WEBVTT - Cha Cha Choo Choo Train with Jody 0:00:10.119 --> 0:00:14.320 Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio 0:00:14.400 --> 0:00:18.080 and the Black Effect Networks talk Talk Talk. 0:00:18.160 --> 0:00:22.240 So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion 0:00:22.840 --> 0:00:25.920 who talks. 0:00:26.840 --> 0:00:28.040 What's up, y'all? 0:00:28.040 --> 0:00:29.720 Thank you for tuning in for a new episode that 0:00:29.800 --> 0:00:32.600 We Talk Back, a show dedicated to you dreamers and changes. 0:00:32.680 --> 0:00:34.880 Today it is to you niggas and holes as well. 0:00:35.280 --> 0:00:39.120 We're gonna get into a lot of whole shit today. Anyway, 0:00:39.240 --> 0:00:42.400 it's your calls. AJ Holliday, what's up, Tam, Hey, y'all. 0:00:42.440 --> 0:00:45.760 I love y'all, Hey Jay, I love you too, I 0:00:45.800 --> 0:00:47.839 love me Mo, and I love your back. How is 0:00:47.880 --> 0:00:51.400 your weekend? I got on a bral right now. I 0:00:51.560 --> 0:00:55.200 really hate bras man. I'll never wear them. I hardly 0:00:55.240 --> 0:00:55.800 wear them. 0:00:55.640 --> 0:00:58.800 But I look my bad. I put one on to 0:00:58.920 --> 0:01:02.480 record today and I've been struggling ever since. 0:01:02.880 --> 0:01:06.960 I know, but ever put those things off. My weekend 0:01:07.080 --> 0:01:09.280 was a very uneventful. I didn't do much. 0:01:09.400 --> 0:01:13.560 It was very cold. I'm talking about like teenager cold teens. 0:01:14.120 --> 0:01:16.920 I hibernated again this past week. I do not like winter. 0:01:17.600 --> 0:01:21.240 I'm just I'm a summer dating books. Yes, I like 0:01:21.319 --> 0:01:24.039 I would prefer to be hot. I really would prefer 0:01:24.520 --> 0:01:25.920 to be like warmer. 0:01:26.280 --> 0:01:28.880 I'm a spring and fall kind of girl. Like I 0:01:28.880 --> 0:01:31.240 don't want it too hot, I don't want it too cold. 0:01:31.319 --> 0:01:34.200 Just give me some nice mediums. I actually speaking of 0:01:34.319 --> 0:01:36.920 nice mediums. I went to I flew out to La 0:01:37.680 --> 0:01:40.240 on a humble because we were supposed to actually be 0:01:40.360 --> 0:01:44.399 in Memphis at the Saint Jude's homecoming event, but it 0:01:44.440 --> 0:01:48.200 got postponed due to frigid ass weather. So I just 0:01:48.200 --> 0:01:49.840 had the weekend off. I was like, what can I do. 0:01:49.880 --> 0:01:51.720 I'm not going to sit here in Charlotte. Where can 0:01:51.760 --> 0:01:54.040 I go? So I just hopped on a flight and 0:01:54.200 --> 0:01:56.880 went to La. And I just want to if anybody 0:01:57.000 --> 0:02:02.200 know Rafaela dat Heli, because he said it never arranged 0:02:02.240 --> 0:02:05.800 in southern rain the whole fucking time I was there. 0:02:06.360 --> 0:02:08.040 And I went and watched that video, and I should 0:02:08.040 --> 0:02:10.200 have knew new niggas was lying because they had blouses 0:02:10.280 --> 0:02:12.040 on and it was like blowing in the wind in 0:02:12.040 --> 0:02:14.000 the video, and niggat in a white blouse. 0:02:14.320 --> 0:02:18.240 He lying. They tell me any nigga in white blouse? Yeah, 0:02:18.240 --> 0:02:19.320 and it's blowing in the wind. 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:24.200 He lied, all right, Yeah, So it rained the whole 0:02:24.200 --> 0:02:26.320 time I was there. I really didn't get to do 0:02:26.480 --> 0:02:28.160 as much as I wanted to because the weather was 0:02:28.240 --> 0:02:32.080 kind of ship. It wasn't cold, but it was just rainy, 0:02:32.120 --> 0:02:36.480 and uh, I just kind of like, yeah, yeah it was. 0:02:36.520 --> 0:02:38.960 It was chilly, but it wasn't nothing compared to what 0:02:39.000 --> 0:02:42.680 we got going over on this side of the United States. 