1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:01,280 Speaker 1: Are you okay? 2 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 2: And then leaves the door wide open as we're sitting 3 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:07,360 Speaker 2: in the living room and we're just. 4 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:11,280 Speaker 1: Like, it must have been college. I was in because 5 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: I was thinking. 6 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 2: I looked at my sister. I'm like, we're gonna need 7 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 2: some more mics. Let me get through this one. 8 00:00:15,520 --> 00:00:25,079 Speaker 1: You know, Oh God. Calm Down with Erin and Chrissa 9 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 1: is a production of iHeartRadio. 10 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:35,680 Speaker 3: Welcome everybody to the Calm Down Podcast. We are hydrating. 11 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 3: What isn't that little beaker of yours right there, scrudder, 12 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 3: It's a broth. 13 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 1: You've been really into the broth. 14 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:44,320 Speaker 2: I got Chris Is, Steve and Jarrett sick and now 15 00:00:44,360 --> 00:00:47,280 Speaker 2: this starts a whole tangent I was feeling. I thought 16 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:49,560 Speaker 2: it was just allergies. Then it turned into a cough. 17 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:50,680 Speaker 2: Then it was like a cold. 18 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 1: But then I was fine. 19 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:57,080 Speaker 2: And unfortunately I'm a super spruder and I gave it 20 00:00:57,120 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 2: to those guys. 21 00:00:58,440 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 1: CHRISA. 22 00:00:58,960 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 2: I don't know how Steve's handling it, but this is 23 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:06,040 Speaker 2: my rant. My husband is one of the toughest people 24 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 2: I know. Played in the Stanley Cup finals with his 25 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 2: leg hanging off his hip. You know, I was played 26 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 2: in the league for so many years, like it just 27 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:18,040 Speaker 2: always injured. You never knew about it. My guys got 28 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 2: a cold and you would think it was pneumonia. It 29 00:01:21,640 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 2: was full blown. I didn't see him for two days. 30 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 2: We are locked up in the guest room. 31 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:28,119 Speaker 1: I'm like, you. 32 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 2: Good, can you walk Howie to help me out. I'm 33 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:34,680 Speaker 2: not going to do impressions because that's mean. I just 34 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:39,400 Speaker 2: we are just going. No, we are just a tad different. 35 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 2: I was sick last week. 36 00:01:41,560 --> 00:01:44,320 Speaker 1: But I'm still functioning. Like what we got stuff to do? 37 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 3: Yeah? 38 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 2: I did the past, I did I walk the dog. 39 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 2: I'm all over the place. I'm running errands. I just 40 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 2: don't understand. And it comes to find out there's many 41 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 2: other women. 42 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 3: That deal with this too, Chris men men are And 43 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 3: I'll say that Steve hasn't been locked up in the 44 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 3: guest room. But Steve refuses to take any medicine that 45 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 3: will help him with the situation. So it's like we're sneezing, 46 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:07,680 Speaker 3: we're coughing. I was like, have you taken the day? Well, 47 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 3: I'll take it. I'll take it. Have you taken the Clarendon? 48 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:13,359 Speaker 3: Like we're out in the great wide open, take a Clarenon? 49 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 3: Help with the other. I don't know what he's resistant to. 50 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:18,640 Speaker 3: The medication is not me. It says take take you know, 51 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 3: describe or prescribe take two. I'm like, I'll take six 52 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 3: because I like to get on with things. And I 53 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 3: actually don't know. I don't feel that sick though. Actually 54 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:27,640 Speaker 3: I don't feel sick at all. I should say I 55 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 3: just have like a cough, but I don't feel bad. 56 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 3: But I'm not interested in prolonging any of these things 57 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 3: like let's get in, let's get out, let's keep it moving. 58 00:02:35,240 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. 59 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:38,080 Speaker 3: No, I can't say that. He's like acting like that, 60 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 3: but he and for me, I'm very into my symptoms. 61 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 3: I'm like, I've said to Jared, what are your symptoms? 62 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 4: Well? 63 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 1: I have a little bit of a cold I have 64 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 1: I need to stop imitating him. I have body aches. Okay, great. 65 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 1: Have you texted doctor Cindy? Have you asked her? Should 66 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 1: you be on TAMA flud? Do you feel like you 67 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 1: have the flud? Do you have a fever? Well, where's 68 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 1: the thermometer? 69 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 3: What? Why don you guys have a thermometer? 70 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: Oh you have a baby. 71 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 2: We have to and you have a thermometer before because 72 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:08,359 Speaker 2: when you do IVF, you have to like constantly take 73 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 2: your temperature to see you when you're wondering anything. I 74 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 2: was like trying to have like babies and stuff like that, 75 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:15,920 Speaker 2: so yeah, I had like a thermometer everywhere. It was 76 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:19,080 Speaker 2: always this is so crazy for my acupuncture. When I 77 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 2: was trying to have a baby myself or do my eggs. 78 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 2: She would try to figure out each week, like the 79 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,240 Speaker 2: teas the Chinese orbal teas to do. So you'd have 80 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:30,000 Speaker 2: to take your temperature before you got up and pete 81 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:32,520 Speaker 2: in the morning. You know how hard that was to remember, 82 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 2: like and so you're like, oh god. 83 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 1: I'm already paying I didn't take my big temperature. I 84 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 1: can't remember that. 85 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:40,800 Speaker 3: The alarms on. Do you know how many times I 86 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 3: set the alarm off. I open up the door every 87 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 3: time to let the dogs go to the bathroom, and 88 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 3: the alarm goes off. I've gotten seventeen different notices from 89 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 3: the City of Los Angeles with the false alarm situation, 90 00:03:51,520 --> 00:03:53,839 Speaker 3: because now after being robbed, you have like seven hundred alive. 91 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 3: But no, I don't have a thermometer. And in fact 92 00:03:56,960 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 3: I've realized and again this is the person. Okay, I'm 93 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 3: in two minds here about this. Sometimes I feel like 94 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 3: I'm an uber adult right between mortgages and insurance and wills, 95 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 3: and I've got the real estate lawyer, and you're like, 96 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 3: I'm like, I am a fucking adult. I got a briefcase, 97 00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 3: I got multiple jobs, I'm moving, i'm shaking, I'm doing things. 