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Speaker 2: December eighth at All Seat and all jokes aside. We

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Speaker 2: got to think everybody who came out to our Tangent

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Speaker 2: Live huge success in Griffith and d our boy Patrick,

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Speaker 2: the nicest guy, the nicest people out there, and we

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Speaker 2: really appreciate them having us in there in their venue

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Speaker 2: that used to be a department store. By the way

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Speaker 2: they made a department store. I don't know, man. From

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Speaker 2: Because now it is a Now it is a high class,

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Speaker 2: high quality venue period for all sorts of entertainment. I'm

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Speaker 2: told they do all kinds of things their parties and

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Speaker 2: concerts and everything. So if you're in Griveth, Indiana, go

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Speaker 2: check them out. Avenue was nine nine. I could remember

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Speaker 4: It didn't matter.

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Speaker 1: By the time I left, it was. It was we

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Speaker 1: were on the State Street, but didn't it didn't really matter.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Yeah that was something. But honestly, thank

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Speaker 2: you to everybody who came out on a Friday night

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Speaker 2: hung out with us. And and I haven't looked at

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Speaker 2: my credit card bill yet, but I know I bought

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Speaker 2: a lot of shots.

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Speaker 1: I know you bought a lot of shots.

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Speaker 2: I stood in that corner did a lot of shots,

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Speaker 2: and the bartenders, I think it was like they were

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Speaker 2: looking at it like they were scientists doing some kind

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Speaker 2: then Kaylen and I went to another bar after that

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Speaker 2: with Captain Steve and his wife, because well, why wouldn't

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Speaker 2: we But we did not drive. I will have you, no,

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Speaker 2: we did not drive. I may have fallen asleep in

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Speaker 2: that's okay. I did check to make sure that no

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Speaker 2: one like puked in my uber. I'm checking to make

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Speaker 2: sure because Caitlen, they dropped me off, I think right,

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Speaker 2: and then you went after and you went home after me.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: You tell me, I know we both got home.

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Speaker 1: I do too. I think I got dropped off first.

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Speaker 2: But then I went to check to make sure that

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Speaker 2: you didn't puke in the back of it, because oh, well, no,

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Speaker 2: you say that, but that's happened to me a number

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Speaker 2: of times. And I finally am getting my score back

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Speaker 2: you do? But that didn't happen, So thank you for coming.

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Speaker 2: We'll do it again. I don't know what are we

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Speaker 2: gonna do with spring? Maybe yeah, another Tangent live. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and uh, I think there were some interesting things I

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Speaker 2: recall in our tangent because we did we did tape

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Speaker 2: the episode, so if you weren't able to make it,

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Speaker 1: You could search for the Friend Show on demand. Wait

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Speaker 1: a minute, so you only follow pretty people?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Like I only like to see pretty stuff on my timeline.

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Speaker 5: Ugly people on my timeline. Like it, like it triggers,

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Speaker 5: Oh god, I'm not to again.

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Speaker 1: I'm not ut to you again. So Frend Show is on.

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Speaker 2: Damn Kiki, Wow, I know you're not You're not. On Tuesday,

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Speaker 2: November eleventh, The French Show is not Happy Veterans Day.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Kaitlin.

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Speaker 3: Always give it up to the veterans.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, and yes, all active duty and and former. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: any member of our military, first responder you know what

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Speaker 1: I don't. You've done it, you continue to do it.

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Speaker 1: I do fight you too.

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Speaker 2: For everybody Jason Sun goes for mechanics, I got you.

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Speaker 1: You gotta do it. Give it up to mechanics, Kiky.

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Speaker 2: What same goes for guys who proposed to you?

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Speaker 3: You should give it up to now after the wedding though.

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Speaker 1: Yes, that's right, that's right. Thanks.

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Speaker 2: She'll be showing four hundred and fifty bucks in the

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Speaker 2: showdown in about twenty five minutes.

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Speaker 1: You can win.

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Speaker 2: Belahamines here on the phone of the tech State five

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Speaker 2: five five nine three five forty five minutes commercial free

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Speaker 2: Fred show starts right now. We'll get to blog State

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Speaker 2: or go. We'll debate some relationship drama, and the entertainment

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Speaker 2: report is in there too.

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Speaker 1: What are you working on?

