WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Scooby Dooby Eww A Honda Civic

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<v Speaker 1>You found it the Second Aid Update podcast. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>so much for being here. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>right now, and hey, enjoy a Second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 3>Second Date Updated.

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<v Speaker 4>Occasionally on this segment we get return callers who come

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<v Speaker 4>back multiple times seeking our help and dare I say

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<v Speaker 4>our wisdom?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>WHOA what do they say about people who are psycho

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<v Speaker 1>and they try the same thing over and over again

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<v Speaker 1>expecting the different results.

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<v Speaker 3>That's saying it's too wise for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Funny thing is today's return listener only knows about us

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<v Speaker 4>because we called him for a second date.

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<v Speaker 3>Update.

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<v Speaker 2>What the heck did you go out with him?

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<v Speaker 5>Jeff?

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<v Speaker 2>And now he's not calling you bath? Is that what's

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<v Speaker 2>going on?

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<v Speaker 6>No?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean he was on a second date where we

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<v Speaker 4>reached out to him. Oh yeah, he was on the

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<v Speaker 4>receiving end of the call, and not surprisingly, he instantly

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<v Speaker 4>fell in love with us.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought we were desperate.

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<v Speaker 3>Secondary going Hey, have you been on any New Days?

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<v Speaker 4>His name is Chase, and I don't know if you'll

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<v Speaker 4>remember him, but he was the guy who kept postponing

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<v Speaker 4>his dates because he said he was really really focused.

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<v Speaker 3>On self care and not overstressing.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, this is a bathtub guy, right bathtub?

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<v Speaker 6>Yep?

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<v Speaker 4>He was having too good of a time in the

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<v Speaker 4>bath and decided, you know what, I'm going to stay

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<v Speaker 4>in here and skip my date.

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<v Speaker 1>And I will say I love a man who just

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<v Speaker 1>has discovered the magic of a bath.

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<v Speaker 4>Chase, We respect you and your self care. Welcome back

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<v Speaker 4>to the show Man, Thanks go.

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<v Speaker 6>Good to be back in a bubble bath.

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<v Speaker 8>Right now, bro, I'm not taking a bath right now,

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<v Speaker 8>so you reached out to us this time because apparently

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<v Speaker 8>you went out with a different girl than the last time.

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<v Speaker 3>Or is this the same one?

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<v Speaker 6>No, this is a different girl.

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<v Speaker 5>This girl's name is Kathy.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, where'd you meet her.

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<v Speaker 6>Online?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>I thought I was gonna say in the bathtub when

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<v Speaker 4>I was so okay, she just popped up and I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, okay, well, guess what did.

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<v Speaker 2>You just come from?

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<v Speaker 1>Up the story?

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<v Speaker 4>All right?

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<v Speaker 3>Cool? You met her online? What did you guys do?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, honestly we talked at first, and then eventually we

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<v Speaker 6>found the time we were both free, and we went

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<v Speaker 6>out to a restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, sounds pretty so far.

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<v Speaker 4>And did you actually make it to this restaurant or

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<v Speaker 4>was self care getting in the way?

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<v Speaker 6>Now, we made it to the restaurant, Believe it or not.

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<v Speaker 6>You can take care of yourself and still make time.

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<v Speaker 2>Learning lessons from your time on the show last time?

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<v Speaker 3>So much? Okay, how did how did the restaurant go

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<v Speaker 3>with Cassie?

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<v Speaker 6>I thought we had a good time. We did that

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<v Speaker 6>thing where you're looking at random strangers and you're like

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<v Speaker 6>making up crazy backstories about them. Oh yeah, so I

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<v Speaker 6>love that Okay, Yeah, Like we we talked about her job.

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<v Speaker 6>She's a nurse, which is really cool. So when we

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<v Speaker 6>were telling backstories, we would come up with like crazy

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<v Speaker 6>scenarios of r injuries. Oh that's at the bar. What

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<v Speaker 6>if he was impaled by a spear gun? What would

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<v Speaker 6>you do with her?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>This definitely sounds like a very romantic topic of conversation.

