WEBVTT - From 70k to 700k 0:00:00.280 --> 0:00:03.520 Hey, ba fam. Please follow us on Apple Podcasts and 0:00:03.640 --> 0:00:07.400 keep our audience growing. If your iPhone recently upgraded to 0:00:07.440 --> 0:00:11.360 iOS fourteen point five, head to Apple Podcasts, search for 0:00:11.400 --> 0:00:13.880 Brown Ambition and click on the plus button in the 0:00:13.960 --> 0:00:16.920 upper right hand corner. Do that and you'll be following 0:00:16.960 --> 0:00:20.720 our show. You can also follow us on Spotify, Stitcher, 0:00:20.960 --> 0:00:24.160 or the Amazon Music app. And Android users, we didn't 0:00:24.200 --> 0:00:41.440 forget about you. You can find us on Google podcasts. 0:00:43.320 --> 0:00:51.680 Hey hey, hey, Bicky, and we're Brown. 0:00:54.720 --> 0:00:57.320 Oh my goodness, Welcome back, Tiffany. 0:00:57.760 --> 0:01:00.240 No, it feels so good to be back. Honestly, I 0:01:00.280 --> 0:01:02.800 woke up this morning. It was my first day of like, 0:01:02.880 --> 0:01:04.320 you know, back at work, and I was like, you know, 0:01:04.360 --> 0:01:06.360 one more day. But then I had my first call 0:01:06.400 --> 0:01:08.240 with the team, and I was like, I love it here. 0:01:10.240 --> 0:01:12.520 All good. Okay, So you didn't have like the Monday 0:01:12.520 --> 0:01:14.720 scary or what is it the Sunday scaries coming back? 0:01:15.200 --> 0:01:17.120 No, I was like, you know, yesterday, it was just 0:01:17.400 --> 0:01:19.280 I'm used to waking up and literally being like I 0:01:19.280 --> 0:01:22.680 could do whatever I want, and so initially I was like, wait, 0:01:22.840 --> 0:01:25.760 I have responsibilities. So I wasn't sure how I felt 0:01:25.800 --> 0:01:28.640 about it, But then talking to the team and they 0:01:28.680 --> 0:01:31.440 were just so excited and the projects that were working on, 0:01:31.480 --> 0:01:34.200 and I honestly loved doing the budget Nista, but the 0:01:34.280 --> 0:01:37.880 time away it was like my chance to reconnect with Tiffany. 0:01:37.920 --> 0:01:40.640 I had not hung out with her in a long 0:01:40.640 --> 0:01:41.839 long time, so. 0:01:41.840 --> 0:01:43.720 It's not like, you know, it happened. 0:01:43.720 --> 0:01:45.920 So it was like, Tiffany, it's cute that you do Budgetista, 0:01:46.000 --> 0:01:48.520 but there's also Tiffany, so don't forget about her. 0:01:48.560 --> 0:01:51.000 So it was just a really great time to reconnect. 0:01:51.080 --> 0:01:53.240 Six weeks. I took three of the weeks to go 0:01:53.280 --> 0:01:56.320 on VAK and then three three in a row. 0:01:56.880 --> 0:01:59.440 No like the first week. I needed like a real decompressed. 0:01:59.440 --> 0:02:01.200 I told my husband, everybody leave me alone. I run 0:02:01.240 --> 0:02:03.760 to the beach house right next to the border, and 0:02:03.760 --> 0:02:06.520 I remember many we had, like our long, like delicious talk. 0:02:06.600 --> 0:02:07.200 That was awesome. 0:02:09.000 --> 0:02:10.840 I was like, I probably can't expect a two hours 0:02:10.880 --> 0:02:14.560 phone calls from every day of her fatus, but it. 0:02:14.639 --> 0:02:17.200 Was great, And honestly, I walked the boardwalk. I went 0:02:17.280 --> 0:02:20.680 back to being vegan. I got so much exercising. Although 0:02:20.680 --> 0:02:22.080 I have not lost any weight, my. 0:02:22.160 --> 0:02:25.480 Body is shapely, honey, like I lost inches. 0:02:25.639 --> 0:02:29.200 I just feel really good, and I took two weeks 0:02:29.240 --> 0:02:31.079 to kind of hang out with my my niece and 0:02:31.160 --> 0:02:33.320 my nephew. Like my sister was so grateful because like 0:02:33.400 --> 0:02:35.600 every other day, I was like, I'm coming to pick 0:02:35.639 --> 0:02:37.320 up the kids. I'm taking them to the zoo, I'm 0:02:37.320 --> 0:02:38.679 coming to pick up the kids. I'm taking them on 0:02:38.720 --> 0:02:40.919 a little hike for like four hours. And she was like, 0:02:41.080 --> 0:02:46.440 is this real life? So that was really a lot 0:02:46.480 --> 0:02:48.280 of fun. And then I hung out my family a 0:02:48.360 --> 0:02:50.840 lot and and Superman and Supergirl. 