98 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 3: And then other times I look at myself like this 99 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:24,840 Speaker 3: with a backwards hot I'm like, I'm five years old 100 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 3: and I don't know. I don't have anything that I'm 101 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 3: supposed to have in a house. Half the time, my 102 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:33,479 Speaker 3: mom went to go do a to whatever what do 103 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:35,640 Speaker 3: you call it? When you have potatoes like peel potatoes, 104 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:38,160 Speaker 3: She goes, there's your potato peeler. I go, I don't 105 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 3: have a potato peeler, Like why would I? Why would 106 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 3: I have a potato peeler? Like there's certain things because 107 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 3: I don't cook in a kitchen that I don't have. 108 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 1: There's certain things in my house I don't have. And 109 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:47,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm forty. 110 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 3: Three years in houses. Oh you're adorable. No, I just 111 00:04:50,240 --> 00:04:51,480 Speaker 3: know I don't have a four to oh one K. 112 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:54,479 Speaker 3: I just I'm like, I don't know. Sometimes I just 113 00:04:54,520 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 3: I don't know if anyone else feels like this, you must, 114 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:59,560 Speaker 3: don't you feel like you're such an adult, especially with 115 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:02,560 Speaker 3: the child that's a different level of adulthood. And then 116 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:05,040 Speaker 3: other times I'm like, how am I allowed to even 117 00:05:05,120 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 3: drive a vehicle? Like oh yeah, this is like when 118 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:10,839 Speaker 3: did it happen that we're in charge of our own lives? 119 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 3: And I don't even have basic kitchen utensils like a 120 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:16,280 Speaker 3: potato peeler. I don't even know what the fuck they're called, 121 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 3: carrot peeler, potato peeler whatever. 122 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:18,839 Speaker 1: I don't know. 123 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 3: I just always like back pillar pelor yeah, but like 124 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:24,760 Speaker 3: who tells you to buy these things? Like why do 125 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:26,560 Speaker 3: you have half the stuff that you have in your kitchen? 126 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 3: Because like did you was it on your wedding registry, 127 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 3: which is a whole other thing. By the way, I'm 128 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:35,679 Speaker 3: the person will remain nameless, that's in Steven I's life. 129 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 3: But there is a what a wedding registry out there 130 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 3: right now that is cuckoo cocoa puffs. It is so 131 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 3: wild that these items are being asked for, And I'm like, 132 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 3: you gotta. 133 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:52,799 Speaker 1: Cashe give us an idea cash. 134 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:56,159 Speaker 3: Cash and like or like this, like I know who 135 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 3: has for is that? Like a normal thing. And I'm 136 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 3: not trying to be insensitive, I know, but that's what 137 00:06:02,160 --> 00:06:05,039 Speaker 3: I'm saying. I don't care what socio economic get, but 138 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 3: I would never of course. I mean literally my mom 139 00:06:07,360 --> 00:06:08,760 Speaker 3: for my birthdays? Like, what do you want my mother? 140 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 3: I'm too old for birthday presents? But cash is always king. 141 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 3: But on a wedding registry? Is that weird? 142 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 1: Huh? We're not twenty years old. 143 00:06:16,520 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 3: Like I get it if you're just starting out in 144 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:20,839 Speaker 3: life and you got married really young. But like these 145 00:06:20,839 --> 00:06:24,720 Speaker 3: are adults asking for money. That seems weird? No, am 146 00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 3: I rude? Is that insensitive of me? Because I mean, yeah, 147 00:06:27,480 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 3: we all need money. I mean that's always what they 148 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 3: are working for a decanter that's like seven hundred and 149 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 3: fifty dollars, Like that's still crazy. No, Like I could 150 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:40,600 Speaker 3: go to Home Goods and get you a decanter for 151 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:42,720 Speaker 3: twenty four to ninety nine. Now it's going to be 152 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:44,839 Speaker 3: a problem taking that. Where are the tagared? 153 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know. 154 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:54,279 Speaker 2: It's just wild anyways, I registered it, Okay, Right, this 155 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:57,080 Speaker 2: is a good question from Ryan. Does it literally say 156 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:58,919 Speaker 2: cash or does it say honeymoon? 157 00:06:59,040 --> 00:06:59,280 Speaker 1: Fine? 158 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:02,479 Speaker 2: Because I've given a wedding present as a honeymoon fund. 159 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 1: No, it says cash donations, donations. I know, I know. 160 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:12,760 Speaker 1: Bryan just wrote that's a wow. I know. 161 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 3: And then I'm like, wait, am I rude? And this 162 00:07:16,560 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 3: is my friend? So but this sounds like I. 163 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 1: Need to say I'm dying. You know who? Definitely not 164 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 1: my friend. No, no, it would not be your friend. 165 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 3: And this person will probably figure out who I'm talking 166 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 3: about them anyways, back to us, So. 167 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 2: No, really, that's a good point. I'm trying to think 168 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 2: what that is in my life? You would you could 169 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:40,800 Speaker 2: probably figure out quicker than I could. What is that 170 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:43,720 Speaker 2: in my life? I've got a business, I've got a baby. 171 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 2: I travel all over the United States. 172 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 1: You get me in an airport. 173 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 2: I can figure out how to get you on another 174 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:52,880 Speaker 2: flight with a meal and a drink before you have 175 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 2: to board. 176 00:07:54,320 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 1: But I can't. 177 00:07:55,760 --> 00:07:59,679 Speaker 2: Do what You don't have that because you are very great. 178 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:04,080 Speaker 2: Oh no, okay, there's something I yes, it's why. 179 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 3: Okay, this is what I will say about you. You 180 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 3: are the most responsible, by far friend I have most responsible. 