Speaker 1: Hope when we talk back where we encourage you to
Speaker 1: hustle hard, laugh louder, and always keep it cute. So
Speaker 1: grab your coffee, cocktail and crown because it's about to
Speaker 1: go talk.
Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion.
Speaker 1: Who talks. What's up, y'all? It's your girl a j holiday.
Speaker 1: What's up, tam Bam?
Speaker 2: I'm tam Bam and I have cramps?
Speaker 1: Why?
Speaker 2: Shit hurts so bad? Oh my god, Alicia, know you're
Speaker 2: still alive.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're still a woman. You haven't transitioned in any capacity.
Speaker 2: No, I have not.
Speaker 1: I be needing to see my period every month. I
Speaker 1: don't know how these bitches get put on these birth
Speaker 1: control pills where they don't have a period. That's weird
Speaker 1: to me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't want to. I'm scared of it. I
Speaker 2: just don't want to feel cramps anymore.
Speaker 1: Do you use cups? Are you still use just pads?
Speaker 1: What the cups?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: You know, I feel like my period go off real
Speaker 1: fast with the cups.
Speaker 2: Something is disgusting.
Speaker 1: It is it could be real nasty. I pull it
Speaker 1: out in a shower.
Speaker 3: Yeah, first of all, I'm disgusted with myself every month anyway, right,
Speaker 3: I got that cup, No get out of here.
Speaker 1: I'd definitely be using those little soft cups because I
Speaker 1: just don't I can't get with the pad either. And
Speaker 1: then I you know, I just got over using tampons,
Speaker 1: like I use tampons, like if I have to go
Speaker 1: out somewhere, I might pop one in. But I don't
Speaker 1: like using tampons either.
Speaker 2: Girl, I use them always. Z's the diaper shit, I
Speaker 2: wear them all day. I don't wear them just at night.
Speaker 1: The panty.
Speaker 2: Yeah that like it's like it depends. Yes, Yeah, I'm
Speaker 2: gonna tell you. I'm a funny story. So but I
Speaker 2: got a new card January. My range Rover was just
Speaker 2: giving me problems and like I had an electrical issue
Speaker 2: in the middle of the night in the dark on
Speaker 2: seventy seven where there's no lights, so the lights went out.
Speaker 2: I couldn't see the car was dark inside and outside.
Speaker 2: So I finally got the lights to come on and
Speaker 2: then they went off. I was following behind an eighteen wheeler.
Speaker 1: Oh wait, your head lights was off.
Speaker 2: Every oh every light in the inside and the outside
Speaker 2: wasn't no lights. I was just in pitch black darkness
Speaker 2: and I was scared. It's seventy seven, ain't no you know,
Speaker 2: it's no lights on were to a certain part of
Speaker 2: seventy seven, there's no lights, just woods. So imagine going
Speaker 2: through that in the dark and the only light you
Speaker 2: got is an eighteen wheeler in front of you. Break lights.
Speaker 2: So I had to pee, y'all, And I didn't want
Speaker 2: to stop because.
Speaker 1: Go ahead, sorry, man, you are nuts.
Speaker 2: I didn't want to stop because if I stopped, I
Speaker 2: didn't know if I was gonna have another car to
Speaker 2: help me get through because it was late. It was
Speaker 2: super late. So all right, I'm wantly telling y'all this
Speaker 2: because we family. I peded my alwaysies.
Speaker 1: Just so nasty.
Speaker 2: It works.
Speaker 1: I didn't feel it was it warm do it.
Speaker 2: Worked, It absorbed so well, like I didn't feel gross
Speaker 2: at all. This could be a commercial for the fucking Always.
Speaker 1: You definitely need to add.
Speaker 2: I was in danger. I felt like I was in danger.
Speaker 2: I had I had to piece so bad, and I
Speaker 2: beed in that thing and I ain't feel like I
Speaker 2: had on no diaper or nothing.
Speaker 1: Always zs ads that we talked back, okay, because we
Speaker 1: have tested and approved yes, and it has stood the
Speaker 1: test of urine so because it's not even made for that.
Speaker 2: It's not but it worked. So yeah, I did that.
Speaker 2: That happened. It was an emergency situation. You guys, don't
Speaker 2: judge me anyway. How was your gonna judge you?
Speaker 1: Man, I'll be talking shit forever now. You should have
Speaker 1: never told me no shit like that.
Speaker 2: Whatever. I don't care. I live in my truth. It's
Speaker 2: my truth. It don't hurt me. How was your weekend?
Speaker 1: It was real like outside it rained, like today is
Speaker 1: the first sunny day in some some days, like it's
Speaker 1: been just nasty outside, cold, ragning. My my two of
Speaker 1: my friend's kids graduated from college. So my best friend
Speaker 1: Priscilla had a party for her her son. He graduated
Speaker 1: from Savannah State. So I'm so proud of Micah. I
Speaker 1: remember him as a little baby like these all my kids.
Speaker 2: Now they graduated from college.
Speaker 1: Girl like graduating from college like about to be like
Speaker 1: real life adult adults around here. Yeah, so he graduated.
Speaker 1: I cooked some stuff post and took over there the
Speaker 1: bitch I took. I took some shrooms Friday night. Too late.
Speaker 2: I saw that even the story you posted a little
Speaker 2: mushroom with sparkles all over.
Speaker 1: It, girl, this particular strand had me like my eyesight
Speaker 1: was so enhanced, like things were breathing, Like I'm online
Speaker 1: because I'm planning on making my own I won't tell y'all.
Speaker 1: I'll just show you all the pictures when I do
Speaker 1: it for my birthday. But I'm making something some arts
Speaker 1: and craft type shit, right, So it was like a
Speaker 1: roll of I'm on Amazon. This is these are these
Speaker 1: are Amazon images. Okay, just imagine like a roll of vinyl.
Speaker 1: This ship was like breathing, like I can't I could
Speaker 1: see that unroll. And this is the first time I've
Speaker 1: actually had like actual like visual type things happen on shrooms.
Speaker 1: But I never went to sleep. I didn't go to
Speaker 1: sleep from Friday morning until like eleven twelve o'clock on
Speaker 1: Saturday night. Cause like Friday night, like when I got.
Speaker 2: I was in bed.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was in bed, but like one turn of two, two,
Speaker 1: turning three, three, turning four, five point twenty two, I got.
Speaker 1: I just got up out the bed and went to
Speaker 1: the gym. When got my tools done.
Speaker 2: Started putting and ship.
Speaker 1: Yeah, wheel day, and then I crashed, yeah hard, two
Speaker 1: hours and I had to get up and go take
Speaker 1: the food and hang out.
Speaker 2: Over there for a little bit.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I still feel kind of exhausted, but I
Speaker 1: cannot wait to do it again. I'm not really a
Speaker 1: drug addict, and I really don't have like an addictive
Speaker 1: personality and shit like I like the anticipation to doing
Speaker 1: the things, like it's like a treat, Like, yeah, man,
Speaker 1: on Friday, I'm gonna do such and such on.
Speaker 2: Friday, I'm gonna do drugs. Sounds like a drug addict. Three,
Speaker 2: I don't know you, guys, I got up.
Speaker 1: I'm not a drug addict. If I can like paste
Speaker 1: myself a step.
Speaker 2: Acknowledgment whatever. Listen, all right, So what did I do
Speaker 2: this weekend? I'm still doing that seventy five hords, So
Speaker 2: I just working out. Sometimes I get tired of working out.
