Speaker 1: From Hollywood.
Speaker 2: See you, thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 1: Ryan Air on Air with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3: Good leap day, morning, Marcus saying, we have done a
Speaker 3: show on this day in eight years.
Speaker 2: The last time it was a Saturday.
Speaker 1: It's two high school sessions.
Speaker 3: Right exactly. You know that in high school it seems
Speaker 3: like a lifetime. In an adulthood, it's not that long.
Speaker 3: It flies by an adulthood.
Speaker 2: By the way, good morning. How is there by good looking? Fun?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 5: No, not good. I set my alarm ten minutes early
Speaker 5: this morning because I was going to try my meditation
Speaker 5: before I came into work like a good girl.
Speaker 2: It's not gonna happen. You're a meditative type.
Speaker 1: No excuse me, I.
Speaker 2: Have the meditative type.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you are. You're too like, ah, that's
Speaker 1: what I hate.
Speaker 2: I don't know what word that is, but yes, you are.
Speaker 5: That That's why I need to meditate. But I was
Speaker 5: so proud of myself I set my alarm ten minutes
Speaker 5: early so that I can meditate for eight Did you
Speaker 5: do it completely? Forgot? Like I just went straight into
Speaker 5: my morning most It's.
Speaker 2: Our point is you're not a meditation.
Speaker 1: Like wow, Well it's extra time.
Speaker 5: I literally was like, I have some time, and so
Speaker 5: I went up and I took Sunny potty because I
Speaker 5: never helped Robby with Sunny in the morning, because I
Speaker 5: I usually just go and I did this morning.
Speaker 2: This is the voice of the non meditative type.
Speaker 4: Well see, I think that's better than non meditating. Now
Speaker 4: you got up early.
Speaker 2: Now for the dog guy. Meditation can be taking a walk.
Speaker 5: No, I'm gonna do it tomorrow. I'm gonna set my
Speaker 5: alarm and I'm gonna put reminder to meditate in my alarm,
Speaker 5: so I don't forget tomorrow morning.
Speaker 2: Famous last word.
Speaker 1: Yeah, good luck.
Speaker 5: No, I'm gonna do it right now.
Speaker 2: All right, Well, let's talk about why this.
Speaker 3: I'm trying to figure out, like I think I know,
Speaker 3: but I want to really know what leap day is.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 3: So the calendar's got three hundred and sixty five days, right, yes,
Speaker 3: And the Earth takes about from what I read, three
Speaker 3: hundred and sixty five days and five hours and forty
Speaker 3: nine minutes to orbit this sun. So if you add, yes,
Speaker 3: adding twenty four hours every four years keeps the seasons
Speaker 3: from drifting, because over time it would begin to be
Speaker 3: like a current.
Speaker 5: Know where we're at now, the seasons are all kind
Speaker 5: of blending together.
Speaker 1: Well, that's yeah, global warming.
Speaker 2: We just have a leap more often.
Speaker 3: Without leap years, the Fourth of July would eventually be
Speaker 3: in winter and Christmas would be in summer, and we
Speaker 3: would lose track.
Speaker 2: Organization should do.
Speaker 5: That in general, that'd be so fun, be so lame
Speaker 5: Christmas in the summer, probably.
Speaker 1: Happy for half your life.
Speaker 3: But to Sistany's point, it would be constantly evolving, like
Speaker 3: it would just come back around there.
Speaker 4: And then like Santa is wearing like a tank top
Speaker 4: and you have like summertack.
Speaker 2: That I'm looking at. Santa almost naked is not what I.
Speaker 1: Haven't you ever seen?
Speaker 4: Like the Santas that are like that's like surfing, like
Speaker 4: the little like Dick decorations of like in your Hawaii.
Speaker 4: It's like a surfing Santa. But yeah, you can have
Speaker 4: like summer Christmas decor and then winter Christmas decor.
Speaker 5: I have a hard enough time keeping track of just
Speaker 5: the winter decor.
Speaker 3: But I wonder who made this decision, Like did Aristotle
Speaker 3: or Socrates do all this stuff?
Speaker 4: Back in the DAYVT gets in the Romans, I think
Speaker 4: the Greeks in the Romans were the first people to
Speaker 4: put the calendar into organization and time.
Speaker 3: Because I think of a world I'm so obsessed with time.
Speaker 3: I started to collect clocks. I started to collect clocks. No,
Speaker 3: you're collector, I have a clock collection. I don't believe that.
Speaker 1: I believe it.
Speaker 2: I'm telling you. I started collecting.
Speaker 1: Clocks QBC.
Speaker 4: TV.
Speaker 3: You know, you go somewhere and you see one of
Speaker 3: those cuckoo clocks.
Speaker 2: Whatever clock collector clocks?
Speaker 5: Where do you have them? He says on his travels,
Speaker 5: his braceletsts amongst my travels on alf.
Speaker 4: Oh you need to Okay, can you still take a
Speaker 4: picture and send it to me?
Speaker 1: I need to see you.
Speaker 2: My clock collection, my clock collection.
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at it. So clocks, not watches.
Speaker 2: Not watches, clocks.
Speaker 3: I don't know why sit there and I set them.
Speaker 3: Listen to some cold play that trot clocks comes on
Speaker 3: in my moment. I'm thanking Julius Caesar for inventing the
Speaker 3: clock or the leap here or whatever he did.
Speaker 1: Oh that was a good laugh.
Speaker 4: I needed that.
Speaker 2: I know that hurt my hernia. Okay, So.
Speaker 3: I think you'll experience this tany after you get married. Yeah,
Speaker 3: post event sadness will so much forward to the big
Speaker 3: wedding and all the planning and all the stuff. And
Speaker 3: Sican's lived it right.
