WEBVTT - Closure Call: Case of the Missing Roommate 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:02.800 You found it the Second Date Update Podcast. It's Brook 0:00:02.800 --> 0:00:05.080 and Jeffrey in the morning. Thanks for being here, especially 0:00:05.080 --> 0:00:08.080 on a Sunday, you know, and Sunday we've really been 0:00:08.160 --> 0:00:10.840 using to introduce you to all sorts of new relationship 0:00:10.920 --> 0:00:13.760 drama segments that we do on the show. And today 0:00:13.920 --> 0:00:15.400 I think it's the first one we've done on the 0:00:15.440 --> 0:00:19.600 Second Date Update Podcast. We're gonna do a closure call. Yeah, 0:00:20.880 --> 0:00:22.800 I mean sometimes, yeah, they really are. 0:00:23.400 --> 0:00:23.560 You know. 0:00:23.600 --> 0:00:25.479 It's probably the most serious thing that we do on 0:00:25.520 --> 0:00:26.239 the show. Yeah. 0:00:26.440 --> 0:00:28.800 It is good serious, yeah, good serious. 0:00:29.000 --> 0:00:31.560 And just emotional maybe is a better word than serious 0:00:31.600 --> 0:00:33.440 intense maybe, yeah. 0:00:33.159 --> 0:00:33.919 I don't laugh at all. 0:00:34.080 --> 0:00:39.240 Cry, grab your tissues, get ready. 0:00:41.640 --> 0:00:44.479 A closure call is where we have our producer work 0:00:44.560 --> 0:00:46.720 with one of our listeners to get in touch with 0:00:46.720 --> 0:00:50.320 somebody from their past. It could be like a family member, 0:00:50.560 --> 0:00:56.160 a lot of exesmate that just disappeared once. Yeah, which 0:00:56.200 --> 0:01:00.160 is a hint for what today's is, by the way. Anyway, 0:01:00.000 --> 0:01:02.440 they come up with questions to ask this person that 0:01:02.520 --> 0:01:05.640 has broken off contact with them, sometimes like years and 0:01:05.680 --> 0:01:08.560 years ago. Yeah yeah, and then we read the responses 0:01:08.600 --> 0:01:10.760 live on air and hopefully at the end, you know, 0:01:11.080 --> 0:01:12.959 give them a chance to move forward. 0:01:13.040 --> 0:01:16.080 You know, because they don't know they're going to hear this. 0:01:16.520 --> 0:01:19.759 It's not the goal. It's not the goal, but sometimes 0:01:19.800 --> 0:01:22.920 it does happen. So now you understand what it is. 0:01:23.400 --> 0:01:26.000 Hopefully you enjoy it definitely. Let us know in the comments. 0:01:26.000 --> 0:01:27.319 We love reading your comments. 0:01:27.319 --> 0:01:28.119 We got some today. 0:01:28.200 --> 0:01:31.240 Yes, I saw one from So Original. Yes, I'm many 0:01:31.280 --> 0:01:34.360 o's okay, Yes, who said? My favorite moments are when 0:01:34.400 --> 0:01:37.440 Jeffrey's genuine laugh sneaks out. It's hilariously adorable. 0:01:37.680 --> 0:01:39.480 Yeah, he tries to suppress it. 0:01:39.520 --> 0:01:41.720 I swear he has to. He works with us because 0:01:41.800 --> 0:01:43.080 off air jeff laughs so much. 0:01:43.080 --> 0:01:44.640 And I was like, he's those people that makes me 0:01:44.640 --> 0:01:46.639 feel really good about myself because he laughs at everything 0:01:46.680 --> 0:01:47.000 you say. 0:01:47.080 --> 0:01:49.280 No, sometimes when we'll go out to drinks, will be 0:01:49.400 --> 0:01:51.000 like on the first drink and like, are you are 0:01:51.000 --> 0:01:51.480 you drunk? 