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Speaker 1: This is Unbreakable with Jay Glacier, a mental wealth podcast.

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Speaker 1: Build you from the inside out. Now here's Jay Glacier.

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Speaker 2: Welcome into Unbreakable, a mental wealth podcast with Jay Glazer.

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Speaker 2: I'm Jay Glazer today with a very special show and

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Speaker 2: encore show if you will. But before that, if you're

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Speaker 2: like many people, you may be surprised to learn that

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Speaker 2: one in five adults in this country experienced mental illness

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Speaker 2: last year. Yet far too many fella will receive the

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Speaker 2: support they need. Carolyn baverel Elk is doing something about it.

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Speaker 2: They understand that behavioral health is a key part of

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Speaker 2: poll l delivering compassionate care that treats physical, mental, emotional,

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Speaker 2: and social needs in tandem. Carolyn Beaviriel Health raising the

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Speaker 2: quality of life through empathy and action. Welcome into Unbreakable,

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Speaker 2: a mental wealth podcast with Jay Glazer. And this week

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Speaker 2: I'm actually getting married while you're listening to this.

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Speaker 3: I am in Italy.

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Speaker 2: I am fifty four years old, fondly found my true love,

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Speaker 2: showing everybody it's never too late to find love.

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Speaker 3: Earlier in the year, I did.

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Speaker 2: A podcast with my beautiful Now I think by this

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Speaker 2: time wife Rosie Tennyson, you may know her from the

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Speaker 2: Tennyson Twins. She and her sister have done a lot

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Speaker 2: in the early days of modeling. Broke color barriers. Sister

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Speaker 2: Brooke color Barrier Playboy become the first ever black Playmate

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Speaker 2: of the Year. Rosie was the first black cover model

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Speaker 2: for Roderick J' Hollywood. But Rosie and I found love

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Speaker 2: in a much later time in life, and we've got

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Speaker 2: to do a lot of work on ourselves to get

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Speaker 2: to this moment. So with that, I want an on

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Speaker 2: core performance here. It's part one of my podcast with

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Speaker 2: my now wife. Can't believe I'm saying that Rosie Tennyson

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Speaker 2: and I hope you all could take a lot of

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Speaker 2: the lessons that we've learned to be able to get

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Speaker 2: to this point and we could all walk this walk together.

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Speaker 4: This is the most special guest I've ever had on

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Speaker 4: in my entire life. The way this came about is wonderful.

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Speaker 4: People over at Fox Sports Radio and a lot of

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Speaker 4: people out there have said, man, we have never seen

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Speaker 4: you better, We've never seen a better version of Jay Glazer.

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Speaker 4: And I said, well, Rosie's really the reason why my

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Speaker 4: beautiful fiance, Rosie Tennyson, She's why and you know, I finally,

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Speaker 4: after all these years, found a partner who could really

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Speaker 4: lift me up and I feel comfortable and safe for

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Speaker 4: the first time in my life.

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Speaker 3: And they said, great, let's get Rosie and.

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Speaker 4: I said, no, now, now, I'm not getting Rosie on,

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Speaker 4: Absolutely not. And they said, do you know how many

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Speaker 4: people you can help and give hope to if the

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Speaker 4: two of you came on and just talked about not

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Speaker 4: only Rosie's life, which is unbelievable, like she's the reality

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Speaker 4: show of all reality shows and the success story of

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Speaker 4: success stories for all little girls out there trying to

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Speaker 4: make it, but also just the hope that we can

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Speaker 4: give people that it's never too late to find love,

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Speaker 4: and also to give people insight into what she does

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Speaker 4: to help me when my crazy gets out of control,

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Speaker 4: when my gray gets really dark and deep, what she

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Speaker 3: There for me. So I am this better version. So

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Speaker 4: Don and Scott and Horiy and Justin and everybody else

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Speaker 4: of Jay Glaziers that they've seen. Everybody, Welcome my beautiful

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Speaker 4: fiance Rosie Tennyson.

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Speaker 5: Introduction.

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Speaker 3: It is quite the introduction and move up to Rosie

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Speaker 4: What we're going to do here, right, we are going

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Speaker 4: to go into rosie story, then we're going to go

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Speaker 4: a lot of the things that Rosie's done.