0:02:51.120 --> 0:02:55.200 Then I took a one week vacation to Ashville, North Carolina. 0:02:55.200 --> 0:02:55.919 About five days. 0:02:55.960 --> 0:02:59.280 I wanted to see the Biltmore because I really love Yeah, 0:02:59.280 --> 0:03:01.560 I love historic homes. And I was like, you know, 0:03:01.639 --> 0:03:03.799 I've always too wanted to see like the Blue mountains, 0:03:03.880 --> 0:03:05.840 you know untains. 0:03:06.040 --> 0:03:09.679 Yes, they're beautiful. The Builtmore is I don't even have 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:10.280 the words for it. 0:03:10.360 --> 0:03:10.560 It was. 0:03:10.720 --> 0:03:13.760 It was so beautiful. And then the last week we 0:03:13.880 --> 0:03:19.120 went to Florida Keys and that was, Yes, that was amazing, 0:03:19.320 --> 0:03:20.120 Like it was that. 0:03:20.240 --> 0:03:23.359 Is not the Jersey Shore, No, it was very much. 0:03:23.440 --> 0:03:27.120 It was it was giving Jamaica without the accents. Okay, 0:03:27.560 --> 0:03:29.240 So that was with the family. So Biltmore I did 0:03:29.280 --> 0:03:29.840 by myself. 0:03:30.360 --> 0:03:32.600 The shore I did by myself, but then invited like 0:03:33.680 --> 0:03:35.520 my sister and the kids for for a night to 0:03:35.560 --> 0:03:37.880 spend the night. And then uh Florida I did with 0:03:38.000 --> 0:03:40.360 the you know, my husband and my my bonus baby, 0:03:40.440 --> 0:03:43.360 my bonus daughter, and so it was exactly you know 0:03:43.480 --> 0:03:46.080 sometimes you like I was worried that I wasn't you know, 0:03:46.120 --> 0:03:47.280 I was like, I don't want to just sit home, 0:03:47.360 --> 0:03:49.160 but I also don't want to give myself task because 0:03:49.160 --> 0:03:51.320 you know how we are like. And then you know, 0:03:51.440 --> 0:03:53.880 like first week I was like taking courses. My husband 0:03:53.960 --> 0:03:56.440 was like, what what are you doing. I was like, oh, 0:03:56.480 --> 0:03:58.800 I started this trading course. I'm totally gonna learn the trade. 0:03:59.160 --> 0:04:00.880 And that's how you told the day we talked and 0:04:00.920 --> 0:04:02.360 we were like, I don't learn how to trade. 0:04:04.360 --> 0:04:05.200 And then after three. 0:04:05.120 --> 0:04:06.920 Days and I was like, this is not fun, Tiffany. 0:04:07.280 --> 0:04:08.720 This is supposed to be a break girl. You can 0:04:08.840 --> 0:04:10.520 learn to trade at on your own time, on a budget, 0:04:10.560 --> 0:04:11.040 Easter time. 0:04:11.360 --> 0:04:12.280 This is Tiffany time. 0:04:12.360 --> 0:04:15.400 So when I tell you I read at least ten books, Mandy, 0:04:15.520 --> 0:04:17.080 it's been because. 0:04:16.800 --> 0:04:18.359 I was really like a big reader. 0:04:18.960 --> 0:04:21.000 Yeah, like and then I just didn't get a chance 0:04:21.080 --> 0:04:24.360 to you know, I just never gave Tiffany a chance 0:04:24.400 --> 0:04:26.200 to be Tiffany. So I stopped reading as much, but 0:04:26.680 --> 0:04:29.240 I forgot how much I enjoyed reading, and I read 0:04:29.320 --> 0:04:32.360 some really great books. I found myself reading a lot 0:04:32.400 --> 0:04:35.440 of amazing kind of memoirs from like dope people and 0:04:35.560 --> 0:04:39.160 being inspired by their journey and like their journey allowing 0:04:39.240 --> 0:04:41.640 me to see my journey differently, like oh, you're not crazy, 0:04:41.800 --> 0:04:44.719 Like how you're feeling is normal. This is I read 0:04:45.560 --> 0:04:49.920 ebon Orgi's what is it called Bamboozo My d Jesus. 