WEBVTT - Ep21: Dating Don'ts Feat Sam Whiteout 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.640 Letter forget a bit. I've picked our interest so I 0:00:02.640 --> 0:00:03.840 don't know if you know the sam but we have 0:00:03.880 --> 0:00:05.680 songs in the beginning, and I picked that one thing 0:00:05.720 --> 0:00:10.280 along because you're white white? Do you remember this song? 0:00:13.160 --> 0:00:16.400 Get your white as? You don't you know? This? Is 0:00:16.400 --> 0:00:19.800 this like before my time too? I think people here? 0:00:20.040 --> 0:00:22.360 Are you young? How do you think I am? On 0:00:22.440 --> 0:00:29.400 a Friday night? Right? We started making up and pissed, 0:00:29.680 --> 0:00:32.199 but you don't know. I have no idea what this is. 0:00:32.280 --> 0:00:34.879 And that's about that's act. She walked away from me. 0:00:38.440 --> 0:00:42.120 I have no clue. Wait wait, oh my god, how 0:00:42.120 --> 0:00:44.559 old do you think I am? Wait? Where? Like I 0:00:44.600 --> 0:00:48.920 thought you were like maybe our Okay, you don't know 0:00:49.040 --> 0:00:51.519 this song? I've heard of it. Are you about to 0:00:51.560 --> 0:00:53.519 take away my white car? That's gonna be a new one? 0:00:53.400 --> 0:00:57.120 White card was gone. She literally was like, I have 0:00:57.160 --> 0:00:59.560 new cards. I don't feel like your name introduced yourself 0:00:59.560 --> 0:01:05.640 a sample out because you don't know I do. Oh yeah, Like, 0:01:05.680 --> 0:01:08.039 oh my god, well I guess you've already introduced. I 0:01:08.040 --> 0:01:11.280 guess I almost like that was a genuine I don't understand. 0:01:11.280 --> 0:01:14.200 I don't know what I mean. We made it. We 0:01:14.319 --> 0:01:18.959 made it to the chorus and I eventually got it. Okay, um, guys, 0:01:19.000 --> 0:01:22.680 welcome to yet another episode. We're here again. I know 0:01:22.760 --> 0:01:24.959 you guys, like, well, they're not getting sick of us, 0:01:25.000 --> 0:01:26.880 just yeah, apparently all getting sick of me just a 0:01:26.920 --> 0:01:30.040 little bit. So I'm gonna be working with you. Like, Mandy, 0:01:30.080 --> 0:01:32.480 shut the many, shut the up, Mandy, you're kind of 0:01:32.520 --> 0:01:36.520 bitchy is now they're literally because I have a lot 0:01:36.520 --> 0:01:39.759 of followers on Instagram. She really doesn't that a humble 0:01:39.800 --> 0:01:44.200 flex right there saying maybe, like I don't think so maybe. 0:01:44.319 --> 0:01:46.760 So they're leaving comments like we know who wee he 0:01:46.880 --> 0:01:48.400 is now, like I don't know why Mandy has to 0:01:48.480 --> 0:01:51.760 keep throwing shade and I'm just like this. I was 0:01:51.800 --> 0:01:53.920 a one time listener, now first time guests, and I 0:01:54.040 --> 0:01:57.200 never got tired of you. I think it's a nice 0:01:57.240 --> 0:01:59.920 little balance, thank you, because they really don't like each other. 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:04.080 So um yeah, So I'm really excited to have Sam 0:02:04.120 --> 0:02:07.080 because I like, a month or a month and a 0:02:07.080 --> 0:02:09.560 half ago, I'm on Instagram and somebody with a quarter 0:02:09.600 --> 0:02:15.040 million followers, I'm like exactly, but it was a screenshot, 0:02:15.080 --> 0:02:17.120 like these girls are hilarious. I'm dying, I'm crying on 0:02:17.160 --> 0:02:20.400 the sidewalk. He posted it like two times, and I'm like, 0:02:20.440 --> 0:02:23.440 who is this guy? And then yeah, I remember your 0:02:23.520 --> 0:02:29.680 videos and we all love you for it. I'm Sam 0:02:29.680 --> 0:02:31.720 white Out, or at least I go by Sam white Out. 0:02:31.760 --> 0:02:36.840 My last name is actually white. You'd be surprised how 0:02:36.880 --> 0:02:39.760 many people don't know that. No, I wouldn't have guessed. 0:02:40.040 --> 0:02:42.520 But yeah, So I was walking to the movie Theater 0:02:42.520 --> 0:02:45.600 of all places, and horrible decisions got like thrown in 0:02:45.639 --> 0:02:47.760 my group chat. I'm like, let me give it a chance. 