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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous.

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Speaker 2: I am fresh off season ten.

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Speaker 1: A Vanda pump fools. Whoa yayay they're done.

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Speaker 2: It's so exciting. I mean, ten years of a show

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Speaker 2: to be on. And obviously I have not been a

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Speaker 2: part of all ten seasons. I came in season four

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Speaker 2: and I have to count on my finger. So I

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Speaker 2: completed season four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten seven.

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Speaker 1: That's hilarious. Has it been ten years? Is it a

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Speaker 1: season a year? Is that how it works? Yes?

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Speaker 2: And we didn't have a season come out in twenty twenty.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, And you know we were talking about

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Speaker 2: it as a Costin's like this would have been eleven.

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Speaker 2: But then again you think about it and you're like,

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Speaker 2: would it have been eleven? Like what if the season

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Speaker 2: that season that we missed out on didn't go great?

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Speaker 3: And it was like, we actually don't need this anymore.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, however it.

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Speaker 2: Worked out is how it was supposed to work out,

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Speaker 2: how it's supposed to be.

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Speaker 1: That's my energy. How do you feel or what you

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Speaker 1: can say? I know you're kind of limited. How do

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Speaker 1: you feel about how this season is going to be?

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Speaker 1: Because you know, I've heard some things and I've been

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Speaker 1: like oh my god, this season's going to be incredible.

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Speaker 1: But how do you feel.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I have conquered the art of and

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Speaker 2: We've spoken about this so many times on the podcast,

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Speaker 2: so I'm sorry if you guys get sick of me

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Speaker 2: on repeater mode. I've conquered the art of compartmentalizing. And

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Speaker 2: there have been I can count two times this season

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Speaker 2: where I've said I've brought this home. It's affecting me

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Speaker 2: because you know, it is our real it's our real life,

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Speaker 2: it's our lives for real. Yeah, so it's very hard

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Speaker 2: to be like, I'm just gonna go home now and

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Speaker 2: not let it affect me. Sometimes I do incredible with

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Speaker 2: doing things like that. Other times I literally have to

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Speaker 2: tell my mom, like I need you to give a

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Speaker 2: five yeah, because my mom doesn't watch the show. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: she's never watched it. She doesn't know one thing about it,

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Speaker 2: and so, and she's not really into drama, you know.

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Speaker 2: She wants to talk to me about other things, which

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Speaker 2: is great because it keeps my mind off of it.

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Speaker 2: But there are times where I'm like, please pause Game

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Speaker 2: of Thrones. I need to obsess, right, and then I

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Speaker 2: need to sage myself and listen to Break My Soul

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Speaker 2: by Beyonce.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just have to.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I think it's gonna be a really great season,

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Speaker 2: really really amazing.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be really good. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I say that every year because you know,

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Speaker 2: we're there, we're living it. But at the end of

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Speaker 2: the day, it's like there are people on the other

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Speaker 2: end who are like, well, we can't really show every

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Speaker 2: single waking moment, you know, because it's still a production,

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Speaker 2: And I feel like, I'm just excited to see it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And you know, you say it's real life, and

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Speaker 1: it is real life. But in real life you have

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Speaker 1: to or at least some people, I have to compartmentalize things.

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Speaker 1: And I'm not even on a show, you know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like a lot of people will compartmentalize work.

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Speaker 1: I'm dealing with work right now, but when I'm home,

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Speaker 1: I need a compartmentalize. Okay, now I'm home, now I'm

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Speaker 1: a mom. Whatever you are. I'm so happy you said that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because when you go to work and you may

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Speaker 2: be like beefing with a coworker like you, that's real life.

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Speaker 1: And when you go home, it's like you don't want

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Speaker 2: You want to enjoy your kids, or your alone time,

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Speaker 2: or your husband or boyfriend or girlfriend, whatever.

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Speaker 3: You know it may be.

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Speaker 2: So you're right, it absolutely is. It's just like everybody

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Speaker 2: is day to day, right right. I'm glad you said that,

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Speaker 2: because you know we're all in work spaces that sometimes

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Speaker 1: Do you think I don't know if you can say this,

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Speaker 1: and if not, that's fine. Friendships, because I know you

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Speaker 1: know watching you last season, there were friendships I saw.

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Speaker 1: And then would you say that there are different and

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Speaker 1: see it's not.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's there are certain this group is very resilient,

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Speaker 2: but there are things that I don't know that people

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Speaker 1: Speaking of my mother, Yeah, Lisa, Lise, who.