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Speaker 4: Before we do that, we'll leave them with one good

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Speaker 4: I think lesson here because it's the holiday times, and

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Speaker 4: holiday times can get really difficult for a lot of people.

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Speaker 4: So for everyone out there, for your spouse, your boyfriend,

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Speaker 3: And what I tend to do folks my whole life,

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Speaker 4: I have always tended to sabotage, to push everyone away

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Speaker 3: The fear of ending is more painful for me than

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Speaker 4: I like to do things to make sure it goes away,

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Speaker 3: And the last time I did that to you, your

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Speaker 5: I just told you, Hey, look, I'm not going anywhere,

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Speaker 5: no matter what happens here, how you're feeling, I'm going

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Speaker 5: like just thinking the worst thoughts, but I was assuring

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Speaker 5: And I said I had your back and I wasn't

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Speaker 5: The worst thing you could do was like pull away,

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Speaker 4: And the other great thing you did was when we

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Speaker 5: You were beating yourself up, like he beats himself up

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Speaker 5: I'm not holding a grudge. I'm not bringing it up.

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Speaker 5: if it's something that in you know, so like I

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Speaker 5: because then all of a sudden, instead of like one

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Speaker 5: And then immediately, like within like twenty minutes, like we

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Speaker 4: So instead of just telling me, hey, I got your back,

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Speaker 4: she proved to me she wasn't going anywhere. Yeah, and

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Speaker 5: So you were throwing a pity party. You were like

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Speaker 5: And I was like, hey, a maoun this pity party

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Speaker 3: And let's like, you're coming with me.

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Speaker 5: You're coming with me, and let's break this pity party

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Speaker 4: But the other thing she did that night because the

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Speaker 3: She gave me extra love that night.

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Speaker 4: She really went above and beyond to show me she's

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Speaker 3: She's going to use this against me, right, And you

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Speaker 3: I haven't had one of those sins, No, right, I

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Speaker 4: know I have one Thanksgiving a week I got triggered,

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Speaker 4: right And then that night you said to me, what

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Speaker 3: And I said, I just need some campassion.

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Speaker 4: I just need you, I actually said her, I just

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Speaker 3: Just didn't try and coach me up. And because Rosie

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Speaker 5: And sometimes you're in the mood for it, and sometimes

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Speaker 5: want to just be in it because you're always, like

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Speaker 5: a lot of time during your fixer, you're trying to

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Speaker 5: people just they just want to talk. They don't want

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Speaker 5: get it off their chest. And that's okay too. Yeahs

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Speaker 5: I's going to turn your pity party.

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Speaker 4: So all right, with that said, for everybody out there

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Speaker 4: going into holidays, know that about your partner, especially if

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Speaker 4: they're gonna go see family that triggers them again.

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Speaker 3: The holiday times are hard.

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Speaker 4: So a lot of times your significant other may be

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Speaker 4: It, but you two were just so forgiving of everyone,

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Speaker 5: Well, we would we were always doing like little like

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they didn't do it to the white kids. They

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so my sister and I like we like were

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Speaker 4: But I would come about YouTube and again her sister Renee,

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Speaker 3: One Kappa wrote the wrong butts or the wrong one.

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Speaker 3: Each other and having early goals about what's going to be. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: the collar barrier. It was like she was on Oprah

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00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:12,440
Speaker 5: and CNN and everyone was just like you can Everyone's

442
00:19:12,480 --> 00:19:13,959
Speaker 5: like a lot of people are saying you can't pick her,

443
00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:15,840
Speaker 5: this isn't fair because she's black, and he's like, it's

444
00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:17,800
Speaker 5: what's not fair is that it took us this long

445
00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:20,520
Speaker 5: to actually pick one. That's what's not fair, so that

446
00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:22,960
Speaker 5: it was just really cool because there are certain people

447
00:19:22,960 --> 00:19:25,800
Speaker 5: in your lives that change your destiny, and that was

448
00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:29,560
Speaker 5: like one for us that because of that choice, that

449
00:19:29,680 --> 00:19:31,960
Speaker 5: changed my life. My sister's like my family's life. But

450
00:19:32,080 --> 00:19:34,679
Speaker 5: you are and you show yeah, actually, I yeah, this

451
00:19:34,800 --> 00:19:37,639
Speaker 5: is the part of the story where Tef wanted. Actually

452
00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:39,919
Speaker 5: my sister and I both depose because he's like, oh

453
00:19:39,960 --> 00:19:43,960
Speaker 5: my god, there's twins. Of course this is great. So me,

454
00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:46,720
Speaker 5: being shy at the time, I was like, oh no, no,

455
00:19:46,920 --> 00:19:49,600
Speaker 5: you know, I'm like kind of shy, but you go

456
00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:51,520
Speaker 5: do this and we'll see how it goes, you know.

