WEBVTT - B*tches Be Betrayin' 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.120 Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of our Heart Radio 0:00:03.240 --> 0:00:06.400 and the Black Effect. Nice still asked back there, Nice 0:00:06.440 --> 0:00:10.080 Little asked back there. Nice still asked back there. Nice 0:00:10.080 --> 0:00:18.119 still ask your old ship. We want to ask, hey, y'all, 0:00:18.120 --> 0:00:20.560 what's up? Welcome back to Carefully Reckless with your girl 0:00:20.640 --> 0:00:23.560 just hilarious. Now listen. I would usually say this is 0:00:23.600 --> 0:00:25.720 not about me, it's about the crazy ship that y'all 0:00:25.760 --> 0:00:28.560 going through, But today is about me. I'm gonna let 0:00:28.600 --> 0:00:31.040 you'll in on my business. I'm gonna tell y'all my ship. Now. 0:00:31.040 --> 0:00:33.839 I got a question, seriously, has there ever been a 0:00:33.840 --> 0:00:37.600 time you betrayed a friend? Now? For me, yes, there has. 0:00:37.640 --> 0:00:40.800 There hasn't been plenty of times, but I can wholeheartedly 0:00:40.840 --> 0:00:49.199 say I betrayed a person. Grab your t is story time. Now. 0:00:49.240 --> 0:00:51.400 A lot of y'all may be familiar with me and 0:00:51.520 --> 0:00:54.440 April Jones being friends for a little period of time. 0:00:54.640 --> 0:00:56.600 Now April Jones, just in case y'all don't know, she 0:00:56.840 --> 0:00:59.960 is a reality star from Love and Hip Hop Hollywood, 0:01:00.000 --> 0:01:02.720 and she happens to be the mother to both of 0:01:02.760 --> 0:01:05.840 a Marian's kids. All right, man, April Man, we was cool. 0:01:05.880 --> 0:01:09.479 We hit it off cool, right, we became uncool because 0:01:09.480 --> 0:01:11.959 of some petty ship. I stopped coming to l A. 0:01:12.160 --> 0:01:14.360 I would tell her I was coming to cheer with her. 0:01:14.760 --> 0:01:16.880 Made a couple of plans, and they fell through, never 0:01:16.959 --> 0:01:19.200 came or whatever. I'm the type of person like this. 0:01:19.560 --> 0:01:21.399 I don't have to talk to you every day to 0:01:21.520 --> 0:01:23.919 be a good friend to you or to remain close 0:01:23.959 --> 0:01:25.880 with you. I'm one of those types of people that 0:01:25.920 --> 0:01:28.920 don't have to talk to a bit every day for 0:01:29.000 --> 0:01:31.600 us to remain in that good spot where we show 0:01:31.680 --> 0:01:36.559 always remain right. But April is the type who needs 0:01:36.560 --> 0:01:39.120 her friends to talk to her. She she loves the 0:01:39.160 --> 0:01:41.760 attention from our friends and ship to each your own. 0:01:41.800 --> 0:01:45.520 That's how she fosters her relationships. Our friendships. I foster 0:01:45.680 --> 0:01:47.920 minds totally different, which is probably why I don't have 0:01:47.960 --> 0:01:50.920 any friends. That's fine, So me and her I fell out. 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:53.520 She had got upset. She told certain people not to 0:01:53.600 --> 0:01:55.520 talk to me. Oh, don't hang out with her like 0:01:55.560 --> 0:01:58.040 on some little middle school ship. Fine, that's cool. I'm grown. 0:01:58.040 --> 0:02:00.080 I don't give a funk anyway. Any and everybody have 0:02:00.160 --> 0:02:02.000 you introduced to me that could be on your side. 0:02:02.040 --> 0:02:03.520 I don't give a funk. I was gonna fine before 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:05.400 I met you and them, and I'll be fine now 0:02:05.680 --> 0:02:09.400 right now, Monice, all right, this is her arch enemy. 