0:01:52.760 --> 0:01:54.960 Always look, I don't think he's an alcoholic, but no, 0:01:55.080 --> 0:01:55.720 he's got. 0:01:55.560 --> 0:01:57.440 One beer in front of him and some good food. 0:01:58.840 --> 0:02:03.080 Happy. Yeah, I know. All right, listen to the closure call. 0:02:03.360 --> 0:02:05.200 Thanks for being here. We got a brand new show 0:02:05.240 --> 0:02:08.160 tomorrow of course too, so come back. But hope you enjoyed. 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:14.160 Who knows you better than anyone else. You may think 0:02:14.240 --> 0:02:18.399 your mom, or your sibling, or your spouse, but now 0:02:18.440 --> 0:02:23.120 the truth is, nobody sees you like a roommate sees you. 0:02:23.600 --> 0:02:26.520 Oh boy, you're right, you're my old roommate. 0:02:26.560 --> 0:02:27.639 Probably knows more about me. 0:02:27.600 --> 0:02:28.120 Than my family. 0:02:28.240 --> 0:02:32.000 Yeah, they know all your annoying little habits, your lazy tendencies, 0:02:32.440 --> 0:02:35.600 and what your soapy silhouette looks like through that shower curtain. 0:02:35.960 --> 0:02:37.800 Wait, what they've seen. 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:41.680 That's why one of our listeners is so distraught because 0:02:41.720 --> 0:02:45.480 he and his roommate became real close friends till everything 0:02:45.639 --> 0:02:49.880 suddenly changed on a random day four years ago, and 0:02:49.960 --> 0:02:53.200 he has never got the answers for what really happened 0:02:53.400 --> 0:02:54.240 on that day. 0:02:54.480 --> 0:02:55.160 That's why he's. 0:02:55.040 --> 0:02:57.639 Enlisted our help for a brand new closure call. We're 0:02:57.639 --> 0:03:01.960 gonna get some answers coming up right after this. Who 0:03:02.040 --> 0:03:06.400 knows you better than anyone else. You may think your mom, 0:03:06.800 --> 0:03:10.760 or your sibling, or your spouse, But now the truth is, 0:03:11.320 --> 0:03:14.680 nobody sees you like a roommate sees you. 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:18.120 Oh boy, you're right, you're my old roommate. 0:03:18.120 --> 0:03:19.760 Probably knows more about me than my family. 0:03:19.840 --> 0:03:22.760 Yeah, they know all your annoying little habits, your lazy 0:03:22.840 --> 0:03:26.360 tendencies and what your soapy silhouette looks like through that 0:03:26.480 --> 0:03:27.200 shower curtain. 0:03:27.560 --> 0:03:29.400 Wait, what they've seen. 0:03:29.800 --> 0:03:33.280 That's why one of our listeners is so distraught because 0:03:33.320 --> 0:03:37.080 he and his roommate became real close friends till everything 0:03:37.240 --> 0:03:41.480 suddenly changed on a random day four years ago, and 0:03:41.560 --> 0:03:44.800 he has never got the answers for what really happened 0:03:45.000 --> 0:03:47.560 on that day. That's why he's enlisted our help for 0:03:47.600 --> 0:03:50.280 a brand new closure call. We're gonna get some answers 0:03:50.320 --> 0:03:54.680 coming up right after this. We've been doing closure calls 0:03:54.760 --> 0:03:57.600 for a while now, and most of the time when 0:03:57.640 --> 0:04:01.640 people need closure, it's from an ex boyfriend or a 0:04:01.680 --> 0:04:04.960 family member, which I know, in Brooks case is sometimes 0:04:04.960 --> 0:04:05.520 the same thing. 0:04:06.640 --> 0:04:07.720 We're a little confusing. 0:04:07.800 --> 0:04:11.480 But today today is interesting because I'd say not a 0:04:11.560 --> 0:04:14.440 lot of people feel like they need closure from a 0:04:14.560 --> 0:04:15.520 past roommate. 0:04:16.240 --> 0:04:19.560 Oh I could see that. 0:04:19.720 --> 0:04:22.520 Yes, I mean I try to avoid most of mine. 