1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,520 Speaker 1: What are we even do? 2 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:09,440 Speaker 2: What are we even doing? Hi? 3 00:00:09,480 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: I'm Kyle McLachlin. We are what are we even doing? Show? 4 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 1: Host of the show. My grammar has completely changed this morning. 5 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 1: We are sitting down with your favorite actors, musicians, and 6 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 1: creatives to talk their creativity, how they use social media, 7 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 1: and this wild world that we're in. We're gonna get 8 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 1: weird in a good way. Today. We have a very 9 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 1: cool person with us. Stop until is here. 10 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 2: Hi. 11 00:00:33,840 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 1: You're a self proclaimed NEPO friend, but you also have 12 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 1: this fantastic podcast which I was like, I don't know 13 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 1: if I've said it, but no, no, no, no, no, 14 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:46,879 Speaker 1: listen all everything works here. But your podcast and your 15 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:50,239 Speaker 1: Dreams is really creative and smart and I've watched and 16 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 1: it's brilliant. We were just talking about the setting. 17 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:53,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, is so cool. 18 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:55,880 Speaker 1: Like you're sitting in bed, just chit chat. 19 00:00:55,960 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 2: I'm in bed. My whole thing is that I don't sleep. 20 00:00:58,760 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 2: I sleep two hours a night. 21 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 1: This is interesting because I want to ask you about 22 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 1: that too. As you can see, I'm you know, I've 23 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:05,479 Speaker 1: got the or ring on here. So you don't even 24 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:06,440 Speaker 1: bother with that problem? 25 00:01:06,520 --> 00:01:11,400 Speaker 2: Wow? No, so you you you sleep? You're a sleeper. No, no, no, 26 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:11,959 Speaker 2: I am not. 27 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:13,680 Speaker 1: And this is why I'm curious to talk about this, 28 00:01:13,760 --> 00:01:17,240 Speaker 1: because I have tremendous anxiety, like a three or or 29 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:18,040 Speaker 1: four in the morning. 30 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 2: Why do you call me okay because I'm up? Sign 31 00:01:21,880 --> 00:01:24,840 Speaker 2: me I'm up to I I don't. I don't use 32 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:26,559 Speaker 2: that because it would just tell me that I'm dying. 33 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:31,479 Speaker 2: You should not that I'm dead. Yeah, yeah, right, Oh 34 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 2: my god. 35 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 1: Interesting. 36 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 2: It's anxiety. But it's more than that. I think. I 37 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 2: think I was like hardwired. My mom is like, well, 38 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:41,400 Speaker 2: it's a long I was adopted at birth, so basically 39 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 2: it can't be genetic, but somehow it is. Okay, it's nurture, 40 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 2: it's not nature. My mom sleeps two hours a night, 41 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 2: therefore I sleep two hours a night, but she sleeps 42 00:01:52,560 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 2: different two hours than me. I sleep four to six 43 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 2: and she sleeps like two to four. So like right 44 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 2: when I'm going to sleep, she's kind of waking up. 45 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 2: She's greening the day. 46 00:02:03,200 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 1: It's a perfect relationship. 47 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 2: That's great. It's the best in the world. 48 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:08,239 Speaker 1: I love that. Do you think because one one theory 49 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 1: I have is because my wife also struggles to get 50 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 1: to sleep because at a certain time of the evening 51 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:17,520 Speaker 1: and my son too. They kick into creative mode. So 52 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 1: come eleven o'clock, eleven thirty, she's suddenly getting amped up 53 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:23,640 Speaker 1: about stuff that she wants to do totally, totally, and 54 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 1: I think, and I'm wondering, does that happen to me? 55 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:28,639 Speaker 2: I wish that happened to me, that it would mean 56 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 2: that I have creative thoughts. No, sometimes it does. Like 57 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 2: the podcast me not Sleeping and then turning it into 58 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 2: a podcast where I talk to people about not sleeping 59 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 2: in the middle of the night. That all came to 60 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 2: me in the middle of the night when I couldn't sleep. Okay, 61 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 2: but that was kind of the last creative thought I had. 62 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, but ideas. I think it's strange because ideas they 63 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:52,519 Speaker 1: come to me like in that time. So if I 64 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:53,960 Speaker 1: wake up and i'm mining on I'm trying to get 65 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 1: back to sleep, if I'm working on something, that's when 66 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:58,000 Speaker 1: I say, okay, I'm going to run through the scenes 67 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:01,680 Speaker 1: in my brain. Total it's a dialoge or you'll have 68 00:03:01,720 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 1: it like an idea like oh I got to do 69 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:08,160 Speaker 1: this or don't forget to do that. It is definitely yeah, 70 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:10,360 Speaker 1: like an OCD thing. It's just it's like, oh gotta, 71 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: like I gotta. 72 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:13,800 Speaker 2: I am an inventor at night, Like I come up 73 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:15,959 Speaker 2: with new inventions in the middle. 74 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 1: Of the night kind of invention, so elaborate. 75 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 2: They're not good. 76 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 1: Well, nothing is. Just like the songwriters that think they 77 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 1: have the greatest song and they sing a few things 78 00:03:24,320 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 1: into a microphone and you get up in the morning and. 79 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:31,080 Speaker 2: It's like you're like, yeah, yeah, yeah, little star, and 80 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:32,560 Speaker 2: you're like, I came up with that. I came up 81 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 2: with this genius idea. I actually think it's genius. Okay, 82 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 2: it's called the pro file. So it's an electronic nail 83 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:44,120 Speaker 2: filer that you put on your finger on your on 84 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 2: your hand right and you can click square, round, diamond, 85 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 2: like any shape you want, almond, whatever, and it does it, 86 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 2: and there's a safety feature. Don't worry, it won't hurt you. 87 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 2: And then boom, you take it off and your nail's 88 00:03:56,600 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 2: perfectly filed. I'm sorry, that's brilliant. 89 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 1: It's a brilliant I think I'm going to suggest that 90 00:04:02,160 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 1: to the Fallout crew. But the problem is it will 91 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 1: go wrong because it will put it on and the 92 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 1: finger will be down to here. It's like it was 93 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 1: a little too aggressive. 94 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 2: It's hilarious, I think mine, Yeah, that would happen to me, 95 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 2: by the way, I would be the face of something 96 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 2: that like, yeah, literally they come out with no fingers. Yeah, 97 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:23,279 Speaker 2: well yeah, well my nails look good, complete no fingers. 98 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 2: I think it's really smart. Yeah, I think there's something 99 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 2: smart about it. 100 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 1: I think you well, and because you can just do 101 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:31,479 Speaker 1: it without even sort of while you're doing other things right. 