WEBVTT - FULL SHOW: The Leap 0:00:00.640 --> 0:00:01.480 From Hollywood. 0:00:01.760 --> 0:00:03.440 See you, thank you for listening to us. 0:00:03.520 --> 0:00:08.440 Ryan Air on Air with Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:09.880 --> 0:00:12.920 Good leap day, morning, Marcus saying, we have done a 0:00:12.960 --> 0:00:15.520 show on this day in eight years. 0:00:15.880 --> 0:00:17.320 The last time it was a Saturday. 0:00:17.600 --> 0:00:20.360 It's two high school sessions. 0:00:20.840 --> 0:00:23.160 Right exactly. You know that in high school it seems 0:00:23.200 --> 0:00:26.040 like a lifetime. In an adulthood, it's not that long. 0:00:26.239 --> 0:00:27.800 It flies by an adulthood. 0:00:29.240 --> 0:00:32.600 By the way, good morning. How is there by good looking? Fun? 0:00:33.240 --> 0:00:33.440 Oh? 0:00:33.479 --> 0:00:37.280 No, not good. I set my alarm ten minutes early 0:00:37.360 --> 0:00:39.640 this morning because I was going to try my meditation 0:00:39.960 --> 0:00:42.160 before I came into work like a good girl. 0:00:42.360 --> 0:00:44.240 It's not gonna happen. You're a meditative type. 0:00:44.400 --> 0:00:48.200 No excuse me, I. 0:00:48.080 --> 0:00:49.040 Have the meditative type. 0:00:49.080 --> 0:00:52.880 Yeah, I think you are. You're too like, ah, that's 0:00:52.880 --> 0:00:53.440 what I hate. 0:00:54.800 --> 0:00:57.000 I don't know what word that is, but yes, you are. 0:00:57.000 --> 0:00:59.880 That That's why I need to meditate. But I was 0:00:59.880 --> 0:01:01.600 so proud of myself I set my alarm ten minutes 0:01:01.640 --> 0:01:05.000 early so that I can meditate for eight Did you 0:01:05.040 --> 0:01:07.319 do it completely? Forgot? Like I just went straight into 0:01:07.319 --> 0:01:08.319 my morning most It's. 0:01:08.160 --> 0:01:09.720 Our point is you're not a meditation. 0:01:09.560 --> 0:01:10.640 Like wow, Well it's extra time. 0:01:11.280 --> 0:01:12.920 I literally was like, I have some time, and so 0:01:12.959 --> 0:01:14.520 I went up and I took Sunny potty because I 0:01:14.600 --> 0:01:16.479 never helped Robby with Sunny in the morning, because I 0:01:16.480 --> 0:01:18.880 I usually just go and I did this morning. 0:01:19.080 --> 0:01:21.200 This is the voice of the non meditative type. 0:01:21.640 --> 0:01:23.880 Well see, I think that's better than non meditating. Now 0:01:23.920 --> 0:01:24.800 you got up early. 0:01:25.000 --> 0:01:30.080 Now for the dog guy. Meditation can be taking a walk. 0:01:30.200 --> 0:01:32.520 No, I'm gonna do it tomorrow. I'm gonna set my 0:01:32.560 --> 0:01:35.319 alarm and I'm gonna put reminder to meditate in my alarm, 0:01:35.400 --> 0:01:37.160 so I don't forget tomorrow morning. 0:01:38.319 --> 0:01:39.120 Famous last word. 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:39.880 Yeah, good luck. 0:01:39.880 --> 0:01:40.880 No, I'm gonna do it right now. 0:01:41.840 --> 0:01:43.480 All right, Well, let's talk about why this. 0:01:43.600 --> 0:01:45.360 I'm trying to figure out, like I think I know, 0:01:45.440 --> 0:01:47.680 but I want to really know what leap day is. 0:01:47.920 --> 0:01:48.120 Yeah. 0:01:48.160 --> 0:01:51.520 So the calendar's got three hundred and sixty five days, right, yes, 0:01:51.640 --> 0:01:56.680 And the Earth takes about from what I read, three 0:01:56.720 --> 0:01:58.800 hundred and sixty five days and five hours and forty 0:01:58.880 --> 0:02:02.200 nine minutes to orbit this sun. So if you add, yes, 0:02:02.360 --> 0:02:06.480 adding twenty four hours every four years keeps the seasons 0:02:06.520 --> 0:02:10.200 from drifting, because over time it would begin to be 0:02:10.360 --> 0:02:11.000 like a current. 