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna lie, but it is what it is.
Speaker 2: I'm on day thirty seven, y'all. Hype me up, Hype
Speaker 2: me up. I hyped me up. I love that song
Speaker 2: Informations Flip of Tea. But anyway, I tried to go
Speaker 2: to the lake, but it was so nasty out. The
Speaker 2: weather was so bad and it was probably some snakes
Speaker 2: out there, so I just did my outdoor walk in
Speaker 2: the plaza of a shopping center, just walking up and
Speaker 2: down the plaza because it was just too gross outside.
Speaker 2: My weekend was uneventful. It's like, that's all I got
Speaker 2: to tell y'all. I walked a grocery store plaza.
Speaker 1: That's the old white ladies shit. You don't want people
Speaker 1: be up early in the morning walking the circumference of
Speaker 1: the mall or like inside the mall.
Speaker 2: Mall walkers of America. Yeah, that was it was me.
Speaker 2: That's all. I can't. I have nothing else spicy or
Speaker 2: juicy to tell y'all. Mother's Day, I chill with my mom.
Speaker 2: We was gonna go pick strawberries, but the weather so yeah,
Speaker 2: that was it.
Speaker 1: Well, we have strawberry We have strawberry vines here in Charleston.
Speaker 2: Yeah right, the street cattle farm. Shout out to Coddle,
Speaker 2: let's get in the sea.
Speaker 1: Yeah okay. So y'all know this graduation season and uh,
Speaker 1: social media has given Tony Braxton like a little backlash,
Speaker 1: right because of her chosen apparel for her son's graduation
Speaker 1: from Howard University. She had on like like a black
Speaker 1: lace number, like some panty type thing, and the skirt
Speaker 1: was like all lace see through and she had on
Speaker 1: like a little fascinator type hat with like the lace
Speaker 1: in the front, so you would think she would have
Speaker 1: been going to like a stripper funeral. I'm not sure
Speaker 1: that's what it looked like as opposed to her son's graduation,
Speaker 1: but the is like, come on, Tony, and.
Speaker 2: I'm like, exactly, she's total motherfucking Braxton. Please don't play
Speaker 2: with her. But however, a comma you could have at
Speaker 2: least covered jazz up Tony. She had on draws with
Speaker 2: a lace slip over the top of it. Yes, that
Speaker 2: was a lot, but she Tony.
Speaker 1: So yeah, then it's supposed to be about your son,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like you are Tony Braxton.
Speaker 1: His mom is the Tony Braxton, right, so let him
Speaker 1: have his moment with his robe on.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: And I'm pretty sure a lot of people was paying
Speaker 1: attention to Tony Braxton and y'all, so people like, ah,
Speaker 1: she's damn near sixty year woman. So Tony Braxton is
Speaker 1: fifty seven, she's she's she's a libra. So it could
Speaker 1: balance on either fuck the side of hole and wholesome.
Speaker 1: And that's what you get.
Speaker 2: I think that's healthy.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, what y'all saying righteous and ratchet, like we
Speaker 1: need both, you know, important renaissance When like Bernice Burgo's
Speaker 1: daughter just got married and Bernice had on because you know,
Speaker 1: Bernice has been known the upstage a bitch for her
Speaker 1: special day, you know, but she did not do that
Speaker 1: to her daughter.
Speaker 2: She had on this blue number that didn't show any
Speaker 2: body part whatsoever, and it was very flowing.
Speaker 1: It was cultural attire, I believe they. I don't know Bernice.
Speaker 1: She looks a little I don't know, like Somalian or
Speaker 1: Ethiopian or maybe Indian. It was like more like an
Speaker 1: Indian kind of Arabian attire kind of number like the gowns,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, going.
Speaker 2: To Dubai Aladdin.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I mean she looked like Jasmine.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she could have been easily been Jasmine. Jasmine had
Speaker 2: at least her waistline out, Like I feel like you
Speaker 2: could have word that. It still made it sexy if
Speaker 2: you wanted to, but she did not. She looked very
Speaker 2: humble and still beautiful, but very humble. I pay. I
Speaker 2: feel like that's what maybe Tony could have did for
Speaker 2: the graduation.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she could have had on white instead of black, Like,
Speaker 1: where are you going? Did she have a funeral to
Speaker 1: go to afterwards? I hope my even like right, because
Speaker 1: she's on the sheer bottom. So he going out at
Speaker 1: the funeral looking like that anyway?
Speaker 2: Anyway, So, Tory Lanez was stabbed fourteen times, including seven
Speaker 2: wounds to his back, fourth to his torso, two to
Speaker 2: the back of his head, and one to the left
Speaker 2: side of his face. Both of his lungs collapsed and
Speaker 2: he was placed on a breathing apparatus. He is now
Speaker 2: breathing on his own. Despite being in pain, he is
Speaker 2: talking normally, in good spirits and deeply thankful to God
Speaker 2: that he's pulling through. He also wants to thank everyone
Speaker 2: for the continued prayers and support. Damn.
Speaker 1: That was from the real reporter, Lauren Larrossa right her
Speaker 1: social media brown girl grind grinding. Yeah, that's nuts. He
Speaker 1: had to have been laying down or something.
Speaker 2: Do somebody fail?
Speaker 1: That's too many times, you know, like he Yeah.
Speaker 2: Damn, I don't like that. I hate that for him,
Speaker 2: even if he did shoot it. Uh her, I don't make.
Speaker 1: This sound to get killed, you know, and I mean
Speaker 1: you know, of course the internet is saying like, oh,
Speaker 1: that's what you get. Like the time he's gotten ten
Speaker 1: years is probably enough, right, like excessive. Yeah, the thing
Speaker 1: I think that people don't take into consideration on going
Speaker 1: into prison, like you can rack up other charges, just
Speaker 1: trying to survive, just trying to just trying to live.
Speaker 1: And you could be as calm, cool to yourself as
Speaker 1: you want to be, but you are dealing with a
Speaker 1: lot of different personalities. You are dealing with real killers, murderers,
Speaker 1: child molesters, just the craziest of the craziest. And he's
Speaker 1: in California prison. I looked it up. So he's in
Speaker 1: a California state prison. And you know he's Canadian, so
Speaker 1: people just know him as Tory Lane's a rapper. No,
Speaker 1: he got homeboys in there. Was he associated with any
Speaker 1: gangs or anything?
Speaker 2: I'm not sure. I don't think so ganggang activity, but.
Speaker 1: I mean that could be a thing, right that could
Speaker 1: have possibly caused him to get stabbed. We don't know.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's just it's just it's prison.
Speaker 2: So on our we talked back page today. The question
Speaker 2: I went out, would you do five months for your
Speaker 2: boyfriend so he doesn't to prevent him for new in
Speaker 2: five years?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: No, they stabbing motherfuckers in there. You think I'm going there?
Speaker 1: No, Hell, I'm not going to prison.
Speaker 2: What about your husband?
Speaker 1: No, I'm not going to jail willingly for anybody. Anybody
Speaker 1: who's never been actually arrested will probably be like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I could do it, unless I am forced to do
Speaker 1: that shit based on some shit I did, or they
Speaker 1: just just convicted me. But if I had a choice,
Speaker 1: absolutely fucking not. No, I'd not been in jail before,
Speaker 1: like just a short period of time on some bullshit.
Speaker 1: I've been arrested before, and I do.
Speaker 2: You haven't been, I said before.
Speaker 1: I have, and it was licensed driver.