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Speaker 6: K It looks like Orlando Bloom may have moved on

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Speaker 6: with a woman who dressed up as Katie Perry very recently.

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Speaker 3: So we got to unpack this because it's weird.

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, we all know the people. Man, they date

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Speaker 1: the same person over and over and over again, in

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Speaker 1: this case, this person who dresses up like the same version. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they talk better than they sit. These are the radio

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Speaker 1: blogs on the Fred Show.

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Speaker 2: Coreddly in our diaries, except we say them a lot.

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Speaker 2: We call him blogs Kiki. Yeah, dear blog.

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Speaker 5: So I've been waiting and excited all weekend to update

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Speaker 5: you about the photo shoot that you didn't come to

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Speaker 5: for my engagement photos.

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Speaker 2: I was hobbling around. I guess, yes, he didn't want

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Speaker 2: you didn't confirm. You didn't confirm little time and location,

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Speaker 2: or I would have been there. What at your engagement photos?

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Speaker 3: Yes, it was. It was quite the party.

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Speaker 5: We did have our engagement photo shoot, and I told you, guys,

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Speaker 5: I was extremely nervous about how Big Tim would perform

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Speaker 5: at this photo shoot. He's not like a g Q model.

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Speaker 5: He doesn't like a camera in his face. He's not

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Speaker 3: Very concerned.

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Speaker 5: We posed, you know, did our practice poses. You know.

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Speaker 5: We had his outfits all laid out, and I am

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Speaker 5: happy to say the photo shoot went extremely well.

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Speaker 3: He pulled it off.

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Speaker 5: He had his little Tira eyes and smising down pack.

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Speaker 5: He was like in his element. But then he did

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Speaker 5: he got sick. Got sick to the point where he

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Speaker 3: And I was like, oh this diva, Like I was

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Speaker 5: In the middle of the photo shoe like are you okay?

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Speaker 5: And my hair Styalace was like, you know, it's weird.

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Speaker 5: I see this happen a lot on like photo shoes.

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Speaker 5: So but he came back and you know, like the

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Speaker 5: true profect, I should know, he was great and the

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Speaker 3: We we went.

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Speaker 5: All over that hotel, like when I cannot wait to

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, but.

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Speaker 2: Well, you need lots of photos to line the wedding

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Speaker 2: with of just you, so I'm glad that you took

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Speaker 5: Oh I have so many I'm just gonna blow your

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Speaker 3: But it was great.

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Speaker 5: It was great, And so shout out to all the

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Speaker 1: Wow, it was so overwhelming. He had take a nap

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Speaker 2: He was so sick. He was so overwhelmed with your beauty.

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Speaker 2: That's what it was. The pop princess and me kind

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Speaker 2: of like that. Yeah, and my favorite part about playing

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Speaker 2: songs like I'm a Hillary Duff, I'm a big Hillary

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Speaker 2: Hillary Duff guy. Yeah, she was very nice to me

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Speaker 2: I'm more a turtleneck.

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Speaker 4: Well we need it.

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Speaker 2: That was the last time the turtlenecks were in. But

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Speaker 2: my favorite part about this is now the record company's

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Speaker 2: amazing you ahead of the song, and then they're all

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Speaker 2: to do this because they can they can see, like

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Speaker 2: they get alerts on their phones right when they're when

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Speaker 2: they're the songs that the different the labels are working,

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Speaker 2: you know, like when they get a little alert on their.

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Speaker 1: Phone and whoever it is, it's like, yeah.

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Speaker 2: The Hillary Duff in Chicago and West Palm and Rawl,

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Speaker 2: this is so exciting.

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Speaker 1: And then they gotta call Trevor and he's like, I

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Speaker 1: don't even know what you're talking about. What she has

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Speaker 1: a song?

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Speaker 2: Dotium or like our boss is trying to like maneuver

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Speaker 2: something and Nope, I just went ahead and did it.

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Speaker 1: Ah, Mary, how you doing?

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Speaker 7: Hey?

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Speaker 8: I'm okay.

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Speaker 4: How are you guys doing.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how you can be just okay after

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Speaker 2: that new Hillary Duff song, But okay, that's fine. So whatever,

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm all fired up.

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Speaker 9: For me.

