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Speaker 1: You junior subject sexy and seventy, but he stutters. Dear

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Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I'm a sixty two year old female in

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Speaker 1: a relationship with a seventy year old man that is

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Speaker 1: sexy as heck. He loves his tailor's suits, and he's

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Speaker 1: got that salt and pepper beard that drives me crazy.

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Speaker 1: For years, he has pursued me, but he was in

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Speaker 1: a relationship, so I didn't take him seriously. Most of

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Speaker 1: our exchanges were over Texas and for three years until

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Speaker 1: he coersed me into giving him my address and he

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Speaker 1: started sending me flowers, an expensive gift. I was perplexed

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Speaker 1: at first because he didn't want anything in exchange. I

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Speaker 1: asked him why he never made a move, and he

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Speaker 1: told me that he's so nervous around me he can't

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Speaker 1: even speak, let alone come in for a kiss. He

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Speaker 1: texted me a few months ago and said he and

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Speaker 1: his girlfriend broke up, so I invited him over for

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Speaker 1: a cocktail. He came and we talked and had a

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Speaker 1: good time. He said the alcohol relaxed him so he

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Speaker 1: over to the house and we finally kissed and then

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Speaker 1: ended up in my bed. He was very nervous and sweaty,

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Speaker 1: so I took it easy on him. When he tried

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Speaker 1: to talk sexy to me, it came out as a stutter.

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Speaker 1: He started sweating bullets, so I kept on doing anything

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Speaker 1: I could to let him know it was okay, and

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Speaker 1: I would take it easy on him. I took off

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Speaker 1: my clothes and he couldn't get one word out without stuttering.

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Speaker 1: It made for a long night and he would not

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Speaker 1: stop trying to talk while we were being intimate. I

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Speaker 1: decided to tune him out so I could stay focused

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Speaker 1: because it was bad.

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Speaker 2: The sex wasn't bad, his sexy talk was bad.

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Speaker 1: He put it down and he's a great lover, but

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Speaker 1: I need him to hush when we're doing it. This

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Speaker 1: happened a few more times during intimacy. He talks fine

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Speaker 1: any other time. So how do I help him relax

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Speaker 1: before sex? Am I way too much for him? I

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Speaker 1: don't think that you're necessarily way too much for him.

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Speaker 2: I just think he just is so into you. He

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Speaker 2: gets really nervous.

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Speaker 1: But you know, I also say that you have a

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Speaker 1: man now that treats you well, dresses well, gives you

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Speaker 1: expensive gifts. He's sexy, you say, and he's a great lover.

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Speaker 1: These are all your words. But he stutters, and that's

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Speaker 1: the only thing wrong with him. And he stutters, but

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Speaker 1: he only does it during intimacy.

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Speaker 2: I don't think.

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Speaker 1: I don't see that as such a huge problem. I mean,

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Speaker 1: did you hear the part where you wrote that he

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Speaker 1: gives you expensive gifts and he's sexy and a great

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Speaker 1: lover and all that. I just think this man is

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Speaker 1: so very nervous around you. He's been after you for

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Speaker 1: what three years? You say? He's been trying to pursue you,

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Speaker 1: and now he's finally got you. He can't believe that

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Speaker 1: he's actually with you. I mean, this means a whole

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Speaker 1: lot to him, and he just gets too excited.

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Speaker 2: That's what I think it is.

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Speaker 1: I mean, that's a high compliment to you and the

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Speaker 1: woman you are in his life. He really really likes you.

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Speaker 1: So I just say to you, give him time, have

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Speaker 1: some real conversations with him, talk about you know, how

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Speaker 1: you really feel.

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Speaker 2: You both are grown. You're sixty two, he's seventy.

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Speaker 1: You know, Throw a couple of cocktails in there like

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Speaker 1: you did before, Relax him a bit and let him

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Speaker 1: get his nerves under control. I just say, give him

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Speaker 4: Steve, this is a perfect letter for me cause I

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Speaker 4: am a former stutterer, right, and I had a severe stutter,

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Speaker 4: And just like this man, I didn't study all the time.

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Speaker 4: I only studied outside my house and when I wasn't

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Speaker 4: people that I knew and I was comfortable around, no stutter.

