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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Networks talk Talk Talk.

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Speaker 2: So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion

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Speaker 2: who talks.

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Speaker 3: What's up, y'all?

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Speaker 4: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode that

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Speaker 4: We Talk Back, a show dedicated to you dreamers and changes.

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Speaker 4: Today it is to you niggas and holes as well.

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Speaker 4: We're gonna get into a lot of whole shit today. Anyway,

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Speaker 4: it's your calls. AJ Holliday, what's up, Tam, Hey, y'all.

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Speaker 3: I love y'all, Hey Jay, I love you too, I

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Speaker 3: love me Mo, and I love your back. How is

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Speaker 3: your weekend? I got on a bral right now. I

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Speaker 3: really hate bras man. I'll never wear them. I hardly

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Speaker 3: wear them.

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Speaker 4: But I look my bad. I put one on to

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Speaker 4: record today and I've been struggling ever since.

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Speaker 3: I know, but ever put those things off. My weekend

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Speaker 3: was a very uneventful. I didn't do much.

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Speaker 4: It was very cold. I'm talking about like teenager cold teens.

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Speaker 4: I hibernated again this past week. I do not like winter.

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Speaker 3: I'm just I'm a summer dating books. Yes, I like

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Speaker 3: I would prefer to be hot. I really would prefer

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Speaker 3: to be like warmer.

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Speaker 2: I'm a spring and fall kind of girl. Like I

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Speaker 2: don't want it too hot, I don't want it too cold.

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Speaker 2: Just give me some nice mediums. I actually speaking of

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Speaker 2: nice mediums. I went to I flew out to La

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Speaker 2: on a humble because we were supposed to actually be

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Speaker 2: in Memphis at the Saint Jude's homecoming event, but it

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Speaker 2: got postponed due to frigid ass weather. So I just

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Speaker 2: had the weekend off. I was like, what can I do.

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Speaker 2: I'm not going to sit here in Charlotte. Where can

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Speaker 2: I go? So I just hopped on a flight and

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Speaker 2: went to La. And I just want to if anybody

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Speaker 2: know Rafaela dat Heli, because he said it never arranged

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Speaker 2: in southern rain the whole fucking time I was there.

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Speaker 2: And I went and watched that video, and I should

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Speaker 2: have knew new niggas was lying because they had blouses

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Speaker 2: on and it was like blowing in the wind in

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Speaker 2: the video, and niggat in a white blouse.

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Speaker 3: He lying. They tell me any nigga in white blouse? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and it's blowing in the wind.

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Speaker 2: He lied, all right, Yeah, So it rained the whole

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Speaker 2: time I was there. I really didn't get to do

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Speaker 2: as much as I wanted to because the weather was

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Speaker 2: kind of ship. It wasn't cold, but it was just rainy,

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Speaker 2: and uh, I just kind of like, yeah, yeah it was.

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Speaker 2: It was chilly, but it wasn't nothing compared to what

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Speaker 2: we got going over on this side of the United States.

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Speaker 2: I hung out with my homegirl.

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Speaker 3: She had twin.

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Speaker 2: Babies about five months ago, so I got to know,

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Speaker 2: and that was really it. I ain't really get much done,

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Speaker 2: So that was it. Two babies, two twin babies. They

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Speaker 2: are so adorable, girl, They're so cute. I just wanted

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Speaker 2: to eat them up.

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Speaker 4: I haven't held a baby in a long time. I

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Speaker 4: want to hold a baby.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I've been holding babies all for the past

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Speaker 2: two years. It seems like all my friends are having babies.

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Speaker 3: Back to back. Pop that pussy baby, you next, you next.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I might hold on before we go there.

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Speaker 4: I always think, like, what we're gonna do with either

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Speaker 4: one of us get pregnant, Like we're just gonna be

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Speaker 4: podcasting pregnant.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, our mouth fing's gonna be pregnant.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know, they might be trying to and

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Speaker 2: pregnate our mouths, but we're not getting pregnant in them.

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Speaker 3: Out throw a baby.

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Speaker 4: We got going on as stupid internet news this week.

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Speaker 3: No, we got to start with nimrodam. They should just

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Speaker 3: call her Nimrod.

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Speaker 2: Nikki Haley from South Carolina, she really got her ass

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Speaker 2: national television and said the United States has never.

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Speaker 3: Been a racist country. And I'm just thinking, like I

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Speaker 3: was just so infuriated and upset with her for saying that,

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Speaker 3: Like we really live in two different countries in the

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Speaker 3: same country. A lot of people like.

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Speaker 2: Racism has never been a thing in this country.

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Speaker 4: I don't get upset about those things. And I say

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Speaker 4: this a lot black people, withdraw your energy from the

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Speaker 4: bullshit you see on TV, because what they are trying

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Speaker 4: to do has harness your fucking energy to get us

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Speaker 4: in this emotional state, because we are emotional people, right,

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Speaker 4: So now you're not fucking thinking straight.

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Speaker 3: Fuck that bitch. And then she actually tried to explain it.

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Speaker 2: She said, our founding fathers had the best of intentions

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Speaker 2: when they started, and we fixed it along the way,

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Speaker 2: did we founding?

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Speaker 4: There's of some stolen land. And she is a Native American, Yes,

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Speaker 4: you're Native American. Yes, and she's saying that this country

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Speaker 4: was never racist, that that never Yeah, she's.

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Speaker 3: Not Native American. She is a Caucasian white woman, Yes

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Speaker 3: she is. That's it.

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Speaker 4: Native Americans know what racism is in this country. Indigenous

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Speaker 4: people know what racism. We know that this country is

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Speaker 4: racist and it was built off of racism and off

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Speaker 4: the backs of black people.

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Speaker 3: Like, I don't know what the fuck she's talking about.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what the that is. That is insane.

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Speaker 3: They be gaslighting the funk out you. She literally just

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Speaker 3: gas lit the whole United States, all black people all?

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Speaker 3: What is racism? Not here? Bitch you crazy girl? That

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Speaker 3: was the episode of s n L. That was not real.

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Speaker 3: That was not real. Oh my god, what else happening?

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Speaker 3: Girl beating Nikki?

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Speaker 4: She's Sarah Palin of this current election. Okay, she just

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Speaker 4: thrown out there to.

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Speaker 2: Shake it up with us, that's all.

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Speaker 3: Okay, why are you calling her that? What is that's

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Speaker 3: her first name? Nemrod. I never knew that sounds like

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Speaker 3: a hemorrhoid, queen cream or something.

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Speaker 4: All right, Uh, okay, I don't know who this guy is,

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Speaker 4: but I came across was it no Jumper podcast?

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Speaker 3: A clip. Uh this this dude, is it Lucci Lucci cannon?

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Speaker 3: Loose cannon? Oh? Why do you see? Maybe it is

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Speaker 3: loose cannon.

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Speaker 4: You are fluent in niggatry because I would have never

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Speaker 4: pronounced it like that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right. So he's claiming to have.

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Speaker 4: Carried on a long term relationship with Shannie O'Neill, and

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Speaker 4: the rapper claimed that Shawnnie was using her child support

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Speaker 4: money from Shack to buy him expensive gifts.

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Speaker 3: The rapper told.

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Speaker 4: Listeners that he and Shannie had an affair and that

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Speaker 4: shot and that she kills ex wife was his sugar mama.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 4: The rapper claimed that Shawnnie brought him expensive gifts like

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Speaker 4: an Ottomar Piquette.

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Speaker 3: And a Richard Millie.

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Speaker 4: Okay, and then he drops a bomb saying that she

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Speaker 4: paid him fifty thousand dollars right before she got married

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Speaker 4: to the preacher for some ghetto d You believe that fifty.

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Speaker 3: Stacks fifty so big? I need to see it. I

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Speaker 3: need to see it right now. What type of dick

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Speaker 3: is that? Right? Dick is so cheap and free it's free, area,

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Speaker 3: But she paid you. If she paid you, she paid

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Speaker 3: you to shut the fuck up. And you out here

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Speaker 3: running your mouth exactly. Come on, man, what's ups want

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Speaker 3: to be? Instagram bitch is so bad?

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Speaker 4: Who the grown men be running their mouths way more

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Speaker 4: than women nowadays, Like they can't wait to kiss and

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Speaker 4: tell on your ass.

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Speaker 3: You can't like niggas. Excuse me. You can't fuck niggas

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Speaker 3: because you like them? No more, you can't.

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Speaker 4: You gotta get something on them first. You gotta stick

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Speaker 4: your finger in there butt. That's the only way you

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Speaker 3: Hit me up. I'm just joking, Shy, we love you. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I don't like it. Be certain people. I'd be like.

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Speaker 4: These people are not problematic, they lay low, And it's

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Speaker 4: just I can't stand when a motherfucker like come out

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Speaker 4: and like trying to expose.

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Speaker 3: Them somebody in any type of way. I don't like it.

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Speaker 3: I don't like it.

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Speaker 4: I feel like she should put another fifty bands on

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Speaker 4: his head next case.

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Speaker 3: His wife. Now she can't do that. She just gotta

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Speaker 3: pray for the Lord.

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Speaker 4: The Lord practiced vengeance, bitch, tear sh up in the Bible.

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Speaker 3: Let him do it. Why he can't do it through me?

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Speaker 3: There's a movie what was the movie about that?

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Speaker 2: Where the guys were like doing the Lord's work and

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Speaker 2: they was like killing people and they were like, uh.

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Speaker 3: A kling bad people.

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Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, it was like something Boon Dout says or

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Speaker 4: I don't know, this has been several movies like that.

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Speaker 4: But why do people think, Okay, if y'all say this

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Speaker 4: thing is a real thing, right, why can't I say

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Speaker 4: God made me do it without being crazy? God told

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Speaker 4: me to do it. God came to me and told

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Speaker 4: me to do this thing. Now I'm crazy, no, I

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Speaker 4: but don't y'all believe in it. I believe in God.

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Speaker 2: And if you say, God, I told you to do something, now,

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Speaker 2: I'm believe that because God told me.

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you. God been speaking to me. I

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Speaker 3: don't know if I've opened up with my uh what's

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Speaker 3: the head shard?

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Speaker 2: I because I've been getting like downloads, baby, I've been

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Speaker 2: getting down loads.

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Speaker 3: I said to this man, all right, y'all, I'm not joking.

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Speaker 3: In the airport.

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Speaker 2: I felt so compelled to tell this white man that

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Speaker 2: everything was gonna be okay, right, But I just was scared.

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Speaker 3: I was like, he gonna think I'm crazy.

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Speaker 2: I just feel like God is telling me to tell

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Speaker 2: to him. And then I felt so convicted by not

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Speaker 2: saying it, I couldn't even sleep that night. So I

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Speaker 2: was like, Lord, if you ever sent me a message

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Speaker 2: for someone else, I'm gonna I'm gonna share that message.

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna hesitate.

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Speaker 2: So I was on the flight again and there was

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Speaker 2: this other man and he was humped over looking at

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Speaker 2: his iPad like I mean all the way humped over,

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Speaker 2: and I got it down.

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Speaker 3: I loved it.

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Speaker 2: Was like, tell that man to sit up straight. Tell

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Speaker 2: that man he needs to sit up straight right now.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, I don't want to tell

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Speaker 2: this man that.

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Speaker 3: That's so weird. But I got out my seatbelt.

