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Speaker 1: Hope when we talk back where we encourage you to

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Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion.

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Speaker 1: Who talks. What's up, y'all? It's your girl a j holiday.

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Speaker 1: What's up, tam Bam?

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Speaker 2: I'm tam Bam and I have cramps?

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Speaker 1: Why?

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Speaker 2: Shit hurts so bad? Oh my god, Alicia, know you're

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Speaker 2: still alive.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're still a woman. You haven't transitioned in any capacity.

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Speaker 2: No, I have not.

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Speaker 1: I be needing to see my period every month. I

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Speaker 1: don't know how these bitches get put on these birth

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't want to. I'm scared of it. I

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Speaker 1: Do you use cups? Are you still use just pads?

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Speaker 1: What the cups?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: You know, I feel like my period go off real

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Speaker 1: fast with the cups.

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Speaker 1: It is it could be real nasty. I pull it

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Speaker 3: Yeah, first of all, I'm disgusted with myself every month anyway, right,

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Speaker 3: I got that cup, No get out of here.

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Speaker 1: I'd definitely be using those little soft cups because I

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Speaker 1: then I you know, I just got over using tampons,

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Speaker 2: Girl, I use them always. Z's the diaper shit, I

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Speaker 2: wear them all day. I don't wear them just at night.

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Speaker 2: So I finally got the lights to come on and

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Speaker 2: then they went off. I was following behind an eighteen wheeler.

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Speaker 2: Every oh every light in the inside and the outside

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Speaker 2: So I had to pee, y'all, And I didn't want

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Speaker 2: I didn't want to stop because if I stopped, I

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Speaker 2: because we family. I peded my alwaysies.

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Speaker 1: Just so nasty.

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Speaker 2: It works.

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Speaker 1: I didn't feel it was it warm do it.

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Speaker 2: Worked, It absorbed so well, like I didn't feel gross

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Speaker 2: I was in danger. I felt like I was in danger.

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Speaker 1: Always zs ads that we talked back, okay, because we

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Speaker 2: It's not but it worked. So yeah, I did that.

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Speaker 2: That happened. It was an emergency situation. You guys, don't

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Speaker 2: Acknowledgment whatever. Listen, all right, So what did I do

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Speaker 2: Informations Flip of Tea. But anyway, I tried to go

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Speaker 1: That's the old white ladies shit. You don't want people

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Speaker 2: Mall walkers of America. Yeah, that was it was me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah okay. So y'all know this graduation season and uh,

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Speaker 1: So yeah, then it's supposed to be about your son,

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Speaker 1: His mom is the Tony Braxton, right, so let him

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, what y'all saying righteous and ratchet, like we

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Speaker 1: Bernice has been known the upstage a bitch for her

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Speaker 2: She had on this blue number that didn't show any

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Speaker 1: It was cultural attire, I believe they. I don't know Bernice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I mean she looked like Jasmine.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she could have been easily been Jasmine. Jasmine had

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Speaker 2: feel like that's what maybe Tony could have did for

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Speaker 2: the graduation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she could have had on white instead of black, Like,

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Speaker 1: the funeral looking like that anyway?

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Speaker 2: Anyway, So, Tory Lanez was stabbed fourteen times, including seven

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Speaker 2: Hey girl, your mother is for stealing books.

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Speaker 1: They got to rush for stealing people's books.

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Speaker 1: I'm wondering who the crazy people were on the other side.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, anyway, Tory Lanez, we hope you heal up.

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Speaker 1: I mean I always have. It's a hard you know,

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Speaker 1: So. So Marlon Wayne said that he never got married

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Speaker 1: Oh, the dad passed away? No, his mother passed away,

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Speaker 2: All right. That's a weird reason. That's excuse.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he full of ship.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't got a woman that had her waiting

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Speaker 1: And and this is exactly why I like niggas were mamas,

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Speaker 2: You probably was like, now see he on their line

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Speaker 2: What is it they talk about.

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Speaker 1: Niggas begging for money online? Maybe somebody you know or strangers.

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Speaker 1: Has it ever happened to you?

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Speaker 1: But they had the like they were talking to my niece, like, yeah, man,

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Speaker 2: I've had that hack for quite a bit here, and

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Speaker 2: What you're gonna do with that? You can't do shit.

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Speaker 2: You can't even feel Can you fill up a tank

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Speaker 1: You can't even buy a crack with forty dollars no more.

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure if it's some drug addict type shit,

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Speaker 1: what are you doing with that money? You can't do nothing,

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Speaker 1: they add up. Yeah, because people who like panhandle on

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Speaker 2: I had two ones in my purse and I gave

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Speaker 1: He didn't make it. It is a job to beg

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Speaker 1: don't you know. They make them have a license to panhandle,

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Speaker 1: so the government want they cut up here. You are here,

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Speaker 2: Government cut.

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00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:01,359
Speaker 1: So I've never had anybody mess me. I remember you

438
00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 1: told me one time this girl messaged her ass on

439
00:23:03,359 --> 00:23:06,200
Speaker 1: Facebook for somebody she did.

440
00:23:06,400 --> 00:23:09,200
Speaker 2: She messaged me for eighty dollars and I sent it

441
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:11,960
Speaker 2: to her. I sent it to her, and then I

442
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:15,320
Speaker 2: ran it to her at the nail shop getting uh,

443
00:23:16,080 --> 00:23:18,800
Speaker 2: fucking diamonds all over her motherfucking nail, but.

444
00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:20,000
Speaker 1: Offfin shape.

445
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:25,040
Speaker 2: You need to be getting at ain't it? Ain't it?

446
00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:27,640
Speaker 2: Or not even a well fucking with my eighty dollars.

447
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:31,680
Speaker 1: I've seen this post this weekend or justin the boy page.

448
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:34,159
Speaker 1: It was like it's something about a nigga buying his

449
00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:37,280
Speaker 1: mama a Mother's Day gift. When he owed me money, right,

450
00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:40,879
Speaker 1: buy his mama flowers? You got some nerves, right, where's

451
00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 1: my money?

452
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:41,880
Speaker 2: Yeah?

453
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:44,280
Speaker 1: You got my money? Remember that on the family Guy?

454
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:51,000
Speaker 1: You got my money. I don't like all the people money, No,

455
00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:55,159
Speaker 1: absolutely not. And you know I'll never understand how homegirls.

456
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:58,240
Speaker 1: I have some friends who well I don't really won't

457
00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:00,680
Speaker 1: even call these people friends actually, because I don't think

458
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 1: my actual friends have ever asked me for money. If

459
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 1: I sense. You need something, you're gonna have it anyway.