181 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 3: You are all yes, yes you don't, there's no rebuttal 182 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 3: here you are. You always have a solution for any problem, 183 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 3: like whether it's the sickness, whether it's the thing that 184 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:25,320 Speaker 3: we were you know, wanting to we want to talk 185 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:28,280 Speaker 3: about health and wellness. You have seven hundred answers for that. 186 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 3: If it's we're going on a trip, here's the travel 187 00:08:30,600 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 3: agent like you have. You are, which is probably why 188 00:08:33,800 --> 00:08:37,320 Speaker 3: you get frustrated, rightfully so with other people that don't 189 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:40,079 Speaker 3: keep up as fast, because you're moving at one thousand 190 00:08:40,160 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 3: miles an hour and you always have a solution for 191 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:45,720 Speaker 3: the problems, and you're someone if you don't have a 192 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:48,320 Speaker 3: solution for the problem, then you'll ask like you have 193 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 3: no problem asking. This is my issue, and I brought 194 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:52,240 Speaker 3: it up with Steve before. Not to make this about 195 00:08:52,240 --> 00:08:54,360 Speaker 3: our plus ones, because we love them, we will be 196 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:57,320 Speaker 3: the first to praise them over and over again. But 197 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 3: I am someone that if I don't know the answer 198 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 3: to something, I ask. For example, here at the ranch, 199 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:06,720 Speaker 3: there are seven thousand fucking things I don't know about 200 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 3: running a ranch. I've never owned a ranch, I've never 201 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:10,960 Speaker 3: worked on a farm, I've never done anything. I've never 202 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 3: had farm animals before. 203 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 1: So I ask questions. 204 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:16,960 Speaker 3: I love Steve, Steve, maybe this is a guy thing 205 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:19,319 Speaker 3: and I hate to stereotype, but like he won't ask questions, 206 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 3: he'll just pretend like he knows, and he's like, oh, yeah, yeah, 207 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 3: yeah I know. And I'm like, no, you don't know. 208 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:25,200 Speaker 3: You have no fucking idea what you're talking about. So 209 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:28,679 Speaker 3: in that situation, I just think that we, you and I, 210 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 3: particularly with our personalities, we're okay with not knowing, but 211 00:09:33,160 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 3: we want to find the answer and then let's keep 212 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 3: it moving. Let's not just guess and keep making mistakes. 213 00:09:37,640 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 3: So whether that's sickness or whether that's in sickness and 214 00:09:41,040 --> 00:09:43,400 Speaker 3: in health, till death do us part and I'm going 215 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 3: to kill you, So who knows. But yeah, let's go 216 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:49,199 Speaker 3: back to that cash registry. 217 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:54,200 Speaker 2: AnyWho, I got a thing too with sicknesses that you 218 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 2: just brought up, sickness and health. I need to know 219 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 2: the symptoms from everybody. You have a cough for kind 220 00:09:59,400 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 2: of cough, Just gonna ask you. You said you're coughing. Are 221 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:02,640 Speaker 2: you coughing stuff up? 222 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 3: Yeah? 223 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 1: Are you spitting it out? Yeah? What color? 224 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:06,599 Speaker 3: Is it? 225 00:10:06,880 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 1: White? Yellow? Green? Yeah? Mine was green. I left it 226 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 1: in too long. 227 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:12,160 Speaker 2: I thought I had pneumonia, but I was fine because 228 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 2: I did something about it had the doctor come over. 229 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:18,040 Speaker 2: Doctor Cindy checked my chest. Good Cindy's great rolled in 230 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:20,319 Speaker 2: an ivy. I could have gotten that guy a vitamin ivy. 231 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:22,600 Speaker 2: Guess who wouldn't have been sleeping for two days. Also, 232 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:26,080 Speaker 2: sleeping for two days isn't helping get up, walk around? 233 00:10:26,120 --> 00:10:26,440 Speaker 1: You know what? 234 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:30,800 Speaker 2: A virus hates fluid and exercise, get help. Sounds so 235 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:42,720 Speaker 2: fun to be married to me. I hear myself nagging, 236 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 2: and I say to him, I don't want to nag. 237 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:48,559 Speaker 3: I said the same thing to Steve today. I looked 238 00:10:48,559 --> 00:10:50,679 Speaker 3: at him and I go, do you like me? And 239 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:52,160 Speaker 3: he goes, yeah, Why do you ask that? I go, 240 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 3: I don't know, because I just felt myself like I 241 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 3: kept saying things over and over. Why am I having 242 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 3: to say them? I might want to have to be 243 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 3: this way. You're making me this, you are making maybe 244 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 3: this way like I'll say it. Yesterday it was our birthday. 245 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:09,320 Speaker 3: I am, I am so sorry, you're sick. I am fine. 246 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:10,360 Speaker 1: We did not go to dinner. 247 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:13,040 Speaker 2: He had a lovely reservation set up at Felix, one 248 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:14,320 Speaker 2: of my favorite places to go. 249 00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 1: I love Felix great. I love that he made the reservation. 250 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 1: I don't want gifts. I don't want anything. 251 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:20,319 Speaker 3: I don't know. 252 00:11:21,160 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 1: He was too sick. But the problem is the way 253 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:30,439 Speaker 1: he went about it. I'm great, I gave you the sickness. 254 00:11:30,520 --> 00:11:33,400 Speaker 1: I get it. Go go get it out of you. Go. 255 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 1: Deal comes up. 256 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:39,840 Speaker 2: I'm supposed to take my kid to a hockey birthday 257 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:43,960 Speaker 2: party with my husband because it's the hockey families. 258 00:11:44,640 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 1: Well, I don't know if I should. I shouldn't, I 259 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:49,320 Speaker 1: shouldn't do impressions. I don't know if I should go 260 00:11:49,440 --> 00:11:51,600 Speaker 1: to the kid birthday because there's a lot of kids 261 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 1: there and I don't want to get them sick. Okay, 262 00:11:55,280 --> 00:11:57,600 Speaker 1: So I have a question, why have you been breathing 263 00:11:57,640 --> 00:12:01,880 Speaker 1: all over our kid today? If you're gonna declare this, 264 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:07,080 Speaker 1: go breathe some declare. I do declare. So he took. 265 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 1: I took the kid, had a great time. 266 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:12,439 Speaker 2: Shout out to my gym, Mickey Mouse, party, mommy ware 267 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 2: mouth shirt. 268 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 1: I felt it. It was great. Come on, dad for 269 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:16,400 Speaker 1: the first. 270 00:12:16,240 --> 00:12:17,960 Speaker 2: Hour because it was in the middle of the nap time. 271 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 2: You give that guy a cupcake. He's a fucking life 272 00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 2: of the party. Ready to go. We come home, we're sleeping. Okay, 273 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:28,040 Speaker 2: I need to not do an impression. 274 00:12:28,160 --> 00:12:28,840 Speaker 1: We get up. 275 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:33,840 Speaker 2: How you doing not great? Okay, get in there. I'll 276 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:36,520 Speaker 2: deal with Mac. You could help me take the dog 277 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:39,040 Speaker 2: for a walk. It's outside. But I got it fine. 278 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:39,640 Speaker 1: All good. 279 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:43,439 Speaker 2: Now comes the lingering, because it's time to either make 280 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:44,480 Speaker 2: a decision. 281 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:46,559 Speaker 1: About going to the restaurant or not. I'm fully prepared. 