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:26.760 But apparently that's what our listener, Adam is looking for today, 0:04:26.920 --> 0:04:30.440 closure with one of his past roommates. So, Adam, welcome 0:04:30.480 --> 0:04:30.960 to the show. 0:04:31.800 --> 0:04:33.040 Hey, oh thank you. 0:04:33.320 --> 0:04:36.000 Is this person just a roommate, because usually roommates are 0:04:36.000 --> 0:04:38.680 also your best friends and people that you love, you know, 0:04:38.760 --> 0:04:39.720 and care about. 0:04:40.000 --> 0:04:40.240 You know. 0:04:40.880 --> 0:04:44.719 He was just a roommate and then we became really 0:04:44.760 --> 0:04:47.760 close buddies. God, I moved into. 0:04:47.600 --> 0:04:49.919 A house where I literally found it on craigslist, didn't 0:04:49.920 --> 0:04:51.599 know anyone, and then we became best friends. 0:04:51.600 --> 0:04:53.479 Well, I mean, that's the easiest way to be friends 0:04:53.480 --> 0:04:56.479 with somebody and you know everything about them immediately, you know. 0:04:56.839 --> 0:04:59.200 Oh yeah, yeah, I mean that's how it was with him. 0:04:59.320 --> 0:05:01.840 We became great friends really quickly. 0:05:02.000 --> 0:05:05.360 Oh man, But some friends you can't live with. 0:05:06.120 --> 0:05:06.800 It's different. 0:05:07.960 --> 0:05:10.360 And because this is a closure call, how long has 0:05:10.440 --> 0:05:13.280 it been since you were roommates with this guy? 0:05:13.440 --> 0:05:15.080 Like, he's not in the next room right now, is he? 0:05:16.320 --> 0:05:19.760 No? I wish he's not here. He has been gone 0:05:19.800 --> 0:05:21.000 for four years now. 0:05:21.440 --> 0:05:22.360 Oh wows. 0:05:22.960 --> 0:05:23.159 Yeah. 0:05:23.520 --> 0:05:26.320 Wait did he move out of your guys's place? 0:05:26.600 --> 0:05:26.960 Yeah. 0:05:27.120 --> 0:05:31.000 So the way it all went down was things were cool, 0:05:31.839 --> 0:05:35.239 and all of a sudden he just wasn't there. 0:05:35.680 --> 0:05:37.680 What do you mean, like in the middle of the 0:05:37.800 --> 0:05:39.320 night he moved his stuff out or what. 0:05:39.680 --> 0:05:43.080 I would get home from work. I worked really early 0:05:43.360 --> 0:05:46.760 shifts and I would get home around two three pm. 0:05:46.839 --> 0:05:50.559 And he was there, always there every single day, showed 0:05:50.640 --> 0:05:54.320 up at home. The door's wide open, there's no note 0:05:54.480 --> 0:05:55.080 or anything. 0:05:55.760 --> 0:05:55.960 You know. 0:05:56.000 --> 0:05:59.120 It kind of freaked me out. Kat was still there. 0:05:59.400 --> 0:06:01.480 Wait, his cat? Your cat? Whose cat? 0:06:01.839 --> 0:06:02.159 It was? 0:06:02.279 --> 0:06:05.160 His cat? I mean, I love the cat. You know, 0:06:05.279 --> 0:06:08.119 I was a cool roommate. I fed the cat, played 0:06:08.200 --> 0:06:08.760 my cat. 0:06:09.360 --> 0:06:11.880 Was your roommate kidnapped and you never filed a report? 0:06:11.920 --> 0:06:15.279 Yeah, because he's like I just heard help, help, help 0:06:15.279 --> 0:06:16.000 from down the street. 0:06:16.120 --> 0:06:19.480 Yeah, that's what I thought. I was freaking out, and 0:06:20.040 --> 0:06:22.760 I didn't call authorities or anything, and I waited a 0:06:22.839 --> 0:06:26.200 day or two. So I started asking around to different 0:06:26.279 --> 0:06:31.640 friends and families, and they were told from him that 0:06:31.680 --> 0:06:34.080 he just didn't want to be my roommate anymore. 