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Speaker 2: I was like, this gonna sound crazy, but God said

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Speaker 2: sit up straight, and he grabbed my hands.

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Speaker 3: He was like, you're absolutely right.

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Speaker 2: I went to the doctor and the doctors talked about

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Speaker 2: my back in my sitting and I need to sit

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Speaker 2: up straight, so you're right up straight.

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Speaker 3: And I was like, Lord, use me, oh God, shame. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: you gotta sit up straight. Yep. Like I learned that

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Speaker 3: from another middle school teacher. She used to be like

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Speaker 3: stop punking down, Yes.

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Speaker 2: I'm about straight to hold your chests up. Yep, what's

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Speaker 2: next to stupid internet news?

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Speaker 3: Girl?

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Speaker 4: What if now you know the girls, the girls, the

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Speaker 4: girls be doing filters, the girls.

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Speaker 3: Do all the things. What if you break out with

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Speaker 4: And he then posts all your unphotoshopped pictures on social media?

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Speaker 3: Listen, let me tell you something. After I photo shot

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Speaker 4: Okay, it's called eminem messy uh memes, messy memes, that's what.

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Speaker 4: Okay, let me tell y'all a messing me in my

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Speaker 4: No, it like a little teaspoon of racism, isn't there?

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Speaker 3: Yo, I can't fuck you.

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Speaker 4: I'm sick of it, okay, but I love it at

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Speaker 3: All right, y'all, welcome back. Listen. Today we have a

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Speaker 3: very special guest. Okay. She's a self proclaimed sexologist. Uh.

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Speaker 3: She's a professional hole.

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Speaker 2: Uhtivational speaker, cultivational speaker okay, and hophisticated entrepreneur.

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Speaker 3: I here slanging girl.

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Speaker 4: On the website, she had a damn uh uh a

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Speaker 4: sex goals planner. Okay, so you can plan out all

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Speaker 3: Okay, this is interesting. And she's also the host of

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Speaker 3: the is it pro Hope? How do you pronounce the

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Speaker 3: name of the podcast. Okay, this problematically provocative, Okay, provocative,

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Speaker 3: the all Things Provocative podcast. So she's also a fellow podcaster.

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Speaker 4: Y'all welcome Jody to wey.

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Speaker 3: So do you spell hosts h O E s T

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Speaker 3: or just h h O E s. Everything is whole bit, yes,

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Speaker 3: friendly reminder that who is life. It's everywhere. But I

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Speaker 3: on her Yeah, paperwork, Like I graduated in this whole ship.

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Speaker 3: So the way, there's a there's a whole institution, institution,

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Speaker 3: This program called the Doctor Rachel Institute. So did her

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Speaker 3: a special certification out there. Yes, well you can get

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Speaker 3: certified at all kind of ship these days. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 3: I got to love you. I got to love you.

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Speaker 3: Down to work, get it? I get it? Yeah, I gotta.

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Speaker 3: You know, just pretend like I do. It's okay. I

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Speaker 3: just I got a question.

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Speaker 2: You had to pay money for someone to teach you

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Speaker 3: It's to teach other people how to do it right.

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Speaker 3: And then it's also you learn, like the anatomy, you

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Speaker 3: learn the science behind it. It learn not just like

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Speaker 3: all right, the mechanics of it, like of course, all right,

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Speaker 3: very well. It's one of these things where I feel

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Speaker 3: Once I learned, like the anatomy, the science behind all

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Speaker 3: of it, I got super excited about doing I'm like,

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Speaker 3: oh my god, like I really like this. Like once

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Speaker 3: I learned like the fun facts about like the even

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Speaker 3: like what's in semen like excited me. Yeah, it's different,

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Speaker 3: it's different things in that it's like melatonin in there. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I mean people like if you ever, like really went

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Speaker 4: It gets something from the store yall know on y'all

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Speaker 4: know it on BT movies. Be like, I guess you're

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Speaker 4: wondering how I got here.

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Speaker 3: How I got here, how you got here? Like what

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Speaker 3: what what made? Yeah? Like what made you want to

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Speaker 3: I was like, all right, I don't want to be

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Speaker 3: I want the credentials. I want to say I'm qualified

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Speaker 4: Now, if y'all listening, we talked back a lot. Y'all

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Speaker 4: know I always say, hos wear glasses. This girl is

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Speaker 2: And well, swallow you up, swallowed up?

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Speaker 3: Have you ever been swallowed? I told y'all, I'm fucking

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Speaker 2: But okay, question, why why did you go with hoe

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Speaker 3: So for me, the when provocative was kind of like

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Speaker 3: going to spell it with hoe is because hole represents

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Speaker 3: all of our repressed desires, right. It represents the parts

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Speaker 3: seen this way. Right. How Ever, there's so much power

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Speaker 3: in embracing that that dark side, that negativity. You can

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Speaker 3: you're either respectable or you're a whole. There's no in

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Speaker 3: but I'm like, no, I know who I am. There's

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Speaker 3: nobody can call you something if you don't give them

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Speaker 3: the power to call you something. What your grandma say,

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Speaker 3: it ain't, it ain't What they call you is what

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Speaker 3: your answer to? What your answer to exactly? So Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 3: you can call me whatever you want, right, However, the

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Speaker 3: me jody is a whole, but I built a whole

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Speaker 3: what's your definition of a whole Jody? Just someone who

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Speaker 3: does not care about the what's socially acceptable when it

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Speaker 3: comes to sexuality. Right, So it's not a matter of

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Speaker 3: body count necessarily, right, because we know people who will

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Speaker 3: has nothing to do with your actual sexual activity, right people, Oh,

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Speaker 3: she's this. We also know what we also know to

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Speaker 3: be true is that there's a lot of hurt in

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Speaker 3: that word. There's a lot of trauma, there's a lot

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Speaker 3: of pain in that word. Right, There are a lot

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Speaker 3: that's using the word. So for someone to use that word,

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Speaker 3: them down, right, because it's supposed to be a humbling word, right,

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Speaker 3: It's supposed to be a word, a derogatory term. Like

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Speaker 3: you have to be fucked up. You have to be

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Speaker 3: a bad person even to even like say that about somebody,

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Speaker 3: like you have to be There has to be so

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Speaker 3: much judgment there, so much like pain. You're unhappy first

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Speaker 3: of all, why you're worried about what I'm doing with

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Speaker 3: my Kouchi magic own, Like, it's just it's a it's

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Speaker 3: when I when I started this brand, I was starting

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Speaker 2: I I'm like, it's a badge of honor.

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Speaker 3: I was new to it. I've just been I had

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Speaker 3: just gotten out of a six year relationship, yo, Like

436
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:03,919
Speaker 3: I've never been. Oh, I know, but I not tried.

437
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:07,679
Speaker 3: And that's what I like. Literally, And when I tell you,

438
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:11,320
Speaker 3: I was like, you know what, I've never masturbated. Like literally,

439
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 3: I had to go all the like I had to

440
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:14,680
Speaker 3: go all the way back, like I was one of

441
00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:17,280
Speaker 3: those people that just had so much shame around it, right,

442
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 3: And I was like, you know what, I'm going to

443
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 3: find myself through homing. This is this is my mission,

444
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:24,280
Speaker 3: this is my journey, this is what I'm going to do.

445
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:26,159
Speaker 3: So then I'm like, all right, cool, I'm going to

446
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,160
Speaker 3: figure out what it is that I like. Now I'm

447
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:32,680
Speaker 3: going to deconstruct these ideas of oh, you should only

448
00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 3: have sex with people you're in a relationship with, or

449
00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 3: you should only have this amount of bodies, or you

450
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:40,359
Speaker 3: should like so really kind of like unpacking that and

451
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 3: figuring out what's gonna work for me sexually so that

452
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:45,200
Speaker 3: I have control over my sexualis.

453
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:49,200
Speaker 4: So this guy you was in a six year relationship with, Wait,

454
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:50,359
Speaker 4: what do you think you think about?

455
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:50,480
Speaker 3: You?

456
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 4: Now?

457
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:56,159
Speaker 3: Do all even speak? I don't give it inn So

458
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:59,879
Speaker 3: it's funny because this guy in particular, he was like

459
00:26:00,400 --> 00:26:06,399
Speaker 3: he was the most toxic. Like, I'm so glad I

460
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:10,959
Speaker 3: got out of that situation when I did, because I

461
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:14,120
Speaker 3: think that I had to get out of that relationship.

462
00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:17,880
Speaker 3: So that provocative could be born because I do strongly

463
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:19,520
Speaker 3: believe that there are a lot of women out there

464
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:22,760
Speaker 3: that can resonate with my experience and you know the

465
00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:26,479
Speaker 3: things that I say because I only talk about, you know,

466
00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,639
Speaker 3: hoeing as a way to figure out what it is

467
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 3: that you and what do you desire. If you have

468
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:33,960
Speaker 3: a whole face for like six months and you say, nah,

469
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:38,880
Speaker 3: this ain't it. Congratulations, good job, Like you you've been

470
00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:41,560
Speaker 3: able to get what you needed to get out the experience.

471
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 3: But if you you go through it and then you're like,

472
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:45,720
Speaker 3: you know what, No, I'm gonna keep doing this because

473
00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:50,680
Speaker 3: this works for me. All yeah, like just figure out

474
00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:55,960
Speaker 3: what works now. This guy he took me through the wringer,

475
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:58,240
Speaker 3: so he like he was one of those people where

476
00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:02,240
Speaker 3: he was like he wanted me to feel low. So

477
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 3: that so it was very much a lot of power dynamics.

478
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:07,240
Speaker 3: So for me to go away from that and then

479
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 3: kind of like really figure out who I am, like

480
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 3: one kind of had to happen for the other. But

481
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 3: in times of like what he thinks of me, like

482
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 3: I can care less because I am a happier person

483
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 3: because of what I've been doings.

484
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:25,399
Speaker 2: So you kind of repurposed and repackaged whole kind of

485
00:27:25,480 --> 00:27:26,719
Speaker 2: like nigger and nigger?

486
00:27:27,560 --> 00:27:29,840
Speaker 3: Is that? Is that? What? It's? Okay? Yeah?

487
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 4: Yeah.

488
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:32,200
Speaker 3: People have asked me like, so are you in like

489
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:35,639
Speaker 3: your bunny rabbit ship, like when he was like, oh yeah,

490
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:39,440
Speaker 3: I do live in a trailer with my moms, Like

491
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:41,119
Speaker 3: like I got you, kind of saying I'm on my

492
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 3: bunny free world, Papa Dug, fuck a clock. I don't

493
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:50,760
Speaker 3: watch TV. I don't know what the hell is going on.

494
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 3: So you're motivational speaking what does that entail? So again,

495
00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:03,439
Speaker 3: just encouraging people to find who they are through exploring

496
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 3: themselves sexually, right, Because you can do whole shit while

497
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:11,919
Speaker 3: in a relationship, whole tendencies, I call it you. You

498
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:16,080
Speaker 3: can do whole shit single. It doesn't really matter. It's

499
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:20,160
Speaker 3: about like are you being unapologetic when you're doing it? Right?