102 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 2: Exactly, And who doesn't be that you doing exactly? And 103 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 2: I know my dad doesn't like to go into manicures 104 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 2: because he thinks it not because of he just thinks 105 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 2: it takes too long. He's like, I don't like to 106 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:44,720 Speaker 2: sit there for forty five minutes, right, So I think 107 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 2: this would be great for him. 108 00:04:45,680 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 1: That's perfect. He could compose and do all the things 109 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 1: he's he's an amazing composer. I mean, you know, that's 110 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 1: very cool. Growing up was music around the house all 111 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 1: the time. 112 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:59,119 Speaker 2: Oh my god. It was so frustrating. I couldn't do anything. 113 00:04:59,160 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 2: I would get home from from school and my dad 114 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:03,640 Speaker 2: would be playing the piano and be like, come sit 115 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 2: with me, listen to this. 116 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 1: It was so beautiful. Now you look back and go, oh, well. 117 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:11,839 Speaker 2: Right now, I'm like, oh my god, what a sweet time. 118 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 2: When I was in it, I was like, hey, I 119 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 2: actually only want to listen to Kesha, Like why are 120 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:17,720 Speaker 2: you playing like this? 121 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:18,239 Speaker 1: This whatever? 122 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 2: Right exactly, I'm like, I don't care about this. Yeah, yeah, 123 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 2: you know it was. It was frustrating. But he's a 124 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 2: great musician. 125 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's wonderful. 126 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:26,680 Speaker 2: He can play any instrument. You give him an instrumental 127 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 2: play it. 128 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 1: That is a skill I wish I had. I mean, 129 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 1: I can play a little piano, a little guitar. 130 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:32,720 Speaker 2: That's you can play instrument. 131 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 1: That's a fit. But but no wind instruments. Don't ask 132 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 1: me to do anything crazy. 133 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 2: If you could just pick up a violin, my dad could. 134 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:42,600 Speaker 1: Though. The thing that people that they have this this 135 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:45,920 Speaker 1: skill set something and what is it? He obviously had it. Yeah, 136 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:47,599 Speaker 1: how's this bagpipe? 137 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 2: So that's well, the bagpipes are rusting, no joking. I've 138 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:53,040 Speaker 2: actually never I wish he was here so we could 139 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 2: throw some bagpipes. Yeah. No, I'm good with the tambourine 140 00:05:58,560 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 2: and that's about. 141 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:02,040 Speaker 1: That's tricky and c thank you. Don't let them think 142 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:04,279 Speaker 1: it's not. Because there's the shaking and the rattling and 143 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 1: the timing and the different ok. 144 00:06:05,880 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 2: I'm not doing that. I'm my leg every once in 145 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:10,360 Speaker 2: a while and hopefully it's on beat. 146 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 1: Your favorite song is my green tambourine. That's what I know. 147 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 2: Yes, well, of course. 148 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:19,039 Speaker 1: Okay, so listen you You've had a very interesting upbringing childhood. 149 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:21,719 Speaker 1: Was there a moment I just asked this question the 150 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 1: core memory, Okay, moment you're like, hey, I think this 151 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:28,279 Speaker 1: is what I either what I want to do, or 152 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 1: an inkling or something that inspired you. Is there anything 153 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:33,599 Speaker 1: that comes to mind? 154 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,560 Speaker 2: You imagine I cry for views. No, I'm not going 155 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:37,040 Speaker 2: to do that. 156 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 1: Everything's allowed here. 157 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 2: There was hair We did hairspray at my elementary school. 158 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 2: Oh wow, And I was eleven, and I really really 159 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:52,360 Speaker 2: really wanted to be the lead of Hairspray. I didn't 160 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:54,839 Speaker 2: want to be Seaweed. I was like, no, that's you know, 161 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:57,360 Speaker 2: I didn't want I was like, that's a minor role 162 00:06:57,960 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 2: in comparison to Tracy Ternblatt. I was like, I need 163 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:02,400 Speaker 2: to be Tracy term Black. You're already like, well, I 164 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:03,839 Speaker 2: needed to be the star of the show. And so 165 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 2: I remember auditioning and they were like, what's going on here? 166 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:11,040 Speaker 2: I think My drama teacher was like, one, it's a 167 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 2: show about segregation. Shit, like, how would this even work 168 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 2: like this? And I caught the role and I was 169 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 2: they gave me Tracy, which is crazy, and I think 170 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 2: that's when I was like, oh, I want to do 171 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 2: this and I want to defy whatever is supposed to be, 172 00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 2: you know, And so the show didn't make any sense. 173 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 2: No one knew what was happening at all. It was 174 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 2: literally about segregation and there was a white Seaweed and 175 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 2: a black Tracy. It made no sense. The show didn't 176 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 2: track at all. My mom was like, what's going on here? 177 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:44,560 Speaker 2: But it was so fun to do and I think 178 00:07:44,600 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 2: that's that's really the moment where I was like, this 179 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 2: is what I want to do for the rest of 180 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 2: my life. And then I pivoted to acting, not plays, 181 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 2: but still the same thing. I just knew I wanted to. Yeah, 182 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 2: I was like, I want to to do something that 183 00:07:57,520 --> 00:08:01,520 Speaker 2: isn't necessarily what people think should it should be, you know. 184 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, very confident. 185 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 2: I was overly confident. I wish I had that now, 186 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 2: honestly I don't have that. 187 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 1: There is something great about that, right, the confidence as 188 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 1: a kid, right, you have it. I didn't have it, 189 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 1: you didn't. But I recognize my son. He's seventeen. He's 190 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 1: very confident. Really sometimes I'm like, where do you get 191 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:21,440 Speaker 1: this from? I don't know, And it's really my wife's dad, 192 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 1: I think, because he was very, very common. 193 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 2: But seventeen is still a it's old enough. I think 194 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 2: that's when I lost my confidence. For sixteen is when 195 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:32,520 Speaker 2: I lost my confidence. Okay, yeah, so it's amazing that 196 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 2: he still. 197 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 1: It's it's remarkable and we're like, okay, go the creative 198 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:39,560 Speaker 1: community and I was going to talk about that. I mean, 199 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:41,520 Speaker 1: we're sort of jumping all over the place, but yeah, 200 00:08:41,559 --> 00:08:44,599 Speaker 1: there's a community he created with overcompensating of course, so 201 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:46,559 Speaker 1: many of his friends, people that he knew, and he 202 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 1: just welcomed me into that world. Yeah, and it's kind 203 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:51,960 Speaker 1: of led to this podcast in this process. 204 00:08:52,120 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 2: It's amazing. 205 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:54,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's just an extraordinary person. 206 00:08:54,600 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 2: He's the best and he is a great connector. Yeah, 207 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:59,840 Speaker 2: he's a great connector. There's very few he like doesn't 208 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:02,959 Speaker 2: gate keep anyone in his life, which is such a 209 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 2: beautiful quality. I feel like I gate keep every every 210 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 2: best friend that I have, I'm like in their mind 211 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:10,880 Speaker 2: and you never know them that is so interesting, which 212 00:09:10,920 --> 00:09:13,840 Speaker 2: is so not him, which is the most beautiful, perfect 213 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:15,320 Speaker 2: quality and a human being. 