0:06:34.320 --> 0:06:36.719 What I thought you said that you guys were like 0:06:36.760 --> 0:06:37.440 good buddies. 0:06:37.680 --> 0:06:40.080 We were great buddies. We had movie night. 0:06:40.400 --> 0:06:43.800 Oh man, I can't a movie night anymore. 0:06:43.920 --> 0:06:44.919 This is a tragedy. 0:06:45.120 --> 0:06:48.760 I can't get over him leaving the cat. Did he 0:06:48.800 --> 0:06:50.760 take his stuff when he left? 0:06:51.000 --> 0:06:54.600 He took some stuff he took like some of his clothes, 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:56.600 But he left PlayStation. 0:06:56.880 --> 0:06:58.839 He left like essentials. 0:06:59.360 --> 0:07:02.080 I mean, that's upset about the PlayStation more than the 0:07:02.160 --> 0:07:03.720 cat got to give up. 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:07.160 I feel like it sounds for a weekend trip, and 0:07:07.160 --> 0:07:08.919 it was like, actually this is nicer. I'm gonna say. 0:07:11.160 --> 0:07:15.480 Yeah, I mean I know that I wasn't perfect. There 0:07:15.480 --> 0:07:17.600 were things that kicked them off. I would eat his 0:07:17.680 --> 0:07:19.200 food sometimes. 0:07:19.640 --> 0:07:26.000 Well did he label it food? 0:07:26.080 --> 0:07:28.760 Not allowed to do that, guy, there is no labels. 0:07:28.760 --> 0:07:29.800 Well there you go. 0:07:30.200 --> 0:07:32.480 You got there's only two of you living there. You 0:07:32.480 --> 0:07:33.280 don't have to label it. 0:07:33.360 --> 0:07:36.440 If it's not yours, then if you didn't want me 0:07:36.520 --> 0:07:37.640 to eat it, don't put it. 0:07:37.520 --> 0:07:41.600 In our fridge. It's a shared space. What you're going 0:07:41.720 --> 0:07:42.800 la each out of the couch. 0:07:42.920 --> 0:07:45.920 Now, remind me never to be a roommate with Jeffrey. 0:07:47.600 --> 0:07:49.440 So wait, do you think he was mad at you? 0:07:49.480 --> 0:07:50.760 Because that's what you're kind of. 0:07:50.760 --> 0:07:54.400 Implying, I mean me eating some of his food every 0:07:54.400 --> 0:07:57.280 now and then. Or the other big one was that 0:07:57.320 --> 0:07:58.880 I hardly ever did dishes. 0:07:59.080 --> 0:08:01.600 You didn't do your own dishes and you ate his food. 0:08:04.200 --> 0:08:04.440 Move. 0:08:04.760 --> 0:08:06.240 Yeah, it's not that dramatic. 0:08:06.320 --> 0:08:09.680 You know. I cleaned the cat's litter and I held 0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:13.480 up my end of some of the bargain, and I 0:08:13.600 --> 0:08:16.960 could do more dishes if that was the issue. 0:08:17.200 --> 0:08:18.480 But he never talked to you about it. 0:08:18.880 --> 0:08:21.440 Yeah, I couldn't have just been about silly little things 0:08:21.480 --> 0:08:23.880 like that. And I know it's kind of weird because 0:08:23.880 --> 0:08:26.120 he was just my roommate and I know it was 0:08:26.160 --> 0:08:30.680 four years ago, but still it is haunting me that 0:08:30.840 --> 0:08:34.600 this person would just up and go. And I really 0:08:34.640 --> 0:08:36.400 would love some closure. 0:08:37.200 --> 0:08:38.960 I would love to know what I did. 0:08:39.520 --> 0:08:39.760 Huh. 0:08:39.760 --> 0:08:45.840 Okay, yeah, yeah, So if our audience doesn't know or 0:08:45.960 --> 0:08:48.480 remember how the segment works, Adam does. 0:08:48.600 --> 0:08:49.160 Obviously. 