WEBVTT - Where are We with Cancel Culture?

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<v Speaker 1>This is and you're listening to exactly Amada, a production

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<v Speaker 1>of I Heart Radio. Well, today I'm changing things up

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit. We're gonna do a little song to

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<v Speaker 1>a little different because I actually have my producer Alex

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<v Speaker 1>coming in today. I want to him to pitch in

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<v Speaker 1>with me on this conversation because today I'm talking about

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<v Speaker 1>cancel culture. Alex, are you in here real quick? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here. I'm here, and I'm ready to bring the

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<v Speaker 1>fire with you. A mata. Okay, we'll bring the fire

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<v Speaker 1>because you already know what's popping today's episode is really

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<v Speaker 1>it's like one of those sensitive topics that nobody really

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<v Speaker 1>wants to talk about. But like I know, y'all have

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<v Speaker 1>heard the cancel culture. And the more time goes by,

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<v Speaker 1>the more we hear, the more we see it on

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<v Speaker 1>social media, the more um celebrities, artists, influencers, actors, politicians,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody's getting canceled these days. Well, basically, how do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel about cancel culture? I feel like sometimes it just

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<v Speaker 1>get it's uh in people's heads that you know, they

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<v Speaker 1>got they gotta get into this pact mentality of of

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<v Speaker 1>of having to gang up on everyone, right, I mean, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you do have those really bad people that have done

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<v Speaker 1>really bad things that definitely should get canceled them out of.

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<v Speaker 1>But sometimes, you know, even the little people who haven't

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<v Speaker 1>done anything that bad should get a little break. What

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<v Speaker 1>exactly is canceled culture, let me break down to you

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<v Speaker 1>real quick. So basically, it pretty much looks like canceling

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<v Speaker 1>someone over you disliking what they did or disliking what

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<v Speaker 1>they say. Yeah, it's like it's like basically canceling someone

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<v Speaker 1>over something detriment or scandalous, right if they said something

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<v Speaker 1>that you don't agree with. So basically you just like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, cut up all types of you know, public

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<v Speaker 1>support or even internal support. You just make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>nobody supports them, likes them, everybody dismisses them. And and

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<v Speaker 1>it usually comes when someone says something offensive or when

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<v Speaker 1>someone and says something that can you know, be hurt

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<v Speaker 1>hurtful to a certain community or certain you know, certain

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<v Speaker 1>target of audience. I don't know, because a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>times I also feel that even though that's what is

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<v Speaker 1>defined someone as canceled culture, a lot of people get

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<v Speaker 1>canceled over petty things. It could be the smallest little thing,

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<v Speaker 1>And I feel like I don't know. We're in the

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<v Speaker 1>like a supersensitive uh error right now that you can't

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<v Speaker 1>say anything, you can't do anything without somebody feeling offended.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, damn, you can't make everybody like you. You're

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<v Speaker 1>not always going to agree with everybody else, like we

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<v Speaker 1>have to disagree and disagree with each other. Doesn't mean

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<v Speaker 1>that I need to be canceled just because I don't

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<v Speaker 1>agree with you. It just means that we have different

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<v Speaker 1>perspectives on things. We just view things differently, and that

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<v Speaker 1>should be okay to People should have the rights to

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<v Speaker 1>voice their opinions without them feeling like, Damn, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>say I can't say something because if not, they're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>cancel me. And getting canceled could meet things like you

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<v Speaker 1>can get fired from your job, your family can like

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<v Speaker 1>look at you is a disgrace. Um, you can lose

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<v Speaker 1>a relationship, you can lose partnerships, you know you can.

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<v Speaker 1>You can lose many opportunities in your life based off

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<v Speaker 1>you giving your opinion. However, I do understand how giving

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<v Speaker 1>your opinions sometimes can be offensive. You know, it depends

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<v Speaker 1>how you say and what you say. But at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time, I still feel like you should be able

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<v Speaker 1>to speak your mind without feeling like you gotta be careful.

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<v Speaker 1>You have to be like walking on eggshells. No, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, And you know what, I have an important

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<v Speaker 1>question to ask you now. I'm out to see I'm

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<v Speaker 1>putting my producer hat on here while i'm with you. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know. You're in the limelight. You are

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<v Speaker 1>in in on television, You're doing shows, You're everywhere, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna talk a little bit later about one of

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<v Speaker 1>your new shows that but right now, how are you

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<v Speaker 1>How do you handle the things that are in you

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<v Speaker 1>know that you want to say basically right, like, it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's hard right because you're in You're in the public eye.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you deal with with all the negative civity

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<v Speaker 1>that comes from social media sometimes that people write things

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<v Speaker 1>because anyone can take anything you say, anything you're right back,

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<v Speaker 1>or anything that you post and spin it into their

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<v Speaker 1>own truth right and begin a cancel culture type of

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<v Speaker 1>of of attack on you. How do you deal with that? Amda?

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<v Speaker 1>It's the hardest thing. No, that I haven't did. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the hardest thing because I'm very transparent, honest, I'm very vocal,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very myself very come, okay, this is this is

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<v Speaker 1>who I am, is exactly me, like take it or

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<v Speaker 1>leave it, you know, um. And I want to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to voice my opinion and just say exactly what's

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<v Speaker 1>on my mind. But I do know that because this

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<v Speaker 1>is still a business and I still live off, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>my audience, and I live off certain people. I never

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<v Speaker 1>want to offend anyone, but at the same time, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to speak my mind. I want to speak my truth.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to say, Yo, this is exactly how I feel.

