1 00:00:08,119 --> 00:00:20,919 Speaker 1: Mother Knows Death starring Nicole and Jemmy and Maria qk Hi. 2 00:00:20,960 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 1: Everyone welcome The Mother Knows Death. We have a little 3 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 1: reminder for you, remember that we are doing this giveaway 4 00:00:27,880 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 1: for Giant microbes. Yeah, so you're gonna head over to Apple, 5 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:34,280 Speaker 1: leave us a written review, screenshot it, and then email 6 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:39,000 Speaker 1: your submission to stories at Mothernosdeath dot com. The contest 7 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 1: ends tomorrow, September the thirteenth, and then we will be 8 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 1: announcing the winners next week. Yeah, we're really excited about this, 9 00:00:46,479 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 1: and thanks for your awesome reviews. We've been reading them 10 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 1: and they've been really really really nice and flattering, and 11 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 1: I feel so like, oh, these guys are awesome. Okay, guys, 12 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 1: we have some extra crazy stories this week, so let's 13 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:02,720 Speaker 1: get my god, there's so many this is I feel 14 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 1: like there's gonna be a long one like this. So 15 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 1: this is the story of the week. We try to 16 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 1: pick one that's like kind of extra outrageous for story 17 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:12,080 Speaker 1: of the Week, and this one is extra outrageous. But 18 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:16,560 Speaker 1: there were also like some other ones that probably are 19 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:19,400 Speaker 1: even more outrageous. But I felt like, you guys can't 20 00:01:19,440 --> 00:01:22,440 Speaker 1: just wake up and start listening and get right into 21 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 1: those ones because some of them are at a little 22 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 1: extra Oh. Yeah, So in China, a fifty eight year 23 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 1: old man was asleep one night suddenly woke up because 24 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:33,320 Speaker 1: he thought he felt something crawling up his nose. So 25 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 1: he then thought he felt something in his throat, but 26 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:37,800 Speaker 1: he kept coughing and nothing came up, so he just 27 00:01:37,880 --> 00:01:39,920 Speaker 1: like kind of forgot about it and went back to sleep. 28 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:41,840 Speaker 1: I don't know if I could just so easily get 29 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:44,959 Speaker 1: back to sleep if I thought I felt something, If 30 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: I ever thought that I inhaled something like that, it 31 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:50,560 Speaker 1: would be like, I don't know, a gnat or something, 32 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 1: and if it didn't come up, I would just be 33 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 1: like whatever, like I guess, or maybe it was a fuzzball, 34 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 1: you know when you're sleeping, like things are just disoriented, 35 00:01:57,640 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 1: so you just you're like, maybe that didn't even have all. 36 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 1: That's all I can think about. So basically, over the 37 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 1: next couple of days, he doesn't really realize anything except 38 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 1: for the fact that he has horrible breath, and then 39 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:12,399 Speaker 1: he starts spitting up some yellow mucus after a couple 40 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:15,800 Speaker 1: of days, So then he sought medical treatment. Yeah, so 41 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:17,920 Speaker 1: he goes to the hospital and they look at his 42 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 1: respiratory track. They probably just like you know, stick the 43 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:23,000 Speaker 1: light in his nose, in the back of his throat 44 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: and they don't see anything. So they're like, eh, looks 45 00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 1: all clear, and he's insistent, like, no, there's something's wrong. 46 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 1: I know something's wrong. So they end up doing a 47 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:36,079 Speaker 1: procedure on him called a bronchoscopy, which is when they 48 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 1: stick a camera and a light down inside of your 49 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 1: lungs to look at your airway. And when they got 50 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 1: down there, they saw a big glob of sputum or 51 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 1: it's spit or phlegm that you would cough up, and 52 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:54,959 Speaker 1: they saw wings within it. So it turns out it 53 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 1: was a cockroach, which is so disgusting. Oh my gosh, 54 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: it is, and and we know that it went down 55 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:06,520 Speaker 1: there alive, so it's like little decomposing body mixed with 56 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 1: the phlem just was what was giving him this bad breath. 57 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:12,720 Speaker 1: It's so nasty. We have to talk about how discussing 58 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:16,600 Speaker 1: the words feutum is. Listen, I'm going to tell you 59 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:18,919 Speaker 1: something because you guys always ask me like what grosses 60 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 1: me out and everything. When I so before I started 61 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 1: working in the pathology department, when I was like twenty 62 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 1: years old. I used to work at the microbiology lab 63 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 1: and in two different hospitals, and when and when I 64 00:03:32,960 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 1: worked there, my job was to put specimens into the computer, 65 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 1: and it also was to put specimens onto Petrie dishes 66 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 1: so we could see if bacteria would grow or fungus 67 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 1: would grow or something. And people would like hawk a 68 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 1: huge loogie inside of a specimen cup and they would 69 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 1: come down to pathology and I would have to stick 70 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 1: a Q tip in that like a sterile swab inside 71 00:03:56,880 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 1: of that spit and play with it and then it 72 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 1: onto a Petri dish, and it seriously was disgusting, Like 73 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 1: you think about the ones you see on the street 74 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 1: usually or just like ones that people spit or just 75 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 1: like that foamy white spit. This was like spewed them 76 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: like a deep cough is like think about when you're 77 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:18,159 Speaker 1: sick and you cough up all that yellow, chunky stuff. 78 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 1: It's like that in a cup and the last thing 79 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 1: you ever want to do is touch that. It's just 80 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 1: so it's just really gross. It almost makes you feel 81 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 1: like you want to throw up when you see it. Well, 82 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 1: I actually have to do one of those spit tests 83 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:31,800 Speaker 1: this weekend. That I have to send to a lab 84 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 1: and really not looking forward to it. And all I 85 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:36,760 Speaker 1: can think about is when we interviewed Mary Roach and 86 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:39,159 Speaker 1: she said that spit was the worst smell she's ever 87 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 1: smelled in her life, out of every bodily fluid. No, it, 88 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:46,280 Speaker 1: it really is it. But when I had to do 89 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 1: that for one of the genetic tests, I did spit 90 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 1: like into a cop to send it, and it was 91 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 1: like a lot of spit. It was kind of not 92 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:55,840 Speaker 1: that easy to collect. You don't really think of it, 93 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 1: but you're just like, this is so weird. But spit 94 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 1: is nothing compare to spewed him. It's just so gross. 95 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 1: And to think about that getting sent to the lab 96 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:08,720 Speaker 1: with an animal bug trapped within it is just so 97 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 1: it's so nasicey. It is so disgusting. Poor guy. Yeah, 98 00:05:12,240 --> 00:05:15,359 Speaker 1: So basically they removed it from istrachia, they washed the area, 99 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:18,480 Speaker 1: which pretty much made the bad smell go away right away, 100 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 1: and then he recovered and was discharged the next day. 101 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 1: So ew forever emotionally traumatized, but not really much damage 102 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 1: to his body. Yeah for sure. All right, let's get 103 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 1: onto some celebrity news. We had a really terrible death 104 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 1: this week. Yeah, So, Hollywood legend James Earl Jon has 105 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 1: died at ninety three years old. He is most notable 106 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:41,360 Speaker 1: for the voice of Darth Vader in Star Wars, Moufaucet 107 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:43,919 Speaker 1: in The Lion King, and he was in the Hunt 108 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 1: for Red October. Were you shocked to read that he 109 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:50,840 Speaker 1: was ninety three? I suppest just like this is how 110 00:05:50,880 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 1: I know I'm getting old, because I was like, oh, 111 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:56,040 Speaker 1: in my mind, he's like sixty five. I also like, 112 00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 1: when did he turn ninety three? I was thinking that, 113 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 1: and then also when I was like, oh my god, 114 00:06:00,680 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 1: he was in the Hunt for Red October. So if 115 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:06,719 Speaker 1: anybody's familiar with the Phillies, they kind of used that 116 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 1: as a marketing scheme when they're getting close to playoffs 117 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 1: they call whenever they make the playoffs, they call it 118 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:14,720 Speaker 1: Red October. And I found irony in the situation because 119 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 1: whenever his celebrity dies, Nick Castianos hits a home run, 120 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 1: and then it came out that he died this week. 121 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:22,520 Speaker 1: And then last night when we were at the game, 122 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:25,360 Speaker 1: Nick Castiano's hit a home run and Gabe said, who 123 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 1: died this week? He did it? Gamee said it last 124 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: night and we were like oh, James Earl Jones, we 125 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 1: were just talking. We're going to talk about that on 126 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:35,839 Speaker 1: the podcast. So yeah, so he was like super cool. 127 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 1: Mufosso was like that. That was the first one I 128 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 1: thought of, was like, mufoss. Yeah. So he definitely has 129 00:06:41,360 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 1: this legendary voice. It's really awesome. I again, like you said, 130 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:48,279 Speaker 1: I could not believe he was in his nineties. You 131 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:50,480 Speaker 1: know what's really interesting about him. I don't know if 132 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 1: you know this, but he was mute for a long 133 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:55,680 Speaker 1: relation of his life. When he was younger, Yeah, he 134 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:58,599 Speaker 1: had a really bad stuttering problem, and then he he 135 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 1: didn't talk, not because he couldn't, but because he just 136 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:03,800 Speaker 1: didn't want to because every time he talked he stuttered 137 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:06,360 Speaker 1: so bad. And he got out of it on his own, 138 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:11,120 Speaker 1: just using his poetry and speaking and just he eventually 139 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 1: got over it. But in more recent interviews he still 140 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 1: was saying that like he always wanted to stutter, like 141 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 1: it was always there. It never really went away. He 142 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 1: just was able to control it. I just thought that 143 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 1: was really cool. It's good for you know, you have 144 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 1: kids that have problems with this, and then you think 145 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 1: like you can go on to be like your voice 146 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 1: is probably the most famous voice of anyone ever of 147 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:38,240 Speaker 1: all time. Right, so it's really really cool story. Yeah, definitely, 148 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 1: And this next one is absolutely outrageous. So yesterday bon 149 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 1: Jovi was shooting this music video on a pedestrian bridge 150 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 1: in Nashville. I'm pretty sure this bridge is famous. When 151 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 1: we were at crime Con and leaving the last day, 152 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 1: I actually walked over this bridge and it's a really 153 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:54,920 Speaker 1: nice walk, you get it, really a nice view of 154 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 1: the downtown. So during the music video shoot, the bridge 155 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 1: was open to the public, and around six pm, this 156 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 1: woman was seen climbing over the railing, apparently trying to 157 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:10,119 Speaker 1: jump off of it. And so so she's she's trying 158 00:08:10,120 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 1: to kill herself, right, And what happened, Like did he 159 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:16,559 Speaker 1: just so happened to see like police commotion or something 160 00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 1: or where they were, like, yo, bon Jovi come over 161 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 1: here and try to like talk this lady off, Like 162 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 1: how did that go down? So it appears to me 163 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 1: that this bystander went over to talk to her and 164 00:08:26,880 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 1: then he kind of realized what was going on and 165 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 1: he went over there and de escalated the situation and 166 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 1: then helped her climb back over the railing. And shortly 167 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 1: after that is when the emergency workers got there. Dude, 168 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:41,640 Speaker 1: think about this for a second, like if there's any 169 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:44,200 Speaker 1: kind of sign that you shouldn't do this. It's like, 170 00:08:44,679 --> 00:08:46,960 Speaker 1: you're doing this, you feel at the lowest of your life, 171 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:49,360 Speaker 1: you feel like you can't live on anymore, and freaking 172 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:52,920 Speaker 1: bond Jovie comes up to you and it's just see, 173 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:54,960 Speaker 1: like you it's not that much of an impact for 174 00:08:55,040 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 1: someone like you, but for me, he was like one 175 00:08:57,559 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 1: of the biggest like hottest hearts robs ever in the eighties, 176 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:04,520 Speaker 1: right yeah, And like just to think, like what would 177 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:07,080 Speaker 1: be the chances that this guy, like if he came 178 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:09,080 Speaker 1: over to me and was like, listen, I'm bon jo 179 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 1: if you please don't do this, I'd be like, yeah, okay, 180 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 1: You're like I wouldn't even I wouldn't even believe him. 181 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 1: You know, Like how how surreal of a moment must 182 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:19,360 Speaker 1: that have been for her? You know? Uh yeah? And 183 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:22,080 Speaker 1: like now he's kind of this like angel that's helped 184 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 1: this moment. Like there's there's surveillance footage from the bridge 185 00:09:26,400 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 1: of him like talking to her and he hugs her afterwards, 186 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 1: and you're like, how awesome that he didn't just like 187 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 1: stick one of his people on this and was like, 188 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:36,200 Speaker 1: take care of this. I yeah, I know. It's it's 189 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 1: such a good story, and it's a good story for 190 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:40,960 Speaker 1: her and hopefully she gets to like the help she 191 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:43,560 Speaker 1: needs and and and thinks that life is worth living. 192 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:46,520 Speaker 1: It's just such a it's it's such a crazy story 193 00:09:46,559 --> 00:09:48,320 Speaker 1: for her. Oh my god. Yeah. So I don't know. 194 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 1: I think this is like, you know, I've worked on 195 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:53,439 Speaker 1: music videos before and they're just really stressful to work 196 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 1: on because you're jamming so much filming into like a 197 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: really short day. So I'm sure this held up the 198 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:00,240 Speaker 1: production for a couple of hours. And I do think 199 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 1: it's genuinely really cool that he dealt with the situation 200 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 1: firsthand and wasn't like pissed about it or anything. And 201 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:09,720 Speaker 1: he's not talking about it, which I also appreciate because 202 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 1: he's kind of like, you saw what happened. I don't 203 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:14,840 Speaker 1: need to say anything else. Yeah, exact. So he seems 204 00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 1: like a really cool guy. Yeah, I'm into I've always 205 00:10:18,760 --> 00:10:22,080 Speaker 1: liked him though, like he's I mean, one of my 206 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 1: friends growing up had a poster of him in her 207 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:27,679 Speaker 1: room and we were probably literally like Lulu's age, like nine, 208 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:29,920 Speaker 1: and he had like the biggest bulge ever in this 209 00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:32,440 Speaker 1: he was wearing these jeans that looked like they were 210 00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:34,960 Speaker 1: like sewn on his body, and I just it just 211 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:37,800 Speaker 1: was weird because we used to play barbies in her 212 00:10:37,840 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 1: bedroom and like that thing was just always in my 213 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:45,440 Speaker 1: face and her mom wasn't like this is totally inappropriate. No, 214 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:48,720 Speaker 1: but I've always thought he was real nice since I 215 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 1: was younger. All Right, And more sad news. Selena Gomez 216 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:54,440 Speaker 1: did an interview with Vanity Fair recently and she was 217 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 1: talking about wanting to start a family with her boyfriend 218 00:10:57,240 --> 00:11:00,280 Speaker 1: and said it wasn't necessarily the way she envisioned because 219 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:02,760 Speaker 1: she admitted that, due to all of her medical issues, 220 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 1: she's not able to carry her own children. Yeah. So 221 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 1: in two thousand, so let's start off with saying that 222 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:13,439 Speaker 1: Selena Gomez was diagnosed with lupus, which is a autoimmune condition. 