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<v Speaker 4>Hope you didn't spend all of your time on er

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<v Speaker 4>horror stories.

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<v Speaker 6>So of course we talked about other things. Like one

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<v Speaker 6>of my favorite questions to ask on a first or

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<v Speaker 6>second day is what was your favorite cartoon as a kid.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a great question. That's a hard question, dude.

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<v Speaker 6>If you say Looney Tunes, maybe you have a silly,

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<v Speaker 6>fun attitude.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, you like use it to judge people's personality.

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<v Speaker 2>If you say Spongebobb your what was your answer?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, funny enough, you just said it. Mine was spunge

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<v Speaker 6>Bob him as a human being?

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<v Speaker 4>All right, Okay, team SpongeBob Brooks is animaniacs. Does that

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<v Speaker 4>mean that she's sexually repressed and has a weird relationship

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<v Speaker 4>with family members?

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's that I know all the capitals of the

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<v Speaker 1>United States do not listen to Wacko's song.

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<v Speaker 3>Clearly No, that's epic song.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, did she have a good answer for a cartoon show?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, her favorite with Scooby Doo. Maybe, like you know

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<v Speaker 6>true crime show.

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<v Speaker 4>Is transfers into adulthood or they soon to be serial killers.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's probably not sa that's true? Okay yourself? Well

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<v Speaker 3>this okay?

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<v Speaker 4>Now, now the conversation sounds like it's more fun. How

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<v Speaker 4>did the night end?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, you know how, we were having a really great time.

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<v Speaker 6>I thought I was gonna get a kiss. Maybe happening.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that because you didn't make the move or what?

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<v Speaker 5>You know? I leaned in and she didn't reciprocate.

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<v Speaker 6>I wasn't going to push it any farther.

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<v Speaker 2>Gentleman way to do it.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, So I just got in my Honda Civic and

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<v Speaker 6>drove home.

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<v Speaker 2>You slink away, You feel like crap.

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<v Speaker 4>I've been there, bro, I love every girl I've ever met.

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<v Speaker 2>Up on the making model of his car was.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, you have pride in your car. Sure, So what's

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<v Speaker 4>happened since that date? Have you been able to stay

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<v Speaker 4>in touch with Cassie?

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<v Speaker 6>I've tried to make another date. The problem is I

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<v Speaker 6>just I'm phusy a lot with my company, so it's

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<v Speaker 6>been hard to find the time that worked. And now

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<v Speaker 6>I just kind of feel like she's ignoring me.

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<v Speaker 3>So you're super busy, but you will make.

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<v Speaker 6>Time for her, Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, well we can tell her that.

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<v Speaker 5>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's always like kind of a turn off when

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<v Speaker 1>people are like, I'm really super mping, you know, It's

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<v Speaker 1>like that feels like maybe she thinks you don't like her, honestly, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because that always feels like an excuse In.

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<v Speaker 4>Times like these, I tend to ask myself what would

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<v Speaker 4>SpongeBob do? And what he would do is he would

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<v Speaker 4>come back and you would call Cassie on the radio

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<v Speaker 4>and try and get you a second date.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you go jellyfish hunting.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, SpongeBob things at once. We're gonna attempt a

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<v Speaker 3>few of them when we come back. I gotta know

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<v Speaker 3>about that. We're gonna do with a second date update

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<v Speaker 3>right after this second date update.

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<v Speaker 4>It's kind of interesting the question our listener Chase asks

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<v Speaker 4>women on every first date.

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<v Speaker 3>He likes to ask, what's your face? Rich Childhood Cartoon.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that question.

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<v Speaker 3>I think everybody loves that question.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually want to know yours.

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<v Speaker 3>Jeff, You're never going to know that from me. We

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<v Speaker 3>don't know each other that well. Oh come on, I'll

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<v Speaker 3>dare you ask something so deep in person?

