year market mans. And then you have

1357
00:56:49,200 --> 00:56:51,480
Speaker 6: to go like, no, it's different for every relationship, and

1358
00:56:51,520 --> 00:56:54,759
Speaker 6: people settle too and settle early, and that doesn't work

1359
00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:55,399
Speaker 6: out great either.

1360
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Speaker 1: So it's like you just got to do what works

1361
00:56:57,200 --> 00:56:57,880
Speaker 1: for you.

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00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:00,959
Speaker 5: Got to go I think I think so for sure

1363
00:57:01,200 --> 00:57:04,320
Speaker 5: if you want if she values marriage, and it doesn't

1364
00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:06,640
Speaker 5: sound like he does, then there's the answer.

1365
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Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, Bethany, have a great day. You're too

1366
00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:12,600
Speaker 1: glad you called. Thank you for listening. Carrie, Hi carry

1367
00:57:12,600 --> 00:57:19,520
Speaker 1: good morning. You did this, I did this, yes, okay,

1368
00:57:19,640 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 1: so tell me about it.

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Speaker 11: So me and my husband met when I was fifteen

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Speaker 11: and he was eighteen, and we instantly got together. You know,

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Speaker 11: we had a child accidentally, we had a child, and

1372
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Speaker 11: we decided, okay, we don't want to do the lockdown

1373
00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:39,320
Speaker 11: get married thing, you know, because we were both so young.

1374
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Speaker 11: We wanted to live our life and all of that.

1375
00:57:42,000 --> 00:57:44,080
Speaker 11: But then I got older and then I'm like, okay,

1376
00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:46,760
Speaker 11: you know, we got a kid, we got kids, whatever,

1377
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:49,840
Speaker 11: I want to get married. He still didn't want to,

1378
00:57:50,040 --> 00:57:54,280
Speaker 11: and I kind of understood that because from a man's standpoint,

1379
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:58,200
Speaker 11: you know, you guys feel differently than women do. You

1380
00:57:58,320 --> 00:58:02,000
Speaker 11: have different emotions, different things that you go through. The

1381
00:58:02,040 --> 00:58:04,040
Speaker 11: older you get, the more you're just like, okay, I'm

1382
00:58:04,080 --> 00:58:07,520
Speaker 11: too old for this. Testosterone all that kind of stuff

1383
00:58:07,520 --> 00:58:10,720
Speaker 11: comes into play. So I think she should stay. I

1384
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:13,720
Speaker 11: don't think that he doesn't value it. I think that

1385
00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:17,520
Speaker 11: there could be something there that she just doesn't realize,

1386
00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:21,360
Speaker 11: or maybe it could be childhood trauma that he's went through,

1387
00:58:22,080 --> 00:58:24,840
Speaker 11: or even some kind of emotion that he's going through

1388
00:58:25,280 --> 00:58:27,240
Speaker 11: that maybe they just need to sit down and like

1389
00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:32,200
Speaker 11: you know, have a conversation, maybe compromise with each other. Okay,

1390
00:58:32,240 --> 00:58:35,240
Speaker 11: well you want children, let's have children. Don't have his

1391
00:58:35,360 --> 00:58:38,920
Speaker 11: last name. You'll still be their father. It's not like

1392
00:58:39,000 --> 00:58:41,840
Speaker 11: he won't be in their life. It's just maybe come

1393
00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:44,520
Speaker 11: to a compromise and then later on get married. I

1394
00:58:44,720 --> 00:58:47,479
Speaker 11: know people that have been together for fifty years still

1395
00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:49,439
Speaker 11: haven't gotten married and they still love each other.

1396
00:58:49,840 --> 00:58:51,560
Speaker 1: Well see now, and I agree with that. Like, like

1397
00:58:51,600 --> 00:58:54,160
Speaker 1: I said earlier, I could see myself in a situation

1398
00:58:54,200 --> 00:58:57,000
Speaker 1: where I get with somebody and we're just happy and

1399
00:58:57,000 --> 00:58:58,480
Speaker 1: we don't do it at this point in life, and

1400
00:58:58,480 --> 00:59:00,560
Speaker 1: that's fine, but that we would both have to be

1401
00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:02,840
Speaker 1: aligned in that correct. If one person wants it the

1402
00:59:02,880 --> 00:59:05,800
Speaker 1: other person doesn't, that's a fundamental disagreement. That's going to

1403
00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:07,920
Speaker 1: be a problem. Hey, thank you so much, Carrie, have

1404
00:59:07,960 --> 00:59:08,400
Speaker 1: a good day.

1405
00:59:09,160 --> 00:59:09,840
Speaker 11: You're welcome.

1406
00:59:10,000 --> 00:59:13,880
Speaker 1: Glad you called. Hey, hold on a second, I want

1407
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:16,800
Speaker 1: to get back to say, what's that Carrie's rest of.

1408
00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:20,600
Speaker 5: Our life having kids for this man, I'm being real.

1409
00:59:20,640 --> 00:59:21,880
Speaker 1: I don't think it was on purpose.

1410
00:59:21,920 --> 00:59:25,120
Speaker 2: But Adriana, Hi, Hi, good morning.

1411
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Speaker 9: Hi.

1412
00:59:25,640 --> 00:59:27,880
Speaker 1: So this happen you? You did this. You you gave

1413
00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:30,080
Speaker 1: your fiance and ultimatum. What's the situation.

1414
00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:34,160
Speaker 14: So we've been together since we were nineteen, we were

1415
00:59:34,320 --> 00:59:38,160
Speaker 14: college sweethearts. I just said, I do not want to

1416
00:59:38,160 --> 00:59:41,560
Speaker 14: be one of those people who is been dating ten

1417
00:59:41,640 --> 00:59:44,200
Speaker 14: years and doesn't have a ring, Like we either are

1418
00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:46,040
Speaker 14: going to be in this for the rest of our

1419
00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:48,600
Speaker 14: lives or we're not. So I said by year six.

1420
00:59:48,960 --> 00:59:52,040
Speaker 14: I gave that ultimatum because I know what I want

1421
00:59:52,080 --> 00:59:54,360
Speaker 14: in life. I said, by year six, if I don't

1422
00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:58,640
Speaker 14: have a ring, I'm out. I got my ring and

1423
00:59:59,200 --> 01:00:03,040
Speaker 14: we've been engaged for two years now. I have no

1424
01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:05,880
Speaker 14: plan on having a wedding anytime soon. But for me,

1425
01:00:06,560 --> 01:00:12,720
Speaker 14: it was I wanted the ring. And yeah, we've been

1426
01:00:12,760 --> 01:00:13,640
Speaker 14: together eight years.

1427
01:00:13,960 --> 01:00:18,640
Speaker 1: Yes, okay, so Adrian, I'm not I'm not like, I'm

1428
01:00:18,680 --> 01:00:21,080
Speaker 1: not criticizing you whatsoever. But you demanded a ring, you

1429
01:00:21,160 --> 01:00:23,160
Speaker 1: got it, but you don't necessarily want to get married.

1430
01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:26,000
Speaker 1: I mean so okay, I mean I almost feel like

1431
01:00:26,040 --> 01:00:26,600
Speaker 1: you said going.

1432
01:00:26,600 --> 01:00:29,440
Speaker 14: To get married. But we just bought a house in August.

1433
01:00:29,520 --> 01:00:34,920
Speaker 14: I finished my masters next year, so after I finish everything,

1434
01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:37,040
Speaker 14: then that's the next plan.

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01:00:37,840 --> 01:00:39,160
Speaker 2: Okay, that I could be a fiance.

1436
01:00:39,520 --> 01:00:39,880
Speaker 8: I'm going to.

1437
01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:44,960
Speaker 1: I'm with somebody for six years or seven years or whatever.

1438
01:00:44,960 --> 01:00:46,440
Speaker 1: They're like, I have to have a ring. Well i'd

1439
01:00:46,440 --> 01:00:48,160
Speaker 1: probably give you a ring, and that's all I gotta do.

1440
01:00:48,480 --> 01:00:53,600
Speaker 1: And then I bought myself another seven years. Okay, here

1441
01:00:53,640 --> 01:00:55,480
Speaker 1: you go. I mean I might I might be inclined

1442
01:00:55,520 --> 01:00:56,840
Speaker 1: to do that. So wait, that's all I gotta do.

1443
01:00:57,360 --> 01:00:59,720
Speaker 1: I just bought myself more time. I mean, I don't know,

1444
01:00:59,720 --> 01:01:02,320
Speaker 1: it's just romantic. It's like I feel like this either

1445
01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:05,560
Speaker 1: happens in a reasonable period of time or it doesn't,

1446
01:01:05,600 --> 01:01:08,640
Speaker 1: and it's all right, and it's okay if it doesn't.

1447
01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:11,120
Speaker 1: But if one person wants it and the other person

1448
01:01:11,280 --> 01:01:14,160
Speaker 1: is struggling with it, you may never get there and

1449
01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:18,040
Speaker 1: that's okay, but then you may need to go another direction.

1450
01:01:18,160 --> 01:01:20,640
Speaker 1: I don't know what do I know? Multiple people Adriana,

1451
01:01:20,720 --> 01:01:24,360
Speaker 1: thank you, have a good day. We're at a time

1452
01:01:24,360 --> 01:01:25,720
Speaker 1: and we got to go. But I don't know.

1453
01:01:25,800 --> 01:01:26,960
Speaker 2: I don't think everybody.

1454
01:01:28,240 --> 01:01:30,720
Speaker 1: I'm telling these people that right, right.

1455
01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:32,160
Speaker 2: We learn that people are listening to you.

1456
01:01:32,200 --> 01:01:34,520
Speaker 4: There was a little girl that was like, I'm single

1457
01:01:34,600 --> 01:01:36,880
Speaker 4: time May she was six.

1458
01:01:37,640 --> 01:01:38,480
Speaker 8: You know it's.

1459
01:01:40,040 --> 01:01:41,840
Speaker 1: That That's what keys going out of here. You give

1460
01:01:41,840 --> 01:01:46,360
Speaker 1: a Ted talks to kindergarteners, elementary schools, the Entertainer Report

1461
01:01:46,400 --> 01:01:48,200
Speaker 1: and shows k Fred Show.

1462
01:01:49,440 --> 01:01:52,200
Speaker 12: Klin's Entertainer Report is on the Fread Show.

1463
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Speaker 4: Okay, first things first, we are getting a ton of

1464
01:01:54,480 --> 01:01:57,360
Speaker 4: questions on what the brand of magnesium is. I'm not

1465
01:01:57,400 --> 01:01:59,880
Speaker 4: being paid, but it is life extension. You can get

1466
01:01:59,920 --> 01:02:04,800
Speaker 4: it on Amazon. There are two kinds. Leave it in me, yes,

1467
01:02:04,880 --> 01:02:07,560
Speaker 4: leave it in the bottle if you lie with someone

1468
01:02:07,640 --> 01:02:08,400
Speaker 4: else in your home.

