Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous, It's Lala Kent.
Speaker 2: Welcome to Untraditionally Lala. Hey, babes, it is Lala Kent.
Speaker 2: Welcome to the bonus episode of Untraditionally Lala. You guys
Speaker 2: sent in some questions. We're going to jump right into it. Easton,
Speaker 2: do you have the questions in front of you?
Speaker 3: I want to believe.
Speaker 4: So, okay, tell us about your relationship with Lily, how
Speaker 4: she was there for you through the many chapters in life.
Speaker 2: Lily was there when I was like a young girl
Speaker 2: in my twenties just figuring life out. She knew me
Speaker 2: when I was struggling to just like make ends meet.
Speaker 2: Then was like a big, big star on the season
Speaker 2: four of Vanner Pump Rules. She watched me be very drunk,
Speaker 2: she watched me get sober, become a mom. I mean
Speaker 2: she saw it all, man, Yeah.
Speaker 4: She really did. If you could describe Lily in three words,
Speaker 4: what would they be?
Speaker 3: And why?
Speaker 1: Kind?
Speaker 2: Sweet and an angel? Gentle, very gentle.
Speaker 1: Let's do forwards.
Speaker 3: Okay, very gentle.
Speaker 4: Chelsea, do you have any sense or strong feelings about
Speaker 4: what your kids might have been in a past life, so.
Speaker 1: Says brand New.
Speaker 2: So she's never been anything except for a brand new
Speaker 2: human being to the planet and ocean. I have a
Speaker 2: feeling did work with the environment.
Speaker 1: I don't know. She's still too young to be able
Speaker 1: to tell me.
Speaker 3: I thought she. I thought she was a queen or
Speaker 3: something in her she was address sort.
Speaker 2: Of philanthropist who was fine like living off of the
Speaker 2: land and understanding like I think she made a very
Speaker 2: large difference in her past life.
Speaker 3: I like to believe so oh.
Speaker 1: No more, I'll be able to pinpoint it more as
Speaker 1: she had old her.
Speaker 3: I will say, I can already tell soss new soul.
Speaker 2: Well, duh, what's the next question?
Speaker 4: Would you ever be someone's sponsor or help someone in
Speaker 4: their sobriety?
Speaker 1: Being someone's sponsor, I would.
Speaker 2: I have helped many people in their sobriety and connected
Speaker 2: them with people who I think would be good sponsors.
Speaker 2: I don't want to say that I wouldn't. It's just
Speaker 2: I'm There have been times where I've been on Zoom
Speaker 2: meetings and I'll get a chat where it's like I
Speaker 2: love you on vander Pump Rules. So my sponsor has said,
Speaker 2: you know, I want to help you navigate sobriety in
Speaker 2: a little bit of a different way.
Speaker 1: But helping people in sobriety.
Speaker 3: Yes, absolutely, I feel you on that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, Kathy, how are you able to forgive
Speaker 4: Katie for treating you so horribly when you first started
Speaker 4: dating the horrible man that we don't name.
Speaker 2: I just don't hold grudges. I think it's such a
Speaker 2: waste of time and energy. And I know that there
Speaker 2: are going to be moments where I mess up.
Speaker 1: I've messed up before.
Speaker 2: I've been extremely unkind, I've been extremely hurtful, and I
Speaker 2: would hope that if I came to someone and apologized
Speaker 2: that they could forgive me and move on.
Speaker 3: So I just it's easier.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I forgive and forget.
Speaker 2: I've never understood that saying I'll forge, I'll forgive, but
Speaker 2: I'll never forget. It's like then you didn't fucking forgive,
Speaker 2: because that the two things, those two things can't exist.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I also never forget, just in case the
Speaker 4: antics come back up.
Speaker 3: You're prepared, not me, Okay, I like that, all right, Amelia.
Speaker 4: Were there any experiences or feelings you had while filming
Speaker 4: The Valley that you weren't expecting?
Speaker 1: Fear?
Speaker 2: I didn't.
Speaker 1: I didn't realize that I would be fearful.
Speaker 2: I used to be able to walk onto reality television
Speaker 2: and just wholeheartedly be myself and not give one shit
Speaker 2: about what the audience thought or anybody else thought, because
Speaker 2: I was so just.
Speaker 3: Convicted in my.
Speaker 1: Truth and how I saw things.