460
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:10,240
Speaker 1: But I've had bitches asked me for money. I'm like, girl,

461
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:12,600
Speaker 1: you just just telling me about this dude you're fucking on, Like,

462
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:14,879
Speaker 1: why are you ask him? First?

463
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 2: I had a friend that I loved dearly and sometimes

464
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 2: I still miss her. But we fell out about money

465
00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 2: because all right, she said she didn't have money, and

466
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:30,040
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, I got you because if I

467
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:33,680
Speaker 2: got it, I got you, right, because that's what friends do.

468
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 2: Mm hm. But it got it got excessive, you know,

469
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:43,879
Speaker 2: it got excessive, and she got this nigga over and

470
00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:48,120
Speaker 2: she asked me, could I buy her some weed? Yeah,

471
00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 2: she was tripp and it's a nigga sitting right in

472
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:52,760
Speaker 2: the living room ready to smoke. No, I asked that

473
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 2: to get the long weed. I'm not buying you no drugs.

474
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:59,160
Speaker 2: I bought your food. I bought you, I did your hair,

475
00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:01,679
Speaker 2: I bought do something the word to the club and.

476
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:03,840
Speaker 1: You're gonna suck his dick. You anybody give me no head?

477
00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:09,760
Speaker 2: Right? But right? And you asked him and I was like,

478
00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:13,399
Speaker 2: ask him, No, it wasn't even the weed I had

479
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:16,359
Speaker 2: already bought that. She was like, can you buy a cigar.

480
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:20,119
Speaker 1: Damn. So you just applying everybody everything and.

481
00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:21,640
Speaker 2: He's sitting in the living room. I was like, ask

482
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:23,840
Speaker 2: him to go get one. She's like, I don't want

483
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:25,560
Speaker 2: to ask him for that. I don't want to ask them.

484
00:25:25,960 --> 00:25:27,399
Speaker 2: So I came to the living room. I was like, oh,

485
00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:28,920
Speaker 2: can you go? Can you go to the store and

486
00:25:29,000 --> 00:25:31,800
Speaker 2: get a cigar? He was like, yeah, no problem, And

487
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:33,239
Speaker 2: then she got mad at me and put me out

488
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:33,880
Speaker 2: of her house.

489
00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:38,000
Speaker 1: For asking him to do his job.

490
00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 2: Yeah.

491
00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:42,040
Speaker 1: See, women, women be taking men's jobs away. Like, at

492
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:45,080
Speaker 1: what point, why are you why? Why do women feel

493
00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 1: ashamed of asking men for anything? Because men, baby, they

494
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 1: don't mind asking you for everything. Out of the sign

495
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 1: cooochie mouth air, they want all that shit. So if

496
00:25:54,320 --> 00:25:58,840
Speaker 1: they don't mind asking you for anything, what's the problem. Yeah,

497
00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:01,480
Speaker 1: So I want to read one of these messages, okay,

498
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:04,240
Speaker 1: because this is an example of how they're gonna ask

499
00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:06,480
Speaker 1: you for money. Could and I believe this is the

500
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:09,680
Speaker 1: actual person because of the way he's speaking, right, because

501
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 1: in Charleston we'd be like my guy, right. So the

502
00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:16,880
Speaker 1: message starts off as suck my guy, and my friend

503
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:21,040
Speaker 1: responds back, we're going on. He said, Hey, a, my dog,

504
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 1: I in New Orleans. Fuck up, I need some gas money, man,

505
00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 1: low ten fifteen if you can, I call him all

506
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:34,959
Speaker 1: type of people man. And so he my friend responds

507
00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:38,200
Speaker 1: back and says, I'm in Charlotte at the strip club

508
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:41,800
Speaker 1: throwing money on the floor. How I'm supposed to do that?

509
00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:46,399
Speaker 1: And do responding back, you got cash app? This nigga

510
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 1: responds back to him and say, yeah, bro, how the

511
00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 1: hell you get all the way to New Orleans from Charleston?

512
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:52,920
Speaker 1: Fuck up.

513
00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:57,560
Speaker 2: That, y'all?

514
00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:00,440
Speaker 1: Right, that shitdn't like to fucking die. He said, I

515
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 1: live here, bubba, I can't get my check toe after two. Man,

516
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 1: just a little situation. And he was like, I, what's

517
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 1: the phone number so I can send? Just send the

518
00:27:12,080 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 1: cash app name. Yeah, So he just the cash up. Yeah,

519
00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 1: So he did send him a couple of dollars.

520
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 2: That was nice.

521
00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:20,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I guess it's Look, this is not

522
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:22,679
Speaker 1: for motherfucker to be hitting me up. But if somebody

523
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 1: were to and I could verify it's actually them and

524
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:26,159
Speaker 1: I can spare it, I'm gonna give it to you.

525
00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 2: So first of all, all right, this is how we're

526
00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:31,960
Speaker 2: gonna bag for money, y'all, you say two nice things

527
00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 2: to them first before you ask. Because he said my

528
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:40,040
Speaker 2: guy and what else he called him bruh, big bro. No,

529
00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:43,560
Speaker 2: it was too nice. No, it was two nice of

530
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:44,399
Speaker 2: these in the beginning.

531
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 1: Let me see, hold on, let me get back to it.

532
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:51,920
Speaker 2: So I would be like, because I'm gonna ask a

533
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 2: nigga for some money.

534
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:55,439
Speaker 1: No, he said, ain't my dog? I New Orleans.

535
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 2: Fuck up, ain't my dog?

536
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:02,320
Speaker 1: It was one more that's it something my guy, my

537
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:05,440
Speaker 1: guys and my dog and my dog.

538
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 2: Okay, No, I had some bullshit, So set up and

539
00:28:10,920 --> 00:28:12,920
Speaker 2: set it up right, y'all, say two nice things.

540
00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:17,680
Speaker 1: And the person who asked for this money. When I

541
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:20,040
Speaker 1: tell y'all, when I was in middle school, I loved

542
00:28:20,640 --> 00:28:22,359
Speaker 1: this nigga. We used to be in this after school

543
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:24,960
Speaker 1: programming like uh like tutors.

544
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:26,600
Speaker 2: When his mom was taking care of him, making sure

545
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 2: he was.

546
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 1: He was always so cute and little and black like

547
00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 1: I loved him. And then he just he had women

548
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 1: relationships really like you know, they shape your future. So

549
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:42,840
Speaker 1: the girl he had kids by super hood rat. You

550
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,959
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, It is crazy like that might

551
00:28:46,000 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 1: have been that girl went to jail for some ship

552
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 1: like she was in federal prison at some point. I

553
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 1: feel like that shaped his future, damn. And I remember

554
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 1: talking to him and he told me how she basically

555
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 1: like debowed him into a relationship before they even had

556
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 1: kids because she was bigger than them. Some rescu shit like,

557
00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:08,360
Speaker 1: You're gonna be with me and we're gonna have kids. Nigga,

558
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to the Feds and you go take

559
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 1: care and while I'm in there, and then I'm gonna

560
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:11,959
Speaker 1: come back.