223 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 1: It causes inflammation in the body. It could start like 224 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:20,600 Speaker 1: most people might notice it because they get a crazy 225 00:11:20,760 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 1: brash on their skin that's very it's very indicative of 226 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 1: having lupus. It's called a butterfly rash and it goes 227 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 1: around your nose and on your cheeks, and that was 228 00:11:32,840 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 1: kind of the first signs that anybody would have lupus, 229 00:11:36,200 --> 00:11:38,600 Speaker 1: and she I don't know if that was her particular 230 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 1: diagnosis because she's pretty. She was pretty young when she 231 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 1: got diagnosed. I think like twenty five, so I don't 232 00:11:44,400 --> 00:11:47,360 Speaker 1: know what symptoms she was presenting with. But it could 233 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:50,760 Speaker 1: affect just your skin, or it could be systemic and 234 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:53,000 Speaker 1: it could get into your joints, and it could even 235 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 1: affect your organs like your heart and your lungs, and 236 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:58,840 Speaker 1: unfortunately affected her kidney's so bad to the point where 237 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 1: she needed to get a kidney transplant. She needed to 238 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:05,000 Speaker 1: get a kidney from a donor because hers were no 239 00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:07,800 Speaker 1: longer functioning well. And this do you know who her 240 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:09,679 Speaker 1: donor was? I don't know her name, but there was 241 00:12:09,720 --> 00:12:12,080 Speaker 1: a lot of drama with it afterwards, because it was 242 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:15,360 Speaker 1: like her name is raising yeah, r aissay? Is that 243 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:17,320 Speaker 1: how you say? I believe so? And it was like 244 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 1: one of her close friends. And then they had a 245 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:22,319 Speaker 1: falling out after and everybody was very judgmental, like how 246 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:24,440 Speaker 1: could you have a falling out with somebody that gave 247 00:12:24,480 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 1: you their organ? But now they've been seen talking again, 248 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:31,480 Speaker 1: So there was all this drama over it for years yeah, 249 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 1: because that is a lot to donate your kidney to somebody. 250 00:12:35,520 --> 00:12:38,360 Speaker 1: For most people, you could live with one kidney your 251 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:41,560 Speaker 1: entire life and just be fine. But once you get 252 00:12:41,640 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 1: rid of your good one, now like you're at risk. 253 00:12:44,520 --> 00:12:47,839 Speaker 1: If anything happens to yours, you're taking a risk. And 254 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:51,320 Speaker 1: it's very selfless to donate an organ, especially when it's 255 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 1: not like your kid or something, or your parent or something. 256 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 1: You know. So she got the kidney donation from this 257 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:01,520 Speaker 1: woman when she was twenty five, back in twenty seventeen. 258 00:13:02,040 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 1: And when you get a new organ, it kind of 259 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:07,840 Speaker 1: changes things about your body. You have to be on 260 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 1: drugs so your body doesn't reject it. Because anytime foreign 261 00:13:12,080 --> 00:13:14,880 Speaker 1: objects get put into your body, like I think this 262 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:17,959 Speaker 1: week's mystery diagnosis I did Iud's and I was talking 263 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 1: about this a little bit, like your body sees stuff 264 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:23,079 Speaker 1: that they don't like and they think it's a threat 265 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:26,440 Speaker 1: and they attack it. And what happens is is that 266 00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:29,320 Speaker 1: your body, especially when you're young and your immune system's 267 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:31,679 Speaker 1: really good, like it wants to attack this new organ 268 00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:34,040 Speaker 1: that's in your body. So they give you drugs to 269 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:37,160 Speaker 1: kind of suppress your immune system, which then sets you 270 00:13:37,240 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 1: up for other things, because when you're chilling out your 271 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:43,199 Speaker 1: immune system for that, then when you get infections and stuff, 272 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 1: you could also get sick easier because your immune system's 273 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 1: not working so great to attack these things. So there 274 00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:55,480 Speaker 1: are people who get kidney transplants and other transplants as well, 275 00:13:55,520 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 1: and they are able to get pregnant and have babies. 276 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:02,400 Speaker 1: So it's not like you can't ever do that if 277 00:14:02,440 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 1: you have a transplant. But in some people it's just 278 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:09,120 Speaker 1: too much of a risk because pregnancy is a lot 279 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:11,000 Speaker 1: of people think, oh, you're just pregnant, but it really 280 00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 1: changes your body and it puts strain on your body. 281 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:17,920 Speaker 1: It puts strain on your kidneys. You're already considered IMMUNEO 282 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:21,880 Speaker 1: suppressed when you're pregnant, so that on top of being 283 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 1: on drug sets suppressed the immune system could not be 284 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 1: good because it could risk infection. She could be set 285 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 1: up to get preoclamsy or something like that because you 286 00:14:30,360 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 1: could get hypertension and everything like that. So I think 287 00:14:33,320 --> 00:14:36,240 Speaker 1: it's probably just like on the safe side thing. It 288 00:14:36,280 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 1: could also indicate that maybe her new kidney isn't functioning 289 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 1: like one hundred percent. But whatever it is, they just 290 00:14:43,880 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 1: decided that it's not worth the risk for her to 291 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:48,800 Speaker 1: go through with something like that, so she would have 292 00:14:48,800 --> 00:14:50,960 Speaker 1: to get a surrogate. Yeah, I think she's really strong 293 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:53,600 Speaker 1: for admitting this. I think there's like a huge fertility 294 00:14:53,640 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 1: crisis going on right now that not a lot of 295 00:14:55,760 --> 00:14:58,760 Speaker 1: people are willing to talk about. And I think by 296 00:14:58,800 --> 00:15:01,720 Speaker 1: people coming forward as especially somebody of her caliber, it 297 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 1: kind of helps a lot of women feel less alone. 298 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 1: And she said, at the end of the day, I 299 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:08,760 Speaker 1: don't care, it'll be mine, It'll be my baby. And 300 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 1: I think by using a surrogate or adopting. So, I 301 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 1: think that's really awesome that she has that attitude, even 302 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:17,120 Speaker 1: though she does say she had to grieve a little bit, 303 00:15:17,160 --> 00:15:19,320 Speaker 1: because I mean, that's hard to find something like that 304 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:23,000 Speaker 1: out if you want kids. Yeah, and she's young, and 305 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:25,920 Speaker 1: she's already been through a lot. Like to think that 306 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:28,840 Speaker 1: you have to go through a drastic kind of surgery 307 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:32,000 Speaker 1: because your organ that you need to live isn't functioning 308 00:15:32,760 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 1: is stressful for a young person to go through. As 309 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:39,200 Speaker 1: it is, She's been through a lot medically since the 310 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 1: time she was a young woman, you know, so just 311 00:15:42,520 --> 00:15:45,280 Speaker 1: to like you almost kind of feel like cool, I'm 312 00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 1: just like fuck, thanks, Like, yes, you know, it's it's 313 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:51,280 Speaker 1: hard to realize, but at least like you could look 314 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 1: at it in a different way and just be like, 315 00:15:53,080 --> 00:15:55,800 Speaker 1: at least there's other options available now that wouldn't have 316 00:15:55,840 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 1: been available fifty years ago or whatever. You know, Well, 317 00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:00,920 Speaker 1: it is good too that she has the resources to 318 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:03,320 Speaker 1: be able to afford a sarrogate or something, because a 319 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:05,960 Speaker 1: lot of women are in that position, you know, they 320 00:16:06,000 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 1: have this terrible news that they can't carry their own 321 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:11,800 Speaker 1: children and then they don't have that opportunity to have 322 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:14,600 Speaker 1: as harrogate carry their kid. But I mean, adoption is 323 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:17,840 Speaker 1: such an amazing thing and people that are affected by 324 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:21,480 Speaker 1: this should look into that. One thing I want to 325 00:16:21,520 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 1: tell you too, is that you were saying that you 326 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 1: like that she talks about this because there's like a 327 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 1: fertility problem now, which I don't know the statistics of that. 328 00:16:31,640 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 1: I just think that there's probably been a fertility problem 329 00:16:34,520 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 1: forever and just yeah, it's just one of those things 330 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:40,480 Speaker 1: that it's always it's always been this thing like, oh, 331 00:16:40,520 --> 00:16:42,600 Speaker 1: you think something's wrong with you and you don't want 332 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:45,280 Speaker 1: to talk about it or something, but like even just 333 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:48,000 Speaker 1: talking to my mom and stuff, it seems like it's 334 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 1: it's there, it's been a thing for a while, and 335 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:54,320 Speaker 1: people just you know, I feel like it's definitely more 336 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:56,920 Speaker 1: talked about now, which is good. But it's definitely good 337 00:16:56,920 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 1: when people like this speak out about it, for sure. Yeah, 338 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:02,600 Speaker 1: because even in the past, like you've posted pictures of 339 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:05,639 Speaker 1: miscarriages and stuff, and you face a lot of backlash 340 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:08,639 Speaker 1: for doing that, but the comments underneath your posts that 341 00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:11,239 Speaker 1: are like, thank you so much for sharing this. This 342 00:17:11,320 --> 00:17:13,439 Speaker 1: happened to me, And I feel less alone knowing this 343 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:16,920 Speaker 1: happens to other people because people just don't talk about it, 344 00:17:17,160 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 1: and it's not like you have to go out of 345 00:17:18,520 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 1: your way and make somebody uncomfortable about it. But like, 346 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:23,960 Speaker 1: it's good to share your experiences because that's really hard 347 00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:27,360 Speaker 1: emotionally for people to go through. So well, I went 348 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:29,480 Speaker 1: through I didn't go through it personally, but one of 349 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:31,879 Speaker 1: my best friends, when she was like really really trying 350 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 1: to have a baby, went through absolute health for years 351 00:17:34,560 --> 00:17:37,440 Speaker 1: and like now, thank god it all worked out. Well, 352 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:39,520 Speaker 1: that's another story I want to say, it all worked out. 353 00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:42,400 Speaker 1: She has two healthy kids and and and they're doing 354 00:17:42,440 --> 00:17:45,000 Speaker 1: great and they're in school and everything. They're they're they're awesome, 355 00:17:45,080 --> 00:17:48,440 Speaker 1: but like she went through absolute health for years trying 356 00:17:48,480 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 1: to get those kids. Yeah, and it and and it 357 00:17:51,359 --> 00:17:54,919 Speaker 1: finally worked out for her. But I was just like, 358 00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:57,200 Speaker 1: what that was one of my things, Like do people 359 00:17:57,320 --> 00:18:00,119 Speaker 1: know that this is happening to people like she she 360 00:18:00,200 --> 00:18:02,600 Speaker 1: had multiple miscarriages in a row. It just was like 361 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:06,840 Speaker 1: outrageous and and and the doctor's just kind of like, yeah, 362 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:09,199 Speaker 1: it's normal and kind of shoves you off, you know, 363 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:11,879 Speaker 1: and you need to Like women want to hear a 364 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:14,240 Speaker 1: little bit more about it, and it makes them feel 365 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:17,360 Speaker 1: better if other people experience in what they are, Yeah, exactly. 366 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:21,240 Speaker 1: This next story is also really crazy. So Shane and Hurley. 367 00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:23,879 Speaker 1: She was on season two of Love is Blind. So 368 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:26,000 Speaker 1: when she was two months pregnant, she went to go 369 00:18:26,040 --> 00:18:29,280 Speaker 1: get a regular pap smer afterwards, the doctor said that 370 00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:32,080 Speaker 1: the results were abnormal. They wanted her to get another test, 371 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:35,200 Speaker 1: and then she was diagnosed with stage two cervical cancer. 372 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:39,360 Speaker 1: What is Love is Blind? So it's this show on 373 00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:42,399 Speaker 1: Netflix where they start I only watch season one, but 374 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:44,800 Speaker 1: because it was on during COVID and there was like 375 00:18:44,840 --> 00:18:47,920 Speaker 1: nothing to do. So basically they start the show off 376 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:49,880 Speaker 1: where they have all these women and all these men 377 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:52,880 Speaker 1: and they go in these things called pods, so they 378 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:56,399 Speaker 1: talk to like the other gender through a wall, but 379 00:18:56,440 --> 00:18:59,360 Speaker 1: they can't see each other. So you're basing who you're 380 00:18:59,440 --> 00:19:03,000 Speaker 1: picking to like, partner up with based on just talking 381 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:08,280 Speaker 1: to each other, not appearances. But then afterwards, I mean, 382 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:11,919 Speaker 1: my my problem with this show is that everybody's hot 383 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:15,679 Speaker 1: on it, so it's not like surprised the person's like 384 00:19:15,800 --> 00:19:19,439 Speaker 1: ugly something, which they're making the point that would make 385 00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:21,920 Speaker 1: a show really good, but like, no, that would make 386 00:19:21,920 --> 00:19:24,040 Speaker 1: the show really good if you just put like regular 387 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:28,720 Speaker 1: people on it, not like all models. And ye, some 388 00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:31,399 Speaker 1: of them are definitely not attracted to the person they 389 00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:33,679 Speaker 1: end up getting paired with and then that ends up 390 00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:36,480 Speaker 1: breaking them up at some point. But generally I would 391 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 1: consider all of them to be pretty attractive people. So 392 00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:42,159 Speaker 1: I don't know, I think that's the biggest fall on 393 00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 1: the show. But she was on this show. She did 394 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:47,320 Speaker 1: partner up with a guy, but I believe she broke 395 00:19:47,359 --> 00:19:49,000 Speaker 1: it off and it didn't work out, and then she 396 00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:51,240 Speaker 1: met a new guy and then that's who she was 397 00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:55,320 Speaker 1: having the baby with. When do you know, did it say, 398 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:57,800 Speaker 1: like what year this all went down. I'm just curious. 399 00:19:57,880 --> 00:19:59,760 Speaker 1: I just want to know if COVID had anything to 400 00:19:59,800 --> 00:20:04,080 Speaker 1: do with this timing. Well, the first season came out 401 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:07,240 Speaker 1: in twenty twenty, No like when did when was she pregnant? 402 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:09,960 Speaker 1: What it had to be after twenty twenty because the 403 00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:12,240 Speaker 1: second if she was on season two and she got 404 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:15,359 Speaker 1: pregnant after season two, that would have been filmed in 405 00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:20,000 Speaker 1: late twenty twenty early twenty twenty one. So because this 406 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:23,320 Speaker 1: is interesting, So there's a reason I'm asking this when So, 407 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:28,159 Speaker 1: cervical cancer is most oftentimes caused by HPV virus, and 408 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:33,160 Speaker 1: you know when it's a sexually transmitted infection. But as 409 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:36,520 Speaker 1: you know, when you get that, it causes changes in 410 00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:39,560 Speaker 1: the cells that are first abnormal and then they could 411 00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:42,040 Speaker 1: develop into pre cancer as cells, and then they eventually 412 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:46,440 Speaker 1: develop into cancer. But that doesn't happen overnight. And that's 413 00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:50,199 Speaker 1: why they recommend that you get PAP tests done frequently 414 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 1: because they want to catch it while it's early before 415 00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:59,560 Speaker 1: it's straight up invasive cancer. Right, So what happens is 416 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 1: she is pregnant and they read the PAP smerror and 417 00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:06,480 Speaker 1: they say that she's you know, once they did all 418 00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:08,040 Speaker 1: this stuff, so they look at the PAP smear, it 419 00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:10,959 Speaker 1: looks abnormal. Then they're like, okay, we want to do 420 00:21:11,000 --> 00:21:14,159 Speaker 1: a kolposcopy, which is looking at the cervix with a 421 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:18,920 Speaker 1: light and a camera, and then they do a biopsy. 