0:02:43.080 --> 0:02:45.320 I hung out with my homegirl. 0:02:45.760 --> 0:02:46.600 She had twin. 0:02:46.400 --> 0:02:48.320 Babies about five months ago, so I got to know, 0:02:49.480 --> 0:02:51.680 and that was really it. I ain't really get much done, 0:02:52.200 --> 0:02:55.160 So that was it. Two babies, two twin babies. They 0:02:55.200 --> 0:02:57.839 are so adorable, girl, They're so cute. I just wanted 0:02:57.880 --> 0:02:58.560 to eat them up. 0:02:59.560 --> 0:03:02.360 I haven't held a baby in a long time. I 0:03:02.360 --> 0:03:03.320 want to hold a baby. 0:03:04.680 --> 0:03:07.040 Oh yeah, I've been holding babies all for the past 0:03:07.080 --> 0:03:10.240 two years. It seems like all my friends are having babies. 0:03:10.000 --> 0:03:16.400 Back to back. Pop that pussy baby, you next, you next. 0:03:16.800 --> 0:03:20.040 I don't know. I might hold on before we go there. 0:03:20.120 --> 0:03:22.600 I always think, like, what we're gonna do with either 0:03:22.600 --> 0:03:24.560 one of us get pregnant, Like we're just gonna be 0:03:24.639 --> 0:03:25.720 podcasting pregnant. 0:03:26.120 --> 0:03:29.280 Yeah, our mouth fing's gonna be pregnant. 0:03:33.520 --> 0:03:37.000 I mean, you know, they might be trying to and 0:03:37.120 --> 0:03:39.760 pregnate our mouths, but we're not getting pregnant in them. 0:03:39.760 --> 0:03:44.080 Out throw a baby. 0:03:44.520 --> 0:03:47.680 We got going on as stupid internet news this week. 0:03:49.360 --> 0:03:52.080 No, we got to start with nimrodam. They should just 0:03:52.160 --> 0:03:53.080 call her Nimrod. 0:03:54.520 --> 0:03:59.240 Nikki Haley from South Carolina, she really got her ass 0:04:00.200 --> 0:04:04.880 national television and said the United States has never. 0:04:04.680 --> 0:04:09.000 Been a racist country. And I'm just thinking, like I 0:04:09.080 --> 0:04:13.560 was just so infuriated and upset with her for saying that, 0:04:13.640 --> 0:04:17.839 Like we really live in two different countries in the 0:04:17.880 --> 0:04:20.480 same country. A lot of people like. 0:04:21.960 --> 0:04:26.320 Racism has never been a thing in this country. 0:04:26.520 --> 0:04:29.480 I don't get upset about those things. And I say 0:04:29.480 --> 0:04:32.839 this a lot black people, withdraw your energy from the 0:04:32.880 --> 0:04:35.480 bullshit you see on TV, because what they are trying 0:04:35.520 --> 0:04:38.800 to do has harness your fucking energy to get us 0:04:38.839 --> 0:04:42.080 in this emotional state, because we are emotional people, right, 0:04:42.120 --> 0:04:43.640 So now you're not fucking thinking straight. 0:04:44.040 --> 0:04:51.800 Fuck that bitch. And then she actually tried to explain it. 0:04:52.080 --> 0:04:55.240 She said, our founding fathers had the best of intentions 0:04:55.240 --> 0:04:58.159 when they started, and we fixed it along the way, 0:04:58.520 --> 0:04:59.600 did we founding? 0:05:00.040 --> 0:05:06.200 There's of some stolen land. And she is a Native American, Yes, 0:05:06.520 --> 0:05:11.480 you're Native American. Yes, and she's saying that this country 0:05:11.560 --> 0:05:16.160 was never racist, that that never Yeah, she's. 0:05:15.960 --> 0:05:18.960 Not Native American. She is a Caucasian white woman, Yes 0:05:19.040 --> 0:05:20.680 she is. That's it. 0:05:23.200 --> 0:05:27.240 Native Americans know what racism is in this country. Indigenous 0:05:27.240 --> 0:05:29.720 people know what racism. We know that this country is 0:05:29.800 --> 0:05:33.640 racist and it was built off of racism and off 0:05:33.680 --> 0:05:35.000 the backs of black people. 0:05:35.880 --> 0:05:37.640 Like, I don't know what the fuck she's talking about. 