0:08:49.280 --> 0:08:52.080 Our producers have been working with him to track down 0:08:52.160 --> 0:08:57.240 his roommate, Roy, and we went to Roy's Instagram. Actually, 0:08:57.600 --> 0:08:59.920 our producer has been sending him a lot of messaging 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:04.360 is and Roy finally responded. We asked him if we 0:09:04.360 --> 0:09:07.000 could send him four questions from Adam. 0:09:07.200 --> 0:09:09.360 Okay, and these are questions that Adam came up with 0:09:09.360 --> 0:09:10.559 with our producer. 0:09:10.240 --> 0:09:11.000 Yes, with help. 0:09:11.120 --> 0:09:13.120 When you ask him that, do you say this doesn't 0:09:13.120 --> 0:09:14.439 count as one of the questions. 0:09:14.160 --> 0:09:20.400 Because he did agree to answer four brand new questions 0:09:21.320 --> 0:09:25.600 and we got his responses ready Right now, this could 0:09:25.600 --> 0:09:27.320 get a little bit intense for you. 0:09:27.360 --> 0:09:28.600 Adam, Are you ready for it? 0:09:28.920 --> 0:09:31.000 Did you already read him? Do you already know what 0:09:31.040 --> 0:09:31.440 he should? 0:09:31.520 --> 0:09:32.319 I haven't read them? 0:09:32.360 --> 0:09:33.680 Now, do you know they're intense. 0:09:33.960 --> 0:09:38.280 Well I'm just guessing, all right, I don't know. 0:09:39.400 --> 0:09:42.200 We're all going to read them together and find out 0:09:42.240 --> 0:09:45.319 what happened to your old roommate Roy, hopefully give you 0:09:45.320 --> 0:09:48.360 a little bit of finality on it when we do, what. 0:09:48.200 --> 0:09:50.040 Brook, Can I just ask, where's the cat down? I 0:09:50.080 --> 0:09:51.080 was wondering that to you. 0:09:51.880 --> 0:09:54.000 If that's not in the questions that was asked, then 0:09:54.000 --> 0:09:56.800 we don't have anywers the cat. 0:09:57.400 --> 0:10:00.000 The cat is sitting by my feet right now. 0:10:00.080 --> 0:10:06.080 Okay, all right, needed to get animals. 0:10:07.080 --> 0:10:09.960 We're on speaker phone. So if it's anything that would 0:10:10.040 --> 0:10:13.800 really hurt the cat's feeling, okay, well. 0:10:13.640 --> 0:10:16.920 Maybe that cat when we come back and do the 0:10:16.960 --> 0:10:19.280 rest of your closure call right after this. 0:10:19.600 --> 0:10:20.360 Thank you. 0:10:21.760 --> 0:10:22.719 If you're just joining us. 0:10:22.720 --> 0:10:25.679 We're in the middle of a closure call with Adam, who, 0:10:25.800 --> 0:10:29.280 just to recap, had a roommate named Roy, and four 0:10:29.400 --> 0:10:34.000 years ago Adam came home to find Roy was gone, Yes, 0:10:34.160 --> 0:10:37.880 along with most of his belongings, left behind his cat 0:10:38.120 --> 0:10:39.920 and a video game system. 0:10:40.360 --> 0:10:43.080 They were friends. Like, it's so crazy, I am so 0:10:43.200 --> 0:10:47.079 invested in this. Yeah, that's right, Jose. 0:10:47.600 --> 0:10:51.240 No no orientication as to where Roy went. So Adam 0:10:51.280 --> 0:10:54.079 has been wondering for years where did my buddy go? 0:10:54.440 --> 0:10:56.000 And who's going to do my dishes now? 0:10:56.960 --> 0:10:59.120 Because Adam, you admitted there were certain things you did 0:10:59.120 --> 0:11:01.960 as a roommate that were not so good. Certain things 0:11:01.960 --> 0:11:05.920 were really good. But what was the overall dynamic between 0:11:06.000 --> 0:11:07.000 you and Roy? 0:11:07.800 --> 0:11:12.200 If I were to paint a picture, we were jokesters. 