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Speaker 4: I went to church stutter, I went to school stutter,

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Speaker 4: And any time I went to an event that I

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Speaker 4: was out of my comfort zone, I studied. So this

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Speaker 4: is a perfect letter for me. I know, exactly what's happening.

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Speaker 4: I'm fin to help you out. You're a fifty eight

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Speaker 4: year old, sixty two year old female and your relationship

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Speaker 4: be seth me, you old man, that it's sexist. Heck

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Speaker 4: got his suits on everything. You know, salt and pepper bead.

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Speaker 4: That drives you crazy. And you say, for years he

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Speaker 4: pursued you, but he was in a relationships, so I

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Speaker 4: didn't take him seriously. And you said most of our

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Speaker 4: exchanges were over text for three years until he coerced

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Speaker 4: he didn't want anything in exchange. Yes he did. What ladies,

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Speaker 4: Men don't do things for nothing. Everything we do is

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Speaker 4: for a reason. What part of that don't you get?

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Speaker 4: And you're too old to think a man to send

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Speaker 4: in Texas and he don't want anything in.

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Speaker 5: Exchange, Yes he does. He just a grown man. He

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Speaker 5: planting seeds.

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Speaker 4: He putting seeds in the ground and covering them with dirt.

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Speaker 4: He is planning on one day reaping a harvest from

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Speaker 5: He's playing all right, this is what grown men do,

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Speaker 5: unlike young boys.

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Speaker 4: As soon as they throw a seed in the ground,

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Speaker 4: they want to pull the dirt back off of it

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Speaker 4: and eat the seed and wonder why they ain't nothing

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Speaker 4: to it. Well, because you didn't let it turn into nothing.

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Speaker 4: And then you gave him the seed without allowing it

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Speaker 4: to grow into nothing. Now you mad because he didne

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Speaker 4: ate the seed. Now he gone, and the seed gone,

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Speaker 4: and it's a hole in.

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Speaker 5: The hold on, hold on, now, he'd have left a

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Speaker 5: hole in the dirt. Oh I'm preaching today.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, you are, amen, Amen.

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Speaker 5: Better hear me.

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Speaker 1: Now, all right, we'll have part two of Steve Sermon

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Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. The

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Speaker 1: subject for today's strawberry letter is sexty and seventy, but

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Speaker 1: he stutters. We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve former stutterer, Let's recap today's

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Speaker 2: Sexy and seventy bus.

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Speaker 4: Sixty sixteen two year old woman in relationship with a

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Speaker 4: sexty seventy year old man salt and pepper beer drive

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Speaker 4: absolutely crazy. This man been running after her for three years,

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Speaker 4: but hitting a relationship, so she never took the man seriously.

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Speaker 4: Finally he coerced her into giving him his address, and

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Speaker 4: then all of a sudden, he starts sending flowers and

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Speaker 4: gifts to the house. And she said she was perplexed

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Speaker 4: at first because he didn't want anything in exchange. And

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Speaker 4: I told you before, yes he did. He wanted something

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Speaker 4: and change. But he is he he old school player.

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Speaker 4: He went planting seeds, all them gifts and all them

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Speaker 4: stuff he'd been sending to the house, and all them

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Speaker 4: Texas was him putting seeds in the ground, expecting one

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Speaker 4: day for the seeds to grow and he would benefit

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Speaker 4: from the reaping the harvest, unlike young dudes who put

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Speaker 4: a seed in the ground and then go and eat

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Speaker 4: the seed and expect something to show up.

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Speaker 5: And you, being the woman who got the seed.

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Speaker 4: Planted, lets him come back and eat the seed before

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Speaker 4: anything then grew out of it. Now you mad at

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Speaker 4: him because he gone, Your seed gone and it's a.

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Speaker 5: Hole in the ground. Oh preach, Okay, so now you mad.

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Speaker 4: But you didn't let the seed push up through the

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Speaker 4: the seed. Now you got nothing, well grown man to

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Speaker 4: asked him why he never made a move, and he

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Speaker 5: He can't even let long come in for a kiss.

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Speaker 4: He text me a few months ago, said him and

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Speaker 4: his girlfriend broke up. You invited him over for a cocktail.

