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<v Speaker 1>Hello, gorgeous, It's Lala Kent.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to Untraditionally Lala. Hey, babes, it is Lala Kent.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to the bonus episode of Untraditionally Lala. You guys

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<v Speaker 2>sent in some questions. We're going to jump right into it. Easton,

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<v Speaker 2>do you have the questions in front of you?

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<v Speaker 3>I want to believe.

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<v Speaker 4>So, okay, tell us about your relationship with Lily, how

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<v Speaker 4>she was there for you through the many chapters in life.

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<v Speaker 2>Lily was there when I was like a young girl

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<v Speaker 2>in my twenties just figuring life out. She knew me

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<v Speaker 2>when I was struggling to just like make ends meet.

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<v Speaker 2>Then was like a big, big star on the season

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<v Speaker 2>four of Vanner Pump Rules. She watched me be very drunk,

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<v Speaker 2>she watched me get sober, become a mom. I mean

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<v Speaker 2>she saw it all, man, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>She really did. If you could describe Lily in three words,

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<v Speaker 4>what would they be?

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<v Speaker 3>And why?

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<v Speaker 1>Kind?

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<v Speaker 2>Sweet and an angel? Gentle, very gentle.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's do forwards.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, very gentle.

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<v Speaker 4>Chelsea, do you have any sense or strong feelings about

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<v Speaker 4>what your kids might have been in a past life, so.

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<v Speaker 1>Says brand New.

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<v Speaker 2>So she's never been anything except for a brand new

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<v Speaker 2>human being to the planet and ocean. I have a

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<v Speaker 2>feeling did work with the environment.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. She's still too young to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to tell me.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought she. I thought she was a queen or

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<v Speaker 3>something in her she was address sort.

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<v Speaker 2>Of philanthropist who was fine like living off of the

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<v Speaker 2>land and understanding like I think she made a very

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<v Speaker 2>large difference in her past life.

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<v Speaker 3>I like to believe so oh.

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<v Speaker 1>No more, I'll be able to pinpoint it more as

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<v Speaker 1>she had old her.

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<v Speaker 3>I will say, I can already tell soss new soul.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, duh, what's the next question?

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<v Speaker 4>Would you ever be someone's sponsor or help someone in

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<v Speaker 4>their sobriety?

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<v Speaker 1>Being someone's sponsor, I would.

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<v Speaker 2>I have helped many people in their sobriety and connected

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<v Speaker 2>them with people who I think would be good sponsors.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to say that I wouldn't. It's just

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<v Speaker 2>I'm There have been times where I've been on Zoom

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<v Speaker 2>meetings and I'll get a chat where it's like I

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<v Speaker 2>love you on vander Pump Rules. So my sponsor has said,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I want to help you navigate sobriety in

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit of a different way.

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<v Speaker 1>But helping people in sobriety.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, absolutely, I feel you on that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, all right, Kathy, how are you able to forgive

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<v Speaker 4>Katie for treating you so horribly when you first started

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<v Speaker 4>dating the horrible man that we don't name.

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<v Speaker 2>I just don't hold grudges. I think it's such a

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<v Speaker 2>waste of time and energy. And I know that there

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<v Speaker 2>are going to be moments where I mess up.

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<v Speaker 1>I've messed up before.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been extremely unkind, I've been extremely hurtful, and I

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<v Speaker 2>would hope that if I came to someone and apologized

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<v Speaker 2>that they could forgive me and move on.

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<v Speaker 3>So I just it's easier.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I forgive and forget.

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<v Speaker 2>I've never understood that saying I'll forge, I'll forgive, but

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<v Speaker 2>I'll never forget. It's like then you didn't fucking forgive,

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<v Speaker 2>because that the two things, those two things can't exist.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but I also never forget, just in case the

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<v Speaker 4>antics come back up.

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<v Speaker 3>You're prepared, not me, Okay, I like that, all right, Amelia.

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<v Speaker 4>Were there any experiences or feelings you had while filming

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<v Speaker 4>The Valley that you weren't expecting?

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<v Speaker 1>Fear?

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't realize that I would be fearful.

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<v Speaker 2>I used to be able to walk onto reality television

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<v Speaker 2>and just wholeheartedly be myself and not give one shit

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<v Speaker 2>about what the audience thought or anybody else thought, because

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<v Speaker 2>I was so just.

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<v Speaker 3>Convicted in my.

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<v Speaker 1>Truth and how I saw things.

