WEBVTT - Making Your Money Work For You with Ash Cash

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey, we're black. We're back, We're brown.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, Mandy, what's up to a little shaky on the

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<v Speaker 2>dismount there?

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<v Speaker 1>I what's my order? What's my line?

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<v Speaker 3>Line?

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<v Speaker 4>Are we black? Are we back? Which one comes first?

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I don't know, and you know I got it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's okay. We're We're in here in cheer. Have you been.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been great, you know, making making moves per usue

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<v Speaker 2>trying to wake up from the Super Bowl. I'm still

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<v Speaker 2>like half asleep because it was the boringest event in

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<v Speaker 2>all of history.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know, it's nice to have snacks.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't even honestly, I spent the day at like

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<v Speaker 3>my parents' house, helping well superman put all the stuff together.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, your parents taken when you come fixes one thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Three hours later, the whole house is done.

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<v Speaker 2>And this is why I moved States, because this is

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<v Speaker 2>my brother, is the one that my dad calls.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I just like yeah, I mean, I mean he didn't mind,

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<v Speaker 3>which is nice, you know, But still I was like

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<v Speaker 3>I told her, mamm like, just the door, Mommy, just

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<v Speaker 3>the door.

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<v Speaker 1>She looked at me like, girl, bye, I'm not even.

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<v Speaker 5>Speaking to you.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't even do anything. I'm speaking to your husband.

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<v Speaker 1>So he said he loved it.

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<v Speaker 3>He was his mom passed away when he's twenty, so

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<v Speaker 3>he's like, you know, your parents are my parents.

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<v Speaker 2>So I was like, oh, nice, you're a great one.

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<v Speaker 2>Like your husband's nicer than you are.

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<v Speaker 3>You're like I know, because I was sure, like she'll

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<v Speaker 3>just get this door done and have to wait.

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<v Speaker 1>I look like, if you say so, no, but it

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<v Speaker 1>was awesome. But I'm super excited if speaking about good men,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm excited because we've got an awesome guest today.

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<v Speaker 2>Correct though, Yeah, I've actually you we both kind of

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<v Speaker 2>known Ash Cash, the man that met the legend going

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<v Speaker 2>on a few years now.

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<v Speaker 4>When did you first meet Ash? What's your Ash story?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I don't even remember, you know, I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like I've always known, as you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>just like I can never not remember, honestly.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, well, ask if you remember, like I don't. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know for a fin con I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>Before you don't remember it was? I remember, I remember this.

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<v Speaker 6>I remember it was, Uh what year was this? It

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<v Speaker 6>had to be two thousand.

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<v Speaker 5>I forget what year it was.

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<v Speaker 2>You're both at memory but it was christ Wow, you

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<v Speaker 2>have a great memory.

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<v Speaker 5>A little kid was like last year.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the last you know. I wasn't even that think

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<v Speaker 1>called last year.

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<v Speaker 3>But anyway, if you don't know who we're speaking to

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<v Speaker 3>and of Ash Cash is a personal finance expert. He's

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<v Speaker 3>a speaker radio TV. But honestly, he's like really like

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<v Speaker 3>my brother from another mother. He is super inspiring. He

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<v Speaker 3>was in the banking industry for about a decade, worked

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<v Speaker 3>his way up from a teller to a manager and

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<v Speaker 3>then was the CEO. What is it when you're when

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<v Speaker 3>you basically run a credit union presidency?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I was the CEO of a credit union.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's incredible, you know, incredible And just recently he

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<v Speaker 3>so just like me. I well, I ended up losing

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<v Speaker 3>my home during the Great Recession, and Ash was on

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<v Speaker 3>the verge of that. But there was a program he

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<v Speaker 3>used that helped him save his home, and recently he

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<v Speaker 3>sold that home for a huge windfall. So that's what

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<v Speaker 3>we've been to talk about today. So we're just really

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<v Speaker 3>happy to have you'll. You'll know, his tagline is mind

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<v Speaker 3>right money right or mind right life right. I mean,

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<v Speaker 3>but mind right is kind of like how it's like

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<v Speaker 3>my live Richard. So thank you for joining us.

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<v Speaker 6>Thank you so much for having me. You know, well

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<v Speaker 6>we always connect. It's always great energy. And Mandy has

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<v Speaker 6>been on my radio show and she has great energy

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<v Speaker 6>set Mandy show.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, you knew that. I think we were

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<v Speaker 2>supposed to be on it together. But whatever, we won't

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<v Speaker 2>go into your bad memory.

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<v Speaker 6>And that's I wasn't gonna say anything. But it was

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<v Speaker 6>Tiff was supposed to be on as well. It was

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<v Speaker 6>a little bit last minute, so many held it down.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, we're we're here to mend fences. We're not

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<v Speaker 2>trying to dig up. Let's focus on the man himself.

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<v Speaker 2>So Ash, I mean, I think you have so much

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<v Speaker 2>going on. I mean, TIF didn't even mention the fact

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<v Speaker 2>that how many books have you written?

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<v Speaker 4>Seven?

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<v Speaker 5>Ten? Seven books? Yep, I'm at number seven.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, well, forget all that for a second, because beyond

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<v Speaker 2>your financial expertise, I'm just mostly interested in your personal

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<v Speaker 2>story and your real estate experience. So take us back

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<v Speaker 2>to when you and your wife first decided to buy

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<v Speaker 2>a home. It was in New York, right in the Bronx.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, New York, in the Bronx the Wakefield area who

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<v Speaker 6>we were young. So it's funny because my wife and

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<v Speaker 6>I have been together for fifteen years for eleven and

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<v Speaker 6>when we first met, uh, you know, we we met

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<v Speaker 6>at work actually, so so my you know, I work,

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<v Speaker 6>I worked at Chase. Uh, I was a banker at

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<v Speaker 6>the time. She was a teller and we and we

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<v Speaker 6>you know, we met. We dated for about I mean

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<v Speaker 6>we knew each other for about two years before we

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<v Speaker 6>started dating. And so as we started to date, we

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<v Speaker 6>were thinking about I want to say, we were together

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<v Speaker 6>like four or five years or four years and then, uh,

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<v Speaker 6>we had the news that we were gonna have my

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<v Speaker 6>my daughter. And so at the time, you know, we

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<v Speaker 6>had planned this big wedding we were gonna go to, uh,

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<v Speaker 6>We're gonna have a destination wedding.

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<v Speaker 5>We would get married in Jamaica and all this stuff.

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<v Speaker 6>And my wife, you know, feash out to her, being

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<v Speaker 6>financially savvy, said you know, why are we gonna spend all.

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<v Speaker 5>Of this money to entertain other people? You know?