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Speaker 4: He came, y'all talk had a great time, and then

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Speaker 4: he told you that the alcohol relaxed him. So a

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Speaker 5: He was very nervous and sweaty, so I took it

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Speaker 4: Now here's a woman that starts to give herself credit.

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Speaker 4: She just won't credit. I took it easy on it.

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Speaker 4: I put it on him. I could have took him out,

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Speaker 4: but I didn't. I let him live. I let him

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Speaker 4: How could have heard? I could have had a stroke

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Speaker 4: that's what That's what I do. I put it on

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Speaker 4: you where you can't you can't breathe good. I take

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Speaker 4: your sisters away from you. This is all her think

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Speaker 4: you for, she was writing his left I take your

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Speaker 4: there think and yet that COVID you won't have taste

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Speaker 5: This is what I have, girl. You don't know who

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Speaker 5: you messing with. I'm a COVID case. I had this

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Speaker 4: This is what she thinking in her mind while she

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Speaker 5: So she ended up in the bed. He was very

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Speaker 4: Other when he tried to talk sexy to me, it

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Speaker 5: Now here is where my expertise is fit.

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Speaker 4: When he tried to talk sexy came out as a study,

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Speaker 4: he started sweating bullets. So I kept on doing anything

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Speaker 4: I could to let him know it was okay, and

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Speaker 4: I would take it easy on him, so like, you

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Speaker 4: ain't even really put it on him yet, that's what

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Speaker 4: you keep trying to tell us about this letter. So

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Speaker 4: I took off my clothes and he could not get

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Speaker 5: Whoa whoa, whoa whoa woo woo woo woo woo woo wee.

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Speaker 4: Girl looking look at him, cause he's seventy now, so

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Speaker 4: he and ain't ain't bigger words. These is the old

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Speaker 4: lord phrases. He used, a seventy year old fraser. What

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Speaker 4: you to talk about? You make me stitch stoke boy,

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Speaker 4: I'm about it's.

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Speaker 5: About to pop pop pop pop the pop out here.

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Speaker 4: So anyway, it made for a long night and he

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Speaker 4: would not stop trying to talk while we were be

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Speaker 4: can stay focused while we was in bed. The sex

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Speaker 4: wasn't bad, His sexy talk was bad.

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Speaker 2: He put it down.

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Speaker 4: He was a great lover, but I need him to

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Speaker 4: hush when we're doing it. This happened a few more

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Speaker 4: times doing intermates. He talks fine any other time, So

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Speaker 4: how do I help him to relax before sex? Am

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Speaker 4: I weighed too much for him? No, you ain't weighed

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Speaker 4: too much for him. You said he put it down.

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Speaker 4: And the reason you keep coming back is cause he

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Speaker 4: put it down. So let's take yourself off the credit

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Speaker 4: screen trying to roll the credits with your name on it. No,

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Speaker 4: you ain't too much. He got you and he keeps

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Speaker 4: coming back. The problem is stuttering is caused by anxiety.

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Speaker 4: Stuttering is not a physical condition, it's all mental. Stuttering

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Speaker 4: is calls from anxiety. People who grow up and hold

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Speaker 4: on the studying long times never master the anxiety portion

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Speaker 4: of it, so they keep the studter going.

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Speaker 5: And once you stutter, and you know you study, and

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Speaker 5: you know it causes a reaction in people.

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Speaker 4: Every time you get ready to talk, you stutter because

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Speaker 4: of the anxiety you have for the reaction you know

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Speaker 4: you're gonna get when people hear you talk.

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Speaker 5: And so now the stutter is produced even before you talk.

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Speaker 4: Now, when y'all ain't talking about nothing, that causes anxiety

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Speaker 4: he finds causes him anxiety because he got to perform.

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Speaker 4: All you have to do is simply say, hey, I

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Speaker 4: don't like talking while we're having sex. Now you're putting

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Speaker 4: it down like you're supposed to. I would prefer to

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Speaker 4: have sex quietly so I can just enjoy myself. Guess

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Speaker 4: what now he thinking he needs to talk sexy, and

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Speaker 4: he fully anxiety and he can't.

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Speaker 5: By the time he tell you what he finna do,

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Speaker 5: he'd probably already done it.

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