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<v Speaker 2>You know what it's gonna be, deftails. It's got to

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<v Speaker 2>be about a rich uncle. There's no way.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, it's Arthur if you have to know the introverted barking.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, with the really sassy sister.

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<v Speaker 4>Now, Chase says he can tell a lot about a

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<v Speaker 4>person based on their cartoon answer and his date Cassie

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<v Speaker 4>said Scooby Doo, which is a sign that she could

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<v Speaker 4>be into true crime. It's so funny, whereas he's a

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<v Speaker 4>SpongeBob fan who's more silly and wacky and wears square

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<v Speaker 4>shaped clothes. Yeah, but opposites do attract sometimes, and Chase

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<v Speaker 4>wants to see if we can make that happen for

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<v Speaker 4>him today, Brook, what's your take?

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<v Speaker 1>I really think that she thinks that you don't like her, because,

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<v Speaker 1>like he says.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, didn't you say, Chase, like you kept telling her?

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<v Speaker 2>God him so busy. But I'll fit you in.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I get that, It's it's not what I meant to,

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<v Speaker 6>and I hope she doesn't see.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not saying it's a bad thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think that's what's happening, and I think you

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<v Speaker 1>can totally come back from it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And if it turns out that we can't get

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<v Speaker 4>you a second date at the end of this, is

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<v Speaker 4>it okay if we blame it on those meddling kids

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<v Speaker 4>and dog.

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<v Speaker 6>Too, if need be, I suppose that'd be okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Masks, are you wearing to take off after this?

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<v Speaker 3>We're gonna call that plan B.

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<v Speaker 4>But for now, let's just dial Cassie see if she

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<v Speaker 4>picks up and try to get this second date done.

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<v Speaker 4>Here we go, Hello, Hey, we're looking to talk with Cassie.

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<v Speaker 4>She Hey Cassie, my name is jeff from the radio

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<v Speaker 4>show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 7>Hey Cassie, Yeah, thank you, but I'm not interested though. Sorry.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh well, we're not.

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<v Speaker 4>We're not trying to tell you anything. We're asked to

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<v Speaker 4>call you by one of our listeners that went on

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<v Speaker 4>a date with you recently.

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<v Speaker 7>What what is this? I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, No, this is a segment we do call the

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<v Speaker 4>Second Date Update, and we're trying to help him figure

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<v Speaker 4>out if something went wrong on your first meetup and

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<v Speaker 4>hopefully get you two together for another one.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because it sounds like a pretty normal date.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it wasn't that normal, Brook.

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<v Speaker 4>They were making up backstories about spear guns and what

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<v Speaker 4>you would do as a nurse in the er.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh oh yeah, yeah, yeah, you're talking about Chase. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So the reason that we're doing this call is because

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<v Speaker 4>Chase told us this whole story, said he had a

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<v Speaker 4>great time with you. Now he's a little bit confused

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<v Speaker 4>about why there hasn't been a second meetup, because if

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<v Speaker 4>we're being honest, he says, he feels like you're ignoring him.

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<v Speaker 7>No, I mean I just kind of well, I just

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<v Speaker 7>kind of felt like I was kind of bouched by

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<v Speaker 7>this guy.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>That's interesting because we've had Chase on the show before

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<v Speaker 1>and he just seems like such a humble, like nice dude.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>Well yeah, I mean he is humble and nice, but

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<v Speaker 7>like when we like connected and I called him, he

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<v Speaker 7>said he was golfing at this golf course and I

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<v Speaker 7>looked it up and it's like a really nice private course.

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<v Speaker 7>You have to be a member.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, looked it up.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, yeah, well, I mean it's it's nice to have

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<v Speaker 7>someone that's financially established, you know, I mean, don't guys

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<v Speaker 7>go golfing if they're not financially was a private.

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<v Speaker 3>Court, Okay, this particular one really impressed you.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah. Another time we were texting to meet up and

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<v Speaker 7>he said he was at this auction and I'm like,

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<v Speaker 7>auction buying stuff, like poor people don't go to auction.