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<v Speaker 1>And I can't always do that because I have to

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<v Speaker 1>be being careful. They can this isn't that? Can they

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<v Speaker 1>so fain that I know it feels like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>she offended me with her words. Like for example, recently

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<v Speaker 1>Gang Gang Gang UM an episode came out where I

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<v Speaker 1>had a discussion talking about somewhat colorism on love and

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<v Speaker 1>hip hop Miami, and a lot of people are like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe. I'm not gonna get into the details,

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<v Speaker 1>but I can't believe you said that. You know, black

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<v Speaker 1>women need their own self, their own safe space. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a lot of people came for me, And

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<v Speaker 1>that's one of the things about being an activist or

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<v Speaker 1>one of the things about being vocal when it comes

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<v Speaker 1>about when it comes to race or politics or things

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<v Speaker 1>like that, that a lot of not everybody's gonna agree

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<v Speaker 1>with me, and a lot of people can take it

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<v Speaker 1>very personal. But one is still a TV show, so

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<v Speaker 1>we still need to be clear on that, right. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>things that people don't see. We have like a crew

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<v Speaker 1>of like twenty people in front of us, around us,

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<v Speaker 1>under us while we're filming. Um, we filmed for hours

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<v Speaker 1>and it gets edited into like four or three minutes

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<v Speaker 1>five three minutes scenes. And the show is not just

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<v Speaker 1>about me. It's about many people. So, like a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of the things that I may have said before I

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<v Speaker 1>said something that did get aired that may not come out. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>and then that's fine, you know, because people are gonna

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<v Speaker 1>perceive me however they want. But I feel that I

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<v Speaker 1>should have the rights to give my opinion. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna get into that specific topic because you

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<v Speaker 1>already know they're trying to cancel me. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think like people need to stop being so sensitive.

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<v Speaker 1>If you disagree with me, cool, It's okay. We're not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna agree with everything. You know, there's a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>things that you may do with your life that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not cool with, And that doesn't mean that I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to cancel you, I'm gonna stop supporting you, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>stop messing with you. I'll just say I don't agree

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<v Speaker 1>with you in that part, and then that's just what

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<v Speaker 1>it is. UM. I do understand, however, how some people

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<v Speaker 1>can be very offensive with their words, how some people

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<v Speaker 1>can't say things like out of proportion that it's like, damn,

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<v Speaker 1>even I wouldn't have said that, because you do have

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<v Speaker 1>to think about people's feelings or emotions. Are certain communities

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<v Speaker 1>where people can make dumb comments that can affect certain communities.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think that everything to me is more of

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<v Speaker 1>a learning experience, Like if you say something dumb, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's all get together. Even though that a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people feel like, well I'm too grown or I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>your teacher. I don't have to, but why can't it

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<v Speaker 1>be a learning experience? Not everybody, not everybody is coming

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<v Speaker 1>to nobody's perfect. People make mistakes. If you say something

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<v Speaker 1>and then you're like, you know, damn, I messed up.

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<v Speaker 1>I sucked up, right, you should have the rights to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, say your piece. You messed up and then

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to support and support you again. But a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people can still apologize, can write a biography

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<v Speaker 1>about how bad they feel. There's people that have said

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<v Speaker 1>comments that eventually have felt even suicidal just because of

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<v Speaker 1>the pressure that they feel from society and the hate

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<v Speaker 1>mail the soul. Especially now with social media, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>bullies going in and their d m s and just

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<v Speaker 1>wishing them death and all types of things based off

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of words of comment that they made. A

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people are not bad people, They just told

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong words to say in the wrong time. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you feel do you feel at all that it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's become a movement of people who feel there, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>they have the right to say or do something because

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<v Speaker 1>social media is an open platform the way it is,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it is. I think that a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people are real, big, real strong, real confident, cocky, real

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<v Speaker 1>everything exactly right behind the little phones and the little messages.

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<v Speaker 1>But in person you'll see them and they won't have

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<v Speaker 1>that same energy. It's like bring that same energy. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's like you have a lot of goods to um

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<v Speaker 1>judge someone and I'm sure your life is trash. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>your life is. I'm sure it's nice and shitty, but

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<v Speaker 1>you'll have all these um all these like judgments towards

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<v Speaker 1>somebody's life and you don't even know what that person

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<v Speaker 1>may be going through, um or whatever the case may be.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so easy for people to be judgmental these days

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<v Speaker 1>without giving someone a break or at least for example,

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<v Speaker 1>on my new show that comes out now on Fused,

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<v Speaker 1>Don't Cancel Me. To me, it was more like, let

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<v Speaker 1>me give let me give you all the platform where

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<v Speaker 1>we can all have this discussion and I'm not going

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<v Speaker 1>to judge you for it, whether it is in my

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<v Speaker 1>case on the show we had like girls that we're

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<v Speaker 1>doing only fans or I don't know, talking about colorism

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<v Speaker 1>or talking about finance, you're talking about whatever. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to judge you. Help me understand. Why do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel this way? Because if you feel this way, whether

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<v Speaker 1>I agree or disagree, there's a whole bunch of people

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<v Speaker 1>they feel the same way. So why you know, try

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<v Speaker 1>to try to bring me into your world without me

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<v Speaker 1>being close minded, without me being judgmental, Help me understand.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's what I think it should be more of,

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<v Speaker 1>like for those that may have a certain opinion. It's

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<v Speaker 1>more of like, why do you feel this way? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>try to and and and let's share. Let's let's have

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<v Speaker 1>an open conversation where without me having to get angry, disrespectful, know,

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever, I have a conversation. I think that people

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to don't want to talk at Everybody wants

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<v Speaker 1>to be heard, but nobody wants to listen. I like

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<v Speaker 1>that because this is twofold for me what I'm about

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<v Speaker 1>to bring up to you. One. Sometimes I feel that

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<v Speaker 1>people are just a little too soft. Like I come

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<v Speaker 1>from a different era, right, Like I come from an

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<v Speaker 1>era where there was no chat boards or or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>messaging apps or any social media. Right, we spoke face

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<v Speaker 1>to face and and we diffused the problem or we

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<v Speaker 1>just happened not to talk anymore. Right, So do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel that perhaps people are just too soft now and

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<v Speaker 1>they want to use the cancel culture mentality as an excuse,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, to act out and be the way that

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<v Speaker 1>they are. I think that people want to feel very

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<v Speaker 1>empowered these days. Everybody wants to be somebody. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>saying that you're not, but everybody can't be some So

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<v Speaker 1>everybody wants to be somebody. Everybody wants to be empowered.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody wants to feel like, you know, um, I'm in control.