422 00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:21,199 Speaker 1: And then they come back and they're like it's cancer. 423 00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:23,840 Speaker 1: Like it's full blown cancer. It's not pre cancer. It's cancer. 424 00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:26,359 Speaker 1: So my first thought when I hear that is like, 425 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:30,800 Speaker 1: why hasn't she been getting paps before this? Because this 426 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:33,679 Speaker 1: should have been picked up. It's just it's kind of 427 00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:36,960 Speaker 1: something that really shouldn't just be picked up incidentally, like that, 428 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:40,680 Speaker 1: like if you go to all of your your ge 429 00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:43,680 Speaker 1: way and appointments and everything and you're getting tested, there's 430 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:45,760 Speaker 1: no reason that you should just show up with full 431 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 1: blown cancer. So either number one, that's why I think 432 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:51,840 Speaker 1: COVID had to do with it, because people weren't going 433 00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:53,800 Speaker 1: to their appointments for a couple of years there, They're 434 00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:57,000 Speaker 1: just like routine appointment. I see your point there, But 435 00:21:57,040 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 1: I want to say I when because it was under 436 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 1: thirty and never had an abnormal PEP, they switched it 437 00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:05,639 Speaker 1: to being every other year and not every year. No, 438 00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:08,680 Speaker 1: I know, but it wouldn't it wouldn't happen. I'm saying 439 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:12,439 Speaker 1: like if she had even if they skipped right, she 440 00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:14,679 Speaker 1: would have had one the year before. It wouldn't have 441 00:22:14,720 --> 00:22:18,240 Speaker 1: went from like she had nothing one year to a year, 442 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:21,479 Speaker 1: like a year or two later having full blown cancer. 443 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:24,440 Speaker 1: That's why they that's why the gap isn't that big 444 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:27,760 Speaker 1: because it just doesn't develop that quickly. Now I know 445 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:30,960 Speaker 1: a lot of people who don't have insurance, or she's 446 00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 1: she's on a show, she's busy, like she might have 447 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:35,720 Speaker 1: went maybe when she was seventeen and then didn't go 448 00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:37,920 Speaker 1: back for a couple of years, because people do that. 449 00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:41,280 Speaker 1: That's like what people do. But that's what can cause 450 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:44,600 Speaker 1: trouble like this. That's why you really should do your screening. 451 00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:48,440 Speaker 1: So it was either she didn't go or she didn't 452 00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:52,439 Speaker 1: go because of COVID, right, Yeah, regardless, she's diagnosed with 453 00:22:52,480 --> 00:22:55,160 Speaker 1: cancer and she was very early on in her pregnancy. 454 00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:59,480 Speaker 1: So they they give you options. They're like, you could 455 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:01,679 Speaker 1: abort and will take care of this cancer. It's a 456 00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:04,719 Speaker 1: heart it's a horrible option because she really wanted to 457 00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:06,960 Speaker 1: have this kid, and I think she had a miscarriage before, 458 00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:11,040 Speaker 1: and so they they basically say to you, all right, 459 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:12,720 Speaker 1: well you're going to keep the pregnancy, and we're going 460 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:14,639 Speaker 1: to try to deal with it, or you can abort 461 00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:16,280 Speaker 1: it and we'll do what we need to do with it, 462 00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:19,400 Speaker 1: you know. So she decided she wanted to keep the baby, 463 00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:22,320 Speaker 1: and they wanted to do all these things. So first 464 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:25,320 Speaker 1: they wanted to do what's called a cold knife Byapsey Cone, 465 00:23:25,920 --> 00:23:28,760 Speaker 1: which they go and they literally it's called cold knife 466 00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 1: because they're not using a cautery tool. They're using just 467 00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:33,600 Speaker 1: like a scalpel, but they go in your cervix and 468 00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:36,399 Speaker 1: they cut like the entire center of it out like 469 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:39,480 Speaker 1: a coon. The problem with that, though, with pregnancy is 470 00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:41,800 Speaker 1: like that's kind of the plug that's holding the baby 471 00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:44,000 Speaker 1: like up inside the uterus, so you don't really want 472 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:47,520 Speaker 1: to mess with that too much, you know. So then 473 00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:50,400 Speaker 1: they wanted to give her chemo to try to chill 474 00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:52,159 Speaker 1: it out a little bit while she went through the 475 00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:53,919 Speaker 1: rest of her pregnancy, and she didn't want to do 476 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:55,800 Speaker 1: that for obvious reasons, because I don't think that I 477 00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:57,800 Speaker 1: would want to take chemo when I was prea either. 478 00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:01,200 Speaker 1: And then so they want to deliver a thirty two 479 00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,160 Speaker 1: weeks and she said no, and she went to thirty 480 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:06,800 Speaker 1: seven weeks because again, listen, I know two different people 481 00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:08,840 Speaker 1: that have had babies at thirty two weeks and the 482 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:11,359 Speaker 1: babies are totally fine in the one and god, a 483 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:14,240 Speaker 1: nets boy is a teenager now right, and he's fine, 484 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:16,600 Speaker 1: But like, it's not ideal and you don't want to 485 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,159 Speaker 1: do it and they could have problems, so you just 486 00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:21,520 Speaker 1: don't want to do that. So she has the baby 487 00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:24,719 Speaker 1: at thirty seven and a half weeks and they they 488 00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:28,080 Speaker 1: end up doing the cold knife comb by EPCY and say, okay, 489 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:32,040 Speaker 1: you have stage two cervical cancer. And apparently they didn't 490 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:33,560 Speaker 1: get it all out. So then this is where I 491 00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:37,520 Speaker 1: have questions. She said she went the procedure a second time, 492 00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:39,400 Speaker 1: which I know they go in and scoop out some 493 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:43,680 Speaker 1: more sometimes. But according to cancer dot gov and according 494 00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:46,480 Speaker 1: to everything I ever learned, like if you have cervical cancer, 495 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:50,680 Speaker 1: you should be getting hysterectomy, like getting it all taken out. 496 00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,040 Speaker 1: And I don't know if she did, because it didn't 497 00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:55,639 Speaker 1: really seem like that in the article. It didn't seem 498 00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:57,560 Speaker 1: like that in the article. But she said she was 499 00:24:57,680 --> 00:25:01,280 Speaker 1: cancer free in June. So yeah, And and I don't 500 00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:04,440 Speaker 1: like that terminology, you know, I don't like that terminology. 501 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:08,000 Speaker 1: Maybe no evidence, I like, no evidence of disease, because 502 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:12,120 Speaker 1: cancer free is you know, like I was telling you, 503 00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:14,359 Speaker 1: we were talking about this with that who was that 504 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:19,320 Speaker 1: oh l demonic fears. Yeah, just like just once it's 505 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:22,520 Speaker 1: invasive cancer, that means that those remember we were saying, 506 00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:25,320 Speaker 1: like those tumor culs are circulating around the body now. 507 00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:29,240 Speaker 1: So just because it's physically cut out of the site 508 00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:32,960 Speaker 1: doesn't mean that a Seller two hasn't escaped. So I 509 00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:37,360 Speaker 1: don't know what additional treatment she's getting because they do 510 00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:41,919 Speaker 1: recommend sometimes radiation chemotherapy with that. So well, I don't know, 511 00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:44,440 Speaker 1: like I don't have the full story. But she did 512 00:25:44,480 --> 00:25:46,679 Speaker 1: deliver the baby at thirty seven and a half weeks. 513 00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:49,760 Speaker 1: It was healthy, but she then had a small seizure 514 00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:53,560 Speaker 1: they said after birth. Yeah, and then she got the 515 00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:57,040 Speaker 1: other procedures and now she says she's cancer free. So 516 00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:02,400 Speaker 1: hopefully she took the right step for treatment and we'll 517 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:05,440 Speaker 1: go from there. Yeah. I just feel like there's kind 518 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,800 Speaker 1: of some missing from the end. But I mean, I mean, 519 00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:11,480 Speaker 1: she might have got that whole procedure done and TMZ 520 00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:14,160 Speaker 1: just doesn't know, you know what I mean. Yeah, Yeah, 521 00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:18,159 Speaker 1: some people are like like fertility and miscarriages. Some people 522 00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:22,560 Speaker 1: are just not willing to give all the details. You know. 523 00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:25,119 Speaker 1: Until we were talking about this story today, I didn't 524 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:27,479 Speaker 1: really think about that because we do always talk about 525 00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:32,639 Speaker 1: like COVID and and shutting down of the screening situation 526 00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:36,680 Speaker 1: and just people not getting things diagnosed because they didn't 527 00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:38,479 Speaker 1: go to the doctor for a couple of years. And 528 00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:41,679 Speaker 1: this is one of another screening tests of you know 529 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:43,520 Speaker 1: what I mean, Like people just blow it off, they 530 00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:45,159 Speaker 1: didn't go for a couple of years, and then they 531 00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:47,800 Speaker 1: come back and they have like a more serious problem 532 00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:51,040 Speaker 1: than they would have had, you know for sure. All right, 533 00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:54,080 Speaker 1: let's get into these freak accidents because this is where 534 00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:57,480 Speaker 1: the things start taking a turn on this show today. 535 00:26:57,600 --> 00:27:01,640 Speaker 1: This one is so unacceptable to be so in Wildwood, 536 00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:04,600 Speaker 1: that's a beach near us. So a woman was laying 537 00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,400 Speaker 1: on a towel on the beach, just casually sunbathing, when 538 00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:09,800 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, a police truck just ran her over. 539 00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:13,680 Speaker 1: So Wildwood. I have to explain this to you people, 540 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:16,760 Speaker 1: for like those of those of you that don't don't 541 00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:20,320 Speaker 1: live in New Jersey, I hate the Wildwood Beach. It's 542 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:23,200 Speaker 1: it's probably like the worst beach ever in my opinion, 543 00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:27,600 Speaker 1: it's so big and I mean long, like and I've 544 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:30,000 Speaker 1: never witnessed this in any other state. I've been to 545 00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:34,520 Speaker 1: North Carolina, Florida, Georgia, all these other beaches, right California, 546 00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 1: I've never witnessed the situation where you have to walk 547 00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:41,920 Speaker 1: an entire mile from like the street or the boardwalk 548 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:44,880 Speaker 1: to the water. Is really it's it's just weird. It's 549 00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:47,080 Speaker 1: a weird beach. And when you look at it when 550 00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:50,240 Speaker 1: you're standing on the boardwalk, like everyone's obviously like everyone's 551 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:53,399 Speaker 1: all like huddled close to the water and there's like 552 00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:57,359 Speaker 1: this mile of beach that's just open. Yeah. Right, Was 553 00:27:57,400 --> 00:28:00,600 Speaker 1: she like laying in that weird area where where like 554 00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:02,720 Speaker 1: a cop would never even think a person would be 555 00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:05,760 Speaker 1: laying or something. No, from the pictures, it seemed like 556 00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:08,800 Speaker 1: she wasn't that far away from where the group of 557 00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:11,920 Speaker 1: people are. And other people said she was wearing dark 558 00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:14,239 Speaker 1: clothing or like a dark bathing suit, So how are 559 00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 1: they not seeing her? Was it like a print with 560 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:19,040 Speaker 1: actual sand on it or something that she just was 561 00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:21,680 Speaker 1: like camouflaged. No, I think it was one of those 562 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:25,159 Speaker 1: like everybody was like, I have absolutely no idea how 563 00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:28,800 Speaker 1: this happened because she was very clearly laying there. And 564 00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:31,840 Speaker 1: I've I was on the beach recently and those trucks, 565 00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:34,560 Speaker 1: I'm not saying just the police trucks, but like people 566 00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:38,080 Speaker 1: that drive trucks on the beach are like flying. There 567 00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:41,440 Speaker 1: is so many people around. So this is what I 568 00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:45,280 Speaker 1: didn't understand. Is it like one of those quad like 569 00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:48,520 Speaker 1: you know, those quad bikes. It was a full blown 570 00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:51,320 Speaker 1: like a like a like a pickup truck, a full 571 00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:56,000 Speaker 1: blown pickup truck. Well listen, but seriously, think about this 572 00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:58,280 Speaker 1: if you're driving a pickup truck on the street. This 573 00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:00,360 Speaker 1: is what I tell the kids all the time when 574 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,560 Speaker 1: they're in a parking lot and shit, I'm like, people 575 00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:05,160 Speaker 1: can't see you because you're short out of their mirrors, right, 576 00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:08,280 Speaker 1: you can't see a child walking around the car because 577 00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:11,760 Speaker 1: they're too short. So if you're just in let's they 578 00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:14,480 Speaker 1: were in Gabe's pickup truck, right, and you just like, look, 579 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:16,600 Speaker 1: you can't even see shit on the ground. It's too 580 00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:20,000 Speaker 1: high up. Like that's maybe they shouldn't be driving those 581 00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 1: types of things when there's people on the bend. And 582 00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:26,880 Speaker 1: they said they were responding to some unspecified ordnance violation 583 00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:30,479 Speaker 1: whatever that means. But they're probably driving like maniacs. And 584 00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:32,960 Speaker 1: then I don't know, I could see like maybe they 585 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,080 Speaker 1: looked down for half a second, didn't see her, and 586 00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:38,440 Speaker 1: then the truck hood is so large that then it happened. 587 00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:41,800 Speaker 1: But yeah, then it's as many bystanders gathered around the truck, 588 00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:44,120 Speaker 1: some digging in the sand and others working to lift 589 00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:45,880 Speaker 1: the front end of the truck to get her out 590 00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:48,600 Speaker 1: of there. Believe it or not, she survived. She had 591 00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:51,440 Speaker 1: broken ribs, three fractured vertebrae, and a lung injury, but 592 00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:56,320 Speaker 1: she is expected to survive. My totally see this. This 593 00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:59,520 Speaker 1: is lawsuit. Wor Louis sent me this story, and I was, yeah, 594 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:02,600 Speaker 1: this is the can't this is like, this is like beyond. 595 00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:05,640 Speaker 1: She's gonna just have like mental Could you just imagine 596 00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:07,680 Speaker 1: like how scared you would be to just fall asleep, 597 00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:09,800 Speaker 1: to think like something's going to happen to you when 598 00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:12,600 Speaker 1: you're just laying there and not know it. No, it's 599 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:15,960 Speaker 1: just it's just because I'm under the assumption, which I 600 00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:18,240 Speaker 1: know is not true, that you should not be allowed 601 00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:21,480 Speaker 1: to drive full blown vehicles on the beach where pedestrians are. 602 00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:25,320 Speaker 1: But I know that's not that they're cops. They're cops. 603 00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:27,479 Speaker 1: But I also know at some Jersey beaches you can 604 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:30,600 Speaker 1: drive your truck right up on the beach. So yeah, 605 00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:33,440 Speaker 1: but that that's like in Brigantine. I've been there before. 