0:02:11.840 --> 0:02:15.520 Know where we're at now, the seasons are all kind 0:02:15.520 --> 0:02:16.359 of blending together. 0:02:16.480 --> 0:02:17.919 Well, that's yeah, global warming. 0:02:18.040 --> 0:02:19.600 We just have a leap more often. 0:02:20.080 --> 0:02:22.800 Without leap years, the Fourth of July would eventually be 0:02:22.840 --> 0:02:24.919 in winter and Christmas would be in summer, and we 0:02:24.960 --> 0:02:25.639 would lose track. 0:02:25.840 --> 0:02:26.760 Organization should do. 0:02:26.760 --> 0:02:29.760 That in general, that'd be so fun, be so lame 0:02:30.160 --> 0:02:31.919 Christmas in the summer, probably. 0:02:31.639 --> 0:02:32.720 Happy for half your life. 0:02:33.040 --> 0:02:36.280 But to Sistany's point, it would be constantly evolving, like 0:02:36.320 --> 0:02:37.920 it would just come back around there. 0:02:37.840 --> 0:02:40.000 And then like Santa is wearing like a tank top 0:02:40.160 --> 0:02:45.280 and you have like summertack. 0:02:43.560 --> 0:02:46.800 That I'm looking at. Santa almost naked is not what I. 0:02:46.520 --> 0:02:47.200 Haven't you ever seen? 0:02:47.240 --> 0:02:49.519 Like the Santas that are like that's like surfing, like 0:02:49.560 --> 0:02:52.200 the little like Dick decorations of like in your Hawaii. 0:02:52.360 --> 0:02:54.560 It's like a surfing Santa. But yeah, you can have 0:02:54.680 --> 0:02:57.919 like summer Christmas decor and then winter Christmas decor. 0:02:58.080 --> 0:02:59.960 I have a hard enough time keeping track of just 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:00.880 the winter decor. 0:03:01.320 --> 0:03:04.400 But I wonder who made this decision, Like did Aristotle 0:03:04.680 --> 0:03:07.760 or Socrates do all this stuff? 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:12.320 Back in the DAYVT gets in the Romans, I think 0:03:12.360 --> 0:03:14.040 the Greeks in the Romans were the first people to 0:03:14.080 --> 0:03:17.600 put the calendar into organization and time. 0:03:18.200 --> 0:03:21.280 Because I think of a world I'm so obsessed with time. 0:03:21.320 --> 0:03:28.040 I started to collect clocks. I started to collect clocks. No, 0:03:28.760 --> 0:03:33.920 you're collector, I have a clock collection. I don't believe that. 0:03:34.280 --> 0:03:35.240 I believe it. 0:03:35.560 --> 0:03:37.920 I'm telling you. I started collecting. 0:03:37.480 --> 0:03:40.000 Clocks QBC. 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:41.600 TV. 0:03:42.040 --> 0:03:43.560 You know, you go somewhere and you see one of 0:03:43.560 --> 0:03:44.839 those cuckoo clocks. 0:03:44.720 --> 0:03:48.360 Whatever clock collector clocks? 0:03:49.320 --> 0:03:52.160 Where do you have them? He says on his travels, 0:03:52.200 --> 0:03:57.320 his braceletsts amongst my travels on alf. 0:03:58.160 --> 0:04:00.280 Oh you need to Okay, can you still take a 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:01.080 picture and send it to me? 0:04:01.120 --> 0:04:01.800 I need to see you. 0:04:02.560 --> 0:04:05.200 My clock collection, my clock collection. 0:04:05.280 --> 0:04:07.680 I'm not mad at it. So clocks, not watches. 0:04:08.000 --> 0:04:09.160 Not watches, clocks. 