214 00:09:15,400 --> 00:09:17,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I hadn't thought about like that, but you're absolutely. 215 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 1: My wife shares that, which, which is amazing. Doesn't gate 216 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 1: keep it all. She likes, let's get these people together 217 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 1: because whatever that combination is going to be better. And 218 00:09:24,679 --> 00:09:26,560 Speaker 1: I feel like Benny, now that you're talking. 219 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:28,719 Speaker 2: He does that same thing. Whereas I'm like, if I'm 220 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:30,440 Speaker 2: in a room with someone and let's say my best 221 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 2: friend brings their new friend, I'm like, uh, we won't 222 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 2: be speaking, you know. I'm like, nope, I like, I 223 00:09:36,360 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 2: just and it's such a bad quality, but I I 224 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:41,240 Speaker 2: love that. Benny's like every person should be in this, 225 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 2: and everyone I live. 226 00:09:42,280 --> 00:09:44,360 Speaker 1: You're just caution, you know what I mean. I think 227 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:47,959 Speaker 1: it's just let's prove yourself. Totally kind of you totally. 228 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 2: Benny's not like that. No, Benny's like, let's let's see, 229 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:54,439 Speaker 2: let's see what we can build together. Yeah, the best quality. 230 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, it is. It's a good It's an intant quality. 231 00:09:56,520 --> 00:09:58,320 Speaker 1: And I love that you bring it up because I'm like, 232 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:01,080 Speaker 1: there's something I know. I liked him when I first 233 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:03,680 Speaker 1: met him. And the way he tells his story. 234 00:10:04,480 --> 00:10:07,320 Speaker 2: You know, it's so you're so amazing in that show. 235 00:10:08,000 --> 00:10:08,400 Speaker 1: Thank you. 236 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:11,000 Speaker 2: I really you're so so much so. 237 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 1: You too, My god, you create this aura you have, 238 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:17,000 Speaker 1: you have an aura when you come on and when 239 00:10:17,040 --> 00:10:20,440 Speaker 1: you're there, it's like very specific and very cool and 240 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:24,440 Speaker 1: very charismatic and very engaging. It's just like who you 241 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:27,280 Speaker 1: lean in. I find much of leaning in when you're 242 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 1: on screen that's going on with you're lying amazed. 243 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:35,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeh, that's that's how I feel about you, times 244 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:36,400 Speaker 2: one hundred. 245 00:10:37,080 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 1: Heart wish we could say the same thing about Benny. 246 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 2: But I know, I know he lacks charismas. 247 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 1: I know that guy and a body. 248 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:50,440 Speaker 2: Why I know? I keep telling him get to the gym? 249 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 1: Does you go anywhere else? 250 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:56,679 Speaker 2: That's my question? And Terry too, the best partner. 251 00:10:58,120 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 1: The fact that there are so many gen Z years on, 252 00:11:00,720 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 1: we're compensating, and I feel like a couple of things. 253 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:05,840 Speaker 1: I feel like, first of all, it's introducing the world 254 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:08,959 Speaker 1: to the whole new generation kind of in this piece 255 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 1: in this show. But that the story itself, I feel 256 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 1: it's different than any other story we've sort of seen 257 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:19,680 Speaker 1: about coming out. You know what, I mean because there's 258 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:22,920 Speaker 1: a sense of humor to it. There's great heart, so 259 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 1: it's it's really Benny expressing kind of the will I 260 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:31,600 Speaker 1: be accepted? Will will I be totally embraced totally? And 261 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:33,320 Speaker 1: then it feels like kind of once he sort of 262 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:36,960 Speaker 1: broke through that, then he was like free to be himself, 263 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? And totally it's all of 264 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 1: that leading up to that that we've seen so far. 265 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 2: Thank god Amazon gave us a second season because I 266 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:47,960 Speaker 2: feel like we've now we're now at the point where 267 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 2: Benny does get to explore his new found sexuality and 268 00:11:54,600 --> 00:11:56,440 Speaker 2: dive into that and what that looks like for him, 269 00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 2: and which is so exciting. I feel like the humor 270 00:11:59,800 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 2: is is very millennial. There's a lot of references from 271 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 2: when he was growing, when he was in college and 272 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:07,640 Speaker 2: and I think it's so brilliant. But I also think 273 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 2: it relates to a lot of gen Z kids. I 274 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:13,720 Speaker 2: don't know if I'm gen Z. I always think I'm Cusp, 275 00:12:14,040 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 2: but I'm I am. 276 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:18,360 Speaker 1: I think there's a crossover similar I'm. 277 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 2: A Cusper, I think yeah. But anyways, I think that 278 00:12:20,800 --> 00:12:24,679 Speaker 2: it spans just millennial. It like you know, it's it's 279 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:27,320 Speaker 2: bigger than one little sect, which I think is amazing. 280 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:29,520 Speaker 2: I think gen Z kids are going through this right now, 281 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:32,920 Speaker 2: and that's beautiful to watch. And then I think millennial 282 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 2: kids are laughing because they went through it, you know, 283 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:35,840 Speaker 2: they went through it. 284 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but it seems like there's more appreciation or 285 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:44,240 Speaker 1: understanding or knowledge. Yeah. Maybe it just becomes more common 286 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:47,440 Speaker 1: in a way. I mean it's every individual is different, 287 00:12:47,559 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 1: every but more accepted. I agree, Yeah, definitely, which I 288 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 1: think is really amazing. It was one of the things 289 00:12:52,520 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 1: I was talking to had Noah, Noah. 290 00:12:56,200 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 2: Personal amazing to keep that in no. 291 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 1: Charisma, charisma geez. I know, we were talking a little 292 00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:05,600 Speaker 1: bit about gen Z and the kind of you know, 293 00:13:05,640 --> 00:13:08,559 Speaker 1: this term multi hyphen it, you know, which is fine. 294 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 1: But I really do feel like, compared to my generation, 295 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 1: you're an actor. Yeah, maybe you produce something maybe or 296 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:19,640 Speaker 1: direct something, but you stay here. And today I feel like, 297 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:21,440 Speaker 1: now I do this, and I have this show, and 298 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:23,720 Speaker 1: I talk about that, and I've got all these different 299 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:28,720 Speaker 1: things going on just because curiosity, why not totally let's 300 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:31,040 Speaker 1: let's explore and find out kind of what's happening. And 301 00:13:31,120 --> 00:13:33,839 Speaker 1: I just feel like that is so refreshing totally. And 302 00:13:34,080 --> 00:13:35,800 Speaker 1: I don't know if you feel I feel. 303 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:39,120 Speaker 2: I feel I feel amazing, No, I feel great. I 304 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:41,640 Speaker 2: feel Yeah, I love that. I think in the the 305 00:13:41,679 --> 00:13:45,320 Speaker 2: era of an entrepreneur, and I think like every which 306 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:47,720 Speaker 2: I think is great. And I think you can be 307 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:50,960 Speaker 2: an actor and you can write on the show or 308 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 2: be an actor that writes poetry or like you, there's 309 00:13:54,600 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 2: so many and you're accepted for all of the different things, 310 00:13:58,200 --> 00:14:01,160 Speaker 2: you know, And I think Noah Beck, speaking of somebody 311 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 2: who does a million things, he's very heavily into sports. 