1469
01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:09,160
Speaker 1: Okay.

1470
01:02:09,400 --> 01:02:12,520
Speaker 4: In a long Instagram post, event planner Andy King says

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01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:15,880
Speaker 4: he's super disappointed in Billy McFarlane trying to plan file

1472
01:02:16,080 --> 01:02:18,760
Speaker 4: Fire Festival Part two. I'm sure his parents aren't super

1473
01:02:18,760 --> 01:02:21,000
Speaker 4: proud either, But he said he hoped prison would have

1474
01:02:21,080 --> 01:02:23,680
Speaker 4: knocked some sense into him after the first one, but

1475
01:02:23,760 --> 01:02:27,200
Speaker 4: clearly not because Firefest two is already a hot, burning mess.

1476
01:02:27,320 --> 01:02:30,240
Speaker 4: And he said he was all forgiving Billy a second chance.

1477
01:02:30,280 --> 01:02:32,160
Speaker 4: He even stood by him when no one else would.

1478
01:02:32,320 --> 01:02:33,680
Speaker 4: He linked up with him like a year and a

1479
01:02:33,720 --> 01:02:36,320
Speaker 4: half ago to help him focus on empathy and paying

1480
01:02:36,360 --> 01:02:38,360
Speaker 4: people back from the original festival.

1481
01:02:38,560 --> 01:02:40,040
Speaker 2: But clearly it was all for nothing.

1482
01:02:40,040 --> 01:02:43,240
Speaker 4: Andy himself lost hundreds of thousands of his own money, and.

1483
01:02:43,200 --> 01:02:45,400
Speaker 2: Of course his career took a hit his reputation.

1484
01:02:45,800 --> 01:02:47,880
Speaker 4: He says that he only did that documentary so that

1485
01:02:47,920 --> 01:02:50,240
Speaker 4: he could help everyone get their money back. But Billy

1486
01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:52,720
Speaker 4: has ghosted him, and he thinks it's clear that he

1487
01:02:52,760 --> 01:02:55,919
Speaker 4: doesn't care about others. As for Fire Festival two point zero,

1488
01:02:55,960 --> 01:02:59,000
Speaker 4: they're blaming the Mexican government for pulling the plug on

1489
01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:02,040
Speaker 4: it being held in Pla del Carmen. They claim that

1490
01:03:02,080 --> 01:03:03,880
Speaker 4: they were down and now they're saying they have no

1491
01:03:03,960 --> 01:03:07,400
Speaker 4: idea about it. Remember, he was convicted of fraud and

1492
01:03:07,440 --> 01:03:10,200
Speaker 4: he spent six years in prison after the disaster that

1493
01:03:10,240 --> 01:03:13,240
Speaker 4: was the twenty seventeen festival. He was released in twenty

1494
01:03:13,280 --> 01:03:15,840
Speaker 4: twenty two, and apparently he wants to go back real.

1495
01:03:15,720 --> 01:03:17,640
Speaker 2: Bad because he's trying to throw another festival.

1496
01:03:18,040 --> 01:03:21,320
Speaker 4: After a two decade long beef, Madonna and Elton John

1497
01:03:21,360 --> 01:03:24,080
Speaker 4: have buried the hatchet. Madonna shared a photo of them

1498
01:03:24,080 --> 01:03:26,640
Speaker 4: doing a little side hug and wrote, we finally buried

1499
01:03:26,680 --> 01:03:28,600
Speaker 4: the hatchet. I went to see Elton John perform on

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01:03:28,760 --> 01:03:29,640
Speaker 4: SNL this weekend.

1501
01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:31,000
Speaker 2: Wow. Madonna said that.

1502
01:03:30,960 --> 01:03:32,960
Speaker 4: Seeing one of Elton's shows when she was in high

1503
01:03:32,960 --> 01:03:35,240
Speaker 4: school actually changed the course of her life, helping her

1504
01:03:35,280 --> 01:03:37,480
Speaker 4: realize she wanted to be a pop star. So it

1505
01:03:37,560 --> 01:03:39,120
Speaker 4: hurt her a lot to know that someone that she

1506
01:03:39,200 --> 01:03:42,680
Speaker 4: admired publicly disliked her as an artist. Some background, if

1507
01:03:42,720 --> 01:03:45,400
Speaker 4: you didn't know it all began in twenty two thousand

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Speaker 4: and two Excuse Me When out and said that Madonna's

1509
01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:50,560
Speaker 4: Die Another Day was the worst Bond song of all time.

1510
01:03:50,920 --> 01:03:53,080
Speaker 4: He continued throwing digs at the singer at the two

1511
01:03:53,120 --> 01:03:55,640
Speaker 4: thousand and four Q Awards, where he slammed her winning

1512
01:03:55,680 --> 01:03:59,320
Speaker 4: Best Live Act, saying that since when has lip syncing

1513
01:03:59,400 --> 01:04:02,760
Speaker 4: been live? I think everyone who lip stinks on stage

1514
01:04:02,760 --> 01:04:04,680
Speaker 4: when you pay to go see them should be shot,

1515
01:04:05,040 --> 01:04:08,880
Speaker 4: so Weldon's a little spicy sometimes. The feud escalated in

1516
01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:11,080
Speaker 4: twenty twelve when they are both up for Best og

1517
01:04:11,280 --> 01:04:14,640
Speaker 4: Song at the sixty ninth Golden Globes. Madonna one John's

1518
01:04:14,720 --> 01:04:17,920
Speaker 4: husband blasted her on Facebook, which is showing their age.

1519
01:04:18,080 --> 01:04:21,400
Speaker 4: But the two queens are back together again. And lastly, Fred,

1520
01:04:21,440 --> 01:04:26,520
Speaker 4: it is Iheartweek on Wheel of Fortune. Yes, yes, it's

1521
01:04:26,560 --> 01:04:29,280
Speaker 4: only on Wheel of Fortune. Tonight, one lucky contestant has

1522
01:04:29,320 --> 01:04:31,600
Speaker 4: a chance to win a trip to La for an

1523
01:04:31,640 --> 01:04:34,920
Speaker 4: exclusive backstage pass to the most anticipated event of the

1524
01:04:34,920 --> 01:04:38,800
Speaker 4: holiday season, iHeartRadio's jingle Ball. Watch the Wheel of Fortune

1525
01:04:38,840 --> 01:04:41,480
Speaker 4: and check your local listings for timing. But yes, you

1526
01:04:41,640 --> 01:04:44,600
Speaker 4: could win a trip to La, go backstage and see

1527
01:04:44,680 --> 01:04:47,080
Speaker 4: jingle Ball, which is amazing. Also, if you miss any

1528
01:04:47,080 --> 01:04:49,200
Speaker 4: part of the show, type the Fred Show on demand

1529
01:04:49,400 --> 01:04:51,800
Speaker 4: and set us as a preset on the free iHeartRadio app.

1530
01:04:51,880 --> 01:04:55,280
Speaker 1: R five Pop Culture Question Showby's kicking in for Showbiz Shelley,

1531
01:04:55,320 --> 01:04:57,680
Speaker 1: Who's on maternity leave? Two hundred and fifty bucks? Is

1532
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Speaker 1: Surprise Today? Fifteen and two? Is your court so far?

1533
01:05:00,920 --> 01:05:01,160
Speaker 10: Yes?

1534
01:05:01,320 --> 01:05:04,600
Speaker 1: Three game win streak if you don't lose between now

1535
01:05:04,640 --> 01:05:07,440
Speaker 1: and the end, I'll let you keep the jackpot. Okay,

1536
01:05:07,960 --> 01:05:10,760
Speaker 1: this is the third time I've offered this, but I'll live.

1537
01:05:11,320 --> 01:05:13,960
Speaker 1: It'll be fine. Four times a charm, that's right, eight

1538
01:05:14,280 --> 01:05:18,000
Speaker 1: five three five, Call now and we'll play in two minutes.

1539
01:05:18,720 --> 01:05:22,280
Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show. Do you have what it takes

1540
01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:23,040
Speaker 1: to battle?

1541
01:05:25,200 --> 01:05:29,080
Speaker 2: You can't with the caky, I know that's.

1542
01:05:28,960 --> 01:05:37,000
Speaker 1: Right, all right, Kicky, We appreciate Okay, two and fifty

1543
01:05:37,120 --> 01:05:40,160
Speaker 1: surprise today fifteen and two three straight wins. Mic is

1544
01:05:40,200 --> 01:05:40,760
Speaker 1: a challenger.

1545
01:05:41,000 --> 01:05:44,360
Speaker 2: Hi, Mike, Oh, Mike, Hey, what's up?

1546
01:05:44,400 --> 01:05:45,520
Speaker 10: Friend? My people?

1547
01:05:46,000 --> 01:05:46,920
Speaker 1: Mike, what's up?

1548
01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:47,200
Speaker 9: Mike?

1549
01:05:47,240 --> 01:05:52,480
Speaker 1: And my people? Tell us about your word? Okay, we

1550
01:05:52,520 --> 01:05:54,600
Speaker 1: gotta learn about you man. Give us some fun facts.

1551
01:05:55,400 --> 01:05:58,280
Speaker 10: Whow I live here in Raleigh, and the only reason

1552
01:05:58,280 --> 01:06:00,960
Speaker 10: talking playmate day is because I'm way for work, Hey,

1553
01:06:01,000 --> 01:06:04,200
Speaker 10: because of the traffic on forty and I'm a preschool

1554
01:06:04,240 --> 01:06:07,840
Speaker 10: teacher and I work for your Carolina Hurricanes.

1555
01:06:09,920 --> 01:06:12,160
Speaker 1: Shout out, Shout out to Raleigh, shout out to g

1556
01:06:12,280 --> 01:06:14,760
Speaker 1: one O five, shout out to you, Mike and the

1557
01:06:14,920 --> 01:06:16,160
Speaker 1: Hurricanes and everybody.

1558
01:06:16,960 --> 01:06:17,840
Speaker 10: I appreciate it.

1559
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:19,840
Speaker 1: H Okay, Well, you know what, I hope that you

1560
01:06:19,880 --> 01:06:21,840
Speaker 1: don't lose the game. So he can have two fifty.

1561
01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:23,840
Speaker 1: I kind of want to I know you have integrity,

1562
01:06:23,880 --> 01:06:25,360
Speaker 1: but I kind of want you to have the two fifty.