0:05:38.760 --> 0:05:44.440 I don't know what the that is. That is insane. 0:05:45.480 --> 0:05:48.200 They be gaslighting the funk out you. She literally just 0:05:48.320 --> 0:05:51.440 gas lit the whole United States, all black people all? 0:05:54.080 --> 0:06:02.960 What is racism? Not here? Bitch you crazy girl? That 0:06:03.040 --> 0:06:05.320 was the episode of s n L. That was not real. 0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:09.120 That was not real. Oh my god, what else happening? 0:06:09.200 --> 0:06:10.640 Girl beating Nikki? 0:06:10.800 --> 0:06:13.960 She's Sarah Palin of this current election. Okay, she just 0:06:14.000 --> 0:06:15.760 thrown out there to. 0:06:16.040 --> 0:06:21.880 Shake it up with us, that's all. 0:06:23.080 --> 0:06:26.760 Okay, why are you calling her that? What is that's 0:06:26.760 --> 0:06:35.520 her first name? Nemrod. I never knew that sounds like 0:06:35.520 --> 0:06:38.320 a hemorrhoid, queen cream or something. 0:06:44.040 --> 0:06:47.200 All right, Uh, okay, I don't know who this guy is, 0:06:47.400 --> 0:06:50.159 but I came across was it no Jumper podcast? 0:06:50.200 --> 0:06:55.159 A clip. Uh this this dude, is it Lucci Lucci cannon? 0:06:55.880 --> 0:07:01.640 Loose cannon? Oh? Why do you see? Maybe it is 0:07:01.720 --> 0:07:02.320 loose cannon. 0:07:03.839 --> 0:07:08.480 You are fluent in niggatry because I would have never 0:07:08.640 --> 0:07:09.520 pronounced it like that. 0:07:09.640 --> 0:07:12.120 Okay, all right. So he's claiming to have. 0:07:12.000 --> 0:07:15.960 Carried on a long term relationship with Shannie O'Neill, and 0:07:16.000 --> 0:07:18.760 the rapper claimed that Shawnnie was using her child support 0:07:18.840 --> 0:07:21.160 money from Shack to buy him expensive gifts. 0:07:21.440 --> 0:07:22.440 The rapper told. 0:07:22.240 --> 0:07:25.080 Listeners that he and Shannie had an affair and that 0:07:25.200 --> 0:07:29.840 shot and that she kills ex wife was his sugar mama. 0:07:30.080 --> 0:07:30.400 Okay. 0:07:30.440 --> 0:07:33.200 The rapper claimed that Shawnnie brought him expensive gifts like 0:07:34.680 --> 0:07:36.480 an Ottomar Piquette. 0:07:37.760 --> 0:07:38.960 And a Richard Millie. 0:07:39.000 --> 0:07:42.040 Okay, and then he drops a bomb saying that she 0:07:42.200 --> 0:07:46.120 paid him fifty thousand dollars right before she got married 0:07:46.120 --> 0:07:52.320 to the preacher for some ghetto d You believe that fifty. 0:07:51.960 --> 0:07:58.560 Stacks fifty so big? I need to see it. I 0:07:58.640 --> 0:08:01.720 need to see it right now. What type of dick 0:08:01.880 --> 0:08:09.200 is that? Right? Dick is so cheap and free it's free, area, 0:08:10.240 --> 0:08:13.040 But she paid you. If she paid you, she paid 0:08:13.080 --> 0:08:15.640 you to shut the fuck up. And you out here 0:08:15.680 --> 0:08:20.680 running your mouth exactly. Come on, man, what's ups want 0:08:20.720 --> 0:08:22.360 to be? Instagram bitch is so bad? 0:08:22.880 --> 0:08:26.119 Who the grown men be running their mouths way more 0:08:26.480 --> 0:08:29.000 than women nowadays, Like they can't wait to kiss and 0:08:29.040 --> 0:08:30.120 tell on your ass. 0:08:30.360 --> 0:08:33.840 You can't like niggas. Excuse me. You can't fuck niggas 0:08:33.880 --> 0:08:35.560 because you like them? No more, you can't. 0:08:35.800 --> 0:08:38.120 You gotta get something on them first. You gotta stick 0:08:38.120 --> 0:08:40.200 your finger in there butt. That's the only way you 0:08:40.200 --> 0:08:41.040 can do these things. 0:08:44.360 --> 0:08:55.280 Hit me up. I'm just joking, Shy, we love you. Yeah. 