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Speaker 2: It's like so Yesterday all over again, Like it's just

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Speaker 2: the same kind of feels. Nonetheless, what's going on with

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Speaker 2: you and your husband? You guys are high school sweethearts.

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Speaker 2: You've been together for twenty years, and he wrote us

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Speaker 3: But how do you stay.

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Speaker 2: But within relationships, don't people ask for a lot of

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Speaker 8: I don't go along with it, I do feel like

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Speaker 3: This is really tough, you know. It's like I don't

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Speaker 2: You don't have to. My thing is, I don't think

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Speaker 5: But he might cheat, you know what I'm saying, Like

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Speaker 2: He can just go cheat. So I don't know that

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I guess I just wanted to know if anyone

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Speaker 2: Let me take the whole calls what to do, because

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Speaker 2: So I'm going to take some calls, have the radio one.

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Speaker 2: and thanks for sharing too.

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Speaker 1: Thanks guys, eight five.

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Speaker 10: Mile, Hi, good morning.

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Speaker 1: So your theory.

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Speaker 1: Do you think?

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Speaker 10: So from my understanding, they joked about it before. I

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Speaker 10: I mean, here's the thing. If he brings it up

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Speaker 10: and maybe he wants to do it again twenty years

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Speaker 2: But do people telegraph their their I mean, I guess

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Speaker 2: I don't have to I don't have to try. And

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Speaker 2: So, there's no way that this guy, after twenty years,

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Speaker 4: She needs to leave.

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Speaker 10: I'm sorry, No, don't really sorry.

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Speaker 2: I'm just I'm playing devil's advocate here. I yeah, but yeah,

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Speaker 2: But thank you, Maya.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean this is a pretty overwhelming thought that he's

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Speaker 11: You know what, I think that he might have met someone.

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Speaker 11: I really do, and you know what, open herself up do,

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Speaker 11: what makes her heart feel good. You know, if she

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Speaker 10: Let him go.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think she has to agree to anything.

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Speaker 11: In my opinion as well, And you know what, she

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Speaker 11: is never going to trust him after this. The trust

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Speaker 2: Maybe, But I also don't want to encourage people not

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Speaker 2: And granted that's an extreme one, but I mean, wouldn't

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Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, you know, I.

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Speaker 11: Agree with the communication. I'm one hundred percent with the

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Speaker 11: She tells him no, she's always going to wonder.

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Speaker 1: Okay, fair enough, thank you? Sheelly have a good day.

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Speaker 3: Oh you too, by and I got a.

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Speaker 1: Bunch of calls to get to.

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Speaker 2: But like Paulina, so if Hobby comes to you and

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Speaker 2: would should be able to come to you and say, hey,

444
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Speaker 2: I'm thinking about this, this would be hot, and then

445
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Speaker 2: you say no, and then all right, well that kind

446
00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:00,600
Speaker 2: of sucks, but then you're still married.

447
00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:03,800
Speaker 12: Yeah, that did happen to us. And it wasn't a

448
00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:05,720
Speaker 12: question of like can we do this? It was just like, oh,

449
00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:08,280
Speaker 12: what do you think of something like this? My hot

450
00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:11,800
Speaker 12: take on the like kind of what essentially opening up

451
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Speaker 12: your marriage?

452
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Speaker 9: Right?

453
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Speaker 3: So like seeing other people?

454
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Speaker 12: My hot take on that is like I would almost

455
00:19:15,560 --> 00:19:19,000
Speaker 12: feel like why, like are you not satisfied with us

456
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Speaker 12: in the bedroom? Like I'm also a little insecure sized

457
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Speaker 12: aar thinking a little deeper, I'm like, are you not

458
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Speaker 12: attracted to me?

459
00:19:23,920 --> 00:19:24,000
Speaker 2: Like?

460
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Speaker 3: Do you not want me? Do you not want this marriage.

461
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Speaker 12: I get a little deep with it, okay, So like

462
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Speaker 12: it could be as simple as like I just want to,

463
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Speaker 12: you know, spice things up, whatever the reasoning is for

464
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Speaker 12: this couple, Like I would feel some type of way,

465
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Speaker 12: but I think, what do you shut it down? And

466
00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:38,280
Speaker 12: your partner's like, okay, that sucks, but it is what

467
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Speaker 12: it is. I think that's like fine, I don't think

468
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Speaker 12: Hobby's going to go off and do things.