500
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 3: Are you really doing it to figure out what it

501
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:26,240
Speaker 3: is that you want to do? Not taking into account

502
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 3: how people because again, some people be in relationships and

503
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 3: they don't want to do certain things with their partner

504
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 3: them because they're like, oh, how they're going to look

505
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:38,880
Speaker 3: at me after? That's all shame. Shame is socially constructed

506
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 3: let's say forget that, because guess what, at the end

507
00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 3: of the day, I want to feel I want to

508
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 3: have a sexual a sex life of a like of

509
00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 3: abundance of satisfaction. Right. You cannot be satisfied if you

510
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 3: are depriving yourself of quality sexual experiences. And that's subjective

511
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 3: because it's going to be based on the person. Right,

512
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:02,200
Speaker 3: So what you would deem it's a quality sex life

513
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 3: based on what society is telling you shouldn't shouldn't do,

514
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:11,080
Speaker 3: Like that has ship to do with So yeah.

515
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 4: I definitely can uh you like being in a relationship

516
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 4: with somebody trying to shame you and me and town.

517
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 4: I could not have been doing this podcast if I

518
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 4: would have stayed in my last relationship. Our very first

519
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 4: episode that Nigga came downstairs and was like.

520
00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 3: Are you a hole?

521
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 4: I had to take myself out the fucking lunch before

522
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 4: I answered that nigga, And when I got back, I

523
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 4: was like, you know what I am, now deal with it, Like,

524
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 4: now now what you're going to do?

525
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, And it's like, now what you're going to do? Yeah?

526
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 3: It's crazy because guys love hoes period, They love them,

527
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 3: marry them all the time you can't spell house, they

528
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:55,920
Speaker 3: marry them. They they like they're they're everywhere right. And

529
00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 3: what also doesn't make sense is that how do you

530
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 3: want the freakiest chick in the world would want her

531
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:08,960
Speaker 3: to be a virgin when you meet her? Virgin holes?

532
00:30:08,960 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 3: Like we always say men want virgin holes. Chah, Yeah, yeah,

533
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:17,479
Speaker 3: it makes no sense, Like, yeah, there are a lot

534
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:20,000
Speaker 3: of men that don't truly know what they want. Because

535
00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 3: a mature man who truly knows what he wants, he's

536
00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 3: gonna tear you like, yeah, I want you to be

537
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:26,160
Speaker 3: at sea, and I want you to have some experience

538
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:29,960
Speaker 3: because a man, he's And also i've heard this before,

539
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,320
Speaker 3: like I've heard this direct from men's mouth. They're like

540
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 3: having sex with somebody that doesn't have that much sexual

541
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 3: experience is boring. They don't really like it, Like she's

542
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:41,560
Speaker 3: not doing anything. She just doesn't know. She doesn't know

543
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:44,640
Speaker 3: herself to even be able to communicate that to a partner.

544
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 3: So yeah, most just be saying anything. Most men would

545
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:50,280
Speaker 3: probably say.

546
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:53,440
Speaker 4: That doesn't really correlate to how many partners though, because

547
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 4: you could learn all the things from one partner.

548
00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 3: Maybe you know how to you know how to fuck

549
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 3: that partner right for everybody?

550
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I need a few couple, yeah, couple. I

551
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 4: want to talk about threesomes and.

552
00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:12,680
Speaker 3: Trains.

553
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 4: What's the difference, because now, right now this is a

554
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 4: trending thing online. I forgot it was a singer I saw.

555
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 4: She was so passionate about it. Explain how there's a

556
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:25,200
Speaker 4: difference between a train and a threesome. And her definition

557
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 4: was a train is like there's one woman and the

558
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:31,960
Speaker 4: guys are in and out the room, so after he's done,

559
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 4: somebody else comes in. That's my that's really my definition

560
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 4: of a train too. And then the threesome she said,

561
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 4: everybody's in the room together, and she said, most heterosexual

562
00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:48,640
Speaker 4: men are not doing like threesomes. And I found this, uh,

563
00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 4: this little write up online and that's what it's suggested too,

564
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:53,880
Speaker 4: Like if it's the threesome and the men are touching

565
00:31:53,920 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 4: the women, then they would consider that a threesome.

566
00:31:57,320 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 3: But if not, it's a train.

567
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 4: So I mean the men are touching each other, that's

568
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 4: what I meant, Like bisexual men basically, then it would

569
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 4: be considered a threesome. But if it's just one woman,

570
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 4: a dicking ass, dicking and pussy, I mean excuse me

571
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 4: dicking and pussy dick in the mouth, it is a train.

572
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:24,880
Speaker 3: So I definitely think this topic is Uh. It's interesting

573
00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:30,280
Speaker 3: because as people describe what they certain things are, you

574
00:32:30,400 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 3: kind of get a sense of how they think. Right, So,

575
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:39,280
Speaker 3: a lot of men who will say that basically an

576
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:43,840
Speaker 3: MFM male female meal threesome. There are a lot of

577
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:49,280
Speaker 3: men that will say an MFM off bat is a train. Now,

578
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 3: let's think about why they say that, because of homophobia.

579
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:57,280
Speaker 3: They don't want to be seen as you know, even

580
00:32:57,360 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 3: if it's like, oh, well, me and my homie we

581
00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:02,640
Speaker 3: ran her, they will say that because it's about a

582
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 3: power dynamic. They don't want to be seen it's less

583
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 3: than dominant in that situation because if there's another man present,

584
00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:13,720
Speaker 3: they don't even want people to associate them with homosexuality.

585
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:16,640
Speaker 3: That's why a lot of men get super passionate about like, oh, no,

586
00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:19,960
Speaker 3: it's a train, because at that point they're saying like, oh,

587
00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:24,560
Speaker 3: it's not her, our dicks didn't touch exactly right. However,

588
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:28,680
Speaker 3: how many times have women been in threesome situations with

589
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 3: other women and they've not interacted because they're not so

590
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 3: so I've also my very first threesome. Me and the

591
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:40,240
Speaker 3: woman did not you know, outside of like oh, like

592
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 3: she was sucking on my titdies. But outside of that,

593
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 3: it's like, no, I didn't I at that time, I

594
00:33:44,120 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 3: wasn't even giving women head like I like, what we're

595
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:52,520
Speaker 3: gonna do? I don't know, Like, so I wouldn't say that, oh,

596
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 3: we ran a train on him, Like, no, it was

597
00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:59,240
Speaker 3: still a threesome. A threesome is I tell people threesomes

598
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 3: are like a damn with three people. Same way if

599
00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 3: it's it's regular sex with two people, it's a dance, right,

600
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:09,920
Speaker 3: It's not my fault that y'all did the cha cha

601
00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 3: and we was over here doing the two step Like

602
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 3: it's just a different dance. It's just a different dance.

603
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 3: If there are three people in a room naked with

604
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:32,279
Speaker 3: each other, it doesn't matter, if you know what I'm saying. Uh,

605
00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 3: the the men were overly engaged. They could look, they

606
00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 3: could have gave each other half ab Guess what, you

607
00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:41,160
Speaker 3: still participated in the threesome. It was not a train.

608
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 3: I think there is a such thing as a train

609
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 3: because I think again, the train is about who is

610
00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:53,560
Speaker 3: in control in that moment and who is kind of

611
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:57,759
Speaker 3: like just being used almost a train for me is

612
00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:04,439
Speaker 3: like when you think about being used, just being used, right,

613
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:09,520
Speaker 3: so almost as if you're just a whole a sex toy. Yeah,

614
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:13,200
Speaker 3: like you're that's that's it. It's not about pleasure, it's

615
00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:18,279
Speaker 3: it's a very it's it's not a mutually beneficial pleasurable experience.

616
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:23,320
Speaker 3: It is a one way pleasurable experience almost. But again

617
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:27,240
Speaker 3: that also depends on the situation with that person, because

618
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:30,480
Speaker 3: there might be a woman who's like, no, I'm into

619
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:33,400
Speaker 3: you know, gang bangs or what have you. Like, you know,

620
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:38,120
Speaker 3: it's a whole group of women for stuff like that, right, Definitely.

621
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:42,520
Speaker 3: I'm not a kink shamer. So that's that. I think

622
00:35:42,600 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 3: that when it comes to the power dynamic, if there

623
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:49,520
Speaker 3: is a man who is on the bed and there

624
00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:53,359
Speaker 3: are women in and out back to back, guess what,

625
00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:56,880
Speaker 3: it's a train. It's a train. But the men wouldn't

626
00:35:56,920 --> 00:35:57,879
Speaker 3: consider that a train.

627
00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 4: Of course they would, but it's like like they use

628
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 4: it to demean the woman in the situation.

629
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:08,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's like for me, of course, there are

630
00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:13,360
Speaker 3: a lot of men who, because of patriarchy and homophobia,

631
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:16,880
Speaker 3: they're going to say, well, that's not it just because

632
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 3: they're saying that's not it don't mean it. That's like,

633
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:19,720
Speaker 3: that's accurate.

634
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 4: But if it was like a whole line of women

635
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:25,680
Speaker 4: just come into this man to get they pussy eate,

636
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:28,319
Speaker 4: I'm pretty sure men would agree that that's a train

637
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:29,480
Speaker 4: because yes.

638
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:32,120
Speaker 3: And that's but that's what I'm saying to the man

639
00:36:32,440 --> 00:36:36,400
Speaker 3: because again that man is being used. So the reason

640
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 3: that men like, oh will it, Men don't like to

641
00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 3: have their dick involved in stuff because now they still

642
00:36:42,719 --> 00:36:45,640
Speaker 3: have control over the situation, Like that's all that is.

643
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:48,719
Speaker 3: It's like, look, well if I did, That's why men

644
00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:51,719
Speaker 3: won't admit when they just be eating, eating women out

645
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:54,360
Speaker 3: and not getting no ass. They don't want to admit

646
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:56,919
Speaker 3: how often they be doing that because the power thing

647
00:36:57,640 --> 00:37:00,600
Speaker 3: like if motherfucker's really new, you was a munch in

648
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:05,719
Speaker 3: real life because there are so many women. I was like, no,

649
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:13,560
Speaker 3: it's a couple men that exactly. Yeah, So that's what

650
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 3: it is. Like men just don't want to be seen,

651
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 3: and it's like it's super unfortunate because patriarchy doesn't really

652
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:21,920
Speaker 3: benefit them. They're not able to really like explore their

653
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 3: sexuality in a way that is not limited because of

654
00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:30,880
Speaker 3: patriarchy and homosexual homophobia basics. Right, So if they would

655
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:33,320
Speaker 3: kind of like get up out of that, they wouldn't

656
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:35,360
Speaker 3: have to worry about women saying like, oh, well I

657
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:37,680
Speaker 3: would have been cool with doing this sexual act, but

658
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:39,879
Speaker 3: now I'm on the fence because of how you view

659
00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:40,800
Speaker 3: sex in general.

660
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:48,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think train comes from like high school, right, Yeah. Yeah,

661
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:52,200
Speaker 4: me personally, I think that if I don't know what

662
00:37:52,239 --> 00:37:54,520
Speaker 4: the age limit is, but you are grown ass man,

663
00:37:54,560 --> 00:37:58,280
Speaker 4: why are you having sex in a room with another

664
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:00,719
Speaker 4: man if you if you aren't intimate?

665
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:06,279
Speaker 3: It's just weird to me. Really. Yeah. I mean, like

666
00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:09,319
Speaker 3: I said, I don't think shame. So it's definitely it

667
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:12,439
Speaker 3: takes a certain type of man to do something like that.