0:02:09.480 --> 0:02:12.440 This is actually her ex boyfriend's baby mother, little Fizz. 0:02:12.520 --> 0:02:16.519 By the way, Now, I had talked some ship about 0:02:16.560 --> 0:02:19.480 April to Monie after me and April hadn't spoken about 0:02:19.520 --> 0:02:21.720 six months. So I thought I was never gonna reunite 0:02:21.760 --> 0:02:23.000 with this bitch. I thought I was never gonna be 0:02:23.000 --> 0:02:25.320 our friend again. Right. I talked a lot of ship, 0:02:25.639 --> 0:02:27.840 a lot of ship. I'm going to admit it, some 0:02:27.960 --> 0:02:29.920 cold hearted ship too, you know what I'm saying, Some 0:02:29.960 --> 0:02:33.400 ship that I was feeling. True ship though like all true, 0:02:33.440 --> 0:02:35.840 all factual. It was just fucked up that I said 0:02:35.840 --> 0:02:39.120 it to a bitch that hated this girl. Right. Cool. 0:02:39.600 --> 0:02:42.840 So one day, about eight months later, me and April 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:45.880 decided to reunite. In my mind, I'm not even thinking 0:02:45.880 --> 0:02:48.000 about the ship that I had talked about her months 0:02:48.040 --> 0:02:51.360 ago to Monice. But anyway, I meet up with April. 0:02:51.440 --> 0:02:54.560 We cool, We reunited, We met, We had lunch. Then 0:02:54.680 --> 0:02:57.000 she wants to show me her new house, the new 0:02:57.040 --> 0:03:00.000 house that her and Fizz had gotten. This ship. I'm like, okay, cool, 0:03:00.120 --> 0:03:02.359 pull up, it's nice we're in there, we're drinking, were 0:03:02.360 --> 0:03:05.600 having fun, we're talking. I'm apologizing to her about what 0:03:05.680 --> 0:03:07.760 she needed me to apologize about not being a good 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:10.320 friend that she wanted me to be. She's apologizing about 0:03:10.400 --> 0:03:13.040 being petty, you know, stop talking to me forever and 0:03:13.080 --> 0:03:16.360 ship because I bluffed all one time in Chicago. Alright, cool, 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:19.079 you know, she jumps on Live. I did not know 0:03:19.200 --> 0:03:21.640 that she was going to get on live and announced 0:03:21.639 --> 0:03:25.120 to everybody that we were reunited. However, I still didn't 0:03:25.120 --> 0:03:26.679 give a funk. I'm all right, whatever, cool, this this 0:03:26.760 --> 0:03:28.840 is the live ship. We're doing it. We're drinking, we're 0:03:28.919 --> 0:03:32.200 chilling all right while we're on Live together. Though this 0:03:32.280 --> 0:03:35.520 is on her live, she starts throwing a little subliminals 0:03:35.600 --> 0:03:38.480 at Monice. Okay, I didn't know that they were still beefing. 0:03:38.560 --> 0:03:40.040 I mean, I guess this is gonna be a life 0:03:40.520 --> 0:03:43.120 and ongoing lifetime beef, you know what I mean. But 0:03:43.320 --> 0:03:45.880 I didn't know that. So of course Monice must have 0:03:46.040 --> 0:03:49.480 gotten the hunch that we were on live, and she 0:03:49.640 --> 0:03:51.760 looked at the Live she saying April was talking about 0:03:51.760 --> 0:03:53.560 it and just seeing me with her, so I guess 0:03:53.640 --> 0:03:56.040 she feels like, oh, hold up, Jess, hold up, hold, 0:03:56.120 --> 0:03:58.640 let me pull out the motherfucking receipts because your ass 0:03:58.720 --> 0:04:00.800 over there with the bitch that you're just talk big 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:03.520 shit about a couple of months ago. Let me go 0:04:03.560 --> 0:04:05.840 and Rekin do this flame. So we get off live. 0:04:05.960 --> 0:04:07.960 Me able get off live. We're still talking and Ship 0:04:08.280 --> 0:04:10.720 she going through her comments or whatever on her last 0:04:10.760 --> 0:04:14.680 post and they're commenting Monie on Live talking about you 0:04:14.760 --> 0:04:17.679 and Jess. So I'm like, oh, Ship, I'm the one 0:04:18.000 --> 0:04:20.160 that's like, yo, let's go to her live, Like what 0:04:20.200 --> 0:04:22.720 the fun is she talking about? Still not even dawning 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:26.040 on me that I fucking talk shit about April to 0:04:26.200 --> 0:04:29.159 her months ago. So I'm the hype one, my dumbass, like, 0:04:29.400 --> 0:04:30.960 let's go see what she's talking about that what she 0:04:31.320 --> 0:04:34.600 ain't got nothing to say about me? Whatever I click 0:04:34.680 --> 0:04:37.480 on the Girls Live, man, all I hear is my 