0:04:09.600 --> 0:04:13.119 I don't know why sit there and I set them. 0:04:13.400 --> 0:04:16.200 Listen to some cold play that trot clocks comes on 0:04:17.160 --> 0:04:21.760 in my moment. I'm thanking Julius Caesar for inventing the 0:04:21.800 --> 0:04:23.640 clock or the leap here or whatever he did. 0:04:24.440 --> 0:04:25.719 Oh that was a good laugh. 0:04:25.760 --> 0:04:26.279 I needed that. 0:04:26.360 --> 0:04:30.920 I know that hurt my hernia. Okay, So. 0:04:32.400 --> 0:04:36.280 I think you'll experience this tany after you get married. Yeah, 0:04:37.200 --> 0:04:41.720 post event sadness will so much forward to the big 0:04:41.720 --> 0:04:44.440 wedding and all the planning and all the stuff. And 0:04:44.520 --> 0:04:45.640 Sican's lived it right. 0:04:45.960 --> 0:04:47.839 Yes, they call it, I believe wedding blues. 0:04:48.120 --> 0:04:48.839 Wedding blues. 0:04:48.880 --> 0:04:50.800 And see I would have those before. 0:04:51.160 --> 0:04:56.719 No, Ryan a wedding bliss before. So yeah, wedding blues. 0:04:56.720 --> 0:04:59.240 And I think this is why whoever invented the honeymoon 0:04:59.640 --> 0:05:02.880 invent the honeymoon, because that gets rid of the wedding blues. 0:05:03.200 --> 0:05:05.400 So you feel then you have the honeymoon blues, well 0:05:05.440 --> 0:05:07.000 then you just start like kicking. 0:05:07.440 --> 0:05:08.760 Kicking the can is what you're doing. 0:05:08.920 --> 0:05:12.280 Sure, but the honeymoon is different. I thought, like a vacation, 0:05:13.000 --> 0:05:14.760 everyone gets vacation blues when they come back. 0:05:14.800 --> 0:05:15.599 It's kind of similar. 0:05:16.040 --> 0:05:18.080 By the way, how about Sunday blues. Those are famous 0:05:18.080 --> 0:05:23.640 exactly day scary you cannot pose every week. So Ruby, Uh, 0:05:23.800 --> 0:05:25.480 a lot of people had it after they sell Taylor, 0:05:26.279 --> 0:05:30.360 That's true because they were so amptigos Taylor. They carry 0:05:30.400 --> 0:05:33.280 out the blues. So Ruby, you're going through right now? 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:33.960 Yeah. 0:05:34.000 --> 0:05:37.000 I had my engagement party this past weekend, and I 0:05:37.120 --> 0:05:40.080 just feel like from Sunday until now, I've just felt 0:05:40.120 --> 0:05:41.400 like that's it. 0:05:41.680 --> 0:05:43.239 Like, yeah, it was so much fun. 0:05:43.320 --> 0:05:46.000 You know, the build up, there's so much excitement leading 0:05:46.120 --> 0:05:47.800 up to it, and then it was we both had 0:05:47.839 --> 0:05:50.440 such a good time. And now it's like, okay, well 0:05:50.440 --> 0:05:52.400 now we you know, we're starting to plan our wedding, 0:05:52.480 --> 0:05:54.880 but I don't even want to know what it's going 0:05:54.960 --> 0:05:56.560 to feel like post wedding ding. 0:05:57.000 --> 0:05:58.880 Wait, what did you do for your engagement party? 0:05:59.040 --> 0:06:01.600 We had a small into and dinner with our immediate family. 0:06:02.880 --> 0:06:06.080 This really incredible chef, her name is Camilla. She did 0:06:06.160 --> 0:06:08.640 like this beautiful dinner for us, and then we had 0:06:09.120 --> 0:06:11.680 the rest of our friends, close friends come for some 0:06:11.800 --> 0:06:15.440 light bites and drinks after. But it was such a 0:06:15.440 --> 0:06:17.719 good time because it was, you know, like a smaller group, 0:06:17.760 --> 0:06:20.560 but it was just like all of our closest friends. 