0:02:47.840 --> 0:02:50.000 I wonder what they said when they sent it in 0:02:50.080 --> 0:02:52.160 a group chat A guy, so it's all guys in 0:02:52.160 --> 0:02:56.040 this group chat. Yeah. So I started listening to it 0:02:56.480 --> 0:02:58.880 and I was like, I'm legitimately walking down a d 0:02:59.440 --> 0:03:01.960 set in horror Lem and I'm like crying that I'm 0:03:02.000 --> 0:03:06.120 laughing so hard. So wait, quick, wait, well the first one, 0:03:06.160 --> 0:03:08.720 the first episode, it real quick. So a lot of 0:03:08.720 --> 0:03:11.519 our followers come from all walks of life, all all 0:03:11.520 --> 0:03:17.680 over the world. That makes so explain what looks like 0:03:17.680 --> 0:03:22.880 while you're walking down I live in Harlem, which used 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:29.200 to be used to be a black neighborhood. Gentrification. Sam's there, now, Okay, 0:03:29.200 --> 0:03:32.600 whoa whoall technically you don't count because you didn't even 0:03:34.400 --> 0:03:38.720 like the main sort of like center thoroughfare of Harlem. 0:03:38.760 --> 0:03:44.960 It's where the Apollo Theater is. Fat, It's just it's 0:03:44.960 --> 0:03:47.480 just where everybody is. Where there's mad like street vendors 0:03:47.480 --> 0:03:50.440 with incense and T shirts and all kinds of stuff. 0:03:50.440 --> 0:03:53.400 And I here I am walking down the street normal, yes, 0:03:53.560 --> 0:03:58.680 mad African oils. I always smell great when by every 0:03:58.680 --> 0:04:02.800 time like is this we or we set? You know what? 0:04:02.840 --> 0:04:08.040 It's probably probably So here's this white guy walking down 0:04:08.120 --> 0:04:11.040 the street in the Harlem like a prominent black neighborhood, 0:04:11.400 --> 0:04:14.720 and he's in tears laughing at our show. I love it. 0:04:14.840 --> 0:04:17.440 I'm I was super excited, super excited. So what we 0:04:17.560 --> 0:04:20.680 like to do since you are behind on listening to someone, Well, 0:04:20.720 --> 0:04:24.440 now let's hear about your first Oh okay, yeah, we're 0:04:24.480 --> 0:04:26.120 gonna give you. What do you want to know? We 0:04:26.160 --> 0:04:27.720 just we wanted to know about your dick, That's what 0:04:27.800 --> 0:04:30.640 she meant at first. But no, no, no no, actually around 0:04:31.360 --> 0:04:33.360 how would you enture yourself like for those who don't 0:04:33.360 --> 0:04:36.080 know you? Even though so for those who don't know me, 0:04:36.560 --> 0:04:38.480 my name is Sam white Out. I'm from New Jersey. 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:40.920 I went to school in Philly and I'm a brother 0:04:40.960 --> 0:04:45.159 of Cap alphasde Fraternity Incorporated, which is a historically black fraternity. 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:47.279 So how did you get in? As I mean, I 0:04:47.279 --> 0:04:54.640 guess they can let anyone in at the Divine Nine, 0:04:54.680 --> 0:04:58.000 which are the Nine. Uh. Historically, black fraternities and sororities 0:04:58.040 --> 0:05:00.560 are some of the most diverse organizations on their campuses 0:05:00.560 --> 0:05:02.680 a lot of times. And part of that because you 0:05:02.760 --> 0:05:06.080 have not only folks from all over the black diaspora, right, 0:05:06.120 --> 0:05:09.039 You've got African folks, You've got Caribbean folks, You've got um, 0:05:09.080 --> 0:05:11.040 you know, Black American folks. You've got all kinds of people. 0:05:11.240 --> 0:05:14.360 But also these are exactly the organizations that were founded 0:05:14.360 --> 0:05:17.280 on the idea of not discriminating against other people. Right. 