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:57.520 I don't like it. Be certain people. I'd be like. 0:08:58.360 --> 0:09:01.840 These people are not problematic, they lay low, And it's 0:09:01.880 --> 0:09:04.600 just I can't stand when a motherfucker like come out 0:09:04.679 --> 0:09:06.439 and like trying to expose. 0:09:06.040 --> 0:09:09.000 Them somebody in any type of way. I don't like it. 0:09:09.320 --> 0:09:10.000 I don't like it. 0:09:10.440 --> 0:09:13.040 I feel like she should put another fifty bands on 0:09:13.120 --> 0:09:14.760 his head next case. 0:09:18.520 --> 0:09:22.200 His wife. Now she can't do that. She just gotta 0:09:22.200 --> 0:09:22.920 pray for the Lord. 0:09:23.559 --> 0:09:27.719 The Lord practiced vengeance, bitch, tear sh up in the Bible. 0:09:28.160 --> 0:09:32.080 Let him do it. Why he can't do it through me? 0:09:35.040 --> 0:09:36.959 There's a movie what was the movie about that? 0:09:37.360 --> 0:09:40.000 Where the guys were like doing the Lord's work and 0:09:40.000 --> 0:09:42.439 they was like killing people and they were like, uh. 0:09:42.840 --> 0:09:44.040 A kling bad people. 0:09:44.120 --> 0:09:47.040 Right, Yeah, it was like something Boon Dout says or 0:09:47.120 --> 0:09:47.920 something like that. 0:09:49.120 --> 0:09:51.040 I don't know, this has been several movies like that. 0:09:51.080 --> 0:09:55.360 But why do people think, Okay, if y'all say this 0:09:55.400 --> 0:09:58.240 thing is a real thing, right, why can't I say 0:09:58.960 --> 0:10:03.240 God made me do it without being crazy? God told 0:10:03.240 --> 0:10:05.360 me to do it. God came to me and told 0:10:05.400 --> 0:10:08.520 me to do this thing. Now I'm crazy, no, I 0:10:08.840 --> 0:10:11.160 but don't y'all believe in it. I believe in God. 0:10:11.200 --> 0:10:12.760 And if you say, God, I told you to do something, now, 0:10:13.000 --> 0:10:14.840 I'm believe that because God told me. 0:10:15.000 --> 0:10:16.800 Let me tell you. God been speaking to me. I 0:10:16.800 --> 0:10:19.880 don't know if I've opened up with my uh what's 0:10:19.920 --> 0:10:20.760 the head shard? 0:10:20.800 --> 0:10:24.400 I because I've been getting like downloads, baby, I've been 0:10:24.400 --> 0:10:25.240 getting down loads. 0:10:25.600 --> 0:10:28.480 I said to this man, all right, y'all, I'm not joking. 0:10:28.559 --> 0:10:30.000 In the airport. 0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:32.520 I felt so compelled to tell this white man that 0:10:32.559 --> 0:10:35.760 everything was gonna be okay, right, But I just was scared. 0:10:35.760 --> 0:10:37.160 I was like, he gonna think I'm crazy. 0:10:37.240 --> 0:10:38.760 I just feel like God is telling me to tell 0:10:38.800 --> 0:10:40.920 this person is, but I'm just gonna not say it 0:10:40.920 --> 0:10:43.080 to him. And then I felt so convicted by not 0:10:43.120 --> 0:10:45.240 saying it, I couldn't even sleep that night. So I 0:10:45.280 --> 0:10:47.400 was like, Lord, if you ever sent me a message 0:10:47.400 --> 0:10:50.280 for someone else, I'm gonna I'm gonna share that message. 0:10:50.320 --> 0:10:51.400 I'm not gonna hesitate. 0:10:51.640 --> 0:10:54.240 So I was on the flight again and there was 0:10:54.280 --> 0:10:56.760 this other man and he was humped over looking at 0:10:56.760 --> 0:10:58.880 his iPad like I mean all the way humped over, 0:10:59.200 --> 0:10:59.959 and I got it down. 0:11:00.000 --> 0:11:00.480 I loved it. 0:11:00.480 --> 0:11:02.760 Was like, tell that man to sit up straight. Tell 0:11:02.800 --> 0:11:04.720 that man he needs to sit up straight right now. 0:11:05.240 --> 0:11:06.760 And I was like, oh, I don't want to tell 0:11:06.800 --> 0:11:07.319 this man that. 0:11:07.320 --> 0:11:09.800 That's so weird. But I got out my seatbelt. 