0:06:20.839 --> 0:06:24.240 And then you stayed out till five am. Mark tells me, 0:06:24.440 --> 0:06:25.040 oh my god. 0:06:25.120 --> 0:06:27.920 One of my friends he is Eretrian and he was like, 0:06:28.040 --> 0:06:29.799 let's go to this Ethiopian club. 0:06:29.839 --> 0:06:32.080 I think it was off Los Sienega or Librea. 0:06:32.720 --> 0:06:35.320 And so we just went to this random, you know, 0:06:35.400 --> 0:06:38.479 Ethiopian club and we were there until like almost three 0:06:38.560 --> 0:06:41.159 something in the morning, and then went to Leo's tacos 0:06:41.480 --> 0:06:44.200 ye and got back home at like four am. 0:06:44.960 --> 0:06:47.440 That's why you were sad you finished Leo's in the 0:06:47.440 --> 0:06:50.159 middle of the night. Like that'll bring it down, right? 0:06:50.440 --> 0:06:51.400 Is that so exciting? 0:06:51.640 --> 0:06:53.719 Yes? So what do we do? 0:06:53.839 --> 0:06:54.039 You know? 0:06:54.240 --> 0:06:58.240 I have this thing and my mother sort of instilled 0:06:58.279 --> 0:07:00.479 this in me, and I don't know if it's healthy 0:07:00.560 --> 0:07:02.280 or not, but it works for me. She always says, 0:07:02.279 --> 0:07:04.560 you have to have one little thing on your calendar 0:07:04.600 --> 0:07:07.120 that you're looking forward to, and it could be the 0:07:07.120 --> 0:07:11.000 simplest thing, Like I actually look forward to a sunset, right, 0:07:11.080 --> 0:07:13.320 so if I can see a sunset, Like if I 0:07:13.400 --> 0:07:17.560 know today in my schedule, I can be somewhere outside 0:07:17.880 --> 0:07:21.000 without my phone to watch the sunset, that'll get me there. 0:07:21.040 --> 0:07:22.440 Now, that's something look forward to. 0:07:23.400 --> 0:07:25.880 If I know we're going to go to Leo's tacos 0:07:25.960 --> 0:07:28.960 or like a place that I like to eat, simple things, 0:07:29.440 --> 0:07:31.400 I'll get me through. Because it goes back to when 0:07:31.400 --> 0:07:34.320 I was in elementary school and I was rewarded with 0:07:34.400 --> 0:07:38.520 three cheese and chiladas at Lapause restaurant if I did 0:07:38.560 --> 0:07:42.120 okay in school. So and I like that one because 0:07:42.120 --> 0:07:47.760 they had tomatilla saucet and red saucet. Nice mixture chips, Yeah, 0:07:47.800 --> 0:07:50.239 a mixture of the sauces. So it's just little things 0:07:50.280 --> 0:07:52.600 in life. It's a nice practice if you can't and 0:07:52.640 --> 0:07:55.240 they can be simple pleasures. So Ruby, let's find something 0:07:55.240 --> 0:07:56.520 that you can look forward to. 0:07:58.560 --> 0:08:00.520 I know, so you have the way a year and 0:08:00.520 --> 0:08:01.800 a half away. 0:08:01.840 --> 0:08:04.120 So but yeah, exactly, we need little bites along the 0:08:04.240 --> 0:08:08.480 little bread crumbs along the way. Tanya, have you worked 0:08:08.480 --> 0:08:10.320 anything out date wise that we should put in our calendars? 0:08:10.360 --> 0:08:11.640 There are we still circling? 0:08:11.760 --> 0:08:12.640 We're still circling. 0:08:14.320 --> 0:08:16.200 Okay? And Ruby, have you worked out your date? 0:08:16.640 --> 0:08:16.880 No? 0:08:16.960 --> 0:08:19.800 I think mid to late twenty five. 0:08:20.640 --> 0:08:22.720 Okay, girl, you're gonna need the time. 0:08:22.840 --> 0:08:25.160 I know. Let me tell you, Sissy. 0:08:25.160 --> 0:08:27.480 And aren't you glad this all behind you? 0:08:27.480 --> 0:08:29.480 You know, I have new challenges in life now. 0:08:29.440 --> 0:08:31.679 So yeah, yeah, there's always something. 