469
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Speaker 3: I don't see that.

470
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't.

471
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Speaker 2: I don't know that one leads to the other. But

472
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Speaker 2: I agree with you, it might be hard to unring

473
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Speaker 2: that bell.

474
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Speaker 1: It is.

475
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Speaker 3: It is, it is.

476
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Speaker 12: It makes you kind of question like okay, like like

477
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Speaker 12: why would you want that?

478
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Speaker 1: Would you just mean?

479
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Speaker 3: And that's how I think, and I think a lot

480
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Speaker 3: of women do.

481
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Speaker 2: But I'm afraid that if you say, oh my god,

482
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Speaker 2: absolutely not, you've probably shut down all communication on that

483
00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:04,800
Speaker 2: topic and maybe some others moving forward, like if you

484
00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:07,439
Speaker 2: shame some and granted adding another person's different than I

485
00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:09,600
Speaker 2: want to. I want you to do X y Z

486
00:20:09,880 --> 00:20:12,040
Speaker 2: between the two of us. But you know, I guess

487
00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:14,879
Speaker 2: it's a tough spot to be in because depending how

488
00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:17,399
Speaker 2: you answer, how you react, you know that could that

489
00:20:17,440 --> 00:20:19,480
Speaker 2: could really change trajectory of things.

490
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Speaker 1: Juda, whatever, right, what's your name? All right? Radio?

491
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Speaker 7: Now?

492
00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:29,680
Speaker 1: When you called the radio.

493
00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:35,120
Speaker 2: Station, hey, Kim him, I know that you don't want

494
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Speaker 2: to miss a word of the things that we're saying

495
00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:40,600
Speaker 2: because they're usually you know, dead on. But you can't

496
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Speaker 2: have the radio one because this is his delay, Kim,

497
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Speaker 2: what did you want to say?

498
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Speaker 1: Good morning?

499
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Speaker 7: So I think she should stay. Twenty years is a

500
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Speaker 7: long time she's been talking and adding it as spice.

501
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Speaker 7: But you have to be very very confident in yourself

502
00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:04,160
Speaker 7: and in your marriage. I've been married a very long

503
00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:09,479
Speaker 7: time and we have talked about it numerous times, and

504
00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:15,080
Speaker 7: one time we went to Vegas and it happened. I

505
00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:21,320
Speaker 7: don't know if you're talking about an open relationship adding

506
00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:27,359
Speaker 7: a person to it, but I don't think she should leave.

507
00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:31,480
Speaker 7: I think he's talking to her. It's communication. It doesn't

508
00:21:31,520 --> 00:21:34,320
Speaker 7: mean that he's already done it. You guys are sitting

509
00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:37,360
Speaker 7: there saying, oh, he's in it, he's doing it.

510
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Speaker 2: I don't think some people are saying that, Tim, Yes,

511
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Speaker 2: I don't think that necessarily means that he's done it.

512
00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:47,080
Speaker 2: I think it means he's curious about it, but which

513
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Speaker 2: could have its own problems. Kim, I have to be nosy.

514
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Speaker 2: Was at the beginning of something that you guys started

515
00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:53,760
Speaker 2: doing in your relationship or was that just a one,

516
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Speaker 2: one off thing.

517
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Speaker 7: No, it was a one off thing, and we talk

518
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Speaker 7: about doing it their times. But it's we thought about

519
00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:07,879
Speaker 7: swinging way back in the day, probably married ten years,

520
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:12,320
Speaker 7: but it wasn't. It was something we said to each

521
00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:17,560
Speaker 7: other that added spice to our relationship. But I have

522
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Speaker 7: to say, you know, I'm I trust him. I don't

523
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Speaker 7: think he would ever ever do something like that without me.

524
00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:27,640
Speaker 7: And that's where your relationship.

525
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:30,640
Speaker 1: Has to be. Yeah, it has to be where you're.

526
00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:37,879
Speaker 7: Trusting, even not swinging or open or one time, you

527
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:40,919
Speaker 7: guys have to trust each other, and obviously they do

528
00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:42,800
Speaker 7: they're married twenty years.

529
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Speaker 5: Kim, I'm down for it, Kim, you were down for

530
00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:49,080
Speaker 5: this Woeman. She doesn't want to do it, and she's

531
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Speaker 5: what I don't know. And thank you for calling, Kim.