1563
01:06:25,400 --> 01:06:27,760
Speaker 1: But it's two hundred and fifty bucks. Five questions, Get out,

1564
01:06:27,800 --> 01:06:32,240
Speaker 1: Kiki audios. All right, here's the media leaving the Sambo

1565
01:06:32,240 --> 01:06:35,800
Speaker 1: foo f enter within it. Okay, here we go. Question

1566
01:06:35,880 --> 01:06:39,200
Speaker 1: number one for you, Mike, Which superbas rapper was named

1567
01:06:39,200 --> 01:06:41,400
Speaker 1: the best female rapper of all time by Billboard?

1568
01:06:43,000 --> 01:06:46,520
Speaker 10: Oh? The Super Based rapper. Yeah, everybody knows that. That

1569
01:06:46,720 --> 01:06:51,800
Speaker 10: was the three Marshmallow girl.

1570
01:06:51,960 --> 01:06:57,560
Speaker 1: Everybody knows. Everybody knows. Everyone's talking about the White Lotus

1571
01:06:57,560 --> 01:07:00,720
Speaker 1: finale this week? Was it for season one? You were three?

1572
01:07:02,440 --> 01:07:03,000
Speaker 10: Number three?

1573
01:07:03,440 --> 01:07:08,760
Speaker 1: Kelsey st there? Stop there, Mike, stop there, stop stop

1574
01:07:08,800 --> 01:07:13,080
Speaker 1: talking sometimes stop Kelsea Ballerini helped a fan announce her pregnancy.

1575
01:07:13,160 --> 01:07:15,840
Speaker 1: Which Outer Banks actor? Is she dating.

1576
01:07:17,480 --> 01:07:18,040
Speaker 10: That blonde?

1577
01:07:18,080 --> 01:07:26,680
Speaker 1: Hey guy, I love you, but I don't know. Okay,

1578
01:07:26,680 --> 01:07:31,200
Speaker 1: you got here, we go to lef. You got this man?

1579
01:07:31,440 --> 01:07:33,440
Speaker 1: Whatever you're having, I'd like to have it em and

1580
01:07:33,520 --> 01:07:36,080
Speaker 1: M's daughter made him a first time grandpa with the

1581
01:07:36,080 --> 01:07:42,680
Speaker 1: birth of her baby boy. What is her name? And

1582
01:07:42,880 --> 01:07:45,320
Speaker 1: Which game inspired movie was number one of the box

1583
01:07:45,360 --> 01:07:50,520
Speaker 1: office over the weekend, micraft to three. That is a

1584
01:07:50,560 --> 01:07:51,920
Speaker 1: respectable store.

1585
01:07:51,800 --> 01:07:56,000
Speaker 2: Accepting that I mentioned the first name on four. It's

1586
01:07:56,040 --> 01:07:57,120
Speaker 2: not the official name.

1587
01:07:58,520 --> 01:08:00,960
Speaker 1: We can't I'm accepting now. Yeah, I'm taking it. Yeah,

1588
01:08:01,040 --> 01:08:03,640
Speaker 1: I've decided you can have that.

1589
01:08:04,760 --> 01:08:07,120
Speaker 2: Shenanigans. What just trying to make sure I don't get

1590
01:08:07,160 --> 01:08:07,640
Speaker 2: my butt beat?

1591
01:08:07,760 --> 01:08:11,920
Speaker 1: No, I decided. I decided, Okay, you ready? No A three? Okay,

1592
01:08:11,960 --> 01:08:14,160
Speaker 1: I think you got this thing. I think you got

1593
01:08:14,640 --> 01:08:16,240
Speaker 1: I'll be honest, I think you got this. It's fine.

1594
01:08:17,200 --> 01:08:19,599
Speaker 1: Which the super bas rapper was named the best female

1595
01:08:19,680 --> 01:08:23,160
Speaker 1: rapper of all time by Billboard. The Queen everyone is

1596
01:08:23,200 --> 01:08:25,960
Speaker 1: talking about the White Lotus finale this week? Was it

1597
01:08:26,000 --> 01:08:27,800
Speaker 1: for season one? Two or three?

1598
01:08:28,439 --> 01:08:28,639
Speaker 9: Right?

1599
01:08:28,760 --> 01:08:31,760
Speaker 1: Kelsey Ballerini helped a fan announce her pregnancy. Which Outer

1600
01:08:31,880 --> 01:08:33,120
Speaker 1: Banks actor? Is she dating?

1601
01:08:33,720 --> 01:08:36,639
Speaker 6: Kelsey Ballerini? That ain't my girl? To seeing the Bones

1602
01:08:37,000 --> 01:08:37,800
Speaker 6: the Bones?

1603
01:08:37,800 --> 01:08:39,160
Speaker 1: That's man Moore.

1604
01:08:41,800 --> 01:08:49,200
Speaker 2: Always dating somebody.

1605
01:08:51,360 --> 01:08:54,400
Speaker 1: He's taunting you now. Eminem's daughter made him a first

1606
01:08:54,439 --> 01:08:56,680
Speaker 1: time grandpa with the birth of her baby boy. What

1607
01:08:56,800 --> 01:08:57,400
Speaker 1: is her name?

1608
01:08:57,560 --> 01:08:58,479
Speaker 2: Hayley Jane?

1609
01:08:58,600 --> 01:09:01,120
Speaker 1: Right, I'll take it? And which. This game inspired movie

1610
01:09:01,160 --> 01:09:03,280
Speaker 1: was number one at the box office over the weekend.

1611
01:09:03,400 --> 01:09:04,759
Speaker 2: Oh probably my favorite minecraft.

1612
01:09:04,840 --> 01:09:08,519
Speaker 1: There you go. That's a four. That's when I told you, Mike,

1613
01:09:08,600 --> 01:09:10,240
Speaker 1: my man, I know you can do this part. You

1614
01:09:10,320 --> 01:09:12,040
Speaker 1: gotta say it. My name is Mike. I got showed

1615
01:09:12,080 --> 01:09:15,880
Speaker 1: up on a showdown, and you can't hang with the cakey.

1616
01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:19,519
Speaker 10: My name is Mike from right here in Rollingwood. I

1617
01:09:19,560 --> 01:09:22,400
Speaker 10: got showed up on the showdown, and I can I

1618
01:09:22,520 --> 01:09:23,000
Speaker 10: hang with.

1619
01:09:23,040 --> 01:09:32,519
Speaker 1: The You know what. I don't have to do it.

1620
01:09:32,720 --> 01:09:35,200
Speaker 1: You did it, Mike, You're the man. Hang on one second,

1621
01:09:35,200 --> 01:09:38,559
Speaker 1: stay do we have any more of the thirteen's? Yeah, okay,

1622
01:09:38,560 --> 01:09:40,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna We're gonna send your T shirt. Hang on

1623
01:09:40,160 --> 01:09:42,120
Speaker 1: a second, all right, Mike, you stay right there. You

1624
01:09:42,120 --> 01:09:45,599
Speaker 1: need to rock that in Raleigh Wood. I've not heard

1625
01:09:45,600 --> 01:09:50,320
Speaker 1: that one. Hang on a second, stay right there, go Hurricanes.

1626
01:09:50,360 --> 01:09:52,800
Speaker 1: I love him, all right, I do too. I do too.

1627
01:09:53,000 --> 01:09:55,519
Speaker 1: Nice work man. All right. So we're up to three hundred.

1628
01:09:55,560 --> 01:09:58,839
Speaker 1: Tomorrow win number sixteen and four straight.

1629
01:10:00,200 --> 01:10:01,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, Kelsey, I's got a different man.

1630
01:10:02,400 --> 01:10:04,559
Speaker 1: She be dated the same guy for like two years?

1631
01:10:05,360 --> 01:10:06,760
Speaker 2: How long before you put a ring on it?

1632
01:10:07,520 --> 01:10:09,400
Speaker 1: Well, didn't she did? She get divorced to dat him?

1633
01:10:09,840 --> 01:10:11,400
Speaker 4: She did well not to dat him, but she did

1634
01:10:11,439 --> 01:10:14,720
Speaker 4: get divorced. Yeah, to another country. She certainly did. Yeah,

1635
01:10:15,240 --> 01:10:16,960
Speaker 4: but they're very cute and very in love. But I

1636
01:10:16,960 --> 01:10:17,880
Speaker 4: bet he does propose.

1637
01:10:18,680 --> 01:10:21,040
Speaker 1: Ain't gonna make her wait fifteen years and tell you

1638
01:10:21,120 --> 01:10:21,639
Speaker 1: right now.

1639
01:10:21,760 --> 01:10:24,200
Speaker 2: She's gonna be single. She's single right now?

1640
01:10:24,240 --> 01:10:26,559
Speaker 1: Actually, but okay, you ever get what the ted talk

1641
01:10:26,600 --> 01:10:31,599
Speaker 1: could be? To be kindergarten? Yeah, waiting by the phone,

1642
01:10:31,640 --> 01:10:34,560
Speaker 1: We'll do it. Wake Up More Fread show next.

1643
01:10:36,240 --> 01:10:37,360
Speaker 2: Well up in the City.

1644
01:10:38,280 --> 01:10:40,400
Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be okay. I feel good about him.

1645
01:10:40,560 --> 01:10:43,280
Speaker 2: Well last time you did say that last Okay.

1646
01:10:43,240 --> 01:10:46,240
Speaker 1: We're not gonna say say its gonna be terrible. I

1647
01:10:46,240 --> 01:10:47,679
Speaker 1: don't know what to do. I'm trying to I'm trying

1648
01:10:47,680 --> 01:10:50,240
Speaker 1: to be positive. In twenty twenty five s Freads show

1649
01:10:50,520 --> 01:10:55,040
Speaker 1: is on Captain Positivity. I get to introduce you, Kiki. Yes,

1650
01:10:55,320 --> 01:10:59,519
Speaker 1: what a privilege, right in an honor Captain positivity. Let

1651
01:10:59,560 --> 01:11:01,280
Speaker 1: them that's my new journey.

1652
01:11:01,360 --> 01:11:03,400
Speaker 2: Let them you get to and let them.

1653
01:11:04,080 --> 01:11:04,760
Speaker 8: You don't like it?

1654
01:11:04,840 --> 01:11:08,439
Speaker 1: Mixed emotions? Why I haven't finished it yet?

1655
01:11:08,479 --> 01:11:09,760
Speaker 2: Oh, okay, finish it.

1656
01:11:11,600 --> 01:11:12,880
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what I think a little while.

1657
01:11:13,120 --> 01:11:15,160
Speaker 2: I'm dying to know because everyone's talking about it.