282 00:12:46,559 --> 00:12:48,839 Speaker 1: We're not going. I got my show, we're watching. We're fine. 283 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:52,439 Speaker 2: You already knew it wasn't gonna happen. Well, i'd really 284 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:55,319 Speaker 2: still like to take you to dinner. I don't understand 285 00:12:55,559 --> 00:12:57,559 Speaker 2: you didn't come to the birthday party. You have fever, 286 00:12:57,800 --> 00:12:59,960 Speaker 2: and you claim you have a fever, but I don't 287 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:01,360 Speaker 2: know if I have a paper because I don't know 288 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 2: where the thermometer is, and I have the chills. 289 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 1: Dinner, We're just not going to dinner. I'm good with it. 290 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 3: Go. 291 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 2: I ordered my bottle in, I had seven pieces of 292 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:14,680 Speaker 2: garlic bread. I had an Italian wedding soup. I watched 293 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:17,160 Speaker 2: your friends and your neighbors and your lovers or whatever 294 00:13:17,240 --> 00:13:17,720 Speaker 2: it's called. 295 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:21,840 Speaker 1: And I'm good. But I don't shout out to Apple. 296 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:24,200 Speaker 1: We shout out to Apple, shout out to our guy. 297 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 1: Just go deal. So how would you have liked him 298 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 1: to handle that. 299 00:13:29,400 --> 00:13:32,320 Speaker 2: Babe, I feel like shit, here are my symptoms this 300 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:35,439 Speaker 2: I feel What should I do? Great, let's call doctor 301 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:38,320 Speaker 2: Cindy if he needs some meds, which now he declares 302 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:40,679 Speaker 2: he did. He could have been on him yesterday. Okay, 303 00:13:41,080 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 2: we're just we're laying around. I don't think laying around 304 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:44,960 Speaker 2: is doing anything. 305 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:48,160 Speaker 3: You don't like the in between, like if there's a problem, 306 00:13:48,200 --> 00:13:50,839 Speaker 3: what's the solution, and at least you know that you're 307 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 3: working towards it, not this like I don't like the 308 00:13:54,440 --> 00:13:56,120 Speaker 3: vote to do we got stuff new? 309 00:13:56,480 --> 00:13:57,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I get it. 310 00:13:57,679 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 3: It's like you just wanted him to make it seemed 311 00:14:00,360 --> 00:14:02,720 Speaker 3: like he was finding a solution to his problem, not 312 00:14:02,800 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 3: the in between of like he also got. 313 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 2: A baby, like and now Mac is probably going to 314 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:08,960 Speaker 2: get this, which it's my fault. I brought it into 315 00:14:09,040 --> 00:14:09,920 Speaker 2: the Stop. 316 00:14:10,000 --> 00:14:12,079 Speaker 3: You need to stop acting like your patient number one 317 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 3: of COVID. Okay, Like, this is it's a cold, this 318 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:15,679 Speaker 3: is a common cold. 319 00:14:15,720 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 1: This is not you don't even know what I have. 320 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 1: You have a cold? 321 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 3: Okay, cheers out there dealing with men who have cold. Yeah, 322 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:29,680 Speaker 3: this is this is why women though have children. This 323 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 3: is why women are you know, yes exactly. And also menopause. 324 00:14:35,480 --> 00:14:38,040 Speaker 3: I always thought for the longest time it was metopause. 325 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:43,000 Speaker 3: News flash, it's menopause and here the whole time. Who 326 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:45,680 Speaker 3: knew I would have missed that in the spelling Bee. 327 00:14:46,080 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 3: There's a lot of jobs that we've had over our 328 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:52,520 Speaker 3: great twenty year career that we've been fortunate enough to 329 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:55,280 Speaker 3: have the job that I have. Two jobs that you 330 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:56,800 Speaker 3: had that I wish I would have had at some point. 331 00:14:56,840 --> 00:14:58,640 Speaker 3: I would have loved to work on college game Day 332 00:14:58,880 --> 00:15:03,000 Speaker 3: and the spelling Bee. That's spelling me, gig I. You 333 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 3: and I have never talked about it. I so stupid 334 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:09,000 Speaker 3: allude to the TV and thinking to myself, I could 335 00:15:09,000 --> 00:15:12,240 Speaker 3: be on that. No, you cannot, I before except after 336 00:15:12,280 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 3: c What are you talking about, Carissa? Was it as 337 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:18,040 Speaker 3: magical as it appeared? Because I just wanted to hug 338 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:19,440 Speaker 3: all of those children. 339 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:22,440 Speaker 1: Hug all of them. They were so much smarter, obviously 340 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 1: than I'll ever be. Scholastic scholar? What made it so great? 341 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 2: Scholastic scholar was that shout out to Jeter forgetting his degree. 342 00:15:31,720 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 1: Yes, and I love that, Jeet. It's cute the best. 343 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 1: My tailboom's killing me. What was I gonna say that that. Oh, 344 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 1: Tom Bergeron. I hosted it with Tom Bergeron. 345 00:15:41,440 --> 00:15:43,920 Speaker 2: He made it so much fun because he was so 346 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:46,800 Speaker 2: he's so dry, so sarcastic. And you have to be 347 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:50,000 Speaker 2: with those kids because you know, they're so intense and 348 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 2: so intense. You know, you're interviewing a thirteen year old 349 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:55,200 Speaker 2: that just spelled a word that I've never heard of, 350 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:58,040 Speaker 2: and you're making fun of yourself and them, and I 351 00:15:58,040 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 2: mean not making fun of them, but the environment. 352 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was. 353 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:03,320 Speaker 3: Course, yeah, I always I don't know, let me think 354 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 3: of that. Just I love the spell and be Also, 355 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:07,400 Speaker 3: did you ever watch those shows? I know you did, 356 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:11,720 Speaker 3: actually the cheerleading competitions? Yeah, speaking what. 357 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:14,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, you were like they do they still have those? Yeah? 358 00:16:14,760 --> 00:16:17,520 Speaker 3: Those like Fly in the Air was always on ESPN 359 00:16:17,520 --> 00:16:20,720 Speaker 3: two and I was like these people the tumbling competitions 360 00:16:20,760 --> 00:16:21,520 Speaker 3: or whatever they were. 361 00:16:21,880 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, fire UK really good. L's a good dance team, 362 00:16:28,040 --> 00:16:30,280 Speaker 2: Ohio State. It's a good dance team. 363 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:31,760 Speaker 1: I forgot I. 364 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 3: Think seven eight so good. Oh so that's a trip. 365 00:16:37,440 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 3: I'm emoryily Okay. We also have some headlines here that 366 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:41,640 Speaker 3: I would love. So we always ask you guys, and 367 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:44,640 Speaker 3: we appreciate the anonymous questions that we give for our pregame. 368 00:16:44,680 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 3: We have an anonymous follow up which is very exciting. 369 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 3: So the original question was from January seventh. The question 370 00:16:50,960 --> 00:16:53,880 Speaker 3: was weekend ski trip with a boy I've never been 371 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:54,480 Speaker 3: on a date with. 372 00:16:54,880 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 1: Go for it. 373 00:16:55,560 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 3: Mutual friends says he's a great guy. We said, yes, 374 00:16:58,720 --> 00:17:01,160 Speaker 3: yours surely. Aaron and I said, do it. Go for it, 375 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:04,120 Speaker 3: have a great time, see what happens, you know all 376 00:17:04,119 --> 00:17:06,879 Speaker 3: the things. Here's the follow up. I took the trip, 377 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 3: had an absolute blast. We had the most perfect weekend. 