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<v Speaker 1>I said this to this person, and and everybody wants

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<v Speaker 1>to point fingers. Everybody is ready to throw that rock

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<v Speaker 1>at someone. And it's like, your life isn't perfect. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure you've made many mistakes. I'm sure you've said a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of things that you deserve to be canceled. It

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<v Speaker 1>just happens to be nobody heard you, or that perhaps

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<v Speaker 1>you're not a public figure, or perhaps because I feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>imagine this if you when you have a breakup, for example,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna give a random example, but when you

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<v Speaker 1>have a breakup with someone and your hurt, and everybody's like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, your friends are like, you know, trying to

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<v Speaker 1>tell you, like damn, that's messed up or whatever. Imagine

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<v Speaker 1>being in the public eye. Imagine having the whole world

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<v Speaker 1>looking at you, the whole world judging you. Anything that

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<v Speaker 1>you say, anything that you do, will be judged, and

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<v Speaker 1>not only judged, but judge in a bad way, Like

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<v Speaker 1>in a way that people automatically assume and feel that

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<v Speaker 1>they have the rights to stick their fingers all up

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<v Speaker 1>in your face and It's like, it can be very traumatizing.

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<v Speaker 1>It can be traumatizing for a lot of people. Not

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<v Speaker 1>everybody has that tough skin that they could be like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they canceled me. Life goes on and they'll

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<v Speaker 1>get over it. There's a lot of people. There's by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, there's a lot of artists that to me,

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<v Speaker 1>have done things and have been canceled and then they

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<v Speaker 1>have been uncancelled. But if they would have been a

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<v Speaker 1>regular person, meaning a person that's not in the public eye,

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<v Speaker 1>they would have never been off the canceled chair. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna give you a perfect example. Don't canceled me for it. Battle.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna give a brief, low example. And I

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<v Speaker 1>love him and that's you know, he used to be

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<v Speaker 1>my baby daddy in my mind for a real long time.

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<v Speaker 1>Battle made up Chris Brown. When Chris Brown came and

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<v Speaker 1>he beat the hell out of Rihanna, and everybody went

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<v Speaker 1>through it. We all suffered with Rihanna, we all supported her,

0:12:52.720 --> 0:12:55.240
<v Speaker 1>we all did we you know, we were there say

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<v Speaker 1>no to violence, domestic abuse. That we all went through it.

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<v Speaker 1>His career year was trash for a while, not because

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<v Speaker 1>of his talent, but based off what he did, and

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<v Speaker 1>everybody canceled him. But because he's a public figure and

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<v Speaker 1>he can sing, and he can dance and do the

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<v Speaker 1>moonwalk and all these great things, and he apologized, well,

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<v Speaker 1>then we automatically it's Chris Brown, all right. That's it done.

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<v Speaker 1>He that's it. He's uncanceled. Now, if he would have

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<v Speaker 1>been a regular person, he would have been in jail somewhere,

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<v Speaker 1>or if people would still till this day be looking

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<v Speaker 1>at him in a negative light. So that's the only

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<v Speaker 1>bad thing about cancel culture to me. People choose who

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<v Speaker 1>they want to cancel and when they want to uncanceled them.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's the if he part, Because if we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to cancel you, let's all cancel you because what you

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<v Speaker 1>did was wrong. And do people have the rights to

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<v Speaker 1>make mistakes and come back from it, most definitely. But

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<v Speaker 1>I just hate that people choose who they want to

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<v Speaker 1>cancel when they want to cancel it, and and they

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<v Speaker 1>was good for one is good for all. And you

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<v Speaker 1>know what's funny is um you just mentioned that, and

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<v Speaker 1>the fact that people just choose who and why they

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<v Speaker 1>want to cancel people. You know, that's that's that's just

0:14:10.120 --> 0:14:13.360
<v Speaker 1>kind of crazy. Right, like they have the they're the judge, jury,

0:14:13.360 --> 0:14:16.360
<v Speaker 1>and executioner all at the same time. Right, do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel that perhaps when people go away for a while

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<v Speaker 1>to maybe rehab their thoughts and what they've done wrong

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<v Speaker 1>and come back? Uh, do you feel that that is

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<v Speaker 1>enough to uncanceled them to come back in all their

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<v Speaker 1>glory like a phoenix right right from the ashes? Or

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<v Speaker 1>should we just? Um? And and it also goes obviously

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<v Speaker 1>depending on how bad it's And we're gonna get into

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<v Speaker 1>that next with some examples of people who have been

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<v Speaker 1>canceled and what they have been canceled for. But do

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<v Speaker 1>you feel like it's okay for someone to go away

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<v Speaker 1>for a while come back someone who has been canceled

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<v Speaker 1>for nothing too crazy? Right? We don't want to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about abuse on a woman or anything like that. We

0:14:56.800 --> 0:14:58.760
<v Speaker 1>want to talk about little things. Maybe they said something

0:14:59.560 --> 0:15:06.400
<v Speaker 1>that and right, what do you feel? Umm? Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean what's not too bad? Like who was not too bad? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here's here's an example. Because everyone gets canceled now for

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<v Speaker 1>their political views, right, um, And we'll get into this

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<v Speaker 1>now then, I guess, right, So we have Goya foods, Right,

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<v Speaker 1>we know that during the pandemic um. Certain people called

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<v Speaker 1>for Goya Foods boycott after the company company's chief executive

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<v Speaker 1>officer praised Mr Trump at an event at the White House.

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<v Speaker 1>That's crazy, right, or someone in the who has a

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<v Speaker 1>political belief and owns a big company like Goya, uh

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<v Speaker 1>went under the cancel culture immediately. On the other side,

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<v Speaker 1>the reason many Latinos were calling for a boycott was

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<v Speaker 1>because Trump has a history of making disparaging remarks about Latinos,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, Latinos are the primary consumers of Goya products.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you feel like that's something that people could just

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<v Speaker 1>forgive and be like, all right, cool. You know, he's

0:16:06.520 --> 0:16:09.400
<v Speaker 1>just a he follows Mr Trump, and that is that.