1658
01:11:15,400 --> 01:11:20,400
Speaker 1: Hi cales Hi Hi, Jason Brown, Hi Paulina, Hi fella

1659
01:11:20,520 --> 01:11:22,200
Speaker 1: me this year waiting by the phone? Why did somebody

1660
01:11:22,200 --> 01:11:24,040
Speaker 1: get ghost? People? Do it? Next to the entertainer of

1661
01:11:24,120 --> 01:11:26,760
Speaker 1: for the Biggest Stories of the day headlines and the

1662
01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:28,640
Speaker 1: fun Fact coming up? What are you working on?

1663
01:11:28,680 --> 01:11:30,639
Speaker 4: K Well, I get to tell you about a scene

1664
01:11:30,640 --> 01:11:33,839
Speaker 4: that almost made the cut of The White Lotus final episode.

1665
01:11:33,880 --> 01:11:35,600
Speaker 2: I know you guys don't care about other people do.

1666
01:11:35,800 --> 01:11:37,479
Speaker 1: And I get to tell you the fun fact is

1667
01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:41,439
Speaker 1: about a classic movie Jason's ever seen. But it's a

1668
01:11:41,479 --> 01:11:43,559
Speaker 1: classic movie and the person who is supposed to get

1669
01:11:43,640 --> 01:11:45,519
Speaker 1: the role in the movie, and everything would have been different,

1670
01:11:45,600 --> 01:11:48,040
Speaker 1: Everything would have been different if this were true. Ah,

1671
01:11:48,240 --> 01:11:50,360
Speaker 1: i'n tew you hook him for thirty minutes? Fred Shows

1672
01:11:50,400 --> 01:11:57,519
Speaker 1: on ever been left waiting by the phone? It's the

1673
01:11:57,640 --> 01:12:00,720
Speaker 1: Fred Show? Hey Tim, good morning, Welcome to the progrum.

1674
01:12:01,000 --> 01:12:01,799
Speaker 1: How are you?

1675
01:12:01,920 --> 01:12:06,000
Speaker 15: Oh man, I'm just super frustrated. I thought I went

1676
01:12:06,040 --> 01:12:10,519
Speaker 15: on a really awesome date last week and.

1677
01:12:10,360 --> 01:12:13,120
Speaker 3: She's just not She's just not getting back to me.

1678
01:12:13,200 --> 01:12:13,879
Speaker 1: She's ghosting.

1679
01:12:13,880 --> 01:12:14,840
Speaker 8: I don't know what's going on.

1680
01:12:15,000 --> 01:12:17,600
Speaker 1: All right, Well, that's frustrating, So why don't you tell us?

1681
01:12:17,640 --> 01:12:19,840
Speaker 1: I listen, how did you meet, tell us about any

1682
01:12:19,920 --> 01:12:21,760
Speaker 1: dates you've been on, and then where things are now.

1683
01:12:21,920 --> 01:12:26,000
Speaker 15: Yeah, I mean we met on Bumble, you know, and

1684
01:12:26,040 --> 01:12:30,120
Speaker 15: we went out and after you know, talking for texting

1685
01:12:30,200 --> 01:12:32,439
Speaker 15: or whatever for a week on Bumble, we decided to

1686
01:12:32,479 --> 01:12:34,559
Speaker 15: go out and we just got drinks.

1687
01:12:34,560 --> 01:12:36,559
Speaker 8: And I thought it was it was super fun.

1688
01:12:36,680 --> 01:12:39,320
Speaker 15: I thought it was just really you know, talked, had

1689
01:12:39,360 --> 01:12:42,080
Speaker 15: good conversation that weren't any walls.

1690
01:12:41,840 --> 01:12:44,320
Speaker 8: Or anything, you know, Like I thought I had some

1691
01:12:44,360 --> 01:12:44,840
Speaker 8: good sons.

1692
01:12:44,880 --> 01:12:47,160
Speaker 1: But because you can sometimes tell when you're out with

1693
01:12:47,200 --> 01:12:52,040
Speaker 1: somebody if you're conversing in the conversations labored or you know,

1694
01:12:52,160 --> 01:12:54,040
Speaker 1: if you go if you bring up a topic that

1695
01:12:54,479 --> 01:12:56,920
Speaker 1: gets weird or awkward or whatever, but you're saying like

1696
01:12:56,960 --> 01:13:00,120
Speaker 1: everything was just kind of natural and flowing, and that's usually.

1697
01:13:00,200 --> 01:13:02,400
Speaker 8: Sign Yeah, yeah, that's what I thought.

1698
01:13:02,840 --> 01:13:04,519
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well let's see if we can figure

1699
01:13:04,520 --> 01:13:06,919
Speaker 1: out what's going on. We're gonna call this woman, Sophie.

1700
01:13:06,960 --> 01:13:09,080
Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone at the same time. I

1701
01:13:09,120 --> 01:13:10,720
Speaker 1: want you to jump in at some point, but we're

1702
01:13:10,720 --> 01:13:12,920
Speaker 1: gonna ask some questions before that and see if we

1703
01:13:12,920 --> 01:13:15,120
Speaker 1: can figure out what's going on. And the hope, as

1704
01:13:15,160 --> 01:13:17,479
Speaker 1: always is that there's something going on here. We can

1705
01:13:17,479 --> 01:13:19,880
Speaker 1: straighten out and then set you up on another date

1706
01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:22,680
Speaker 1: and pay for that. Sound good, you've kind of here.

1707
01:13:22,760 --> 01:13:24,639
Speaker 1: What happens next? Part two of waiting out the phone?

1708
01:13:24,640 --> 01:13:27,559
Speaker 1: After got got Bruno Mars back in three minutes. Fred,

1709
01:13:27,840 --> 01:13:29,800
Speaker 1: he needs the Fred Show on the radio and the

1710
01:13:29,840 --> 01:13:32,160
Speaker 1: iHeart app. Check us out live each morning at any time.

1711
01:13:32,320 --> 01:13:35,800
Speaker 1: Search for the Fred's Show on demand. Hey, Tim, all right,

1712
01:13:35,920 --> 01:13:38,880
Speaker 1: let's call Sophie. You guys met on bumble and you

1713
01:13:38,880 --> 01:13:41,439
Speaker 1: went on a date and you thought the date was amazing.

1714
01:13:41,479 --> 01:13:43,960
Speaker 1: You thought the conversation was good, you thought the attraction

1715
01:13:44,160 --> 01:13:47,000
Speaker 1: was there. You were into her, you were excited about this,

1716
01:13:47,280 --> 01:13:49,639
Speaker 1: and yet you've reached out for another date since then

1717
01:13:49,760 --> 01:13:55,519
Speaker 1: and you have not heard from her. No response, text, calls, whatever, nothing. Okay,

1718
01:13:55,680 --> 01:13:57,880
Speaker 1: let's call Sophie. Figure this out right now, good luck?

1719
01:14:04,840 --> 01:14:05,080
Speaker 11: Hello?

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01:14:05,720 --> 01:14:09,600
Speaker 1: Hi is this Sophie? Yes, he Sophie. Good morning. My

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01:14:09,680 --> 01:14:11,760
Speaker 1: name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show, the

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01:14:11,840 --> 01:14:13,640
Speaker 1: morning radio show, and I have to tell you that

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01:14:13,680 --> 01:14:15,840
Speaker 1: you are on the radio right now, and I would

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01:14:15,840 --> 01:14:17,640
Speaker 1: need your permission to continue with the call. Can we

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01:14:17,720 --> 01:14:22,479
Speaker 1: chat for a second, would you mind? Sure? Well? Thank

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01:14:22,479 --> 01:14:24,559
Speaker 1: you? You can hang up any time. But we're calling on

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01:14:24,600 --> 01:14:27,479
Speaker 1: behalf of a dude who says you met you on Bumble.

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01:14:27,520 --> 01:14:30,519
Speaker 1: His name is Tim. Do you remember meeting Tim? Oh?

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01:14:30,880 --> 01:14:35,280
Speaker 3: Oh boy, yeah I do. This is a little on

1730
01:14:35,360 --> 01:14:36,920
Speaker 3: a pocket. What's going on?

1731
01:14:37,200 --> 01:14:37,599
Speaker 2: Oh wow?

1732
01:14:37,840 --> 01:14:40,360
Speaker 1: Well, I mean that's fair to say. But he called

1733
01:14:40,439 --> 01:14:42,559
Speaker 1: us and he told us that you guys have met

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01:14:42,560 --> 01:14:44,400
Speaker 1: on Bumble and went on a date. He thought the

1735
01:14:44,479 --> 01:14:47,639
Speaker 1: date went great and was excited to see you again,

1736
01:14:47,920 --> 01:14:49,559
Speaker 1: but says that he hasn't been able to get ahold

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01:14:49,600 --> 01:14:52,000
Speaker 1: of you. We obviously had no trouble. You picked up

1738
01:14:52,040 --> 01:14:54,679
Speaker 1: in like two rings. So what's going on? Why haven't

1739
01:14:54,720 --> 01:14:56,479
Speaker 1: you called him back? Why don't you want to see

1740
01:14:56,520 --> 01:14:56,920
Speaker 1: him again?

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01:14:57,600 --> 01:15:01,320
Speaker 3: Well? I guess like this at some point, but I

1742
01:15:01,360 --> 01:15:04,000
Speaker 3: can go ahead and walk you through one of the

1743
01:15:04,000 --> 01:15:06,280
Speaker 3: creepiest experiences I think I've ever had.

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01:15:06,400 --> 01:15:08,680
Speaker 1: Wait, so you're saying this date was one of the

1745
01:15:08,720 --> 01:15:10,839
Speaker 1: creepiest experiences that you've ever had.

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01:15:10,880 --> 01:15:13,320
Speaker 3: The aftermath of the date, Oh definitely.

1747
01:15:13,840 --> 01:15:15,559
Speaker 1: Okay, Wow, what happened?

1748
01:15:16,200 --> 01:15:19,839
Speaker 3: Well, I mean everything was fine. When we match some bumble,

1749
01:15:20,600 --> 01:15:25,719
Speaker 3: the back and forth, our conversation was really nice, which

1750
01:15:25,760 --> 01:15:30,080
Speaker 3: is really rare for Bumble. That's kind of like a

1751
01:15:30,200 --> 01:15:32,920
Speaker 3: watering hole of creatures of the night. So I thought, Okay,

1752
01:15:33,240 --> 01:15:35,800
Speaker 3: somebody nice and normal who's having a real conversation with

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01:15:35,800 --> 01:15:36,360
Speaker 3: me the date.