0:05:17.480 --> 0:05:19.599 So if you are about that life and you do 0:05:19.680 --> 0:05:21.800 your work, and you do good work for the community, 0:05:21.800 --> 0:05:23.240 and you've got the grades and all that stuff, and 0:05:23.320 --> 0:05:25.760 you know, and it's a good mesh. Like I've never 0:05:25.839 --> 0:05:29.760 heard of a divine out organization, you know, turning someone 0:05:29.800 --> 0:05:34.599 away because they're white or they're actually wanting to I 0:05:34.640 --> 0:05:37.040 was going to ask you what made you choose Kappa 0:05:37.600 --> 0:05:43.159 and I right, you only gonna get you the Simmy, 0:05:43.400 --> 0:05:45.120 But what what what made you choose to be a 0:05:45.160 --> 0:05:48.200 Kappa over any other organization that may have been prominently white? 0:05:48.400 --> 0:05:50.720 I mean, how so I went to Villanova, which is 0:05:50.760 --> 0:05:56.520 a profoundly racists. I mean, like basically Villanova is like, 0:05:56.760 --> 0:06:02.920 uh players, Villanova has every problem that you can imagine 0:06:02.920 --> 0:06:04.880 that that the States has, like as as a country 0:06:05.120 --> 0:06:07.600 Villanova has on campus. Right, So how did you get 0:06:07.600 --> 0:06:09.840 turned out? You black girl? Like? What happened to make 0:06:09.880 --> 0:06:16.960 you join? Okay? So the best think he's been down 0:06:17.000 --> 0:06:19.400 for a while, But I think I think it's much 0:06:19.480 --> 0:06:22.600 less about being down, first of all, its second of all. Um. So, 0:06:22.680 --> 0:06:23.960 I mean the best way I can describe is that 0:06:24.000 --> 0:06:27.200 all the conversations that most not all, but most white 0:06:27.200 --> 0:06:30.760 families don't have, we're normal in my in my family, 0:06:30.760 --> 0:06:33.440 at my dinner table. Right. So, like I grew up 0:06:33.480 --> 0:06:35.920 watching Sydney Partier just as much as I grew up 0:06:35.920 --> 0:06:40.240 watching like even Stevens, right, um. And so I think 0:06:40.360 --> 0:06:42.880 that put me in a position where I was reading 0:06:42.920 --> 0:06:45.480 things and sort of like the idea of talking about 0:06:45.480 --> 0:06:48.320 things and experiencing things that were different from me wasn't 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:50.919 weird until I get to college and I get to Villanova, 0:06:51.080 --> 0:06:54.920 and I'm like, holy shit, like, what do you mean? 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:56.720 Of course this is my friend, I've known him forever. 0:06:56.800 --> 0:06:58.640 What do you mean I'm not? And you know what, 0:06:58.640 --> 0:07:00.200 it's not even like that, because, like I I grew 0:07:00.240 --> 0:07:02.719 up in an overwhelmingly white town. It was just the 0:07:02.800 --> 0:07:06.560 idea that people could be so deeply profound racist and 0:07:06.600 --> 0:07:11.760 sexist and all this combination of ship Ulva near Elizabeth, 0:07:12.320 --> 0:07:17.440 but but is in Pennsylvania just ouside And like I 0:07:17.440 --> 0:07:19.240 mean it started where I mean, I had a particularly 0:07:19.280 --> 0:07:20.960 unpleasant first year. And the way I said is that, 0:07:21.000 --> 0:07:23.000 like I wasn't a fan of Villanova, and Villanova wasn't 0:07:23.040 --> 0:07:25.320 much of a fan of me. Right, So what ended 0:07:25.360 --> 0:07:28.600 up happening was after a first year of all kinds 0:07:28.600 --> 0:07:31.360 of bullshit with with some stuff that was both affecting 0:07:31.360 --> 0:07:34.240 me personally as well as stuff that didn't necessarily directly 0:07:34.560 --> 0:07:38.240 impact me. Um, you know, I got a new room. 0:07:38.280 --> 0:07:41.080 There was this whole thing. President calls my dad to apologize. 0:07:41.120 --> 0:07:44.680 All this ship goes down, right, the president of the school, 0:07:45.760 --> 0:07:50.800 and then uh, sophomore year, Villanova uninvited a speaker from 0:07:50.840 --> 0:07:54.080 campus because he was gay, right, and there was this 0:07:54.120 --> 0:07:56.880 whole uproar and there was this panel, there was this 0:07:56.920 --> 0:07:59.520 whole big thing. I ended up finally finding all the 0:07:59.560 --> 0:08:03.280 other bowl on campus who actually gave a ship, right, 0:08:03.880 --> 0:08:06.000 And that's really when I started getting involved. And at 0:08:06.040 --> 0:08:08.840 the same time, right at the end of my freshman year, 0:08:08.880 --> 0:08:12.280 I met my best friend Josh. And then Josh disappears. 