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<v Speaker 1>Hope when we talk back where we encourage you to

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<v Speaker 1>hustle hard, laugh louder, and always keep it cute. So

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<v Speaker 1>grab your coffee, cocktail and crown because it's about to

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<v Speaker 1>go talk.

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<v Speaker 2>We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion.

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<v Speaker 1>Who talks. What's up, y'all? It's your girl a j holiday.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, tam Bam?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm tam Bam and I have cramps?

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<v Speaker 1>Why?

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<v Speaker 2>Shit hurts so bad? Oh my god, Alicia, know you're

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<v Speaker 2>still alive.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're still a woman. You haven't transitioned in any capacity.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I have not.

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<v Speaker 1>I be needing to see my period every month. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how these bitches get put on these birth

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<v Speaker 1>control pills where they don't have a period. That's weird

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<v Speaker 1>to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't want to. I'm scared of it. I

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<v Speaker 2>just don't want to feel cramps anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you use cups? Are you still use just pads?

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<v Speaker 1>What the cups?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I feel like my period go off real

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<v Speaker 1>fast with the cups.

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<v Speaker 2>Something is disgusting.

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<v Speaker 1>It is it could be real nasty. I pull it

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<v Speaker 1>out in a shower.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, first of all, I'm disgusted with myself every month anyway, right,

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<v Speaker 3>I got that cup, No get out of here.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd definitely be using those little soft cups because I

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<v Speaker 1>just don't I can't get with the pad either. And

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<v Speaker 1>then I you know, I just got over using tampons,

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<v Speaker 1>like I use tampons, like if I have to go

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<v Speaker 1>out somewhere, I might pop one in. But I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like using tampons either.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl, I use them always. Z's the diaper shit, I

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<v Speaker 2>wear them all day. I don't wear them just at night.

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<v Speaker 1>The panty.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah that like it's like it depends. Yes, Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gonna tell you. I'm a funny story. So but I

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<v Speaker 2>got a new card January. My range Rover was just

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<v Speaker 2>giving me problems and like I had an electrical issue

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<v Speaker 2>in the middle of the night in the dark on

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<v Speaker 2>seventy seven where there's no lights, so the lights went out.

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<v Speaker 2>I couldn't see the car was dark inside and outside.

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<v Speaker 2>So I finally got the lights to come on and

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<v Speaker 2>then they went off. I was following behind an eighteen wheeler.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wait, your head lights was off.

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<v Speaker 2>Every oh every light in the inside and the outside

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't no lights. I was just in pitch black darkness

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<v Speaker 2>and I was scared. It's seventy seven, ain't no you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's no lights on were to a certain part of

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<v Speaker 2>seventy seven, there's no lights, just woods. So imagine going

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<v Speaker 2>through that in the dark and the only light you

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<v Speaker 2>got is an eighteen wheeler in front of you. Break lights.

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<v Speaker 2>So I had to pee, y'all, And I didn't want

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<v Speaker 2>to stop because.

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<v Speaker 1>Go ahead, sorry, man, you are nuts.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't want to stop because if I stopped, I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't know if I was gonna have another car to

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<v Speaker 2>help me get through because it was late. It was

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<v Speaker 2>super late. So all right, I'm wantly telling y'all this

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<v Speaker 2>because we family. I peded my alwaysies.

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<v Speaker 1>Just so nasty.

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<v Speaker 2>It works.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't feel it was it warm do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Worked, It absorbed so well, like I didn't feel gross

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<v Speaker 2>at all. This could be a commercial for the fucking Always.

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<v Speaker 1>You definitely need to add.

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<v Speaker 2>I was in danger. I felt like I was in danger.

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<v Speaker 2>I had I had to piece so bad, and I

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<v Speaker 2>beed in that thing and I ain't feel like I

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<v Speaker 2>had on no diaper or nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>Always zs ads that we talked back, okay, because we

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<v Speaker 1>have tested and approved yes, and it has stood the

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<v Speaker 1>test of urine so because it's not even made for that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not but it worked. So yeah, I did that.

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<v Speaker 2>That happened. It was an emergency situation. You guys, don't

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<v Speaker 2>judge me anyway. How was your gonna judge you?

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<v Speaker 1>Man, I'll be talking shit forever now. You should have

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<v Speaker 1>never told me no shit like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Whatever. I don't care. I live in my truth. It's

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<v Speaker 2>my truth. It don't hurt me. How was your weekend?

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<v Speaker 1>It was real like outside it rained, like today is

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<v Speaker 1>the first sunny day in some some days, like it's

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<v Speaker 1>been just nasty outside, cold, ragning. My my two of

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<v Speaker 1>my friend's kids graduated from college. So my best friend

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<v Speaker 1>Priscilla had a party for her her son. He graduated

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<v Speaker 1>from Savannah State. So I'm so proud of Micah. I

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<v Speaker 1>remember him as a little baby like these all my kids.

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<v Speaker 2>Now they graduated from college.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl like graduating from college like about to be like

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<v Speaker 1>real life adult adults around here. Yeah, so he graduated.

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<v Speaker 1>I cooked some stuff post and took over there the

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<v Speaker 1>bitch I took. I took some shrooms Friday night. Too late.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw that even the story you posted a little

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<v Speaker 2>mushroom with sparkles all over.

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<v Speaker 1>It, girl, this particular strand had me like my eyesight

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<v Speaker 1>was so enhanced, like things were breathing, Like I'm online

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm planning on making my own I won't tell y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just show you all the pictures when I do

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<v Speaker 1>it for my birthday. But I'm making something some arts

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<v Speaker 1>and craft type shit, right, So it was like a

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<v Speaker 1>roll of I'm on Amazon. This is these are these

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<v Speaker 1>are Amazon images. Okay, just imagine like a roll of vinyl.

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<v Speaker 1>This ship was like breathing, like I can't I could

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<v Speaker 1>see that unroll. And this is the first time I've

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<v Speaker 1>actually had like actual like visual type things happen on shrooms.

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<v Speaker 1>But I never went to sleep. I didn't go to

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<v Speaker 1>sleep from Friday morning until like eleven twelve o'clock on

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<v Speaker 1>Saturday night. Cause like Friday night, like when I got.

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<v Speaker 2>I was in bed.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was in bed, but like one turn of two, two,

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<v Speaker 1>turning three, three, turning four, five point twenty two, I got.

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<v Speaker 1>I just got up out the bed and went to

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<v Speaker 1>the gym. When got my tools done.

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<v Speaker 2>Started putting and ship.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, wheel day, and then I crashed, yeah hard, two

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<v Speaker 1>hours and I had to get up and go take

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<v Speaker 1>the food and hang out.

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<v Speaker 2>Over there for a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I still feel kind of exhausted, but I

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<v Speaker 1>cannot wait to do it again. I'm not really a

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<v Speaker 1>drug addict, and I really don't have like an addictive

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<v Speaker 1>personality and shit like I like the anticipation to doing

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<v Speaker 1>the things, like it's like a treat, Like, yeah, man,

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<v Speaker 1>on Friday, I'm gonna do such and such on.

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<v Speaker 2>Friday, I'm gonna do drugs. Sounds like a drug addict. Three,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know you, guys, I got up.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a drug addict. If I can like paste

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<v Speaker 1>myself a step.

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<v Speaker 2>Acknowledgment whatever. Listen, all right, So what did I do

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<v Speaker 2>this weekend? I'm still doing that seventy five hords, So

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<v Speaker 2>I just working out. Sometimes I get tired of working out.

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<v Speaker 2>I ain't gonna lie, but it is what it is.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm on day thirty seven, y'all. Hype me up, Hype

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<v Speaker 2>me up. I hyped me up. I love that song

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<v Speaker 2>Informations Flip of Tea. But anyway, I tried to go

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<v Speaker 2>to the lake, but it was so nasty out. The

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<v Speaker 2>weather was so bad and it was probably some snakes

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<v Speaker 2>out there, so I just did my outdoor walk in

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<v Speaker 2>the plaza of a shopping center, just walking up and

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<v Speaker 2>down the plaza because it was just too gross outside.

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<v Speaker 2>My weekend was uneventful. It's like, that's all I got

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<v Speaker 2>to tell y'all. I walked a grocery store plaza.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the old white ladies shit. You don't want people

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<v Speaker 1>be up early in the morning walking the circumference of

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<v Speaker 1>the mall or like inside the mall.

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<v Speaker 2>Mall walkers of America. Yeah, that was it was me.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all. I can't. I have nothing else spicy or

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<v Speaker 2>juicy to tell y'all. Mother's Day, I chill with my mom.

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<v Speaker 2>We was gonna go pick strawberries, but the weather so yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that was it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we have strawberry We have strawberry vines here in Charleston.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah right, the street cattle farm. Shout out to Coddle,

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<v Speaker 2>let's get in the sea.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah okay. So y'all know this graduation season and uh,

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<v Speaker 1>social media has given Tony Braxton like a little backlash,

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<v Speaker 1>right because of her chosen apparel for her son's graduation

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<v Speaker 1>from Howard University. She had on like like a black

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<v Speaker 1>lace number, like some panty type thing, and the skirt

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<v Speaker 1>was like all lace see through and she had on

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<v Speaker 1>like a little fascinator type hat with like the lace

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<v Speaker 1>in the front, so you would think she would have

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<v Speaker 1>been going to like a stripper funeral. I'm not sure

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<v Speaker 1>that's what it looked like as opposed to her son's graduation,

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<v Speaker 1>but the is like, come on, Tony, and.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, exactly, she's total motherfucking Braxton. Please don't play

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<v Speaker 2>with her. But however, a comma you could have at

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<v Speaker 2>least covered jazz up Tony. She had on draws with

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<v Speaker 2>a lace slip over the top of it. Yes, that

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<v Speaker 2>was a lot, but she Tony.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, then it's supposed to be about your son,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. Like you are Tony Braxton.

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<v Speaker 1>His mom is the Tony Braxton, right, so let him

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<v Speaker 1>have his moment with his robe on.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm pretty sure a lot of people was paying

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<v Speaker 1>attention to Tony Braxton and y'all, so people like, ah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's damn near sixty year woman. So Tony Braxton is

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<v Speaker 1>fifty seven, she's she's she's a libra. So it could

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<v Speaker 1>balance on either fuck the side of hole and wholesome.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's what you get.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's healthy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yeah, what y'all saying righteous and ratchet, like we

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<v Speaker 1>need both, you know, important renaissance When like Bernice Burgo's

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<v Speaker 1>daughter just got married and Bernice had on because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Bernice has been known the upstage a bitch for her

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<v Speaker 1>special day, you know, but she did not do that

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<v Speaker 1>to her daughter.

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<v Speaker 2>She had on this blue number that didn't show any

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<v Speaker 2>body part whatsoever, and it was very flowing.

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<v Speaker 1>It was cultural attire, I believe they. I don't know Bernice.

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<v Speaker 1>She looks a little I don't know, like Somalian or

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<v Speaker 1>Ethiopian or maybe Indian. It was like more like an

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<v Speaker 1>Indian kind of Arabian attire kind of number like the gowns,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, going.

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<v Speaker 2>To Dubai Aladdin.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Like I mean she looked like Jasmine.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she could have been easily been Jasmine. Jasmine had

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<v Speaker 2>at least her waistline out, Like I feel like you

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<v Speaker 2>could have word that. It still made it sexy if

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<v Speaker 2>you wanted to, but she did not. She looked very

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<v Speaker 2>humble and still beautiful, but very humble. I pay. I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like that's what maybe Tony could have did for

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<v Speaker 2>the graduation.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she could have had on white instead of black, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>where are you going? Did she have a funeral to

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<v Speaker 1>go to afterwards? I hope my even like right, because

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<v Speaker 1>she's on the sheer bottom. So he going out at

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<v Speaker 1>the funeral looking like that anyway?