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<v Speaker 6>And see she jokingly said, you know what, how about

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<v Speaker 6>we just take all this money that we were gonna

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<v Speaker 6>pay for this wedding. Let's buy a house and if

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<v Speaker 6>we last ten years, then we'll have the wedding after

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<v Speaker 6>the ten years. And you know, I said, oh, that

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<v Speaker 6>sounds like a great idea. And so we like literally,

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<v Speaker 6>uh we were we were.

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<v Speaker 5>She was twenty four, I was twenty five.

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<v Speaker 6>We bought our first home and we you know, we

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<v Speaker 6>bought the house in the Bronx, uh Wakefield area.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh you know again I was I was already a banker.

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<v Speaker 6>I was already in banking and so financially, that just

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<v Speaker 6>made sense for me. And instead of buying a home

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<v Speaker 6>that was just a single parent a single family home,

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<v Speaker 6>we we bought a two family home, you know, thinking

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<v Speaker 6>that we can either you know, rent it out or

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<v Speaker 6>you know, have you know, maybe you know, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>at the time, her mother lived in the Bronx, so

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<v Speaker 6>we were thinking about maybe you know having you know,

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<v Speaker 6>my uh my mother in law lived with us so

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<v Speaker 6>that she could help take care of the baby. And

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<v Speaker 6>so that's what that's what we wind up doing. And

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<v Speaker 6>so we bought the home, I want to say, two

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<v Speaker 6>thousand and seven and.

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<v Speaker 4>Good timing, good time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yet a way to spend money then.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, exactly and at the height though, right, so

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<v Speaker 6>this is right when you know, you know, the real

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<v Speaker 6>estate bubble, you know, you know, everything was pricey, and

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<v Speaker 6>so you know, we bought the house.

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<v Speaker 4>Then how much was it?

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<v Speaker 6>It was four to twenty five at the time. Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>so four hundred and twenty five thousand dollars for two

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<v Speaker 6>family home in the Bronx and Man two thousand and

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<v Speaker 6>eight hit two thousand to die, and we lost a

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<v Speaker 6>lot of you know, we lost a lot of value

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<v Speaker 6>in the home. Like literally, you know, the house was

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<v Speaker 6>worth you know, for twenty five and we bought it.

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<v Speaker 6>By two thousand and nine, two years later, the house

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<v Speaker 6>was worth about two hundred and fifty thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>And you had taken out a mortgage. So how much

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<v Speaker 2>mortgage did you have at the time.

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<v Speaker 6>So at the time, so we we took out we

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<v Speaker 6>used the fah loan, and so we had put down

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<v Speaker 6>you know, the I want to say, like ten percent

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<v Speaker 6>or maybe less than that. We I want to say,

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<v Speaker 6>we put put down about twenty thousand, which is less

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<v Speaker 6>than ten percent, right, So we put it. We put

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<v Speaker 6>down a lot about like twenty twenty thousand. So you know,

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<v Speaker 6>our mortgage was was around like four hundred you know,

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<v Speaker 6>four hundred thousand for four oh seven some somewhere along

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<v Speaker 6>those lines. I don't remember exactly the numbers, but it

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<v Speaker 6>was it was four hundred and some changes what our

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<v Speaker 6>mortgage was, and you know, and so so each you know,

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<v Speaker 6>each month.

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<v Speaker 5>We were we were paying a hefty penny.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, I want to say, close to twenty five

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<v Speaker 6>hundred dollars if I if I'm not mistaken, was was

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<v Speaker 6>our mortgage?

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<v Speaker 2>And yet your house is worth like one hundred and

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<v Speaker 2>fifty k less than that.

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<v Speaker 5>Then what we yep, then what we were paying?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, do you remember what your interest rate was back

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<v Speaker 1>then that you locked in?

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<v Speaker 6>So luckily? I want to say that I had. I

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<v Speaker 6>was working at the bank, so I was at the

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<v Speaker 6>time that we bought the house.

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<v Speaker 5>I was a private.

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<v Speaker 6>Banker working at a Bank of America, And so I

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<v Speaker 6>want to say it was it might have been like

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<v Speaker 6>five six percent something like that, somewhere on those lines,

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<v Speaker 6>like five six percent.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So what happened? I mean, what was the worst?

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<v Speaker 2>What was like the bottom for you guys when you

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<v Speaker 2>realized what in what terrible shape you were? And then

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<v Speaker 2>and how did you bounce back?

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<v Speaker 4>What did you meant?

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<v Speaker 6>So so so right around? I want to say, two

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<v Speaker 6>thousand and nine, so I'm still working at the bank.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, we lose all this value in the home,

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<v Speaker 6>but you know, everything is all good. You know, we

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<v Speaker 6>still sort of like budget you know, budgeted for to

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<v Speaker 6>make the monthly payments, so we were still making the payments.

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<v Speaker 6>Everything was all good. Right Around two thousand and nine,

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<v Speaker 6>I wrote my first book, Mind Right, Money Right, Tellos

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<v Speaker 6>of Financial Freedom. And at the time I just kind

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<v Speaker 6>of had this bug for entrepreneurship and to just kind

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<v Speaker 6>of take it back a little bit. You know, I

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<v Speaker 6>grew up in a single parent home. You know, I

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<v Speaker 6>grew up into projects in Harlem, Saint Nicholas projects, and

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<v Speaker 6>so I didn't really have any role models, anybody in

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<v Speaker 6>business that could teach me and know mentors anything like that.

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<v Speaker 6>And so when I had I knew how to passion

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<v Speaker 6>to teach, to teach money, and so you know, I

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<v Speaker 6>you know, I wrote this book, I started doing speaking engagements,

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<v Speaker 6>was traveling, was making some money, and so I decided

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<v Speaker 6>to take a leap of faith and just leave my

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<v Speaker 6>my my bank position. And I was making six figures

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<v Speaker 6>at the time managing a branch, and I, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>decided to jump out the window. I said, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm passionate about I jumped out the window.

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<v Speaker 5>I was, uh, you know, I just.

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<v Speaker 6>Not literally no no, no, no, no, no, that.

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<v Speaker 5>Was that's a figuratively speaking, you know, because.

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<v Speaker 4>That was happening. I mean it was it was troubling time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was troubling time.

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<v Speaker 5>Right.

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<v Speaker 6>But but think about this though, Even during that troubling time,

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<v Speaker 6>I I quit my job, right, I like, I said,

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<v Speaker 6>you know what, I have this passion for financial education,

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<v Speaker 6>and so you know, I want a tour. You know,

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<v Speaker 6>I was getting a good publicity. I was on you know,

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<v Speaker 6>Black Amprist seven. I was doing a lot of interviews,

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<v Speaker 6>and so at the time, I thought fame equals money.