312 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:07,200 Speaker 2: He was a soccer player and now he's an actor, 313 00:14:07,320 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 2: but he's like, but I haven't given up soccer, Like 314 00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:11,320 Speaker 2: he still plays soccer and still wants to do that. 315 00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:14,360 Speaker 2: And I think it's like you can hold a million things. 316 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:17,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a different vibe from my generation totally, and 317 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 1: I just I think it's so refreshing. I mean, we 318 00:14:19,520 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 1: had interests and things that we did, but not something 319 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 1: that you're necessarily putting out there for the world to 320 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 1: engage with or comment on or be a part of. Totally, 321 00:14:28,880 --> 00:14:30,440 Speaker 1: an entrepreneur, I think is a perfect word. 322 00:14:30,600 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 2: And honestly, thanks to the Kardashians, I think They've done 323 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:36,240 Speaker 2: a hundred things, and I think you're kind of in 324 00:14:36,280 --> 00:14:40,000 Speaker 2: the in this new era, which is which is great. 325 00:14:40,120 --> 00:14:44,240 Speaker 1: That's an interesting observation because I do think they were 326 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:49,280 Speaker 1: early to this totally. And yeah, and Chris was, I mean, 327 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 1: she's amazing. 328 00:14:50,040 --> 00:14:53,320 Speaker 2: She's amazing. She's amazing. But I do think there's I 329 00:14:53,680 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 2: get it. When I said to my grandma that I 330 00:14:55,920 --> 00:14:58,160 Speaker 2: wanted to be an actor, she was like, I thought, 331 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:00,000 Speaker 2: you you sing? You know what I mean? And I'm 332 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 2: was like that slut and she was like, I was like, 333 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:03,960 Speaker 2: I want to write. And she was like, but you, 334 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 2: but now you act like she didn't understand that there 335 00:15:07,160 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 2: could be one hundred things. 336 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:11,080 Speaker 1: Your grandmother was Was she the bride? 337 00:15:11,240 --> 00:15:13,720 Speaker 2: You're right, okay, Grace Kelly's bridesmaid, I. 338 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 1: Mean crazy yeah, from. 339 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 2: La, from lak So. I was adopted into this family 340 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:23,000 Speaker 2: early on. I was zero, so I don't know very early. 341 00:15:23,440 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 2: I was zero when I was adopted, and I always 342 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:28,400 Speaker 2: joked that I was shipped out to LA, but it's 343 00:15:28,440 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 2: not true. I was. My parents took me and I 344 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:35,640 Speaker 2: landed in LA with a dream and a bag. Co 345 00:15:38,280 --> 00:15:40,680 Speaker 2: It's very much Miley Cyrus party in the USA is 346 00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:43,000 Speaker 2: kind of written about me hopped up the plane at 347 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:46,600 Speaker 2: La X and kind of it's so weird because is 348 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 2: it nature? Is it nurture? Why am I such a 349 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:52,320 Speaker 2: performer when my dad is a musician and my mom 350 00:15:52,400 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 2: is a writer and and my grandma is like was 351 00:15:56,640 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 2: that innate or was that given to me through that? Like, yeah, 352 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:01,600 Speaker 2: it's this weird. 353 00:16:01,640 --> 00:16:04,400 Speaker 1: In question because you don't have any contact with yours. 354 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:07,320 Speaker 2: I don't. I don't know. And I just got a 355 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:10,320 Speaker 2: d M a few days ago from somebody saying I 356 00:16:10,360 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 2: think I'm your sister. Can you imagine that's that's I 357 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 2: literally had a panic attack. Well also I had a 358 00:16:18,800 --> 00:16:21,320 Speaker 2: panic attack because they were a private They were a 359 00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:24,520 Speaker 2: private Instagram and their profile pick was of a SpongeBob, 360 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:33,440 Speaker 2: so I was like, of course, wow, No, I was like, 361 00:16:33,720 --> 00:16:35,320 Speaker 2: show your face so I can see what I look 362 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:37,920 Speaker 2: like as a woman. Yeah, I need to see this. 363 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:40,560 Speaker 2: I didn't respond, and I should and I will probably, 364 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:44,840 Speaker 2: but I know I have no contact as of right 365 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 2: now with them, and my mom is always My parents 366 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:49,280 Speaker 2: are both like if you ever want to meet, like, 367 00:16:49,360 --> 00:16:52,240 Speaker 2: they're very supportive of anything I want to do. Great, 368 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 2: but it is very weird that I was brought into 369 00:16:56,360 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 2: this very creative home and obviously have some you know, 370 00:17:03,160 --> 00:17:06,760 Speaker 2: weird innate thing to perform. And my parents nurtured that 371 00:17:07,000 --> 00:17:08,240 Speaker 2: or is I don't. 372 00:17:08,400 --> 00:17:10,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, well they must have seen it as you were, 373 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 1: you know, one, two, three, four. Then you can begin 374 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:14,159 Speaker 1: to see the signs like they want to you know, 375 00:17:14,200 --> 00:17:16,600 Speaker 1: there's an engagement with that kind of yeah, you know, 376 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:18,320 Speaker 1: being kind of center of attention. 377 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:21,800 Speaker 2: Exactly, exactly being the narcissist of the family. My Benny 378 00:17:21,840 --> 00:17:25,440 Speaker 2: has a video of him singing Lucky by Britney Spears, 379 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:28,360 Speaker 2: like dancing doing the choreography. And I have that exact 380 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 2: video when I was three years old to I'm a 381 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:34,439 Speaker 2: slave for you with a fake snake like my my, 382 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:36,600 Speaker 2: I'm lifting my shirt up, I'm like making it a 383 00:17:36,600 --> 00:17:38,919 Speaker 2: bra I'm like, I like wanted to be Britney's like 384 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 2: I was that, And so I think my parents were like, 385 00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 2: you're gay, no, like you want to perform like okay, okay, 386 00:17:46,359 --> 00:17:49,480 Speaker 2: But they were like be you, yeah, exactly, be you. 387 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:51,159 Speaker 1: Which is the most important thing you can do as 388 00:17:51,160 --> 00:17:54,040 Speaker 1: a parent. Just let them be who they are exactly. 389 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:54,399 Speaker 1: You know. 390 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:56,320 Speaker 2: I don't know why I derailed it to this. 391 00:17:56,560 --> 00:17:59,679 Speaker 1: No, no, no, I'm I it's you know, I mean 392 00:17:59,720 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 1: part of a Yeah, it's perfect, it's perfect, and it's 393 00:18:02,920 --> 00:18:04,879 Speaker 1: in a journey. Curious about the journey. 394 00:18:04,920 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 2: The journey's crazy. The journey's been crazy. But we're here 395 00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:12,960 Speaker 2: now and I'm on your amazing podcast and. 396 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 1: And we're having fun. Listen. I read something about your 397 00:18:14,560 --> 00:18:16,520 Speaker 1: dream role is as a housewife. I don't know if 398 00:18:16,520 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 1: this is this is true any kind of housewife? Maybe 399 00:18:19,880 --> 00:18:22,280 Speaker 1: hasn't an ode to one of the shows that I 400 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:25,440 Speaker 1: was on about housewives Hoives of course. 401 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:27,760 Speaker 2: By the way, my favorite show ever. Do you want 402 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:29,679 Speaker 2: to know something? And you might want to cut this 403 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:32,439 Speaker 2: because this might not be interesting. A very dear family 404 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:35,680 Speaker 2: friend is Bob Daily. Oh, yes you know him, Yes, 405 00:18:35,720 --> 00:18:38,360 Speaker 2: I do, wrote on the show. Yes, he loves you. Oh. 406 00:18:39,960 --> 00:18:41,480 Speaker 2: I told him I was coming on your podcast, and 407 00:18:41,480 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 2: he was like, I'm so jealous he would come on 408 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:45,000 Speaker 2: the podcast. 409 00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:47,800 Speaker 1: But well, get him, you know, aging down and it'll 410 00:18:47,800 --> 00:18:51,200 Speaker 1: be okay. He is delightful. Everybody on that show is great. 411 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 2: I would love to be a desperate housewife. 412 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:58,800 Speaker 1: It would be amazing. Wasn't who wasn't? Wait? Is Carrie Washington? 413 00:18:58,800 --> 00:19:01,159 Speaker 1: Is she doing something? Did I read something about that 414 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:02,560 Speaker 1: reboot reboot. 