Speaker 1: Yes, they call it, I believe wedding blues.
Speaker 5: Wedding blues.
Speaker 2: And see I would have those before.
Speaker 1: No, Ryan a wedding bliss before. So yeah, wedding blues.
Speaker 4: And I think this is why whoever invented the honeymoon
Speaker 4: invent the honeymoon, because that gets rid of the wedding blues.
Speaker 4: So you feel then you have the honeymoon blues, well
Speaker 4: then you just start like kicking.
Speaker 2: Kicking the can is what you're doing.
Speaker 4: Sure, but the honeymoon is different. I thought, like a vacation,
Speaker 4: everyone gets vacation blues when they come back.
Speaker 1: It's kind of similar.
Speaker 3: By the way, how about Sunday blues. Those are famous
Speaker 3: exactly day scary you cannot pose every week. So Ruby, Uh,
Speaker 3: a lot of people had it after they sell Taylor,
Speaker 3: That's true because they were so amptigos Taylor. They carry
Speaker 3: out the blues. So Ruby, you're going through right now?
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 8: I had my engagement party this past weekend, and I
Speaker 8: just feel like from Sunday until now, I've just felt
Speaker 8: like that's it.
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, it was so much fun.
Speaker 8: You know, the build up, there's so much excitement leading
Speaker 8: up to it, and then it was we both had
Speaker 8: such a good time. And now it's like, okay, well
Speaker 8: now we you know, we're starting to plan our wedding,
Speaker 8: but I don't even want to know what it's going
Speaker 8: to feel like post wedding ding.
Speaker 2: Wait, what did you do for your engagement party?
Speaker 8: We had a small into and dinner with our immediate family.
Speaker 8: This really incredible chef, her name is Camilla. She did
Speaker 8: like this beautiful dinner for us, and then we had
Speaker 8: the rest of our friends, close friends come for some
Speaker 8: light bites and drinks after. But it was such a
Speaker 8: good time because it was, you know, like a smaller group,
Speaker 8: but it was just like all of our closest friends.
Speaker 2: And then you stayed out till five am. Mark tells me,
Speaker 2: oh my god.
Speaker 8: One of my friends he is Eretrian and he was like,
Speaker 8: let's go to this Ethiopian club.
Speaker 1: I think it was off Los Sienega or Librea.
Speaker 8: And so we just went to this random, you know,
Speaker 8: Ethiopian club and we were there until like almost three
Speaker 8: something in the morning, and then went to Leo's tacos
Speaker 8: ye and got back home at like four am.
Speaker 3: That's why you were sad you finished Leo's in the
Speaker 3: middle of the night. Like that'll bring it down, right?
Speaker 3: Is that so exciting?
Speaker 2: Yes? So what do we do?
Speaker 7: You know?
Speaker 3: I have this thing and my mother sort of instilled
Speaker 3: this in me, and I don't know if it's healthy
Speaker 3: or not, but it works for me. She always says,
Speaker 3: you have to have one little thing on your calendar
Speaker 3: that you're looking forward to, and it could be the
Speaker 3: simplest thing, Like I actually look forward to a sunset, right,
Speaker 3: so if I can see a sunset, Like if I
Speaker 3: know today in my schedule, I can be somewhere outside
Speaker 3: without my phone to watch the sunset, that'll get me there.
Speaker 2: Now, that's something look forward to.
Speaker 3: If I know we're going to go to Leo's tacos
Speaker 3: or like a place that I like to eat, simple things,
Speaker 3: I'll get me through. Because it goes back to when
Speaker 3: I was in elementary school and I was rewarded with
Speaker 3: three cheese and chiladas at Lapause restaurant if I did
Speaker 3: okay in school. So and I like that one because
Speaker 3: they had tomatilla saucet and red saucet. Nice mixture chips, Yeah,
Speaker 3: a mixture of the sauces. So it's just little things
Speaker 3: in life. It's a nice practice if you can't and
Speaker 3: they can be simple pleasures. So Ruby, let's find something
Speaker 3: that you can look forward to.
Speaker 8: I know, so you have the way a year and
Speaker 8: a half away.
Speaker 3: So but yeah, exactly, we need little bites along the
Speaker 3: little bread crumbs along the way. Tanya, have you worked
Speaker 3: anything out date wise that we should put in our calendars?
Speaker 3: There are we still circling?
Speaker 5: We're still circling.
Speaker 2: Okay? And Ruby, have you worked out your date?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: I think mid to late twenty five.
Speaker 5: Okay, girl, you're gonna need the time.
Speaker 2: I know. Let me tell you, Sissy.
Speaker 3: And aren't you glad this all behind you?
Speaker 1: You know, I have new challenges in life now.
Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, there's always something.
Speaker 4: Yeah. The wedding's gonna be like a booh, you don't
Speaker 4: even think about it, certain actual marriage.
Speaker 3: The morning hack is next. How to sleep to have
Speaker 3: better dreams? Do you find yourself more recently having worse
Speaker 3: dreams or more nightmaric dreams?
Speaker 4: Not often nightmares, but my kids do. Asa has nightmares often,
Speaker 4: and I don't know why.
Speaker 3: Is that common with kids sometimes though, like because things
Speaker 3: can scare them.
Speaker 4: Maybe Michael's convinced that it's like the heat, like if
Speaker 4: you have like the heater on and like she's too
Speaker 4: hot in her bed like night sweats.
Speaker 2: You're supposed to sleep at sixty nine degrees fahrenheit.
Speaker 1: Can you tell him that, because that's not what we have?