0:11:12.200 --> 0:11:16.240 To guess there was a lot of laughter going on. 0:11:16.679 --> 0:11:19.160 That's a good sign. Well, it's so weird because the 0:11:19.200 --> 0:11:22.920 friends and the family all said that he left because 0:11:22.920 --> 0:11:24.559 he didn't want to be roommates. Yeah, so it was 0:11:24.559 --> 0:11:26.439 obviously planned a little bit exactly. 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:29.320 And before we get to these questions, that's the reason 0:11:29.400 --> 0:11:31.600 that Adam reached out to us in the first place, 0:11:31.679 --> 0:11:33.960 because hearing stuff like that must hurt. 0:11:34.120 --> 0:11:35.719 Yeah, everybody said the same thing. 0:11:36.000 --> 0:11:38.800 I don't I don't even want to accept that that 0:11:39.040 --> 0:11:39.839 is what he said. 0:11:40.360 --> 0:11:44.160 Oh no, no, say that you're hut. 0:11:44.200 --> 0:11:46.480 All right, Well, let's get right to it, because we 0:11:46.600 --> 0:11:49.040 have the four questions that you sent to Roy. 0:11:49.160 --> 0:11:52.520 He has answered all four of them. Let's get some question. 0:11:52.920 --> 0:11:53.560 Number one. 0:11:54.240 --> 0:11:58.000 You said, hey man, it's been almost four years. I 0:11:58.080 --> 0:12:00.600 still don't know why you moved out without telling me 0:12:00.720 --> 0:12:03.400 or leaving a note. I felt like we were great 0:12:03.440 --> 0:12:05.440 friends and I'd like some closure. 0:12:06.600 --> 0:12:08.760 Not much of a question, that's more of a statement there. 0:12:08.800 --> 0:12:10.480 But you know, I'm not going to critique you. 0:12:10.679 --> 0:12:11.280 That was the end. 0:12:11.320 --> 0:12:12.720 There's no okay, Yeah, there. 0:12:12.640 --> 0:12:14.640 Was no question. It's like, can you explain? 0:12:14.960 --> 0:12:16.560 Yeah, it's more like yeah. 0:12:16.600 --> 0:12:21.280 So Roy responded, he wrote, really you have no idea? 0:12:21.440 --> 0:12:21.800 Adam? 0:12:22.400 --> 0:12:23.160 What? Adam? 0:12:23.280 --> 0:12:26.000 Okay? For starters? You stole my cat. 0:12:26.840 --> 0:12:30.280 I what are you talking about? Yeah? You said that 0:12:30.400 --> 0:12:31.880 Roy left the cat. Is that not true? 0:12:32.040 --> 0:12:32.679 Yeah? 0:12:32.800 --> 0:12:33.640 He left the cat. 0:12:33.720 --> 0:12:35.480 Here what he says. 0:12:35.559 --> 0:12:37.880 I was the one who brought the cat into the 0:12:37.920 --> 0:12:41.319 house and called him Paul. You changed his name to 0:12:41.440 --> 0:12:45.520 Fluffy Bottoms and even got his tag change to reflect that. 0:12:45.920 --> 0:12:46.760 That's kind of weird. 0:12:47.200 --> 0:12:49.480 First of all, much better name. 0:12:51.040 --> 0:12:53.199 Is a and the cat liked it. 0:12:53.320 --> 0:12:58.800 No, No, I think Paul is actually pretty funny. Yeah, 0:12:59.320 --> 0:13:01.560 we're gonna I just can't believe you changed. You're starting 0:13:01.559 --> 0:13:02.719 to switch the team Roy right now. 0:13:03.400 --> 0:13:06.240 I can't believe that he would be holding a grudge 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:08.000 for four years over the cat. 0:13:08.160 --> 0:13:09.680 HA been an extra little puzza. 0:13:10.000 --> 0:13:13.040 Well, well, there's there's more to his first answer. He 0:13:13.080 --> 0:13:15.440 also said you would keep him in your room at 0:13:15.520 --> 0:13:18.000 night than lock your door and pretend to be asleep 0:13:18.040 --> 0:13:21.520 when I wanted to see Paul. So that's one example 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:24.400 of your incredibly toxic behavior right there. 