415 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:06,520 Speaker 2: She's doing a reboot of Desperate Housewife. First, he's gone, 416 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:09,760 Speaker 2: he's auditioning, He's got. I'm freaking out. You're like my 417 00:19:09,840 --> 00:19:12,720 Speaker 2: own Okay, oh god, I need to play her gay 418 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:14,760 Speaker 2: son who then becomes a housewive. There you go, a 419 00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 2: sea lane. 420 00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:17,440 Speaker 1: Let's get this podcast. 421 00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:19,840 Speaker 2: You're lying. It's called the Steria Lane. You want to 422 00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:22,520 Speaker 2: call on your ant? Yeah, Ship, I don't even on 423 00:19:22,520 --> 00:19:24,000 Speaker 2: my phone and I don't have her number. 424 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:26,000 Speaker 1: Carry got, We're gonna help. We're gonna help. 425 00:19:26,240 --> 00:19:27,160 Speaker 2: You have to be on that. 426 00:19:27,720 --> 00:19:30,120 Speaker 1: It would be fun. I like Carrie so much. 427 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:35,040 Speaker 2: She's like knowing you being like, I like Carry Washington. 428 00:19:35,160 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 1: I thought I thought I ran into Carry. We were 429 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 1: we were shopping. I think we were shopping. It wasn't 430 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:44,399 Speaker 1: it Whole Foods or something was happier. It's like Ralphs 431 00:19:44,480 --> 00:19:46,480 Speaker 1: or something like that. And there was Carrie. She's just 432 00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:48,439 Speaker 1: walking into sweats and he said, hey, Carry said, oh 433 00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:50,080 Speaker 1: my god, how are you you know? 434 00:19:50,359 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 2: So sweet? 435 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:55,199 Speaker 1: You both route two actors, you know, shopping as you do? 436 00:19:55,960 --> 00:19:58,760 Speaker 1: She was, I actually do, but I have to be 437 00:19:58,760 --> 00:20:00,919 Speaker 1: in the mood. I like to I like to cook, 438 00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:03,800 Speaker 1: so I like to go with a intent. You know, 439 00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 1: I'm going to the grocery store and I'm going to 440 00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:08,520 Speaker 1: get this, this, thiseness to prepare a thing, you know what 441 00:20:08,560 --> 00:20:10,600 Speaker 1: I mean. So I like that, but it's time consuming, 442 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:12,479 Speaker 1: but I do love it. You like to cook? Are 443 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:15,639 Speaker 1: you new you near cooking? 444 00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 2: I used a pan that I shouldn't have used. I 445 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:20,840 Speaker 2: didn't realize it was there's a certain pan that you 446 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:23,159 Speaker 2: put in the microwave. Do you know this? Yes, that 447 00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:26,400 Speaker 2: you like cover? So I put that. 448 00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:30,200 Speaker 1: Over the paint, okay, thinking it would ye, thinking it 449 00:20:30,240 --> 00:20:31,320 Speaker 1: would keep keep it. 450 00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:36,040 Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm sorry, I'm an inventor. And it melted and 451 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:39,919 Speaker 2: then it actually melted onto the to the stove, and 452 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:41,800 Speaker 2: then it was so hot that it was burning the stove. 453 00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:45,760 Speaker 2: It was a disaster. So my landlord came over to 454 00:20:45,800 --> 00:20:47,320 Speaker 2: fix something else, and then she was like, hey, so 455 00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 2: the stove's burnt melted, And then I was like. 456 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:52,159 Speaker 1: What, So did you say anything? You were just like, 457 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:52,440 Speaker 1: oh no. 458 00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:53,359 Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know that. 459 00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 1: I guess I can't use that for a while. 460 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:59,119 Speaker 2: Exactly exactly, So that's kind of She's like, I'll fix it. 461 00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:01,600 Speaker 2: She fixed it very kind, but I haven't touched it since. 462 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:03,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, okay, maybe time to get back on the horse. 463 00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:04,520 Speaker 1: You could do it. 464 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:07,359 Speaker 2: I do this weird thing where when I'm at a restaurant, 465 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:10,760 Speaker 2: I don't finish my food, but I'll take it to 466 00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 2: go and then in the car I'll eat it. I 467 00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:14,760 Speaker 2: have like a weird thing. I'm like, I like to 468 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:17,399 Speaker 2: be like cozy when I eat. I think, so, I like. 469 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:20,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I had years and years and years ago friend 470 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:24,520 Speaker 1: and they had a room with a giant bed, like 471 00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:27,520 Speaker 1: a two or three times size really, and so you 472 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:29,720 Speaker 1: could watch TV, you could hang on. They had kids 473 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:31,439 Speaker 1: and hang out with the kids, and then everybody just 474 00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 1: fell asleep. You, I mean, here's here's a thought. So 475 00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:38,400 Speaker 1: I'm just you know, I'm just getting started on my podcast. 476 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:42,520 Speaker 1: Do you have any like, you know, advice or thoughts 477 00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:44,359 Speaker 1: or advice or like this has worked for me, or 478 00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:48,080 Speaker 1: just nothing. Just have a conversation. Not that I've modeled 479 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:50,240 Speaker 1: it after you, but I think you've taken the right 480 00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:53,439 Speaker 1: direction into what I'm falling into naturally, which is just 481 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:55,960 Speaker 1: really a conversation. So you start with a few questions, 482 00:21:56,000 --> 00:21:57,400 Speaker 1: you have a few prompts, and then you just kind 483 00:21:57,400 --> 00:21:58,280 Speaker 1: of let's go. 484 00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:01,040 Speaker 2: Well, so you know, my whole thing is there are 485 00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:07,640 Speaker 2: people who can ask unbelievably detailed, perfect questions, and those 486 00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:10,520 Speaker 2: are the Alex Coopers of the world, and they're amazing 487 00:22:10,560 --> 00:22:13,000 Speaker 2: at what they do. I do the opposite, where I 488 00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:17,399 Speaker 2: make people very uncomfortable and I don't think so. No, 489 00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:23,000 Speaker 2: I like to just talk and there's a clickbaity thing 490 00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:24,960 Speaker 2: that comes out of it. That's fun, and that's great, 491 00:22:25,000 --> 00:22:27,879 Speaker 2: and more clicks for me great, but that's not what 492 00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:31,080 Speaker 2: I'm in it for. I'm actually like very much in 493 00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:33,479 Speaker 2: it to just talk to my friends. It started as 494 00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:36,840 Speaker 2: a podcast for just me and my friends, really like 495 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:39,719 Speaker 2: I just I had you know, Benny on it, and 496 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:41,920 Speaker 2: I had Rachel Sen it and I'm a Chamberlain and 497 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:43,760 Speaker 2: I had just my best friends sitting in a bed 498 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:48,320 Speaker 2: with me talking. And then now it's become more like, Oh, 499 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:50,480 Speaker 2: I'm actually really interested in this person. Can we get 500 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:54,160 Speaker 2: them on just so I can talk to them? My podcast, yes, 501 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:57,400 Speaker 2: is all just a conversation, and people get really bored 502 00:22:57,440 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 2: of it. People are like, hey, wanted to hear something juicy. Oh, 503 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:03,119 Speaker 2: that's just not what you're gonna do. 504 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:05,680 Speaker 1: No, No, the same thing here, I really want. I 505 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:07,480 Speaker 1: don't want it to be that way, and as you said, 506 00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:10,200 Speaker 1: it's sort of wherever we drift, wherever the guests comfortable 507 00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:12,879 Speaker 1: talking or uncomfortable talking. It's like and sharing stuff and 508 00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 1: sharing stories. That's really kind of the whole point of it. 509 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:17,840 Speaker 2: So totally, totally, so all to say, I think you're 510 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:19,440 Speaker 2: doing great. I don't have any advice for you. I 511 00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 2: think you should call ale Skipper. 512 00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:25,359 Speaker 1: Yeah she's yeah, she is. She's amazing. I saw her 513 00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:27,679 Speaker 1: as she didn't talk recently that I was at, and 514 00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:30,840 Speaker 1: journalists like you said, like, really, she's a businesswoman. 