0:08:13.160 --> 0:08:17.400 Josh is black. It couldn't want to be the right 0:08:18.160 --> 0:08:21.960 he could have been Jewish, so I mean Josh and 0:08:21.960 --> 0:08:23.960 then Josh up and disappears, and I'm like, you know what, 0:08:24.240 --> 0:08:26.680 this sucks, But I'm not all that surprised because you know, 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:28.920 I didn't because of my first year. I did not 0:08:28.960 --> 0:08:31.880 get necessarily as much time to go out and like 0:08:31.960 --> 0:08:34.000 make friends with other people did because the problems with 0:08:34.000 --> 0:08:36.560 my roommate and his you know, Nazi friends and all 0:08:36.600 --> 0:08:40.840 that ship. So the thing is Josh disappears. I just 0:08:40.840 --> 0:08:42.640 want to say that again. So this is like recent, 0:08:42.800 --> 0:08:48.240 this recent young people are oh absolutely, And so then 0:08:48.480 --> 0:08:52.360 Josh reappears in like October. He's like, yo, Sam, oh 0:08:52.400 --> 0:08:53.880 my god, I got so much to tell you, Like 0:08:53.960 --> 0:08:56.280 I really funk with you, but like and I'm like 0:08:56.320 --> 0:08:58.480 I'm like, bro, like where did what? Like are we 0:08:58.520 --> 0:09:00.520 friends again? Like what's going on? He's like, yes, so 0:09:00.640 --> 0:09:03.200 I was becoming a CUE and you're cool. But like 0:09:03.240 --> 0:09:04.640 we didn't know each other like that, so I couldn't 0:09:04.640 --> 0:09:07.000 really tell you. But like now I'm the bras, it's 0:09:07.080 --> 0:09:10.240 lit like, let's have a good time. And that was 0:09:10.280 --> 0:09:12.720 how I became best friends with all the cues, uh 0:09:12.760 --> 0:09:16.160 and really kind of my circle at Zonova and these 0:09:16.200 --> 0:09:22.480 are the dogs, right and then okay, and then I 0:09:22.520 --> 0:09:24.960 met the nups through that, and it was just it 0:09:25.000 --> 0:09:26.480 was one of those things like when I met the nupes, 0:09:26.520 --> 0:09:27.480 like by the end of the night, we kind of 0:09:27.480 --> 0:09:29.760 look at each other like, m are you are you 0:09:29.920 --> 0:09:36.439 thinking when I'm totally a few NUPS cues. Yeah, knows 0:09:36.480 --> 0:09:40.840 my name, No, my my my ex was a Kappa. 0:09:40.960 --> 0:09:43.560 So that's how I was like, well, yeah, I guess 0:09:43.840 --> 0:09:50.600 he is. He's not no longer in college. I want 0:09:50.600 --> 0:09:52.640 to get too. How everyone knows you? How are you 0:09:52.800 --> 0:09:55.240 so popular? Sure? So basically I'm white and I can 0:09:55.280 --> 0:09:59.079 find the beat and basically that's right. We we we 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:00.920 would make stroll Deo was me and my line brothers, 0:10:00.960 --> 0:10:03.160 and mostly we made them because we were making so 0:10:03.160 --> 0:10:05.079 many strolls up after school and stuff that were like, 0:10:05.080 --> 0:10:06.600 we couldn't remember them, so we would have to make 0:10:06.600 --> 0:10:08.000 the videos to remember them. And then we realized the 0:10:08.040 --> 0:10:10.120 videos were kind of fly, so like oh, ship, like, 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:12.760 let's put this on Instagram and then it blows up. 0:10:13.559 --> 0:10:16.160 And then a couple of months later, I was in 0:10:16.200 --> 0:10:18.480 Boston hosting an event with the Noops up there, with 0:10:18.480 --> 0:10:21.400 whom I was really close, and someone takes a video, 0:10:21.440 --> 0:10:23.000 which at that point was kind of normal when we're 0:10:23.040 --> 0:10:26.040 strolling an intermission. The video when she posted to Instagram 0:10:26.200 --> 0:10:29.240 automatically posted to tumbler. It was linked back to my account. 