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<v Speaker 2>And going into filming again, I noticed at the beginning

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<v Speaker 2>that I did have fear. And now that we're, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>slowly reaching the end, I'm back to like I'm gonna be.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to be who I am and how I

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<v Speaker 2>see things, and if I mess up, then I say

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry. And if I don't mess up, then I

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<v Speaker 2>say I'm a bad bitch. Yeah that was amazing. Oh sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh fear, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Fear, that's a good one. I feel like it's kind

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<v Speaker 4>of like riding a bike. You hadn't ridden one in

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<v Speaker 4>two years, you got on it and you're like, all right,

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<v Speaker 4>I got the hang of this again.

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<v Speaker 3>What the fuck I'm doing? Yeah, I know what the

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<v Speaker 3>fuck I'm doing?

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<v Speaker 4>All right, Melissa, how would you feel if someone in

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<v Speaker 4>your friend group all of a sudden started being friends

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<v Speaker 4>with your ex today?

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<v Speaker 3>I know what I would do.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is what's so hard that people don't realize

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<v Speaker 2>is my ex is a different breed. There are things

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<v Speaker 2>that I have seen and heard that the public does

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<v Speaker 2>not know, and I hope there is a day that

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<v Speaker 2>I not I but someone shares those things.

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<v Speaker 1>People are like, well, you were fret.

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<v Speaker 2>You had a conversation with Tom Sandoval, and why can

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<v Speaker 2>you do that? But someone can't be friends with your ex.

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<v Speaker 2>My ex is a very specific person. If you fuck

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<v Speaker 2>with him, you're fucking dirty and I don't want you

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<v Speaker 2>in my life.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, period, sand of all, you know what you're getting

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<v Speaker 4>because it's out there, your ex. Yeah, there's a lot

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<v Speaker 4>of he's like Swiss cheese. There's a lot of holes.

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<v Speaker 3>In this story.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>So people can say like, will you have a double standard?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>And if you knew what I knew, you two would

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<v Speaker 2>not want anyone around him.

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<v Speaker 3>Mm.

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<v Speaker 1>Period.

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<v Speaker 3>We could keep going and the day will come.

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<v Speaker 1>The day will come.

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<v Speaker 3>I believe there's a show.

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<v Speaker 1>On Hulu that was fucking nothing.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, they can only do so much, but hey.

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<v Speaker 1>The day will come, The day will come.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh do it lady?

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<v Speaker 4>All right, Kimberly, I'd like to know if you and

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<v Speaker 4>Stossy are still friends. I haven't seen you to interact

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<v Speaker 4>online in ages.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I don't like when people are like they're

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<v Speaker 2>not friends anymore if they don't interact online. I stay

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<v Speaker 2>off the grid when it comes to like social media.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just I find it suffocating. Social media. I'll post

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<v Speaker 2>and then I leave it. If I happen to be

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<v Speaker 2>scrolling and your your picture pops up first.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I'll give it a double tab. But I don't

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<v Speaker 1>go like searching.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't look at all the stories, so I don't

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<v Speaker 2>base my friendships off of that. Stossy's very busy. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>very busy. There's so many friends that I have.

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<v Speaker 3>Until your world's collide.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it's just like you're doing two different things if

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<v Speaker 4>they come together.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah cheesy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we all work, we all have children, we all

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<v Speaker 2>have our personal lives.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. So that's that. And Alicia, okay, ask what did.

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<v Speaker 4>You think about Sheena writing into your post about Lily.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, this is the first time I'm hearing about that,

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<v Speaker 2>because again, I feel like I've been in kind of

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<v Speaker 2>a hole. I think anybody who reaches out when a

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<v Speaker 2>significant loss happens is like very kind and heartfelt, and

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<v Speaker 2>knowing that she did that, I'm very appreciative. I know

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<v Speaker 2>that her mom reached out to our mom and wrote

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<v Speaker 2>a really sweet message. I mean, I got so many

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<v Speaker 2>people reaching out, being like I've only known you with Lily,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, all of my friends, my group of

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<v Speaker 2>people that I've surrounded myself for many years, they all

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<v Speaker 2>love dogs, so they feel it, you know, so I

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<v Speaker 2>thought that I think that's very kind you guys. Thank

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<v Speaker 2>you for writing in your questions. I love you guys

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<v Speaker 2>so much. I will catch you again on Wednesday for

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<v Speaker 2>a regular episode and again next Monday for a bonus

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<v Speaker 2>bye