561
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 2: You tell all these people.

562
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:20,760
Speaker 1: My bad job. Don't try to fight me. But anyway, y'all,

563
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 1: there are legal ways to panhandle out here. You do

564
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 1: not have to message strangers or even people you know

565
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 1: and risk the chance of being exposed. You know, because

566
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:34,480
Speaker 1: now here I am talking about your ass. O.

567
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 2: Before you tell the legal ays, can I tell you

568
00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 2: something I do and I want you all to participate

569
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:43,040
Speaker 2: in and support of me. This year, I post my

570
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 2: cash up on my birthday. It's so tacky, but I

571
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 2: do it.

572
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 1: I mean, it's nice to get like, you know, a

573
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 1: little show me, show me, you let.

574
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 2: Me a little bit, lend me forty dollars for my

575
00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 2: fortieth and if everybody do it, I got twenty three

576
00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:01,320
Speaker 2: thousand followers. If everybody sit before forty dollars, I'll be up.

577
00:30:01,720 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 2: But John don't want to participate.

578
00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 1: Bitch, is just your birthday. You ain't selling nothing. You

579
00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:08,480
Speaker 1: ain't selling no T shirts, no, nothing like just your

580
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 1: birth and joy. Girl by it is not enough, not

581
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:15,800
Speaker 1: enough joy. Your joy costs too much. Got a hot

582
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 1: five dollars for you? You might get five dollars out

583
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 1: of twenty three thousand people.

584
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 2: I take that too shit?

585
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:26,240
Speaker 1: Right, me too shit? So this is on I can

586
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 1: help dot net. It says understanding panhandling in the digital age,

587
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 1: because that's where we are, Like, you really don't have

588
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 1: to stand on the streets no more. And here at

589
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:39,040
Speaker 1: the mall in Charleston, this isn't really panhandling, but it's

590
00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 1: like borderline. So these kids they make like the roses

591
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 1: here in Charleston, out of the out of the soft grass,

592
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:47,720
Speaker 1: Jesus Christ, I of like the little They call it meta.

593
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 1: I can't remember the actual name of the grass, the

594
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:55,040
Speaker 1: sweet grass. Basically, they make roses. And it's like you

595
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:57,719
Speaker 1: can't go in the mall without buying rolls from these niggas.

596
00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:00,120
Speaker 1: They are there every day and I would prefer I

597
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:02,720
Speaker 1: prefer them to be doing this as opposed to robbin

598
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:05,760
Speaker 1: and getting into trouble. So I try to give them

599
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 1: money every time, but I don't always have cash.

600
00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 2: How much do it?

601
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 1: It's like five dollars and it usually asks for donation, right,

602
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:14,200
Speaker 1: but they want they want some money for the roads,

603
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 1: because they do you know, they go pick the grass

604
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:19,840
Speaker 1: and they make the rolls make it. Yeah, but I

605
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 1: not had enough of them shit and they just dry

606
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:23,320
Speaker 1: out in the car. But I don't want to have

607
00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:25,400
Speaker 1: to pay y'all five dollars every time and go in

608
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 1: the mall.

609
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:26,760
Speaker 2: Well you don't.

610
00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 1: You can say no, I do be saying, though, I'll

611
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 1: say I don't have cash and guess what you got cash? Up?

612
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 1: I don't got cash, app I don't. I've been stop

613
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 1: using cash ap years ago, So yeah, I'm not and

614
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 1: I'm just not. If I don't have the cash on me,

615
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 1: you can't panhandle me. And another thing I do when

616
00:31:43,920 --> 00:31:46,880
Speaker 1: somebody's walking up asking for money, I immediately ask them

617
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:48,480
Speaker 1: first because you kind of already know they come and

618
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:52,240
Speaker 1: that especially can't I get a dollar real fast, Atlanta?

619
00:31:52,280 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 2: I do that. I definitely ax him for it because

620
00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:58,120
Speaker 2: it used to get outrageous there, it's just too much. No,

621
00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:00,320
Speaker 2: I ran out of give it free money this week?

622
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:10,200
Speaker 1: Really, So what is panhandling? Panhandling traditionally involves individuals, often

623
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:13,320
Speaker 1: homeless or in financial distress, asking for money in public

624
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:17,520
Speaker 1: places like streets. In recent years, however, panhandling has shifted

625
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 1: into the digital realm through platforms like gofund me, Instagram, PayPal,

626
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 1: TikTok Live. On these platforms, viewers can give gifts to influencers,

627
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 1: which can be converted into real money. This online form

628
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 1: of panhandling, often rooted in necessity, also includes requests to

629
00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 1: cover significant expenses like medical bills and funerals. Yet, because

630
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:42,440
Speaker 1: you know a lot of people use GoFundMe.

631
00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:44,600
Speaker 2: I'mbout to say it's fund considering panhandling.

632
00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is.

633
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:50,200
Speaker 2: It's begging, yes, So yeah, what about apps like Kickstarter

634
00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 2: for entrepreneurs?

635
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:55,280
Speaker 1: They have that also on the list. So that's all

636
00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 1: you're gonna get into the different types of because that's

637
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 1: not really panhandling. But it is like you have some

638
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 1: people who are philanthropists and they might have some extra money.

639
00:33:03,800 --> 00:33:05,680
Speaker 1: You know, they can sign up for these sites. You

640
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:07,959
Speaker 1: can go on in beg and if you're if your

641
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 1: beg is good enough, they might fund whatever it is

642
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:15,440
Speaker 1: you're trying to do. Exactly. It's one I called fund

643
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:18,320
Speaker 1: my travel, So if you want a trip, you can

644
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 1: get people to fund your trip.

645
00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:25,520
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm getting on there until life, I knew.

646
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 1: You would find that one interesting. Yes, it says, Yet

647
00:33:30,160 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 1: it can extend to funding for non essential items such

648
00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 1: as luxury electronics. While digital platforms offer panhandlers access to

649
00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:44,720
Speaker 1: a much larger larger audience, they also raise concerns about

650
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 1: the potential for dishonesty and exploitation, because we already know,

651
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 1: like the people on the streets, some of them don't

652
00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 1: even be There's videos of bitches like getting out the wheelchair,

653
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:54,440
Speaker 1: putting a wheelchair in the trunk and hopping on a

654
00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 1: BMW and driving off after panhandling at McDonald's all day.