0:10:29.280 --> 0:10:34.520 It goes viral, boot makes sense, and then like Nicole 0:10:34.520 --> 0:10:37.840 Bitchy posted media take out. That's how old it was. 0:10:37.880 --> 0:10:41.000 I felt like, so just to tell you, like today, 0:10:41.160 --> 0:10:42.240 I looked you up a little bit just so we 0:10:42.240 --> 0:10:44.800 can ask you questions. And once I googled you and 0:10:44.800 --> 0:10:46.680 then saw TMZ and they're like calling you the coolest 0:10:46.679 --> 0:10:48.520 wike I ever and then I'm like going, I'm like 0:10:48.760 --> 0:10:54.440 shot shout out to my homie Van Lathan. I didn't 0:10:54.520 --> 0:10:56.959 it didn't click to me that that was you until 0:10:56.960 --> 0:10:59.200 I saw that video like in auditorium. That was the 0:10:59.200 --> 0:11:01.760 person I ever saw, and I was like wait what, 0:11:02.040 --> 0:11:04.560 Like it just didn't hit me, and so I was like, wow, 0:11:04.600 --> 0:11:07.560 it's just crazy how I remember? I mean, who didn't 0:11:07.600 --> 0:11:10.840 love you? Like? And it's funny because we talked about 0:11:10.880 --> 0:11:15.439 cultural appropriate appropriation so much and watching that video it 0:11:15.480 --> 0:11:17.760 felt nothing like it, because like you're in the mix 0:11:17.800 --> 0:11:19.520 and it's like you were just well, I think more 0:11:19.559 --> 0:11:24.200 importantly than that, it's that when you know, I didn't 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:27.480 join Kappa to shimmy. I didn't join Capita to get girls. 0:11:27.559 --> 0:11:29.760 I joined Kappa because it made perfect sense with the 0:11:29.760 --> 0:11:31.800 work that I was doing on campus, and these guys were, 0:11:32.000 --> 0:11:33.079 you know, the kind of people you want to be 0:11:33.120 --> 0:11:35.800 surrounded by. And then when I was gifted this platform 0:11:35.840 --> 0:11:39.240 strength strictly off the fact that I was white, I said, okay, 0:11:39.240 --> 0:11:40.840 well let me use this as an opportunity to talk 0:11:40.840 --> 0:11:43.720 about this ship that matters. Right. That's when Bossip started 0:11:43.720 --> 0:11:45.760 talking about it. And I think that's when people kind 0:11:45.760 --> 0:11:48.720 of said, like, oh, ship like because honestly, like the 0:11:48.800 --> 0:11:50.720 videos of like white people doing dance as well as 0:11:50.760 --> 0:11:52.360 a diamond does and you'll see it on World Star 0:11:52.480 --> 0:11:56.640 like once. Right, Yeah, And so I think that what 0:11:56.760 --> 0:11:58.360 I've tried to do and what I keep trying to 0:11:58.360 --> 0:12:00.560 do is like use that platform for something actually matters, 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:02.240 particularly because this is the stuff that I've given a 0:12:02.240 --> 0:12:04.559 ship about long before anybody cared what my Instagram was. 0:12:04.640 --> 0:12:07.400 Oh yeah, because bro, we have so many social justice 0:12:07.440 --> 0:12:09.640 warriors and I'm like that you were a whole last week, 0:12:09.760 --> 0:12:16.480 so now you could be a whole and be a 0:12:16.520 --> 0:12:18.559 social justice person. No, no, no no, no no. What I'm 0:12:18.559 --> 0:12:22.520 saying is I feel like I'm a hoe in a 0:12:22.559 --> 0:12:25.400 social justice person. But what I'm saying I feel like 0:12:25.600 --> 0:12:27.720 some people try to take on this new personality of 0:12:27.760 --> 0:12:31.199 protesting and the result being woke is cool. Now, it's 0:12:31.200 --> 0:12:37.800 definitely people like hotep best. It scares me. But see 0:12:37.880 --> 0:12:40.320 but see that's not even Look the word the word 0:12:40.320 --> 0:12:42.480 woke is is getting all kinds of funked up because 0:12:42.520 --> 0:12:45.680 people hate it out. Yeah, but like Hotep isn't woke hoping. 0:12:45.760 --> 0:12:48.360 Hotep is just sexist and misogynist and like it's so 0:12:48.360 --> 0:12:50.559 scary you don't know what it is? What is hotel? 