0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:40.520 voice because when I had talked about April, No, I 0:04:40.560 --> 0:04:42.800 didn't text it, No, we weren't on the phone. We 0:04:42.800 --> 0:04:47.120 were sending fucking voice notes back and forth, and Monie 0:04:47.200 --> 0:04:49.040 kept them because y'all know, if you got our phone 0:04:49.040 --> 0:04:50.719 and you send a voice note, that should have disappeared 0:04:50.720 --> 0:04:54.200 in two minutes. She kept them all, all of them, 0:04:54.240 --> 0:04:58.240 each and every cold hearted one. Man I clicked on 0:04:58.279 --> 0:05:00.520 that live it was me. I was talking about Fizz. 0:05:00.680 --> 0:05:03.600 I was talking about her. I was talking about man. 0:05:03.839 --> 0:05:07.599 I was on there while and I said, I don't 0:05:07.640 --> 0:05:10.600 remember exactly what then was It's like and fuck her 0:05:10.880 --> 0:05:12.839 and she want to keep having Fizz watch the kids? 0:05:12.839 --> 0:05:14.919 Why she going fuck this nigga and that nigga and 0:05:14.960 --> 0:05:16.920 she phoned me and ship and then this nigga. No, 0:05:17.000 --> 0:05:18.800 she y'all fucking niggas. But at the same time, he 0:05:18.880 --> 0:05:20.960 just gonna watch the kids and ship here there for 0:05:21.040 --> 0:05:23.200 when when Ship don't work out with the other niggas 0:05:23.200 --> 0:05:25.160 and ship. This nigga is a clown and the the 0:05:25.920 --> 0:05:29.160 man I'm going in, so imagine what's going through my mind. 0:05:29.200 --> 0:05:31.960 Imagine the look on her face. And then Fizz walks 0:05:32.000 --> 0:05:35.919 through the fucking front door, and um, he hears my 0:05:36.000 --> 0:05:38.120 voice as well. He walked in right on the part 0:05:38.160 --> 0:05:40.880 where I'm talking about him and ship, right, it just 0:05:40.960 --> 0:05:44.159 had to happen like that. I'm like, yo, really, So 0:05:44.400 --> 0:05:46.800 after a couple of minutes past everybody's quad, I click 0:05:46.839 --> 0:05:49.200 out of the ship. Nobody's gonna say nothing, something like shout, 0:05:49.200 --> 0:05:51.240 I might asppoed be the first to say something. I'm like, 0:05:51.760 --> 0:05:55.039 I don't even remember saying all that though, Like I 0:05:55.160 --> 0:05:58.120 ain't even gonna lie, like when was this, I don't 0:05:58.120 --> 0:05:59.760 I don't even I don't know. So she cut me 0:05:59.800 --> 0:06:04.280 off like, bitch, really, Jeff, really, I'm on crack, like 0:06:04.640 --> 0:06:07.200 I'm really a drug that I never said she was 0:06:07.240 --> 0:06:09.640 on crack. I never said. I never said you was 0:06:09.640 --> 0:06:13.600 on crack. Yo, I didn't. I did not say that. Um, 0:06:13.640 --> 0:06:16.440 it hurt her feelings, it did. I could say it 0:06:16.440 --> 0:06:19.400 in my face. Uh. Fears was still sitting there looking dumb, 0:06:19.400 --> 0:06:21.360 playing with his head just like I said on the 0:06:21.920 --> 0:06:24.480 voice recording as he was walking through the door. So 0:06:24.520 --> 0:06:26.320 I guess that prompted him to play with his little 0:06:26.360 --> 0:06:31.719 curls even more. I was embarrassed. I was humiliated, and 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:34.359 so was she, you know what I mean. So in 0:06:34.520 --> 0:06:37.400 that time I had to be remorseful. I'm like, Yo, 0:06:37.800 --> 0:06:40.560 my bad, Joe. I did tell you I talked about you. 0:06:40.640 --> 0:06:43.120 I just didn't tell you the extent of ship that 0:06:43.160 --> 0:06:45.960 I had talked and who I had talked the ship too. 0:06:46.200 --> 0:06:48.080 You know what I'm saying. I get it. It didn't 0:06:48.080 --> 0:06:50.479 have to go down like that it really didn't. I 0:06:50.480 --> 0:06:52.839 thought I was never gonna be a fucking friend again, nigga. Honestly, 0:06:52.839 --> 0:06:54.480 for real, you stopped talking to me because I bluffed 0:06:54.480 --> 0:06:57.120 you out in Chicago one time, like for real, like 0:06:57.320 --> 0:06:58.719 the funk, I didn't want to come there. It was 0:06:58.720 --> 0:07:00.560 a fucking blizzard, my nigga. I it. I don't like 0:07:00.640 --> 0:07:03.160 snow like that. I like to look at it. I 0:07:03.200 --> 0:07:05.120 don't like the crash and slip and fall in it. 0:07:05.160 --> 0:07:06.800 You feel me, So I didn't want to go. She 0:07:06.839 --> 0:07:09.000 knew that I ended up going to Atlanta. So that 0:07:09.040 --> 0:07:11.320 was the whole reason that we fucking fell out. The craziest, 0:07:11.320 --> 0:07:13.920 most pettiest ship. Bitch didn't talk to me for six months. 