457
00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:54,000
Speaker 5: So then she ends up when you play maybe the Earth,

458
00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:55,720
Speaker 5: he gets like one hundred thousand dollars, she gets all

459
00:19:55,760 --> 00:19:57,600
Speaker 5: the spade, she gets a car, she gets all this stuff.

460
00:19:57,800 --> 00:20:00,639
Speaker 5: And then I meanwhile, I know it. Everybody knows what

461
00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:04,000
Speaker 5: I look like naked from your sister, my twin sister.

462
00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:07,320
Speaker 5: I did nothing. You know, I'm still over there at

463
00:20:07,320 --> 00:20:08,600
Speaker 5: the Albert SAIDs warehouse.

464
00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:12,359
Speaker 4: Also, you're at the Alberson's warehouse and you're you see, yeah,

465
00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:16,920
Speaker 4: you pack. Yeah, her Playboys into the covert Belt, into

466
00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:18,560
Speaker 4: boxing and stuff like.

467
00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:22,800
Speaker 5: But I was just like, I was the wrong choice here.

468
00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:25,480
Speaker 5: I should have like, you know, I should have done it.

469
00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:26,520
Speaker 5: But yeah, but.

470
00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:31,080
Speaker 4: Ends up moving out to La into the Playboy mansion

471
00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:33,560
Speaker 4: because she becomes friends with Hugh Heffer's wife.

472
00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:34,280
Speaker 5: Kimber Kimberly.

473
00:20:34,359 --> 00:20:36,560
Speaker 4: Yes, so Kimberly kind of around the show. Wasn't the

474
00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:37,639
Speaker 4: Hugh Heffler that we all have.

475
00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:41,440
Speaker 3: Seen these was running a tight ship Kimberly run a

476
00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:46,600
Speaker 3: tight ship. Yeah, But Hugh Heffner calls Rosie and says, Rosie.

477
00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:48,800
Speaker 5: This was actually this was later in life because this

478
00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:51,800
Speaker 5: was like later down the line, because he always was like,

479
00:20:52,040 --> 00:20:54,920
Speaker 5: you know, wanting us to pose together, but I never

480
00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:57,560
Speaker 5: did so. But then he he's. My sister sees him

481
00:20:57,560 --> 00:20:59,159
Speaker 5: at a party one time and he comes after her

482
00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:00,680
Speaker 5: and he hands with this piece of and it says

483
00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:03,280
Speaker 5: Tennis and twins, and he says, I want you two

484
00:21:03,320 --> 00:21:05,439
Speaker 5: to pose in the magazine together. I've always wanted you

485
00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:07,800
Speaker 5: to to pose. I'll fly you anywhere in the world

486
00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:09,920
Speaker 5: if you two will do this pictorial together.

487
00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:13,520
Speaker 4: So my sister like, say, a, Rosie, everybody knows you

488
00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:15,600
Speaker 4: take it ready, you might as well get face for it, right,

489
00:21:16,080 --> 00:21:16,720
Speaker 4: he's your sister.

490
00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:19,040
Speaker 5: And I had been modeling and stuff by then, for like,

491
00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:21,240
Speaker 5: you know, I wasn't shy anymore, so I was like,

492
00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:22,919
Speaker 5: you know what, let's do it. So it was like

493
00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:24,280
Speaker 5: really full because we went to Cuba.

494
00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:26,320
Speaker 3: Well wait, wait, let's not throw that away. Let's not

495
00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:26,879
Speaker 3: throw it away.

496
00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:32,400
Speaker 4: Rosie still kind of you know, not all in, says sure, Cuba,

497
00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:34,720
Speaker 4: I'll do it. If you did send me to Cuba

498
00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:38,800
Speaker 4: under for Deel Castro, knowing that it's not going to happen, right.

499
00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:41,240
Speaker 3: And QF there is like done?