606 00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:35,800 Speaker 1: It's just like a different it's not it's it's not 607 00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:38,200 Speaker 1: really like a beach where people lay out like that. 608 00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:41,720 Speaker 1: It's more like rugged and you just you like do 609 00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:44,080 Speaker 1: a fire pit or something there. It's just not it's 610 00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:46,120 Speaker 1: not set up like that. I don't know. This is 611 00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:49,640 Speaker 1: totally unacceptable to me. Yeah, it really is. They're said 612 00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:53,240 Speaker 1: they're looking into it, so I'm curious to see what 613 00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:58,360 Speaker 1: their investigation's gonna find. Oh my god, Okay, poor lady. Yeah, seriously, 614 00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:01,400 Speaker 1: in India, as sixty five year old woman was in 615 00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:03,920 Speaker 1: a pasture tending to her cows when suddenly she was 616 00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:05,840 Speaker 1: knocked off her feet when one of the cows got 617 00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:09,160 Speaker 1: really agitated. Unfortunately for her, there was a two foot 618 00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:11,160 Speaker 1: long metal rod sticking out of the ground and she 619 00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:16,680 Speaker 1: fell directly on it rectum first. That's how knots is that, Like, 620 00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 1: what are the chances that that would even happen? Like, 621 00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:20,720 Speaker 1: you couldn't even do that if you try but you 622 00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:22,920 Speaker 1: could just like land on this on your butt. But 623 00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:25,360 Speaker 1: we were always saying that men that stick things up 624 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:27,600 Speaker 1: there butt are always saying they fell on it. But 625 00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:30,920 Speaker 1: this lady actually did fall on it. She actually fell 626 00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:34,360 Speaker 1: on it. Yeah, And so she goes to the hospital 627 00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:37,880 Speaker 1: and there's about ten centimeters sticking out of the rod 628 00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:41,400 Speaker 1: from her rectal area and the rest of it was 629 00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:46,360 Speaker 1: impelled inside of her body. And again, like just as 630 00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:48,880 Speaker 1: we were saying, you couldn't even do that if you tried, 631 00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:53,360 Speaker 1: this thing went through a large portion of her body 632 00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:57,360 Speaker 1: and didn't even barely hurt anything. It did pierce through 633 00:31:57,400 --> 00:32:00,960 Speaker 1: her rectum, but like it missed her maid your arteries, 634 00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:04,400 Speaker 1: it missed her kidney. It stopped right before it got 635 00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:06,880 Speaker 1: to her vertebral bone. Like she could have been a 636 00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:10,600 Speaker 1: quadriplegic from this thing. She could have bled internally to death, 637 00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:14,840 Speaker 1: like she she could have lost the kidney, just craziness. 638 00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:17,400 Speaker 1: She didn't even have bad bleeding. And they took the 639 00:32:17,520 --> 00:32:20,560 Speaker 1: rod out and they sewed her up. They did give 640 00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:22,960 Speaker 1: her a colossit bey to so they gave her like 641 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,800 Speaker 1: a bag to just reroute her bell while that could heal. 642 00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:28,640 Speaker 1: So cause like you know, if you have that and 643 00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:30,720 Speaker 1: then you're still putting poop through there. It could leak 644 00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,840 Speaker 1: and everything. So they re routed her bell. But they 645 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:36,080 Speaker 1: went up there three months later, checked it out. It 646 00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:39,440 Speaker 1: was all healed well, reversed the bag, and she's good 647 00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:42,000 Speaker 1: to go. Like nothing really came of it, yeah, she said. 648 00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:44,600 Speaker 1: And oh she had was nausea and some abdominal pain 649 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:47,040 Speaker 1: and weakness, but after a couple of days it just 650 00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:50,640 Speaker 1: went away. The pictures are insane and I'm going to 651 00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:53,400 Speaker 1: post them in the grocer room this week of the 652 00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:56,320 Speaker 1: actual picture of this rod just sticking out of her rectum. 653 00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:59,400 Speaker 1: But also when you see the imaging from it, you could, 654 00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:02,160 Speaker 1: you know, cause before surgeons go in, they want to 655 00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:04,600 Speaker 1: be able to visualize like what they were expecting to 656 00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:07,080 Speaker 1: see when they go in and you see this huge 657 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:10,360 Speaker 1: rod going through half of her body. It's just absolutely 658 00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:14,080 Speaker 1: amazing that it didn't hit anything like vital It's nuts 659 00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:19,080 Speaker 1: all right in Wisconsin recently. This story is the story 660 00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:21,640 Speaker 1: is so unbelievable. Actually, one of my friends posted this 661 00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:24,160 Speaker 1: on Instagram and I thought it was, like, do you 662 00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:26,960 Speaker 1: know about the onion they write like fake headlines? Yeah, 663 00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:29,000 Speaker 1: I thought it was an onion headline. But it was 664 00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:33,040 Speaker 1: written up by a real news source. So in Wisconsin 665 00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:37,120 Speaker 1: recently they held the sixtieth annual Corn Fest, which I 666 00:33:37,160 --> 00:33:40,680 Speaker 1: love corn, so this sounds like my dream. But officials 667 00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:44,080 Speaker 1: said that since most festivals and fairs offer eating contests, 668 00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:46,240 Speaker 1: they wanted to get in on it, so this year 669 00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:51,080 Speaker 1: they offered the first annual corn chugging contest. Yeah, so 670 00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:55,400 Speaker 1: the picture of this is just so great. But one 671 00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:59,400 Speaker 1: of the contestants from this contest, he said that he 672 00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:02,960 Speaker 1: was going at it with an approach that was blow 673 00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:06,120 Speaker 1: job esque. So we'll get more into his quote later, 674 00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:09,719 Speaker 1: but basically, it's not like this corn is off the 675 00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,319 Speaker 1: cub and you're chugging it. It's on the cub. So 676 00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:16,399 Speaker 1: ten people participated in the corn contest, and of the ten, 677 00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:18,960 Speaker 1: nine of them had to go to the hospital with 678 00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:23,320 Speaker 1: corn induced quote injuries to their mouths, jaws, and throats. 679 00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:27,960 Speaker 1: When you think about if I'm thinking, like, okay, Nicole, 680 00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:29,880 Speaker 1: do you want to do a corn eating contest, I 681 00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 1: would think that you would grab the cob of corn 682 00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:36,680 Speaker 1: and you would hold it in your hands horizontally and 683 00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:39,920 Speaker 1: bite it as if you were biting corn like at 684 00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:42,240 Speaker 1: a dinner table. You would just do that really fast, 685 00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:45,440 Speaker 1: but they're turning it vertically and like putting it in 686 00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:48,160 Speaker 1: their mouth in a blow is where the blow job 687 00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:52,319 Speaker 1: esque approach is coming from. So, I mean, you could 688 00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:54,480 Speaker 1: see how that would end bad because a cob is 689 00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:57,719 Speaker 1: very rigid and like could really hurt the back of 690 00:34:57,760 --> 00:35:00,440 Speaker 1: your throat, especially if you were doing things fas So 691 00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:03,640 Speaker 1: this man that applied this technique was the only person 692 00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:06,240 Speaker 1: that didn't have to go to the hospital. He only 693 00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:08,799 Speaker 1: ate one corn of cob, but he was considered the 694 00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:11,240 Speaker 1: winner because he's the only one that did not require 695 00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,759 Speaker 1: emergency services. And when they asked him about his approach, he, 696 00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,719 Speaker 1: as you know, said he approached it blowjaw ask and 697 00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:20,160 Speaker 1: then he said, I realized I needed to relax my 698 00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:22,319 Speaker 1: jaw and throat as much as possible and just take 699 00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:27,560 Speaker 1: that thing. This just like doesn't seem real. Pictures are 700 00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:31,160 Speaker 1: more unrealistic than the story. It's Now, how is he 701 00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:35,520 Speaker 1: the only one that one? How he ate one piece 702 00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:39,040 Speaker 1: of corn, like I could do that tonight at dinner, Like, 703 00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:41,160 Speaker 1: what are you talking about? I guess if you got 704 00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:43,920 Speaker 1: went to the hospital, you were disqualified. So he was 705 00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:46,040 Speaker 1: the only one that didink of the hospital. So every 706 00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:48,399 Speaker 1: person in this contest was trying to put it down 707 00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:50,640 Speaker 1: their throat the opposite way instead of just eating the 708 00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:53,040 Speaker 1: corn off the cop. I'm confused. Were they supposed to 709 00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:55,680 Speaker 1: eat the whole cop? No? I think they just weren't 710 00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:59,920 Speaker 1: taking practical approaches like this man because he Yeah, but 711 00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:02,480 Speaker 1: this man did say in the article that he wasn't 712 00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:06,239 Speaker 1: looking forward to passing it or something. Corn is hard 713 00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:09,840 Speaker 1: to poop out. But what but he only ate one corn? Like, 714 00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:12,560 Speaker 1: did he eat the cob? Because if he did, then 715 00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:14,439 Speaker 1: he's going to have to go to the hospital too, 716 00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:17,960 Speaker 1: because that thing, like what is happening right now, I 717 00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:21,720 Speaker 1: don't know, that would cause like a major obstruction. So yeah, 718 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:25,160 Speaker 1: because like listen, like he's why would he not be 719 00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:27,920 Speaker 1: looking forward to passing corn if he only ate the 720 00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:31,800 Speaker 1: amount of corn on one cob? That's like a dinner serving. Listen. 721 00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:34,320 Speaker 1: I don't I don't know what's going on is hapening, 722 00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:42,759 Speaker 1: but they're giving corn blowjobs. Apparently shit is crazy? And 723 00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:46,000 Speaker 1: what injuries did they sustain? Like I guess they would 724 00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:48,200 Speaker 1: get similar ones that you would get with a blowjob, 725 00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:51,279 Speaker 1: like you gets on the back of your throat and things. Well, 726 00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:55,560 Speaker 1: you posted this thing, gussion recently that this lady had 727 00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:58,640 Speaker 1: like a bruise on the roof of her mouth from 728 00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:02,080 Speaker 1: giving a blowjob. Yeah, well, a penis gets hard and 729 00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:05,319 Speaker 1: it could cause trauma. It causes blunt trauma, so I 730 00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:08,160 Speaker 1: guess the corn was doing the similar thing. It's freaking 731 00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:11,799 Speaker 1: outrageous to me. I just like I'm thinking, like all, 732 00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:15,240 Speaker 1: this is like a prime example of like people group 733 00:37:15,360 --> 00:37:17,480 Speaker 1: think and everything. It's just like they all sit down 734 00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:19,040 Speaker 1: and they're like, you know what, let's turn the corn 735 00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:20,960 Speaker 1: the opposite way and eat the corn off of it 736 00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:23,480 Speaker 1: instead of just like going like this really fast and 737 00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:26,319 Speaker 1: throwing it and going like that really fast, maybe loud. 738 00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:29,960 Speaker 1: You don't know the rules, Yeah, I don't know the 739 00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:41,480 Speaker 1: rules because I don't know the game. So do you 740 00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:44,839 Speaker 1: think if that guy who had the bad breath from 741 00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:47,960 Speaker 1: having a cockroach in his lungs, if he would have 742 00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:51,359 Speaker 1: put some stink bomb around his mouth and nose, that 743 00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:54,120 Speaker 1: maybe it wouldn't have been so bad. I mean, I think, 744 00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:56,239 Speaker 1: if you're getting to the point where you have to 745 00:37:56,360 --> 00:38:00,480 Speaker 1: put stink bomb to disguise your bad breath, you have 746 00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:05,560 Speaker 1: to go to the hospital. Well that's exactly what he did, 747 00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:09,400 Speaker 1: and luckily he was fine. But stink Bomb is awesome, 748 00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:12,880 Speaker 1: and it's definitely good for using when you're in a 749 00:38:12,920 --> 00:38:16,759 Speaker 1: situation where there is a stinky thing going on. So 750 00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:19,480 Speaker 1: it's really good for people who work in healthcare or 751 00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:22,840 Speaker 1: emergency response workers. If you just work in an office 752 00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:26,000 Speaker 1: job and your boss has stank ass breath and you 753 00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:28,520 Speaker 1: need to just get that is true, Like someone that 754 00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:30,279 Speaker 1: you have to have a meeting with all the time 755 00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:33,400 Speaker 1: that stinks. But yeah, I mean you could. There's so 756 00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:35,840 Speaker 1: many different situations you could, like people that work in 757 00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:38,359 Speaker 1: daycares that change diapers all the time and stuff. It's 758 00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:40,440 Speaker 1: just kind of a good thing to have because humans 759 00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:45,239 Speaker 1: are can smell really bad, as we know, dead or alive. Yeah, 760 00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:48,160 Speaker 1: it's kind of impossible to be alive and avoid smells 761 00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:50,640 Speaker 1: pretty much anywhere you go. So that's why it's awesome. 762 00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:53,560 Speaker 1: Because it comes in this little chapstick tube. It applies 763 00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:55,840 Speaker 1: basically the same way except on You don't put on 764 00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:57,840 Speaker 1: your lips, you put it right under your nose, and 765 00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:01,120 Speaker 1: it comes in all different flavors, sense I guess. So 766 00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:04,600 Speaker 1: if you could really pick anyone you want, there's lavender. 767 00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:08,160 Speaker 1: If you want to get seasonal, you know, there's like evergreen, 768 00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:11,840 Speaker 1: for Christmas time. There's a coffee favored one. I'd like 769 00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:14,640 Speaker 1: that because it's like you know how you get sometimes 770 00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:17,239 Speaker 1: you get like air fresheners or candles, like right now 771 00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:19,759 Speaker 1: my house has pumpkin smell going on, and like that 772 00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:23,879 Speaker 1: Patuli witchy smell, kind of like you could just get 773 00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:26,719 Speaker 1: any kind of smell for whatever season. So it's really awesome. Yeah, 774 00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:30,080 Speaker 1: So you can visit stinkbomboderblocker dot com and use code 775 00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:35,160 Speaker 1: MKD fifteen for fifteen percent off all products. 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The man 794 00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:28,400 Speaker 1: was fidgeting and acting weird to the driver asked staff 795 00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:30,360 Speaker 1: if he was okay, and they all assured him that 796 00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:33,040 Speaker 1: he was fine. So this guy gets in the car. 797 00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:35,840 Speaker 1: He starts talking to himself and then beating his chest, 798 00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:39,360 Speaker 1: Like what would you even do in that situation? At first, 799 00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:42,799 Speaker 1: I don't know, but this is not going well. No, 800 00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:46,600 Speaker 1: So then the passenger slides over behind the driver's seat, 801 00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:49,719 Speaker 1: takes the guy's seatbelt and starts trying to strangle him 802 00:40:49,760 --> 00:40:52,440 Speaker 1: with it, and when that wasn't successful, he put him 803 00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:56,399 Speaker 1: in a chokehold with his arm. Dude, this is this 804 00:40:56,480 --> 00:41:00,319 Speaker 1: is like not cool at all? No, obviously not like 805 00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:04,880 Speaker 1: I don't I don't know, like who should be protecting 806 00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:08,279 Speaker 1: this driver? But is this like a common thing that 807 00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:10,399 Speaker 1: they call a lift or an uber to come pick 808 00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:14,600 Speaker 1: up patients that are that are like mentally ill? I 809 00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:16,960 Speaker 1: I mean, really, this is like a huge liability that 810 00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:20,520 Speaker 1: this is. This is messed up for real, it is 811 00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:23,360 Speaker 1: messed up. And I want to say, like, as a 812 00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:27,040 Speaker 1: lift driver, you obviously like lift drivers have been at 813 00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:30,279 Speaker 1: or lyft and uber drivers and taxi drivers have all 814 00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:33,320 Speaker 1: been attacked before it that's not like a foreign concept. 815 00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:37,200 Speaker 1: But I kind of thought it was weird that the 816 00:41:37,200 --> 00:41:39,840 Speaker 1: hospital called the lift for him, and then it was 817 00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,640 Speaker 1: kind of like, this isn't our problem anymore. We're just 818 00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:45,480 Speaker 1: gonna shove him in this car. And that's concerning for 819 00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:49,239 Speaker 1: me because if he was seemingly aggressive or something and 820 00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:51,080 Speaker 1: they needed to call the lyft for him, why wouldn't 821 00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:53,239 Speaker 1: they call the police? Like I feel like something's very 822 00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:57,000 Speaker 1: weird here. I don't know, because I mean, this is 823 00:41:57,000 --> 00:41:58,920 Speaker 1: the thing with the emergency room, like they just are 824 00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:01,000 Speaker 1: trying to stabilize the PA. So if the guy went 825 00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:03,839 Speaker 1: and he was healthy, he wasn't like getting ready to die, 826 00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:05,960 Speaker 1: then they were just like, okay, he could be released. 