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Speaker 3: I sit there and I'm like, you need to listen

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Speaker 3: God upset at me for Lily not being on a leash.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's the type of shit she wants to talk about.

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Speaker 2: So We're in Beverly Hills the other day and I'm

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Speaker 2: at a light and I see this guy in this

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Speaker 2: So then my mom chimes in, because you know she

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Speaker 3: He goes up to the.

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Speaker 2: Guy the guy pulls out a gun shoots him. Okay,

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Speaker 2: trigger warning. I should have said that before, but that happened.

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Speaker 2: So I get concerned, you know, just for the safety

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Speaker 2: chiming in. I don't know really what she says, but

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Speaker 2: he says, it's none of your business, bitch.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: By the way, we're going to talk about that word

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Speaker 2: whole spill on the bitch word.

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Speaker 3: Okay, but my mom goes, it is my business.

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Speaker 1: You fuck head. I love.

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Speaker 2: And all I think about was I hope that this

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Speaker 2: And I just couldn't believe when my mom when the

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Speaker 2: this is a moment where I go, oh, that's where

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Speaker 1: Who knows. I think it's that at least can be spicy,

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Speaker 1: especially when she's sticking up from and I know we

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Speaker 1: she believes in don't get in her way, and that's

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Speaker 1: how you are by the way, Yes, I agree with you. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: She is the sweetest human beingsweet my grandmother, by the way,

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Speaker 2: her mom, same exact way, sweet Southern Bell, the classiest

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Speaker 2: woman you will ever you will have ever met in

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Speaker 2: your life. I know she's in heaven sitting there looking

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Speaker 2: at me, going she would never.

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Speaker 1: Say the F word, She never cursed ever. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: I'm sure she's like.

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Speaker 2: Oh, what is this job that you have taken on,

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Speaker 2: my sweet little Laurie.

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Speaker 1: I think that's how I will be lost.

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Speaker 3: No, it's like Southern Bell Georgia accent.

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Speaker 1: That was okay good, that's like that's like old South accent.

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Speaker 2: Bright red lipstick at all times, perfectly painted, bright red

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Speaker 2: meles always, all of the things, perfect blonde Marilyn hare, Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Just fabulous. Did she have the like, I'll stick up

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Speaker 1: for what I believe it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I mean.

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Speaker 2: That's why I say you better come correct because we

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Speaker 3: I will build you up.

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Speaker 2: No one will ever break you, but you come for me, bitch,

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Speaker 1: Yeah. That's how my mom is that. Yeah, yeah, fuck it,

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Speaker 1: Lisa is because she told me a story a few

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Speaker 1: it's like that's how both it because you both are

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Speaker 1: you trust the place we take Bella and Lily too,

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Speaker 1: I do no, but we stopped. We only took Bella

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Speaker 1: Those groomers were great, but unfortunately that's not how it is,

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Speaker 3: I just for me again. People look at you as scorned.

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Speaker 3: I like it way better.

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Speaker 2: So I had you guys do and ask me anything

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Speaker 1: We have some stuff, Jess.

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Speaker 1: to the ask me anything. But this says I saw

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Speaker 1: My question is, how do you guys stay so healthy

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Speaker 3: Maria, Oh Maria.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I have to attribute a lot of my bounce

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Speaker 2: You know you're healthy though, Jess Well, so do you

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Speaker 1: And so it's funny because I when I first when

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Speaker 1: I was in college, I was and I'm not kidding,

437
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Speaker 1: I would run five days a week and I would

438
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Speaker 1: run about three to four miles every run. Now that's

439
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Speaker 1: and I was always exhausted, and I was eating fine.

440
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Speaker 1: I just probably wasn't eating enough. I was always exhausted.

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Speaker 1: I was always like or I'd go to the gym

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Speaker 1: at like ten at night. I'd get done with a

443
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Speaker 1: whole day of college and go to the gym, and

444
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Speaker 1: I was always tired. I'd have to take naps. I

445
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Speaker 1: was like not bubbly, and long story short, I finally

446
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Speaker 1: found in Granted, I've been with Kyle for six years,

447
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Speaker 1: and Kyle is he's a personal trainer, so he also

448
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Speaker 1: helped me and he would never like try and force

449
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Speaker 1: it on me. But if I was like, oh I'm

450
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Speaker 1: so tired, he'd be like, how much you eating? What

451
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Speaker 1: are you eating?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: So anyway, long story short, for me and my body,

454
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Speaker 1: it helps me feel best when I only work out

455
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Speaker 1: about maybe three to four days a week max. My

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Speaker 1: workouts are maybe I mean, I'm not kidding. I haven't

457
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Speaker 1: worked out for longer than thirty minutes in a while. Okay,

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Speaker 1: if I'm in the gym, it's like a good twenty

459
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Speaker 1: five minutes. I go off of a program that well,

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Speaker 1: Kyle's a trainer, so I go off a program he

461
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Speaker 1: makes me. But like, I just I can't be in

462
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Speaker 1: the gym for an hour.