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<v Speaker 1>If he's buying art, Like come on, yeah, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>as I haven't.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, yeah, so I figure, okay, this guy's establish, and

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<v Speaker 7>so we figured out a night to meet and he

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<v Speaker 7>takes me to like a regular chain restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 7>I was like, okay, that's that's not what I expected.

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<v Speaker 7>And you know, the actual date went well, but then

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<v Speaker 7>he at the end of the night, he drives off

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<v Speaker 7>in a kind of like.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you wait, did you just say you to a

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<v Speaker 2>Honda Civic.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I mean I got the impressions. Then he had

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<v Speaker 7>money and he was you know, well off.

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<v Speaker 2>My god, that's not fair. You did not get the impression.

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<v Speaker 2>You made the assumption. Yeah, a friend of the golf.

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<v Speaker 4>Course, Cassie, did he tell you that he's well off

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<v Speaker 4>with a lot of money or did you just assume

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<v Speaker 4>that based on your conversations?

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, I guess I assumed it because well it

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<v Speaker 7>was based.

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<v Speaker 2>On the conversations. It sounds like based on her research.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I know many many different personal assistants who attend

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<v Speaker 4>art auctions on behalf of my family and my parents,

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<v Speaker 4>and they.

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<v Speaker 3>Are not off.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't tell if you're joking. Did your family really

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<v Speaker 2>do that?

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<v Speaker 3>Why am I being grilled?

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<v Speaker 4>Cassie is the one that is jumping to assumptions here.

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<v Speaker 6>Rich guys just can't get.

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<v Speaker 4>So Cassie, do you feel like maybe you are the

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<v Speaker 4>one at fault here jumping to assumptions about who he

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<v Speaker 4>really is?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I'm just I'm not interested in beating a low

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<v Speaker 7>value guy to trick me.

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<v Speaker 4>Agree, you should get him on the phone and ask

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<v Speaker 4>him that question, because I need to let you know

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<v Speaker 4>that he is listening to this call on the other

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<v Speaker 4>line right now.

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<v Speaker 1>What he could Chase?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you there and are you a low value man?

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<v Speaker 7>Yes? Or no?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean apparently I am. According to her, you're.

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<v Speaker 2>A good value man. Chase, that's what you say.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, why don't you have a discussion with Cassie about this?

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<v Speaker 4>Because clearly. She feels like you were giving her the

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<v Speaker 4>impression that you were at a certain level well financially,

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<v Speaker 4>and you didn't meet that in person.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I mean, sadly, my plan worked.

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<v Speaker 7>Plan? What plan? Though? What are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 3>Playing games?

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<v Speaker 6>I actually am a member of that golf club, and

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<v Speaker 6>I did attend the art auctions for myself. It was art.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wait, you're rich rich, then I'm comfortable.

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<v Speaker 2>That means you're wealthy.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know how you got off. My parents pay

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<v Speaker 3>well on with.

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<v Speaker 4>The civic and the non bouginess, like what's happening?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I own a tech company and sometimes when girls

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<v Speaker 6>hear that, they just end up wanting to date me

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<v Speaker 6>for my money.

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<v Speaker 5>So I purposely took you to a chain restaurant.

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<v Speaker 6>To see how you would react.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh and you liked her. Still, that's so sad.

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<v Speaker 7>And then she no, no, no, I didn't hate it. Look,

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<v Speaker 7>I didn't hear that you fail to test personally. I

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<v Speaker 7>think that's very very smart. I think you should try

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<v Speaker 7>to do that your boid.

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<v Speaker 2>Seriously, Cassie.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you're super interested in him and you think that

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<v Speaker 1>he is awesome.

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<v Speaker 7>Weirdly, I mean, I don't know what you guys here referring.