500
00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:44,600
Speaker 4: Has these two on a plane to Cuba under for

501
00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:48,720
Speaker 4: deel Castro, which is supposed to be a ten day shoot, right, yeah,

502
00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:50,680
Speaker 4: and talk about what happened there.

503
00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:52,800
Speaker 5: Well, it's beautiful. It was a really cool place to

504
00:21:52,840 --> 00:21:55,680
Speaker 5: shoot because at that time it wasn't you know, it hadn't.

505
00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:58,040
Speaker 5: There was not a lot of you know, photo shoots

506
00:21:58,080 --> 00:22:02,800
Speaker 5: or anything there. But it's full. It's just a really great,

507
00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 5: amazing place to shoot. But it's like a time warp.

508
00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:07,280
Speaker 5: It's like in the fifties, like they got old cars

509
00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:09,439
Speaker 5: and like these billboards and stuff like that, so you

510
00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:14,760
Speaker 5: literally feel like you're in the fifties, Sam and like

511
00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:17,600
Speaker 5: you know, like them, and it's just a really weird,

512
00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:19,879
Speaker 5: like it's like you've just in a time warp and.

513
00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:22,720
Speaker 3: You said, the thing that stuck out most of you

514
00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:23,880
Speaker 3: weren't a lot of eat.

515
00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:27,119
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah yeah, because they have beautiful beaches, they're

516
00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:30,080
Speaker 5: like amazing, but you don't see anybody like fishing and

517
00:22:30,359 --> 00:22:33,120
Speaker 5: the beaches or so, which is weird. So like why

518
00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:36,399
Speaker 5: isn't anybody fishing And they're like, well, it's because you know,

519
00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:39,640
Speaker 5: the fish belonged to Castro's Like it was like that,

520
00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:44,360
Speaker 5: Like so it was like kind kind of crazy. Yeah, so,

521
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 5: but the people are amazing and beautiful and it was

522
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:51,639
Speaker 5: really cool until like until he wasn't And then like

523
00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:53,520
Speaker 5: all of a sudden that like maybe like a couple

524
00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:55,960
Speaker 5: of days before we're supposed to leave, the guys, the

525
00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:57,959
Speaker 5: scouts and stuff that we're with, they're kind of like

526
00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:00,520
Speaker 5: starting to get a little and see in a little

527
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:04,000
Speaker 5: because like Fidel's like all of a sudden not down

528
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:06,439
Speaker 5: with Playboy being in his country and shooting these.

529
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:08,360
Speaker 3: Cash suddenly does not want the tennis.

530
00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:11,000
Speaker 5: Oh my god. They're like, we need to get you

531
00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:13,359
Speaker 5: guys out of here because this is like not good.

532
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 5: So my sister and I like we cut our trip

533
00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:18,720
Speaker 5: short by two days and I couldn't even sleep.

534
00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:19,840
Speaker 3: Get you out.

535
00:23:20,560 --> 00:23:22,879
Speaker 5: I can't remember where we flew out it, but we

536
00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:26,879
Speaker 5: cut the trip short. And then maybe so longer I

537
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:28,840
Speaker 5: don't remember. I believe those police, but yeah, and then

538
00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,399
Speaker 5: we just like cut it short with the pictures like it.

539
00:23:32,000 --> 00:23:34,040
Speaker 5: Actually Playboy held it for a while because they were

540
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:37,320
Speaker 5: they didn't because yeah, so they ended up running it

541
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:40,720
Speaker 5: like years later, and uh, we're find a huge fine.

542
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:42,399
Speaker 3: For we just don't know that.

543
00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:46,199
Speaker 4: So he holds onto these photos of the tennis and

544
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:47,240
Speaker 4: twins for a couple of years.

545
00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:51,280
Speaker 3: Finally post them and whoever the president was at.

546
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 4: The time, finds million dollars.

547
00:23:57,000 --> 00:24:01,200
Speaker 3: For sending the tennis and twins to Tuba for yeah,

548
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:04,240
Speaker 3: and their Star Wars.

549
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 4: They're a huge But at the time too, Rosie was

550
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:13,040
Speaker 4: to Renee's living at the mansion, right, and then they

551
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:14,359
Speaker 4: invite you to come out there and live.