0:07:13.960 --> 0:07:15.400 I never thought I would see her again. I never 0:07:15.400 --> 0:07:18.000 thought I would even talk to her again. Period. That 0:07:18.160 --> 0:07:22.440 still does not justify me going to talk shit about 0:07:22.520 --> 0:07:25.840 her to her enemy, I swear to God, Joe. But 0:07:26.040 --> 0:07:28.160 let me tell you something A funny part of the story. 0:07:28.480 --> 0:07:30.680 So her phone was blowing up the whole time. Guess 0:07:30.720 --> 0:07:35.240 who the funk it is? Mona Scott Young sh an't 0:07:35.280 --> 0:07:37.640 asked the phone. April went in the bath room. She cried, 0:07:37.640 --> 0:07:40.160 she felt betrayed. I get it. I just didn't know 0:07:40.160 --> 0:07:41.520 what to do it that moment. It's like she didn't 0:07:41.520 --> 0:07:43.000 want to hug from me, she didn't want to hear 0:07:43.040 --> 0:07:45.600 ship something like, Yo, already deuces fists. Tell her when 0:07:45.600 --> 0:07:48.040 she get out the bathroom, I'm gone. I'm done. He 0:07:48.080 --> 0:07:49.840 didn't say the whole time. He was just like, all right, 0:07:50.040 --> 0:07:51.880 like yo, this nick is with all right, cool, So 0:07:52.080 --> 0:07:56.440 I'm gonna leave. So I proceed to leave. Mona text 0:07:56.520 --> 0:07:58.960 me now, yes, I have Mona's number. She text me, 0:07:59.120 --> 0:08:01.520 do we need to say the cameras? No, we don't. Yo. 0:08:01.680 --> 0:08:04.160 This bitch is and this is her life. This is 0:08:04.160 --> 0:08:05.720 our real life right now, you know what I mean? 0:08:05.760 --> 0:08:07.720 And even though this is what the fun they signed 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:09.680 up for when they wanted to be on Love and 0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:12.440 Hip Hop, just let her have some time right now. 0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:14.840 She's upset, she's hurt, and I want her to get 0:08:14.880 --> 0:08:17.400 ourselves together and ship. So now I don't send no cameras. 0:08:17.440 --> 0:08:20.000 I'm about to go anyway, so I laughed. Later on 0:08:20.080 --> 0:08:22.560 that day, I get a text from April. April was 0:08:23.480 --> 0:08:26.320 telling me the only way to make this right is 0:08:26.360 --> 0:08:28.160 if you do a scene on Love and Hip Hop 0:08:28.200 --> 0:08:30.720 with me. You have to go on there, and you 0:08:30.760 --> 0:08:34.319 have to act like we're gonna play this to our advantage. 0:08:34.360 --> 0:08:36.800 You have to act like you told me everything already 0:08:36.840 --> 0:08:40.000 that you had said about me to her and everything, 0:08:40.480 --> 0:08:43.000 and um, we're just gonna flip it and we So 0:08:43.040 --> 0:08:45.560 I'm like, na, yo, I'm not really trying to do 0:08:45.600 --> 0:08:47.480 that ship. That's not how I get the funk down. 0:08:47.559 --> 0:08:49.120 And I don't want to do it. This is not 0:08:49.200 --> 0:08:52.640 how I want to debut myself on love and hip hop. 0:08:52.760 --> 0:08:54.240 I don't want to do that ship. If I'm gonna 0:08:54.240 --> 0:08:55.520 be on it, it's gonna be on some other ship. 0:08:55.720 --> 0:08:59.240 She's like, well you did this? Did you betrayed me? 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:01.600 I am your friend, Nick Mitch, you was and then 0:09:01.640 --> 0:09:03.679 you wasn't, and now you all again. Bitch, Come on now, 0:09:04.040 --> 0:09:07.480 stop skipping like we always been friends like forever. No, bitch, 0:09:07.480 --> 0:09:09.480 come on now, Yo, you stopped talking to me for 0:09:09.559 --> 0:09:12.480 half a year. Fun's wrong with you? You what my friend? Bitch? 