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<v Speaker 7>But seriously, I've always been interested.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, we record these phone calls. We can play

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<v Speaker 2>him back.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I mean you might have missed that first part

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<v Speaker 7>because I said, if this is him testing me, then

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<v Speaker 7>you know he's really smart and I respect that, I

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<v Speaker 7>really do.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I think I think she tried to say that.

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<v Speaker 2>Right after he said, oh, it's just a test. She's like,

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<v Speaker 2>that's really smart.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you buying it? Chase?

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<v Speaker 6>Look, I can buy anything I do.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's funny. That's not what I meant. But do

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<v Speaker 4>you believe her?

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<v Speaker 5>I always want to think the best of people. So, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>it wants to send me a few picks?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait wait, wait, you say if she wants.

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<v Speaker 5>To send you what if she wants to send me

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<v Speaker 5>a few picks to so sorry, then.

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<v Speaker 2>That's so rough. Yeah, I mean I want to get stereotype.

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<v Speaker 2>He was a Chase tech company. But now I am,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my god, you're so funny. I'll show you on

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<v Speaker 7>our date.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh wow.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, this has been a past here.

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<v Speaker 2>So how quickly he dropped his morals too?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Want to hang out?

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<v Speaker 4>I have to see if both parties are actually still

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<v Speaker 4>interested in another date here because.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, from you, she said, yes.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a big change from what you said five minutes ago.

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<v Speaker 4>But apparently we misunderstood.

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<v Speaker 3>We heard you wrong.

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<v Speaker 7>You did, you did misunderstood me. I told you, guys,

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<v Speaker 7>I was shocked. I was a little surprised, but I

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<v Speaker 7>didn't hate the restaurant for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>She actually did say the restaurant was okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So Chase, are you guys gonna go out again? Because

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<v Speaker 4>if you do, you're probably gonna have to drop the

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<v Speaker 4>Ikmobile Honda Civic. It's not it's not approved.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean you know, I mean like that new.

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<v Speaker 5>Stuff has been presented on this date.

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<v Speaker 6>So I'm definitely a yes, definitely, yes, you got.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I hate both of you somehow.

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<v Speaker 3>I think we're jealous of both of Yeah, okay, well

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<v Speaker 3>congratulations did it? Why do we feel bad?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>It feels wrong. There's some law that we just broke.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatever you do, have fun, all right, send some money

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<v Speaker 2>if you're bored.

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<v Speaker 3>Bro Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 4>I think with dates nowadays, if you have a certain expectation,

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<v Speaker 4>like you want a guy who's well often established, like

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<v Speaker 4>Cassie did, you just need to put the survey in

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<v Speaker 4>front of them at the table. Do you make this amount,

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<v Speaker 4>this amount or this amount of circle it and we

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<v Speaker 4>can be done with it.

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<v Speaker 3>And it starts.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's like that song on TikTok, Right, I want

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<v Speaker 1>a guy in finance exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's just figure out where you really are.

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<v Speaker 4>That way we can avoid simple misunderstandings like this one.

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<v Speaker 4>No message misunderstood though, and test them.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think what is funny is that they both ended

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<v Speaker 1>up kind of meant for each other.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, both of them are a little sleazy at the end.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they're like, well, you know, fine, I'll forgive you, you

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<v Speaker 3>forgive me.

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<v Speaker 6>Let's just hang out.

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<v Speaker 4>But we need to own our part of the misunderstanding

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<v Speaker 4>because we totally misheard her.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh so yeah, a little. I think we did.

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<v Speaker 4>When she said you about the Honda Civic, she didn't

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<v Speaker 4>mean the cars groscy men cute.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a cute cars.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>She also heard said yeah, yeah, well I'm sure we

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<v Speaker 4>misunderstood that one too.

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<v Speaker 3>We don't make enough money to understand her. I feel

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<v Speaker 3>bad forever doubting her.

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<v Speaker 4>And if you want to hear any of our second dates,

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<v Speaker 4>you can go to wherever you get your podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>They're up right now at Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 7>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,