552
00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:16,239
Speaker 5: Yeah, this is my very this is backpack. And when

553
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:18,399
Speaker 5: I first moved to la and I came to visit

554
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:20,959
Speaker 5: Renee and I was over there at Sundry's at Alberson's

555
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 5: working these like really long shifts. So I get there

556
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:26,280
Speaker 5: and I'm like, wait a second, I'm her twin. I

557
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 5: looked just like her. I could I could actually do this.

558
00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 5: I could do this modey thing. So I go back.

559
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:33,440
Speaker 5: I quit my job. I'm like, hey, you guys, I'm

560
00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:35,000
Speaker 5: out of here. I'm going to move to LA to

561
00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:37,280
Speaker 5: be a model, which is what I did. I you know,

562
00:24:37,320 --> 00:24:41,400
Speaker 5: I moved there and I went to UH to an agency,

563
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:42,919
Speaker 5: and I was able to get I just took my

564
00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:46,320
Speaker 5: sister's photos to go get an agency, you know, because

565
00:24:46,320 --> 00:24:47,879
Speaker 5: we look alike. So we're twins.

566
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:53,119
Speaker 4: So she takes Rene's modelook as her own and gets.

567
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:54,680
Speaker 5: It, gets an agent. It starts my that's you.

568
00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:58,200
Speaker 4: Know, it gets prices right, and I got hot.

569
00:24:58,280 --> 00:24:58,679
Speaker 3: After that.

570
00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:01,199
Speaker 4: You were married with children of flexor Bill and did

571
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:03,880
Speaker 4: all these things, and you guys became iconic black models.

572
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 5: That gay it was fun. Yeah, we were like, yeah,

573
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:07,840
Speaker 5: we were like we went in the first like right

574
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 5: around the time in Tyrone and yeah there's a lot

575
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 5: like Naomi and Tyra and you know it was fine.

576
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 3: So so okay, so a couple of things here.

577
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:18,640
Speaker 4: First of all, when you're living at the mansion, Okay,

578
00:25:18,920 --> 00:25:21,639
Speaker 4: what's it like to live at the Playboy Mansion, like

579
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:24,159
Speaker 4: all of us probably thinking, oh my gosh, there's like

580
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:27,399
Speaker 4: orgies every day. This is that, Like, what's it like

581
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:29,960
Speaker 4: to actually live there? How many girls were living.

582
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 5: There at the time when they when you're testing for

583
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 5: your pictorial that they fly the playmates and were shooting

584
00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:37,840
Speaker 5: the pictorial, So there could have been like two or

585
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 5: three girls that were actually shooting testing for the magazine and.

586
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:41,840
Speaker 3: But then live there.

587
00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 5: No, No, there's no, there's.

588
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:44,920
Speaker 3: No how many girls live there? Just you and Renee

589
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:45,520
Speaker 3: at that time.

590
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:47,919
Speaker 5: Yeah, there was no other So were the.

591
00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:50,000
Speaker 3: Only ones living at the mansion with you? After and

592
00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:50,400
Speaker 3: his wife.

593
00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 5: Well, we were in the game room, we were in

594
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:54,360
Speaker 5: the other Yeah, we were at state.

595
00:25:54,440 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 4: Well, well I think all of us they did. There's

596
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 4: like twenty women that are living there and it's happened.

597
00:25:58,520 --> 00:25:59,919
Speaker 3: It wasn't like that. It was like that.

598
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:01,600
Speaker 5: No, not because he was married at the time with

599
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 5: Kim and Kim was like, you know, it wasn't. I

600
00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 5: mean before Kim came along, and maybe after Kim came along,

601
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:10,960
Speaker 5: I I couldn't wasn't like it was with Kim. She

602
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:14,119
Speaker 5: was very you know, protective, and so you couldn't really

603
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:16,919
Speaker 5: you know, get close to it, and we were we

604
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 5: were friends with her, so it was like a different,

605
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 5: different like kind of experience.

606
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:24,200
Speaker 3: A right, So how crazy were the parties at the mansion?

607
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 5: Parties were kind of crazy, but but I would always

608
00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 5: like duck out or jip out, you know before like

609
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 5: the crazy stuff happened, But they were It was fun

610
00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:34,679
Speaker 5: because it was like, you know, when you would go

611
00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 5: to the mansion, you would actually go out like in lingerie,

612
00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:39,520
Speaker 5: like you'd head at your house like where like how

613
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:41,640
Speaker 5: many parties are you going to go? Like to where

614
00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:44,440
Speaker 5: you're wearing like lingerie? Some people like some girls didn't

615
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 5: even have anything on. They were just like it was.