532
00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:53,200
Speaker 5: I appreciate you have a great day. What I don't

533
00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:57,359
Speaker 5: know is is, though, is there no Why is she

534
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Speaker 5: so trepidacious about saying no to him?

535
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:04,720
Speaker 2: Like? Why is she so convinced saying no to him

536
00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:07,400
Speaker 2: leads to something bad, Like that's what That's the part

537
00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 2: of this that's interesting for me is she I think

538
00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:12,480
Speaker 2: she should be able to say no and then okay,

539
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:14,400
Speaker 2: and he can be disappointed, but that's the end of it.

540
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Speaker 5: But you you would think about this, like if your

541
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Speaker 5: partner came to you and had that request and you

542
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Speaker 5: said no. I know in the back of your mind

543
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:23,880
Speaker 5: you would be like, okay, but that's something she wants

544
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:26,399
Speaker 5: to do, and you would think about that over and

545
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:29,440
Speaker 5: over again, like I know I said no, But does

546
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Speaker 5: that mean they're not going to do it?

547
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Speaker 1: Yeah? Maybe?

548
00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:33,560
Speaker 2: But if I say no and then we move on

549
00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:38,320
Speaker 2: from it, I hope that that our marriage continues and

550
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Speaker 2: that we have a functioning relationship and all the other

551
00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 2: things I get with you would mess with me. But

552
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Speaker 2: I also I don't know that I would assume it's

553
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:46,560
Speaker 2: already happening. I don't know that I would assume everything's over.

554
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 2: I'd like to believe people can say a lot of

555
00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:50,440
Speaker 2: things in a marriage and they're not just going to

556
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Speaker 2: leave when you don't agree with it.

557
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Speaker 5: Yeah no, But having you know another person is a

558
00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 5: different type of thing. But I wish I could be

559
00:23:56,520 --> 00:23:58,440
Speaker 5: like Kim. You know, Kim was down. She's like, let's

560
00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:01,399
Speaker 5: go to Vegas. Let's get it off. That's how you

561
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:02,560
Speaker 5: want it to be. You want to be on the

562
00:24:02,560 --> 00:24:04,840
Speaker 5: same type of time with your partner. But if one

563
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:06,440
Speaker 5: of you was like, oh no, I don't want to

564
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:08,399
Speaker 5: do it, then that leaves the other person like, man,

565
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Speaker 5: I really want to do this.

566
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Speaker 1: But I will tell you this much, Kiky.

567
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Speaker 2: In one hundred percent of the examples that I'm aware of,

568
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Speaker 2: and it's more than one, one of the people didn't

569
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Speaker 2: want to do it but gave in to a piecy

570
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:21,680
Speaker 2: other person and it still didn't work. Because I don't

571
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Speaker 2: know that that's something that you I feel like you're

572
00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:26,199
Speaker 2: either into it or you're not, and if you're not,

573
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Speaker 2: I don't know that you can be convinced by actually

574
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Speaker 2: doing it.

575
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Speaker 1: So that's a tricky one. No, we didn't solve this

576
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Speaker 1: person's from Paul now Alan's entertainer report is on the

577
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Speaker 1: Fread show.

578
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Speaker 6: A Mississippi college student has been arrested after and I

579
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Speaker 6: have to say allegedly, but it seems pretty clear to

580
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Speaker 6: me yelling an anti semitic comment at Barstool. Sports founder

581
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Speaker 6: Dave Portnoy as he filmed one of those pizza reviews.

582
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Speaker 6: You may have seen the video making its rounds on

583
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Speaker 6: social when a twenty year old named Patrick McClintock was

584
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Speaker 6: heard yelling f the Jews as he was filming this

585
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Speaker 6: peace to review, you know, the one bite everybody knows

586
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Speaker 6: the rules at Dave who is Jewish, and he was

587
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Speaker 6: filming in Mississippi on Friday. Then this video started making

588
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Speaker 6: its rounds going viral, and the police department did confirm

589
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Speaker 6: that he was arrested and later released on bond. He

590
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Speaker 6: was a junior and mechanical engineering major at Mississippi State University,

591
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Speaker 6: but he voluntarily left the college I think yesterday since

592
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Speaker 6: all of this happened. And there's a lot of talk

593
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Speaker 6: these days about freedom of speech and what that means,

594
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Speaker 6: but you can't just say whatever.