0:11:09.880 --> 0:11:11.920 I was like, this gonna sound crazy, but God said 0:11:11.960 --> 0:11:13.760 sit up straight, and he grabbed my hands. 0:11:14.120 --> 0:11:15.679 He was like, you're absolutely right. 0:11:15.720 --> 0:11:17.839 I went to the doctor and the doctors talked about 0:11:17.840 --> 0:11:19.480 my back in my sitting and I need to sit 0:11:19.559 --> 0:11:22.160 up straight, so you're right up straight. 0:11:22.600 --> 0:11:28.120 And I was like, Lord, use me, oh God, shame. Yeah, 0:11:28.160 --> 0:11:32.480 you gotta sit up straight. Yep. Like I learned that 0:11:32.559 --> 0:11:34.760 from another middle school teacher. She used to be like 0:11:34.880 --> 0:11:37.280 stop punking down, Yes. 0:11:37.080 --> 0:11:41.360 I'm about straight to hold your chests up. Yep, what's 0:11:41.400 --> 0:11:43.240 next to stupid internet news? 0:11:43.679 --> 0:11:43.959 Girl? 0:11:44.120 --> 0:11:47.280 What if now you know the girls, the girls, the 0:11:47.280 --> 0:11:49.360 girls be doing filters, the girls. 0:11:49.080 --> 0:11:51.280 Do all the things. What if you break out with 0:11:51.320 --> 0:11:52.080 a nigga. 0:11:52.880 --> 0:11:59.760 And he then posts all your unphotoshopped pictures on social media? 0:12:00.320 --> 0:12:05.720 Oh he said, teas win, Yeah he won. It's probably 0:12:05.720 --> 0:12:08.640 a Gemini ayant question. 0:12:09.320 --> 0:12:12.960 Or a Sagittarist because that behavior right there is definitely 0:12:13.080 --> 0:12:14.120 died my Gemini and. 0:12:14.160 --> 0:12:18.679 Sagittarius is like the opposite. I believe that. I believe that, 0:12:19.360 --> 0:12:23.000 Oh somebody did that girl? Yes, and listen. 0:12:23.040 --> 0:12:24.839 I don't know how truth the story is, y'all, but 0:12:24.880 --> 0:12:26.720 I thought it was very funny and I thought it 0:12:26.760 --> 0:12:30.480 could actually fucking happen. And I feel like maybe it's 0:12:30.520 --> 0:12:32.319 somebody out here trying to do the law's work for 0:12:32.360 --> 0:12:35.520 these niggas and putting ideas out there for the next 0:12:35.520 --> 0:12:36.560 person who get played. 0:12:36.920 --> 0:12:39.400 Listen, let me tell you something. After I photo shot 0:12:39.440 --> 0:12:41.800 my picture, the real picture don't exist no more. The 0:12:42.000 --> 0:12:44.360 leaked this is the real picture of bitch. 0:12:45.400 --> 0:12:48.080 She had a totally different body. She had the big booty, 0:12:48.880 --> 0:12:52.040 you know, flat stomach. The picture he posted. 0:12:54.280 --> 0:12:56.520 She had a gun. It's like he took her stomach 0:12:56.600 --> 0:13:00.800 and pushed it out. I would be like, first of all, 0:13:00.920 --> 0:13:06.040 that picture is photoshopped. This is my real body, Los Lulu. 0:13:06.360 --> 0:13:14.080 That's a that's around on them right quick? Don't somebody 0:13:14.120 --> 0:13:16.079 say I got a video you with a nigga at 0:13:16.080 --> 0:13:22.920 the beach. I was like, that's artificial intelligence. They doing 0:13:22.960 --> 0:13:26.720 everything with these computers. I mean, can you tell me 0:13:26.760 --> 0:13:30.240 it's not that's not me? Ship, that's not me? What 0:13:30.360 --> 0:13:32.280 fun is that? Who is that next to me? Like? 0:13:32.320 --> 0:13:35.000 That's my picture? But who? I would be so convincing, 0:13:35.120 --> 0:13:36.320 like lions right? 0:13:38.160 --> 0:13:44.199 Is that it's a I chat GPT created that. 0:13:49.360 --> 0:13:51.319 Yeah, we're trying to implement a new segment. 