0:13:25.240 --> 0:13:26.960 Toxic. He dropped the word on you. 0:13:27.000 --> 0:13:28.840 The cat wanted to sleep with me. 0:13:29.200 --> 0:13:32.800 Okay, if you want the cat and everyone locks their 0:13:32.840 --> 0:13:34.640 door when they go to bed at night. 0:13:34.640 --> 0:13:39.440 Listen, Yeah, we're not trying to attack you, but it 0:13:39.480 --> 0:13:41.679 sounds like you need to take a moment to take 0:13:41.720 --> 0:13:44.079 a deep breath and accept some Okay. 0:13:44.559 --> 0:13:47.360 The only person who could honestly answer that is his cat, 0:13:47.600 --> 0:13:50.240 And so we don't have time to do a whole 0:13:50.440 --> 0:13:51.480 questionnaire for the cats. 0:13:51.520 --> 0:13:53.440 We have to stick with the questions to Roy. 0:13:53.440 --> 0:13:53.600 Here. 0:13:53.679 --> 0:13:56.120 Let's go to number two. It says, I know I 0:13:56.200 --> 0:13:57.320 wasn't the perfect roommate. 0:13:57.400 --> 0:14:00.640 Okay, that's good. That's admitting some guilt, therefire responsibility. 0:14:00.720 --> 0:14:02.920 If it was something I did when I lived with you, 0:14:02.960 --> 0:14:06.200 Could you please give me a specific example that I 0:14:06.240 --> 0:14:07.800 could grow from. 0:14:08.040 --> 0:14:08.599 Did I get it? 0:14:08.720 --> 0:14:08.920 More? 0:14:09.000 --> 0:14:09.240 Sure? 0:14:09.240 --> 0:14:11.280 But remember when we write these, we don't have the 0:14:11.360 --> 0:14:13.800 answers back one at a time. We send them all 0:14:13.800 --> 0:14:14.800 in one mass email. 0:14:15.080 --> 0:14:16.840 Adam, are you ready to hear this? Because it didn't 0:14:16.880 --> 0:14:18.360 feel like you were ready to hear the cat. 0:14:18.440 --> 0:14:22.400 Now this situation, I will accept it. 0:14:22.480 --> 0:14:24.920 The cat threw me off. That threw me off. 0:14:24.960 --> 0:14:27.600 I feel optimistic about where this is going. So his 0:14:27.800 --> 0:14:33.280 response was, Okay, you want more about Netflix Sundays. When 0:14:33.320 --> 0:14:36.200 we would plan on watching a movie together every Sunday, 0:14:36.960 --> 0:14:38.200 and then once. 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:40.360 We were a half hour in, you'd pause. 0:14:40.120 --> 0:14:43.040 The film and tell me the ending what you thought 0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:46.640 it was hilarious, and did that ten times until I 0:14:46.680 --> 0:14:48.320 stopped watching movies with you. 0:14:51.240 --> 0:14:52.840 Maybe once made. 0:14:54.080 --> 0:14:54.680 Funny. 0:14:54.720 --> 0:14:59.320 Well, sometimes sometimes it's better to spoil the ending so 0:14:59.360 --> 0:15:01.120 you don't suffer a bad movie. 0:15:01.600 --> 0:15:03.840 He did it before the movie started. You let the 0:15:03.880 --> 0:15:06.240 man get a half an hour into a film and 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:07.040 then ruined it. 0:15:07.120 --> 0:15:10.560 Okay, all right, I will say, and I'll say calmly, 0:15:10.640 --> 0:15:15.200 that is fair. It's not worth losing a friendship over. Okay. 0:15:15.320 --> 0:15:18.040 I may have told him the ending of Breaking Bad, 0:15:18.880 --> 0:15:20.480 but it was very funny. 