0:12:50.760 --> 0:12:53.679 It's like, wow, I should not be the one paraphrases 0:12:54.400 --> 0:12:58.440 what hope that? Sam White? Backup? Okay, Hotep is like 0:12:58.559 --> 0:13:01.480 it's like a it's like a faue pan Africanism. Okay, 0:13:01.480 --> 0:13:03.240 you know how they were like the Egyptian earrings and 0:13:03.280 --> 0:13:07.400 ship and they're like, so like we're talking about coconut oil, Twitter, 0:13:10.360 --> 0:13:14.240 We're talking We're talking about We're talking about the parts 0:13:14.280 --> 0:13:17.200 of Twitter that's say like white people aren't real, like 0:13:17.280 --> 0:13:19.760 not even that, like oh, our beautiful black queens need 0:13:19.840 --> 0:13:23.320 to stay stay subservient, that type of But I've seen them. 0:13:23.360 --> 0:13:26.439 They're like white people aren't real. They're genetically modified like 0:13:27.040 --> 0:13:29.040 ship like that, bro, Like it's scary as like we 0:13:29.080 --> 0:13:31.440 have to procreate with each other because white people are 0:13:31.440 --> 0:13:33.680 taking us down. And don't get me wrong, I also 0:13:33.760 --> 0:13:39.040 believe that, but but I have too many walk white friends. Bro. 0:13:39.120 --> 0:13:43.000 The ride for black people harder than me. So yeah, 0:13:43.080 --> 0:13:45.040 like I'll say some things about Nigga sometimes and James 0:13:45.080 --> 0:13:46.240 will have to come to me and be like, bitch, 0:13:46.240 --> 0:13:47.720 are you nuts? And I'm like, oh, let me show 0:13:47.720 --> 0:13:51.040 my black as. Oh no, it doesn't. You meet white 0:13:51.040 --> 0:13:53.160 people that are like that. So I can't tell you that. 0:13:53.240 --> 0:13:55.000 I really believe all white people are the devil and 0:13:55.080 --> 0:13:57.480 like Hotep ship is like ono, bch hell no, they're 0:13:57.520 --> 0:13:59.920 the devil. Yeah, but they be on the train. See 0:14:00.000 --> 0:14:02.480 what let's just start talking about sex. Well, I wanted 0:14:02.520 --> 0:14:04.040 to go well, and that's what we were gonna say. 0:14:04.120 --> 0:14:06.320 I don't know if you've listened to a lot of 0:14:06.440 --> 0:14:08.360 when we've had guests, but what we like to do 0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:11.920 is a have you ever? And um, So normally this 0:14:12.160 --> 0:14:14.480 you know, gets done taking shots and all that cool ship. 0:14:14.559 --> 0:14:18.240 But UM, gonna read off some questions and I tried 0:14:18.280 --> 0:14:21.680 to make them very basic. Okay, so this so hard 0:14:21.720 --> 0:14:24.880 for us to be basic when talking about we have 0:14:24.920 --> 0:14:26.400 to think on the fly and makes something a little bit. 0:14:27.960 --> 0:14:30.240 We're gonna make it spicy. Okay, have you ever had 0:14:30.240 --> 0:14:35.520 your tail sucked? I'm trying to remember. I think that's 0:14:35.560 --> 0:14:39.640 something you would remember. No, no, no, have you ever 0:14:39.680 --> 0:14:44.400 sucked toes? Actually yes to both? Once. I don't like it? 0:14:45.400 --> 0:14:51.920 Which one? Both? No one can say that they're getting 0:14:51.960 --> 0:14:54.120 your toe sucked is not like an enjoyable experience, because 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:56.760 we just said last week I almost kicked someone in 0:14:56.760 --> 0:15:01.760 their mouth. Hate it? Okay. I was kind of like wondering, like, Okay, 0:15:01.760 --> 0:15:05.120 what you're gonna do next? And I even said I'd 0:15:05.200 --> 0:15:08.440 rather look at ask than look at toe, Like you 0:15:08.440 --> 0:15:11.240 would rather like to go on record right now and 0:15:11.360 --> 0:15:14.200 say that that is not a leap. I'm willing to wait. Wait, 0:15:14.360 --> 0:15:19.640 you're rather like one toe rather woman. And it was 0:15:19.680 --> 0:15:22.960 for like and a seconds, And you know what's crazy 0:15:23.040 --> 0:15:26.960 everything you just did. It doesn't matter if if someone said, listen, 0:15:27.000 --> 0:15:30.720 if I sit here and give my if I sit 0:15:30.800 --> 0:15:33.360 here and give somebody my pussy for six seconds, I 0:15:33.400 --> 0:15:35.080 can't take it back and be like, well, he only 0:15:35.080 --> 0:15:36.680 fun for six seconds. At the end of the day, 0:15:36.720 --> 0:15:38.880 you suck the toe, you looked to toe, That's what 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:40.400 it is. Whether you look at asked for six seconds, 0:15:40.400 --> 0:15:42.120 whether you put a toe in your mouth for six seconds. 