655
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 1: So it happens. It's a salary. Especially living in places

656
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:06,120
Speaker 1: like New York, you got access to all these people

657
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:06,960
Speaker 1: all day long.

658
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:14,000
Speaker 2: Like, well, maybe we should do like a experiment and

659
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 2: I get outside ship and post up in like a

660
00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:24,239
Speaker 2: very popular intersection and see how much money I can

661
00:34:24,320 --> 00:34:26,319
Speaker 2: make it eight hours, y'all?

662
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:30,359
Speaker 1: Had you got to turn this into an experiment. It's

663
00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 1: not an experiment, you, No.

664
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:35,040
Speaker 2: We want to see how it works and then we'll

665
00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:38,080
Speaker 2: we'll so we'll you're gonna give the money back?

666
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:41,879
Speaker 1: How I am I find these people, we can get

667
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:43,799
Speaker 1: the money back. Once the cameras close, we can we.

668
00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 2: Can donate the money to a homeless shelter.

669
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:50,880
Speaker 1: Why do you need to see how panhandling works for you?

670
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 2: I want to see how much people, how much you

671
00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:55,719
Speaker 2: can make, and then like maybe we could make it

672
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:57,880
Speaker 2: racial and we'll get a white girl to do it

673
00:34:57,960 --> 00:35:01,839
Speaker 2: too the next day to contest and see who make

674
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:06,360
Speaker 2: the most money. There's gonna be a contest, not a contest,

675
00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 2: but like a social experiment.

676
00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:13,840
Speaker 1: So whitehanders make ye?

677
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:17,319
Speaker 2: Do white women make? Our people more giving to white

678
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:18,319
Speaker 2: women than black women?

679
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:23,520
Speaker 1: Me personally, I don't give I'm sorry, y'all, I'm going

680
00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:23,920
Speaker 1: to say this.

681
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:24,320
Speaker 2: I do.

682
00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 1: I only give money to black women home, and sometimes

683
00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:30,279
Speaker 1: I might give money to a black man. I just

684
00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:32,480
Speaker 1: feel like white people got like so much privilege, Like

685
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:34,920
Speaker 1: why are you using your white privilege to get money out?

686
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:39,440
Speaker 1: Like legitimately, right, even you, a bum on the street,

687
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 1: would still have a better opportunity at getting this job

688
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:46,880
Speaker 1: than a black person with a degree get in that position.

689
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 1: It literally happens. So for you to just be bucking

690
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:51,839
Speaker 1: the system and begging for my money on the street,

691
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:54,479
Speaker 1: I really don't respect it, not to get and old people,

692
00:35:55,160 --> 00:35:57,239
Speaker 1: old people and black people. I'm giving them the.

693
00:35:57,239 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 2: Money every time. Yeah, no matter what their color they

694
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 2: yeah yeah, but yeah, like yeah, if you a young

695
00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:07,839
Speaker 2: white man, it's hard to get a dollar out of me. Yeah,

696
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 2: you got all the advantage.

697
00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:11,640
Speaker 1: And the problem is with that. Also, it makes I

698
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 1: feel a little bad about it because a lot of

699
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:15,960
Speaker 1: them are like veterans, and we know they put veterans

700
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:18,879
Speaker 1: on all these drugs, but there are also a lot

701
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 1: of program programs yeah, and things that they can take

702
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:23,960
Speaker 1: advantage of. They don't have to be on the streets.

703
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:25,839
Speaker 1: But a lot of them they want to do their

704
00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 1: own thing. They don't want to have to answer to anybody.

705
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:30,360
Speaker 1: So they just really just buck in the system. And

706
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 1: they think we're supposed to finance it. No, go get

707
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 1: the help, because there's a lot of programs and you

708
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 1: know people that that will help you can get money,

709
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:43,440
Speaker 1: get housing, get food stamps, all the things. They rather

710
00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:44,479
Speaker 1: live in the woods and shit.

711
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:46,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, So.

712
00:36:48,719 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 1: So impacts the genuine needs, so challenges for those in

713
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:55,919
Speaker 1: real need with an increased amount of false information. Those

714
00:36:56,000 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 1: who are in actual need slash desperate need of money

715
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 1: they cannot get from insurance or family face significant challenges.

716
00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:08,239
Speaker 1: Panhandling legally allows them to ask for funds while decreasing

717
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 1: possible feelings of shame or weakness. It becomes easier to

718
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 1: ask for help directly with the ability of false pretenses

719
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:20,360
Speaker 1: and no way to tell them apart. So, okay, I

720
00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 1: go to public's. I swear to god, it's a new

721
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:26,359
Speaker 1: guy up there with one leg. It was a white

722
00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:28,120
Speaker 1: guy up there with one leg for the longest. Now

723
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 1: it's a black guy up there with one leg. I'm like,

724
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:31,839
Speaker 1: are y'all sitting on your leg?

725
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 2: Right? Is this the scam?

726
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 1: The white guy, I've seen him on the crutches with

727
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:38,320
Speaker 1: the one leg, But this dude was up in the

728
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:42,360
Speaker 1: sitting on a a in a wheelchair.

729
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:44,280
Speaker 2: And then I also see.

730
00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:48,239
Speaker 1: How I would see it on his butt.

731
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:51,319
Speaker 2: Then you weren't looking at his butt. You weren't doing

732
00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:51,680
Speaker 2: all that.

733
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 1: You think the man in the wheelchair was sitting on

734
00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:56,279
Speaker 1: it or the guy is standing up.

735
00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 2: Both of them might have been standing.

736
00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:01,759
Speaker 1: No, the guy sat up. I've definitely seen his butt.

737
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 1: I've seen his back, not necessarily his butt.

738
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 2: What kind of freak? Shut up? You go work for.

739
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: So and then you see like families, they have the

740
00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 1: kids out there, and.

741
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:20,480
Speaker 2: I've seen it. They'll get money out of me every time.

742
00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 1: I feel like they're like Palestinian. I've seen him in

743
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 1: Charlotte too. They're here in Charleston. They like they look

744
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 1: kind of yeah, no gypsies. They don't look like gypsies.

745
00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:34,880
Speaker 1: I know what gypsies look like. These people, I'm not sure.

746
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:39,360
Speaker 1: But they have the kids with them. They're well dressed,

747
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:41,360
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. They don't look dirty or

748
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:43,880
Speaker 1: anything like that. And you know they have a sign

749
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:46,439
Speaker 1: telling you exactly why they need the money.