0:15:21.160 --> 0:15:22.280 I still the ending of that. 0:15:22.320 --> 0:15:25.280 Actually, how many seasons into Breaking Bad were you before 0:15:25.280 --> 0:15:26.080 you ruin the end? 0:15:26.520 --> 0:15:26.720 Wow? 0:15:27.000 --> 0:15:30.640 I mean, brook is really offended over the spoiling of movies. 0:15:31.160 --> 0:15:33.320 I mean, I'll tell you there was one time when 0:15:33.320 --> 0:15:36.160 my husband ripped out the last two pages of a book. 0:15:36.200 --> 0:15:39.760 I was invested in, hystericle. 0:15:40.280 --> 0:15:40.840 It's a sa. 0:15:44.560 --> 0:15:46.800 Maybe if you need a new roommate, Brooks husband could 0:15:46.800 --> 0:15:47.120 be it. 0:15:47.480 --> 0:15:49.800 But did Roy ever tell Did Roy ever tell you 0:15:49.880 --> 0:15:50.800 that he didn't like that? 0:15:51.320 --> 0:15:51.560 No? 0:15:51.720 --> 0:15:52.440 He did, Brook. 0:15:52.480 --> 0:15:56.400 This is not a closure call for you and watching 0:15:56.480 --> 0:15:59.320 and book reading. This is for Adam with his old 0:15:59.400 --> 0:16:00.640 roommate and. 0:16:00.640 --> 0:16:03.040 It's not going well. That's the next question, Jeff. 0:16:03.040 --> 0:16:06.120 He's a question question number three that we sent Joy. 0:16:06.800 --> 0:16:09.800 If I need to hear anymore, well, Brook needs. 0:16:09.640 --> 0:16:10.040 To hear. 0:16:12.720 --> 0:16:13.160 We sent. 0:16:13.480 --> 0:16:15.600 I know it's been a long time, but it would 0:16:15.600 --> 0:16:17.240 really mean a lot to me if you came to 0:16:17.280 --> 0:16:18.320 my birthday party next. 0:16:19.400 --> 0:16:20.960 I would love to see you. 0:16:21.120 --> 0:16:22.960 That's really sweet. 0:16:23.560 --> 0:16:25.440 I'd like him there. It's my birthday. 0:16:25.440 --> 0:16:27.600 It's a big pew. 0:16:27.760 --> 0:16:31.920 So Roy responded back, saying, are you trolling me with this? 0:16:32.840 --> 0:16:40.120 Don't you remember the great birthday disaster? You threw me 0:16:40.200 --> 0:16:43.800 that surprise birthday party but forgot to invite me or 0:16:43.960 --> 0:16:45.240 did you do it on purpose? 0:16:45.400 --> 0:16:45.800 What? 0:16:46.200 --> 0:16:48.440 I came home and the party was done, all my 0:16:48.560 --> 0:16:51.880 friends had left, Then you showed me the picks on Instagram? 0:16:53.400 --> 0:16:54.040 What happened there? 0:16:54.080 --> 0:16:57.240 Adam, that's just okay. I did a lot of work 0:16:57.560 --> 0:16:59.640 for it, and I went and I got the cake, 0:17:00.360 --> 0:17:04.520 and I did all the secret invites, shut. 0:17:04.400 --> 0:17:07.960 Up the whole party. And it was an honest mistake. 0:17:08.320 --> 0:17:10.560 I just forgot the one thing. 0:17:11.000 --> 0:17:14.639 Oh wait, I forgot Text him in the middle of 0:17:14.680 --> 0:17:17.080 the party, tell them to get over to the house. 0:17:17.160 --> 0:17:18.280 We were having fun. 0:17:20.480 --> 0:17:22.320 I'm sure you left him a slice of cake for 0:17:22.400 --> 0:17:23.440 when he got home, right. 0:17:24.640 --> 0:17:28.240 Roy, What were we talking about? 0:17:28.280 --> 0:17:28.359 Oh? 0:17:28.400 --> 0:17:29.280 Yeah, Roy's birthday. 0:17:29.440 --> 0:17:33.639 Yeah, I totally did not do it on purpose. I 0:17:34.040 --> 0:17:36.480 know that it sounds like I did, okay. 0:17:36.400 --> 0:17:39.520 And how that stuff that all of his friends didn't stay. 0:17:39.320 --> 0:17:39.760 And just. 0:17:42.000 --> 0:17:45.040 It was a really good party that he's through. Obviously, 0:17:46.119 --> 0:17:46.800 it sounds. 0:17:46.560 --> 0:17:48.080 Like Roy's not coming to Adams. 0:17:47.800 --> 0:17:51.120