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Speaker 2: I just can't, Yeah, with when I train with Jenna Jenna,

464
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Speaker 2: it's an hour, and it's like intense. Yeah, but I

465
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Speaker 2: just like my bands right now because I can't commit

466
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Speaker 2: to like and I would go four days a week,

467
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Speaker 2: but I just for some reason mentally, I'm drained right now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. And that's like and and you know I've always

469
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Speaker 1: I've been told and for me it's number one is sleep.

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Speaker 1: Number two is diet. Number three is jim. So if

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Speaker 1: my sleep's not right and my diet's not right, I

472
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Speaker 1: don't usually go to that.

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Speaker 2: I think that's why I wake up feeling so tired,

474
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Speaker 2: because my appetite comes in at night and all I

475
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Speaker 2: want is bread, cheese and crackers. And I will be honest, like,

476
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Speaker 2: my diet is not on point yesterday, super healthy, and

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Speaker 2: I feel like I get what I need most of

478
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Speaker 2: the time, and then I binge at night yeah, with

479
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Speaker 2: just all the breaches.

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Speaker 1: Well, world, that's my mom was like, my mom loves

481
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Speaker 1: night eating. And for me, when I say diet, it's

482
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Speaker 1: the opposite of what I used to do in college.

483
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Speaker 1: It's not cutting really anything out. I just eat whatever

484
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Speaker 1: I want, but in moderation. And I also make sure

485
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Speaker 1: like I'm getting enough like vegetables and protein throughout the

486
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Speaker 1: day because for me, that's what works best for my body.

487
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Speaker 1: If I'm not eating enough, I feel it, I'm tired,

488
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Speaker 1: I'm so I never limit myself. Me Limiting myself with

489
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Speaker 1: food is a recipe for a disaster.

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Speaker 2: I can't stop eating Domino's pizza. Yeah, there's no I'm disgusting, okay,

491
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Speaker 2: but like Domino's pizza with bread twists and fond of cheese.

492
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Speaker 1: Step all right, that actually sounds really like it.

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Speaker 2: It's you know, and like sometimes it's a splurt for

494
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Speaker 2: most people, right for me, it's like, let's have it.

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Speaker 1: Three days in a row. See. But for me, and

496
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Speaker 1: I've told you this before, if I if I eat

497
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Speaker 1: like shit, I do it. I mean whenever. But if

498
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:55,880
Speaker 1: I do too much, my brain starts just short circuiting.

499
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Speaker 1: I can't think that's happening. To me and I'm cranky.

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Speaker 1: I'm cranky. I mean, I'll be a raging bitch if

501
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Speaker 1: i'm if I don't get some And I love a

502
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Speaker 1: good walk with my dog. But if yes, fresh air

503
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Speaker 1: and trees, guys like number one get that freaking fresh air. Hikes. Yes,

504
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Speaker 1: I love the smell of cars whizzing past me. Wait

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Speaker 1: are you the one that said if someone tells me

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Speaker 1: to take a fucking hike one more time? What? Oh No,

507
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Speaker 1: that wasn't you, was it?

508
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Speaker 2: Someone says people love to tell me to Hip Logan

509
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Speaker 2: is a hiker and he's.

510
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Speaker 1: Like, you should hike. I'm like you, like, stop with

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Speaker 1: the hike.

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Speaker 2: I'm from Utah, right, you don't even hike, to be

513
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Speaker 2: quite honest, And we're gonna talk about hiking like I

514
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Speaker 2: calm from the mountains.

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Speaker 1: Bro. Yeah, So it's different for everyone. I you too.

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Speaker 2: I think you got to find what works, what makes

517
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Speaker 2: you happy, and because there's so much out there that

518
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Speaker 2: people are shoving down your throats and like this is

519
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Speaker 2: the way, this is the way. No, no, yeah, that's

520
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Speaker 2: what's working for you. And I'm gonna figure out what

521
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Speaker 2: works for me. And you know what, it may not

522
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Speaker 2: be working right, now. But I'm gonna figure it out.