595
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Speaker 4: He was hit with a misdemeanor charge of.

596
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Speaker 6: Disturbing the peace, and the police department did say, yes, okay,

597
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Speaker 6: offensive words alone are protected, but when the behavior disrupts

598
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Speaker 6: a public event or risks violence, they will step in

599
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Speaker 6: and help to maintain the safety and security of everyone.

600
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Speaker 4: In the video, you can hear Dave saying okay, come on,

601
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Speaker 4: say that on.

602
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Speaker 6: Camera and he does say that he gets these anti

603
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Speaker 6: semitic attacks every single day.

604
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Speaker 4: Said it certainly ramped up in recent years.

605
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Speaker 6: Actress Rachel Lynn Matthews, who some people say is Orlando

606
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Speaker 6: Bloom's like maybe girlfriend, or maybe they're just you know,

607
00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 6: getting with each other. I have no idea, but she's

608
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 6: going viral for dressing up as Orlando's ex fiance Katy Perry.

609
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:15,119
Speaker 6: Now this was from a Halloween party, but we're just

610
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:17,560
Speaker 6: now seeing the photos or at least figuring out okay, wait,

611
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Speaker 6: they may be talking, and this is what she dressed

612
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Speaker 6: up as. And she chose to go as Katie in

613
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Speaker 6: her astronaut era, remember when she was an astronaut.

614
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Speaker 1: So she as.

615
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Speaker 4: She went to space and she should have taken.

616
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Speaker 3: She did.

617
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Speaker 6: She also took Lauren Sanchez Bezos if you if you

618
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Speaker 6: do not remember any fashion nova space suits they did,

619
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Speaker 6: and that's what she wore.

620
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Speaker 4: And she even recreated the photo of Katie kissing the

621
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Speaker 4: ground when she came back, so.

622
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Speaker 6: Like she did all this weird though, yeah, and then

623
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Speaker 6: like just interesting either way that Orlando would.

624
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Speaker 3: Like pose with her. I don't know, it's just timing

625
00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 3: seems very weird.

626
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Speaker 4: It's interesting, isn't it?

627
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Speaker 6: So you know, I don't know, wash out for her,

628
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Speaker 6: I guess I would say, because that's little creepy.

629
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Speaker 3: Speaking of aces, Vivica A.

630
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Speaker 6: Fox is warning women not to date fifty Cents specifically

631
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,639
Speaker 6: or any rappers because it quote took her years to

632
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 6: be able to laugh about it. Fifty obviously responded saying,

633
00:27:12,640 --> 00:27:14,640
Speaker 6: either way, I'm gonna have that ass in the matrix.

634
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:16,880
Speaker 6: You know, I love me some, you girl, but damn

635
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:18,199
Speaker 6: it's been twenty two years.

636
00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 4: So there you go. That's what he had to say

637
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 4: about that.

638
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:22,520
Speaker 6: And if you want to catch up on anything that

639
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 6: we had to say the frend Show on demand on

640
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:25,360
Speaker 6: the Free I heard radio.

641
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 4: But I don't know what he means having me.

642
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:28,159
Speaker 3: In a matrix space.

643
00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 6: He's so confused, say, why are you gonna have my

644
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 6: ass in the matrix?

645
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 3: What did that meant? What is the matrix exactly? I

646
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:38,400
Speaker 3: don't know, but don't shoot the message.

647
00:27:38,400 --> 00:27:38,919
Speaker 1: I'm cleary.

648
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 3: It's the Fred Show.

649
00:27:41,240 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 1: Do you have what it takes to battle show biz?

650
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 3: Shelley in the Show Business.

651
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:48,439
Speaker 1: Showdown be.

652
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 2: Shelley's here Hi for fifty surprise one eighty three wins,

653
00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 2: only seventy five losses. All time won six straight, and

654
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,160
Speaker 2: Desiree is your challengeer. Good morning, desire.

655
00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:04,640
Speaker 1: How are you good?

656
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:05,600
Speaker 3: How are you doing?

657
00:28:05,680 --> 00:28:08,400
Speaker 1: All right, Desiree. Fun fact about you is.

658
00:28:10,000 --> 00:28:11,040
Speaker 6: I am a veteran.