827 00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:09,239 Speaker 1: I don't know. I never worked in an er so 828 00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:11,080 Speaker 1: I don't know how that. But then they they have 829 00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:16,560 Speaker 1: money to send him in a car. I don't know, 830 00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:20,400 Speaker 1: because like I really just don't know what happens I 831 00:42:20,920 --> 00:42:23,120 Speaker 1: know that they have to hand the person over to 832 00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:28,000 Speaker 1: somebody yep, to make sure what's protocol if nobody gets them. 833 00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:30,840 Speaker 1: Like I've never heard of somebody being called a cab 834 00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:34,600 Speaker 1: or something before to take them home. I don't know, 835 00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:37,880 Speaker 1: maybe they called for him or something like maybe they 836 00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:39,879 Speaker 1: knew somebody was going to be at the other end 837 00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:41,920 Speaker 1: at the house where they were sending him. I don't know, 838 00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:45,320 Speaker 1: but I would think that you need to have people 839 00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:49,280 Speaker 1: transporting patients like that, Like if the guy had schizophrenia 840 00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:53,960 Speaker 1: or something like that, then you need to have medical 841 00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:57,640 Speaker 1: professionals that are able to handle those situations, that know 842 00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:00,560 Speaker 1: what's happening. Like you're just a regular person and someone 843 00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:02,680 Speaker 1: starts acting like that, like you don't know what to 844 00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:07,120 Speaker 1: do or what to say or you know, like you're 845 00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:09,480 Speaker 1: just you're just an uber Like I think remember we 846 00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:11,360 Speaker 1: always used to try to get pop Up to be 847 00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:13,319 Speaker 1: an uber driver. We're like, just go do it. All 848 00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:15,239 Speaker 1: you got to do is drive around and pick people up. 849 00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:18,040 Speaker 1: Like all all these dudes that I've been in an 850 00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:20,720 Speaker 1: uber with and stuff, they're like they're just like retire 851 00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:22,720 Speaker 1: guys or something, like they don't know how to handle 852 00:43:22,719 --> 00:43:24,840 Speaker 1: a situation like this no, and this guy said he 853 00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:27,319 Speaker 1: had been driving for seven years and never really had 854 00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:30,600 Speaker 1: an issue like this, and so basically he was he 855 00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:33,360 Speaker 1: was able to pull over at some point during the struggle. 856 00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:35,960 Speaker 1: I mean, imagine being choked while you're driving on the road. 857 00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:38,839 Speaker 1: How scary? The whole thing is scared, like unexpectedly, Yes, 858 00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:41,520 Speaker 1: it is scary. But then he drove, he pulled over, 859 00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:44,239 Speaker 1: and the passenger kicked the window out and got out 860 00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:47,000 Speaker 1: of the car that way instead of just opening the door, 861 00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:50,480 Speaker 1: and ran up to a house and started acting crazy 862 00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:52,319 Speaker 1: and those people called nine on one and then that's 863 00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:55,879 Speaker 1: when he got arrested. Yeah. So now of course this 864 00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:59,040 Speaker 1: guy like doesn't want to be a lyft driver anymore, 865 00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:02,040 Speaker 1: even though that was his job in his career, right, 866 00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:05,080 Speaker 1: so now he's like scared shit list? But how I 867 00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:07,720 Speaker 1: mean think about this, Like, if you're driving and someone's 868 00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:09,719 Speaker 1: in the back seat and you have your back turned 869 00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:14,960 Speaker 1: towards them, how are you ever going to confidently drive safely? No, 870 00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:18,440 Speaker 1: like with this fear that somebody from behind you is 871 00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:20,719 Speaker 1: going to attack you. Like, I don't blame this guy 872 00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:24,000 Speaker 1: at all, honestly, No, it's really scary and basically he's 873 00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:28,359 Speaker 1: suing Lyft and the hospital for this. I don't really 874 00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:31,640 Speaker 1: see how Lyft is liable in this situation because I'm 875 00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:34,440 Speaker 1: sure you have to sign things that are like things 876 00:44:34,440 --> 00:44:37,760 Speaker 1: could happen, you know, they like lift. The company itself 877 00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:40,200 Speaker 1: can't really prevent an incident like this from happening. But 878 00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:42,840 Speaker 1: I do agree that the hospital should be sued because 879 00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:46,120 Speaker 1: I don't know, or it needs to be investigated or something, 880 00:44:46,160 --> 00:44:48,600 Speaker 1: because this doesn't seem right at all that they were 881 00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:52,520 Speaker 1: putting this patient that was seemingly already acting out in 882 00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:55,720 Speaker 1: with this innocent person. If this was just like a guy, 883 00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:59,160 Speaker 1: Let's say this guy got like, I don't know, there 884 00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:01,479 Speaker 1: was a guy just getting treated for like a fall 885 00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:04,680 Speaker 1: or something, and then got let out of the emergency 886 00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:09,400 Speaker 1: room but was totally mentally sound, got let out of 887 00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:11,400 Speaker 1: the emergency room, and then like held the guy at 888 00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:13,400 Speaker 1: knife point and tried to rob him or something like 889 00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:17,040 Speaker 1: that wouldn't be the hospital's fault, I would say, But 890 00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:21,319 Speaker 1: the fact that the guy has a clear like when 891 00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:23,600 Speaker 1: he was saying when he approached, he could tell that 892 00:45:23,640 --> 00:45:27,080 Speaker 1: he was mentally off, That's basically what he's saying. And 893 00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:30,360 Speaker 1: the guy is talking to himself and hitting himself and stuff. 894 00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:33,759 Speaker 1: He's showing signs of some kind of psychosis or something like, 895 00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:36,839 Speaker 1: why wasn't that picked up at the er? Because now 896 00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:39,880 Speaker 1: that's not Now that's why the r is responsible, you know, 897 00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:44,239 Speaker 1: because they let someone that was having a mental episode 898 00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:48,160 Speaker 1: into the car with an untrained person, you know. Yeah, 899 00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:50,080 Speaker 1: And to your point, like they should have some type 900 00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:53,960 Speaker 1: of transportation system with a couple of professionals that are, 901 00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:57,080 Speaker 1: you know, trained to deal with a person going through 902 00:45:57,120 --> 00:46:00,160 Speaker 1: something like this, to safely escort them home instead of 903 00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:03,640 Speaker 1: just putting in another part and really like maybe maybe 904 00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:08,760 Speaker 1: not even if a person is clearly like going through 905 00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:13,839 Speaker 1: that stuff, you're just letting them go back. I mean there, 906 00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:16,440 Speaker 1: I don't know, I feel like maybe they need to 907 00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:19,000 Speaker 1: get some kind of help or treatment or get back 908 00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:22,760 Speaker 1: on their medications or whatever. Like you're just letting someone 909 00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:25,279 Speaker 1: that you could see as having a mental crisis just 910 00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:28,000 Speaker 1: back on the street, you know what I mean. Like, 911 00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:30,319 Speaker 1: I don't think there's much they could do about it 912 00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:34,080 Speaker 1: beyond treating them. But I just think the whole thing 913 00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:37,200 Speaker 1: is very bizarre how it went down. I mean, we 914 00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:40,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm trying to think because when I 915 00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:43,319 Speaker 1: worked at the bar, there was times where like we 916 00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:46,120 Speaker 1: had to call cabs for people, but they had to 917 00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:51,480 Speaker 1: pay for the cab. Yeah, but if you're I don't know, like, 918 00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:54,239 Speaker 1: could the bar be liable if let's say the same 919 00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:58,239 Speaker 1: exact situation happened and you picked you called lyft. I mean, 920 00:46:58,239 --> 00:46:59,920 Speaker 1: the person could pay for it or whatever you call 921 00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:02,200 Speaker 1: them and just say like, hey, pick this person up 922 00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:04,560 Speaker 1: and bring them to their house. But then that guy 923 00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:07,160 Speaker 1: was like drunk and started like beating up the guy. 924 00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:09,759 Speaker 1: Would that be like the fall of the bar for 925 00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:14,160 Speaker 1: sending that person over, Like, I don't know, because ultimately, 926 00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:19,160 Speaker 1: like you could be this lyft driver, this lift driver 927 00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:22,120 Speaker 1: could have denied the ride right if he wanted to, 928 00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:24,960 Speaker 1: Like he could have showed up and been like, I'm 929 00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:27,120 Speaker 1: not doing this. It's not like he has gone to 930 00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:28,600 Speaker 1: his head that he has to do it, Like he 931 00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:30,640 Speaker 1: could have if he didn't feel good, he could have 932 00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:34,759 Speaker 1: taken it. But I think what I've learned from other 933 00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:39,439 Speaker 1: lift drivers is if you get there and turn down 934 00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:45,520 Speaker 1: the ride, like you get panalized for that. Yeah, I 935 00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:48,120 Speaker 1: don't know, and I mean it doesn't matter though, Like 936 00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:51,640 Speaker 1: there's a certain level of trust that people have with 937 00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:55,160 Speaker 1: with hospitals and hospital workers. So if you go and 938 00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:57,920 Speaker 1: think that something's off and you ask the people like, Hi, 939 00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:00,520 Speaker 1: that guy looks a little off, is he okay? And 940 00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:02,600 Speaker 1: they're like, yeah, he's okay, then you kind of have 941 00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:04,960 Speaker 1: this trust like, oh, they're a hospital. They wouldn't they 942 00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:08,480 Speaker 1: wouldn't put someone that was could harm me in my car, 943 00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:11,040 Speaker 1: Like they wouldn't do that, right, Well, you would assume that, 944 00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:13,399 Speaker 1: and maybe yeah, he did not think to turn down 945 00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:15,479 Speaker 1: the ride because he had been doing it for seven 946 00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:18,400 Speaker 1: years and never really had a problem. Yeah, I don't know, 947 00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:21,839 Speaker 1: she's crazy, Yeah, it really is. This next one is 948 00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:25,120 Speaker 1: another like so outrageous you almost can't believe. This really 949 00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:27,400 Speaker 1: should have this probably should have been the story of 950 00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:30,680 Speaker 1: the week, but like it's just a lot to hear 951 00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:33,200 Speaker 1: to like just started off. The rest of the episode 952 00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:35,759 Speaker 1: wouldn't have really lived up to anything after this one. 953 00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:39,200 Speaker 1: So Okay. In DC, this woman got home from work 954 00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:41,600 Speaker 1: and noticed there was some scraps of food on her 955 00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:44,120 Speaker 1: car and was like, that's kind of weird. You know, 956 00:48:44,280 --> 00:48:47,319 Speaker 1: her car was behind this fenced in area she lives 957 00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:51,879 Speaker 1: in the city, So she goes on her on her surveillance. 958 00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:55,760 Speaker 1: I can't even get this out. It's ridiculous. In the video, 959 00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:59,120 Speaker 1: you can see this man in a blue shirt. He's 960 00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:02,200 Speaker 1: carrying a lunch by and holding his cigarette. He climbs 961 00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:05,160 Speaker 1: through this hole that's in her fence. So she later 962 00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:07,600 Speaker 1: says that this hole was there because somebody had driven 963 00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:09,839 Speaker 1: their car into her fence, which like bent it and 964 00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:14,120 Speaker 1: allowed the bars to spread open. So this guy crawls 965 00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:17,319 Speaker 1: in through the hole and puts his lunchbox down and 966 00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:20,880 Speaker 1: grabs what appears to be a cucumber out of this lunchbox. 967 00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:23,920 Speaker 1: So then he walks around to the front of her car, 968 00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:28,160 Speaker 1: seemingly adher's the cucumber in the grill of her car, 969 00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:33,799 Speaker 1: takes his pants down and sits on it, and he's 970 00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:37,680 Speaker 1: like straight up like riding the having he's like having 971 00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:40,239 Speaker 1: sex with a cucumber that is sticking out of the 972 00:49:40,239 --> 00:49:42,520 Speaker 1: grill of this woman's car. So you see like in 973 00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:46,160 Speaker 1: broad daylight, in broad daylight too, and they're like, if 974 00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:48,319 Speaker 1: you've ever lived in the city or just been in 975 00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:50,840 Speaker 1: the city, you know that a lot of the houses 976 00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:54,800 Speaker 1: that have driveways or garages or something, they typically connect 977 00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:57,799 Speaker 1: through an alleyway. So he's in this alleyway that's not 978 00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:01,200 Speaker 1: that busy, but he's just like right, this cucumber on 979 00:50:01,280 --> 00:50:03,840 Speaker 1: the hood of this car, lights up a cigarette in 980 00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:06,280 Speaker 1: the middle of it. It's just going about his business. 981 00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:09,120 Speaker 1: And then this other car drives down the street. He 982 00:50:09,120 --> 00:50:11,839 Speaker 1: hears it and like stops what he's doing and kind 983 00:50:11,840 --> 00:50:13,480 Speaker 1: of just looks like he's sitting on the hood of 984 00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:16,960 Speaker 1: the car. So then after the car drives by, he 985 00:50:17,000 --> 00:50:20,040 Speaker 1: gets up. You know, I don't think he ever really 986 00:50:20,320 --> 00:50:22,120 Speaker 1: pulled his pants all the way up, and his shirt 987 00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:23,920 Speaker 1: was really long in the front, so I guess you 988 00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:27,200 Speaker 1: couldn't really see that. Well, so he walks back over 989 00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:30,560 Speaker 1: to the lunchbox, puts the cigarette out on the fence, 990 00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:33,359 Speaker 1: and then takes the cucumber, sticks it back up there, 991 00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:36,919 Speaker 1: seemingly finishes himself off, and then just throws it back 992 00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:40,080 Speaker 1: in the lunchbox, goes on his way like nothing happened. 993 00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:42,960 Speaker 1: Took Yeah, he took the cucumber like covered with his 994 00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:46,720 Speaker 1: shit all over it and put it back into his lunchbox. Yeah, 995 00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:51,040 Speaker 1: Like how gross is that? What? What a fricking Weirdoh 996 00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:53,840 Speaker 1: and on top of that, it's like this house is 997 00:50:53,920 --> 00:50:56,719 Speaker 1: near a school where like children walk by to go 998 00:50:56,800 --> 00:50:59,359 Speaker 1: home from school and stuff, Like what if you saw that, 999 00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:02,400 Speaker 1: Like anybody saw that in real life, you would just 1000 00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:05,800 Speaker 1: be like, am I really seeing this guy have sex 1001 00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:07,960 Speaker 1: with a Q cover right now? Like why wouldn't you 1002 00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:09,920 Speaker 1: just go in a bathroom? Why would you do that 1003 00:51:09,960 --> 00:51:13,600 Speaker 1: in like that? Well, there's layers to this because it's 1004 00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:17,080 Speaker 1: like he didn't even just pull over in the side 1005 00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:20,239 Speaker 1: of an alleyway, Like technically he like trespassed on this 1006 00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:24,280 Speaker 1: woman's property, right, Like he broke into her backyard driveway 1007 00:51:24,320 --> 00:51:26,719 Speaker 1: area that was clearly fenced in. He broke in through 1008 00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:30,279 Speaker 1: a gap in the fence and walked back there. And 1009 00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:33,239 Speaker 1: then if I was watching this video and it was 1010 00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:36,960 Speaker 1: my car, it feels so disgusted that this my car, 1011 00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:40,800 Speaker 1: especially with this stranger, You're like, who is this person? 1012 00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:43,000 Speaker 1: Do you think it's like that episode of My Strange 1013 00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:45,400 Speaker 1: Addiction where the guy like wanted to have sex with 1014 00:51:45,480 --> 00:51:48,480 Speaker 1: his car. Was it like was it an attraction to 1015 00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:51,279 Speaker 1: the car or is it a thing that just the 1016 00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:53,960 Speaker 1: guy just you know how people have this kind of 1017 00:51:54,560 --> 00:51:57,399 Speaker 1: fantasy of having sex in public kind of thing. It's 1018 00:51:57,440 --> 00:51:59,600 Speaker 1: like one of those perverse things. I mean, I would 1019 00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:02,080 Speaker 1: say probably not a fantasy with the car, because he 1020 00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:04,960 Speaker 1: like took it off of the car and then finished 1021 00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:09,600 Speaker 1: the job without the car's involvement. But he when he 1022 00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:11,680 Speaker 1: showed up at first, it just was like he didn't 1023 00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:14,000 Speaker 1: he didn't look like he was really thinking about it, 1024 00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:16,239 Speaker 1: like he had a plan, like he knew what he 1025 00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:19,960 Speaker 1: was going to do. He's just so emotionless in the 1026 00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:23,480 Speaker 1: entire video that you're like, he's just doing this, like 1027 00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:26,240 Speaker 1: it's like watering a plant or like just doing something 1028 00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:30,160 Speaker 1: totally it is exactly. It's like what like it's like 1029 00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:33,320 Speaker 1: he's outside doing some kind of chore like sweeping grass 1030 00:52:33,400 --> 00:52:36,839 Speaker 1: up or something like it. Like it's just the weird 1031 00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:39,680 Speaker 1: the video is. You can't even believe that you're watching it. 1032 00:52:39,719 --> 00:52:41,520 Speaker 1: I'll put it in the grocer room later, by the way, 1033 00:52:41,600 --> 00:52:44,799 Speaker 1: so you definitely have to see this because it's it's 1034 00:52:45,120 --> 00:52:48,799 Speaker 1: really it's really interesting. And yeah, like Maria was saying, 1035 00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:52,920 Speaker 1: imagine like looking at your security film. I love that. 1036 00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:56,040 Speaker 1: I love that she like is sharing it because they're 1037 00:52:56,040 --> 00:52:57,840 Speaker 1: trying to find who the guy is. They don't know 1038 00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:00,239 Speaker 1: who did the police are searching for him, and you're 1039 00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:02,360 Speaker 1: just like, if you're gonna have fuck a cucumber like 1040 00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:04,279 Speaker 1: in my car, what else are you going to do? 1041 00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:06,319 Speaker 1: Calm over and like try to break into my house. 