750
00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:47,520
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

751
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:51,160
Speaker 1: And I find a hard time giving them money too,

752
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:54,840
Speaker 1: Why because I feel like I'm being finessed, Like I

753
00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:58,120
Speaker 1: feel like, not because they're not dirty, but I just

754
00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:00,879
Speaker 1: feel like there are resources out here that you don't

755
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:06,520
Speaker 1: have to be doing that. I just don't. I don't

756
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:08,640
Speaker 1: believe you. And then you're adding the kids for a

757
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:10,640
Speaker 1: little razzal dazzle. I don't trust you.

758
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:14,759
Speaker 2: Here to take it.

759
00:39:15,480 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 1: And just because somebody looks like they have it regular

760
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:20,520
Speaker 1: day to day. People who are working don't eat at night,

761
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:22,279
Speaker 1: you know they are.

762
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:25,279
Speaker 2: I'm trying to make it Mama's going out to being

763
00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:26,680
Speaker 2: hungry so their kids can.

764
00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 1: Yes. So like you know, hunger doesn't have a look

765
00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 1: to it. So you never know what the next person

766
00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:37,040
Speaker 1: is going through while you just out here panhandling, probably

767
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 1: taking their last to give it to you. So and

768
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:45,640
Speaker 1: it says the ethical concerns and exploitation says. However, the

769
00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:48,440
Speaker 1: same the same ease of access also opens the door

770
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:52,759
Speaker 1: for exploitation, as some panhandlers use platforms like GoFundMe or

771
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 1: TikTok live to request money for non essential luxuries such

772
00:39:56,120 --> 00:40:02,040
Speaker 1: as gaming consoles or vacations. The autonomy of the Internet

773
00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:05,839
Speaker 1: removes much of the shame or hesitation involved in face

774
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 1: to face begging, leading an ethical concern leading to ethical

775
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:14,840
Speaker 1: concerns about transparency and honesty. Without strict legal regulations governing

776
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:20,080
Speaker 1: online solicitation, it becomes easier for individual individuals to obscure

777
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:26,040
Speaker 1: their true intentions, manipulating the generosity of donors. So this

778
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 1: raises concerns and questions of whether there should be a

779
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 1: better oversight to prevent fraudulent or selfish campaigns. I think

780
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:37,680
Speaker 1: there should be something.

781
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:40,759
Speaker 2: Did you see where that one white lady called that

782
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:44,239
Speaker 2: a black kid a racial slur on the playground and

783
00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:48,839
Speaker 2: they raise saving hundred thousand dollars for that woman girl.

784
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:55,280
Speaker 1: That should piss me off. Yeah, that really piss me off, because.

785
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:03,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, why is that being rewarded? That's so ugly. And

786
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:06,359
Speaker 2: then but then I heard that black man who yeah,

787
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:08,360
Speaker 2: that's I was just about to say, that's not just

788
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:09,879
Speaker 2: they wouldn't allow him to have one.

789
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, and we know that white supremacists raised millions of

790
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 1: dollars for these people who do mass shootings and all

791
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:22,560
Speaker 1: that shit. So why did GoFundMe apologize to the Minnesota police?

792
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:28,400
Speaker 1: Basically because they they were allowing money to be raised.

793
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:31,319
Speaker 1: His name is Hinton Hinting. It was allowed allowing money

794
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:34,880
Speaker 1: to be raised for him. The son has a separate

795
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:37,600
Speaker 1: goal funding that they haven't taken down, but they have

796
00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:42,360
Speaker 1: removed the guy who who shot the police officer, I mean,

797
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 1: who ran the police officer over the father. They took

798
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:45,799
Speaker 1: his page down.

799
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 2: Well, I don't agree with what he did, but if

800
00:41:49,960 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 2: I just feel like if it's goose, good for the

801
00:41:52,080 --> 00:41:54,239
Speaker 2: Goose is good for the game, the life. If you

802
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:56,360
Speaker 2: allow one thing, you should allow for everyone.

803
00:41:56,480 --> 00:42:00,399
Speaker 1: Don't absolutely can choose Rodney Hinton Junior, that's his name.

804
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:05,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't agree. I understand, but I don't agree,

805
00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:06,440
Speaker 2: you know, And.

806
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:08,239
Speaker 1: I feel like you should be able to panhandle. If

807
00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:09,920
Speaker 1: they're going to make it illegal, like something you can

808
00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:12,400
Speaker 1: actually do, you should be able to do it. Anybody

809
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:14,000
Speaker 1: should be able to do it, and anybody should be

810
00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 1: able to support that cause, no matter what it is,

811
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:18,560
Speaker 1: what y'all are doing is taking away his ability to

812
00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:21,440
Speaker 1: defend himself because I do feel like he was experiencing

813
00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 1: a moment of mental instability, like his son had just

814
00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:27,400
Speaker 1: got killed. The wife said, his son had just got murdered,

815
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 1: and he's just had seen a video for the first time,

816
00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:31,960
Speaker 1: and he just put the phone down and hopped in

817
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 1: his fucking truck and he just hit a police officer, well,

818
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:39,520
Speaker 1: a retired police officer. It wasn't even the person who

819
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 1: killed his son.

820
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:40,400
Speaker 2: I know.

821
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 1: That's the part that really uh yeah, yeah, but I

822
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:49,239
Speaker 1: don't feel like he should be They should take away

823
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 1: his ability. He needs a good lawyer. Just imagine the

824
00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:55,960
Speaker 1: imagery I didn't like about that situation is how all

825
00:42:55,960 --> 00:43:00,200
Speaker 1: those officers were in the courtroom and his family, yes,

826
00:43:00,400 --> 00:43:02,960
Speaker 1: hundreds of them, and they wouldn't allow his brother, his

827
00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:05,480
Speaker 1: family like to be in there with him. That is

828
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:08,279
Speaker 1: definitely intimidation. I can only imagine what they do in

829
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:11,359
Speaker 1: his food. He needs a good attorney to maybe get

830
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 1: his case to be done, like in a different venue,

831
00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:17,520
Speaker 1: like in a different state of city, because they going

832
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:20,720
Speaker 1: to kill him. Yeah, They're going to kill him.

833
00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:24,160
Speaker 2: Because yeah.

834
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, So anyway, I want to panhandle for him, like

835
00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:30,680
Speaker 1: I want to give him some money. I did donate

836
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:32,919
Speaker 1: to the son's go fund me, but I still feel

837
00:43:32,960 --> 00:43:34,719
Speaker 1: like the father needs some help to it. And then

838
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 1: gofund me can put stipulations on whether or not that

839
00:43:37,719 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 1: money can go to you know, like what are they

840
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:44,319
Speaker 1: doing with the money? Type shit? Yeah anyway, sorry y'all,

841
00:43:47,440 --> 00:43:49,000
Speaker 1: but that's just the world we live in in job.