0:08:31.760 --> 0:08:34.000 Yeah. The wedding's gonna be like a booh, you don't 0:08:34.000 --> 0:08:37.120 even think about it, certain actual marriage. 0:08:37.960 --> 0:08:40.120 The morning hack is next. How to sleep to have 0:08:40.280 --> 0:08:45.080 better dreams? Do you find yourself more recently having worse 0:08:45.200 --> 0:08:48.600 dreams or more nightmaric dreams? 0:08:50.360 --> 0:08:54.280 Not often nightmares, but my kids do. Asa has nightmares often, 0:08:54.679 --> 0:08:56.400 and I don't know why. 0:08:56.760 --> 0:08:59.000 Is that common with kids sometimes though, like because things 0:08:59.520 --> 0:09:00.600 can scare them. 0:09:00.640 --> 0:09:04.640 Maybe Michael's convinced that it's like the heat, like if 0:09:04.679 --> 0:09:06.319 you have like the heater on and like she's too 0:09:06.320 --> 0:09:08.480 hot in her bed like night sweats. 0:09:08.559 --> 0:09:10.959 You're supposed to sleep at sixty nine degrees fahrenheit. 0:09:11.240 --> 0:09:13.080 Can you tell him that, because that's not what we have? 0:09:13.080 --> 0:09:16.000 The hot What do you sleep at? It's like seventy 0:09:16.080 --> 0:09:16.880 one maybe? 0:09:17.320 --> 0:09:20.080 Well, yeah, terrible, but sixty nine is what they say 0:09:20.760 --> 0:09:22.479 is what your body needs her good sleep. 0:09:22.320 --> 0:09:23.600 Because I'm a hot sleeper too. 0:09:23.800 --> 0:09:24.160 Me too. 0:09:24.920 --> 0:09:28.040 I'm like, I'm hot, then I'm hot. Then I got 0:09:28.120 --> 0:09:30.200 a sheet up, I gotta sheet down, I gotta cover 0:09:30.320 --> 0:09:31.679 up and a cover down. I got it between my 0:09:31.760 --> 0:09:32.880 legs on top of me. Yeah. 0:09:33.520 --> 0:09:36.440 Fun. So do you get these nightmares? 0:09:36.440 --> 0:09:42.880 Well, this is a way too sleep where professionals, doctors 0:09:42.880 --> 0:09:44.360 have said you can have fewer nightmares. 0:09:45.040 --> 0:09:47.160 And that is impossible for me. I cannot do it. 0:09:47.200 --> 0:09:51.680 I've tried. Everything falls asleep but me. All my body 0:09:51.679 --> 0:09:54.760 parts do, but not my head. Oh and it's sleep 0:09:54.800 --> 0:09:58.559 on your side, your right side. A study found that 0:09:58.640 --> 0:10:03.280 left side sleepers experience significantly more nightmares right side sleepers 0:10:03.720 --> 0:10:06.640 had calm and comforting dreams. 0:10:07.480 --> 0:10:08.200 Right side. 0:10:08.440 --> 0:10:11.000 Interesting it has to do with the blood flow to 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:14.960 your heart, probably because when I was pregnant they told 0:10:15.000 --> 0:10:16.920 me to sleep on my left side because that would 0:10:17.000 --> 0:10:20.040 be better like flow for like my heart and the 0:10:20.040 --> 0:10:21.000 baby and all that stuff. 0:10:21.520 --> 0:10:23.240 Or yes, left side, and so the right side. 0:10:23.280 --> 0:10:25.520 Maybe see your shoulders in your arm, don't they fall 0:10:25.520 --> 0:10:26.760 asleep being. 0:10:26.880 --> 0:10:29.400 Oh I sleep on my side. Yeah, I quite like it, 0:10:30.640 --> 0:10:31.520 so it's not bad. 0:10:32.120 --> 0:10:34.720 But when I really want to get that like ooy gooy, 0:10:34.800 --> 0:10:36.800 fall asleep feeling, it's my stomach. 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:38.240 My stomach, my leg out. 0:10:39.080 --> 0:10:44.720 Yeah, a triangle with the thing and a very flat pillow. Well, 0:10:44.760 --> 0:10:47.880 we just woke up, so that's a long time from now. 0:10:48.000 --> 0:10:51.240 Let's get to the quote today. You are not grown. 