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01:15:36,439 --> 01:15:38,519
Speaker 1: I'm sure the Bumble people appreciate that. By the way,

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01:15:38,520 --> 01:15:41,160
Speaker 1: I'm sure there it's a It's a watering hole for

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01:15:41,320 --> 01:15:46,800
Speaker 1: Creatures of the Night copyright you Bumble five. I can

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01:15:46,840 --> 01:15:48,720
Speaker 1: see it now on a billboard. I think that's kind

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01:15:48,720 --> 01:15:50,760
Speaker 1: of what our show is, is a watering hole for

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01:15:50,840 --> 01:15:53,320
Speaker 1: creatures of the night. Anyway, And I mean that in

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01:15:53,360 --> 01:15:56,719
Speaker 1: the finest way possible and the nicest, kindest way. So okay,

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01:15:56,720 --> 01:15:57,519
Speaker 1: So what happened?

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01:15:57,680 --> 01:16:02,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, date, super fun. After the date though, that's the

1763
01:16:02,600 --> 01:16:06,800
Speaker 3: Nike got really weird. The day after the date. He

1764
01:16:06,880 --> 01:16:09,719
Speaker 3: asked for my email and he already had my phone number.

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01:16:10,200 --> 01:16:14,120
Speaker 3: People don't really ask for emails, you know. But okay, sure,

1766
01:16:14,160 --> 01:16:16,360
Speaker 3: he said he had a surprise for me. Fine, Like

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01:16:16,479 --> 01:16:19,040
Speaker 3: out the email, it's all when it took a really

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01:16:19,120 --> 01:16:23,360
Speaker 3: dark turn. The subject line was I picture a future

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01:16:23,400 --> 01:16:28,160
Speaker 3: with you. Whatever could that possibly mean? So inside the email,

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01:16:28,920 --> 01:16:31,920
Speaker 3: I kid you not. He had a power point. Now

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01:16:31,960 --> 01:16:33,760
Speaker 3: look at that power point possibly mean?

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01:16:34,120 --> 01:16:34,400
Speaker 1: Yes?

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01:16:35,680 --> 01:16:39,400
Speaker 3: I clicked on that power point and I was absolutely shocked.

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01:16:39,720 --> 01:16:42,000
Speaker 3: This guy actually.

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01:16:41,600 --> 01:16:44,320
Speaker 8: Made a PowerPoint using AI photos.

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01:16:44,320 --> 01:16:47,960
Speaker 3: Mind you, you show us what our life would be

1777
01:16:48,120 --> 01:16:49,040
Speaker 3: like together.

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01:16:51,720 --> 01:16:54,200
Speaker 1: So this dude went to like j GPT and he

1779
01:16:54,280 --> 01:16:57,519
Speaker 1: typed in like, you know, me and Tim and Selphie

1780
01:16:57,880 --> 01:17:01,040
Speaker 1: together forever or something okay, and then he sent this

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01:17:01,120 --> 01:17:04,519
Speaker 1: to you in a little organized manner. So what sort

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01:17:04,560 --> 01:17:07,840
Speaker 1: of images did he Oh no, did he have a

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01:17:08,000 --> 01:17:09,000
Speaker 1: I make of the two.

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01:17:08,800 --> 01:17:15,280
Speaker 3: Of you the entire play by play? Engagement photos yeah,

1785
01:17:15,360 --> 01:17:18,680
Speaker 3: oh yeah, wedding photos. I will say he picked a

1786
01:17:18,680 --> 01:17:19,680
Speaker 3: really nice dress for me.

1787
01:17:21,160 --> 01:17:21,840
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1788
01:17:23,240 --> 01:17:28,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, pregnancy oh wow wow?

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01:17:28,960 --> 01:17:35,080
Speaker 1: Okay, kids, now you're married with you have yeah boy

1790
01:17:35,160 --> 01:17:35,519
Speaker 1: or girl?

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01:17:35,560 --> 01:17:35,920
Speaker 3: Boys?

1792
01:17:36,160 --> 01:17:36,840
Speaker 10: Say the girl?

1793
01:17:37,040 --> 01:17:37,439
Speaker 2: The girl?

1794
01:17:37,600 --> 01:17:37,800
Speaker 11: You know?

1795
01:17:38,000 --> 01:17:40,479
Speaker 3: Questionable? You know, maybe should a late bluemer shall come

1796
01:17:40,479 --> 01:17:40,720
Speaker 3: into it.

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01:17:42,400 --> 01:17:42,840
Speaker 10: The kid.

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01:17:44,840 --> 01:17:46,600
Speaker 1: We're making one of the AI children now that you

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01:17:46,640 --> 01:17:50,360
Speaker 1: would have together. Okay, wow. So wedding.

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01:17:51,960 --> 01:17:55,080
Speaker 3: There was a cat, a caligo named Pebbles.

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01:17:55,200 --> 01:17:58,280
Speaker 1: A cat. You own a cat now too? In AI

1802
01:17:58,400 --> 01:18:00,000
Speaker 1: world with this guy who you went on one day

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01:18:00,160 --> 01:18:00,679
Speaker 1: with from.

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01:18:00,479 --> 01:18:03,920
Speaker 8: Bumble absolutely wow wow.

1805
01:18:03,760 --> 01:18:07,080
Speaker 1: Wow, okay, I mean way to hate, way to have vision,

1806
01:18:07,120 --> 01:18:08,920
Speaker 1: you know. Let me say something here. A lot of

1807
01:18:08,960 --> 01:18:11,080
Speaker 1: women complain that guys don't know what they want. This

1808
01:18:11,160 --> 01:18:12,800
Speaker 1: guy quite clearly knows what he wants.

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01:18:13,920 --> 01:18:15,720
Speaker 2: This is not what we mean, This is not what

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01:18:15,760 --> 01:18:16,080
Speaker 2: we mean.

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01:18:19,280 --> 01:18:23,280
Speaker 1: Let me bring Tim into this. The aim asked her, Wow, Tim,

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01:18:23,479 --> 01:18:26,519
Speaker 1: you didn't mention when you said the things that she

1813
01:18:26,600 --> 01:18:28,920
Speaker 1: wasn't responding to you. You didn't mention this fantasy world

1814
01:18:28,960 --> 01:18:30,280
Speaker 1: that you created at the two of them in a

1815
01:18:30,320 --> 01:18:31,400
Speaker 1: PowerPoint presentation.

1816
01:18:33,840 --> 01:18:36,240
Speaker 8: I mean, what was the issue with that?

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01:18:37,040 --> 01:18:40,680
Speaker 1: What was the issue? I think there are kind of

1818
01:18:40,680 --> 01:18:43,240
Speaker 1: a lot of issues actually go ahead that.

1819
01:18:43,320 --> 01:18:45,519
Speaker 3: He have to ask. That is an issue?

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01:18:45,640 --> 01:18:48,559
Speaker 1: I mean, is that normal behavior for you to create

1821
01:18:48,600 --> 01:18:52,360
Speaker 1: a fantasy world with someone you just met, including pictures

1822
01:18:52,360 --> 01:18:54,040
Speaker 1: of events that didn't take place.

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01:18:54,160 --> 01:18:56,080
Speaker 15: Well, I mean it was just like a joke, you know.

1824
01:18:56,520 --> 01:18:57,960
Speaker 15: I mean, I know we're not married, I know we

1825
01:18:58,000 --> 01:19:00,439
Speaker 15: don't have kids. It was just like, you know, hey,

1826
01:19:00,600 --> 01:19:05,000
Speaker 15: like I see this getting serious, you know if if.

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01:19:04,880 --> 01:19:07,080
Speaker 2: You're in It took a long time though, no.

1828
01:19:07,240 --> 01:19:11,160
Speaker 15: No, no chat EBT and the new program that I

1829
01:19:11,200 --> 01:19:13,000
Speaker 15: had it took like twenty five minutes.

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01:19:14,000 --> 01:19:16,000
Speaker 1: I don't I don't know that I would say to

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01:19:16,000 --> 01:19:18,880
Speaker 1: somebody after a first date, all that stuff anyway, not

1832
01:19:19,000 --> 01:19:21,840
Speaker 1: to mention creating the fake pictures of what all that

1833
01:19:21,880 --> 01:19:24,719
Speaker 1: would look like like, I think a lot of people

1834
01:19:24,760 --> 01:19:26,880
Speaker 1: would be alarmed if you told them after the first

1835
01:19:26,960 --> 01:19:29,040
Speaker 1: date that you saw a future, you know, having kids

1836
01:19:29,040 --> 01:19:30,800
Speaker 1: and buying a cat with them. I think that people

1837
01:19:30,880 --> 01:19:33,120
Speaker 1: might that might be a little abrasive for people. But

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01:19:33,160 --> 01:19:35,040
Speaker 1: then you you went ahead and took the extra step

1839
01:19:35,120 --> 01:19:37,400
Speaker 1: of creating the images.

1840
01:19:38,560 --> 01:19:41,200
Speaker 8: Well, I didn't create the images they I did. Well,

1841
01:19:41,520 --> 01:19:42,840
Speaker 8: is a cat really abrasive?

1842
01:19:42,920 --> 01:19:45,680
Speaker 1: I mean they're pretty pretty creatures. I thought why. I

1843
01:19:45,680 --> 01:19:48,000
Speaker 1: think it's the purchasing of the cat combined with the

1844
01:19:48,400 --> 01:19:55,360
Speaker 1: kids who you've named, and yeah, right right, I think that,

1845
01:19:56,720 --> 01:19:57,519
Speaker 1: you know, it's.

1846
01:19:57,439 --> 01:19:59,680
Speaker 8: Kind of like plug and play. You know, it's like

1847
01:19:59,840 --> 01:20:00,439
Speaker 8: I have.

1848
01:20:00,840 --> 01:20:03,160
Speaker 15: You know, an image of what I want in my life,

1849
01:20:03,479 --> 01:20:06,040
Speaker 15: and I'm just you know, getting this person to see

1850
01:20:06,040 --> 01:20:07,640
Speaker 15: if they go along with that.

1851
01:20:07,920 --> 01:20:10,560
Speaker 1: And this guy, you know, Tim is just on a

1852
01:20:10,640 --> 01:20:12,680
Speaker 1: vision board. How is that any different than putting a

1853
01:20:12,680 --> 01:20:15,280
Speaker 1: picture of a Ferrari on your on your mirror. The

1854
01:20:15,320 --> 01:20:17,320
Speaker 1: man wants to you know, aspire to have a Ferrari,

1855
01:20:17,400 --> 01:20:20,679
Speaker 1: except this time he's, uh, the Ferrari is is Sophie,

1856
01:20:20,720 --> 01:20:23,800
Speaker 1: and he made fake images of the children that they

1857
01:20:23,800 --> 01:20:31,120
Speaker 1: don't have, So I look oriented is normal? The man

1858
01:20:31,200 --> 01:20:33,519
Speaker 1: is focused, The man knows what he wants. I uh,

1859
01:20:33,880 --> 01:20:40,040
Speaker 1: I may be changing my mind about this. So many

1860
01:20:40,080 --> 01:20:42,400
Speaker 1: normal things? What what what I mean?