523
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Speaker 2: Like there's gonna be a day where I'm not going

524
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Speaker 2: to be consuming Domino's pizza three days a week.

525
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Speaker 1: But right now, but mentally, that's that's the point. Right now,

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Speaker 1: Domino's and Perier, all right, put me on a couch.

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Speaker 1: Oh I want if mentally you're Oh my god. I

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Speaker 1: read something the other day that said that said it

529
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Speaker 1: was something about mental health, but it said, if today

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Speaker 1: you're only mental you can't judge your mental health compared

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Speaker 1: to others. If today you you're only mentally able to

532
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Speaker 1: keep yourself alive, then bravo you fucking did it every

533
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Speaker 1: day for me. Yeah, but like that's what some people are,

534
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Speaker 1: Like I'm a piece of trash. I laid in bed

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Speaker 1: all day and like, yeah, if that's what you had

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Speaker 1: to do, though, bravo you did it another day on earth.

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Speaker 3: Oh I love that.

538
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Speaker 1: Take the pressure off.

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Speaker 2: Well, this goes back to when we were talking about

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Speaker 2: just America being.

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Speaker 1: Just grind grind. When you're it's like, oh my god,

542
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Speaker 1: I'm so tired. Yeah, and I just woke up like

543
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Speaker 1: let me sleep. Oh my god. Okay, what's another question?

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Speaker 1: What is the most Okay, so this is wedding ideas global.

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Speaker 1: What is the most shocking that's her handle. What's the

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Speaker 1: most shocking thing about being a mommy that you weren't

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Speaker 1: ready for?

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Speaker 2: Oh, the most shocking thing about being a mom that

549
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Speaker 2: I was not ready for. I'm gonna be so freaking

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Speaker 2: honest right now. Yeah, having to not I don't want

551
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Speaker 2: to say having I get to because I'm there's so

552
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Speaker 2: many people out there that want to become moms and

553
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Speaker 2: it doesn't happen for them. So I'm very grateful. But

554
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 2: let's like really break it down. We can be honest.

555
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Speaker 2: Not being able to really just go and do whatever

556
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Speaker 2: the hell I want. Yeah, I no longer have that luxury.

557
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Speaker 2: If I want to go out and and eat somebody,

558
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Speaker 2: I got to think, who is this person?

559
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Speaker 1: Deep dive? I got a child to think about.

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Speaker 2: If I get a text from a boy and he's like,

561
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Speaker 2: oh my gosh, you should come over, and it's like can't.

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Speaker 2: I got my baby, which, again, all things that I

563
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Speaker 2: want to do. She's the love of my life. But

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Speaker 2: when people say to me, I don't really know if

565
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Speaker 2: I want kids, I'm like, if you don't know, don't

566
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Speaker 2: do it, because your life changes and I love.

567
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Speaker 1: Being a mom. She's the biggest blessing.

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Speaker 2: But I mean, I feel like sometimes as moms we

569
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Speaker 2: feel guilty for some thoughts that we have.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, it's hard, hard in your life. Like

571
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Speaker 1: you said, your life changes, correct, it's never the same again.

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Speaker 1: You know.

573
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Speaker 2: When I have ocean, I know that I'm going to

574
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Speaker 2: have another person in the bath with me, right. I

575
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 2: don't get to just like put whatever soap that I

576
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Speaker 2: want in or a back bomb. It's like we're getting

577
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Speaker 2: in to just lukewarm water and I have to just

578
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Speaker 2: basically sit here. Which great because at the end of

579
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Speaker 2: the day, I want my kid all day every day.

580
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Speaker 2: I never want her to leave my side, you know,

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Speaker 2: Like I am going through a lot right now, and

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Speaker 2: that's what I want. Yeah, I would literally give anything

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Speaker 2: to have someone say here's your kid. She's with you

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Speaker 2: all day every day, and that's it. Like I would

585
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Speaker 2: give anything in the world.

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Speaker 1: To feel that.

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Speaker 2: But it's it's different, Like That's I think the most

588
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Speaker 2: shocking is you think when someone tells you, like your

589
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Speaker 2: life's gonna change, You're gonna have to think about another

590
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Speaker 2: person now, you know, and you're like, that's fine, I'm

591
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Speaker 2: ready it's like then they come and you're like, oh,

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Speaker 2: literally every move I make, you know, every time I

593
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Speaker 2: wake up, and it's like I don't want to work today,

594
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Speaker 2: It's like, well, bitch, you have better work today because

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Speaker 2: there's gonna be a day that Ocean needs to go

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Speaker 2: to school. And we live in Los Angeles, and I

597
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Speaker 2: need to know, like I can afford to put her

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Speaker 2: in private school if necessary, if she has needs that

599
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Speaker 2: you know are going to help her in school that

600
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Speaker 2: maybe I wasn't planning on, and just all these things

601
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 2: that you maybe don't expect, Yeah, your life revolves around them.