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, So, Tory Lanez was stabbed fourteen times, including seven

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<v Speaker 2>wounds to his back, fourth to his torso, two to

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<v Speaker 2>the back of his head, and one to the left

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<v Speaker 2>side of his face. Both of his lungs collapsed and

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<v Speaker 2>he was placed on a breathing apparatus. He is now

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<v Speaker 2>breathing on his own. Despite being in pain, he is

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<v Speaker 2>talking normally, in good spirits and deeply thankful to God

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<v Speaker 2>that he's pulling through. He also wants to thank everyone

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<v Speaker 2>for the continued prayers and support. Damn.

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<v Speaker 1>That was from the real reporter, Lauren Larrossa right her

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<v Speaker 1>social media brown girl grind grinding. Yeah, that's nuts. He

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<v Speaker 1>had to have been laying down or something.

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<v Speaker 2>Do somebody fail?

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<v Speaker 1>That's too many times, you know, like he Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Damn, I don't like that. I hate that for him,

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<v Speaker 2>even if he did shoot it. Uh her, I don't make.

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<v Speaker 1>This sound to get killed, you know, and I mean

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<v Speaker 1>you know, of course the internet is saying like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what you get. Like the time he's gotten ten

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<v Speaker 1>years is probably enough, right, like excessive. Yeah, the thing

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<v Speaker 1>I think that people don't take into consideration on going

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<v Speaker 1>into prison, like you can rack up other charges, just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to survive, just trying to just trying to live.

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<v Speaker 1>And you could be as calm, cool to yourself as

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<v Speaker 1>you want to be, but you are dealing with a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of different personalities. You are dealing with real killers, murderers,

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<v Speaker 1>child molesters, just the craziest of the craziest. And he's

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<v Speaker 1>in California prison. I looked it up. So he's in

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<v Speaker 1>a California state prison. And you know he's Canadian, so

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<v Speaker 1>people just know him as Tory Lane's a rapper. No,

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<v Speaker 1>he got homeboys in there. Was he associated with any

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<v Speaker 1>gangs or anything?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not sure. I don't think so ganggang activity, but.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that could be a thing, right that could

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<v Speaker 1>have possibly caused him to get stabbed. We don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's just it's just it's prison.

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<v Speaker 2>So on our we talked back page today. The question

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<v Speaker 2>I went out, would you do five months for your

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<v Speaker 2>boyfriend so he doesn't to prevent him for new in

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<v Speaker 2>five years?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>No, they stabbing motherfuckers in there. You think I'm going there?

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<v Speaker 1>No, Hell, I'm not going to prison.

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<v Speaker 2>What about your husband?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm not going to jail willingly for anybody. Anybody

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<v Speaker 1>who's never been actually arrested will probably be like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I could do it, unless I am forced to do

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<v Speaker 1>that shit based on some shit I did, or they

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<v Speaker 1>just just convicted me. But if I had a choice,

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely fucking not. No, I'd not been in jail before,

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<v Speaker 1>like just a short period of time on some bullshit.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been arrested before, and I do.

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<v Speaker 2>You haven't been, I said before.

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<v Speaker 1>I have, and it was licensed driver.

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<v Speaker 2>No I was, I wasn't twenty, I wasn't. So arrested

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<v Speaker 2>means you have to actually go to jail. Yes, No,

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<v Speaker 2>I've been in handcuffs and placed in the back of

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<v Speaker 2>a squad car.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've been.

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<v Speaker 2>Way I did jail before. I way right out the backseat.

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<v Speaker 1>I tried, and the officer told me to shut the

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<v Speaker 1>fuck up. Things like this happened sometimes, damn, I said, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So I went to my pot and cooked his ass up,

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<v Speaker 1>and guess what, he went to jail a couple months later,

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<v Speaker 1>and my tickets were all thrown out in court. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>damn yeah, because he ended up he had never been

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<v Speaker 1>to jail a day in his life either. While he's

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<v Speaker 1>telling me, shit like this happens, and I said, you

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<v Speaker 1>ever been to jail before? And he said no. I said, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>then shit like this don't just be happening. You're ruining

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<v Speaker 1>my fucking day.

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<v Speaker 2>Were you right? Were you wrong? Did you do something wrong?

0:14:55.800 --> 0:14:58.000
<v Speaker 1>I was driving with a suspended license that I didn't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I had got a ticket at floor and they sent

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<v Speaker 1>the ship to South Carolina, so I had paid the

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<v Speaker 1>I paid the tickets, but I didn't pay to reinstate

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<v Speaker 1>my license, apparently, just not knowing. I was like twenty

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<v Speaker 1>twenty one. Yeah, yeah, and I've had one other brush,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, well, brushing with the law.

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<v Speaker 2>Just the back of the squad car was hard. I

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<v Speaker 2>knew that I could not go.

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<v Speaker 1>I was too big for the back of that ship. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>You fucking need be right on the wall. Girl. They

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<v Speaker 1>put me in the paddy wagon. They had like a

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<v Speaker 1>van come pick me up, not because I'm too big

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<v Speaker 1>for the van, like for the car, not just for transportation.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was like some other people on the other

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<v Speaker 1>side of the it's like a van, right, but it's yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And I could hear like crazy people on the other side. Girl,

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<v Speaker 1>when we got to the county jail. Why was there

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<v Speaker 1>some bitches from Benedict.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey girl, your mother is for stealing books.

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<v Speaker 1>They got to rush for stealing people's books.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm wondering who the crazy people were on the other side.

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<v Speaker 1>And the whole time is some classmates and it works.

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<v Speaker 2>You just trying to get to work and they know

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<v Speaker 2>they were stealing people of books to get the cash back.

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<v Speaker 2>That's from the bookstore.

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<v Speaker 1>That's stealing people books to resell them, is what they

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<v Speaker 1>were doing. Yeah, that's fucked up, girl.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, anyway, Tory Lanez, we hope you heal up.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, jail is enough. You don't have to get

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<v Speaker 2>stabbed up in there. I know, man, I.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I always have. It's a hard you know,

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<v Speaker 1>people online saying he deserves this, he deserves that. It

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<v Speaker 1>is so hard for me to like condemn people. That

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<v Speaker 1>is not for individuals to do. The universe gonna always

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<v Speaker 1>get your ass, you know what I'm saying. It doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>need people to Oh that's that's what he gets. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't know when your time is going to come for

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<v Speaker 1>some ship you should get. You know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>So be mindful when you speaking shit over other people life.

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<v Speaker 1>It could be your turn one day.

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<v Speaker 2>Yah.

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<v Speaker 1>So. So Marlon Wayne said that he never got married

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<v Speaker 1>because he says, I never got married because I never

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<v Speaker 1>wanted my mother to be jealous of a woman. I

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<v Speaker 1>never wanted my mother to feel second to any woman.

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<v Speaker 1>That is weird and it sounds like an Oedipus complex

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<v Speaker 1>because what he's amished. Don't they have a dad?

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<v Speaker 2>They?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, the dad passed away? No, his mother passed away,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on it says. He also told The New York

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<v Speaker 1>Times that his mother's death broke and shattered him into

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<v Speaker 1>a million pieces because she was his girl. Marlon was

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<v Speaker 1>in a long term relationship with Angela Zachary from nineteen

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<v Speaker 1>ninety two to twenty thirteen, and together they have two children.

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<v Speaker 1>His mother, Elvira Waynes, passed away at the age of

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<v Speaker 1>eighty one and twenty twenty. So he never married anybody

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<v Speaker 1>because his mom was his old lady. That's weird. She

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<v Speaker 1>got enough sons, right, She's a lot of yr niggas.

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<v Speaker 2>All right. That's a weird reason. That's excuse.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he full of ship.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah this sounds ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you don't got a woman that had her waiting

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<v Speaker 1>around for how many years, gave her two kids, but

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<v Speaker 1>would never commit to her.

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<v Speaker 2>And now you want your mama to be jealous? Boy,

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<v Speaker 2>go to hell.

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<v Speaker 1>And and this is exactly why I like niggas were mamas,

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<v Speaker 1>because this is what he said. I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>be that mama, because I'm gonna be happily married.

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<v Speaker 2>You probably was like, now see he on their line

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<v Speaker 2>from the grave, right, she can't even defend that bush. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>they're lying. Don't put that ship on me. They didn't

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<v Speaker 2>have nothing to do with me. They had to do

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<v Speaker 2>with your unwillingness to commit, not me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's some bullshit. I had a conversation with a

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<v Speaker 1>good friend of mine recently and I was like, damn man,

0:18:58.080 --> 0:19:01.879
<v Speaker 1>people really taking taking panhand handling to the next level.

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<v Speaker 1>So we want to talk about social media panhandling.

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<v Speaker 2>What is it they talk about.

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<v Speaker 1>Niggas begging for money online? Maybe somebody you know or strangers.

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<v Speaker 1>Has it ever happened to you?

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<v Speaker 2>I want to learn how to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, let's talk about it when we come back after

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<v Speaker 1>this break So a friend of ours sent me some

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<v Speaker 1>screenshows yesterday of some of our old classmates basically asking

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<v Speaker 1>him for money on social media. Now I've heard of

0:19:36.960 --> 0:19:39.760
<v Speaker 1>this happening. I know I've always been mean, you know

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<v Speaker 1>back then. Now people just never played with me for real,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I just know they probably look at me like, damn,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't ask her. She's gonna tell people type shit.

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<v Speaker 1>You better make sure the person you asking ain't gonna

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<v Speaker 1>tell me either, because I'm a still tell people. So

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<v Speaker 1>he sent me like screenshots with three different niggas like

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<v Speaker 1>and you would think that these people be popping, right.

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<v Speaker 1>So I know there are instances where people hack people's

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<v Speaker 1>Facebook pages and stuff like that, because it happened recently.

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<v Speaker 1>I sent my niece twenty five dollars last week because

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<v Speaker 1>my little cousin was messaging her from jail on Facebook

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<v Speaker 1>saying he needed a couple of dollars right, So I

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<v Speaker 1>sent her to twenty five dollars to them send him.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, that shit don't sound right. So we

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<v Speaker 1>hit up his sister and she was she was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a fake page, like somebody basically hijacked this shit.

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<v Speaker 1>But they had the like they were talking to my niece, like, yeah, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I go to court such and such date like with

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<v Speaker 1>them or these these people in other countries, they study

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<v Speaker 1>your page so they know like how to talk to

0:20:49.600 --> 0:20:55.159
<v Speaker 1>your people. It's fucking weird. Yeah, so asking questions that

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<v Speaker 1>don't make no sense, right, So we do have the

0:21:00.280 --> 0:21:06.639
<v Speaker 1>scamming type of panhandling, right from people maybe hijacking somebody

0:21:06.680 --> 0:21:09.360
<v Speaker 1>else's page. But then there are instances where they these

0:21:09.400 --> 0:21:12.720
<v Speaker 1>people are actually people you know that might be hitting

0:21:12.800 --> 0:21:16.639
<v Speaker 1>you up randomly. You haven't seen her spoken to, never

0:21:16.800 --> 0:21:17.440
<v Speaker 1>was even friends with.

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<v Speaker 2>I've had that hack for quite a bit here, and

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes I send it. Sometimes I send the money, especially

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<v Speaker 2>if it's like asking me for forty dollars forty five dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>What you're gonna do with that? You can't do shit.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't even feel Can you fill up a tank

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<v Speaker 2>with twenty five forty dollars?