1861
01:20:42,560 --> 01:20:43,760
Speaker 8: People gotta you know, they got to.

1862
01:20:43,760 --> 01:20:46,479
Speaker 15: Stand out right, Like you don't know her middle name?

1863
01:20:46,600 --> 01:20:49,160
Speaker 1: Bro, you just met her, You don't need that.

1864
01:20:49,280 --> 01:20:54,840
Speaker 2: Form is out of control.

1865
01:20:55,360 --> 01:20:58,360
Speaker 1: I would look you your your imagination has taken you know,

1866
01:20:58,439 --> 01:21:00,280
Speaker 1: kind of gotten the best of you here. And I

1867
01:21:00,320 --> 01:21:03,120
Speaker 1: think again, I feel like if you communicated these things

1868
01:21:03,160 --> 01:21:05,519
Speaker 1: to her after a first date, that that in itself

1869
01:21:05,680 --> 01:21:08,320
Speaker 1: would spook a lot of people, because even though you

1870
01:21:08,360 --> 01:21:10,960
Speaker 1: have good intention, you just met, now, you went ahead

1871
01:21:11,000 --> 01:21:14,080
Speaker 1: and created fake pictures of this. I don't suppose you

1872
01:21:14,120 --> 01:21:16,400
Speaker 1: have them like in frames in your house or anything. Like,

1873
01:21:16,439 --> 01:21:18,559
Speaker 1: you haven't taken it. Is that? What can you imagine?

1874
01:21:18,720 --> 01:21:20,559
Speaker 1: Like if she went over to his house and like

1875
01:21:20,680 --> 01:21:23,439
Speaker 1: that side is the picture of Uh? Actually, I think

1876
01:21:23,439 --> 01:21:24,120
Speaker 1: I just did give you.

1877
01:21:24,120 --> 01:21:26,759
Speaker 8: No, I don't I don't have any I don't.

1878
01:21:26,520 --> 01:21:27,200
Speaker 15: Have any friends.

1879
01:21:27,479 --> 01:21:31,439
Speaker 1: That would be weird. That would be you have Okay,

1880
01:21:31,680 --> 01:21:34,439
Speaker 1: that weird Sophie. You haven't said much. Are you just

1881
01:21:34,600 --> 01:21:37,040
Speaker 1: frightened her? I mean, I.

1882
01:21:36,960 --> 01:21:37,479
Speaker 3: Don't mean it.

1883
01:21:38,360 --> 01:21:40,760
Speaker 8: It's supposed to be. It's supposed to be cute. Why

1884
01:21:40,760 --> 01:21:43,639
Speaker 8: are you yelling at This is not cute.

1885
01:21:43,640 --> 01:21:48,600
Speaker 3: This is a thing that documentaries murder mysteries on Netflix.

1886
01:21:48,200 --> 01:21:55,280
Speaker 1: Were, maadeo, this is how that's good.

1887
01:21:55,400 --> 01:21:59,599
Speaker 3: That's certainly not that I'm gonna ask the question.

1888
01:22:00,160 --> 01:22:02,600
Speaker 1: Oh no, I think you should totally understand why this

1889
01:22:02,680 --> 01:22:06,800
Speaker 1: is murder. No one's murdering anybody. But I think you

1890
01:22:06,840 --> 01:22:09,320
Speaker 1: may have murdered your chances of going out with her again.

1891
01:22:10,320 --> 01:22:12,360
Speaker 1: But I have to ask the question. That's what I'm

1892
01:22:12,360 --> 01:22:15,640
Speaker 1: paid to do. Do you, Sophie, would you like to

1893
01:22:15,640 --> 01:22:17,439
Speaker 1: go out with him again? You know, he was a

1894
01:22:17,479 --> 01:22:19,880
Speaker 1: little he came in a little hot with the AI

1895
01:22:20,000 --> 01:22:21,680
Speaker 1: images of the two of.

1896
01:22:21,640 --> 01:22:24,000
Speaker 8: You together, and any more AI images if you don't

1897
01:22:24,080 --> 01:22:24,439
Speaker 8: like them.

1898
01:22:24,600 --> 01:22:26,679
Speaker 1: See, he won't send anymore. How about that?

1899
01:22:26,880 --> 01:22:30,600
Speaker 3: No agreeing to jet chat whoa, I can't even say it.

1900
01:22:30,840 --> 01:22:34,200
Speaker 3: According to chat GBT, I will not be going on

1901
01:22:34,280 --> 01:22:35,040
Speaker 3: a second date.

1902
01:22:35,120 --> 01:22:37,400
Speaker 1: Oh see, she asked chat GPT too, and chat even

1903
01:22:37,479 --> 01:22:39,840
Speaker 1: chat GPT is like, well, this is weird. This is

1904
01:22:39,840 --> 01:22:42,599
Speaker 1: a weird use of me. That's what chat geft said. Okay,

1905
01:22:42,680 --> 01:22:44,760
Speaker 1: all right, look so it's not going to work out, Tim,

1906
01:22:44,800 --> 01:22:46,960
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Look at you sound like a sweet guy.

1907
01:22:47,240 --> 01:22:50,160
Speaker 1: It was a little aggressive. You spooked her, so I

1908
01:22:50,240 --> 01:22:52,800
Speaker 1: might be mindful of that moving forward. But good luck

1909
01:22:52,800 --> 01:22:54,560
Speaker 1: to you and Sophie. Thanks for answering. Good luck to

1910
01:22:54,560 --> 01:22:55,000
Speaker 1: you as well.

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01:22:55,120 --> 01:22:55,519
Speaker 8: Thank you.

1912
01:22:56,600 --> 01:23:00,559
Speaker 1: All right, well, the Entertainer Report will get to the headlines,

1913
01:23:00,560 --> 01:23:02,280
Speaker 1: the biggest stories of the day, and the fun fact

1914
01:23:02,360 --> 01:23:07,120
Speaker 1: all next fread show back into Calin's Entertainer Report, and

1915
01:23:07,200 --> 01:23:08,320
Speaker 1: he's on the Bread Show.

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01:23:08,760 --> 01:23:12,320
Speaker 4: The White Lotus season finale was full of jaw dropping twists,

1917
01:23:12,520 --> 01:23:14,960
Speaker 4: but one of the biggest got scraps. So this is

1918
01:23:15,000 --> 01:23:16,840
Speaker 4: not a spoiler if you haven't seen. It's something that

1919
01:23:16,960 --> 01:23:19,920
Speaker 4: almost happened but didn't. Creator Mike White revealed on the

1920
01:23:19,920 --> 01:23:22,360
Speaker 4: White Lotus official podcast, which I need to listen to,

1921
01:23:22,640 --> 01:23:26,040
Speaker 4: that Piper Ratliffe and Zion Lindsay were originally supposed to

1922
01:23:26,080 --> 01:23:28,479
Speaker 4: have a surprising sex scene in the last episode. The

1923
01:23:28,520 --> 01:23:31,679
Speaker 4: two characters never once encountered one another during the show,

1924
01:23:31,720 --> 01:23:34,160
Speaker 4: but according to Mike, Piper was supposed to lose her

1925
01:23:34,240 --> 01:23:37,360
Speaker 4: virginity to Zion. He says that he intended for her

1926
01:23:37,400 --> 01:23:40,640
Speaker 4: to have a realization while spending the night in the

1927
01:23:40,680 --> 01:23:43,800
Speaker 4: Buddhist monastery that she needed to have sex for the

1928
01:23:43,840 --> 01:23:46,559
Speaker 4: first time and get this thing over with after brother

1929
01:23:46,640 --> 01:23:49,320
Speaker 4: Saxon Macher for her lack of experience. I know it's

1930
01:23:49,400 --> 01:23:51,720
Speaker 4: a lot of things that people in this room don't

1931
01:23:51,760 --> 01:23:53,880
Speaker 4: know what I'm talking about, but hopefully somewhere someone out

1932
01:23:53,880 --> 01:23:56,439
Speaker 4: there gets it. Ultimately, he cut the scene from the script.

1933
01:23:56,479 --> 01:23:58,880
Speaker 4: It would have added ten more minutes to the episode

1934
01:23:58,960 --> 01:24:01,479
Speaker 4: and too much of a come vibe. It didn't fit

1935
01:24:01,520 --> 01:24:04,120
Speaker 4: the middle of Piper's dad's very dark plot line. If

1936
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Speaker 4: you know, you know by the way he says Season

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Speaker 4: four will be entirely different, which you know they usually are,

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Speaker 4: So I don't know what that means. Yukan is a

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Speaker 4: national champion once again, and perhaps nobody was more proud

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Speaker 4: of the new title than Vanessa Bryant, whose daughter Gianna

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Speaker 4: absolutely adored the husky so she of course is the

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Speaker 4: widow of Kobe Bryant.

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Speaker 2: She took to Instagram to congratulate.

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Speaker 4: Yukon after they destroyed South Carolina Sunday in Tampa, which

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Speaker 4: had her thinking about her late daughter. She wrote, Jigi

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Speaker 4: would have loved being there with you, before adding a

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Speaker 4: quote from Gianna that read, when you can't think yu Kan,

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Speaker 4: Yukan is where many people thought Gigi would have ended

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Speaker 4: up if not for the twenty twenty helicopter crash that

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Speaker 4: tragically took she and Kobe's lives and the lives of others,

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Speaker 4: as well as her NBA legend father once said that

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Speaker 4: she was hell bent on attending the university after she

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Speaker 4: passed at just thirteen. Yukon actually left a customized number

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Speaker 4: two jersey for her the bench and captained the f

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Speaker 4: poo Mamba Sita is.

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Speaker 2: Forever a Husky. The Huskies title was.

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Speaker 4: Their twelfth but their first in the last nine years.

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Speaker 4: Beyonce celebrated her latest business milestone, getting her hair care

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Speaker 4: line at Alta, which is a big deal for the Beehive.

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Speaker 4: She showed up with platinum hair at the party in

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Speaker 4: La and a white outfit She looks Beautiful where celebrity

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Speaker 4: friends sat in the chair to try out different products.

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Speaker 4: Sacred was only available online before and I know, as

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Speaker 4: you know, Kiki has told me and Beyonce fans it's

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Speaker 4: hard to get things that she comes out with.

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Speaker 2: We don't know where to find them.