0:13:51.480 --> 0:13:58.079 Okay, it's called eminem messy uh memes, messy memes, that's what. 0:13:58.080 --> 0:13:59.800 It was town. Yeah, do you have one? 0:14:00.600 --> 0:14:02.280 Okay, let me tell y'all a messing me in my 0:14:02.320 --> 0:14:04.360 half of the week. I don't know if y'all saw 0:14:04.400 --> 0:14:08.079 this shit. I saw it on Spiritual World, but somebody commented, 0:14:08.080 --> 0:14:11.080 this is actually a tweet because y'all saw this week. 0:14:12.120 --> 0:14:15.280 Genie My was saying how she didn't have time to overlook, 0:14:15.360 --> 0:14:18.240 to look over the prenup before she signed it. She 0:14:18.400 --> 0:14:20.720 was like, she signed it like five days prior. So 0:14:21.240 --> 0:14:24.160 this Poe says Genie mind talking about she didn't read 0:14:24.160 --> 0:14:27.520 the prenup thoroughly and the comments saying. 0:14:27.640 --> 0:14:34.000 That's what happens when you held me up and oh 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:34.400 my god. 0:14:37.720 --> 0:14:43.320 No, it like a little teaspoon of racism, isn't there? 0:14:48.840 --> 0:14:51.400 Yo, I can't fuck you. 0:14:54.120 --> 0:14:56.120 I'm sick of it, okay, but I love it at 0:14:56.120 --> 0:14:58.000 the same time, it's great pastime. 0:14:58.560 --> 0:15:01.200 I find myself strolling way too much and I gotta 0:15:01.200 --> 0:15:03.560 get the hair off Instagram. Y'all. 0:15:03.560 --> 0:15:06.280 We about to get into some real life whole shit 0:15:06.640 --> 0:15:07.440 when we come back. 0:15:12.400 --> 0:15:16.520 All right, y'all, welcome back. Listen. Today we have a 0:15:16.680 --> 0:15:22.720 very special guest. Okay. She's a self proclaimed sexologist. Uh. 0:15:22.760 --> 0:15:25.800 She's a professional hole. 0:15:26.360 --> 0:15:33.240 Uhtivational speaker, cultivational speaker okay, and hophisticated entrepreneur. 0:15:33.280 --> 0:15:34.800 I here slanging girl. 0:15:34.880 --> 0:15:39.080 On the website, she had a damn uh uh a 0:15:39.120 --> 0:15:41.960 sex goals planner. Okay, so you can plan out all 0:15:41.960 --> 0:15:44.440 your whole shit for twenty twenty four. 0:15:44.880 --> 0:15:49.520 Okay, this is interesting. And she's also the host of 0:15:49.560 --> 0:15:51.880 the is it pro Hope? How do you pronounce the 0:15:52.120 --> 0:15:57.200 name of the podcast. Okay, this problematically provocative, Okay, provocative, 0:15:57.320 --> 0:16:01.720 the all Things Provocative podcast. So she's also a fellow podcaster. 0:16:01.880 --> 0:16:05.960 Y'all welcome Jody to wey. 0:16:06.120 --> 0:16:08.480 So do you spell hosts h O E s T 0:16:08.720 --> 0:16:16.360 or just h h O E s. Everything is whole bit, yes, 0:16:16.520 --> 0:16:22.960 friendly reminder that who is life. It's everywhere. But I 0:16:23.000 --> 0:16:25.280 do want to say that I am not a self 0:16:25.320 --> 0:16:32.520 proclaimed sexologist. I am a sexologist because she got paperwork 0:16:32.560 --> 0:16:36.200 on her Yeah, paperwork, Like I graduated in this whole ship. 0:16:36.680 --> 0:16:41.200 So the way, there's a there's a whole institution, institution, 0:16:41.880 --> 0:16:46.800 whole institution. Uh, but there are certification programs for people 0:16:46.800 --> 0:16:49.960 that are interested in becoming sexologists. So I did two 0:16:50.080 --> 0:16:55.760 different sexologist programs. One program was directly under doctor Rachel 0:16:55.840 --> 0:17:00.000 from the TV show The Doctors. Oh, she has a sexologist. 0:17:00.080 --> 0:17:04.040 This program called the Doctor Rachel Institute. So did her 0:17:04.080 --> 0:17:08.120 program and that covers all things sex. And then I 0:17:08.119 --> 0:17:12.679 did another certification program with sexpert consultants and that was 0:17:12.720 --> 0:17:19.440 where I got my bick sucking certification. Yeah, so there's 0:17:19.200 --> 0:17:24.000 a special certification out there. Yes, well you can get 0:17:24.000 --> 0:17:30.360 certified at all kind of ship these days. Yeah, I'm 0:17:30.359 --> 0:17:34.920 a professional. Yeah, aj you gonna feel bad. Hell yeah, listen, 0:17:34.920 --> 0:17:36.480 I got to love you. I got to love you. 0:17:36.600 --> 0:17:41.760 Down to work, get it? I get it? Yeah, I gotta. 