0:21:36.200 --> 0:21:38.399
<v Speaker 1>You can't even buy a crack with forty dollars no more.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure if it's some drug addict type shit,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you doing with that money? You can't do nothing,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess if they send it to you and then

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<v Speaker 1>they send it to about five other people shit, yeah,

0:21:47.600 --> 0:21:50.440
<v Speaker 1>they add up. Yeah, because people who like panhandle on

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<v Speaker 1>the streets. I don't seen them pull out of water

0:21:52.760 --> 0:21:56.080
<v Speaker 1>money because that's literally their job. It is a job,

0:21:56.200 --> 0:21:58.000
<v Speaker 1>having to ask people for money all day long and

0:21:58.119 --> 0:22:00.600
<v Speaker 1>stand in the sun. You know what I'm saying, looking

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<v Speaker 1>the way they're looking.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know what, that's crazy. Because when we were

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<v Speaker 2>in Atlanta, we were leaving our hotel, he was waiting

0:22:06.119 --> 0:22:07.720
<v Speaker 2>on valet to bring the car up to the front.

0:22:07.960 --> 0:22:10.520
<v Speaker 2>You had one to the other side, and this black

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<v Speaker 2>man was out there barefoot and with a blanket wrapped

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<v Speaker 2>around him, and it was early and I gave him.

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<v Speaker 2>I had two ones in my purse and I gave

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<v Speaker 2>him the two ones. He said, thank you, ma'am. This

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<v Speaker 2>is the first money I made all day. And I

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<v Speaker 2>was thinking, made motherfucker. I value you that you didn't

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<v Speaker 2>make that.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't make it. It is a job to beg

0:22:35.640 --> 0:22:38.960
<v Speaker 1>people for money. That is. Panhandling is a job in Chicago,

0:22:39.480 --> 0:22:41.800
<v Speaker 1>don't you know. They make them have a license to panhandle,

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<v Speaker 1>so the government want they cut up here. You are here,

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<v Speaker 1>if you out here asking people for money, the government

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<v Speaker 1>make you get a fucking They got to carry like

0:22:49.760 --> 0:22:53.680
<v Speaker 1>the little lantern on their neck for panhandling. Shit is

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<v Speaker 1>fucking nuts.

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<v Speaker 2>Government cut.

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<v Speaker 1>So I've never had anybody mess me. I remember you

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<v Speaker 1>told me one time this girl messaged her ass on

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<v Speaker 1>Facebook for somebody she did.

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<v Speaker 2>She messaged me for eighty dollars and I sent it

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<v Speaker 2>to her. I sent it to her, and then I

0:23:12.080 --> 0:23:15.320
<v Speaker 2>ran it to her at the nail shop getting uh,

0:23:16.080 --> 0:23:18.800
<v Speaker 2>fucking diamonds all over her motherfucking nail, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Offfin shape.

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<v Speaker 2>You need to be getting at ain't it? Ain't it?

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<v Speaker 2>Or not even a well fucking with my eighty dollars.

0:23:28.680 --> 0:23:31.680
<v Speaker 1>I've seen this post this weekend or justin the boy page.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like it's something about a nigga buying his

0:23:34.320 --> 0:23:37.280
<v Speaker 1>mama a Mother's Day gift. When he owed me money, right,

0:23:37.440 --> 0:23:40.879
<v Speaker 1>buy his mama flowers? You got some nerves, right, where's

0:23:40.920 --> 0:23:41.320
<v Speaker 1>my money?

0:23:41.680 --> 0:23:41.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>You got my money? Remember that on the family Guy?

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<v Speaker 1>You got my money. I don't like all the people money, No,

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely not. And you know I'll never understand how homegirls.

0:23:55.200 --> 0:23:58.240
<v Speaker 1>I have some friends who well I don't really won't

0:23:58.320 --> 0:24:00.680
<v Speaker 1>even call these people friends actually, because I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>my actual friends have ever asked me for money. If

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<v Speaker 1>I sense. You need something, you're gonna have it anyway.

0:24:06.680 --> 0:24:10.240
<v Speaker 1>But I've had bitches asked me for money. I'm like, girl,

0:24:10.400 --> 0:24:12.600
<v Speaker 1>you just just telling me about this dude you're fucking on, Like,

0:24:13.680 --> 0:24:14.879
<v Speaker 1>why are you ask him? First?

0:24:15.600 --> 0:24:18.600
<v Speaker 2>I had a friend that I loved dearly and sometimes

0:24:18.680 --> 0:24:23.280
<v Speaker 2>I still miss her. But we fell out about money

0:24:23.560 --> 0:24:27.560
<v Speaker 2>because all right, she said she didn't have money, and

0:24:27.720 --> 0:24:30.040
<v Speaker 2>I was like, okay, I got you because if I

0:24:30.119 --> 0:24:33.680
<v Speaker 2>got it, I got you, right, because that's what friends do.

0:24:34.320 --> 0:24:38.560
<v Speaker 2>Mm hm. But it got it got excessive, you know,

0:24:38.680 --> 0:24:43.879
<v Speaker 2>it got excessive, and she got this nigga over and

0:24:44.040 --> 0:24:48.120
<v Speaker 2>she asked me, could I buy her some weed? Yeah,

0:24:48.160 --> 0:24:49.760
<v Speaker 2>she was tripp and it's a nigga sitting right in

0:24:49.800 --> 0:24:52.760
<v Speaker 2>the living room ready to smoke. No, I asked that

0:24:53.240 --> 0:24:55.560
<v Speaker 2>to get the long weed. I'm not buying you no drugs.

0:24:56.160 --> 0:24:59.160
<v Speaker 2>I bought your food. I bought you, I did your hair,

0:24:59.640 --> 0:25:01.679
<v Speaker 2>I bought do something the word to the club and.

0:25:01.720 --> 0:25:03.840
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna suck his dick. You anybody give me no head?

0:25:04.960 --> 0:25:09.760
<v Speaker 2>Right? But right? And you asked him and I was like,

0:25:10.040 --> 0:25:13.399
<v Speaker 2>ask him, No, it wasn't even the weed I had

0:25:13.440 --> 0:25:16.359
<v Speaker 2>already bought that. She was like, can you buy a cigar.

0:25:17.720 --> 0:25:20.119
<v Speaker 1>Damn. So you just applying everybody everything and.

0:25:20.160 --> 0:25:21.640
<v Speaker 2>He's sitting in the living room. I was like, ask

0:25:21.720 --> 0:25:23.840
<v Speaker 2>him to go get one. She's like, I don't want

0:25:23.880 --> 0:25:25.560
<v Speaker 2>to ask him for that. I don't want to ask them.

0:25:25.960 --> 0:25:27.399
<v Speaker 2>So I came to the living room. I was like, oh,

0:25:27.480 --> 0:25:28.920
<v Speaker 2>can you go? Can you go to the store and

0:25:29.000 --> 0:25:31.800
<v Speaker 2>get a cigar? He was like, yeah, no problem, And

0:25:31.840 --> 0:25:33.239
<v Speaker 2>then she got mad at me and put me out

0:25:33.240 --> 0:25:33.880
<v Speaker 2>of her house.

0:25:36.520 --> 0:25:38.000
<v Speaker 1>For asking him to do his job.

0:25:39.160 --> 0:25:39.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:25:39.359 --> 0:25:42.040
<v Speaker 1>See, women, women be taking men's jobs away. Like, at

0:25:42.080 --> 0:25:45.080
<v Speaker 1>what point, why are you why? Why do women feel

0:25:45.119 --> 0:25:48.840
<v Speaker 1>ashamed of asking men for anything? Because men, baby, they

0:25:48.880 --> 0:25:50.800
<v Speaker 1>don't mind asking you for everything. Out of the sign

0:25:50.920 --> 0:25:54.280
<v Speaker 1>cooochie mouth air, they want all that shit. So if

0:25:54.320 --> 0:25:58.840
<v Speaker 1>they don't mind asking you for anything, what's the problem. Yeah,

0:25:58.920 --> 0:26:01.480
<v Speaker 1>So I want to read one of these messages, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because this is an example of how they're gonna ask

0:26:04.320 --> 0:26:06.480
<v Speaker 1>you for money. Could and I believe this is the

0:26:06.640 --> 0:26:09.680
<v Speaker 1>actual person because of the way he's speaking, right, because

0:26:09.680 --> 0:26:12.000
<v Speaker 1>in Charleston we'd be like my guy, right. So the

0:26:12.080 --> 0:26:16.880
<v Speaker 1>message starts off as suck my guy, and my friend

0:26:16.960 --> 0:26:21.040
<v Speaker 1>responds back, we're going on. He said, Hey, a, my dog,

0:26:22.200 --> 0:26:27.040
<v Speaker 1>I in New Orleans. Fuck up, I need some gas money, man,

0:26:27.200 --> 0:26:31.280
<v Speaker 1>low ten fifteen if you can, I call him all

0:26:31.400 --> 0:26:34.959
<v Speaker 1>type of people man. And so he my friend responds

0:26:35.000 --> 0:26:38.200
<v Speaker 1>back and says, I'm in Charlotte at the strip club

0:26:38.480 --> 0:26:41.800
<v Speaker 1>throwing money on the floor. How I'm supposed to do that?

0:26:42.320 --> 0:26:46.399
<v Speaker 1>And do responding back, you got cash app? This nigga

0:26:46.560 --> 0:26:49.520
<v Speaker 1>responds back to him and say, yeah, bro, how the

0:26:49.680 --> 0:26:52.320
<v Speaker 1>hell you get all the way to New Orleans from Charleston?

0:26:52.440 --> 0:26:52.920
<v Speaker 1>Fuck up.

0:26:57.200 --> 0:26:57.560
<v Speaker 2>That, y'all?

0:26:57.640 --> 0:27:00.440
<v Speaker 1>Right, that shitdn't like to fucking die. He said, I

0:27:00.560 --> 0:27:03.600
<v Speaker 1>live here, bubba, I can't get my check toe after two. Man,

0:27:03.800 --> 0:27:06.600
<v Speaker 1>just a little situation. And he was like, I, what's

0:27:06.680 --> 0:27:12.000
<v Speaker 1>the phone number so I can send? Just send the

0:27:12.080 --> 0:27:16.080
<v Speaker 1>cash app name. Yeah, So he just the cash up. Yeah,

0:27:16.119 --> 0:27:17.520
<v Speaker 1>So he did send him a couple of dollars.

0:27:17.680 --> 0:27:18.280
<v Speaker 2>That was nice.

0:27:18.880 --> 0:27:20.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, I guess it's Look, this is not

0:27:20.800 --> 0:27:22.679
<v Speaker 1>for motherfucker to be hitting me up. But if somebody

0:27:22.800 --> 0:27:24.760
<v Speaker 1>were to and I could verify it's actually them and

0:27:24.840 --> 0:27:26.159
<v Speaker 1>I can spare it, I'm gonna give it to you.

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<v Speaker 2>So first of all, all right, this is how we're

0:27:28.760 --> 0:27:31.960
<v Speaker 2>gonna bag for money, y'all, you say two nice things

0:27:32.040 --> 0:27:35.200
<v Speaker 2>to them first before you ask. Because he said my

0:27:35.400 --> 0:27:40.040
<v Speaker 2>guy and what else he called him bruh, big bro. No,

0:27:40.240 --> 0:27:43.560
<v Speaker 2>it was too nice. No, it was two nice of

0:27:43.640 --> 0:27:44.399
<v Speaker 2>these in the beginning.

0:27:45.440 --> 0:27:49.840
<v Speaker 1>Let me see, hold on, let me get back to it.

0:27:49.960 --> 0:27:51.920
<v Speaker 2>So I would be like, because I'm gonna ask a

0:27:51.960 --> 0:27:52.760
<v Speaker 2>nigga for some money.