0:09:12.480 --> 0:09:15.640 Friends don't do that because I bluffed you, but I 0:09:15.679 --> 0:09:17.640 felt bad. I'm like, all right, ship, I'll do it. 0:09:17.720 --> 0:09:20.199 Fuck it. But my fans and my my my people, 0:09:20.320 --> 0:09:23.040 they know me. I was getting so many comments like bitch, 0:09:23.120 --> 0:09:25.600 you look like you lying you and April both flyers. 0:09:25.640 --> 0:09:27.480 Just you don't even look like you want to be 0:09:27.559 --> 0:09:29.679 on there. I didn't. I didn't want to do that. 0:09:29.920 --> 0:09:32.280 I did that ship to make up with this bitch, 0:09:32.320 --> 0:09:34.559 you know what I'm saying. And then even after I 0:09:34.559 --> 0:09:38.080 did the one scene on the episode, this bitch still 0:09:38.120 --> 0:09:40.679 ain't talk to me. I'm like, oh, funck, no, you 0:09:40.760 --> 0:09:42.480 mean to tell me. I went on there and I 0:09:42.559 --> 0:09:44.520 lied for you, my nigga. I went on there and 0:09:44.559 --> 0:09:47.600 I lied. I really lied, and and and that's something 0:09:47.600 --> 0:09:49.280 that I wanted to do. I really wanted to do 0:09:49.320 --> 0:09:53.079 it to, you know, to reconcile and ship nah showed. 0:09:53.080 --> 0:09:55.040 He still was like, I'm gonna need some time, like 0:09:55.120 --> 0:09:57.560 I don't. I don't know what, bit you ain't no 0:09:57.640 --> 0:09:59.760 time when you wanted to act like you knew about 0:09:59.800 --> 0:10:01.839 this ship on that episode. So I was like, man, 0:10:01.920 --> 0:10:03.920 fuck you. So I went on live and I told 0:10:03.960 --> 0:10:06.360 them that I fucking lied, and I had the producers 0:10:06.440 --> 0:10:08.480 hit me and ship like, no, you can't do that. Now, 0:10:08.559 --> 0:10:11.000 yes I can. I'm not a cast member. She is 0:10:11.160 --> 0:10:13.360 and she dragged me into this ship. So now yeah, 0:10:13.640 --> 0:10:17.040 but in hindsight, I got what was coming to me 0:10:17.080 --> 0:10:19.080 because I should have never done that. I should have. 0:10:19.200 --> 0:10:21.760 I shouldn't have done it. Do I regret talking ship 0:10:21.920 --> 0:10:26.480 about April? No? I regret talking about April two Monice. 0:10:26.559 --> 0:10:29.000 That was just bad. You never go back and talk 0:10:29.160 --> 0:10:32.120 about someone just because you're mad at them or just 0:10:32.160 --> 0:10:34.880 because you don't like them anymore to one of their enemies, 0:10:35.280 --> 0:10:37.839 somebody she would never probably be cool with, you know 0:10:37.880 --> 0:10:40.280 what I mean. So I was fucked up on my end. Yeah, 0:10:40.400 --> 0:10:41.880 I ate that l I took it, you know what 0:10:41.920 --> 0:10:44.200 I'm saying, because it was crazy. Do I do that 0:10:44.200 --> 0:10:47.000 ship to everybody? Have I did that ship more than once? No? 0:10:47.280 --> 0:10:50.040 Funck No, listen, No, not to my friends. Now listen. 0:10:50.080 --> 0:10:52.000 I have to tell you all this. Man. April, we 0:10:52.000 --> 0:10:54.280 weren't friends for very long. I met her on the 0:10:54.280 --> 0:10:56.280 set up I got the hook up to and we 0:10:56.360 --> 0:10:58.600 hit it off from them, I was already in contact 0:10:58.640 --> 0:11:00.839 with Monie. I met Monie first, and Moniche has never 0:11:00.880 --> 0:11:04.240 built that uh in person connection. Me and her was 0:11:04.320 --> 0:11:06.440 just talking on the phone, texting DM and all that 0:11:06.440 --> 0:11:09.640 type of ship. But me in April, actually our chemistry 0:11:09.880 --> 0:11:11.840 was like they're the energy was cool. She was a 0:11:11.840 --> 0:11:14.040 cool person, So I'm all right, cool, it's somebody I can, 0:11:14.120 --> 0:11:15.840 you know, hang out with while I'm l a and ship, 0:11:15.840 --> 0:11:18.000 you know what I mean. And