602
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Speaker 2: So there's the long answer to what I didn't expect.

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Speaker 1: That's what I want to hear, though. That's what I

604
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Speaker 1: want to hear, just because I have heard over and

605
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Speaker 1: over again from my own mother how having a baby

606
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Speaker 1: it's going to change your life. You're gonna be a

607
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Speaker 1: brand new pert. You're gonna be it's the best decision

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Speaker 1: you can ever make. And I totally is yes, And

609
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Speaker 1: I hear that, and I hear it, and I hear

610
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Speaker 1: it's a miracle. I love it and I appreciate it.

611
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Speaker 1: But I also want to hear the other stuff too,

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Speaker 1: So like, tell me everything and like that, yes, if

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Speaker 1: you think, like your life will never be the same,

614
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Speaker 1: and people really need to hear that well.

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Speaker 2: Ariana being so open about like not wanting kids, and

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Speaker 2: we've had these conversations where I tell her, like, your life,

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Speaker 2: it's the biggest blessing in the world to have a baby.

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Speaker 1: But if you don't know that you want them, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna be real with you don't have them, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Because because your life is different, you don't get to

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Speaker 2: just say I'm gonna head to Vegas. I'm gonna I

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Speaker 2: want to take a weekend and go see my girlfriends

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Speaker 2: in New York, like whatever it may be, I want

624
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Speaker 2: to go camping. It's like, no, even the tiniest little

625
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Speaker 2: trip us packing for a fifty five minute drive to

626
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Speaker 2: Newport Beach is like packing to go to Europe.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't just like get in the No. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I feel that way with a dog. When I met

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Speaker 1: Kyle and he was like, yeah, I have a dog,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, nowadays we can't just like we can't.

631
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Speaker 1: We don't pack and go let's go to Santa Barbara

632
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Speaker 1: for the weekend. We have to get a dog setter.

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Speaker 1: So I don't even I can't imagine how I would

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Speaker 1: be with a child. Yeah, so that's the most shocking thing.

635
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Speaker 1: I like, yeah, where are you in the saucy slash

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Speaker 1: Brittany situation? Switzerland? Question Mark? Oh where am I in

637
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Speaker 1: the Britney slash Stassy situation? No, I like this question.

638
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Speaker 2: I adore both of them. They're both my friends, I think,

639
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Speaker 2: and I preach this to everybody. If you don't feel

640
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Speaker 2: like someone has a place in your life anymore, for

641
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Speaker 2: whatever reason, then you have to you have to burn

642
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Speaker 2: the bridge. I mean Chris Medina, who's the psychic medium

643
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Speaker 2: who I love and a door always says well, has

644
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Speaker 2: said to me burn bridges and don't be afraid. And

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Speaker 2: I just think life is People say it all the time,

646
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Speaker 2: life is too short, but like, if you really think

647
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Speaker 2: about it, I mean, it flies by the other day.

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Speaker 2: I was just excited that we got picked up for

649
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Speaker 2: season ten and now it's wrapped.

650
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Speaker 1: We're done.

651
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 2: I know, we finished filming and that I feel like

652
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 2: I just blinked my eyes and I became funny with

653
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:44,160
Speaker 2: time when my dad passed away and I realized how

654
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:46,920
Speaker 2: in the world I had twenty seven years with this man,

655
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,480
Speaker 2: and it felt like nothing, even though you have all

656
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 2: these memories. You're like, how is it gone?

657
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 1: Yeah?

658
00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:58,640
Speaker 2: So I just I support them both, and however they're feeling, everybody,

659
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 2: I reserve the right to feel however the fuck.

660
00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 1: I want to feel.

661
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 2: Right, you don't have to understand it. I don't have

662
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 2: to explain it to you. This is how I feel.

663
00:34:07,840 --> 00:34:10,920
Speaker 2: I feel like it's time to move on from the friendship,

664
00:34:11,120 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 2: and it seems like that's where what they decided to do.