Speaker 2: No I was, I wasn't twenty, I wasn't. So arrested
Speaker 2: means you have to actually go to jail. Yes, No,
Speaker 2: I've been in handcuffs and placed in the back of
Speaker 2: a squad car.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've been.
Speaker 2: Way I did jail before. I way right out the backseat.
Speaker 1: I tried, and the officer told me to shut the
Speaker 1: fuck up. Things like this happened sometimes, damn, I said, Okay,
Speaker 1: So I went to my pot and cooked his ass up,
Speaker 1: and guess what, he went to jail a couple months later,
Speaker 1: and my tickets were all thrown out in court. Yes,
Speaker 1: damn yeah, because he ended up he had never been
Speaker 1: to jail a day in his life either. While he's
Speaker 1: telling me, shit like this happens, and I said, you
Speaker 1: ever been to jail before? And he said no. I said, Okay,
Speaker 1: then shit like this don't just be happening. You're ruining
Speaker 1: my fucking day.
Speaker 2: Were you right? Were you wrong? Did you do something wrong?
Speaker 1: I was driving with a suspended license that I didn't know.
Speaker 1: I had got a ticket at floor and they sent
Speaker 1: the ship to South Carolina, so I had paid the
Speaker 1: I paid the tickets, but I didn't pay to reinstate
Speaker 1: my license, apparently, just not knowing. I was like twenty
Speaker 1: twenty one. Yeah, yeah, and I've had one other brush,
Speaker 1: you know, well, brushing with the law.
Speaker 2: Just the back of the squad car was hard. I
Speaker 2: knew that I could not go.
Speaker 1: I was too big for the back of that ship. Man,
Speaker 1: You fucking need be right on the wall. Girl. They
Speaker 1: put me in the paddy wagon. They had like a
Speaker 1: van come pick me up, not because I'm too big
Speaker 1: for the van, like for the car, not just for transportation.
Speaker 1: And it was like some other people on the other
Speaker 1: side of the it's like a van, right, but it's yes,
Speaker 1: And I could hear like crazy people on the other side. Girl,
Speaker 1: when we got to the county jail. Why was there
Speaker 1: some bitches from Benedict.
Speaker 2: Hey girl, your mother is for stealing books.
Speaker 1: They got to rush for stealing people's books.
Speaker 2: That's it.
Speaker 1: I'm wondering who the crazy people were on the other side.
Speaker 1: And the whole time is some classmates and it works.
Speaker 2: You just trying to get to work and they know
Speaker 2: they were stealing people of books to get the cash back.
Speaker 2: That's from the bookstore.
Speaker 1: That's stealing people books to resell them, is what they
Speaker 1: were doing. Yeah, that's fucked up, girl.
Speaker 2: But yeah, anyway, Tory Lanez, we hope you heal up.
Speaker 2: I mean, jail is enough. You don't have to get
Speaker 2: stabbed up in there. I know, man, I.
Speaker 1: I mean I always have. It's a hard you know,
Speaker 1: people online saying he deserves this, he deserves that. It
Speaker 1: is so hard for me to like condemn people. That
Speaker 1: is not for individuals to do. The universe gonna always
Speaker 1: get your ass, you know what I'm saying. It doesn't
Speaker 1: need people to Oh that's that's what he gets. You
Speaker 1: don't know when your time is going to come for
Speaker 1: some ship you should get. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: So be mindful when you speaking shit over other people life.
Speaker 1: It could be your turn one day.
Speaker 2: Yah.
Speaker 1: So. So Marlon Wayne said that he never got married
Speaker 1: because he says, I never got married because I never
Speaker 1: wanted my mother to be jealous of a woman. I
Speaker 1: never wanted my mother to feel second to any woman.
Speaker 1: That is weird and it sounds like an Oedipus complex
Speaker 1: because what he's amished. Don't they have a dad?
Speaker 2: They?
Speaker 1: Oh, the dad passed away? No, his mother passed away,
Speaker 1: hold on it says. He also told The New York
Speaker 1: Times that his mother's death broke and shattered him into
Speaker 1: a million pieces because she was his girl. Marlon was
Speaker 1: in a long term relationship with Angela Zachary from nineteen
Speaker 1: ninety two to twenty thirteen, and together they have two children.
Speaker 1: His mother, Elvira Waynes, passed away at the age of
Speaker 1: eighty one and twenty twenty. So he never married anybody
Speaker 1: because his mom was his old lady. That's weird. She
Speaker 1: got enough sons, right, She's a lot of yr niggas.
Speaker 2: All right. That's a weird reason. That's excuse.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he full of ship.
Speaker 2: Yeah this sounds ridiculous.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't got a woman that had her waiting
Speaker 1: around for how many years, gave her two kids, but
Speaker 1: would never commit to her.
Speaker 2: And now you want your mama to be jealous? Boy,
Speaker 2: go to hell.
Speaker 1: And and this is exactly why I like niggas were mamas,
Speaker 1: because this is what he said. I'm not going to
Speaker 1: be that mama, because I'm gonna be happily married.
Speaker 2: You probably was like, now see he on their line
Speaker 2: from the grave, right, she can't even defend that bush. Yeah,
Speaker 2: they're lying. Don't put that ship on me. They didn't
Speaker 2: have nothing to do with me. They had to do
Speaker 2: with your unwillingness to commit, not me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's some bullshit. I had a conversation with a
Speaker 1: good friend of mine recently and I was like, damn man,
Speaker 1: people really taking taking panhand handling to the next level.
Speaker 1: So we want to talk about social media panhandling.
Speaker 2: What is it they talk about.
Speaker 1: Niggas begging for money online? Maybe somebody you know or strangers.
Speaker 1: Has it ever happened to you?
Speaker 2: I want to learn how to do it.
Speaker 1: Well, let's talk about it when we come back after
Speaker 1: this break So a friend of ours sent me some
Speaker 1: screenshows yesterday of some of our old classmates basically asking
Speaker 1: him for money on social media. Now I've heard of
Speaker 1: this happening. I know I've always been mean, you know
Speaker 1: back then. Now people just never played with me for real,
Speaker 1: Like I just know they probably look at me like, damn,
Speaker 1: I can't ask her. She's gonna tell people type shit.
Speaker 1: You better make sure the person you asking ain't gonna
Speaker 1: tell me either, because I'm a still tell people. So
Speaker 1: he sent me like screenshots with three different niggas like
Speaker 1: and you would think that these people be popping, right.
Speaker 1: So I know there are instances where people hack people's
Speaker 1: Facebook pages and stuff like that, because it happened recently.
Speaker 1: I sent my niece twenty five dollars last week because
Speaker 1: my little cousin was messaging her from jail on Facebook
Speaker 1: saying he needed a couple of dollars right, So I
Speaker 1: sent her to twenty five dollars to them send him.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, that shit don't sound right. So we
Speaker 1: hit up his sister and she was she was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a fake page, like somebody basically hijacked this shit.
Speaker 1: But they had the like they were talking to my niece, like, yeah, man,
Speaker 1: I go to court such and such date like with
Speaker 1: them or these these people in other countries, they study
Speaker 1: your page so they know like how to talk to
Speaker 1: your people. It's fucking weird. Yeah, so asking questions that
Speaker 1: don't make no sense, right, So we do have the
Speaker 1: scamming type of panhandling, right from people maybe hijacking somebody
Speaker 1: else's page. But then there are instances where they these
Speaker 1: people are actually people you know that might be hitting
Speaker 1: you up randomly. You haven't seen her spoken to, never
Speaker 1: was even friends with.