it ended up coming 0:11:18.000 --> 0:11:20.559 to that which brings me to just fix my mess. 0:11:20.559 --> 0:11:22.720 The segment where some of my fans send some of 0:11:22.760 --> 0:11:25.600 their personal dilemmas and I give my advice to help 0:11:25.679 --> 0:11:28.600 them deal with the ship that they probably got theirselves into, 0:11:28.800 --> 0:11:31.600 just like I had got myself into that little shin 0:11:31.720 --> 0:11:34.640 dig with April and Monice. So look, I posted on 0:11:34.679 --> 0:11:38.160 my Instagram A time you betrayed a friend go, and 0:11:38.200 --> 0:11:39.959 I'm just gonna read off a couple of good ones. 0:11:40.440 --> 0:11:45.000 Boushe Bree on Instagram says, after a wild night with 0:11:45.040 --> 0:11:46.959 my home girl and her guy friend that she was 0:11:47.040 --> 0:11:49.240 having sex with, we went back to his place where 0:11:49.240 --> 0:11:52.720 they asked me to join and I declined. I watched, 0:11:52.720 --> 0:11:55.080 but I happily declined, so after the fact he would 0:11:55.200 --> 0:11:57.559 hit me up with casual convo and long story short, 0:11:57.760 --> 0:12:01.240 we ended up having bomb sex before she even found out. 0:12:01.280 --> 0:12:06.319 I blocked her on everything. Whoa damn breathe damn how 0:12:06.320 --> 0:12:09.160 you're just going like you're just gonna block the bitch 0:12:09.240 --> 0:12:11.320 Like that was fucked up? She probably still to this 0:12:11.400 --> 0:12:14.280 day don't know why she blocked unless that nigga told her. 0:12:14.480 --> 0:12:16.400 But now, yeah, that's that's sucked up. I don't even 0:12:16.400 --> 0:12:18.040 know what to say about that, like if that was 0:12:18.080 --> 0:12:20.520 your friend, but you gotta unblock her and tell her. Look, 0:12:20.559 --> 0:12:22.560 I sucked your nigga. I'm not gonna lie, but this 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:25.000 is your fault. This is your fault. You invited me 0:12:25.160 --> 0:12:27.199 in the bedroom with the nigga. You wanted me to 0:12:27.240 --> 0:12:29.080 sit there and watch you'll have sex. I've seen the 0:12:29.120 --> 0:12:31.600 way his big juicy dick was swinging back and forth 0:12:31.600 --> 0:12:33.280 and ship, and I've seen that you was loving it. 0:12:33.440 --> 0:12:35.199 I didn't even want no pause in it. But then 0:12:35.240 --> 0:12:37.360 he started hitting me up. That's what you gotta tele 0:12:37.360 --> 0:12:39.640 a Brithe Then he started hitting me up right, and 0:12:39.679 --> 0:12:41.960 then I just couldn't resist, and it was it was 0:12:42.040 --> 0:12:44.880 casual convo, but then we ended up having sex. And 0:12:44.880 --> 0:12:46.679 then I blocked you because I felt better than want 0:12:46.720 --> 0:12:48.840 you to find out, and you blocked me first. So 0:12:48.920 --> 0:12:50.760 I did that ship for you. That's how you gotta 0:12:50.800 --> 0:12:52.600 come out, and she probably gonna smack the ship out you, 0:12:52.760 --> 0:12:56.319 but it'll be worth it because that was your friend. Bitch. Okay, 0:12:56.559 --> 0:13:01.880 Charles G Classic underscore man underscore. I I I on 0:13:01.960 --> 0:13:05.840 Instagram says my pastor lied on me because I left 0:13:05.880 --> 0:13:08.520 his church and he said I stole from him all 0:13:08.559 --> 0:13:12.160 because I wasn't trying to be gay with him. Um 0:13:12.160 --> 0:13:15.760 wait a minute. First of all, I said, a time 0:13:15.880 --> 0:13:19.400 you betrayed a friend go Did you you really wanted 0:13:19.440 --> 0:13:22.120 to tell that story? Charles? This this must be this 0:13:22.200 --> 0:13:26.960 must have just happened because you want somebody to notice badly. Um, 0:13:27.000 --> 0:13:29.560 I guess just find another church home. And first of all, 0:13:29.559 --> 0:13:32.400 I got some questions for you, Charles, Are you gay 0:13:32.440 --> 0:13:35.160 because or you? Are you gay and you just didn't 0:13:35.160 --> 0:13:37.680 want to be gay with him? Like? Did he think 0:13:37.800 --> 