0:15:42.400 --> 0:15:44.760 You can't sit here and justify it by the length 0:15:44.760 --> 0:15:47.280 of time and the fact that you were drunking it. Really, 0:15:47.360 --> 0:15:53.280 that's my mom, that's what she Well, just the tip. No, bro, 0:15:53.440 --> 0:15:56.400 you had anal sex. If you're traded. I feel like 0:15:56.400 --> 0:15:58.240 it says something though that I haven't done it again 0:15:58.280 --> 0:16:00.520 because I didn't find it to be an experience. But 0:16:00.560 --> 0:16:03.600 you would get your toes sucked again. I wouldn't ask 0:16:03.640 --> 0:16:05.080 for it. If she did it, I'm not gonna stop. 0:16:07.440 --> 0:16:14.800 That's not the same thing. Okay, have you ever had 0:16:14.840 --> 0:16:20.280 a threesome? Absolutely both like um male male female and female. 0:16:20.480 --> 0:16:23.440 I've had one devil's threesome, as they call it, the 0:16:25.040 --> 0:16:28.760 one girl is that. I love that term because apparently, 0:16:28.800 --> 0:16:31.160 according to everyone else, that's a train. So no, no, 0:16:31.160 --> 0:16:34.120 no, no no, I heard that episode. A train is one 0:16:34.160 --> 0:16:36.520 person at a time, and then you said what I said, 0:16:37.640 --> 0:16:39.960 But no, a lot of people, especially well and I 0:16:40.000 --> 0:16:43.400 always hate community, like I hate that I say that, 0:16:43.640 --> 0:16:45.880 but with black guys, it's very kind of like if 0:16:45.960 --> 0:16:50.600 you two guys at one time, that's a train. This 0:16:50.760 --> 0:16:54.040 devil's threesome, the fact that we both I think it's 0:16:54.080 --> 0:16:57.200 because the train makes a girl looks slutty, and people 0:16:57.240 --> 0:17:00.800 think when there's a male male female that's threesome that slutty. 0:17:00.840 --> 0:17:02.680 But you can enjoy the same thing too, So I 0:17:02.720 --> 0:17:04.480 don't really know why they do that. Okay, So I 0:17:04.560 --> 0:17:07.280 have a question in terms, I've had a quote unquote 0:17:07.280 --> 0:17:09.760 regular threesome too. You've had a regular three, which did 0:17:09.760 --> 0:17:14.240 you enjoy more? Mm hmmm. I mean that one, the 0:17:14.280 --> 0:17:18.119 regular threesome, because I was the center of attention on 0:17:18.160 --> 0:17:20.600 that one. But see the thing that I'm really curious about, 0:17:20.600 --> 0:17:21.879 a lot of men try to act like they're not 0:17:21.960 --> 0:17:24.200 so into the quote unquote devil's threesome because they're so 0:17:24.240 --> 0:17:28.119 worried about being called gay whatever. But wasn't have the 0:17:28.119 --> 0:17:29.840 people think I am gay? So what does it matter? 0:17:31.920 --> 0:17:33.800 Do you like that? Did you let was she submissive 0:17:33.880 --> 0:17:39.639 to it? Or were you both all over her? Um? 0:17:39.760 --> 0:17:46.680 I mean it was it was a six seconds no touche. No, 0:17:46.920 --> 0:17:52.680 it was more like, I mean, none of let's you 0:17:52.720 --> 0:17:54.480 know what I'm saying. It's like all of a sudden, 0:17:54.520 --> 0:17:56.480 she's like, oh ship, we are here, all right, let's 0:17:56.640 --> 0:17:58.479 were you guys cool for her? When she somebody's girlfriend? 0:17:59.080 --> 0:18:01.560 Whoa oh no, no, no, no, no no I met her 0:18:01.600 --> 0:18:05.800 that day. Oh okay. So speaking of this, we're going 0:18:05.840 --> 0:18:09.040 to go back to this college. It was my homie 0:18:10.080 --> 0:18:13.000 and a girl we just met. Okay, okay, So being 0:18:13.040 --> 0:18:15.240 back to it was for the record, it was like 0:18:15.400 --> 0:18:17.600 very like healthy and normal and cool and like everything. 0:18:17.600 --> 0:18:22.040 It was nstoms are don't you think? No? No, no, no no, 0:18:22.280 --> 0:18:25.479 I'm not justifying it for y'all listeners. No, you know, 0:18:26.080 --> 0:18:30.000 condoms were used. Guys, like what do you did? You? Guys? 0:18:30.000 --> 0:18:34.080 Do dp? Okay? I feel like that's advanced. And so 0:18:34.280 --> 0:18:37.000 speaking of threesoms in college, a lot of things happened. 