842
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:54,480
Speaker 1: But yeah, so platforms were begging If you guys are interested.

843
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, lift them.

844
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:03,400
Speaker 1: We have begging money dot com. Okay. Begging money is

845
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:06,560
Speaker 1: a platform where individuals can create personal pages to explain

846
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:11,240
Speaker 1: their financial needs, and users can directly ask the public

847
00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:16,439
Speaker 1: for financial favors so somebody can straight I've actually used

848
00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:19,520
Speaker 1: begging money dot com before. When I asked the leader

849
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:21,880
Speaker 1: living with me, I did begging dot com and I

850
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:25,080
Speaker 1: did GoFundMe. I got nothing from begging dot com and

851
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:27,640
Speaker 1: I got about two hundred dollars on goalfundme. But a

852
00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:30,320
Speaker 1: bitch can go to Miami, Florida from Memorial Day weekend

853
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:32,160
Speaker 1: and gets stuck down there because she took her fast

854
00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:33,759
Speaker 1: ass down there with no fucking money, And then she

855
00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:35,759
Speaker 1: could put a post up on TikTok and social media

856
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 1: and y'all, motherfuckers will donate money to bullshit.

857
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:42,680
Speaker 2: I'm about to post some bullshit like I'm so serious, y'all.

858
00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:44,719
Speaker 2: I'm about to make up some bullshit. I'm about to

859
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:49,440
Speaker 2: put a picture of my butt and I'm about to

860
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:49,960
Speaker 2: get paid.

861
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:54,839
Speaker 1: And y'all, so leader was an eighty three year old

862
00:44:54,920 --> 00:44:58,040
Speaker 1: elderly woman like I had living with me off the streets.

863
00:44:58,080 --> 00:45:01,080
Speaker 1: I put like this long ass story explaining her her

864
00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:04,400
Speaker 1: life story, all the things, and nobody was like, I

865
00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:10,880
Speaker 1: just stay, Yes, people are nuts, we will we like bullshit, right.

866
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:15,040
Speaker 2: That's why I'm just gonna post the most like I'm

867
00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:17,680
Speaker 2: just gonna be honest. I need this money because i

868
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:20,319
Speaker 2: want to go on a trip like some stupid shit

869
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 2: like that. People donate to that before they donate to

870
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:28,799
Speaker 2: eighty three year old woman who needs help and that's awful. Yeah.

871
00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:33,840
Speaker 1: The other there's another. It's called indie. Go Go is

872
00:45:33,840 --> 00:45:37,640
Speaker 1: a well known crowdfunding platform tailor to creative entrepreneurs and

873
00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:41,520
Speaker 1: invest in innovators. You can launch a campaign on there

874
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:44,680
Speaker 1: and have strangers, you know, donate, So I mean this

875
00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:46,720
Speaker 1: is also you could use it for your business.

876
00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:47,480
Speaker 2: You know.

877
00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:49,680
Speaker 1: It doesn't necessarily have to be for like personal shit.

878
00:45:50,600 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 1: You can use it to use different sites to actually

879
00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:58,680
Speaker 1: launch businesses businesses. Fundly is another popular one. Fundly dot

880
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:02,200
Speaker 1: com f U n d L why dot com encourages

881
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:05,839
Speaker 1: users to share regular updates, express gratitudes. Now you gotta

882
00:46:05,840 --> 00:46:08,360
Speaker 1: be on there saying thank you all day and me

883
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 1: and you that maintained open communication with the supporters.

884
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:18,759
Speaker 2: Oh that's a real job, right right, And.

885
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 1: Like you mentioned, Kickstart, kickstart logit in twenty nineteen has

886
00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 1: become a household name in crowdfunding. So I guess kickstart

887
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 1: would essentially be the same as like a crowdfunding crowdfunder

888
00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:37,480
Speaker 1: dot com or fundly Patreon. I don't know how to help.

889
00:46:37,520 --> 00:46:40,319
Speaker 1: Patreon could be considered a begging site. I'm actually giving

890
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:43,719
Speaker 1: you something for your money. I'm giving you content for

891
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:46,320
Speaker 1: the money. So yeah, they do have Patreon listed.

892
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:49,760
Speaker 2: Would y'all want us to start a Patreon?

893
00:46:50,719 --> 00:46:54,120
Speaker 1: Let's know, would y'all can we panhandle on there? We're

894
00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 1: gonna start with y'all, y'all donate to start telling like,

895
00:46:57,520 --> 00:47:00,319
Speaker 1: we'll start dropping names for shit that we just keep

896
00:47:00,360 --> 00:47:07,440
Speaker 1: to ourselves on this show. Cyberbag dot com is another one.

897
00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:10,920
Speaker 1: It allows you to ask for financial help online. It's

898
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:15,960
Speaker 1: as straightforward as it sounds. No longer application or waiting

899
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:18,480
Speaker 1: approval time. So you might want to you might want

900
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:19,239
Speaker 1: to try that one.

901
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 2: Listen, one hundred and sixty thousand black women got laid

902
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:26,080
Speaker 2: off in April. They lost their jobs in April, one

903
00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 2: hundred and sixty thousand. That was the highest number of

904
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:32,160
Speaker 2: any demographic. I don't see why we don't all post

905
00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:34,640
Speaker 2: on this shit and just see what happens.

906
00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:41,239
Speaker 1: Mine as well, right, mine as well. I mean, one

907
00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:43,920
Speaker 1: hundred and sixty thousand got laid off. I know a

908
00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:47,040
Speaker 1: lot of people who actually started working, though, so I

909
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:49,720
Speaker 1: think a lot of those were those government jobs possibly

910
00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:52,800
Speaker 1: where they did have the opportunity. Here's the thing with that.

911
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:56,200
Speaker 1: If you work in a corporate job, right, and they

912
00:47:56,239 --> 00:47:59,440
Speaker 1: are doing a riff, which is reduction in workforce, right,

913
00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:03,160
Speaker 1: and they say, hey, either you can take this severance

914
00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 1: of this such and such a percentage of your salary

915
00:48:06,560 --> 00:48:09,120
Speaker 1: and we're gonna pay you this lump sum and your

916
00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 1: jobs and you got income. Right that holds you over

917
00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:15,319
Speaker 1: until you find another job. I think most people are

918
00:48:15,320 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 1: in corporate settings who already wanted to get the fuck

919
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 1: away from his job, and now you can get paid

920
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:22,200
Speaker 1: while you look for another job. They would take it.