378 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 3: It felt like we'd known each other for years. Only 379 00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:16,000 Speaker 3: issue in parentheses exactly what you brought up was the 380 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:18,200 Speaker 3: bathroom situation we had brought up. If you have to 381 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:20,159 Speaker 3: go to the bathroom you're sharing a room, it's always like, 382 00:17:20,160 --> 00:17:23,680 Speaker 3: oh God. Felt like I didn't go the entire weekend 383 00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:25,560 Speaker 3: to anyone doubting whether to take a trip or to 384 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 3: go on a date with that person. Do it? Anonymous. 385 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:30,520 Speaker 3: First of all, thank you for following up. I'm so 386 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 3: happy that you went for it, and who cares where 387 00:17:33,640 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 3: it goes after that? If it ends up being like 388 00:17:35,760 --> 00:17:38,240 Speaker 3: a you know for everything, great, then invite us to 389 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:41,280 Speaker 3: your wedding. If it doesn't, at least you like, you know, 390 00:17:41,440 --> 00:17:43,800 Speaker 3: tried something different instead of just being afraid and then 391 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:45,359 Speaker 3: always wondered like what could have? 392 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:48,359 Speaker 1: Would have should of? I love that, And I. 393 00:17:48,320 --> 00:17:51,760 Speaker 2: Know doctors wouldn't endoorse being a back up Betty and 394 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 2: not being able to go when you need to. 395 00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:55,720 Speaker 1: But hey, risky for the biscuit. 396 00:17:55,880 --> 00:17:59,880 Speaker 2: You know, when you met body, I think in track, 397 00:18:00,000 --> 00:18:02,600 Speaker 2: when you get home, your body definitely knows that. 398 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 3: It's like, hey, now is not the time that we're 399 00:18:05,359 --> 00:18:08,439 Speaker 3: going to have. I mean, we're trying to blow out 400 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:12,760 Speaker 3: the weekend with fun, not the bathroom, you know, my god, 401 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:16,600 Speaker 3: But the move in that situation is always the go 402 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:20,360 Speaker 3: get coffee, go get out of the room, because then 403 00:18:20,400 --> 00:18:22,440 Speaker 3: you're either in a public bathroom, which no one. 404 00:18:22,359 --> 00:18:23,399 Speaker 1: Needs going to public bathroom. 405 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:25,480 Speaker 3: But I'm saying for him too. I'm saying for him too. 406 00:18:25,600 --> 00:18:29,040 Speaker 3: Maybe he's guys are routine. They go to the bathroom please, 407 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:32,680 Speaker 3: you know, are saying anywhere others every morning. I remember 408 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 3: my daddy's like grabbed the newspaper and we're always like, 409 00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:37,399 Speaker 3: oh God, but like men do that. Men are so 410 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:40,720 Speaker 3: regular and whatever, like girls just we don't even go. 411 00:18:40,880 --> 00:18:43,119 Speaker 2: So we used to call it. In our house, dad's 412 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:49,120 Speaker 2: thinking about the Red Sox. Depending on how long he's 413 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:51,000 Speaker 2: thinking about the Red Sox. Are they going to the 414 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:52,880 Speaker 2: World Series? Is this finally the year? 415 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:53,640 Speaker 3: We don't know. 416 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:56,280 Speaker 1: What's Dad doing. He's thinking about but always. 417 00:18:55,920 --> 00:19:00,240 Speaker 3: Grabbed this sports page too, and then we're like, oh 418 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:02,440 Speaker 3: my god, who wants to read the sports page after 419 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:06,639 Speaker 3: it's been in there for an hour? And then the 420 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:10,280 Speaker 3: sprang the air freshener, like we know what happened, and 421 00:19:10,359 --> 00:19:13,800 Speaker 3: that stale, like you know, a low hall Hawaiian smell 422 00:19:13,880 --> 00:19:16,040 Speaker 3: that's in the air fresher is not helping things. 423 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:19,840 Speaker 2: Just light a match, keep it moving. I'll make her 424 00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:22,760 Speaker 2: as a child, I'll tell this story. I don't care 425 00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:27,000 Speaker 2: my grandmother. I don't know why she died to decide. 426 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:28,120 Speaker 2: She was living in this. 427 00:19:28,160 --> 00:19:33,440 Speaker 1: Adorable retirement home community in o'calla. Then she laughed after 428 00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:35,480 Speaker 1: my grandfather. 429 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:40,640 Speaker 2: Passed, married some guy and then lived in like a trailer, 430 00:19:40,920 --> 00:19:43,960 Speaker 2: not like a bad trailer, but I don't know, Okalla, 431 00:19:44,080 --> 00:19:46,280 Speaker 2: like it was like a bigger trailer, like I don't 432 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 2: know those interesting choice. We took her out, I think 433 00:19:51,119 --> 00:19:54,120 Speaker 2: for her eightieth birthday. I was in college. I came 434 00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:55,760 Speaker 2: home for it, or maybe I was. 435 00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:56,920 Speaker 1: Just out of college. 436 00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:03,760 Speaker 2: My cousin bo blew up the bathroom right by where 437 00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:06,760 Speaker 2: we were sitting in the living room, and it was 438 00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:10,199 Speaker 2: one of those like are you okay like and then 439 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:13,840 Speaker 2: leaves the door wide open as we're sitting in the 440 00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:17,880 Speaker 2: living room and we're just like, I I it must 441 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:19,560 Speaker 2: have been college I was in because I was thinking. 442 00:20:19,600 --> 00:20:21,199 Speaker 2: I looked at my sister. I'm like, we're gonna need 443 00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:23,200 Speaker 2: some more mics. I let me get through this one, 444 00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:35,840 Speaker 2: you know. Oh god, true story. 445 00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:39,160 Speaker 3: Okay, not the mics are lemonade. 446 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:43,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, holy shit. Literally, Oh that's funny, that's good stuff. 447 00:20:43,840 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. 448 00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:53,000 Speaker 1: People are crazy away from common decency. Okay, I'm just 449 00:20:53,000 --> 00:20:56,080 Speaker 1: gonna leave her. What is this about me? 450 00:20:57,359 --> 00:21:02,440 Speaker 3: No, it is about with me, like OCD, like cleaning 451 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:05,240 Speaker 3: bathrooms because before guests that we've had at our house 452 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:07,720 Speaker 3: at different times, to make sure that like the toilets 453 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:10,280 Speaker 3: and everything is always clean and anything they need. Here's 454 00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:13,600 Speaker 3: the white, here's the spray, here's this whatever, like matches. 455 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:16,560 Speaker 3: It's like, let me stay on this conversation way too long, 456 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:20,159 Speaker 3: but like that is bathroom etiquette in general is just 457 00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 3: like come on, wake up, everybody, but nothing is worse, Honestly, 458 00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:28,639 Speaker 3: nothing is worse that when you go into the bathroom 459 00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:31,159 Speaker 3: and somebody else has been in there before you and 460 00:21:31,200 --> 00:21:33,320 Speaker 3: you know that they've done it, and then you go 461 00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:35,280 Speaker 3: in right after, like let's say you're at a party 462 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:37,840 Speaker 3: or whatever it is, and you're like, they're gonna think 463 00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:40,680 Speaker 3: it's me, because now the next person in the bathroom 464 00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:42,360 Speaker 3: is gonna go in there and smell, and they're gonna 465 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:43,680 Speaker 3: look at me, and I'm gonna be like, I did it. 466 00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:46,000 Speaker 3: That was not me, that was the person in front. 467 00:21:46,600 --> 00:21:48,840 Speaker 3: So I like make a car, I like make a 468 00:21:48,840 --> 00:21:51,200 Speaker 3: whole scene of it. I'm like, I'm walking up the bathroom. 