Speaker 1: The hot What do you sleep at? It's like seventy
Speaker 1: one maybe?
Speaker 3: Well, yeah, terrible, but sixty nine is what they say
Speaker 3: is what your body needs her good sleep.
Speaker 1: Because I'm a hot sleeper too.
Speaker 6: Me too.
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm hot, then I'm hot. Then I got
Speaker 3: a sheet up, I gotta sheet down, I gotta cover
Speaker 3: up and a cover down. I got it between my
Speaker 3: legs on top of me. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Fun. So do you get these nightmares?
Speaker 3: Well, this is a way too sleep where professionals, doctors
Speaker 3: have said you can have fewer nightmares.
Speaker 2: And that is impossible for me. I cannot do it.
Speaker 3: I've tried. Everything falls asleep but me. All my body
Speaker 3: parts do, but not my head. Oh and it's sleep
Speaker 3: on your side, your right side. A study found that
Speaker 3: left side sleepers experience significantly more nightmares right side sleepers
Speaker 3: had calm and comforting dreams.
Speaker 2: Right side.
Speaker 4: Interesting it has to do with the blood flow to
Speaker 4: your heart, probably because when I was pregnant they told
Speaker 4: me to sleep on my left side because that would
Speaker 4: be better like flow for like my heart and the
Speaker 4: baby and all that stuff.
Speaker 1: Or yes, left side, and so the right side.
Speaker 2: Maybe see your shoulders in your arm, don't they fall
Speaker 2: asleep being.
Speaker 5: Oh I sleep on my side. Yeah, I quite like it,
Speaker 5: so it's not bad.
Speaker 4: But when I really want to get that like ooy gooy,
Speaker 4: fall asleep feeling, it's my stomach.
Speaker 2: My stomach, my leg out.
Speaker 3: Yeah, a triangle with the thing and a very flat pillow. Well,
Speaker 3: we just woke up, so that's a long time from now.
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Speaker 3: Right, susany you know a little bit what is this
Speaker 3: you have? The people are talking about this new trend
Speaker 3: for your phone.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I believe it will help with your sanity. And maybe
Speaker 4: it's something that you find annoying when other people have
Speaker 4: it on. But when I explain it to you in
Speaker 4: this way, you're me like.
Speaker 3: Huh, got it? Okay, so that's gonna happen. I'm gonna
Speaker 3: pay your bills. We have Ryan's roses. That's all coming
Speaker 3: fast in the next few minutes here on kiss but quickly,
Speaker 3: some guidance, some advice for Clarissa in Arcadia. Clarissa, it's
Speaker 3: Seacrest sisiny Tani.
Speaker 2: How are you hi?
Speaker 4: Clarissa, Hi?
Speaker 6: How are you?
Speaker 3: I'm well are you? Because it says here you need
Speaker 3: advice about some guy you've been dating for a month?
Speaker 3: Is everything okay?
Speaker 9: Not really?
Speaker 2: What's up?
Speaker 7: So I wanted to ask your guys' advice because it's
Speaker 7: of course, yeah, it's going on two months next week.
Speaker 7: And he it's kind of going like up and down,
Speaker 7: Like he has his days where he like shows like
Speaker 7: like affection and like he cares, and then there's days
Speaker 7: where he keeps himself like really distant and he says like, oh,
Speaker 7: I really like you, I really want to date you,
Speaker 7: yet makes no effort to put in the time. So
Speaker 7: and I'm always like the one giving like one hundred
Speaker 7: percent effort, like hey, are you free?
Speaker 6: I'm free?
Speaker 7: And then he's like I'm not available, Like are well?
Speaker 2: This is really clear?
Speaker 3: He doesn't get to be with you, Like he doesn't
Speaker 3: make you a priority. He's giving you lip service, he's
Speaker 3: not giving you actionable service, and therefore he's not worth
Speaker 3: your time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, don't settle. It sounds like you're making excuses.
Speaker 4: And you're trying to settle for this guy when he's
Speaker 4: not putting in the effort.
Speaker 3: Place more value on you, Place more value on you
Speaker 3: and your time and your affection in your heart and
Speaker 3: all the things that like should happen that are not
Speaker 3: just words.
Speaker 1: Right, and the right guy will come to you and
Speaker 1: fight for you.
Speaker 3: But like it's really clear from the outside. Course, I
Speaker 3: know it sucks on the inside because you're like, wait
Speaker 3: a minute, I like the guy, or I want this
Speaker 3: to be a guy that I like or whatever you.
Speaker 1: Think you can change him.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think that's the issue with sin. He is
Speaker 7: where I feel like maybe if I continue giving more
Speaker 7: time or like I'm showing like more effort, then he'll
Speaker 7: be like, oh wait, Like I think she is like
Speaker 7: the one I want.
Speaker 6: To be with.
Speaker 7: And I think that's like the issue with me because
Speaker 7: even my friends have told me, like, no, just drop him,
Speaker 7: it's not worth it anymore. Like he's only giving you
Speaker 7: like ten percent of his time. Yeah, and it's just
Speaker 7: like it sucks, like it's had. It's been having me
Speaker 7: on an emotional rollercoaster. It really has, like I like.
Speaker 4: Well and the worst she just said, yeah, and you're
Speaker 4: crying like you should not be feeling these emotional roller
Speaker 4: It's the.
Speaker 1: Beginning of a relationship.
Speaker 3: By the way, the God doesn't have like obsessed about you,
Speaker 3: but to show you a little bit of you know,
Speaker 3: value in your time and your interest is important. And
Speaker 3: this is one of those red flags that you kind
Speaker 3: of see now, but you want to look past because
Speaker 3: you want it to work. I mean we're all like that.