0:16:09.800 --> 0:16:12.760
<v Speaker 1>We love to go your brand, We always will, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you feel about that? Medea? There's a lot

0:16:15.120 --> 0:16:17.480
<v Speaker 1>of things that there's a lot of things that I

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<v Speaker 1>disagree right with Trump and this is not getting into politics.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of things that I disagree with Trump. There's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of things that I disagree with a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of politicians. There's a lot of things I disagree with Biden.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you know, there's a lot of there's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of things I disagree when it comes to politics. Because

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<v Speaker 1>there's a very sensitive topic. However, he has the rights

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<v Speaker 1>to have his beliefs, he has the rights to support

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<v Speaker 1>whoever he wants. It doesn't take away from the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that we going your products is still good, you know personally, right. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>I do understand how sometimes we see them like damn,

0:16:52.280 --> 0:16:56.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, they're supporting this person or this um, you know, whatever,

0:16:56.800 --> 0:17:00.440
<v Speaker 1>they're supporting whoever the case may be. And we're over

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<v Speaker 1>here giving our money to this company while this company

0:17:03.520 --> 0:17:06.720
<v Speaker 1>is using that profit, that money to reinforce Like I

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<v Speaker 1>get those parts, But it's the same thing that happened

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<v Speaker 1>with Gucci. For a long time, Gucci, nobody wanted to

0:17:13.640 --> 0:17:17.080
<v Speaker 1>wear Gucci because Gucci, you know, did some designs and

0:17:17.119 --> 0:17:19.320
<v Speaker 1>they did the rope and they did this and we've

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<v Speaker 1>heard comments like we've heard comments from other bigger brands.

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<v Speaker 1>To my understanding, it made me wrong, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>it was a Tommy Hill figure. And we've heard so

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<v Speaker 1>many comments from different places. And guess what people boycotted

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<v Speaker 1>Gucci for, Like, you know, two weeks, have they stopped

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<v Speaker 1>rocking it, have they stopped buying it? No? I feel

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<v Speaker 1>the people's uh, short term memory, short term memory, they

0:17:45.560 --> 0:17:47.600
<v Speaker 1>have short term memory, and you're like all mad like

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<v Speaker 1>right now, and then like a week or two passes

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<v Speaker 1>by and you don't even remember why you're mad. So

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<v Speaker 1>this is that, This is how I know you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't really take it to heart. You you you

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<v Speaker 1>just want to be mad, and you also want to follow.

0:18:00.840 --> 0:18:03.040
<v Speaker 1>Because we also live in a world for the followers.

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<v Speaker 1>There's there are few leaders these days, a few people

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<v Speaker 1>that are willing to say, you know what, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>take the pressure. I'm gonna take it boom. It is

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<v Speaker 1>what it is that I'll take whatever happens, I'll be

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<v Speaker 1>responsible for. I don't know. We want to follow. It's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't like this. I don't like them either. You

0:18:21.760 --> 0:18:24.439
<v Speaker 1>don't even know why, you don't know? Yeah, and you

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<v Speaker 1>know what sucks. The politics thing is is always the

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<v Speaker 1>number one thing. Any public company or any public ceo,

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<v Speaker 1>any public person automatically aligned themselves with whomever right, left

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<v Speaker 1>or right. I feel like the public immediately like gets

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<v Speaker 1>this like enraged look in their eye and they want

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<v Speaker 1>to cancel somebody like if I'm out able to come

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<v Speaker 1>out tomorrow morning and I'm not getting political, but where

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<v Speaker 1>to say, hey, uh, you know I really like that

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<v Speaker 1>one thing that Trump did for you know, for us,

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<v Speaker 1>like the most this one time. I feel like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>the world would go after you in the wrong way,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's all because of their personal beliefs. It's nothing

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<v Speaker 1>that you have done wrong. Yeah, yeah, for share most definitely. UM.

0:19:05.160 --> 0:19:08.840
<v Speaker 1>And then that's why it's a very sensitive place when artists, influencers,

0:19:09.040 --> 0:19:13.040
<v Speaker 1>people in the public eye, UM, involve themselves with politicians.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very sensitive because you can lose a big fan

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<v Speaker 1>base for it. But at the same time and be like, Papa, Mama,

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<v Speaker 1>let me do something. I get that part a thousand percent,

0:19:21.640 --> 0:19:23.520
<v Speaker 1>and we have to keep our morals and all right,

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<v Speaker 1>throwing everything together, but can you pay my bills? Can

0:19:27.200 --> 0:19:30.119
<v Speaker 1>you pay telephone bill? No? And don't say what do

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<v Speaker 1>you think that they're standing there to this person they

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<v Speaker 1>get for free? No, Mama, they're there because of the money.

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<v Speaker 1>And don't say they pay really good. So what do

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of these people or a lot of these

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<v Speaker 1>artists do. They stuck it up and be like, look,

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<v Speaker 1>most likely I don't support you. Deep down inside, I

0:19:45.040 --> 0:19:46.760
<v Speaker 1>don't believe in n of the crap that you're saying.

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<v Speaker 1>But you're putting a check in my bank account and

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<v Speaker 1>like this, I'm going to feed my family. The part

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<v Speaker 1>that people don't see because people enjoy to just you know,

0:19:54.960 --> 0:19:57.720
<v Speaker 1>point fingers. When it comes to politics, it's very sensitive.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of politicians a good things, but at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time they can destroy by doing something else and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, damn, I supported you for this, but then

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<v Speaker 1>you just messed up with that. So I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how to feel. And that goes for both parties. But

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<v Speaker 1>away from that, UM, there's been artists, celebrities that has

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<v Speaker 1>spoken about the l g B t Q plus community

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<v Speaker 1>and that that has been For example, the Baby was

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<v Speaker 1>one of them. He recently went through something that was terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>Now my question to you is do you believe that

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<v Speaker 1>he should be canceled? Well, obviously he already has been canceled,