0:27:53.080 --> 0:27:55.439
<v Speaker 1>No, he said, ain't my dog? I New Orleans.

0:27:55.520 --> 0:27:58.760
<v Speaker 2>Fuck up, ain't my dog?

0:27:58.840 --> 0:28:02.320
<v Speaker 1>It was one more that's it something my guy, my

0:28:02.560 --> 0:28:05.440
<v Speaker 1>guys and my dog and my dog.

0:28:05.720 --> 0:28:10.800
<v Speaker 2>Okay, No, I had some bullshit, So set up and

0:28:10.920 --> 0:28:12.920
<v Speaker 2>set it up right, y'all, say two nice things.

0:28:14.520 --> 0:28:17.680
<v Speaker 1>And the person who asked for this money. When I

0:28:17.760 --> 0:28:20.040
<v Speaker 1>tell y'all, when I was in middle school, I loved

0:28:20.640 --> 0:28:22.359
<v Speaker 1>this nigga. We used to be in this after school

0:28:22.440 --> 0:28:24.960
<v Speaker 1>programming like uh like tutors.

0:28:24.640 --> 0:28:26.600
<v Speaker 2>When his mom was taking care of him, making sure

0:28:26.640 --> 0:28:26.840
<v Speaker 2>he was.

0:28:27.359 --> 0:28:29.520
<v Speaker 1>He was always so cute and little and black like

0:28:29.600 --> 0:28:32.600
<v Speaker 1>I loved him. And then he just he had women

0:28:32.840 --> 0:28:38.480
<v Speaker 1>relationships really like you know, they shape your future. So

0:28:38.560 --> 0:28:42.840
<v Speaker 1>the girl he had kids by super hood rat. You

0:28:42.920 --> 0:28:45.959
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, It is crazy like that might

0:28:46.000 --> 0:28:48.000
<v Speaker 1>have been that girl went to jail for some ship

0:28:48.120 --> 0:28:49.720
<v Speaker 1>like she was in federal prison at some point. I

0:28:49.800 --> 0:28:54.040
<v Speaker 1>feel like that shaped his future, damn. And I remember

0:28:54.160 --> 0:28:56.360
<v Speaker 1>talking to him and he told me how she basically

0:28:56.480 --> 0:28:58.880
<v Speaker 1>like debowed him into a relationship before they even had

0:28:58.960 --> 0:29:05.760
<v Speaker 1>kids because she was bigger than them. Some rescu shit like,

0:29:05.800 --> 0:29:08.360
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna be with me and we're gonna have kids. Nigga,

0:29:08.520 --> 0:29:10.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go to the Feds and you go take

0:29:10.160 --> 0:29:11.680
<v Speaker 1>care and while I'm in there, and then I'm gonna

0:29:11.680 --> 0:29:11.959
<v Speaker 1>come back.

0:29:12.000 --> 0:29:13.320
<v Speaker 2>You tell all these people.

0:29:17.000 --> 0:29:20.760
<v Speaker 1>My bad job. Don't try to fight me. But anyway, y'all,

0:29:20.840 --> 0:29:23.560
<v Speaker 1>there are legal ways to panhandle out here. You do

0:29:23.680 --> 0:29:26.680
<v Speaker 1>not have to message strangers or even people you know

0:29:27.080 --> 0:29:31.880
<v Speaker 1>and risk the chance of being exposed. You know, because

0:29:31.920 --> 0:29:34.480
<v Speaker 1>now here I am talking about your ass. O.

0:29:34.800 --> 0:29:36.680
<v Speaker 2>Before you tell the legal ays, can I tell you

0:29:36.800 --> 0:29:39.560
<v Speaker 2>something I do and I want you all to participate

0:29:40.040 --> 0:29:43.040
<v Speaker 2>in and support of me. This year, I post my

0:29:43.120 --> 0:29:45.120
<v Speaker 2>cash up on my birthday. It's so tacky, but I

0:29:45.320 --> 0:29:45.560
<v Speaker 2>do it.

0:29:47.320 --> 0:29:49.040
<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's nice to get like, you know, a

0:29:49.080 --> 0:29:51.000
<v Speaker 1>little show me, show me, you let.

0:29:50.960 --> 0:29:53.320
<v Speaker 2>Me a little bit, lend me forty dollars for my

0:29:53.480 --> 0:29:57.480
<v Speaker 2>fortieth and if everybody do it, I got twenty three

0:29:57.600 --> 0:30:01.320
<v Speaker 2>thousand followers. If everybody sit before forty dollars, I'll be up.

0:30:01.720 --> 0:30:03.160
<v Speaker 2>But John don't want to participate.

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<v Speaker 1>Bitch, is just your birthday. You ain't selling nothing. You

0:30:05.800 --> 0:30:08.480
<v Speaker 1>ain't selling no T shirts, no, nothing like just your

0:30:08.520 --> 0:30:12.760
<v Speaker 1>birth and joy. Girl by it is not enough, not

0:30:13.000 --> 0:30:15.800
<v Speaker 1>enough joy. Your joy costs too much. Got a hot

0:30:15.920 --> 0:30:18.560
<v Speaker 1>five dollars for you? You might get five dollars out

0:30:18.560 --> 0:30:19.760
<v Speaker 1>of twenty three thousand people.

0:30:20.200 --> 0:30:21.360
<v Speaker 2>I take that too shit?

0:30:21.960 --> 0:30:26.240
<v Speaker 1>Right, me too shit? So this is on I can

0:30:26.320 --> 0:30:31.320
<v Speaker 1>help dot net. It says understanding panhandling in the digital age,

0:30:31.360 --> 0:30:33.120
<v Speaker 1>because that's where we are, Like, you really don't have

0:30:33.160 --> 0:30:35.680
<v Speaker 1>to stand on the streets no more. And here at

0:30:35.720 --> 0:30:39.040
<v Speaker 1>the mall in Charleston, this isn't really panhandling, but it's

0:30:39.080 --> 0:30:41.760
<v Speaker 1>like borderline. So these kids they make like the roses

0:30:41.800 --> 0:30:45.320
<v Speaker 1>here in Charleston, out of the out of the soft grass,

0:30:45.400 --> 0:30:47.720
<v Speaker 1>Jesus Christ, I of like the little They call it meta.

0:30:47.840 --> 0:30:51.560
<v Speaker 1>I can't remember the actual name of the grass, the

0:30:51.600 --> 0:30:55.040
<v Speaker 1>sweet grass. Basically, they make roses. And it's like you

0:30:55.160 --> 0:30:57.719
<v Speaker 1>can't go in the mall without buying rolls from these niggas.

0:30:57.720 --> 0:31:00.120
<v Speaker 1>They are there every day and I would prefer I

0:31:00.400 --> 0:31:02.720
<v Speaker 1>prefer them to be doing this as opposed to robbin

0:31:03.280 --> 0:31:05.760
<v Speaker 1>and getting into trouble. So I try to give them

0:31:05.760 --> 0:31:07.440
<v Speaker 1>money every time, but I don't always have cash.

0:31:07.600 --> 0:31:08.320
<v Speaker 2>How much do it?

0:31:08.960 --> 0:31:11.840
<v Speaker 1>It's like five dollars and it usually asks for donation, right,

0:31:11.920 --> 0:31:14.200
<v Speaker 1>but they want they want some money for the roads,

0:31:14.200 --> 0:31:16.200
<v Speaker 1>because they do you know, they go pick the grass

0:31:16.240 --> 0:31:19.840
<v Speaker 1>and they make the rolls make it. Yeah, but I

0:31:20.000 --> 0:31:21.600
<v Speaker 1>not had enough of them shit and they just dry

0:31:21.680 --> 0:31:23.320
<v Speaker 1>out in the car. But I don't want to have

0:31:23.400 --> 0:31:25.400
<v Speaker 1>to pay y'all five dollars every time and go in

0:31:25.480 --> 0:31:25.840
<v Speaker 1>the mall.

0:31:26.320 --> 0:31:26.760
<v Speaker 2>Well you don't.

0:31:26.800 --> 0:31:29.120
<v Speaker 1>You can say no, I do be saying, though, I'll

0:31:29.120 --> 0:31:31.920
<v Speaker 1>say I don't have cash and guess what you got cash? Up?

0:31:32.920 --> 0:31:34.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't got cash, app I don't. I've been stop

0:31:35.080 --> 0:31:38.080
<v Speaker 1>using cash ap years ago, So yeah, I'm not and

0:31:38.160 --> 0:31:40.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm just not. If I don't have the cash on me,

0:31:40.840 --> 0:31:43.880
<v Speaker 1>you can't panhandle me. And another thing I do when

0:31:43.920 --> 0:31:46.880
<v Speaker 1>somebody's walking up asking for money, I immediately ask them

0:31:46.920 --> 0:31:48.480
<v Speaker 1>first because you kind of already know they come and

0:31:48.720 --> 0:31:52.240
<v Speaker 1>that especially can't I get a dollar real fast, Atlanta?

0:31:52.280 --> 0:31:54.520
<v Speaker 2>I do that. I definitely ax him for it because

0:31:54.560 --> 0:31:58.120
<v Speaker 2>it used to get outrageous there, it's just too much. No,

0:31:58.320 --> 0:32:00.320
<v Speaker 2>I ran out of give it free money this week?

0:32:05.080 --> 0:32:10.200
<v Speaker 1>Really, So what is panhandling? Panhandling traditionally involves individuals, often

0:32:10.280 --> 0:32:13.320
<v Speaker 1>homeless or in financial distress, asking for money in public

0:32:13.360 --> 0:32:17.520
<v Speaker 1>places like streets. In recent years, however, panhandling has shifted

0:32:17.560 --> 0:32:22.960
<v Speaker 1>into the digital realm through platforms like gofund me, Instagram, PayPal,

0:32:23.280 --> 0:32:28.040
<v Speaker 1>TikTok Live. On these platforms, viewers can give gifts to influencers,

0:32:28.440 --> 0:32:31.760
<v Speaker 1>which can be converted into real money. This online form

0:32:31.840 --> 0:32:36.360
<v Speaker 1>of panhandling, often rooted in necessity, also includes requests to

0:32:36.440 --> 0:32:40.680
<v Speaker 1>cover significant expenses like medical bills and funerals. Yet, because

0:32:40.680 --> 0:32:42.440
<v Speaker 1>you know a lot of people use GoFundMe.

0:32:42.120 --> 0:32:44.600
<v Speaker 2>I'mbout to say it's fund considering panhandling.

0:32:44.720 --> 0:32:45.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it is.

0:32:45.640 --> 0:32:50.200
<v Speaker 2>It's begging, yes, So yeah, what about apps like Kickstarter

0:32:50.320 --> 0:32:51.360
<v Speaker 2>for entrepreneurs?

0:32:52.320 --> 0:32:55.280
<v Speaker 1>They have that also on the list. So that's all

0:32:55.320 --> 0:32:57.120
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna get into the different types of because that's

0:32:57.160 --> 0:32:59.640
<v Speaker 1>not really panhandling. But it is like you have some

0:33:00.040 --> 0:33:03.440
<v Speaker 1>people who are philanthropists and they might have some extra money.

0:33:03.800 --> 0:33:05.680
<v Speaker 1>You know, they can sign up for these sites. You

0:33:05.720 --> 0:33:07.959
<v Speaker 1>can go on in beg and if you're if your

0:33:08.120 --> 0:33:10.880
<v Speaker 1>beg is good enough, they might fund whatever it is

0:33:10.920 --> 0:33:15.440
<v Speaker 1>you're trying to do. Exactly. It's one I called fund

0:33:15.520 --> 0:33:18.320
<v Speaker 1>my travel, So if you want a trip, you can

0:33:18.400 --> 0:33:20.680
<v Speaker 1>get people to fund your trip.