616
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:50,160
Speaker 5: It was funny, but it was just a crazy fun.

617
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:52,680
Speaker 3: How many celeric did you walk in on having sex

618
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 3: with the mansion?

619
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:54,680
Speaker 5: I mean sister walked in on.

620
00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 4: Uh.

621
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:59,720
Speaker 5: I think it was Tony Curtis. You was getting it on,

622
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:02,840
Speaker 5: like yeah, he was pretty like pretty old, but he

623
00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 5: was like he was getting sound. Then for sure.

624
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:09,320
Speaker 4: You also do it there was I asked you about

625
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:11,919
Speaker 4: the grotto and you said, there's only one time that

626
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:14,159
Speaker 4: you guys went to the grotto because someone told you

627
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:16,360
Speaker 4: how to see what was going on and you get

628
00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:16,920
Speaker 4: right away.

629
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that was that was kind of crazy. That

630
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,639
Speaker 5: was I don't know if I want to say.

631
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:25,399
Speaker 4: Said she told me that she's done in the grotto

632
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:28,640
Speaker 4: and Mini me started an orgy there.

633
00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:30,639
Speaker 5: There was like there was like some stuff going on

634
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 5: and you like there were some players in it, but

635
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 5: there's something you want to expect. That was like I laughed.

636
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 5: I was just like wow, But no, I did not

637
00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:43,239
Speaker 5: stand not sticking around for that.

638
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:46,440
Speaker 4: But it wasn't like so the mansion though, it wasn't

639
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:49,359
Speaker 4: a place. But I'm thinking it's just sex, drugs, rack

640
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 4: and roll.

641
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,120
Speaker 3: But when you were living there was a life out

642
00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:54,480
Speaker 3: or was it the you know?

643
00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:57,200
Speaker 5: I think it was for people who wanted that if

644
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 5: you were like into that that give you like late

645
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:01,399
Speaker 5: in the nine and stuff like that. What I mean

646
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:03,199
Speaker 5: for YouTube, No, not for us. No, it wasn't like

647
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:05,200
Speaker 5: she had rules for you. Yeah, no, we had rules

648
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:06,840
Speaker 5: you tried to be in a certain time. They were

649
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:10,240
Speaker 5: like uh, boys, boys, they want you drinking or drugs

650
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 5: drinking either.

651
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 3: No.

652
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, they were like very I mean they were like

653
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:17,920
Speaker 5: very strict, very strict. So it wasn't like our experience

654
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:20,480
Speaker 5: wasn't like that. And but I do believe it's a

655
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:23,960
Speaker 5: different kind of time at that time because it was Kimberly,

656
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 5: they had kids. So but I do you know that

657
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:31,160
Speaker 5: was I can only speak from my experience, but you know, yeah,

658
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:33,480
Speaker 5: I think it was kind of a crazy place. For sure.

659
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:35,680
Speaker 4: I thought wow too, because I figured, you know, hey, okay,

660
00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 4: she was there in the early days. And Rosie and

661
00:28:38,040 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 4: Now when we first started dating, said okay, look at this,

662
00:28:40,280 --> 00:28:41,560
Speaker 4: I've been with certain people.

663
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 3: You probably know you'd probably been with people.

664
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 5: I know.

665
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:45,200
Speaker 3: Let's kind of lay our cards on the table. And

666
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:46,960
Speaker 3: Rosie was like, no.

667
00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 4: What did your brother tell you that you never really

668
00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:53,760
Speaker 4: went with yeah, musicians or anything.

669
00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 5: Yeah. My older brother was like always like you know,

670
00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 5: he was he'd always give my sister and I really

671
00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 5: good advice. So he's like, hey, you know, you don't

672
00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 5: want to be one of those girls who just sleeps

673
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 5: with everybody and you know, and and yeah, so he

674
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 5: was like be you know, don't don't be those don't

675
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 5: be those girls. So it was just good advice. So

676
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 5: my sister he's like, you know, work and do you know,

677
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 5: get your jobs and be respected, and you don't you

678
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 5: don't want to be those girls. So my sister, and

679
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 5: I always knew that. Plus we always had each other,

680
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 5: so we always were always like respected and you know, yeah, well.