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<v Speaker 6>I said, whoa, you know, people know me now, and

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<v Speaker 6>so you know I'm gonna make money now, right, And

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<v Speaker 6>so I just prematurely.

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<v Speaker 5>Decided to quit my job.

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<v Speaker 6>And once I did that, I was making some money

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<v Speaker 6>as an entrepreneur, but I wasn't making enough to manage everything.

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<v Speaker 6>It wasn't making enough to manage my bills, none of

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<v Speaker 6>that stuff. And so you know, things started to catch up,

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<v Speaker 6>and you know, we couldn't afford the mortgage anymore.

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<v Speaker 5>And so you know, like I.

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<v Speaker 6>Literally remember it was like two ten, twenty eleven ish.

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<v Speaker 6>In fact, if you look at my Facebook page, you

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<v Speaker 6>will see that I threw myself a retirement party in

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<v Speaker 6>twenty ten because I retired from banking. I was like,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm retiring from banking. I'm gonna start this new career.

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<v Speaker 5>I was. I was just about to turn thirty.

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<v Speaker 6>So twenty ten, November twenty ten, it was my thirtieth birthday,

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<v Speaker 6>and so I threw myself a retirement party, a thirtieth

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<v Speaker 6>birthday retirement party.

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<v Speaker 5>That's how full of myself.

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<v Speaker 4>The universe was just like, we're about.

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<v Speaker 1>To show yeah, like we finished, you know what the state.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't realize that, but go ahead, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>You know.

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<v Speaker 6>Universe was like, wait, hold on, hold on, watch watch

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<v Speaker 6>let me show Let me show this guy, right, and

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<v Speaker 6>so yeah, shortly after, I want to say, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>uh uh not sure, but maybe like six, six or

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<v Speaker 6>seven months afterwards, I started to realize that I wasn't

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<v Speaker 6>making as much money as an entrepreneur as as I

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<v Speaker 6>was in my nine to five. I didn't plan, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't plan accordingly. My mother in law was staying

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<v Speaker 6>with us at the time, and so, you know, when

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<v Speaker 6>everything was going on, you know, we had to make

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<v Speaker 6>a decision. Right we we had this mortgage that we

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<v Speaker 6>couldn't afford. The home was wasn't worth what we were paying,

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<v Speaker 6>and so we we were missing out on payments. They

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<v Speaker 6>were gonna, you know, put the house on foreclosure, and

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<v Speaker 6>so we we did, uh, you know, we contacted the

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<v Speaker 6>bank and we did what's called a deed in lieu

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<v Speaker 6>of foreclosure where we put the home up for a

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<v Speaker 6>short sale and so that that way, if someone buys

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<v Speaker 6>a home, then we went and you know, we wouldn't

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<v Speaker 6>have to have you know, anybody knocking on our door

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<v Speaker 6>and you know, come come in and take the house.

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<v Speaker 6>And the most embarrassing part of it was that I

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<v Speaker 6>was still the hottest I ever was though, right My

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<v Speaker 6>book was still.

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<v Speaker 5>Selling, I was still on radio, I was still a

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<v Speaker 5>television I was still doing all this stuff.

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<v Speaker 6>But you know, you know, in real life, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm struggling about to lose my home.

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<v Speaker 5>My neighbors are coming up to me like, Ash, what's

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<v Speaker 5>going on? Why are you selling the house?

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<v Speaker 6>And you know, and so it was like not only

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<v Speaker 6>the worst time that I had, but also the most embarrassing,

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<v Speaker 6>but the most humbling, you know, and I'm happy it

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<v Speaker 6>happened because if you fast forward during that time, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>I kind of like I ate humble pie. I said,

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<v Speaker 6>you know what, I need to go back to work.

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<v Speaker 6>And so, you know, good thing. I had a great

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<v Speaker 6>resume still, and so you know, I decided that, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>why struggle, right, why struggle unnecessarily decided to go back

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<v Speaker 6>to work. And so I, you know, got a got

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<v Speaker 6>a branch manager position at City Bank, managing one of

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<v Speaker 6>their branches in Harlem. Was making good money again, and

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<v Speaker 6>so you know, now I'm I'm living right like now,

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<v Speaker 6>we could afford the mortgage. But at the time, uh,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, fash out the President Obama had the Making

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<v Speaker 6>Home Affordable program and so we you know, we're in

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<v Speaker 6>a short short sell we qualify, and so we applied

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<v Speaker 6>for it. And what what what essentially what it did

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<v Speaker 6>was anybody who had a mortgage that was underwater, Uh,

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<v Speaker 6>they would they would if you qualify, they would recalibrate

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<v Speaker 6>the loan so that you would now, uh they would

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<v Speaker 6>forgive you for the excess amount. Right, And so you know,

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<v Speaker 6>at the time, let's say, you know, my mortgage was

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<v Speaker 6>four hundred and seven thousand, got rid of the excess,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, one fifty and so now you know, my

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<v Speaker 6>mortgage is now two hundred and fifty thousand, and so

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<v Speaker 6>you know, you know, now I have a job, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, making making money again. And so my mortgage

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<v Speaker 6>payment went went from close to three thousand dollars to

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<v Speaker 6>now like twelve hundred dollars or eleven hundred something somewhere

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<v Speaker 6>along those lines. And the great thing that happened with

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<v Speaker 6>that was we had a two family house, and you know,

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<v Speaker 6>my mother in law was staying with us, and so

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<v Speaker 6>now once we went through the whole short cell process,

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<v Speaker 6>she decided to move out. And so we also you know,

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<v Speaker 6>now when the when the home was was was refinance

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<v Speaker 6>or or when they when they redid the loan. We're

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<v Speaker 6>now paying a two hundred and fifty thousand dollars loan.

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<v Speaker 6>Plus we have an apartment downstairs that we could rent out.

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<v Speaker 6>And so it was a double blessing, right, so now

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<v Speaker 6>we were able to save the home.

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<v Speaker 5>We could afford the mortgage.

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<v Speaker 6>But now we found a tenant, someone to live in

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<v Speaker 6>the home, and they were they were paying us eleven

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<v Speaker 6>hundred dollars in rent, and so you know, this, this curse, right,

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<v Speaker 6>this thing that was almost the worst thing that could

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<v Speaker 6>have ever happened to us, wound up being a blessing

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<v Speaker 6>because our you know, out of pocket expense for the

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<v Speaker 6>mortgage was less than one hundred dollars one hundred and

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<v Speaker 6>two hundred dollars and I was it. And so the

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<v Speaker 6>money that we would have spent on uh or we

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<v Speaker 6>would have used on the mortgage, we're now able to

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<v Speaker 6>save and start to rebuild our our account.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, that's the key difference. The fact that you

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<v Speaker 2>guys had invested in a two family homes so you

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<v Speaker 2>had the ability to rent it. Because like, at the

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<v Speaker 2>same time home values were dropping, demand for rent was

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<v Speaker 2>going up.