0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:52.400 That was really good. I was like, look like I 0:04:52.640 --> 0:04:53.039 was like not. 0:04:53.080 --> 0:04:55.680 To say, I'm surprised it was good, but especially once 0:04:55.720 --> 0:04:58.039 you got into the meat and potatoes, it was really 0:04:58.120 --> 0:05:01.000 good about reconnecting me back to spirit and like how 0:05:01.520 --> 0:05:04.960 it could she really make sure that God plays like 0:05:05.080 --> 0:05:06.480 a role in her everyday life. 0:05:06.520 --> 0:05:09.320 It's not just like this like oh, off to the side. 0:05:09.320 --> 0:05:10.760 And it was a reminder that like, oh, you know, 0:05:10.839 --> 0:05:13.560 I haven't been connected to a higher source. And then 0:05:13.600 --> 0:05:16.960 I listened to Elaine welter Off More Than Enough. That's 0:05:17.000 --> 0:05:19.320 such a great book about her story and how she 0:05:19.400 --> 0:05:22.920 became his teen Vogue editor in chief and all that 0:05:23.000 --> 0:05:24.040 happened and how she got there. 0:05:24.120 --> 0:05:24.640 That was great. 0:05:25.120 --> 0:05:29.000 Then randomly I listened to Magnolia, you know, Magnolia Story 0:05:29.080 --> 0:05:29.720 Chip and Joanna. 0:05:30.640 --> 0:05:33.320 Oh really yeah, that was good. I was like, wow, 0:05:33.520 --> 0:05:34.640 they have a memoir. 0:05:35.080 --> 0:05:36.280 Yes, it was really good about it. 0:05:36.400 --> 0:05:38.440 It's actually less I thought it was gonna be about 0:05:38.440 --> 0:05:40.679 how do they become you know, Chip and Joanna Gains 0:05:40.920 --> 0:05:44.840 of HGTV. No. What I didn't realize is like they 0:05:44.880 --> 0:05:46.760 had already done ninety percent of the work by the 0:05:46.800 --> 0:05:47.799 time the show came along. 0:05:48.320 --> 0:05:50.640 So it was kind of like, oh, wow, the show. 0:05:50.560 --> 0:05:53.279 Didn't actually make them. The show would put a spotlight 0:05:53.360 --> 0:05:56.080 on what they made. And I was like, oh, and 0:05:56.440 --> 0:05:59.200 I had to like mentally apologize to Chip because I'm 0:05:59.200 --> 0:06:01.560 not gonna lie he was an idiot and. 0:06:01.720 --> 0:06:05.200 Make him look so like the dumb jock. But you 0:06:05.320 --> 0:06:06.240 know TV will do that. 0:06:06.600 --> 0:06:09.560 No, Mandy, when I tell you he's the business like 0:06:10.240 --> 0:06:12.960 genius behind it all, I was like, wait, what. 0:06:14.480 --> 0:06:17.240 I was not to say? Joanna obviously is smart, but 0:06:17.560 --> 0:06:20.200 like she is the creative one. 0:06:20.320 --> 0:06:22.720 Joanna says, hmm, I think that we should you know, 0:06:22.960 --> 0:06:27.599 like bread crocodiles, and Chip figures it out and finances 0:06:27.640 --> 0:06:29.160 it and figures, you know what I mean. So she 0:06:29.279 --> 0:06:32.080 has like the idea and sometimes and many times the 0:06:32.160 --> 0:06:33.000 idea comes from him. 0:06:33.040 --> 0:06:36.720 But it actually hit his part because it was, you know, 0:06:36.800 --> 0:06:37.680 they both read the book. 0:06:37.960 --> 0:06:40.320 His part made me want to go and read his book, 0:06:40.320 --> 0:06:42.480 and I did. I think it's called Capital Gains, and 0:06:42.560 --> 0:06:45.960 I was even more impressed. He's got an amazing business 0:06:46.080 --> 0:06:48.240 mind and how he thinks about growth. 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:51.000 And I was like, so sorry, you're not a dummy. 