0:10:51.640 --> 0:10:53.400 This day's quote we were quote every single day. If 0:10:53.400 --> 0:10:55.360 you're here for the first time, it's kind of a 0:10:56.280 --> 0:10:58.680 put your head around it type thing. You are not 0:10:58.840 --> 0:11:04.160 grown until you know how to communicate, apologize, be truthful, 0:11:04.880 --> 0:11:09.319 and accept accountability without blaming someone else. 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Becky g Ryan Gosling, and 0:11:45.000 --> 0:11:47.160 Billie Eilish are among those who will perform at the 0:11:47.160 --> 0:11:50.520 twenty twenty four Oscars on March tenth, and Uber has 0:11:50.600 --> 0:11:54.520 unveiled a new feature allowing teens to ride alone for 0:11:54.559 --> 0:11:57.200 the first time in California. Parents can set up their 0:11:57.240 --> 0:12:00.800 teens accounts through the family profile on the Uber app. 0:12:01.720 --> 0:12:06.320 On air with Ryan Seacrest, all. 0:12:06.280 --> 0:12:07.760 Right, susany you know a little bit what is this 0:12:08.200 --> 0:12:09.959 you have? The people are talking about this new trend 0:12:09.960 --> 0:12:10.480 for your phone. 0:12:11.160 --> 0:12:11.400 Yeah. 0:12:11.480 --> 0:12:14.760 I believe it will help with your sanity. And maybe 0:12:14.760 --> 0:12:17.520 it's something that you find annoying when other people have 0:12:17.600 --> 0:12:19.760 it on. But when I explain it to you in 0:12:19.800 --> 0:12:20.719 this way, you're me like. 0:12:20.760 --> 0:12:24.240 Huh, got it? Okay, so that's gonna happen. I'm gonna 0:12:24.240 --> 0:12:26.520 pay your bills. We have Ryan's roses. That's all coming 0:12:26.679 --> 0:12:31.160 fast in the next few minutes here on kiss but quickly, 0:12:31.200 --> 0:12:34.520 some guidance, some advice for Clarissa in Arcadia. Clarissa, it's 0:12:34.559 --> 0:12:35.840 Seacrest sisiny Tani. 0:12:35.880 --> 0:12:36.520 How are you hi? 0:12:36.559 --> 0:12:38.200 Clarissa, Hi? 0:12:38.480 --> 0:12:38.960 How are you? 0:12:39.760 --> 0:12:42.920 I'm well are you? Because it says here you need 0:12:42.960 --> 0:12:44.680 advice about some guy you've been dating for a month? 0:12:44.720 --> 0:12:45.440 Is everything okay? 0:12:47.160 --> 0:12:48.079 Not really? 0:12:48.600 --> 0:12:49.000 What's up? 0:12:50.720 --> 0:12:54.560 So I wanted to ask your guys' advice because it's 0:12:54.640 --> 0:12:58.000 of course, yeah, it's going on two months next week. 0:12:58.720 --> 0:13:02.840 And he it's kind of going like up and down, 0:13:02.920 --> 0:13:06.520 Like he has his days where he like shows like 0:13:06.520 --> 0:13:10.040 like affection and like he cares, and then there's days 0:13:10.040 --> 0:13:14.360 where he keeps himself like really distant and he says like, oh, 0:13:14.400 --> 0:13:16.959 I really like you, I really want to date you, 0:13:17.800 --> 0:13:22.480 yet makes no effort to put in the time. So 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:24.959 and I'm always like the one giving like one hundred 0:13:24.960 --> 0:13:26.679 percent effort, like hey, are you free? 0:13:26.720 --> 0:13:27.200 I'm free? 0:13:27.240 --> 0:13:29.920 And then he's like I'm not available, Like are well? 0:13:30.160 --> 0:13:31.160 This is really clear? 