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<v Speaker 1>but recently I also read that after he apologized and

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<v Speaker 1>they educated him on the topic, now now they have

0:20:36.160 --> 0:20:39.359
<v Speaker 1>forgiven him and now he's no longer canceled. How do

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<v Speaker 1>you feel about that? I I you know, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's crazy right because I believe that people have the

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<v Speaker 1>right to um be themselves, be who they are right

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<v Speaker 1>and love themselves as as they are and what they

0:20:51.880 --> 0:20:54.439
<v Speaker 1>think they are. So you know why he's gonna get

0:20:54.520 --> 0:20:58.280
<v Speaker 1>He's it's hard. It's hard because his thought on what

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<v Speaker 1>that whole deal was, Um, it was something that he

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<v Speaker 1>he just spewed it out without you know, getting educated

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<v Speaker 1>on right, and then finally he went and got educated

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<v Speaker 1>on it. And look where he's at now. Another person

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<v Speaker 1>that has has dealt with that, and I'm glad you

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<v Speaker 1>brought up like the whole like entertainment and and celebrity

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<v Speaker 1>side of things is j k Rowling. She's the the

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<v Speaker 1>author of the Harry Potter series. She went into Twitter

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<v Speaker 1>in supportive woman with history of making comments that seemed transphobic.

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<v Speaker 1>This British researcher, who J. K Rowling was basically supporting,

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<v Speaker 1>was fired from her job for tweeting, you know, a

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<v Speaker 1>serious of statements about proposed changes to gender recognition. This

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<v Speaker 1>this whole new act now where parents could the baby

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<v Speaker 1>could be genderless. I don't know if he heard about this. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>they're doing it in the passports now too. Oh wow,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know that. Okay, yeah, or or or wait,

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<v Speaker 1>oh here's a good one. Here's a good one that

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<v Speaker 1>people are also somewhat getting canceled for on the low,

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<v Speaker 1>and they haven't. I still haven't seen like a big

0:22:04.800 --> 0:22:09.200
<v Speaker 1>celebrity has been super canceled for publicly like. But I've

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<v Speaker 1>heard comments here and there. Here it goes another one.

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<v Speaker 1>Pro life lifeous Now, that is a huge thing that's

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<v Speaker 1>currently happening right now, and there's a lot of people

0:22:20.040 --> 0:22:24.040
<v Speaker 1>that are canceling other people for their opinion. Whether you

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<v Speaker 1>agree or disagree me, No, you don't have to agree

0:22:26.720 --> 0:22:29.320
<v Speaker 1>with that person. Well that's just me. Listen, I don't

0:22:29.320 --> 0:22:30.760
<v Speaker 1>agree with what you said, and I sit, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>live my life and I'm gonna do what I think

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<v Speaker 1>is right, and then that's it. But that's another thing

0:22:34.840 --> 0:22:36.600
<v Speaker 1>that's currently happening right now. There's a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>getting canceled for voicing their opinion, whether it is pro

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<v Speaker 1>choice or pro life. And that's another thing that I

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<v Speaker 1>believe shouldn't be even a conversation or an issue. You

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<v Speaker 1>want to be pro life, I mean, live your life

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<v Speaker 1>and if you want to have you know, a whole

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<v Speaker 1>football field full of children, I'm in you should have

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<v Speaker 1>the right to do that with your vagina if you

0:22:58.280 --> 0:23:01.320
<v Speaker 1>have one, if you don't have one. This shouldn't even

0:23:01.359 --> 0:23:03.159
<v Speaker 1>be a conversation that you should be having in the

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<v Speaker 1>first place, to my understanding, because if it doesn't come

0:23:05.880 --> 0:23:09.560
<v Speaker 1>out of your body, it shouldn't come out of your mouth. However,

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<v Speaker 1>for those that choose to be a pro choice, if

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<v Speaker 1>you choose not to want to go through the process,

0:23:15.920 --> 0:23:18.080
<v Speaker 1>not to want to have children, not to want to

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<v Speaker 1>have to give birth to a ten pound baby through

0:23:21.640 --> 0:23:24.880
<v Speaker 1>your vagina, if you choose not to want, you shouldn't

0:23:24.920 --> 0:23:27.919
<v Speaker 1>have to do it. That's just my opinion. UM, I

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<v Speaker 1>do understand that there should be, you know, certain limits.

0:23:32.760 --> 0:23:35.080
<v Speaker 1>I will agree with that. You know, if you are

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<v Speaker 1>already like halfway into your pregnancy, like there's a whole

0:23:38.920 --> 0:23:42.919
<v Speaker 1>human being already set up in here, maybe you know

0:23:43.119 --> 0:23:46.119
<v Speaker 1>that's something that you know there should be perhaps something

0:23:46.160 --> 0:23:49.720
<v Speaker 1>we need to figure out. Um, But even now, and

0:23:49.720 --> 0:23:52.800
<v Speaker 1>and this is a topic that we'll discuss on another

0:23:52.880 --> 0:23:55.160
<v Speaker 1>episode because this is like a really important topic. But

0:23:55.480 --> 0:23:59.080
<v Speaker 1>even now, talking about like, oh, well six weeks in, um,

0:23:59.119 --> 0:24:02.440
<v Speaker 1>you know you can't talk about you know, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>talk about Okay, I'm gonna have an abortion, it has

0:24:04.240 --> 0:24:05.959
<v Speaker 1>to be less than six weekends. Well, how about this.

0:24:06.320 --> 0:24:09.000
<v Speaker 1>I found out that I was pregnant eight months and

0:24:09.200 --> 0:24:13.360
<v Speaker 1>some weeks in because I've always been I've still being pregnant.