0:06:53.240 --> 0:06:56.120 And now I'm listening to Shoe Dog, Phil Knight's book 0:06:56.120 --> 0:06:59.720 about Nike. He's the co founder of Nike. Honestly, if 0:06:59.800 --> 0:07:03.240 you you are a business owner, I implore you to 0:07:04.000 --> 0:07:08.720 read or listen to Shoe Dog because it is the realest, 0:07:09.240 --> 0:07:13.480 like I guess, memoir or story about a business. Literally 0:07:13.560 --> 0:07:15.800 he failed for like fifteen year street and so you 0:07:15.880 --> 0:07:17.720 know all these illusions that you see on social media 0:07:17.720 --> 0:07:20.200 of like I make my money and I only worked too. 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:23.680 I was a year Like you listened to Shoe Dog 0:07:23.760 --> 0:07:25.920 and you're like, oh my god, how did he keep going? 0:07:26.560 --> 0:07:28.520 It's such a really good like book. 0:07:28.560 --> 0:07:29.840 So yeah, I read, like I said, a ton of 0:07:29.880 --> 0:07:31.600 books and they really helped to reset how I thought 0:07:31.600 --> 0:07:34.480 about how I thought about my journey and my life, 0:07:34.520 --> 0:07:36.760 and they were just really interesting and so like I 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:39.520 just I'm just full of so many like lessons and 0:07:39.680 --> 0:07:42.640 bursting with like I don't know, I'm just rejuvenated and 0:07:43.080 --> 0:07:44.160 my comf is refilled. 0:07:44.640 --> 0:07:47.520 Oh I love that I only had a Well, we 0:07:47.600 --> 0:07:51.040 missed you so much, but we had a wonderful opportunity 0:07:51.120 --> 0:07:52.800 to get some guests on the show. But we're so 0:07:52.920 --> 0:07:55.360 excited to have you. I'm saying we I'm so excited, 0:07:55.600 --> 0:07:58.000 and I imagine all the listeners are so excited. I mean, 0:07:58.040 --> 0:08:00.840 I want to talk about taking time off and rejuvenating 0:08:01.000 --> 0:08:03.520 because that's something. I mean, you missed a lot while 0:08:03.560 --> 0:08:05.720 you were gone, but nothing groundbreaking. I mean I kind 0:08:05.720 --> 0:08:11.840 of started my own business and got a tesla, and 0:08:12.240 --> 0:08:15.400 I didn't I probably gained inches, I didn't lose any inches. Yeah, 0:08:15.440 --> 0:08:17.520 a lot has gone down. But I just took a 0:08:17.600 --> 0:08:19.600 mini little rejuice. I didn't take a six week hiatis, 0:08:19.640 --> 0:08:22.280 but I took a weekend hiatus. We went to this 0:08:22.560 --> 0:08:25.120 farm in the Catskills, and I don't know. All I 0:08:25.160 --> 0:08:26.800 can say is I drank a bottle of wine last 0:08:26.840 --> 0:08:29.680 week in Tiffany, and I was on the internet and 0:08:29.760 --> 0:08:32.520 I cannot even tell you what search query I typed 0:08:32.559 --> 0:08:35.839 into the Google gods, but I found this farm that 0:08:36.040 --> 0:08:39.559 is like the perfect the perfect getaway for a family 0:08:39.600 --> 0:08:41.959 who wants to be outdoorsy but doesn't want to do 0:08:42.080 --> 0:08:45.480 the work to be outdoorsy. So it was like semi glamping, 0:08:45.720 --> 0:08:48.520 but you get a big private tent with beds and 0:08:48.600 --> 0:08:51.040 a toilet and a sink, but you're in the woods. 0:08:51.120 --> 0:08:52.679 Then you get to cook on a stove, but like 0:08:52.760 --> 0:08:55.160 they provide it for you. And yes, you can have 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:58.080 a wood burning oven in in your tent, but they 0:08:58.160 --> 0:08:59.679 give you the wood and they chop it for you. 0:09:00.040 --> 0:09:02.760 And then sure they do you know, pizza night on Saturday, 0:09:02.800 --> 0:09:05.200 and they do wood fire pizzas and they have all 0:09:05.320 --> 0:09:09.000 the animals and oh my god, it was so it 0:09:09.160 --> 0:09:12.120 was so fun. And I mean I slept twelve hours. 