0:17:41.880 --> 0:17:45.000 You know, just pretend like I do. It's okay. I 0:17:45.119 --> 0:17:46.159 just I got a question. 0:17:46.920 --> 0:17:49.480 You had to pay money for someone to teach you 0:17:49.520 --> 0:17:50.040 how to suck. 0:17:53.080 --> 0:17:55.600 It's to teach other people how to do it right. 0:17:55.640 --> 0:17:58.399 And then it's also you learn, like the anatomy, you 0:17:58.560 --> 0:18:02.560 learn the science behind it. It learn not just like 0:18:02.680 --> 0:18:05.320 all right, the mechanics of it, like of course, all right, 0:18:05.480 --> 0:18:11.399 you do this, but what comes behind do these things 0:18:11.720 --> 0:18:14.520 very well. It's one of these things where I feel 0:18:14.520 --> 0:18:17.560 like when it came to the certification program, the more 0:18:17.680 --> 0:18:21.000 you know, like when you really know the knowledge behind it, 0:18:21.080 --> 0:18:22.719 you just get really good at it because like, oh 0:18:22.840 --> 0:18:26.840 I know this gonna work, so uh definitely for me. 0:18:27.080 --> 0:18:30.760 Once I learned, like the anatomy, the science behind all 0:18:30.800 --> 0:18:33.240 of it, I got super excited about doing I'm like, 0:18:33.240 --> 0:18:35.320 oh my god, like I really like this. Like once 0:18:35.359 --> 0:18:38.040 I learned like the fun facts about like the even 0:18:38.119 --> 0:18:43.960 like what's in semen like excited me. Yeah, it's different, 0:18:43.960 --> 0:18:49.880 it's different things in that it's like melatonin in there. Yeah. 0:18:50.040 --> 0:18:52.400 I mean people like if you ever, like really went 0:18:52.480 --> 0:18:55.680 to work and you got a little tired, Like, yeah, 0:18:55.840 --> 0:18:57.240 it's a little melotone in there. 0:18:57.280 --> 0:19:01.200 It gets something from the store yall know on y'all 0:19:01.240 --> 0:19:03.560 know it on BT movies. Be like, I guess you're 0:19:03.600 --> 0:19:08.360 wondering how I got here. 0:19:06.720 --> 0:19:11.800 How I got here, how you got here? Like what 0:19:11.480 --> 0:19:13.679 what what made? Yeah? Like what made you want to 0:19:13.720 --> 0:19:17.919 go into this particular field. So I was a podcaster first, 0:19:18.359 --> 0:19:21.359 and my podcast was always about sex. But then I 0:19:21.440 --> 0:19:23.439 was like, Okay, I don't just want to be a 0:19:23.440 --> 0:19:25.320 podcaster who's talking about sex and don't know what the 0:19:25.359 --> 0:19:28.280 hell they're talking about, right, So for me, it was 0:19:28.400 --> 0:19:32.040 really having the education behind it. Also, as I was 0:19:32.119 --> 0:19:35.080 learning more about myself through sex, I just wanted to 0:19:35.119 --> 0:19:37.679 continue to learn more and also help other people. But 0:19:37.720 --> 0:19:39.720 in order to help other people, you can't just go 0:19:39.760 --> 0:19:42.960 off your own experiences. You have to really study. So 0:19:43.359 --> 0:19:45.359 I was like, all right, I don't want to be 0:19:45.760 --> 0:19:48.560 I want the credentials. I want to say I'm qualified 0:19:48.600 --> 0:19:51.880 to speak about this now. Of course, again still a podcaster, 0:19:52.040 --> 0:19:54.800 so crack crack some jokes, for sure, I tell my 0:19:54.840 --> 0:19:57.240 stories the way I tell them, but when I get 0:19:57.240 --> 0:20:01.800 in like professional moments like okay, no behind the joke. 0:20:02.280 --> 0:20:05.440 This is where this comes from. So I just wanted 0:20:05.480 --> 0:20:09.400 to be able to exercise that dynamic in a lot 0:20:09.400 --> 0:20:09.840 of ways. 0:20:10.320 --> 0:20:12.480 Now, if y'all listening, we talked back a lot. Y'all 0:20:12.520 --> 0:20:15.720 know I always say, hos wear glasses. This girl is 0:20:15.760 --> 0:20:19.960 so sweet looking, She's so cute. 0:20:19.280 --> 0:20:25.880 And well, swallow you up, swallowed up? 0:20:26.280 --> 0:20:34.119 Have you ever been swallowed? I told y'all, I'm fucking 0:20:34.160 --> 0:20:39.120 school teachers, them nurses and the gag is I got lasik. 