668
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:16,319
Speaker 3: I've gone to like sex parties and stuff like that,

669
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:21,399
Speaker 3: and you I mean like in a threesome situation, yeah,

670
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:24,759
Speaker 3: just like you. Yeah. But then also with that, like

671
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 3: there are heterosexual men that would be curious about that,

672
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:29,480
Speaker 3: but they will never admit it out loud because they

673
00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 3: don't want people to think they're gay. So it's like, again,

674
00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 3: patriarchy and homophobia doesn't really serve them because it's like, oh,

675
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 3: you kind of really want to explore this too bad,

676
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 3: like because you can't openly admit it. And then if

677
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 3: it's almost like oh, they almost have to wait on

678
00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:50,880
Speaker 3: like they grill as somebody to like bring that to

679
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:53,600
Speaker 3: even with that, Like there are a lot of women

680
00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 3: who fantasize about mfms, but they can't voice it because

681
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:01,080
Speaker 3: then they got them Like so it's oh something you

682
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 3: don't you know. It's a lot of men that don't

683
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:04,920
Speaker 3: even want you to bring toys into the bedroom, Like

684
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 3: they'll be like, all right, well you could bring a squirrel,

685
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:09,960
Speaker 3: but I draw the line at the deal though, like

686
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 3: come on now, man, Like.

687
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:16,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, y'all this whole conversation to growl for me.

688
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 2: I'm like lost the sauce, Like, okay, tell me that.

689
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:24,320
Speaker 3: I have never had a threesome. I've never had a train.

690
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 2: No, I like, no, no, seriously, I never had Like

691
00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 2: in Miami.

692
00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:37,120
Speaker 3: Me, this girl I met in Miami got drunk.

693
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:40,040
Speaker 2: She invited me back to their room and then they

694
00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 2: ended up getting into a fight before anything happened.

695
00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:45,680
Speaker 3: So I left, So you was down.

696
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:49,200
Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know what was gonna happen,

697
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:51,319
Speaker 2: Like it was supposed to be like a like me

698
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:55,400
Speaker 2: watching them situation. Okay, that's okay, supposed to send me

699
00:39:55,400 --> 00:39:58,760
Speaker 2: your boy your bag, I like that, but nothing happened.

700
00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 2: She got they started arguing and I left and what

701
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 2: was the like in my twenties.

702
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 3: He put his hand in my jumper? Was about you? No, yeah,

703
00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 3: that was it.

704
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 2: That was the closest I've ever come to that And

705
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:21,720
Speaker 2: then like a train. Absolutely not. I have no interest

706
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 2: in that.

707
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:27,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, same, uh, never had a had never been in

708
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:37,520
Speaker 3: a trained situation. I've had a couple three three different

709
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:44,040
Speaker 3: three different couples, five different incidents. So one couple was

710
00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 3: like the favorite. That was the merry couple. They're really

711
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:54,640
Speaker 3: cool people, really cool people like, yeah I am I'm

712
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 3: always the third. I'm always the third. There's I like

713
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 3: being a third. I think there's hour and being a third.

714
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 3: But also I know a lot of people that want

715
00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:06,040
Speaker 3: to be a third, but they don't want to be

716
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:09,000
Speaker 3: They want to be a third because they don't want

717
00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:11,400
Speaker 3: to have a threesome with their partner because they're like,

718
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 3: oh what if you no, I don't like how like

719
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 3: they're kissing this other person or what have you. I

720
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 3: am glad that I was the third before I was

721
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:23,040
Speaker 3: anything else, because I know that if I was ever

722
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:26,040
Speaker 3: to have a threesome with a current partner, I know

723
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:28,120
Speaker 3: how I would want it to go, and I would

724
00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 3: know the rules. I would know the community, you know,

725
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 3: like how to communicate so that everyone has a pleasurable experience.

726
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:38,279
Speaker 3: So my first experience was like super mid I'm like, oh,

727
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:44,960
Speaker 3: like wasn't really yeah, just because the after care. So

728
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:50,719
Speaker 3: after the fact, the girl got super weird because she

729
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:55,359
Speaker 3: was like, oh uh, the guy that we again, I'm

730
00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 3: the third So I didn't I wasn't asking for this.

731
00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:00,440
Speaker 3: I thought we was going bowling. I don't know how

732
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:03,839
Speaker 3: we got here, Like, I don't know what's going on.

733
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:08,520
Speaker 3: But he was like commenting on like a lot of

734
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:11,040
Speaker 3: like my posts and stuff like that. So now it's

735
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:14,840
Speaker 3: like everything that he does, she's getting like upset, and

736
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 3: so now it's driving a whig between them. Next thing,

737
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:20,400
Speaker 3: I know, like a couple of weeks later, she's texting

738
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:22,920
Speaker 3: me like, so is you fucking woo woo? And I'm like, girl,

739
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:27,400
Speaker 3: what like did you have sex with my guy without

740
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:32,959
Speaker 3: me exactly? And I'm like, excuse me, Like, but what's

741
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:37,600
Speaker 3: crazy about that is why would you like you're saying

742
00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:41,239
Speaker 3: you're you're claiming him as yours. Why are we even

743
00:42:41,239 --> 00:42:42,680
Speaker 3: having this conversation.

744
00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:44,880
Speaker 4: Because she probably doing something to appease him in the

745
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:46,840
Speaker 4: first place, because why are you that insecure?

746
00:42:46,840 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 3: And once y'all do the thing, that's my point.

747
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:51,879
Speaker 4: So how do you negotiate the terms before doing because

748
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:53,759
Speaker 4: if you're the third right, so usually you're fucking with

749
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:56,239
Speaker 4: couples for the most part, right, So how do you

750
00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:59,839
Speaker 4: negotiate the terms? So now, so shit isn't weird after

751
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:00,879
Speaker 4: the fact.

752
00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:04,960
Speaker 3: First of all, the threesome should always be initiated by

753
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 3: the woman. You should not, I strongly recommend that you

754
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:14,879
Speaker 3: interact with the woman. There should be she is in

755
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:21,319
Speaker 3: control all that's her guy it there shouldn't even be like, oh,

756
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:23,799
Speaker 3: well the guy approached me and now he's bringing his

757
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:26,880
Speaker 3: gro No, no, I want to talk to her because

758
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 3: as women we should we should be on one accord,

759
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:32,680
Speaker 3: and y'all as a couple should be on one accord.

760
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:34,920
Speaker 3: The man should just be happy that he got invited.

761
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:43,680
Speaker 3: So so first, yeah, rule number one. Uh, the woman

762
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:48,279
Speaker 3: in the relationship, she she is controlling the dynamic. If

763
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:50,719
Speaker 3: there's a good dynamic there, there will be a good

764
00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:55,520
Speaker 3: overall sexual experience. So that's rule number one. Uh. Rule

765
00:43:55,600 --> 00:44:02,120
Speaker 3: number two. Uh, don't assume that that you like, penetration

766
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:05,800
Speaker 3: is involved. I'll say that because I've had a three somewhere.

767
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:09,960
Speaker 3: There was no penetration, and that was my favorite one actually,

768
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 3: So it was more so me and the woman interacting

769
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:17,840
Speaker 3: and then like it was like oral with her husband.

770
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:21,520
Speaker 3: But also that's because it's like, all right, she What

771
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 3: was funny about that is the hold on Does that count?

772
00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 2: Because that's kind of like if a tree falls in

773
00:44:26,080 --> 00:44:28,279
Speaker 2: the woods and nobody is it doesn't make it sound

774
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 2: kind of situation.

775
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:35,680
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't I did say I didn't know,

776
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 3: so I said I was not penetrated. I did not

777
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 3: say that me and the husband didn't have any sexual interactions.

778
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 3: So the wife doesn't like sucking dick. I love sucking dick. Yeah,

779
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 3: so it worked out it like but it was like

780
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:56,239
Speaker 3: it was it was a super pleasurable experience. But what

781
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:58,839
Speaker 3: I found out later is that she didn't tell him

782
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:02,799
Speaker 3: that he couldn't penetrate. He is, out of respect for

783
00:45:02,840 --> 00:45:07,560
Speaker 3: his wife, didn't assume penetration. So what I'll say is

784
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:10,920
Speaker 3: when you you can almost get a sense of like

785
00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:13,480
Speaker 3: when the couple is on one of court. So when

786
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:15,760
Speaker 3: you said that, that couple started arguing and you left

787
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:20,239
Speaker 3: good because they were not on one court. Make sure

788
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:23,080
Speaker 3: there's I don't think I was with him either. I

789
00:45:23,120 --> 00:45:26,799
Speaker 3: didn't scare to say, y'all, like what, maybe I should leave.

790
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:31,480
Speaker 3: I don't know if I should be here, but yeah,

791
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:35,279
Speaker 3: there has to be a healthy couple dynamic because you

792
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:38,440
Speaker 3: bringing somebody else into your house and you don't want

793
00:45:38,440 --> 00:45:41,960
Speaker 3: to bring somebody else into a messy house. So I'll

794
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:46,799
Speaker 3: definitely say that and just having an open mind, have

795
00:45:47,040 --> 00:45:49,279
Speaker 3: fun with it. I used to be a girl I

796
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:52,920
Speaker 3: was like, oh my god, I'm not eating pussy, and

797
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:54,799
Speaker 3: then I ate it and I was like, oh this

798
00:45:54,960 --> 00:46:01,720
Speaker 3: is cool, like like it was cool and I'm glad

799
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:11,640
Speaker 3: that I had that experience because what's wrong? Go ahead? Girl? Yeah,

800
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:14,640
Speaker 3: like I definitely, But also I used to be that

801
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 3: girl that kill when I was having sex, like maybe

802
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:20,920
Speaker 3: five years before I even started sucking dick. So it's

803
00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:23,720
Speaker 3: like oral just across the board. Was And then also

804
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:26,480
Speaker 3: I tell people I'm not even a bisexual, Like just

805
00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:29,720
Speaker 3: because I participate in threesomes and I've eaten a pussy

806
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 3: or two, that doesn't mean that I identify as bisexual,

807
00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:38,040
Speaker 3: I identify as a free code. That's the difference. Like

808
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:41,279
Speaker 3: if I is that a new gender? Is that a

809
00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 3: new gender? Yeah, supposed to be a part of the

810
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 3: episode that's to go through all the different sexualities live Jesus. Yes,

811
00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:51,960
Speaker 3: my preferred pronoun is freak cold because I am not

812
00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:54,839
Speaker 3: a bisexual. Yo.

813
00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:59,840
Speaker 2: I'm confused at that because so you don't like women

814
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 2: or you do like women?

815
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:05,680
Speaker 3: No, I'm not sexually attracted to women. No, Like I

816
00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:07,840
Speaker 3: don't look at women's like, oh I'm turned on. No.

817
00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 3: So when you ate some pussy, you was just like,

818
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:13,560
Speaker 3: what is it? What does it taste? Like? Like, I

819
00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:16,279
Speaker 3: don't know what made you want to like eat? Did

820
00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 3: you in a moment? Yeah? So for me, it was

821
00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:23,600
Speaker 3: me tapping into a very specific kink I have. It

822
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:25,799
Speaker 3: has nothing to do with the person, right. So there's

823
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 3: a reason that I like sucking dick so much, That's

824
00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:31,480
Speaker 3: what I wanted to say, because of the reaction. It

825
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:35,440
Speaker 3: is the physical reaction that I'm seeing with like literally

826
00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:38,040
Speaker 3: as I'm sucking dick and I'm seeing the like I'm

827
00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 3: seeing the squirm and I'm hearing the moans. So that's ego, Yes,

828
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:46,160
Speaker 3: very much. I am huge stroke my ego round my head.