0:09:12.120 --> 0:09:14.400 I went to bed at eight pm last night, and 0:09:14.480 --> 0:09:16.160 I woke up at eight am this morning because I 0:09:16.280 --> 0:09:18.920 was just so dog tired chasing my child around the 0:09:18.960 --> 0:09:21.520 farm for three days. But I'm with you about like 0:09:21.600 --> 0:09:24.480 no social media and taking a little hiatus because it 0:09:24.600 --> 0:09:26.520 was off the grid, off the grid, there was no 0:09:26.679 --> 0:09:29.840 Wi Fi, no electricity other than the lanterns they would 0:09:29.880 --> 0:09:32.400 give you, you know, to see in the dark at 0:09:32.720 --> 0:09:35.360 at your cabin, but it was in the fresh air. 0:09:36.120 --> 0:09:39.800 When I tell you seeing my son like Rio, and 0:09:39.920 --> 0:09:43.400 you missed this too. So Rio. Actually we've been talking 0:09:43.480 --> 0:09:46.440 to we've been learning more about his speech. He hasn't 0:09:46.440 --> 0:09:49.520 really been talking as much. He's nineteen months now and 0:09:49.920 --> 0:09:51.920 he's in your preschool teachers, he might know a little 0:09:51.920 --> 0:09:54.959 bit about this, but or you were. Anyway, he's you know, 0:09:55.160 --> 0:09:57.280 he's got some kind of a speech delay, but he 0:09:58.040 --> 0:10:01.280 loves to communicate. And just seeing him out there, I mean, 0:10:01.360 --> 0:10:04.199 he literally squealed when we when we got when we 0:10:04.320 --> 0:10:07.160 got dropped off at the farm on Friday night, he 0:10:07.240 --> 0:10:09.439 squealed when he saw the chickens. It's all the cows. 0:10:10.200 --> 0:10:12.280 It was wonderful And it was just a weekend. And 0:10:13.240 --> 0:10:16.199 don't tell a husbe, but I already booked another weekend 0:10:16.240 --> 0:10:18.200 at the same farm. Yeah, for October. 0:10:20.480 --> 0:10:23.320 No, it sounds awesome now. Question because another a friend 0:10:23.360 --> 0:10:26.640 of mine, her daughter is two, and she was concerning 0:10:26.720 --> 0:10:29.640 not that she doesn't say anything, but not sentences. It's 0:10:29.679 --> 0:10:32.199 like a word here, word there, And she was like, oh, 0:10:32.360 --> 0:10:34.240 you know, I was like, well, one she's two, so 0:10:34.640 --> 0:10:37.599 you know, like that's a when kids are really I 0:10:37.679 --> 0:10:40.240 had a cousin who had speech delay until he was five, 0:10:40.320 --> 0:10:43.640 and now he's like a neuroscientist, so let's not you know. 0:10:43.679 --> 0:10:44.839 I was like, don't look at your house. 0:10:45.400 --> 0:10:48.559 Yeah, like sometimes people like literally Now, one of the 0:10:48.640 --> 0:10:52.280 things that I suggested and question, does Enrique do you 0:10:52.320 --> 0:10:53.360 speak to Rio in Spanish? 0:10:53.400 --> 0:10:54.920 And does Rique speak to Rio in Spanish? 0:10:55.400 --> 0:10:55.439 Not? 0:10:55.640 --> 0:10:57.800 Really? No, I know that was something that crossed our mind. 0:10:58.679 --> 0:10:59.080 We can't. 0:10:59.200 --> 0:11:02.480 I can't even pretend like he's raised completely bilingual, except 0:11:02.679 --> 0:11:06.319 he does see his grandparents fairly regularly, and they of 0:11:06.440 --> 0:11:08.920 course speak to him in Spanish. They don't speak English. 0:11:09.400 --> 0:11:11.520 But I will say, you know, for anyone who's listening 0:11:11.600 --> 0:11:14.960 and they have a young like a toddler, who's maybe 0:11:15.040 --> 0:11:17.120 not if you're just concerned, you know, I don't have 0:11:17.160 --> 0:11:19.680 any kid to compare him to, especially not during quarantine 0:11:19.679 --> 0:11:22.720 when he hasn't been around any other kids. So basically 0:11:23.080 --> 0:11:25.000 I told myself I'd wait till eighteen months and then 0:11:25.000 --> 0:11:28.000 I'd ask a pediatrician. And she never really seems to 0:11:28.080 --> 0:11:30.920 care that much about any of my concerns. She's always like, yeah, 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:33.920 it's normal, it's which is which is great most of 0:11:33.960 --> 0:11:36.079 the time. But when it came to the eighteen month 0:11:36.200 --> 0:11:39.320 checkup and she said, you know it's it's probably fine, 0:11:39.440 --> 0:11:42.120 just wait and see something told me like, I just 0:11:42.200 --> 0:11:44.360 want to I want to advocate for him. I want 0:11:44.400 --> 0:11:47.199 to take him to a specialist. What I found out though, 0:11:47.240 --> 0:11:50.080 and maybe other places have this too, but in our county, 0:11:50.600 --> 0:11:53.480 in Westchester County and New York, they actually offer a free, 0:11:53.880 --> 0:11:58.640 taxpayer funded early intervention program and you get access to 0:11:58.840 --> 0:12:04.680 speech therapists, like ongoing therapy, evaluations, all that kind of stuff, 0:12:05.120 --> 0:12:07.800 with excellent, you know resources right here in our county 0:12:07.880 --> 0:12:11.200 that are completely free. So I did drop a couple 0:12:11.320 --> 0:12:13.719 hundred bucks for a private session with a specialist just 0:12:13.800 --> 0:12:15.480 to get a you know, just to get a second 0:12:15.520 --> 0:12:19.080 opinion because the county program. It took a little bit 0:12:19.120 --> 0:12:21.280 for them to get back to me. But we're, I mean, 0:12:21.320 --> 0:12:23.920 we're at the very beginning. They all agree that he's 0:12:24.360 --> 0:12:27.280 not speaking as they would expect for his age. He 0:12:27.320 --> 0:12:30.679 doesn't have very many words at all. But part of 0:12:30.760 --> 0:12:34.120 you know, what was like hard about reaching out for 0:12:34.200 --> 0:12:36.760 help in that case. And this is maybe just sounds dumb, 0:12:36.840 --> 0:12:39.199 but part of me like didn't want him to think 0:12:39.240 --> 0:12:42.120 I doubted him, So that makes sense, like, yeah, I 0:12:42.200 --> 0:12:44.679 didn't want him to think, oh mommy, not that he 0:12:44.679 --> 0:12:46.559 would even he doesn't even know what's going on, but 0:12:47.040 --> 0:12:49.400 I don't know. Part of me just felt like reaching 0:12:49.440 --> 0:12:51.800 out for help and getting him like tutoring or speech 0:12:51.880 --> 0:12:55.160 therapy was like me doubting his own because I get it. 0:12:55.200 --> 0:12:57.520 And what's helped me so much with my journey through 0:12:57.600 --> 0:13:01.280 postpartum anxiety and depression has been really just giving in 0:13:01.360 --> 0:13:04.400 to him and giving into his own schedule, his own 0:13:04.440 --> 0:13:06.520 way of doing things, his own way of and it's 0:13:06.640 --> 0:13:11.480 just worked so beautifully. But I quickly have I not quickly, 0:13:11.559 --> 0:13:14.280 but I've gotten over that. I'm like, it can't hurt 0:13:14.679 --> 0:13:17.839 to get him into some kind of therapy. I just 0:13:17.960 --> 0:13:19.240 can't wait to talk to him. 0:13:19.760 --> 0:13:22.760 Mm hmm. I've seen literally hundreds and hundreds and hundreds, 0:13:22.960 --> 0:13:26.600 if not thousands, of kids come through, and we've had kids. 0:13:26.679 --> 0:13:29.480 I've seen two year old girls and boys who are 0:13:29.640 --> 0:13:32.319 just like Lisa. For example, my baby sister, she was 0:13:32.400 --> 0:13:36.320 so verbal. The doctor was like wait what, but remember 0:13:36.440 --> 0:13:40.760 she had four older chatty sisters who were like, what's 0:13:40.760 --> 0:13:42.600 the baby talk? Because I was ten, and I'm like, girl, 0:13:42.720 --> 0:13:43.679 first of all, what did I say? 0:13:44.520 --> 0:13:47.640 So Lisa she got basically and says some people are 0:13:47.679 --> 0:13:48.960 raised up. She was dragged up. 0:13:49.320 --> 0:13:52.000 And so that played a huge role in her ability 0:13:52.400 --> 0:13:55.079 to quickly get with the program because my mom, I 0:13:55.120 --> 0:13:56.440 always said, like we raised Lisa. 0:13:56.520 --> 0:13:58.920 She's like, I'm tired. This is number five. She belongs 0:13:58.960 --> 0:13:59.120 to you. 