921
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:24,879
Speaker 1: But see what the government that is like the krim

922
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:28,359
Speaker 1: de la crime of jobs and positions. So you don't

923
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:30,439
Speaker 1: want to leave it because you're not going to get

924
00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:33,080
Speaker 1: this sweet ass job where you haven't been doing shit

925
00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:37,239
Speaker 1: for ten, fifteen, twenty years and now somebody looking into

926
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:40,759
Speaker 1: your shit and realizing you haven't been doing anything. One

927
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:44,480
Speaker 1: of my friends, they actually had them writing like we

928
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:46,640
Speaker 1: always had to do, like performance reviews on ourselves.

929
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:46,920
Speaker 2: Right.

930
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:50,400
Speaker 1: They basically made it just right out like what it

931
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:52,719
Speaker 1: is that they do and why they think that they are,

932
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:55,520
Speaker 1: you know, needed. Essentially, if somebody were to give me

933
00:48:55,560 --> 00:48:58,840
Speaker 1: an opportunity like that, Like, I'm always an asset, so

934
00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 1: you're about to give me an opportunit. I'm a fuck

935
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:02,319
Speaker 1: want to be ce Oh after i write up all

936
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:04,759
Speaker 1: the shit I've been doing, because I'm never taking a

937
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:06,760
Speaker 1: job anywhere and not do it to the fullest.

938
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 2: I just think it's crazy that black women lost their

939
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:12,640
Speaker 2: jobs more. I mean, we weren't the only ones sitting

940
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:15,399
Speaker 2: in the pie jobs. It was all demographics.

941
00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:17,560
Speaker 1: But no, I'm not saying that all were pie jobs.

942
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:18,960
Speaker 1: I'm just saying a lot. I think a lot of

943
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:22,479
Speaker 1: that one sixty was the government shit, yeah for sure.

944
00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:25,920
Speaker 2: But anyway, y'all go ahead, especially if you got laid off,

945
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:28,879
Speaker 2: you definitely be able to jump your ass on these panhandling.

946
00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:31,279
Speaker 1: And where I saw that headline, right, but where is

947
00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:34,480
Speaker 1: the actual where does that? Where did that statistic come from?

948
00:49:34,600 --> 00:49:37,480
Speaker 1: Like people make things up, right, So you know, niggas

949
00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:39,600
Speaker 1: want us to not be employed and not have the

950
00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 1: money we got. So imagine somebody putting out this false

951
00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:45,880
Speaker 1: narrative that we just don't got no fucking job, and

952
00:49:45,920 --> 00:49:46,680
Speaker 1: we all broke down.

953
00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 2: I think it was Newsweek.

954
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:53,360
Speaker 1: That's what I thought when I saw that, Like and

955
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:55,239
Speaker 1: I just hadn't had a chance to look too deep

956
00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:58,799
Speaker 1: into to actually see where where the numbers came from.

957
00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:04,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, can't handle y'all, how on these sites?

958
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:07,000
Speaker 1: Howp on these dicks? Like what have y'all got to

959
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 1: do to get the money? Yeah, there's a lot of

960
00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:14,400
Speaker 1: different resources out there, and y'all we are in a

961
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 1: capitalistic economy, right, So as much as people people hate

962
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 1: on the rich, they hate on people not paying taxes

963
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:28,920
Speaker 1: and things like that. You know, people talk about how

964
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:31,800
Speaker 1: Trump wasn't paying taxes. As a business owner in America,

965
00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:36,200
Speaker 1: your number one goal, right is the most income you

966
00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:38,160
Speaker 1: can make, and you want to pay the less amount

967
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:40,160
Speaker 1: of tax least amount of taxes on that income. When

968
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:43,440
Speaker 1: you become a business owner, you won't see why the

969
00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:45,879
Speaker 1: fucking nigga wasn't paying taxes. But until if you don't

970
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:48,239
Speaker 1: know the science of business, right, you're not going to

971
00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 1: know how to use the tools that's put there for

972
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:52,120
Speaker 1: you to win. So either y'all want to be in

973
00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:54,120
Speaker 1: the game or you're not. You can't get mad at

974
00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:57,000
Speaker 1: motherfuckers that's playing. I'm always played a game, bitch. I

975
00:50:57,000 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 1: ain't forfeit, So I'm trying to do all the things.

976
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:01,960
Speaker 2: Why I want all our live shows on thursd's face,

977
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 2: I'm glad you said that. Ship. Why it's cheaper, it's cheaper.

978
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:09,439
Speaker 1: Okay, here's the thing. Here's the thing, y'all, and listen

979
00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:12,600
Speaker 1: hear me out, Tammy. It may be cheaper to get

980
00:51:12,640 --> 00:51:14,799
Speaker 1: the venue on a Thursday, right, but I believe we'll

981
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:17,880
Speaker 1: get It'll be an even, it will break even regardless

982
00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:20,560
Speaker 1: because more people will still come out on the weekends.

983
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:24,440
Speaker 1: We paid our our good day. Would y'all come out

984
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:26,759
Speaker 1: for a live so that'll kill it right there? What day?

985
00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:29,560
Speaker 1: Would y'all prefer to come on a live show after

986
00:51:29,640 --> 00:51:34,000
Speaker 1: work on Thursday? Or a hot, nice Sunday study Sunday

987
00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:34,680
Speaker 1: in the summer.

988
00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:39,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, but Sunday, nobody's coming at Sunday night. You're not

989
00:51:39,800 --> 00:51:41,680
Speaker 2: doing a live show on it like six.

990
00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:45,200
Speaker 1: It don't have to be like eight o'clock in the evening.

991
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 1: We do like six. The bitches I went to brunch

992
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:52,360
Speaker 1: whatever not about to come get some drinks. Just be funny.

993
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 1: In the summertime, people do people they have been parties

994
00:51:56,960 --> 00:51:59,440
Speaker 1: from from one to ten on Sundays and the.

995
00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:03,239
Speaker 2: Second people want something to do during the week y'all, Let.

996
00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:05,719
Speaker 1: Us know what, y'all, because I'm calculating my life. I

997
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:07,440
Speaker 1: don't know if you're calculating yours and not. I have,

998
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:10,400
Speaker 1: literally I have listened to my life. I've taken up

999
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:13,000
Speaker 1: a lot of new shit recently. And for the last

1000
00:52:13,040 --> 00:52:15,000
Speaker 1: five years I was free as a burb bage. I'm

1001
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:17,080
Speaker 1: not that free no more. So now I want to

1002
00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:19,319
Speaker 1: make sure I keep my mental health attact and make

1003
00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:25,520
Speaker 1: sure I really, uh calculate realistically the things I can

1004
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:27,920
Speaker 1: press my body to do. That's where I'm at. I

1005
00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:28,800
Speaker 1: know you understand.