Speaker 2: I've had that hack for quite a bit here, and
Speaker 2: sometimes I send it. Sometimes I send the money, especially
Speaker 2: if it's like asking me for forty dollars forty five dollars.
Speaker 2: What you're gonna do with that? You can't do shit.
Speaker 2: You can't even feel Can you fill up a tank
Speaker 2: with twenty five forty dollars?
Speaker 1: You can't even buy a crack with forty dollars no more.
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure if it's some drug addict type shit,
Speaker 1: what are you doing with that money? You can't do nothing,
Speaker 1: I guess if they send it to you and then
Speaker 1: they send it to about five other people shit, yeah,
Speaker 1: they add up. Yeah, because people who like panhandle on
Speaker 1: the streets. I don't seen them pull out of water
Speaker 1: money because that's literally their job. It is a job,
Speaker 1: having to ask people for money all day long and
Speaker 1: stand in the sun. You know what I'm saying, looking
Speaker 1: the way they're looking.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what, that's crazy. Because when we were
Speaker 2: in Atlanta, we were leaving our hotel, he was waiting
Speaker 2: on valet to bring the car up to the front.
Speaker 2: You had one to the other side, and this black
Speaker 2: man was out there barefoot and with a blanket wrapped
Speaker 2: around him, and it was early and I gave him.
Speaker 2: I had two ones in my purse and I gave
Speaker 2: him the two ones. He said, thank you, ma'am. This
Speaker 2: is the first money I made all day. And I
Speaker 2: was thinking, made motherfucker. I value you that you didn't
Speaker 2: make that.
Speaker 1: He didn't make it. It is a job to beg
Speaker 1: people for money. That is. Panhandling is a job in Chicago,
Speaker 1: don't you know. They make them have a license to panhandle,
Speaker 1: so the government want they cut up here. You are here,
Speaker 1: if you out here asking people for money, the government
Speaker 1: make you get a fucking They got to carry like
Speaker 1: the little lantern on their neck for panhandling. Shit is
Speaker 1: fucking nuts.
Speaker 2: Government cut.
Speaker 1: So I've never had anybody mess me. I remember you
Speaker 1: told me one time this girl messaged her ass on
Speaker 1: Facebook for somebody she did.
Speaker 2: She messaged me for eighty dollars and I sent it
Speaker 2: to her. I sent it to her, and then I
Speaker 2: ran it to her at the nail shop getting uh,
Speaker 2: fucking diamonds all over her motherfucking nail, but.
Speaker 1: Offfin shape.
Speaker 2: You need to be getting at ain't it? Ain't it?
Speaker 2: Or not even a well fucking with my eighty dollars.
Speaker 1: I've seen this post this weekend or justin the boy page.
Speaker 1: It was like it's something about a nigga buying his
Speaker 1: mama a Mother's Day gift. When he owed me money, right,
Speaker 1: buy his mama flowers? You got some nerves, right, where's
Speaker 1: my money?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: You got my money? Remember that on the family Guy?
Speaker 1: You got my money. I don't like all the people money, No,
Speaker 1: absolutely not. And you know I'll never understand how homegirls.
Speaker 1: I have some friends who well I don't really won't
Speaker 1: even call these people friends actually, because I don't think
Speaker 1: my actual friends have ever asked me for money. If
Speaker 1: I sense. You need something, you're gonna have it anyway.
Speaker 1: But I've had bitches asked me for money. I'm like, girl,
Speaker 1: you just just telling me about this dude you're fucking on, Like,
Speaker 1: why are you ask him? First?
Speaker 2: I had a friend that I loved dearly and sometimes
Speaker 2: I still miss her. But we fell out about money
Speaker 2: because all right, she said she didn't have money, and
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, I got you because if I
Speaker 2: got it, I got you, right, because that's what friends do.
Speaker 2: Mm hm. But it got it got excessive, you know,
Speaker 2: it got excessive, and she got this nigga over and
Speaker 2: she asked me, could I buy her some weed? Yeah,
Speaker 2: she was tripp and it's a nigga sitting right in
Speaker 2: the living room ready to smoke. No, I asked that
Speaker 2: to get the long weed. I'm not buying you no drugs.
Speaker 2: I bought your food. I bought you, I did your hair,
Speaker 2: I bought do something the word to the club and.
Speaker 1: You're gonna suck his dick. You anybody give me no head?
Speaker 2: Right? But right? And you asked him and I was like,
Speaker 2: ask him, No, it wasn't even the weed I had
Speaker 2: already bought that. She was like, can you buy a cigar.
Speaker 1: Damn. So you just applying everybody everything and.
Speaker 2: He's sitting in the living room. I was like, ask
Speaker 2: him to go get one. She's like, I don't want
Speaker 2: to ask him for that. I don't want to ask them.
Speaker 2: So I came to the living room. I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: can you go? Can you go to the store and
Speaker 2: get a cigar? He was like, yeah, no problem, And
Speaker 2: then she got mad at me and put me out
Speaker 2: of her house.
Speaker 1: For asking him to do his job.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: See, women, women be taking men's jobs away. Like, at
Speaker 1: what point, why are you why? Why do women feel
Speaker 1: ashamed of asking men for anything? Because men, baby, they
Speaker 1: don't mind asking you for everything. Out of the sign
Speaker 1: cooochie mouth air, they want all that shit. So if
Speaker 1: they don't mind asking you for anything, what's the problem. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So I want to read one of these messages, okay,
Speaker 1: because this is an example of how they're gonna ask
Speaker 1: you for money. Could and I believe this is the
Speaker 1: actual person because of the way he's speaking, right, because
Speaker 1: in Charleston we'd be like my guy, right. So the
Speaker 1: message starts off as suck my guy, and my friend
Speaker 1: responds back, we're going on. He said, Hey, a, my dog,
Speaker 1: I in New Orleans. Fuck up, I need some gas money, man,
Speaker 1: low ten fifteen if you can, I call him all
Speaker 1: type of people man. And so he my friend responds
Speaker 1: back and says, I'm in Charlotte at the strip club
Speaker 1: throwing money on the floor. How I'm supposed to do that?
Speaker 1: And do responding back, you got cash app? This nigga
Speaker 1: responds back to him and say, yeah, bro, how the
Speaker 1: hell you get all the way to New Orleans from Charleston?
Speaker 1: Fuck up.
Speaker 2: That, y'all?
Speaker 1: Right, that shitdn't like to fucking die. He said, I
Speaker 1: live here, bubba, I can't get my check toe after two. Man,
Speaker 1: just a little situation. And he was like, I, what's
Speaker 1: the phone number so I can send? Just send the
Speaker 1: cash app name. Yeah, So he just the cash up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So he did send him a couple of dollars.
Speaker 2: That was nice.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I guess it's Look, this is not
Speaker 1: for motherfucker to be hitting me up. But if somebody
Speaker 1: were to and I could verify it's actually them and
Speaker 1: I can spare it, I'm gonna give it to you.
Speaker 2: So first of all, all right, this is how we're
Speaker 2: gonna bag for money, y'all, you say two nice things
Speaker 2: to them first before you ask. Because he said my
Speaker 2: guy and what else he called him bruh, big bro. No,
Speaker 2: it was too nice. No, it was two nice of
Speaker 2: these in the beginning.
Speaker 1: Let me see, hold on, let me get back to it.
Speaker 2: So I would be like, because I'm gonna ask a
Speaker 2: nigga for some money.