681
00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 4: And then also like I got like I do not

682
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:27,960
Speaker 4: like everybody was after Rosy. Everybody Renee was with somebody,

683
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,680
Speaker 4: Rosie was single, but like Prince.

684
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:33,040
Speaker 5: Was after you in a big way.

685
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 3: Prince. You gotta tell the friends story.

686
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 5: Yeah he was. And I love Prince, Prince fan, Prince fanatic.

687
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:42,240
Speaker 3: They were all after like every every actor in Hollywood.

688
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 5: Yeah, they're probably have a lot of yeah, yeah, but yeah.

689
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 5: So so we go to uh bar one, this play

690
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 5: called bar One, and Prince is there and he's got

691
00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:54,560
Speaker 5: there's like foody guards and he's like got this little

692
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:57,120
Speaker 5: orange tipsipop and orange is the only flavor had to

693
00:29:57,120 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 5: be orange. So he he went to go out.

694
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 3: You know.

695
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 5: So at the time, I you know, I was kind

696
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:06,480
Speaker 5: of fresh from Idaho, so I was very lary of Prince,

697
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 5: you know and figure out and I suit, you know

698
00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 5: how he was with you know, Purple Rain. So he

699
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:15,080
Speaker 5: asked me out, and I'm kind of like, I don't know,

700
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:16,960
Speaker 5: I don't know. So I kept saying no, kept saying no,

701
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,360
Speaker 5: and he keeps calling, keeps calling. So finally he's like,

702
00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:21,800
Speaker 5: you know, okay, so what if I I just take

703
00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 5: you and we just drive around the block and you

704
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 5: just go and and like.

705
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:28,800
Speaker 3: And listen to music, listen to some new music. Would

706
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 3: he wants to try out new music that had.

707
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:33,400
Speaker 5: You just listen to some new music. So I'm like, okay,

708
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 5: I'll do that. So, so, so he comes over and

709
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 5: this is a limo and what you were I don't

710
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:42,360
Speaker 5: remember what he had on, probably like a little suit

711
00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 5: or something, so maybe like the jumpsuits. So he always

712
00:30:46,120 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 5: had that little outfit that he So, so he takes

713
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 5: you around the block and he says, there's this new album.

714
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 5: It's gonna it's called Diamonds and Pearls. So so like listening.

715
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:57,360
Speaker 3: To this thing, like so you got to hear a

716
00:30:57,400 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 3: Diamonds and everybody else.

717
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:00,600
Speaker 5: Think it's gonna be a hit. I think you gotta hit

718
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 5: on your hands here. So so then you know, so

719
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 5: then you know, like.

720
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 3: I'm that doesn't steal the deal for Prince.

721
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 5: No, no, no no, because I still wasn't trusting him.

722
00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:13,440
Speaker 5: I was, you know, like so so I Prince, I know,

723
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 5: I know, okay, So so I leave and I so

724
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 5: I tried to try to leave, but he's like he says, hey,

725
00:31:21,400 --> 00:31:22,720
Speaker 5: He's like, do you want to come back to my

726
00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:27,360
Speaker 5: house and I'll make some pancakes. So I'm like, not good,

727
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 5: you know. So that's like a weird thing to say,

728
00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 5: you know. So I'm just like whatever, it's a strange

729
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:33,840
Speaker 5: thing to say. So I'm like, no, I'm good. So

730
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 5: I take off. So so then you know, he keeps calling,

731
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:38,560
Speaker 5: keeps calling, and and I.

732
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:41,120
Speaker 3: Let's back out it. So the line was can I

733
00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:43,120
Speaker 3: take it back to my house and make you some pancakes? Yeah?

734
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:44,120
Speaker 5: So I'm like, no, I'm good.

735
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:46,480
Speaker 3: What was your actually he said that though.

736
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 5: It was you know what I mean, it was it's

737
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 5: strange thing. Strange's like, so I was just like, no,

738
00:31:51,640 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 5: I'm good. I'm cool. So see, it's like, you know,

739
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 5: and then you know, he keeps calling and and now

740
00:31:57,680 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 5: I'm just like, you know what, I'm just gonna, you know,

741
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 5: bypass this prince thing altogether. So I panty like maybe

742
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:04,800
Speaker 5: like a month later. This friend of mine is like

743
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 5: a fan.