0:33:20.840 --> 0:33:25.520
<v Speaker 2>Oh, I'm getting on there until life, I knew.

0:33:25.480 --> 0:33:30.080
<v Speaker 1>You would find that one interesting. Yes, it says, Yet

0:33:30.160 --> 0:33:34.160
<v Speaker 1>it can extend to funding for non essential items such

0:33:34.200 --> 0:33:40.840
<v Speaker 1>as luxury electronics. While digital platforms offer panhandlers access to

0:33:40.960 --> 0:33:44.720
<v Speaker 1>a much larger larger audience, they also raise concerns about

0:33:44.760 --> 0:33:48.040
<v Speaker 1>the potential for dishonesty and exploitation, because we already know,

0:33:48.080 --> 0:33:49.520
<v Speaker 1>like the people on the streets, some of them don't

0:33:49.520 --> 0:33:52.680
<v Speaker 1>even be There's videos of bitches like getting out the wheelchair,

0:33:52.720 --> 0:33:54.440
<v Speaker 1>putting a wheelchair in the trunk and hopping on a

0:33:54.560 --> 0:33:59.520
<v Speaker 1>BMW and driving off after panhandling at McDonald's all day.

0:34:00.200 --> 0:34:03.880
<v Speaker 1>So it happens. It's a salary. Especially living in places

0:34:03.920 --> 0:34:06.120
<v Speaker 1>like New York, you got access to all these people

0:34:06.280 --> 0:34:06.960
<v Speaker 1>all day long.

0:34:08.520 --> 0:34:14.000
<v Speaker 2>Like, well, maybe we should do like a experiment and

0:34:14.160 --> 0:34:20.560
<v Speaker 2>I get outside ship and post up in like a

0:34:20.719 --> 0:34:24.239
<v Speaker 2>very popular intersection and see how much money I can

0:34:24.320 --> 0:34:26.319
<v Speaker 2>make it eight hours, y'all?

0:34:26.400 --> 0:34:30.359
<v Speaker 1>Had you got to turn this into an experiment. It's

0:34:30.440 --> 0:34:32.680
<v Speaker 1>not an experiment, you, No.

0:34:32.800 --> 0:34:35.040
<v Speaker 2>We want to see how it works and then we'll

0:34:35.200 --> 0:34:38.080
<v Speaker 2>we'll so we'll you're gonna give the money back?

0:34:39.000 --> 0:34:41.879
<v Speaker 1>How I am I find these people, we can get

0:34:41.880 --> 0:34:43.799
<v Speaker 1>the money back. Once the cameras close, we can we.

0:34:43.840 --> 0:34:46.000
<v Speaker 2>Can donate the money to a homeless shelter.

0:34:48.280 --> 0:34:50.880
<v Speaker 1>Why do you need to see how panhandling works for you?

0:34:50.960 --> 0:34:52.680
<v Speaker 2>I want to see how much people, how much you

0:34:52.719 --> 0:34:55.719
<v Speaker 2>can make, and then like maybe we could make it

0:34:56.000 --> 0:34:57.880
<v Speaker 2>racial and we'll get a white girl to do it

0:34:57.960 --> 0:35:01.839
<v Speaker 2>too the next day to contest and see who make

0:35:01.920 --> 0:35:06.360
<v Speaker 2>the most money. There's gonna be a contest, not a contest,

0:35:06.440 --> 0:35:07.920
<v Speaker 2>but like a social experiment.

0:35:09.800 --> 0:35:13.840
<v Speaker 1>So whitehanders make ye?

0:35:14.080 --> 0:35:17.319
<v Speaker 2>Do white women make? Our people more giving to white

0:35:17.360 --> 0:35:18.319
<v Speaker 2>women than black women?

0:35:19.000 --> 0:35:23.520
<v Speaker 1>Me personally, I don't give I'm sorry, y'all, I'm going

0:35:23.600 --> 0:35:23.920
<v Speaker 1>to say this.

0:35:24.160 --> 0:35:24.320
<v Speaker 2>I do.

0:35:24.480 --> 0:35:28.080
<v Speaker 1>I only give money to black women home, and sometimes

0:35:28.120 --> 0:35:30.279
<v Speaker 1>I might give money to a black man. I just

0:35:30.440 --> 0:35:32.480
<v Speaker 1>feel like white people got like so much privilege, Like

0:35:32.520 --> 0:35:34.920
<v Speaker 1>why are you using your white privilege to get money out?

0:35:35.040 --> 0:35:39.440
<v Speaker 1>Like legitimately, right, even you, a bum on the street,

0:35:39.960 --> 0:35:42.520
<v Speaker 1>would still have a better opportunity at getting this job

0:35:43.120 --> 0:35:46.880
<v Speaker 1>than a black person with a degree get in that position.

0:35:47.200 --> 0:35:50.080
<v Speaker 1>It literally happens. So for you to just be bucking

0:35:50.120 --> 0:35:51.839
<v Speaker 1>the system and begging for my money on the street,

0:35:51.840 --> 0:35:54.479
<v Speaker 1>I really don't respect it, not to get and old people,

0:35:55.160 --> 0:35:57.239
<v Speaker 1>old people and black people. I'm giving them the.

0:35:57.239 --> 0:35:59.920
<v Speaker 2>Money every time. Yeah, no matter what their color they

0:36:00.600 --> 0:36:05.080
<v Speaker 2>yeah yeah, but yeah, like yeah, if you a young

0:36:05.120 --> 0:36:07.839
<v Speaker 2>white man, it's hard to get a dollar out of me. Yeah,

0:36:07.920 --> 0:36:09.080
<v Speaker 2>you got all the advantage.

0:36:09.560 --> 0:36:11.640
<v Speaker 1>And the problem is with that. Also, it makes I

0:36:11.719 --> 0:36:13.279
<v Speaker 1>feel a little bad about it because a lot of

0:36:13.320 --> 0:36:15.960
<v Speaker 1>them are like veterans, and we know they put veterans

0:36:16.000 --> 0:36:18.879
<v Speaker 1>on all these drugs, but there are also a lot

0:36:19.200 --> 0:36:22.200
<v Speaker 1>of program programs yeah, and things that they can take

0:36:22.200 --> 0:36:23.960
<v Speaker 1>advantage of. They don't have to be on the streets.

0:36:24.280 --> 0:36:25.839
<v Speaker 1>But a lot of them they want to do their

0:36:25.880 --> 0:36:28.160
<v Speaker 1>own thing. They don't want to have to answer to anybody.

0:36:28.760 --> 0:36:30.360
<v Speaker 1>So they just really just buck in the system. And

0:36:30.400 --> 0:36:33.239
<v Speaker 1>they think we're supposed to finance it. No, go get

0:36:33.280 --> 0:36:38.080
<v Speaker 1>the help, because there's a lot of programs and you

0:36:38.160 --> 0:36:40.200
<v Speaker 1>know people that that will help you can get money,

0:36:40.280 --> 0:36:43.440
<v Speaker 1>get housing, get food stamps, all the things. They rather

0:36:43.520 --> 0:36:44.479
<v Speaker 1>live in the woods and shit.

0:36:45.000 --> 0:36:46.719
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So.

0:36:48.719 --> 0:36:51.640
<v Speaker 1>So impacts the genuine needs, so challenges for those in

0:36:51.800 --> 0:36:55.919
<v Speaker 1>real need with an increased amount of false information. Those

0:36:56.000 --> 0:36:59.799
<v Speaker 1>who are in actual need slash desperate need of money

0:37:00.160 --> 0:37:04.560
<v Speaker 1>they cannot get from insurance or family face significant challenges.

0:37:04.640 --> 0:37:08.239
<v Speaker 1>Panhandling legally allows them to ask for funds while decreasing

0:37:08.719 --> 0:37:12.680
<v Speaker 1>possible feelings of shame or weakness. It becomes easier to

0:37:12.800 --> 0:37:16.960
<v Speaker 1>ask for help directly with the ability of false pretenses

0:37:17.040 --> 0:37:20.360
<v Speaker 1>and no way to tell them apart. So, okay, I

0:37:20.440 --> 0:37:23.120
<v Speaker 1>go to public's. I swear to god, it's a new

0:37:23.640 --> 0:37:26.359
<v Speaker 1>guy up there with one leg. It was a white

0:37:26.400 --> 0:37:28.120
<v Speaker 1>guy up there with one leg for the longest. Now

0:37:28.160 --> 0:37:30.600
<v Speaker 1>it's a black guy up there with one leg. I'm like,

0:37:30.640 --> 0:37:31.839
<v Speaker 1>are y'all sitting on your leg?

0:37:32.920 --> 0:37:33.920
<v Speaker 2>Right? Is this the scam?

0:37:34.680 --> 0:37:36.680
<v Speaker 1>The white guy, I've seen him on the crutches with

0:37:36.800 --> 0:37:38.320
<v Speaker 1>the one leg, But this dude was up in the

0:37:38.520 --> 0:37:42.360
<v Speaker 1>sitting on a a in a wheelchair.

0:37:43.120 --> 0:37:44.280
<v Speaker 2>And then I also see.

0:37:46.400 --> 0:37:48.239
<v Speaker 1>How I would see it on his butt.

0:37:48.320 --> 0:37:51.319
<v Speaker 2>Then you weren't looking at his butt. You weren't doing

0:37:51.360 --> 0:37:51.680
<v Speaker 2>all that.

0:37:53.480 --> 0:37:55.120
<v Speaker 1>You think the man in the wheelchair was sitting on

0:37:55.200 --> 0:37:56.279
<v Speaker 1>it or the guy is standing up.

0:37:56.960 --> 0:37:58.200
<v Speaker 2>Both of them might have been standing.

0:37:58.400 --> 0:38:01.759
<v Speaker 1>No, the guy sat up. I've definitely seen his butt.

0:38:01.840 --> 0:38:04.040
<v Speaker 1>I've seen his back, not necessarily his butt.

0:38:04.200 --> 0:38:09.440
<v Speaker 2>What kind of freak? Shut up? You go work for.

0:38:14.080 --> 0:38:16.200
<v Speaker 1>So and then you see like families, they have the

0:38:16.320 --> 0:38:17.759
<v Speaker 1>kids out there, and.

0:38:18.320 --> 0:38:20.480
<v Speaker 2>I've seen it. They'll get money out of me every time.

0:38:20.880 --> 0:38:23.480
<v Speaker 1>I feel like they're like Palestinian. I've seen him in

0:38:23.560 --> 0:38:26.960
<v Speaker 1>Charlotte too. They're here in Charleston. They like they look

0:38:27.080 --> 0:38:30.920
<v Speaker 1>kind of yeah, no gypsies. They don't look like gypsies.

0:38:30.920 --> 0:38:34.880
<v Speaker 1>I know what gypsies look like. These people, I'm not sure.

0:38:35.239 --> 0:38:39.360
<v Speaker 1>But they have the kids with them. They're well dressed,

0:38:39.600 --> 0:38:41.360
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. They don't look dirty or

0:38:41.360 --> 0:38:43.880
<v Speaker 1>anything like that. And you know they have a sign

0:38:44.400 --> 0:38:46.439
<v Speaker 1>telling you exactly why they need the money.

0:38:47.120 --> 0:38:47.520
<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm.