515 00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:34,240 Speaker 2: I'm part of the Unwell network under her technically. So 516 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:37,919 Speaker 2: she took us all to Unwell Vegas, which is like 517 00:23:38,000 --> 00:23:38,560 Speaker 2: a trip. 518 00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:41,600 Speaker 1: Oh she was at so funny. She was at Google 519 00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:44,120 Speaker 1: is that geist? Just before? And then she was going 520 00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:46,240 Speaker 1: to Vegas that same day that I saw her. 521 00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:49,320 Speaker 2: See that's what I mean. Who goes to Google to 522 00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:52,000 Speaker 2: do a panel and then goes to Vegas to host 523 00:23:52,000 --> 00:23:55,360 Speaker 2: an event? Like that's insane. So she was at Vegas 524 00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:58,000 Speaker 2: and all I was just looking around at all these 525 00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 2: people Unwell talent they're called, like, who all have podcasts 526 00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:03,240 Speaker 2: And I was like, oh my god, this is like 527 00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:07,719 Speaker 2: you've built a network that's crazy. That's really crazy. It's 528 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:11,320 Speaker 2: really smart agency and now an ad agency. And yeah, 529 00:24:11,400 --> 00:24:14,480 Speaker 2: like she's partnered. She partnered with serious exam and it's 530 00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:17,000 Speaker 2: just like she's there's I can't say. 531 00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:25,080 Speaker 1: This partnerships building those partnerships. Tell me about his face tune? 532 00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:27,120 Speaker 1: How does this work? Can you? I need a phone 533 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:27,320 Speaker 1: for it? 534 00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:31,000 Speaker 2: I have my phone. I oh my god, my dad 535 00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:33,840 Speaker 2: texted me a hundred times everything. Can you text your 536 00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:35,240 Speaker 2: dad and ask if he does know how to play 537 00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:37,280 Speaker 2: the bagpipes? Because then we would know that's call him. 538 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:38,480 Speaker 2: Let's call my dad. 539 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:40,480 Speaker 1: I don't know why I asked that question. 540 00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,400 Speaker 2: I love it. It's brilliant. He's gonna be like, what 541 00:24:43,480 --> 00:24:48,560 Speaker 2: the hell, Dad, I'm on a podcast and so you're live? 542 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 1: Hello, I. 543 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:55,800 Speaker 2: Hi, how are you? He's so impressed. 544 00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:57,680 Speaker 1: I'm impressed. 545 00:24:57,680 --> 00:25:06,040 Speaker 2: Why is my son with somebody of your staf? Okay, dad, Dad, 546 00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:13,160 Speaker 2: do you know how to play the bagpipes? No? Could you? Maybe? 547 00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:15,800 Speaker 1: But it's not going to be I love that. 548 00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:18,400 Speaker 2: We were just I was just saying that you could 549 00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 2: probably play any instrument. 550 00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:24,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's amazing. Of course you could. Of course you. 551 00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:28,800 Speaker 2: Could, of course you could. Okay, Dad in the world, Well, 552 00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:31,720 Speaker 2: thank you I'm moving up in the world. He's so 553 00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:35,080 Speaker 2: impressed by the way. Anytime I'm I I've a dad, 554 00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:40,240 Speaker 2: I'm hanging up on you. I'm very, very How do 555 00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 2: I say this in a way that doesn't make me 556 00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:44,640 Speaker 2: seem like a total idiot. I got a Vogue interview 557 00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:46,359 Speaker 2: written about me, which was the biggest thing that's ever 558 00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:47,840 Speaker 2: happened to me, and I was literally crying to my 559 00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:50,359 Speaker 2: parents and I sent them and I was like facetiming them. 560 00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:54,600 Speaker 2: My dad literally was like this cool, I'm on your podcast. 561 00:25:54,680 --> 00:26:00,760 Speaker 2: My dad's he's literally becoming himself. It. I love that, 562 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 2: just a few moments that relationship. 563 00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 1: I love that he that you guys have that relationship 564 00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:07,120 Speaker 1: because it's like there's a teasing there, which I think 565 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:08,080 Speaker 1: is really great. 566 00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:11,879 Speaker 2: But very impressing. So thank you for honestly, you made 567 00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:15,120 Speaker 2: us closer, I think because of this, So thank you. Okay, 568 00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:16,560 Speaker 2: what do you want me to tell you about face tune? 569 00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:18,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, show me how to work this. 570 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 2: I am obsessed with it. 571 00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:22,720 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, and. 572 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:24,800 Speaker 2: It's so bad and I probably shouldn't say this publicly 573 00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:27,440 Speaker 2: because nobody should be. I want to make a disclaimer. 574 00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:31,520 Speaker 2: Nobody needs to face tune use your normal face. We 575 00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:35,640 Speaker 2: love natural features, right, we every all of that. I'm 576 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:36,200 Speaker 2: getting older. 577 00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:39,000 Speaker 1: I could use face too. Let's learn. 578 00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:41,320 Speaker 2: So let's take a photo of us. Can we take 579 00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:41,720 Speaker 2: a selfie? 580 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:42,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, scheck them over. 581 00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 2: Let's do like this, lean in Okay, okay, oh my god, 582 00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:53,000 Speaker 2: that is bad of me. So this is gonna be fun. 583 00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:58,320 Speaker 2: So then okay, you're gonna go face. Okay, so first 584 00:26:58,320 --> 00:27:00,520 Speaker 2: of all, we take this, let me put this on. 585 00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:02,280 Speaker 2: Do not just stir because my dad's texting me saying 586 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:05,760 Speaker 2: I cannot believe I just met Kyle. He's very happy. Okay, 587 00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,800 Speaker 2: So we can't do you because you look great. I 588 00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:10,200 Speaker 2: don't you look fabulous? 589 00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:11,119 Speaker 1: Strange? 590 00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:14,399 Speaker 2: You look great. Let's do me. So I looks to 591 00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:21,439 Speaker 2: your looks. I'm obsessed. Are you ready? And you get sharp, glance, fierce, gentle, blush, sleek, 592 00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:24,080 Speaker 2: charm or classic. These are the things I could click on. 593 00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 1: So let's click. 594 00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:27,359 Speaker 2: I usually like opression or is it no? This is 595 00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:30,080 Speaker 2: just for like what it does to your face. So 596 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:33,800 Speaker 2: I usually like blush. Okay, you can adjust that, so 597 00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:36,920 Speaker 2: you adjust it. Okay, let's do charm and see what happens. Okay, 598 00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:40,640 Speaker 2: I'm really obsessed. Charm makes you a little smirk. Charm 599 00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:42,680 Speaker 2: gives you a little smirk. Blush gives you a little 600 00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:46,320 Speaker 2: blushka sleek gives you a little eye. Sharp gives you 601 00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:49,680 Speaker 2: a little jaw. This is so I just gave myself so. 602 00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:52,080 Speaker 1: It's real subtle. It sounds like, are you can adjust it? 603 00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:54,439 Speaker 2: Well, it's subtle until I turned it to one hundred. 604 00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:57,840 Speaker 2: And I also retouch it so then you get all 605 00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:00,439 Speaker 2: the wrinkles out. I do. This is what I do 606 00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:01,400 Speaker 2: every single time I'm upset. 