744
00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 4: By the way, who ever thought a woman would choose glazers?

745
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 3: It's a hashtag something nobody would ever say.

746
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 5: No, because I never dated him, and he just kind

747
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:18,000
Speaker 5: of like messed with their heads and all that stuff.

748
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:19,480
Speaker 5: So I was like, nah, I'm not going to go there.

749
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 5: So anyway, so I go to these clubs and I'm like,

750
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 5: I see prints out and I'm with the skirl when

751
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 5: he's a Prince fanatic, and I'm like, oh, wait, God,

752
00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 5: I wonder if he's mad, because I you know, I haven't.

753
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 5: It just kind of blew him out of the water.

754
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 5: So when I see him, he like looks over and

755
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 5: he sees me and then he does like this.

756
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 3: Which for people who can't see, he does three snacks.

757
00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 5: Three snaps and then he just him at his whole

758
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 5: entourage just leave the club. I mean he's like mad,

759
00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 5: Oh my god. BRIT's just like we're good. Like it

760
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 5: was that for me. So then I'm like, oh, maybe

761
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:52,880
Speaker 5: it was a mistake or whatever.

762
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:53,320
Speaker 3: So we go.

763
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:55,360
Speaker 5: I see him again at another club. This is like

764
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 5: maybe like two weeks later, and he does the exact

765
00:32:57,200 --> 00:33:00,320
Speaker 5: same thing. So he was just like from the Prince. Yeah,

766
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:03,239
Speaker 5: he was just mad, Like no, no, he was just

767
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 5: so so anyway, but yeah, so he was like fuddy

768
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 5: because the years later, I watched the Stage Chappelle show

769
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:13,080
Speaker 5: and then they talk about like we're Prince says he's

770
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 5: going to make these pancakes, and I just bust up

771
00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:17,280
Speaker 5: laughing because it was like the thing that I remember

772
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 5: that show.

773
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:21,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah really, Oh I told her I don't remember

774
00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 3: remember and I remember, so he Wow, that was all show.

775
00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:31,800
Speaker 5: Just rough because I was like, that's exactly what he said,

776
00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 5: you know. So it was fun.

777
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 3: Oh my god, God, so your life then again you

778
00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:39,400
Speaker 3: go on, uh, you're on Price is Right? That was it.

779
00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 3: Being a showcase sugar was fun.

780
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 5: That was because I'd always watched Price is Right as

781
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 5: a little girl. So to be on there and I

782
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:47,640
Speaker 5: was on there with the Nicky what do my great friends?

783
00:33:47,640 --> 00:33:51,520
Speaker 5: I was bridesmaids and her wedding, Nicky's eerring, and so

784
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 5: it was a lot of fun.

785
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:55,960
Speaker 3: So how was Bob Barker.

786
00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 5: He was great, Actually he was great. Yeah, he was

787
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 5: really cool. He was actually really nice. And then although

788
00:34:01,680 --> 00:34:04,120
Speaker 5: everything every that was just such a fun experience. It's

789
00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 5: like a dream come true.

790
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 2: I folks, at the end of part one of my

791
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 2: podcast with my now wife Rosie Tennis, and I hope

792
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:12,720
Speaker 2: you'll have enjoyed this so far.

793
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:15,200
Speaker 3: Next week we're gonna have part two. I will be

794
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 3: on my honeymoon. I can't believe I've gotten to this

795
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:18,200
Speaker 3: point where I'm.

796
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:20,799
Speaker 2: Going to be on my honeymoon with the woman of

797
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 2: my dream. So I hope there's a lot of things

798
00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:25,759
Speaker 2: that you've already learned from Rosie's story, but also a

799
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:27,279
Speaker 2: lot of things that are that she's been able to

800
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:29,600
Speaker 2: help me with on my mental health journey to get

801
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:31,719
Speaker 2: me here where I feel worthy. I feel that I

802
00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 2: am deserving of this now. In the past, I never

803
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:37,320
Speaker 2: felt worthy of it. So I've wrote every relationship that

804
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,759
Speaker 2: I've ever had that's not gonna happen with Rosie. So

805
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 2: I really hope you can enjoy it next week as well.

806
00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:44,719
Speaker 2: But thanks for tuning in to Part one by my

807
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:45,560
Speaker 2: Journey with Rosey