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<v Speaker 4>So shout out, let's pour.

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<v Speaker 2>One out for the home Affordable Modification Plan, which was

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<v Speaker 2>the program you guys took advantage of.

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<v Speaker 4>It's no longer offered, but let's pour one out for it.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank god, you guys took advantage of it when you did,

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<v Speaker 2>because that was, you know, a huge game changer.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, no, absolutely, and it was.

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<v Speaker 6>It was it was like a you know, at first,

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<v Speaker 6>we were like, man, this is too good to be true,

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<v Speaker 6>but no, we accepted the blessing you know, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>I ate my humble pie learned from it and it

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<v Speaker 6>really made me appreciate or that's what opened my eyes

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<v Speaker 6>to you know, residual income and have your money work

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<v Speaker 6>for you because you know, again you know having that.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, it wasn't really foresight, but you know, for us,

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<v Speaker 6>it was more about you know, babysitting. We were like,

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<v Speaker 6>all right, let's get this two family house so you know,

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<v Speaker 6>mother in law can stay with us, could help us

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<v Speaker 6>out when we need, you know, when we need babysitting.

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<v Speaker 6>But it actually wound up you know, helping us because

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<v Speaker 6>that extra that extra apartment, you know, allowed us to

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<v Speaker 6>create a source of a source of income. And so

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<v Speaker 6>now we weren't only relying on our physical labor, but

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<v Speaker 6>we were actually relying on you know, you know, uh,

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<v Speaker 6>residual income through through rental payments.

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<v Speaker 1>That's awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a way to turn something that could have been

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<v Speaker 3>like the worst possible thing into something that end up

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<v Speaker 3>being like a positive change for you and your family.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, absolutely, I was gonna say, you've dodged this bullet,

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<v Speaker 2>You've saved your home. You guys are in good shape.

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<v Speaker 2>You have rent you have rental income coming in your mortgage,

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<v Speaker 2>Like you know, your share of the mortgage is shrinking.

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<v Speaker 2>You're back to launching your own business. Can you talk

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<v Speaker 2>about sort of the the years following the loan modification

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<v Speaker 2>when you were getting back on your feet?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, absolutely so, so you know through you know, after

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<v Speaker 6>that happened again. You know, I you know, a couple

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<v Speaker 6>of things happened. Right first, I realized that the reason

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<v Speaker 6>why I needed the humble myself was because I was

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<v Speaker 6>making it about me. Uh when when when I when

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<v Speaker 6>I came, when I started to my journey of personal

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<v Speaker 6>finance and teaching about financial education, it felt good helping people,

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<v Speaker 6>helping people manage their money, helping people learn how to

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<v Speaker 6>uh you know, be better stewards of.

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<v Speaker 5>Their money and change their mindset.

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<v Speaker 6>And but but the moment where I started getting a

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<v Speaker 6>little notoriety, getting a little fame, I started making it

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<v Speaker 6>about me. And that's when, you know, the rug got

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<v Speaker 6>pulled over from under my legs. But now I realized

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<v Speaker 6>my second go round, it was like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 6>this is not about you.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh, you know now that you have this new added you.

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<v Speaker 6>Know, humbleness, but this this story, this uh, this this

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<v Speaker 6>obstacle that you overcame. Now now you're able to use

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<v Speaker 6>that to help people even further and full disclosure. Tiffany

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<v Speaker 6>you know this already, but I'll but I'll say it again.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, it was actually Tiffany who gave me the

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<v Speaker 6>courage to even have a conversation about about this because

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<v Speaker 6>for a long time when I was you know, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>I never spoke about it.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, we're still doing my speak speaking engagements.

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<v Speaker 6>I was still going out there, you know, not pretending

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<v Speaker 6>that everything was okay. But I just was omitting the

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<v Speaker 6>fact that I, you know, that I understood where people

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<v Speaker 6>were coming from from a foreclosure perspective. And I remember

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<v Speaker 6>one time, just you know, listening to Tiffany you know,

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<v Speaker 6>on on a on a on a video chat, and

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<v Speaker 6>she started, you know, talking about how she was going

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<v Speaker 6>through foreclosure and you know, lost her home.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, way, I'm like, I remember you

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<v Speaker 1>hit me out.

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<v Speaker 6>You're like, I was like, yo, you the budget niea

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<v Speaker 6>like how you how you.

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<v Speaker 5>Stilling all the tea? You know.

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<v Speaker 6>But but I but I realized, you know, that transparency

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<v Speaker 6>was what uh Ma is what made people and continues

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<v Speaker 6>to make people fall in love with her and her

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<v Speaker 6>message and so from that point on, I was like,

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<v Speaker 6>you know what, I'm actually gonna be more transparent.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh and and and the.

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<v Speaker 6>Honest truth was the moment I started to add that

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<v Speaker 6>as part of my story. It now sort of like,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, broke down a wall, right, because before I

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<v Speaker 6>was going in there as you know, the guy who

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<v Speaker 6>you know grew up in the hood and you know,

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<v Speaker 6>started worked in banking and became a successful banker. And

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<v Speaker 6>that was the end of the story. And now I'm

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<v Speaker 6>teaching you how to change, you know, how to get

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<v Speaker 6>out of your circumstance. But you know, now a story

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<v Speaker 6>she shifted from this guy who grew up in the

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<v Speaker 6>hood became a successful banker and then you know, ruined

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<v Speaker 6>his credit, ruined his uh you know, ruined his almost

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<v Speaker 6>ruined his life financial life by you know, by by

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<v Speaker 6>not making the right decisions.

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<v Speaker 5>And so started sharing that story.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, now that you know, we have the extra income, uh,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, from not having to pay a mortgage, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>we're saving more, we're investing more, we're you know, we're

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<v Speaker 6>buying other properties, right and so now we are realizing

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<v Speaker 6>the power of real estate, and so we you know,

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<v Speaker 6>we're buying you know, you know, income producing properties. You know,

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<v Speaker 6>my businesses is flourishing. I'm writing books and so by

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<v Speaker 6>that time, so two thousand and nine, I wrote my

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<v Speaker 6>first book. By twenty thirteen, I want to say, I

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<v Speaker 6>had three books, which is uh, you know, I had

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<v Speaker 6>Tailors a Way, which is a book I wrote with

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<v Speaker 6>my daughter, life lessons Learned through the eyes of a

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<v Speaker 6>three year old. But then I wrote What the Fico,

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<v Speaker 6>which was one of my which is still one of

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<v Speaker 6>my best selling books.