659
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 2: You're a veteran, A veteran of of which branch?

660
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 1: And tell me more.

661
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 3: I am a marine.

662
00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 5: I got out six years ago and now I'm the

663
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Speaker 5: special education teacher.

664
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Speaker 2: Well, thank you for your service on multiple fronts. You're amazing.

665
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 2: I would say Shelley has to now lose, except Shelley's

666
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Speaker 2: husband also serves, so you know, I don't.

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00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:37,239
Speaker 3: Know that's out. Yeah, cancel out right.

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00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 1: You know both are extremely important.

669
00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 2: You're the spouse of a member of the military, so

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00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:46,760
Speaker 2: I think we're gonna have to do this fair and square, okay, Desiree.

671
00:28:47,200 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 2: And what was your rank?

672
00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: Do I have to call you by your rank?

673
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 10: I was a lance corporal when I got out, all.

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00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 2: Right, lance corporal. I'm we're all saluting you right now, Yes,

675
00:28:56,760 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 2: but here we go. No, thank you for your service.

676
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 2: Four hundred and fifty bucks is a price. Let's play

677
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 2: five questions.

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00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 4: Good luck, guys, good luck, Desiree.

679
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 2: All right, jerlly, if you go sound booth poof? Okay,

680
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:09,160
Speaker 2: here we go, Lance Corporal, desire question number one. The

681
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:12,440
Speaker 2: cops were called to this Amazon founder's mansion over the

682
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:16,120
Speaker 2: weekend thanks to noise complaints over a birthday party for

683
00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 2: Chris Jenner.

684
00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 4: H three.

685
00:29:20,960 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 2: When like gazillionaires get called like you're having a high

686
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:27,719
Speaker 2: school party, get called. Outcast was inducted into the Rock

687
00:29:27,760 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 2: and Roll Hall of Fame over the weekend. Name the

688
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:31,280
Speaker 2: rappers that make up Outcast?

689
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 9: Three?

690
00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 7: I do not know?

691
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 1: All right, you got three left? You're good.

692
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 2: Cardi B posted a video cheering for her boyfriend's touchdown Sunday.

693
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,280
Speaker 2: Which NFL team does he play for?

694
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 5: NFL team?

695
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:52,720
Speaker 2: Yes, Cardi B's boyfriend? All right, all right, two left,

696
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 2: you're gonna get both of these. Orlando Bloom's rumored girlfriends

697
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 2: going viral after she seemingly dressed up as his ex fiance.

698
00:29:58,520 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 1: We just did the story. Name is.

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00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:02,640
Speaker 3: Yes?

700
00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 1: And which? Blink?

701
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 2: One eighty two drummer ran a five K then performed

702
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 2: on Sunday all before lunchtime.

703
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 3: Oh, Travis Barker to Travis Barker.

704
00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:17,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, Lance Corporal, you're so good.

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00:30:18,280 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 2: That is a three. We're gonna bring Shelley back. She

706
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 2: got a three because she's a Lance corporal. She's a

707
00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 2: she's all that. Yeah, she's fine as hell. All right,

708
00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 2: you should see her. I've never seen her, but I'm

709
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 2: going with okay, wow, all right, clus you gotta get

710
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:39,120
Speaker 2: you gotta get three ready?

711
00:30:39,200 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I got a little distract it there.

712
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 4: It's not a minute since you heard that.

713
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 2: Yes, I never hear that. Actually, it's never, certainly never

714
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 2: from a lance corporal. The cons were called to this

715
00:30:50,920 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 2: Amazon founder's mansion over the weekend thanks to noise complaints

716
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:55,720
Speaker 2: over a birthday party for Chris.

717
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 1: Jenner Jeff Bezos.

718
00:30:57,680 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 2: Yes, Outcast was inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall

719
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:01,680
Speaker 2: of Fame over the weekend. Name the rappers that make

720
00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 2: up Outcast.

721
00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 4: Big Boy and Andre Breeth South.

722
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 1: That would be correct.

723
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 2: Cardi B posted a video cheering for her boyfriend's touchdown

724
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:13,960
Speaker 2: on Sunday. Which NFL team does he play for?

725
00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 3: The Patriots?

726
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 1: The Patriots is correct?