Speaker 1: No, he said, ain't my dog? I New Orleans.
Speaker 2: Fuck up, ain't my dog?
Speaker 1: It was one more that's it something my guy, my
Speaker 1: guys and my dog and my dog.
Speaker 2: Okay, No, I had some bullshit, So set up and
Speaker 2: set it up right, y'all, say two nice things.
Speaker 1: And the person who asked for this money. When I
Speaker 1: tell y'all, when I was in middle school, I loved
Speaker 1: this nigga. We used to be in this after school
Speaker 1: programming like uh like tutors.
Speaker 2: When his mom was taking care of him, making sure
Speaker 2: he was.
Speaker 1: He was always so cute and little and black like
Speaker 1: I loved him. And then he just he had women
Speaker 1: relationships really like you know, they shape your future. So
Speaker 1: the girl he had kids by super hood rat. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, It is crazy like that might
Speaker 1: have been that girl went to jail for some ship
Speaker 1: like she was in federal prison at some point. I
Speaker 1: feel like that shaped his future, damn. And I remember
Speaker 1: talking to him and he told me how she basically
Speaker 1: like debowed him into a relationship before they even had
Speaker 1: kids because she was bigger than them. Some rescu shit like,
Speaker 1: You're gonna be with me and we're gonna have kids. Nigga,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to the Feds and you go take
Speaker 1: care and while I'm in there, and then I'm gonna
Speaker 1: come back.
Speaker 2: You tell all these people.
Speaker 1: My bad job. Don't try to fight me. But anyway, y'all,
Speaker 1: there are legal ways to panhandle out here. You do
Speaker 1: not have to message strangers or even people you know
Speaker 1: and risk the chance of being exposed. You know, because
Speaker 1: now here I am talking about your ass. O.
Speaker 2: Before you tell the legal ays, can I tell you
Speaker 2: something I do and I want you all to participate
Speaker 2: in and support of me. This year, I post my
Speaker 2: cash up on my birthday. It's so tacky, but I
Speaker 2: do it.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's nice to get like, you know, a
Speaker 1: little show me, show me, you let.
Speaker 2: Me a little bit, lend me forty dollars for my
Speaker 2: fortieth and if everybody do it, I got twenty three
Speaker 2: thousand followers. If everybody sit before forty dollars, I'll be up.
Speaker 2: But John don't want to participate.
Speaker 1: Bitch, is just your birthday. You ain't selling nothing. You
Speaker 1: ain't selling no T shirts, no, nothing like just your
Speaker 1: birth and joy. Girl by it is not enough, not
Speaker 1: enough joy. Your joy costs too much. Got a hot
Speaker 1: five dollars for you? You might get five dollars out
Speaker 1: of twenty three thousand people.
Speaker 2: I take that too shit?
Speaker 1: Right, me too shit? So this is on I can
Speaker 1: help dot net. It says understanding panhandling in the digital age,
Speaker 1: because that's where we are, Like, you really don't have
Speaker 1: to stand on the streets no more. And here at
Speaker 1: the mall in Charleston, this isn't really panhandling, but it's
Speaker 1: like borderline. So these kids they make like the roses
Speaker 1: here in Charleston, out of the out of the soft grass,
Speaker 1: Jesus Christ, I of like the little They call it meta.
Speaker 1: I can't remember the actual name of the grass, the
Speaker 1: sweet grass. Basically, they make roses. And it's like you
Speaker 1: can't go in the mall without buying rolls from these niggas.
Speaker 1: They are there every day and I would prefer I
Speaker 1: prefer them to be doing this as opposed to robbin
Speaker 1: and getting into trouble. So I try to give them
Speaker 1: money every time, but I don't always have cash.
Speaker 2: How much do it?
Speaker 1: It's like five dollars and it usually asks for donation, right,
Speaker 1: but they want they want some money for the roads,
Speaker 1: because they do you know, they go pick the grass
Speaker 1: and they make the rolls make it. Yeah, but I
Speaker 1: not had enough of them shit and they just dry
Speaker 1: out in the car. But I don't want to have
Speaker 1: to pay y'all five dollars every time and go in
Speaker 1: the mall.
Speaker 2: Well you don't.
Speaker 1: You can say no, I do be saying, though, I'll
Speaker 1: say I don't have cash and guess what you got cash? Up?
Speaker 1: I don't got cash, app I don't. I've been stop
Speaker 1: using cash ap years ago, So yeah, I'm not and
Speaker 1: I'm just not. If I don't have the cash on me,
Speaker 1: you can't panhandle me. And another thing I do when
Speaker 1: somebody's walking up asking for money, I immediately ask them
Speaker 1: first because you kind of already know they come and
Speaker 1: that especially can't I get a dollar real fast, Atlanta?
Speaker 2: I do that. I definitely ax him for it because
Speaker 2: it used to get outrageous there, it's just too much. No,
Speaker 2: I ran out of give it free money this week?
Speaker 1: Really, So what is panhandling? Panhandling traditionally involves individuals, often
Speaker 1: homeless or in financial distress, asking for money in public
Speaker 1: places like streets. In recent years, however, panhandling has shifted
Speaker 1: into the digital realm through platforms like gofund me, Instagram, PayPal,
Speaker 1: TikTok Live. On these platforms, viewers can give gifts to influencers,
Speaker 1: which can be converted into real money. This online form
Speaker 1: of panhandling, often rooted in necessity, also includes requests to
Speaker 1: cover significant expenses like medical bills and funerals. Yet, because
Speaker 1: you know a lot of people use GoFundMe.
Speaker 2: I'mbout to say it's fund considering panhandling.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is.
Speaker 2: It's begging, yes, So yeah, what about apps like Kickstarter
Speaker 2: for entrepreneurs?
Speaker 1: They have that also on the list. So that's all
Speaker 1: you're gonna get into the different types of because that's
Speaker 1: not really panhandling. But it is like you have some
Speaker 1: people who are philanthropists and they might have some extra money.
Speaker 1: You know, they can sign up for these sites. You
Speaker 1: can go on in beg and if you're if your
Speaker 1: beg is good enough, they might fund whatever it is
Speaker 1: you're trying to do. Exactly. It's one I called fund
Speaker 1: my travel, So if you want a trip, you can
Speaker 1: get people to fund your trip.
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm getting on there until life, I knew.
Speaker 1: You would find that one interesting. Yes, it says, Yet
Speaker 1: it can extend to funding for non essential items such
Speaker 1: as luxury electronics. While digital platforms offer panhandlers access to
Speaker 1: a much larger larger audience, they also raise concerns about
Speaker 1: the potential for dishonesty and exploitation, because we already know,
Speaker 1: like the people on the streets, some of them don't
Speaker 1: even be There's videos of bitches like getting out the wheelchair,
Speaker 1: putting a wheelchair in the trunk and hopping on a
Speaker 1: BMW and driving off after panhandling at McDonald's all day.
Speaker 1: So it happens. It's a salary. Especially living in places
Speaker 1: like New York, you got access to all these people
Speaker 1: all day long.
Speaker 2: Like, well, maybe we should do like a experiment and
Speaker 2: I get outside ship and post up in like a
Speaker 2: very popular intersection and see how much money I can
Speaker 2: make it eight hours, y'all?
Speaker 1: Had you got to turn this into an experiment. It's
Speaker 1: not an experiment, you, No.
Speaker 2: We want to see how it works and then we'll
Speaker 2: we'll so we'll you're gonna give the money back?