829
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:49,640
Speaker 3: Tell me I'm being a good girl. Affirm me, like

830
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 3: I love all that shit. So when it came so

831
00:47:57,239 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 3: at that point, it's like it has nothing to do

832
00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:02,960
Speaker 3: it this being a woman. At this point, if I'm

833
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 3: getting this reaction from you, I'm like, oh shit, I'm

834
00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:09,480
Speaker 3: doing my band down here. So that's what for me?

835
00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:12,640
Speaker 3: A free code.

836
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:16,040
Speaker 4: Well here we talked back, we have You know, to us,

837
00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:18,040
Speaker 4: there's two Well to me, I don't know about tim,

838
00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:20,640
Speaker 4: but to me, there's two different types of sexually liberated women.

839
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:24,160
Speaker 4: Is the sluts and there's holes. Hoes get paid. So

840
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 4: for these threesomes? Are you making money off of them? Like,

841
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:31,040
Speaker 4: I'll be trying to undertand the psychology of this shit,

842
00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:33,719
Speaker 4: right because it only makes sense to me as like

843
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:37,279
Speaker 4: a like cause you know the definition of who has

844
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:39,880
Speaker 4: money in the actual definition, there's.

845
00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 3: An exchange there. I can understand that.

846
00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:45,400
Speaker 4: But just to be doing some free cod shit just

847
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:47,799
Speaker 4: to do it, I be trying to really understand the

848
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:51,520
Speaker 4: psychology of that shit, like this, what is the psychology

849
00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 4: of getting a train ran on you?

850
00:48:53,440 --> 00:48:57,120
Speaker 3: Yeah? So I can't speak for that because that's not

851
00:48:57,160 --> 00:49:01,560
Speaker 3: one of my kinks. But what I would say is

852
00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:08,839
Speaker 3: doing anything for your own sexual gratification is payment enough, right,

853
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:11,000
Speaker 3: Because think about how many times you've had sex with

854
00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:17,280
Speaker 3: somebody and then been unsatisfied, Right, So if you can

855
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:21,920
Speaker 3: actually get satisfaction from doing something that you genuinely wanted

856
00:49:21,960 --> 00:49:28,600
Speaker 3: to do, that's payment enough. That said, the married couple

857
00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:36,399
Speaker 3: definitely pay Mark Karno, it wasn't. It's one of those

858
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:38,640
Speaker 3: things where it's like, you know, like you don't directly

859
00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:41,880
Speaker 3: ask somebody for some money, but they make sure you straight. Right,

860
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:44,000
Speaker 3: that's still transaction.

861
00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:47,840
Speaker 2: I'm about to say it's still transactional, But no, it wasn't.

862
00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:49,600
Speaker 2: Forty dollars on the dresser.

863
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:53,880
Speaker 3: Definitely not. There was more like eight hundred dollars in

864
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:57,399
Speaker 3: my hand before we even had sex. So I'm like, look,

865
00:49:57,480 --> 00:50:04,040
Speaker 3: I would have been down anyway, cherry on top, That's

866
00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:06,200
Speaker 3: what I be thinking. I'd be thinking like sluts, like

867
00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:07,080
Speaker 3: they don't know.

868
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:11,480
Speaker 4: How to transfer the activity into monetary value.

869
00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:14,160
Speaker 3: That's what I've made up for them. I don't. Maybe

870
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 3: they just do it because they really really like it.

871
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:21,960
Speaker 3: So do you use the term slut? Oh, I'm mostly

872
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:23,960
Speaker 3: when I talk about sluts, I'm talking about me and

873
00:50:24,080 --> 00:50:31,720
Speaker 3: men are sluts like you don't really call them nigga's

874
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:34,920
Speaker 3: easy okay, yeah, like they easy, like I call men

875
00:50:34,920 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 3: sluts ho cheese like they like. They're the real issue,

876
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:42,880
Speaker 3: not us. I agree.

877
00:50:43,840 --> 00:50:45,840
Speaker 4: If all three of us were to go to some

878
00:50:46,000 --> 00:50:49,399
Speaker 4: random party in our cities, we probably we might see

879
00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:51,000
Speaker 4: a nigga in that we already had sex with.

880
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:52,319
Speaker 3: If a man goes to.

881
00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:54,200
Speaker 4: A party or a club or somewhere, he probably gonna

882
00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:57,480
Speaker 4: see I don't know, twenty different women he had sex with.

883
00:50:58,000 --> 00:51:03,200
Speaker 3: Yes, men are bottle girl the hostess. Not all may

884
00:51:03,280 --> 00:51:05,800
Speaker 3: be getting pussy as much as y'all giving them credit.

885
00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:09,920
Speaker 4: The men is getting some pussy, like I'm telling about

886
00:51:10,000 --> 00:51:12,960
Speaker 4: then that we would be dealing with if I will.

887
00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:16,040
Speaker 3: I'm not mad at ma'am. I'm saying that because I

888
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:20,399
Speaker 3: recently learned this, because I think I thought, like ging

889
00:51:20,480 --> 00:51:24,000
Speaker 3: be out here getting pussy, But the comments on social

890
00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:28,759
Speaker 3: media literally reveals that it's too many men out here

891
00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:33,239
Speaker 3: that aint getting pussy because they're too concerned with they're samulites. Girl,

892
00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:34,200
Speaker 3: you gotta call them out.

893
00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:36,439
Speaker 4: The one thing I do love is that is they're

894
00:51:36,480 --> 00:51:39,879
Speaker 4: literally raising their hands so we know who to fight

895
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:41,279
Speaker 4: to stay the hell away from here.

896
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:44,480
Speaker 3: I am ain't had sex in a year. I'm mad,

897
00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:51,759
Speaker 3: but ship I ain't mad. I be mad too, Right.

898
00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:54,719
Speaker 3: The thing is they could.

899
00:51:54,480 --> 00:51:56,319
Speaker 4: Get some pussy, right, but they're not going to get

900
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:58,400
Speaker 4: the pussy they think they deserve.

901
00:51:58,280 --> 00:52:03,280
Speaker 3: Because they want the Instagram Batty's wi the no no,

902
00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:07,160
Speaker 3: like not you want a Instagram Batty? And you look

903
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 3: like you flipping burgers at McDonalds, like relax, like come on?

904
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:13,440
Speaker 2: No like no, so here on the show we typically

905
00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:16,759
Speaker 2: we had an episode called ho and don't heal? But

906
00:52:17,239 --> 00:52:19,120
Speaker 2: you you're saying that Howen does?

907
00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:26,239
Speaker 3: Yeah? But you just explaining it? Can so I said

908
00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:30,200
Speaker 3: it again. It's funny because I had an episode called

909
00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:35,560
Speaker 3: like oh then hell. It was like that's how I

910
00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:41,600
Speaker 3: named it because it's all about your intention, right, Like

911
00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:45,040
Speaker 3: you have to be intentional in the things that you do.

912
00:52:45,600 --> 00:52:51,280
Speaker 3: So if you are just out here just having sex,

913
00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:56,279
Speaker 3: neglecting your own pleasure, neglecting the outcome that you want

914
00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:59,760
Speaker 3: in this situation, not learning about yourself, not learning about

915
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:03,800
Speaker 3: what you will truly take pleasure in. What are your kinks,

916
00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:07,640
Speaker 3: what are your fetishes? What makes your toes curl? Where

917
00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:09,920
Speaker 3: was the last time you had an orgasm, like really

918
00:53:09,960 --> 00:53:14,800
Speaker 3: doing a reflection for your sexual activity and asking yourself

919
00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:18,560
Speaker 3: why am I doing this? Because that's key. You have

920
00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:20,799
Speaker 3: to know why you're doing it. So you have to

921
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:25,200
Speaker 3: hold with intentions because if you don't have no intentions,

922
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:29,520
Speaker 3: you just gonna like you just you're just doing so

923
00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:32,640
Speaker 3: like a hole with boundaries. Yeah, I'm very much a

924
00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:35,320
Speaker 3: hole with boundaries. Like I'll tell somebody in a minute, like, yeah,

925
00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:37,040
Speaker 3: it might be a whole, but I promise you can't

926
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:43,080
Speaker 3: name three guys I slept with, because again, I'm going

927
00:53:43,200 --> 00:53:45,759
Speaker 3: to do what I need to do and how I

928
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:48,560
Speaker 3: do it, Like I definitely still know where I'm a

929
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:53,759
Speaker 3: pussy be like I keep up with her. So but

930
00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:58,520
Speaker 3: I definitely think that matter. Yes, like the Goals book,

931
00:53:58,520 --> 00:54:03,359
Speaker 3: because I set goals old people like, look, be intentional,

932
00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:06,320
Speaker 3: So what say about you're intentional with everything else in life,

933
00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:09,279
Speaker 3: be intentional with your sex life. So what's a whole goal?

934
00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:17,239
Speaker 3: So a whole goal could be you might say, like,

935
00:54:17,440 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 3: all right, I've never hit an orgasm, because a lot

936
00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:24,759
Speaker 3: of women don't have orgasms. Or you might say, like,

937
00:54:24,840 --> 00:54:28,799
Speaker 3: I've never hit an orgasm in this particular situation. Right,

938
00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:33,840
Speaker 3: eighty percent of women don't experience orgasms from penetrate of

939
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:36,359
Speaker 3: sex alone, right, so there has to be some kind

940
00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:40,640
Speaker 3: of clatorial stimulation. You might challenge yourself to say, all right,

941
00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:45,000
Speaker 3: my goal is to have an orgasm through penetration. Well

942
00:54:45,360 --> 00:54:47,480
Speaker 3: what would need to happen for that to happen? So

943
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:53,440
Speaker 3: really being intentional about the setting the stage because sex performance, right,

944
00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:56,759
Speaker 3: So what does it mean for you to really let go?

945
00:54:56,840 --> 00:54:59,640
Speaker 3: Because you can have an orgasm without being penetrated or

946
00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:03,960
Speaker 3: you know, without a clatorial stimulation, Like there are multiple

947
00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:06,759
Speaker 3: there are up to like maybe eight types of orgasms.

948
00:55:06,800 --> 00:55:09,440
Speaker 3: You have an anal orgasm. You can have orgasms just

949
00:55:09,520 --> 00:55:12,759
Speaker 3: from if you find the right person to whisper in

950
00:55:12,800 --> 00:55:16,600
Speaker 3: your ear ever so softly, you might have an orgasm.

951
00:55:17,719 --> 00:55:21,120
Speaker 3: But you have to tap into that energy source. So

952
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:23,200
Speaker 3: what does that mean that you have to do to

953
00:55:23,440 --> 00:55:25,919
Speaker 3: get to that goal? Does it mean that you're being

954
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:29,480
Speaker 3: more mindful, You're meditating, you're taking care of yourself, You're

955
00:55:29,520 --> 00:55:32,480
Speaker 3: doing a self care routine where you know what, before

956
00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:35,000
Speaker 3: I masturbate, I'm gonna take me a high bath and

957
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:38,080
Speaker 3: I'm gonna li Some can guess I make love to myself.