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<v Speaker 5>What the FIGHTO. Twelve steps are repairing your credit.

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<v Speaker 6>And so from there my business just started to take

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<v Speaker 6>off in such a way where you know, I have

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<v Speaker 6>income coming from our primary residents because we're renting that out.

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<v Speaker 6>We had one more, you know, one other property I

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<v Speaker 6>was a co op that we're getting income from we

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<v Speaker 6>have you know, my wife and I you know have

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<v Speaker 6>that We had our you know, my books were making money.

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<v Speaker 6>I was traveling from a speaking you know, making steady

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<v Speaker 6>income from speaking, and so I decided to take another

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<v Speaker 6>leap and decided, you know, after the credit union.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, it was a great opportunity.

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<v Speaker 6>I was, I want to say, one of the youngest

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<v Speaker 6>CEOs of a federally charted bank at the time, I

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<v Speaker 6>was thirty two. Yeah, thirty two at the time. But

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<v Speaker 6>after that decided to jump out the window again, not literally,

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<v Speaker 6>but you know, take a leap of faith and started

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<v Speaker 6>to started my business. And then you know, now was

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<v Speaker 6>it was uh, it was it was, it worked, it

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<v Speaker 6>was more steady.

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<v Speaker 5>Right.

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<v Speaker 6>One of the things I want to point out for

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<v Speaker 6>for for everybody, for the listeners, is that I believe

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<v Speaker 6>that the second time around, uh, the reason why it

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<v Speaker 6>was more successful, I was more successful as an entrepreneur

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<v Speaker 6>was because I took care of the basics.

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<v Speaker 5>You know.

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<v Speaker 6>The first time around, I was you know, I jumped

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<v Speaker 6>with a leap in a prayer, right, I didn't I

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<v Speaker 6>didn't really properly plan. I didn't have enough money saved up,

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<v Speaker 6>uh to take care of my you know, my my my,

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<v Speaker 6>my basic necessities. And so not being able to take

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<v Speaker 6>care of the basic necessities had me uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>had me worrying. And and that space in my mind too. Uh,

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't have enough space to flourish. I didn't have

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<v Speaker 6>enough space to be an entrepreneur. Uh and and and

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<v Speaker 6>and fully developed my business the way I want to

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<v Speaker 6>because I was worrying about the basics. Uh, this time around,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, I had the basics covered right, my my shelter, food,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, I knew how my daughter was going to

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<v Speaker 6>go to school.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, all the basics were covered.

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<v Speaker 6>And so now when I when I decided to become

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<v Speaker 6>an entrepreneur, it freed up so much space in my

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<v Speaker 6>mind right. And that's why I always talk about mind right,

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<v Speaker 6>money right, mind right, life right. If your mind is right,

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<v Speaker 6>it allows you to do other things. And so yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>I you know it was was was able to become

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<v Speaker 6>a full time entrepreneur, and you know, have been been

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<v Speaker 6>on that journey ever since.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, let's take a quick break and then I want

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<v Speaker 2>to come back and hear a about how one day

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<v Speaker 2>you had a fateful knock on the door of the

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<v Speaker 2>house that you saved from foreclosure and decided to sell.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll take a quick break and come back with ashcashow Ash.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the part that's really fascinating because it sounds.

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<v Speaker 3>Very Oprah esque. I don't know if you know, but

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<v Speaker 3>my auntie Oprah, when she bought her ranch in mont Pecito,

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<v Speaker 3>it's a California she that house was not for sale.

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<v Speaker 3>Oprah was like, yeah, cute, but I want it. And

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<v Speaker 3>so she knocked on the family's door, or I'm sure

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<v Speaker 3>her representatives did, and said, Oprah wants to buy your house.

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<v Speaker 3>And they were.

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<v Speaker 1>Of course like yes, because you know, she made them

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<v Speaker 1>an offer that they could not refuse. And that happened

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<v Speaker 1>to you.

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<v Speaker 3>It was Oprah, but it was someone who was willing

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<v Speaker 3>to pay you a good amount of money.

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<v Speaker 6>Tell us about that day, man, So you know, the

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<v Speaker 6>the house continues to be continue to be a blessing.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, one day, you know, I'm getting my daughter,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, ready for school, and we're on our way

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<v Speaker 6>out and there's this guy, you know, going daughter door,

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<v Speaker 6>knocking on people's door, and he's, you know, just introducing himself.

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<v Speaker 6>And so as I'm about to leave the house, I

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<v Speaker 6>see him. He's walking up to me and.

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<v Speaker 5>So now you know, I you know, we we we

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<v Speaker 5>make eye contact.

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<v Speaker 6>And the first thing, It's funny, the first thing I

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<v Speaker 6>saw was his suit, right, He had a nice suit on.

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<v Speaker 6>It was you know, nice and polish. And I was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 6>that's a nice suit, brother, and he was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>thank you. And I automatically thought that he was a politician, right,

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<v Speaker 6>because you know, in my neighborhood. It's a you know,

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<v Speaker 6>it was a middle class neighborhood.

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<v Speaker 5>A lot of you know a.

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<v Speaker 6>Lot of politicians come over around election times to introduce

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<v Speaker 6>themselves and you know, ask us, you know, how things

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<v Speaker 6>are going, and you know, want in our votes and stuff,

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<v Speaker 6>and so, you know, the gentleman said to me, he said, hey,

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<v Speaker 6>if I can get you top dollar for your home,

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<v Speaker 6>would you sell? And you know, I looked and I

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<v Speaker 6>was like, nah, you know, we had no intention of selling,

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<v Speaker 6>no intentions of moving, and so we you know, I

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<v Speaker 6>you know, I politely declined, was like, nah, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>we're not thinking about you know, selling anything like that.

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<v Speaker 5>He gave me his card.

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<v Speaker 6>He said, if you ever, you know, if you know

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<v Speaker 6>anybody who's selling or anything like that, you know, definitely

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<v Speaker 6>give me a call.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, perfect, we'll do.

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<v Speaker 6>Drop my daughter off the school, came back home, bump,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, saw my wife and I said, hey, baby,

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<v Speaker 6>let me you.

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<v Speaker 5>Know, this guy just walked up. He gave us this card.

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<v Speaker 6>He asked, you know, if we were interested in selling

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<v Speaker 6>at home. And so we both looked at each other

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<v Speaker 6>and we were like, you know what the house next

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<v Speaker 6>door was on you know, was was on sale i

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<v Speaker 6>want to say, nine ten months and it never sold.

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<v Speaker 6>Like people would go in there, people would look at

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<v Speaker 6>the house, but it never sold, never sold.