607 00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:03,000 Speaker 1: Oh, I see, so you can actually touch the screen 608 00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:03,320 Speaker 1: and move. 609 00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:06,159 Speaker 2: And you understand that when I send photos to my friends, 610 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:07,840 Speaker 2: I will have face tune them. 611 00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:11,440 Speaker 1: Yes, I'm sick, No, I understand. No, I'm not well, 612 00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:15,320 Speaker 1: I'm obses and now I'm going to be obsessed with it. 613 00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:16,080 Speaker 1: This is going to be kind. 614 00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:20,639 Speaker 2: I face tuned my auditions. There's videos. Wait, do you 615 00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:22,960 Speaker 2: want to hear the most embarrassing thing. The other day 616 00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:25,600 Speaker 2: I was doing press and they said like, can you 617 00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:27,639 Speaker 2: send us some photos for this article? And I was like, 618 00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:32,760 Speaker 2: of course, obviously face tuned sent it. It's said on 619 00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,360 Speaker 2: the title of the image was face tune one one 620 00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,680 Speaker 2: one one two two No. And then they wrote back 621 00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:43,800 Speaker 2: is this edited ghosted them? 622 00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 1: I'm not going to you. So do they have to 623 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:47,880 Speaker 1: put that on when they send it? You know, it's 624 00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:49,840 Speaker 1: like Getty images. You can't get rid of that. 625 00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:53,640 Speaker 2: Oh my god, can you imagine? I love face tune. 626 00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:56,960 Speaker 2: I love it. I I stand by it and I 627 00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:59,440 Speaker 2: a lot of people, and it is. It's very wrong. 628 00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:01,840 Speaker 2: I do. I really need to tell you it's wrong, 629 00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:05,040 Speaker 2: because we should all embrace our natural features. But not me, 630 00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:06,240 Speaker 2: not you. 631 00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:06,880 Speaker 1: You don't have to. 632 00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:09,600 Speaker 2: Sorry, but everyone else definitely should. And guess what when 633 00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:12,400 Speaker 2: you do a natural face. My mom posted a beautiful photo, 634 00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:16,520 Speaker 2: completely natural. Guess what I commented beautiful? Now I posted 635 00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:19,840 Speaker 2: a photo completely unnatural. She's gonna have to comment beautiful. 636 00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:22,600 Speaker 1: Yes, I could see your process. That's by the way, 637 00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:23,400 Speaker 1: your face is perfect. 638 00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:26,400 Speaker 2: It's not. And yeah, well it's not good, thank you. 639 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:28,520 Speaker 1: It is from in this like, well, we're going to. 640 00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:31,640 Speaker 2: Face this, right, the whole episode is going to. 641 00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:33,520 Speaker 1: Be face doing and we're going to voice tune it. 642 00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:36,760 Speaker 2: Well, so a voice to smart. 643 00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:38,680 Speaker 1: Although I do want to hear about your upcoming project. 644 00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:40,520 Speaker 1: I want to hear about this with Ilonic Brazers. 645 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:41,520 Speaker 2: I think she's going to love her. 646 00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:43,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Yeah. 647 00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:45,560 Speaker 2: It's my favorite person. It's it's it's about my life 648 00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:48,080 Speaker 2: growing up black and Jewish and gay in an all 649 00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:48,719 Speaker 2: white family. 650 00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:51,680 Speaker 1: Benny's is she is he kind of inspiration for you know, 651 00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:53,200 Speaker 1: he was telling kind of his story and. 652 00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:57,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely definitely. We we I mean, I think, what's 653 00:29:57,080 --> 00:30:01,200 Speaker 2: so amazing about this new kind of era of comedies 654 00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:05,400 Speaker 2: starting with Girls in Fleabag and Broad City and there's 655 00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:09,640 Speaker 2: just we're we're kind of ushering in diverse voices hopefully, 656 00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:12,200 Speaker 2: And it's been very cool to work with Amazon and 657 00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:16,480 Speaker 2: working with Amazon supportive and they've been so supportive and 658 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,680 Speaker 2: so positive. And here's the deal, if it never sees 659 00:30:18,680 --> 00:30:21,760 Speaker 2: the light of day, it's been amazing to work with Alana. 660 00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:25,280 Speaker 2: It's been wonderful. I it's it's working with an idol 661 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:28,280 Speaker 2: of mine. I watched Broad City growing up, probably my 662 00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:30,520 Speaker 2: my comfort show. I keep going back to it and 663 00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 2: it never gets old. And so to work with her 664 00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:34,520 Speaker 2: is a dream. 665 00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:35,040 Speaker 1: She's brilliant. 666 00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:37,800 Speaker 2: She's brilliant. And Susie Esmond's attached to play my mother, 667 00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:40,280 Speaker 2: and which is so funny because she played her mom 668 00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:44,440 Speaker 2: on Broad City. So it's like it's such a fun 669 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:47,520 Speaker 2: project and it's it's all funny, it's hard funny, but 670 00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:50,280 Speaker 2: also it is about me realizing I'm black in this 671 00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:53,080 Speaker 2: all white world. So there's of course some like moments. 672 00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:54,640 Speaker 2: Of course, of real. 673 00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:56,400 Speaker 1: You have to have. I mean, it overcomes any same thing. 674 00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:58,720 Speaker 1: You have to have moments otherwise the other stuff doesn't work. 675 00:30:58,760 --> 00:31:00,400 Speaker 2: Exactly. You have to have you have to have that. 676 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:02,680 Speaker 1: You know what's the pain, so you can have the 677 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:04,120 Speaker 1: fun totally totally. 678 00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:08,080 Speaker 2: So where's the trauma? Yes, yes, yes, And how did it? 679 00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:10,480 Speaker 1: How did it manifest? And how did you deal with it? 680 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:14,480 Speaker 2: Exactly exactly? And I dealt with it by being obsessively 681 00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 2: codependent with my mother which is why she slept in 682 00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:21,040 Speaker 2: my dorm for a week week but ever time my 683 00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,880 Speaker 2: boyfriend's away, she sleeps over at my house. No, it's 684 00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:26,280 Speaker 2: not all Kyle, It's very weird. No, But I'm definitely 685 00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:28,320 Speaker 2: inspired by Benny. I think what Benny has done with 686 00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:33,280 Speaker 2: his story by making it's obviously very very based on 687 00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:37,560 Speaker 2: his life, but also he's just added such color to 688 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:40,680 Speaker 2: it and the people he's brought in. He's brought in 689 00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:43,480 Speaker 2: all of his friends. It's like my dream, My dream 690 00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 2: is to make something where I'm like wait, I want 691 00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:49,800 Speaker 2: to put in plug in all my funniest best friends. Yeah, 692 00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:53,040 Speaker 2: talk about this, this this story that I've I've lived. 693 00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:56,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, and he makes them work as you will within 694 00:31:56,840 --> 00:32:00,680 Speaker 1: their they're they're not their personality necessarily. But you think 695 00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:03,920 Speaker 1: I think of think of Marybeth. It's like she's perfect 696 00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:07,600 Speaker 1: as his sister, and she's and in the family and 697 00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:11,239 Speaker 1: so she's being true to kind of her comedy, but 698 00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:14,720 Speaker 1: also true to the relationship within the family and what 699 00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:19,480 Speaker 1: that dynamic is. And I think that's where he's he's 700 00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:22,440 Speaker 1: really smart. It puts people in the in the place 701 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:23,040 Speaker 1: where they're going to be. 702 00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:25,640 Speaker 2: He lets them shine. It's like, this is where you'll shine. 703 00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:28,720 Speaker 2: If I have one percent of what Benny did right 704 00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,320 Speaker 2: and I get to do that, I will be happy, 705 00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:32,960 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like he I would. I 706 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:36,240 Speaker 2: would love that. But you know I'm in development. Development 707 00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:41,080 Speaker 2: takes forever, forever, forever. And let's see, we're going to. 708 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:41,720 Speaker 1: Be a lot older. 