0:38:49.120 --> 0:38:51.160
<v Speaker 1>And I find a hard time giving them money too,

0:38:51.680 --> 0:38:54.840
<v Speaker 1>Why because I feel like I'm being finessed, Like I

0:38:54.920 --> 0:38:58.120
<v Speaker 1>feel like, not because they're not dirty, but I just

0:38:58.160 --> 0:39:00.879
<v Speaker 1>feel like there are resources out here that you don't

0:39:00.920 --> 0:39:06.520
<v Speaker 1>have to be doing that. I just don't. I don't

0:39:06.560 --> 0:39:08.640
<v Speaker 1>believe you. And then you're adding the kids for a

0:39:08.719 --> 0:39:10.640
<v Speaker 1>little razzal dazzle. I don't trust you.

0:39:13.320 --> 0:39:14.759
<v Speaker 2>Here to take it.

0:39:15.480 --> 0:39:18.080
<v Speaker 1>And just because somebody looks like they have it regular

0:39:18.160 --> 0:39:20.520
<v Speaker 1>day to day. People who are working don't eat at night,

0:39:20.560 --> 0:39:22.279
<v Speaker 1>you know they are.

0:39:22.480 --> 0:39:25.279
<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to make it Mama's going out to being

0:39:25.360 --> 0:39:26.680
<v Speaker 2>hungry so their kids can.

0:39:27.239 --> 0:39:31.200
<v Speaker 1>Yes. So like you know, hunger doesn't have a look

0:39:31.680 --> 0:39:34.000
<v Speaker 1>to it. So you never know what the next person

0:39:34.160 --> 0:39:37.040
<v Speaker 1>is going through while you just out here panhandling, probably

0:39:37.080 --> 0:39:41.520
<v Speaker 1>taking their last to give it to you. So and

0:39:41.600 --> 0:39:45.640
<v Speaker 1>it says the ethical concerns and exploitation says. However, the

0:39:45.800 --> 0:39:48.440
<v Speaker 1>same the same ease of access also opens the door

0:39:48.480 --> 0:39:52.759
<v Speaker 1>for exploitation, as some panhandlers use platforms like GoFundMe or

0:39:52.840 --> 0:39:56.080
<v Speaker 1>TikTok live to request money for non essential luxuries such

0:39:56.120 --> 0:40:02.040
<v Speaker 1>as gaming consoles or vacations. The autonomy of the Internet

0:40:02.280 --> 0:40:05.839
<v Speaker 1>removes much of the shame or hesitation involved in face

0:40:05.920 --> 0:40:09.960
<v Speaker 1>to face begging, leading an ethical concern leading to ethical

0:40:10.000 --> 0:40:14.840
<v Speaker 1>concerns about transparency and honesty. Without strict legal regulations governing

0:40:14.920 --> 0:40:20.080
<v Speaker 1>online solicitation, it becomes easier for individual individuals to obscure

0:40:20.680 --> 0:40:26.040
<v Speaker 1>their true intentions, manipulating the generosity of donors. So this

0:40:26.200 --> 0:40:29.600
<v Speaker 1>raises concerns and questions of whether there should be a

0:40:29.719 --> 0:40:36.680
<v Speaker 1>better oversight to prevent fraudulent or selfish campaigns. I think

0:40:36.760 --> 0:40:37.680
<v Speaker 1>there should be something.

0:40:38.400 --> 0:40:40.759
<v Speaker 2>Did you see where that one white lady called that

0:40:41.280 --> 0:40:44.239
<v Speaker 2>a black kid a racial slur on the playground and

0:40:44.320 --> 0:40:48.839
<v Speaker 2>they raise saving hundred thousand dollars for that woman girl.

0:40:48.920 --> 0:40:55.280
<v Speaker 1>That should piss me off. Yeah, that really piss me off, because.

0:40:59.080 --> 0:41:03.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, why is that being rewarded? That's so ugly. And

0:41:03.600 --> 0:41:06.359
<v Speaker 2>then but then I heard that black man who yeah,

0:41:06.400 --> 0:41:08.360
<v Speaker 2>that's I was just about to say, that's not just

0:41:08.480 --> 0:41:09.879
<v Speaker 2>they wouldn't allow him to have one.

0:41:10.520 --> 0:41:13.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and we know that white supremacists raised millions of

0:41:14.040 --> 0:41:16.600
<v Speaker 1>dollars for these people who do mass shootings and all

0:41:16.640 --> 0:41:22.560
<v Speaker 1>that shit. So why did GoFundMe apologize to the Minnesota police?

0:41:22.600 --> 0:41:28.400
<v Speaker 1>Basically because they they were allowing money to be raised.

0:41:28.520 --> 0:41:31.319
<v Speaker 1>His name is Hinton Hinting. It was allowed allowing money

0:41:31.360 --> 0:41:34.880
<v Speaker 1>to be raised for him. The son has a separate

0:41:35.040 --> 0:41:37.600
<v Speaker 1>goal funding that they haven't taken down, but they have

0:41:37.840 --> 0:41:42.360
<v Speaker 1>removed the guy who who shot the police officer, I mean,

0:41:42.400 --> 0:41:45.080
<v Speaker 1>who ran the police officer over the father. They took

0:41:45.120 --> 0:41:45.799
<v Speaker 1>his page down.

0:41:46.960 --> 0:41:49.640
<v Speaker 2>Well, I don't agree with what he did, but if

0:41:49.960 --> 0:41:52.000
<v Speaker 2>I just feel like if it's goose, good for the

0:41:52.080 --> 0:41:54.239
<v Speaker 2>Goose is good for the game, the life. If you

0:41:54.320 --> 0:41:56.360
<v Speaker 2>allow one thing, you should allow for everyone.

0:41:56.480 --> 0:42:00.399
<v Speaker 1>Don't absolutely can choose Rodney Hinton Junior, that's his name.

0:42:03.040 --> 0:42:05.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't agree. I understand, but I don't agree,

0:42:06.040 --> 0:42:06.440
<v Speaker 2>you know, And.

0:42:06.480 --> 0:42:08.239
<v Speaker 1>I feel like you should be able to panhandle. If

0:42:08.239 --> 0:42:09.920
<v Speaker 1>they're going to make it illegal, like something you can

0:42:09.960 --> 0:42:12.400
<v Speaker 1>actually do, you should be able to do it. Anybody

0:42:12.400 --> 0:42:14.000
<v Speaker 1>should be able to do it, and anybody should be

0:42:14.000 --> 0:42:16.080
<v Speaker 1>able to support that cause, no matter what it is,

0:42:16.600 --> 0:42:18.560
<v Speaker 1>what y'all are doing is taking away his ability to

0:42:18.640 --> 0:42:21.440
<v Speaker 1>defend himself because I do feel like he was experiencing

0:42:21.520 --> 0:42:25.080
<v Speaker 1>a moment of mental instability, like his son had just

0:42:25.120 --> 0:42:27.400
<v Speaker 1>got killed. The wife said, his son had just got murdered,

0:42:27.440 --> 0:42:30.080
<v Speaker 1>and he's just had seen a video for the first time,

0:42:30.400 --> 0:42:31.960
<v Speaker 1>and he just put the phone down and hopped in

0:42:32.000 --> 0:42:37.160
<v Speaker 1>his fucking truck and he just hit a police officer, well,

0:42:37.200 --> 0:42:39.520
<v Speaker 1>a retired police officer. It wasn't even the person who

0:42:39.640 --> 0:42:40.120
<v Speaker 1>killed his son.

0:42:40.239 --> 0:42:40.400
<v Speaker 2>I know.

0:42:40.520 --> 0:42:46.480
<v Speaker 1>That's the part that really uh yeah, yeah, but I

0:42:46.560 --> 0:42:49.239
<v Speaker 1>don't feel like he should be They should take away

0:42:49.280 --> 0:42:52.640
<v Speaker 1>his ability. He needs a good lawyer. Just imagine the

0:42:52.920 --> 0:42:55.960
<v Speaker 1>imagery I didn't like about that situation is how all

0:42:55.960 --> 0:43:00.200
<v Speaker 1>those officers were in the courtroom and his family, yes,

0:43:00.400 --> 0:43:02.960
<v Speaker 1>hundreds of them, and they wouldn't allow his brother, his

0:43:03.080 --> 0:43:05.480
<v Speaker 1>family like to be in there with him. That is

0:43:05.719 --> 0:43:08.279
<v Speaker 1>definitely intimidation. I can only imagine what they do in

0:43:08.400 --> 0:43:11.359
<v Speaker 1>his food. He needs a good attorney to maybe get

0:43:11.840 --> 0:43:15.239
<v Speaker 1>his case to be done, like in a different venue,

0:43:15.360 --> 0:43:17.520
<v Speaker 1>like in a different state of city, because they going

0:43:17.600 --> 0:43:20.720
<v Speaker 1>to kill him. Yeah, They're going to kill him.

0:43:22.640 --> 0:43:24.160
<v Speaker 2>Because yeah.

0:43:25.520 --> 0:43:28.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So anyway, I want to panhandle for him, like

0:43:28.320 --> 0:43:30.680
<v Speaker 1>I want to give him some money. I did donate

0:43:30.719 --> 0:43:32.919
<v Speaker 1>to the son's go fund me, but I still feel

0:43:32.960 --> 0:43:34.719
<v Speaker 1>like the father needs some help to it. And then

0:43:35.239 --> 0:43:37.600
<v Speaker 1>gofund me can put stipulations on whether or not that

0:43:37.719 --> 0:43:40.719
<v Speaker 1>money can go to you know, like what are they

0:43:40.840 --> 0:43:44.319
<v Speaker 1>doing with the money? Type shit? Yeah anyway, sorry y'all,

0:43:47.440 --> 0:43:49.000
<v Speaker 1>but that's just the world we live in in job.

0:43:50.520 --> 0:43:54.480
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, so platforms were begging If you guys are interested.

0:43:55.800 --> 0:43:57.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, lift them.

0:43:58.520 --> 0:44:03.400
<v Speaker 1>We have begging money dot com. Okay. Begging money is

0:44:03.400 --> 0:44:06.560
<v Speaker 1>a platform where individuals can create personal pages to explain

0:44:06.640 --> 0:44:11.240
<v Speaker 1>their financial needs, and users can directly ask the public

0:44:11.360 --> 0:44:16.439
<v Speaker 1>for financial favors so somebody can straight I've actually used

0:44:16.480 --> 0:44:19.520
<v Speaker 1>begging money dot com before. When I asked the leader

0:44:19.560 --> 0:44:21.880
<v Speaker 1>living with me, I did begging dot com and I

0:44:21.920 --> 0:44:25.080
<v Speaker 1>did GoFundMe. I got nothing from begging dot com and

0:44:25.160 --> 0:44:27.640
<v Speaker 1>I got about two hundred dollars on goalfundme. But a

0:44:27.719 --> 0:44:30.320
<v Speaker 1>bitch can go to Miami, Florida from Memorial Day weekend

0:44:30.360 --> 0:44:32.160
<v Speaker 1>and gets stuck down there because she took her fast

0:44:32.200 --> 0:44:33.759
<v Speaker 1>ass down there with no fucking money, And then she

0:44:33.760 --> 0:44:35.759
<v Speaker 1>could put a post up on TikTok and social media

0:44:35.760 --> 0:44:37.960
<v Speaker 1>and y'all, motherfuckers will donate money to bullshit.

0:44:38.120 --> 0:44:42.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm about to post some bullshit like I'm so serious, y'all.

0:44:42.719 --> 0:44:44.719
<v Speaker 2>I'm about to make up some bullshit. I'm about to

0:44:44.760 --> 0:44:49.440
<v Speaker 2>put a picture of my butt and I'm about to

0:44:49.440 --> 0:44:49.960
<v Speaker 2>get paid.

0:44:52.640 --> 0:44:54.839
<v Speaker 1>And y'all, so leader was an eighty three year old

0:44:54.920 --> 0:44:58.040
<v Speaker 1>elderly woman like I had living with me off the streets.