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<v Speaker 5>And we were like, man, this house is just too high.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm like, there's no way you know that they're going

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<v Speaker 6>to sell the house for what they wanted because it

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<v Speaker 6>was you know, it was also a two family but

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<v Speaker 6>they didn't have an attic like we had an attic, right,

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<v Speaker 6>and so they only had you know, like two bedrooms downstairs.

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<v Speaker 6>We had just put a you know, put some money

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<v Speaker 6>into the house. We had an attic, and because my

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<v Speaker 6>son was just born. My son is three now, but

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<v Speaker 6>he was you know, he was when he was like

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<v Speaker 6>one years old, we were like, you know what we

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<v Speaker 6>need to start, you know, making more room. And so

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<v Speaker 6>we took the attic and we redid the whole attict.

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<v Speaker 6>We put about thirty thousand dollars into the home. We

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<v Speaker 6>created two new bedrooms upstairs, we created you know, we

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<v Speaker 6>created it into a duplex.

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<v Speaker 5>Right.

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<v Speaker 6>So it went from being a two family home with

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<v Speaker 6>a two bedroom, one bath upstairs and a one bedroom,

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<v Speaker 6>one bath downstairs, and now we upgraded it to a

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<v Speaker 6>four bedroom, one bath, and so my wife and I said,

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<v Speaker 6>you know what, we should just put this house on

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<v Speaker 6>the market to see what happens, to see how much,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, we'll get offered for it, especially with this

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<v Speaker 6>new addition that we made.

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<v Speaker 5>So we put the house uh.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, you know, on on on on the market

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<v Speaker 6>and didn't really think anything was gonna happen. Within six

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<v Speaker 6>days we got to offer for exactly what we were

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<v Speaker 6>looking looking for. And just to kind of you know, uh,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, give you give your perspective was that we

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<v Speaker 6>uh you know, the house was was was was uh

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<v Speaker 6>you know, uh modified for two hundred and fifty thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 6>But throughout the years our equity started to increase. Now

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<v Speaker 6>and so now the house was worth you know, in

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<v Speaker 6>the four hundred range. And then now because we added

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<v Speaker 6>that addition, we said, you know what, we're gonna sell

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<v Speaker 6>the house of four forty and six days later we

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<v Speaker 6>got to offer for for four hundred and.

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<v Speaker 5>Forty thousand, exactly you know what we asked for.

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<v Speaker 6>And it was a blessing, right because when you think

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<v Speaker 6>about it, you know, we had the low modification and

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<v Speaker 6>so now the house was underwater and then now we

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<v Speaker 6>were we were made right. But now you know, we're

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<v Speaker 6>at a space where we're looking at, you know, coming

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<v Speaker 6>up with with you know, a six figure check to sell,

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<v Speaker 6>to sell this home, pay off our mortgage, and you know,

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<v Speaker 6>figure out what we want to do if we decided

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<v Speaker 6>to move. And my wife, you know, my wife has

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<v Speaker 6>family in the South, has always talked about you know,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, moving down south, and so we said, you

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<v Speaker 6>know what, maybe we should we should kind of take

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<v Speaker 6>a look at this, maybe we should take this seriously.

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<v Speaker 6>And we decided to take a trip down to you know,

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<v Speaker 6>it was two options. We were either gonna you know,

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<v Speaker 6>go to Atlanta or Charlotte. And you know, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>one of the great things about being an entrepreneur and

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<v Speaker 6>being at this space of my life was that, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>it didn't really matter, you know, where I live, because

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<v Speaker 6>majority of my income was either from you know, working

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<v Speaker 6>remotely doing you know, writing articles, things of that nature.

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<v Speaker 6>But then also I travel a lot, you know, going

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<v Speaker 6>you know, traveling throughout the country. You know, I mainly

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<v Speaker 6>speak at colleges teaching financial education, and so it didn't

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<v Speaker 6>really matter, you know, where I lived. And my wife

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<v Speaker 6>is an HR consultant, so she was working from home

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<v Speaker 6>as well, and so we were like, why are we

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<v Speaker 6>paying all this money in New York when we don't

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<v Speaker 6>have to be here? Long story short, we went to Atlanta,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, spent the week there, was looking at the

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<v Speaker 6>amount of square footage we can get for lessing with

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<v Speaker 6>the house, you know what we were paying in New York,

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<v Speaker 6>and it was sort of like a no brainer, and

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<v Speaker 6>so we decided to make the move. Not nothing planned.

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<v Speaker 6>We literally we sold the house in so let me

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<v Speaker 6>tell you the timeline. We sold the house September twelfth, Right, so,

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<v Speaker 6>September twelfth, we sold the house. September thirteenth, we're on

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<v Speaker 6>the road down to Atlanta. It was a thirteen hour trip.

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<v Speaker 6>We stopped one time. So we got down there September fourteenth.

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<v Speaker 6>We stayed in the airbnb as we were looking for

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<v Speaker 6>different homes. We closed on a new home in October.

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<v Speaker 6>So a month later were closing a new home. And

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<v Speaker 6>now we're living, Uh, we're living. We're living a good life.

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<v Speaker 2>I was gonna say that, but he's still very humble.

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<v Speaker 4>Universe don't don't Yeah, yeah, yes.

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<v Speaker 6>Universe, yes, Universe, you know, you know, please write the work.

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<v Speaker 6>You know I do put the people first, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>I still put the people first. Uh but yeah, but

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<v Speaker 6>but yeah, no, definitely living living a great, a great

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<v Speaker 6>life in the in in the South.

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<v Speaker 1>Had you like, did you you didn't have any family

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<v Speaker 1>down there?

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<v Speaker 6>No, no family, you know, I had, you know, some connections,

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<v Speaker 6>you know from the work I've done, you know, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>you can see your stats. And so Atlanta was my

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<v Speaker 6>second So New York, you know, obviously was my biggest market,

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<v Speaker 6>but but Atlanta was the second biggest market as far

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<v Speaker 6>as like followers and people who purchased, you know, who

0:31:46.240 --> 0:31:48.520
<v Speaker 6>support my business. And so that was one of the

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<v Speaker 6>reasons why I wasn't reluctant. I was like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 6>I'll you know, I'll figure it out, you know. And

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<v Speaker 6>and I and I knew, you know, uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>Atlanta is the real, the real Wakanda of the United States.

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<v Speaker 5>Right.

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<v Speaker 6>So like a lot of people, you know, a lot

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<v Speaker 6>of black and brown people are are you know, are

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<v Speaker 6>thriving in Atlanta. Uh, they work together and you know,

0:32:07.680 --> 0:32:09.840
<v Speaker 6>they work together. It's it's it's a lot of love.