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Speaker 4: So now they are going to officially be at Alta

1968
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Speaker 4: and you can try it. And lastly, the Dodgers celebrated

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Speaker 4: their World Series Championship in the White House yesterday. President

1970
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Speaker 4: Trump greeted them in the East Room during a twenty

1971
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Speaker 4: minute ceremony, and then he met with MVP show Hey

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Speaker 4: Otani in the Oval Assa's office and he was like

1973
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Speaker 4: gushing over show Hey said he looks like a movie star,

1974
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Speaker 4: which made me laugh and Mookie Bets. By the way,

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Speaker 4: one of the players who skipped out on the Red

1976
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Speaker 4: Sox visit to the White House in twenty nineteen, was

1977
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Speaker 4: at the ceremony showed cans with Trump. He said that

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Speaker 4: he regretted not going in twenty nineteen because the decision

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Speaker 4: took attention away from his teammates at the time.

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Speaker 2: By the way, if you want to catch up.

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Speaker 4: On anything from The Fred Show, Kiki Karaoki definitely gonna

1982
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Speaker 4: be Paulina Fred's Fund Fact type The Fred Show on

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Speaker 4: demand and set us as a preset on the free

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Speaker 4: iHeartRadio app.

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Speaker 1: The Fred Show is on Fred's Fun.

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Speaker 5: Fact Fred Fund.

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Speaker 1: Learning so much? All right, guys, so this is interesting.

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Speaker 1: Bruce willis okay. When you think of Bruce willis, what

1989
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Speaker 1: do you think of first?

1990
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Speaker 2: Die Hard?

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Speaker 1: Yep, So, Bruce, have you ever seen Diehard? I know

1992
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Speaker 1: the answer that he was I knew what you were

1993
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Speaker 1: gonna say. I could read your mind. Bruce Willis played

1994
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Speaker 1: the legendary John McClain in the die Hard film franchise, right,

1995
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Speaker 1: but before he landed the role in the Action Pack movies,

1996
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Speaker 1: the part was offered to Frank Sinatra, who is in

1997
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Speaker 1: his seventies at the time. And that may sound strange,

1998
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Speaker 1: but it had to do with illegal obligation. I never

1999
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Speaker 1: knew this, by the way. The movie was based on

2000
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Speaker 1: the nineteen seventy nine Roderick Thorpe novel Nothing Lasts Forever,

2001
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Speaker 1: which was a follow up to a nineteen sixty six

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Speaker 1: The Detective I Guess not a movie in nineteen sixty eight,

2003
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Speaker 1: or excuse me, that was a novel in nineteen sixty eight.

2004
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Speaker 1: That novel had been made into a film starring Sinatra,

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Speaker 1: not as John McClain, but as Joe Leland, a former

2006
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Speaker 1: New York cop who becomes a private investigator. So when

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Speaker 1: Sinatra signed up for that movie, it was in his

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Speaker 1: contract that the studio had to offer him the main

2009
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Speaker 1: part in the sequel, but when that eventually happened, he

2010
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Speaker 1: turned down the roll. But can you imagine Diehard without

2011
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Speaker 1: Bruce Willis.

2012
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Speaker 2: No one with a seven year old sinatray?

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Speaker 1: Can you imagine Bruce Willis WITHO Diehard?

2014
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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: And is it a Christmas movie?

2016
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Speaker 1: Oh God, here we go. I don't have to talk more.

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Speaker 1: Fred Show next.

2018
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Speaker 12: Yeah, they talk better than the excited. These are the

2019
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Speaker 12: radio blogs on The Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: By for writing in our diaries, except we say them aloud,

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Speaker 1: we call them blogs. I'll take this one, dear blog.

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Speaker 1: So yes, I had a friend recently tell me about

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01:28:11,160 --> 01:28:12,920
Speaker 1: two books I need to read, and my stack of

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Speaker 1: books at home is. I buy books far, far faster

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Speaker 1: than I can read them. It's a problem. But but

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01:28:19,479 --> 01:28:23,200
Speaker 1: Mel Robbins, I love her, Mel Robbins. Let them you

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Speaker 1: read the book.

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Speaker 5: I am on audible so I'm listening to it because

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Speaker 5: I can't read. Like you said, I can't sit.

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Speaker 1: You can't read.

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Speaker 2: You can't read.

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Speaker 1: But no, you've come a long way.

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Speaker 2: Yes, sit there and read under my life.

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Speaker 1: You can't read like you said, You've really made it.

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Speaker 6: You come a long way in your read.

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Speaker 1: I never said that. We're the record. I can, yes,

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Speaker 1: and a lot of stuff. I never said you couldn't read.

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Speaker 1: That's what I heard. I'm so proud of how far

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Speaker 1: you've come without knowing how to read. You are a

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Speaker 1: proud product of the Chicago Public school system and they

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Speaker 1: should be proud of you. You've come a long way.

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Speaker 2: They don't claim me, but correct cps all.

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Speaker 1: Curry condors anyway. So the book is called let Them.

2044
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Speaker 1: It's about a theory that she came up. And now,

2045
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Speaker 1: first I want to say this, Mel Robbins has a

2046
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Speaker 1: very interesting story, and she herself has developed these theories

2047
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Speaker 1: like the Wizard, the one, two, three, four five theory,

2048
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Speaker 1: a couple others, and she's written books, and she's a

2049
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Speaker 1: public speaker and a Ted's talk speaker and works with coming.

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Speaker 1: She's very successful. And it all sprouted from her being

2051
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Speaker 1: depressed and broke and you know, not feeling like her

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01:29:38,920 --> 01:29:40,880
Speaker 1: life was moving forward and all these different things. So

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Speaker 1: she kind of just like came up with these things,

2054
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Speaker 1: these ways of improving her life, and then shares them

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Speaker 1: with everybody else. So I commend her. It's incredible. I'd

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Speaker 1: love to have her on the show. I'd love to

2057
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Speaker 1: talk to her.

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Speaker 2: Man me too.

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Speaker 1: The problem that I'm having with this book, and in

2060
01:29:55,720 --> 01:29:57,719
Speaker 1: fact it was it was for my mom to read.

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01:29:58,120 --> 01:29:59,559
Speaker 1: My friend was like I want your mom to read

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Speaker 1: this and and if that's the case, then you should

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Speaker 1: read it too. So it's called let them. And if

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Speaker 1: I'm being I'm oversimplifying, and I'm only like a quarter

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Speaker 1: of the way through the book, so I can't say

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Speaker 1: that I fully like have experienced the message she's trying

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Speaker 1: to send. But essentially, it's if someone's doing something in

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Speaker 1: your life that upsets you, if it's taking the power

2069
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Speaker 1: back in your life. One example she uses is something

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Speaker 1: that we could probably all relate to. Or she was

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01:30:25,800 --> 01:30:28,400
Speaker 1: on Instagram and she noticed that a bunch of her

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Speaker 1: female friends were all on this fun trip together and

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Speaker 1: she didn't get invited, and she doesn't know why, and

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Speaker 1: she immediately goes into like despair and depression and sadness

2075
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Speaker 1: and anger and why why wouldn't I have been invited?

2076
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Speaker 1: Why I wasn't I included? And then the thing was, well,

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Speaker 1: let them, let them do that, and don't allow them

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Speaker 1: to take the power, because they have the right to

2079
01:30:47,280 --> 01:30:49,120
Speaker 1: do that. They can go off and do whatever they want,

2080
01:30:49,160 --> 01:30:51,320
Speaker 1: you know, they don't have to ask you. And then

2081
01:30:51,400 --> 01:30:54,720
Speaker 1: there's a second part of this, which is let me,

2082
01:30:55,439 --> 01:30:57,680
Speaker 1: which is that and I'm sure I'm butchering this, I

2083
01:30:57,720 --> 01:30:59,960
Speaker 1: mean read the book like I'm not claiming to, you know,

2084
01:31:00,200 --> 01:31:03,880
Speaker 1: be doing this properly, giving doing it full justice. But

2085
01:31:03,920 --> 01:31:05,320
Speaker 1: the second part of this, I think is the most

2086
01:31:05,320 --> 01:31:07,479
Speaker 1: important part, which is that, well, what am I going

2087
01:31:07,520 --> 01:31:08,960
Speaker 1: to do about it? Well, I'm going to work on

2088
01:31:08,960 --> 01:31:11,200
Speaker 1: those friendships, I'm going to reach out to those people,

2089
01:31:11,400 --> 01:31:13,880
Speaker 1: I'm going to engage, I'm going to plan a trip

2090
01:31:13,920 --> 01:31:16,080
Speaker 1: for myself. I'm going to do this. So take the power.

2091
01:31:16,160 --> 01:31:18,160
Speaker 1: Don't let them have the power. You take the power.

2092
01:31:18,200 --> 01:31:20,320
Speaker 1: Someone's being mean to you, let them Now. For me,

2093
01:31:21,960 --> 01:31:24,760
Speaker 1: a couple things, I find a lot of these self

2094
01:31:24,800 --> 01:31:28,840
Speaker 1: help books really simple, stupid, and I've read a lot

2095
01:31:28,880 --> 01:31:31,160
Speaker 1: of them, like, for example, the Four Agreements. If you

2096
01:31:31,160 --> 01:31:33,280
Speaker 1: haven't read the Four Agreements, I recommend, But once you

2097
01:31:33,320 --> 01:31:38,360
Speaker 1: read it, it's like Okay, yeah, sure, you know that's

2098
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Speaker 1: kind of the way I feel when I'm reading this,

2099
01:31:39,840 --> 01:31:44,000
Speaker 1: like Okay, sure, don't let other people have the power

2100
01:31:44,040 --> 01:31:48,080
Speaker 1: and take the power back. And you're like okay, well yeah,

2101
01:31:48,120 --> 01:31:50,200
Speaker 1: and the other problem that I so, I guess for me,

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Speaker 1: it's like it's a great reminder and I'm going to

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Speaker 1: finish the book, and I definitely think it's a great

2104
01:31:55,560 --> 01:31:58,479
Speaker 1: message I just think sometimes easier said than done. It's

2105
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Speaker 1: like when people say, you know, the hula hoop, control

2106
01:32:01,360 --> 01:32:03,639
Speaker 1: what you can control nothing outside the hula hoop.

2107
01:32:03,640 --> 01:32:05,840
Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, but that's not I get you.

2108
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Speaker 1: Yes, Okay, in a perfect world that I would have

2109
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Speaker 1: the mental strength to not let anybody else affect me.

2110
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Speaker 1: So I think a lot of these things are good

2111
01:32:16,040 --> 01:32:19,400
Speaker 1: reminders and good practices. I don't necessarily think they solve

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Speaker 1: the problem, if that makes sense.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, this tale so old as time, because, like you said,

2114
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Speaker 5: we've heard it before. She's rephrasing something that we've heard,

2115
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Speaker 5: in my opinion, but I like the way she does it,

2116
01:32:30,880 --> 01:32:31,599
Speaker 5: like she's talking.