1042 00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:09,680 Speaker 1: I mean, like he kind of is capable of anything 1043 00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:12,359 Speaker 1: at this point, right, Yeah, I mean this video it's 1044 00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:15,680 Speaker 1: it's one of those it's just so outrageous to even 1045 00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:18,000 Speaker 1: think about. And then you're like, Okay, well there's a video. 1046 00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:19,719 Speaker 1: It can't be that bad. And you're watching the video 1047 00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:22,480 Speaker 1: and you're like, no, this dude literally just walked through 1048 00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:24,520 Speaker 1: this hole in the fence like no big deal and 1049 00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:26,680 Speaker 1: just took a cucumber out of a bag, adhered it 1050 00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:28,680 Speaker 1: to a car, and then had anal sct with it, 1051 00:53:28,920 --> 00:53:32,239 Speaker 1: like it was something he did every day. Well, he 1052 00:53:32,360 --> 00:53:34,880 Speaker 1: probably does do it every day, and he was able 1053 00:53:34,920 --> 00:53:36,840 Speaker 1: to smoke a cigarette at the same time. It's like 1054 00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:40,480 Speaker 1: this and listen, like a cucumber is fucking big, okay, 1055 00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:43,040 Speaker 1: So like you can't just stick that up your butt 1056 00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:46,280 Speaker 1: if you've never done that before, it doesn't go like that. Okay, 1057 00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:48,279 Speaker 1: that's like he had to work up to that thing. 1058 00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:51,040 Speaker 1: He took it. He just stuck it right up there, 1059 00:53:51,040 --> 00:53:54,200 Speaker 1: like didn't even think twice about it. Yeah, So be 1060 00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:56,680 Speaker 1: on the lookout for the cucumber offender. That's all I 1061 00:53:56,719 --> 00:54:00,200 Speaker 1: can say. And if you see any cucumbers laying the 1062 00:54:00,239 --> 00:54:03,879 Speaker 1: street with shit on it. Please call police. Yes, well, 1063 00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:06,600 Speaker 1: nothing's gonna top that one, but there are a couple 1064 00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:10,040 Speaker 1: in here that might be close. So let's talk about 1065 00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:13,640 Speaker 1: some medical news. So, in another edition of Totally Inappropriate 1066 00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:17,279 Speaker 1: Stories to Talk About with a mother and daughter hosted podcast, 1067 00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:22,319 Speaker 1: we have a story about semen allergies today. Yeah, so 1068 00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:26,000 Speaker 1: did you know that you could be allergic to semen? 1069 00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:30,080 Speaker 1: And the craziest thing is that it's not like you're 1070 00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:32,360 Speaker 1: allergic to all semen, like you could be allergic to 1071 00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:36,320 Speaker 1: one guy's and not another's. It's something like food allergies 1072 00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:38,680 Speaker 1: that you could just develop when you're older or something. 1073 00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:42,200 Speaker 1: And some of the symptoms are like having a an itchy, 1074 00:54:42,440 --> 00:54:45,520 Speaker 1: painful vagina and things like that, which could cross over 1075 00:54:45,600 --> 00:54:49,959 Speaker 1: with it's sexually transmitted infections and stuff. So the way 1076 00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:52,200 Speaker 1: to really know if you have a semen allergy is 1077 00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:55,760 Speaker 1: that if you keep having this reaction after you have sex, 1078 00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:57,799 Speaker 1: to try doing it with a condom, and then if 1079 00:54:57,840 --> 00:55:01,040 Speaker 1: you don't get it, that means that you're potentially allergic 1080 00:55:01,080 --> 00:55:03,400 Speaker 1: to your partner semen. Yeah, and they said people who've 1081 00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:06,680 Speaker 1: experienced this have described it as, quote, having a thousand 1082 00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:09,439 Speaker 1: needles stuck in their vagina, so I'm pretty sure you'll 1083 00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:13,600 Speaker 1: know if you're having an issue. So it doesn't seem 1084 00:55:13,680 --> 00:55:16,480 Speaker 1: like it's that common. They said that there's only about 1085 00:55:16,520 --> 00:55:19,160 Speaker 1: forty thousand people they think have it, but they also 1086 00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:21,760 Speaker 1: said that a lot of people might not really realize 1087 00:55:21,760 --> 00:55:24,720 Speaker 1: they have it, so the number could be much higher. 1088 00:55:25,280 --> 00:55:27,719 Speaker 1: And there's two different ways that you could have allergies 1089 00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:31,120 Speaker 1: from being exposed to semen that you're allergic to. So 1090 00:55:31,160 --> 00:55:34,279 Speaker 1: you could have it locally, which is just like either 1091 00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:37,160 Speaker 1: around your mouth or around your vagina that it gets 1092 00:55:37,239 --> 00:55:40,440 Speaker 1: like very itchy. I guess, I mean theory this is 1093 00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:43,279 Speaker 1: all about vaginal but I mean I guess a man 1094 00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:45,719 Speaker 1: could be allergic to another man's too, Like I don't 1095 00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:47,960 Speaker 1: see why not. They did say that in the article. 1096 00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:50,960 Speaker 1: It's okay, yeah, because it seemed like it was very 1097 00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:53,319 Speaker 1: specific to Viguinay said, just like it could even be 1098 00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:57,279 Speaker 1: allergic to their own semen. Yeah, well that we'll talk 1099 00:55:57,320 --> 00:55:59,240 Speaker 1: about a little bit later because that's a little bit different. 1100 00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:02,720 Speaker 1: But so you could have it at a localized reaction, 1101 00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:06,480 Speaker 1: So wherever the seman touches your skin or your orifice, 1102 00:56:06,600 --> 00:56:09,160 Speaker 1: you can get a localized reaction with like hives and 1103 00:56:09,200 --> 00:56:12,400 Speaker 1: pain and swelling, and you could also get like a 1104 00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:18,360 Speaker 1: systemic response, like similar to a child eating peanuts or something, 1105 00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:22,360 Speaker 1: and just you could get the rapid heartbeat and hives, 1106 00:56:22,440 --> 00:56:25,280 Speaker 1: and it could lead to seizures and coma and death 1107 00:56:26,040 --> 00:56:29,480 Speaker 1: in theory. But nobody's ever really died from a seaman allergy, 1108 00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:34,200 Speaker 1: but you could potentially get enophylaxis from it and like 1109 00:56:34,440 --> 00:56:37,799 Speaker 1: require carrying an EpiPen for it, which is just kind 1110 00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:42,200 Speaker 1: of crazy. But as Maria was saying, some guys can 1111 00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:45,560 Speaker 1: also it's not an allergy. They're not allergic to their 1112 00:56:45,600 --> 00:56:49,120 Speaker 1: own semen. But there's something that's called post orgasmic illness 1113 00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:53,240 Speaker 1: syndrome where a guy could have flu like symptoms after 1114 00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:58,279 Speaker 1: ejaculating hot that before on here. Yeah, I think that 1115 00:56:58,360 --> 00:57:01,040 Speaker 1: we did, because it does sound familiar. But they said 1116 00:57:01,120 --> 00:57:03,680 Speaker 1: that they've they've done money studies on it, and they're 1117 00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:06,280 Speaker 1: saying that they think that it's more like a psychological 1118 00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:10,120 Speaker 1: thing rather than an actual like allergy that you because 1119 00:57:10,480 --> 00:57:12,880 Speaker 1: if you have an allergy to semen in the vagina, 1120 00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:15,760 Speaker 1: for example, you would be able to measure that scientifically, 1121 00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:18,200 Speaker 1: like there's signs of inflammation in this and that, whereas 1122 00:57:18,240 --> 00:57:22,240 Speaker 1: they weren't able to see that with this post orgasmic 1123 00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:26,200 Speaker 1: illness syndrome. But one of the most interesting parts of 1124 00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:31,120 Speaker 1: this article is how they determine how you are allergic 1125 00:57:31,200 --> 00:57:34,920 Speaker 1: to it. So you know, when you get allergy testing done, 1126 00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:37,440 Speaker 1: you've had it done right. The allergist like that. They 1127 00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:40,240 Speaker 1: do like that prick test and they put your allergen 1128 00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:42,720 Speaker 1: inside of there to see if you're having a response 1129 00:57:42,760 --> 00:57:46,120 Speaker 1: to it. So really, the only way to tell if 1130 00:57:46,200 --> 00:57:49,400 Speaker 1: you're allergic to a particular person semen is by having 1131 00:57:49,480 --> 00:57:52,200 Speaker 1: them give their sample to your doctor, which is like, 1132 00:57:52,280 --> 00:57:55,960 Speaker 1: how often is that ever happening? Yeah? Serious? Could you 1133 00:57:56,040 --> 00:57:59,320 Speaker 1: imagine just like telling telling your boyfriend or your husband 1134 00:57:59,400 --> 00:58:01,960 Speaker 1: or whatever, like you just have to like go do 1135 00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:04,600 Speaker 1: this in this cup so we could see if if 1136 00:58:04,720 --> 00:58:08,040 Speaker 1: I'm allergic to you. But one of the ways that 1137 00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:11,560 Speaker 1: they treat it is even more outrageous. They have the 1138 00:58:11,640 --> 00:58:14,960 Speaker 1: guy go to the doctor's office and they dilute the 1139 00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:18,520 Speaker 1: semen and they it's like an exposure thing. They keep 1140 00:58:18,520 --> 00:58:21,960 Speaker 1: giving higher and higher doses of this diluted semen to 1141 00:58:22,560 --> 00:58:25,280 Speaker 1: putting it inside of the vaginist, hoping that she will 1142 00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:29,960 Speaker 1: become desensitized. To it, and it's called intravaginal disensitation. Like 1143 00:58:30,960 --> 00:58:33,280 Speaker 1: it's it's so crazy that they've done this to even 1144 00:58:33,320 --> 00:58:37,040 Speaker 1: one person, honestly. Yeah, I mean, I would think for 1145 00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:39,360 Speaker 1: the most part, unless you're trying to have a baby or 1146 00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:42,439 Speaker 1: something this like, you might figure it out the first 1147 00:58:42,480 --> 00:58:44,200 Speaker 1: time you have unprotected sex. But I'd say for the 1148 00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:49,240 Speaker 1: most part, it's probably pretty avoidable if you use condoms. Yeah, 1149 00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:51,200 Speaker 1: but who wants to use com I know, just saying 1150 00:58:51,280 --> 00:58:55,760 Speaker 1: like like that that, especially if you're in a relationship 1151 00:58:55,840 --> 00:58:58,000 Speaker 1: like that, doesn't seem like it would be very fun. 1152 00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:01,080 Speaker 1: But if I mean, if that's your thing, go ahead. 1153 00:59:01,160 --> 00:59:06,400 Speaker 1: I would rather opt for the disensitation uh procedure. Maybe 1154 00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:09,480 Speaker 1: I just can't imagine that most dudes are not going 1155 00:59:09,560 --> 00:59:12,400 Speaker 1: to be like going in there and willingly doing something 1156 00:59:12,480 --> 00:59:17,360 Speaker 1: like this. I think, okay, this next story. So I'm 1157 00:59:17,520 --> 00:59:19,280 Speaker 1: on the internet a lot more than you, and I've 1158 00:59:19,280 --> 00:59:22,560 Speaker 1: noticed that a lot of wellness influencers like they're hot 1159 00:59:22,560 --> 00:59:25,400 Speaker 1: thing this year is pelvic floor exercises. I don't even 1160 00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:28,560 Speaker 1: know if you've been aware of this. No, I mean 1161 00:59:28,640 --> 00:59:31,240 Speaker 1: I definitely think that I have a problem with it 1162 00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:36,000 Speaker 1: because I've had vaginal birth three times, and I don't, like, 1163 00:59:36,080 --> 00:59:38,240 Speaker 1: I don't really have a super problem with it, but 1164 00:59:38,320 --> 00:59:40,920 Speaker 1: definitely I can't go because like Gab will bring the 1165 00:59:41,000 --> 00:59:44,280 Speaker 1: kids to the trampoline park once in a while, and 1166 00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:47,400 Speaker 1: I've tried it a couple times, and like I automatically 1167 00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:50,520 Speaker 1: pee when I jump, like at all, a jumping jack, 1168 00:59:50,560 --> 00:59:52,840 Speaker 1: any kind of jumping at all, I will pee like 1169 00:59:52,880 --> 00:59:57,000 Speaker 1: it just I can't. But that's like there's people that 1170 00:59:57,040 --> 00:59:58,919 Speaker 1: have at them when they're just standing there. They can't 1171 00:59:58,960 --> 01:00:00,200 Speaker 1: even hold it in, you know what I mean, And 1172 01:00:01,400 --> 01:00:04,000 Speaker 1: that just that just happens with age and everything. And 1173 01:00:04,520 --> 01:00:07,160 Speaker 1: it's kind of a weird muscle to flex. I guess 1174 01:00:07,600 --> 01:00:10,000 Speaker 1: it's not like a typical workout where you just like 1175 01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:13,280 Speaker 1: lift some barbells or something like. You have to sit 1176 01:00:13,320 --> 01:00:16,880 Speaker 1: there and kind of squeeze, and people just don't like, 1177 01:00:17,000 --> 01:00:18,800 Speaker 1: can't really do it that easily. You have to do 1178 01:00:18,840 --> 01:00:22,120 Speaker 1: it regularly and everything to strengthen the muscles. So so 1179 01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:24,960 Speaker 1: what did they decide to get around this difficult exercise? 1180 01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:27,440 Speaker 1: So because studies have shown that one in three women 1181 01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:30,800 Speaker 1: apparently have weak pelvic floors, They've come up with this 1182 01:00:30,880 --> 01:00:34,120 Speaker 1: new device. So it basically it looks exactly like a 1183 01:00:34,200 --> 01:00:37,400 Speaker 1: vibrator or some type of sex toy. But basically you'll 1184 01:00:37,760 --> 01:00:41,280 Speaker 1: insert it like a sex toy and you can download 1185 01:00:41,320 --> 01:00:43,800 Speaker 1: an app and play video games with it to try 1186 01:00:43,840 --> 01:00:47,840 Speaker 1: to train your pelvic floor and strengthen it. You're playing 1187 01:00:47,920 --> 01:00:50,080 Speaker 1: video games with your vagina. But it's not like you 1188 01:00:50,120 --> 01:00:52,880 Speaker 1: can't play like Mario Kart with it, Like it's a 1189 01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:56,240 Speaker 1: video game. I think I could, actually it's a video game, 1190 01:00:56,320 --> 01:00:58,480 Speaker 1: and I think I could play Tetris with it like 1191 01:00:58,680 --> 01:01:03,000 Speaker 1: all day long. It's specific designed, uh, whatever level you're 1192 01:01:03,040 --> 01:01:06,480 Speaker 1: comfortable starting at to train, and there's different levels and 1193 01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:10,720 Speaker 1: difficulties and all that stuff. So it's it's an interesting 1194 01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:13,480 Speaker 1: invention for I just like kind I kind of want 1195 01:01:13,480 --> 01:01:15,520 Speaker 1: it just to see if Like I just I just 1196 01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:18,000 Speaker 1: am doing some research to see how it works. I'm 1197 01:01:18,040 --> 01:01:20,680 Speaker 1: just really curious about it. They they did, they are 1198 01:01:20,760 --> 01:01:25,720 Speaker 1: saying that like they're they're having good outcomes with it, right, Yeah, 1199 01:01:25,760 --> 01:01:28,920 Speaker 1: So their study showed that seventy one percent of users 1200 01:01:28,960 --> 01:01:34,080 Speaker 1: reported short term improvements in urinary incontinence, seventy nine percent 1201 01:01:34,120 --> 01:01:37,720 Speaker 1: saw medium term improvements, and eighty five percent experienced long 1202 01:01:37,800 --> 01:01:41,640 Speaker 1: term benefits. But do you think like you have to 1203 01:01:41,640 --> 01:01:43,760 Speaker 1: do it forever though, right, because it's like, oh, I 1204 01:01:43,800 --> 01:01:46,320 Speaker 1: don't know, it's like working out. It's not like you 1205 01:01:46,400 --> 01:01:48,520 Speaker 1: do it and then they get strong and then you're done. 1206 01:01:49,920 --> 01:01:52,160 Speaker 1: It's they work the same as every other muscle, Like 1207 01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:55,280 Speaker 1: you have to work if you don't, like, let's say 1208 01:01:55,320 --> 01:01:57,200 Speaker 1: you go to the gym and you get big biceps 1209 01:01:57,200 --> 01:01:59,080 Speaker 1: and stuff. If you don't keep going like it, you'll 1210 01:01:59,120 --> 01:02:01,680 Speaker 1: lose it. You know. It's the same thing. Yeah, I 1211 01:02:01,720 --> 01:02:07,400 Speaker 1: get like strength training of the badge. Okay. In South Carolina, 1212 01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:10,600 Speaker 1: this thirty five year old mother had her fourth child, 1213 01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:14,640 Speaker 1: and it's insane because the child was born on August 1214 01:02:14,680 --> 01:02:17,480 Speaker 1: twenty fifth, which is the same day her other three 1215 01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:20,400 Speaker 1: children were born. So all four kids have the same 1216 01:02:20,440 --> 01:02:23,480 Speaker 1: birthday on August twenty fifth, and it was not planned. 1217 01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:27,560 Speaker 1: Even if it was planned, could you really plan that? No, 1218 01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:30,680 Speaker 1: that's what all these doctors and experts interviewed in this 1219 01:02:30,760 --> 01:02:33,080 Speaker 1: article are like. Even if you were like, I'm gonna 1220 01:02:33,080 --> 01:02:36,120 Speaker 1: get pregnant on this day, the likelihood of giving birth 1221 01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:40,080 Speaker 1: on the same day twice, let alone four times, is 1222 01:02:40,360 --> 01:02:43,800 Speaker 1: very rare. I think they said it's one in one 1223 01:02:44,040 --> 01:02:48,439 Speaker 1: point two eight five billion chants of that happening. It's 1224 01:02:48,520 --> 01:02:51,200 Speaker 1: so crazy. I kept reading it over and over and 1225 01:02:51,200 --> 01:02:54,480 Speaker 1: I'm like, is this really happening right now? It seems 1226 01:02:54,520 --> 01:02:57,680 Speaker 1: so outrageous. And even if she planned it, like the 1227 01:02:57,800 --> 01:03:00,720 Speaker 1: last one was born at least the last one was 1228 01:03:00,760 --> 01:03:06,520 Speaker 1: born early, right, yeah, So it's just like it just 1229 01:03:07,440 --> 01:03:09,520 Speaker 1: even if you planned it and you just could find 1230 01:03:09,520 --> 01:03:12,000 Speaker 1: some doctor was like, give me a scheduled see section 1231 01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:14,480 Speaker 1: on this day, like it might be kind of possible. 