0:13:40.280 you was gay? Did you lead him on in any way? 0:13:40.600 --> 0:13:42.880 Because it had to start somewhere for this man allow 0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:44.960 on you and say you stole from him because you 0:13:45.040 --> 0:13:47.040 wasn't trying to be gay with him. Was you trying 0:13:47.040 --> 0:13:49.640 not to be gay with him anymore? Or what? Because 0:13:49.640 --> 0:13:51.480 it had to be something that led to this series 0:13:51.520 --> 0:13:55.080 of events and you left the church. I don't know, Charles, 0:13:55.080 --> 0:13:57.280 get back at me, baby, that's an incomplete story. I 0:13:57.320 --> 0:14:00.360 need you all to be one percent transparent like me. Okay, 0:14:00.640 --> 0:14:05.320 flashy underscore lights underscore si Era on Instagram says, I 0:14:05.360 --> 0:14:07.960 slept with this man she was talking to, but our 0:14:08.000 --> 0:14:11.400 friendship ended like a month before. She did some stupid ship, 0:14:11.760 --> 0:14:13.960 so does it still count? And she was in a 0:14:14.000 --> 0:14:17.320 relationship so the nigga wasn't even hers. Um, bitch, yes, 0:14:17.440 --> 0:14:19.960 that ship still count. You can't be out here sucking 0:14:20.160 --> 0:14:22.840 the niggas that your friend is sucking. And because she 0:14:23.000 --> 0:14:25.480 cheating on her nigga with the nigga and ship, you 0:14:25.560 --> 0:14:28.520 think it's okay because she don't even belong to the 0:14:28.600 --> 0:14:30.360 nigga and the nigga don't belong to her. Bitch, I 0:14:30.440 --> 0:14:34.400 still fucked up, you fucking nigga that she fucked. That's betrayal. 0:14:34.720 --> 0:14:38.240 I don't care. That's fucked up, Okay. Last one, I'm 0:14:38.240 --> 0:14:42.320 gonna read. Candy Can thirty one on Instagram says, my 0:14:42.400 --> 0:14:45.560 sister slash friend was stabbed. Thought she was a gonner. 0:14:45.960 --> 0:14:48.640 I expressed my emotions a little too much with an 0:14:48.640 --> 0:14:52.000 ex mutual friend. Long story short, they fell out and 0:14:52.040 --> 0:14:55.680 the ex mutual friend used everything I said as ammo 0:14:55.800 --> 0:14:59.640 against her. She never forgave me. All I could say was, bitch, 0:14:59.680 --> 0:15:02.960 I was scared. I thought she was gonna die, so 0:15:03.280 --> 0:15:05.560 bit you tell my business while I'm on my deathbed, 0:15:05.600 --> 0:15:07.360 the one of our other friends and ship. Then I 0:15:07.440 --> 0:15:09.800 come back to life, and then you like, hey, hey, 0:15:09.880 --> 0:15:11.760 y'all thought I was dead? What's up? Y'all? And me 0:15:11.840 --> 0:15:14.720 and the bitch fall out, and then when we fall out, 0:15:14.840 --> 0:15:16.920 the bitch tell me, oh, yeah, so your other friend 0:15:16.960 --> 0:15:19.880 had told me that the dead when you was dying, 0:15:19.920 --> 0:15:21.360 but now in your lives, so now I can tell 0:15:21.400 --> 0:15:24.480 you and you deserve that. How the funk you talking 0:15:24.560 --> 0:15:27.360 ship about somebody on their deathbed but not I'm almost 0:15:27.400 --> 0:15:30.200 dead and you out here crying telling my business. The 0:15:30.280 --> 0:15:32.840 fuck y'all different, You're all a little different that I 0:15:33.640 --> 0:15:36.000 was talking about a person who was very much alive 0:15:36.040 --> 0:15:39.720 to another person who didn't like her. Y'all. Motherfucker's is ruthless. 0:15:39.800 --> 0:15:43.720 This is this is crazy. Another question I want to ask. Okay, 0:15:43.800 --> 0:15:46.000 so listen, I'm not on the side of the people 0:15:46.000 --> 0:15:49.280 who did the betraying. No, but there are certain reasons 0:15:49.360 --> 0:15:52.000 why people do these things, and you have to think 0:15:52.040 --> 0:15:55.880 to yourself, what constitutes me to perform this behavior? What 0:15:56.120 --> 0:15:59.520 constitutes the behavior of betrayal? That's what sho I really 0:15:59.520 --> 0:16:02.000 got on this, and like I said, for me, I 0:16:02.040 --> 0:16:04.240 never thought I was gonna talk to Shorty again. Honestly, 0:16:04.280 --> 0:16:07.680 me and April stopped talking for six months. Six months. 