958
00:55:39,719 --> 00:55:45,880
Speaker 3: But that's what it's say yes, yes, like really take

959
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:48,680
Speaker 3: care of yourself because then when you walk away from

960
00:55:48,719 --> 00:55:50,440
Speaker 3: that experience and you're like, oh my god, I just

961
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:54,960
Speaker 3: fucked ship out of myself. Now you can communicate what

962
00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 3: you like to someone else, and you can tell them

963
00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:02,440
Speaker 3: when it's not working for you, Like it's hard to

964
00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:05,560
Speaker 3: communicate when something isn't working for you if you haven't

965
00:56:05,600 --> 00:56:07,279
Speaker 3: done the work to know what will work.

966
00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:10,839
Speaker 4: Right, that's a whole phase, so you can know what

967
00:56:10,880 --> 00:56:13,319
Speaker 4: you're like, yes, let's talk about this.

968
00:56:14,840 --> 00:56:16,759
Speaker 3: So wit should it be a phase or should it

969
00:56:16,800 --> 00:56:22,880
Speaker 3: be a lifestyle? Whatever works for you, whatever works for you,

970
00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:26,440
Speaker 3: like as long as again you're being super intentional, like

971
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:30,239
Speaker 3: that part of your life might last a year and

972
00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:33,640
Speaker 3: you say, you know what, I've learned the lessons that

973
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:36,000
Speaker 3: I need to learn, I've received whatever I was supposed

974
00:56:36,040 --> 00:56:38,040
Speaker 3: to receive from this part of my life, and now

975
00:56:38,080 --> 00:56:41,360
Speaker 3: I'm ready for what's next. But it might need to

976
00:56:41,440 --> 00:56:44,360
Speaker 3: last three years, it might need to last five years.

977
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:47,040
Speaker 3: Everybody is going to be different, and it's also going

978
00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 3: to depend on like your natural attachment styles, like are

979
00:56:50,160 --> 00:56:53,560
Speaker 3: you a serial monogamous? Like what's going on? Like that's

980
00:56:53,640 --> 00:56:58,200
Speaker 3: a whole another conversation. But That's why everybody's journey when

981
00:56:58,239 --> 00:56:59,920
Speaker 3: it comes to sex. It's so different.

982
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:03,840
Speaker 4: You asking that question like you ain't know. It was

983
00:57:03,880 --> 00:57:05,960
Speaker 4: a lifestyling of twenties and now it's not.

984
00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:12,759
Speaker 3: I'm asking for our audience. And that's the thing too,

985
00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:18,040
Speaker 3: Like again, every week we certain women experience it in

986
00:57:18,080 --> 00:57:21,280
Speaker 3: their twenties. Some don't. Like me, I was in a

987
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:24,200
Speaker 3: relationship from the age of sixteen or twenty three, and

988
00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:26,480
Speaker 3: I was in another relationship from twenty four to thirty,

989
00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:32,000
Speaker 3: like I never had a whole phase. And then I

990
00:57:32,080 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 3: turned thirty and I was like, you know what, I'm

991
00:57:33,680 --> 00:57:37,640
Speaker 3: not getting into another relationship until I experience sex, and

992
00:57:37,800 --> 00:57:42,320
Speaker 3: I experience sex on my times. So now, oh, if

993
00:57:42,320 --> 00:57:46,280
Speaker 3: somebody ain't hitting the right, hey baby, we got let's

994
00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:48,360
Speaker 3: have a conversation a chalkboard.

995
00:57:49,000 --> 00:57:51,440
Speaker 2: Do you feel like it's hard to have relationships, like

996
00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:56,000
Speaker 2: serious relationships with men with this type of platform.

997
00:57:56,640 --> 00:58:00,800
Speaker 3: Yes and no. So I say yes because cause majority

998
00:58:00,840 --> 00:58:06,880
Speaker 3: of men are just misogynistic and very one sided. However,

999
00:58:07,080 --> 00:58:10,640
Speaker 3: anybody that knows me in real life knows that my

1000
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:15,600
Speaker 3: platform is twenty percent of who I am. And if

1001
00:58:15,640 --> 00:58:18,480
Speaker 3: you are even interested in you know what I'm saying like,

1002
00:58:18,640 --> 00:58:21,880
Speaker 3: if you don't want to get to know the the

1003
00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:25,480
Speaker 3: eighty percent of you know other parts of me, I'm

1004
00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:28,560
Speaker 3: fine with that. I'll never try to pressure you or

1005
00:58:28,600 --> 00:58:32,240
Speaker 3: convince you otherwise. Like that's cool. There are millions of

1006
00:58:32,280 --> 00:58:37,840
Speaker 3: people on this earth, period, So no, I'm good. However,

1007
00:58:38,120 --> 00:58:41,840
Speaker 3: the people that get close and they're like, you know what, No,

1008
00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:45,160
Speaker 3: I get it. I see what you're doing. I see you.

1009
00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:48,040
Speaker 3: I appreciate for appreciate you for who you are. I

1010
00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:51,240
Speaker 3: see you beyond that. Because here's the thing. I upload

1011
00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:54,480
Speaker 3: a post that I just got my NBA and graduated

1012
00:58:54,600 --> 00:58:59,480
Speaker 3: magnecom Lotti and likes I go viral every time I

1013
00:58:59,480 --> 00:59:02,800
Speaker 3: talk about Dick, that's the world we live in. I'm

1014
00:59:02,800 --> 00:59:04,640
Speaker 3: gonna play the game or I'm gonna let the game

1015
00:59:04,680 --> 00:59:12,320
Speaker 3: play with me, period, right, thank you. Yeah, But it's

1016
00:59:12,360 --> 00:59:14,240
Speaker 3: like I say that to say, like, that's literally the

1017
00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:15,960
Speaker 3: world we live in. And I remember, like it was

1018
00:59:16,000 --> 00:59:20,040
Speaker 3: maybe like five years five six years ago, well before provocative.

1019
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:23,520
Speaker 3: I made a status and I was like, sometimes you

1020
00:59:23,680 --> 00:59:26,000
Speaker 3: have to act like you're not as smart as you are.

1021
00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:29,400
Speaker 3: I literally was listen. I listened to a lot of

1022
00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:34,439
Speaker 3: audio audible books, right, so I don't listen to music

1023
00:59:34,480 --> 00:59:39,080
Speaker 3: as much as I listen to literature, and I'm currently

1024
00:59:39,520 --> 00:59:45,240
Speaker 3: listening to the Art of seduction. They all all through

1025
00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:49,440
Speaker 3: there about never letting people know how much you actually know.

1026
00:59:51,280 --> 00:59:55,880
Speaker 3: Lay dumb, lay the nut roll. It's charming. There's a

1027
00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:59,120
Speaker 3: reason that men don't want you to. Oh, we don't

1028
00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:02,000
Speaker 3: care about your pomplishments. We don't care about how much

1029
01:00:02,040 --> 01:00:04,440
Speaker 3: you don't. I know, y'all don't. So I'm playing dumb.

1030
01:00:05,040 --> 01:00:07,720
Speaker 3: I love doing that when it comes to sports. When

1031
01:00:07,720 --> 01:00:09,480
Speaker 3: it comes to sports, i'd be like, so, which team

1032
01:00:09,520 --> 01:00:12,000
Speaker 3: is yours? The renter or the blue team? Hey? What

1033
01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:13,480
Speaker 3: do they do with the ball?

1034
01:00:17,960 --> 01:00:20,480
Speaker 4: I have a hard time playing dumb, man, I'm gonna try.

1035
01:00:20,760 --> 01:00:23,160
Speaker 4: I can't do it.

1036
01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:28,880
Speaker 3: Like it's fun. It's low key fun like it's fun.

1037
01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:32,000
Speaker 4: See, that's why I know people be playing with your intelligence,

1038
01:00:32,080 --> 01:00:34,480
Speaker 4: y'all motherfuckers out here acting like y'all know some shit?

1039
01:00:34,640 --> 01:00:38,440
Speaker 3: Y'all do that annoys me? Four chances to get ten yards?

1040
01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:41,840
Speaker 3: Is that how it works? Okay, that's interesting and I

1041
01:00:41,920 --> 01:00:45,360
Speaker 3: really don't understand that shit. Do you understand football? I

1042
01:00:45,440 --> 01:00:46,560
Speaker 3: don't do.

1043
01:00:46,720 --> 01:00:51,120
Speaker 4: Look, let's talk about the throat choreography right quick? Yes,

1044
01:00:51,200 --> 01:00:54,120
Speaker 4: these throat choreography classes.

1045
01:00:53,640 --> 01:01:01,479
Speaker 3: That Joey's offering. I want to know about that throat choreography. Yeah, wow, Yes,

1046
01:01:01,720 --> 01:01:04,920
Speaker 3: I refer to it as throat choreography because, like I said,

1047
01:01:05,480 --> 01:01:08,960
Speaker 3: sex should be a beautiful dance and uh sucond dick

1048
01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:13,480
Speaker 3: is just one part of the dance. So I when

1049
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:18,640
Speaker 3: I teach women to uh sug dick, I typically tell

1050
01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:22,000
Speaker 3: them to do it to a playlist. Act like you're dancing,

1051
01:01:22,120 --> 01:01:25,440
Speaker 3: Like your throat is dancing on that dick. That's what

1052
01:01:25,480 --> 01:01:28,600
Speaker 3: it should be, like, like the enthusiasm that you feel

1053
01:01:29,080 --> 01:01:31,880
Speaker 3: you listening to your favorite song, that is, with the

1054
01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:35,320
Speaker 3: same amount of enthusiasm that you should be sucking dick with.

1055
01:01:35,880 --> 01:01:39,600
Speaker 3: So I you, like, literally, that is how I want

1056
01:01:39,640 --> 01:01:44,600
Speaker 3: to That's how I market it because anybody can. Oh, yeah,

1057
01:01:44,640 --> 01:01:46,400
Speaker 3: I'm gonna teach you how to sug dick. No, I'm

1058
01:01:46,400 --> 01:01:49,840
Speaker 3: gonna teach you how to create beautiful choreography with your throat.

1059
01:01:50,120 --> 01:02:06,160
Speaker 3: Have you ever been swallowed? Hell? Be swallowed up? Sh goodness?

1060
01:02:06,200 --> 01:02:07,640
Speaker 3: So that's a class you offer.

1061
01:02:07,800 --> 01:02:11,400
Speaker 2: It's like, Okay, I'm sure some of my our listeners

1062
01:02:11,880 --> 01:02:13,400
Speaker 2: AJ might need to sign up for that.

1063
01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:17,120
Speaker 3: No, it's fun, I got that had I'll just be tripping.

1064
01:02:17,280 --> 01:02:19,440
Speaker 4: I just really can't do it for real because of

1065
01:02:19,480 --> 01:02:23,000
Speaker 4: my damn medical issue I got tmj hie. So I

1066
01:02:23,040 --> 01:02:26,440
Speaker 4: can't really like do it for long a long time

1067
01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:30,920
Speaker 4: without experiencing excruciating pain for the next couple of days.