Speaker 2: And going into filming again, I noticed at the beginning
Speaker 2: that I did have fear. And now that we're, you know,
Speaker 2: slowly reaching the end, I'm back to like I'm gonna be.
Speaker 2: I'm going to be who I am and how I
Speaker 2: see things, and if I mess up, then I say
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. And if I don't mess up, then I
Speaker 2: say I'm a bad bitch. Yeah that was amazing. Oh sorry,
Speaker 2: Oh fear, Yeah.
Speaker 4: Fear, that's a good one. I feel like it's kind
Speaker 4: of like riding a bike. You hadn't ridden one in
Speaker 4: two years, you got on it and you're like, all right,
Speaker 4: I got the hang of this again.
Speaker 3: What the fuck I'm doing? Yeah, I know what the
Speaker 3: fuck I'm doing?
Speaker 4: All right, Melissa, how would you feel if someone in
Speaker 4: your friend group all of a sudden started being friends
Speaker 4: with your ex today?
Speaker 3: I know what I would do.
Speaker 2: So this is what's so hard that people don't realize
Speaker 2: is my ex is a different breed. There are things
Speaker 2: that I have seen and heard that the public does
Speaker 2: not know, and I hope there is a day that
Speaker 2: I not I but someone shares those things.
Speaker 1: People are like, well, you were fret.
Speaker 2: You had a conversation with Tom Sandoval, and why can
Speaker 2: you do that? But someone can't be friends with your ex.
Speaker 2: My ex is a very specific person. If you fuck
Speaker 2: with him, you're fucking dirty and I don't want you
Speaker 2: in my life.
Speaker 4: Yes, period, sand of all, you know what you're getting
Speaker 4: because it's out there, your ex. Yeah, there's a lot
Speaker 4: of he's like Swiss cheese. There's a lot of holes.
Speaker 3: In this story.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: So people can say like, will you have a double standard?
Speaker 3: No, I don't.
Speaker 2: And if you knew what I knew, you two would
Speaker 2: not want anyone around him.
Speaker 3: Mm.
Speaker 1: Period.
Speaker 3: We could keep going and the day will come.
Speaker 1: The day will come.
Speaker 3: I believe there's a show.
Speaker 1: On Hulu that was fucking nothing.
Speaker 3: Well, they can only do so much, but hey.
Speaker 1: The day will come, The day will come.
Speaker 3: Oh do it lady?
Speaker 4: All right, Kimberly, I'd like to know if you and
Speaker 4: Stossy are still friends. I haven't seen you to interact
Speaker 4: online in ages.
Speaker 2: You know, I don't like when people are like they're
Speaker 2: not friends anymore if they don't interact online. I stay
Speaker 2: off the grid when it comes to like social media.
Speaker 2: It's just I find it suffocating. Social media. I'll post
Speaker 2: and then I leave it. If I happen to be
Speaker 2: scrolling and your your picture pops up first.
Speaker 1: Then I'll give it a double tab. But I don't
Speaker 1: go like searching.
Speaker 2: I don't look at all the stories, so I don't
Speaker 2: base my friendships off of that. Stossy's very busy. I'm
Speaker 2: very busy. There's so many friends that I have.
Speaker 3: Until your world's collide.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just like you're doing two different things if
Speaker 4: they come together.
Speaker 3: Yeah cheesy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we all work, we all have children, we all
Speaker 2: have our personal lives.
Speaker 3: Yeah. So that's that. And Alicia, okay, ask what did.
Speaker 4: You think about Sheena writing into your post about Lily.
Speaker 2: Well, this is the first time I'm hearing about that,
Speaker 2: because again, I feel like I've been in kind of
Speaker 2: a hole. I think anybody who reaches out when a
Speaker 2: significant loss happens is like very kind and heartfelt, and
Speaker 2: knowing that she did that, I'm very appreciative. I know
Speaker 2: that her mom reached out to our mom and wrote
Speaker 2: a really sweet message. I mean, I got so many
Speaker 2: people reaching out, being like I've only known you with Lily,
Speaker 2: and you know, all of my friends, my group of
Speaker 2: people that I've surrounded myself for many years, they all
Speaker 2: love dogs, so they feel it, you know, so I
Speaker 2: thought that I think that's very kind you guys. Thank
Speaker 2: you for writing in your questions. I love you guys
Speaker 2: so much. I will catch you again on Wednesday for
Speaker 2: a regular episode and again next Monday for a bonus
Speaker 2: bye