469 00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:54,320 Speaker 3: If I see I'm like, oh my god, who I'll. 470 00:21:54,280 --> 00:21:56,040 Speaker 1: Do the thing, or I'll be like go ahead and 471 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 1: you can go ahead. I'll wait for the next one. 472 00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:00,239 Speaker 3: No, right, because I'm like, I am not, I'm not 473 00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:04,919 Speaker 3: going to be accused of that first degree murder that 474 00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 3: just happened there because they killed that toilet and I 475 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:08,119 Speaker 3: am not. 476 00:22:08,680 --> 00:22:10,399 Speaker 1: I'm not wanting to go to jail over that. 477 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:14,439 Speaker 3: So I will stand over here absolutely not. Murder was 478 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 3: the case that they gave me. 479 00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:25,879 Speaker 4: Murder, she wrote, and that's all she wrote. 480 00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:30,240 Speaker 1: Moving right along. Hey, you want to do some headlines, babe? 481 00:22:30,440 --> 00:22:33,879 Speaker 1: I would love to Number one tips for moms and 482 00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:37,280 Speaker 1: wives kidding who are feeling overwhelmed. This is from the 483 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,240 Speaker 1: Today Show. I actually saw some of this. It was 484 00:22:39,280 --> 00:22:39,760 Speaker 1: really good. 485 00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:43,040 Speaker 2: Lean on one or two people in your life who 486 00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:45,879 Speaker 2: can be your support system. You don't need hours and 487 00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:47,919 Speaker 2: hours of their time unless you're me. 488 00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:49,120 Speaker 1: Research show. 489 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:52,119 Speaker 2: Research shows you only need one hour per week to 490 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:54,200 Speaker 2: connect with someone who can validate your feelings. 491 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:55,080 Speaker 1: Oh that's us. 492 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:58,119 Speaker 3: This is my podcast is one hour a day, and 493 00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:00,119 Speaker 3: this is you and I. The whole impetus of this 494 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:03,920 Speaker 3: podcast was because we spend hours talking on the phone, 495 00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:06,800 Speaker 3: or an hour or even you know, fifteen minute long 496 00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:07,440 Speaker 3: voice notes. 497 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:08,600 Speaker 1: Being able to vent. 498 00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:14,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I it's very cathartic for me to 499 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:17,480 Speaker 3: get everything out. You are the person that I do 500 00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:19,439 Speaker 3: that the most with. And once I say it, I 501 00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:22,520 Speaker 3: automatically feel better or I hear myself say it, and 502 00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:24,920 Speaker 3: it's either one of two things. Either not as bad 503 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:28,959 Speaker 3: as I thought it was, or it's that bad and 504 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:31,240 Speaker 3: I'm justified in feeling the way that I am. So 505 00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:33,439 Speaker 3: a lot of sometimes people are like, oh, I journal 506 00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:35,359 Speaker 3: to get my feelings out. No, not me. I'm like 507 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:39,480 Speaker 3: to you or on this podcast or whatever. Mind I'm 508 00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:43,439 Speaker 3: able to like step you do journal, No, you're my journal. 509 00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:45,800 Speaker 2: I mean I do like I will manifest things like 510 00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:49,399 Speaker 2: a lot of stuff, but I need to do it 511 00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 2: a little bit more consistently about it. 512 00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:54,960 Speaker 1: But I can't. There are people going to write it 513 00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:57,800 Speaker 1: any read it. It's too hard to remember. I can 514 00:23:57,880 --> 00:23:59,919 Speaker 1: barely remember to put by cast or oil in my 515 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:03,480 Speaker 1: belly button. You tell you have a lot of things. 516 00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:05,520 Speaker 2: Too many, and now it's turned into O C D 517 00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:06,960 Speaker 2: at this point, it's a psycho. 518 00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:10,719 Speaker 1: Have you been doing the peptide? Yeah, no, not the peptid, 519 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:13,120 Speaker 1: the spray? Well, have you been doing your shot? 520 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:14,160 Speaker 3: Oh? 521 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:14,560 Speaker 1: The shot? 522 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:16,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's thought. We were talking about the peptide the 523 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 3: like thing. Yeah no, that's fine, the spray and the peptid. 524 00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:23,679 Speaker 3: So Aaron's got a dreamt a peptide. We've got a 525 00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 3: we got a spray, we got a peptide. But what 526 00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:27,680 Speaker 3: And I don't I don't know how I feel about 527 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:28,600 Speaker 3: you saying belly button. 528 00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:30,879 Speaker 1: So there's that. What do you call it? The hole 529 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:31,520 Speaker 1: in your belly? 530 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:34,320 Speaker 3: No, I just don't like belly, like belly and general 531 00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:40,200 Speaker 3: belly button, belly button, and like when you put you. 532 00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:42,120 Speaker 1: Put castro, what does that make you go to the bathroom? 533 00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:45,520 Speaker 1: All conversations with their toxins. But then I saw something 534 00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:47,879 Speaker 1: on Instagram that said, it's not so. I don't know. 535 00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:50,639 Speaker 2: Basically, I have too many things going on. I have 536 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 2: my supplements that I take. I have my castor oil 537 00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:57,560 Speaker 2: in my hole in my belly and then or stomach. 538 00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:01,280 Speaker 2: I have our glutathion spray. I have our peptide shot. 539 00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:05,359 Speaker 2: I have my peptide under my tongue. I'm I'm like glod. 540 00:25:05,440 --> 00:25:08,119 Speaker 1: But you look young? How about yesterday? 541 00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:10,840 Speaker 3: Remember when remember when Jared said to you, like, oh, 542 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:12,639 Speaker 3: you look a lot younger than you are. Guess what 543 00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:16,040 Speaker 3: Steve said to me the morning of my forty third birthday. 544 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:17,879 Speaker 3: So it was overcast here at the ranch, and so 545 00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:19,240 Speaker 3: I was like, let's just use this as a day. 546 00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:21,800 Speaker 3: We'll be cozy, we'll be inside, it's Sunday, we'll light 547 00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:25,119 Speaker 3: a fire, we'll just like knock it off. So I 548 00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:27,440 Speaker 3: sit down on the couch and he goes, well, you're old, 549 00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:30,600 Speaker 3: now get on over here. First of all, who said 550 00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:33,119 Speaker 3: you're old? Now get on over here. It's like my 551 00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:36,440 Speaker 3: house what are you talking about? Don't say you're old? 552 00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:38,200 Speaker 3: Now get on over here. How about I don't want 553 00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 3: to be anywhere near you now? 554 00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:42,639 Speaker 1: Like what we should have been together for a pace, 555 00:25:42,680 --> 00:25:46,520 Speaker 1: Because that's not what I meant. I'm confused. How should 556 00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:47,760 Speaker 1: I interpret you're old? 557 00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:50,480 Speaker 3: Now get on over here, Come sit on, sit on 558 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:52,080 Speaker 3: daddy's lape. 559 00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:53,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, what are you talking about? 