0:13:31.960 --> 0:13:36.240 He doesn't get to be with you, Like he doesn't 0:13:36.360 --> 0:13:40.400 make you a priority. He's giving you lip service, he's 0:13:40.400 --> 0:13:45.400 not giving you actionable service, and therefore he's not worth 0:13:45.520 --> 0:13:46.280 your time. 0:13:46.520 --> 0:13:51.760 Yeah, oh, don't settle. It sounds like you're making excuses. 0:13:51.280 --> 0:13:53.480 And you're trying to settle for this guy when he's 0:13:53.480 --> 0:13:54.920 not putting in the effort. 0:13:55.559 --> 0:13:58.560 Place more value on you, Place more value on you 0:13:58.600 --> 0:14:00.280 and your time and your affection in your heart and 0:14:00.320 --> 0:14:03.040 all the things that like should happen that are not 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:03.840 just words. 0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:05.840 Right, and the right guy will come to you and 0:14:05.880 --> 0:14:06.400 fight for you. 0:14:06.840 --> 0:14:08.880 But like it's really clear from the outside. Course, I 0:14:08.920 --> 0:14:10.560 know it sucks on the inside because you're like, wait 0:14:10.600 --> 0:14:12.400 a minute, I like the guy, or I want this 0:14:12.440 --> 0:14:14.360 to be a guy that I like or whatever you. 0:14:14.280 --> 0:14:16.600 Think you can change him. 0:14:17.160 --> 0:14:19.480 Yeah, I think that's the issue with sin. He is 0:14:19.480 --> 0:14:22.640 where I feel like maybe if I continue giving more 0:14:22.720 --> 0:14:26.480 time or like I'm showing like more effort, then he'll 0:14:26.520 --> 0:14:29.200 be like, oh wait, Like I think she is like 0:14:29.280 --> 0:14:30.200 the one I want. 0:14:30.160 --> 0:14:30.720 To be with. 0:14:32.480 --> 0:14:34.600 And I think that's like the issue with me because 0:14:34.600 --> 0:14:37.240 even my friends have told me, like, no, just drop him, 0:14:37.280 --> 0:14:40.200 it's not worth it anymore. Like he's only giving you 0:14:40.280 --> 0:14:45.080 like ten percent of his time. Yeah, and it's just 0:14:45.120 --> 0:14:48.440 like it sucks, like it's had. It's been having me 0:14:48.480 --> 0:14:51.640 on an emotional rollercoaster. It really has, like I like. 0:14:51.760 --> 0:14:54.480 Well and the worst she just said, yeah, and you're 0:14:54.480 --> 0:14:57.160 crying like you should not be feeling these emotional roller 0:14:57.400 --> 0:14:57.920 It's the. 0:14:57.760 --> 0:14:59.400 Beginning of a relationship. 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:02.320 By the way, the God doesn't have like obsessed about you, 0:15:02.880 --> 0:15:05.760 but to show you a little bit of you know, 0:15:05.880 --> 0:15:09.000 value in your time and your interest is important. And 0:15:09.600 --> 0:15:13.160 this is one of those red flags that you kind 0:15:13.160 --> 0:15:15.200 of see now, but you want to look past because 0:15:15.200 --> 0:15:16.760 you want it to work. I mean we're all like that. 0:15:16.800 --> 0:15:19.360 Look you meet somebody and you want to say to yourself, hey, 0:15:19.680 --> 0:15:22.320 I have good judgment, I know how to pick good people. 0:15:22.680 --> 0:15:26.600 And you actually you look past things that in hindsight 0:15:27.200 --> 0:15:28.280 you probably shouldn't have. 0:15:28.560 --> 0:15:30.440 So it's been a month. 0:15:31.040 --> 0:15:33.560 If you're not seeing that you're some kind of a 0:15:33.600 --> 0:15:36.200 priority for him to get to know, then I think 0:15:36.240 --> 0:15:47.320 this is a bad sign. M Yeah, we're all in 0:15:47.360 --> 0:15:49.720 it together in a way, yelling together. 