665
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:18,480
Speaker 2: I don't know much about the situation right because I'm

666
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:22,400
Speaker 2: friends with both of them, and they're both very sweet,

667
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:25,359
Speaker 2: and so you know, I just I go hang out

668
00:34:25,360 --> 00:34:28,279
Speaker 2: with Britt. I think I'm gonna see her today, and

669
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:29,360
Speaker 2: then I'll hang out with Stas.

670
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:29,760
Speaker 1: Yeah.

671
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:30,960
Speaker 3: And I support both of them.

672
00:34:31,160 --> 00:34:34,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I love them both. I think they're so sweet.

673
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 3: My another long winded answer for.

674
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 1: Me my opinion on just relationships in general. Life's too

675
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:44,160
Speaker 1: short for relationships that don't serve you. It's just that

676
00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:46,399
Speaker 1: that's what you were saying. But just at this point

677
00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 1: in my life, yes, and you don't have to have

678
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:51,880
Speaker 1: a reason. Oh this friend and I don't click anymore. Sorry,

679
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 1: let's go our merry way.

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00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, And and I don't care if I end up

681
00:34:56,960 --> 00:35:00,759
Speaker 2: with ocean, you, my mom, and my brothers right right,

682
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:04,960
Speaker 2: like bye, Yeah, I just want to be like, I

683
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 2: just want to be happy and feel free. So if

684
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:08,160
Speaker 2: you're not adding to my.

685
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 1: World like be gone, Yeah, not saying I'm not saying that.

686
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:15,040
Speaker 2: Like that's how they felt about each other, right, Obviously

687
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 2: they felt how they felt, yeah, and that's where they

688
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 2: are now.

689
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:20,920
Speaker 1: But I support both of them in their journeys. I

690
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:23,839
Speaker 1: love this one, La La, What advice would you give

691
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 1: your younger self? And that's from PACIFICA Harry, Sorry if

692
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:28,920
Speaker 1: I didn't read the last handle.

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00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:33,440
Speaker 2: Oh that's such a that's such a hard question because

694
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 2: I look back on every moment that I may have

695
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:43,239
Speaker 2: regret or remorse and I'm like, okay, but where am

696
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:47,080
Speaker 2: I right now? And without those moments would I be here?

697
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 2: Like I can look back at my life and say,

698
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 2: you know, I'm now going to AA meetings. I should

699
00:35:53,640 --> 00:36:00,440
Speaker 2: have never picked up that first drink, but I I'm

700
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:02,280
Speaker 2: trying to make this make sense.

701
00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 1: No, it makes sense.

702
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 2: But then we cut to where I am now and

703
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:07,920
Speaker 2: I can look back and be like, there were a

704
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:11,879
Speaker 2: lot of fun nights out before my alcoholism. Really kicked

705
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 2: int high gear because I'm the person who does believe

706
00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:18,120
Speaker 2: that it's a progressive disease. You may not have a

707
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:20,439
Speaker 2: drinking problem in the moment, but it can certainly lead

708
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:24,359
Speaker 2: to that. Again, that's my own thought, and I'm like, damn,

709
00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:28,480
Speaker 2: I had some really really fun nights out, you know,

710
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:31,360
Speaker 2: you know, I can look back and not go like, oh,

711
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:34,759
Speaker 2: I've never been drunk before. Then again here I am

712
00:36:34,800 --> 00:36:37,680
Speaker 2: going to AA meetings and then it's like okay. But

713
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 2: without that, I wouldn't be able to talk about addiction

714
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:46,400
Speaker 2: and like help people who have reached out to me

715
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 2: and give them advice on that.

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Speaker 1: Vpr T. This is from TSA l R E. N Oh, sorry,

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Speaker 1: I don't know how to say it. Vpr T Raquel

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Speaker 1: and Sandy question mark, are you beefing with Raquel? Question mark? Oh,

719
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Speaker 1: I cannot say that.

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00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:07,640
Speaker 2: You guys will have to watch season ten because I'm

721
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 2: not trying to get another email or call from my

722
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:15,760
Speaker 2: production company that says, please shut your freaking out. Yeah. Yeah,

723
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:18,160
Speaker 2: so I can't answer that, but you guys will see

724
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:20,359
Speaker 2: it all play out. I'm I'm interested to see what

725
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 2: people people have to say, like their perspective.

726
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:27,319
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm just excited for this season. I think it's

727
00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:29,280
Speaker 1: gonna be I think it's gonna be iconic.

728
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 3: I think it's gonna be pretty damn good.

729
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:35,320
Speaker 1: I think it is too Okay, should we do one more? Yeah?