560 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:54,400 Speaker 4: Hey? 561 00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:56,920 Speaker 3: This leads us right into the next one, divorce something 562 00:25:56,960 --> 00:26:00,760 Speaker 3: I know something about. Divorce lawyer reveals the four mistakes 563 00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:03,880 Speaker 3: couples make prioritizing your work or kids over your marriage. 564 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,760 Speaker 3: One of the main reasons why couples separate is the 565 00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:08,080 Speaker 3: other person doesn't have a job. 566 00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:10,199 Speaker 1: Oh that's that's not what it says. But that's what 567 00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:10,600 Speaker 1: I said. 568 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,280 Speaker 3: Is that they lose focus on their relationship and they 569 00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:16,240 Speaker 3: put the others, typically their work or kids, ahead of 570 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,239 Speaker 3: their marriage. Look, there's a myriad of different reasons why 571 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:21,440 Speaker 3: people get divorced, but I will only speak from my 572 00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:25,919 Speaker 3: experience that we just didn't align in work ethic. But 573 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:29,280 Speaker 3: in this particular case was as it pertains to kids 574 00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:31,399 Speaker 3: or marriage. I for my dad used to have a 575 00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:33,840 Speaker 3: thing where he would always say he still does actually 576 00:26:33,920 --> 00:26:35,600 Speaker 3: even though I've been out of the house for twenty 577 00:26:35,600 --> 00:26:38,920 Speaker 3: something years now. He's like, your mother is my first priority. 578 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:41,240 Speaker 3: She was here before you, she'll be here after you. 579 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:44,520 Speaker 3: She always comes before you, guys. So growing up I 580 00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:48,080 Speaker 3: just always heard him say that, like we never superseded 581 00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:51,480 Speaker 3: her in everything. So I think that you know, for you, 582 00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:53,280 Speaker 3: you could speak to this more because you're married with 583 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:55,920 Speaker 3: a child. But like, how easy it is to put 584 00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:59,320 Speaker 3: back before your relationship because he's a baby and need 585 00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:00,359 Speaker 3: you and all that stuff. 586 00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:02,080 Speaker 1: So just good to think about. I guess. 587 00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:06,399 Speaker 2: Yep, there's more other reasons for common mistakes communicating but 588 00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:09,800 Speaker 2: not comprehending. I actually really like this one. As the 589 00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:13,359 Speaker 2: saying goes, communication is key, but it's more than that. 590 00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:17,240 Speaker 2: Couples need to not only communicate, but also comprehend what 591 00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:18,560 Speaker 2: their partner is saying. 592 00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:25,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, so there's all my therapy. There was a very 593 00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:28,199 Speaker 3: and I need to remember this because again we you 594 00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:31,000 Speaker 3: and I are not adverse. And I believe a lot 595 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:34,320 Speaker 3: of people listening to these podcasts or any podcasts for example, 596 00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:36,360 Speaker 3: or like open to whether they want to be entertained 597 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:40,320 Speaker 3: or informed or whatever. I'm not adverse to getting better 598 00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:43,199 Speaker 3: in areas that I'm deficient. For example, I'm not a 599 00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:45,520 Speaker 3: great communicator. I fly off the handle and then I 600 00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:49,199 Speaker 3: apologize after the fact. I need to slow down. I 601 00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:52,680 Speaker 3: need to take in the information and not react so quickly. 602 00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:55,639 Speaker 3: So one of the things that I learned in therapy 603 00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:58,800 Speaker 3: that I still need to sharpen my skills on is 604 00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:02,280 Speaker 3: this idea. So let me So, let's say you say 605 00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:05,000 Speaker 3: something to me like, pretend like you're Steve and you 606 00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:07,920 Speaker 3: are annoyed with me. Say something that you're annoyed. 607 00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:11,639 Speaker 2: By I'm saying something annoying to you. Yeah, you know 608 00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:13,480 Speaker 2: you're Steve and you're annoyed with me at something. So 609 00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:15,919 Speaker 2: say something like, oh, I don't like when you do 610 00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:20,720 Speaker 2: da da da da da. I don't like when you 611 00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:21,720 Speaker 2: tell me to slow down. 612 00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:25,840 Speaker 3: Okay, So let me understand what you're saying, because I 613 00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:28,480 Speaker 3: want I want to hear you. So you're saying that 614 00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:31,200 Speaker 3: you don't like what I tell you to slow down. 615 00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:33,760 Speaker 3: So you repeat back what the person is saying, Okay, 616 00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:40,040 Speaker 3: And then it's what can I do to make what's 617 00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:42,320 Speaker 3: a better way for me to tell you things? Like 618 00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:44,719 Speaker 3: basically like what how should I say it to you? 619 00:28:44,880 --> 00:28:47,800 Speaker 3: How would you like me to say slow down? Because 620 00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:49,880 Speaker 3: the current way I'm saying it is not true. So yeah, 621 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:52,320 Speaker 3: you take in the information, you repeat it back so 622 00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:55,640 Speaker 3: that you understand they understand, you know that your messaging 623 00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:57,880 Speaker 3: is the same, and then ask them how they would 624 00:28:57,960 --> 00:28:59,760 Speaker 3: like you to say it does something that makes sense. 625 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 1: I just get through with that, I know. 626 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 3: And it's all about like, because it's everything is not 627 00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:09,960 Speaker 3: what you say, it's how you say it. Think about it. 628 00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,120 Speaker 3: All of us are like this, you know, right where 629 00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:14,200 Speaker 3: we're like you're a fucking loser, and it's like, no, 630 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:16,400 Speaker 3: you're not a loser, but like I'm annoyed with you 631 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:17,800 Speaker 3: right now, frustrating me. 632 00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:18,880 Speaker 1: You're frustrating me. 633 00:29:18,920 --> 00:29:20,440 Speaker 3: So I wonder if we even just said things like that, 634 00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:23,640 Speaker 3: like this is not realistic because like, who's going to 635 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:26,240 Speaker 3: do this in a moment of panic, be like, well, see, 636 00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:29,400 Speaker 3: you're frustrating me right now because you're moving so fast. 637 00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:32,120 Speaker 3: So if you would mind, wouldn't mind slowing down a 638 00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:34,400 Speaker 3: little bit? I think it would be better for our relationship, 639 00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:37,280 Speaker 3: don't you Steve He'd be like, yeah, bab you. 640 00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:38,160 Speaker 1: Got it, no problem. 641 00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:41,800 Speaker 3: Meanwhile, I'm like slow the fuck down and screaming like 642 00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:42,720 Speaker 3: a psychopath. 