Speaker 3: Look you meet somebody and you want to say to yourself, hey,
Speaker 3: I have good judgment, I know how to pick good people.
Speaker 3: And you actually you look past things that in hindsight
Speaker 3: you probably shouldn't have.
Speaker 2: So it's been a month.
Speaker 3: If you're not seeing that you're some kind of a
Speaker 3: priority for him to get to know, then I think
Speaker 3: this is a bad sign. M Yeah, we're all in
Speaker 3: it together in a way, yelling together.
Speaker 1: Keep us posted.
Speaker 5: You live and you learn, you ride and you roll
Speaker 5: getting down.
Speaker 2: Give me another one.
Speaker 5: You're right, you're wrong.
Speaker 4: I have to say, what song is that Katy Perry?
Speaker 3: Yeah, to plagiarize Katie.
Speaker 2: Thank you, Tania. Yeah, new trend for your phone might
Speaker 2: keep you saying sisy.
Speaker 4: I was noticing more and more that people have the
Speaker 4: do not disturb on and I know certain people, like
Speaker 4: even in this room, Like I know Mark turns on
Speaker 4: his do not disturb at like eight pm every night,
Speaker 4: So if I try to text him, I'm going to
Speaker 4: get the do not disturb.
Speaker 3: You are the producer of a fluid show that could happen.
Speaker 3: I mean, I'll never forget, you know, things that happen
Speaker 3: in late that need to impact the show Mark.
Speaker 2: So people have privilege to get through my do not disturbed.
Speaker 4: So yes, you can have people that's not true, You
Speaker 4: for sure do.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's because you don't have an idea on your phone.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't because you don't use your phocuso lose
Speaker 3: blame me and my phone for it.
Speaker 4: But apparently I'm not wrong with like the majority of
Speaker 4: people using do not disturb these days. It is full
Speaker 4: on a trend and it's basically just to have no
Speaker 4: notifications at all, so they people are key meet there
Speaker 4: do not disturb on twenty four to seven, not just
Speaker 4: at certain times. It is always on, kind of like
Speaker 4: you have your auto reply on your email ah.
Speaker 2: Waits intentionally you're putting it on all day, right.
Speaker 4: Intentionally you put it on all day and it's basically
Speaker 4: to help with anxiety. It's helping just like to not
Speaker 4: be notified for every single phone call or email or
Speaker 4: text that might come through, and on your time, you
Speaker 4: go and check your phone almost like you used to
Speaker 4: back in the day when you would come home and
Speaker 4: check your answering machines.
Speaker 1: If I really left.
Speaker 5: It, I did Do not Disturb for maybe like a
Speaker 5: few months. There's a window like from night till morning,
Speaker 5: and I got in trouble from Mark because of it
Speaker 5: because he couldn't get a hold of me where something
Speaker 5: was moving. And so then I took off Do not
Speaker 5: Disturb and I.
Speaker 2: Only had it there at call the Kettle Black.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but I'm saying I only had it on for
Speaker 5: ten hours a day and I got in trouble within
Speaker 5: like two months.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean certain jobs require quick attention to respond
Speaker 4: to maybe an email, but but does it could wait
Speaker 4: an hour or two when you actually like go and
Speaker 4: check yourself.
Speaker 2: I don't know.
Speaker 3: We've had things that have been breaking overnight, and Ciciny
Speaker 3: is the only first one to reply.
Speaker 1: I have not used do not disturb ever.
Speaker 3: I'm like anybody out there.
Speaker 1: I'm usually still up from the night before.
Speaker 2: That's why, Mediana, you do this intentionally.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 8: I even have my notifications on my social media, off
Speaker 8: my emails, and.
Speaker 2: You work here on it this.
Speaker 1: I look at how she is.
Speaker 6: Yeah, absolutely, because sometimes I get anxious.
Speaker 7: It's like so many texts coming in at once, and
Speaker 7: like I will put one of my friends on to
Speaker 7: not disturb while we're texting.
Speaker 1: But what if we need you, I just I check
Speaker 1: when I need to check.
Speaker 2: I need to be more like that. I mean I
Speaker 2: have it.
Speaker 5: I mean I most of the time.
Speaker 6: I have it often not to start when I'm here,
Speaker 6: but after that, I'm like, absolutely not.
Speaker 3: We don't need we don't need it off when you're here.
Speaker 3: You're here, we can talk to you on the microphone.
Speaker 3: We need it off when you're not here.
Speaker 4: Another reason you might want to do this, and this
Speaker 4: is the one that really kind of is persuading me
Speaker 4: to just have that do not disturb on it at
Speaker 4: all times, is robo calls you you won't.
Speaker 1: Get as many robo calls if you have do not
Speaker 1: disturb on.
Speaker 5: Yeah, but then what if you missed like a call
Speaker 5: from your vet or you get it or whatever.
Speaker 4: You can get into the meditating. Okay, they leave a message,
Speaker 4: you check the message. It's just like having an answering
Speaker 4: machine back in the day. Give your phone like that.
Speaker 3: You know me, I'm I'm down to subscribe to some
Speaker 3: of this stuff, right, all right?
Speaker 2: So not yea, I don't know. I don't want to
Speaker 2: be disturbed, I know.
Speaker 5: But then if we if you disturb us and we're
Speaker 5: don reply immediately, he'll get a hold of firing them off.
Speaker 2: Well, everybody chooses a role.
Speaker 3: I invented the permanent out of office reply, Like I
Speaker 3: use that thing all the time.
Speaker 5: That is very fun.
Speaker 2: Well two points out of me. It is kiss FM.