1006
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:30,080
Speaker 2: I get it. I get it.

1007
00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:33,399
Speaker 1: I get it because the bitch already getting stressed out,

1008
00:52:33,480 --> 00:52:36,400
Speaker 1: like literally, like I'm already like on the calendar, like

1009
00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:40,279
Speaker 1: trying to organize things in my mind to make sure

1010
00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 1: I can execute and not half assed execute, right, I

1011
00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:48,279
Speaker 1: want to make sure we execute, Like yeah, this that

1012
00:52:48,640 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 1: I agree?

1013
00:52:50,320 --> 00:52:52,839
Speaker 2: I agree? So what y'all, y'all let us know. Would

1014
00:52:52,880 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 2: y'all rather see us on Thursday night start the weekend

1015
00:52:56,280 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 2: off or on Sunday after Friday a Saturday.

1016
00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:08,960
Speaker 1: Well Thursday through Sunday. That's what we're looking at all right, right, anyway,

1017
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:14,359
Speaker 1: y'all get the panhandling shit. It's listen Biden did put

1018
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:18,200
Speaker 1: out a statement once and he was saying, how the

1019
00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:22,439
Speaker 1: economy this is before he before Trump got in office.

1020
00:53:22,440 --> 00:53:25,000
Speaker 1: He was saying, how economy was so well right, and

1021
00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:27,560
Speaker 1: it is the truth, But it's the wealth gap that

1022
00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:32,440
Speaker 1: nobody's calculating. Yeah, we got a great economy, but most

1023
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:35,560
Speaker 1: of the people making the money, you know, aren't at

1024
00:53:35,640 --> 00:53:38,279
Speaker 1: the They're not in our shit, you know what I'm saying, Like,

1025
00:53:38,360 --> 00:53:45,040
Speaker 1: the wealth gap is ridiculous right now? Middle class are

1026
00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:49,239
Speaker 1: your social media millionaires, the motherfuckers you see online like

1027
00:53:49,320 --> 00:53:52,800
Speaker 1: these are millionaires now, and then everybody else is basically

1028
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:57,000
Speaker 1: below poverty, right, So we gotta do something right. You

1029
00:53:57,080 --> 00:53:59,239
Speaker 1: gotta play the game. You have to do all the things.

1030
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:04,960
Speaker 1: So maybe in making handle panhand like yes, okay, if

1031
00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:07,839
Speaker 1: they if they want to be philanthropists, philanthropists and give

1032
00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:11,120
Speaker 1: people the public some money, take it right, right, y'all?

1033
00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:14,880
Speaker 1: Up a nice campaign, bitch, you want to start your business, uh,

1034
00:54:15,120 --> 00:54:19,800
Speaker 1: sugarbaby dot com. Let's be very clear, that's another.

1035
00:54:21,000 --> 00:54:21,160
Speaker 2: Man.

1036
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:26,359
Speaker 1: Make sure you got your TMJ intact, like make sure

1037
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:29,120
Speaker 1: your job working good, like get the money.

1038
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:31,040
Speaker 2: Baby, No, don't go on that one.

1039
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:35,000
Speaker 1: For real, because this shit is so scammy I went

1040
00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:38,120
Speaker 1: on there, and I'm like way past sugar Baby age. Okay,

1041
00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:43,160
Speaker 1: I'm cougar age and the amount of Indians over there

1042
00:54:43,200 --> 00:54:46,239
Speaker 1: with them, fake profiles and Africans with them, fake ass

1043
00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 1: profiles on sugarbaby dot com.

1044
00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:50,120
Speaker 2: And they don't look like they got no money, none

1045
00:54:50,160 --> 00:54:50,399
Speaker 2: of them.

1046
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:54,879
Speaker 1: That's none of them. But listen now, one of these

1047
00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:59,120
Speaker 1: uh trad black trad wives on Instagram. Her husband looked

1048
00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:00,960
Speaker 1: like she got he got that check neither, but he do.

1049
00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:04,080
Speaker 1: I need you a fine ass old white man. If

1050
00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:05,360
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it, man, he got to be a

1051
00:55:05,440 --> 00:55:08,800
Speaker 1: fucking brunette or or he got to have like a

1052
00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:12,000
Speaker 1: nice ass salt and pepper. I can't do it otherwise,

1053
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:14,279
Speaker 1: like he gotta be fine.

1054
00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:18,000
Speaker 2: Them ball's gonna be long either way, I can't do it.

1055
00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:25,520
Speaker 2: Hang up, shut up, gros.

1056
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:35,879
Speaker 1: Hey, Jake. It's gonna be quick though. Stop all right, y'all,

1057
00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:38,880
Speaker 1: panandle Anyway, if you enjoyed this episode, y'all tune in

1058
00:55:38,920 --> 00:55:41,080
Speaker 1: every Thursday on a black Effect. iHeart Radio Apple, wherever

1059
00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:43,160
Speaker 1: the fuck you get your podcasts at this your co

1060
00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:47,680
Speaker 1: host aj Holiday two point on instagrams kicking Tams.

1061
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:49,319
Speaker 2: Y'all my cash up is.

1062
00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:51,879
Speaker 1: Y'all.

1063
00:55:51,920 --> 00:55:54,640
Speaker 2: I am official tam band on Instagram. Y'all follow me now.

1064
00:55:54,680 --> 00:55:57,359
Speaker 2: I love y'all so much. Thank y'all for tuning into

1065
00:55:57,520 --> 00:56:00,640
Speaker 2: us every Thursday or whenever you get the chance. We

1066
00:56:00,800 --> 00:56:03,600
Speaker 2: really appreciate all the love and support, and we would

1067
00:56:03,719 --> 00:56:05,960
Speaker 2: love for y'all to come out and see us. We're

1068
00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:09,279
Speaker 2: gonna be in the city near you, really, really really soon,

1069
00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:12,120
Speaker 2: you guys, so the same way y'all be saving that

1070
00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:14,840
Speaker 2: money for Beyonce. Y'all put a couple of dollars to

1071
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:18,200
Speaker 2: the side of your girls that we talked back. P right,

1072
00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:19,680
Speaker 2: remember speak now.

1073
00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:22,759
Speaker 1: And never hold your I love you because see what

1074
00:56:22,920 --> 00:56:25,799
Speaker 1: y'all don't realize is that Tammy Ben setting y'all up

1075
00:56:25,880 --> 00:56:34,680
Speaker 1: for the Panhandle with that. I love you, Thank you. Bye,