643 00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:44,720 Speaker 1: But like and then you should end it by saying 644 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:48,800 Speaker 1: and coming up after the break, we'll have more dedications 645 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,280 Speaker 1: and love letters on Delilah after dark. 646 00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:55,520 Speaker 3: Seriously, but the other ones rushing into romance, I am 647 00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:58,960 Speaker 3: so guilty of that. I like think that because you 648 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,320 Speaker 3: say you like me, we're in love. Uh, and then 649 00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:03,960 Speaker 3: falling into the temptation of social media. I'm not sure 650 00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:07,640 Speaker 3: about this one. Instagram past, Facebook albums, TikTok, TikTok, videos, 651 00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:10,960 Speaker 3: TikTok keep us connected. Sometimes seeing the highlights of someone's 652 00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:13,040 Speaker 3: life being one clickway, isn't that great for our relationship? 653 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:13,640 Speaker 1: Yeah? 654 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:17,120 Speaker 3: I mean you might know, like that, you think that 655 00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:19,800 Speaker 3: that person's so great based off their social media or something. 656 00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:23,239 Speaker 1: Maybe it's not real, not real, it's not real. And 657 00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:26,920 Speaker 1: the people that you see we're sun love, No, they're not. 658 00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:29,400 Speaker 1: They're probably a month away from divorce. Stop it. 659 00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:31,360 Speaker 3: We always had a thing like the more people post 660 00:30:31,400 --> 00:30:34,480 Speaker 3: about how they are, the the least like, the least 661 00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:36,360 Speaker 3: likely they are to succeed. 662 00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:40,200 Speaker 1: Which leads me into this what number five. 663 00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:43,800 Speaker 2: I'm leaving berries on the morning of the birthday, our 664 00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:48,240 Speaker 2: birthday yesterday, and I'm scrolling through Instagram because I shouldn't, 665 00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:51,560 Speaker 2: and it's a guilty pleasure, and I see Happy birthday 666 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:58,200 Speaker 2: to my wife. You want to know why our life's 667 00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:00,920 Speaker 2: not perfect because look at the photo posted me. You 668 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:03,720 Speaker 2: can't because I asked him to take it down. I 669 00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:07,480 Speaker 2: am the hunchback of Notre Dame. I have a jowy 670 00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:09,880 Speaker 2: puss on my face, not because I'm trying to because 671 00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:11,200 Speaker 2: Mac doesn't feel good. 672 00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:11,800 Speaker 1: In the photo. 673 00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:15,520 Speaker 2: We're easter egg hunting at a at Underwood Farm. Shout out, 674 00:31:15,520 --> 00:31:18,200 Speaker 2: what a great place, adorable. Mac didn't feel well, so 675 00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:21,120 Speaker 2: I'm trying to navigate him. He's whining he doesn't feel good, 676 00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:24,080 Speaker 2: but I'm getting him what a concept out for the 677 00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:26,160 Speaker 2: day so he can forget about being sick. 678 00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:30,080 Speaker 1: Happy birthday to my wife. We love you so much. 679 00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:40,440 Speaker 3: I'm like this, why why just don't post? So then 680 00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:42,800 Speaker 3: you have to call him. You called him and said 681 00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:43,520 Speaker 3: take that down. 682 00:31:44,280 --> 00:31:47,280 Speaker 1: I said, what's going on? Why are you doing this 683 00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:51,080 Speaker 1: to me? Like? I understand you don't feel good, but 684 00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:54,840 Speaker 1: has that impaired your brain? I like the photo? No, 685 00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:58,480 Speaker 1: you like the photo of Mac. Mac looks adorable in 686 00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:06,000 Speaker 1: his basket. He's like raw his mother. But oh, I thought, 687 00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:14,120 Speaker 1: I like this picture. You don't? Oh God? And now Steve, 688 00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:16,320 Speaker 1: it's not time for you to come in yet, Steve, 689 00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:18,880 Speaker 1: how are you feeling? I'm so sorry. He just goes, 690 00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:21,680 Speaker 1: I'm hungry. You know. It's to record from two to 691 00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:24,400 Speaker 1: three thirty. 692 00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:27,240 Speaker 3: Okay, Well, I'm gonna talk about you and you're either 693 00:32:27,280 --> 00:32:30,280 Speaker 3: gonna listen to it or you're gonna. 694 00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:32,360 Speaker 1: He just goes go for it. 695 00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:34,760 Speaker 3: Well, no, it's actually not talking shit because at this 696 00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:38,160 Speaker 3: point Steve knows to only post pictures of me that 697 00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:40,960 Speaker 3: he knows that I would like. Of Blonda, there's there's 698 00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:43,240 Speaker 3: no there's no pictures that like he's going to be like, 699 00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:47,200 Speaker 3: you know, you know who does that already? The Google 700 00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:49,760 Speaker 3: searches we have of ourselves already have enough pictures of 701 00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:52,560 Speaker 3: us that are the whole reds. 702 00:32:52,960 --> 00:33:00,360 Speaker 4: You have provided us a great life. 703 00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:01,720 Speaker 1: Happy birthday? 704 00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,520 Speaker 3: Does Hey, you want to end this on a positive 705 00:33:04,600 --> 00:33:06,959 Speaker 3: note because we both got we both got gifts from 706 00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:12,080 Speaker 3: our significant other that were so meaningful, that we're so meaningful, 707 00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:15,480 Speaker 3: and that he's really all that you really loved. You 708 00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:19,200 Speaker 3: got two pictures of you with Howie and look with Steve. 709 00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:22,040 Speaker 3: This is I told Steve, I said I don't want 710 00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:23,800 Speaker 3: any I literally looked a him. I said I don't 711 00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:26,800 Speaker 3: want a goddamnthday. I said, I'll tell you why. We're 712 00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:29,840 Speaker 3: going on a really nice trip soon. I said, let's 713 00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:32,800 Speaker 3: not try to get goofy and spend it on that right, 714 00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:34,520 Speaker 3: I said, you know what I want? I said, I 715 00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:37,560 Speaker 3: want a card from all the animals here at the ranch. 716 00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:39,960 Speaker 3: So he shout out to Steve. Actually, look, you can listen. 717 00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,440 Speaker 3: I'm not talking about you. He went to the store 718 00:33:42,440 --> 00:33:44,200 Speaker 3: and body card that had a cow on it, a 719 00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:46,160 Speaker 3: sheep on it, a dog on it, a cat on it, 720 00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:49,360 Speaker 3: wrote like they were each from one of the animals. Hysterical, 721 00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:53,600 Speaker 3: and then he made this photo it is the last 722 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:56,320 Speaker 3: supper with all of my animals, and willis like he's 723 00:33:56,440 --> 00:34:01,120 Speaker 3: Jesus Christ in the middle of the table. Amenah, I 724 00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:06,480 Speaker 3: mean hasty with you and also with those animals. Yeah, 725 00:34:06,600 --> 00:34:10,080 Speaker 3: I'm like great, that's all I wanted. So anyways, they're 726 00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:11,840 Speaker 3: not perfect, but there. 727 00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:17,080 Speaker 1: Ares Calm Down with Erin and Carissa is a production 728 00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:18,200 Speaker 1: of iHeartRadio. 729 00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:22,680 Speaker 3: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, 730 00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:28,320 Speaker 3: or wherever you get your podcasts.