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<v Speaker 6>And so that was one of the reasons I said,

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<v Speaker 6>you know what, let you know, it's I'm willing to

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<v Speaker 6>make that move.

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<v Speaker 5>And and and so far it's been working out.

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<v Speaker 4>We'll say hey to my hometown for me.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, yeah, when I when I found out that you

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<v Speaker 6>were from the South man and and and and you're

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<v Speaker 6>in New York. And I'm not gonna rub it in.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, I'm not not gonna do that, right right, man, Dae,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm not gonna do that. I'm gonna rub it in.

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<v Speaker 6>But but you know what it's like, you know, like

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<v Speaker 6>you know that here is man, the cost of living

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<v Speaker 6>is awesome.

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<v Speaker 4>Whatever. Who needs in a two car garage?

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<v Speaker 1>Who needs that garage?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 5>You know?

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<v Speaker 6>Like my like my my bathroom is the size of

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<v Speaker 6>of my old apartment.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. You know, it's like the backyard.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean right, I'm me can't in the backyard, do they?

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<v Speaker 1>I really think that's the overrated?

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<v Speaker 2>Who cares that your house is half as much as

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<v Speaker 2>mine and three times as big?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I made my choices, and I'm so happy with them.

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<v Speaker 6>But whenever, and if you and if you want me

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<v Speaker 6>to have to talk, you know, you know I could,

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<v Speaker 6>I could talk to your husband and we could, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>we could kind of figure something out.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying because I've been saying, I'm married to a

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<v Speaker 2>New York or he's not gonna move.

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<v Speaker 4>But look at you. You're as New York as they come.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean as or as they come.

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<v Speaker 6>All I'm born and raised one hundred twenty nine Street,

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<v Speaker 6>eighth Avenue. Oh I say, I say all that. You

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<v Speaker 6>know what I'm saying, like like, yeah, I'm New York

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<v Speaker 6>as they come. But I think that you know, and

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<v Speaker 6>I'm I'm gonna tell you the secret.

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<v Speaker 5>What what what you?

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<v Speaker 6>What you have to do is y'all gotta just come

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<v Speaker 6>down here. Just sneak you know, just sneak down here,

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<v Speaker 6>Just come visit your family.

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<v Speaker 5>Do something.

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<v Speaker 2>He got married down there that didn't work.

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<v Speaker 1>But here's what it comes down to.

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<v Speaker 4>Here's the truth. Childcare.

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<v Speaker 2>So his mother is here and she you know, they're

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<v Speaker 2>going to be the primary grandparents. So I think when

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<v Speaker 2>you're having it's like you you you and your wife

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<v Speaker 2>stay close to home when you had a kid. And

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<v Speaker 2>I think a lot of people, like young couples, are

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<v Speaker 2>thinking the same thing. So for me, it's I would

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<v Speaker 2>save money by moving to the A, but I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>dropping my kids off my dad's house.

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<v Speaker 5>Are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 4>They're gonna die?

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<v Speaker 2>Like, I'm trying to live up here where they have

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<v Speaker 2>you know, the Dominican grandmother. Well, so I'm gonna save

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<v Speaker 2>on childcare by staying here. But I get, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's you know, you have to balance those things. But

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<v Speaker 2>you bring up a really good point about the fact

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<v Speaker 2>that a lot of people, if you're working remotely, you

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<v Speaker 2>can work from anywhere. And you know, I'm not in

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<v Speaker 2>that situation right now, but there's people on my team

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<v Speaker 2>who work remote, and the opportunities are are out there

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<v Speaker 2>for people who work remote. Especially in this job market,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like a lot of employers are having to

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<v Speaker 2>bend their own traditions or rules to give you know,

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<v Speaker 2>let people be independent, location independent because the market is

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<v Speaker 2>so hot and it's hard to find people for jobs today.

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<v Speaker 5>Right absolutely, I think that's a great point.

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<v Speaker 6>And then when you think about it, you know, you know,

0:34:59.360 --> 0:35:03.200
<v Speaker 6>the money that you have to command could be different

0:35:03.239 --> 0:35:06.600
<v Speaker 6>if you go to a place where the court, you know,

0:35:06.600 --> 0:35:09.040
<v Speaker 6>the cost of living is lower. Right So someone you

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<v Speaker 6>know from from an employer's perspective, you know, having that

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<v Speaker 6>flexibility allowing you know, employees to work remotely. But then

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<v Speaker 6>also if that employee understands, you know, you know, do

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<v Speaker 6>I have to be in in a in a major

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<v Speaker 6>metropolitan city.

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<v Speaker 5>Do I have to spend you know this this money,

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<v Speaker 5>uh to live?

0:35:28.000 --> 0:35:30.440
<v Speaker 6>And you know that that that also you know, allows

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<v Speaker 6>that flexibility as well if.

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<v Speaker 3>You can look back, I mean, is there anything that

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<v Speaker 3>you would change and do differently or you're like that

0:35:36.000 --> 0:35:37.840
<v Speaker 3>the end totally justify the means.

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<v Speaker 5>No, and definitely justifies the means.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh.

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<v Speaker 6>The one the one thing I always say is that

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<v Speaker 6>the good, the bad, and the ugly all work in

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<v Speaker 6>your favor.

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<v Speaker 5>And so sometimes when you.

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<v Speaker 6>Know, I don't believe in negative and positive like negative

0:35:52.840 --> 0:35:54.719
<v Speaker 6>things happening to you because I think that as long

0:35:54.760 --> 0:35:57.600
<v Speaker 6>as you have breathing your body, uh, you're you know,

0:35:57.680 --> 0:36:00.839
<v Speaker 6>you you always have a you know, opportunity to do

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<v Speaker 6>do things different.

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<v Speaker 5>And everything just serves as a lesson.

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<v Speaker 6>And so for me, I you know, you know, you know, yes,

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<v Speaker 6>somebody would have been like man, you know, maybe I

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<v Speaker 6>would have done this differently. But if you think about it,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, honestly, if I would have never thrown myself

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<v Speaker 6>that you know that that that retirement party, if I

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<v Speaker 6>never decided to you know, quit my job cold Turkey,

0:36:22.360 --> 0:36:24.799
<v Speaker 6>I would have never you know, fell back, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>fell behind in in my mortgage.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh. You know, I would have never had that.

0:36:29.040 --> 0:36:34.600
<v Speaker 6>That uh loan remodification, and that loan remodification is what

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<v Speaker 6>led to you know, my my home increasing in value.