0:24:13.359 --> 0:24:15.600
<v Speaker 1>I have a whole six pack and I never even

0:24:15.600 --> 0:24:17.920
<v Speaker 1>could tell. So it's for those it is like your

0:24:17.920 --> 0:24:20.480
<v Speaker 1>first time or whatever. You may not know or even

0:24:20.520 --> 0:24:23.119
<v Speaker 1>if you got raped, or even if you got molested,

0:24:23.240 --> 0:24:26.000
<v Speaker 1>or even if you did it with someone whatever the

0:24:26.040 --> 0:24:28.040
<v Speaker 1>kids may be. Just to know that you don't even

0:24:28.080 --> 0:24:32.000
<v Speaker 1>have that choice, that's kind of messed up. Um And

0:24:32.000 --> 0:24:35.119
<v Speaker 1>and like in for example, in my country, that's illegal

0:24:35.400 --> 0:24:37.720
<v Speaker 1>to have abortions in the first place. So then you

0:24:37.760 --> 0:24:40.760
<v Speaker 1>see women just throwing the babies in a garbage bag

0:24:41.320 --> 0:24:44.439
<v Speaker 1>in the streets. You see them going to these underground

0:24:44.480 --> 0:24:47.960
<v Speaker 1>doctors you see, and women are you know, getting infections

0:24:47.960 --> 0:24:50.240
<v Speaker 1>and all types of things and they're dying. You see

0:24:50.560 --> 0:24:54.080
<v Speaker 1>um children, little kids abandoned in the street asking for

0:24:54.119 --> 0:24:55.919
<v Speaker 1>money because they don't even have any parents. They just

0:24:55.960 --> 0:24:58.360
<v Speaker 1>threw them out to the streets and whoever you know

0:24:59.000 --> 0:25:01.199
<v Speaker 1>has some sympathy will give them play the food. But

0:25:01.240 --> 0:25:03.720
<v Speaker 1>it's like, if you really pay attention, you may be

0:25:03.800 --> 0:25:06.160
<v Speaker 1>solving a problem and studying another one. So for those

0:25:06.200 --> 0:25:09.199
<v Speaker 1>that have been vocal about their opinions, whether like I

0:25:09.200 --> 0:25:11.840
<v Speaker 1>said before, it's pro choice because you have the rights

0:25:11.880 --> 0:25:14.200
<v Speaker 1>to choose to do whatever you want, or you choose life.

0:25:14.520 --> 0:25:16.320
<v Speaker 1>You have the rights to fill this world full of

0:25:16.359 --> 0:25:20.240
<v Speaker 1>beautiful babies and beautiful human beings. You shouldn't be canceled

0:25:20.240 --> 0:25:32.840
<v Speaker 1>for voicing your opinion. Yeah, that's that's it. You know.

0:25:33.440 --> 0:25:35.840
<v Speaker 1>That's again, that's a borderline one. Like we just spoke about, right,

0:25:35.880 --> 0:25:39.480
<v Speaker 1>there's there's uh, there's the extreme, right, there's the extreme

0:25:39.640 --> 0:25:42.359
<v Speaker 1>of of things that people have done like uh, you know,

0:25:42.400 --> 0:25:45.320
<v Speaker 1>for example, daytime television style and generous right. She was

0:25:45.840 --> 0:25:50.400
<v Speaker 1>canceled after being accused of fostering a toxic workplace culture

0:25:50.600 --> 0:25:53.040
<v Speaker 1>in her you know, in the show if you remember

0:25:53.080 --> 0:25:57.520
<v Speaker 1>The Ellen Show, Um, it returned in September, but um,

0:25:57.600 --> 0:26:02.520
<v Speaker 1>it's been officially now canceled. Uh it is, Yeah, Yeah,

0:26:03.000 --> 0:26:07.640
<v Speaker 1>that's it. Yeah. She mentioned she put out a tweet

0:26:07.680 --> 0:26:09.720
<v Speaker 1>and anything on Instagram saying that, you know, she was

0:26:09.760 --> 0:26:11.720
<v Speaker 1>going to cancel the show. And I think it's because

0:26:12.680 --> 0:26:15.000
<v Speaker 1>it came down hard. You know, it came down hard

0:26:15.040 --> 0:26:18.800
<v Speaker 1>on her and everyone else there. This cancel culture thing

0:26:18.880 --> 0:26:21.479
<v Speaker 1>is real. It's real. And when it when it strikes

0:26:21.520 --> 0:26:24.439
<v Speaker 1>down as hard as it did for her, and it

0:26:24.600 --> 0:26:29.720
<v Speaker 1>was something that listen. Um, eventually somebody's gonna speak, uh,

0:26:30.280 --> 0:26:32.560
<v Speaker 1>months from now, a year from now, whenever, about what

0:26:32.640 --> 0:26:36.080
<v Speaker 1>happened exactly behind that show, right, and then maybe the

0:26:36.200 --> 0:26:41.960
<v Speaker 1>council community that gathered together to cancel that show, maybe yeah,

0:26:42.000 --> 0:26:46.159
<v Speaker 1>maybe they maybe they'll seem like heroes for you know.

0:26:46.200 --> 0:26:49.000
<v Speaker 1>What's really trashy about that too, is like people are

0:26:49.040 --> 0:26:51.119
<v Speaker 1>so ready to judge and so ready to point the fingers,

0:26:51.200 --> 0:26:52.920
<v Speaker 1>and it's like, okay, so then are we going to

0:26:53.040 --> 0:26:55.800
<v Speaker 1>forget all these years of hard work that she's done,

0:26:56.280 --> 0:26:58.840
<v Speaker 1>all these years of good things that she's done for

0:26:59.040 --> 0:27:01.399
<v Speaker 1>certain people in the comity, you know, all the work

0:27:01.520 --> 0:27:04.920
<v Speaker 1>like even even um. You know, she's helped out children,

0:27:04.920 --> 0:27:07.480
<v Speaker 1>she's helped out family, she's helped out single mothers, She's

0:27:07.520 --> 0:27:10.240
<v Speaker 1>done so many things. You know, you looked up to

0:27:10.320 --> 0:27:12.720
<v Speaker 1>her for so long, you admired her for so long,

0:27:12.800 --> 0:27:16.160
<v Speaker 1>you supported her for so long, And for this one moment,

0:27:16.720 --> 0:27:19.920
<v Speaker 1>whether it is good or bad, whatever that she did,

0:27:20.280 --> 0:27:23.240
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna completely cancel her and not even give her

0:27:23.240 --> 0:27:25.960
<v Speaker 1>an opportunity like she could have been going through something.