0:44:58.080 --> 0:45:01.080
<v Speaker 1>I put like this long ass story explaining her her

0:45:01.239 --> 0:45:04.400
<v Speaker 1>life story, all the things, and nobody was like, I

0:45:04.520 --> 0:45:10.880
<v Speaker 1>just stay, Yes, people are nuts, we will we like bullshit, right.

0:45:10.960 --> 0:45:15.040
<v Speaker 2>That's why I'm just gonna post the most like I'm

0:45:15.160 --> 0:45:17.680
<v Speaker 2>just gonna be honest. I need this money because i

0:45:17.719 --> 0:45:20.319
<v Speaker 2>want to go on a trip like some stupid shit

0:45:20.440 --> 0:45:23.000
<v Speaker 2>like that. People donate to that before they donate to

0:45:23.440 --> 0:45:28.799
<v Speaker 2>eighty three year old woman who needs help and that's awful. Yeah.

0:45:30.719 --> 0:45:33.840
<v Speaker 1>The other there's another. It's called indie. Go Go is

0:45:33.840 --> 0:45:37.640
<v Speaker 1>a well known crowdfunding platform tailor to creative entrepreneurs and

0:45:37.680 --> 0:45:41.520
<v Speaker 1>invest in innovators. You can launch a campaign on there

0:45:41.960 --> 0:45:44.680
<v Speaker 1>and have strangers, you know, donate, So I mean this

0:45:44.840 --> 0:45:46.720
<v Speaker 1>is also you could use it for your business.

0:45:47.320 --> 0:45:47.480
<v Speaker 2>You know.

0:45:47.560 --> 0:45:49.680
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't necessarily have to be for like personal shit.

0:45:50.600 --> 0:45:52.640
<v Speaker 1>You can use it to use different sites to actually

0:45:52.719 --> 0:45:58.680
<v Speaker 1>launch businesses businesses. Fundly is another popular one. Fundly dot

0:45:58.719 --> 0:46:02.200
<v Speaker 1>com f U n d L why dot com encourages

0:46:02.280 --> 0:46:05.839
<v Speaker 1>users to share regular updates, express gratitudes. Now you gotta

0:46:05.840 --> 0:46:08.360
<v Speaker 1>be on there saying thank you all day and me

0:46:09.440 --> 0:46:12.600
<v Speaker 1>and you that maintained open communication with the supporters.

0:46:13.600 --> 0:46:18.759
<v Speaker 2>Oh that's a real job, right right, And.

0:46:18.840 --> 0:46:22.440
<v Speaker 1>Like you mentioned, Kickstart, kickstart logit in twenty nineteen has

0:46:22.520 --> 0:46:28.000
<v Speaker 1>become a household name in crowdfunding. So I guess kickstart

0:46:28.040 --> 0:46:31.080
<v Speaker 1>would essentially be the same as like a crowdfunding crowdfunder

0:46:31.160 --> 0:46:37.480
<v Speaker 1>dot com or fundly Patreon. I don't know how to help.

0:46:37.520 --> 0:46:40.319
<v Speaker 1>Patreon could be considered a begging site. I'm actually giving

0:46:40.400 --> 0:46:43.719
<v Speaker 1>you something for your money. I'm giving you content for

0:46:43.840 --> 0:46:46.320
<v Speaker 1>the money. So yeah, they do have Patreon listed.

0:46:47.800 --> 0:46:49.760
<v Speaker 2>Would y'all want us to start a Patreon?

0:46:50.719 --> 0:46:54.120
<v Speaker 1>Let's know, would y'all can we panhandle on there? We're

0:46:54.120 --> 0:46:57.400
<v Speaker 1>gonna start with y'all, y'all donate to start telling like,

0:46:57.520 --> 0:47:00.319
<v Speaker 1>we'll start dropping names for shit that we just keep

0:47:00.360 --> 0:47:07.440
<v Speaker 1>to ourselves on this show. Cyberbag dot com is another one.

0:47:07.520 --> 0:47:10.920
<v Speaker 1>It allows you to ask for financial help online. It's

0:47:11.320 --> 0:47:15.960
<v Speaker 1>as straightforward as it sounds. No longer application or waiting

0:47:16.120 --> 0:47:18.480
<v Speaker 1>approval time. So you might want to you might want

0:47:18.480 --> 0:47:19.239
<v Speaker 1>to try that one.

0:47:20.480 --> 0:47:23.560
<v Speaker 2>Listen, one hundred and sixty thousand black women got laid

0:47:23.600 --> 0:47:26.080
<v Speaker 2>off in April. They lost their jobs in April, one

0:47:26.160 --> 0:47:29.080
<v Speaker 2>hundred and sixty thousand. That was the highest number of

0:47:29.200 --> 0:47:32.160
<v Speaker 2>any demographic. I don't see why we don't all post

0:47:32.560 --> 0:47:34.640
<v Speaker 2>on this shit and just see what happens.

0:47:37.080 --> 0:47:41.239
<v Speaker 1>Mine as well, right, mine as well. I mean, one

0:47:41.320 --> 0:47:43.920
<v Speaker 1>hundred and sixty thousand got laid off. I know a

0:47:43.960 --> 0:47:47.040
<v Speaker 1>lot of people who actually started working, though, so I

0:47:47.120 --> 0:47:49.720
<v Speaker 1>think a lot of those were those government jobs possibly

0:47:50.280 --> 0:47:52.800
<v Speaker 1>where they did have the opportunity. Here's the thing with that.

0:47:54.120 --> 0:47:56.200
<v Speaker 1>If you work in a corporate job, right, and they

0:47:56.239 --> 0:47:59.440
<v Speaker 1>are doing a riff, which is reduction in workforce, right,

0:48:00.120 --> 0:48:03.160
<v Speaker 1>and they say, hey, either you can take this severance

0:48:03.680 --> 0:48:06.520
<v Speaker 1>of this such and such a percentage of your salary

0:48:06.560 --> 0:48:09.120
<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna pay you this lump sum and your

0:48:09.239 --> 0:48:12.560
<v Speaker 1>jobs and you got income. Right that holds you over

0:48:12.640 --> 0:48:15.319
<v Speaker 1>until you find another job. I think most people are

0:48:15.320 --> 0:48:17.560
<v Speaker 1>in corporate settings who already wanted to get the fuck

0:48:17.600 --> 0:48:19.520
<v Speaker 1>away from his job, and now you can get paid

0:48:19.600 --> 0:48:22.200
<v Speaker 1>while you look for another job. They would take it.

0:48:22.680 --> 0:48:24.879
<v Speaker 1>But see what the government that is like the krim

0:48:24.960 --> 0:48:28.359
<v Speaker 1>de la crime of jobs and positions. So you don't

0:48:28.400 --> 0:48:30.439
<v Speaker 1>want to leave it because you're not going to get

0:48:30.840 --> 0:48:33.080
<v Speaker 1>this sweet ass job where you haven't been doing shit

0:48:34.000 --> 0:48:37.239
<v Speaker 1>for ten, fifteen, twenty years and now somebody looking into

0:48:37.280 --> 0:48:40.759
<v Speaker 1>your shit and realizing you haven't been doing anything. One

0:48:40.800 --> 0:48:44.480
<v Speaker 1>of my friends, they actually had them writing like we

0:48:44.560 --> 0:48:46.640
<v Speaker 1>always had to do, like performance reviews on ourselves.

0:48:46.800 --> 0:48:46.920
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:48:47.880 --> 0:48:50.400
<v Speaker 1>They basically made it just right out like what it

0:48:50.520 --> 0:48:52.719
<v Speaker 1>is that they do and why they think that they are,

0:48:53.000 --> 0:48:55.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, needed. Essentially, if somebody were to give me

0:48:55.560 --> 0:48:58.840
<v Speaker 1>an opportunity like that, Like, I'm always an asset, so

0:48:58.880 --> 0:49:00.440
<v Speaker 1>you're about to give me an opportunit. I'm a fuck

0:49:00.480 --> 0:49:02.319
<v Speaker 1>want to be ce Oh after i write up all

0:49:02.360 --> 0:49:04.759
<v Speaker 1>the shit I've been doing, because I'm never taking a

0:49:04.920 --> 0:49:06.760
<v Speaker 1>job anywhere and not do it to the fullest.

0:49:07.640 --> 0:49:10.000
<v Speaker 2>I just think it's crazy that black women lost their

0:49:10.120 --> 0:49:12.640
<v Speaker 2>jobs more. I mean, we weren't the only ones sitting

0:49:12.719 --> 0:49:15.399
<v Speaker 2>in the pie jobs. It was all demographics.

0:49:15.440 --> 0:49:17.560
<v Speaker 1>But no, I'm not saying that all were pie jobs.

0:49:17.600 --> 0:49:18.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying a lot. I think a lot of

0:49:19.040 --> 0:49:22.479
<v Speaker 1>that one sixty was the government shit, yeah for sure.

0:49:22.800 --> 0:49:25.920
<v Speaker 2>But anyway, y'all go ahead, especially if you got laid off,

0:49:25.960 --> 0:49:28.879
<v Speaker 2>you definitely be able to jump your ass on these panhandling.

0:49:28.880 --> 0:49:31.279
<v Speaker 1>And where I saw that headline, right, but where is

0:49:31.360 --> 0:49:34.480
<v Speaker 1>the actual where does that? Where did that statistic come from?

0:49:34.600 --> 0:49:37.480
<v Speaker 1>Like people make things up, right, So you know, niggas

0:49:37.520 --> 0:49:39.600
<v Speaker 1>want us to not be employed and not have the

0:49:39.640 --> 0:49:43.040
<v Speaker 1>money we got. So imagine somebody putting out this false

0:49:43.160 --> 0:49:45.880
<v Speaker 1>narrative that we just don't got no fucking job, and

0:49:45.920 --> 0:49:46.680
<v Speaker 1>we all broke down.

0:49:46.680 --> 0:49:47.680
<v Speaker 2>I think it was Newsweek.

0:49:50.480 --> 0:49:53.360
<v Speaker 1>That's what I thought when I saw that, Like and

0:49:53.480 --> 0:49:55.239
<v Speaker 1>I just hadn't had a chance to look too deep

0:49:55.280 --> 0:49:58.799
<v Speaker 1>into to actually see where where the numbers came from.

0:50:00.280 --> 0:50:04.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well, can't handle y'all, how on these sites?

0:50:04.960 --> 0:50:07.000
<v Speaker 1>Howp on these dicks? Like what have y'all got to

0:50:07.040 --> 0:50:10.920
<v Speaker 1>do to get the money? Yeah, there's a lot of

0:50:11.000 --> 0:50:14.400
<v Speaker 1>different resources out there, and y'all we are in a

0:50:14.480 --> 0:50:21.000
<v Speaker 1>capitalistic economy, right, So as much as people people hate

0:50:21.080 --> 0:50:26.680
<v Speaker 1>on the rich, they hate on people not paying taxes

0:50:26.719 --> 0:50:28.920
<v Speaker 1>and things like that. You know, people talk about how

0:50:28.960 --> 0:50:31.800
<v Speaker 1>Trump wasn't paying taxes. As a business owner in America,

0:50:32.160 --> 0:50:36.200
<v Speaker 1>your number one goal, right is the most income you

0:50:36.239 --> 0:50:38.160
<v Speaker 1>can make, and you want to pay the less amount

0:50:38.160 --> 0:50:40.160
<v Speaker 1>of tax least amount of taxes on that income. When

0:50:40.160 --> 0:50:43.440
<v Speaker 1>you become a business owner, you won't see why the

0:50:43.520 --> 0:50:45.879
<v Speaker 1>fucking nigga wasn't paying taxes. But until if you don't

0:50:45.920 --> 0:50:48.239
<v Speaker 1>know the science of business, right, you're not going to

0:50:48.280 --> 0:50:49.960
<v Speaker 1>know how to use the tools that's put there for

0:50:50.040 --> 0:50:52.120
<v Speaker 1>you to win. So either y'all want to be in

0:50:52.160 --> 0:50:54.120
<v Speaker 1>the game or you're not. You can't get mad at

0:50:54.160 --> 0:50:57.000
<v Speaker 1>motherfuckers that's playing. I'm always played a game, bitch. I

0:50:57.000 --> 0:50:59.600
<v Speaker 1>ain't forfeit, So I'm trying to do all the things.