Speaker 3: It's time for Ryan's roses. Hey, everybody, this is from
Speaker 3: Nicolette and Pomona the email. You know, you can send
Speaker 3: these emails to Ryan at KISSFM dot com if there's
Speaker 3: something going on in your relationship and you want to
Speaker 3: get to the bottom of it. It's just peace of mind.
Speaker 3: I found a bra in our home when I got
Speaker 3: back from a work retreat. It's way too small for me,
Speaker 3: but since we're both women, I didn't think much of it.
Speaker 3: Now she's being weird with her phone and I'm concerned.
Speaker 2: Got it? Okay, So Nicolette, thanks for reaching out.
Speaker 3: Uh you get home from this work retreat and you
Speaker 3: find a bra and at first you think it could
Speaker 3: be your partner's bra.
Speaker 6: Actually, like I knew immediately it wasn't, because well, I mean,
Speaker 6: she's my part or I know what her clothes look like,
Speaker 6: I know what her breath looks like. Like, it's not
Speaker 6: even her size, and it's not my size either.
Speaker 1: Got it.
Speaker 3: Okay, So it's someone else's bra, not in your relationship,
Speaker 3: And did you address this or show your partner this?
Speaker 2: Are you married? Is it your girlfriend your wife?
Speaker 6: We're married. We've been together thirteen years and married for ten.
Speaker 2: Okay, so did you show your wife?
Speaker 6: I did? I did, and she basically just, you know,
Speaker 6: I don't know, blew it off. You know. She even
Speaker 6: at one point was like, I don't know, Maybe it
Speaker 6: just like ended up in my bag at the gym.
Speaker 6: Maybe I just like snatched it when I grabbed my clothes.
Speaker 6: Maybe it was on the bench at the gym. Like
Speaker 6: pretty much blew it off. No big deal to her.
Speaker 6: But the thing that's like eating away at me is like,
Speaker 6: you know, like when you know somebody, you know somebody,
Speaker 6: and like I could feel her demeanor change out. You
Speaker 6: started acting super weird, you know.
Speaker 10: Yeah, And basically I needed to use my phone, was
Speaker 10: like low on battery, like about to die, and I
Speaker 10: had to call to check on my car that was
Speaker 10: getting fixed.
Speaker 6: And this was a few days after, you know, the
Speaker 6: bra incident, and I said, hey, babe, can I use
Speaker 6: your phone? I got to call and see what time
Speaker 6: my car's gonna be ready tomorrow. And she got kind
Speaker 6: of quiet, and she's like, uh yeah, I'll go get it.
Speaker 6: And then she went in the bedroom and then she
Speaker 6: comes back and she's like this is crazy, but babe,
Speaker 6: my phone is broken.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm like what She's like, I don't know, Like
Speaker 6: I just tried to like turn it on. It's like
Speaker 6: just not turning on. I'm like, well, why was it off?
Speaker 6: Like you never shut your phone off. She's like no,
Speaker 6: I went in there and it was off, like she
Speaker 6: just acted all weird, and I'm like, what are you
Speaker 6: talking about, you know, and she's like no, look it
Speaker 6: like won't turn on. And I don't know what she did,
Speaker 6: but I could not get her phone to turn on.
Speaker 6: But the whole thing was super bizarre.
Speaker 3: So you think she's like flocking access to her phone
Speaker 3: because something's in her phone.
Speaker 2: That you would seek.
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, we're about to call Nicolette's wife. They've been
Speaker 3: together thirteen years. And she gets told me she finds
Speaker 3: this bra it's not hers, not her wife's.
Speaker 2: Then she.
Speaker 3: Addresses it right, and her wife says, I must have
Speaker 3: scooped it up from the gym or something on an accident.
Speaker 3: And here we are. But Nicolette knows her partner and
Speaker 3: she knows that something was off with her behavior once
Speaker 3: she addressed the braw issue. And she's been really weird
Speaker 3: with the phone. So the phone, the phone, the phone,
Speaker 3: the phone.
Speaker 2: Weird behavior. Here we go.
Speaker 3: So we're gonna call her now. Nicolette needs you to
Speaker 3: say around, you have my permission to call, and then
Speaker 3: your wife's name.
Speaker 6: Go ahead, Ryan, you have my permission to call my wife.
Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna do that. Now, be very quiet. Let's
Speaker 2: see we can find out.
Speaker 11: Okay, Okay, Hello, Hi, is this Camilla?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Is this Hi?
Speaker 1: My name is Sandra. I'm calling from the Flower Spot.
Speaker 4: We are a new flower shop in the area and
Speaker 4: deliver in Pomona surrounding areas and offering a promotion today
Speaker 4: for local residents. It's a three dozen red roses that
Speaker 4: you can send to anybody.
Speaker 1: That you'd like.
Speaker 12: Uh wait, sorry, who is this?
Speaker 1: My name is Sandra. I'm calling from the flower Spot. Sondra.
Speaker 12: Oh yeah, no, you're sorry. You don't think I know
Speaker 12: what Ryan's roses is. You're not Sondra. You're like Tiffany
Speaker 12: or something.
Speaker 1: No, my name is Sandra.
Speaker 12: Kay, he's my wife on the line. Did she put
Speaker 12: you up to this?
Speaker 1: Could you hang on one second?
Speaker 6: H yeah, I am here.
Speaker 3: Oh I didn't get a hold button quick enough? Okay, okay,
Speaker 3: well let's go back Camilla. You're her voice is being
Speaker 3: broadcast on the radio. And yes, you just heard your
Speaker 3: wife on the phone. What we're just calling you on
Speaker 3: the air for Ryan's roses? Yes, you're right, that is
Speaker 3: what we're doing.