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:03.200 Sure make sure she doesn't, you know, put her finger 0:14:03.200 --> 0:14:05.559 in the socket or like you know, eat, you know, 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:06.120 eat dirt. 0:14:06.280 --> 0:14:08.439 That's those are those those are your parameters. 0:14:08.960 --> 0:14:12.000 So but then you have, like I said, my cousin, 0:14:12.120 --> 0:14:14.240 you know, he they were really worried because he was 0:14:14.280 --> 0:14:16.640 like five, and they were like, oh, okay, he doesn't 0:14:16.760 --> 0:14:19.320 he doesn't only say many words, and the words he's saying, 0:14:19.320 --> 0:14:20.200 he's having a hard time. 0:14:20.280 --> 0:14:22.600 And now literally I think he has two master's degrees. 0:14:23.400 --> 0:14:26.600 And yeah, I need to tell these stories. Y'all send 0:14:26.680 --> 0:14:30.240 us dms on Instagram, Prime Invention Podcast. I love, send 0:14:30.280 --> 0:14:33.160 me all your stories because I cannot hear enough of them. Yeah, 0:14:33.200 --> 0:14:33.760 can't hear enough. 0:14:33.960 --> 0:14:35.600 So it's just like, you know, and so I guess 0:14:35.800 --> 0:14:38.920 some people literally there's just delay for whatever reason. It's 0:14:38.960 --> 0:14:42.280 almost like have you ever seen kids who are really short. 0:14:42.600 --> 0:14:44.240 Even through high school, you kind of figure, well, you 0:14:44.320 --> 0:14:45.720 kind of this is your height, and then all of 0:14:45.760 --> 0:14:48.600 a sudden they actually grow the inches in college because 0:14:48.640 --> 0:14:51.080 some people have like a growth delay, especially boys, and 0:14:51.240 --> 0:14:54.560 then their height doesn't come in until after eighteen, which 0:14:54.600 --> 0:14:56.720 is not unheard of, but it seems so weird because 0:14:56.720 --> 0:14:59.600 you're like, oh, people really developed, you know, at their 0:14:59.640 --> 0:14:59.960 own pace. 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:01.560 It doesn't mean that you don't keep an eye. 0:15:01.480 --> 0:15:02.280 On it, like you. 0:15:02.480 --> 0:15:04.480 I mean you've met Roman, you see, like he's like 0:15:04.600 --> 0:15:07.360 the freaking boy genius. Carol was telling me she was 0:15:07.440 --> 0:15:09.560 like girl at school, they were like, does Roman speak? 0:15:09.600 --> 0:15:11.240 And she's like, I wouldn't know because he doesn't talk 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:16.160 to me. I mean I was like really, She's like yeah, girl, 0:15:16.280 --> 0:15:18.240 She's like I was like wait, cause she's like he 0:15:18.400 --> 0:15:19.440 was my first so I didn't know when he was 0:15:19.480 --> 0:15:21.440 supposed to start talking. She just thought I was normal 0:15:21.920 --> 0:15:24.480 that he's like too and saying nothing. And it wasn't 0:15:24.560 --> 0:15:27.000 until Amelia came his sister. Then all of a sudden 0:15:27.040 --> 0:15:28.640 he had a lot to say because he was telling 0:15:28.680 --> 0:15:30.200 her where to go, what not to do. 0:15:31.440 --> 0:15:32.200 Yes, she was. 0:15:32.240 --> 0:15:35.280 She was really shocked, like wow, because you would think like, oh, well, 0:15:35.320 --> 0:15:36.680 he's going to talk to mommy at home, and she 0:15:36.720 --> 0:15:39.880 said literally like Roman said nothing. They were worried about him, 0:15:39.880 --> 0:15:41.440 they wanted to get him evaluated, and he just was 0:15:41.560 --> 0:15:43.480 mute with them. And she's like, he barely said anything 0:15:43.520 --> 0:15:46.200 at home. And then Amelia came and all of a sudden, 0:15:46.240 --> 0:15:47.640 it was like stop, baby. 