0:16:08.240 --> 0:16:11.040 The eighth month is when she came back around and 0:16:11.080 --> 0:16:13.440 ship and that was it, you know what I'm saying, 0:16:13.480 --> 0:16:15.280 Like she got over it. It took her eight months 0:16:15.320 --> 0:16:17.120 to get over the fact that I bluffed her out. 0:16:17.560 --> 0:16:19.760 That's a grudgy bitch. I don't like them type of people, 0:16:19.840 --> 0:16:21.880 You understand what I'm saying. Like I said now, it 0:16:21.920 --> 0:16:25.240 does not justify me talking as much shit about her 0:16:25.640 --> 0:16:29.400 to somebody who she would call an enemy. But all 0:16:29.440 --> 0:16:31.280 in all, that ship was petty. You know what I'm saying. 0:16:31.560 --> 0:16:34.000 You never stopped talking to a friend that long for 0:16:34.040 --> 0:16:35.880 some petty ship like that. I could have died, She 0:16:35.920 --> 0:16:38.320 could have died. Anything could have happened. Thank god, none 0:16:38.320 --> 0:16:41.880 of that did happen. Speaking of betrayal, in this week's 0:16:41.920 --> 0:16:46.840 Current News, you're gonna talk about Messica Kalisha and her 0:16:47.240 --> 0:16:52.080 now ex fiancee, Jamaar Champ. Okay, So, like a couple 0:16:52.120 --> 0:16:54.200 of weeks ago, it had hit the blogs and it 0:16:54.280 --> 0:16:56.600 hit hit you know, all airways and ship that Messica 0:16:56.680 --> 0:17:00.280 Kalisha was engaged to Anthony Hamilton look like to meet 0:17:00.360 --> 0:17:02.640 nigga look like Anthony Hamiltons like a young ass Anthony 0:17:02.680 --> 0:17:06.320 Hamilton and ship. She looked happy. Even her daughter looked happy. 0:17:06.400 --> 0:17:08.359 You know what I'm saying. I love Cary Barbie. She 0:17:08.440 --> 0:17:11.359 looked so happy. The nigga even looked happy. He was 0:17:11.359 --> 0:17:14.359 trying to show off them new teeth, but he looked 0:17:14.560 --> 0:17:17.679 very happy. She had an engagement party. They were just 0:17:17.760 --> 0:17:21.800 on some island together. The ring was beautiful. Uh, they're 0:17:21.880 --> 0:17:25.000 kissing and I love you. You love mean type ship. 0:17:25.040 --> 0:17:27.520 You know what I'm saying. They seemed happy. Not too 0:17:27.520 --> 0:17:30.720 long ago, it hit the blogs, the very same blogs 0:17:31.119 --> 0:17:34.240 that blew up their engagement that they were now not 0:17:34.480 --> 0:17:38.360 engaged anymore. She's very hurt by the situation. He posted, 0:17:38.320 --> 0:17:41.320 it's many little girls out here. When the little girl 0:17:41.440 --> 0:17:44.000 is healed, the woman will show up. Sorry, well you 0:17:44.080 --> 0:17:46.840 talking about then? She posted, Men don't have to be 0:17:47.000 --> 0:17:49.720 perfect to make a woman happy. All a man really 0:17:49.720 --> 0:17:51.960 needs to do is love her, like he promised when 0:17:51.960 --> 0:17:54.720 they first dated. So she's hurt now when I look 0:17:54.800 --> 0:17:57.440 deeper into it. Uh, these were her words, just came 0:17:57.520 --> 0:18:00.160 from her um. Apparently he was trying to use her 0:18:00.200 --> 0:18:03.159 for cloud to build his businesses and use her past 0:18:03.280 --> 0:18:06.600 experiences and use her for her connections and networks and ship. Basically, 0:18:06.640 --> 0:18:09.720 Loving hip Hop is probably about to film again, and 0:18:09.800 --> 0:18:13.040 this bitch then got him on the show and ship 0:18:13.280 --> 0:18:16.399 and he fucking used her. I hate to see that 0:18:16.400 --> 0:18:19.200 ship happened, but it fucking happens. And I hate to 0:18:19.240 --> 0:18:22.200 see men prey on women that they know are all 0:18:22.200 --> 0:18:24.359 in loving hip hop. So you're act like you're just 0:18:24.400 --> 0:18:25.719 gonna fall in love with this bitch, and when they 0:18:25.760 --> 0:18:27.800 start recording, you don't want nothing else to do with 0:18:27.840 --> 0:18:30.040