Speaker 1: How I am I find these people, we can get
Speaker 1: the money back. Once the cameras close, we can we.
Speaker 2: Can donate the money to a homeless shelter.
Speaker 1: Why do you need to see how panhandling works for you?
Speaker 2: I want to see how much people, how much you
Speaker 2: can make, and then like maybe we could make it
Speaker 2: racial and we'll get a white girl to do it
Speaker 2: too the next day to contest and see who make
Speaker 2: the most money. There's gonna be a contest, not a contest,
Speaker 2: but like a social experiment.
Speaker 1: So whitehanders make ye?
Speaker 2: Do white women make? Our people more giving to white
Speaker 2: women than black women?
Speaker 1: Me personally, I don't give I'm sorry, y'all, I'm going
Speaker 1: to say this.
Speaker 2: I do.
Speaker 1: I only give money to black women home, and sometimes
Speaker 1: I might give money to a black man. I just
Speaker 1: feel like white people got like so much privilege, Like
Speaker 1: why are you using your white privilege to get money out?
Speaker 1: Like legitimately, right, even you, a bum on the street,
Speaker 1: would still have a better opportunity at getting this job
Speaker 1: than a black person with a degree get in that position.
Speaker 1: It literally happens. So for you to just be bucking
Speaker 1: the system and begging for my money on the street,
Speaker 1: I really don't respect it, not to get and old people,
Speaker 1: old people and black people. I'm giving them the.
Speaker 2: Money every time. Yeah, no matter what their color they
Speaker 2: yeah yeah, but yeah, like yeah, if you a young
Speaker 2: white man, it's hard to get a dollar out of me. Yeah,
Speaker 2: you got all the advantage.
Speaker 1: And the problem is with that. Also, it makes I
Speaker 1: feel a little bad about it because a lot of
Speaker 1: them are like veterans, and we know they put veterans
Speaker 1: on all these drugs, but there are also a lot
Speaker 1: of program programs yeah, and things that they can take
Speaker 1: advantage of. They don't have to be on the streets.
Speaker 1: But a lot of them they want to do their
Speaker 1: own thing. They don't want to have to answer to anybody.
Speaker 1: So they just really just buck in the system. And
Speaker 1: they think we're supposed to finance it. No, go get
Speaker 1: the help, because there's a lot of programs and you
Speaker 1: know people that that will help you can get money,
Speaker 1: get housing, get food stamps, all the things. They rather
Speaker 1: live in the woods and shit.
Speaker 2: Yeah, So.
Speaker 1: So impacts the genuine needs, so challenges for those in
Speaker 1: real need with an increased amount of false information. Those
Speaker 1: who are in actual need slash desperate need of money
Speaker 1: they cannot get from insurance or family face significant challenges.
Speaker 1: Panhandling legally allows them to ask for funds while decreasing
Speaker 1: possible feelings of shame or weakness. It becomes easier to
Speaker 1: ask for help directly with the ability of false pretenses
Speaker 1: and no way to tell them apart. So, okay, I
Speaker 1: go to public's. I swear to god, it's a new
Speaker 1: guy up there with one leg. It was a white
Speaker 1: guy up there with one leg for the longest. Now
Speaker 1: it's a black guy up there with one leg. I'm like,
Speaker 1: are y'all sitting on your leg?
Speaker 2: Right? Is this the scam?
Speaker 1: The white guy, I've seen him on the crutches with
Speaker 1: the one leg, But this dude was up in the
Speaker 1: sitting on a a in a wheelchair.
Speaker 2: And then I also see.
Speaker 1: How I would see it on his butt.
Speaker 2: Then you weren't looking at his butt. You weren't doing
Speaker 2: all that.
Speaker 1: You think the man in the wheelchair was sitting on
Speaker 1: it or the guy is standing up.
Speaker 2: Both of them might have been standing.
Speaker 1: No, the guy sat up. I've definitely seen his butt.
Speaker 1: I've seen his back, not necessarily his butt.
Speaker 2: What kind of freak? Shut up? You go work for.
Speaker 1: So and then you see like families, they have the
Speaker 1: kids out there, and.
Speaker 2: I've seen it. They'll get money out of me every time.
Speaker 1: I feel like they're like Palestinian. I've seen him in
Speaker 1: Charlotte too. They're here in Charleston. They like they look
Speaker 1: kind of yeah, no gypsies. They don't look like gypsies.
Speaker 1: I know what gypsies look like. These people, I'm not sure.
Speaker 1: But they have the kids with them. They're well dressed,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. They don't look dirty or
Speaker 1: anything like that. And you know they have a sign
Speaker 1: telling you exactly why they need the money.
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.
Speaker 1: And I find a hard time giving them money too,
Speaker 1: Why because I feel like I'm being finessed, Like I
Speaker 1: feel like, not because they're not dirty, but I just
Speaker 1: feel like there are resources out here that you don't
Speaker 1: have to be doing that. I just don't. I don't
Speaker 1: believe you. And then you're adding the kids for a
Speaker 1: little razzal dazzle. I don't trust you.
Speaker 2: Here to take it.
Speaker 1: And just because somebody looks like they have it regular
Speaker 1: day to day. People who are working don't eat at night,
Speaker 1: you know they are.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to make it Mama's going out to being
Speaker 2: hungry so their kids can.
Speaker 1: Yes. So like you know, hunger doesn't have a look
Speaker 1: to it. So you never know what the next person
Speaker 1: is going through while you just out here panhandling, probably
Speaker 1: taking their last to give it to you. So and
Speaker 1: it says the ethical concerns and exploitation says. However, the
Speaker 1: same the same ease of access also opens the door
Speaker 1: for exploitation, as some panhandlers use platforms like GoFundMe or
Speaker 1: TikTok live to request money for non essential luxuries such
Speaker 1: as gaming consoles or vacations. The autonomy of the Internet
Speaker 1: removes much of the shame or hesitation involved in face
Speaker 1: to face begging, leading an ethical concern leading to ethical
Speaker 1: concerns about transparency and honesty. Without strict legal regulations governing
Speaker 1: online solicitation, it becomes easier for individual individuals to obscure
Speaker 1: their true intentions, manipulating the generosity of donors. So this
Speaker 1: raises concerns and questions of whether there should be a
Speaker 1: better oversight to prevent fraudulent or selfish campaigns. I think
Speaker 1: there should be something.
Speaker 2: Did you see where that one white lady called that
Speaker 2: a black kid a racial slur on the playground and
Speaker 2: they raise saving hundred thousand dollars for that woman girl.
Speaker 1: That should piss me off. Yeah, that really piss me off, because.
Speaker 2: Yeah, why is that being rewarded? That's so ugly. And
Speaker 2: then but then I heard that black man who yeah,
Speaker 2: that's I was just about to say, that's not just
Speaker 2: they wouldn't allow him to have one.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and we know that white supremacists raised millions of
Speaker 1: dollars for these people who do mass shootings and all
Speaker 1: that shit. So why did GoFundMe apologize to the Minnesota police?
Speaker 1: Basically because they they were allowing money to be raised.
Speaker 1: His name is Hinton Hinting. It was allowed allowing money
Speaker 1: to be raised for him. The son has a separate
Speaker 1: goal funding that they haven't taken down, but they have
Speaker 1: removed the guy who who shot the police officer, I mean,
Speaker 1: who ran the police officer over the father. They took
Speaker 1: his page down.