0:18:37.119 --> 0:18:41.240 Have you been a part of a train. No, not really, Okay, 0:18:42.160 --> 0:18:47.399 I thought all you guys did that in college A 0:18:47.440 --> 0:18:53.200 lot of your friend is that not a college thing 0:18:53.240 --> 0:18:55.640 to do? Like run drain? It's definitely a college I mean, 0:18:55.640 --> 0:18:59.040 that's the thing just people do, I think when it 0:18:59.080 --> 0:19:02.280 doesn't happen as much, I mean, I think obviously college 0:19:02.320 --> 0:19:03.960 is one of those places where like winning doubt, you're like, 0:19:04.160 --> 0:19:06.040 fucking see, I'm gonna be honest, I don't think it's 0:19:06.040 --> 0:19:08.560 a train could happen to me now. It's too too 0:19:08.640 --> 0:19:09.879 much in my head about it. I can't see. I 0:19:09.880 --> 0:19:11.880 can't even I can't even be I think it would 0:19:11.880 --> 0:19:14.000 be difficult, not even people knowing, but just the safety 0:19:14.040 --> 0:19:16.320 of letting like four or five men get me in 0:19:16.320 --> 0:19:19.000 a room. I'm too in my head about that. But 0:19:19.040 --> 0:19:22.560 in college I could see me being like, okay, fine, 0:19:22.720 --> 0:19:26.520 only Jeremy, Okay, fine, he can only bring Sam and 0:19:26.560 --> 0:19:29.760 the next thing, you know, Jamal that's it because and 0:19:29.800 --> 0:19:32.840 then yeah, I think it. I think the problem is 0:19:32.880 --> 0:19:35.399 that there are so many ways in which a train 0:19:35.520 --> 0:19:39.960 can be like can turn into like a like a 0:19:40.000 --> 0:19:43.760 misogynistic environment. Like I think that that, more than any 0:19:43.800 --> 0:19:48.280 other type of group sex is absolutely like prone to 0:19:49.160 --> 0:19:51.200 like misogyny and kind of just like treating the girl 0:19:51.240 --> 0:19:52.879 like a whore, which is absolutely not the way that 0:19:53.720 --> 0:19:56.600 I was about to say, he's right, unless you're asking 0:19:56.640 --> 0:19:58.200 for it to be like that way. He's right because 0:19:58.200 --> 0:19:59.560 I think a lot of men are demeaning to women 0:19:59.560 --> 0:20:02.800 that don't want to be that way. Yeah, I think, yeah, 0:20:02.840 --> 0:20:05.800 I think I think you would say three limit, like 0:20:06.119 --> 0:20:10.480 the training has to stop at three cabooses. First of all, 0:20:10.520 --> 0:20:13.399 I don't know what train only got three train cars, 0:20:14.160 --> 0:20:21.520 but I think so what we got his name? So 0:20:21.600 --> 0:20:23.480 these three guys and a girl. How does a foursome 0:20:23.880 --> 0:20:26.000 three guys actually? To be fair, I have heard that. 0:20:26.040 --> 0:20:31.119 I heard it's threesome, foursome orgy. Oh okay, now what 0:20:31.119 --> 0:20:33.199 have you? Then? I feel like the terminology is much 0:20:33.320 --> 0:20:37.560 comment you had. The terminology is much less relevant than 0:20:37.560 --> 0:20:39.280 the fun you end up having. I was about to say, 0:20:39.320 --> 0:20:44.439 because that should sound fun to me, say like the 0:20:44.440 --> 0:20:48.520 other threesomes better. Okay, I get it, because you're interested 0:20:48.560 --> 0:20:50.960 more in the women. And okay, so my last question, 0:20:51.000 --> 0:20:55.680 I'm really interested. Now I'm not even gonna ask girl. 0:20:55.680 --> 0:20:57.800 It's only two questions? Was it? No? Because we got 0:20:57.840 --> 0:21:03.880 the dudes, indults. Man, they're gonna but I'm just making sure. 0:21:03.920 --> 0:21:05.800 I'm just making sure. So I want to know. I'm 0:21:05.840 --> 0:21:07.560 assuming you've been with a black girl, but I want 0:21:07.560 --> 0:21:11.280 to know how many have you had? More than often 0:21:11.359 --> 0:21:15.080 not been the first white guy. I don't know. And 0:21:15.119 --> 0:21:18.800 do you hate when they say it? Um? Because the 0:21:18.800 --> 0:21:21.040 only thing I hate actually is when people say, well, 0:21:21.080 --> 0:21:23.960