1068
01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:35,560
Speaker 3: Real. Yeah, and that's nobody should be in a position

1069
01:02:35,840 --> 01:02:41,280
Speaker 3: to do something that, Yeah, like I didn't like. Yeah,

1070
01:02:41,320 --> 01:02:46,160
Speaker 3: that's not like, damn, it's some it's definitely some tricks though.

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Speaker 3: It's some tricks. Yeah, my hands is crazy. Okay, I'll

1072
01:02:51,920 --> 01:02:53,600
Speaker 3: be telling people like, if you ever pay attention to

1073
01:02:53,600 --> 01:02:55,880
Speaker 3: how I grab a mic, you know that I know

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01:02:55,920 --> 01:03:00,840
Speaker 3: what I'm doing. Y'all.

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Speaker 4: We come back from this break. I want to play

1076
01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:05,720
Speaker 4: a quick game with Jody and then we're going to

1077
01:03:05,800 --> 01:03:08,720
Speaker 4: get a dumb bitch story from her as well, you know.

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01:03:13,720 --> 01:03:16,320
Speaker 3: All right, y'all be back. So I wanted to play

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Speaker 3: finish the lyrics with Jody. Okay, just a couple.

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Speaker 4: Of songs, Okay, all right, first one, let's see, uh yeah,

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Speaker 4: he keep playing with me.

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01:03:29,200 --> 01:03:42,760
Speaker 3: He don't know, I don't know. God on, that was easy,

1083
01:03:43,200 --> 01:03:46,280
Speaker 3: all right. The second one is the last one, okay,

1084
01:03:46,560 --> 01:03:48,800
Speaker 3: because I'm be get wait wait, make it good, make

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01:03:48,840 --> 01:03:49,040
Speaker 3: it good.

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01:03:49,080 --> 01:03:53,280
Speaker 4: Because I feel like because I will be up, because

1087
01:03:53,320 --> 01:03:56,720
Speaker 4: I would be up because I would be up like y'all,

1088
01:03:57,000 --> 01:03:57,880
Speaker 4: y'all not getting it.

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01:03:58,520 --> 01:04:02,560
Speaker 3: I don't know this. I don't know this. I'm like,

1090
01:04:03,920 --> 01:04:05,760
Speaker 3: because I would be a freaking.

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01:04:10,480 --> 01:04:13,200
Speaker 4: You were born, I would not say I didn't you

1092
01:04:13,480 --> 01:04:16,080
Speaker 4: like I'm would be up and I'm like just one

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01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:18,120
Speaker 4: new one old to let you know these hole has

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01:04:18,160 --> 01:04:22,640
Speaker 4: been outside. Okay, because aDNA Howard looks so good.

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01:04:22,680 --> 01:04:26,920
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm not saying no, I'm yeah because if I

1096
01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:28,680
Speaker 3: don't know you would have if you would have said

1097
01:04:28,720 --> 01:04:30,880
Speaker 3: maybe one more word, I would have got it. Dina Howard,

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01:04:30,920 --> 01:04:32,080
Speaker 3: that's my girl, that's my song.

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01:04:33,360 --> 01:04:35,640
Speaker 2: Though I thought she was gonna do throat Baby, that

1100
01:04:35,640 --> 01:04:37,880
Speaker 2: would have been a good one for her.

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01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:41,200
Speaker 3: Throw baby. I would have got it. I would have

1102
01:04:41,240 --> 01:04:43,400
Speaker 3: got it. I would have got it. All the freaky songs,

1103
01:04:43,400 --> 01:04:45,960
Speaker 3: all the throat songs on my playlist.

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01:04:48,000 --> 01:04:50,200
Speaker 2: We have a segment on our show called Dumbitch Story.

1105
01:04:50,280 --> 01:04:51,880
Speaker 2: I don't know if you know it, but you gotta

1106
01:04:51,960 --> 01:04:55,000
Speaker 2: share a time that you got played by the opposite sex.

1107
01:04:55,680 --> 01:04:57,080
Speaker 3: Dumb bitch Stories.

1108
01:04:57,640 --> 01:05:00,480
Speaker 2: So, because we've all been a dumb bee, at least

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01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:01,720
Speaker 2: it wasn't twice.

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01:05:03,320 --> 01:05:15,720
Speaker 3: Make at Slade, lad, I got played a couple times. Yeah,

1111
01:05:16,720 --> 01:05:19,919
Speaker 3: I got played a couple times. All right, I'll tell

1112
01:05:19,960 --> 01:05:21,360
Speaker 3: you all the funny.

1113
01:05:22,320 --> 01:05:25,919
Speaker 4: Okay, So you gotta laughed to keep from crying, Yeah,

1114
01:05:26,080 --> 01:05:29,520
Speaker 4: to keep from crying, because I cried for sure.

1115
01:05:29,800 --> 01:05:34,760
Speaker 3: So I was dealing with one of my exes and I.

1116
01:05:34,800 --> 01:05:39,320
Speaker 3: We were kind of like on Rocky times this particular instance.

1117
01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:39,120
Speaker 4: And.

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01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:42,720
Speaker 3: I was at his but I was at his house,

1119
01:05:42,840 --> 01:05:45,120
Speaker 3: so we won that damn Rocky. Like, I was still

1120
01:05:45,120 --> 01:05:51,080
Speaker 3: at his house. Had a dream that he was going

1121
01:05:51,160 --> 01:05:55,840
Speaker 3: to cheat on me. Yeah, I had a dream. He

1122
01:05:56,040 --> 01:05:59,880
Speaker 3: like literally in the dream, he said, yeah, I'm a

1123
01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:01,720
Speaker 3: so I'm gonna throw like a kickback. I'm gonna throw

1124
01:06:01,720 --> 01:06:05,040
Speaker 3: a party later. And then I walked into the party

1125
01:06:05,080 --> 01:06:08,360
Speaker 3: and he was fucking with another girl. Wakes up from

1126
01:06:08,360 --> 01:06:12,640
Speaker 3: the dream. I'm working from home, just normal day, and

1127
01:06:12,680 --> 01:06:14,800
Speaker 3: he yeah, what you doing later? I'm like, yeah, me

1128
01:06:14,840 --> 01:06:17,240
Speaker 3: and the girls we supposed to go. We're going to

1129
01:06:17,280 --> 01:06:20,560
Speaker 3: Navy Peer. We're gonna we're doing a cruise tonight. We

1130
01:06:20,960 --> 01:06:24,160
Speaker 3: all yeah, I'm probably gonna throw a kickback. I'm like,

1131
01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:31,880
Speaker 3: that's how it'd be. Boy Like now, I'm used to

1132
01:06:31,880 --> 01:06:33,560
Speaker 3: having dreams and then I'm happening.

1133
01:06:33,960 --> 01:06:36,760
Speaker 5: But that was too quick, Like it was like there

1134
01:06:36,880 --> 01:06:40,000
Speaker 5: was not a like literally hours after waking up from

1135
01:06:40,000 --> 01:06:41,960
Speaker 5: this dream, you say this, And I didn't tell him

1136
01:06:41,960 --> 01:06:44,600
Speaker 5: about the dream, of course, and then I didn't reveal

1137
01:06:44,720 --> 01:06:45,960
Speaker 5: the dream after he said that.

1138
01:06:46,040 --> 01:06:51,959
Speaker 3: So I'm like, hmm, okay, mental note. So they progresses,

1139
01:06:52,480 --> 01:06:56,360
Speaker 3: and I go to Navy Peer as I was supposed to.

1140
01:06:57,720 --> 01:07:01,480
Speaker 3: I missed the boat. Try to miss the boat. I

1141
01:07:01,560 --> 01:07:05,760
Speaker 3: was really trying to get to the boat. Miss the boat. Okay, Universe,

1142
01:07:06,520 --> 01:07:11,480
Speaker 3: let me call this nigga. I call him because I

1143
01:07:11,520 --> 01:07:13,760
Speaker 3: missed the boat. Now I don't have plans no more.

1144
01:07:14,320 --> 01:07:22,240
Speaker 3: You're gonna have a kickback though, So calling him, he's

1145
01:07:22,320 --> 01:07:28,680
Speaker 3: not answering. Text him. The bubble is green, but the

1146
01:07:28,720 --> 01:07:31,680
Speaker 3: phone is still ringing, which means that your phone not

1147
01:07:31,920 --> 01:07:35,240
Speaker 3: dead because it's still ringing all the way through. You

1148
01:07:35,360 --> 01:07:38,400
Speaker 3: turned your old our messages off. Why would you do that?

1149
01:07:38,760 --> 01:07:43,800
Speaker 3: Don't rear abatti. You want to see me, so obviously

1150
01:07:44,600 --> 01:07:48,000
Speaker 3: you want to see me. It's fine. So pulls up

1151
01:07:48,720 --> 01:07:52,280
Speaker 3: to this crib. At this point, it's like maybe eleven

1152
01:07:52,680 --> 01:07:55,760
Speaker 3: thirty cluster of mid night. What's up to his crib?

1153
01:07:56,960 --> 01:08:02,040
Speaker 3: The lights. The lights were on. The lights were on,

1154
01:08:02,160 --> 01:08:04,760
Speaker 3: no music or nothing. But it's only like maybe one

1155
01:08:04,880 --> 01:08:06,880
Speaker 3: or like all the lights went on, but it was

1156
01:08:06,880 --> 01:08:08,560
Speaker 3: like a couple of lights on. Tis. I'm like, okay,

1157
01:08:08,600 --> 01:08:12,800
Speaker 3: he's clearly up there. He's up there, So knock on

1158
01:08:12,840 --> 01:08:16,519
Speaker 3: the door, No answer. I caused his name. Calls up

1159
01:08:16,560 --> 01:08:19,960
Speaker 3: to the window, the light turns off. I'm like, oh

1160
01:08:20,000 --> 01:08:29,680
Speaker 3: they got the men are so dumb down? Now home right?

1161
01:08:32,479 --> 01:08:39,400
Speaker 3: House like, continues to call his name. Then he sticks

1162
01:08:39,400 --> 01:08:44,120
Speaker 3: his head out the window like he will sleep. Huh,

1163
01:08:44,479 --> 01:08:47,280
Speaker 3: come to the door. What is you doing? No, man,

1164
01:08:47,400 --> 01:08:50,479
Speaker 3: I sleep? Why you can't come to the door again?

1165
01:08:50,920 --> 01:08:55,080
Speaker 3: Come to the door. So we's we are arguing, right,

1166
01:08:55,200 --> 01:08:59,439
Speaker 3: So he's he's trying to argue because he wants me

1167
01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:03,519
Speaker 3: to argue and leave. So, knowing what he's trying to do,

1168
01:09:03,720 --> 01:09:06,160
Speaker 3: I flip it around. So instead of arguing with him,

1169
01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:12,479
Speaker 3: now I get erradically emotional. I'm like, I'm kid, So

1170
01:09:12,640 --> 01:09:15,320
Speaker 3: I'm like getting super emotional. Right, So he comes to

1171
01:09:15,439 --> 01:09:20,639
Speaker 3: the door. He comes to the door. Kick that shit over, right,

1172
01:09:22,240 --> 01:09:25,360
Speaker 3: So he's like, I'm gonna just walk you to your carl.

1173
01:09:26,120 --> 01:09:30,040
Speaker 3: I can't after you. He walks down the stairs. I

1174
01:09:30,240 --> 01:09:34,880
Speaker 3: push his ass, runs through his crib. There's a bitch

1175
01:09:34,960 --> 01:09:38,759
Speaker 3: sitting on the couch. I get this close to the bitch.