Speaker 2: Well, I don't agree with what he did, but if
Speaker 2: I just feel like if it's goose, good for the
Speaker 2: Goose is good for the game, the life. If you
Speaker 2: allow one thing, you should allow for everyone.
Speaker 1: Don't absolutely can choose Rodney Hinton Junior, that's his name.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't agree. I understand, but I don't agree,
Speaker 2: you know, And.
Speaker 1: I feel like you should be able to panhandle. If
Speaker 1: they're going to make it illegal, like something you can
Speaker 1: actually do, you should be able to do it. Anybody
Speaker 1: should be able to do it, and anybody should be
Speaker 1: able to support that cause, no matter what it is,
Speaker 1: what y'all are doing is taking away his ability to
Speaker 1: defend himself because I do feel like he was experiencing
Speaker 1: a moment of mental instability, like his son had just
Speaker 1: got killed. The wife said, his son had just got murdered,
Speaker 1: and he's just had seen a video for the first time,
Speaker 1: and he just put the phone down and hopped in
Speaker 1: his fucking truck and he just hit a police officer, well,
Speaker 1: a retired police officer. It wasn't even the person who
Speaker 1: killed his son.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 1: That's the part that really uh yeah, yeah, but I
Speaker 1: don't feel like he should be They should take away
Speaker 1: his ability. He needs a good lawyer. Just imagine the
Speaker 1: imagery I didn't like about that situation is how all
Speaker 1: those officers were in the courtroom and his family, yes,
Speaker 1: hundreds of them, and they wouldn't allow his brother, his
Speaker 1: family like to be in there with him. That is
Speaker 1: definitely intimidation. I can only imagine what they do in
Speaker 1: his food. He needs a good attorney to maybe get
Speaker 1: his case to be done, like in a different venue,
Speaker 1: like in a different state of city, because they going
Speaker 1: to kill him. Yeah, They're going to kill him.
Speaker 2: Because yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So anyway, I want to panhandle for him, like
Speaker 1: I want to give him some money. I did donate
Speaker 1: to the son's go fund me, but I still feel
Speaker 1: like the father needs some help to it. And then
Speaker 1: gofund me can put stipulations on whether or not that
Speaker 1: money can go to you know, like what are they
Speaker 1: doing with the money? Type shit? Yeah anyway, sorry y'all,
Speaker 1: but that's just the world we live in in job.
Speaker 1: But yeah, so platforms were begging If you guys are interested.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, lift them.
Speaker 1: We have begging money dot com. Okay. Begging money is
Speaker 1: a platform where individuals can create personal pages to explain
Speaker 1: their financial needs, and users can directly ask the public
Speaker 1: for financial favors so somebody can straight I've actually used
Speaker 1: begging money dot com before. When I asked the leader
Speaker 1: living with me, I did begging dot com and I
Speaker 1: did GoFundMe. I got nothing from begging dot com and
Speaker 1: I got about two hundred dollars on goalfundme. But a
Speaker 1: bitch can go to Miami, Florida from Memorial Day weekend
Speaker 1: and gets stuck down there because she took her fast
Speaker 1: ass down there with no fucking money, And then she
Speaker 1: could put a post up on TikTok and social media
Speaker 1: and y'all, motherfuckers will donate money to bullshit.
Speaker 2: I'm about to post some bullshit like I'm so serious, y'all.
Speaker 2: I'm about to make up some bullshit. I'm about to
Speaker 2: put a picture of my butt and I'm about to
Speaker 2: get paid.
Speaker 1: And y'all, so leader was an eighty three year old
Speaker 1: elderly woman like I had living with me off the streets.
Speaker 1: I put like this long ass story explaining her her
Speaker 1: life story, all the things, and nobody was like, I
Speaker 1: just stay, Yes, people are nuts, we will we like bullshit, right.
Speaker 2: That's why I'm just gonna post the most like I'm
Speaker 2: just gonna be honest. I need this money because i
Speaker 2: want to go on a trip like some stupid shit
Speaker 2: like that. People donate to that before they donate to
Speaker 2: eighty three year old woman who needs help and that's awful. Yeah.
Speaker 1: The other there's another. It's called indie. Go Go is
Speaker 1: a well known crowdfunding platform tailor to creative entrepreneurs and
Speaker 1: invest in innovators. You can launch a campaign on there
Speaker 1: and have strangers, you know, donate, So I mean this
Speaker 1: is also you could use it for your business.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: It doesn't necessarily have to be for like personal shit.
Speaker 1: You can use it to use different sites to actually
Speaker 1: launch businesses businesses. Fundly is another popular one. Fundly dot
Speaker 1: com f U n d L why dot com encourages
Speaker 1: users to share regular updates, express gratitudes. Now you gotta
Speaker 1: be on there saying thank you all day and me
Speaker 1: and you that maintained open communication with the supporters.
Speaker 2: Oh that's a real job, right right, And.
Speaker 1: Like you mentioned, Kickstart, kickstart logit in twenty nineteen has
Speaker 1: become a household name in crowdfunding. So I guess kickstart
Speaker 1: would essentially be the same as like a crowdfunding crowdfunder
Speaker 1: dot com or fundly Patreon. I don't know how to help.
Speaker 1: Patreon could be considered a begging site. I'm actually giving
Speaker 1: you something for your money. I'm giving you content for
Speaker 1: the money. So yeah, they do have Patreon listed.
Speaker 2: Would y'all want us to start a Patreon?
Speaker 1: Let's know, would y'all can we panhandle on there? We're
Speaker 1: gonna start with y'all, y'all donate to start telling like,
Speaker 1: we'll start dropping names for shit that we just keep
Speaker 1: to ourselves on this show. Cyberbag dot com is another one.
Speaker 1: It allows you to ask for financial help online. It's
Speaker 1: as straightforward as it sounds. No longer application or waiting
Speaker 1: approval time. So you might want to you might want
Speaker 1: to try that one.
Speaker 2: Listen, one hundred and sixty thousand black women got laid
Speaker 2: off in April. They lost their jobs in April, one
Speaker 2: hundred and sixty thousand. That was the highest number of
Speaker 2: any demographic. I don't see why we don't all post
Speaker 2: on this shit and just see what happens.
Speaker 1: Mine as well, right, mine as well. I mean, one
Speaker 1: hundred and sixty thousand got laid off. I know a
Speaker 1: lot of people who actually started working, though, so I
Speaker 1: think a lot of those were those government jobs possibly
Speaker 1: where they did have the opportunity. Here's the thing with that.
Speaker 1: If you work in a corporate job, right, and they
Speaker 1: are doing a riff, which is reduction in workforce, right,
Speaker 1: and they say, hey, either you can take this severance
Speaker 1: of this such and such a percentage of your salary
Speaker 1: and we're gonna pay you this lump sum and your
Speaker 1: jobs and you got income. Right that holds you over
Speaker 1: until you find another job. I think most people are
Speaker 1: in corporate settings who already wanted to get the fuck
Speaker 1: away from his job, and now you can get paid
Speaker 1: while you look for another job. They would take it.
Speaker 1: But see what the government that is like the krim
Speaker 1: de la crime of jobs and positions. So you don't
Speaker 1: want to leave it because you're not going to get
Speaker 1: this sweet ass job where you haven't been doing shit
Speaker 1: for ten, fifteen, twenty years and now somebody looking into
Speaker 1: your shit and realizing you haven't been doing anything. One
Speaker 1: of my friends, they actually had them writing like we
Speaker 1: always had to do, like performance reviews on ourselves.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: They basically made it just right out like what it
Speaker 1: is that they do and why they think that they are,
Speaker 1: you know, needed. Essentially, if somebody were to give me
Speaker 1: an opportunity like that, Like, I'm always an asset, so
Speaker 1: you're about to give me an opportunit. I'm a fuck
Speaker 1: want to be ce Oh after i write up all
Speaker 1: the shit I've been doing, because I'm never taking a
Speaker 1: job anywhere and not do it to the fullest.