730
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:40,799
Speaker 1: So this is from eest u ebs eest tubes. I

731
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 1: think that's how you say it. How are you really

732
00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 1: doing mentally and emotionally throughout slash since filming season ten?

733
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:50,360
Speaker 3: Ooh, I love this question.

734
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:55,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, Filming season ten came at the perfect time because

735
00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:58,400
Speaker 2: just my life is weird.

736
00:37:58,800 --> 00:37:59,640
Speaker 1: My life is weird.

737
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 2: One day, I wake up and I'm like, you know what,

738
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:05,520
Speaker 2: I'm strong, I'm gonna get the job done. Other days

739
00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:08,920
Speaker 2: I work wake up and I'm like, today's just gonna

740
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:10,799
Speaker 2: be a little bit of a struggle. Yeah, we're feeling

741
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:13,360
Speaker 2: a little defeated. Like I'll be honest, I have those moments.

742
00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:14,879
Speaker 1: We all do.

743
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 2: But filming vander Pump came at the perfect time because

744
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:22,040
Speaker 2: even though there's a lot of drama, it can become

745
00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:26,480
Speaker 2: like a very strange and at times toxic environment. Just

746
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 2: like we were talking about earlier, there are times you

747
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:30,840
Speaker 2: go into the workplace and you're like, I really fucking

748
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 2: hate Sally today.

749
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:33,240
Speaker 1: She's a bitch, Salie.

750
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 2: She's a bitch in the best way Possible's the bitch.

751
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 1: She's a bad bitch.

752
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 2: But like she's stepping into a power position that like

753
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:45,799
Speaker 2: I'm a little intimidated by whatever it may be is

754
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 2: you know.

755
00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:53,640
Speaker 3: So yeah, it just like took me out.

756
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:56,440
Speaker 1: Of my my stuff.

757
00:38:56,920 --> 00:39:03,000
Speaker 2: You know, I love having something to occupy my time, right,

758
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:03,759
Speaker 2: that makes sense?

759
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:04,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, that makes sense.

760
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:07,759
Speaker 2: You know when I have I'm a virgo. You put

761
00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:13,720
Speaker 2: this virgo into give her free time. You're just giving

762
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 2: me a recipe to have my mind wander to crazy places.

763
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:19,439
Speaker 1: I can't have it. I gotta have a.

764
00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:21,320
Speaker 2: To do list for the next day. And let's just

765
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 2: say I complete nothing on the to do list. It's like,

766
00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 2: but at least I had it, Like I knew that

767
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:26,279
Speaker 2: I should.

768
00:39:26,000 --> 00:39:27,520
Speaker 1: Have been business today.

769
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 2: It wasn't by choice, right, right, that I was, you know,

770
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:36,680
Speaker 2: like I did, I wasn't busy by choice. Yeah, you know,

771
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 2: vander Pump asked me this.

772
00:39:38,880 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, she was like, are are you really okay? Though,

773
00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 1: I'm really okay. I'm actually really happy. Yeah.

774
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:52,040
Speaker 2: You know, like even with every this is how I

775
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:57,120
Speaker 2: explain it. There's just one little like fucking fly, and

776
00:39:57,200 --> 00:40:00,480
Speaker 2: I can't quite kill you know, it's like I'm swatting.

777
00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:04,959
Speaker 1: You know, it ain't gonna ruin the day, right, It's annoying. Right,

778
00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 1: we all have a fly though, we all have that something, Yes,

779
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:11,240
Speaker 1: we all do that somewhere.

780
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:13,400
Speaker 2: Like does the fly ruin your happiness? Are you like

781
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 2: this fly is ruining my happiness? No, it's just annoying, right,

782
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:21,680
Speaker 2: And you know you'll take care of it. You know

783
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 2: he's gonna tuck her out and you'll find him dead

784
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 2: in the course at some point, you know. Yes, I

785
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:34,920
Speaker 2: love this analogy how I feel, But I'm like mentally

786
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:38,400
Speaker 2: I'm strong. Yeah, I can sit there and be like,

787
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:41,919
Speaker 2: today's a shitty day, but guess what, shitty days don't

788
00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:43,960
Speaker 2: last forever. I may wake up tomorrow it could be

789
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:45,879
Speaker 2: a great day. Guess what the rest of the week.

790
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:47,759
Speaker 2: I could wake up and it could be not a

791
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:53,120
Speaker 2: great day. But remember everything is temporary. Feelings are not forever.

792
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:54,120
Speaker 1: They're just not.