0:15:49.560 --> 0:15:50.200 Keep us posted. 0:15:51.320 --> 0:15:54.000 You live and you learn, you ride and you roll 0:15:55.440 --> 0:15:56.200 getting down. 0:15:56.720 --> 0:15:57.640 Give me another one. 0:15:59.520 --> 0:16:00.520 You're right, you're wrong. 0:16:00.800 --> 0:16:06.880 I have to say, what song is that Katy Perry? 0:16:03.960 --> 0:16:08.720 Yeah, to plagiarize Katie. 0:16:08.760 --> 0:16:12.480 Thank you, Tania. Yeah, new trend for your phone might 0:16:12.560 --> 0:16:13.640 keep you saying sisy. 0:16:14.080 --> 0:16:16.320 I was noticing more and more that people have the 0:16:16.400 --> 0:16:19.160 do not disturb on and I know certain people, like 0:16:19.200 --> 0:16:20.920 even in this room, Like I know Mark turns on 0:16:20.960 --> 0:16:23.000 his do not disturb at like eight pm every night, 0:16:23.280 --> 0:16:25.360 So if I try to text him, I'm going to 0:16:25.400 --> 0:16:26.240 get the do not disturb. 0:16:26.800 --> 0:16:30.600 You are the producer of a fluid show that could happen. 0:16:31.640 --> 0:16:33.880 I mean, I'll never forget, you know, things that happen 0:16:34.160 --> 0:16:36.760 in late that need to impact the show Mark. 0:16:36.880 --> 0:16:40.360 So people have privilege to get through my do not disturbed. 0:16:40.440 --> 0:16:43.240 So yes, you can have people that's not true, You 0:16:43.360 --> 0:16:43.840 for sure do. 0:16:44.240 --> 0:16:46.040 Maybe it's because you don't have an idea on your phone. 0:16:46.040 --> 0:16:46.400 I don't know. 0:16:46.480 --> 0:16:49.320 Yeah, you don't because you don't use your phocuso lose 0:16:49.800 --> 0:16:51.240 blame me and my phone for it. 0:16:51.360 --> 0:16:54.080 But apparently I'm not wrong with like the majority of 0:16:54.080 --> 0:16:56.840 people using do not disturb these days. It is full 0:16:56.920 --> 0:17:01.120 on a trend and it's basically just to have no 0:17:01.480 --> 0:17:04.400 notifications at all, so they people are key meet there 0:17:04.400 --> 0:17:06.879 do not disturb on twenty four to seven, not just 0:17:06.920 --> 0:17:09.720 at certain times. It is always on, kind of like 0:17:09.760 --> 0:17:11.720 you have your auto reply on your email ah. 0:17:11.680 --> 0:17:14.320 Waits intentionally you're putting it on all day, right. 0:17:14.359 --> 0:17:16.680 Intentionally you put it on all day and it's basically 0:17:16.760 --> 0:17:19.119 to help with anxiety. It's helping just like to not 0:17:19.760 --> 0:17:23.520 be notified for every single phone call or email or 0:17:23.520 --> 0:17:26.040 text that might come through, and on your time, you 0:17:26.080 --> 0:17:27.639 go and check your phone almost like you used to 0:17:27.680 --> 0:17:28.920 back in the day when you would come home and 0:17:29.000 --> 0:17:30.520 check your answering machines. 0:17:30.680 --> 0:17:31.560 If I really left. 0:17:31.440 --> 0:17:33.879 It, I did Do not Disturb for maybe like a 0:17:33.920 --> 0:17:37.480 few months. There's a window like from night till morning, 0:17:37.560 --> 0:17:40.320 and I got in trouble from Mark because of it 0:17:40.480 --> 0:17:42.200 because he couldn't get a hold of me where something 0:17:42.280 --> 0:17:44.040 was moving. And so then I took off Do not 0:17:44.080 --> 0:17:44.639 Disturb and I. 0:17:44.600 --> 0:17:46.680 Only had it there at call the Kettle Black. 0:17:48.560 --> 0:17:50.520 Yeah, but I'm saying I only had it on for 0:17:50.560 --> 0:17:52.280