Speaker 2: I just think it's crazy that black women lost their
Speaker 2: jobs more. I mean, we weren't the only ones sitting
Speaker 2: in the pie jobs. It was all demographics.
Speaker 1: But no, I'm not saying that all were pie jobs.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying a lot. I think a lot of
Speaker 1: that one sixty was the government shit, yeah for sure.
Speaker 2: But anyway, y'all go ahead, especially if you got laid off,
Speaker 2: you definitely be able to jump your ass on these panhandling.
Speaker 1: And where I saw that headline, right, but where is
Speaker 1: the actual where does that? Where did that statistic come from?
Speaker 1: Like people make things up, right, So you know, niggas
Speaker 1: want us to not be employed and not have the
Speaker 1: money we got. So imagine somebody putting out this false
Speaker 1: narrative that we just don't got no fucking job, and
Speaker 1: we all broke down.
Speaker 2: I think it was Newsweek.
Speaker 1: That's what I thought when I saw that, Like and
Speaker 1: I just hadn't had a chance to look too deep
Speaker 1: into to actually see where where the numbers came from.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, can't handle y'all, how on these sites?
Speaker 1: Howp on these dicks? Like what have y'all got to
Speaker 1: do to get the money? Yeah, there's a lot of
Speaker 1: different resources out there, and y'all we are in a
Speaker 1: capitalistic economy, right, So as much as people people hate
Speaker 1: on the rich, they hate on people not paying taxes
Speaker 1: and things like that. You know, people talk about how
Speaker 1: Trump wasn't paying taxes. As a business owner in America,
Speaker 1: your number one goal, right is the most income you
Speaker 1: can make, and you want to pay the less amount
Speaker 1: of tax least amount of taxes on that income. When
Speaker 1: you become a business owner, you won't see why the
Speaker 1: fucking nigga wasn't paying taxes. But until if you don't
Speaker 1: know the science of business, right, you're not going to
Speaker 1: know how to use the tools that's put there for
Speaker 1: you to win. So either y'all want to be in
Speaker 1: the game or you're not. You can't get mad at
Speaker 1: motherfuckers that's playing. I'm always played a game, bitch. I
Speaker 1: ain't forfeit, So I'm trying to do all the things.
Speaker 2: Why I want all our live shows on thursd's face,
Speaker 2: I'm glad you said that. Ship. Why it's cheaper, it's cheaper.
Speaker 1: Okay, here's the thing. Here's the thing, y'all, and listen
Speaker 1: hear me out, Tammy. It may be cheaper to get
Speaker 1: the venue on a Thursday, right, but I believe we'll
Speaker 1: get It'll be an even, it will break even regardless
Speaker 1: because more people will still come out on the weekends.
Speaker 1: We paid our our good day. Would y'all come out
Speaker 1: for a live so that'll kill it right there? What day?
Speaker 1: Would y'all prefer to come on a live show after
Speaker 1: work on Thursday? Or a hot, nice Sunday study Sunday
Speaker 1: in the summer.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but Sunday, nobody's coming at Sunday night. You're not
Speaker 2: doing a live show on it like six.
Speaker 1: It don't have to be like eight o'clock in the evening.
Speaker 1: We do like six. The bitches I went to brunch
Speaker 1: whatever not about to come get some drinks. Just be funny.
Speaker 1: In the summertime, people do people they have been parties
Speaker 1: from from one to ten on Sundays and the.
Speaker 2: Second people want something to do during the week y'all, Let.
Speaker 1: Us know what, y'all, because I'm calculating my life. I
Speaker 1: don't know if you're calculating yours and not. I have,
Speaker 1: literally I have listened to my life. I've taken up
Speaker 1: a lot of new shit recently. And for the last
Speaker 1: five years I was free as a burb bage. I'm
Speaker 1: not that free no more. So now I want to
Speaker 1: make sure I keep my mental health attact and make
Speaker 1: sure I really, uh calculate realistically the things I can
Speaker 1: press my body to do. That's where I'm at. I
Speaker 1: know you understand.
Speaker 2: I get it. I get it.
Speaker 1: I get it because the bitch already getting stressed out,
Speaker 1: like literally, like I'm already like on the calendar, like
Speaker 1: trying to organize things in my mind to make sure
Speaker 1: I can execute and not half assed execute, right, I
Speaker 1: want to make sure we execute, Like yeah, this that
Speaker 1: I agree?
Speaker 2: I agree? So what y'all, y'all let us know. Would
Speaker 2: y'all rather see us on Thursday night start the weekend
Speaker 2: off or on Sunday after Friday a Saturday.
Speaker 1: Well Thursday through Sunday. That's what we're looking at all right, right, anyway,
Speaker 1: y'all get the panhandling shit. It's listen Biden did put
Speaker 1: out a statement once and he was saying, how the
Speaker 1: economy this is before he before Trump got in office.
Speaker 1: He was saying, how economy was so well right, and
Speaker 1: it is the truth, But it's the wealth gap that
Speaker 1: nobody's calculating. Yeah, we got a great economy, but most
Speaker 1: of the people making the money, you know, aren't at
Speaker 1: the They're not in our shit, you know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: the wealth gap is ridiculous right now? Middle class are
Speaker 1: your social media millionaires, the motherfuckers you see online like
Speaker 1: these are millionaires now, and then everybody else is basically
Speaker 1: below poverty, right, So we gotta do something right. You
Speaker 1: gotta play the game. You have to do all the things.
Speaker 1: So maybe in making handle panhand like yes, okay, if
Speaker 1: they if they want to be philanthropists, philanthropists and give
Speaker 1: people the public some money, take it right, right, y'all?
Speaker 1: Up a nice campaign, bitch, you want to start your business, uh,
Speaker 1: sugarbaby dot com. Let's be very clear, that's another.
Speaker 2: Man.
Speaker 1: Make sure you got your TMJ intact, like make sure
Speaker 1: your job working good, like get the money.
Speaker 2: Baby, No, don't go on that one.
Speaker 1: For real, because this shit is so scammy I went
Speaker 1: on there, and I'm like way past sugar Baby age. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm cougar age and the amount of Indians over there
Speaker 1: with them, fake profiles and Africans with them, fake ass
Speaker 1: profiles on sugarbaby dot com.
Speaker 2: And they don't look like they got no money, none
Speaker 2: of them.
Speaker 1: That's none of them. But listen now, one of these
Speaker 1: uh trad black trad wives on Instagram. Her husband looked
Speaker 1: like she got he got that check neither, but he do.
Speaker 1: I need you a fine ass old white man. If
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it, man, he got to be a
Speaker 1: fucking brunette or or he got to have like a
Speaker 1: nice ass salt and pepper. I can't do it otherwise,
Speaker 1: like he gotta be fine.
Speaker 2: Them ball's gonna be long either way, I can't do it.
Speaker 2: Hang up, shut up, gros.
Speaker 1: Hey, Jake. It's gonna be quick though. Stop all right, y'all,
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Speaker 1: And never hold your I love you because see what
Speaker 1: y'all don't realize is that Tammy Ben setting y'all up
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