0:15:47.920 --> 0:15:48.800 Amelia, come here. 0:15:49.000 --> 0:15:53.920 She's like why you are exactly like wait, and so 0:15:54.760 --> 0:15:56.800 I just all got to say that, like there are 0:15:56.840 --> 0:15:59.600 so many reasons it could be and and it almost 0:15:59.600 --> 0:16:00.560 always fine. 0:16:01.280 --> 0:16:03.360 I know it'll end up fine. He's just so damn 0:16:03.440 --> 0:16:07.360 smart and so observant like this this child. He was 0:16:07.440 --> 0:16:09.160 begging to get for me to pick him up while 0:16:09.160 --> 0:16:11.200 I was making dinner the other day and I gave him. 0:16:11.320 --> 0:16:13.800 I dragged his little stool around and I was like, here, 0:16:13.960 --> 0:16:15.360 watch mama make this squacamole. 0:16:15.480 --> 0:16:15.600 You know. 0:16:15.760 --> 0:16:18.360 He took. I was like, can you shake? Shake the 0:16:18.440 --> 0:16:21.440 salt shaker over the over the bowl. He reached for 0:16:21.560 --> 0:16:24.080 a lemon witch and said, Mama, we need a little acidity. 0:16:24.440 --> 0:16:28.720 And he squeezed that lemon like he's been watching Ina 0:16:28.800 --> 0:16:31.680 Garten on his tablet and not Pepa the pig, Like 0:16:32.000 --> 0:16:34.600 he just he's so smart and observant. And oh the 0:16:34.640 --> 0:16:37.400 other big thing is that he started daycare. Okay, it's 0:16:37.440 --> 0:16:39.920 been a week of daycare, so I'm really hopeful that 0:16:40.000 --> 0:16:43.040 between daycare being around other kids, and then it's free. 0:16:43.120 --> 0:16:45.320 I mean it's a free early intervention program, so I 0:16:45.360 --> 0:16:47.680 think it's a wonderful resource. I pay taxes, let me 0:16:47.720 --> 0:16:49.760 get some of this, you know, stuff that we pay for. 0:16:50.360 --> 0:16:55.000 So that's that's where I'm at. Anyway, you're back, what 0:16:55.160 --> 0:16:58.960 else has been going on? I'm a I'm a business owner. 0:17:00.040 --> 0:17:01.400 I'm gonna say, so, how does that be? 0:17:01.600 --> 0:17:03.120 I mean, yeah, I know we had our our you know, 0:17:03.320 --> 0:17:06.240 our our daytime two hour chat, and I was so 0:17:06.400 --> 0:17:09.080 excited for you. And I told you and anybody who's 0:17:09.080 --> 0:17:12.719 a business owner or thinking about being one, but if 0:17:12.720 --> 0:17:15.120 you've been in the game for at least two plus 0:17:15.280 --> 0:17:18.320 years or so, they everyone will all agree. Nothing grows 0:17:18.359 --> 0:17:20.920 you up, Manny, I'm telling you will be a brand 0:17:20.960 --> 0:17:24.080 new woman. I'm not even I'm like the timpany from 0:17:24.119 --> 0:17:24.680 ten years ago. 0:17:24.720 --> 0:17:26.280 I'm like, who is she? She's like my daughter? 0:17:27.119 --> 0:17:30.000 Like, nothing grows you up? I think like motherhood, I'm 0:17:30.040 --> 0:17:34.600 assuming and starting a business. It's what it pulls out 0:17:34.640 --> 0:17:37.119 of you. There's this uh what is his name is? 0:17:37.200 --> 0:17:39.080 Jim Ron? Remember I was telling me about Jim Roon. 0:17:39.119 --> 0:17:41.080 He's a he's passed away, but he was like a 0:17:41.160 --> 0:17:42.800 really famous, like motivational speaker. 0:17:43.320 --> 0:17:43.920 Yes. Yes. 0:17:44.119 --> 0:17:45.919 One of the things he said to one of his. 0:17:46.000 --> 0:17:48.600 Mentees is he said, I think you ought to, you know, 0:17:48.680 --> 0:17:50.720 start a business and become a millionaire. 0:17:50.960 --> 0:17:53.320 And he was like why. He said, not for the money, 0:17:53.560 --> 0:17:55.680 but for what it will make of you. And that's 0:17:55.760 --> 0:17:58.439 exactly what it is for entrepreneurship. What it will make 0:17:58.520 --> 0:17:58.680 of you. 0:17:58.840 --> 0:18:03.080 You is just going to pull out the very best 0:18:03.160 --> 0:18:04.720