Speaker 12: Hi, Nick, what the hell?
Speaker 10: So you know, what the hell?
Speaker 6: There was a broad in your bathroom and now you're
Speaker 6: acting weird and then you're claiming your phone is broken
Speaker 6: and you're being just who cares?
Speaker 12: Who's broad is?
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 12: What I don't appreciate is you calling kiss FM and
Speaker 12: airing or dirty laundry for everyone a year?
Speaker 5: Is it dirty?
Speaker 6: Dirty? It is dirty because you're doing me dirty.
Speaker 12: And you need to call kiss FM to find out.
Speaker 6: Well, you're not talking to me, so I kind of
Speaker 6: have no other option. You've been avoiding me for the
Speaker 6: last three days. I mean, I literally don't know.
Speaker 2: What You're busy?
Speaker 9: What do you mean?
Speaker 2: Why don't you.
Speaker 12: Why do you moan broken?
Speaker 4: Is it?
Speaker 12: Oh my god, my phone. I don't even know what
Speaker 12: to tell you anymore, Like talk about not trusting each
Speaker 12: other and you're you're crazy?
Speaker 3: So can you answer this? Is there someone else that
Speaker 3: was there? Is there any chance that someone else is broad?
Speaker 3: Just to be clear here.
Speaker 12: Uh, this is none of your business. This is something
Speaker 12: that I should talk to Nick about in the privacy
Speaker 12: of our home home and this is definitely not the
Speaker 12: floor important. So both of you have a great day.
Speaker 12: Thank you very much.
Speaker 2: You're very welcome.
Speaker 7: Run.
Speaker 2: I wish you the best of luck finding out the truth.
Speaker 1: Well, that says it right.
Speaker 6: There means defensive. Obviously you can hear how defense is.
Speaker 4: And if She's like, if she can just say no,
Speaker 4: there's no one else else, she would just say it
Speaker 4: right now.
Speaker 2: Have you guys been happy generally, Nicolette.
Speaker 6: This is what's freaking me out, Ryan, like generally so happy.
Speaker 6: I've never felt more loved up until like this moment.
Speaker 6: I thought we had great communication, Like every relationship goes
Speaker 6: through with little bumps. I mean, thirteen years is a
Speaker 6: long time. Mary Ben going to be eleven, Like our
Speaker 6: anniversary is coming up soon, so it's like I never
Speaker 6: had an inkling. I will say this, I have been
Speaker 6: working a lot lately. She is like the stay at
Speaker 6: home one in our relationship, and she has a lot
Speaker 6: more free time than I do. So that is why
Speaker 6: immediately I'm like, something isn't right, something's not adding up,
Speaker 6: Like it would be easy for her to obviously have
Speaker 6: had somebody over and for me not to know, you
Speaker 6: know what I mean, That is what's stressing me out.
Speaker 3: I think your gut is onto something here. I'm I'm
Speaker 3: not just my gut. So good luck, Nicolette, Thank you
Speaker 3: for reaching out trusting us with the call.
Speaker 6: Yeah, at least thank you for just helping it become
Speaker 6: more clear because you can see, like that then obviously there's.
Speaker 3: Somebody get together in talk in person and thank you
Speaker 3: for reaching out. We had Nicolette and Camilla on the line.
Speaker 3: They've been together thirteen years and Nicolette gets home from
Speaker 3: her work trip and finds another bra it's not hers
Speaker 3: or her partners in the bathroom, addresses it. Now, here's
Speaker 3: what struck me. And we got Camila on the line,
Speaker 3: and she got very defensive and she did not want
Speaker 3: to talk about this on the show, which I understand,
Speaker 3: so she hung up and said we'll talk in person.
Speaker 3: This is not the place, but she denied it was hers,
Speaker 3: and she got defensive.
Speaker 2: But here's what struck me.
Speaker 3: I don't know if she's cheating or not cheating, hat
Speaker 3: somebody over it or not. But what got me in
Speaker 3: this Ryan's Roses call. And I found this very telling.
Speaker 3: I said to Nicolette, thirteen years together, you guys sound
Speaker 3: on this phone call like you're not happy in general,
Speaker 3: like there's not happiness there in your relationship. And she
Speaker 3: said wrong, Ironically, I've never felt more loved and been happier.
Speaker 3: So that freaks me out. Now I'm freaked out me too,
Speaker 3: Like now I think when it's too good to be true?
Speaker 3: Is it too good to be true? So I'm freaked out.
Speaker 1: Well that's not you know, to Sert spiraling in our line,
Speaker 1: I may not sleep.
Speaker 5: It is freaky and you think about it.
Speaker 3: She literally said to me, No, you're happier. I've never
Speaker 3: felt more loved, which scares me.
Speaker 5: But maybe the never been so loved because she's compensating
Speaker 5: because of what she's doing behind her back.
Speaker 3: This is where we do spiral because we never know
Speaker 3: because we're just speculating.
Speaker 2: But Sierra and Lahabra, so go ahead. You heard the
Speaker 2: Ryan's roses.
Speaker 9: Yeah, wow, Well I don't care who you're married to.
Speaker 9: I don't care who you're daty. I don't care.
Speaker 1: You don't use the word crazy.
Speaker 2: Okay, oh right, she did say that.
Speaker 3: Wait wait, Camilla, who we called, said to her wife Nicolette,
Speaker 3: who reached out to us, you're crazy. Wow, yeah, you
Speaker 3: can't say you know what that Did's I remember that
Speaker 3: that I felt that?
Speaker 6: Yeah exactly.
Speaker 9: It's like a dack or like it cuts okay, like
Speaker 9: she's gaslighting her. Absolutely, she's definitely cheating, and what an
Speaker 9: awful way for her partner to find out.