0:20:39.160 --> 0:20:45.159 These are not prescriptions. So she was really blind. I 0:20:45.280 --> 0:20:47.760 was really blind. But now this is just for the 0:20:47.800 --> 0:20:50.399 aesthetics so that people look and like, oh she doesn't 0:20:50.520 --> 0:20:51.040 look like. 0:20:54.640 --> 0:20:58.400 But okay, question, why why did you go with hoe 0:20:58.600 --> 0:21:01.919 for everything? You know, there's such a negative connotation that 0:21:02.000 --> 0:21:04.320 goes with that term, So why did you pick that 0:21:04.440 --> 0:21:06.080 to you know, be your brand? 0:21:07.160 --> 0:21:12.000 So for me, the when provocative was kind of like 0:21:12.160 --> 0:21:14.800 born right, It was born as I was at home 0:21:14.880 --> 0:21:18.320 doing a Dishit. I got a lot of good ideas 0:21:18.359 --> 0:21:22.000 from water, like touching water, being in water like literally 0:21:22.040 --> 0:21:25.399 and walking. Yeah, probably because I'm a water sign. But 0:21:25.440 --> 0:21:27.440 I get I draw a lot of inspiration from it, right, 0:21:27.480 --> 0:21:30.520 So I'm doing the dishes. And what I realized about 0:21:30.520 --> 0:21:33.320 myself is that I've always been kind of a provocative person, 0:21:33.720 --> 0:21:36.639 just like the things I say sometimes, the way I dress, 0:21:36.840 --> 0:21:39.240 Like people look at me and they're like, way, why 0:21:39.240 --> 0:21:43.400 did you do that? Right? So then I was like provocative, 0:21:43.400 --> 0:21:45.280 But I'm a speller with hoe. And the reason I'm 0:21:45.280 --> 0:21:49.280 going to spell it with hoe is because hole represents 0:21:49.320 --> 0:21:53.240 all of our repressed desires, right. It represents the parts 0:21:53.280 --> 0:21:55.960 of us that people say like, no, that's bad, like 0:21:56.000 --> 0:21:58.080 you shouldn't do that because you don't want to be 0:21:58.119 --> 0:22:01.840 seen this way. Right. How Ever, there's so much power 0:22:02.080 --> 0:22:06.440 in embracing that that dark side, that negativity. You can 0:22:06.480 --> 0:22:09.439 really find out who you are by leaning into that 0:22:09.520 --> 0:22:12.120 part of your mom who you are as a person. Right, 0:22:12.600 --> 0:22:18.719 So just playing on that idea between Like even in 0:22:18.760 --> 0:22:21.679 society they want a group women in like a right, 0:22:21.720 --> 0:22:23.960 you're either respectable or you're a whole. There's no in 0:22:24.000 --> 0:22:29.720 between them. Right. However, if the worst thing that you 0:22:29.800 --> 0:22:31.840 can say about me is that I am a hoe, 0:22:32.440 --> 0:22:35.280 but I'm like, no, I know who I am. There's 0:22:35.480 --> 0:22:37.879 nobody can call you something if you don't give them 0:22:37.920 --> 0:22:40.560 the power to call you something. What your grandma say, 0:22:40.640 --> 0:22:42.119 it ain't, it ain't What they call you is what 0:22:42.240 --> 0:22:46.520 your answer to? What your answer to exactly? So Okay, yeah, 0:22:46.640 --> 0:22:50.439 you can call me whatever you want, right, However, the 0:22:50.480 --> 0:22:53.800 only person that knows what I do is me, so 0:22:54.119 --> 0:22:56.360 it has no power here. So for me to kind 0:22:56.359 --> 0:22:59.520