1232 01:03:14,520 --> 01:03:17,960 Speaker 1: But even then, like you just well, every single kid, like, 1233 01:03:18,000 --> 01:03:20,560 Speaker 1: it's just crazy. It is nuts, it's so crazy. So 1234 01:03:20,680 --> 01:03:23,480 Speaker 1: apparently this lady's dog growing up had a birthday of 1235 01:03:23,520 --> 01:03:25,800 Speaker 1: August twenty fifth, so when they had their first daughter 1236 01:03:25,880 --> 01:03:27,880 Speaker 1: on August twenty fifth, they were like, well, that's kind 1237 01:03:27,880 --> 01:03:30,080 Speaker 1: of cool. And then the second one came a couple 1238 01:03:30,040 --> 01:03:33,480 Speaker 1: of weeks early on August twenty fifth, The third child 1239 01:03:33,600 --> 01:03:36,720 Speaker 1: came another couple of weeks early on August twenty fifth, 1240 01:03:36,840 --> 01:03:39,560 Speaker 1: and then the fourth child came a month early on 1241 01:03:39,600 --> 01:03:44,040 Speaker 1: August twenty fifth. So she it's just like, how like 1242 01:03:44,160 --> 01:03:47,280 Speaker 1: that's if some if some person told you that in 1243 01:03:47,320 --> 01:03:49,840 Speaker 1: real life, you wouldn't believe them. No, So she said 1244 01:03:49,880 --> 01:03:52,360 Speaker 1: she was at work and she started having blurry vision 1245 01:03:52,400 --> 01:03:53,920 Speaker 1: and she called her friend and they were like, you 1246 01:03:53,960 --> 01:03:56,280 Speaker 1: should just go to the hospital. And they were afraid 1247 01:03:56,320 --> 01:03:59,680 Speaker 1: she was having pre eclampsia or she did have preeclampsia, 1248 01:03:59,760 --> 01:04:03,120 Speaker 1: so like, okay, you have to deliver, because I guess 1249 01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:05,120 Speaker 1: they considered her to be far enough along to have 1250 01:04:05,160 --> 01:04:08,600 Speaker 1: a healthy delivery. And by the time everything was situated, 1251 01:04:08,640 --> 01:04:11,720 Speaker 1: it was eleven fifty five PM on August twenty fourth, 1252 01:04:11,720 --> 01:04:13,480 Speaker 1: and she said her and her husband just looked at 1253 01:04:13,480 --> 01:04:16,640 Speaker 1: each other and started hysterically laughing because they were just like, 1254 01:04:16,640 --> 01:04:20,120 Speaker 1: there is no way this is happening. Oh my god. 1255 01:04:20,400 --> 01:04:22,640 Speaker 1: So we're a cool city. It's a cool story. So, 1256 01:04:23,040 --> 01:04:26,600 Speaker 1: I mean, it's pretty convenient. You can celebrate your kid's 1257 01:04:26,600 --> 01:04:30,240 Speaker 1: birthday right day, So easy, right, you just be like 1258 01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:33,040 Speaker 1: all right, guys, like we're gonna get one big cake 1259 01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:36,280 Speaker 1: and call it a day. Lucky lady. Man. It sucks 1260 01:04:36,280 --> 01:04:39,240 Speaker 1: for them that they can't have individual birthdays, but it's 1261 01:04:39,240 --> 01:04:41,200 Speaker 1: a cool story for their whole life. You know, you 1262 01:04:41,240 --> 01:04:44,280 Speaker 1: and all of your siblings have the same birthday. It's 1263 01:04:44,320 --> 01:04:48,120 Speaker 1: so outrageous. Yeah, it really is not as outrageous as 1264 01:04:48,160 --> 01:04:51,760 Speaker 1: this one's really disturbing for me. It is, And when 1265 01:04:51,800 --> 01:04:53,840 Speaker 1: I read this. I was just like, Oh my god. 1266 01:04:53,920 --> 01:04:57,760 Speaker 1: So there's these realistic baby dolls called reborn dolls, and 1267 01:04:57,800 --> 01:05:02,000 Speaker 1: the purpose of them is this therapy treatment to comfort people, 1268 01:05:02,320 --> 01:05:05,919 Speaker 1: you know, with infertility, infant loss, or dementia. I don't 1269 01:05:05,960 --> 01:05:08,240 Speaker 1: know why for dementia, but that's what they're saying it's 1270 01:05:08,320 --> 01:05:11,440 Speaker 1: used for. So this twenty seven year old girl a 1271 01:05:11,480 --> 01:05:13,600 Speaker 1: couple of years ago bought one of these dolls and 1272 01:05:13,680 --> 01:05:16,600 Speaker 1: became very attached to it. Her family told her it 1273 01:05:16,720 --> 01:05:19,880 Speaker 1: was normal to feel maternal, I guess in your mid 1274 01:05:19,920 --> 01:05:21,720 Speaker 1: to late twenties, so that's when a lot of people 1275 01:05:21,760 --> 01:05:25,400 Speaker 1: become mothers. That's how she was justifying it. So in 1276 01:05:25,520 --> 01:05:28,680 Speaker 1: a couple of year period, she acquired seven of these 1277 01:05:28,720 --> 01:05:32,440 Speaker 1: dolls that she cares for. And not only does she 1278 01:05:32,640 --> 01:05:34,680 Speaker 1: just like have them and dress them in clothing and 1279 01:05:34,680 --> 01:05:38,479 Speaker 1: take them out in public, but she also breastfeeds them 1280 01:05:39,200 --> 01:05:42,960 Speaker 1: these dolls. Have you ever seen these dolls? Yeah, they're 1281 01:05:43,120 --> 01:05:45,800 Speaker 1: they're like really creepy looking because they really look like 1282 01:05:45,960 --> 01:05:50,400 Speaker 1: real humans. Yeah, Like she's she's sticking her boob in 1283 01:05:50,480 --> 01:05:56,200 Speaker 1: this kid's in this a doll's mouth. Really and apparently 1284 01:05:56,240 --> 01:05:58,640 Speaker 1: there's like a whole community of these people, right a 1285 01:05:58,760 --> 01:06:02,600 Speaker 1: reborn community. Yeah, and they're that frown upon this. They're 1286 01:06:02,760 --> 01:06:05,200 Speaker 1: very pissed about it. They don't think it's right. I 1287 01:06:05,200 --> 01:06:10,400 Speaker 1: would have to agree. She who makes the rules, like 1288 01:06:10,880 --> 01:06:13,120 Speaker 1: like where do you draw the line so it's okay 1289 01:06:13,160 --> 01:06:15,360 Speaker 1: to have one of these babies and like raise it 1290 01:06:15,400 --> 01:06:17,920 Speaker 1: as your own. Well, I don't like these dollars, but 1291 01:06:18,040 --> 01:06:20,280 Speaker 1: like if you cross the line, if you like try 1292 01:06:20,280 --> 01:06:22,840 Speaker 1: to breastfeed it, I don't like the entire concept of it. 1293 01:06:22,880 --> 01:06:25,600 Speaker 1: They're very expensive. They range from like fifty to five 1294 01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:29,800 Speaker 1: hundred dollars, and I think that's cheap for them. They're 1295 01:06:29,800 --> 01:06:32,440 Speaker 1: really good details. Did you ever see them? Yeah, I 1296 01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:36,440 Speaker 1: mean they're like legit, Like I would have thought that 1297 01:06:36,480 --> 01:06:39,000 Speaker 1: they were like thousands of dollars. They just they just 1298 01:06:39,040 --> 01:06:41,440 Speaker 1: look like they take a really long time to make them. 1299 01:06:41,480 --> 01:06:44,480 Speaker 1: So basically, she like takes them out in public and 1300 01:06:44,520 --> 01:06:48,800 Speaker 1: obviously people stare at her because I'm sorry, but it's weird. 1301 01:06:49,320 --> 01:06:52,160 Speaker 1: And you know, she like made a TikTok where she 1302 01:06:52,200 --> 01:06:55,080 Speaker 1: has over twenty thousand followers and people do the same 1303 01:06:55,080 --> 01:06:57,600 Speaker 1: thing as her. So now she feels like more comfortable 1304 01:06:58,080 --> 01:06:59,800 Speaker 1: talking about and everything. But I guess in one of 1305 01:06:59,840 --> 01:07:04,160 Speaker 1: the reborn community groups. She admitted that she was breastfeeding 1306 01:07:04,200 --> 01:07:06,800 Speaker 1: one of them, and then people started freaking out on 1307 01:07:06,800 --> 01:07:09,400 Speaker 1: her about it and saying it was wrong, and she 1308 01:07:09,440 --> 01:07:12,000 Speaker 1: doesn't feel that it's wrong because she feels I don't 1309 01:07:12,040 --> 01:07:15,120 Speaker 1: feel Listen, I think I'm with you, Like I think 1310 01:07:15,160 --> 01:07:18,440 Speaker 1: the whole thing's wrong. But like if you're going to 1311 01:07:18,480 --> 01:07:21,400 Speaker 1: be changing the diaper of a doll and like, like 1312 01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:26,800 Speaker 1: she was saying that she gives it formula the other ones, 1313 01:07:27,160 --> 01:07:30,320 Speaker 1: but then the community frowns upon giving formula, so she 1314 01:07:30,440 --> 01:07:34,280 Speaker 1: makes like a fake formula. Like this shit is just weird. 1315 01:07:34,320 --> 01:07:36,840 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Like, why are we trying to normalize this 1316 01:07:36,920 --> 01:07:41,080 Speaker 1: at all? She dresses them in cosplay too. She one 1317 01:07:41,120 --> 01:07:44,680 Speaker 1: of them was dressed like Princess Peach from Mary. Okay, 1318 01:07:44,800 --> 01:07:47,880 Speaker 1: but like so that's okay, but then like what like 1319 01:07:48,000 --> 01:07:50,400 Speaker 1: it's but it's weird. You're crossing the line now by 1320 01:07:50,560 --> 01:07:54,240 Speaker 1: by breastfeeding this thing. Listen, Like, I don't know, I 1321 01:07:54,240 --> 01:07:56,840 Speaker 1: I don't really like the concept of baby dolls at all. 1322 01:07:57,080 --> 01:08:00,000 Speaker 1: I understand them in the context of maybe you want 1323 01:08:00,160 --> 01:08:03,440 Speaker 1: to give like high school kids them in homech or something, 1324 01:08:04,080 --> 01:08:07,520 Speaker 1: or I understand it could be used as a therapeutic 1325 01:08:07,560 --> 01:08:10,080 Speaker 1: treatment to somebody that's dealing with the loss of a child. 1326 01:08:10,680 --> 01:08:12,960 Speaker 1: But I don't really see the need for like an 1327 01:08:13,000 --> 01:08:16,320 Speaker 1: adult person that's not going through that to have them. 1328 01:08:16,439 --> 01:08:18,439 Speaker 1: If you need to do that to get through something, 1329 01:08:18,560 --> 01:08:21,200 Speaker 1: I think that's up to you. But I don't think 1330 01:08:21,240 --> 01:08:24,439 Speaker 1: we should be expected to accept somebody like breastfeeding a 1331 01:08:24,479 --> 01:08:27,800 Speaker 1: doll or taking it out in public and thinking it's 1332 01:08:27,920 --> 01:08:30,400 Speaker 1: unusual that somebody has a doll and is treating it 1333 01:08:30,439 --> 01:08:34,000 Speaker 1: like a human being in public, Like, I'm sorry she 1334 01:08:34,160 --> 01:08:37,400 Speaker 1: did say a quote about something like I never understood 1335 01:08:37,400 --> 01:08:39,800 Speaker 1: why women's boobs are sexualized. If it was a woman 1336 01:08:39,880 --> 01:08:42,720 Speaker 1: breastfeeding a real baby, nobody would say anything about it. 1337 01:08:42,760 --> 01:08:46,280 Speaker 1: But but you shouldn't say anything about be breastfeeding this time, 1338 01:08:46,280 --> 01:08:48,559 Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, people say something about it when 1339 01:08:48,680 --> 01:08:50,960 Speaker 1: when you're breastfeeding a real baby too, Like a lot 1340 01:08:50,960 --> 01:08:55,000 Speaker 1: of people are uncomfortable with that, which is ridiculous because well, 1341 01:08:55,280 --> 01:08:57,599 Speaker 1: I never gave a shit. I don't care, Like, I'm 1342 01:08:57,640 --> 01:08:59,160 Speaker 1: just like, my kid needs to eat and I'm here. 1343 01:08:59,240 --> 01:09:03,160 Speaker 1: So I think it is absolutely ridiculous to criticize a 1344 01:09:03,200 --> 01:09:06,960 Speaker 1: woman for breastfeeding a real human child. You're feeding that child, 1345 01:09:07,080 --> 01:09:11,000 Speaker 1: You're feeding human life. When you're sticking your boob in 1346 01:09:11,160 --> 01:09:15,839 Speaker 1: an inanimate object, that's that's a sexual act. Yes, I'm sorry. 1347 01:09:15,960 --> 01:09:19,280 Speaker 1: When you're rubbing your nipple on on a doll, that's 1348 01:09:19,439 --> 01:09:23,800 Speaker 1: that's not real. That's not drinking from your boob for nutrients. 1349 01:09:23,800 --> 01:09:26,200 Speaker 1: It's a sexual act in public. That's how I feel. 1350 01:09:26,240 --> 01:09:29,120 Speaker 1: There's a difference. When you're feeding a human life, You're 1351 01:09:29,200 --> 01:09:33,400 Speaker 1: you're nurturing that child, You're not nurturing a doll. Like 1352 01:09:33,479 --> 01:09:36,000 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I just I don't like it. It makes 1353 01:09:36,000 --> 01:09:39,599 Speaker 1: me very uncomfortable. Sorry, Well, now I know what I'm 1354 01:09:39,600 --> 01:09:42,160 Speaker 1: getting you for your birthday. Well. Yeah, on the other 1355 01:09:42,400 --> 01:09:46,200 Speaker 1: death news, well, Top Mom's at it again making headlines. 1356 01:09:46,240 --> 01:09:49,719 Speaker 1: This time she's not I know that that was really 1357 01:09:50,560 --> 01:09:53,720 Speaker 1: she made that. Nancy Grace made Top Mom right. Oh 1358 01:09:53,760 --> 01:09:56,360 Speaker 1: yeahs like the one that coined it. Yeah, that's really 1359 01:09:57,200 --> 01:10:00,120 Speaker 1: When did when did this crime happen? I feel like 1360 01:10:00,200 --> 01:10:03,479 Speaker 1: when this trial was going on was really when I 1361 01:10:03,560 --> 01:10:06,400 Speaker 1: first Like, we always watched forensic files and stuff in 1362 01:10:06,439 --> 01:10:11,000 Speaker 1: twenty twenty, but I feel like this case was really like, Okay, 1363 01:10:11,040 --> 01:10:13,920 Speaker 1: I'm a true crime fanatic, and we were always watching Nancy. 1364 01:10:14,120 --> 01:10:15,600 Speaker 1: So that's why I felt when we met her at 1365 01:10:15,640 --> 01:10:18,160 Speaker 1: Crime Con that it was our full circle moment because 1366 01:10:18,160 --> 01:10:21,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, literally, this was like the birth of me 1367 01:10:21,080 --> 01:10:22,920 Speaker 1: loving true crime, and now I'm meeting you in a 1368 01:10:22,960 --> 01:10:25,320 Speaker 1: professional setting. So I just thought that was the coolest 1369 01:10:25,320 --> 01:10:27,960 Speaker 1: shit ever. Yeah, it was cool. But top Mom's done 1370 01:10:27,960 --> 01:10:30,599 Speaker 1: it again. She's been having an affair with a married man. 1371 01:10:32,240 --> 01:10:37,320 Speaker 1: So this guy has kids, yes, but they're not little, No, 1372 01:10:37,360 --> 01:10:43,120 Speaker 1: they're young adults. Yeah, but still, like, could you imagine 1373 01:10:43,360 --> 01:10:45,640 Speaker 1: the wife and finding out that your husband's having an 1374 01:10:45,640 --> 01:10:50,120 Speaker 1: affairs Casey Anthony, Yes, I mean it is. When I 1375 01:10:50,160 --> 01:10:53,000 Speaker 1: first heard it, I was really upset because I thought 1376 01:10:53,040 --> 01:10:56,519 Speaker 1: that the guy had little kids and imagine being a 1377 01:10:56,560 --> 01:10:59,439 Speaker 1: mom that had to do visitation and send your children 1378 01:10:59,520 --> 01:11:03,720 Speaker 1: to their dad's house every other weekend with dating like 1379 01:11:03,760 --> 01:11:06,200 Speaker 1: a literal monster like this, you know what I mean, 1380 01:11:06,320 --> 01:11:08,160 Speaker 1: Like and like for everybody that's going to be like 1381 01:11:08,200 --> 01:11:10,679 Speaker 1: she was acquitted, blah blah blah. I understand she was acquitted, 1382 01:11:10,680 --> 01:11:15,280 Speaker 1: but the story still ain't right, Like sorry, but no, 1383 01:11:15,400 --> 01:11:18,720 Speaker 1: it was totally fine. The kid just like ended up 1384 01:11:18,760 --> 01:11:24,360 Speaker 1: in the woods in uh Orlando, Florida, just with Duc Taper. 1385 01:11:24,360 --> 01:11:26,280 Speaker 1: I think we could have nothing to see. You could 1386 01:11:26,280 --> 01:11:29,200 Speaker 1: all agree that they were maybe not able to prove 1387 01:11:29,320 --> 01:11:32,600 Speaker 1: beyond reasonable doubt that she committed this crime, but it 1388 01:11:32,640 --> 01:11:36,280 Speaker 1: certainly wasn't acceptable what happened that lived there. So during 1389 01:11:36,520 --> 01:11:40,160 Speaker 1: her trial, there was a lot of talk about her 1390 01:11:40,200 --> 01:11:44,920 Speaker 1: having some kind of like personality disorder or or bipolar 1391 01:11:45,080 --> 01:11:48,559 Speaker 1: something like all these different things anti social personality disorder, 1392 01:11:49,040 --> 01:11:52,639 Speaker 1: borderline personality disorder. And I don't know if you remember, 1393 01:11:52,680 --> 01:11:55,560 Speaker 1: but during the trial there was like this forensic psychologist 1394 01:11:55,680 --> 01:11:58,400 Speaker 1: that stayed with her for over like twenty hours and 1395 01:11:58,479 --> 01:12:01,880 Speaker 1: just said, no, there's nothing wrong with her. She passed 1396 01:12:01,880 --> 01:12:04,640 Speaker 1: every test there's he said, there's no diagnosis there. She 1397 01:12:04,640 --> 01:12:07,639 Speaker 1: doesn't have a personality disorder, she doesn't have a mental illness, 1398 01:12:07,640 --> 01:12:11,519 Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with her. And many people have argued 1399 01:12:11,560 --> 01:12:14,240 Speaker 1: that because they felt that she was very very manipulative 1400 01:12:14,360 --> 01:12:19,599 Speaker 1: and during the trial, right, and this to me, it 1401 01:12:19,640 --> 01:12:21,960 Speaker 1: is like, you know, a kind maybe it's more of 1402 01:12:22,000 --> 01:12:24,599 Speaker 1: that personality coming through that, like there's a guy that's 1403 01:12:24,640 --> 01:12:27,439 Speaker 1: married that has kids and you're like pulling him away 1404 01:12:27,479 --> 01:12:31,320 Speaker 1: from that kind of thing. It's I think, I honestly 1405 01:12:31,360 --> 01:12:36,439 Speaker 1: think that she even manipulated the forensic psychologist to think 1406 01:12:36,479 --> 01:12:39,320 Speaker 1: that like maybe she's just that good that she even 1407 01:12:39,360 --> 01:12:41,400 Speaker 1: manipulated him in some sort of a way. Well, this 1408 01:12:41,439 --> 01:12:44,080 Speaker 1: is what happened. So it looks like it looks like 1409 01:12:44,160 --> 01:12:46,760 Speaker 1: both of them were going to the same gym where 1410 01:12:46,800 --> 01:12:49,800 Speaker 1: they lived in Florida and were added on some group 1411 01:12:49,880 --> 01:12:51,840 Speaker 1: chat and then they started texting one on one on 1412 01:12:51,880 --> 01:12:54,479 Speaker 1: the side, and then it looks like he and his 1413 01:12:54,520 --> 01:12:58,320 Speaker 1: family moved to Tennessee earlier this year, but they had 1414 01:12:58,560 --> 01:13:02,559 Speaker 1: maybe started their little rendezvous before he had moved away, 1415 01:13:03,960 --> 01:13:06,479 Speaker 1: and he was married for twenty two years and he 1416 01:13:06,560 --> 01:13:09,840 Speaker 1: left his wife for her. They moved to Tennessee and 1417 01:13:09,880 --> 01:13:11,920 Speaker 1: he served his wife. He told his wife he wanted 1418 01:13:11,920 --> 01:13:15,479 Speaker 1: a divorce. I mean, listen, like this happens every day, 1419 01:13:15,960 --> 01:13:18,680 Speaker 1: like all over the world with people that don't you know, 1420 01:13:18,760 --> 01:13:23,240 Speaker 1: aren't accused of capital murder or whatever. But it's just 1421 01:13:23,360 --> 01:13:26,919 Speaker 1: interesting because of I think for me it's most interesting 1422 01:13:26,960 --> 01:13:29,599 Speaker 1: because I had, you know, when you were younger and stuff. 1423 01:13:29,600 --> 01:13:32,400 Speaker 1: It's like when you're when you're co parenting with another person, 1424 01:13:32,439 --> 01:13:36,160 Speaker 1: you're always worried about what's happening when they're at the 1425 01:13:36,200 --> 01:13:38,960 Speaker 1: other house. Yeah, but I guess that's not really happening 1426 01:13:39,040 --> 01:13:41,720 Speaker 1: if the kids are like college age now just have. 1427 01:13:41,960 --> 01:13:45,200 Speaker 1: But in general, like the mom still should be worried 1428 01:13:45,240 --> 01:13:48,800 Speaker 1: about her sons being around a person that of this 1429 01:13:49,000 --> 01:13:53,000 Speaker 1: caliber at all. Like no matter how, I don't think 1430 01:13:53,040 --> 01:13:55,200 Speaker 1: she's a harm to them, but just like, well, this 1431 01:13:55,280 --> 01:13:58,360 Speaker 1: is I don't know, this quote could be totally fabricated, 1432 01:13:58,400 --> 01:14:02,200 Speaker 1: but they're saying somebody close to Casey Anthony said quote, 1433 01:14:02,240 --> 01:14:04,799 Speaker 1: she doesn't care if he's married or not. That's his business. 1434 01:14:04,840 --> 01:14:06,599 Speaker 1: All she knows is he makes her feel good and 1435 01:14:06,640 --> 01:14:10,439 Speaker 1: she likes that. That's concerning to me because you should 1436 01:14:10,439 --> 01:14:13,479 Speaker 1: care because you should have some morals that you you know, 1437 01:14:13,840 --> 01:14:16,479 Speaker 1: it's not your fault that he decided to have an 1438 01:14:16,520 --> 01:14:19,360 Speaker 1: affair on his wife, Like he made that decision as 1439 01:14:19,400 --> 01:14:22,280 Speaker 1: an adult. But like you shouldn't want to be with 1440 01:14:22,400 --> 01:14:26,280 Speaker 1: somebody that treats their significant other like that. Yeah, but 1441 01:14:26,320 --> 01:14:29,160 Speaker 1: that that's not specific to Casey Anthony. I mean that 1442 01:14:29,240 --> 01:14:32,360 Speaker 1: happens every day. No, you hear that all the time, 1443 01:14:32,439 --> 01:14:35,439 Speaker 1: Like dudes don't want anything to do with their kid, 1444 01:14:36,040 --> 01:14:38,240 Speaker 1: and then like they meet the next girl, and the 1445 01:14:38,280 --> 01:14:40,360 Speaker 1: next girl thinks she's gonna get pregnant and he's gonna 1446 01:14:40,400 --> 01:14:41,960 Speaker 1: want something to do with her kid. You know what 1447 01:14:42,040 --> 01:14:45,719 Speaker 1: I mean, like, it isn't scandalous because somebody's having an affair. 1448 01:14:45,840 --> 01:14:48,680 Speaker 1: It's scandalous because she is having an affair with a 1449 01:14:48,760 --> 01:14:51,760 Speaker 1: person with children when her child died in the way 1450 01:14:51,800 --> 01:14:56,240 Speaker 1: she did. So yeah, so god, this lady. I feel 1451 01:14:56,320 --> 01:14:59,720 Speaker 1: bad for the wife that's getting wrapped up in this. 1452 01:15:00,320 --> 01:15:03,439 Speaker 1: And now she's moved to Tennessee to be with him. 1453 01:15:04,000 --> 01:15:06,519 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, So she got an apartment right down 1454 01:15:06,600 --> 01:15:10,439 Speaker 1: the street from his and they're they're going out. They're 1455 01:15:10,479 --> 01:15:12,360 Speaker 1: full blown going out. They go out in public. There's 1456 01:15:12,360 --> 01:15:17,240 Speaker 1: populazzi pictures of them. It is what it is. Onto 1457 01:15:17,320 --> 01:15:20,200 Speaker 1: Questions of the Day every Friday at that Mother Knows 1458 01:15:20,240 --> 01:15:22,840 Speaker 1: Death Instagram account. We put up a little question box 1459 01:15:22,880 --> 01:15:25,679 Speaker 1: in the story. You guys could ask us whatever you want. First, 1460 01:15:26,040 --> 01:15:30,320 Speaker 1: if you accidentally swallowed maggots via food, is it guaranteed 1461 01:15:30,360 --> 01:15:35,280 Speaker 1: that they'll hatch in your stomach? No, I would say no. 1462 01:15:35,280 --> 01:15:38,040 Speaker 1: Now we could talk about momm's story because dude, we 1463 01:15:38,120 --> 01:15:42,640 Speaker 1: had we had a crazy uh what was it for 1464 01:15:42,720 --> 01:15:46,559 Speaker 1: Ricky's birthday? We were at your house and then remember 1465 01:15:46,600 --> 01:15:50,200 Speaker 1: when I spit my celcerl in the place we were talking. 1466 01:15:50,280 --> 01:15:52,000 Speaker 1: I don't want to get into like all the details 1467 01:15:52,000 --> 01:15:53,760 Speaker 1: in case of their families listening. But we were talking 1468 01:15:53,760 --> 01:15:58,040 Speaker 1: about somebody being an alcoholic, and she said, seriously, she said, 1469 01:15:58,240 --> 01:16:01,040 Speaker 1: he's not an alcoholic. He was a drinker. You could 1470 01:16:01,040 --> 01:16:04,160 Speaker 1: talk you could talk about you could talk about this, 1471 01:16:04,200 --> 01:16:07,160 Speaker 1: because they're all dead that anybody's gonna care about that. 1472 01:16:07,240 --> 01:16:11,600 Speaker 1: So it's like we're talking about my great grandmom that 1473 01:16:11,640 --> 01:16:15,519 Speaker 1: we used to call granny Nanny, right, And she she 1474 01:16:15,720 --> 01:16:18,840 Speaker 1: was talking about, Oh, I don't know if I ever 1475 01:16:18,880 --> 01:16:23,040 Speaker 1: told you, but her husband killed himself. And I'm like really, 1476 01:16:23,200 --> 01:16:25,479 Speaker 1: And then I said, wait, I never even like when 1477 01:16:25,479 --> 01:16:27,000 Speaker 1: I was like six or something. I'm like, I never 1478 01:16:27,000 --> 01:16:29,760 Speaker 1: even thought of her as having like a guy. And 1479 01:16:29,800 --> 01:16:32,160 Speaker 1: then it was like, you know what I mean, because 1480 01:16:32,160 --> 01:16:33,880 Speaker 1: she was just like the old lady that lived there, 1481 01:16:33,920 --> 01:16:37,440 Speaker 1: you know. And and it wasn't my real great grandpapa. 1482 01:16:37,479 --> 01:16:40,559 Speaker 1: It was like some guy she married. Yeah, So I 1483 01:16:40,680 --> 01:16:42,599 Speaker 1: was just like, oh, I never even thought about her 1484 01:16:42,680 --> 01:16:45,839 Speaker 1: with any man, like, let alone like another guy whatever. 1485 01:16:46,439 --> 01:16:50,320 Speaker 1: And she was telling us this story about how they 1486 01:16:50,479 --> 01:16:53,479 Speaker 1: found out that he killed himself by by the Schoogol 1487 01:16:53,560 --> 01:16:55,919 Speaker 1: River or something. This was back in like what the sixties, 1488 01:16:56,120 --> 01:16:58,200 Speaker 1: like the sixties or something. Was a long time ago, 1489 01:16:58,240 --> 01:17:01,439 Speaker 1: and like we and we were just asking all these 1490 01:17:01,560 --> 01:17:04,000 Speaker 1: questions and apparently he had found out that he had 1491 01:17:04,040 --> 01:17:06,479 Speaker 1: colon cancer and he like never got any treatment and 1492 01:17:06,520 --> 01:17:08,200 Speaker 1: he just went and killed himself. The whole story is 1493 01:17:08,240 --> 01:17:10,280 Speaker 1: like the even know if he had colon cancer yet 1494 01:17:10,320 --> 01:17:12,000 Speaker 1: they wanted to give him a test to see if 1495 01:17:12,040 --> 01:17:15,000 Speaker 1: he had yeah, like which I just don't believe. But whatever. 