Speaker 1: Like wow, yeah.
Speaker 2: But if you're if you're not.
Speaker 3: If you don't have a mutual respect, you're saying things
Speaker 3: like that, right, you don't say that crazy is a
Speaker 3: bad one.
Speaker 2: It's a bad one. Like you're you're being crazy, you're
Speaker 2: acting crazy? Is that better?
Speaker 4: It's not great. But to call someone literally and say
Speaker 4: you're crazy? But sometimes, yeah, in a relationship, I.
Speaker 2: Just say, sometimes I say it about myself.
Speaker 5: Yeah, right, Like I know I'm being a little crazy, right,
Speaker 5: you know what I mean? Yeah, that's different.
Speaker 2: Do you say it about you?
Speaker 7: Yes?
Speaker 3: Do you say about me? No, it's fine if you do.
Speaker 3: All right, well, thank you Sierra.
Speaker 4: Yeah, for sure, she would have denied it. She would
Speaker 4: have been like, absolutely not, no, I love you. Then
Speaker 4: there was none of that.
Speaker 2: There's a problem.
Speaker 3: Now another thing, if you're dating someone who says their
Speaker 3: exes are crazy, mark my words, that is a.
Speaker 1: Red flag, you know what You're right, Yeah, that is.
Speaker 2: A red flag if they talk like that about their
Speaker 2: exes or.
Speaker 1: I almost was thinking if there ex really was crazy,
Speaker 1: You're like, what were you doing dating them?
Speaker 7: Someone? You know?
Speaker 3: Like I always like, I know, I was saying, like
Speaker 3: all I would speak very highly of them because all
Speaker 3: of them played such a role in my.
Speaker 2: Life and that chapter in my life. Right, I don't know.
Speaker 1: You guys are staying I learned how not to be
Speaker 1: loved by my exes.
Speaker 2: Well, you're exactly.
Speaker 3: You have none of this stress in your you have
Speaker 3: other stresses. You have eight dogs and three.
Speaker 5: Kids, but you also other way. He's like, it's all
Speaker 5: the mosaic that made up my life. And oh it's
Speaker 5: like their exs can just be your axes. They don't
Speaker 5: have to be like like, I don't talk to anything.
Speaker 5: I don't talk to any of mine. But I don't
Speaker 5: wish them ill or bad. I don't think I'm crazy.
Speaker 2: They're part of the tapestry of whom history.
Speaker 5: It's been woven into the f ethos of who you are?
Speaker 3: Where the athos? Hey, if we can't have a good
Speaker 3: laugh here, what are we doing?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 3: Okay, So trending report. So you said who is the
Speaker 3: Selena Gomez to Selena Gummez when Selena Gummez was a
Speaker 3: young Selena Gummez growing up.
Speaker 2: Yes.
Speaker 5: So she is out promoting her new single love On
Speaker 5: and she's stopped by Jimmy Kimmel Live where he's flat
Speaker 5: out just asked her who was her Selena Gomez when
Speaker 5: she was growing up.
Speaker 2: That's a good question. We should use yeah.
Speaker 5: And she replied Kurt Cobain. So for those of you
Speaker 5: that don't know, Kurt Cobain was the lead singer of
Speaker 5: Nirvana and he passed away at the age of twenty seven.
Speaker 2: But Selena is tea club.
Speaker 5: Selena said, I just think that my mom obviously would
Speaker 5: play all kinds of music for me growing up. I
Speaker 5: kind of got obsessed and I dyed my hair and
Speaker 5: I cut my hair like him a little too much.
Speaker 5: And she said that she would also rewatch his interviews
Speaker 5: performances and that she has seen his documentary like twelve times.
Speaker 5: So I thought that was really interesting. But Selena also
Speaker 5: shared a cute story about hearing her song on the
Speaker 5: radio for the first time. Here's what she had to say.
Speaker 6: And you heard it where I was in my dad's
Speaker 6: like I think it was a Honda at the time,
Speaker 6: and we were just looking at or watch or listening
Speaker 6: to kiss FM.
Speaker 2: And oh did she hear nice? I know, thought it
Speaker 2: was cute listen to kiss em and what what what?
Speaker 2: What was? And it turned it out and.
Speaker 5: No, that was kind of where it ended.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's nice. Well, I think, I mean we
Speaker 3: met her a long time ago. I love I love
Speaker 3: that this show originates in Los Angeles because of the
Speaker 3: fact that when we do meet an artist and play
Speaker 3: them for the first time, they might be here listening.
Speaker 3: They might be in their car, they might be whereas.
Speaker 3: That doesn't happen really anywhere else. True, maybe New York City.
Speaker 3: But that's cool, all right. I feel like Miley said
Speaker 3: that too, didn't she m?
Speaker 5: Do you know that that memory?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I feel like we have audio of that too. Don't
Speaker 5: we have audio of that?
Speaker 2: Not very handy.
Speaker 3: You don't have that in your back parckt of everybody
Speaker 3: that said that. Let's jump to Seemi Valley to play
Speaker 3: some password. Jena, good morning.
Speaker 12: Hi, good morning to you.
Speaker 2: Are you ready to play password for La King's tickets?
Speaker 3: Of course. So here's how it works. Those of us
Speaker 3: in the room and everybody listening all know the password.
Speaker 3: You the can test will not. Our job is to
Speaker 3: give you clues using one word so that you can
Speaker 3: guess the password.
Speaker 2: When you do it, you win the tickets. Are you ready?
Speaker 4: I'm ready?
Speaker 2: Hold the line. Here we go, Mark. The password is vacation.