0:51:00.040 --> 0:51:01.960
<v Speaker 2>Why I want all our live shows on thursd's face,

0:51:02.280 --> 0:51:06.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm glad you said that. Ship. Why it's cheaper, it's cheaper.

0:51:06.320 --> 0:51:09.439
<v Speaker 1>Okay, here's the thing. Here's the thing, y'all, and listen

0:51:09.560 --> 0:51:12.600
<v Speaker 1>hear me out, Tammy. It may be cheaper to get

0:51:12.640 --> 0:51:14.799
<v Speaker 1>the venue on a Thursday, right, but I believe we'll

0:51:14.840 --> 0:51:17.880
<v Speaker 1>get It'll be an even, it will break even regardless

0:51:18.000 --> 0:51:20.560
<v Speaker 1>because more people will still come out on the weekends.

0:51:21.239 --> 0:51:24.440
<v Speaker 1>We paid our our good day. Would y'all come out

0:51:24.480 --> 0:51:26.759
<v Speaker 1>for a live so that'll kill it right there? What day?

0:51:27.560 --> 0:51:29.560
<v Speaker 1>Would y'all prefer to come on a live show after

0:51:29.640 --> 0:51:34.000
<v Speaker 1>work on Thursday? Or a hot, nice Sunday study Sunday

0:51:34.120 --> 0:51:34.680
<v Speaker 1>in the summer.

0:51:35.239 --> 0:51:39.719
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but Sunday, nobody's coming at Sunday night. You're not

0:51:39.800 --> 0:51:41.680
<v Speaker 2>doing a live show on it like six.

0:51:43.480 --> 0:51:45.200
<v Speaker 1>It don't have to be like eight o'clock in the evening.

0:51:45.560 --> 0:51:47.600
<v Speaker 1>We do like six. The bitches I went to brunch

0:51:47.960 --> 0:51:52.360
<v Speaker 1>whatever not about to come get some drinks. Just be funny.

0:51:53.560 --> 0:51:56.640
<v Speaker 1>In the summertime, people do people they have been parties

0:51:56.960 --> 0:51:59.440
<v Speaker 1>from from one to ten on Sundays and the.

0:51:59.440 --> 0:52:03.239
<v Speaker 2>Second people want something to do during the week y'all, Let.

0:52:03.239 --> 0:52:05.719
<v Speaker 1>Us know what, y'all, because I'm calculating my life. I

0:52:05.760 --> 0:52:07.440
<v Speaker 1>don't know if you're calculating yours and not. I have,

0:52:07.560 --> 0:52:10.400
<v Speaker 1>literally I have listened to my life. I've taken up

0:52:10.400 --> 0:52:13.000
<v Speaker 1>a lot of new shit recently. And for the last

0:52:13.040 --> 0:52:15.000
<v Speaker 1>five years I was free as a burb bage. I'm

0:52:15.040 --> 0:52:17.080
<v Speaker 1>not that free no more. So now I want to

0:52:17.160 --> 0:52:19.319
<v Speaker 1>make sure I keep my mental health attact and make

0:52:19.400 --> 0:52:25.520
<v Speaker 1>sure I really, uh calculate realistically the things I can

0:52:25.640 --> 0:52:27.920
<v Speaker 1>press my body to do. That's where I'm at. I

0:52:28.040 --> 0:52:28.800
<v Speaker 1>know you understand.

0:52:28.920 --> 0:52:30.080
<v Speaker 2>I get it. I get it.

0:52:30.760 --> 0:52:33.399
<v Speaker 1>I get it because the bitch already getting stressed out,

0:52:33.480 --> 0:52:36.400
<v Speaker 1>like literally, like I'm already like on the calendar, like

0:52:36.560 --> 0:52:40.279
<v Speaker 1>trying to organize things in my mind to make sure

0:52:40.440 --> 0:52:45.080
<v Speaker 1>I can execute and not half assed execute, right, I

0:52:45.160 --> 0:52:48.279
<v Speaker 1>want to make sure we execute, Like yeah, this that

0:52:48.640 --> 0:52:49.000
<v Speaker 1>I agree?

0:52:50.320 --> 0:52:52.839
<v Speaker 2>I agree? So what y'all, y'all let us know. Would

0:52:52.880 --> 0:52:56.200
<v Speaker 2>y'all rather see us on Thursday night start the weekend

0:52:56.280 --> 0:53:01.640
<v Speaker 2>off or on Sunday after Friday a Saturday.

0:53:01.440 --> 0:53:08.960
<v Speaker 1>Well Thursday through Sunday. That's what we're looking at all right, right, anyway,

0:53:09.400 --> 0:53:14.359
<v Speaker 1>y'all get the panhandling shit. It's listen Biden did put

0:53:14.440 --> 0:53:18.200
<v Speaker 1>out a statement once and he was saying, how the

0:53:18.320 --> 0:53:22.439
<v Speaker 1>economy this is before he before Trump got in office.

0:53:22.440 --> 0:53:25.000
<v Speaker 1>He was saying, how economy was so well right, and

0:53:25.120 --> 0:53:27.560
<v Speaker 1>it is the truth, But it's the wealth gap that

0:53:27.719 --> 0:53:32.440
<v Speaker 1>nobody's calculating. Yeah, we got a great economy, but most

0:53:32.520 --> 0:53:35.560
<v Speaker 1>of the people making the money, you know, aren't at

0:53:35.640 --> 0:53:38.279
<v Speaker 1>the They're not in our shit, you know what I'm saying, Like,

0:53:38.360 --> 0:53:45.040
<v Speaker 1>the wealth gap is ridiculous right now? Middle class are

0:53:45.080 --> 0:53:49.239
<v Speaker 1>your social media millionaires, the motherfuckers you see online like

0:53:49.320 --> 0:53:52.800
<v Speaker 1>these are millionaires now, and then everybody else is basically

0:53:52.920 --> 0:53:57.000
<v Speaker 1>below poverty, right, So we gotta do something right. You

0:53:57.080 --> 0:53:59.239
<v Speaker 1>gotta play the game. You have to do all the things.

0:53:59.280 --> 0:54:04.960
<v Speaker 1>So maybe in making handle panhand like yes, okay, if

0:54:04.960 --> 0:54:07.839
<v Speaker 1>they if they want to be philanthropists, philanthropists and give

0:54:08.040 --> 0:54:11.120
<v Speaker 1>people the public some money, take it right, right, y'all?

0:54:11.200 --> 0:54:14.880
<v Speaker 1>Up a nice campaign, bitch, you want to start your business, uh,

0:54:15.120 --> 0:54:19.800
<v Speaker 1>sugarbaby dot com. Let's be very clear, that's another.

0:54:21.000 --> 0:54:21.160
<v Speaker 2>Man.

0:54:23.280 --> 0:54:26.359
<v Speaker 1>Make sure you got your TMJ intact, like make sure

0:54:26.400 --> 0:54:29.120
<v Speaker 1>your job working good, like get the money.

0:54:28.960 --> 0:54:31.040
<v Speaker 2>Baby, No, don't go on that one.

0:54:32.719 --> 0:54:35.000
<v Speaker 1>For real, because this shit is so scammy I went

0:54:35.080 --> 0:54:38.120
<v Speaker 1>on there, and I'm like way past sugar Baby age. Okay,

0:54:38.120 --> 0:54:43.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm cougar age and the amount of Indians over there

0:54:43.200 --> 0:54:46.239
<v Speaker 1>with them, fake profiles and Africans with them, fake ass

0:54:46.400 --> 0:54:48.200
<v Speaker 1>profiles on sugarbaby dot com.

0:54:48.280 --> 0:54:50.120
<v Speaker 2>And they don't look like they got no money, none

0:54:50.160 --> 0:54:50.399
<v Speaker 2>of them.

0:54:50.480 --> 0:54:54.879
<v Speaker 1>That's none of them. But listen now, one of these

0:54:55.040 --> 0:54:59.120
<v Speaker 1>uh trad black trad wives on Instagram. Her husband looked

0:54:59.120 --> 0:55:00.960
<v Speaker 1>like she got he got that check neither, but he do.

0:55:02.160 --> 0:55:04.080
<v Speaker 1>I need you a fine ass old white man. If

0:55:04.080 --> 0:55:05.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna do it, man, he got to be a

0:55:05.440 --> 0:55:08.800
<v Speaker 1>fucking brunette or or he got to have like a

0:55:08.920 --> 0:55:12.000
<v Speaker 1>nice ass salt and pepper. I can't do it otherwise,

0:55:12.080 --> 0:55:14.279
<v Speaker 1>like he gotta be fine.

0:55:14.960 --> 0:55:18.000
<v Speaker 2>Them ball's gonna be long either way, I can't do it.

0:55:20.440 --> 0:55:25.520
<v Speaker 2>Hang up, shut up, gros.

0:55:28.000 --> 0:55:35.879
<v Speaker 1>Hey, Jake. It's gonna be quick though. Stop all right, y'all,

0:55:36.000 --> 0:55:38.880
<v Speaker 1>panandle Anyway, if you enjoyed this episode, y'all tune in

0:55:38.920 --> 0:55:41.080
<v Speaker 1>every Thursday on a black Effect. iHeart Radio Apple, wherever

0:55:41.160 --> 0:55:43.160
<v Speaker 1>the fuck you get your podcasts at this your co

0:55:43.280 --> 0:55:47.680
<v Speaker 1>host aj Holiday two point on instagrams kicking Tams.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all my cash up is.

0:55:51.719 --> 0:55:51.879
<v Speaker 1>Y'all.

0:55:51.920 --> 0:55:54.640
<v Speaker 2>I am official tam band on Instagram. Y'all follow me now.

0:55:54.680 --> 0:55:57.359
<v Speaker 2>I love y'all so much. Thank y'all for tuning into

0:55:57.520 --> 0:56:00.640
<v Speaker 2>us every Thursday or whenever you get the chance. We

0:56:00.800 --> 0:56:03.600
<v Speaker 2>really appreciate all the love and support, and we would

0:56:03.719 --> 0:56:05.960
<v Speaker 2>love for y'all to come out and see us. We're

0:56:06.000 --> 0:56:09.279
<v Speaker 2>gonna be in the city near you, really, really really soon,

0:56:09.400 --> 0:56:12.120
<v Speaker 2>you guys, so the same way y'all be saving that

0:56:12.239 --> 0:56:14.840
<v Speaker 2>money for Beyonce. Y'all put a couple of dollars to

0:56:14.960 --> 0:56:18.200
<v Speaker 2>the side of your girls that we talked back. P right,

0:56:18.680 --> 0:56:19.680
<v Speaker 2>remember speak now.

0:56:20.840 --> 0:56:22.759
<v Speaker 1>And never hold your I love you because see what

0:56:22.920 --> 0:56:25.799
<v Speaker 1>y'all don't realize is that Tammy Ben setting y'all up

0:56:25.880 --> 0:56:34.680
<v Speaker 1>for the Panhandle with that. I love you, Thank you. Bye,