2117
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Speaker 1: About she's a good writer and she and she's it's

2118
01:32:34,280 --> 01:32:36,960
Speaker 1: very relatable and she gives she gives very specific examples

2119
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Speaker 1: from her own life.

2120
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Speaker 5: Yeah, and it's not reclaiming your power, because I and

2121
01:32:40,760 --> 01:32:43,360
Speaker 5: a lot of us here can easily like fall into

2122
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Speaker 5: the trap of like why doesn't somebody like me, or

2123
01:32:45,560 --> 01:32:47,680
Speaker 5: why doesn't somebody I don't know do this? Or if

2124
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Speaker 5: I do this for somebody, why they're not doing it

2125
01:32:49,600 --> 01:32:51,200
Speaker 5: back for me? Like I think like that all day.

2126
01:32:51,200 --> 01:32:53,120
Speaker 5: I can literally it's a full time job all day

2127
01:32:53,160 --> 01:32:54,479
Speaker 5: line to think about why didn't invite me?

2128
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Speaker 2: Why didn't you do this?

2129
01:32:55,280 --> 01:32:56,800
Speaker 1: Why didn't I do the same thing? You know? And

2130
01:32:56,840 --> 01:32:59,479
Speaker 1: I ruinate about it, But I think the difference, well,

2131
01:32:59,479 --> 01:33:01,519
Speaker 1: and I should say the difference. For me, I just

2132
01:33:01,600 --> 01:33:04,080
Speaker 1: assume everything is my fault. Everything is, and I beat

2133
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Speaker 1: myself up and I don't even know why, Like there

2134
01:33:06,160 --> 01:33:08,200
Speaker 1: are situations in my life. I know why they're the

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Speaker 1: way they are. There are situations in my life I

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Speaker 1: can honestly tell you I don't and I think about

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01:33:12,960 --> 01:33:15,160
Speaker 1: those and I just I figure, it's my fault. And

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Speaker 1: the only way that I can fix it is to

2139
01:33:16,640 --> 01:33:19,000
Speaker 1: just call and take the sword and just tell the

2140
01:33:19,000 --> 01:33:21,280
Speaker 1: person everything's my fault. I'm so sorry. I did everything wrong.

2141
01:33:21,320 --> 01:33:24,080
Speaker 1: And in this book she's saying to you, no, don't

2142
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Speaker 1: do that, because maybe it's not. In fact, there's a

2143
01:33:27,320 --> 01:33:29,960
Speaker 1: very good chance it isn't. And so let them have

2144
01:33:30,040 --> 01:33:32,800
Speaker 1: that opinion, let them say the things, let them do

2145
01:33:32,880 --> 01:33:37,240
Speaker 1: the thing, and then control how you, you know, moving forward,

2146
01:33:37,240 --> 01:33:39,639
Speaker 1: how you treat people, how you live your life. Now,

2147
01:33:39,680 --> 01:33:42,639
Speaker 1: my problem with this is, and she's very clear about

2148
01:33:42,640 --> 01:33:45,080
Speaker 1: how it's two parts, not one part. It's two parts.

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Speaker 1: It's let them and then let me. She's super clear

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Speaker 1: about that. My problem is, I think a lot of

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Speaker 1: people are going to read it as let them not

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Speaker 1: my fault, Hey, let them, let them be a holes. Well,

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Speaker 1: maybe let them be mean, let them not invite me.

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Speaker 1: What about but if they're not inviting you because you're

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Speaker 1: not treating them, Well, what about if they're not including

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Speaker 1: you because they don't like it? They actually don't like

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Speaker 1: you because you did something wrong. So my problem is,

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Speaker 1: I think for the I think it depends on your mindset.

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Speaker 1: Like she makes it clear, this is not her issue.

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Speaker 1: She makes it clear, it's two part. I think a

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Speaker 1: lot of people are going to read it as let

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Speaker 1: them just let them and then not change the way

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Speaker 1: they go about living their lives, because I, unfortunately I

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Speaker 1: tend to know far more people who everything is everybody

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Speaker 1: else's fault than the other way around.

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Speaker 2: I see what you're saying.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. I don't feel like

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Speaker 1: I know as many people who are willing to say

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Speaker 1: to look introspectively as quickly as they are to just say, well,

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Speaker 1: that's the it's their fault, it's their problem, they did it,

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Speaker 1: it's their fault. I didn't do this, you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. So self awareness and accountability would be key

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Speaker 1: in applying this theory, but I don't. I think self

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Speaker 1: awareness is at a premium. Oh yes it is.

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Speaker 2: It's got to be like super expensive right now because

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Speaker 2: nobody has it.

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Speaker 1: So that's all I'm saying is is I read the book,

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Speaker 1: I encourage it. I respect her. I'd love to talk

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Speaker 1: to her. I'd love to interview her. But I guess

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Speaker 1: I say this with caution that it's important that you

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Speaker 1: are aware that you do play a role in the

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Speaker 1: direction that your life goes. Now. You can weigh yourself

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Speaker 1: down with the past, you can weigh yourself self down

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Speaker 1: with your mistakes, you can weigh yourself down with things

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Speaker 1: that you don't have anything to do with that are

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Speaker 1: affecting the way that you feel. And I think that's

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Speaker 1: her point is let go of that, let them do that,

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Speaker 1: and then you move forward. Don't be held back by

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Speaker 1: things you can't control.

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Speaker 2: Like the non invited thing is huge.

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Speaker 4: I think more people like let them because they are

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Speaker 4: allowed to not invite you to a post, of course,

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Speaker 4: and a lot of people think they're entitled to be

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Speaker 4: invited to everything, and there may be reasons why they're not,

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Speaker 4: you know, so I think that's a great example of

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Speaker 4: how to use it.

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Speaker 1: Like, Okay, no, I agree, it was a great example

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Speaker 1: because I do feel this like I'm a guy who

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Speaker 1: wants to be invited to everything, but I don't go

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Speaker 1: to very much because I'm an introvert and I use

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Speaker 1: all my words at work and I sit at home

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Speaker 1: and keep to myself and hope that one day my

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Speaker 1: doordass driver is my future wife. Yeah, that's what I hope,

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Speaker 1: because that's the only you know, physical contact I have

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Speaker 1: from Friday to Sunday. But at the same time, I

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Speaker 1: need to look I need to look introspectively and say, well,

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Speaker 1: part of the reason why I don't get invited to

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Speaker 1: everything is because I don't go. And that's my fault.

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Speaker 1: That's no one else's fault, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't come from a place of malice, but sometimes

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Speaker 1: it does, but for the most part it doesn't. But

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Speaker 1: you know, I like the message. I just think it's

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Speaker 1: it's important that it's used in context. And she says

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Speaker 1: that in the book, I just don't know if everyone's

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Speaker 1: going to read it that way.

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Speaker 2: That's true. She also covers other things, so I think

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Speaker 2: that are pretty cool.

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Speaker 5: She'll talking about like showing up or whatever, like online,

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Speaker 5: or like like doing things that you're like scared to

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Speaker 5: do because we're all afraid of people's opinions, right, Like

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Speaker 5: I'm scared to post this video because people are gonna think,

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Speaker 5: oh wow, Paulina gives me the yck with this video,

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Speaker 5: and I'm terrified.

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Speaker 2: But you know, she's very honest.

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Speaker 5: She goes, you know, everybody has thoughts all day long,

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Speaker 5: good and bad. We've all thought bad things, and not

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Speaker 5: only bad as in like harmful, but I mean like

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Speaker 5: just bad things about people we love. Oh my mom

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Speaker 5: annoyed me today, Oh my husband, all you pissed me off,

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Speaker 5: which is my life story.

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Speaker 2: So like things like that, you know, and doesn't mean

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Speaker 2: I don't love them.

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Speaker 5: She's like, I absolutely love my kids, she says, or

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Speaker 5: my dog whatever, but you know they bother me all

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Speaker 5: day long too.

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Speaker 1: So well, and then she talks about parenting too, and

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Speaker 1: I guess at the end of the book, I haven't

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Speaker 1: gotten this far, but there's like sort of a more

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Speaker 1: precise guide to this. But you know, she even says

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Speaker 1: to her teenager's teenage children like let them, let them

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Speaker 1: do some stuff. Now, there's obviously a line you can't

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Speaker 1: let them do anything. Yeah, But like, I don't think

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Speaker 1: a lot of parents are necessarily willing to say, let

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Speaker 1: my kid make this mistake that I'm watching them make

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Speaker 1: or let them act like an idiot right in front

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Speaker 1: of me, because you want to stop that and correct that.

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Speaker 1: But like, sometimes that mistake needs to be made in

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Speaker 1: order for you to then correct it and or for

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Speaker 1: them to learn. And so again, I mean she gets

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Speaker 1: into mores and she even says in the book like, hey, look,

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Speaker 1: this is not like Carte Blanche, Like you can't let

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Speaker 1: your kid do you know, black Tar heroine, you know,

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Speaker 1: and write and then correct it later, like you need

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Speaker 1: to parent. But there's a there's probably a line that

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Speaker 1: goes beyond what most parents are willing to tell tolerate

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Speaker 1: that might be worth exploring for your kids to learn. Yep.

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Speaker 1: So I say read the book. I say respect the source.

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Speaker 1: I also say I read it. I'm like, Okay, in

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Speaker 1: a perfect world that works, but it's not always going

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Speaker 1: to work every time, you know what I mean, Like,

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Speaker 1: it's not It does require a tremendous amount of mind

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Speaker 1: over matter a tremendous amount of control over your emotion,

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Speaker 1: a tremendous amount of mental discipline, and so yeah, but

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Speaker 1: the hula hoop thing drives me nuts, and that's not

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's her thing. Have Somebody else is

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Speaker 1: saying control what you can control, But that's I get it.

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Speaker 1: But like, that doesn't mean it doesn't affect me negatively,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, yeah, it doesn't mean

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Speaker 1: that the things I can't control aren't still hurtful and

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Speaker 1: mean and that I don't need to work through them.

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Speaker 4: But then everyone would do it, Like that's why you

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01:38:47,960 --> 01:38:50,320
Speaker 4: have to work towards not allowing it to affect you

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Speaker 4: hard or else we'd all be doing it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it's true. It's true. But again that's I

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Speaker 1: guess that's my thing is a lot of these books.

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Speaker 1: It's just like, well, okay, that's what I keep saying

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01:38:59,640 --> 01:39:04,479
Speaker 1: to myself. We're right if I can remember to do it,

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Speaker 1: you know. So it's a good reminder to read the

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Speaker 1: book and let me know what you say.