Speaker 2: Who plays this? We all play it Amy in.
Speaker 5: No, you're hosting.
Speaker 1: You can play?
Speaker 5: Oh you can play?
Speaker 1: Yeah, why'd you kick us off?
Speaker 2: Mark? Do I host or play? You can play?
Speaker 7: Sure?
Speaker 2: Wow, you guys are so wait.
Speaker 1: Check with Mark. I told you could play.
Speaker 2: Why you normally?
Speaker 3: Because I confuse this with the other game, we play
Speaker 3: right match game?
Speaker 2: Just host?
Speaker 3: Okay, I like to host, but play Jenna, good morning
Speaker 3: and thank you for holding. We're gonna play. Ready, here
Speaker 3: we go. Everybody has heard it and everybody here knows it.
Speaker 3: We'll start with siss. The first clue suitcase travel close
Speaker 3: not it, Tanya.
Speaker 5: Relaxation.
Speaker 2: Why okay, No, you're in the ballpark?
Speaker 3: Summer Okay, okay, keep going, keep going back to me.
Speaker 7: Like you said, another one, uh.
Speaker 2: Airplane, suitcase relaxation, summer airplane.
Speaker 9: What do you say, vacation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it. That's it, You got it. My next
Speaker 2: clue is going to be European vacation, summer vacation, Chase, vacation. Congratulations,
Speaker 2: you want to see the Kings?
Speaker 6: Okay, yay, awesome, thank you, hold on.
Speaker 2: Want to say let's play again? Let's play? All right,
Speaker 2: here we go.
Speaker 1: Tell me when he's working on the past.
Speaker 2: The password is neighborhood.
Speaker 1: Okay, you can come back in.
Speaker 2: Okay, are we ready? By the way, telling you have
Speaker 2: a weird look on your face. What's wrong?
Speaker 5: That sounds hard for me.
Speaker 1: Okay, houses.
Speaker 2: Neighborhood? Is it right?
Speaker 10: Is it really?
Speaker 2: Yes? Oh my gosh, that's so good. This may be
Speaker 2: the only thing I'm good at.
Speaker 5: Like, actually, what the heck?
Speaker 1: That's so good?
Speaker 2: That's really Honestly, I had no idea.
Speaker 5: Yeah, oh yeah, did you hear it?
Speaker 2: No, No, I didn't hear it. I honestly did got that. Wow?
Speaker 1: I love that game there with Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3: That is your staying on Airthrinding Seacrest package. You can
Speaker 3: check it out on our podcast, which is a post
Speaker 3: up in just a little bit.
Speaker 2: One more thing before we go.
Speaker 3: If you had to go, all right, listen, I always
Speaker 3: want to peel the unionpack a little bit more. If
Speaker 3: you had to go into NASA's new Mars simulator, who
Speaker 3: would you take with you?
Speaker 2: Three people?
Speaker 1: Three people?
Speaker 4: As much as I would want to bring Michael, I
Speaker 4: feel like he needs to stay back with the kids,
Speaker 4: because isn't it for like a year for sixty five days? Yes,
Speaker 4: so he needs to stay.
Speaker 2: Sorry, but I.
Speaker 4: Think I would bring my parents because you know, they're
Speaker 4: getting older and I feel like this is a fun
Speaker 4: little vac here we could do for a year. Yeah,
Speaker 4: and the third person would be a chef.
Speaker 1: I don't know if you can eat.
Speaker 4: Maybe they can well the right, but like I don't
Speaker 4: know what the gravity does the thing, but maybe they
Speaker 4: can figure out some great.
Speaker 1: You know, meals for us.
Speaker 2: Tony, who would you take?
Speaker 5: I'm a different route and I'm going to take like
Speaker 5: Patrick Dempsey, myself Oprah, And I mean.
Speaker 2: Why not, right, I mean there's not that many seats,
Speaker 2: but sure you.
Speaker 5: Said three people, Patrick Oprah?
Speaker 1: Okay, Jessica Capshaw, what about you? Ryan?
Speaker 3: I would take I wouldn't go, Actually I don'tay, that's
Speaker 3: not I don't want to go.
Speaker 2: I know, but I made the game up, so I
Speaker 2: don't want to play.
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean, take Oprah.
Speaker 5: She's to be so fun.
Speaker 2: You just took her.
Speaker 3: She's not gonna go on two years in Marsh, I
Speaker 3: don't know. In the simulator, I think I would take
Speaker 3: Olio in Georgia.
Speaker 1: The game was people.
Speaker 5: The game was and it was like Present Company excluded
Speaker 5: well friends.
Speaker 2: Olio in Georgia.
Speaker 3: Whatever you can see, you can if you you can tell,
Speaker 3: the show's over now, yeah, you can't tell.
Speaker 2: Which is so? It's not the game out, is it?
Speaker 5: Company excluded like don't take your family president us. He
Speaker 5: means it in this room.
Speaker 1: Present company.
Speaker 5: Oh I thought it meant like like the typical people
Speaker 5: we would take.
Speaker 2: No. Present company means who's presented in front of us?
Speaker 1: Present?
Speaker 3: Oh it's okay, wow, nine o'clock hours. It's always a
Speaker 3: unique hour. All right, thanks guys for being here. Let's
Speaker 3: come back tomorrow and do it all over again. We
Speaker 3: will keep paying your bills all day.
Speaker 2: Today. Who gets the gold star on the show this morning?
Speaker 2: It's Ruby Today. Ruby was not even here.
Speaker 1: She's here and she had her engagement party and she's
Speaker 1: struggling that she just got her voice back.
Speaker 2: Happy to have her there, she is. Thanks for listening
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