0:27:26.040 --> 0:27:29.320
<v Speaker 1>I think that people sometimes even forget that we're human beings,

0:27:29.720 --> 0:27:31.800
<v Speaker 1>and even celebrities are the people that you look up

0:27:31.800 --> 0:27:35.560
<v Speaker 1>to or the influences or whoever. Yes, you need to

0:27:35.560 --> 0:27:37.840
<v Speaker 1>be careful. Once you have a platform, once you have

0:27:37.920 --> 0:27:40.640
<v Speaker 1>been blessed with the platform where people listen and pay attention,

0:27:40.680 --> 0:27:45.120
<v Speaker 1>you do have to be careful. However, I'm being come okay, Like, damn,

0:27:45.680 --> 0:27:47.560
<v Speaker 1>we could just go and cancel people like that? What

0:27:47.600 --> 0:27:49.560
<v Speaker 1>about all the hard work that they've put through? Like,

0:27:49.760 --> 0:27:51.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't think it's fair. I think

0:27:51.720 --> 0:27:53.800
<v Speaker 1>that people have the rights to make mistakes. You don't

0:27:53.800 --> 0:27:55.359
<v Speaker 1>know what this person may be going through. Yeah, you

0:27:55.440 --> 0:27:57.560
<v Speaker 1>see them all happy and fun on TV all the time,

0:27:57.600 --> 0:27:59.760
<v Speaker 1>but you could have been having a period, you could

0:27:59.800 --> 0:28:02.080
<v Speaker 1>have lost a family member, you could have had a breakup,

0:28:02.320 --> 0:28:05.800
<v Speaker 1>you could have diarrhea. You're gonna be going through anything,

0:28:06.200 --> 0:28:08.919
<v Speaker 1>and people automatically is like, who cares? You know, we're

0:28:08.960 --> 0:28:11.840
<v Speaker 1>gonna cancel you. It's over and it's ay, damn, give

0:28:11.880 --> 0:28:14.040
<v Speaker 1>them a break. Let's figure this out. Is there any

0:28:14.119 --> 0:28:16.240
<v Speaker 1>chance you can come back from that? Did you apologize that?

0:28:16.200 --> 0:28:19.600
<v Speaker 1>Are you going to therapy? Um? Did you seek help?

0:28:20.000 --> 0:28:22.040
<v Speaker 1>Did did you just say it because you were upset

0:28:22.080 --> 0:28:24.240
<v Speaker 1>that moment or did you say it out of ignorance

0:28:24.240 --> 0:28:26.800
<v Speaker 1>because nobody taught you didn't know any better, Like, can

0:28:26.880 --> 0:28:32.680
<v Speaker 1>we figure something out before we automatically completely cancel someone? Yeah,

0:28:32.800 --> 0:28:36.240
<v Speaker 1>and there should be room for mistakes, but also accountability

0:28:36.280 --> 0:28:38.840
<v Speaker 1>for what you're saying too. Yeah. And I think you

0:28:38.880 --> 0:28:41.800
<v Speaker 1>and I are both on the same wavelength here. Um,

0:28:41.840 --> 0:28:43.440
<v Speaker 1>we're kind of like in the middle, right. We don't

0:28:43.440 --> 0:28:47.080
<v Speaker 1>want to completely cancel somebody for having a bad day

0:28:47.160 --> 0:28:49.800
<v Speaker 1>or for catching someone on the right at the wrong time. Right,

0:28:49.840 --> 0:28:54.160
<v Speaker 1>But you know, we do have the extreme people like a, uh,

0:28:54.320 --> 0:28:57.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, what's the name R Kelly. R Kelly definitely

0:28:57.440 --> 0:29:00.000
<v Speaker 1>canceled gone forever. I don't I don't think, I don't

0:29:00.160 --> 0:29:04.040
<v Speaker 1>you know for I mean, he's done some really nasty things,

0:29:04.760 --> 0:29:07.640
<v Speaker 1>you know. Um, and I'm glad it all came to light.

0:29:07.760 --> 0:29:10.200
<v Speaker 1>But if you're talking about cancel culture coming together people

0:29:10.200 --> 0:29:13.880
<v Speaker 1>who just want to cancel others, R Kelly is definitely

0:29:13.960 --> 0:29:17.840
<v Speaker 1>one that we can all agree on, you know. Um,

0:29:17.840 --> 0:29:22.400
<v Speaker 1>it was time for him to go. Listen, there's still

0:29:22.480 --> 0:29:26.000
<v Speaker 1>some people that support him and don't cancel him. And

0:29:26.040 --> 0:29:29.440
<v Speaker 1>it's like, even if you've seen the videos, um, let's

0:29:29.440 --> 0:29:31.640
<v Speaker 1>you see let me not even get into details. Well,

0:29:32.600 --> 0:29:35.040
<v Speaker 1>even if you see the videos, even if you see proof,

0:29:35.080 --> 0:29:37.000
<v Speaker 1>even if you see pictures, even if you see it

0:29:37.000 --> 0:29:39.239
<v Speaker 1>and you know it, there's some people that like, no,

0:29:39.400 --> 0:29:41.520
<v Speaker 1>he can't get cancel. It is not true. And then

0:29:41.560 --> 0:29:42.960
<v Speaker 1>there's the rest of the world that's like, you need

0:29:43.000 --> 0:29:45.800
<v Speaker 1>to get cancel. But cancel is not even the word

0:29:45.840 --> 0:29:48.560
<v Speaker 1>for him, because cancel is too like you see, cancel

0:29:48.640 --> 0:29:52.320
<v Speaker 1>is more for like comments or whatever what he did.