727
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 2: Orlando Yes, Orlando Bloom's rumored girlfriend is going viral after

728
00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 2: she seemingly dressed up as his ex fiancee.

729
00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 1: Name is x Katy Perry?

730
00:31:27,560 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 8: Yeah?

731
00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 1: And which?

732
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:30,960
Speaker 2: Blink one eighty two drummer Ran A five K then

733
00:31:31,000 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 2: performed on Sunday, all before lunchtime.

734
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 4: Travis Barker.

735
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 1: Yep, there you go.

736
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 2: That's the five, that's the Windlands. Corporal Desiree. I'm sorry.

737
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 2: I will try and find you something because it's Veteran's

738
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:41,680
Speaker 2: Day and you deserve it, but you have to say it.

739
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:43,400
Speaker 2: My name is Desiree. I got showed up on a

740
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:45,480
Speaker 2: showdown and you can't hang with the gorilla.

741
00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 12: Go.

742
00:31:47,000 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 1: My name is.

743
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 5: Desary and I got showed up on the showdown and

744
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 5: I can't hang with the gorilla.

745
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 2: That was really good. And I don't know if I

746
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 2: can do this. I know this may, this may exert

747
00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 2: me in ways I don't need. But Desiree, you Lance

748
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 2: corpal Hey with a reel.

749
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 5: Cat cat cat cat shout out, so all the matteries.

750
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:21,320
Speaker 2: Wow, oh man, even in my crippled state, I did

751
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 2: that for the veterans.

752
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, yeah, you did for the veterans.

753
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:28,959
Speaker 2: Dohn right, Lance corporal Hey, thank you again for your

754
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:31,320
Speaker 2: service and to all of your all of your former

755
00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 2: members of the military and or fellow I should say,

756
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 2: and hang on one second, all right, all right, right,

757
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 2: We're gonna get you some sort of wildly underwhelming price,

758
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 2: but you'll You'll love every second and you will, you will.

759
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 2: Budget's real low, Jason, real low at this time of year,

760
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:51,160
Speaker 2: real low, five hundred bucks tomorrow, one thousand and eighty

761
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 2: four wins in a seven game win streak, Shelley, Let's

762
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:55,640
Speaker 2: do it again tomorrow.

763
00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 1: Let's do it sounds good. And I had a military

764
00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 1: mic for us. I know he's had a veneral just yet,

765
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:01,840
Speaker 1: But boy, is that guy.

766
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 2: What's he gonna do with is like, he's gonna have

767
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 2: to be He's gonna have to be missus showbiz Shelley

768
00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 2: at some point, and that's gonna be something.

769
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 3: Point, Yes, at some point.

770
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:11,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, just I don't know where he is right now.

771
00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:12,480
Speaker 4: He's in the ocean somewhere.

772
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:13,040
Speaker 7: Oh, is he.

773
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:16,960
Speaker 2: Yet see one of these top secret missions? Yeah, except

774
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:21,280
Speaker 2: he's gonna except he's gonna pop up on Instagram with

775
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 2: his shirt off at Barbados or something.

776
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 4: Let me know.

777
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I guess it's close friends only when

778
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 2: he that I have a good day, And that joke

779
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 2: is that, you know, Shelley's husband's in the navy. He's

780
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 2: a big time, big time Navy guy. But whatever he

781
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 2: does is top secret or something something with I'm not

782
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 2: gonna make Shelley explain this. But it's some sort of

783
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:46,520
Speaker 2: tech thing and we're really unclear exactly what he does

784
00:33:46,640 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 2: or where he does it. We just know it's an

785
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:51,200
Speaker 2: aircraft carrier. So she's explaining to this to me and

786
00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 2: this is no joke. Like, right around the time she

787
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 2: explains it to me, I look on my Instagram and

788
00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 2: it's him in Dubai with his shirt off at a

789
00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 2: club with the bottle of champagne in his hand.

790
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 1: I'm like, show, I think I know where he is.

791
00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:07,200
Speaker 1: I'll take us out. I think I found him. Yeah.

792
00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:08,880
Speaker 1: Way we saw on a little bit of a break.

793
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 4: They do get nights off. Yeah, yeah, he was.

794
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 2: It was all about bo I was well aware of

795
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:16,720
Speaker 2: where he was, so not much of a secret waiting

796
00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 2: by the phone his next More Bread show Next