793
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:58,720
Speaker 2: They're not, you know, and I know that it seems

794
00:40:58,760 --> 00:41:01,239
Speaker 2: like they all and when you're in it, you feel

795
00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 2: like you're drowning. It is so important for you to

796
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 2: take a moment. I don't care if you drop down

797
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:08,840
Speaker 2: to your knees and pray. I don't care if you

798
00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 2: saved your ass off. I don't care if you go

799
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:14,759
Speaker 2: work out whatever it may be, to get yourself to

800
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 2: a place where you remember this is temporary and this

801
00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 2: will not take me out.

802
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 1: I'll be damned.

803
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 2: I don't care if for the next month you are

804
00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:29,719
Speaker 2: feeling down in the dumps. It is temporary. Nothing is forever, and.

805
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:32,280
Speaker 1: Coming from someone who because to me, I can't imagine

806
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:35,640
Speaker 1: this pain, but who has lost her father, someone who

807
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:39,040
Speaker 1: isn't very close to her father. You if that had

808
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:41,440
Speaker 1: happened to me in the moment I think this, I'm done.

809
00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:45,240
Speaker 1: I'm a different person now, I'm never gonna be okay again.

810
00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:48,640
Speaker 1: And like, I'm sure you are feeling that in the moment,

811
00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:50,920
Speaker 1: and then now you look back at how you're feeling.

812
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:53,400
Speaker 1: Of course, grief comes and waves, and grief is a

813
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 1: different beast than a lot of other emotions. But like,

814
00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:59,719
Speaker 1: you survived through that, and I look at someone like that,

815
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:02,880
Speaker 1: like I couldn't imagine losing my father. I couldn't survive

816
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 1: through that, but you can. Yeah, And so it's just yeah.

817
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 2: And I'm no stranger to anxiety. I'm no stranger to depression.

818
00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:13,880
Speaker 2: And I know that a lot of my listeners or followers.

819
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 2: You know, there are things that are well above my

820
00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 2: pay grade. You just never never shut out that you

821
00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:27,440
Speaker 2: can and will be happy.

822
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 1: Am I making any sense? Absolutely?

823
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 2: Absolutely, talk to somebody. Yeah, you know, we have science

824
00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:39,040
Speaker 2: for a reason. Don't just I can't stress that enough

825
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 2: that you will be Okay.

826
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:44,799
Speaker 1: That's another good point too, is you have science for

827
00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:46,239
Speaker 1: a reason. I was just talking to a friend about

828
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:48,600
Speaker 1: this and she said, I think something is She's been

829
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:50,600
Speaker 1: depressed for a while. And she said, I think something

830
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 1: is chemically wrong. And I said, because I didn't ever

831
00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:56,560
Speaker 1: want to say, maybe you should look into medicine or

832
00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 1: meet talking with your doctor about it. And she said

833
00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 1: that to me, I think some think's chemically wrong. And

834
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:03,759
Speaker 1: I was like, there you go. Why don't you talk

835
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:06,480
Speaker 1: to someone about that. We are in the power position.

836
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 2: Okay, if you walk into a doctor and they tell

837
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:13,520
Speaker 2: you X, Y and Z, and you feel like that

838
00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:15,040
Speaker 2: may not be right for you.

839
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:16,479
Speaker 3: Take a different route.

840
00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you feel like it would be perfect for you.

841
00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:22,080
Speaker 2: Listen to yourself. You are in the position of power.

842
00:43:22,400 --> 00:43:26,440
Speaker 2: You own your body, heart and soul. Like, just listen

843
00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:29,480
Speaker 2: to yourself and remember that everything is temporary and you're

844
00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:33,399
Speaker 2: going to figure it out. So there's my heartfelt note.

845
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:35,520
Speaker 2: I hope that that I like that we should end

846
00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:35,799
Speaker 2: on that.

847
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:38,839
Speaker 1: We should end on that. I love you guys, so mad?

848
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:42,279
Speaker 3: Whoa turn into a valley?

849
00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:47,040
Speaker 1: So mad? And you can keep it in. I don't

850
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 1: care whoa.

851
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:53,080
Speaker 2: I've had one too many periods. I love you guys

852
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:55,719
Speaker 2: so much. Thank you for listening to another episode of

853
00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:58,920
Speaker 2: the Give Them La La podcast. It's hump day. If

854
00:43:58,920 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 2: you want to throw back a little glass of wine,

855
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 2: hey have one for me. I love you, guys, and

856
00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 2: I will catch you next week