0:29:52.480 --> 0:29:54.720
<v Speaker 1>Know you, you know, you need to be exactly where

0:29:54.720 --> 0:29:57.640
<v Speaker 1>you're at. With all due respect, I don't support that

0:29:57.680 --> 0:30:00.040
<v Speaker 1>in any shape way of form. Nothing that had a

0:30:00.480 --> 0:30:02.960
<v Speaker 1>child or nothing that harms a woman I will ever

0:30:03.040 --> 0:30:09.200
<v Speaker 1>agree with. So no battle, Yeah, I don't think. I

0:30:09.240 --> 0:30:11.200
<v Speaker 1>don't think he could ever come back from it. You know,

0:30:11.240 --> 0:30:16.040
<v Speaker 1>if people were to get uncanceled him, and not only that,

0:30:16.080 --> 0:30:19.000
<v Speaker 1>but let's just say, let's put a weird example. Let's

0:30:19.000 --> 0:30:21.800
<v Speaker 1>just say that tomorrow they were to say it was

0:30:21.840 --> 0:30:25.360
<v Speaker 1>all a lie. We found proof they were trying to

0:30:25.440 --> 0:30:27.960
<v Speaker 1>damage his image and just still his money and it's

0:30:28.000 --> 0:30:32.360
<v Speaker 1>not true. Right. Unfortunately, in the in the times that

0:30:32.440 --> 0:30:37.760
<v Speaker 1>we live because of cancel culture, even if proven not guilty,

0:30:38.280 --> 0:30:43.080
<v Speaker 1>just the stigma, just the possibility, people will still continue

0:30:43.120 --> 0:30:45.760
<v Speaker 1>to cancel, which is the crazy part because it's like

0:30:46.080 --> 0:30:47.880
<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of people that have made mistake and

0:30:47.920 --> 0:30:50.640
<v Speaker 1>then they've been proven and not guilty. It wasn't their fault.

0:30:50.680 --> 0:30:54.160
<v Speaker 1>It wasn't that even domestic abuse or whatever the case

0:30:54.200 --> 0:30:56.200
<v Speaker 1>may be, or it could have been a lie, fraud,

0:30:56.640 --> 0:31:01.480
<v Speaker 1>financial fraud, anything, And just because is the rumor was

0:31:01.520 --> 0:31:05.120
<v Speaker 1>put out there, people will still cancel you and they

0:31:05.160 --> 0:31:07.840
<v Speaker 1>won't uncancel you. And that's also messed up, you know.

0:31:07.960 --> 0:31:09.600
<v Speaker 1>And I know we're winding out here on the show.

0:31:09.640 --> 0:31:14.959
<v Speaker 1>But another extreme um cancel culture person that I remember,

0:31:14.960 --> 0:31:17.040
<v Speaker 1>the earliest one that I could think of, was Matt Lauer.

0:31:17.240 --> 0:31:19.960
<v Speaker 1>He was the host of the Today Show, uh you

0:31:20.000 --> 0:31:23.160
<v Speaker 1>know on on NBC. You know, they found out that

0:31:23.200 --> 0:31:27.760
<v Speaker 1>he was, you know, like this completely different person behind

0:31:27.760 --> 0:31:32.000
<v Speaker 1>the scenes. Um, you know a lot of sexual misconduct.

0:31:32.240 --> 0:31:34.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm so sick of these men because it's just too

0:31:34.880 --> 0:31:37.920
<v Speaker 1>many cases. Y'all don't know how to jerk it. No,

0:31:38.040 --> 0:31:39.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm just trying to figure out do y'alln't even to

0:31:39.840 --> 0:31:42.160
<v Speaker 1>send you all some lotion. Y'all don't know how to

0:31:42.240 --> 0:31:46.320
<v Speaker 1>jerk it, like jerk it off until like y'all don't

0:31:46.320 --> 0:31:49.080
<v Speaker 1>have to throw yourself at women, start touching women, start

0:31:49.120 --> 0:31:51.520
<v Speaker 1>doing all these things. Like y'all can't go to the

0:31:51.560 --> 0:31:53.800
<v Speaker 1>old school days where people used to like get little

0:31:53.840 --> 0:31:56.200
<v Speaker 1>pornos and just jerk it off and then that's it.

0:31:56.480 --> 0:31:59.880
<v Speaker 1>Look at a picture, jerk it off. Whatever. Your whole life,

0:32:00.080 --> 0:32:02.920
<v Speaker 1>your family, your career, your everything will go down the

0:32:03.000 --> 0:32:07.000
<v Speaker 1>drain just because you're dangling. It's like, come on, now,

0:32:07.200 --> 0:32:12.880
<v Speaker 1>y'all need to get it together. But um, people that

0:32:13.040 --> 0:32:15.840
<v Speaker 1>do stuff like that, you don't just need to get canceled.

0:32:16.080 --> 0:32:18.400
<v Speaker 1>You need to feel the pressure. You need to feel

0:32:18.400 --> 0:32:21.320
<v Speaker 1>the pressure in whatever way it comes. Um, yes, so

0:32:21.360 --> 0:32:25.000
<v Speaker 1>they get karma. I believe in karma, but sometimes karmenies assistance.

0:32:25.400 --> 0:32:30.360
<v Speaker 1>So now, but with that being said, I want to know, um,

0:32:30.400 --> 0:32:33.520
<v Speaker 1>who do you believe should be canceled? Who shouldn't have

0:32:33.600 --> 0:32:36.680
<v Speaker 1>been canceled? And I also want to know have you

0:32:36.760 --> 0:32:39.320
<v Speaker 1>ever been canceled for something that you said? Let me

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0:33:00.960 --> 0:33:02.680
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0:33:02.720 --> 0:33:05.200
<v Speaker 1>felt like, damn, I didn't deserve to get canceled, or

0:33:05.280 --> 0:33:07.440
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0:33:07.440 --> 0:33:10.080
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<v Speaker 1>you on the show. Thank you. I appreciate that love

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<v Speaker 1>being on exactly most definitely to be honest. We should

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<v Speaker 1>do this more often. We should do it because the

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<v Speaker 1>vibe is good and I like all this you have

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<v Speaker 1>to say. So this has been exactly a mata and

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<v Speaker 1>I will see you guys next Thursday. Gang Gang Gang,

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