1176
01:09:39,120 --> 01:09:40,960
Speaker 3: Next thing I know, I'm getting lifted in the air.

1177
01:09:42,280 --> 01:09:46,719
Speaker 3: If I ran ran through the house, is this close?

1178
01:09:47,240 --> 01:09:49,599
Speaker 3: Get lift in the air. So now I'm like, let

1179
01:09:49,600 --> 01:09:51,519
Speaker 3: me go, let me go, let me go. I see

1180
01:09:51,520 --> 01:09:55,519
Speaker 3: a broom, grab the broom. He got me still, I'm

1181
01:09:55,560 --> 01:09:58,400
Speaker 3: beating him with the broom. This girl is over here. Now.

1182
01:09:58,439 --> 01:10:00,559
Speaker 3: I was running towards house, so she was like getting on,

1183
01:10:00,720 --> 01:10:02,519
Speaker 3: like backing up on the couch and stuff because she

1184
01:10:02,560 --> 01:10:05,240
Speaker 3: don't like she just see this girl running towards her.

1185
01:10:05,520 --> 01:10:07,599
Speaker 3: I'm beating him with the broom. I'm trying to knock

1186
01:10:07,640 --> 01:10:11,080
Speaker 3: everything over. He Joe, Joe, let it go, Let it go.

1187
01:10:11,680 --> 01:10:13,960
Speaker 3: And I'm like, no, he was just fucking man this

1188
01:10:14,160 --> 01:10:21,479
Speaker 3: bit twelve hours ago. I'm blue, like he leave before

1189
01:10:21,479 --> 01:10:28,360
Speaker 3: I call the police, Like you go, you got me up.

1190
01:10:30,600 --> 01:10:33,800
Speaker 3: He had this glass like bar. He had this glass bar.

1191
01:10:34,760 --> 01:10:37,280
Speaker 3: I'm like, don't worry better, I'm leave. I leave. I

1192
01:10:37,320 --> 01:10:39,920
Speaker 3: look at the glass bar, I grab it. I throw

1193
01:10:39,960 --> 01:10:42,920
Speaker 3: it down, so all the glass shout around all over

1194
01:10:42,960 --> 01:10:45,760
Speaker 3: the floor, and I'm like, now I'll leave and then

1195
01:10:49,360 --> 01:10:53,400
Speaker 3: and kept fucking with this nigga. Ain't it look so no?

1196
01:10:53,479 --> 01:10:58,280
Speaker 3: Let me? So after that, after that, I went home.

1197
01:10:58,920 --> 01:11:01,960
Speaker 3: I hacked this man all his social media accounts. I

1198
01:11:02,800 --> 01:11:07,719
Speaker 3: hacked all of his accounts. Uh, hacked his email because

1199
01:11:08,200 --> 01:11:10,719
Speaker 3: his password was his grandma and niggas love it grandma.

1200
01:11:11,160 --> 01:11:14,360
Speaker 3: So hacked his email, then hacked all his social media accounts,

1201
01:11:15,800 --> 01:11:18,200
Speaker 3: and then it was to the point where he had

1202
01:11:18,240 --> 01:11:20,640
Speaker 3: so many people calling me and bugging me for like

1203
01:11:20,640 --> 01:11:23,719
Speaker 3: the pass he was supposed to start that new job

1204
01:11:24,120 --> 01:11:26,960
Speaker 3: and you got into his email, fuck that job, like

1205
01:11:30,160 --> 01:11:33,840
Speaker 3: I was trying to ruin him. And then like after

1206
01:11:33,880 --> 01:11:37,519
Speaker 3: a week of terrorizing this man that way, I was like,

1207
01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:39,880
Speaker 3: you know what, all right, I'm done. You had to

1208
01:11:39,960 --> 01:11:43,519
Speaker 3: let it go. So since his password, like they was like, uh,

1209
01:11:44,200 --> 01:11:46,320
Speaker 3: his one of his best friends, Like what's the password?

1210
01:11:46,439 --> 01:11:48,920
Speaker 3: I was like the password I had made it something

1211
01:11:48,920 --> 01:11:52,360
Speaker 3: like super petty. It was like fucked his name like

1212
01:11:52,439 --> 01:11:59,040
Speaker 3: it was that gave password is fucked justind So gave

1213
01:11:59,120 --> 01:12:03,519
Speaker 3: him the password and then I let it go. I

1214
01:12:03,640 --> 01:12:08,960
Speaker 3: let it go, started, you know, my healing process. And

1215
01:12:08,960 --> 01:12:13,439
Speaker 3: then three months later that nigga came back and you

1216
01:12:13,520 --> 01:12:15,960
Speaker 3: let him come back, and that's what it was. My

1217
01:12:16,000 --> 01:12:20,080
Speaker 3: daver should have let that nigga come back, but again.

1218
01:12:21,520 --> 01:12:23,439
Speaker 4: Should have let your ass come back. He should have

1219
01:12:23,439 --> 01:12:25,720
Speaker 4: never came back. For you to fuck this whole apartment up,

1220
01:12:25,800 --> 01:12:26,759
Speaker 4: try to fight the bitch.

1221
01:12:27,240 --> 01:12:29,720
Speaker 3: That was his fault. That was his fault. He that

1222
01:12:29,840 --> 01:12:33,519
Speaker 3: was that was just collateral damage at that part. Shit.

1223
01:12:33,680 --> 01:12:36,280
Speaker 3: But you will never understand how bitch be quiet in

1224
01:12:36,280 --> 01:12:39,840
Speaker 3: a nigga house. Yeah, that was insane, Like you hear

1225
01:12:39,880 --> 01:12:43,520
Speaker 3: me yelling his name like I would have been uphill.

1226
01:12:47,200 --> 01:12:49,000
Speaker 4: Or I don't opened the door for a bitch because

1227
01:12:49,040 --> 01:12:51,200
Speaker 4: this nigga was refusing to open. I'm like, girl, just

1228
01:12:51,240 --> 01:12:53,920
Speaker 4: come in. It's call outside, like, come on the fuck

1229
01:12:54,000 --> 01:12:56,080
Speaker 4: you outside for two three hours knocking on the door.

1230
01:12:57,040 --> 01:13:01,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, because clearly ain't going nowhere and were trying to

1231
01:13:01,000 --> 01:13:03,439
Speaker 3: go back to sleep. Just come in. You need a blanket, bitch.

1232
01:13:05,840 --> 01:13:08,040
Speaker 3: I feel like everybody kind of have to deal with

1233
01:13:08,120 --> 01:13:10,760
Speaker 3: something like that just so that they can know I'm

1234
01:13:10,800 --> 01:13:13,920
Speaker 3: never dealing with that shit. Girl. You hear me, Yeah,

1235
01:13:14,439 --> 01:13:16,960
Speaker 3: oh yeah, that was my that was one.

1236
01:13:17,280 --> 01:13:21,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, everybody where they can find you to plug all

1237
01:13:21,800 --> 01:13:24,439
Speaker 2: your things for our listeners, a lot.

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01:13:24,320 --> 01:13:28,480
Speaker 3: Of so again I'm Jody. I'm the host of Provocative.

1239
01:13:28,600 --> 01:13:31,800
Speaker 3: That's p r h O E v O c A

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01:13:32,080 --> 01:13:34,080
Speaker 3: T A v E. I spell it with horn the

1241
01:13:34,120 --> 01:13:37,400
Speaker 3: middle because now we all got a little hole in us. Uh.

1242
01:13:37,439 --> 01:13:44,640
Speaker 3: You can find Provocative anywhere you stream audio podcasts, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeart,

1243
01:13:44,840 --> 01:13:48,839
Speaker 3: et cetera. I'm also on Instagram. That's where I frequent,

1244
01:13:48,960 --> 01:13:51,880
Speaker 3: so you can find me jo D Provocative. That's at

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01:13:52,080 --> 01:13:55,600
Speaker 3: jo D Provocative j O D y D r h

1246
01:13:55,680 --> 01:13:59,360
Speaker 3: O E B O c A T A f E.

1247
01:14:01,160 --> 01:14:04,120
Speaker 3: What else I'm a part of that. All the stuff

1248
01:14:04,160 --> 01:14:06,479
Speaker 3: you got on your page, you're selling pussy. No, I'm

1249
01:14:06,520 --> 01:14:13,559
Speaker 3: just saying she got a throat choreography? Yes again, I'm

1250
01:14:13,560 --> 01:14:19,840
Speaker 3: a sexologist. I do teach different sex classes. My specialty,

1251
01:14:20,120 --> 01:14:24,920
Speaker 3: my my bread and butter, is throat choreography. If you

1252
01:14:24,960 --> 01:14:27,519
Speaker 3: want to take that class. I do both in person.

1253
01:14:27,720 --> 01:14:32,000
Speaker 3: I do virtual classes as well. I do other sex classes.

1254
01:14:32,920 --> 01:14:39,360
Speaker 3: I do sexual massages as well. I see outfit on.

1255
01:14:41,439 --> 01:14:45,360
Speaker 2: Ask you when you teach in like a throat choreography,

1256
01:14:45,360 --> 01:14:47,080
Speaker 2: what are you teaching like on a banana or some

1257
01:14:47,200 --> 01:14:47,719
Speaker 2: type of.

1258
01:14:47,760 --> 01:14:51,600
Speaker 3: Like I got three sizes because I feel like you

1259
01:14:51,640 --> 01:14:54,439
Speaker 3: got to be prepared. So yeah, I teach you how

1260
01:14:54,439 --> 01:15:00,600
Speaker 3: to do the small medium in large. That's so funny.

1261
01:15:01,520 --> 01:15:02,120
Speaker 3: This is how you do it.

1262
01:15:03,600 --> 01:15:11,800
Speaker 2: May be like, wait a minute, Thank you, Jody, This

1263
01:15:11,960 --> 01:15:15,240
Speaker 2: was actually a very fun episode.

1264
01:15:15,920 --> 01:15:23,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, y'all, y'all lit, y'all girl, All right, y'all listen.

1265
01:15:23,560 --> 01:15:24,759
Speaker 3: Thank you so much, Jody.

1266
01:15:24,840 --> 01:15:28,000
Speaker 4: If you guys enjoyed this episode, y'all tune in every

1267
01:15:28,000 --> 01:15:30,599
Speaker 4: Thursday on your iHeart Radio app or wherever the fuck

1268
01:15:30,680 --> 01:15:32,040
Speaker 4: you get your podcast at.

1269
01:15:32,520 --> 01:15:35,840
Speaker 3: This is your co host, a j Holiday two point

1270
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Speaker 3: zero on instagrams.

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01:15:37,439 --> 01:15:40,800
Speaker 2: Kick It Tam, y'all's official Tam Bam on Instagram. Y'all

1272
01:15:40,840 --> 01:15:42,960
Speaker 2: follow me, y'all. Remember to speak now.

1273
01:15:43,360 --> 01:15:49,160
Speaker 3: And never hold yoe hole shit. Don't dig period, don't

1274
01:15:49,200 --> 01:15:50,639
Speaker 3: hold it do that shit.

1275
01:15:51,720 --> 01:15:55,559
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01:15:55,640 --> 01:15:59,840
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Speaker 1: where ever you listen to your favorite shows.