709 00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:43,920 Speaker 2: When I know I'm going to be I'm gonna be 710 00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:47,400 Speaker 2: like I'm obsessed with my mom. This ninety year old us. 711 00:32:49,240 --> 00:32:49,760 Speaker 2: That's a show. 712 00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:57,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a show. That's a show. Hey, Hey, everybody, 713 00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,760 Speaker 1: we're back we're back, believe it or not. We're dressed 714 00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:07,160 Speaker 1: in a cozy manner. Yes, I feel you look hot. 715 00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:10,400 Speaker 1: There it is. We have charls beautiful like scarves. 716 00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:13,040 Speaker 2: You look great. And it really is like a it's 717 00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:14,560 Speaker 2: a it's a snow. 718 00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:16,080 Speaker 1: It's nice right, kind of matches the blue. It's a 719 00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:17,920 Speaker 1: snow flake scar And I wore a sweater today which 720 00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:19,040 Speaker 1: I usually don't. It's great. 721 00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:21,480 Speaker 2: And a grinch hat you're wearing, yes, which is perfect 722 00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:21,800 Speaker 2: for me. 723 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:25,240 Speaker 1: And we have a beautiful like a little table here 724 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:29,600 Speaker 1: with with cocoa preparation. We're gonna make some hot chocolate 725 00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:32,280 Speaker 1: with some candy canes and we're going to continue with hotter. 726 00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:33,080 Speaker 1: Takes great. 727 00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:34,400 Speaker 2: All right, let's continue. 728 00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:36,480 Speaker 1: So you're ready, I'm gonna start throwing these. Do you 729 00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:38,720 Speaker 1: want any Yeah? Yeah? Dump some insurance fraud. 730 00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:42,880 Speaker 2: I'm not good with that kind of stuff. Okay, I'm 731 00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:44,480 Speaker 2: actually very bad with it, Kyle. 732 00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:47,600 Speaker 1: Where there's a deeper star, there's a deeper story here. 733 00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:52,800 Speaker 2: My car was towed recently, oh, because I didn't pay 734 00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:55,400 Speaker 2: my registration and then my insurance and blah blah blah. 735 00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:59,240 Speaker 2: Basically I couldn't get it out and it was a lot. Oh, No, 736 00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:00,600 Speaker 2: that's awful for days. 737 00:34:00,760 --> 00:34:02,400 Speaker 1: That's awful days days day. 738 00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:05,320 Speaker 2: And then I finally went back and then I realized 739 00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:07,960 Speaker 2: they didn't have a license because I lost it about 740 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:12,000 Speaker 2: a year ago and one back and it was just 741 00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:14,280 Speaker 2: sitting in the impound lot and impound expensive. 742 00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:15,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, each day the day. 743 00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:21,240 Speaker 2: But insurance fraud. I I'm sure, I'm sure I've done. 744 00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:26,560 Speaker 1: That that one. We should have crossed that one right off. 745 00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:30,919 Speaker 1: Baseball players, hot, boy, did you well? I did watch 746 00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:33,560 Speaker 1: the watches my Mariners fan, so I was. It was 747 00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:36,080 Speaker 1: the Game seven. It was a great thrilling It was 748 00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:38,640 Speaker 1: really a thrilling series. They ended up not not winning, 749 00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:44,480 Speaker 1: so anyway, bad Bunny love hot, Yeah. 750 00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:47,120 Speaker 2: He said, every single thing is hot. I'm like, insurance hot, 751 00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:47,640 Speaker 2: that's good. 752 00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:49,440 Speaker 1: What hot? Belting? 753 00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:52,080 Speaker 2: Belting? Yeah, Cyndia Rivo love it. 754 00:34:53,040 --> 00:35:01,200 Speaker 1: She she's extraordinary. That's just h Yeah. Yeah, yeah, unbelievable. Yeah, belting. 755 00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:02,680 Speaker 1: I don't know if I could could you? 756 00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:03,479 Speaker 2: I can't. 757 00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:06,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was wondering. It's got to be a thing, right, 758 00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:08,640 Speaker 1: is this something you develop? That's something we're talking about singing, 759 00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:11,919 Speaker 1: singing and being able to like really Broadway House. 760 00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:13,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like you could do this. 761 00:35:14,360 --> 00:35:16,000 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. I'd have to work 762 00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:19,440 Speaker 1: on it. Bob's Burgers both diner and haircut. 763 00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:22,960 Speaker 2: Bob's Diner. I've never been there, should I? Yes? 764 00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:26,719 Speaker 1: Is it good? Bob's Boy, oh big boy. Oh well 765 00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:29,360 Speaker 1: that's that's the whole nother matter. This was David Lynch's 766 00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:31,960 Speaker 1: favorite restaurant. Oh yeah, when he was Yeah, he would 767 00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:33,040 Speaker 1: visit Bob's every day. 768 00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:34,600 Speaker 2: I know what a bob is. 769 00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:35,799 Speaker 1: Yeah. 770 00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:37,760 Speaker 2: Cute, Yeah, so cute. 771 00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:40,120 Speaker 1: And finally, and we were talking about this earlier, Airwan 772 00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:43,319 Speaker 1: but no, it's not about Airwon anymore. You said it's 773 00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:45,319 Speaker 1: about grosser. 774 00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:47,720 Speaker 2: I think it's brilliant and I think that the Hailey 775 00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:49,719 Speaker 2: Beabers smoothie is one of the best things I've ever 776 00:35:49,719 --> 00:35:50,359 Speaker 2: tried in my life. 777 00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:53,200 Speaker 1: Ah really, no, tell me about this. 778 00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:55,960 Speaker 2: It's the best thing in the world. 779 00:35:56,040 --> 00:35:59,320 Speaker 1: What what What's what's what's what's the major strawberry and 780 00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:00,960 Speaker 1: like a strawberry. 781 00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:02,960 Speaker 2: My god, it's so I can't even explain. It's like 782 00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:05,600 Speaker 2: a cloud. It's like a cloud in your mouth. It's 783 00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:06,520 Speaker 2: the best thing I've ever had. 784 00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:08,239 Speaker 1: Well, that is it. Well, it's been really fun having 785 00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:08,520 Speaker 1: you on. 786 00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:11,719 Speaker 2: I love it. I see a lot of people on 787 00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:12,720 Speaker 2: the wall who I admire. 788 00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:16,920 Speaker 1: Yeah you, I feel so lucky, Thank you very much. 789 00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:19,879 Speaker 1: It's mutual. It's mutual. We're going to sign off now, 790 00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:22,320 Speaker 1: ladies and luman. We're going to finish our coco, maybe 791 00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:26,160 Speaker 1: start a fire. We'll see, get cozy. Thank you for 792 00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:30,239 Speaker 1: especially not on a stove, on a cook top. Did 793 00:36:30,280 --> 00:36:31,719 Speaker 1: we figure out what are We Even Doing? I don't 794 00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:33,319 Speaker 1: think we did, but we're still working on it, So 795 00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:35,560 Speaker 1: onto the next anyway, it's been a real pleasure own. 796 00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:39,080 Speaker 1: Thank you. Yeah, all right serious? What Are We Even 797 00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:42,480 Speaker 1: Doing is a production of iHeartMedia and the Elvis Duran 798 00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:47,359 Speaker 1: podcast Network, hosted by me Kyle McLachlin and created and 799 00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:52,440 Speaker 1: produced by Full Picture productionists Yay, featuring music by Yata 800 00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:56,480 Speaker 1: and artwork by Danica Robinson. For more information about the podcast, 801 00:36:56,560 --> 00:37:00,920 Speaker 1: please visit our Instagram and TikTok at w a awed 802 00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:06,279 Speaker 1: with Kyle. 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