1496 01:17:15,040 --> 01:17:16,880 Speaker 1: There's like, you know, there's all these stories that you're 1497 01:17:16,920 --> 01:17:19,000 Speaker 1: just like, yeah, there's definitely more to this story, mom, 1498 01:17:19,040 --> 01:17:21,759 Speaker 1: but you just believe on face value like that for sure. 1499 01:17:22,200 --> 01:17:25,559 Speaker 1: So then she was saying something like I was asking 1500 01:17:25,600 --> 01:17:29,320 Speaker 1: all these questions and I said, she like, was he 1501 01:17:29,400 --> 01:17:31,840 Speaker 1: in out? Like was he an alcoholic or no? She 1502 01:17:31,960 --> 01:17:34,280 Speaker 1: was like saying, well, he did drink every day. And 1503 01:17:34,320 --> 01:17:36,519 Speaker 1: I said, so he was an alcoholic and she goes 1504 01:17:36,760 --> 01:17:39,040 Speaker 1: and I'm like in mid drink and then she said 1505 01:17:39,240 --> 01:17:41,640 Speaker 1: was she saying no, he wasn't an alcoholic. He was 1506 01:17:41,680 --> 01:17:44,280 Speaker 1: a heavy drinker. Yeah, And I don't know why, Like 1507 01:17:44,320 --> 01:17:46,760 Speaker 1: I just spit out all of it because that's just 1508 01:17:46,760 --> 01:17:49,200 Speaker 1: like Mom, that's like, what are you talking about right now? 1509 01:17:49,240 --> 01:17:51,920 Speaker 1: But and so then that and then that went to 1510 01:17:52,120 --> 01:17:54,519 Speaker 1: her getting mad at us for because we were talking 1511 01:17:54,560 --> 01:17:58,000 Speaker 1: about Big Mac Maggot story. Oh yeah, the Big Mac 1512 01:17:58,080 --> 01:18:00,000 Speaker 1: Maggot story. And she goes, well, did you tell them 1513 01:18:00,120 --> 01:18:02,160 Speaker 1: my maggot story? And I was like, no, Mom, I 1514 01:18:02,280 --> 01:18:04,479 Speaker 1: forgot until you just brought it up right now, Beth, 1515 01:18:04,560 --> 01:18:07,559 Speaker 1: why do you want people to know about Okay, you 1516 01:18:07,720 --> 01:18:11,000 Speaker 1: ate maggots. Congratulations. The whole world knows that, Beth, that 1517 01:18:11,040 --> 01:18:15,519 Speaker 1: Beth ate magnets, now maggots. But so she I guess 1518 01:18:15,720 --> 01:18:18,479 Speaker 1: remember like back in the day when people used to 1519 01:18:18,520 --> 01:18:21,080 Speaker 1: come to your door and like sell candy for like 1520 01:18:22,000 --> 01:18:26,800 Speaker 1: softball or something. I don't remember because I'm not so well. 1521 01:18:27,240 --> 01:18:29,519 Speaker 1: When we when I was a kid and we played softball, 1522 01:18:29,520 --> 01:18:31,680 Speaker 1: we used to get this big box of candy, like 1523 01:18:31,720 --> 01:18:33,840 Speaker 1: for the fundraiser, and we would sell it and just 1524 01:18:33,880 --> 01:18:35,720 Speaker 1: go to the neighbor's house and be like, hey, do 1525 01:18:35,760 --> 01:18:38,960 Speaker 1: you want this whatever. So she bought candy off of 1526 01:18:39,000 --> 01:18:41,160 Speaker 1: a complete stranger. I think. I don't think it had 1527 01:18:41,200 --> 01:18:44,000 Speaker 1: anything to do with anybody that we actually knew. Some 1528 01:18:44,120 --> 01:18:46,599 Speaker 1: kid came to the store and sold her candy, and 1529 01:18:46,680 --> 01:18:50,439 Speaker 1: she bought this mister goodbar and she bit into it 1530 01:18:50,479 --> 01:18:53,320 Speaker 1: and there was like white maggots like in the candy 1531 01:18:53,320 --> 01:18:58,200 Speaker 1: bar and she thinks that she ate them. So now 1532 01:18:58,240 --> 01:18:59,559 Speaker 1: everyone knows your story. Mom. 1533 01:19:00,040 --> 01:19:05,639 Speaker 2: But but but yeah, like I mean she you could 1534 01:19:05,680 --> 01:19:09,639 Speaker 2: have them and they can totally like they can totally 1535 01:19:09,640 --> 01:19:12,320 Speaker 2: cause a problem, but in most cases they don't because 1536 01:19:12,360 --> 01:19:13,120 Speaker 2: it's stomach acid. 1537 01:19:13,120 --> 01:19:15,360 Speaker 1: It will usually take care of it and stuff. I 1538 01:19:15,439 --> 01:19:18,240 Speaker 1: just think for that the one particular case I think 1539 01:19:18,280 --> 01:19:20,639 Speaker 1: you're bringing this up about the person that had the 1540 01:19:20,680 --> 01:19:23,160 Speaker 1: fly in their colonoscopy and they really don't know how 1541 01:19:23,200 --> 01:19:26,840 Speaker 1: it got in there. There's questions as to like did 1542 01:19:26,880 --> 01:19:28,920 Speaker 1: it fly up as butt during the procedure or did 1543 01:19:28,920 --> 01:19:31,280 Speaker 1: it go down his throat before the procedure and everything 1544 01:19:31,320 --> 01:19:35,799 Speaker 1: like that. And it is possible to have maggots inside 1545 01:19:35,800 --> 01:19:39,639 Speaker 1: of your intestines, but not I wouldn't worry about it, honestly, 1546 01:19:40,320 --> 01:19:43,040 Speaker 1: all right. Next, as a PA, does this smell of 1547 01:19:43,120 --> 01:19:48,760 Speaker 1: dead bodies get on your clothes? Yes? I mean, how 1548 01:19:49,320 --> 01:19:51,120 Speaker 1: like I used to pick you up and you would 1549 01:19:51,120 --> 01:19:53,680 Speaker 1: say that I smelt and put the window down when 1550 01:19:53,720 --> 01:19:56,320 Speaker 1: I'm drying, remember that one time? I mean it really 1551 01:19:56,840 --> 01:19:59,280 Speaker 1: one of the one of the medical examiners at the 1552 01:19:59,320 --> 01:20:01,959 Speaker 1: Emmy's office, he used to come over to the hospital 1553 01:20:02,000 --> 01:20:05,240 Speaker 1: sometimes and he always smelled like d comp because he 1554 01:20:05,680 --> 01:20:08,320 Speaker 1: was like a he had like a lot of hair 1555 01:20:08,600 --> 01:20:13,040 Speaker 1: and a beard, and it just he smelled like like 1556 01:20:13,160 --> 01:20:17,080 Speaker 1: decomp and cigarettes mixed. Yeah, it was a crazy smell, 1557 01:20:17,080 --> 01:20:20,519 Speaker 1: but it does. It does. Like even whenever I had 1558 01:20:20,560 --> 01:20:22,360 Speaker 1: an autopsy, I would come home and it just I 1559 01:20:22,439 --> 01:20:26,120 Speaker 1: had a certain smell like on my like up my 1560 01:20:26,200 --> 01:20:29,320 Speaker 1: nose or something. So yeah, for sure, there there was 1561 01:20:29,360 --> 01:20:31,920 Speaker 1: this in the first season The Real Housewives of Salt 1562 01:20:32,000 --> 01:20:35,200 Speaker 1: Lake City, there is this storyline because one of the 1563 01:20:35,240 --> 01:20:38,160 Speaker 1: women's aunts was in the hospital I think she had 1564 01:20:38,160 --> 01:20:41,240 Speaker 1: to get like her legs cut off or something, and 1565 01:20:41,520 --> 01:20:44,080 Speaker 1: one of the other ladies was like, you smell like hospital. 1566 01:20:44,120 --> 01:20:46,080 Speaker 1: Get away from me. And it turned into this whole 1567 01:20:46,120 --> 01:20:48,840 Speaker 1: thing and I was like, no, there is a hospital 1568 01:20:48,880 --> 01:20:52,479 Speaker 1: smell for sure, No, there is. It's like there's old 1569 01:20:52,479 --> 01:20:54,600 Speaker 1: people smell. There's It was more that it was so 1570 01:20:54,720 --> 01:20:59,840 Speaker 1: insense the situation. Yeah, No, it definitely has a smell, 1571 01:20:59,880 --> 01:21:02,000 Speaker 1: for sure. There definitely is one. And then if you 1572 01:21:02,040 --> 01:21:04,280 Speaker 1: also use stink bomb, you won't smell the smell on 1573 01:21:04,360 --> 01:21:07,880 Speaker 1: your clothes. So, uh, don't you remember when I did 1574 01:21:07,880 --> 01:21:11,560 Speaker 1: that autopsy on that that pregnant girl that was decomposed 1575 01:21:11,600 --> 01:21:14,479 Speaker 1: like that. I remember I because I had to stay 1576 01:21:14,520 --> 01:21:17,200 Speaker 1: at work late because it was like an interesting case 1577 01:21:17,200 --> 01:21:19,320 Speaker 1: and everything. And I remember picking you up and you 1578 01:21:19,520 --> 01:21:22,479 Speaker 1: just being like, it's you smell so bad, and like 1579 01:21:22,520 --> 01:21:24,880 Speaker 1: putting the windows down because it was just so strong 1580 01:21:24,960 --> 01:21:28,960 Speaker 1: in the car. Yeah, do you remember? I don't really, 1581 01:21:29,720 --> 01:21:31,880 Speaker 1: it had to either be you or Annie, like I. 1582 01:21:31,920 --> 01:21:34,439 Speaker 1: It had to be somebody that that I would have 1583 01:21:34,479 --> 01:21:37,240 Speaker 1: had in the car. I don't because who else would 1584 01:21:37,240 --> 01:21:39,720 Speaker 1: I have had in Look, I don't remember that specifically, 1585 01:21:39,800 --> 01:21:43,240 Speaker 1: but like you always had like a hospital odor, like 1586 01:21:43,280 --> 01:21:45,800 Speaker 1: because because you guys use like such hards chemicals and 1587 01:21:45,840 --> 01:21:50,080 Speaker 1: stuff too, So it's not just like dcomp smell you 1588 01:21:50,160 --> 01:21:53,240 Speaker 1: just had. You don't typically smell D coomp in the 1589 01:21:53,240 --> 01:21:55,840 Speaker 1: hospital for sure, but it just was that a couple 1590 01:21:55,800 --> 01:21:58,080 Speaker 1: of cases that we had it would smell like that. 1591 01:21:58,560 --> 01:22:01,040 Speaker 1: But just in general, like even if a person just 1592 01:22:01,040 --> 01:22:04,080 Speaker 1: had died for a couple hours, like there's just a smell. 1593 01:22:04,200 --> 01:22:06,600 Speaker 1: It has a very specific smell. Yeah, I don't know. 1594 01:22:06,680 --> 01:22:09,960 Speaker 1: I think just there is that like unfortunately, to quote 1595 01:22:10,040 --> 01:22:13,240 Speaker 1: Mary Cosby, there just is a hospital spell and it's 1596 01:22:13,320 --> 01:22:16,880 Speaker 1: not good. All right, Last, what is your favorite thing 1597 01:22:16,920 --> 01:22:23,120 Speaker 1: about one another you can go first. I think you're 1598 01:22:23,160 --> 01:22:25,160 Speaker 1: a really good mom. And I'm not just saying that 1599 01:22:25,200 --> 01:22:27,840 Speaker 1: to blow smoke up your ass. I just really like, 1600 01:22:27,960 --> 01:22:30,360 Speaker 1: as I'm getting older and I think about being a 1601 01:22:30,400 --> 01:22:33,360 Speaker 1: mother myself, Like I hear a lot of my friends 1602 01:22:33,400 --> 01:22:35,800 Speaker 1: tell stories where their parents just wanted to go out 1603 01:22:35,840 --> 01:22:38,559 Speaker 1: and just dump them at a babysitter's house, or they 1604 01:22:38,640 --> 01:22:40,800 Speaker 1: just were leaving them like five nights a week. And 1605 01:22:40,840 --> 01:22:43,519 Speaker 1: I think you're very family oriented and you're always making 1606 01:22:43,560 --> 01:22:46,599 Speaker 1: sure to prioritize me or the kids, or being a wife, 1607 01:22:46,640 --> 01:22:49,080 Speaker 1: and I think that's a really admirable quality that we 1608 01:22:49,160 --> 01:22:51,679 Speaker 1: don't see in today's day and age, where the divorce 1609 01:22:51,760 --> 01:22:54,320 Speaker 1: rate is high and people get married so they could 1610 01:22:54,360 --> 01:22:56,800 Speaker 1: take cute Facebook photos of their family even though they 1611 01:22:56,880 --> 01:22:59,360 Speaker 1: really hate their spouse behind the scenes and don't want 1612 01:22:59,360 --> 01:23:02,040 Speaker 1: anything to do with being a parent. And we know 1613 01:23:02,120 --> 01:23:05,200 Speaker 1: some older people who have recently admitted that they hate 1614 01:23:05,200 --> 01:23:09,800 Speaker 1: being mothers. So I think that you had a really 1615 01:23:09,800 --> 01:23:12,000 Speaker 1: difficult job having me at a young age, but you 1616 01:23:12,120 --> 01:23:15,519 Speaker 1: kind of killed it and you I admire the way 1617 01:23:15,560 --> 01:23:17,559 Speaker 1: that you mothered me, and that's how I want to 1618 01:23:17,560 --> 01:23:19,360 Speaker 1: be as a mom as well. That's my favorite thing 1619 01:23:19,400 --> 01:23:25,559 Speaker 1: about you. Oh that's so nice. I I feel a 1620 01:23:25,640 --> 01:23:28,360 Speaker 1: similar way about Maria. I think one of her strongest 1621 01:23:28,439 --> 01:23:32,160 Speaker 1: qualities she has a couple of really good ones. One 1622 01:23:32,200 --> 01:23:37,639 Speaker 1: of them is that she's very resilient and oftentimes like 1623 01:23:37,760 --> 01:23:40,720 Speaker 1: if people go through hard times, they like it. They 1624 01:23:40,800 --> 01:23:42,760 Speaker 1: let it like beat them down, and they and they 1625 01:23:42,800 --> 01:23:44,920 Speaker 1: get depressed and they sit down in the dumps, and 1626 01:23:44,960 --> 01:23:47,200 Speaker 1: like if something shitty happens to her, she just kind 1627 01:23:47,200 --> 01:23:50,360 Speaker 1: of like you know, feels bad that day and then 1628 01:23:50,439 --> 01:23:52,559 Speaker 1: like wakes up the next day and just like keeps 1629 01:23:52,600 --> 01:23:55,160 Speaker 1: going and just keeps going. It keeps going, keeps going, 1630 01:23:55,160 --> 01:23:58,599 Speaker 1: and doesn't like let her like brings stuff, let stuff 1631 01:23:58,600 --> 01:24:02,479 Speaker 1: bring her down like that. So she's really good with 1632 01:24:02,520 --> 01:24:04,759 Speaker 1: that because I think a lot of times that people 1633 01:24:04,800 --> 01:24:07,599 Speaker 1: have been through certain things in her life and even 1634 01:24:07,600 --> 01:24:11,600 Speaker 1: the way that she came into this world, that that 1635 01:24:11,720 --> 01:24:14,639 Speaker 1: she would be different, and she's not. She's like one 1636 01:24:14,680 --> 01:24:18,719 Speaker 1: of the strongest people I know in that respect. Also, 1637 01:24:18,880 --> 01:24:24,880 Speaker 1: Maria is very like awesome at like organization and just 1638 01:24:24,960 --> 01:24:28,360 Speaker 1: like like she's very on top of things. That It's 1639 01:24:28,400 --> 01:24:31,160 Speaker 1: why we work so well together because I have more 1640 01:24:31,200 --> 01:24:33,920 Speaker 1: of like an artist like scatter brain kind of thing. 1641 01:24:33,960 --> 01:24:37,080 Speaker 1: And she's like she's the one that does like this 1642 01:24:37,120 --> 01:24:40,200 Speaker 1: whole podcast gets done because of her as far as 1643 01:24:40,280 --> 01:24:44,479 Speaker 1: like just figuring it out, keeping it on schedule, doing this, 1644 01:24:44,600 --> 01:24:47,400 Speaker 1: doing that, like where I'm just like all over the 1645 01:24:47,439 --> 01:24:49,519 Speaker 1: place with that kind of stuff. So she's really good 1646 01:24:49,560 --> 01:24:55,040 Speaker 1: with that. And she's also got like a very like 1647 01:24:55,160 --> 01:24:57,880 Speaker 1: your personality that she that you guys see of her 1648 01:24:58,000 --> 01:25:01,320 Speaker 1: here is how she is in real life. Just there's 1649 01:25:01,840 --> 01:25:03,840 Speaker 1: and it's been like that. She's been a little kid 1650 01:25:03,960 --> 01:25:06,400 Speaker 1: just like everybody like loves her, Like I used to 1651 01:25:06,400 --> 01:25:08,840 Speaker 1: bring her to the hospital when she's like a little 1652 01:25:08,920 --> 01:25:11,400 Speaker 1: kid with me to work, and just like everybody just 1653 01:25:11,439 --> 01:25:13,760 Speaker 1: like always was a magnet to her and wanted to 1654 01:25:13,880 --> 01:25:16,320 Speaker 1: be around her. She has a really good, like infectious 1655 01:25:16,400 --> 01:25:21,519 Speaker 1: kind of personality that people enjoy like being around her, 1656 01:25:21,560 --> 01:25:30,080 Speaker 1: you know. So that's it. Yeah, I mean I'm happy 1657 01:25:30,120 --> 01:25:32,479 Speaker 1: to say that you think my organization is a good 1658 01:25:32,560 --> 01:25:34,800 Speaker 1: quality because sometimes I feel like I'm like skinny, Oh, 1659 01:25:34,840 --> 01:25:38,000 Speaker 1: it's fucking annoying. No, it's fucking annoying, And I hate 1660 01:25:38,000 --> 01:25:42,080 Speaker 1: it because I'm like the most Maria is like a 1661 01:25:42,200 --> 01:25:45,800 Speaker 1: rule follower and and a like check the boxer, I 1662 01:25:45,920 --> 01:25:48,559 Speaker 1: call it, like she writes a list every day, and 1663 01:25:48,600 --> 01:25:52,439 Speaker 1: it's just like, this has to get done today, and 1664 01:25:52,560 --> 01:25:56,240 Speaker 1: I like, I'm like, whatever, all, oh, I don't care. 1665 01:25:56,760 --> 01:25:59,200 Speaker 1: So she's and she annoys the shit out of me. 1666 01:25:59,400 --> 01:26:02,080 Speaker 1: So I'm like, but it's good because I need that 1667 01:26:02,160 --> 01:26:04,960 Speaker 1: because like otherwise I'll just like whatever, I don't care. 1668 01:26:05,000 --> 01:26:07,360 Speaker 1: I won't write people back. You should see that. Kids 1669 01:26:07,400 --> 01:26:09,760 Speaker 1: make fun of me. I have. Like if you look 1670 01:26:09,800 --> 01:26:12,960 Speaker 1: at like my little icon on my phone right now, 1671 01:26:13,439 --> 01:26:16,439 Speaker 1: it's just like, oh, you have thirty eight thousand emails 1672 01:26:16,479 --> 01:26:19,920 Speaker 1: that are unread. And Maria would like that having a 1673 01:26:20,040 --> 01:26:23,880 Speaker 1: number one in that box would drive her crazy and 1674 01:26:24,000 --> 01:26:27,240 Speaker 1: like that. That's just the difference is in our personality. 1675 01:26:27,320 --> 01:26:31,000 Speaker 1: Like I just kind of am like whatever, we I'm 1676 01:26:31,040 --> 01:26:33,000 Speaker 1: all so old, and I'm just like I don't have 1677 01:26:33,040 --> 01:26:34,720 Speaker 1: to get back to people if I don't want to, 1678 01:26:34,880 --> 01:26:37,080 Speaker 1: Like there's no you know, there's no rush for me 1679 01:26:37,439 --> 01:26:39,840 Speaker 1: like we have. There was no such thing as email 1680 01:26:39,840 --> 01:26:43,320 Speaker 1: when I was a kid and everybody lived. But but yeah, 1681 01:26:43,360 --> 01:26:44,920 Speaker 1: I mean it's a good It's a good thing though, 1682 01:26:44,960 --> 01:26:48,160 Speaker 1: because otherwise I wouldn't be able to like run a 1683 01:26:48,200 --> 01:26:51,360 Speaker 1: business without without a person like her, And obviously I 1684 01:26:51,400 --> 01:26:54,519 Speaker 1: trust her more than anybody else. So it is it's 1685 01:26:54,520 --> 01:26:56,600 Speaker 1: a it's a good thing. But I'm not lying that 1686 01:26:56,640 --> 01:27:00,719 Speaker 1: it's not fucking annoying, because well, you're fucking annoying. Because 1687 01:27:01,000 --> 01:27:04,040 Speaker 1: Tuesday I was like, after this interview, I just want 1688 01:27:04,080 --> 01:27:05,600 Speaker 1: to work on the website all day, and then the 1689 01:27:05,640 --> 01:27:07,479 Speaker 1: second of it said, you were like, let's go to 1690 01:27:07,560 --> 01:27:11,759 Speaker 1: the mall. Yeah, Because I'm I'm realistic, like what what 1691 01:27:11,760 --> 01:27:14,160 Speaker 1: what I enjoy? I don't feel I don't want to 1692 01:27:14,160 --> 01:27:16,120 Speaker 1: work on the website right now, like I need a break, 1693 01:27:16,160 --> 01:27:18,160 Speaker 1: And I'm like, but this is the day I scheduled 1694 01:27:18,200 --> 01:27:22,040 Speaker 1: out to do it, So this is the day. But 1695 01:27:22,120 --> 01:27:24,559 Speaker 1: you will show email. Sh'll email me on the weekend 1696 01:27:24,640 --> 01:27:26,840 Speaker 1: and be like you need to you need to do 1697 01:27:26,920 --> 01:27:28,920 Speaker 1: this for the newsletter. Like she wants me to pick 1698 01:27:29,040 --> 01:27:32,960 Speaker 1: the newsletter is the bane of my existence because I don't. 1699 01:27:33,040 --> 01:27:36,599 Speaker 1: And then I look at the text message and I'm like, okay, whatever, 1700 01:27:36,680 --> 01:27:41,000 Speaker 1: and then I need you to pick the story this 1701 01:27:41,760 --> 01:27:46,880 Speaker 1: goddamn newsletter. I every single week, I build the entire 1702 01:27:47,000 --> 01:27:49,280 Speaker 1: format of the newsletter and all I need her to 1703 01:27:49,360 --> 01:27:52,519 Speaker 1: do is pick two stories to get featured and send 1704 01:27:52,600 --> 01:27:56,559 Speaker 1: me one sentence teaser. And she just does not do it. 1705 01:27:56,600 --> 01:27:59,040 Speaker 1: So if there's a week where the newsletter doesn't go out, 1706 01:27:59,280 --> 01:28:01,360 Speaker 1: I mean there was week I forgot and I could 1707 01:28:01,439 --> 01:28:03,800 Speaker 1: not believe that because I had it on my list 1708 01:28:03,840 --> 01:28:08,559 Speaker 1: a week. But they're most slackers. You're slacking most of 1709 01:28:08,600 --> 01:28:11,160 Speaker 1: the time. It's because you refuse to answer me. And 1710 01:28:11,240 --> 01:28:13,599 Speaker 1: I know when you're blowing me off because I'll see 1711 01:28:13,600 --> 01:28:17,760 Speaker 1: that you're on Instagram and you're not it's because I like, yeah, 1712 01:28:17,800 --> 01:28:20,000 Speaker 1: because like I have to be near a computer and 1713 01:28:20,040 --> 01:28:22,280 Speaker 1: everything to do it, and it like just takes me time. 1714 01:28:22,360 --> 01:28:25,920 Speaker 1: And like if i'm if, I'm like, I know this 1715 01:28:26,000 --> 01:28:28,120 Speaker 1: is hard to believe, but like I do have a 1716 01:28:28,200 --> 01:28:32,880 Speaker 1: life besides besides being your bitch. Well, I don't have 1717 01:28:32,920 --> 01:28:35,639 Speaker 1: a life like I have to. I have like kids 1718 01:28:35,680 --> 01:28:38,200 Speaker 1: and dinner and everything. So like I can't always just 1719 01:28:38,280 --> 01:28:42,840 Speaker 1: be available at your backing call, you know, or when 1720 01:28:42,880 --> 01:28:46,040 Speaker 1: I send you the clip for Instagram at five thirty 1721 01:28:46,120 --> 01:28:48,280 Speaker 1: and you'll write me back at eight forty five and 1722 01:28:48,320 --> 01:28:50,479 Speaker 1: say I don't like that one, and I'm like, are 1723 01:28:50,479 --> 01:28:56,320 Speaker 1: you fucking serious, I'm not doing this right now, It's 1724 01:28:56,360 --> 01:29:00,719 Speaker 1: been three hours. But yeah, that's the behind the scene 1725 01:29:00,760 --> 01:29:03,600 Speaker 1: to our workflow. So thank you guys. So much. We 1726 01:29:03,680 --> 01:29:06,960 Speaker 1: have an amazing interview coming out next week. I is 1727 01:29:07,000 --> 01:29:11,360 Speaker 1: fangirling so hard. Oh my god, she has like a 1728 01:29:11,400 --> 01:29:14,240 Speaker 1: crush along with every other woman in the true crime 1729 01:29:14,240 --> 01:29:16,280 Speaker 1: world has a crush on this dude. So yeah, if 1730 01:29:16,320 --> 01:29:19,479 Speaker 1: we won't say, hey, we witness, we witness that in person. 1731 01:29:19,560 --> 01:29:22,200 Speaker 1: So yeah. So I am so excited for it. I 1732 01:29:22,320 --> 01:29:25,160 Speaker 1: just finished editing that one last night and it is perfection. 1733 01:29:25,560 --> 01:29:28,720 Speaker 1: So that'll be coming out late Tuesday, and we are 1734 01:29:28,840 --> 01:29:31,000 Speaker 1: very excited for you guys to hear it. And don't forget, 1735 01:29:31,280 --> 01:29:33,879 Speaker 1: this is the last day to enter the Giant Microbes contest, 1736 01:29:33,920 --> 01:29:35,920 Speaker 1: so head over to Apple, leave us a written review 1737 01:29:35,960 --> 01:29:39,920 Speaker 1: screenshot and send us to stories at Mothernosdeath dot com 1738 01:29:39,960 --> 01:29:42,439 Speaker 1: and send us your shocking story to that same email 1739 01:29:42,479 --> 01:29:45,759 Speaker 1: as well. There's nothing that's going to be more shocking 1740 01:29:45,800 --> 01:29:48,639 Speaker 1: than the guy like having sex with the cucumber this week, 1741 01:29:48,680 --> 01:29:51,800 Speaker 1: but but hey you could try. Yeah, all right, see 1742 01:29:51,800 --> 01:29:58,559 Speaker 1: you guys, Seya, thank you for listening to Mother Nos Death. 1743 01:29:59,280 --> 01:30:03,040 Speaker 1: As a remind my training is as a pathologist's assistant. 1744 01:30:03,760 --> 01:30:07,240 Speaker 1: I have a master's level education and specialize in anatomy 1745 01:30:07,280 --> 01:30:10,880 Speaker 1: and pathology education. I am not a doctor and I 1746 01:30:10,920 --> 01:30:14,719 Speaker 1: have not diagnosed or treated anyone dead or alive without 1747 01:30:14,760 --> 01:30:20,160 Speaker 1: the assistance of a licensed medical doctor. This show, my website, 1748 01:30:20,240 --> 01:30:23,599 Speaker 1: and social media accounts are designed to educate and inform 1749 01:30:23,680 --> 01:30:27,920 Speaker 1: people based on my experience working in pathology, so they 1750 01:30:27,920 --> 01:30:31,360 Speaker 1: can make healthier decisions regarding their life and well being. 1751 01:30:32,479 --> 01:30:35,360 Speaker 1: Always remember that science is changing every day, and the 1752 01:30:35,400 --> 01:30:38,679 Speaker 1: opinions expressed in this episode are based on my knowledge 1753 01:30:38,720 --> 01:30:42,360 Speaker 1: of those subjects at the time of publication. If you 1754 01:30:42,400 --> 01:30:46,280 Speaker 1: are having a medical problem, have a medical question, or 1755 01:30:46,479 --> 01:30:50,719 Speaker 1: having a medical emergency, please contact your physician or visit 1756 01:30:50,760 --> 01:30:56,080 Speaker 1: an urgent care center, emergency room, or hospital. 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