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<v Speaker 6>That also allowed me to sell the home and walk

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<v Speaker 6>away with some money in hand and be able to

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<v Speaker 6>purchase another home for half the price, triple the size,

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<v Speaker 6>and so all of that, it was all it was

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<v Speaker 6>all a sequence. And so if I took any of

0:36:53.560 --> 0:36:55.720
<v Speaker 6>that back, if I just said, man, I wish this,

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<v Speaker 6>this didn't happen, and I changed anything about it, I

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<v Speaker 6>would probably still be in New York. I would probably

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<v Speaker 6>still be in the same home. But instead, you know,

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<v Speaker 6>I was, I was given a new opportunity and and

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<v Speaker 6>you know, more importantly than me because I was, I

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<v Speaker 6>was fine in New York.

0:37:10.520 --> 0:37:12.719
<v Speaker 5>But I think you know now.

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<v Speaker 6>You know, you know, watching my wife happy because she

0:37:15.440 --> 0:37:17.840
<v Speaker 6>has family down here. I mean, she always wanted to

0:37:17.840 --> 0:37:20.600
<v Speaker 6>be here. You know my daughter she's ten now. You know,

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<v Speaker 6>she loves her school. She's the New York Girls. So

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<v Speaker 6>she's popular, you know, popular in school.

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<v Speaker 5>She loves it.

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<v Speaker 6>You know my son, you know, he's three now, and

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<v Speaker 6>and he you know, he's he has a lot of

0:37:33.160 --> 0:37:38.360
<v Speaker 6>energy a York toddler. Yeah, you know, you know that

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<v Speaker 6>he has a lot of energy. He's able to run

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<v Speaker 6>and and and enjoy themselves. And so I think that,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, all all lessons are blessings, and so I

0:37:47.760 --> 0:37:51.440
<v Speaker 6>definitely wouldn't change anything, and I'm happy that things happen

0:37:51.520 --> 0:37:52.560
<v Speaker 6>exactly the way they did.

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<v Speaker 2>All lessons are blessings. I love people who can speak

0:37:56.440 --> 0:37:58.880
<v Speaker 2>in bumper stickers. Yeah, you're good at that.

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<v Speaker 3>Just what is what if your full name ashes short

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<v Speaker 3>for no, just Ash ash Elexantis.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, your middle name is Xantis.

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<v Speaker 6>No, my last name is Xantis and my first name

0:38:11.960 --> 0:38:16.279
<v Speaker 6>is Ash. It's just Ash really like yeah, yeah yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>so my so my parents, so my parents are from

0:38:19.040 --> 0:38:20.080
<v Speaker 6>from Haiti, from Haitian.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh yeah, so so Ash is a is a Haitian name? Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>Which which which?

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<v Speaker 6>Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>Legend tells it that I'm named after.

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<v Speaker 6>The water boys. So so there was a water boy

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<v Speaker 6>uh in Haiti.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh that my mom? You know, my mom, It was

0:38:34.560 --> 0:38:37.800
<v Speaker 5>my mom's water boy. His name was Ash. And that's

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<v Speaker 5>you know, that wind up being my name water? No exactly,

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<v Speaker 5>not now that I say that I.

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<v Speaker 2>Did he save you from drowning or something like.

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<v Speaker 5>You are you really my dad or boy? Now that

0:38:56.960 --> 0:38:58.640
<v Speaker 5>I say it out loud, it might it might be

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<v Speaker 5>something to that. But and parents lie.

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<v Speaker 4>You have two kids, don't you lie?

0:39:03.680 --> 0:39:04.560
<v Speaker 5>Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, tell the bran Ambition fam where they can find

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<v Speaker 2>you Ash online on the social let them know.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, So you can go to my website I am

0:39:17.440 --> 0:39:20.920
<v Speaker 6>Ashcash dot com. You can follow me on all social

0:39:20.960 --> 0:39:26.520
<v Speaker 6>media platforms so Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, the same handle I

0:39:26.560 --> 0:39:29.520
<v Speaker 6>am Ash Cash and I'm very active, So you can

0:39:29.560 --> 0:39:33.960
<v Speaker 6>find me either on the website or on social media.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Ash, Yes, he you are consistent through and through.

0:39:38.280 --> 0:39:40.719
<v Speaker 3>I am a testament to your heart and soul and

0:39:40.760 --> 0:39:44.080
<v Speaker 3>you really do just pour in to the people that

0:39:44.120 --> 0:39:46.719
<v Speaker 3>you serve. So Atlanta is really lucky.

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<v Speaker 5>To have you. Thank you so much. No, I appreciate that.

0:39:49.000 --> 0:39:49.680
<v Speaker 5>Thank you so much.

0:39:50.480 --> 0:39:51.479
<v Speaker 4>Thanks for coming on the show.

0:39:51.480 --> 0:39:54.520
<v Speaker 6>Ash, Thank you, Mandy, thank you Tiffany, thank you for

0:39:54.560 --> 0:39:57.000
<v Speaker 6>having me. Thank you listeners for you know, you know,

0:39:57.040 --> 0:39:59.680
<v Speaker 6>I'm very loud and yelling and stuff, so thank you

0:39:59.719 --> 0:40:00.440
<v Speaker 6>for I.

0:40:00.400 --> 0:40:01.759
<v Speaker 4>Know it's her wife, like shut up.

0:40:02.400 --> 0:40:04.640
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, she's like the total opposite. So she's like

0:40:04.760 --> 0:40:07.879
<v Speaker 6>very calm and you know, my manner. But yeah, I'm

0:40:07.920 --> 0:40:11.240
<v Speaker 6>like the big, outgoing guy. So thank you listeners for

0:40:11.239 --> 0:40:13.440
<v Speaker 6>for for dealing with me. But you know, I appreciate

0:40:13.440 --> 0:40:14.520
<v Speaker 6>you guys, thank you for having me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, New York stand up.

0:40:16.600 --> 0:40:19.120
<v Speaker 2>Yes, it's trying to imagine if you and Tip were

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<v Speaker 2>both co hosts.

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<v Speaker 3>Me I had as honest at the Literature Academy at

0:40:25.640 --> 0:40:28.560
<v Speaker 3>the Expert Yo that Yo.

0:40:28.640 --> 0:40:30.600
<v Speaker 1>I literally I think I fell asleep at the computer afterwards.

0:40:30.640 --> 0:40:36.240
<v Speaker 1>I expended so much energy Fire up it was, But honestly, it's.

0:40:36.120 --> 0:40:38.919
<v Speaker 3>Like the number one act The Expert. Everyone loves that one.

0:40:39.880 --> 0:40:42.520
<v Speaker 3>That session, it was so much I think. I mean

0:40:42.719 --> 0:40:45.200
<v Speaker 3>I can't even watch the whole way too, because it's exhausting,

0:40:45.400 --> 0:40:47.720
<v Speaker 3>but in an awesome way. So yeah, no, it would

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<v Speaker 3>be YO would just be yelling back and forth.